Overcoming Fear of Losing Him by Creating Healthy Distance

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  • @annieillis4604
    @annieillis4604 9 місяців тому +24

    But here’s the thing, you can’t just keep being busy for ever. We need to know how to be a challenge while we are with him. If you’re never around he’ll find someone else and that’s just human nature

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  9 місяців тому +6

      You can keep busy with your own goals, dreams and inspire your partner... I am sorry but it's POSSIBLE!

    • @Myles943
      @Myles943 9 місяців тому +1

      I've kept my distance for 4 years becuase " it was completed " but wanted him
      Now he is free he sees me every few months doesn't phone
      I'm now fed up so I've said deal breaker phone and see me or no point

  • @ArApoorvaJugati
    @ArApoorvaJugati 9 місяців тому +8

    Real men can't be stolen. Always focus on self growth, the right one will always find a way....

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 9 місяців тому +6

    *Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell.*

  • @marytierney9876
    @marytierney9876 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Alex you r advice is so good and I know you right. My man has narcissistic traits. .always blaming me for the break-up . In saying that we were in a relationship for 8 years but know each as distant friends for 54 years. He broke my heart 3 times in one year. It's not about other women. But he sometimes acts a very insecure person. I love him dearly he has been an absolutely amazing man to me he is so romantic. .
    I feel I went back without him having to put up a fight for me last year a d he hurt me again I wasent expecting it. .im working on my self value now . Your advice is so helpful .it's making me see how available I was
    Thank you for all your professional advice .such wisdom

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for watching! Im sorry to hear about what you've been through but I'm proud of you for choosing yourself and standing up for yourself. I'm glad this video was able to help you😊

  • @alicesampiano1925
    @alicesampiano1925 9 місяців тому +4

    Coach alex your my favorite coach watching from Philippines 🇵🇭❤

  • @flaviananyula3238
    @flaviananyula3238 9 місяців тому +5

    Hey, thank you so much Alex much love from kenya 🇰🇪, following ❤.

  • @happywater1012
    @happywater1012 9 місяців тому +8

    I could totally tell he was playing busy & playing cool too… that’s why I dumped his ass… A big turn off …
    If you are truly busy, simply say you are busy, get back to u later .. the other person will feel loved, valued, respected…
    Don’t reply? Chase you? That’s toxic, the chase is NOT out of his heart but out of his temporary desire… once he gets you, u see

  • @anonymous-vr8ex
    @anonymous-vr8ex 9 місяців тому +3

    Always great information for us ladies.

  • @noeliciawilliams6384
    @noeliciawilliams6384 9 місяців тому +3

    Thanks Alex love your content all the way from zimbabwe 🇿🇼

  • @jamaliahsutar3250
    @jamaliahsutar3250 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank u Alex for u motivation

  • @lw6205
    @lw6205 9 місяців тому +3

    I love your advice.

  • @hanahadgo1924
    @hanahadgo1924 3 місяці тому

    Thankyou Alex 🙏👌

  • @clau203
    @clau203 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Alex for this great advice and sharing ideas ❤️‍🔥

  • @happywater1012
    @happywater1012 9 місяців тому +9

    This is for the 90s when we don’t use the smartphones… if you want a guy that’s desperated, and only chase you till he gets you then do it… 😢
    A guy did that to me, knowing he has his phone with him 24/7 by his side, I dumped his ass, don’t ever play mind game with me, respect is everything. Communication is everything… if you can’t spend a minute to reply a simple text, stay away from me

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv 9 місяців тому +3

    OMG.....when did we start clean these type of games with each other's hearts ?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  9 місяців тому

      It's not a game, it's how the attraction works... When do we stop thinking we live in a fairy tale or disney world?

    • @miglinejean2057
      @miglinejean2057 7 місяців тому +1

      It’s always been a game men are hunters naturally stop making it easy for them

  • @jo-annenordin7032
    @jo-annenordin7032 8 місяців тому +1

    I have been in a relationship for just more than a year all went well started in October last year up and down. Then November he started getting Distance it upset me alot. In January I said no more and left him just for him to come back after less than a week. Then it goes well for weeks then all out of blue he stops giving his love.
    And today I decided it's now or never. No contact I am worth more if it's really meant to be he will realize and get to his sense.
    Alex what advise do you have
    I love him but I am a choice not an option

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому

      Hi there,
      I'm sorry to hear this, I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need a little more information on what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you use this link to book a coaching call with him:
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @annabarone8727
    @annabarone8727 8 місяців тому +1

    Once I didn't text back after 3 days he thought I was mad. One day he texted me I waited 6 hours he texted back I guess not lol

  • @jdprettynails
    @jdprettynails 8 місяців тому +1

    Does this apply to avoidants?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому +1

      No this can be a little tricky... Are you looking for one on one advice on this?

    • @jdprettynails
      @jdprettynails 8 місяців тому +1

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert not currently. Right now I’m just focusing on giving my avoidant space and working on myself to deal with my anxiety.
      There’s a concert coming up I want to invite him to, but I’ve decided that if he says no…there’s a girl friend of mine who said she’d like to go instead and I’m just trying to focus on that.

  • @lievaymasbate1657
    @lievaymasbate1657 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you,i will apply this tips and i will come back here if how it really affects him,i just syart distancing him now..i can no this..thank you

  • @babaengtinamaytamay4462
    @babaengtinamaytamay4462 5 місяців тому

    Thankbu

  • @sigalm8205
    @sigalm8205 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi, I met a nice guy as I was walking with my dog. He talked to me but then as I had to go I offered my number, he sms me with his card so I’m in his contact but didn’t hear from him since a week ago, I shouldn’t write him, right as he didn’t…

    • @ginamok8373
      @ginamok8373 9 місяців тому +1

      I think its ok to say lovely to meet you. If he doesn't respond then that's your answer and he's not for you

  • @annabarone8727
    @annabarone8727 8 місяців тому +1

    When we are together everything I great. But his texting sucks. He always texts me first but sometimes takes him 6 days..he says to text him too but I don't bec it takes him time to text back. I always text him back

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому

      If everything goes well in person but the messaging exchanges leave you unsatisfied, it's important to find a middle ground that works for both of you. Sometimes, the quality of messages and response times can vary based on personal habits, lifestyle rhythms, or even the perception of communication through messaging. I invite you to attend the free masterclass "LEARN THE BEST TECHNIQUES TO ATTRACT THE GUY YOU WANT!" on Sunday, February 25, 2024, at 12:00 pm (EST). www.alex-cormont.com/gtg-webinar-registration-v1

  • @venismerinmarythanuja8613
    @venismerinmarythanuja8613 3 місяці тому

    Exactly

  • @saras.2173
    @saras.2173 9 місяців тому

    What if I don’t like to be busy? That’s not the kind of life I want.

  • @quratulaienqt1929
    @quratulaienqt1929 8 місяців тому

    He never initiate and after ghosting i requested him to come back..eveb though he is not ashamed..i always text first...he replys late.. what should i do?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому

      Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you with this but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to guide you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link:
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

  • @norasayari8807
    @norasayari8807 8 місяців тому

    I have been dating this guy for about a month. He is always late. Last time he was 40 minutes late. He sent a test and said he will be 30 miles late. Then called at the 30 mint mark and said that he would be late again. So I sent a text message and canceled the date. He called and I didn’t answer him. He sent a text. Now I don’t know how to respond to him

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому

      Hi there! I know Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through! I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link:
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
      -FRE Team

    • @natasha2877
      @natasha2877 8 місяців тому

      @norasayari8807 You made the right move cancelling the date. Lateness is disrespectful. A month isn’t long, If u like him let him know this is unacceptable or consider moving on.

  • @KeneilweMngadi
    @KeneilweMngadi 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi he block me and I don't know what to do now

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird3639 9 місяців тому

    He literally said u take too long to respond and moved on. How about he can see im online chatting to others just not replying to him?

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  9 місяців тому +3

      Maybe instead of being online the idea is to make your calendar full of activities...

  • @yuranijitta8700
    @yuranijitta8700 9 місяців тому +7

    Now...he has Alzheimer's😂 1:27

  • @royalhazzel
    @royalhazzel 9 місяців тому

    my husband ignores me since two weeks what should i do sir

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  9 місяців тому +2

      Wait 2 more weeks and during this time work on your mistakes and how to improve yourself!

    • @anonymxw5740
      @anonymxw5740 8 місяців тому +3

      Leave him

  • @annabarone8727
    @annabarone8727 8 місяців тому

    I go no contact

  • @journeywithpieraandbob
    @journeywithpieraandbob 5 місяців тому

    This race is not for the swift .He is a good guy but am tired of relationship and still want marriage.Its just hard to handle.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  5 місяців тому +1

      I'm so sorry to hear about this! Are you tired of the relationship you're in?

    • @journeywithpieraandbob
      @journeywithpieraandbob 5 місяців тому

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert ooh yes, I am.I wish I would follow what you teach us but it's easily said than done.According to what you teach us he isn't a bad guy but amn't playing my cards right.

  • @sphiwebuthelezi5180
    @sphiwebuthelezi5180 7 місяців тому

    Alex his my husband but his gossip about me in his relatives

  • @magpie2163
    @magpie2163 8 місяців тому

    I can't stand clingy men. If he texts me everyday, he has got to go.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  8 місяців тому +1

      Why?

    • @magpie2163
      @magpie2163 8 місяців тому +1

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert Because spending time alone to recharge the emotional batteries is crucial to me - someone who needs my attention every single day will wear me down.
      Love from Sweden
      /Maria

  • @zoeyz8181
    @zoeyz8181 5 місяців тому

    Not interested in the 50% of men that are problematic. Why waste time on them?

  • @minkamileva4903
    @minkamileva4903 8 місяців тому

    Alex he sad all the women are the same he want something special for example