Stop Doing These 5 Things If You Want To Find Love

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  • Stop Doing These 5 Things If You Want To Find Love (Inspirational Video)
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    Speakers: Josiah Ruff, Tyrone Stokes, INTRO by Oprah Winfrey on Super Soul Sunday (with Linda Francis)
    I actually said this to Tom Cruise a long time ago.
    That movie, Jerry Maguire, “you complete me”
    really messed a lot of people up.
    There wasn't a dry eye in the movie theater and all the women went, “Oh, she completes him” when in fact, no one completes you.
    …That instead of looking for the right person, work to make yourself the right person for you and the right person will then be drawn to you based upon the work that you've done for yourself.
    That's what I hear you saying.
    Everybody who's looking for somebody, and believe me, there are lots of people who are like looking for Mr. Right or Miss Right, or whatever that is… to complete them.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 6 тис.

  • @FearlessSoulOfficial
    @FearlessSoulOfficial  4 роки тому +3476

    "No one will love you until you love yourself. No one can complete you until you… yourself are complete."

    • @FearlessSoulOfficial
      @FearlessSoulOfficial  4 роки тому +18

      Download or stream the speech: iamfearlesssoul.com/stop-doing-these-5-things-if-you-want-to-find-love-inspirational-video/

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 4 роки тому +24

      Not true

    • @andreciagl
      @andreciagl 4 роки тому +22

      David Parkinson it's true. Love yourself

    • @FearlessSoulOfficial
      @FearlessSoulOfficial  4 роки тому +15

      @@keiron.4612 Explain.

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 4 роки тому +8

      @@andreciagl will that change everything it won't you don't know my life love yourself it won't take away my pain

  • @damiangonzales2485
    @damiangonzales2485 4 роки тому +4036

    I hope anyone who reads this finds their soul mate

    • @dymonddara
      @dymonddara 4 роки тому +28

      I hope too

    • @rachelzane6371
      @rachelzane6371 4 роки тому +20

      Amen!

    • @earlmcraw5606
      @earlmcraw5606 4 роки тому +30

      We all deserve that

    • @wydeano3822
      @wydeano3822 4 роки тому +21

      Amen!! I received and believed!!! Amen!!!🙌🏾💕

    • @kimyoung3484
      @kimyoung3484 4 роки тому +17

      Thank you so much for your kindness words ❤️ appreciate it 😍👍❤️

  • @manithchann5902
    @manithchann5902 4 роки тому +4868

    1 : You have to stop looking for others to love you
    2 : stop wearing mask and trying to appear perfect
    3 : stop expecting someone to be something you are not giving back
    4 : Stop hiding
    5 : stop holding on to comfortable habits that are holding you back

  • @luciii7115
    @luciii7115 3 роки тому +777

    To those who are in a complicated relationships or to those who are single ..be patient the right person is on the way ♥️

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 3 роки тому +19

      Patient?! I'm almost 37 (at the end of this month)..how much more "patience" do I need? Lol. 😞

    • @sc.art_block5484
      @sc.art_block5484 3 роки тому +8

      If you just sit around things arent going to be handed to you. You have to search and search for this right person.

    • @IndividualistMusic
      @IndividualistMusic 3 роки тому +6

      @Riverz Wyte Everyone beware this number.

    • @ericknegi7359
      @ericknegi7359 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @heaven9447
      @heaven9447 3 роки тому +1

      Omg this comment made me cry....❤️ Amen...

  • @ilovegoddoyou7003
    @ilovegoddoyou7003 3 роки тому +493

    Whoever reading this, I pray that God visit your home with healing, blessings and miracles. Amen.💕

    • @mzmiss1826
      @mzmiss1826 3 роки тому

      Amen. LORD I ACCEPT.. THANK YOU

    • @beautyogbeide3051
      @beautyogbeide3051 3 роки тому

      Amen

    • @gloriaaseye3261
      @gloriaaseye3261 2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @Skittle83
      @Skittle83 2 роки тому

      Amen god bless you too

    • @levi_2134
      @levi_2134 2 роки тому

      wtf Amen is!
      Besides god exists only inside your brain and nowhere else .
      Only weak ppl needs god although Infinite God is allowed for everyone and that's not fawking Jesus, Allah...etc.

  • @teallevi823
    @teallevi823 4 роки тому +1136

    Social media makes us really sick.

    • @irishly2000
      @irishly2000 4 роки тому +15

      That's true..

    • @williamhawkeep6072
      @williamhawkeep6072 4 роки тому +10

      But this will make your life change

    • @deandredavis5264
      @deandredavis5264 4 роки тому +15

      William Hawkeep He’s talking about messaging apps, not youtube

    • @user-sv1kd7hz9e
      @user-sv1kd7hz9e 4 роки тому +7

      That's y I dont have it. If you do you are an idiot and an addict, probably both

    • @norelenhuesca4566
      @norelenhuesca4566 4 роки тому +8

      Yeah.... I agree it's not good.I found myself crazy with someone that I can't be with him.

  • @driftforlife8436
    @driftforlife8436 4 роки тому +1565

    Porn and social media will destroy who you were meant to be.

    • @chapman8671
      @chapman8671 4 роки тому +53

      funny but true

    • @sgreeney5664
      @sgreeney5664 4 роки тому +10

      No, i did that.

    • @neverendinchaos4800
      @neverendinchaos4800 4 роки тому +91

      I guess I needed to see this comment. It's what I've been suspecting for a while. Great minds think alike.
      It's time to rise from the ashes to reclaim a long forgotten throne.

    • @ujjwalgautam7341
      @ujjwalgautam7341 4 роки тому +6

      I like your saying NeverEndinChaos

    • @jesslim2358
      @jesslim2358 4 роки тому +74

      Porn leads you in a wrong direction. Don't let it destroy who you're meant to be.

  • @ilovegoddoyou7003
    @ilovegoddoyou7003 3 роки тому +941

    Whoever reading this, God is going to hug you so tight that all your broken pieces will fit back together. Just trust in him. Amen

  • @abbywhite6942
    @abbywhite6942 3 роки тому +104

    Currently still healing from a breakup. Still learning to love myself first. But I will one day find the love I deserve

  • @churchelllovecanoy1807
    @churchelllovecanoy1807 4 роки тому +597

    Prioritize Yourself💯
    Dont rush
    Be happy
    Life is short

    • @brodyberry6253
      @brodyberry6253 4 роки тому +1

      LoveMC : 😧😍😍😍 Snapchat blitzkriegben31 😘

    • @user-ru2yl3un7g
      @user-ru2yl3un7g 4 роки тому +3

      Stranger danger haha

    • @tonyalexander9505
      @tonyalexander9505 4 роки тому +1

      Nice!!

    • @augustfourteen1680
      @augustfourteen1680 3 роки тому +1

      Tama..

    • @rene5600
      @rene5600 3 роки тому +7

      Life is not short( some yes when die young) but for most of us its a long book. try to make nice pages and also hurt will be written in your own book, but own your book . make it in your own best read . be honest be honestly .

  • @beatricechandasampa5759
    @beatricechandasampa5759 2 роки тому +33

    1. Love yourself first
    2. Stop wearing mask and trying to appear perfect
    3. Stop expecting someone to be something you're not giving back
    4. Stop hiding, put yourself out there.
    5. Stop holding on to comfortable habits that are holding you back.
    Me: I need to stop hiding 🤭🤭🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️
    I'm an introvert guys, and it's really hard for me to get out there and make myself seen. I mean I'm always indoors and I don't usually talk to people, just family and close friends whom feel free with. What a life!!🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ The struggle is real 😂😂

    • @Southpaw1001
      @Southpaw1001 Рік тому

      Yup. Stopped eating yrs ago...always got burned. Messes your head up. Got comfortable not having to put myself out there again...for yrs. Need to go back out there again.

    • @srivatsavmattaparthi4915
      @srivatsavmattaparthi4915 Рік тому

      youre not alone. im always afraid of makig jokes coz coz ive been bullied a lot for my bad jokes and introvertness. it just makes me insecure as aswell

    • @haidhabushiri9558
      @haidhabushiri9558 Рік тому

      Don worry we will be together

    • @vonnytighe517
      @vonnytighe517 Рік тому

      Good luck to you x

  • @kevinnelson7070
    @kevinnelson7070 3 роки тому +87

    After hearing this I finally found what I was looking for, He was in the mirror starring back at me all these years💯

    • @JessicaMartinez-od3xb
      @JessicaMartinez-od3xb 2 роки тому +6

      😂😂🤣🤣🤣LMAO..... they're so much irony in this how funny but yet so very true very very true literally

    • @kevinnelson7070
      @kevinnelson7070 2 роки тому +5

      😂 its funny how truth is so close to you you can't see it until someone shows it to you, I like to think thats the reason God made so many people and gave no one person every gift on purpose so that we would need communicate with each other 💯

    • @Kpopfan_12346
      @Kpopfan_12346 2 роки тому +1

      @@kevinnelson7070 I couldnt agree more :)

    • @kevinnelson7070
      @kevinnelson7070 2 роки тому +1

      @@Kpopfan_12346 👍🏿💯

    • @shaenovak6815
      @shaenovak6815 2 роки тому +1

      Happy pride kev

  • @marly5661
    @marly5661 3 роки тому +728

    This quarantine really has me crying at 1am watching motivation speeches

  • @sabrina3138
    @sabrina3138 4 роки тому +634

    If you become the person you want in your life, the right people will show up. You'll be thankful you didn't give up, believe that.

  • @shekharsingh1357
    @shekharsingh1357 3 роки тому +69

    I was expecting love from her but after this video I realized, I don't love myself. 😥

  • @socialpsychologymantras
    @socialpsychologymantras Рік тому +25

    “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That’s what I hope to give you forever.” - The Notebook

  • @abdelazizriah3245
    @abdelazizriah3245 4 роки тому +755

    Once a sun asked his father how do i find the best wife, he said by being the best husband

    • @lerolerolerolerolero256
      @lerolerolerolerolero256 4 роки тому +36

      I think u meant "son"

    • @trendystyles421
      @trendystyles421 4 роки тому +7

      OMG this statement has just changed my whole perception of searching for Love

    • @eastman40
      @eastman40 4 роки тому +9

      Sun cant find a wife...... Its son and not sun...... You just gotta be good within yourself...

    • @trendystyles421
      @trendystyles421 4 роки тому +2

      @@eastman40 😂😂😂😂😂🔫🔫🔫you are a Savage

    • @eastman40
      @eastman40 4 роки тому +1

      Trendy Styles lol

  • @pradeepchethan3167
    @pradeepchethan3167 4 роки тому +155

    Love yourself,
    Do not wear mask
    Be a mirror
    Do not hide
    Don't be in a comfort zone
    Step out

    • @spiritguider1458
      @spiritguider1458 4 роки тому +1

      Do you need help

    • @jullyscainl7623
      @jullyscainl7623 3 роки тому

      Slefedok not g0 no neead

    • @naoualtalla4080
      @naoualtalla4080 3 роки тому

      Not jealous

    • @ifa8025
      @ifa8025 3 роки тому

      I know a great man who can help you out ,he once helped me to get my ex back and also helped me solve my problem he's really powerful you can contact him on WhatsApp +234 913 605 4313.

    • @ifa8025
      @ifa8025 3 роки тому

      @Kuba P You can text that number on WhatsApp he will help you out ok

  • @Eli-vd2zo
    @Eli-vd2zo 3 роки тому +48

    For the first time in my life I can say , thank you UA-cam .
    Exactly what I needed to hear 🙏🏻 I love you all

  • @renejaminal8104
    @renejaminal8104 2 роки тому +36

    YES the right person is on the way
    THANK YOU LORD ALMIGHTY GOD FOR ALWAYS PROTECTING ME, THANK YOU AMEN

    • @engineercosmos659
      @engineercosmos659 2 роки тому

      Don't be carried away by all this videos stop wasting your time here , I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man👱who helped me bring back my ex who left me a 3 year ago and now we are back together through his help

    • @engineercosmos659
      @engineercosmos659 2 роки тому

      ➕13526396901⏭️⏭⏯⏯⏯

  • @ilhanxarago9449
    @ilhanxarago9449 4 роки тому +512

    REAL love can only come to those
    Who are REAL to themselves🧡
    Strong words

    • @juanmam.2113
      @juanmam.2113 3 роки тому +7

      My huge ego and "love" for myself has gotten me nowhere. Seriously Im super glad Im who I am but that doesn mean someone will just fall on my lap

    • @joantorresvlog8758
      @joantorresvlog8758 3 роки тому +2

      I agree.

    • @jaydenokc9075
      @jaydenokc9075 3 роки тому

      Well I’m fucked then aren’t I

    • @merletrisch3703
      @merletrisch3703 2 роки тому +1

      Your words are your reality

    • @zoeentmeditation4943
      @zoeentmeditation4943 2 роки тому

      I love myself

  • @InfiniteTriztan1111
    @InfiniteTriztan1111 4 роки тому +412

    We attract who we are, i remember when i was a mess i attracted messed up people too,funny when i got better i then attracted better persons as well. Now i keep continuing to work on myself to become my greatest version. 🙏🏽

    • @Vartikas.illustrations
      @Vartikas.illustrations 4 роки тому +2

      Triztan 369 ❤️

    • @chrish7583
      @chrish7583 4 роки тому +5

      I don't attract anyone: So, what does that make me?

    • @winniegunawan7440
      @winniegunawan7440 4 роки тому

      How you did to yourself? What did you do to feel better and attract better persons?

    • @ohyesitsyouagain
      @ohyesitsyouagain 4 роки тому +5

      I was the nicest kid you’d wanna meet, and I attracted nothing but bullies. So that’s not true.

    • @claura5391
      @claura5391 4 роки тому

      @@chrish7583 It's not your time yet

  • @jamesmadison8726
    @jamesmadison8726 2 роки тому +12

    "the right person is you." i felt that underneath my bones

  • @isuu...6608
    @isuu...6608 2 роки тому +22

    True love first begins with self love💜️

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 роки тому +359

    *The trick is to share your completeness with others, not to make them a part of your whole.*
    If you don't appreciate yourself, others will take your lead on that.

    • @nigerianclassic8209
      @nigerianclassic8209 4 роки тому +3

      True!

    • @PriyankaSharma-ny4ee
      @PriyankaSharma-ny4ee 4 роки тому +2

      True

    • @dannyarnold4201
      @dannyarnold4201 4 роки тому +12

      The thing I've learned, and in turn am teaching others is: "The key is me". Meaning if I do work on improving myself and learning to feel good from my own self development and cultivating self love, I will eventually begin to feel happy in life. That's when females will come along. They will appear.
      Self Love is Everything!

    • @osse1n
      @osse1n 4 роки тому +3

      @@dannyarnold4201 It really is. Not just to that, but the whole understanding of life.

    • @bubbuhsmom108
      @bubbuhsmom108 4 роки тому

      So true!

  • @anaafipriscilla
    @anaafipriscilla 4 роки тому +277

    Can't stop crying cos this is very direct message to me😢😢
    Now l'm gonna work it out
    Thanks for opening minded message.

    • @alliemaxwell8382
      @alliemaxwell8382 4 роки тому +3

      anaafi priscilla: We’re all here to ‘work it out’ and become the best version of ourselves. Life is a journey w/ experiences to help us evolve to higher levels of consciousness✨

    • @ryohunter7534
      @ryohunter7534 4 роки тому +1

      @airoc

  • @leelaarocho1530
    @leelaarocho1530 2 роки тому +15

    I lost my spouse April 2020, its year and 8 months! I listen to music and ask Abba father to help me, started to dance my sadness away. I am working on me to get me to the next level! Almighty God be with us all🙏🙏🙏

  • @allaboutrelationship3087
    @allaboutrelationship3087 3 роки тому +56

    Love is not in romance, love is in people.

  • @moistbender148
    @moistbender148 3 роки тому +550

    "No one will love you until you love yourself."
    Except your parents.

    • @PersonalGrowthNow
      @PersonalGrowthNow 3 роки тому +3

      😂😂

    • @livelove8514
      @livelove8514 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely love

    • @lydiaveldhuizen3157
      @lydiaveldhuizen3157 3 роки тому +18

      Parents? My Mother was a Narc.

    • @ajohonly3721
      @ajohonly3721 3 роки тому +13

      Some parents!

    • @jullyscainl7623
      @jullyscainl7623 3 роки тому

      Closed to all thinges ok not felled me feel come for not under ground no a buried cc,cct ve schearched go some story maked ganna 500+100020005000////closedganna not charted

  • @tanusofu808
    @tanusofu808 4 роки тому +86

    You can't pour from an empty glass. Take care of yourself first.
    - Anonymous

  • @sophialynn469
    @sophialynn469 3 роки тому +48

    Needed this right now! Spent so much time chasing after others, I left myself behind🙏🏼❤️

    • @noelevans8239
      @noelevans8239 Рік тому +1

      I’m sure this sums a lot of us up very well

  • @confidentlloris5415
    @confidentlloris5415 2 роки тому +6

    Being real makes things happen exactly as they were planned...
    I pray that GOD shows us that soulmate that deserves to be a part of us. May HE bless our future

  • @kanchankanani5719
    @kanchankanani5719 4 роки тому +259

    Self love is everything ❤️

  • @ericrichardson9547
    @ericrichardson9547 4 роки тому +59

    Going through a divorce right now. I'm sitting in my kitchen 12 26 am in south carolina. Thanking god I saw this video. I will love myself this year. And continue to let god show me his will whatever it may be.

    • @mariaknoll1117
      @mariaknoll1117 3 роки тому +4

      EDJE Family Homestead , My name is Maria, I leave in Pretoria South Africa. I pray an wish that after seen this message you started loving yourself and receiving the most beautiful loving coming your way, if not don’t give up yet because love is coming your way. I pray for your happiness.

    • @ericrichardson9547
      @ericrichardson9547 3 роки тому +2

      @@mariaknoll1117 thanks. So much.

    • @LuLu-lh1hz
      @LuLu-lh1hz 3 роки тому +2

      Idk if this will help, but my father just got a brutal divorce. For two years all it was was broken relationships, but recently he found someone that makes him giggle like a little boy and stay up late on a FaceTime. He found this love after he grew into a man who worked only for himself and for his kids. And now he’s ready to work and open his heart to that special someone as well. I hope you find the same thing soon❤️

  • @SarikTursunov
    @SarikTursunov 3 роки тому +11

    I was here when it was posted 10 mins ago. I still listen to this sometimes. By this time I have experienced a lot. Yes You can be perfect, but if your partner is stupid, you can't change it.

  • @darkiknik7285
    @darkiknik7285 3 роки тому +6

    All my life I have been working for a better me but it goes in vein maybe one day I will achieve it

  • @NightcoreDayandNight
    @NightcoreDayandNight 4 роки тому +203

    The first 50 seconds of this video took me from super sleepy to wide awake. This is what all of earths people need to hear, no matter who they are. "No one will love you until you love yourself. No one can complete you until you… yourself are complete." - That is a good quote. Thank you for sharing this to us Fearless Soul =)
    Edit: i watched the video again, i needed to hear this advice again.

    • @Lindsweightloss
      @Lindsweightloss 4 роки тому +1

      ღNightcore Day and Nightღ Yeah the first few words of the video are everything!

    • @doraaggel9124
      @doraaggel9124 4 роки тому

      😉3 times is a MUST makes the subconscious MIND WHICH IS WISE🤗 TO RESONATE WITH THESE FACTS EVEN WHILE U SLEEP

    • @jerrylisby5376
      @jerrylisby5376 4 роки тому +1

      So no one ever completes you. But you will find a good compatible lover.

    • @saysamnang9851
      @saysamnang9851 3 роки тому

      Rukayat Bola no

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 роки тому +149

    Self-love and self-compassion is the answer to EVERYTHING. Everything changes when you decide that you are WORTHY, BEAUTIFUL, UNIQUE, SPECIAL. You are whole and COMPLETE ♡

    • @dankonesovic8437
      @dankonesovic8437 4 роки тому +2

      Thanks.

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 роки тому +1

      @@dankonesovic8437 have a beautiful day 💕

    • @Heal_the_World81
      @Heal_the_World81 4 роки тому +1

      Thanks ,this resonated with me. Peace love light health and happiness to you

    • @kimberdejesus7874
      @kimberdejesus7874 4 роки тому +1

      Hi Erika. I love you

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 роки тому +1

      @@Heal_the_World81♡♡♡ and to you! Have a wonderful day !

  • @olivialiebe9581
    @olivialiebe9581 2 роки тому +13

    I watched this video about a year and a half ago and it started my journey to self love. I hated myself for years. This short video helped change the course of my growth. ❤️

    • @amazynga8868
      @amazynga8868 2 роки тому +1

      how's it going... loving caring for yourself...

    • @olivialiebe9581
      @olivialiebe9581 2 роки тому +1

      Better and better every day. 💜

    • @amazynga8868
      @amazynga8868 2 роки тому

      @@olivialiebe9581 leave all people behind?
      And work on ourselves only?

    • @lucasjsmith1797
      @lucasjsmith1797 Рік тому

      @@olivialiebe9581 It's really a nice Song, I was listening to this sweet song when I came across your eye catching profile and I thought of knowing more about you so I decided to sent you message hope you're not mad at me??

  • @youphisynongsiej8002
    @youphisynongsiej8002 2 роки тому +4

    Love is the most powerful force on earth💟

  • @reachelbrobbey5678
    @reachelbrobbey5678 3 роки тому +334

    You made me found myself after listening to this...... am really touched ..... well said .....thank you very much

    • @jeroenofferman8519
      @jeroenofferman8519 3 роки тому +2

      Still found yourself? Or did it slip away without the external input of a youtube video? Sincere question.

    • @Elemental_Soul
      @Elemental_Soul 3 роки тому

      @@jeroenofferman8519 I often find myself in that position. All inspired then ..Bam! Bk to my old self, all because I was seeking externally rather than within...still working on it

    • @jeroenofferman8519
      @jeroenofferman8519 3 роки тому +1

      @@Elemental_Soul Great insight. Check out Sadhguru. And even though it is about tinnitus, the basics work for everything: Julian Cowan Hill.

    • @Elemental_Soul
      @Elemental_Soul 3 роки тому

      @@jeroenofferman8519 I will. Thanx

    • @Mssbeti
      @Mssbeti 3 роки тому

      Can I connect with you please to practice to love my self I really need help. 5my09_2019ca this my Instagram account thank you so much

  • @curli-lettey4319
    @curli-lettey4319 4 роки тому +100

    I have to break out of my "comfortable zone" and stop being afraid to just go out there and live life.

    • @nitr0gen949
      @nitr0gen949 4 роки тому +1

      what do you call comfortable zone? spending the majority of time in home?

    • @curli-lettey4319
      @curli-lettey4319 4 роки тому +1

      @@nitr0gen949
      Uhhh....NO. comfortable zone is just what it is, a zone, I'm not doing extra as to what its supposed to take to get love. 🤨

    • @nitr0gen949
      @nitr0gen949 4 роки тому +2

      @@curli-lettey4319 ah i see, nvm my confusion, spending alot of time in home can be considered as a comfortable zone, although in order to find "love" you will need to find people which means going out alot often etc, i get wym

    • @shahkamkhuklum9976
      @shahkamkhuklum9976 4 роки тому +1

      Very nice videos keep updating more...

    • @jitendrachauhan3079
      @jitendrachauhan3079 3 роки тому +1

      @@curli-lettey4319 Leave comfortable zone not for finding love but leave for finding yourself

  • @cloudclassy9247
    @cloudclassy9247 2 роки тому +4

    I hope to find Genuine love someday starting my positive energy from today 🙂

  • @waltergoodwin7463
    @waltergoodwin7463 2 роки тому +4

    Today was my first step; putting myself out there and being me for a change. The final steps that I need to complete. 🌷

  • @Caritasaveritas
    @Caritasaveritas 4 роки тому +87

    Perfect!🦋
    Completely ✨
    perfectly said 🍃
    1 Love yourself first 💕
    2 Be yourself💃🏻
    3 Like attracts like👫
    4 Be fearless confident
    5 Be vulnerable 🍃

  • @kaleighwilson7413
    @kaleighwilson7413 4 роки тому +30

    "YOU become the person you want in your life". Needed. This.

  • @hsfd7760
    @hsfd7760 2 роки тому +7

    For beautiful ppl out there, forget about chasing ppl or finding the right person, u're great on ur own, u're unique and thats what make u special
    Love urself, be urself, know urself, expres urself, dont be fake and keep trying to figure out ur life purpose, just be happy
    Because when u're happy alone, everyone want to be happy with u, i know it sounds weird, but it works for me
    Focus on u, till the focus is on u
    Let ur real character attract the other ppl, because what belongs to u will come and find u
    Be happy and stay healthy :)
    *Sorry for my bad eng

    • @amazynga8868
      @amazynga8868 2 роки тому

      single
      alone
      happy
      peace
      freedom
      joy
      loving self
      caring for self

  • @eldersellstrom4178
    @eldersellstrom4178 3 роки тому +12

    I just want to say man you are right on every level! I really needed this!

  • @Matt10mm
    @Matt10mm 4 роки тому +32

    I don't know what I would do without this channel. After my wife passed I was so lost but this helps so much.

    • @preciousadoboe163
      @preciousadoboe163 4 роки тому +2

      My condolences. God is your strength.

    • @m.martinez1272
      @m.martinez1272 2 роки тому

      😢 how r u doing, 2 years later? My husband passed away in December 21

    • @iobeta7233
      @iobeta7233 Рік тому

      His with you.. more strength from above

  • @pinkrose4775
    @pinkrose4775 4 роки тому +22

    Powerful lines-
    *No one can love u until u love urself. 💛
    *No one can complete u unless u feel complete with urself. 💛
    *U have to stop looking for others to love u n instead love urself 1st. 💛
    To everyone from me-
    We still do feel lonely sometimes in our low times n wish for someone beside, in such cases reach out to ur parents. They love u more than anyone on Earth. 💜

    • @graceelathrop6371
      @graceelathrop6371 3 роки тому +1

      Valentine's day is for live in general, not just romantic. Give your best friend a gift, buy yourself a bath bomb, make your parents a card.
      I know someone who handed out free candy on Valentine's day to bad neighborhoods, and a lot of people were really touched because nobody really recognised them.

  • @genoburton6826
    @genoburton6826 2 роки тому +2

    People that doesn't have love will look for love and to those that have it share it.. turn to God he will lead us to the right people

  • @bobthedoorknob4842
    @bobthedoorknob4842 2 роки тому +4

    In order to achieve loving yourself, you must fully comprehend that you are loved regardless of your situation.

  • @lilyalis
    @lilyalis 4 роки тому +41

    Love yourself first and stop holding on comfortable habits that holding you back ❤️❤️❤️

    • @nyabokesuzzanne4439
      @nyabokesuzzanne4439 4 роки тому +3

      Surely this message really is touching especially no one will love you til u love yourself

    • @lilyalis
      @lilyalis 4 роки тому +1

      @@nyabokesuzzanne4439 yes absolutely 😊

  • @tommyboybr
    @tommyboybr 4 роки тому +52

    This video is like a slap on people's face, but in an amazing way!
    Because we are true mirrors of one another.
    And loving ourselves ALWAYS must come first.

  • @Cory19999
    @Cory19999 3 роки тому +51

    Everyone who reads this has already met their soulmate :)

  • @rachel_murphy06
    @rachel_murphy06 3 роки тому +30

    “No one can love you, until you love yourself”
    Me: uh... well I’m just gonna gooo...

  • @carrylopez5755
    @carrylopez5755 4 роки тому +47

    "Love is the most powerful power on a Earth"
    "Love yourself first"

    • @jobond4314
      @jobond4314 3 роки тому

      And is not easy to find it, or give it away, until you love yourself, but sometimes we don't give away self that love we're looking for.

    • @juanmam.2113
      @juanmam.2113 3 роки тому

      Hate is far more powerful than love I learned than on very bloody ways

    • @jitendrachauhan3079
      @jitendrachauhan3079 3 роки тому +1

      Ya exaxtly love from yourself not from others because if you love to other not from yourself one day your life will be fucked by others.

    • @carrylopez5755
      @carrylopez5755 3 роки тому

      @Rukayat Bola and how did he do that?

  • @grezzer1427
    @grezzer1427 4 роки тому +66

    Fearless soul is the best and I've been listening for a few years now

  • @eviozyra6300
    @eviozyra6300 2 роки тому +2

    You never are really "ready" or complete, what does it even mean, you are always evolving, growing (idealy), of course you need a sense of yourself, but in 2 years that can completly change.
    And you are always deserving of love, even when not complete, even when not loving yourself!

  • @Blessed2Dance4God
    @Blessed2Dance4God 2 роки тому +4

    Thank goodness & glory to God for recently understanding that my ex (who caused tremendous heartbreak) was truly NOT for me! - God is Love!

  • @nickp3949
    @nickp3949 4 роки тому +190

    The internet needs to go. Detach yourself from the internet for 30 days and you will see what being free is like. AI is already destroying mankind, just not in the way that we expected

    • @8v71buses
      @8v71buses 4 роки тому +8

      I approve of this 💯

    • @ahah7428
      @ahah7428 4 роки тому +6

      i deatched my from the internet for 30 days and i got locked up....

    • @amindada8856
      @amindada8856 4 роки тому +2

      Why are you here?

    • @babetravelling
      @babetravelling 4 роки тому +5

      Nick P Internet is good and bad for you. Like anything, use it. Don’t abuse or misuse.

    • @tosinsaibu3694
      @tosinsaibu3694 4 роки тому

      @@babetravelling what's up beautiful

  • @Lindsweightloss
    @Lindsweightloss 4 роки тому +86

    START WITH YOURSELF ❤️

    • @akotoo3489
      @akotoo3489 4 роки тому

      I already subscribe :)

    • @brodyberry6253
      @brodyberry6253 4 роки тому

      Lindsey Spiteri Bellizzi Then you 😍😍😍

  • @denisecorwin5863
    @denisecorwin5863 2 роки тому

    Thank you 💓. I needed to hear this. God Bless you all.

  • @mariflorparangan7067
    @mariflorparangan7067 2 роки тому +3

    I lost him already.his in heaven.

  • @RiqSMNN
    @RiqSMNN 4 роки тому +57

    I think this is more than about finding love.

    • @kiRa-oy9lt
      @kiRa-oy9lt 4 роки тому +1

      Me too I think it's more about life rather than Love

    • @flonighty
      @flonighty 4 роки тому +2

      @@kiRa-oy9lt Yeah, I can just agree with you, technically this video name should change from finding love to live Life (or smth like that, i am not very creative at the moment cuz i am tired)

  • @nuranailiana
    @nuranailiana 4 роки тому +30

    “no one will love you until you love yourself”, its really hit me hard, when i think about it, its true that i need to fix myself first, so i can get someone who like me, because your partner is mirroring your behaviour, good will attract good. i truly need this advices, thanks 🙏🏻

    • @juanmam.2113
      @juanmam.2113 3 роки тому

      Bullshit. I couldnt be more glad of who I am but that doesnt mean someone will just show up in my life.

  • @kammarigovardhanachary9093
    @kammarigovardhanachary9093 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much fearless soul . Now I can realize my self..

  • @lakshmi9432
    @lakshmi9432 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for good words 👍 this is what I really needed at this time..

  • @tatjanastojanovic9037
    @tatjanastojanovic9037 4 роки тому +97

    This video is so true. I’m seating in London during this current situation with Virus, crying everyday because I’m 40 still single thinking what is the point to live but this video said it all 🙏🏻

    • @janetperry9114
      @janetperry9114 4 роки тому +8

      Sweetie you seriously need help,I will recommend you to a powerful man who will help you find the true love of your life and live a happy married because he did mine too

    • @sans-sd2hv
      @sans-sd2hv 4 роки тому

      @@janetperry9114 like seriously

    • @janetperry9114
      @janetperry9114 4 роки тому

      @@sans-sd2hv yes friend

    • @kokokoko4672
      @kokokoko4672 3 роки тому

      @@janetperry9114 conect me

    • @janetperry9114
      @janetperry9114 3 роки тому

      @@kokokoko4672 WhatsApp +2348144358180

  • @julianegoncalves2739
    @julianegoncalves2739 3 роки тому +15

    "Life's greatest growth comes when you leave your comgort zone" 📝

  • @amareshdebbarma8109
    @amareshdebbarma8109 8 місяців тому +1

    Self-love is the greatest medicine.

  • @princemilo3238
    @princemilo3238 2 роки тому +2

    Amen thank you so much for this message

  • @pyschologygeek
    @pyschologygeek 4 роки тому +130

    Be the one that makes peace, the one that offers friendship, the one that makes a difference in this world.

  • @brandonzhang8209
    @brandonzhang8209 4 роки тому +63

    When you love yourself the whole world start to love you.

    • @jerrylisby5376
      @jerrylisby5376 4 роки тому +8

      The whole world won't but the right ones will.

    • @yeswing10
      @yeswing10 4 роки тому

      Until you meet a Narcissist!

    • @diouranke
      @diouranke 4 роки тому

      That's cliché

    • @kshrvpz1587
      @kshrvpz1587 4 роки тому +1

      Bullshit. I don't have nothing against anyone. The problem of that people Is with themselves, not the rest

  • @edwintaylor3635
    @edwintaylor3635 3 роки тому +4

    WOW 😳 came across this and I NEEDED TO HERE THIS 🙏🏾

  • @josephsawi4587
    @josephsawi4587 3 роки тому

    Well said. You blessed my heart.

  • @kartikeygupta8784
    @kartikeygupta8784 4 роки тому +20

    A very beautiful and important person of my life told me that self love is more important than loving others.
    second, I love her lot I always wait for her entire life

  • @deantawatao8004
    @deantawatao8004 4 роки тому +33

    We don't really need to do anything to be loved and to find love, Love already found us. All we need to do is to accept that Love, believe that we are always loved, and share that Love. 😊

    • @Letloveleadus
      @Letloveleadus 4 роки тому

      Good point, Dean. Jesus Christ loves us, He loves the world, meaning good and bad. We are already loved, we need to share our love to others. No matter what happened to you, If you have his breath in your lungs , know that you are loved. God is Love, He is the source of Love,. you can only get love from the source. Anyone who talks about love without having genuine connection with the source is speaking of this present darkness kinda love and counterfeit love.Only the sick needs the doctor. We need to love those who feel undeserved of our love. Don’t wait for you to love yourself to love others, we fail to ask the important question , what makes someone don’t like themself? Please don’t wait until the day you have this or that to love, that day may never come. You are a spirit, love is the only way to sow to the spirit. Love because you are already loved.

  • @rosemariemox2245
    @rosemariemox2245 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much is a beautiful message for me...
    Thank you & God bless you and your family 🙏💕

  • @preciousgem704
    @preciousgem704 Рік тому

    Thank you for posting this. ♥️

  • @cherrybacon5154
    @cherrybacon5154 3 роки тому +14

    Every time I listen to these I feel as if'm not alone in my struggles anymore. That there's a Guardian Angel helping me. Thank you so much, 🍒

    • @doctorjayden5579
      @doctorjayden5579 3 роки тому

      Love has its own strength and weaknesses, you have to find the perfect role to play in this two script... Don't let love wail you down and never be too carried away by love

    • @robertavalos6437
      @robertavalos6437 2 роки тому

      hello, dear i will love to know you more

    • @iobeta7233
      @iobeta7233 Рік тому

      Let your light shine

    • @stevenjone3673
      @stevenjone3673 Рік тому

      I will love to know you

    • @iobeta7233
      @iobeta7233 Рік тому +1

      @@stevenjone3673 I'am Lydia

  • @365DwithAJ
    @365DwithAJ 4 роки тому +42

    Now I know where everything went wrong in my life for so many years...😞, such an fool I'm running around looking for someone who could heal me💔, someone who could love me truly..💞, someone who I can trust eyes closed...❣️..when the answer for all this was within ME....💗, it's like the Deer 🦌 which went all over the forest looking for the beautiful fragrance that was coming from..., when it was right above from it's own forehead....♦💖♦
    Thank You..!! soooooo much for this Beautiful......! Video.. ❤🙏🏽

    • @leonpeterson2129
      @leonpeterson2129 3 роки тому +1

      I feel so sad after seeing all this ,I hope I could find love again someday ..😔😔😔
      I failed cause I never focus on completing myself and loving myself first ....
      I hope a could make it right .....
      Will I ever find love anymore ??😢😥😥I hope I don't fail a victim.

  • @danielefrem
    @danielefrem 2 роки тому +2

    Everything is inside of me! Perfect!

  • @davidkeeney4332
    @davidkeeney4332 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this! This is what I needed to hear!

  • @dannymeyer3256
    @dannymeyer3256 4 роки тому +50

    I think that when you love yourself you do not tolerate those who demean you and try to tear you down. You recognize you deserve better.

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 роки тому +2

      Danny Meyer well said, there are strings attached though.. kids are very important..

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 роки тому +1

      Danny Meyer Looks like GOD listened your words.🙂

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 роки тому +1

      Danny Meyer not everything is told on internet my friend.😃😃

    • @dannymeyer3256
      @dannymeyer3256 4 роки тому +1

      Raj Boda Meaning you cannot tell me then.

    • @rajboda1
      @rajboda1 4 роки тому

      Danny Meyer not on internet.🙂

  • @ivywang416
    @ivywang416 4 роки тому +6

    God is good. before I opened UA-cam. I pray that God can you guide me. coz I'm struggling right now, then I see this video my prayers got answered. thank you so much. mostly you father God.. 😇😇😍😍💕

  • @susanavega3074
    @susanavega3074 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for the message Amen 🙏

  • @angelmushi1099
    @angelmushi1099 3 роки тому +6

    Love yourself,value yourself, complete yourself first..in simple words BE YOU♥️......

  • @mariamistretta3860
    @mariamistretta3860 4 роки тому +35

    1. Stop looking for others to love u and instead love yourself Frist.
    2. Stop wearing mask and trying to appear perfect. Unless you have to wear masks of the conera virus situations.
    3. Stop expecting someone, to be to be giving back.
    4. Stop hiding.
    5. Stop holding on to comtable habits that hold you back.

  • @Amal-zg2kd
    @Amal-zg2kd 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much God bless you .💐💐

  • @svasianfilipiname6603
    @svasianfilipiname6603 3 роки тому +3

    People don't know how to love others these days but they surely know how to JUDGE and DISCRIMINATE! I love myself but I also I guess just wanted what every superficial being had (or is striving to get) that which is a successful life and successful, happy relationships! We all want to be liked (heck even LOVED) but I don't know why it's hard to get that.. I feel the only people who are "lucky" enough to find it, are those who are healthy, attractive and in their 20's mostly lol.. it's lust not love!!
    I am almost 37 (at the end of the month)... never hot to be pregnant or have a loving, happy husband.. ah well what can I do??!! I don't want to be this shallow anymore and frustrated and in pain!! It hurts too much!!!

  • @Matt-sf9fi
    @Matt-sf9fi 4 роки тому +37

    I used to do these things. I believed in myself, and focused on myself. Self improvement. For me, people I saw as a friend kept me at a distance, until I realised that I wasn't valued and walked away, my entire family rejected me and now pretends I don't exist, and I've not met anyone who appreciated my presence. It's been 24 years, so that argument about "Keep trying" is nonsensical. I'm not a horrible person, and I do my best to have courtesy, empathy and be helpful. But I guess people don't see me as a valuable part of their lives. Just like my family. This is okay. I've grown comfortable being alone. And I will live my life to the best of my ability without the need for social contact. Besides, it's well known that you can't appreciate or express something you don't understand, so if it can't be learned, why try. You'll just disappoint yourself.

    • @winnerkimjinusolodebutaug2786
      @winnerkimjinusolodebutaug2786 4 роки тому

      👍👍

    • @amarjeetkaur7379
      @amarjeetkaur7379 4 роки тому

      Can we talk on it more...buz I feel you...i have lots of questions to ask...specially...why do others do this ?....my condition is same maybe things and situations might be different....still... may I ask a favour....can we talk about it more ?

    • @Matt-sf9fi
      @Matt-sf9fi 4 роки тому +11

      @@amarjeetkaur7379 You can ask your questions here. I'm sure others will answer. To answer about why people do this. Simple. People are generally too busy worrying about their own lives to concern themselves with your feelings. You've most likely also done it. We all have. It's just the way of the world, and if you've been unlucky enough to constantly feel out of place in different environments, you're just going to have to accept this, and focus on enjoying your life. It's hard but after a while those feelings become numb and you focus on enjoying life the best you can. That's really all you can do. Why fall apart and live in misery? For others? What have they done for you? Nothing. Do they matter? No. So don't let it get you down. Just continue moving forward. Life can be rewarding in other ways if not socially.

    • @amarjeetkaur7379
      @amarjeetkaur7379 4 роки тому +3

      @@Matt-sf9fi I do...and the only answer I needed...u answered....thanks sir

    • @rachnap.6129
      @rachnap.6129 4 роки тому +1

      There's this video called why people hurt me by BK Shivani ....do hear that...n I would love to get in detail n tell u so much...I went through something similar n just listening to Joyce Meyer n Joel Osteen videos n understanding the source of my own value lies in my very existence got me back to me...n in the Shivani video she explains y this happens n also five lines to say to urself everyday in the morning at 4 preferably...it's life transforming...I wish u the best n a lot of love...I shall send u the link if u don't find it...

  • @kimwillemsen9731
    @kimwillemsen9731 3 роки тому +3

    Be authentic, be yourself..
    Don’t try to be perfect
    You are who you are and that’s good ❤️

  • @claraciaranakyanja139
    @claraciaranakyanja139 Рік тому +1

    Really true you can't love someone if don't love your self

  • @thelittleetherealghost
    @thelittleetherealghost 2 роки тому +1

    I think this is one of the most wise, incredible things I've ever heard... Thank you, thank you, thank you...

  • @yassenmirheg6730
    @yassenmirheg6730 4 роки тому +13

    this is the most balanced words id ever read

  • @karmalepcha2592
    @karmalepcha2592 4 роки тому +8

    Wow every morning it gives me more strength
    My heart beat become so fast

  • @carlaynunez4910
    @carlaynunez4910 3 роки тому +1

    I needed to hear this. Often we are harsh on ourselves. We need to hear more positivity and create it as well!! 🌷🌞

  • @onwukamarvy2704
    @onwukamarvy2704 2 роки тому

    I'm blessed with this message. Thank you so much

  • @yusefelyonandcelina
    @yusefelyonandcelina 4 роки тому +20

    Love yourself first and you will find others to love you more than you expected. It is about being contented for what you have and be freely express yourself with necessarily action and consequences. Love happiness success attracts who really believe that everything is possible with your determination kind hearted and not to be jealous and envy for what others have but you have to figure it out and learn more about yourself through experience to fit in to others life without discrimination or judging your flaws because you found friends loved ones who truly understand you no matter what indeed to happen with God Almighty in our side