So basically men want their relationships to be a challenge because they’re bored with their own lives lol... Mature men get that fulfillment by overcoming challenges related to accomplishing their goals. In that case a warm woman will be a welcome break from the challenges they are constantly fighting. Don’t play these games it’s dumb and will only catch you an emotionally unavailable man. Not to mention, women are like this too, not just men. If both men and women focus on building self respect and finding their purpose, than naturally they will be “hard to get”
Perhaps he could have clarified with kindness, and respect you are living your own life, and allowing him to seek you out. You are allowing him to be active in his masculine planning,& pursuing you...men do love women that have own lives and have own interests are relaxed about themselves and will be good with him around or not. I get what he's saying, men grow in discomfort that's why they love sports. The rush of the game brings out the juice of. Little challenge is fun for them.
Exactly, how can I play these games if it not in my nature? I am a loving, attentive, caring person. I don't want to play cat and mouse. I have a busy, happy, fulfilling life that I would like to share with someone mature. I don't want to play these games...Will I be single forever?🤪🤔🤭🤣
I am done with men. I have dated men who have more problems. They're all projects. And I will not settle. I enjoy listening to you. I wish you the best Alex.
Sheri Peterson I'm with you on this 1 I'm much happier on my own there no straight forward for them it's just mind games and lack of respect I'm done this time
Dont worry someone is waiting for your love thats mystical and will never leave you believe and it shall happen . I AM A buddhist so just be positive. Keep taking Alex advice. Hes a good coach . Cheers my friend ❤👍🏼🙏
@@pinaopina If people do not appreciate being loved , They can never appreciate someones else loving them . Leave. Give them another chance & then if needed just detach yourself from getting hurt again and again . Cheers!!!😉 Wishing you the best loving year ahead foru 2021❤🤗
This is in the context of a man that maybe isn’t appreciating a woman or taking her for granted . Shower a man with too much attention and adoration and you just lowered yourself down. Be smart. Be busy. Like him and appreciate him , but don’t put him on a pedestal.
When a man is not eligible for you, he loves you more. He wants to get you, earnest desire, But once he gets you at near or distance, he is dangerous one
And women, what type of relationship YOU want matters too. Don’t change yourself for a man. He’s talking about men who like the ups and downs and the coldness and the chase, yet says he himself is rather chill. So if you want a chill guy, let go of the guy who doesn’t chase you or is hot and cold.
I believe this works if we do a mix of both distance and interest. We have to have our own lives and at ration out accessibility to us. And after a while of them trying, them shower them with attention and the pull back some to get them coming back for more. The ups and downs like he said. If it’s too much distancing, those that are secure and healthy self esteem will eventually remember who they are and will walk away. If we show too much love, they won’t value it (sad I know) but if we mix it up and be distant to a certain extent, we look mysterious and like we value ourselves. And will give them the impression that they need to inspire us to continue to give them attention. Why? Because we have needs too and if he is distancing from us then we will distance ourselves eventually from lack of inspiration
It's a dance rather than cat and mouse. The feminist women has been taught to be assertive and disagreeable. But what men respond to is respect, distance and agreeability. In short: come back to your feminity and let him work to earn your attention and affection before you give it. Enjoy the dance but let him lead it almost all of the time.
Hmmm, I'm not sure if a man will go back to pursuing, chasing and attraction once they got what they wanted. I've been in a relationship for 9 months and although he won't breakup with me, he doesn't show much interest anymore. So, I'm considering myself single and doing my own thing now. Distancing is easy when other men are more interested in me. Screw it.
Yes yes yes you are exactly right, I have been married to a man that is just as you describe, very emotional ups and downs, I on the other hand am the total opposite, very quiet and a bit bothered by loud out spoken people, but it works in my case because he will always find someone else in the world to talk and complain to instead of me, I love the fire in his eyes and his passion for me never dies, I feel blessed to have been married at 18 yrs old and still going strong, keep up the wonderful advice we are so lucky to have you in our lives today, so ladies listen up he's right about your life with men!
Merci beaucoup Alex! Your videos have been a game-changer for me. I’m 34 and have been making mistakes for a long long time. I’ve always struggled in relationships despite having self-confidence... I had no idea I was putting them on a pedestal and chasing them, I thought I was just being loving 🤦♀️ I changed my behaviour to take distance and put my own needs first about 5 days ago and already the guy who I was casually dating but wouldn’t commit has changed his behaviour. Communicating first every time, continuing to contact me if I don’t reply quickly enough, being kind attentive and respectful, and best of all seeking reassurance that I’m still interested in him 😂 such a simple change in my attitude for such powerful results! Hopefully he will step up and commit, but if not, I believe I can now get an amazing guy to commit to me 💕
Watch out fir his behaviour if you get back together. Will he keep the level of engagement or will it drop off again (even if after 2 months)? That's the clue, that will make you understand which case it is.
Like Tony said. Men need to do better. I keep asking the universe to show me good men. I am open to receiving. But truth js ...men have NOT had to grow up in the past .....#grownboyuniversity-as we put up with so much as a collective. As the divine feminine keeps rising and knowing her worth-the men will rise to meet us. The feminine is the creator. We make people. 💫❤️. Look at Tony. He is helping all of us 🙏🏻 Big Love ❤️ Ladies
so eventually there is no real honest relationhip, games ,turning arround , im wondering why we go through relationship infirst place when we cant open up about how we feel, and opening up and feeling secure is the first thing we want when we have a relationship, cest vraiment pradoxal
It is completely crazy that we have to play these games. If you care, tell him, dont be overpowering but tell him. If u wanna text 1st text first. You are your own person. You will feel yourself if your wasting your time. The right man will not play games. I've learnt this painful lesson recently but believe me, I e grown from it and I'm happy and confident in myself now, finally
Give a man a lot of space live your life to the fullest ❤️🙏 be happy with your friends and family we give men too much attention that's why they make styles on us Sometime ago my boyfriend was stand offish so l decided to date someone else which he couldn't take and the next year ❤️ we got engaged and was married later on be patient with yourself ladies .
Got a story for you...friend of mine chased and chased one female simply because she was cold and wouldn't respond to his texts. He said it was like he had to conquer her. Three years later guess what...she wasn't playing games, he described her as insensitive and not affectionate. Surprise...all this garbage sucks. I just love to love 💕 feels better.
I went no contact on 7/9. We’ve been together on and off for 4 years. 9/15 he messaged “hi”, I didn’t respond 9/19 he text - “So what? we spent four years together and we never talk to each other ever again? Not cool. All I wanted to do was check in with you and see how you were doing. Anyway, I hope you are well.” What is the point of this if he said he was tired of me the last time we spoke?
Just Chat good girl! 👏👏 any man who says he is tired of you should get the “no contact” treatment indefinitely. If he really regrets it and misses you and can’t live without you he will do more than send lazy texts. Keep it up, don’t cave, don’t reply, give him exactly what he asked for, space. Live your life in the meantime and meet new people. Consider those 4 years not time wasted but rather your Ph.D. in What you will never put up with again in a relationship. Good luck and stay strong girl! 👏🙏🌈
He is tired of you. He was only bored and wanted to check if you still had feelings for him, to boost his ego. Let him go away. It's not worthy, do not answer him again, unless you are in love with some other guy and totally indiferent to him. Regards.
It works. Did it on two guys let them have the last words. A week goes by nothing, week 2 comes and they're begging me to let them come back and that they would change and that it wouldn't be different. No thanks 🤷🏽♀️ should have acted right the first dam time.
What about what does the woman want??? Why are we taught that WE have to adjust to MEN and what THEY want. Nahhhhhh. If he loves “the challenge” and this rollercoaster, LEAVE HIM. It’s called being UNSTABLE and little boy mentality and desires.
It's because most men prefer to sleep around while most women want to settle into a relationship. It sucks, but that's just how it is, it's a man's primal nature to want to chase. You don't have to adjust if you don't mind staying single. Ironically, these days I prefer to stay single and as a result, some men are chasing after me because I want nothing to do with their stupid little games. Although I have to admit, I've been toying with one player and it's kind of fun. It's like well earned revenge.
Alex, I DON'T like the "sensational" and never did! He tricked me. How do we find the men who love the stable I bring sensational. I am romantic, I surprise, I have my own life. I dont want to work this hard for bare minimum. I stopped chasing and all I got was my weird ex reaching out for no reason. Seriously Alex how do we identify stable men
That's easy does he checked up on your on the usual does he has patients does he reply quickly to your call are messages if yes that's a nice indication of a stable man
Easy (in theory): When you meet him observe him. Take notes on how he behaves in the first two weeks. (Does he do what he says, is he calm and stable, does he plan a bit in advance and not change his mind, is he a gentleman, is he confused sometimes, dies he know what he wants, does he respect women, is he generous, does he push to be intimate with you). All of this and more. But at the same time, be relaxed and enjoy the dates. All i am saying is: don't fall into feelings too fast, keep your eyes open. You don't know that man. He needs to prove himself to you, and then keep proving himself for months and months (being consistent). Because i am convinced that if something will be an issue in the future, you will see a minor red flag even in the first two weeks of interaction. If you're willing to see it for what it is. Step away from anyone who turns out to be too complicated, problematic, or not knowing precisely what he wants, in all fields, in a relaxed and natural way.
I show love & emotion to see what he needs & want. This is my technique. I found some gone, some was assured of taking advantage. I knew that they are none of them eligible for me. These are not my stuff
Because coldness and distance is a normal response to disrespect and neglect. It means you love yourself and value yourself which is attractive for not tolerating abuse or time wasters.
I enjoy the attention when a man chases.I think it feels good.I say enjoythem chasing you but once you are.married don't forget personal growth and appreciating your moments apart and moments together no games but each need reflective alone time
Hi Alex, are you saying that men in general are not intellectually and/or emotionally capable of love? Because from your videos it sounds like there are only two motivators, chase and control. How are these in any way related to love? And in this case, what is the value that a man can bring into a woman's life?
As a man i must say just as how he said about men i see women the same dam i hate up and down mind games in my relationship any woman who ghost on me are try to make me jealous i usual just end the relationship /
It’s means only he or she has so much choices wanting to search who the best. select and collect the best . cold means they are not unto you instead to say it directly you’re not my type.
This is long game strategy, don't expect immediate results with men. They want us to ignore them back even though are such sweethearts ! Best to use that loving energy to self, family, old parents, pets, neighbors, work colleagues when they're cold-ignorant days from guy.
Yes I always hate them some get attracted to pain distance and my bad moods im so cold hearted I know...but they got me...they leave after talking for months..they come to explore me
Alex I don't know what men really want, I was giving him all the attention but he was giving me attitude, I stopped after watching your videos and now he's giving me back all the attention and now I'm even ignoring
Alex, I don't engage in that kind of behavior, so how can I get him to never acknowledge me. I want him to stop trying to get me to communicate with him. When I cut a person off it for ever. I haven't acknowledged this person in nearly a month.
Alex it seems only you are not confused with your perfect tips on truth about love . Love you and you r UA-cam channel.... cheers! Keep giving and we'll keep listening to you okayyy❤😍😘
Alex, I've got this guy to pursue me for months and he pulls away expecting me to pursue him! He says he wants me to pursue him but I won't over extend myself I just reciprocate and he's complaining. I've been High value, I'm not a jealous or insecure type and I've noticed after pushing my buttons and failing now he gets jealous, I'm not needy and will give him his space and he doesn't like that and he tests me now and again to pursue him complaining about carrying the relationship (its really not true) he's told me he loves me but I don't feel I'm there yet and he's insecure because I'm not very verbal with my affection I like to show it in small ways. Do I continue to let him pursue me and be mad at it? It may sound mean but I don't care I know what I want and I see my value and if he doesn't see it then someone else definitely will and not make a big deal about it and be happy to do it
Alex can u do an advice with long distant relationship ? why do they put our hopes so high chasing us and then give hot and cold and then tell us that oh it's actually the distance. if that's so it's from the beginning they know we r far apart so why Chase us? just because we r a challenge ? what should I do
be careful of d new age sciences.. meditations(false) aren't biblical, it's actually occult & is dangerous to one's soul(mind). it has connection w/opening d third eye (opening to demonic realm). Law of attraction is demonic doctrine(lies). u may further research & ask God for guidance. Those who commit suicide &d like, demons are behind. We are in d age of deception.. just sharing.
Ok so it's been a month I've been speaking to a guy I met online. We've still not met yet. At first I wasn't really paying attention to him but he kept sending me messages every 3-4 days or so. I've started growing a REAL interest on him about a week ago. Uncousciously I would never send the 1st message cause I just wasn't thinking about it. So he's ALWAYS been the one who sends 1st message. He noticed that to me, under a joke. My question now is : should I keep this going? Should I let him send the 1st message even after he said that? Because I deeply wanna message him you know... But I refrain myself from that
So true. Ladies must know their self worth and keep their dignity. Do not be low hanging fruit for men to easily reach without any effort whatsoever.
Very!! ❤️
😍👌💯
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He said i dont like drama. But the only thing he knows is to give me drama.
I agree I'm a quiet person but every day is confusion lol
Same here...claims he wants peace. I get more.peaceful and he ruins it as tho he prefers chaos.
Lol i know that
For some reason men think “drama” is us simply expressing our feelings and trying to communicate
Because you react.
Don’t ask him to go out , don’t show too much love don’t talk about your feelings , got it 👍👍👍
This is the TRUTH. I have ignored someone for two weeks and the results are amazing!!! Now I have all the attention...
Life 😂
Lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣
You dump her get her she dump
Really? This works?????
They say women are confusing!
Men too are confusing . Women want deep love . Men want to love many women . Am talking of me and my situation in general 😉
WRONG
😂😂😂
Congratulations on your marriage, Alex. Wishing you and your wife a lifetime of happiness together! 🙏🌈
Thank you so much!
I see a ring!!! Congratulations to you and your wife!!!
Yes! Thank you!
Never keep give him attention treat him like shit he will love u for life
So basically men want their relationships to be a challenge because they’re bored with their own lives lol... Mature men get that fulfillment by overcoming challenges related to accomplishing their goals. In that case a warm woman will be a welcome break from the challenges they are constantly fighting. Don’t play these games it’s dumb and will only catch you an emotionally unavailable man. Not to mention, women are like this too, not just men. If both men and women focus on building self respect and finding their purpose, than naturally they will be “hard to get”
This is powerful
Thanks girl
Perhaps he could have clarified with kindness, and respect you are living your own life, and allowing him to seek you out. You are allowing him to be active in his masculine planning,& pursuing you...men do love women that have own lives and have own interests are relaxed about themselves and will be good with him around or not. I get what he's saying, men grow in discomfort that's why they love sports. The rush of the game brings out the juice of. Little challenge is fun for them.
Totally agree on the part that mature men are busy with their career goals and do not need a woman to artificially stimulate them.
Exactly, how can I play these games if it not in my nature? I am a loving, attentive, caring person. I don't want to play cat and mouse. I have a busy, happy, fulfilling life that I would like to share with someone mature. I don't want to play these games...Will I be single forever?🤪🤔🤭🤣
I am done with men. I have dated men who have more problems. They're all projects. And I will not settle. I enjoy listening to you. I wish you the best Alex.
I feel the same way. Every guy I’ve dated has had mental problems. I’m tired of the games. I’m done with men.
Sheri Peterson I'm with you on this 1 I'm much happier on my own there no straight forward for them it's just mind games and lack of respect I'm done this time
I can't act cold n mean to men I really deeply like 🤷🏻♀️ seems I have to stay single forever. Chasing isn't love.
Dont worry someone is waiting for your love thats mystical and will never leave you believe and it shall happen . I AM A buddhist so just be positive. Keep taking Alex advice. Hes a good coach . Cheers my friend ❤👍🏼🙏
That makes 2 of us. I can’t be annoying man by being mean for them to behave how I want.
@@pinaopina If people do not appreciate being loved , They can never appreciate someones else loving them . Leave. Give them another chance & then if needed just detach yourself from getting hurt again and again . Cheers!!!😉 Wishing you the best loving year ahead foru 2021❤🤗
It's so hard
This is in the context of a man that maybe isn’t appreciating a woman or taking her for granted . Shower a man with too much attention and adoration and you just lowered yourself down. Be smart. Be busy. Like him and appreciate him , but don’t put him on a pedestal.
My ex caused drama, he enjoyed it. It was ridiculous! Sooooo glad he's not in my life. He was toxic! This is were you have to know your love style.
When a man is not eligible for you, he loves you more. He wants to get you, earnest desire, But once he gets you at near or distance, he is dangerous one
And women, what type of relationship YOU want matters too. Don’t change yourself for a man. He’s talking about men who like the ups and downs and the coldness and the chase, yet says he himself is rather chill. So if you want a chill guy, let go of the guy who doesn’t chase you or is hot and cold.
Lots of men these days like to play games and are insincere. I want a chill guy, someone who is interested in me and shows it and is honest.
This comment ❤️
Guy chase woman? Most of the time not good intention
I believe this works if we do a mix of both distance and interest. We have to have our own lives and at ration out accessibility to us. And after a while of them trying, them shower them with attention and the pull back some to get them coming back for more. The ups and downs like he said. If it’s too much distancing, those that are secure and healthy self esteem will eventually remember who they are and will walk away. If we show too much love, they won’t value it (sad I know) but if we mix it up and be distant to a certain extent, we look mysterious and like we value ourselves. And will give them the impression that they need to inspire us to continue to give them attention. Why? Because we have needs too and if he is distancing from us then we will distance ourselves eventually from lack of inspiration
How to want a relationship with someone like that? To pass the entire relationship playing rat and mouse?
Ur right.
This is Fucked.Up
Better Love.Urself.
& Choose the.One.
Who.MEET'S.ur..Standard's..
Otherwise..Go.. it.Alone..
Then be the jaquar
I think the trick is to not give them too much attention. Never let them feel like they own u.
It's a dance rather than cat and mouse. The feminist women has been taught to be assertive and disagreeable. But what men respond to is respect, distance and agreeability. In short: come back to your feminity and let him work to earn your attention and affection before you give it. Enjoy the dance but let him lead it almost all of the time.
Hmmm, I'm not sure if a man will go back to pursuing, chasing and attraction once they got what they wanted. I've been in a relationship for 9 months and although he won't breakup with me, he doesn't show much interest anymore. So, I'm considering myself single and doing my own thing now. Distancing is easy when other men are more interested in me. Screw it.
I'm in the same situation, it's been 5 months though. Are u guys still together?
Yes yes yes you are exactly right, I have been married to a man that is just as you describe, very emotional ups and downs, I on the other hand am the total opposite, very quiet and a bit bothered by loud out spoken people, but it works in my case because he will always find someone else in the world to talk and complain to instead of me, I love the fire in his eyes and his passion for me never dies, I feel blessed to have been married at 18 yrs old and still going strong, keep up the wonderful advice we are so lucky to have you in our lives today, so ladies listen up he's right about your life with men!
Merci beaucoup Alex! Your videos have been a game-changer for me. I’m 34 and have been making mistakes for a long long time. I’ve always struggled in relationships despite having self-confidence... I had no idea I was putting them on a pedestal and chasing them, I thought I was just being loving 🤦♀️ I changed my behaviour to take distance and put my own needs first about 5 days ago and already the guy who I was casually dating but wouldn’t commit has changed his behaviour. Communicating first every time, continuing to contact me if I don’t reply quickly enough, being kind attentive and respectful, and best of all seeking reassurance that I’m still interested in him 😂 such a simple change in my attitude for such powerful results! Hopefully he will step up and commit, but if not, I believe I can now get an amazing guy to commit to me 💕
Watch out fir his behaviour if you get back together. Will he keep the level of engagement or will it drop off again (even if after 2 months)?
That's the clue, that will make you understand which case it is.
That's called playing mind games, plain amd simple. So toxic.
It is. In my opinion, you need to find a genuine human, and that's it! No mind games, no toxicity. Just a real connection.
Play or BE played. No way out.
No, anything easy to get isn't going to be valued
@@ak-47intelligence75 Or don't play.
@@deegomez4328 Shouldn't be like this though.
Wow Alex did you get married, I saw a ring on your finger. Congratulations , happy for you 👏👏👏
Yes! Thank you!
Like Tony said. Men need to do better. I keep asking the universe to show me good men. I am open to receiving. But truth js ...men have NOT had to grow up in the past .....#grownboyuniversity-as we put up with so much as a collective. As the divine feminine keeps rising and knowing her worth-the men will rise to meet us. The feminine is the creator. We make people. 💫❤️. Look at Tony. He is helping all of us 🙏🏻 Big Love ❤️ Ladies
so eventually there is no real honest relationhip, games ,turning arround , im wondering why we go through relationship infirst place when we cant open up about how we feel, and opening up and feeling secure is the first thing we want when we have a relationship, cest vraiment pradoxal
It is completely crazy that we have to play these games. If you care, tell him, dont be overpowering but tell him. If u wanna text 1st text first. You are your own person. You will feel yourself if your wasting your time. The right man will not play games. I've learnt this painful lesson recently but believe me, I e grown from it and I'm happy and confident in myself now, finally
It annoys me too!
Give a man a lot of space live your life to the fullest ❤️🙏 be happy with your friends and family we give men too much attention that's why they make styles on us
Sometime ago my boyfriend was stand offish so l decided to date someone else which he couldn't take and the next year ❤️ we got engaged and was married later on be patient with yourself ladies .
How is married life going
How's the marriage?
Their egos make them come back to check if you still want them and still sitting on the bench. Sad but true
Omg Alex, your analysis about men is so accurate.. Thank you for making video on this 💯❤
You are so welcome
It's so true Alex! Distance works with men! Thanks Alex
My pleasure!
Sensationalism can be tiring&toxic
Got a story for you...friend of mine chased and chased one female simply because she was cold and wouldn't respond to his texts. He said it was like he had to conquer her. Three years later guess what...she wasn't playing games, he described her as insensitive and not affectionate. Surprise...all this garbage sucks. I just love to love 💕 feels better.
Alex, you are talking facts.
Learn the game, use it to your advantage.
There is no way out.
" It " wants the game. So give " it " game.
Must be true...I ignore my husband for 5 years and he never gave up until he finally got my fully attention
I went no contact on 7/9. We’ve been together on and off for 4 years.
9/15 he messaged “hi”, I didn’t respond
9/19 he text - “So what? we spent four years together and we never talk to each other ever again? Not cool. All I wanted to do was check in with you and see how you were doing. Anyway, I hope you are well.”
What is the point of this if he said he was tired of me the last time we spoke?
Just Chat good girl! 👏👏 any man who says he is tired of you should get the “no contact” treatment indefinitely. If he really regrets it and misses you and can’t live without you he will do more than send lazy texts. Keep it up, don’t cave, don’t reply, give him exactly what he asked for, space.
Live your life in the meantime and meet new people. Consider those 4 years not time wasted but rather your Ph.D. in What you will never put up with again in a relationship. Good luck and stay strong girl! 👏🙏🌈
He is tired of you. He was only bored and wanted to check if you still had feelings for him, to boost his ego. Let him go away. It's not worthy, do not answer him again, unless you are in love with some other guy and totally indiferent to him. Regards.
Ego boost, temperature check (on you), low roster, control, convenience... Good job on the NO RESPONSE!
The only reason he wrote that was to keep you warm. If nothing else works out, there are you.
@@gabriela_sd260 PREAACH!!
It works. Did it on two guys let them have the last words. A week goes by nothing, week 2 comes and they're begging me to let them come back and that they would change and that it wouldn't be different.
No thanks 🤷🏽♀️ should have acted right the first dam time.
Yes, when there is Love & guy is clever. He does not wish for hide & seek game. No need for him
What did you do ?
One thing I’ve learned ladies never let him get comfortable cause when he does so does the efforts
Congratulations, Alex. Wishing you all the best in your marriage. We would love to see a picture of you and your wife.
Thank You!
Love love love this video. It is clear, accurate and direct. Easy to comprehend.
So glad!
This is sad, but true! Great insight. Thank you. ❤
That is so true as when I didnt care they chase me like mad. 🥰
I believe you Alex , some Men Love high drama
Thank you for your support!
I Love watching your videos Alex because they are short and gets to the point 👍🏽👍🏽 keep up the great work 😉
Glad you like them!
they need to chase what they can not have
All your little trick to play on them is powerful love it 😻😻😊
Thank you for your advice..it’s make a sense to see the real how the man thinking when they are ignoring us 👍
What about what does the woman want??? Why are we taught that WE have to adjust to MEN and what THEY want. Nahhhhhh. If he loves “the challenge” and this rollercoaster, LEAVE HIM. It’s called being UNSTABLE and little boy mentality and desires.
Ana Zuni I agree
I was just saying this the other day what about what I want Zuni who got time for these games with these men?
It's because most men prefer to sleep around while most women want to settle into a relationship. It sucks, but that's just how it is, it's a man's primal nature to want to chase. You don't have to adjust if you don't mind staying single. Ironically, these days I prefer to stay single and as a result, some men are chasing after me because I want nothing to do with their stupid little games. Although I have to admit, I've been toying with one player and it's kind of fun. It's like well earned revenge.
Thank you so much! Like why does no one ever talk about what women want? The world is grooming men who are incapable of really being men.
Hi Alex. I read your book and I really liked it. I learned a lot. Thank you
Alex, I DON'T like the "sensational" and never did! He tricked me. How do we find the men who love the stable
I bring sensational. I am romantic, I surprise, I have my own life. I dont want to work this hard for bare minimum. I stopped chasing and all I got was my weird ex reaching out for no reason.
Seriously Alex how do we identify stable men
That's easy does he checked up on your on the usual does he has patients does he reply quickly to your call are messages if yes that's a nice indication of a stable man
Easy (in theory):
When you meet him observe him. Take notes on how he behaves in the first two weeks. (Does he do what he says, is he calm and stable, does he plan a bit in advance and not change his mind, is he a gentleman, is he confused sometimes, dies he know what he wants, does he respect women, is he generous, does he push to be intimate with you). All of this and more.
But at the same time, be relaxed and enjoy the dates. All i am saying is: don't fall into feelings too fast, keep your eyes open. You don't know that man. He needs to prove himself to you, and then keep proving himself for months and months (being consistent).
Because i am convinced that if something will be an issue in the future, you will see a minor red flag even in the first two weeks of interaction. If you're willing to see it for what it is.
Step away from anyone who turns out to be too complicated, problematic, or not knowing precisely what he wants, in all fields, in a relaxed and natural way.
Ohh wow so clear. Thank you for this amazing advice 💥
You're so welcome!
I show love & emotion to see what he needs & want. This is my technique. I found some gone, some was assured of taking advantage. I knew that they are none of them eligible for me. These are not my stuff
When you feel that man deserve respect not, Leave
Thanks Alex for the tips, very helpful as always :)
Because coldness and distance is a normal response to disrespect and neglect. It means you love yourself and value yourself which is attractive for not tolerating abuse or time wasters.
Thanks for watching!
When man find woman is clever & aware & not easy foul play, they shrink themselves
Watching here from Philippines 🎉🎉🎉
Am number one today thank so much may God reward you whatever you're doing
Your absolutely right !👌Alex thank you so much for your useful advises 👍
My pleasure!
I love your accent... Remember me the Pepe LePew 😂 Thank you for your lessons
Hi, Could not find a '25 minute video' in the description. There was link to a video that's a promo video and it's only a couple of minutes.
congratulations sir Alex best wishes... i enjoy listening to your advices .... its all true...
I appreciate that!
I enjoy the attention when a man chases.I think it feels good.I say enjoythem chasing you but once you are.married don't forget personal growth and appreciating your moments apart and moments together no games but each need reflective alone time
I’m usually mean or emotionless with men I think it works they like it 😂
Hi Alex, are you saying that men in general are not intellectually and/or emotionally capable of love? Because from your videos it sounds like there are only two motivators, chase and control. How are these in any way related to love? And in this case, what is the value that a man can bring into a woman's life?
I was waiting for your vedio 💞
Merci ! Alex
My coldness is blocked boy bye don't waste my time. I want a real man who is emotionally available and I can be myself with ❤️
Thank you Alex!👏
I agree. 100%
Alex you are helping me alot.Godbless you 😘🤗
Thankyou Alex 👍🏽
How to want a relationship with someone like that? To pass the entire relationship playing rat and mouse? But I’m grateful for the sharing 🙏
As a man i must say just as how he said about men i see women the same dam i hate up and down mind games in my relationship any woman who ghost on me are try to make me jealous i usual just end the relationship /
Wow thank u so much ❤❤❤
It’s means only he or she has so much choices wanting to search who the best. select and collect the best . cold means they are not unto you instead to say it directly you’re not my type.
This is long game strategy, don't expect immediate results with men. They want us to ignore them back even though are such sweethearts ! Best to use that loving energy to self, family, old parents, pets, neighbors, work colleagues when they're cold-ignorant days from guy.
Yes I always hate them some get attracted to pain distance and my bad moods im so cold hearted I know...but they got me...they leave after talking for months..they come to explore me
So, you should never be caught, meaning you can never live your love freely. What a great way to live 😂
Thankyou for your video
My pleasure
Alex I don't know what men really want, I was giving him all the attention but he was giving me attitude, I stopped after watching your videos and now he's giving me back all the attention and now I'm even ignoring
If guy goes away when he knows that he already got that woman. If that woman is is really worthy & smart, she must be happy losing a narcissist
❤ Alex you help me a lot!!!!
Wonderful advice
All I want is someone to love me without conditions. I have never had that, including oarents
I not really sure about man! Maybe some do some not? We all human.
Ignore them move on! We are enough!!!
Actually Alex, women have to ask themselves what they want.
Nope. Once they know they cannot use you or play foul with you. They go distance
Exactly 💯
Alex, I don't engage in that kind of behavior, so how can I get him to never acknowledge me. I want him to stop trying to get me to communicate with him. When I cut a person off it for ever. I haven't acknowledged this person in nearly a month.
Block him if you don't want to communicate!!
Lend him money... $100 should do it... usually once people borrow money you never see them again lol
This is why nice girls finish last.
Just treat men like shit and they'll get turned on by it. Be too nice then they will treat you like shit.
Aww so true im listening to your advice alex it workks
Alex it seems only you are not confused with your perfect tips on truth about love . Love you and you r UA-cam channel.... cheers! Keep giving and we'll keep listening to you okayyy❤😍😘
Thank you for all you do.
Thank you for your honesty and congratulations on your marriage.
You are so welcome
Great 👍 I love 💕 your videos
Yay! Thank you!
Your awesome man taking it one day at a time and I’m doing everything you taught me and I must admit it’s helping ...thanks
I love your videos.
Thank you Alex ♥️
You're so welcome.
No...mine didnt respond to distance for 6 months now...
Alex, I've got this guy to pursue me for months and he pulls away expecting me to pursue him! He says he wants me to pursue him but I won't over extend myself I just reciprocate and he's complaining. I've been High value, I'm not a jealous or insecure type and I've noticed after pushing my buttons and failing now he gets jealous, I'm not needy and will give him his space and he doesn't like that and he tests me now and again to pursue him complaining about carrying the relationship (its really not true) he's told me he loves me but I don't feel I'm there yet and he's insecure because I'm not very verbal with my affection I like to show it in small ways. Do I continue to let him pursue me and be mad at it? It may sound mean but I don't care I know what I want and I see my value and if he doesn't see it then someone else definitely will and not make a big deal about it and be happy to do it
Honey you’re not wrong... he doesn’t know how to be a man. Men don’t get pursued.
Find someone else. Date multiples
Alex can u do an advice with long distant relationship ? why do they put our hopes so high chasing us and then give hot and cold and then tell us that oh it's actually the distance. if that's so it's from the beginning they know we r far apart so why Chase us? just because we r a challenge ? what should I do
Tq love life! much appreciated x
Hey Alex! This is Zee from India. What are your thoughts on Law of Attraction and Meditations? Eager to know your thoughts on this! Your great🌸
be careful of d new age sciences.. meditations(false) aren't biblical, it's actually occult & is dangerous to one's soul(mind). it has connection w/opening d third eye (opening to demonic realm). Law of attraction is demonic doctrine(lies). u may further research & ask God for guidance. Those who commit suicide &d like, demons are behind. We are in d age of deception.. just sharing.
Ok so it's been a month I've been speaking to a guy I met online. We've still not met yet. At first I wasn't really paying attention to him but he kept sending me messages every 3-4 days or so. I've started growing a REAL interest on him about a week ago. Uncousciously I would never send the 1st message cause I just wasn't thinking about it. So he's ALWAYS been the one who sends 1st message. He noticed that to me, under a joke.
My question now is : should I keep this going? Should I let him send the 1st message even after he said that?
Because I deeply wanna message him you know... But I refrain myself from that
Thanks ALEX
You're so welcome.
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert my pleasure
Hi Alex. Like mine he likes being challenged.... And he's fast being geting angry
Alex could you make a video about marriage and long distance.
Salut Alex! I can’t find the 25 minute video - only 1 which is 0.55 seconds!
Thanku Alex