What it's Like to Live with a Chinese family in Beijing, China 🇨🇳

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  • @MattandJulia
    @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +28

    How does the family dynamic in China compare to where you are from? 🤔❤️

  • @marietanguy6445
    @marietanguy6445 19 днів тому +64

    They are so kind and welcoming. God bless you, beautiful souls.

  • @FredGuia-s1p
    @FredGuia-s1p 19 днів тому +38

    Wow, you two are the first couple who not just travel, but also do the life exploration.
    More amazing is you guys have the guts "just do it".

  • @icare6076
    @icare6076 19 днів тому +45

    I really liked this video! The two of you really thrive in situations like this where you are integrating with a family or community. Your warmth and openness shines through. ❤

  • @miriam2909
    @miriam2909 19 днів тому +37

    What a beautiful video of a special occasion in a Chinese family. The food looked delicious… 😋.. and such lovely people. Thoroughly enjoyed this experience with you. 😊😊 PS the language classes are really teaching you a lot!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +2

      Thank you so much Miriam, really appreciate it 🥰❤️

  • @thenanlife1141
    @thenanlife1141 19 днів тому +29

    I would love to experience all the wonderful cultures of this world but thankfully I can experience it through your beautiful vloggs .. Thank you guys ❤❤❤

  • @costasworldofmusicmemories5792
    @costasworldofmusicmemories5792 19 днів тому +56

    To connect and bond to a family when you are away.. That is precious. What a lovely family you are with. It's genuine. We love you guys. ❤ Be Well ! Stay Healthy from Harriet, Jim and Yuki

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +6

      Thank you so much guys! Sending you both lots of love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lindauhrig1513
    @lindauhrig1513 19 днів тому +49

    What a wonderful experience! You guys seem to be doing so well with your Chinese. I’m impressed!!!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +2

      Thank you so much Linda 🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @Jess-th9qe
    @Jess-th9qe 19 днів тому +12

    Wow! You guys get to spend such an amazing time with this local family. ❤

  • @lindathalman3506
    @lindathalman3506 19 днів тому +13

    "This is my favorite beer" has to be the most useful phrase to learn. Smiling! But exactly: learn phrases! Of course, yes/no, left/right, push/pull/, exit/entry, etc. The numbers from 1 to 10; who, what, when, where, what time/day, etc. are good to know. How much? is very important (smiling). I like/love (or don't like/allergic to!), There's more, but my teaching and learning philosophy is COMMUNICATION. Hang the grammar. Use gestures, too. What a cool language/linguistic experience. Rock on Matt and Julia! Thanks for another delightful visit with your Chinese host family!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +2

      Thank you so much Linda, really appreciate it ❤️🥰

  • @jilldinneen4271
    @jilldinneen4271 19 днів тому +8

    My favourite episode so far. It has a lot of warmth and depth. I wished I could have squeezed myself in at the end of the table and joined you. A bit difficult, though given that I'm vegetarian! I admire your courage in enrolling in a language school to learn Chinese and grow in understanding of Chinese culture, something language apps can never do. I love your travel vlogs, you are in a class of your own.
    Looking forward to the next one.
    💐💐♥♥♥

    • @LTLChinese
      @LTLChinese 14 днів тому

      They're doing so well!

  • @vickieyeager9646
    @vickieyeager9646 13 днів тому +2

    Hi, I live in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania.I'm 75 years old and I just saw you Julia and Matt on the Great British Bake show, It's on Netflix. You were so young. Thank you for taking us on your travels. You showed me and others that people no matter where they live are basically warm hearted and wonderful.

  • @MrLaueebee
    @MrLaueebee 19 днів тому +7

    You 'FAMILY IN CHINA 'and both of you are enjoying the new environment learning how to do the Jiaozi and the way Chinese family go about their daily life is such and experience.
    👍👍👍

    • @LTLChinese
      @LTLChinese 14 днів тому

      Once in a lifetime kind of stuff

  • @LindaPerry_337
    @LindaPerry_337 16 днів тому +3

    This has been a very enjoyable and informative video to watch. Your stay with your friendly host family is pleasant because you, Matt and Julia, are also very affable and authentic in your approach to others. So thank you for this video. ❤️🙋‍♀️

  • @yonight6871
    @yonight6871 19 днів тому +15

    Chinese people attach great importance to family and children, and to their education. People in the north are more enthusiastic, with cheap prices and convenient transportation. They have heating in winter and the temperature is about 25 degrees indoors, so life is pretty good. If you live in Europe for a long time, it's a bit boring. Living in Asia for a while occasionally is a new experience.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +4

      We’ve had an incredible experience this far 🥰❤️

  • @AuroraRose_Andromeda
    @AuroraRose_Andromeda 19 днів тому +7

    Seeing you both learn to play the amazing instruments is amazing. I def can see you are both having an amazing time. Looks to be like a lap harp but much different set up. I'd love to learn this amazing instrument. I find their music is very relaxing and calming. I love the family you both are staying with. Very sweet and willing to help you both learn their culture along with the language while you are there. I love your host family. Btw you both are doing amazing with learning Chinese. Thank you for sharing your adventure with us. I am loving your travels in China.

    • @LTLChinese
      @LTLChinese 14 днів тому +1

      They really are doing brilliantly so far!

  • @waywrdsun
    @waywrdsun 19 днів тому +6

    Looks like a wonderful experience. What an amazing life you two are living!

  • @carolali8851
    @carolali8851 19 днів тому +9

    Very busy household. I didn't know what that instrument was so I looked it up because it sounds so beautiful. It looks like a guzheng but it didn't sound like that when Amanda was saying it. The food looks delicious, you are fortunate to have a professional chef in the house.

    • @howardcheung5809
      @howardcheung5809 19 днів тому +2

      yes it is a guzheng.

    • @nuo.not1033
      @nuo.not1033 17 днів тому +1

      Amanda's feeling is wrong, what you think is right, Guzheng also has many different specifications, this is just one of them, and similar to the guzheng is the ancient Chinese qin, the appearance is similar to the guzheng, but the timbre is not as rich as the guzheng, the history of ancient Chinese qin is nearly 1000 years earlier than the guzheng. There is a very interesting phenomenon that many Musical Instruments named after a single word are native to China, such as:琴、筝、笛、萧、埙、笙。
      There are also instruments such as pipa, erhu and suona, which were mainly introduced to China from ancient Persia. The interesting thing is that these foreign instruments are better developed in China, while Iran is almost lost, which is a pity.😂😂😂

    • @carolali8851
      @carolali8851 17 днів тому

      @@nuo.not1033 Thank you so much for taking the time to explain this. I really love the sound of the instrument.

    • @_Wai_Wai_
      @_Wai_Wai_ 15 днів тому

      ​@@nuo.not1033I'm pretty sure they were playing Guzheng. Guqin generally is smaller and have fewer strings.

  • @marinavlady6922
    @marinavlady6922 18 днів тому +2

    It' s really fascinating how you fit into this family. Shared! ❤

  • @johnlocke5265
    @johnlocke5265 19 днів тому +8

    This is a great series ❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +1

      So glad you are enjoying it 🙏🏼❤️

  • @deanzaZZR
    @deanzaZZR 19 днів тому +11

    In a Chinese home guests are always encouraged to eat more and more - 你吃吧!你吃多一点吧 You eating more makes grandma happy!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +2

      Haha, we will oblige to their request 😀❤️

  • @CHONGSoliz
    @CHONGSoliz 18 днів тому +62

    imagine trusting this kind of content but never exploring books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, no wonder people stay in the same cycles

  • @marietanguy6445
    @marietanguy6445 19 днів тому +13

    Lovely music.

  • @alexhu7939
    @alexhu7939 19 днів тому +6

    at the end of the video, when you two are giving an assessment, at the background, the leaves are very colorful!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +1

      They were so gorgeous! Love autumn colours so much 🍂 ❤️

  • @VikingPreparedness
    @VikingPreparedness 19 днів тому +4

    That front door though...WOW!

  • @thenanlife1141
    @thenanlife1141 19 днів тому +9

    Love the Asian culture ❤❤

  • @gwto7448
    @gwto7448 19 днів тому +5

    The important thing in an Asian society, when young children connect with grandparents, they learn the Chinese value system and cultural traditions when they grow up. These may be lacking in the upbringing of any children who are left to nannies etc. to be looked after in some parts of the world.Most Chinese are therefore , very attached to their grandparents in this sense. They remain filial, respectful and loving to their grandparents as part of the value system.

  • @maxihobbs
    @maxihobbs 14 днів тому

    There is no better way to improve your Chinese than to live with a Chinese family. You guys are doing it right! 💪

  • @brianlee844
    @brianlee844 19 днів тому +1

    thank you! Matt and Julia!! so happy to see your video! Making dumpling, joining family dinner... what is a family feeling!

  • @PK-nb9ph
    @PK-nb9ph 19 днів тому +1

    I felt privileged to get a glimpse of ur daily life. The genuine human connection and exchange. So precious. Thanks for sharing. 🙏👍🤗

  • @gweisa899
    @gweisa899 19 днів тому +7

    Mandarin: 你的寄宿家庭看起来非常友好。他们会跟你说中文。只要你能听懂,他们就会教你新单词。我在台湾的寄宿家庭也这样做,但没有这么多。因为他们英语很好。我和他们住在不同的楼层。我的经历与你不同。
    English: Your host family seems so friendly. They speak Chinese to you. As much as you can understand and taught new words. My host in Taiwan did that but not as much. Since they knew English well. I live in a different floor in the apartment than them. I had a different experience than you.

  • @LTLChinese
    @LTLChinese 14 днів тому

    Matt and Julia just get it! Keep it up guys, you're doing great, but we want to see more 😎 😇

  • @SunQuick.Orange
    @SunQuick.Orange 13 днів тому +1

    thank you very much for sharing this.

  • @MickB3k
    @MickB3k 11 днів тому

    Great video! So cool to watch you guys learn a new language!

  • @waffl3h0use
    @waffl3h0use 14 днів тому

    your videos are so underrated guys! I thoroughly enjoy watching ☺

  • @brianquinn5060
    @brianquinn5060 18 днів тому +2

    Chinese,Russian,English. we are all one. Respect to all. Thanks.

  • @agneswatson9592
    @agneswatson9592 19 днів тому +11

    So interesting. How long does the baby live with the grandparents? Often in Africa where I grew up the African children go and live in the rural areas with the grandparents while the mothers go to work in the cities. Your language skills are impressive after such a short time. Looking forward to the next instalment. ❤❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +5

      She will stay with the grandparents for a few weeks at a time 😘 Thank you so much 🥰❤️

    • @canalesjuan356
      @canalesjuan356 19 днів тому +1

      Sometimes young parents live with one side of grandparents and switch from time to time to make things easier before the kid goes to kindergarten.

  • @711colonel
    @711colonel 17 днів тому +1

    You guys are amazing

  • @pixie3760
    @pixie3760 10 днів тому

    How very beautiful, I love listening to traditional Chinese music ❤

  • @lauragrandgenett
    @lauragrandgenett 19 днів тому +1

    That was fun! I learn so much from you guys. Thanks!

  • @lesleycarney8868
    @lesleycarney8868 19 днів тому +5

    They walk so fast lolllll no wonder they are all petite. That musical harp thingy reminds of the tune for the British shipping forecast title tune . . i will see if i can find the name of it. . brb. It's called " sailing by"

  • @georgiacoombes699
    @georgiacoombes699 15 днів тому

    What a fascinating glimpse into Chinese culture, I really enjoyed that, how beautiful to see the family dynamics. I think Western families could learn a lot from this! Thank you for the video, more pls! Love from Australia 🇦🇺

  • @jilllangman9343
    @jilllangman9343 16 днів тому

    I was very available for my grandson, but here in Australia a lot of grandparents feel that it’s an imposition to have to babysit. It’s a new perspective. Love watching your integration into the family and listening to you using their language. Thank you. 💖🇦🇺🌻🐝

  • @dunkierookie970
    @dunkierookie970 19 днів тому +2

    It is very common for Asian countries to have such close-knit family values / ties, esp. those with Sinocentric influence (China, Korea, Japan,Vietnam, Singapore [majority Chinese], etc.).

  • @leifsonoferik
    @leifsonoferik 18 днів тому +1

    I had tripe prepared by my Mexican brother-in-law (my sister's husband). It tasted like beef and was quite tasty. Had someone not told me it was tripe, I would never have guessed.

  • @KezzaTianzun
    @KezzaTianzun 19 днів тому +5

    Regardless of nation, human beings are all capable of love, compassion, loyalty, generosity, and integrity.
    We who put borders between nations and form our own cognitive biases against other nations that our governments' deem as "enemies" are really not so different at all. Such experiences like this show that really humans the world over are all the same deep down. Videos like this are a good lesson to people that differences shouldn't need to matter!

  • @yvonnebirch6026
    @yvonnebirch6026 17 днів тому

    Hi guys ! It is great to see you do so well in that kind family. I think China is a fascinating country. Are you doing any cooking for them or for yourselves ? I think it is wonderful to learn about other cultures. As I cannot travel anymore due to mobility issues I am so grateful for your videos. Especially now when I am recovering from a hip replacement . That food looks good ! Enjoy. Love from California ❤❤❤❤

  • @jeanelizabethterry7583
    @jeanelizabethterry7583 5 днів тому

    Chinese people seem very friendly. Wonderful to do this when young as you are. Are you planning on settling down in China?

  • @Robinicat
    @Robinicat 11 днів тому +1

    Iwonder if Julia is German... Thank you for the vlog of life in China.

  • @FinanciallyFreeDeeTV
    @FinanciallyFreeDeeTV 18 днів тому +1

    I enjoyed watching your vlog🥰

  • @yellowboot6629
    @yellowboot6629 13 днів тому

    Thanks 💕

  • @tamarabeck6350
    @tamarabeck6350 19 днів тому +8

    I need to be taken in my a Chinese family. 😊

  • @jonathanward6483
    @jonathanward6483 18 днів тому

    I had to laugh that Matt called the dish stomach, tripe was a staple in Britain in the mid 20th Century. My Dad loved tripe and onions and potato in a white sauce. You can see the love this family puts into cooking. As a side note, that music touches the heart, the nearest thing I can think of is a Harp. I love Chinese music!

  • @TheLoneWanderersBunker
    @TheLoneWanderersBunker 15 днів тому

    Omg. Don't know how i missed that you were on the great British baking show. I just started watching the episodes on Netflix from the beginning, and I was like, "i know that face!" Giggle 🤭

  • @halojones1153
    @halojones1153 15 днів тому

    Heartwarming ❤
    TY 🫶

  • @kathleenfurey5882
    @kathleenfurey5882 19 днів тому +6

    Lovely music, lovely language, beautiful people!! I wish our governments would just sort it out!!!

  • @seamusr8120
    @seamusr8120 16 днів тому

    I love Chinese culture and all the food looks amazing.

  • @darrylhall3690
    @darrylhall3690 19 днів тому +1

    Love this video guys. love food and nothing bound by race and region.. Love cooking and that always makes people happy.

  • @drthomason7043
    @drthomason7043 19 днів тому +2

    These will be easy for you Julia, like the ones your Nan makes

  • @louisedurrant1804
    @louisedurrant1804 18 днів тому

    Such a lovely family to spend your time with…❤xxx

  • @Kylelongwest
    @Kylelongwest 18 днів тому

    When you played the zither, it reminds me of when I bought a violin, thinking it was easy, turns out it is a very difficult instrument.

  • @sharonammirati2042
    @sharonammirati2042 9 днів тому

    the music lessons were 😍😍

  • @sandirobi88
    @sandirobi88 8 днів тому

    Did you take fruit to your host when you visit? This was custom in our area when we were there? The Guzheng is such a beautiful instrument!

  • @joyweidental1227
    @joyweidental1227 15 днів тому

    How do you find the air in Beijing? Are people concerned about air pollution?
    Wish you a wonderful time getting to know the Chinese way of life ❣️

  • @williamvonbaskerville3805
    @williamvonbaskerville3805 10 днів тому

    I just imagined a melody for that chinese instrument but with a harmonica and that typical decent horse rythm i sounds like in a way a chinese wild west song 🤣🤣🤣

  • @howardcheung5809
    @howardcheung5809 19 днів тому +2

    what's the name of Amanda's music teacher again please?
    Another great video by the way 😊

  • @rollingdownfalling
    @rollingdownfalling 19 днів тому +1

    This reminds me of learning German culture. A typical German would say their country is really mundane, nothing exciting about e.g. "that typical German architecture" (since it's everywhere) so they'd rather backpack abroad so to see something "new". Watching the lady playing the music instrument, reminds me of that.

  • @_Wai_Wai_
    @_Wai_Wai_ 15 днів тому +1

    In chinese family of course the grandparents would want to be with grandchildren 😊

  • @juliesemczyszyn5015
    @juliesemczyszyn5015 19 днів тому

    Amazing experience for you both. Lovely family. You will have to make Piroshki for them. Xx

  • @lindathalman3506
    @lindathalman3506 19 днів тому +4

    Is there a party in preparation? So much food, it seems. Or is it make a lot, "freeze some" for later?

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +3

      We ate the lot 😅 there were quite a few of us to be fair 😏❤️

    • @lindathalman3506
      @lindathalman3506 19 днів тому +1

      @@MattandJulia Nice. I do recall you are both always hungry! Cheers.

  • @mykar
    @mykar 19 днів тому

    I've 'helped' make jiaozi a few times. I also struggle folding them, so I'm not really much help. Either I put too much filling and can't close them properly, or I put too little filling and the dumplings just look... wimpy. :P

  • @jeremyclutson8244
    @jeremyclutson8244 19 днів тому +1

    Incredible x 48. Amazing x 23. Brilliant x 12!! You two need to invest in a Thesaurus.

  • @maesc2001
    @maesc2001 19 днів тому +2

    I can’t even imagine gathering the courage to try and learn Mandarin. 😅

    • @kathleenfurey5882
      @kathleenfurey5882 19 днів тому +3

      Why? It’s such a beautiful language!! And it’s not as very difficult as you might imagine. English grammar is a lot more complicated.
      It’s been years since I learned some…. I should try again!

    • @LTLChinese
      @LTLChinese 14 днів тому

      @@kathleenfurey5882 Well said! Anyone can do it! It's not as hard as so many people think :)

  • @georwoogle
    @georwoogle 19 днів тому +1

    😀😀😀

  • @BenjaminPadilla-d6q
    @BenjaminPadilla-d6q 14 днів тому

    Beautiful family....Did the meat taste authentic?

  • @GouganeBarra-u4t
    @GouganeBarra-u4t 19 днів тому +7

    Do you have to learn to read in Mandarin, or is it just the spoken word you're learning ?

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +6

      We are mainly learning spoken Chinese first and foremost, and to read using ‘Pingyin’ (Chinese written in Latin letters), but we are starting to learn some of the main characters as the weeks progress ❤️🥰

  • @zhangjin7179
    @zhangjin7179 8 днів тому

    is matt left handed?

  • @trinewestbyejrgensen4838
    @trinewestbyejrgensen4838 18 днів тому

    Beautiful 👶baby

  • @teresamc7630
    @teresamc7630 14 днів тому

    😍🥰

  • @veraluciadasilva4306
    @veraluciadasilva4306 11 днів тому

    Olá, falo do Rio de Janeiro, Brasil, que anfitriões maravilhosos! Estou me organizando para visitar Beijim. Como fazer contato com estes anfitriões maravilhosos.Viajarei sozinha, tenho 70 anos. Um grande abraço. ❤❤❤❤

  • @MyDxB-z6x
    @MyDxB-z6x 16 днів тому

    Welcome to India but careful

  • @iany2448
    @iany2448 19 днів тому +1

    Just wondering the differences between Chinese dumplings and Russian-s.

  • @d.k87
    @d.k87 18 днів тому

    You r so beautiful ❤

  • @osckord
    @osckord 19 днів тому +5

    китайские гусли? 😁

  • @graceybfrg
    @graceybfrg 18 днів тому

    How could you not have met the baby after staying there for a month? 🤔

  • @lll3708
    @lll3708 19 днів тому

    要被归化了,哈哈哈,欢迎

  • @barbaram2196
    @barbaram2196 19 днів тому

    It takes a village to raise a child.

  • @puweiting
    @puweiting 19 днів тому

    ❤😂🎉❤😂🎉

  • @NatoshaCheek
    @NatoshaCheek 18 днів тому

    if this resonates with you, you owe it to yourself to read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but maybe it’s not for everyone

  • @sm31156
    @sm31156 7 днів тому

    It seems like you two go back to the same countrys over and over? Why always communist countries?

  • @Supra2-uo4if
    @Supra2-uo4if 19 днів тому +2

    I wished you were there two years ago this time in November, so you could witness the Anti Lockdown A4 Revolution.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому

      It was closed at the point 🙂‍↔️

  • @Ultra-Violet
    @Ultra-Violet 19 днів тому

    Couldn't watch this, to cringy 👎🏻

  • @Bshayr0
    @Bshayr0 19 днів тому

    smells like propaganda

  • @Solingen1000
    @Solingen1000 19 днів тому +1

    Do you have a CCP handler ?

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +16

      😂😂😂 If only, we’d be rich! 🤑 Here’s a crazy thought, maybe we just chose to travel to China! 🫣

    • @alejandroheld9527
      @alejandroheld9527 19 днів тому +3

      @@MattandJulia Please get me one for myself, it will make my trip there easier next year! haha

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  19 днів тому +1

      Will do! 😀❤️

    • @idofdm7625
      @idofdm7625 19 днів тому

      Here come the 50 cent accusing crowd, it has becoming sick and tired kind of thing of these McDonald eating, sport watching keyboard worriers, they don't even know how sad their life is😢😢😢 so counter intuitive now even any Westerner ( suppoingly free vs oppressed Chinese like that family ) in China became propagandists for Chinese government!
      Let set up go fund me name CPC propaganda funds and pay every single Westerner in China to make it a reality 😂😂😂

    • @luoderrick6912
      @luoderrick6912 19 днів тому

      Do u mind me asking you this?
      Do you feel slight guilt when your democract leaders using your taxes to trigger civil war and kill / loot so many lives?
      Do you feel great for your future generations?
      Please tell me since you throw that qns at them.

  • @WilliemaeMulligan
    @WilliemaeMulligan 18 днів тому

    funny how people spend so much time on this stuff but ignore books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki that actually explain what’s going on

  • @ARONBurkhardt
    @ARONBurkhardt 18 днів тому

    can’t believe this is what people focus on instead of reading something like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, maybe that’s why so little ever changes

  • @SANFORDPauley
    @SANFORDPauley 18 днів тому

    crazy how much people rely on surface-level ideas when Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki exists, but I guess not everyone is ready for deeper truths

  • @CHRISTOPHERGarrison-f9y
    @CHRISTOPHERGarrison-f9y 18 днів тому

    this is good, but if you haven’t read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, you’re only seeing part of the picture

  • @JOELJonas-d8g
    @JOELJonas-d8g 18 днів тому

    not saying this isn’t interesting, but books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki make this look like child’s play

  • @ALTONHelm
    @ALTONHelm 18 днів тому

    this is good, but if you haven’t read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, you’re only seeing part of the picture