I had a huge crush on this guy when i was 14 and he was 22 but i didnt do anything abt it. I just prayed for the best and yesterday he got engaged to someone else i felt soo bad but i guess it is the best. I trust Allah's plan and i will get over him soon inshallah
remember while you are asking if she would be a good mother, ask yourself if you would be a good father. what is haram for a women is also haram for a men. for example I hate the fact men are living a sinful live, but want to marry a virgin women.
he was talking specifically about men picking women for their looks and not thinking if they would make goo wives or not, its less common for women to do that but you can generalize it you have the write to choose your partner, if a guy proposes to you and you think he'd make a bad husband/father, then you have the right to reject him, if you think he is making effort to change and you are willing to give him a chane, you are free to do that too. you have as much choice as he does
Im glad i found this channel,well,im still so young,13 and i have a crush on someone,she has burnt the most of her left cheek,i still like her,gotta wait like 10 more years with these feelings,i want to keep everything halal, if youtube exists in 10 more years,ill tell the situation of me and her
I am 18 years old and i have liked a girl for quite some time ( 3 years) and when i turned 18 I immediately asked her if she is ready to marry me she was shocked but asked me to ask her parents then i asked mine and they said that they will consider her but now they say that im too young ( i have ny own business and i earn good on my own) but i am scared that i will lose her and now i am praying to allah to help me in this matter. Need your prayers too.
Brother you don’t need your parents consent to get married to a girl. If you are ready and are capable of getting married then you should go for it. Take all the chances you get from Allah swt because if you don’t you will regret it for the rest of your life. make dua to Allah swt to make it easy for you and to help you with your goals.
@@amarsiljevic236 you don’t know our culture without my parents consent the girl’s parents will not agree even if i am capable but i am doing every effort i can to make it possible and allah will help me but my parents should be ready too and thanks for the advice may allah keeps blessing you too.
Assalamualaikum, I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan. May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
I have a family and I am Grateful for it no matter what happens cause Allah SWT is in My LIFE AND WOULD DO ANYTHING TO KEEP MY FAMILY AND RELIGION SAFE. Allah has given me family and I am thanking Allah in my heart and I love him and Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Peace Be Upon Him.
Funny when i was 14 (im now 15) i liked this girl and actually told her i liked her just so i don't have to keep those feelings with me for years or even months on end so after i did that i just moved on and continued tried my best to strengthen my relationship with Allah.
i agree what the sahikh said its really heart touching and responsible messege for muslims ... may allah bless all muslim brothers and sisters with long and happy life .. ameen
Assalamualaikum, I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan. May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
I am 23 now and I like a guy in my Uni and he also likes me but for the sake of Allah we trying to control our feelings and not getting into anything until it will be the time for our marriage In Sha Allah. I hope he will still like me, anyway Allah is the best planner The fact that Y I started liking him was cos of his deen, respecting nature towards his family, helpfull, caring and fears Allah. I put my whole trust on Allah and will wait until the time comes when we can involve our parents. Jazak Allah
@@PunStar-gx4uj We dont talk anymore. We stopped talking at all for the sake of Allah cos we felt that having feelings and then being in touch like everyday talk would be considered a sin. We are in a shared study watsapp group where only three of us is there him his brother n I where we post job and study related posts but we have no direct contact unless we need anything urgent that is also mostly is done between his brother n I cos his brother is younger than me and we are like brothers and sisters. But yes Alhamdullilah, he is still in my prayers I never gave up on him. I make dua for him in every salah to make him my naseeb and make best for eachother. No matter, how the situation looks like I have tawakkul in Allah, if Allah doesnt will i wont be able to make dua as well. So I could never give up on this dua and In Sha Allah I wont until Allah fulfills my wish. I love him for the sake of Allah. N I know Allah can do anything he is capable of everything so I dont have any doubt unless Allah is allowing me to make dua for him. In Sha Allah one day Ill post a beautifull story by editing this comment about me being finally his mehram. In Sha Allah
@@Islam_deen_Jannah Alhamdulilah you’re a good example for me and for all the muslims, I have a crush on someone at college since November from last year, I still see her and like her until now but the issue is she is one of the English teachers of the establishment Subhanallah. I feel like it is wrong has a god fearer but at the same time I struggle forgetting her and the scenario of your story is Masha’Allah I really hope it happens to me as well.
yea but remember, u are doing this for Allah. U can love after marriage but u should still control urself even when it's hard. Just be on Allah's side more oftenly and you'll change. it happened to me
Assalamualaikum, I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan. May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
You're right and thank you for this video their is a girl I really like and I cut to the chase I immediately told her about the idea of marriage she is fine with it and trust me I already did your advice in the video I talked to my parents literally countless of times but it is always the same answer and am really getting tired of this situation they always say this: You are a broke college student you don't pay you're own bills yet you don't work no job no resources how are you going to bare the expenses of a mahr and wedding? how is she going to live with you? You can't be a homemaker yet WHERE are you going to live? surely you won't live with her in your room that is literally 2 steps long and 4 steps wide Am trapped my brain is so over sexualized that I can't do anything else efficiently
Your parents have valid questions. You have to be financially stable with a stable job before marrying a woman otherwise you're gonna put her in some not so ideal situations and add hardships rather than ease to her life. Think before you jump the gun and be a responsible man.
Fun fact: The hormone shown at 5:29 is Triiodothyronine, also known as T3, which is a thyroid hormone. It affects almost every physiological process in the body, including growth and development, metabolism, body temperature, and heart rate. It doesn't make you think about cute girls, no. Took me one image search.
Pray for me please. I like a woman I met in my office, I just not be able to be married just yet, and by the way, I heard she will be get married to. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ease on us to get a halal way for a right partner and make us become a good partner too for them. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala grants us strength to control ourselves. I love you because of Allah dear my beloved brothers and sisters, we can In Sya Allah go through this! Aamiin.
I'm not in love with someone alhamdulillah right now, but I also want to keep my self away from these things not bcz of society neither I assume it haram but... Shayatan also distracts right? Sometimes it's actually bad for ourselves and hormonal reaction also exists right? 😂. So I just believe in Allah that what is made for me will be given to me .
The person i have crush on does have on me but he never except I don't know the reason why he never say but show sometimes it had been for soo long now i have loosed all my hopes not from our Allah but from that boy that if he says he don't feel he may not and i belive someday i will find someone whom Allah has send to me and he will love me like i have loved him♥️ InshaAllah i belive this♥️
I can't believe you know everything about me lol. But that question 6:00. I'm harmonial idk but I still love someone from heart. So hard to explain. And I think your right. I better stop watching Indian models lol
U know . the place where I go to learn Quran and Arabic there is a girl who has a crush on me i dont know why but I thought to myself what is so special in me 😂😂😂
Assalamualaikum, I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan. May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
Ahh if only i had grown up in a islamic country with this taught instead of the west , what a waste . I hope the pendulum is swinging back to a normal ...islam is the way.
There is no friendship between male and female. Qur'an has told this, and even science has told it (if you are more liberal you should believe in science right?). Also, woman who has male friends are a huge red flags as these kind of woman is constantly bombarded with male attention and when this type of woman will get married she will not be satisfied with only one male (his husband) giving her attention. If you have male friends, then cut them, if you don't, prepare yourself with a miserable life after marriage. May Allah guide you
I dont think loving the same gender is wrong, its the intercourse that is wrong. Al-Miqdam ibn Ma’dikarib reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When one of you loves his brother, let him know.” Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2392 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Suyuti Love her the same way you love your family, constantly avoid sin together and invite to make ibadah together, i believe that love means to want that person to be successful in every single way
@@damurichannel wait really? Even its just a simple caring and loving type of love. The way you love your family. I ve never been sexually attracted to my same gender friends, but care and love enough that i invite them to do good deeds and avoid sinning because i dont want them to hellfire
No, if you draw a imaginary character IE mickey mouse and others then yes its haram. But drawing humans is fine and same for animals as long as its not 1.promoting or encouraging haram 2.have naked people 3. Draw the whole body of a animal or human to the point where its so real you cant tell the difference between the real person or animal and the drawing (i may be wrong on the third one please research on the third one
bro.its our religion. Allah makes the rules like this for important reasons and for safety for us to lead to Heaven. They can love each other after marriage.
@@fatma-wr9jj that doesn't happened and in Islam we don't date or get girlfriends or boyfriends. We are supposed to marry and get a husband or wife so we can't really break up. But we can divorce. And don't put this sAd thing here bc we all are hoping good stuffs to happen to this world and to ppl.
I had a huge crush on this guy when i was 14 and he was 22 but i didnt do anything abt it. I just prayed for the best and yesterday he got engaged to someone else i felt soo bad but i guess it is the best. I trust Allah's plan and i will get over him soon inshallah
Don’t Worry Allah Has Appointed The Best Spouse For You In The Near Future. Just Trust His Plans And Make Yourself Successful. Self Love Comes First🙌
8 year age gap?
@@orangutex468 it was just a crush lol people can get attracted to someone despite the age gap
@@armlinksa9966 i just find it kind of weird
@@armlinksa9966 i am also 14 so maybe my opinion is biased but i cant imagine myself having a crush on a 22 year old woman
remember while you are asking if she would be a good mother, ask yourself if you would be a good father. what is haram for a women is also haram for a men. for example I hate the fact men are living a sinful live, but want to marry a virgin women.
he was talking specifically about men picking women for their looks and not thinking if they would make goo wives or not, its less common for women to do that but you can generalize it
you have the write to choose your partner, if a guy proposes to you and you think he'd make a bad husband/father, then you have the right to reject him, if you think he is making effort to change and you are willing to give him a chane, you are free to do that too. you have as much choice as he does
@@nouration9685 the video is perfectly fine. I made the comment knowing men are watching this. It is a well placed advice i made not a complain
@@nouharachoudi974 oh my bad, I misunderstood your comment, my intention was advice too. have a good day.
@@nouration9685 you also made a good point. It's logic but some people need to hear it
Yes absolutely agree
'If he ain't your brother, he ain't your brother!'
Subhanallah. I nearly made this mistake today. This video I'll take as a sign from the All-knowing.❤
Damn, this video came to me when I needed it the MOST
Im glad i found this channel,well,im still so young,13 and i have a crush on someone,she has burnt the most of her left cheek,i still like her,gotta wait like 10 more years with these feelings,i want to keep everything halal, if youtube exists in 10 more years,ill tell the situation of me and her
see you in ten years
@@erem20 Idk man its tough out here
@@erem20 I'm not that old either i am 14 I was just joking
Your lesbian...
@@biology3821 oh no I though the person was a girl but looks like a am wrong 😂
Jazakallah may Allah swt help us with our future and our lives
I am 18 years old and i have liked a girl for quite some time ( 3 years) and when i turned 18 I immediately asked her if she is ready to marry me she was shocked but asked me to ask her parents then i asked mine and they said that they will consider her but now they say that im too young ( i have ny own business and i earn good on my own) but i am scared that i will lose her and now i am praying to allah to help me in this matter. Need your prayers too.
Brother you don’t need your parents consent to get married to a girl. If you are ready and are capable of getting married then you should go for it. Take all the chances you get from Allah swt because if you don’t you will regret it for the rest of your life. make dua to Allah swt to make it easy for you and to help you with your goals.
@@amarsiljevic236 you don’t know our culture without my parents consent the girl’s parents will not agree even if i am capable but i am doing every effort i can to make it possible and allah will help me but my parents should be ready too and thanks for the advice may allah keeps blessing you too.
@zaimakram6808 what happened bro?
Thank you brother I am the age of 16 and this was very helpful. And your videos are so fun to watch and very informative.
Same here bro, we're in the same boat although now you'd be an year older
May Allah bless us all! Ameen
Assalamualaikum,
I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan.
May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
I have a family and I am Grateful for it no matter what happens cause Allah SWT is in My LIFE AND WOULD DO ANYTHING TO KEEP MY FAMILY AND RELIGION SAFE. Allah has given me family and I am thanking Allah in my heart and I love him and Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Peace Be Upon Him.
Masha Allah ❤️
Funny when i was 14 (im now 15) i liked this girl and actually told her i liked her just so i don't have to keep those feelings with me for years or even months on end so after i did that i just moved on and continued tried my best to strengthen my relationship with Allah.
i agree what the sahikh said its really heart touching and responsible messege for muslims ... may allah bless all muslim brothers and sisters with long and happy life .. ameen
Assalamualaikum,
I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan.
May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
This video came to me when I needed the most.
I am 23 now and I like a guy in my Uni and he also likes me but for the sake of Allah we trying to control our feelings and not getting into anything until it will be the time for our marriage In Sha Allah. I hope he will still like me, anyway Allah is the best planner
The fact that Y I started liking him was cos of his deen, respecting nature towards his family, helpfull, caring and fears Allah.
I put my whole trust on Allah and will wait until the time comes when we can involve our parents.
Jazak Allah
Any update?
@@PunStar-gx4uj We dont talk anymore. We stopped talking at all for the sake of Allah cos we felt that having feelings and then being in touch like everyday talk would be considered a sin. We are in a shared study watsapp group where only three of us is there him his brother n I where we post job and study related posts but we have no direct contact unless we need anything urgent that is also mostly is done between his brother n I cos his brother is younger than me and we are like brothers and sisters. But yes Alhamdullilah, he is still in my prayers I never gave up on him. I make dua for him in every salah to make him my naseeb and make best for eachother. No matter, how the situation looks like I have tawakkul in Allah, if Allah doesnt will i wont be able to make dua as well. So I could never give up on this dua and In Sha Allah I wont until Allah fulfills my wish. I love him for the sake of Allah. N I know Allah can do anything he is capable of everything so I dont have any doubt unless Allah is allowing me to make dua for him. In Sha Allah one day Ill post a beautifull story by editing this comment about me being finally his mehram. In Sha Allah
@@Islam_deen_Jannah insha allah, may allah help you
@@Islam_deen_Jannah Alhamdulilah you’re a good example for me and for all the muslims, I have a crush on someone at college since November from last year, I still see her and like her until now but the issue is she is one of the English teachers of the establishment Subhanallah. I feel like it is wrong has a god fearer but at the same time I struggle forgetting her and the scenario of your story is Masha’Allah I really hope it happens to me as well.
@@issaballah5905 In Sha Allah brother
Assalamualaikum WBT. As a brother in his teens, I can agree.
"you're not inlove, youre just hormonal"
May Allah bless every one ameen💝💝
Thank you for this I really really needed it, you are right. I should stop it here and right now..
Stay Blessed 😊🥰
❤️
society is always trying to push haram love as the ideal :/
Facts
Oh love its so sad you can't control it
yea but remember, u are doing this for Allah. U can love after marriage but u should still control urself even when it's hard. Just be on Allah's side more oftenly and you'll change. it happened to me
@@ibyjms love after marriage can lead to a shit marriage
@@user-Rayyan123 no
😉😉 May Allah SWT guide us forgive us and lead us to the straight path 🤲🤲🤲
Ma sha'allah baraka Allah.
Jazakallahu khairan
🌹😊
thank you so much for such clarity
May Allah strengthen our hearts 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Rabbi Inni Limaa Anjalta Ilai Min Khaireen Fakeer
My Rab M in Need whatever Good You send Upon Me
Assalamualaikum,
I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan.
May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
I am so happy that I have self restraint (im 14)
You are so young 😅
JazakAllahu khair.
You're right and thank you for this video
their is a girl I really like and I cut to the chase I immediately told her about the idea of marriage she is fine with it and trust me I already did your advice in the video I talked to my parents literally countless of times but it is always the same answer and am really getting tired of this situation they always say this:
You are a broke college student
you don't pay you're own bills yet
you don't work
no job
no resources
how are you going to bare the expenses of a mahr and wedding?
how is she going to live with you? You can't be a homemaker yet
WHERE are you going to live? surely you won't live with her in your room that is literally 2 steps long and 4 steps wide
Am trapped
my brain is so over sexualized that I can't do anything else efficiently
Us Bro Us
Your parents have valid questions. You have to be financially stable with a stable job before marrying a woman otherwise you're gonna put her in some not so ideal situations and add hardships rather than ease to her life. Think before you jump the gun and be a responsible man.
The prophet Muhammad saw said fast if you can't marry.fasting teaches you self control so fast brother and pray to Allah
Fun fact: The hormone shown at 5:29 is Triiodothyronine, also known as T3, which is a thyroid hormone. It affects almost every physiological process in the body, including growth and development, metabolism, body temperature, and heart rate. It doesn't make you think about cute girls, no. Took me one image search.
That little HEHE got me laughing hard
😂😂😂😂
Pray for me please. I like a woman I met in my office, I just not be able to be married just yet, and by the way, I heard she will be get married to. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ease on us to get a halal way for a right partner and make us become a good partner too for them. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala grants us strength to control ourselves. I love you because of Allah dear my beloved brothers and sisters, we can In Sya Allah go through this! Aamiin.
love is just a breeding chemical, real marriages are built on respect and compassion, not love.
Brother , Thank you for such a good video.
I also have the same feeling as many people. I'm not doing any haram and waiting for the halal may God help me amen.
I'm not in love with someone alhamdulillah right now, but I also want to keep my self away from these things not bcz of society neither I assume it haram but... Shayatan also distracts right? Sometimes it's actually bad for ourselves and hormonal reaction also exists right? 😂. So I just believe in Allah that what is made for me will be given to me .
The person i have crush on does have on me but he never except I don't know the reason why he never say but show sometimes it had been for soo long now i have loosed all my hopes not from our Allah but from that boy that if he says he don't feel he may not and i belive someday i will find someone whom Allah has send to me and he will love me like i have loved him♥️ InshaAllah i belive this♥️
You're not alone 💆💜
I can't believe you know everything about me lol. But that question 6:00. I'm harmonial idk but I still love someone from heart. So hard to explain. And I think your right. I better stop watching Indian models lol
I LIKE THIS PERSON
I still don't love nobody but just for the general knowledge 😂
We are same, bro 🥰
beautiful!
how he can be so funny 😂👏🏼
I really like him.
U know . the place where I go to learn Quran and Arabic there is a girl who has a crush on me i dont know why but I thought to myself what is so special in me 😂😂😂
🤭🤭🤭🤣
Any updates ?
7:14 people are raising hands literally 😂😂
May Allah bless you. 🤲
Ameen
Assalamualaikum,
I am a new Islamic UA-camr and I am 14 years old. I work really hard to share the message of Islam and make videos by researching and speaking by myself. Please support me so I can achieve my mission of sharing dawah with as many people as I can. Jazakumullahu Khairan.
May Allah Bless You.... Ameen.
For some people commenting please change your profile pictures it's inappropriate
dont even bother theyre just trolling
Those are bots buddy they are everywhere
In my country we have this saying "4 din ka pyar"
Hahaha
😂
4 din ki chandni gir andheri rat 😹😹😹
@@mirmohammad753 lol
@@mirmohammad753 You from pak bro?
@@ahsisjdvdve2022 no bro
I just came for the thumbnail
Bruh 😂😂😂
😂😂 I love it, very true reality but u explain it beautifully
Ahh if only i had grown up in a islamic country with this taught instead of the west , what a waste . I hope the pendulum is swinging back to a normal ...islam is the way.
@2:00 😂😂👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
😂
Ameen.
May Allah also help me in making a halal relation with my crush in the future btw i'm 18
Yeah inshaallah!!
From where i can get full video?
I want too
I don't have a sister
What do u mean?
Is he saying we can't make friends with or talk to the opposite sex even if there is no sexual attraction?
There is no friendship between male and female. Qur'an has told this, and even science has told it (if you are more liberal you should believe in science right?).
Also, woman who has male friends are a huge red flags as these kind of woman is constantly bombarded with male attention and when this type of woman will get married she will not be satisfied with only one male (his husband) giving her attention. If you have male friends, then cut them, if you don't, prepare yourself with a miserable life after marriage. May Allah guide you
You can, but you should keep a respectful distance.
Astagafillula ya guide us who are not yet married
I am a girl and i have a crush on a girl I know it is a sin but it is love
try to have more friends.extend the circle of your relations.you will be safe.work for your self esteem
I dont think loving the same gender is wrong, its the intercourse that is wrong.
Al-Miqdam ibn Ma’dikarib reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When one of you loves his brother, let him know.”
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2392
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Suyuti
Love her the same way you love your family, constantly avoid sin together and invite to make ibadah together, i believe that love means to want that person to be successful in every single way
Love who goes against Allah's will is pure sin. Love is love when it is permissible. Cut this friend off so your "filthy love" will go away
@@damurichannel wait really? Even its just a simple caring and loving type of love. The way you love your family.
I ve never been sexually attracted to my same gender friends, but care and love enough that i invite them to do good deeds and avoid sinning because i dont want them to hellfire
@@naufalnoorizan1763 that's OK, but the sister above is talking about other type of love, you know, lesbian thing
Too much echo
Thank you bro I'm still 15 but this video tho
Me 16 👀
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Lol
I know that Restraunt in seattle 💀
Hhhhhhhhh running around the tree
💕💕
Stop watching Indian movies first of all 🤣
Just have a plate of chawal before making a big decion
I fail in love with a sister because of her piety
Any updates, bro ?
U
Is ist not forbidden to draw animal and human?
No, if you draw a imaginary character IE mickey mouse and others then yes its haram. But drawing humans is fine and same for animals as long as its not
1.promoting or encouraging haram
2.have naked people
3. Draw the whole body of a animal or human to the point where its so real you cant tell the difference between the real person or animal and the drawing (i may be wrong on the third one please research on the third one
@@picklehayati2232 where is your proof?
@@picklehayati2232 proof it!?
These are not actual drawings these are animated
@@horizons2000 👍🏼
1：43
You make marriage life is complicated, in islam. Why don't they just live , loving each other..??
എന്ത് 😐
bro.its our religion. Allah makes the rules like this for important reasons and for safety for us to lead to Heaven. They can love each other after marriage.
Yeah then be heart broken and cry about it after your bReAk uP 🙃❤️
@@fatma-wr9jj that doesn't happened and in Islam we don't date or get girlfriends or boyfriends. We are supposed to marry and get a husband or wife so we can't really break up. But we can divorce. And don't put this sAd thing here bc we all are hoping good stuffs to happen to this world and to ppl.
@@alinafatima2957 what do u mean
Plss anyone give me a imam nouman Ali Khan email id ...