ANSWERING YOUR LGBTQ RELATIONSHIP QS!! (big sister advice) 🌈💖

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  • @laurenelloise
    @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +22

    ▾ TIMESTAMPS ▾ to skip around to what u might find valuable!
    Tysm for all ur Qs! (And to my sis for joining me) 💖
    1:02 Fear of rejection
    2:43 GF doesn't answer ur texts
    5:03 When is it time to breakup?
    5:49 My GF is asexual/demisexual
    8:13 How to start dating women at 27yrs
    11:10 Being trans and visible in gay relationships
    13:07 Lesbian friends-to-lovers breakup advice
    16:35 Am I toxic?
    18:39 Online dating for the first time
    20:55 Making a relationship last long term
    23:27 Is it ok to date a co-worker?
    26:34 Get over a long term relationship
    28:58 Crush on ur best friend
    30:12 How to get into a relationship
    p.s. if u like this stuff, check out our last advice vid ua-cam.com/video/b-Zg-kB1Imw/v-deo.html

  • @akilahrich6463
    @akilahrich6463 9 місяців тому +36

    Oh my gosh I asked my sister to order the long sleeve merch and she showed me a personalized video from you to her!😱I was SHOCKED but I loved it and I really hope the merch fits❤❤❤I adore your videos btw🥰

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +14

      oh my god cuteee!! and thank you so much for getting some merch!! appreacite you 💖

  • @The_impossible_Girl_501
    @The_impossible_Girl_501 9 місяців тому +14

    Thanks for another amazing video Lauren, this was really helpful❤❤❤

  • @tcort
    @tcort 9 місяців тому +19

    Always fun to watch when you've got a co-host like Gal Pal or Leah/James.

  • @ChiefsFan4213
    @ChiefsFan4213 9 місяців тому +11

    I can't believe my question was in the video. I'm so happy and thank you so much!!!!!! 30:14

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +5

      thakn you so much for submitting a question! hopefully our answer was useful haha 💖 if you want it to happen, it will!

  • @Karli841
    @Karli841 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Lauren and Leah for answering my question! Leah’s perspective of not caring so much about gender and labels was really comforting and eased a lot of the anxiety I have about being a bit unsure. You two are amazing, and I appreciate you taking the time to share some really awesome advice 💜

  • @PaulReinerfelt
    @PaulReinerfelt 9 місяців тому +4

    I just love that Leah used the "Love is like a fart"-joke, particularly since I have been know to use it myself! 😄

  • @I_like_dnd_and_cosplay_
    @I_like_dnd_and_cosplay_ 5 місяців тому +1

    i know its pretty late, but i'm stuck in a tough situation. I'm a 13yo enby, and i'm crushing on another girl in my grade, shes a 13 yo lesbian. i transfered to a new school this year, and i met this girl. my friends introduced me to her, and the rest is history. i want to confess to her, and all my friends know. however, my friend asked her if she liked anyone, and my crush said no. ive been working so hard to get the courage to confess, but im not sure anymore.

  • @Echo_Loves-_bats
    @Echo_Loves-_bats 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi Lauren! Ive been watching your videos recently and i was wondering if you could help me on this thing here
    Ive been questioning my sexuality for almost three years since 5th grade first I thought i was lesbian then i thoughr i was bisexual and i started questioning for another year if i was straight or not, now im sure im not straight but im questioning if im bisexual or pansexual and im not sure because i have had a crush on a non binary person and alot so im questioning alot. Do you have any ways that could help me find out?

  • @Lost_ToTheAges
    @Lost_ToTheAges 9 місяців тому +13

    I can tell this is going to hit some people hard

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +5

      we literally go thru soooo much

    • @yasanthmanoj5037
      @yasanthmanoj5037 9 місяців тому

      what do u guys thinking about incest lgbt like us@@laurenelloise

  • @Megan-t5f
    @Megan-t5f 9 місяців тому +3

    the videos are always so helpful and comforting to watch and genuinely give younger people a lot of hope (for me at least and definitely for others too). Thank you.

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому

      I'm so glad to hear this yessss! 💖

  • @RubyBird12
    @RubyBird12 9 місяців тому +5

    hey Lauren! are you going to be doing a live? at any point?

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +3

      hellooo gonna do one tomorrow morning instead since its so late for me

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 9 місяців тому +1

    Very good advice!

  • @indiesanimals4385
    @indiesanimals4385 9 місяців тому +3

    Should I be sleeping rn bc it’s 1am but will I be able to sleep if I don’t watch the video right now? No… so here I am watching it at 1am lol

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому

      oh my gosh hahah hope you got a good rest afterwards 💖💖

  • @menaoliver13
    @menaoliver13 9 місяців тому +1

    oh my god i really appreciate you answering my question about my first relationship and you’ve made me feel so much better 😭😭🫶🏻

  • @lottiehodgson2230
    @lottiehodgson2230 9 місяців тому +2

    This was so good!!!!! Thank you!!!!

  • @MayTheSwiftie13
    @MayTheSwiftie13 9 місяців тому

    yay a 30 min long video! thank you for all the advice that you give us, you're amazing ahh!

  • @aw3299
    @aw3299 9 місяців тому

    Hi Lauren and James, I had a question about the ability to hold a conversation with the other person, especially with online relationships. Does autism factor into the determination of the ability of the other person to hold a conversation? In my case as a trans girl with autism, I can't help but fear my somewhat limited ability to have a conversation with others plays a factor in how people view me as being able to communicate personally, especially online. Can you clarify if autism plays a factor in a neurotypical person's perception of someone's ability to hold a conversation, both if do or don't know that person is neurodivergent.

  • @thebeachscene2021
    @thebeachscene2021 9 місяців тому +2

    now go get some sleep lol

  • @ronaldruffner779
    @ronaldruffner779 9 місяців тому

    Great, fun answers, mostly the real honest caring about each questioners!

  • @INFJ3027animus
    @INFJ3027animus 9 місяців тому +1

    한국에서도 많이 보고있어요🥰🇰🇷

  • @NatalieN500
    @NatalieN500 9 місяців тому

    16:29 i was already subscribed, but still commenting to appreciate the excellent Pokémon reference

  • @Fish-123
    @Fish-123 9 місяців тому +1

    16:25 love the pokémon reference 😂

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому

      Omg yessss love that someone got it :’)

  • @kanon_natsuki
    @kanon_natsuki 9 місяців тому +1

    sis time lol

  • @dragon-born-nerd
    @dragon-born-nerd 9 місяців тому

    thank you so much for answering all these! ✨ love this vid so much

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +1

      Of course!! 🧡 hope you found value in it!

  • @trekkie74656_
    @trekkie74656_ 9 місяців тому

    Definitely need more of these kinds of videos! They're so great!

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому

      aww yayayaya love to hear this!! we gotta do more

  • @mellycool06
    @mellycool06 9 місяців тому

    One question your sister mention she is in a relationship is it with a guy or a girl ?

  • @J17891
    @J17891 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for answering my question! This whole video was really helpful ❤

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +1

      You're so welcome! (idk what Q was yours BUT i hope our answer was helpful ) 🧡 🧡

    • @J17891
      @J17891 9 місяців тому

      @@laurenelloisemine was about how to online date

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 9 місяців тому

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖

  • @innateclue
    @innateclue 9 місяців тому +3

    12:30 upload i see you girl

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +3

      i know 😫 im so tired but im trying to keep on track! only 1 more to go thankfully

    • @basnyatmixtape
      @basnyatmixtape 9 місяців тому

      ⁠​⁠@@laurenelloisehey lauren, just wanted to let you know that you’re doing an amazing job. we all love the videos and everything but taking a break is important too. also taking care of yourself. its amazing of course how you want to do these videos and keep up with it but also taking a break is good every once in a while. everyone needs a break sometimes :) keep up the great work lauren!!

  • @ae.edixtz
    @ae.edixtz 9 місяців тому

    Heyy Lauren

  • @Dinikajanneke
    @Dinikajanneke 9 місяців тому +1

    𝑷𝒍𝒛 𝒅𝒐 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆

    • @laurenelloise
      @laurenelloise  9 місяців тому +2

      🙈💖 yay glad u liked it enough u want another!!