You're Not in Love - You're Just Hormonal - Islamic Reminder

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    Personal Facebook: / mercifulservant Brother Nouman Ali Khan discusses the delusional concept of "Love" that we have in today's society.
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  • @putsomerespeckonmaname540
    @putsomerespeckonmaname540 8 років тому +2724

    Might not be Muslim, but damn this man is a very powerful speaker!

  • @nouraalmesned9818
    @nouraalmesned9818 9 років тому +2167

    If your really " in love" with a girl, you'll have the patience and being with her in the halal way. Marriage. Not the haram way.

    • @AbraarKhan123
      @AbraarKhan123 9 років тому +18

      Well said! :)

    • @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
      @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 8 років тому +19

      +Noura Almesned that means im in love, im not just hormonal :)

    • @abdurkhan6075
      @abdurkhan6075 8 років тому +5

      +Noura Almesned So True

    • @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
      @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 8 років тому +10

      sometimes ur in love and ur hormonal

    • @kirenrashid1516
      @kirenrashid1516 7 років тому +11

      Seek help, devote yourself to Islam. Then you won't have time to think about her.

  • @user-vu9en3sk9t
    @user-vu9en3sk9t 5 років тому +680

    Thank God alhamdullilahh I was born in such a beautiful religion... called Islam. Without Islam I would have ruined my life. ALHAMDULLILAH.😊

    • @elenagilbert6432
      @elenagilbert6432 4 роки тому +6

      Alhudulillah I agree. I am also really glad my parents do not allow me to interact with the oppossite sex

    • @nurulhuda3759
      @nurulhuda3759 4 роки тому +4

      Alhamdulillah...the greatest gift from Allah is being a muslim❤❤❤

    • @zaidabdulrasheedabdulrouf376
      @zaidabdulrasheedabdulrouf376 4 роки тому +2

      Alhamdulilah

    • @ezi735
      @ezi735 3 роки тому

      Innit m8 same ye dangerous stuff there 💯

    • @MohamedMohamed-vg5ni
      @MohamedMohamed-vg5ni 11 місяців тому

      Thanks to our Allah

  • @yazir123
    @yazir123 10 років тому +1590

    i feel proud i survived my hormonal teenage years

    • @RenderingUser
      @RenderingUser 5 років тому +135

      i still have yet to survive it
      : (
      pray 4 meeeeeeeeeeeeee

    • @lizak7323
      @lizak7323 5 років тому +14

      @@RenderingUser how old are you?

    • @RenderingUser
      @RenderingUser 5 років тому +28

      @@lizak7323 14 ...

    • @Dr-zaam
      @Dr-zaam 5 років тому +50

      Say Alhamdulillah ....
      we have a lot of struggle still ...

    • @Sara-uk5eg
      @Sara-uk5eg 5 років тому +4

      Same

  • @NWSIMU
    @NWSIMU 7 років тому +1678

    I loved my spouce bcz he was religious, but no body wud believe me bcz he was handsome too. haha. ppl also felt my marriage will fall apart since it was a simple love marriage to them and love marriages tend to fall apart. years later they got what I was talking abt. He has given me the Islamic life others cudnt and we are still happily married Alhamdulellah.

    • @tealglitter2097
      @tealglitter2097 7 років тому +77

      n s MashAllah sister! Trust me you DO NOT need to prove your love to anyone else. If you and your husband are happy and confident no one else has a say in how you're doing.

    • @NWSIMU
      @NWSIMU 7 років тому +3

      +Falmata ameen. thnx

    • @blackbutterfly1833
      @blackbutterfly1833 7 років тому +30

      humduallah good for you I don't know why people are so against people falling in love and getting married isn't that what we are supposed to do I Got It Bad it seems like nobody wants me to be happy when it comes to getting married I'm glad for you may Allah bless you always

    • @isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7
      @isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7 7 років тому +23

      I married my true Love.

    • @rautraut7526
      @rautraut7526 6 років тому +10

      n s you are so lucky .i m hindu my partner is muslim we both knw wat barriers gona cm in future bt still we believe in us n maintaining our relationship . Plz pray for me to have gud marraige life in future we both wants to marry .

  • @adamhenrywalker
    @adamhenrywalker 5 років тому +513

    I had a crush on this one girl for 5 months.
    After watching this video, she left my heart like water through a drain that had just been unplugged.
    Alhamdulillah.

    • @xtreme6018
      @xtreme6018 5 років тому +16

      😂😂 lol how u said tht..btw may allah bless u bt falling in love its nt haram...as he mentioned u have to control it on haram temptation...if she non muslim thn revert her with logic....coz if u dnt do tht allah dissapointed at u curse u...its said quran even slave beleiving women much bttr than tht..

    • @latestfact9943
      @latestfact9943 5 років тому +14

      may Allah forgive us

    • @idekanymore1624
      @idekanymore1624 4 роки тому +24

      It's not haram to fall in love. It's ok if you still have a crush on this girl. Just control the way you like her. For example, if you liked her, and she likes you back, and she asks you out, at that point you should decline. If you are friends try not to get too close to her.

    • @tired1019
      @tired1019 4 роки тому +7

      You can be interested in her but just can't get close or go out💜

    • @tired1019
      @tired1019 4 роки тому +3

      You can like someone and have a crush on that person but you can't go out with the person or get too close💙💜

  • @7MichaelTheClever77
    @7MichaelTheClever77 10 років тому +1111

    Seriously, how does Nouman Ali Khan manage to be that inspiring ? Allah sure gave him a great gift. Masha Allah !

    • @darakshashaikh270
      @darakshashaikh270 4 роки тому +2

      Damn true

    • @haqeeqatezindagi6753
      @haqeeqatezindagi6753 4 роки тому +2

      Butt I think this was mufti menk.

    • @wahhajmustafa1907
      @wahhajmustafa1907 4 роки тому +5

      @@haqeeqatezindagi6753 this was Nouman Ali Khan, check the description :)

    • @eb4188
      @eb4188 3 роки тому +2

      Masha Allah , May Allah ( Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala) bless you and me and all Muslim brothers and sisters and our families

    • @truthprevails2412
      @truthprevails2412 3 роки тому

      Noman ali khan is really love ❤️❤️may Allah bless them

  • @TheUltimatePelle
    @TheUltimatePelle 5 років тому +130

    You just prevented me from commiting a sin. Thank you

  • @umriyaafini
    @umriyaafini 10 років тому +455

    marriage is supposed to be a beautiful relationship :*

  • @Abcd-cg3vh
    @Abcd-cg3vh 9 років тому +883

    LUST IS NOT LOVE

    • @mrezarifki
      @mrezarifki 7 років тому +31

      but lust always hide in love

    • @uareadorabowl3784
      @uareadorabowl3784 4 роки тому +10

      @@mrezarifki No . There are so many people that doesn't love each other but have sex with each other . Lust is something completely different than love . A human can feel the lust against his hand . Do you get what I mean ? Love is totally different . So this man's speech is nonsense.

    • @Osama-ei7tk
      @Osama-ei7tk 4 роки тому +12

      @@uareadorabowl3784 u don't make any sense lol

    • @uareadorabowl3784
      @uareadorabowl3784 4 роки тому

      @@Osama-ei7tk so does this man lol

    • @otd766
      @otd766 4 роки тому +11

      @@uareadorabowl3784
      This is what he is saying
      Lust is not love
      This is what you saying
      Lust is not love
      Whats the difference

  • @_ALUCARD_625
    @_ALUCARD_625 4 роки тому +15

    Well a Christian girl loved me for 1 n half year, i didn't knew she was in love with me until one day she confessed to me and told me what her feelings are/were for me. She said "I love you" i said "if you really love me then accept my religion and i will be yours". She said ill give a thought to it. She didn't messaged me for a week, after a week she messaged me with a voice message and i was crying when i heard it. What she was saying in her voice msg was Qalma Shahada, she accepted Islam for me. At that moment i didn't did anything except for thanking Allah and praying all night and thanking Allah. *Now we are together (engaged) she is my fiance*
    I am still thankful.
    For me thats True Love.
    My fiance is my pride.

    • @back_from_dead
      @back_from_dead 4 роки тому +1

      Wow you're so lucky and that's a true love

    • @_ALUCARD_625
      @_ALUCARD_625 4 роки тому

      @@back_from_dead yeah, Alhamdulillah Suma Alhamdulillah. Thank you. Btw, Ramadan mubarek may forgive our sins. Ameen

    • @back_from_dead
      @back_from_dead 4 роки тому +1

      Dragon Sin Of Wrath ,actually in my case I love a girl and she’s younger than me instead of instagram thing and meeting I directly told her that I love her and in future I will come to your parents for your hand in a halal way but her reply was “please If I don’t know you than how will I marry you before marriage the girl should know and bla bla bla she made fun of me” I felt bad at that moment like broken from inside and then I looked up and said Alhamdulliah well if she’s meant for me I will get her no matter what and Allah knows what’s best ...Ramadan mubarak brother

    • @ouiameelazzouzi3491
      @ouiameelazzouzi3491 4 роки тому

      @@back_from_dead she's right

    • @back_from_dead
      @back_from_dead 4 роки тому

      @@ouiameelazzouzi3491 well I know every girl needs to know a man before marriage but her way is haram because inorder to know her closely I have to be close with her or have to be her bf and dating and all and then it's haram ..

  • @MetalHeart678
    @MetalHeart678 10 років тому +125

    One who would truly love you is one who knows the true you
    and God knows us better than we know ourselves

  • @MrJoyride619
    @MrJoyride619 10 років тому +630

    One of the best mentions in this lecture according to me :
    Do you believe you would still be in Love with the person u think you're in Love with if they are burned?

    • @botfuzz2453
      @botfuzz2453 7 років тому +31

      MrJoyride619 yes I would cuz they still have the same 'personality'

    • @MakeitTapFoRcE
      @MakeitTapFoRcE 7 років тому +12

      XtremeFUZZ that's amazing! you're great despite the changed of looks. you would still love ur spouse... many respect from me my brother

    • @botfuzz2453
      @botfuzz2453 7 років тому +4

      SoonPickMe _ thanks :) btw just a question. can u get a girlfriend but ur not allowed to be touchy? I've also heard that a person married to a Christian girl. is this even allowed?

    • @MakeitTapFoRcE
      @MakeitTapFoRcE 7 років тому +20

      XtremeFUZZ Sorry my brother... I am also new to this and I am a convert.
      and still on the learning process.
      But, what I can say is "shaytan will tempted our minds" may Allah forgive us and guide us

    • @MakeitTapFoRcE
      @MakeitTapFoRcE 7 років тому +5

      XtremeFUZZ go through her parents first insyaAllah :)

  • @victorinediop9227
    @victorinediop9227 6 років тому +149

    You know there's hormones things but sometimes it's love. And when you truly love someone even without dating him , without seeing him or even talk to him you just love him that's it. May Allah protect us from these kinds of relationships .

    • @sundes2807
      @sundes2807 5 років тому +17

      Yes I have been in love for 4 years and I was (13-17). I didn't care about any of that.... I was just in love blindly… I didn't care if he 'd love me back. We weren't even friends. I was pretty young but I realised how it feels to be in love, which greatly differs from any hormonal feelings… its real. I am grateful that I was in love because now I know what true love is and I will be looking for that feeling again when I am ready… now I know that anything aside from what I had been feeling would be a delusion and nonsense (hormonal).. and I have been crushing over 7 years before that so I know that it was the real deal. But anyways my entire highschool life was trash because of it LOL.

    • @Hayatt313
      @Hayatt313 4 роки тому +10

      @@sundes2807 you have a clean heart, May Allha guides us all here and hereafter. Ameen

    • @sundes2807
      @sundes2807 4 роки тому +6

      @@Hayatt313 Ameen !!! 😊 Allah knows best!!

    • @vashappeninbesties
      @vashappeninbesties 4 роки тому +7

      This year marks the 4th year since I've been in love with this man. He has a girlfriend and soon will become a father. Unfortunately, he left Islam. He chose the haram way. I pray for him every day. May Allah Guide him and all of us. Ameen. Please keep him in your prayers.

    • @victorinediop9227
      @victorinediop9227 4 роки тому +2

      Vas Happenin :D may Allah guide him on the right path🙏🏾 may he also give you the best partner in here and in the hereafter🙏🏾

  • @adw4261
    @adw4261 4 роки тому +46

    " If he was like 50lbs fatter , you would still be in love?"
    *Yes*
    "If he was a burn victim or something, if his hand burnt off , if his ear was missing, would you still be in love?"
    *Yes*
    " Or you find someone else to love , all of a sudden?"
    *No*

  • @Biabee22
    @Biabee22 4 роки тому +32

    Its sad that some people still haven’t controlled their temptations yet

  • @Ijaz19821
    @Ijaz19821 3 роки тому +4

    In islam we have solution to all problems🙌

  • @ladida8628
    @ladida8628 10 років тому +40

    this is so true--personal experience---things of the dunya are an illusion, they seem like the answer to our problems , making us feel good at first ---but actually these things become new problems , disappoint us....only love for the sake of God is pure and permanent

  • @eternalphoenix4258
    @eternalphoenix4258 9 років тому +27

    "And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." [Sûrah Rûm: 21]

    • @rali63
      @rali63 9 років тому

      ***** This is one of my fav ayas.. Very reflective.

  • @Hafyplays
    @Hafyplays 7 років тому +18

    This isn't just for muslims, this is for everyone. just because you're not muslim doesn't mean you can do that. it's the same for EVERYONE muslim or not muslim.

  • @adrianfarhan2659
    @adrianfarhan2659 8 років тому +268

    O allah grant me a beautiful and loving wife..Ameen

  • @yagmurm.140
    @yagmurm.140 4 роки тому +5

    I dated a non muslim guy when I was 17. Astagfirullah... I regret it so much and i still feel like I haven’t gotten forgiven by Allah. May Allah protect us all from this...

    • @arkanmukhlis8696
      @arkanmukhlis8696 4 роки тому +2

      May Allah will Forgive you if you don't do it again Allah is merciful

    • @yagmurm.140
      @yagmurm.140 4 роки тому +3

      Arkan Mukhlis ameen🤲🏼

    • @mouhameddjatta120
      @mouhameddjatta120 4 роки тому +1

      Just repentance and repentance is feeling of remorses and don't go back may ALLAH forgive indeed he is the most Merciful

    • @yagmurm.140
      @yagmurm.140 4 роки тому +1

      Mouhamed Djatta thank you brother. Yes may Allah swt keep us all away from this. Its the worst feeling

    • @ssssSTopmotion
      @ssssSTopmotion 4 роки тому +1

      Alllah has guided you back,allhumdulillah

  • @cikmiza93
    @cikmiza93 10 років тому +62

    Thankyou for this meaningful video. This will be a great guidance to muslim teenagers all around the world including me . Thank you for this reminder.

  • @marziaislam9306
    @marziaislam9306 5 років тому +15

    When the topic is like this one🤣🤣lol I don't even need to read the name, I already know it's Nouman Ali khan🤣🤣😂May Allah bless him

  • @mayna4869
    @mayna4869 10 років тому +129

    painful truth .

    • @mayna4869
      @mayna4869 10 років тому

      baru nak tag . kau :P

    • @FarihaHussaini
      @FarihaHussaini 10 років тому

      this comment for me huh?

    • @FarihaHussaini
      @FarihaHussaini 10 років тому

      tp mmg sentap la -.- (ni serious) okayla aku x in love pun :P ... in friend hahahaha xP

    • @mayna4869
      @mayna4869 10 років тому +1

      haha . fi hifzillah sis . ;)
      kena kuat sama sama ni . xD

    • @FarihaHussaini
      @FarihaHussaini 10 років тому

      Haha ye la.. tp ni dye da ade wasep . Naseb aku x bg dye numb aku yg wasep tu. Aku tgh thn je nk tkan nama dye ni T.T

  • @crazzydaissy7915
    @crazzydaissy7915 6 років тому +58

    I have this huge crush on this guy in high school...n i think he has started to notice that too so he's trying to approach me n iam not ok with that i know his tries will work on me n i don't want that..i don't wana disappoint ALLLAH not my parents n not 3ven myself ..May Alllah protect my heart from these kinda stuff cuz its easy to say but hard to control n hide ur feelings..pray for me I'm in a difficult situation right now n i wanna handle it in the right way🤧😭☹

    • @afafizyani8877
      @afafizyani8877 6 років тому +3

      crazzy daissy may Allah protect you sister 😌

    • @khudejakamran5561
      @khudejakamran5561 6 років тому +3

      Ameen

    • @safia-ng5ig
      @safia-ng5ig 6 років тому +5

      Same happened wd me also 😣😢

    • @Penn.obsessed
      @Penn.obsessed 6 років тому +7

      I know that feeling. However I have a new crush almost every week. I can't stop looking.😭

    • @Khadijahplanet
      @Khadijahplanet 5 років тому +2

      I was in the same situation as you but now I don't like him in sha Allah

  • @irdinazulaika
    @irdinazulaika 5 років тому +4

    Honestly, I'm still in my hormonal stage and it's really hard for me not to fall for someone. I really hated it. I tried my best focusing in my studies but suddenly the feeling hits me. May Allah ease the hormonal stage we're going through.

  • @brilliantwriter7620
    @brilliantwriter7620 10 років тому +15

    This is really a beautiful reminder. Thanks to Allah for making me want to listen to this. :) May Allah bless.

  • @si.3107
    @si.3107 5 років тому +32

    Well I am not teenager but almost 27 now and never dating with men but never had marriage proposal too. I just loved a man 2 years Ago at my last year of master degree but my family refused him for several Reason. I never had feelings for another man except him. Anyways now i just wait and keep my heart from others. I am just focused on my job al hamdullilah i have a good job but it is all I have. I do not want to be heartbreaked especially at my age it is very hard cause i dont date with men but want to get marry

    • @1986faras
      @1986faras 5 років тому +1

      MAY ALLAH MAKE IT EASY FOR YOU AMEEN 👍

    • @uareadorabowl3784
      @uareadorabowl3784 4 роки тому +2

      You don't have to get married . This is not the only thing in life. Dream big.

    • @Chup-mh9hs
      @Chup-mh9hs 4 роки тому +3

      Why did your family rejected him?
      It's not good..

    • @believer3649
      @believer3649 4 роки тому +1

      Unite with your soul mate. Who your heart wants.

    • @cadnanzomuhanzo3917
      @cadnanzomuhanzo3917 4 роки тому +1

      Be patient and Allah will give you a lovely and caring man inshallah

  • @shehed11
    @shehed11 10 років тому +37

    How true how true. JazakAllah khair for sharing.

  • @queenmalika4534
    @queenmalika4534 6 років тому +272

    Me: it's not haraam to say a guy or girl is beautiful.
    Speaker: but control yourself.
    Me: right forgot.

    • @caramelsmith1878
      @caramelsmith1878 5 років тому

      🤣

    • @malikmunir2367
      @malikmunir2367 5 років тому +19

      If u think a person is beautiful, then say it in ur heart with MashaAllah. Why do you need to say to a person that they r beautiful? To make them feel better sure but the reason they won't believe they r beautiful is bcz they have low self esteem and if it's a boy and u a girl or vice versa. U just adopted trouble.
      So say it in ur heart and Allah will hear u, Allah will provide for them. What ppl need more than ppl telling them they r beautiful... Is Allah.

    • @uareadorabowl3784
      @uareadorabowl3784 4 роки тому +3

      ​@@malikmunir2367 I never made a compliment to a man directly but I said it to their hair 😂 Saying kind words to each other is a good thing . I am not saying go tell them they are beautifull.. But I have low self esteem as well. And last day , my teacher told me my face looks so baby like . It made me feel better about my appeareance . Kind things like that are nice . But I know it is hard to compliment in a muslim country . Sorry for you .

    • @malikmunir2367
      @malikmunir2367 4 роки тому +2

      @@uareadorabowl3784 that's really cool, if it remains balanced then it's no problem. Problem is when it exceeds. We appreciate and share happiness and look out for each other. So sometimes our actions r enough to show other how much we care.

  • @hafsadurrani9087
    @hafsadurrani9087 6 років тому +7

    "Low self-esteem" now I got what love is actually

  • @NormalCleanCars
    @NormalCleanCars 5 років тому +54

    Allah has made us in pairs ... patience , Allah knows best to when you should meet this person and marry.

  • @Tafa168
    @Tafa168 8 років тому +77

    this is so awesome
    made me feel so calm

  • @chuckmoon4896
    @chuckmoon4896 10 років тому +322

    i wish allah would bless me, with real love...a beautifull girl inside and out

  • @laibajubbein6956
    @laibajubbein6956 6 років тому +10

    This video basically explained about what happened to me. A boy ruined my life, a boy that I thought I was supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I always thought it was going to be like that. And being only 16 I shouldnt have been in a relationship like that, the hurt and pain that i brought to my family. I didnt control myself and its true I have lost self control but I will get it back and i will be able to have a strong relationship with Allah.

    • @laibajubbein6956
      @laibajubbein6956 6 років тому +1

      Inshallah I will*

    • @i.8885
      @i.8885 6 років тому +1

      Hey, I'm the same here... I am 16 and I really loved a muslim guy in my class... We seemed so bonded and happy together. We made plans about our future together but six months later he broke up with me over a small thing he made look big... He completely ruined me. I couldn't stop crying. I still cry now while I'm writing... 3 months after our break up. He is in my class, he has blocked me on fb and hates me... He pretends that I don't exist. I don't know what I did so wrong so he hates me. He had a so kind soul. But still he hurt me so much. I don't understand. Now I'm trying to pretend he isn't in my class and go find someone that will love me and not abandon me like he did. Best luck to you I really know how you are feeling

    • @Khadijahplanet
      @Khadijahplanet 5 років тому +2

      couch potato oh,you shouldn't have been with him in the first place because of his religion but,i understand how it feels when you have a "crush" on someone but don't get used to them that quickly,trust me I learned the hard way. I was such a fool of a Muslim.I'm hoping I won't make the same mistake in sha Allah 🙏🏼

  • @AlimaSmiles
    @AlimaSmiles 10 років тому +10

    Love this! If adults explained like this then us muslim teenager may understand more. Allhamdullilah, sharing this with all my friends now lol

  • @STBUmairSaifi
    @STBUmairSaifi 2 роки тому +1

    This video helped me in my teenage years , Single Alhamdulillah I am 22 now ,thanks Noman Ali Khan bhai 💕💕.

  • @Canaldefarticles416
    @Canaldefarticles416 8 років тому +16

    MASHA'ALLAH, I NEEDED TO HEAR THESE BEAUTIFUL WORDS.

  • @sweetmelon3365
    @sweetmelon3365 3 роки тому +1

    Mashallah! He's saved so many of us teenagers

  • @TheBeerender
    @TheBeerender 5 років тому +10

    Alhamdulillah. I've been very good at controlling my feeling. Insha'Allah just want to get married soon. 😁

  • @kittenluv17
    @kittenluv17 4 роки тому +1

    my god i needed to hear this. jazakaAllahu khair. wish i heard this a few months ago, wou;d've saved me so much pain. alhamdulillah

  • @AzhadiAsyrafMohamad
    @AzhadiAsyrafMohamad 10 років тому +5

    Perfectly layed out for the contact.. crystal clear speech! Thank you for uploading! :D

  • @ahmedrafehabdullah9355
    @ahmedrafehabdullah9355 4 роки тому +1

    May Allah bless all our Muslim brothers and sisters and give Rahmat upon all of us. AMEEN.

  • @justforknowledge6550
    @justforknowledge6550 4 роки тому +5

    Literally i am disgusted by these so called relationship culture. Real men waits until marriage.

  • @nazneenshaikh3387
    @nazneenshaikh3387 4 роки тому

    Masha Allah ...proud to be born in ISLAM . Such a beautiful guidence..
    I just love my religion.

  • @yassirmohammed1597
    @yassirmohammed1597 10 років тому +3

    May allah forgive and guide the muslim ummah, as well as the whole of mankind. Ya allah bless us with your infinite mercy. AMEEN!!

  • @Ramshackle23
    @Ramshackle23 5 років тому +2

    He spoke my mind. Masha'Allah! ✨

  • @i.8885
    @i.8885 6 років тому +3

    Agnostic teenage girl here:
    I agree that if your feelings of someone change because they gained weight or changed their hair etc That's not love... But I disagree with his saying that if this happens you weren't in love. You were in love but you didn't love them. Being in love and loving someone is two different things. And everyone regardless of age can love someone. Teenagers can really love just like adults. A classmate of mine liked me so he asked me out. I didn't like his appearance but I was amazed by his character so I started liking him. I went out with him and I fell in love. As months passed by my feelings for him were gradually changing into something stronger. I didn't care about his fat belly because it was warm and it was HIS belly. I didn't care about any off his physical flaws because I loved his soul. The body is just the covering and I accepted it like it is. I was patient with his mistakes. Unfortunately he broke up with me after 6 months... I was torn into pieces. By his behavior I assume that all the affection, care and protection he provided was just because he was in love. Not because he loved me. But unlike him, I still love him deep inside. After all he did too me. Now he does care about me and has blocked me on Facebook. So yeah I can confidentially say that I loved him. I'm 16.

  • @sadiakhan3670
    @sadiakhan3670 5 років тому +1

    The way he talks nd explain these to us is really amazing.may Allah bless him nd his family

  • @madiha5401
    @madiha5401 4 роки тому +3

    Fall for the soul not for appearance ❤

  • @ayatootonashi5441
    @ayatootonashi5441 7 років тому

    I don't always like to listen to scholars....But Nouman Ali Khan gives practical, thought provoking lessons

  • @jacobbocaj9958
    @jacobbocaj9958 10 років тому +11

    People love small things like this more than they love their creator what has deluded mankind?

  • @Binte_Hassan
    @Binte_Hassan 4 місяці тому

    Jazak Allahu hu khair! 🩷
    May ALLAH SWT protect us from haram and bless us with the righteous spouse

  • @Faizshah770
    @Faizshah770 4 роки тому +5

    Allhamdulliah, i am 15 and still haven't talked to a girl openly ever in my life, except my sister ofc :)

    • @adilbadsha615
      @adilbadsha615 3 роки тому

      May Allah bless you akhi and pray for me cause I have hard desires for girls may Allah protect me from this fitnah

    • @peace_324
      @peace_324 2 роки тому

      @@adilbadsha615 May Allah SWT help you brother Adil Ameen Summa Ameen ya rabbul alameen

  • @sabihaaltaf6742
    @sabihaaltaf6742 5 років тому

    Ustadh you’re a natural mimic...a natural writer and a natural speaker MA....Allah has been very generous to you and you have given it back well. MA.

  • @wiseman93
    @wiseman93 10 років тому +26

    Subhan'Allah these days you can't watch a beneficial video on UA-cam without being subjected to 30 seconds of Lady Gaga. May Allah(swt) guide us all.

    • @5m4rt6uy4
      @5m4rt6uy4 10 років тому +1

      use adblock brother and your life will improve inch'allah

    • @adilbadsha615
      @adilbadsha615 3 роки тому

      30 seconds of Lady Gaga 😂😂😂

  • @lil-lilac-777
    @lil-lilac-777 6 років тому +1

    I loved how he talked. STRAIGHT TO DA POINT!!!

  • @Basicbiology.
    @Basicbiology. 6 років тому +5

    Thank you very much for this wonderful speech ....loved it 😊

  • @Ayenyint
    @Ayenyint 10 років тому +1

    Just cut it off. Its so true. Thank you for the strength and the truth. Control ourselves

  • @dikshya_kharka_chetry
    @dikshya_kharka_chetry 5 років тому +3

    I am not a Muslim by birth ...but I love my Allah

    • @sameerhafeez7029
      @sameerhafeez7029 Рік тому

      Sister, you'll be happy to know that everyone is a Muslim by birth ☺️

  • @AseemChishti
    @AseemChishti 4 роки тому +2

    🥺 Allah knows best ❤️ what we conceal.

  • @widaafshar1231
    @widaafshar1231 5 років тому +2

    Well said! Beautiful, this video helped me a lot. Thank you so much. May allah guide us all to the right path.

  • @blugublu
    @blugublu 10 років тому +56

    Yeah it's not really love, but what is called "passion".
    You basically feel attracted by the other one and that's it. In the movies they depict this feeling as if it was the only rule that matters in life, for the only reason that it is extremely strong.
    In Islam, passion is indeed depicted as being very strong, but we're supposed to be just with ourselves and the truth is that if humanity was to let passion drive its fate, it would be chaos in every society.
    No. Justice would be to admit that we have responsibilities towards our feelings and that WE must drive them.
    Another thing is that passion is a very shallow phenomenon as it is very ephemeral. Usually, relationships which are built upon passion fall apart very quickly in the time scale of a human life (a few months or a few years max).
    What is supposed to be love, in Islam, on the other side, is built upon a halal relationship, which makes it noble from the very beginning. Moreover, it is built on admitting our responsibilities and trying our best to fulfill it.
    That's why passion is like a thick fog which blinds the people who are stuck in it and which leaves them in a miserable state, as soon as a little wind blows around.
    Whereas true noble love is like a tree that is built on constant effort and which gets stronger and stronger as life goes on, if treated well, of course.

  • @angelcl4b242
    @angelcl4b242 2 роки тому

    the fact that the texting is absolutely so true and haram relationships are so common and normalised in today's generation is so shameful!May Allah (SWT) give hidayat to everyone including me!🥀

  • @mahmudchowdhury9211
    @mahmudchowdhury9211 10 років тому +16

    Background nasheed: Ahmed Bukhathir- Remember them (instrumental)

  • @99SeekerTruth
    @99SeekerTruth 10 років тому +1

    Very interesting very true, alhamdulillah for all these videos about Islam on UA-cam

  • @ZiraFaela
    @ZiraFaela 4 роки тому +3

    I was craving for relationship,affection and wanted to have a bf..then suddenly this video is in my recommendation.Astagfirullahaladzhim,forgive me ya Allah.Please protect my heart from useless feeling. 💕

    • @adilbadsha615
      @adilbadsha615 3 роки тому +1

      Sister even I saw a girl on Instagram and she looked so perfect with make up and pink hair it just made fall in love with her like i was crazy for her and day dream about her almost all the time and than I asked Allah for forgiveness because I simp her and than this video came to me

  • @Billie_gamingYT
    @Billie_gamingYT 4 роки тому

    He expressed this peacefully and in a proper manner .❣️
    This is so amazing i just love this speech ❤️
    Alhamdulilah ☺️.
    May allah blessed your path with peace and harmony 🙏

  • @emresalgam9743
    @emresalgam9743 4 роки тому +4

    I Remember watching This back in 2016. 9th grade it was an attraktive girl that has high intrest in me. I almost fell for my desires. 3 years later still not heartbroken or none emotinal baggage. Fresh Soul to expirience intemesy with. But the girl from middle school have made an innprint on me. Weird,Even tho we had barly toughed each other. Thinking of her now

  • @Hana-os1ln
    @Hana-os1ln 6 років тому +1

    I do love different people’s souls. I don’t care if they are ugly or beautiful, half burnt or completely healthy. There is a difference between loving souls and loving looks. And I myself am learning not only to love other souls but also to love my own 😊

  • @emmyhassani2113
    @emmyhassani2113 5 років тому +4

    الإنسان خُلق لجنة عرضها السموات والأرض وجيء به إلى الدنيا ليدفع ثمن الجنة، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليعبد الله، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليتحرك لمنهج الله، ما أودع الله فيه شهوة إلا وجعل لها قناة نظيفة تسري خلالها، ليس في الإسلام حرمان، ولكن في الإسلام تنظيم.

  • @laseenakp4780
    @laseenakp4780 4 роки тому

    I had a crush for my senior for more than a year. But after watching this i realize its a waste of time thinking about someone, stalking him who doesnt even knows me or thinks about me. I realize that love is something precious and it will happen to me as Allahs will. When the time comes you will just know and i think the time would be after the "teen years". The "love" thing we feel during these teen years are just infatuation born out of excitement or admiration.

  • @glittergirl8176
    @glittergirl8176 7 років тому +89

    The part where he said he thinks I'm cute 😅😅

    • @eminen6564
      @eminen6564 7 років тому +10

      glitter girl you know right?😅 me too...

    • @naheenisapoet69
      @naheenisapoet69 6 років тому +1

      glitter girl lol yeah

  • @shakiraarif6285
    @shakiraarif6285 6 років тому

    Nouman Ali Khan is one of my favourite speakers!

  • @smartenough3613
    @smartenough3613 6 років тому +5

    Every time I'm sad or mad or happy for no reason, my excuse is sorry guys it's a hormonal issue.

  • @uroojamushtaq6372
    @uroojamushtaq6372 4 роки тому +2

    Perfect...the only nd pure reltnship in earth is only nikkah ..

  • @xxconaxx360
    @xxconaxx360 8 років тому +167

    I'm in love with a Muslim girl but I'm not Muslim 😞

    • @alltimetop10s72
      @alltimetop10s72 8 років тому +126

      Look into Islam and it might change your heart

    • @duahussain2382
      @duahussain2382 8 років тому +53

      xxconaxx360 aw, hey. If you just try and figure out what she believes than maybe you'll want to believe as well.

    • @Abdulaziz2003
      @Abdulaziz2003 7 років тому +65

      I'm telling you, there's almost an infinitely increase in the chance of her loving you back is if you turn to Islam.

    • @user-fj3jy5vi3x
      @user-fj3jy5vi3x 7 років тому +28

      read about islam maybe you'll like it :D even if you don't it's benefic for your culture
      anyways it's not loosing time at least 😜

    • @isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7
      @isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7 7 років тому +40

      May Allah swt Guide you Ameen.

  • @Lifeofizyaan
    @Lifeofizyaan 6 років тому

    This was eye opening! May we all learn through this and grow through this!

  • @PutraSurya-78
    @PutraSurya-78 8 років тому +3

    thanks, it's made my feel better now :)

  • @MissFatz
    @MissFatz 2 місяці тому

    Crush or lust is not love. This video is very helpful. I appreciate that. I like when he said master self control.

  • @kashifshariff2569
    @kashifshariff2569 6 років тому +7

    I loved a girl she is Christian..
    She liked me too but I'm muslim..
    Later after one and half years she left me I cried like an idiot..
    Watched these kind of videos..
    And later she is committed vt someone else wen ever I see I get irritated nd hurted anyways I had breakup on 24/12/2017 but still it hurts to me..

  • @uareadorabowl3784
    @uareadorabowl3784 4 роки тому

    It was like a punch to my soul . I feel so broken for people born in a muslim society .

    • @uareadorabowl3784
      @uareadorabowl3784 4 роки тому

      @Asmita Khanom Look at muslims , the way they live . It says a lot on its own . Then look at the ayats . The hatefull ones that talk about killing animals/people , having slaves , having 4 wifes . This kind of a religion makes people ill from the inside .

  • @tired1019
    @tired1019 4 роки тому +9

    He s like a brother to me or were just freinds and giggling😂lol but seriously that's what builds up haram relationships😔😕

  • @urmeejebin1994
    @urmeejebin1994 10 років тому +1

    Very enlightening and thoughtful of you Nouman Ali Sir Alhamdulillah!

  • @despairgaming6669
    @despairgaming6669 6 років тому +7

    I did what this guy said and 3yrs later I am still nowhere.

  • @chanceusealeena7952
    @chanceusealeena7952 4 роки тому

    I m in my 21 but I still keep my harmones in control ,bcz Allah gives me courage ,thanks Allah prevent me from evil eye

  • @jannsa923
    @jannsa923 7 років тому +15

    i have a crush on a non-muslim. i am not going to pursue a relationship with him, but my heart feels hurt whenever he speaks to other girls.

    • @azmankaman7675
      @azmankaman7675 7 років тому +26

      easy to say human love wont last forever.. Allah love is everlasting..
      Allah already set 3 things for us:
      1.sustenance
      2.mate
      3.dead
      have more faith in Allah.. a good person is for a good person..
      sorry for my bad english .. haha

    • @jannsa923
      @jannsa923 7 років тому +1

      Thanks :)

    • @hamzahmushtaq877
      @hamzahmushtaq877 7 років тому +4

      Hey i know how you feel trust me it wont end well short run or long run just let it go there is no point in liking someone you will never be with i learned that the hard way i hope this helped

    • @lyralexxia5870
      @lyralexxia5870 6 років тому

      I feel the same, I'll probably just go for it because it's too painful to ignore

    • @Khadijahplanet
      @Khadijahplanet 5 років тому +3

      I know how it feels but are you over him now and remember this Allah is trying to protect you from falling in "love" :) so don't disappoint him

  • @sneha6788
    @sneha6788 4 роки тому +1

    I really needed this video.

  • @GoldenCenturyMotionPictures
    @GoldenCenturyMotionPictures 8 років тому +34

    What if you love another women like you love your Mother, no sexual attraction no lust , In Love with her beautiful SOUL ,

    • @femaleking493
      @femaleking493 8 років тому +4

      Then your truly in love and along the way you'll find yourself being physically attracted to her.

    • @bagh98
      @bagh98 8 років тому +17

      that's respect/admiration?

    • @isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7
      @isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7 7 років тому +11

      The love for mum is not same as love for wife!

    • @Penn.obsessed
      @Penn.obsessed 6 років тому +4

      That's completely normal. When I have crushes I don't feel any sexual attraction. I just am attracted to their look & amazing personality.

    • @mohammediquadri7648
      @mohammediquadri7648 4 роки тому

      @@isisarecia.911insidejob.ne7 love is same......one can love sis more than wife(but what some1 can do with wife,cant be done to sis))......

  • @mashakhalfan6297
    @mashakhalfan6297 6 років тому +1

    I like this Muslim speaker bec these lessons enter my heart

  • @jafarabdi4567
    @jafarabdi4567 6 років тому +3

    Those that disliked this video are regreting now i brt

  • @xmubinax
    @xmubinax 10 років тому

    May Allah SWT reward you for uploading this and Nouman Ali Khan. Ameen. JazakAllahu khairan.

  • @TheAverageGamer_CJ
    @TheAverageGamer_CJ 10 років тому +15

    It's an eye opener, btw girls can't always blame boys cos when a girl acts friendly towards a guy then in our head its different you may be only being nice but still, just wanted to say that because a lot of girls blame boys

    • @Penn.obsessed
      @Penn.obsessed 6 років тому +6

      Same thing with the girls.

    • @mohammediquadri7648
      @mohammediquadri7648 4 роки тому +1

      In islam, a women should talk rudely with non mahrams...i wanted to but men will take offence....b/w boys in my class used to think im arrogant because i would cold shoulder them...hahaha

    • @sallugamingd6497
      @sallugamingd6497 2 роки тому

      @shoyb CJ 😞

  • @sumi9546
    @sumi9546 10 років тому

    Thank god, this video is here Alhamdullilah! This should go out to all those bothers who are in haram relationships before Marriage

  • @saniakhan4068
    @saniakhan4068 4 роки тому +6

    All of questions he asked, my answer was yes cause I am in love with the soul but I am scared I will get too attached or it won't work out.....
    Is my love true??
    Cause I think true love never fails...

  • @FarhanLifts
    @FarhanLifts 4 роки тому

    May Allah(SWT) Bless Us All Brothers with a caring and loving wife having a beautiful heart who will prevent us from getting misguided❤️✨. Ameen

  • @WhiteDervish
    @WhiteDervish 10 років тому +4

    Commenting in this video I lose the potential of getting advantage from girl. (girls do not be stupid; do not give advantage; you are always awesomely awesome but it's not perfect time to exhibit your awesomeness when you are not ready for marriage wholly.)

    • @peace_324
      @peace_324 2 роки тому

      Thank you sooooo very much for this comment :)

  • @creativemindAyaan
    @creativemindAyaan 5 років тому +1

    This is soo true that's why as a girl i don't get in relationship yet cos i know i'm not truly in LOVE. I rather be with the right person and be in serious relationship, instead of messing around☺

  • @DivinityStrifer
    @DivinityStrifer 10 років тому +3

    Perfectly presented