Train Your Mind: Understanding Synchronicity Will Change Your Life | Mel Robbins Podcast
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Have you ever had such a powerful #coincidence happen in your life that you think…
This must be a sign.
The person sitting next to you at an event turns out to be part of the team you’re interviewing with next week.
There is a hummingbird outside your apartment window on move-in day, and your grandmother always said she’d come back as one.
You’re sitting in your favorite coffee shop, thinking of someone you haven’t seen in a long time, and right at that moment, they text you.
You can’t explain how these things happen, but when they do, they give you #goosebumps and make you feel just a little bit more confident and less alone.
I personally love it when this happens. And I’m always on the lookout for signs that my life is moving in the right direction.
Well, what if I told you that you can create more moments like this?
That’s what we’re talking about today.
These moments have a name: they’re called “synchronicities.”
And my guest today is Dr. Tom Myers, a professor who researched and wrote his entire Ph.D. dissertation on the subject.
You’re about to learn simple steps that will train your brain to create more of these impactful #synchronicities in your own life, and three powerful reasons why it’s important that you do so.
Today, you and I are hanging out at the intersection of #psychology, #science, and #spirituality.
Wouldn’t it be nice if your life had more of these magical moments?
Looking for signs that you’re on the right path is not some cheesy thing to do; it’s yet another way you can get intentional about training your brain to help you experience life in a whole new way.
I’ll also share a few stories from my life that are not only examples of synchronicity, but they will also give you goosebumps.
I can’t wait to hear your “goosebump” stories, and I hope what you learn from our conversation today will teach you how to create more of them.
Xo Mel
I talk more about synchronicity, including a powerful story from my life and how to create more of them, in my New York Times bestselling book The High 5 Habit.
For complete show notes, including links to every research study mentioned, see the episode page at www.melrobbins.com/podcast
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- The definition of synchronicity
- 3 powerful reasons why you want to invite more of it in
- 3 simple steps to open yourself up to more synchronicity in your life
Timecodes:
00:00 Intro
00:40 Intro to synchronicity and Dr. Tom Myers
05:15 Definition: What is synchronicity?
09:42 The difference between a coincidence and a synchronicity
17:53 Key concept: How to tell that a synchronicity is happening to you
23:12 Why does synchronicity matter?
27:23 Key concept: How to tap into the power within and create more magical moments in your life
41:05 Exercise: Looking for hearts
43:35 How looking for hearts helped save Eliza’s life
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I hope this video on synchronicity provided you with some great insights. If you enjoyed it, then hit the like button to let me know!
I don't know how to say this other than we need to meet.
We need to meet the people that don't get up and brush their teeth.Really, starting from the bottom.
Lived most of my 64 years like this. I am pleased to see you going into this type of topic. This is right up my alley ❤
Really wished you had let your guest speak.
Actually i like to hear more from the amazing guest instead of the host
This is super real i keep on looking where the heart inside the bus i look up, outside the bus its just in foront of me a lady wearing red with heart!!❤❤❤ 43:55
Fascinating subject. I so badly wanted Mel to allow the guest to speak!
Yeah me 2, Glastonbury where I live is syncro-centrle 24/7 and I love it coz you don't live here you BE here then WOW
Yeah, she goes on and on, interrupts, and mmmh, oook, and a ha. Utterly annoying and the worst facilitator
Yea let him talk please
My mom used to say yes ANYTIME I wanted to do ANYTHING with my friends after school on Friday. She said no this one time and I didn’t make a fuss but I thought it was strange. Well the back seat I would have been in was smashed completely in a 7 car crash on the freeway. Goosebumps!
*Thanks for sharing this financial insight.* I currently make 106k/yr. No home or Iπvestment and I work from home. I need to do something quick or else I’m goiπg to be paying a lot to the IRS come tax season.!
Indeed, The quickest way to make your first millions is to invest directly with an expert that is trustworthy and has made a name and individual billionaires.. I'm surprised you know her too!!
I agree.
Agree. The whole video could be summarized by synchronicities are great (spoiler alert!), know what you want and put it out there in the universe. Just when it started to become interesting, it was interrupted by stories of her life. I’ll put out there not to stumble upon another one of those videos and maybe I can find some uninterrupted dr myers out there…
😳 Talk about a Mom listening & acting on her innate intuitive wisdom!!!
God gave us intuition for a Reason...we just have to be open & clear-minded in order to listen to it!
Mum died 10yrs ago and a few months later I was driving along and there stopped at lights and the reg on the car in front read HI LIN and I lifted my eyes and there was a cushion in the back window that had embroidered LOVE MUM… this moment will live with me forever xxx
✨🥰🕊️✨. That’s so beautiful !
the day after my mom died I went to the dentist but apparently I got the date wrong (so I shouldn't have even been driving where I was driving).. we have lots of panhandlers on the side of the road with signs asking for money.. but this day I saw a woman with a sign and all it said was "you are beautiful." I never saw her again. For some reason she had it on her heart that she wanted to make people smile that day. That maybe someone needed it. I'm sure I wasn't even the only one who needed it.
Wow that’s beautiful 💞♾🥰🫶💞
Hi Mel. I loved this guest and thank you for bringing him on your show. If I could express constructive feedback, this listener wants to hear more from the guest. I felt like you talked noticeably more than he did and I really wanted to hear more from him.
I found out she is a lawyer. A sister at the bar. We are socialized to take over, to emphasize points. Only in recent years do law schools and bar associations teach how awful listeners we are. Shutting up is stressed. Some people are hard to steer. Mel knows what they will say. There is no perfect balance. I am conscious of active listening, but it is so hard. Andrew Huberman said we should interject. The listening techniques are not natural flow. My sister said she would be fed up if I used active listening with her. But it should be used with clients. So, so hard. Lawyers, doctors--you are trained to get control.
Lmao when she said what she learned from this interview listening to herself, why invite expert in this field of study and don't give him a chance to share his veiw.. what a disappointment.
I loved this, truly LOVED it! I also must agree….. I kinda felt the story he had told about his ski trip, was VERY touching!!! And I really felt for him when there wasn’t even a reaction really or appropriate response. Not trying to say anything bad, just me personally….. I would have felt bad, maybe even like invalidated. I am overly sensitive though, to be fair. Yeah I probably would’ve shut down and been pretty well gone in my head after that. We’ll be right back after these short messages!…..lAutopilot.
I think her guest left. He wasn't sitting there anymore.
Interviewing is an art. Larry King was once considered the greatest. He asked questions. He never interjected his views or stories. Though some stories and clarification might be helpful, I think guests need to speak mostly uninterrupted, unless they have a tendency to ramble.
Totally. I had to stop listening as it felt like a waste of my time. The guest was there just for decoration))) I got annoyed when he started giving practical steps and was interrupted after step 1.
My dad passed away last summer. As his birthday was coming last November, I decided to go to Paris where I haven’t been for 5 years and a friend was playing music on the night of his birthday and I decided to go. At the end of his set, he played a song that my father would sing to me. It was like my father was in the room with me, it was wonderful. Then I asked my friend if he would often play this song and he said never! ❤
So precious, thank you for sharing Helene. I got goosebumps just reading your comment about your beloved father and the music played "just that day" through your friend. Love to you! 💖
@@63fab thank you ❤
My dad also passed away last summer. One of his favorite songs was “A Whiter Shade of Pale” by Procol Harum and last Easter (one our favorite holidays to spend together) this song kept repeating on Spotify even though we kept changing the song. It would keep coming back no matter what we did. Interesting how we got to connect to our dads through music. Thank you for sharing your experience with us! ❤️
Wow
@@Chloe-ef6vq AI knows
I really would like to hear the guest Dr. Myers talk more. I understand that Mel is very excited and fascinated about this topic but if she asks a question she should let him answer… It’s very unfortunate that there’s not a lot of material with Dr. Myers on the internet. I would like to hear more from him. This interview was almost a monologue of Mel.
Yes love you Mel but sometimes this speaker doesn’t end his story. The balloon. Why did the balloon land on him. Although I love to hear your experience. But speaker only comes once.
He never did explain why that was even a coincidence so she had to . I get what you’re saying and she does that often but he didn’t seem very knowledgeable to me.
How would you know? He barely got to speak.
totally agreed...at 28:28 now...but i hear half stories from Dr Myers..
It's also very important to thank The Universe/God/Divine Spirit/Divine Force (or whatever you want to call it) for the synchronicities that appear in your life. Gratitude is super important and brings even more synchronicities into your life.♥
Absolutely!!
absolutely, this is key in my experience.
I was going to add this comment and you already added it for me - thank you!
Attitude of gratitude
Attitude = altitude
It’s her ADHD, very common manifestation. Mel slays!👏👏👏👏👏
I’ve literally had hundreds of these moments in my life and I believe that’s because I’m so open to them. Each incident, no matter how big or small, has had an impact on my life for the better.
Me too!!
Absolute same!! ❤❤❤
@@clairebeane3455 ❤️✨🌙🙏🏼
Same here! Once you've opened your heart, mind and heart to it. It will never go away! It feels like a safety blanket at times, or like having your own personal spiritual guide. 😊
1. Super charge your attention to what you want
2. Get rid of the negative filter and accept and call out the signs that life is helping
3. Walk towards the signs
Thank you! Needed this because it became difficult to follow.
❤❤❤
Scientology 😂
Thank you!🙏🏻👍🏻
Thank you!
C.G. Jung , "Synchronicity is an ever present reality for those who have eyes to see."
My grandma always said "Wenn Du glaubst es geht nicht mehr, kommt von irgendwo ein Lichtlein her" meaning when you are desperate help will come to you in some way! Worked for me all my life!
Also inline with my theory that, Serotonin and adrenaline or norepinephrine are involved.
Also like that Bob Marley song.
Das hat meine mutti auch gesagt.
Love this!!!! I experience it every day!!! Because I look for them, and expect them. And each time I am as giddy as the first time!!!! Yesterday, I was thinking of a friend who passed away unexpectedly in December. I was talking to her and asked for a sign. Her daughters have been seeing rainbows, and it was a cloudy day. I said “Come on, Suz! Show me a rainbow!!!” And she did. I snapped a pic at the four way stop I was rolling up to, then as I drove away, I realized where the rainbow started. In the cemetery where she was buried!!! I pulled up a map to verify it, and sure enough, that was where the rainbow began!!!! 🌈 😇💖
This is such a great topic and I wanted to hear more from the guest. You asked great questions but didn't ever let him complete a response. Sometimes it's more interesting to actually give someone else time to get their thoughts out- even when you're excited about the ideas that start bubbling up in your head when they're speaking. Still a great show.
Love listening to Mel, but also would have loved to hear more about what the dr had to say.
I agree with the other two responses here. the Dr. wouldn't have had to be there, Mel could have just filled in what he had to say. I really wanted to hear what he had to say too.
Great topic, it would have been great to hear more from the expert 😂, well, maybe next time ❤
This was my immediate reaction as well! Catch ball communication! Sometimes the ball needs to be thrown back...
Very true what you said, I engage with so many people that find it hard to hold their own enthusiastic relay in conversations, I indicate non-verbally when I experience this enthusiasm and wait for the best opportunity to convey my response, it ain't difficult.
I experienced synchronicity while listening to the podcast. When Dr Myers said his dad was a ski patrolman at Snow Ridge in Turin, NY in the 1950s I immediately thought "Why did he mention the place?" It's 10 miles from my house and my dad was a ski patrolman at Snow Ridge starting in the late 1950s. And, his dad's friend was a ski instructor. They all might have known one another back then. It just gave me a funny feeling and is making me wonder if I should reach out to him for whatever reason.
Do it !!
I grew up on tug hill (a few minutes from snow ridge)
Yes! Reach out!
That feeling you had when communicating with that person is called your inner voice. Search for him.
Yes, definitely go for it. Love to know it went well
This is a learning moment, to learn to listen instead of talking. I get it's her show and being conversational but it did get a bit annoying although i don't think it was intentional. We all get excited to share our stories ❤
Yes, and I would prefer to hear some other exclamation ❗️ than “holy shxx”. Holy Shift, perhaps?? Because it shifts your attention to something holy.
It wasn't just me then...I wanted to think of a gentle way to comment on this, but I felt the same way. I was especially disappointed when she cut off his example of a simple coincidence - you don't get that explained very often. Generally, I wanted to hear the expert with his research speak about it. I'm going to look up if he has other talks...
I wanted to hear more about theory.
Two nights ago I felt lonely at work I was vacuuming. Nobody inside and I found a piece of a necklace that was a half moon and it said "I love you to the moon and back." I felt like that was meant for me. ❤️ Out of everyone who comes in, I found that.
Hayden,
You are not alone! It's no accident that you were born as you are a very important piece of the fabric of society. You have a special gift you need to share with the world!🌎 Find your hidden talent among the things you love to do. ❤️
I wish you all the best that Life has to offer!
Namaste 🙏 🤲 🕊
@@calista1280 natural makeup artist. 😉
Actually that is what I used to say to my dau, our little code. She left me 13 years ago, parental estrangement, so glad I don't hear that often. May you find real love. ❣️
because you're never alone baby
True true
You call it synchronicities. I call it our spiritual guides talking to us. That’s one of many ways they give us messages.
Right On!!!
Write out your intention. Be specific. Focus on what you want not what you don't want. Do one intention at a time. I do a different one each day. Visualize and image what you want and how it makes you FEEL. I have manifested amazing things into my life with specific intentions.
I also keep a proof journal to record all the synchronicities too.
Thank you for this!🎉
I’ve been on the synchronicity journey for over 10 years and the key is to be conscious of everything around you
As an adoptee. I knew one day I would know more. After my (adopted) Mom passed away. Everything feel into place effortless. I confirmed my synchronicity when I flew to my birth place of Italy. Learned I had two sisters , later met them and was able to see a picture of my biological mother when I was 50 years old. Synchronicity is REAL
👍🏻🤗
Wow. I got the shivers.
You KNEW … could this be different than you wanted and felt it possible through God?
Not yourself?
Wish the guest could have talked more. I’m going to seek out his work.
I finally at 57 decided to working toward being a paralegal. Assignment this week was about trials / jury selection. My daughter this week got called to jury duty. taking it as a major sign that I am on the right path :)
Tears are flowing, and it was only the last 3 mins that started the waterworks… loneliness and sorrow is real! Thank you For this message finding me when it was needed. Asé
Bottom line is "Everything happens for a reason"
Every bad and good thing we experience is supposed to be a gift 💝
So, just smile and accept the reality even if it annoys you😌
100%
I asked a question outloud this morning and then sat down, opened my devotional book to a random page and stared in amazement as the answer was in the verse.
"Opportunity favors the prepared mind" - learning to see things and situations that can turn into something else. It's just a matter of learning more about details in our world! And it works!
Omg, Mel is interviewing this gentleman who has the expertise and wants so much to teach us, and Mel does not let him speak! She keeps interrupting him and also repeating herself over and over, and he cannot speak. He is being so polite and so kind, what a true gentleman. I was so looking forward to learning more from him and he wasn’t allowed to speak.
He’s the person being interviewed, and Mel spoke way more than him. I’m so disappointed.
Agreed.
exactly, Adrianne
Agreed
Has anyone found a great interview with Dr Myer? I'd love to hear him speak about the 3 steps he mentioned. He only got to tell Mel the first one
@@sallyfreestun7505 there's an interview on a channel called Mindcraft. I searched him to see more and he talked about the 3 steps
Interestingly enough in the opening statement she mentions being in a new apartment. Here I am sitting in my new apartment (I haven’t lived alone in 34 years) due to work out of town. I had no reason to listen to this interview other than waiting for my husband and stepson to bring my furniture. I’m feeling a little down about work and unsure I even belong here. I am looking out my window with geese and squirrels in the yard. It’s so peaceful. I got goosebumps when she started taking about new apartment with hummingbirds. I now feel a little better and validated. Thank you. It was a wonderful interview!
I’m estranged from my mother (her choice) and it’s her birthday today. I’ve felt blue all day and watched this episode. Mel talks about finding hearts and it reminded me that both my mom and I have a tiny heart shaped birthmark on our hips. Synchronicity ❤
This April my husband and I went on a spiritual retreat. While we were there during a meditation the practitioner secretly gave everyone an oracle card from her newly published deck. The one I got said "Pay attention to coincidences. They are higher self messages!" So I have been doing just that and I see them everywhere, so I know I'm on the right track. This past weekend I went to a provincial park with some of my grown children. At the end of our day there I sat by the water and I noticed a bunch of small rocks had washed up onto the cement steps near where I was sitting. I felt I needed to go find "My rock" so I said telepathically, "OK Universe. Let's see this rock you have for me." I walked to the edge, looked down and there it was, a green and black swirly heart shaped rock! I picked it up and said "thank you" and went to show my daughter. She said "Only you could walk up to the edge of the water and come back with a perfect heart shaped rock in 5 seconds mom." When I listened to this podcast, it was purely "coincidence" I had originally been listening to another spiritual type podcast and just let it play to this one as I worked on a project. So there is yet another synchronicity. A twofer! I had no idea you had a thing about heart shaped rocks. Haha.
I have attempted to meditate many times in my life and prior to this CD the only success I've experienced is with live guided meditation. ua-cam.com/users/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq This is the first CD I've used that cuts through my unmedicated ADHD and enables me to truly relax and experience a quiet and energizing interval. The instructors voice is very soothing and pleasant to listen to. I am easily able to sit successfully through the entire CD, and for quite some time after. I cannot adequately express how tremendously helpful this CD has been on my spiritual journey!! Two thumbs up and 10 stars!
I would like hearing more from him , thank you ❤
00:00:00 Perhaps.. perhaps, but a pro lapsed at times still refines, flips things inside from out. Releases all doubt. Comes from behind. In awe, fully pleases, all holes filled and answers driven. Bringer of an ocean of perfection flowing fourth from cliffs edge; the falls light of Mel 🫀..🗣
And
Perhaps she believes the viewers are more on the slow side. Sad brian never held, simple stoop kids. A train of lost orphans, conductorless, with no discernment. Eager to wake; though needing her to softly spoon whilst fork feeding. Reaching around instinctually hand to lips, in betwixt, in formation breeding, info seeding. A beautiful magical birth of belief; brought fourth, by gentle thief. The throbbing hood of compassion delivered in a forced filled heart lessed fashion.
A Quote from Mel in whole to help you feel completely stuck in health. Deep down utterly well with synching feelings in tune to just the right hertz:
“Find a heart. See it. Open it. Tell yourself its your private part in life as a scavenger on the hunt there biding your time. Between the bumps and the synchronic lines in the land. ….Dr. Im glad i could have you come on my podcast and teach you how to see life at last. No long part of the heartless caste. Cut off no more. You may feel a loan will help but your in the red when you believe in the private placement of that heart you find, again, also, remember i dont want any thing. Just for you to know i have what is missing. .An example of actual synchronicity. A core all can see inside my influential sphere of content and beautiful prizm cell”
@@Coincidence_Theorist😆🤣😂 I agree
I wanted to see this because of what HE would have to say of the BEHIND
Synchronicities are a beautiful gift and blessing.✨ They can give you chills of excitement and can feel frightening at times, because they are so unexplainable. As time goes on and I become more intune with myself and others they have increased and happen so frequently throughout my day now that I just smile and wonder what will pop up next. There truly are no coincidences in life and the synchronicities that we experience are a beautiful and magical reminder of that. 🪄✨💛 Great video Mel.✋
When wake up; floor found a white feather, and " HEART OF ROSES"
@@lotaayson9645 Beautiful 🪄✨❤️🌹🪶🤍💛 Its such an unbelievably cool feeling. I was walking this morning and everything was still then I passed a bunch of trees the wind picked up every so lightly and a leaf fell off right in front of me in the shape of a heart. It's just so cool. You can't help but smile.😊 Thanks for sharing 💛
I am absolutely shook right now. Directly before coming across this video, I was given a huge heart shaped rock to pass along to my girlfriend from a mutual friend. When you announced the assignment of going out in nature to find something in the shape of a heart, I couldn't believe it. The assignment was completed 10 minutes before I started watching. That's absolutely amazing to me. Thank you Mel, and thank you Universe. I've been needing some hope in my life.
Today I've had a synchronicity experience. Recently I've been stuggling with letting go and accepting my life as it is and today I've been to a hairdresser and during our casual chat she said that life would be easier if everybody accepted themsleves as they are. That was my WOW moment and now I've come across this video.
License plates I get messages I call it out all the time. Today one said "Hug Me". I know it was my Dad! Different messages from nature, clouds, feathers., wind, came at it from spirituality. I always have been open to this way of life.
I was watching this, looked up, and it was 11:11am. I've seen repeating number patterns for much of the last year. There are a lot of changes happening in my life, and they let me know that I'm on the right path.
1111 is a sign for Twin Flame.
I’ve been seeing repeating numbers and going through lots of life changes too. But it doesn’t feel like I’m on the right path though. I can’t find a solution to something complicated and feel stuck.
@@toddebensperger4332 What is 1010?
~All these numbers -look their meanings up in web, stop and look at (keep a notebook) what you were thinking, feeling just as you saw the numbers. (1111 is nothing to do with twin flames. In fact nothing MEANS anything except the meaning that You put to it or decide it means.😉🙏🏽
I, too, use those syncronicities to give me confirmation of the path I'm supposed to be walking in my life.
I believe God has a plan and when we are on the right path, contributing to his plan He rewards us. I get tingly when I'm synchronistic. ❤❤❤
Thank you Mel for your podcast. I have always believed in synchronicity. I have a story which I would like to share. My daughter committed suicide. My sister and I were stood at the cliff where it happened. Either side of us was a magpie. I have always loved magpies. I know she was telling me she is now at peace as 2 magpies mean joy. Every time I see a magpies I think of her. I had a breast cancer operation and was petrified. On the road to the hospital there were so many magpies lining the the street lights and in the car park there were about 15 magpies. I know my daughter was sending me a message of love and comfort. Everything went well and I am cancer free. I do look for signs wherever I go. Thank you and God bless 🙌 xxx
These videos are coming at such precise times, its NOT a coincidence.
Today I met an amazing woman, so sage, so beautiful inside & out. She gave me the most awesome lessons about the topic of boundaries and omg!! She actually said the magic words... " no one is coming" you have to save your self! Holy cow, the most powerful affirmation ever. I had been working this process all week and listening to your videos... and boom! Here she decends like an angel yo let me know in person, that yes! You can become a better version of yourself, you just have to choose you first and do the work. Plus she send me a beautiful text message to let me know that she though i was lovely too.
❤ life is good.
Love this topic. I experience synchronicity often. God winks, signs, divine interjections in our lives. Magical experiences. I am a firm believer. Just takes these simple steps to experience more of it. Belief it does happen. Acknowledging it when it does. Giving thanks and gratitude for it happening. 🙏 🌟💞 speaking to a friend about this recently. I picked up, there was a level of doubt in what she was experiencing. In that moment, I heard from within....if you WANT the magic to continue, then BELIEVE it when it happens. Beautiful. Simple. Truth. 💖
What if the magic is getting into a med school you had to leave 27 years ago- then during COVID, you apply since they’re not taking mcat’s…
You know you have the same issues and want to become what you should be and could have become , but the cost is over 500k and you weighed it carefully/more so is this realistic, God or is it because it’s a for-profit school and it was when you first got in and you should’ve paid attention that you should’ve never gone in the first place I’m willing to try all these options on but at the end you need to know what is synchronicity and what does google search and what is you and what is God and what you’re capable of and what smart, and what psalm some modicum of dreaming covered worth of the reality of where you’re at this is harder if you have ADD, autism OCD and a mood disorder and never wanted to have any of these things but they’re really seeing what’s going on underneath that soft you that soft you in a lot of things so that makes it so difficult and you need to change and you waiting for the change and you’re trying but you’re not gonna make the same dumb mistakes either like someone who keeps on divorcing and remarrying I don’t know how do you do this
Some people say "I'll believe it when I see it" We should be saying I'll see it when I believe it"
My dad passed away and there were so many synchronicities.. this was one; I got lost and couldn’t find my way home. I stopped and Parked to see where I was, to my surprise it was the road my dad lived. I sat and cried from how overwhelmed I was feeling, after I had got myself together I took my phone to re set my sat nav. To my amazement It happened to be his birthday and completely forgot, I wished him a happy birthday and since then, the signs keep coming as clear as day and thank the universe for the connection I have with him. Another time I was listening to a talk on you tube. What this guy said felt like my dad was talking to me about his issues with alcholism and how he is not how he use to be. I asked for a sign. I checked the speaker and his name was Michael Mirdad.. My dads name is Michael. I feel blessed my eyes are open and see how we are all connected ❤
Mel ! your podcast is no longer just a podcast to me ,and to all of us audience. It's a magical experience coming from love, and i am so grateful that you are here everyday, with us, helping everyone and telling your life stories and the truth. i am so happy i found you this year!
Synchronicities are so magical! I see them every day! Wonderful connection between us and the divine. I loved the video and I clearly see the physical world being connected so much more to the other side. Magic is all around and there is so much love expressed towards us from our guides and spiritual realm.
I must tell this: To months ago I lived in an apartment of 42m2, two rooms, bathroom (and the sauna, because I live in Finland), a very nice balcony with a nice view to the peaceful innercourt (I live in the center of the city). I lived my apartment ( I had moved there in 8 months ago from another city) but I have three cats and I started to feel that they wera a bit frustrated because of the lack of the space. One morning I left to work thinking, or even saying loud to myself: „I need a bigger apartment.“
Then I walked to my work, it is 10 minutes. That is one reason why I like the location of my apartment. I went to the work, joined the morning coffee with my colleagues. One of them started to talk about an area which locates to the other direction than my home. We are urban planners, so we talked about ongoing construction works. This area, about which we talked, is also very nice. There are many old wooden buildings (our city was a wooden cirty in upon a tine) and it is a very pittoresque area. Then I remembered, that the company, who rented the apartment to me, also has rental houses in that area. I had intended to move there before I found the apartment that I chose. I looked at the pages of the company, if they have free apartments there, bigger than my present. I do not remember, if they had good apartments there, because I noticed that oh boy! They had an apartment of 68m2 for rent - in my neighbour, at the same floor, free to move, 10 steps away from my then present door!
After two weeksI had moved to my new home! I still have the same view that I like, I still have same nice neighbours, I still have 10 minutes walk to my job. Everything else remained the same exept that the rent is a bit bigger but so is the apartment! I even have a separate kitchen now, before I has only a kitchen line in the living room.
I must tell that it is the fastest manifestation than I have ever had. My move lasted 45 minutes, when two men carried my furniture to my new home. No elevator needed, no car needed. 😊
I see this conversation as one Mel needed as much as all of us (me more than most). She was looking for answers while interviewing an expert in the field.
So thankful to have caught your show! My whole family, my four kids, my husband and myself throughout the many years have found hearts in nature wherever we go, and weve always taken as a sign from the creator, sending us love. today our synchronicity‘s are more with numbers and numbers are everywhere! Simply love being connected to our universe.. much love ❤
I so enjoyed listening to this Mel. I like that you included spiritually into it because my experience which I will tell you of now was a moment that I felt God was with me at that moment. On the night before my daughters wedding I went out with my daughter, my sister and her daughter that flew from Australia to South Africa for the wedding. We had something to eat and a movie night with just us girls. As we were getting our food, Josh Grobans song ‘You raise me up ‘ came on over the central speakers. Well this totally floored me I started crying as this was our Mums song we played at her funeral as she loved this song. It showed me that our Mum was with us all together for the wedding and holding our hands.
Another time with the same song showing me that my Mum was celebrating with us was when my husband and I went to visit my brother who had just moved to Cambridge area. We visited from 3 hours away (Bristol) and went out to lunch with him and his wife to celebrate his birthday. As we were walking in the village the same song came on being played by buskers. So I definitely believe in this but probably more from
A view that God is watching over us and bringing us together at special moments and it is beautiful. Thank you
It is definitely God. It bothers me that people keep using the word magic, or magical. Magic is trickery. Miracles come from God, and I prefer to thank Him, not the universe. The universe is full of energy that we can tap into simply because God created, and is still creating it. There are people who thank "Mother Earth," as well, but I prefer to thank our Father who gave us this earth. We have to remember that yes, He is in all of the things He creates, but our adoration belongs to Him, over His creation. He is a jealous God, and He prefers that our hearts and minds be set on Him. ❤❤❤
I hope you will watch a few episodes with Matt Fraser. Your mum was ABSOLUTELY THERE WITH YOU CELEBRATING! ✨🥰🕊️✨
Mel you should have let the guest talk. I was just waiting to hear him talk but nope. I have to search the guest on some other platform.
Right after watching this video I got a Video chat from my three year old granddaughter and she was showing me her new house and toys and her new Niece, my great granddaughter. My three year old granddaughter kept caller the great granddaughter her new sister,,, which was so sweet. And the new sister, my great granddaughter had hearts on her outfit. It was fun to see their happiness and joy. What a great synchronicity moment right after watching this podcast.
You are awesome! Mel! I get up and turn on your podcast. I pick something boring or tedious, I've been avoiding. I listen and get busy! Goes along so effortlessly ✨️ I can pay attention to you're message and meet my Goals! Thank you🎉❤
As soon as you said look for a heart, I looked up and around and there I saw a plant in my bathroom that has a cascading string of hearts. I’m having a rough day and was asking for a gift from the universe…there it is! Thank you for the gift 💕
Watch “the shack”. Based on a true story. Explains literally everything!!! So good!!!
I do not believe in coincidence. Too many things have happened in my life that I couldn't dismiss as a coincidence. Recently, I had lost my faith for various reasons. I just started listening to your videos. Today, I listened to this podcast on the way to a hair appointment. It was recorded Dec 2022. You asked for people to post a heart as a sign. I just sat down under the dryer and to my right was a green heart under a red tree. Not sure how to post a picture, but there it was. Thank you for all you do. I've learned so much, and my faith has returned. .
I felt the interview was great . It seemed very open and candid and even both gave personal examples to help the audience understand. The doctor also seems to have more reserved personality traits . Sometimes it takes more from the interviewer to keep the convo moving. She asked all the right questions and he was able to speak accurately to her questions.
Are you having an interview or is the other person just a sounding board for Mel? Would have loved to hear more from Dr Myers.
me too!!!
I wish the doctor had more time to talk and share his method.
me too!!!
A lot of these podcasters talk too much
I felt the same way.
indeed! And did we miss #3?
@@mercedescue1655 so far only Mel and Lewis are getting on my nerves. They really love to show they are smart. Someone should tell them we know they know, that's why we tune in but let the experts talk please!
I had a few of those moments but I'll share the most amazing. I was probably in my 30s when I was driving my Mom home after taking her to her first concert. (She had to be in her late 60s or early 70s.) For some unknown reason, I stopped for a green light and Mom asked me why I stopped. I took my foot off the brake and, as I started replying that I didn't know, a sports car came flying through the intersection. I know what it looks like to see the traffic go by there at the normal speed of 55 or 60. This guy had to be going upwards of 100 mph. If I hadn't stopped for that green light, there's a very good chance we both would have died that night. Every time I recall it, I get goosebumps and am moved to tears. Thank you, God, for that moment.
I don't believe in coincidences. Yes!! It IS Synchronicity!! Love your programs, MEL! You are amazing! Thank you for being YOU! 💗
A few years ago it was my birthday, 🎉 so I decided to go to my husband’s grave 😢 to talk to him.
As I was driving down the lane to leave, the cemetery, low and behold, a birthday balloon 🎈floated off to the side of me in the distance until I got to our Main Street. I just knew Jim was letting me know he knew 🤗 it was my birthday, and that was the way he was able to wish me a “Happy Birthday” 🥳 from my dear husband. ❤❤
Mel I love you and everything you share - this was a wonderful episode and I completely love this concept because I’ve always experienced these moments but didn’t know there was a name for it or that others felt this way too. This motivates me to continue noticing these moments and accepting the universe’s blessings ❤️ I do wish the guest spoke a little more though. I wanted to hear him as well :( I noticed that everytime you’d ask him a question, you’d answer it yourself in a couple of seconds. Do love your focus on actionables and takeaways though. As usual, a delightful episode.
As much as I love Mel, I watched to see what the guest has to say but Mel kept interjecting and telling her own stories and views about the matter. It’s still a great topic 😊
@@JRSAVANNAH330 Yeah same here! I did love the episode but kept waiting for the guest to share something
I found some hearts, They might not look like hearts to anyone else but I see them. I went to a spirutal healer after a few weeks of being really low - they happened to be giving free sessions at an event I've been planning to take the kids to for a year. I felt a squeeze and a pressure as if all the toxic, negativity, the awful voice in my head was being squeezed out of me, making room for something better, something I deserved. I've started seeing the hearts, feeling less angry, more motivated. I will be looking out for the signs and i'm very happy I found the podcast. I listen to it as I work. I've forward it to some people but i don't think they are ready to hear your messages yet. Thank you Mel Robbins.
This is been happening to me since I was a kid , so manny I could write a book unbelievable thank you for this ♥️
Co-incidence is just a yet unidentified synchronicity. (And what a brilliant ending. ❤️)
Omg I never realized it, coincide. Whoa! A word for synchronicity is in the very word. 😳
So interesting- years ago I went to live in Greece for a time- both my grandparents had just passed away that year. I was offered a job in a beautiful restaurant by an elderly local man , I loved the job - weeks later a young man came in- we stared at each other - why did we feel we knew each other, it was so strange- turns out he studied as an international student at the same college as me in my UK hometown & we both visited the same pub in the Uk regularly- so I absolutely believe in synchronicity - his grandfather taking me to the restaurant when I was about to return to the UK early - synchronicity- his grandson & me knowing each other- synchronicity- the best time of my younger life brought to me by them - I felt so safe , protected & supported while I was in a country far away & I believe my grandparents helped bring us together
Our loved ones send the cardinal or the butterfly. They are not the butterflies; they send the symbols for us.❤❤
Absolutely beautiful! I awakened to Sychronicity in 2018. My life has changed significantly. I have tried to open the minds of the collective in my community, I have been judged as crazy. It doesn’t bother me as I’m aligned and in connection with my higher self, source, angels. It’s beautiful and I hope we can open the eyes of the bigger collective to bring healing, love and transformation. I loved this video. Thank u! This made me feel even more connected 💜
I live in an apartment complex. When my kids were little The neighbor and I would go to the bus stop in the morning with our kids. We would talk about all kinds of things after the kids got on the bus and no one else was around. Over and over, things would come up during the week that we had talked about at the bus stop. To the point that I believed that we were being taped. Lol Topics that my hubby and I spoke about in the privacy of our apartment would be said by others who didn't even live here. That's when I really thought "oh shit what the heck is going on." It also happens between me and my kids. Thanks for helping me understand that this is a real thing. Sometimes it's enough to make one think they're going crazy. Lol
This has been my life story. God showing up constantly:) synchronicity is a real thing :)
Thank you for this. In my religion and culture we see synchronicities from God. Like you said, it’s meant to be. What you didn’t talk about were the negative synchronised events. People have car accidents through synchronised events sometimes and people go through grief and guilt but when you see it as an event that was meant to be from God it helps get you through the sadness and grief. One of our names for God is the consoler of hearts, the heart fixer. When you are at your worst he sends you something that brings you peace.
Couldn't agree more when I was in a depressive state, I asked the universe for a sign and my son came running to me saying look what he found and it was a gold pendant cross that was buried in the garden , then there after every time I ask the guardian angels for signs I get them , the angel numbers a song and a little bird robin always shows up when I feel lost ...
You struck the synchronicity for me in the first 2 minutes speaking of the hummingbird. After my husband died I noticed the presence of hummingbirds over and over, and I realised it was him connecting with me. I was even given gifts of ornamental hummingbirds. I did a stained glass window with a design I had drawn myself. Guess what...! There was a hummingbird in the design. I love this. Thank you so much Mel
Validation in this synchronicity for me! Just feels like it's always been part of MY life! Not everyone knows what I mean when it happens to me so often. I feel like I need to keep it to myself. Or they think I just make it up😂
I clicked away and something told me to come back and finish til the end. I have no doubt that the timing of the email was meant for so many of us. I am in tears as I write this note to you Mel, I have known about synchronicity for about 7 years now, but think I only understood a little piece and you and Dr. Meyers have changes that now and I am internally grateful. Please consider me another heart that you were placed here to save today March 6th 2023 - I too feel as though I have made new friends - thank you! I literally have no one in my immediate life that I can discuss this with. I have 2 daughters that I am sending the link of this video to and asking them to join me on your 5 day challenge I do so hope they accept
When you look for synchronicities, you will see more and more of them. They are mysterious and wonderful.
I really needed this right now. Actually, I've been enjoying a ton of your shorts and videos lately, Mel.
A couple months ago, I had the most extraordinary synchronous encounter that led to an incredible relationship that rapidly grew like a supernova, but certain events caused it to implode just as quickly into a black hole just over a month later.
Even though I've followed quantum entanglement and have believed in it for almost 20 years, it was difficult to imagine (and have faith) that I could expect another such perfect situation to ever come along again.
Thank you for restoring my faith and helping me reset. I now think that I went through that whole experience was so that I could rediscover your content. When things went bad, your UA-cam shorts were suddenly being promoted to me. Synchronous for sure.
Sounds like could have been a twin flame relationship, cheers!
I’m going to keep it short but I’ve had this happen quite often and I know I also have ADDOCD mood disorder and other things and I didn’t want them but I’m starting to look at what has caused any problems over the years hand trying to look and do things differently or readjust as a positive thing anyways I won’t go into details about the situation that came into the picture, but it could’ve been a for-profit school reaching out to everyone and desperate because of Covid or could’ve been God answering my prayers. The problem is the other prayers I put out and really hope four didn’t come through so then I had to readjust and wonder is it that it was never supposed to be in the practical answer as right or is it offered and I needed to try again but why would I try again at a cost of $500,000 and further humiliation and then when it’s left after what do I want? I don’t know anymore because I’ve had what I want to fail so much and my health and stuff has affected us so I just want I just don’t want to spend more money or cause more problems really so it’s really weird I mean I want the experience of the synchronicity driving with what I know the divine is in and what is capable and me walking into humbly and seeing things happen like no more of these signs or perceived signs without things happening currently I’m doing this for a car and I’m waiting because the OCD makes me look too far and I may not even need a car. I may need to learn the order of things maybe the car was taken from me so if it’s slow down, maybe so I could learn the procedures for evaluating things and saw the guidebook for autistic people who need flow charts I could think of million reasons but what I don’t have is which is it? What should I care about and how do I do it without overwhelming myself which I don’t really have a filter hi it’s just because of the new filter think I don’t even know what to say, but I would love to be doing stuff like noches receiving signs anymore and I’m calling upon the Mets whole thing again now I just came back from where it was and what were the fin good as to redeem the time and become a psychiatrist and someone in mental health, and with a Spiritual bent
I went to the animal shelter to sign up to volunteer. I was struggling with bad depression 😢. After my doctor's appointment, to refill my antidepressant, I was driving home and automatically drove to the shelter to get information about volunteering. I ended up adopting a beautiful dog that was rescued on 9/19 (my granddaughter's birthday). She is so beautiful and immediately comes to me as if she knew me. When I brought her home, I noticed she had a white heart-shaped spot on her forehead ❤.
A dear friend of mine passed away 2 years ago. This would happen even when he was alive, but didn't end with his death. Certain numbers would appear on the lisc plate on a car in front of me, walking through a store there would be certain music, one day yellow and white butterflies wouldn't leave me alone, a bee landed on my windshield wipper blade and just sat there staring at me, and more. I had to smile and wave! Synchronicity is alive and well!
That poor Dr!!towards the end of the interview you can just tell he resigned himself to the fact that he wasn't going to get in more than 100 words in "his " interview 🤣🤣🤣
Shes talking and talking and loves herself talk, unfortunately without putting much input to it without any deep interest in what his guest has to say. Poor performance and shows a lot about herself
Maybe it is how it is meant to be ;)
I noticed this too. I enjoy watching a lot of her videos, but I noticed the guests don't get to speak much.
I was listening to this. It was an actually watching it. I was surprised that she actually had a guest. All I heard was Mel talking.
😂😂😂
This was a Synchronicity… I was just crying about how lonely I feel and how I don’t have any friends and here you are talking about this… Thank you Mel ! ❤
Of course you have friends.
A friend from Ireland
Hi friend 💗😊
You are never alone. Your spirit guides are always near when you need them. Learn to feel their presence and watch for signs. Ask them for help and they will always be there for you.
I just got done watching Mel’s video about how hard it is to make friends to do things with nowadays! The loneliness epidemic is real. Then I came across this video and then your comment. I feel the same often.
@@IAMinfiniteandfree. I could say the same to you. I understand what you are feeling. I have spent much of my life there. I went through a massive spiritual awakening (not through anyone with "new age nonsense") and have had so many miracles come through. If it isn't your time to see it, it doesn't matter. We are all on our own paths and there is so much more to this life than what it seems. Religions all discuss "guardian angels" and angels, yet we are too blind to see until we are meant to, even though we were taught about them. But you know this too. You are first your soul, here to learn lessons. And one of the greatest things I ever discovered is my wonderful spirit guide. She got me through the most terrifying time, when I did have my awakening and felt so alone, from so many like you who just thought I was "crazy". There is just so much more and it is wonderful. Loving and showing compassion for others and accepting them (and their beliefs) is why we are here. We are all one, and when one hurts, it affects us all.
I hoped to find a Shaman group in my area. I was searching online but found nothing. Then I went to a weekend course I thought may be interesting, and I happened to sit down next to a woman who gave me info about a Shaman teacher! I was so very grateful, and I later took class with the Shaman teacher and through her I found a group. Then I bought a cd with Shaman drumming, to come into the right state of mind to go on a mental journey (in your mind). I started practicising the journeys and on one occassion I found myself on top of the Grand Canyon, walking across it in the air, and I could not fall down! It was the most empowering experience in my life! And I talk to trees. Shamanism has enriched my life greatly. It all happened thanks to synchronicity!
My best friend from 3rd grade passed the beginning of 2023 we kept in touch our whole lives even tho i left Cali and moved to Hawaii. One day i went down to Kaena point to get some closure i stopped at our friends memorial and asked if he could help guide Jade on his way. I went down the road to the beach said my prayers for Jade and released flowers into the ocean for him. It had been raining for almost 2 weeks straight the clouds broke and the sun came out. I took one video of me putting the flowers in the ocean for him at the end of the video i saw something in the sky. It was my friend Jade looking over my shoulder letting me know he was happy and at peace i love you brother. That night i had the most profound positive experience but that’s a whole other story. Much Mahalos for this information cause ive been noticing plenty of signs and synchronized situations even around our friends memorial! Came to find out that the Hawaiian folklore of Kaena point is “The leaping place of the souls” its pretty interesting. There is a word in Hawaiian MANA is the strength in all things Mokuleia and Kaena point the Aina get choke Mana you can feel!💕🙏✨
Wow what a way to end a podcast. YOUR LIFE IS IMPORTANT, WE WERE ALL CREATED WITH A PURPOSE! To anyone who may need it, I don’t know you, but I love you.
Wow!! That was amazing. I’ve experienced synchronicities before and it’s truly mind blowing. The moment you said we were lonely I saw a vision of my dog appear beside me. I’m actually never alone. I just wanted to share that.
I’m so grateful that I’ve finally tapped into your work. I love it. Thank you Mel. ❤
I cant begin to count the number of synchronicity moments I have had in my life. I often say out loud that I feel like Forrest Gump. Thank you Mel for helping understand ❤
❤ I just found a heart on a can of tuna and a ❤on the can of soup while making supper. My ❤ feels so much better since I came across you on my phone. Thank you for what you do. You are an angel in disguise.❤
Thanks so much for the podcast - really enjoying all the episodes. I have to say though, it would be great to let the guests speak a little more - seems like they have so much more to share and contribute and they don't get the chance to.
I just wrote the same thing. I wanted to hear more from Dr. Myers.
Agree
I listened to this yesterday afternoon while doing things around my home. One of things Mel put out to her listeners was to observe a ‘heart occurring naturally’ and she noted it could be a cloud or something similar. Hours later I was scrolling Instagram and landed on a page of an athletic tennis player. In one photo he pointed to the heart shaped swear mark on his red t-shirt after playing tennis. It felt appropriate and timely to stumble upon the page!
Stuck behind a wall of negative here. I used to be able to do this without realizing what I was doing. Now it doesn't happen. However, I seem to get put in other people's lives in moments they need. I step up and help because I don't want them to hurt like I do. At least it feels good to help others feel better.
💖🙏🌅🥰💛Has been happening all my life, and it truly is there for everyone, if people pay attention... I'll never tire of this and love listening to you Mel, no matter the topic, but this I keep returning to, grateful that you are part of our beautiful synchronicity... that your work and dedication is part of our lives💖🌅🙏💛💌
I was listening and all of a sudden Mel said told about Andrea which of course got my attention. It was like someone was saying Are you listening? The thing I love about you the most is your realness. Thank you 💓
Thanks for sharing this video!❤⚘
I do not believe in coincidence...
I DO BELIEVE WITH ALL MY HEART IN JESUS!!
Situations and people are in your life to better you!!
Be gratefull for all: joy or pain!
You are here TO BE BETTER and teach who wants too!!!
I have been living in this place for fourteen years, got separated 3 years ago, and have an estranged daughter, but recently I found a dear antler after all these years here and found that it brings good luck, so these made me feel that it was a time to take some decisions and start a new life, wherever that may be.
Thanks you Mel for all your heartfelt sharing, I truly believe that it connects directly to our hearts 💕. The podcast on synchronicity is so right on time for me. Merci beaucoup 😘😍
Never say: I am LONELY! As the reason, you want and need friends. Loneliness is a sign of separation of you and the Self. There is where the intimacy needs to be restored. It has NOTHING to do with not having enough friends. Once the gap between you and you is healed, of course there will be simultaneaously more friends.
Mel you never let your guest speak. We tuned in to listen to your guest.
My daughter and her friend recently were at a coffee shop studying, and while there they struck up a conversation with someone who had expertise on the subject my daughter's friend was writing a paper on. My daughter said they were pretty wowed by that fortunate conversation.
My brother died a month ago. It has turned my life upside down and I`m still recovering. He was obsessed with numerology and especially with number 33. 72 hours later, I was at friend`s house who was comforting me. Then she had to go with her 93-year old mom to church. I`m not a religious person but I walked with them and was ready to go back home. She insisted that I visit the church to see something interesting so I finally agreed. I sat down with them in a bench. There was a statue of Jesus with human hair and dressed in a cloak. I looked on both sides and freaked out because I saw 3 candles lit on each side. I kind of felt restless and left the church premises. Upon leaving the church I learned that it was a Holy Trinity Church so number 3 again. As I was walking by I noticed a mermaid and my brother lost consciousness at the mermaid statue on that fatal day. Then I heard a voice inside of me that told me to go back. As I turned around to go back, I noticed a jack russell- my brother`s dog Bernie was a JR so I did realize that this was a real sign. I re-entered the church and sat next to my friend at the bench. Then I looked at that statue of Jesus and noticed a phoenix underneath him. My brother used to say that he was like a phoenix and would always raise from the ashes. I started crying and so did my friend. The priest was lecturing about Jesus and Judas. When he said I am I realized that it was my brother telling me that he still existed. Then I realized that it was exactly 72hours ago that he died at 5.55 pm, It was 5.45 pm. Jesus was ressurected 3 days after he died so another 3. I kind of felt that my brother was wandering after death and finally reached the other dimension and when I saw a painting of Virgin Mary with a child I thought that my brother reunited with our mom on the other side and sat on her lap very happy. It was a strange realighnment of threes in one place. I don`t consider this a pure coincidence but a real sign from my brother that he still exists.
I lost my brother too, in 2001, so I have an idea what you're going through. The synchronicities were so strong after his death, the strongest I've ever had. I know he was trying to comfort me and was being sweet and supportive. You know what you know... I'm sending out love and healing vibes your way. Your brother loves you ❤
He does. ❤❤❤
I feel like this man was very stoic, when he shares this story of this man lost his father, who ultimately brought hide parents together. She says wow. Just goes right into her own story. Like can we pause for this beautiful moment. 😅