Just Editsx yeah! If that happened to my mum that would make me depressed so I feel so bad for her she probably is soooo sweet it is just hard for her she has no parents only her grandpa.
A strong and honest person recovers and does not burden everyone else and sacrifice their future. I had a friend who’s mother died and had to go to school in another country, still a normal person
Her grandad is a fucking saint. Not only did he lose his daughter, but he took in both of her kids. Raised them as his own. He deserves the world. The teachers were absolutely amazing, too, don’t get me wrong. But I wanted to highlight his amazing work. I hope that one day I can be as good a father as he is, and as good a grandfather as he is.
No they don’t my school didn’t n it’s better than harop fold, I almost committed a few times and 3 people nearly killed themselves because no one listened
i completely agree with the both of you to be honest, but i’m sure if they where just putting on an act the kid being interviewed would have probably said something
That's so sweet, it's way better than my friends when I told them I was hurting myself and wanted to kms... they just told me "no dont kill yourself you're AMAZING🤩!!!" they didn't seem to care... everytime I say I'm feeling suicidal they just day "oh.. again... is that all" my only real friend is amazing she actually looked up how to communicate to me when I'm going through a rough time shes amazing bit the rest dont get it.... also sorry for spilling my whole life story 2 u I just got carried away
i feel so bad for people who’s friends aren’t supportive. my friend on said to me if you do it, i’ll do it. i did it. she came in the next day, told me she’d done it and expected sympathy. obviously i did because i’m a niceish person but i did drop her after. it was a long time coming. seriously try to get away from people who do more harm than good for you :)
i have a question. year 11s do their GCSEs at May until June right? what do you guys do after completing every exams? don't you have another couple of months until year 11 finished?
@@Aethelhadas we don't have exams because of coronavirous. You can take them in October or smth if you want but we get our results in August from a mix of our mock exams and school work. So we get a massive holiday. Since March until September when we start college or whatever other things people will do.
I think lots of people his age would have half given up when in his position. But he really cares about Kody. That's pretty special. I hope they both are ok now
Her grandad is adorable, bless him. And she looks really pretty with black hair. I hope they're both doing good now Edit: can you year 7s stop replying with stupid shit pls & ty💕
exactly, she's obviously hurting inside and acting tough because she's so fragile. losing her mum must've been horrible and also so hard on her poor grandad. the british school system really failed her. she probably feels like it's her fault that her mum's gone and all she needs is help and love :( i teared up too
For the ppl who are roasting the girls eyebrows : are u even human? She’s gone through so much , losing her mum , self harm , feeling worthless and your bothered about her eyebrows ?! I’m sorry what. Edit: For all those ppl who are replying “but her eyebrows are messed tho” ,, I know they might be different but it is HER style she can do watever she wants u have no say and I think she looks beautiful , everyone’s beautiful in a different way so DONT JUDGE !
This goes to show that the education system as a whole needs to change. If the school made this poor girl resort to s*lf h*rming, lord knows what it could do to other vulnerable students.
people keep saying that she “didn’t know her mum” even if she was younger and doesn’t rlly remember her it’s still the same pain, all her friends will have mums, she can’t celebrate mother’s day and she’s not had a mother figure for her.
Exactly. Like it doesn't matter if she can't remember her, it's still the same amount of pain. Her mother has most likely been there for that most part of her life and a mother is really essential in a child's life. She will now never have that mother figure or a parent figure apart from her grandad and maybe grandma?? (Idk if there is a grandma in the picture.) But that's really sad. It's so sad when children lose parents because they feel so alone and isolated. Really sad.
I can tell she's trying to act cool around her friends and not behave well in classes but I deep down know she's doing that because she doesn't want to show she's hurting nad she's weaker than them. Bless her heart
These teachers need a pat on the back because they are making a difference to these kids lives, they genuinely care about their futures,deserve a medal 🏅🏅🏅
Don't forget the rest of the class who are not getting the teacher's attention because Cody is demanding so much attention for herself. This puts the teaching staff in a difficult situation and puts additional time pressures on the staff. Cody's attitude impacts the whole of the class. She clearly has issues but so will others in the class who will have less time devoted to them because of Cody. Teacher's are not social workers but are expected to respond as both teachers, social workers and surrogate parents without additional time or pay given to allow them to do this. She has been helped enormously to achieve but I wonder how many of her more well- behaved classmates have had their educational success impacted negatively because of the time spent in and out of class because of Cody's behaviour and requirement for extra attention. I wish Cody well for turning herself around but she needs to remember the impact her behaviour has had on others too.
Wait and like no offense intended but is just attaining 8 gcses a positive result? Again not judging, but in my school getting straight 7s/As is mediocre to underperforming, so idrk about other schools
I used to self harm at school and i kept it hidden and told noone. I didnt want my parents to find out and the first thing a school does is tell them. My school had shit pastoral support anyway, as a grammar school it was all about the grades and nothing else.
It's because school administration is responsible for you. They want your well being mate. These kinds of things needs to be discussed, but it's a two way process
I’m a Girl I also go to a grammar school and all they have done is make the problems ten times worse and it’s at the point where you don’t really have no one to tell about your problems because no one gives a shit
Your behaviour is so UGH And the fact that you'll never see my comment again. You'll go on with your life not even knowing that I'm a real human or the fact that you saw my comment. So see you on the other side. 💔
seeing this was rlly special as somebody who dropped out of school because of mental health in year 11 and lack of support. it’s comforting to know that there are people who get the support from the school pastoral teams and I hope she has a wonderful life
When it's some big issue such as depression they are talking about swearing is the least of there worries and would only cause a negative impact in that situation and should be delt with separately if needs be tho I swear lol
i hope kodie, her grandad and all the teachers in this episode are doing ok. it’s rare to see such a large group of teachers doing so well for someone’s mental health
the fact these teachers are alright with students cursing as long as its one on one is so great bc it lets u feel like u can let urself go and fee comfortable with the bond
I feel bad for her, but I mean her mum died when she was 1, so she never got to know her or had a connection with her anyway. When you lose someone you shared lots of memories with and had a connection with, it hurts a lot worse. (That being said, I understand it’s still hard and a sad thing.)
My school knew I was struggling with my mental health and my anorexia as my mum was informing them. It wasn’t until I was on deaths bed that they called a meeting and talked to about it. And then they sent me to hospital. Schools need to intervene more and understand the amount of stress and anxiety they put on their students.
They can't intervene. I've got a friend who's a teacher. And her work never ends. She has troubled kids, kids with behavioural issues, the standard one and very intelligent kids in her class. That's 3 different lesson plans and doesn't include the 2 special needs kids she has. So where do the teachers find time? They don't have any. Where do the schools find funding? Well it has to come from the government, because there's a lot of people who can't even afford the donation. Mental health is getting funded stripped from them every budget. And when they do eventually start funding it, it goes to acute services, because the system crumbling, its all just bandaids over bullet wounds. They'll never fund the primary intervention services like they deserve.
Exactly people like shukri abdi died.Im so depressed watching the death storys that she died becuase she was a somali black girl wearing a headscarf 😢😢😢 JUSTICE FOR PEOPLE LIKE SHUKRI WHO DIED BECUASE OF SCHOOL💙❤💜🙋😢😢🙋🙋
ITS BASICALLY ME i mean it really depends on if you’re pushed up on the list. I got pushed up twice I think but it still took almost a year to get an appointment and now I have to do them online.
Oh god. I actually relate to Kodie so much bless her. I've been through so much but I have people that are still trying to push me to keep going, and I'm thankful for it
You can see that she is a nice girl. She's hurting more than I will ever know. My heart goes out to her. Her grandad is trying his best, I am sure she Will make him proud once she can channel that pain. Come on Cody, you've got this 👍 ❤
I''m very impressed by this school's mental health services. When I used to self-harm at her age, I never said a single word. I had a counselor that my school (thankfully) got me in touch with that I could talk to in my lunch breaks privately but they would pass on information to the head teachers but nothing was ever done. I never improved, my counselor from the NHS didn't take me seriously, the school nurse mocked me and I was never given the benefit of the doubt. This girl is a lot luckier than a lot of children but things still need to change in my opinion. It infuriates me that school boards do nothing really to support the mental health of particular students. I hope she is in a better place today and is happy.
This school when a student self harms: helps them clean up, refers them to the school counsellor, tries to help them in every way possible My school when I self harm: calls my mum who already has severe anxiety and depression anyway to tell her I self harmed, nothing else just pushing it all onto my mum
Watching this broke my heart, I’m so glad she has the support of the school and her grandfather. He seems so lovely she’s a very lucky girl. Well done to her for getting her GCSEs despite everything going on!
i genuinely know how she feels, when you know you’re making the wrong choices but you make them anyway. i’ve been in her position so many times and i feel so bad for her because that feeling is horrible :(
This had me in tears. I relate to Kodie a lot, having lost my both my dad and grandad at a young age and have done self harm in the past. I’m really thankful that she has her Grandad and the teachers taking care of her. I really hope she is okay now and has a good life, she deserves it.
He is a wonderful grandfather, he is from a different generation where things where a lot less accepted, yet he is so understanding and kind and caring
I self harmed when I was 12 and I wish my school had been this supportive. It was like “ah well, don’t do it again, off you pop.” And the issue never went away. I only got support when I had my TB jab and one of the nurses noticed and said “you can get help for this, ya know, do you want me to get in touch with one of my colleagues who can come to the school and you can have a chat with her every week?” No judgement, gave me the option whether I said yes or no. If that hadn’t happened I’d have been in a much worse position than I’m in now, where I’m still having the occasional trouble with self harm every few years or so but I know the coping mechanisms that will help. It was so valuable and it’s the most important thing that happened to me when I was a teenager, so I’m really glad to see that there are schools who are so empathetic and want to help their pupils rather than brush it under the carpet.
I actually feel bad for her, and respect to her grandad for taking care of her. She was so brave, I know the feeling of loosing the closet person to you and honestly it makes a massive impact on her attitude
This episode hits hard. I lost my mum to cancer at 15, but also dealt with her having cancer the first time when I was 3. Both times, my maternal grandparents came over to look after me and my sister whilst my dad supported mum and worked. It was so difficult for my grandparents having to help raise their grandchildren whilst their youngest daughter was sick and then later dying. I didn't react the same way kodie did to the situation, but I'd be lying if I didn't relate to her struggles.
The fact her teacher helped her fix her arm after self harming is cute♡ wish my teachers did this, they said they didn't care and leave even when you ask for help.
You think that's a prison!! In my school we would be locked in the faculty and couldn't get out until the teacher swiped their card. We couldn't even go for a wee
She reminds me so much of myself a few years ago. Just wish I could give her a big hug because things do get better, just cried my eyes out watching this because I know what it feels like, you come across as a naughty kid when really your just crying out for help or trying to find reasons to escape the classroom, God bless her and I wish her best for her future.
Incredibly lucky to have all that support... when I was in sixth form 2017-2019, all my teachers just thought that I was attention-seeking, but I couldn't talk to me parents about all my really dark thoughts-- so the teachers were my only hope for help... none of which I got. In the end, my attendance dropped to 32% and only went to half of my exams, because I was so close to just kms, that I was like "what's the point in trying?". Anyway, I'm definitely glad Kodie is doing well with her education now.
I mean I understand her pain, my father passed a few years ago and that always has an effect on my actions, I have self harmed a bit ago I sometimes misbehave and just give up on everything easily, but some support helped me through so much
@@mazloum3522 Some people's personal life suffer and feel safe around teachers. A student talking to a teacher some feel like they the student are talking to their respective always wanted guardian. Some students go to school to get away from hell at home and love there life when they are in school!
miss being at this school :) full of memories and so many people that I know growing up from the past and especially this girl right here I have so much love for her
When i first self harmed i didnt know it had a name, i was at college when i hurt myself purposely. The reaction and experience i went though with the college and my school was the complete opposite to how this school on here handled it. Caused me to shut down completely and continue to struggle for years with my mental health. Nearly 13 years on and i am now getting my life back and has took me so much to get where i am today. You never know what anyone is going through, please be kind, considerate and patient. If you know anyone going through a tough time please be there for them. Or if you are struggling in anyway please dont be affaid to reach out. Speak to someone you trust or if you feel you havent got that trust with anyone you know, there are many charities and helplines who will listen day or night.
Kodie if you ever see this, hang in there. You can do this! You've been through a lot and take things one day at time. I'm dead proud of you and I dont even know you personally. Keep going, love!
The fact that she has lost her mum.
It plays a massive part in her attitude. Just trust me, I bet she is actually so sweet inside
Just Editsx yeah! If that happened to my mum that would make me depressed so I feel so bad for her she probably is soooo sweet it is just hard for her she has no parents only her grandpa.
Just Editsx trauma...
Sarwat Ameer シ wtf no shit ig?
I feel bad she lost her mum, but her attitude is still horrible.
A strong and honest person recovers and does not burden everyone else and sacrifice their future. I had a friend who’s mother died and had to go to school in another country, still a normal person
Her mum died of course she will struggle. I feel sorry for her, all she needs is support
i know right!
She is getting it
M T I feel her pain , I lost my dad at the age 9
Unknown K im so sorry, whatever you do, he will always be proud of you. i wish you the best in your life.🤍
Bruh people die all the time that's life people need to stop taking advantage of it and using it as excuses to ruin your life or be an asshole
Her grandad is a fucking saint.
Not only did he lose his daughter, but he took in both of her kids. Raised them as his own.
He deserves the world.
The teachers were absolutely amazing, too, don’t get me wrong. But I wanted to highlight his amazing work.
I hope that one day I can be as good a father as he is, and as good a grandfather as he is.
YASSS EXACTLY! Took the words out of my head. 👑👑👑
i just want to give him a hug
Reminds me off my grandad.🕊️
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She better realise how much they worked for her! 😩
why do all these schools have good pastoral workers
We didn't even have them in my school
I think we just generally do in the uk
the ones at my school never resolved any problems, just made them worse tbh
Acting for the cameras
No they don’t my school didn’t n it’s better than harop fold, I almost committed a few times and 3 people nearly killed themselves because no one listened
wish my secondary school had teachers this caring.
They might just be this kind bc they r on tv
paige I agree but Lily Meeep I also agree with u bc people sometimes can be a bit 2 faced especially if it will ruin their reputation as a teacher
i completely agree with the both of you to be honest, but i’m sure if they where just putting on an act the kid being interviewed would have probably said something
paige u have got a point but honestly at this point I don’t think any one knows
Elizabeth Afton yh I know what u mean
Can we acknowledge her friends? How they supported her and brought her to the teacher, then blocked the doors for privacy? Those girls are keepers❤️
That's so sweet, it's way better than my friends when I told them I was hurting myself and wanted to kms... they just told me "no dont kill yourself you're AMAZING🤩!!!" they didn't seem to care... everytime I say I'm feeling suicidal they just day "oh.. again... is that all" my only real friend is amazing she actually looked up how to communicate to me when I'm going through a rough time shes amazing bit the rest dont get it.... also sorry for spilling my whole life story 2 u I just got carried away
rosalind w stay strong , we need u here. I know life can rly suck sometimes but it always gets better !
rosalind w girl drop those friends and are u okay? do u need someone to talk to?? if u do i’ll drop u my snap xx
@@lander9741 same to you . Im always here
i feel so bad for people who’s friends aren’t supportive. my friend on said to me if you do it, i’ll do it. i did it. she came in the next day, told me she’d done it and expected sympathy. obviously i did because i’m a niceish person but i did drop her after. it was a long time coming. seriously try to get away from people who do more harm than good for you :)
Her grandad means well, he's trying to give all his support and care bless him
i have a question. year 11s do their GCSEs at May until June right? what do you guys do after completing every exams? don't you have another couple of months until year 11 finished?
Alisha you just leave and have a really long summer holiday until September
I feel so sorry feel him.
Alisha you have like an extra month
@@Aethelhadas we don't have exams because of coronavirous. You can take them in October or smth if you want but we get our results in August from a mix of our mock exams and school work. So we get a massive holiday. Since March until September when we start college or whatever other things people will do.
I kinda feel sorry for her grandpa
Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. - Would U mind to be my friend 💖 :) _Kizzy Portlock_
Who doesn’t
I think lots of people his age would have half given up when in his position. But he really cares about Kody. That's pretty special. I hope they both are ok now
@@lightenthehearttempo11 stfu
@@RowanSony why you mad?
Can we appreciate the two friends who made her tell the adult and stood directly in front of the windows so the cameras could not see?
Wasn't for cameras it was so other pupils couldn't come in or see in
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Her grandad is adorable, bless him. And she looks really pretty with black hair. I hope they're both doing good now
Edit: can you year 7s stop replying with stupid shit pls & ty💕
@@darleneharrison6095 are you dumb she never said that
Darlene Harrison she said “she looks rlly pretty with black hair” - she’s pretty regardless but black hair suits her better. Honestly chill
True she does look gd with
Black hair better than blonde
Its just Sposn4y Thank you ugh x
Darlene Harrison mkay 😒
can we jusst all agree how much better she looks with dark hairrr
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Innniiiiiiiiiiiit 😭
Saying she looks better isn’t really the right words to use, she does look amazing with dark hair, but she does equally look great with blonde hair x
Are you trying to say she is ugly?
anyone got her @?
people don’t realise trauma has a huge impact on a person’s mental state and attitude, i started tearing up while watching this.
"and attitude" that's bullshit
exactly, she's obviously hurting inside and acting tough because she's so fragile. losing her mum must've been horrible and also so hard on her poor grandad. the british school system really failed her. she probably feels like it's her fault that her mum's gone and all she needs is help and love :( i teared up too
Kiriya Mon wanna clarify how?
Attitude is the choice of the person and only the person.
@@mazloum3522 finally somebody gets it
For the ppl who are roasting the girls eyebrows : are u even human? She’s gone through so much , losing her mum , self harm , feeling worthless and your bothered about her eyebrows ?! I’m sorry what. Edit: For all those ppl who are replying “but her eyebrows are messed tho” ,, I know they might be different but it is HER style she can do watever she wants u have no say and I think she looks beautiful , everyone’s beautiful in a different way so DONT JUDGE !
Her eye brows r hella clapped 🤣🤣🤣🤮
Haleema. xo no one cares
@@rachaelgarrick8871 I mean. 65 people upvoted their comment. You've got one. Probably from yourself 😂 but okay, keep talking that shit.
IKR so judgemental people.
kids can be cruel, usually they are this way because someone made them insecure about themself.
Her grandad is so cute bless
yeah
I have a cousin called Charlotte hughes..
no he looking clapped
When he said “waste of 5 years of your life” year 11s 2020 really felt that 😂😂
HAHA
That’s a class comment. Then again when I get to year 11 now there will probably be another virus and I’m going to regret commenting this 😪
Tell me about it 🙄
you havent wasted those 5 years at all, you are still taking classes online and going to graduate!!
@@lemontea9735 you would think
This goes to show that the education system as a whole needs to change. If the school made this poor girl resort to s*lf h*rming, lord knows what it could do to other vulnerable students.
It’s the governments fault underfunding and that my dads been a senior leader for almost half his life
My friends were in the same situation before we left
exactly the hours are too long and draining, way too much pressure and an unbearable amount of work. I left because I couldn't deal with the stress
Why did you bleep out the words
@@chr15tune56 same.
You know her granddad loved her so much and wants her to be the brightest child🥺
people keep saying that she “didn’t know her mum” even if she was younger and doesn’t rlly remember her it’s still the same pain, all her friends will have mums, she can’t celebrate mother’s day and she’s not had a mother figure for her.
Exactly. Like it doesn't matter if she can't remember her, it's still the same amount of pain. Her mother has most likely been there for that most part of her life and a mother is really essential in a child's life. She will now never have that mother figure or a parent figure apart from her grandad and maybe grandma?? (Idk if there is a grandma in the picture.) But that's really sad. It's so sad when children lose parents because they feel so alone and isolated. Really sad.
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no shit sherlock
@@aoyfiyshisgjvaujd 😐
Oh bless the grandad 😟 he.. has a lot on his shoulders oh god
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Her mom died and it was later revealed she self harmed
I know
I can tell she's trying to act cool around her friends and not behave well in classes but I deep down know she's doing that because she doesn't want to show she's hurting nad she's weaker than them. Bless her heart
Yess I feel so bad 🥺 honestly wish I could give her the biggest hug rn.
She’s just god awful stupid, I knew a guy who’s parents died and had to move countries to a new school
Kinda sound a but dumb coz imagine if that's not true
@@Sea-zu4bj true. People have different emotions though. They handle situations differently
@@gloccstr yes but if you see her body language I can tell. I work with children and have to deal with these kind of children
she weren’t angry or rude, she was hurting
True
That’s absolutely true I agree
She’s in jail now apparently
@@Huh9631 wait really?
@@Huh9631oh for what?
Her black hair looks so good on her and really suits her ? X
The question mark wasnt needed fuckin idiot
Hdishxb Hdidbxb it was probably a mistake calm down
Hdishxb Hdidbxb the state of your UA-cam name and you want to lecture someone on grammar?
Hdishxb Hdidbxb sorry it was a mistake Jesus Christ you don’t need to call me a fucking idiot !
@@roboguard96 its like this on purpose you fucking twat
These teachers need a pat on the back because they are making a difference to these kids lives, they genuinely care about their futures,deserve a medal 🏅🏅🏅
Am better then everyone and Everything am a GOD the teachers aren’t evil. Of course some don’t care but I’m sure a lot do.
Don't forget the rest of the class who are not getting the teacher's attention because Cody is demanding so much attention for herself. This puts the teaching staff in a difficult situation and puts additional time pressures on the staff. Cody's attitude impacts the whole of the class. She clearly has issues but so will others in the class who will have less time devoted to them because of Cody. Teacher's are not social workers but are expected to respond as both teachers, social workers and surrogate parents without additional time or pay given to allow them to do this. She has been helped enormously to achieve but I wonder how many of her more well- behaved classmates have had their educational success impacted negatively because of the time spent in and out of class because of Cody's behaviour and requirement for extra attention. I wish Cody well for turning herself around but she needs to remember the impact her behaviour has had on others too.
I love the fact she ended up getting 8 GCSE’s
Wait and like no offense intended but is just attaining 8 gcses a positive result? Again not judging, but in my school getting straight 7s/As is mediocre to underperforming, so idrk about other schools
gcse scores go up to 10 so 8 is very good
@@0mojoo they go up to 9 btw :)
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@@oibruv3889 no one asked about your school lol
I used to self harm at school and i kept it hidden and told noone. I didnt want my parents to find out and the first thing a school does is tell them. My school had shit pastoral support anyway, as a grammar school it was all about the grades and nothing else.
same. my parents shouted at me lol
It's because school administration is responsible for you. They want your well being mate. These kinds of things needs to be discussed, but it's a two way process
I’m a Girl I also go to a grammar school and all they have done is make the problems ten times worse and it’s at the point where you don’t really have no one to tell about your problems because no one gives a shit
I feel you 100
Do u go to the grammar school in wolverhampton
She seems like such a sweet girl, also her black hair looks incredible on her
I know right?
why would you care?
@@chipstick. LMAOO
Weird how everything you’ve done in your life has lead you to this comment.
Oh wow lol
I- omg that is what? It’s weird to get your head around
Well now I’m not going to sleep, I’m gonna be questioning my existence 💀
Your behaviour is so UGH
And the fact that you'll never see my comment again.
You'll go on with your life not even knowing that I'm a real human or the fact that you saw my comment.
So see you on the other side. 💔
@@baileysubliminals7192 Ouch ♡Lots of love ❤
When her grandpa started crying it set me off 🥺😭
I don’t blame her
I see what you are coming at
Hahah same
Me neither lol
For cutting herself?
Me too I've been there
I feel terrible for her. I was in the same boat, my dad committed suicide so living without him and the problems at school were awful.
CringeFest i feel so bad fly high ur dad x
CringeFest so sorry for your loss your father would be so proud of you he will always be looking down on you and he will always be in your heart 😊
That's sad and all but I hope you didn't use that as an excuse to act like this girl
So sorry for your loss
@@3man3 people cope differently. how dare you comment on how someone else grieves
SHE LOOKS SO GOOD WITH BLACK HAIR
At least her teaches supported her I got bullied so I left and the school never cared
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Panda R that’s personal
seeing this was rlly special as somebody who dropped out of school because of mental health in year 11 and lack of support. it’s comforting to know that there are people who get the support from the school pastoral teams and I hope she has a wonderful life
no such thing as poor school attendance when you're Desi or Arab. bruh my mums slippers turn corners...
trussssss
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I can relate
Yep exactly , from Afghanistan 🇦🇫 btw (western Asia) !
Omg her with black hair is EVERYTHINGG😍👌
@@nimai4 why does it matter? She's beautiful.
IKR! It's so beautiful! She's beautiful with the blonde hair too but the black hair just enhances her true beautiful to the full. ☺
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13:15 glow up
The teachers don’t even care if she swears. in
my highschool we get shouted at,detention,lunch and break detention
Yea same here it’s probaly of the cameras they don’t wanna come out as bad people maybe
SHADOW_ LEVAITHAN same 😂
fam we get a day in isolation detention is even lucky
When it's some big issue such as depression they are talking about swearing is the least of there worries and would only cause a negative impact in that situation and should be delt with separately if needs be tho I swear lol
Telling off a girl for swearing who is threatening to leave the school due to pressure from teachers is literally the worst thing to do.
i hope kodie, her grandad and all the teachers in this episode are doing ok. it’s rare to see such a large group of teachers doing so well for someone’s mental health
Instead of a therapist
Love you
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She killed herself poo
SHE IS IN PRISON, GOOGLE Mia Peers!!!
My school would NOT do anything like this for a troubled student
Mine wouldn't have neither, they never did nout till you tried to take ya life its a fkn joke.
Then your school is fucked up.
@@glaptoper actually our school would probably be one of the best in our town lol
@@Anonymous-sg4tr
Not in the sense of having emotional support for students.
@@glaptoper yeah
the fact these teachers are alright with students cursing as long as its one on one is so great bc it lets u feel like u can let urself go and fee comfortable with the bond
Damn, that brown/black hair makes her look AMAZING! Do NOT ever go back to blonde! 😂
Stfu
@@hassansyed696 ?
Habibi son of Imam Murrah ????
@@hassansyed696 Habibi this kind of language is not acceptable.
@@JohnWick03 😂😂
Poor girl lost her mother :(
I know I feel so bad for her
@@ifyoufindmeleavepls1603 yeah
I lost my mam 2015 🥺🥺 Ik how it feels I was depressed
I feel bad for her, but I mean her mum died when she was 1, so she never got to know her or had a connection with her anyway. When you lose someone you shared lots of memories with and had a connection with, it hurts a lot worse. (That being said, I understand it’s still hard and a sad thing.)
@@bethanh5347 but it's still the same feeling
Her black hair looks so gorgeous.
I thought it was a different lass 😂😂
From blond to dark brown 😮
My school knew I was struggling with my mental health and my anorexia as my mum was informing them. It wasn’t until I was on deaths bed that they called a meeting and talked to about it. And then they sent me to hospital. Schools need to intervene more and understand the amount of stress and anxiety they put on their students.
They did help her though..
They can't intervene. I've got a friend who's a teacher. And her work never ends. She has troubled kids, kids with behavioural issues, the standard one and very intelligent kids in her class. That's 3 different lesson plans and doesn't include the 2 special needs kids she has.
So where do the teachers find time? They don't have any. Where do the schools find funding? Well it has to come from the government, because there's a lot of people who can't even afford the donation. Mental health is getting funded stripped from them every budget. And when they do eventually start funding it, it goes to acute services, because the system crumbling, its all just bandaids over bullet wounds. They'll never fund the primary intervention services like they deserve.
I hope you're doing better now ❤
Exactly people like shukri abdi died.Im so depressed watching the death storys that she died becuase she was a somali black girl wearing a headscarf 😢😢😢 JUSTICE FOR PEOPLE LIKE SHUKRI WHO DIED BECUASE OF SCHOOL💙❤💜🙋😢😢🙋🙋
Hi xxx
CAHMS is terrible. “ have a bath and some tea “
Omd litterally. it take flipping years just a get an appointment even if your suicidal like-
Abigail Dorrat everyone always took so long to get in, I got in within a couple of weeks.
I got in within a couple of months and I didn’t even need any help
ITS BASICALLY ME me too, but i think i was high risk at the time
ITS BASICALLY ME i mean it really depends on if you’re pushed up on the list. I got pushed up twice I think but it still took almost a year to get an appointment and now I have to do them online.
Teachers always say it’s a scary world out there after school. But college and university is way better than school
Not really you probs got bullied or had no friends
@@thewood1239or they just didn’t peak in secondary? Sure y11 was great but life can get better after
Imagine she’s watching this video scrolling through the comments 💀
Lol
What is your pfp?
Lewis C black lives matter
Tatenda Munyaradzi oh dear
@@LewisVinyl ?
She is such a beautiful girl I'm glad she got the help that she needed... She is rocking that black hair btw☺️☺️
Oh god. I actually relate to Kodie so much bless her. I've been through so much but I have people that are still trying to push me to keep going, and I'm thankful for it
I hope shes not self harming anymore etc:( I wonder where all these people are now
Probably got 7 kids and are on benefits
Forza223 Bowe hahaa
@@forza223bowe5 🙊🙊🙉🙉
Hey I'm Cody so I'm better now
I searched her up she works at Wetherspoons i thinkkkk lol
definitely looks better with the darker hair, really suits her
You can see that she is a nice girl. She's hurting more than I will ever know. My heart goes out to her. Her grandad is trying his best, I am sure she Will make him proud once she can channel that pain. Come on Cody, you've got this 👍 ❤
Her grandfather seemed to kind hearted and mindful🥺🥺🥺
I''m very impressed by this school's mental health services. When I used to self-harm at her age, I never said a single word. I had a counselor that my school (thankfully) got me in touch with that I could talk to in my lunch breaks privately but they would pass on information to the head teachers but nothing was ever done. I never improved, my counselor from the NHS didn't take me seriously, the school nurse mocked me and I was never given the benefit of the doubt. This girl is a lot luckier than a lot of children but things still need to change in my opinion. It infuriates me that school boards do nothing really to support the mental health of particular students. I hope she is in a better place today and is happy.
This school when a student self harms: helps them clean up, refers them to the school counsellor, tries to help them in every way possible
My school when I self harm: calls my mum who already has severe anxiety and depression anyway to tell her I self harmed, nothing else just pushing it all onto my mum
same with my school :(
Watching this broke my heart, I’m so glad she has the support of the school and her grandfather. He seems so lovely she’s a very lucky girl. Well done to her for getting her GCSEs despite everything going on!
That smile she gave the councillor when she said she was proud of her, I’m in tears
i genuinely know how she feels, when you know you’re making the wrong choices but you make them anyway. i’ve been in her position so many times and i feel so bad for her because that feeling is horrible :(
aww bless her grandad!
Mr povey seems like the best headteacher anyone could have hes so understanding and caring towards his students.
This had me in tears. I relate to Kodie a lot, having lost my both my dad and grandad at a young age and have done self harm in the past. I’m really thankful that she has her Grandad and the teachers taking care of her. I really hope she is okay now and has a good life, she deserves it.
i wish they’d do this series in 2020. it’d be so much more interesting
+please have a poo poo ➊
Oh ! I’m class of 2020 .... HA HA HA, all i would say it would be 100% worse than this
There’s a new series airing. It was filmed in 2018 but it’s going to start on 3rd November!!
@@TheGeographyWatch oh really? that’s cool!! thanks for letting me know
@@TheGeographyWatch is it out yet?
@@TheGeographyWatch name?
Bless the poor girl, she’s been through so much. I hope things have improved for her now. & her grandad is just the sweetest
poor kodie really just needed support and love. She seems to have such a kind soul on the inside🥺🥺
He is a wonderful grandfather, he is from a different generation where things where a lot less accepted, yet he is so understanding and kind and caring
I self harmed when I was 12 and I wish my school had been this supportive. It was like “ah well, don’t do it again, off you pop.” And the issue never went away. I only got support when I had my TB jab and one of the nurses noticed and said “you can get help for this, ya know, do you want me to get in touch with one of my colleagues who can come to the school and you can have a chat with her every week?” No judgement, gave me the option whether I said yes or no. If that hadn’t happened I’d have been in a much worse position than I’m in now, where I’m still having the occasional trouble with self harm every few years or so but I know the coping mechanisms that will help. It was so valuable and it’s the most important thing that happened to me when I was a teenager, so I’m really glad to see that there are schools who are so empathetic and want to help their pupils rather than brush it under the carpet.
Her grandad melts my heart, This episode hits home alot
I actually feel bad for her, and respect to her grandad for taking care of her. She was so brave, I know the feeling of loosing the closet person to you and honestly it makes a massive impact on her attitude
This episode hits hard. I lost my mum to cancer at 15, but also dealt with her having cancer the first time when I was 3. Both times, my maternal grandparents came over to look after me and my sister whilst my dad supported mum and worked. It was so difficult for my grandparents having to help raise their grandchildren whilst their youngest daughter was sick and then later dying. I didn't react the same way kodie did to the situation, but I'd be lying if I didn't relate to her struggles.
The fact her teacher helped her fix her arm after self harming is cute♡ wish my teachers did this, they said they didn't care and leave even when you ask for help.
My school counselor done nothing
This school looks like a prison lmao
*edit* thanks for the likes :)
isn’t every school?
Tbh I like that design I wish my school was less boring lmao
You think that's a prison!! In my school we would be locked in the faculty and couldn't get out until the teacher swiped their card. We couldn't even go for a wee
Lol
In my school every single door is locked... (even the toilets)
When he said her mum died i cried, bless her 🥺
bless her grandad and the teachers. they need an award
Massive respect for how calmly that lady handled the self harm. I really hope this girl and her sweet granddad are doing well now
Aw so many people supporting - glad she finished and went onto college - that grandad is amazing too ❤️
I like the teacher who brought her into his office he seems like he understands but wants the best for her .
She reminds me so much of myself a few years ago. Just wish I could give her a big hug because things do get better, just cried my eyes out watching this because I know what it feels like, you come across as a naughty kid when really your just crying out for help or trying to find reasons to escape the classroom, God bless her and I wish her best for her future.
Well done to the child for speaking to an adult that she self harmed, most people don’t speak to others about it
Her grandad is adorable. It must be so hard for her to lose her mum. God bless them ❤️
Just remember what we used to go to school for. Annoying the teachers😂
That is literally my school year 😂😂 and it actually works
Innit 😂
@@sonja7404 hmm
Yeah if you’re about 12..
And then the same people say that all the teachers do is shout at them. Wonder why
Incredibly lucky to have all that support... when I was in sixth form 2017-2019, all my teachers just thought that I was attention-seeking, but I couldn't talk to me parents about all my really dark thoughts-- so the teachers were my only hope for help... none of which I got. In the end, my attendance dropped to 32% and only went to half of my exams, because I was so close to just kms, that I was like "what's the point in trying?".
Anyway, I'm definitely glad Kodie is doing well with her education now.
I mean I understand her pain, my father passed a few years ago and that always has an effect on my actions, I have self harmed a bit ago I sometimes misbehave and just give up on everything easily, but some support helped me through so much
I am sorry but we need more teachers like the guy at the beginning he said exactly what some students need to hear.
You go to schools to learn not to go to therapy. You leave your personal life outside the gates of the school.
@@mazloum3522 Some people's personal life suffer and feel safe around teachers. A student talking to a teacher some feel like they the student are talking to their respective always wanted guardian. Some students go to school to get away from hell at home and love there life when they are in school!
Bless her and her grandad. I can see Cody has good intentions but has gone through so much.
I struggled with mental health issues in school, and my school was great. They were so supportive.
I wish my school was this kind, caring and supportive.
I feel her, it’s hard being at school especially when you are feeling shit and no one knows. I hope that she is doing well now! ❤️
I love her grandad, he is adorable and cares so much about Kodie. I wish my family were this supportive and understanding about school
this made me soo emotional. I hope she's okay now
Laila Davis me too ❤️
Poor girl she’s such a lovely girl I hope she’s doing a lot better now she’s capable off a lot.
Her grandad is so adorable and he’s trying to do everything to help her! It’s so sad when he’s speaking to the teachers
Lovely Grandfather
Oh the grandad is lovely.
her grandads the best, like he can see that she's struggling, but hes not annoyed. what a champ
miss being at this school :) full of memories and so many people that I know growing up from the past and especially this girl right here I have so much love for her
such a gorgeous girl, bless her and her grandad. 🥺
When i first self harmed i didnt know it had a name, i was at college when i hurt myself purposely. The reaction and experience i went though with the college and my school was the complete opposite to how this school on here handled it. Caused me to shut down completely and continue to struggle for years with my mental health.
Nearly 13 years on and i am now getting my life back and has took me so much to get where i am today.
You never know what anyone is going through, please be kind, considerate and patient.
If you know anyone going through a tough time please be there for them.
Or if you are struggling in anyway please dont be affaid to reach out. Speak to someone you trust or if you feel you havent got that trust with anyone you know, there are many charities and helplines who will listen day or night.
Kodie if you ever see this, hang in there. You can do this! You've been through a lot and take things one day at time. I'm dead proud of you and I dont even know you personally. Keep going, love!
SHE IS IN PRISON, GOOGLE Mia Peers!!!
@@Mike--Oxmall wrong person
Her teachers are so nice and her friends I want them they covered the doors so she could have privacy and her grandad is so nice 😩💕
The way she self harms in 8:05 is just so heart breaking 😢😢😢
I wish this girl the best of luck she has come so far!