I had a crush on this one girl for 5 months. After watching this video, she left my heart like water through a drain that had just been unplugged. Alhamdulillah.
😂😂 lol how u said tht..btw may allah bless u bt falling in love its nt haram...as he mentioned u have to control it on haram temptation...if she non muslim thn revert her with logic....coz if u dnt do tht allah dissapointed at u curse u...its said quran even slave beleiving women much bttr than tht..
It's not haram to fall in love. It's ok if you still have a crush on this girl. Just control the way you like her. For example, if you liked her, and she likes you back, and she asks you out, at that point you should decline. If you are friends try not to get too close to her.
I loved my spouce bcz he was religious, but no body wud believe me bcz he was handsome too. haha. ppl also felt my marriage will fall apart since it was a simple love marriage to them and love marriages tend to fall apart. years later they got what I was talking abt. He has given me the Islamic life others cudnt and we are still happily married Alhamdulellah.
n s MashAllah sister! Trust me you DO NOT need to prove your love to anyone else. If you and your husband are happy and confident no one else has a say in how you're doing.
humduallah good for you I don't know why people are so against people falling in love and getting married isn't that what we are supposed to do I Got It Bad it seems like nobody wants me to be happy when it comes to getting married I'm glad for you may Allah bless you always
n s you are so lucky .i m hindu my partner is muslim we both knw wat barriers gona cm in future bt still we believe in us n maintaining our relationship . Plz pray for me to have gud marraige life in future we both wants to marry .
@@mrezarifki No . There are so many people that doesn't love each other but have sex with each other . Lust is something completely different than love . A human can feel the lust against his hand . Do you get what I mean ? Love is totally different . So this man's speech is nonsense.
One of the best mentions in this lecture according to me : Do you believe you would still be in Love with the person u think you're in Love with if they are burned?
SoonPickMe _ thanks :) btw just a question. can u get a girlfriend but ur not allowed to be touchy? I've also heard that a person married to a Christian girl. is this even allowed?
XtremeFUZZ Sorry my brother... I am also new to this and I am a convert. and still on the learning process. But, what I can say is "shaytan will tempted our minds" may Allah forgive us and guide us
You know there's hormones things but sometimes it's love. And when you truly love someone even without dating him , without seeing him or even talk to him you just love him that's it. May Allah protect us from these kinds of relationships .
Yes I have been in love for 4 years and I was (13-17). I didn't care about any of that.... I was just in love blindly… I didn't care if he 'd love me back. We weren't even friends. I was pretty young but I realised how it feels to be in love, which greatly differs from any hormonal feelings… its real. I am grateful that I was in love because now I know what true love is and I will be looking for that feeling again when I am ready… now I know that anything aside from what I had been feeling would be a delusion and nonsense (hormonal).. and I have been crushing over 7 years before that so I know that it was the real deal. But anyways my entire highschool life was trash because of it LOL.
This year marks the 4th year since I've been in love with this man. He has a girlfriend and soon will become a father. Unfortunately, he left Islam. He chose the haram way. I pray for him every day. May Allah Guide him and all of us. Ameen. Please keep him in your prayers.
Well a Christian girl loved me for 1 n half year, i didn't knew she was in love with me until one day she confessed to me and told me what her feelings are/were for me. She said "I love you" i said "if you really love me then accept my religion and i will be yours". She said ill give a thought to it. She didn't messaged me for a week, after a week she messaged me with a voice message and i was crying when i heard it. What she was saying in her voice msg was Qalma Shahada, she accepted Islam for me. At that moment i didn't did anything except for thanking Allah and praying all night and thanking Allah. *Now we are together (engaged) she is my fiance* I am still thankful. For me thats True Love. My fiance is my pride.
Dragon Sin Of Wrath ,actually in my case I love a girl and she’s younger than me instead of instagram thing and meeting I directly told her that I love her and in future I will come to your parents for your hand in a halal way but her reply was “please If I don’t know you than how will I marry you before marriage the girl should know and bla bla bla she made fun of me” I felt bad at that moment like broken from inside and then I looked up and said Alhamdulliah well if she’s meant for me I will get her no matter what and Allah knows what’s best ...Ramadan mubarak brother
@@ouiameelazzouzi3491 well I know every girl needs to know a man before marriage but her way is haram because inorder to know her closely I have to be close with her or have to be her bf and dating and all and then it's haram ..
"And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." [Sûrah Rûm: 21]
this is so true--personal experience---things of the dunya are an illusion, they seem like the answer to our problems , making us feel good at first ---but actually these things become new problems , disappoint us....only love for the sake of God is pure and permanent
" If he was like 50lbs fatter , you would still be in love?" *Yes* "If he was a burn victim or something, if his hand burnt off , if his ear was missing, would you still be in love?" *Yes* " Or you find someone else to love , all of a sudden?" *No*
This isn't just for muslims, this is for everyone. just because you're not muslim doesn't mean you can do that. it's the same for EVERYONE muslim or not muslim.
Well I am not teenager but almost 27 now and never dating with men but never had marriage proposal too. I just loved a man 2 years Ago at my last year of master degree but my family refused him for several Reason. I never had feelings for another man except him. Anyways now i just wait and keep my heart from others. I am just focused on my job al hamdullilah i have a good job but it is all I have. I do not want to be heartbreaked especially at my age it is very hard cause i dont date with men but want to get marry
I have this huge crush on this guy in high school...n i think he has started to notice that too so he's trying to approach me n iam not ok with that i know his tries will work on me n i don't want that..i don't wana disappoint ALLLAH not my parents n not 3ven myself ..May Alllah protect my heart from these kinda stuff cuz its easy to say but hard to control n hide ur feelings..pray for me I'm in a difficult situation right now n i wanna handle it in the right way🤧😭☹
Honestly, I'm still in my hormonal stage and it's really hard for me not to fall for someone. I really hated it. I tried my best focusing in my studies but suddenly the feeling hits me. May Allah ease the hormonal stage we're going through.
This video basically explained about what happened to me. A boy ruined my life, a boy that I thought I was supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I always thought it was going to be like that. And being only 16 I shouldnt have been in a relationship like that, the hurt and pain that i brought to my family. I didnt control myself and its true I have lost self control but I will get it back and i will be able to have a strong relationship with Allah.
Hey, I'm the same here... I am 16 and I really loved a muslim guy in my class... We seemed so bonded and happy together. We made plans about our future together but six months later he broke up with me over a small thing he made look big... He completely ruined me. I couldn't stop crying. I still cry now while I'm writing... 3 months after our break up. He is in my class, he has blocked me on fb and hates me... He pretends that I don't exist. I don't know what I did so wrong so he hates me. He had a so kind soul. But still he hurt me so much. I don't understand. Now I'm trying to pretend he isn't in my class and go find someone that will love me and not abandon me like he did. Best luck to you I really know how you are feeling
couch potato oh,you shouldn't have been with him in the first place because of his religion but,i understand how it feels when you have a "crush" on someone but don't get used to them that quickly,trust me I learned the hard way. I was such a fool of a Muslim.I'm hoping I won't make the same mistake in sha Allah 🙏🏼
If u think a person is beautiful, then say it in ur heart with MashaAllah. Why do you need to say to a person that they r beautiful? To make them feel better sure but the reason they won't believe they r beautiful is bcz they have low self esteem and if it's a boy and u a girl or vice versa. U just adopted trouble. So say it in ur heart and Allah will hear u, Allah will provide for them. What ppl need more than ppl telling them they r beautiful... Is Allah.
@@malikmunir2367 I never made a compliment to a man directly but I said it to their hair 😂 Saying kind words to each other is a good thing . I am not saying go tell them they are beautifull.. But I have low self esteem as well. And last day , my teacher told me my face looks so baby like . It made me feel better about my appeareance . Kind things like that are nice . But I know it is hard to compliment in a muslim country . Sorry for you .
@@uareadorabowl3784 that's really cool, if it remains balanced then it's no problem. Problem is when it exceeds. We appreciate and share happiness and look out for each other. So sometimes our actions r enough to show other how much we care.
I dated a non muslim guy when I was 17. Astagfirullah... I regret it so much and i still feel like I haven’t gotten forgiven by Allah. May Allah protect us all from this...
He expressed this peacefully and in a proper manner .❣️ This is so amazing i just love this speech ❤️ Alhamdulilah ☺️. May allah blessed your path with peace and harmony 🙏
Agnostic teenage girl here: I agree that if your feelings of someone change because they gained weight or changed their hair etc That's not love... But I disagree with his saying that if this happens you weren't in love. You were in love but you didn't love them. Being in love and loving someone is two different things. And everyone regardless of age can love someone. Teenagers can really love just like adults. A classmate of mine liked me so he asked me out. I didn't like his appearance but I was amazed by his character so I started liking him. I went out with him and I fell in love. As months passed by my feelings for him were gradually changing into something stronger. I didn't care about his fat belly because it was warm and it was HIS belly. I didn't care about any off his physical flaws because I loved his soul. The body is just the covering and I accepted it like it is. I was patient with his mistakes. Unfortunately he broke up with me after 6 months... I was torn into pieces. By his behavior I assume that all the affection, care and protection he provided was just because he was in love. Not because he loved me. But unlike him, I still love him deep inside. After all he did too me. Now he does care about me and has blocked me on Facebook. So yeah I can confidentially say that I loved him. I'm 16.
Yeah it's not really love, but what is called "passion". You basically feel attracted by the other one and that's it. In the movies they depict this feeling as if it was the only rule that matters in life, for the only reason that it is extremely strong. In Islam, passion is indeed depicted as being very strong, but we're supposed to be just with ourselves and the truth is that if humanity was to let passion drive its fate, it would be chaos in every society. No. Justice would be to admit that we have responsibilities towards our feelings and that WE must drive them. Another thing is that passion is a very shallow phenomenon as it is very ephemeral. Usually, relationships which are built upon passion fall apart very quickly in the time scale of a human life (a few months or a few years max). What is supposed to be love, in Islam, on the other side, is built upon a halal relationship, which makes it noble from the very beginning. Moreover, it is built on admitting our responsibilities and trying our best to fulfill it. That's why passion is like a thick fog which blinds the people who are stuck in it and which leaves them in a miserable state, as soon as a little wind blows around. Whereas true noble love is like a tree that is built on constant effort and which gets stronger and stronger as life goes on, if treated well, of course.
الإنسان خُلق لجنة عرضها السموات والأرض وجيء به إلى الدنيا ليدفع ثمن الجنة، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليعبد الله، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليتحرك لمنهج الله، ما أودع الله فيه شهوة إلا وجعل لها قناة نظيفة تسري خلالها، ليس في الإسلام حرمان، ولكن في الإسلام تنظيم.
I Remember watching This back in 2016. 9th grade it was an attraktive girl that has high intrest in me. I almost fell for my desires. 3 years later still not heartbroken or none emotinal baggage. Fresh Soul to expirience intemesy with. But the girl from middle school have made an innprint on me. Weird,Even tho we had barly toughed each other. Thinking of her now
What a coincidence. Indeed Allah guides whom He wills. I can’t believe this is the first video popped up on my phone when I opened UA-cam. It was exactly what I needed hear this weekend.
I was craving for relationship,affection and wanted to have a bf..then suddenly this video is in my recommendation.Astagfirullahaladzhim,forgive me ya Allah.Please protect my heart from useless feeling. 💕
Sister even I saw a girl on Instagram and she looked so perfect with make up and pink hair it just made fall in love with her like i was crazy for her and day dream about her almost all the time and than I asked Allah for forgiveness because I simp her and than this video came to me
I loved a girl she is Christian.. She liked me too but I'm muslim.. Later after one and half years she left me I cried like an idiot.. Watched these kind of videos.. And later she is committed vt someone else wen ever I see I get irritated nd hurted anyways I had breakup on 24/12/2017 but still it hurts to me..
I do love different people’s souls. I don’t care if they are ugly or beautiful, half burnt or completely healthy. There is a difference between loving souls and loving looks. And I myself am learning not only to love other souls but also to love my own 😊
Ma sha allah 💖 Very nice Explanation! Many people are not aware of that thing that they should Control their emotions before his/her emotions get control on themselves, I Truly & Wholeheartedly believe that one should Have True Feelings For their Spouse not for Boyfriend/Girlfriend. Love Someone for the Sake of Allah, Leave Someone For the sake of Allah, In Sha Allah you'll get reward in the Hearafter. A boy Liked me & he wanted me to be His Girlfriend but I was Disheartened after such things from him because he was a good guy but Shaytan is Misleading him, I clearly told him I want to be one of his friends who would Remind him of Allah. May Allah guide all the muslim ummah who are not in the Right path, Amin
Damnnn !!! it was worth watching ! I think utube has suggested me something that i really wanted to see....may Allah(S.W.T) shower his blessings upon uh ....thanks a lot for such information😊
Might not be Muslim, but damn this man is a very powerful speaker!
Yeah he is a powerful speaker indeed. Check out Mufti Menk's videos on UA-cam too, he is amazing too!
Dude he is muslim
Hasnan Ahmad he is?
+Sinon x朝田 詩乃 yea
Hasnan Ahmad o didn't know
Thank God alhamdullilahh I was born in such a beautiful religion... called Islam. Without Islam I would have ruined my life. ALHAMDULLILAH.😊
Alhudulillah I agree. I am also really glad my parents do not allow me to interact with the oppossite sex
Alhamdulillah...the greatest gift from Allah is being a muslim❤❤❤
Alhamdulilah
Innit m8 same ye dangerous stuff there 💯
Thanks to our Allah
If your really " in love" with a girl, you'll have the patience and being with her in the halal way. Marriage. Not the haram way.
Well said! :)
+Noura Almesned that means im in love, im not just hormonal :)
+Noura Almesned So True
sometimes ur in love and ur hormonal
Seek help, devote yourself to Islam. Then you won't have time to think about her.
i feel proud i survived my hormonal teenage years
i still have yet to survive it
: (
pray 4 meeeeeeeeeeeeee
@@RenderingUser how old are you?
@@lizak7323 14 ...
Say Alhamdulillah ....
we have a lot of struggle still ...
Same
Seriously, how does Nouman Ali Khan manage to be that inspiring ? Allah sure gave him a great gift. Masha Allah !
Damn true
Butt I think this was mufti menk.
@@haqeeqatezindagi6753 this was Nouman Ali Khan, check the description :)
Masha Allah , May Allah ( Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala) bless you and me and all Muslim brothers and sisters and our families
Noman ali khan is really love ❤️❤️may Allah bless them
I had a crush on this one girl for 5 months.
After watching this video, she left my heart like water through a drain that had just been unplugged.
Alhamdulillah.
😂😂 lol how u said tht..btw may allah bless u bt falling in love its nt haram...as he mentioned u have to control it on haram temptation...if she non muslim thn revert her with logic....coz if u dnt do tht allah dissapointed at u curse u...its said quran even slave beleiving women much bttr than tht..
may Allah forgive us
It's not haram to fall in love. It's ok if you still have a crush on this girl. Just control the way you like her. For example, if you liked her, and she likes you back, and she asks you out, at that point you should decline. If you are friends try not to get too close to her.
You can be interested in her but just can't get close or go out💜
You can like someone and have a crush on that person but you can't go out with the person or get too close💙💜
I loved my spouce bcz he was religious, but no body wud believe me bcz he was handsome too. haha. ppl also felt my marriage will fall apart since it was a simple love marriage to them and love marriages tend to fall apart. years later they got what I was talking abt. He has given me the Islamic life others cudnt and we are still happily married Alhamdulellah.
n s MashAllah sister! Trust me you DO NOT need to prove your love to anyone else. If you and your husband are happy and confident no one else has a say in how you're doing.
+Falmata ameen. thnx
humduallah good for you I don't know why people are so against people falling in love and getting married isn't that what we are supposed to do I Got It Bad it seems like nobody wants me to be happy when it comes to getting married I'm glad for you may Allah bless you always
I married my true Love.
n s you are so lucky .i m hindu my partner is muslim we both knw wat barriers gona cm in future bt still we believe in us n maintaining our relationship . Plz pray for me to have gud marraige life in future we both wants to marry .
You just prevented me from commiting a sin. Thank you
LUST IS NOT LOVE
but lust always hide in love
@@mrezarifki No . There are so many people that doesn't love each other but have sex with each other . Lust is something completely different than love . A human can feel the lust against his hand . Do you get what I mean ? Love is totally different . So this man's speech is nonsense.
@@uareadorabowl3784 u don't make any sense lol
@@Osama-ei7tk so does this man lol
@@uareadorabowl3784
This is what he is saying
Lust is not love
This is what you saying
Lust is not love
Whats the difference
marriage is supposed to be a beautiful relationship :*
^^
@@umriyaafini gg
Yes
Yes in fact it is!
One who would truly love you is one who knows the true you
and God knows us better than we know ourselves
So true!
One of the best mentions in this lecture according to me :
Do you believe you would still be in Love with the person u think you're in Love with if they are burned?
MrJoyride619 yes I would cuz they still have the same 'personality'
XtremeFUZZ that's amazing! you're great despite the changed of looks. you would still love ur spouse... many respect from me my brother
SoonPickMe _ thanks :) btw just a question. can u get a girlfriend but ur not allowed to be touchy? I've also heard that a person married to a Christian girl. is this even allowed?
XtremeFUZZ Sorry my brother... I am also new to this and I am a convert.
and still on the learning process.
But, what I can say is "shaytan will tempted our minds" may Allah forgive us and guide us
XtremeFUZZ go through her parents first insyaAllah :)
Its sad that some people still haven’t controlled their temptations yet
In islam we have solution to all problems🙌
You know there's hormones things but sometimes it's love. And when you truly love someone even without dating him , without seeing him or even talk to him you just love him that's it. May Allah protect us from these kinds of relationships .
Yes I have been in love for 4 years and I was (13-17). I didn't care about any of that.... I was just in love blindly… I didn't care if he 'd love me back. We weren't even friends. I was pretty young but I realised how it feels to be in love, which greatly differs from any hormonal feelings… its real. I am grateful that I was in love because now I know what true love is and I will be looking for that feeling again when I am ready… now I know that anything aside from what I had been feeling would be a delusion and nonsense (hormonal).. and I have been crushing over 7 years before that so I know that it was the real deal. But anyways my entire highschool life was trash because of it LOL.
@@sundes2807 you have a clean heart, May Allha guides us all here and hereafter. Ameen
@@313Believer Ameen !!! 😊 Allah knows best!!
This year marks the 4th year since I've been in love with this man. He has a girlfriend and soon will become a father. Unfortunately, he left Islam. He chose the haram way. I pray for him every day. May Allah Guide him and all of us. Ameen. Please keep him in your prayers.
Vas Happenin :D may Allah guide him on the right path🙏🏾 may he also give you the best partner in here and in the hereafter🙏🏾
Well a Christian girl loved me for 1 n half year, i didn't knew she was in love with me until one day she confessed to me and told me what her feelings are/were for me. She said "I love you" i said "if you really love me then accept my religion and i will be yours". She said ill give a thought to it. She didn't messaged me for a week, after a week she messaged me with a voice message and i was crying when i heard it. What she was saying in her voice msg was Qalma Shahada, she accepted Islam for me. At that moment i didn't did anything except for thanking Allah and praying all night and thanking Allah. *Now we are together (engaged) she is my fiance*
I am still thankful.
For me thats True Love.
My fiance is my pride.
Wow you're so lucky and that's a true love
@@back_from_dead yeah, Alhamdulillah Suma Alhamdulillah. Thank you. Btw, Ramadan mubarek may forgive our sins. Ameen
Dragon Sin Of Wrath ,actually in my case I love a girl and she’s younger than me instead of instagram thing and meeting I directly told her that I love her and in future I will come to your parents for your hand in a halal way but her reply was “please If I don’t know you than how will I marry you before marriage the girl should know and bla bla bla she made fun of me” I felt bad at that moment like broken from inside and then I looked up and said Alhamdulliah well if she’s meant for me I will get her no matter what and Allah knows what’s best ...Ramadan mubarak brother
@@back_from_dead she's right
@@ouiameelazzouzi3491 well I know every girl needs to know a man before marriage but her way is haram because inorder to know her closely I have to be close with her or have to be her bf and dating and all and then it's haram ..
"And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." [Sûrah Rûm: 21]
***** This is one of my fav ayas.. Very reflective.
this is so true--personal experience---things of the dunya are an illusion, they seem like the answer to our problems , making us feel good at first ---but actually these things become new problems , disappoint us....only love for the sake of God is pure and permanent
absoulutely true
Thankyou for this meaningful video. This will be a great guidance to muslim teenagers all around the world including me . Thank you for this reminder.
painful truth .
baru nak tag . kau :P
this comment for me huh?
tp mmg sentap la -.- (ni serious) okayla aku x in love pun :P ... in friend hahahaha xP
haha . fi hifzillah sis . ;)
kena kuat sama sama ni . xD
Haha ye la.. tp ni dye da ade wasep . Naseb aku x bg dye numb aku yg wasep tu. Aku tgh thn je nk tkan nama dye ni T.T
" If he was like 50lbs fatter , you would still be in love?"
*Yes*
"If he was a burn victim or something, if his hand burnt off , if his ear was missing, would you still be in love?"
*Yes*
" Or you find someone else to love , all of a sudden?"
*No*
Adwi p :)
Well i love him no matter what
Not everyone is same as you or me
How true how true. JazakAllah khair for sharing.
this is so awesome
made me feel so calm
This is really a beautiful reminder. Thanks to Allah for making me want to listen to this. :) May Allah bless.
O allah grant me a beautiful and loving wife..Ameen
Wish for your spouse to be a blessing, not a test. :)
amen
🙂
Well , if your spouse is a test you can get divorced ? Why would you want to keep torturing yourself
Ameen
This isn't just for muslims, this is for everyone. just because you're not muslim doesn't mean you can do that. it's the same for EVERYONE muslim or not muslim.
Allah has made us in pairs ... patience , Allah knows best to when you should meet this person and marry.
Mashallah! He's saved so many of us teenagers
"Low self-esteem" now I got what love is actually
Masha Allah ...proud to be born in ISLAM . Such a beautiful guidence..
I just love my religion.
Well I am not teenager but almost 27 now and never dating with men but never had marriage proposal too. I just loved a man 2 years Ago at my last year of master degree but my family refused him for several Reason. I never had feelings for another man except him. Anyways now i just wait and keep my heart from others. I am just focused on my job al hamdullilah i have a good job but it is all I have. I do not want to be heartbreaked especially at my age it is very hard cause i dont date with men but want to get marry
MAY ALLAH MAKE IT EASY FOR YOU AMEEN 👍
You don't have to get married . This is not the only thing in life. Dream big.
Why did your family rejected him?
It's not good..
Unite with your soul mate. Who your heart wants.
Be patient and Allah will give you a lovely and caring man inshallah
He spoke my mind. Masha'Allah! ✨
Perfectly layed out for the contact.. crystal clear speech! Thank you for uploading! :D
my god i needed to hear this. jazakaAllahu khair. wish i heard this a few months ago, wou;d've saved me so much pain. alhamdulillah
Love this! If adults explained like this then us muslim teenager may understand more. Allhamdullilah, sharing this with all my friends now lol
The way he talks nd explain these to us is really amazing.may Allah bless him nd his family
i wish allah would bless me, with real love...a beautifull girl inside and out
Aawww you'll find someone inshallah :)
Insha allah....one day
Do Tahaujjad at night and Ask Allah swt. Make lots of Duaa.
Please type Allah in capital
Insha Allah
Ustadh you’re a natural mimic...a natural writer and a natural speaker MA....Allah has been very generous to you and you have given it back well. MA.
MASHA'ALLAH, I NEEDED TO HEAR THESE BEAUTIFUL WORDS.
I loved how he talked. STRAIGHT TO DA POINT!!!
When the topic is like this one🤣🤣lol I don't even need to read the name, I already know it's Nouman Ali khan🤣🤣😂May Allah bless him
Nouman Ali Khan is one of my favourite speakers!
I have this huge crush on this guy in high school...n i think he has started to notice that too so he's trying to approach me n iam not ok with that i know his tries will work on me n i don't want that..i don't wana disappoint ALLLAH not my parents n not 3ven myself ..May Alllah protect my heart from these kinda stuff cuz its easy to say but hard to control n hide ur feelings..pray for me I'm in a difficult situation right now n i wanna handle it in the right way🤧😭☹
crazzy daissy may Allah protect you sister 😌
Ameen
Same happened wd me also 😣😢
I know that feeling. However I have a new crush almost every week. I can't stop looking.😭
I was in the same situation as you but now I don't like him in sha Allah
This video helped me in my teenage years , Single Alhamdulillah I am 22 now ,thanks Noman Ali Khan bhai 💕💕.
Honestly, I'm still in my hormonal stage and it's really hard for me not to fall for someone. I really hated it. I tried my best focusing in my studies but suddenly the feeling hits me. May Allah ease the hormonal stage we're going through.
May Allah bless all our Muslim brothers and sisters and give Rahmat upon all of us. AMEEN.
May allah forgive and guide the muslim ummah, as well as the whole of mankind. Ya allah bless us with your infinite mercy. AMEEN!!
I don't always like to listen to scholars....But Nouman Ali Khan gives practical, thought provoking lessons
Thank you very much for this wonderful speech ....loved it 😊
Crush or lust is not love. This video is very helpful. I appreciate that. I like when he said master self control.
Background nasheed: Ahmed Bukhathir- Remember them (instrumental)
Very interesting very true, alhamdulillah for all these videos about Islam on UA-cam
This video basically explained about what happened to me. A boy ruined my life, a boy that I thought I was supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I always thought it was going to be like that. And being only 16 I shouldnt have been in a relationship like that, the hurt and pain that i brought to my family. I didnt control myself and its true I have lost self control but I will get it back and i will be able to have a strong relationship with Allah.
Inshallah I will*
Hey, I'm the same here... I am 16 and I really loved a muslim guy in my class... We seemed so bonded and happy together. We made plans about our future together but six months later he broke up with me over a small thing he made look big... He completely ruined me. I couldn't stop crying. I still cry now while I'm writing... 3 months after our break up. He is in my class, he has blocked me on fb and hates me... He pretends that I don't exist. I don't know what I did so wrong so he hates me. He had a so kind soul. But still he hurt me so much. I don't understand. Now I'm trying to pretend he isn't in my class and go find someone that will love me and not abandon me like he did. Best luck to you I really know how you are feeling
couch potato oh,you shouldn't have been with him in the first place because of his religion but,i understand how it feels when you have a "crush" on someone but don't get used to them that quickly,trust me I learned the hard way. I was such a fool of a Muslim.I'm hoping I won't make the same mistake in sha Allah 🙏🏼
I really needed this video.
Me: it's not haraam to say a guy or girl is beautiful.
Speaker: but control yourself.
Me: right forgot.
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If u think a person is beautiful, then say it in ur heart with MashaAllah. Why do you need to say to a person that they r beautiful? To make them feel better sure but the reason they won't believe they r beautiful is bcz they have low self esteem and if it's a boy and u a girl or vice versa. U just adopted trouble.
So say it in ur heart and Allah will hear u, Allah will provide for them. What ppl need more than ppl telling them they r beautiful... Is Allah.
@@malikmunir2367 I never made a compliment to a man directly but I said it to their hair 😂 Saying kind words to each other is a good thing . I am not saying go tell them they are beautifull.. But I have low self esteem as well. And last day , my teacher told me my face looks so baby like . It made me feel better about my appeareance . Kind things like that are nice . But I know it is hard to compliment in a muslim country . Sorry for you .
@@uareadorabowl3784 that's really cool, if it remains balanced then it's no problem. Problem is when it exceeds. We appreciate and share happiness and look out for each other. So sometimes our actions r enough to show other how much we care.
This was eye opening! May we all learn through this and grow through this!
Alhamdulillah. I've been very good at controlling my feeling. Insha'Allah just want to get married soon. 😁
🥺 Allah knows best ❤️ what we conceal.
I dated a non muslim guy when I was 17. Astagfirullah... I regret it so much and i still feel like I haven’t gotten forgiven by Allah. May Allah protect us all from this...
May Allah will Forgive you if you don't do it again Allah is merciful
Arkan Mukhlis ameen🤲🏼
Just repentance and repentance is feeling of remorses and don't go back may ALLAH forgive indeed he is the most Merciful
Mouhamed Djatta thank you brother. Yes may Allah swt keep us all away from this. Its the worst feeling
Alllah has guided you back,allhumdulillah
Just cut it off. Its so true. Thank you for the strength and the truth. Control ourselves
People love small things like this more than they love their creator what has deluded mankind?
Very enlightening and thoughtful of you Nouman Ali Sir Alhamdulillah!
MashAllah Brother Just Needed this 😊
Fall for the soul not for appearance ❤
W d you meant to say?
Looks are important
He expressed this peacefully and in a proper manner .❣️
This is so amazing i just love this speech ❤️
Alhamdulilah ☺️.
May allah blessed your path with peace and harmony 🙏
Agnostic teenage girl here:
I agree that if your feelings of someone change because they gained weight or changed their hair etc That's not love... But I disagree with his saying that if this happens you weren't in love. You were in love but you didn't love them. Being in love and loving someone is two different things. And everyone regardless of age can love someone. Teenagers can really love just like adults. A classmate of mine liked me so he asked me out. I didn't like his appearance but I was amazed by his character so I started liking him. I went out with him and I fell in love. As months passed by my feelings for him were gradually changing into something stronger. I didn't care about his fat belly because it was warm and it was HIS belly. I didn't care about any off his physical flaws because I loved his soul. The body is just the covering and I accepted it like it is. I was patient with his mistakes. Unfortunately he broke up with me after 6 months... I was torn into pieces. By his behavior I assume that all the affection, care and protection he provided was just because he was in love. Not because he loved me. But unlike him, I still love him deep inside. After all he did too me. Now he does care about me and has blocked me on Facebook. So yeah I can confidentially say that I loved him. I'm 16.
@Panel ...... Really nigga ?
Mashaalah brother Nouman Ali khan..May Allah bless you
Yeah it's not really love, but what is called "passion".
You basically feel attracted by the other one and that's it. In the movies they depict this feeling as if it was the only rule that matters in life, for the only reason that it is extremely strong.
In Islam, passion is indeed depicted as being very strong, but we're supposed to be just with ourselves and the truth is that if humanity was to let passion drive its fate, it would be chaos in every society.
No. Justice would be to admit that we have responsibilities towards our feelings and that WE must drive them.
Another thing is that passion is a very shallow phenomenon as it is very ephemeral. Usually, relationships which are built upon passion fall apart very quickly in the time scale of a human life (a few months or a few years max).
What is supposed to be love, in Islam, on the other side, is built upon a halal relationship, which makes it noble from the very beginning. Moreover, it is built on admitting our responsibilities and trying our best to fulfill it.
That's why passion is like a thick fog which blinds the people who are stuck in it and which leaves them in a miserable state, as soon as a little wind blows around.
Whereas true noble love is like a tree that is built on constant effort and which gets stronger and stronger as life goes on, if treated well, of course.
You have very well said.
MashALLAH
exorbitantly well written
Ma Sha Allah :^)
Jazak Allahu hu khair! 🩷
May ALLAH SWT protect us from haram and bless us with the righteous spouse
Literally i am disgusted by these so called relationship culture. Real men waits until marriage.
May Allah SWT reward you for uploading this and Nouman Ali Khan. Ameen. JazakAllahu khairan.
I am not a Muslim by birth ...but I love my Allah
Sister, you'll be happy to know that everyone is a Muslim by birth ☺️
Really helpful for a high school senior
thanks, it's made my feel better now :)
Alhamdullilah brother u have changed my life
Allhamdulliah, i am 15 and still haven't talked to a girl openly ever in my life, except my sister ofc :)
May Allah bless you akhi and pray for me cause I have hard desires for girls may Allah protect me from this fitnah
@@adilbadsha615 May Allah SWT help you brother Adil Ameen Summa Ameen ya rabbul alameen
Thank god, this video is here Alhamdullilah! This should go out to all those bothers who are in haram relationships before Marriage
Subhan'Allah these days you can't watch a beneficial video on UA-cam without being subjected to 30 seconds of Lady Gaga. May Allah(swt) guide us all.
use adblock brother and your life will improve inch'allah
30 seconds of Lady Gaga 😂😂😂
بارك الله بكم ونفع بعلمكم🍃
الإنسان خُلق لجنة عرضها السموات والأرض وجيء به إلى الدنيا ليدفع ثمن الجنة، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليعبد الله، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليتحرك لمنهج الله، ما أودع الله فيه شهوة إلا وجعل لها قناة نظيفة تسري خلالها، ليس في الإسلام حرمان، ولكن في الإسلام تنظيم.
Thank you elhamdulillah love Islam! So perfect.
I Remember watching This back in 2016. 9th grade it was an attraktive girl that has high intrest in me. I almost fell for my desires. 3 years later still not heartbroken or none emotinal baggage. Fresh Soul to expirience intemesy with. But the girl from middle school have made an innprint on me. Weird,Even tho we had barly toughed each other. Thinking of her now
Well said! Beautiful, this video helped me a lot. Thank you so much. May allah guide us all to the right path.
The part where he said he thinks I'm cute 😅😅
glitter girl you know right?😅 me too...
glitter girl lol yeah
What a coincidence. Indeed Allah guides whom He wills. I can’t believe this is the first video popped up on my phone when I opened UA-cam. It was exactly what I needed hear this weekend.
Noumannnnnn is awesome! TabarkAllah
Those that disliked this video are regreting now i brt
Perfect...the only nd pure reltnship in earth is only nikkah ..
I was craving for relationship,affection and wanted to have a bf..then suddenly this video is in my recommendation.Astagfirullahaladzhim,forgive me ya Allah.Please protect my heart from useless feeling. 💕
Sister even I saw a girl on Instagram and she looked so perfect with make up and pink hair it just made fall in love with her like i was crazy for her and day dream about her almost all the time and than I asked Allah for forgiveness because I simp her and than this video came to me
Masha Allah.. Ur words r too strong so real..
Perfectly presented
Allahamdullilahii,
Your words are light for some of sisters and brothers
May Allaha grant you Janna
I loved a girl she is Christian..
She liked me too but I'm muslim..
Later after one and half years she left me I cried like an idiot..
Watched these kind of videos..
And later she is committed vt someone else wen ever I see I get irritated nd hurted anyways I had breakup on 24/12/2017 but still it hurts to me..
lol the intro was cute. And it was so true. Low self esteem and Redemption through relationships
Every time I'm sad or mad or happy for no reason, my excuse is sorry guys it's a hormonal issue.
I do love different people’s souls. I don’t care if they are ugly or beautiful, half burnt or completely healthy. There is a difference between loving souls and loving looks. And I myself am learning not only to love other souls but also to love my own 😊
He s like a brother to me or were just freinds and giggling😂lol but seriously that's what builds up haram relationships😔😕
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Ma sha allah 💖 Very nice Explanation! Many people are not aware of that thing that they should Control their emotions before his/her emotions get control on themselves, I Truly & Wholeheartedly believe that one should Have True Feelings For their Spouse not for Boyfriend/Girlfriend. Love Someone for the Sake of Allah, Leave Someone For the sake of Allah, In Sha Allah you'll get reward in the Hearafter. A boy Liked me & he wanted me to be His Girlfriend but I was Disheartened after such things from him because he was a good guy but Shaytan is Misleading him, I clearly told him I want to be one of his friends who would Remind him of Allah. May Allah guide all the muslim ummah who are not in the Right path, Amin
I did what this guy said and 3yrs later I am still nowhere.
Damnnn !!! it was worth watching ! I think utube has suggested me something that i really wanted to see....may Allah(S.W.T) shower his blessings upon uh ....thanks a lot for such information😊