ENTP : Character Development

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  • Опубліковано 16 сер 2021
  • Designed for writers and method actors who have never studied psychology and who have no interest in studying psychology. This series outlines each of the sixteen Jungian personality archetypes to better get you inside your character’s head. Special emphasis on how each type processes and priorities information, the nuances of their communication style, how their humor manifests, and what each type looks like as a villainous character. This week's focus is on the ENTP's personality.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 287

  • @IIISWILIII
    @IIISWILIII 2 роки тому +70

    Being an ENTP is the one hand that life dealt me in which I've been thoroughly willing to play

  • @sugarmagnolia33
    @sugarmagnolia33 2 роки тому +62

    23:58 "For [ENTPs], what others consider aggressive debate is actually enthusiastic conversation. Which is to say, the purpose of a debate is to win -- but the purpose of a conversation is to learn. ENTPs love a good conversation that puts no rules on how a thing can be examined. This examination, and thus the debate itself, is generally the ENTPs end goal, and they are not necessarily interested in winning or proving a given point...
    This can easily be misinterpreted as aggression by others, however ENTPS tend to be some of the most inherently inclusive individuals, as they actively seek out the out the opinions and thoughts of others, including and especially those whose perspectives and life experiences differ from their own."
    I wish I could put this on a billboard every time people talk about our type lol. You have summarized the experience so accurately :) Awesome video!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! I'm so glad you enjoyed it :)

    • @jonintres997
      @jonintres997 Рік тому

      I and definitely sharing this video to the my loves, So they can hopefully understand what I have been trying to say forever, I'm Happy that I found a more elegant way of saying that mine my my own.

  • @lepsze
    @lepsze 2 роки тому +118

    This is so far the best ENTP description on UA-cam, and I've watched like 30 of them. Great lines picked!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you! I had a lot of fun with it ;) If you' like to go more in-depth, I recommend checking out CS. Joseph's channel (link in description). These videos are mostly based on his work, and he's got a huge library of ENTP content. He's an ENTP himself, actually.

    • @colekazmierkiewicz2166
      @colekazmierkiewicz2166 2 роки тому +3

      I agree, I’ve watched a lot of videos and this one is the best.

    • @CocoYano_
      @CocoYano_ 2 роки тому +2

      I truly agree; you have a true gift of dissecting and explaining concepts immaculately. As an ENTP i can without a doubt say you hit the nail on the head with this one, so much so that It helped me understand facets of my personality that I haven’t even considered was a result of something greater. Please keep going with this series 🙏🏿

    • @adambutler3266
      @adambutler3266 Рік тому

      Well researched and presented, the attributes of ENTP personality type seems a lot more aligned over other UA-cam content.

    • @myramadd6651
      @myramadd6651 11 місяців тому

      As an entp this resounds with me

  • @farrex0
    @farrex0 2 роки тому +77

    23:58 - 25:46 FInally! As an ENTP myself I have finally seen an accurate representation of how debate is. I often see this part of the ENTP not only over represented in discussions about the ENTP, but also is the part most people get wrong. And when talking about a type which is most concerned with accuracy, it sucks to see how terribly misunderstood it is, at least on that aspect.
    I no longer use the word debate in discussions about the ENTP, because the word suggests that both it is a competition and that it is intended to reach a conclussion. As an ENTP I could care less about either, who cares who wins a debate, winning does nothing but feed the ego of the winner, and to win debates is as useful to finding a truth as a fan is to make ice. It is so easy to undermine the opponents points, and even win being on the wrong side of the argument. Debates are usually just hollow and lead nowhere because the better debater always wins, not the one that is right. And remember, we care more about accuracy than pointless recognition. Of course we care about how we are perceived in an emotional way, due to Fe, but not if people think we are brilliant or not. So i see no point on debating for competition, unless we both agree we are doing it for fun.
    We ENTPs often do not care about how we are perceived, Ti cares more about how I perceive myself than how I am perceived. So winning the debate accomplishes nothing. Instead, what we are interested is in exploration. We want to learn, to see things from new perspectives, we want to analyze ideas form all sides. I do not care for a conclussion, I care to learn, and develop ideas.
    And I am gonna stop it right there, before my Ne takes it further, lmao.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +6

      Thank you! I really try to see the types from their own perspective, and ENTP is very different from me (ENTJ) so it's always a relief when I hear I got it right, lol! I kept noticing how ENTP's eyes light up when they start arguing and I was like... "they're enjoying this. They're not just enjoying the ending, they're enjoying the journey." Thanks so much for watching!

    • @FalconOfStorms
      @FalconOfStorms 2 роки тому

      It's not immediately apparent to me that this isn't entirely mostly wrong from a certain perspective. You need to define your terms and speak more precisely.

    • @Marses970
      @Marses970 2 роки тому

      Beautifully said

    • @andresterrazas855
      @andresterrazas855 Рік тому +1

      Why is this so long?

    • @mariog7213
      @mariog7213 Рік тому

      To be fair, I do like shutting down people espousing stupidity.
      I’ll also add that I do care what other people think of me insofar as it gives me perspective on what I’m doing- not to determine my value or feed my ego

  • @brentjohnson7044
    @brentjohnson7044 2 роки тому +78

    What a relief to know that this series hasn't been abandoned! This is another excellent, thought-provoking entry. Now I've got to go and watch the INTP one again, to compare and contrast (since the cognitive functions are the same but differently ordered).

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +4

      They are very different critters, lol! So glad you enjoyed, and thanks for watching!

  • @deliciamurugan2626
    @deliciamurugan2626 2 роки тому +6

    shocker as an ENTP, i idolise House, admire tyrion and love dead pool...

  • @Gambette69
    @Gambette69 2 роки тому +30

    Holy ish, that was the single, most complete ENTP diagnostic I’ve ever been exposed to. It will be sent to all I care for. Thank you SOOOOOO much for making and posting this!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +2

      Well thank you so much! I'm so glad you liked it. If you'd like more of the same, this series is based on the 4-sides model I learned from CS. Joseph (link in description). He's got a whole ENTP library where he goes in depth on different aspects, and is an ENTP himself. Thanks for watching!

  • @Spearman1951
    @Spearman1951 2 роки тому +5

    As a well realized ENTP,I found your lack of MBTI jargon as a welcome relief from those lost souls still looking for themselves. The key to our villainy is an aggressive nose for the noose. We can tell in an instant whether our companions have the guts to hang with us. This is why I always have Jesus on my list of ENTP favorites. Anyone that uses the word hypocrite is going to be nailed by the clueless authority figures. Now go to your room, young lady!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Lol! That's great :) Thanks for watching!

    • @Spearman1951
      @Spearman1951 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your heart; I will handle it with care now that you care. This notion of ENTP villainy seems contradictory to the possibility thinking and distractibility of Nes vs. Ses. My Ne imagination destroys enemies without moving a muscle. ENTP vision efficiently balances risks against rewards. The physicality required of action heroes is overt, not subtle. ENTPs might be executed for putting dangerous ideas into their follower's heads, but never for storming the normative castle themselves.
      "Conscience doth make cowards of us all," remarks ENTP Hamlet. Double thinking destroys ENTP resolve. ENTP Socrates accepts his fate not because he doesn't see options but because the possibilities he envisions are antithetical to his Ti ethical system. Wasting precious Si energy in the concoction of plots is wasted on the direct expression of Se's revenge. The sweetest ENTP revenge is martyrdom for the moral cause, not the gross manipulation of an existing system

  • @harperg8008
    @harperg8008 4 місяці тому +2

    Keeping my fingers crossed for INFP and ENFP videos in the near future. 😊

  • @private648
    @private648 2 роки тому +22

    So happy to see this series continue, and love that you did ENTP. It was super informative.
    I'd like to see ENTJ, I feel they're a little underrepresented sometimes but are interesting enough to deep-dive.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you! I've done the ENTJ video, actually, check out the playlist link in the description :)

  • @MarzoAlive
    @MarzoAlive 2 роки тому +18

    I'm watching this because ENTPs seems so curious to me, I'm an INFJ and I just watched that video too and it says "INFJ feel curious about chatty people", and in this video, you saying "They are chatty people"
    Oh well, that answers my questions xD

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +3

      Lol! ENTPs are some of the chattiest. They're also the INFJ's pedagogue relationship, which means that of all the types, it's the ENTP that has the most to teach the INFJ and vice-versa. Definitely explore that curiosity more--ENTPs have a lot to offer INFJs in romance and friendship

    • @mrpoison8770
      @mrpoison8770 2 роки тому

      That is pretty true and I am entp myself.

    • @bartoszulkowskitattoo
      @bartoszulkowskitattoo 5 місяців тому

      i just discovered i am most likely entp and that intj are the best partners for us! this is fantastic !!!

  • @MadXOdin
    @MadXOdin 2 роки тому +2

    Oh man, I had lost hope for a new chapter. Great to have you back!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      I know, right? Life is crazy, but these videos are too much fun to leave behind :) Thanks for watching!

  • @justinjbolyard
    @justinjbolyard 2 роки тому +4

    Great video Cynthia!
    “If there is a will, there is a way” I say that often! 😂

  • @marlyn3883
    @marlyn3883 Рік тому +2

    I am really excited about the INTJ and ESTP Character development!
    Your videos are spot on!

  • @Ruwen.S
    @Ruwen.S 2 роки тому +1

    These videos are so intriguing! Thanks for your time and effort in putting these together.
    I don’t have a specific tally to add. I’m just here for whatever one you want to post next! :D

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      Well thank you so much! Next is INFP. We're going at a snail's pace, but we will get there eventually!

  • @icedflatwhite
    @icedflatwhite 2 роки тому +2

    this is a perfect description of my personality type that i have ever encountered. you perfectly described everything and the details are exceptionally on point. this series is fantastic. great video :)

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much! I'm so glad you are enjoying it

  • @yussieee
    @yussieee 2 роки тому

    I’ve been yearning/ patiently waiting and checking for the ENFP video in the last year. It’s so clear and admirable how much of a grasp you have on the cognitive functions. I’m hoping so badly that it’s the next one! Thank you for all the time and effort that you put in these. I’ve learned so much!!!!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      Aww, thank you so much! INFP is next and after that another extrovert, but I've added your vote to the tally. I've got a book manuscript I'm finishing up in February and continuing this series is next on my agenda.
      In the mean time, these videos are based on the work of CS Joseph (link in description) and he has a small library on ENFP. He's... gone off the deep end recently, but his type-specific stuff is worth checking out :) Thank you again and thank you so much for watching!

  • @blairethemartian7165
    @blairethemartian7165 2 роки тому +23

    YESSS!!! Another one of these!!! I live for this series. Youre incredibly underrated! I love using your videos to help write my characters

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +3

      That is the coolest thing you could possibly say to me and makes the effort totally worth it! Thank you so much

    • @tryagain7536
      @tryagain7536 2 роки тому +1

      It is absolutely worth it!
      I was thinking of send you a message to have some informations about the next post.
      But the quality is the priority and you also have a life 😁.
      Keep going!!!

  • @cidunate
    @cidunate 2 роки тому +1

    I love these vids, they are amazing, i hope you continue with them soon, one i'm looking forward to you doing is the enfp characters :)

  • @k.gart.477
    @k.gart.477 6 місяців тому

    amazing ans very informative , looking forward for the rest of the series

  • @DaveRealitycheck
    @DaveRealitycheck 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you and we are looking forward for the ENFP series🙌🏼

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      Thank you for watching! I've added your vote to the tally. INFP is next, but I'll be doing another extrovert after that ;)

  • @pedrobalduino3872
    @pedrobalduino3872 2 роки тому +1

    Pleeeeease get back with this series, this is helping me too much to plan my characters and also is helping me to know myself better and understand others. Your videos are amazing, keep on it. I know that's a lot of work, but the quality of your videos is completly amazing.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much! I know I've been terrible with these. I'm editing a manuscript now that I'll be publishing this summer. It's on schedule to go to my beta readers in February, at which point my priority is to get back to this series

  • @annerittwage1401
    @annerittwage1401 2 роки тому +5

    I just love this series. Your videos are so thorough and it really shows how much effort you put into them, but also how much knowledge you have. The first video I saw was on INFJs and then I wanted to watch the video on INFPs as I am not completely sure which fits me best, but noticed that there wasn't one on INFPs yet. So for me it doesn't really matter which one you'll do next, because I will watch all of them, but INFP would be cool.

  • @user-qw9fq9vb5c
    @user-qw9fq9vb5c 2 роки тому +1

    OMG!! Looking forward to the INFP video!! Thank god you didn't forget about this series!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      I have not! We're going at a snail's pace but we will get there! Thanks for watching

  • @KaylinRamirez
    @KaylinRamirez 2 роки тому +1

    I am in love with this series 💚💚💚

  • @KylaSohma
    @KylaSohma 2 роки тому +3

    Hello! Thank you so much!! You always bring such great insight into the development of how characters of each different personality type would act. I love this series! Thank you so much for your time to put this entire series together. I was wondering if you would be able to do INTJ next? Thank you again, Cynthia!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +2

      You are so very welcome and I'm glad you're enjoying my videos! I've added your vote to the tally--INFP is next. We're going at a snail's pace but we will get there eventually :)

    • @KylaSohma
      @KylaSohma 2 роки тому

      thank you so much! I know you are probably very busy, but I appreciate that you are making this series (I like to binge listen to them when driving lol). I look forward to watching the INFP video! 😃

  • @danika9411
    @danika9411 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you! I love this series, it's so good! I hope you'll also do ENFP/INFPs one day.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you! INFP is next, and I've added ENFP to the list. Thanks for watching!

  • @goolash1000
    @goolash1000 2 місяці тому +1

    I would really enjoy seeing some of the rest of the types done. Especially ISFP.

  • @_sch_eme_
    @_sch_eme_ 2 роки тому +1

    Ugh these are officially the best of this kinda videos there are on the whole of youtube and there isnt one of INFP 😭🥺 whyy did i have to find theseeee im crying i want moreee pleaseee lmao

  • @linana5053
    @linana5053 2 місяці тому

    I love you guys so much, one of my fav types -enfp

  • @user-mh1cx2tl7j
    @user-mh1cx2tl7j Рік тому +1

    Entertaining. I love it

  • @fyn1985
    @fyn1985 2 роки тому +4

    I'm so happy you've returned to this series. Looking forward to hearing about the ENFP or INTJ.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      I've added your votes to the list :) We'll be going at a snail's pace, but we will get there. Thanks for watching!

    • @fyn1985
      @fyn1985 2 роки тому

      @@cynthiapayne9906 No problem. I see the INFP is up next, another intuitive I am curious about. The two I requested are for characters in a book I'm writing. I'm on 2nd draft edits (also going slow). It's been interesting comparing my notes on the other characters to videos you've already done.

  • @amalgamated333
    @amalgamated333 2 роки тому

    Great video and the 2020-2021 joke at the end was perfect haha! Very much relate to this and sadly admit the vulnerability of myself too.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      I had planned that joke for so long that I had to add 2021 to it, lol! So glad you enjoyed and got something out of it. Thanks for watching!

  • @vanshagrawal9189
    @vanshagrawal9189 2 роки тому

    This series is just amazing.

  • @sofiadelgado1653
    @sofiadelgado1653 2 роки тому +4

    Wonderful! I would like to know more about ENFP characters. Can you do a video on that?

  • @h.smeenk1273
    @h.smeenk1273 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks alot!! I dont know if you remember my comment when i said "more pls", but i said it because i was looking if you made a video of the ENTP yet. I am going to love this!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      I do remember! I responded to that just a few days ago :) Glad I could deliver. Thanks for watching!

    • @h.smeenk1273
      @h.smeenk1273 2 роки тому

      @@cynthiapayne9906 Thanks, np. This one was great again. You are my fav. youtuber when it comes 2 MBTI, thank for making them!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      @@h.smeenk1273 That is a hell of a compliment and I am flattered, thank you!

  • @solarflare1206
    @solarflare1206 2 роки тому +5

    Yay! I've looked forward to this for months! :)

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Lol! I'm so glad I could FINALLY get it to you ;)

    • @solarflare1206
      @solarflare1206 2 роки тому +1

      @@cynthiapayne9906 What is the core difference between INFP and INTP? I always test as INTP, but I've suspected I'm actually INFP a long time, despite what the online tests say. Even though I'm very analytical and think everything through instead of "going with my heart", I'm also very sensitive and empathetic.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      @@solarflare1206 My hubby's an INTP and is quite sensitive and empathic, sometimes so much so that others take advantage. INFPs are Interest based and Affiliative, while INTPs are Pragmatic and Systematic. INFPs will want to seek many sources, interpretations, and rationale to figure out what they believe, while INTPs are happy to work with one set of raw data and think through the implications themselves. INTPs are also usually more focused on individual problems and like to break them down, while INFPs are generally more concerned with larger social problems and want to build up a grand philosophy. I'd recommend taking CS. Joseph's test (csjoseph.life), especially with a person who knows you well. His test is adaptive and you can bounce around the questions, only answering the ones you are sure of, and the test will eliminate options as you go based on your answers. Hope that helps!

    • @solarflare1206
      @solarflare1206 2 роки тому

      @@cynthiapayne9906
      I am affiliative, responding, systematic, philosopher, outcome, and informative

    • @solarflare1206
      @solarflare1206 2 роки тому +1

      @@cynthiapayne9906 It gave me ISTJ as my type, which sounds odd. I'm so ADHD that I struggle getting things done. I also grew up a Jehovah's Witness and am considered very odd by people around me, even though I'm now an atheist. I don't necessarily respect tradition, as I've had bad experiences with tradition, but I'm drawn to people who can help me organize my life, given my adhd makes creating order nearly impossible to do myself.

  • @RachelledelaRosa
    @RachelledelaRosa 2 роки тому

    WHAT?! This series is AMAZING Cynthia. Omg. makes me want to write lol. Can't pick up another hobby now xD but time was unlimited I would using this knowledge

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much! I'm so glad you are enjoying it :)

  • @pondsmelts
    @pondsmelts Рік тому

    I would love to see one of these for ENFJ. I hope you continue the series.

  • @matthewparsons4597
    @matthewparsons4597 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Cynthia, I've really been enjoying the videos. They've helped me to put words to the ideas I have for my characters and justify why they behave the way they do. They always seem to have a life of their own, so this helps a lot. Can you make one for ENFP please? I have a character I'm trying to bring to the forefront of my stories that I believe falls into this personality type. They're an anthropologist and languages expert in a high fantasy setting, chosen by a higher power to hunt supernatural creatures. I also want to emphasize his openness, charm and the way he seeks to understand and support others while bringing out his flawed altruism and how sensitive he is to cruelty. I'd be interested in seeing them all if you're willing to make them, but this is the one I'd like the most. Thank you for all you do!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much and I am so excited to hear from other writers who are using my stuff! I've added your vote to the tally. Next up is INFP, so I will recommend that in the mean time you check out CS. Joseph's channel (link in description). These videos are mostly based on his work and he's got an entire ENFP library. Best of luck! Your story sounds awesome!

  • @roma62
    @roma62 7 місяців тому

    Have you abandoned this series? I would love your take on the ENFP, the INFP and the ESTP. Your descriptions are the most wholesome characterisations of mbti types on UA-cam. Most else tend to lean towards the vague and shallow while yours are concrete.

  • @nelle4419
    @nelle4419 2 роки тому +2

    This was so good!!❤️ Would love to see INTJ as well

    • @JustN0tMe
      @JustN0tMe 2 роки тому

      I second that 👆🏾

  • @tybolt1304
    @tybolt1304 2 роки тому +2

    i discovered mbti lately and so far i never feel better understood than when i watch vídeos about entp.

  • @campt91
    @campt91 2 роки тому +2

    As an INFP I'd like to see a video for my type or even my unconscious the ENFJ or my superego the ISTP. You've already made one for my subconscious the ESTJ and it was very well done. I've also watched most of the other types and they are brilliant videos. I'm looking super forward to see what the finished deck looks like.

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +2

      INFP is next! Thank you so much--that's so nice of you to say :) Getting back to this series is next on my agenda after I finish up this book manuscript (should be done next month). It's really cool how many people are connecting with it. Thanks for watching!

  • @justinsantiago7138
    @justinsantiago7138 2 роки тому +5

    I have never seen a more accurate video for describing the tendencies, skillsets, challenges and vulnerabilities I face and experience as this personality type. The good, the bad and especially the ugly all in one place. The things I struggle with overcoming and the way I interact with the world and especially in my romantic relationships and friendships. Great vid.

  • @zrienkersh1475
    @zrienkersh1475 Рік тому +1

    I’m an ENTP and you nailed it.

  • @233kosta
    @233kosta 2 місяці тому

    Aight, fine. Ya talked me into it. I do kind of sort of maybe fit a little bit in the box that silly online test tried to draw around me 🤔

  • @Pawnochio
    @Pawnochio 2 роки тому +2

    Let me give you some advice, bastard. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you. Tyrion Lannister this is the motto I live by

  • @dontbeadogsbody3564
    @dontbeadogsbody3564 Місяць тому

    As an ENTP, reading comments from other ENTPS is just the most wonderfully decadent reading ever.

  • @VondaInWonderland
    @VondaInWonderland Рік тому +1

    Thank you, this was great. That being said, I would like to point out that I am not a villain ❤️

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  Рік тому +1

      See, now, that's exactly what a villain would say. ;) Lol! Thanks so much for watching

  • @drastoturner219
    @drastoturner219 Рік тому

    Bravo! Bravo! 👏🏾

  • @sad_doggo2504
    @sad_doggo2504 Рік тому +1

    I've been thinking that someone I met at the beginning of the year is an ENTP. He took me on a totally wild ride after losing my last job to force me to face my fears and find another. I can't help but see a lot of the traits listed here in him, like wanting the best for others and being more than willing (preferring, really) to take unconventional routes to the finish line. It also amazed me how his mind worked when we spoke, he would run circles around me with all the ideas he was able to generate.
    As far as ENTPs go (if he is one) he definitely runs more on the sadistic side, as he openly admitted he took pleasure in 'scaring me back on my feet.' I guess I can't argue with results but that chaotic, unpredictable nature does make me a little nervous if I'm being honest...

    • @whocarescrapsa
      @whocarescrapsa Рік тому

      Are you very sure that your interpretation of the event is 100% correct? Have you perhaps injected the sadistic part into it based on what you felt? I understand that you felt scared and stressed when facing your fears and finding a new job. That is your choice. It doesn't have to be that way. I doubt he got pleasure from scaring you. He most likely got pleasure from showing you that you have nothing to fear when finding a new job. It is more likely he got pleasure from showing you the value you have to offer. It could be an exciting time - finding new opportunities and growing. Typical ENTP here. Let me use an analogy. You have a young child that is terrified of peas. They won't have them on their plate, never mind eat them. With some clever manipulation we would be proud if we got them to overcome this fear and actually got them to start eating peas. We are not insensitive to the fear of peas, but we give it zero attention because it is not real. It is only your perception. At no point was the child or any peas in danger. We typically only help people we care about. We have to work very hard not to come across as abrasive and/or sadistic. Typically, with young ENTPs their sadistic side would be reserved for enemies, and you would get no benefit from it.

  • @_sch_eme_
    @_sch_eme_ 2 роки тому +2

    Heyy my group and i just started to watch this series and you made all their personality types into such actually acurrate characters but you didnt do mine and im so sad lmaoo 😭😅🤣🥺🥺 im an INFP and your videos have such amazing depth and content and i know theres 6 left and you probably will do them at some point but its been 3 months and im worried you wont lmaoo its not like you have to but you do such a good job and your way with words and your voice are soo good i really hope you doo i cant wait to watch it! I hope you are doing good! Keep on being cool! ✌

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Lol! You're great. INFP is next! 2020+2021 has been taking up a lot of my time and I'm a one-woman show, so it's going at a snail's pace :( I'm so glad you are loving the series and yes it is continuing! I'm just slow, lol!

    • @_sch_eme_
      @_sch_eme_ 2 роки тому

      @@cynthiapayne9906 omg thanks for replying! Im so so so glad you are good and keep making these amazing videos! Even if it takes years i'll wait lmao they are worth it i just wanted to be sure it was comming thank you so much!! Much love!

  • @Dante_Seth
    @Dante_Seth 11 місяців тому +1

    You're a godsend

  • @KevinKing-ue1qk
    @KevinKing-ue1qk 8 місяців тому

    Hi Cynthia. Can I please ask where/how you came up with the villainous information. I ask as I'd know as I'm wondering how this very particular type of shadow could be ascribe simply to a personality type and not say to a specific trauma.
    I can't expresse strongly enough how much I enjoyed this video as I am an entp. And also how impressed I am with your work with the other videos. I'm in awe.
    Thanks again for the video and thank you in advance for answering my question.

  • @Taleyatomcat
    @Taleyatomcat 2 роки тому +1

    It is both refreshing and frustrating to hear these vulnerabilities, weaknesses, and growth patterns laid out so plainly yet emphatically. I realize this is a video meant to advise fictional characterization but it's really a wealth of insightful analysis for any non-fictional ENTP to cut their teeth on. I found myself cringing badly every time I was reminded of the stupid things I've said that meant nothing to me and everything to the person I was speaking to. Leading to a cycle of fawning, which I thought of as harmless, until I realized how manipulative and disconnected my artificial friendliness really was. I didn't feel like "me" but I knew I had to try and tamp myself down so I privately said to myself "the world is just the way it is and no amount of charging ahead and blurting the truth out is going to change reality. Better just figure out a way around this and get what I can out of it since everyone else is too dumb to see what I see."
    And yeah, it's lonely to be that arrogant and walled off. I began to feel desperate for connection, but really desperate for my nihilism to be proven wrong. I still felt that bitter ache in my chest when you described all of this because it reminds me of my huge fear of being ultimately destructive when all I've ever wanted is to be constructive.
    Now, I'm finally realizing the only way to make meaning in my life is to commit to a line of thinking and accept that I will make mistakes but it's worth making the mistake to more fully understand the world, and try to slow down my own ego when someone REQUESTS my opinion or advice by prioritizing the state of mind they are currently in, past insecurities they've revealed to me, and what their own goal or objective really is, not what I personally think the outcome should be.
    So, not to type my entire therapy session in the comments or anything, but these videos are probably valuable in that they're not just echo chambers reciting stereotypes- it may be fictional growth, and mbti may be pseudoscience, but if we identify ourselves with the label we should not just say "oh that's just me, can't change!" instead, be like "oh damn, yeah these flaws do seem familiar. Luckily I'm a human capable of consciously affecting the world and people around me so maybe if I keep hitting the same wall it's me that actually is the problem..." or whatever. I think I spent too much time rambling here but I'm sure it won't matter. In the grand scheme of things, what's the harm in indulging in an overlong UA-cam comment?

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Your comment really touched me, thank you for taking the time to write it

  • @kaycorea8229
    @kaycorea8229 2 роки тому +2

    PLEASE, do INTJ please!!!
    I have an INTJ daughter and she’s very hard to figure out. I have an ENTP daughter as well , so this helps a lot. Thank you so much! I’m an INTP btw.

  • @belladonna4765
    @belladonna4765 2 роки тому

    Can you please do ENFJ and INFP next. I really like how videos show understanding a character personality for writing.

  • @shantitakemoto1058
    @shantitakemoto1058 9 місяців тому

    I have an ENTP friend and I can see the correlation with her and a lot of these characters..she’s kind of blunt, she’s kind of trickstery, kind of nihilistic, and definitely stands out lol..in my infp opinion lol

  • @dolosofamili8838
    @dolosofamili8838 8 місяців тому

    omg, i just got a tattoo saying if there is a will there is a way. LOL that just confirms everything about ENTP on this video

  • @callumrhind1357
    @callumrhind1357 Рік тому +1

    20:39. Notice how Clooney's character is going on to the next thing without stopping to consider to pick up the money? (Ne over Si).

    • @gmann7146
      @gmann7146 4 місяці тому

      What film is this?

  • @jesusgerdez7631
    @jesusgerdez7631 2 роки тому

    I really like these Videos.. I ope to see ENFP soon

  • @Gambette69
    @Gambette69 2 роки тому +3

    I’d appreciate ISTP & ISFP for selfish reasons lol They don’t get much exposure or many topicals, so learning properly about them, from various sources, is very difficult for this ENTP

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +3

      Bring on the votes for ISTP! I wanna do them, lol! Next up is INFP, but I have added your votes to the tally. It's going to be at a snail's pace, but we will get there :) In the mean time, I'll repeat what I said in my previous response to you (thanks for the analytics boost!) and suggest you check out CS. Joseph's channel for more info on ISFPs and ISTPs. These videos are based on his work, I just made it pretty and applicable to a favorite hobby (writing fiction). Best wishes!

  • @Uncle_Jester
    @Uncle_Jester 25 днів тому

    Characters that feel real and... certifiable

  • @camiiscool1217
    @camiiscool1217 10 місяців тому +1

    PLEEEEEASSSE DO ENFP ITS BEEN 2 YEARS BUT I STILL HAVE HOPE

  • @caffemocca8855
    @caffemocca8855 9 місяців тому

    All the "social problems" supposedly by the NT types and the introverts, are not because they lack tact or shit like that, but because majority of people are sensors.
    Average sensors simply don't see people underneath like intuitives do. They also judge things based on social norms & commonality, mostly.

  • @iliketalkingaboutstuff3651
    @iliketalkingaboutstuff3651 11 місяців тому +1

    yes, character development... for my... book.👀
    *Writes notes for my therapist.

  • @raphaelambrosiuscostco
    @raphaelambrosiuscostco 2 роки тому +1

    Keep going dude

  • @Kim_Moto
    @Kim_Moto 7 місяців тому

    Are you going to finish this series?! They’ve been so helpful!

  • @JoanKajo
    @JoanKajo 2 роки тому +1

    Damn you really read me for filth I kinda started to tear up

  • @helocdr
    @helocdr Рік тому

    These videos are great! Will you do more of them? I'd love to see one about INFPs

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  Рік тому +2

      Thank you! I do intend to do more, and INFP is next! It's just taking forever. I wrote and published another book since the last upload, and now I'm in the middle of an unexpected move across country. Hoping to get INFP done this winter :)
      Thanks for watching!

    • @helocdr
      @helocdr Рік тому

      @@cynthiapayne9906 that's great news! can't wait :)

    • @Jason-ul9tq
      @Jason-ul9tq Рік тому

      @@cynthiapayne9906 So great to hear this, these videos are awesome and I'm looking forward to INTJ!

  • @winterbird4447
    @winterbird4447 2 роки тому +1

    Love this! Will you please do ENFP and INFP too?

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      INFP is next! And I've added ENFP to the vote tally :) Thanks for watching!

  • @TMR0007
    @TMR0007 Рік тому +1

    I'm not sure if I'm an ENTP (I think I might be) but I found a lot of the clips used quite amusing almost like I could relate to them. Any help would be great as I'm trying to work out which personality type I am.

  • @dontbeadogsbody3564
    @dontbeadogsbody3564 11 місяців тому

    Ow. Speaking of being burned by the scorch of the truth torch… You got that one right.😂

  • @Develpup
    @Develpup 2 роки тому

    Can't wait to see ENFJ and more!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      Thank you! I've added your vote to the tally :) We're getting there at a snail's pace but we will get there.

  • @joeltraut5050
    @joeltraut5050 3 місяці тому

    My favorite line to say.
    "well technically speaking"😂😂😂

  • @dandroid_
    @dandroid_ Рік тому +2

    If ADHD was a personality type, it’d be ENTP😂
    Foreal though this was an incredible breakdown of the ENTP personality type!
    I’ve never felt so understood, however I’m not too sure how I feel about that…🤔🤣 ENTPs are always presented as an emotionally unavailable/broken genius devils advocate with a proclivity for starting drama and hurting feelings. Sure that can be accurate in some of us, but I would definitely think that would be a minority for most ENTPs.
    Even the type title is the “Debater” which I don’t mind but I don’t see it as the most accurate name. I saw a post that called it “The Visionary” which I thought was a much better description of the ENTP. Most of us that I’ve met simply enjoy new strange, new, or novel ideas that we can breakdown to the most basic elements and find the pros and cons of said idea before we figure out a way to implement/build it. The downside is that most of the time, the second we figure out how to implement that idea we find a new topic, and completely drop the last one until we get bored 6 months later and maybe we’ll finish it 🤷‍♂️😂
    Thank you for coming to my TedTalk

    • @Pebbledrop
      @Pebbledrop Рік тому +2

      I feel like "thanks for coming to my TedTalk" is an ENTP mantra. 😂

    • @dandroid_
      @dandroid_ Рік тому +1

      @@Pebbledrop damn straight 💯😤

    • @mariog7213
      @mariog7213 Рік тому

      I wonder if there’s any connection between adhd and being entp.

  • @dumbforest1279
    @dumbforest1279 2 роки тому

    I'm writing a little story and have the main side character as an entp I'm basing most of his manurisms on me (I'm an entp) but I'd like to know how to write him better

  • @MrLimitless95
    @MrLimitless95 2 роки тому

    Will you be doing ESTP soon? Thanks, these are great!

  • @midnightblues9974
    @midnightblues9974 2 роки тому

    These are great, if it's possible could you do istp next?

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому

      Thank you! INFP is next, but I have added your vote to the tally :)

  • @PaulOBrienSEOBrien
    @PaulOBrienSEOBrien 6 місяців тому

    This is amazing 🎉
    Do you have one abour INTJ? And ESFP ... Well, do you habe a website with all of them?

  • @tabby705
    @tabby705 2 роки тому

    Would love to see ISFP!

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Your vote has been added to the tally! Thanks for watching!

  • @compactinfinity
    @compactinfinity 2 роки тому

    I really wish youll do the enfp soon

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      I know, I'm terrible :( Getting back to this series is next on my priority list after finishing up this book manuscript (should be done in February). We're going at a snails pace but we will get there. Thanks for being so patient!

  • @Jpro-ko3ve
    @Jpro-ko3ve 9 місяців тому +1

    This video scared me - ENTP

  • @haaaveyoumettedHL
    @haaaveyoumettedHL 2 роки тому

    I see that this is the latest video in the playlist and it was uploaded in Aug 2021. I recently discorvered the channel and enjoy it so far. Can you please let me know if ENFJ video is coming soon? Thanks

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +3

      Hey there, and thanks for watching! I am very, very terrible at being consistent with this channel :( I am working on the next video, INFP, but took a bit of a break to write and publish my latest book. My goal is to get another video out this year, but I absolutely intend to finish this series. It's a ton of fun and I'm learning a lot :D Thanks again!

  • @sad_hedgehog
    @sad_hedgehog Рік тому

    36:39 understandable beyond any way i can express

  • @MichelGoy
    @MichelGoy 4 місяці тому

    I want ENFP next, what happens when you exchange thinking for feeling? 😃

  • @jwbradley2
    @jwbradley2 8 місяців тому

    What is that show that keeps being shown? I know House, and GoT but what’s that other one?
    Edit: I just finished the video lol it was Xander. From Buffy the vampire slayer.

  • @conradsmith9441
    @conradsmith9441 2 роки тому

    15:44 I felt that 🥲🥲🥲

  • @Traxie
    @Traxie 2 роки тому +1

    Okay but I still believe dr house is not extroverted, yes he debates alot but still

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching! I'm using the 4-sides system with definitions developed by Dr. Linda Berens and taught to me by CS. Joseph. The typical, common definition of extroverted is more a Se-hero or Fe-hero extroversion: all about people, engaging in social situations, etc. They are seeking the extroverted version of their hero functions (sensory and feelings) and those are closely tied to other people. Ne-heros and Te-heros are also seeking the extroverted versions of their hero functions, but those things are not necessarily tied to other people (other possibilities, outside information). They're still extroverted because they're Initiating, or they like to control the conversation and decide their own roll in it, but the social behavior of Ne and Te heros can't be expected to mimic those of Se and Fe heros. ENTJs especially often think they're introverts. I hope that helps clarify.

  • @mylesrobinson9822
    @mylesrobinson9822 2 роки тому +1

    As an intp I'm finding a lot of similarities. Obviously.

  • @ousmanfatty2492
    @ousmanfatty2492 Рік тому

    fire

  • @meiyuc22
    @meiyuc22 6 місяців тому

    I'll suggest ENTPs to focus more on themselves and their own subjects of interest. Let other come to you if they need your advice or help. Otherwise, they can enjoy their own decisions and ways of doing things. Often I find people need your more frequently than you need their requests.

  • @MrArtod
    @MrArtod Рік тому

    Question. Is it possible that when you were kid - you were ENTP, when teenager - INTJ, and in 40s you became INFJ? Tests show that I'm INFJ right now, but from what I remember about my childhood - it feels like ENTP, and in school I did the test it showed me as INTJ 🤔

  • @skyleranimates1251
    @skyleranimates1251 2 роки тому

    Amazing! Can we have INTJ next?

  • @tomasgarcia2218
    @tomasgarcia2218 10 місяців тому

    21m of this and never felt nakeder

  • @AudreyMartinek-yr3mb
    @AudreyMartinek-yr3mb 9 місяців тому

    Me realizing just how accurate this is when I remember how I tried to convince my mom, sister, and a teacher that graduation ceremonies are pointless and a waste of time 😂

  • @melinakorovessi713
    @melinakorovessi713 2 роки тому +2

    Surprised you made an entire video about ENTPs and didn’t use a single scene of Tony Stark

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +3

      That's because I f'ed up and put him in my ESFP video after having just watched the first Iron Man. Then I watched some later movies and started cussing up a storm, lol. I'm learning as I go :)

  • @arlettasloan6453
    @arlettasloan6453 Рік тому

    Mm.. I am fully capable of learning from the mistakes of others. Notice how I never tried to take over the world? No you didn't, because, I didn't make a big splash about it. Nevertheless, I never tried. That's learning from the mistakes of others!

  • @winonaponcespeaks
    @winonaponcespeaks 2 роки тому +3

    what movie is it where the guy says "not just any girl you're special"

    • @cynthiapayne9906
      @cynthiapayne9906  2 роки тому +2

      Not a movie--that scene is from the TV show "Buffy the Vampire Slayer," also known as the most awesome of all the awesomest TV shows :) Thanks for watching!