"I trust my instincts", he writes just after confessing that his instincts drove him to cheat, cover it up and lie about it. "I have changed", he writes after putting it out there that he still exhibits the same indifference to what _she_ wants for the two years since their break-up. Try going back to the therapist and air these notions and see how that conversation goes, OP.
I pray that lady shuts op 1 down harder. He's delulu and obsessed, forgetting the effect of him screwing up, causing the split and not the other way around.
"Please be kind", No we don't do that to cheaters. And what's wrong with you being hopeful because you now have a chance because the boyfriend is out the picture. She wouldn't take you back if you were the last man on earth. You have no right to a second chance, leave your ex wife alone, you hurt her already.
OP2 has learned that kids are intrinsically Chaotic Evil and that there is a reason why all campaigns NEED a DM present to prevent mass chaos. Still, OP2 is a Cool Daddy DM. Just never get them started on 'Paranoia'. I fear that they would internalise far too much "Stay alert, trust no-one, always keep your laser handy."
“Can I use fireball?” Oh yeah, that describes my first attempt at D&D when I was a kid. Dad had to make everything cute so I’d stop setting things on fire. (Twenty years later and I still feel bad killing cute things in video games.)
Yeah he's low-key stalking her...nothing that hasn't been done before. He hasn't broken the law or crossed the line into dangerous behavior toward the ex. As long as he cuts immediate contact if his attempts to reconnect fail. The ex could find closure. The "waiting for her all along," is a little disturbing.
Except it starts with low-key stalking and then gradually escalates to danger especially since he has that mindset of oh she responded that must mean she still wants something between us or she wouldn't have responded even though she's asked him to politely f off and give her space.
honestly sounds like they are correctly playing DND. Noone really thinks they are these Characters. And the fun is being a different person. Do I really think I'm a 3 tittied overweight orc bard, that tries to seduce her way through life despite low charisma? No but it's fun.
S1- that man is absolutely insane and needs to get over himself. She wants nothing to do with you!!!! Ugh. S2- this dude needs to leave the party. He is ruining their whole fun just because he can't get over himself. _LET THE GIRLS HAVE FUN!_ Please don't let him come back. Ever. Hopefully he didn't completely destroy their interest in the game; maybe if you can keep the stick in the mud out they'll be willing to try again.
I think what i hate about the first story is the fact that Ive been where OP is. Hell I'm still there, sort of. More in the "letting tf go" phase though. I know i was being weird, creepy, stalkery, and its easy to delude yourself into thinking its perfectly natural. Normal behavior type shit. "She responded, i have a chance." For people like me, people with specific disorders, the line between genuine love and an unhealthy obsession is blurred. Its hard to rationalize why unparalleled devotion could be seen as anything but romantic. I know now. I genuinely hope the girl i kept contacting after years and years of, honestly harassment is doing okay. I hope she can move on from the stress i might have caused her, and i hope for my sake, I can get over the emotions I have for it all. And to anyone reading this on either side of that coin: Stay strong and let go. If your being creepy, stop. Seriously take a step back and ACTUALLY rationalize your behavior and self reflect. I understand the cycle is so easy to repeat. But its not healthy, and the person you think you love is only being hurt by what you're doing, no matter how minuscule you think it is. Just stop. For everyone's sake. For people being victimized by creepy behavior, just ignore the people unless physical contact or attempts are made to meet you against your will. Keep evidence of their harassment and contact the authorities if absolutely necessary. If your stalker is dangerous, take self defense classes or consider purchasing a firearm if youre in the US specifically. Stay safe out there, folks, and carry on.
This poor woman is trying to politely tell her ex to leave her alone and he’s like “oh yeah, I totally have a chance”.
The comments tore him apart and he STILL didn't notice.🤦🏻♀️
Exactly! She’s being crystal clear, but somehow OP is twisting it into hope. This is beyond wishful thinking-it’s concerning
@@TaleToast Exactly.
OP is so delusional, this woman needs to get a restraining order against him
Bro believes his life is a Hallmark Movie
Totally agree, the obsession is way over the line. A restraining order might actually be the safest move for her
Op in the first story has to genuinely have some type of mental defect if he thinks he has even a quarter of a chance of getting her back
He is is denial, like ultra denial
He’s delulu
Obsessive behavior is scary af
Right? It’s like OP is living in a completely different reality. Sometimes, people just can’t see the damage they’ve caused
That dad is NOT being invited back to the Murd3r Hobo Night 😂
That dad actually pmo so badllyyyy
DM is mad that the rest of the group are enjoying the game by playing it a way he didn't intend? Sounds like an experienced DM
@@Innerpandora me too! I also feel bad for his daughter....she must've been so embarrassed!
The dad would be scared to watch girls play sims 😂😂😂
Speaking of which r/aitathesims (spelling?) is hillarious when someone stumbles in 😬😬😬 oh wait this is the sims?
The 1st guy is low-key terrifying.
"I trust my instincts", he writes just after confessing that his instincts drove him to cheat, cover it up and lie about it. "I have changed", he writes after putting it out there that he still exhibits the same indifference to what _she_ wants for the two years since their break-up. Try going back to the therapist and air these notions and see how that conversation goes, OP.
Ya, going out on a limb that he hasn't told his therapist that he has been stalking his ex for two years.
I pray that lady shuts op 1 down harder. He's delulu and obsessed, forgetting the effect of him screwing up, causing the split and not the other way around.
"Please be kind", No we don't do that to cheaters. And what's wrong with you being hopeful because you now have a chance because the boyfriend is out the picture. She wouldn't take you back if you were the last man on earth. You have no right to a second chance, leave your ex wife alone, you hurt her already.
Sir, leave your ex wife alone
Wow Op in the first story is delusional as hell. The woman will have to get a restraining order before things get out of control.
Story 1: Yea... the therapy isnt working.
OP needs to get a clue.
OP1 is so delulu... I hope she finds happiness away from this creep
OP2 has learned that kids are intrinsically Chaotic Evil and that there is a reason why all campaigns NEED a DM present to prevent mass chaos. Still, OP2 is a Cool Daddy DM. Just never get them started on 'Paranoia'. I fear that they would internalise far too much "Stay alert, trust no-one, always keep your laser handy."
“Can I use fireball?” Oh yeah, that describes my first attempt at D&D when I was a kid. Dad had to make everything cute so I’d stop setting things on fire. (Twenty years later and I still feel bad killing cute things in video games.)
D&D is awesome! Well, the party did complete the quest. Fireball!
The other Dad is the worst. Thanks for sucking all the fun out of the room Dad.
Story 1 is going to catch a restraining order.
Yeah he's low-key stalking her...nothing that hasn't been done before. He hasn't broken the law or crossed the line into dangerous behavior toward the ex. As long as he cuts immediate contact if his attempts to reconnect fail. The ex could find closure. The "waiting for her all along," is a little disturbing.
Except it starts with low-key stalking and then gradually escalates to danger especially since he has that mindset of oh she responded that must mean she still wants something between us or she wouldn't have responded even though she's asked him to politely f off and give her space.
honestly sounds like they are correctly playing DND. Noone really thinks they are these Characters. And the fun is being a different person. Do I really think I'm a 3 tittied overweight orc bard, that tries to seduce her way through life despite low charisma? No but it's fun.
My God 1st OP is pathetic.
Op in the first story. It makes me mad at how delusional you are.
Apparently replying to a letter means someone loves you.
if she not so subtly told him fuck off he would go on about how "she would not have this emotional reaction if she cared"
What. The. Hell. Op 1 is SO delusional, he's in a completely different dimension.
OP, leave her alone. Respect her boundaries and let her grieve in peace. This isn’t love; it’s obsession. Move on and focus on yourself
First story is either fake or an AI altered version. Anytime you search for the story and can't find it
This is altered.
S1- that man is absolutely insane and needs to get over himself. She wants nothing to do with you!!!! Ugh.
S2- this dude needs to leave the party. He is ruining their whole fun just because he can't get over himself. _LET THE GIRLS HAVE FUN!_
Please don't let him come back. Ever.
Hopefully he didn't completely destroy their interest in the game; maybe if you can keep the stick in the mud out they'll be willing to try again.
second story. those kids know how to play dnd for real
I think what i hate about the first story is the fact that Ive been where OP is. Hell I'm still there, sort of. More in the "letting tf go" phase though. I know i was being weird, creepy, stalkery, and its easy to delude yourself into thinking its perfectly natural. Normal behavior type shit. "She responded, i have a chance."
For people like me, people with specific disorders, the line between genuine love and an unhealthy obsession is blurred. Its hard to rationalize why unparalleled devotion could be seen as anything but romantic. I know now. I genuinely hope the girl i kept contacting after years and years of, honestly harassment is doing okay. I hope she can move on from the stress i might have caused her, and i hope for my sake, I can get over the emotions I have for it all.
And to anyone reading this on either side of that coin: Stay strong and let go. If your being creepy, stop. Seriously take a step back and ACTUALLY rationalize your behavior and self reflect. I understand the cycle is so easy to repeat. But its not healthy, and the person you think you love is only being hurt by what you're doing, no matter how minuscule you think it is. Just stop. For everyone's sake.
For people being victimized by creepy behavior, just ignore the people unless physical contact or attempts are made to meet you against your will. Keep evidence of their harassment and contact the authorities if absolutely necessary. If your stalker is dangerous, take self defense classes or consider purchasing a firearm if youre in the US specifically. Stay safe out there, folks, and carry on.
Story 2: didn't expect that after hearing the title
These kids: but can it burn tho?
Day 168 of telling secretvoices to have a good day
ST 1 is ragebait