That was before the update and it was a safe assumption to make. You know the story of The Toad and The Scorpion? Alejandro was assumed to be The Scorpion, which is a safe assumption to make considering how these Reddit stories usually end up being. In the end it all got resolved and everyone apologized, no need to get butthurt over nothing.
Stroy 2: I so glad that I don't know OP personally, she sounds difficult to be around. It's like two families dance to her will. She struck him preemptively and doesn't even care.
@@commoguru courts won't charge someone if nobody presses charges, men need to press charges against women who do these things like women press charges on men who do these things.
Story 2: I don’t feel bad for her at all. She is not a “Queen”. She literally said “I should’ve told him to move.” but ended up slapping him anyways. Why did Alejandro apologize and she didn’t? I hate Reddit so bad omfg
Op of second story is still the ah. Imagine a dude saying he's gonna slap a chick for her pranking him, not getting pranked and still slapping the sh*t out of her. Not okay either way. OP is a terrible person.
This comment of yours could easily be labelled as obtuse and rather slow. She wasn't wrong for what she did because she warned him and did not recieve news of the suprise beforehand. From her perspective, what else would he be doing right behind her? Your comparison fails to capture all the details of the situation.
@Emmanuel-ws3qo She is wrong, violence is not OK, if the genders were reversed the guy would get crucified. If women want to be the equals of men they need to stop being so quick to physical violence.
@Emmanuel-ws3qo Boy, you're a special kinda simp. Are we going to start charging people with pre crimes because we weren't sure what the intention was before we punished them? And who tells a surprise before hand? Hard to keep it a surprise then. Sheesh, such a dipshit reponse.
@Emmanuel-ws3qoNah, for many years he never pushed OP and he respected her wishes and boundaries. OP acted off an assumption she made. You don't hit someone over an assumption.
@@DragonbornMike-ym2er It's a very reasonable assumption to have made. considering that to OP's knowledge at the time, he had no good reason to be behind her. And honestly he himself acknowledged that it really did seem like he was gonna do that.
S1: its not the siblings' fault they shouldn't be punished... but it's somehow your fault the parents can't parent or manage their kids without you so you can be punished? What logic is this?
Me and my wife and my stepson's father are all just happy he's in college full time and working a part time job and keeping things together. These "parents" need to be ashamed of themselves ffs
People have died from getting dowels Peirce their eyes, if the shove was forceful enough. Death by spiking the eye is also said to be very painful. So she might know something about that way to die.
@@crawdaddy1234not just that people have lost their eyes and vision from getting their face smashed and the wooden posts keeping the cake up and straight stab through their eyes it’s scary shit I even saw a video the other day where this mom tried to shove her sons face but she went too soon before he blew the candles out and she burned his eyes luckily he was okay but that could’ve gone so bad
So many people butthurt over the second story when everyone involved already apologized and forgave each other, lmao. Even Alejandro admitted that his signal could’ve easily been mistaken as the cake smash thing.
Story 2: if someone gets warned and he answers with a smirk and a wink and then gets close again, well he had it coming. I don't get why people are defending the uncle that strongly, he created the situation knowingly
Story 1: Every child deserves a loving parent, but not every parent deserves a loving child. Glad for OP to get out of dodge while the getting was good, and glad that the siblings are making plans to bail as well. Story 2: OP committed assault for a prank, a dumb prank, but not the one she was so indignant about. And doesn’t even have the cajones to apologize for her explosive reaction. Leo needs to wise up and realize that someone who resorts to violence with little to no provocation is not a good “life partner” and should drop her like a bad habit.
Bro your sentence doesn't even make sense and secondly no it doesnt make sense she doesnt even have an excuse did you even hear the tldr wheee she said she was the one the prank happened to when she was a kid but in the story it happened to her dad She's a bitchy person and deserves anger instead of praise for assult
Story2 - NTA, while OP could've asked him to move, he also didn't move/even put hand on her back. Unfortunate misunderstanding, but better safe than sorry. That "face in cake" stuff is literally dangerous, if we forget that it's very unpleasant and for many people - humiliating
Better be safe than sorry, just fucking move if he come closer. At no point is it okay to slap someone for just an assumption. If she can slap someone over her own insecurity, god knows what she would do if she assume that her husband is cheating on her.
@@Intrepid_A is "face caking" treated as an assault too? Already wrote it somewhere in the comments, but if it is an assault (what else could it be), then slapping was justified self-defense (preventative). Also, uncle could've moved a step back too, but he's somehow not an AH for that. (Though IMO both are NTA, albeit neither one stepped aside)
How is she a queen for assaulting someone who wasn't even going to do what she thought he was going to do?
That was before the update and it was a safe assumption to make. You know the story of The Toad and The Scorpion? Alejandro was assumed to be The Scorpion, which is a safe assumption to make considering how these Reddit stories usually end up being. In the end it all got resolved and everyone apologized, no need to get butthurt over nothing.
Leo is in for a sorry excuse for a marriage. That thing isn’t a queen, it’s a walking talking red flag.
Stroy 2: I so glad that I don't know OP personally, she sounds difficult to be around. It's like two families dance to her will. She struck him preemptively and doesn't even care.
Story 2: I don't like how OP basically got off scot-free.
When are women ever held accountable?
@@commoguru Never.
@@commoguru REDPILL LUNATIC ALERT!
@@commoguru courts won't charge someone if nobody presses charges, men need to press charges against women who do these things like women press charges on men who do these things.
Yeah, she was the one with the wrong assumption and yet she’s still acting like she was perfectly justified. No accountability
Leo is in for a high jump, with op from story 2. She is a walking red flag.
So she slapped him before it happened?
I hate these kind of stories where karma didn't hit.
Story 2 OP is a terrible person
She kept her word, don't shove me into cake.
She meant it.
@ he didn’t shove her face into the cake though she let paranoia get to her
@leroysgamesandmore2226 he was gonna.
@@georgeprchal3924, well, she let them know she's kinda crazy and then went on to show it.
Story 2: Let's face it, if OP were a dude, he'd be in prison for smacking their uncle.
Or be nursing a shiner. Probably both.
Did I miss the part where she apologized for slapping him after they confirmed the uncle's story?
Story 2: I don’t feel bad for her at all. She is not a “Queen”. She literally said “I should’ve told him to move.” but ended up slapping him anyways. Why did Alejandro apologize and she didn’t? I hate Reddit so bad omfg
Women will call each other a “Queen” for doing literally anything that hurts a man, whether it’s justified or not
She sounds unreasonably paranoid.
It's because she's a woman. If she was a man and slapped a woman the comments would be tearing her apart
Op of second story is still the ah. Imagine a dude saying he's gonna slap a chick for her pranking him, not getting pranked and still slapping the sh*t out of her. Not okay either way. OP is a terrible person.
This comment of yours could easily be labelled as obtuse and rather slow.
She wasn't wrong for what she did because she warned him and did not recieve news of the suprise beforehand. From her perspective, what else would he be doing right behind her? Your comparison fails to capture all the details of the situation.
@Emmanuel-ws3qo She is wrong, violence is not OK, if the genders were reversed the guy would get crucified. If women want to be the equals of men they need to stop being so quick to physical violence.
@Emmanuel-ws3qo Boy, you're a special kinda simp. Are we going to start charging people with pre crimes because we weren't sure what the intention was before we punished them? And who tells a surprise before hand? Hard to keep it a surprise then. Sheesh, such a dipshit reponse.
@Emmanuel-ws3qoNah, for many years he never pushed OP and he respected her wishes and boundaries. OP acted off an assumption she made. You don't hit someone over an assumption.
@@DragonbornMike-ym2er It's a very reasonable assumption to have made. considering that to OP's knowledge at the time, he had no good reason to be behind her. And honestly he himself acknowledged that it really did seem like he was gonna do that.
Story One:
Parentification is @buse. The financial @buse is just icing on the cake.
OP needs to involve CPS and get legal protection.
Story 2: justifying women slapping people is a joke. Those Reddit clowns enabling bs
Not all people you slap will turn the other cheek
Story 1) I'd call CPS and get your parents to pay child support.
It's like they're celebrating slapping people. It's an assault no matter by who. OP shouldn't think it's empowerment but a crime she got away with.
S1: its not the siblings' fault they shouldn't be punished... but it's somehow your fault the parents can't parent or manage their kids without you so you can be punished? What logic is this?
Me and my wife and my stepson's father are all just happy he's in college full time and working a part time job and keeping things together. These "parents" need to be ashamed of themselves ffs
story 2 was…something
Story 2:
Did OP just say she got PTSD from a prank about getting her head smashed and cake😂
Not even her head, her father’s head
Clearly you've never seen a cake that has metal pieces holding it up. People have gotten lacerations on their faces from this prank.
People have died from getting dowels Peirce their eyes, if the shove was forceful enough. Death by spiking the eye is also said to be very painful. So she might know something about that way to die.
And if the vake has no metal in it? Whats her excuse then? The candles are blown out, no metal to make you look like the joker.
@@crawdaddy1234not just that people have lost their eyes and vision from getting their face smashed and the wooden posts keeping the cake up and straight stab through their eyes it’s scary shit I even saw a video the other day where this mom tried to shove her sons face but she went too soon before he blew the candles out and she burned his eyes luckily he was okay but that could’ve gone so bad
S2: op sucks
So many people butthurt over the second story when everyone involved already apologized and forgave each other, lmao. Even Alejandro admitted that his signal could’ve easily been mistaken as the cake smash thing.
Story 2: if someone gets warned and he answers with a smirk and a wink and then gets close again, well he had it coming. I don't get why people are defending the uncle that strongly, he created the situation knowingly
story 1: even if it wasnt a misunderstanding, why is it okay to slap someone?
Story 1: Every child deserves a loving parent, but not every parent deserves a loving child. Glad for OP to get out of dodge while the getting was good, and glad that the siblings are making plans to bail as well.
Story 2: OP committed assault for a prank, a dumb prank, but not the one she was so indignant about. And doesn’t even have the cajones to apologize for her explosive reaction. Leo needs to wise up and realize that someone who resorts to violence with little to no provocation is not a good “life partner” and should drop her like a bad habit.
I think story 2 is understandable but yk i would she is honest and same
Bro your sentence doesn't even make sense and secondly no it doesnt make sense she doesnt even have an excuse did you even hear the tldr wheee she said she was the one the prank happened to when she was a kid but in the story it happened to her dad
She's a bitchy person and deserves anger instead of praise for assult
11:59 update
Story2 - NTA, while OP could've asked him to move, he also didn't move/even put hand on her back. Unfortunate misunderstanding, but better safe than sorry. That "face in cake" stuff is literally dangerous, if we forget that it's very unpleasant and for many people - humiliating
Still not an excuse to assault someone. YTA None of what op did was an "unfortunate misunderstanding"
Better be safe than sorry, just fucking move if he come closer. At no point is it okay to slap someone for just an assumption. If she can slap someone over her own insecurity, god knows what she would do if she assume that her husband is cheating on her.
@@Intrepid_A is "face caking" treated as an assault too? Already wrote it somewhere in the comments, but if it is an assault (what else could it be), then slapping was justified self-defense (preventative). Also, uncle could've moved a step back too, but he's somehow not an AH for that. (Though IMO both are NTA, albeit neither one stepped aside)
Ayyy goofy
You think you can walk around slapping people because you have fears ??
Ayyy goofy
You think you can walk around slapping people because you have fears ??