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  • @justeditsx9840
    @justeditsx9840 4 роки тому +8550

    The fact that she has lost her mum.
    It plays a massive part in her attitude. Just trust me, I bet she is actually so sweet inside

    • @sarwatameer5088
      @sarwatameer5088 4 роки тому +150

      Just Editsx yeah! If that happened to my mum that would make me depressed so I feel so bad for her she probably is soooo sweet it is just hard for her she has no parents only her grandpa.

    • @eclipse2456
      @eclipse2456 4 роки тому +21

      Just Editsx trauma...

    • @eclipse2456
      @eclipse2456 4 роки тому +3

      Sarwat Ameer シ wtf no shit ig?

    • @bethanh5347
      @bethanh5347 4 роки тому +54

      I feel bad she lost her mum, but her attitude is still horrible.

    • @Sea-zu4bj
      @Sea-zu4bj 4 роки тому +28

      A strong and honest person recovers and does not burden everyone else and sacrifice their future. I had a friend who’s mother died and had to go to school in another country, still a normal person

  • @bradphilipswain3374
    @bradphilipswain3374 4 роки тому +6360

    Her grandad means well, he's trying to give all his support and care bless him

    • @Aethelhadas
      @Aethelhadas 4 роки тому +17

      i have a question. year 11s do their GCSEs at May until June right? what do you guys do after completing every exams? don't you have another couple of months until year 11 finished?

    • @jackwatson7402
      @jackwatson7402 4 роки тому +52

      Alisha you just leave and have a really long summer holiday until September

    • @xavmcg6233
      @xavmcg6233 4 роки тому +10

      I feel so sorry feel him.

    • @xavmcg6233
      @xavmcg6233 4 роки тому +10

      Alisha you have like an extra month

    • @marksgiggle8895
      @marksgiggle8895 4 роки тому +11

      @@Aethelhadas we don't have exams because of coronavirous. You can take them in October or smth if you want but we get our results in August from a mix of our mock exams and school work. So we get a massive holiday. Since March until September when we start college or whatever other things people will do.

  • @nataliewilds5587
    @nataliewilds5587 4 роки тому +3292

    When he said “waste of 5 years of your life” year 11s 2020 really felt that 😂😂

    • @mxrvomar4120
      @mxrvomar4120 4 роки тому +16

      HAHA

    • @aricketts1084
      @aricketts1084 4 роки тому +38

      That’s a class comment. Then again when I get to year 11 now there will probably be another virus and I’m going to regret commenting this 😪

    • @jessg4073
      @jessg4073 3 роки тому +3

      Tell me about it 🙄

    • @lemontea9735
      @lemontea9735 3 роки тому +14

      you havent wasted those 5 years at all, you are still taking classes online and going to graduate!!

    • @Tabbeans
      @Tabbeans 3 роки тому +10

      @@lemontea9735 you would think

  • @user-qm4zs5pl1h
    @user-qm4zs5pl1h 3 роки тому +1421

    Her grandad is a fucking saint.
    Not only did he lose his daughter, but he took in both of her kids. Raised them as his own.
    He deserves the world.
    The teachers were absolutely amazing, too, don’t get me wrong. But I wanted to highlight his amazing work.
    I hope that one day I can be as good a father as he is, and as good a grandfather as he is.

    • @girls.only.page_xoxo3968
      @girls.only.page_xoxo3968 3 роки тому +8

      YASSS EXACTLY! Took the words out of my head. 👑👑👑

    • @moon2360
      @moon2360 3 роки тому +11

      i just want to give him a hug

    • @katie.13
      @katie.13 3 роки тому +8

      Reminds me off my grandad.🕊️

    • @bella9154
      @bella9154 3 роки тому +1

      B

    • @Samprids
      @Samprids 3 роки тому +2

      She better realise how much they worked for her! 😩

  • @Maisietennent
    @Maisietennent 4 роки тому +6801

    Her mum died of course she will struggle. I feel sorry for her, all she needs is support

    • @asxley9523
      @asxley9523 4 роки тому +30

      i know right!

    • @obi-wankenobi9743
      @obi-wankenobi9743 4 роки тому +8

      She is getting it

    • @kifayak8672
      @kifayak8672 4 роки тому +29

      M T I feel her pain , I lost my dad at the age 9

    • @evareid7919
      @evareid7919 4 роки тому +17

      Unknown K im so sorry, whatever you do, he will always be proud of you. i wish you the best in your life.🤍

    • @3man3
      @3man3 4 роки тому +18

      Bruh people die all the time that's life people need to stop taking advantage of it and using it as excuses to ruin your life or be an asshole

  • @uzmakausar7084
    @uzmakausar7084 4 роки тому +4306

    why do all these schools have good pastoral workers

    • @rachelgigg8047
      @rachelgigg8047 4 роки тому +91

      We didn't even have them in my school

    • @ali_a1805
      @ali_a1805 4 роки тому +15

      Rachel Gigg me neither

    • @Meowshaaa
      @Meowshaaa 4 роки тому +45

      I think we just generally do in the uk

    • @eleanor5890
      @eleanor5890 4 роки тому +94

      the ones at my school never resolved any problems, just made them worse tbh

    • @tarekhussain6772
      @tarekhussain6772 4 роки тому +54

      Acting for the cameras

  • @ciara6279
    @ciara6279 3 роки тому +2115

    Can we acknowledge her friends? How they supported her and brought her to the teacher, then blocked the doors for privacy? Those girls are keepers❤️

    • @roz2692
      @roz2692 3 роки тому +73

      That's so sweet, it's way better than my friends when I told them I was hurting myself and wanted to kms... they just told me "no dont kill yourself you're AMAZING🤩!!!" they didn't seem to care... everytime I say I'm feeling suicidal they just day "oh.. again... is that all" my only real friend is amazing she actually looked up how to communicate to me when I'm going through a rough time shes amazing bit the rest dont get it.... also sorry for spilling my whole life story 2 u I just got carried away

    • @dreamHIGH94
      @dreamHIGH94 3 роки тому +19

      rosalind w stay strong , we need u here. I know life can rly suck sometimes but it always gets better !

    • @lander9741
      @lander9741 3 роки тому +13

      rosalind w girl drop those friends and are u okay? do u need someone to talk to?? if u do i’ll drop u my snap xx

    • @gracesaraaa8438
      @gracesaraaa8438 3 роки тому

      @@lander9741 same to you . Im always here

    • @jean_the_bean
      @jean_the_bean 3 роки тому +4

      i feel so bad for people who’s friends aren’t supportive. my friend on said to me if you do it, i’ll do it. i did it. she came in the next day, told me she’d done it and expected sympathy. obviously i did because i’m a niceish person but i did drop her after. it was a long time coming. seriously try to get away from people who do more harm than good for you :)

  • @emmamonaghandesign
    @emmamonaghandesign 3 роки тому +509

    Can we appreciate the two friends who made her tell the adult and stood directly in front of the windows so the cameras could not see?

  • @paige5580
    @paige5580 4 роки тому +10533

    wish my secondary school had teachers this caring.

    • @lilymeeep9328
      @lilymeeep9328 4 роки тому +370

      They might just be this kind bc they r on tv

    • @xelizabethrose850
      @xelizabethrose850 4 роки тому +86

      paige I agree but Lily Meeep I also agree with u bc people sometimes can be a bit 2 faced especially if it will ruin their reputation as a teacher

    • @paige5580
      @paige5580 4 роки тому +50

      i completely agree with the both of you to be honest, but i’m sure if they where just putting on an act the kid being interviewed would have probably said something

    • @lilymeeep9328
      @lilymeeep9328 4 роки тому +8

      paige u have got a point but honestly at this point I don’t think any one knows

    • @lilymeeep9328
      @lilymeeep9328 4 роки тому +3

      Elizabeth Afton yh I know what u mean

  • @k1zzy
    @k1zzy 4 роки тому +3170

    I kinda feel sorry for her grandpa

    • @lightenthehearttempo11
      @lightenthehearttempo11 4 роки тому +16

      Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. - Would U mind to be my friend 💖 :) _Kizzy Portlock_

    • @rauspy2202
      @rauspy2202 4 роки тому +5

      Who doesn’t

    • @bearmugs1408
      @bearmugs1408 4 роки тому +64

      I think lots of people his age would have half given up when in his position. But he really cares about Kody. That's pretty special. I hope they both are ok now

    • @RowanSony
      @RowanSony 4 роки тому +12

      @@lightenthehearttempo11 stfu

    • @jaylaa504
      @jaylaa504 4 роки тому +8

      @@RowanSony why you mad?

  • @kumikamii
    @kumikamii 4 роки тому +368

    people don’t realise trauma has a huge impact on a person’s mental state and attitude, i started tearing up while watching this.

    • @3man3
      @3man3 4 роки тому +6

      "and attitude" that's bullshit

    • @luluphillips1338
      @luluphillips1338 3 роки тому +6

      exactly, she's obviously hurting inside and acting tough because she's so fragile. losing her mum must've been horrible and also so hard on her poor grandad. the british school system really failed her. she probably feels like it's her fault that her mum's gone and all she needs is help and love :( i teared up too

    • @kumikamii
      @kumikamii 3 роки тому +2

      Kiriya Mon wanna clarify how?

    • @mazloum3522
      @mazloum3522 3 роки тому

      Attitude is the choice of the person and only the person.

    • @3man3
      @3man3 3 роки тому +1

      @@mazloum3522 finally somebody gets it

  • @kate-sc1lf
    @kate-sc1lf 3 роки тому +330

    people keep saying that she “didn’t know her mum” even if she was younger and doesn’t rlly remember her it’s still the same pain, all her friends will have mums, she can’t celebrate mother’s day and she’s not had a mother figure for her.

    • @daisyx0558
      @daisyx0558 3 роки тому +16

      Exactly. Like it doesn't matter if she can't remember her, it's still the same amount of pain. Her mother has most likely been there for that most part of her life and a mother is really essential in a child's life. She will now never have that mother figure or a parent figure apart from her grandad and maybe grandma?? (Idk if there is a grandma in the picture.) But that's really sad. It's so sad when children lose parents because they feel so alone and isolated. Really sad.

    • @richardling5912
      @richardling5912 3 роки тому

      Love

    • @richardling5912
      @richardling5912 3 роки тому

      Yes + no

    • @aoyfiyshisgjvaujd
      @aoyfiyshisgjvaujd 3 роки тому

      no shit sherlock

    • @kate-sc1lf
      @kate-sc1lf 3 роки тому

      @@aoyfiyshisgjvaujd 😐

  • @Kimbrly_xo
    @Kimbrly_xo 4 роки тому +7688

    Her grandad is adorable, bless him. And she looks really pretty with black hair. I hope they're both doing good now
    Edit: can you year 7s stop replying with stupid shit pls & ty💕

    • @l1ght775
      @l1ght775 4 роки тому +60

      @@darleneharrison6095 are you dumb she never said that

    • @jessicax5689
      @jessicax5689 4 роки тому +153

      Darlene Harrison she said “she looks rlly pretty with black hair” - she’s pretty regardless but black hair suits her better. Honestly chill

    • @zenexhd5855
      @zenexhd5855 4 роки тому +62

      True she does look gd with
      Black hair better than blonde

    • @Kimbrly_xo
      @Kimbrly_xo 4 роки тому +8

      Its just Sposn4y Thank you ugh x

    • @Kimbrly_xo
      @Kimbrly_xo 4 роки тому +11

      Darlene Harrison mkay 😒

  • @x_Freya.Rose_x
    @x_Freya.Rose_x 4 роки тому +2913

    can we jusst all agree how much better she looks with dark hairrr

    • @alexforrest1161
      @alexforrest1161 4 роки тому +24

      init

    • @UrMom-gs9wo
      @UrMom-gs9wo 4 роки тому +17

      Innniiiiiiiiiiiit 😭

    • @izzygrilli8748
      @izzygrilli8748 4 роки тому +87

      Saying she looks better isn’t really the right words to use, she does look amazing with dark hair, but she does equally look great with blonde hair x

    • @sincerely.deborah
      @sincerely.deborah 4 роки тому +8

      Are you trying to say she is ugly?

    • @rabia94chocolate
      @rabia94chocolate 4 роки тому +2

      anyone got her @?

  • @hannah.maria.m
    @hannah.maria.m 3 роки тому +309

    I love the fact she ended up getting 8 GCSE’s

    • @oibruv3889
      @oibruv3889 3 роки тому +6

      Wait and like no offense intended but is just attaining 8 gcses a positive result? Again not judging, but in my school getting straight 7s/As is mediocre to underperforming, so idrk about other schools

    • @0mojoo
      @0mojoo 3 роки тому +7

      gcse scores go up to 10 so 8 is very good

    • @jackclifford538
      @jackclifford538 3 роки тому +42

      @@0mojoo they go up to 9 btw :)

    • @0mojoo
      @0mojoo 3 роки тому

      oh

    • @zigwinger2915
      @zigwinger2915 3 роки тому +30

      @@oibruv3889 no one asked about your school lol

  • @ilovenoir2609
    @ilovenoir2609 3 роки тому +318

    she weren’t angry or rude, she was hurting

  • @nayaxx8443
    @nayaxx8443 4 роки тому +4192

    For the ppl who are roasting the girls eyebrows : are u even human? She’s gone through so much , losing her mum , self harm , feeling worthless and your bothered about her eyebrows ?! I’m sorry what. Edit: For all those ppl who are replying “but her eyebrows are messed tho” ,, I know they might be different but it is HER style she can do watever she wants u have no say and I think she looks beautiful , everyone’s beautiful in a different way so DONT JUDGE !

    • @imcontemptwithlife4155
      @imcontemptwithlife4155 4 роки тому +99

      Her eye brows r hella clapped 🤣🤣🤣🤮

    • @rachaelgarrick8871
      @rachaelgarrick8871 4 роки тому +44

      Haleema. xo no one cares

    • @katenz100
      @katenz100 4 роки тому +56

      @@rachaelgarrick8871 I mean. 65 people upvoted their comment. You've got one. Probably from yourself 😂 but okay, keep talking that shit.

    • @C6Wolves
      @C6Wolves 4 роки тому +54

      IKR so judgemental people.

    • @oddone1325
      @oddone1325 4 роки тому +61

      kids can be cruel, usually they are this way because someone made them insecure about themself.

  • @oklaptop5203
    @oklaptop5203 4 роки тому +1771

    This goes to show that the education system as a whole needs to change. If the school made this poor girl resort to s*lf h*rming, lord knows what it could do to other vulnerable students.

    • @dylanrees-coshan5941
      @dylanrees-coshan5941 4 роки тому +80

      It’s the governments fault underfunding and that my dads been a senior leader for almost half his life

    • @chr15tune56
      @chr15tune56 4 роки тому +25

      My friends were in the same situation before we left

    • @adriana-wf5lj
      @adriana-wf5lj 4 роки тому +88

      exactly the hours are too long and draining, way too much pressure and an unbearable amount of work. I left because I couldn't deal with the stress

    • @macdeevlogs3413
      @macdeevlogs3413 4 роки тому +23

      Why did you bleep out the words

    • @cynthia-fu6lj
      @cynthia-fu6lj 4 роки тому +2

      @@chr15tune56 same.

  • @cringefest7841
    @cringefest7841 4 роки тому +223

    I feel terrible for her. I was in the same boat, my dad committed suicide so living without him and the problems at school were awful.

    • @stuepid4927
      @stuepid4927 4 роки тому +6

      CringeFest i feel so bad fly high ur dad x

    • @kayleyconsidine1530
      @kayleyconsidine1530 4 роки тому +4

      CringeFest so sorry for your loss your father would be so proud of you he will always be looking down on you and he will always be in your heart 😊

    • @3man3
      @3man3 4 роки тому

      That's sad and all but I hope you didn't use that as an excuse to act like this girl

    • @lifewithabigail3926
      @lifewithabigail3926 4 роки тому +3

      So sorry for your loss

    • @ruthslattery7683
      @ruthslattery7683 3 роки тому +9

      @@3man3 people cope differently. how dare you comment on how someone else grieves

  • @shadow_levaithan4486
    @shadow_levaithan4486 4 роки тому +111

    The teachers don’t even care if she swears. in
    my highschool we get shouted at,detention,lunch and break detention

    • @olgacooney5527
      @olgacooney5527 4 роки тому +6

      Yea same here it’s probaly of the cameras they don’t wanna come out as bad people maybe

    • @courtneybrook3147
      @courtneybrook3147 4 роки тому +1

      SHADOW_ LEVAITHAN same 😂

    • @chanelbarbii2973
      @chanelbarbii2973 4 роки тому

      fam we get a day in isolation detention is even lucky

    • @sqidmrk4445
      @sqidmrk4445 4 роки тому +6

      When it's some big issue such as depression they are talking about swearing is the least of there worries and would only cause a negative impact in that situation and should be delt with separately if needs be tho I swear lol

    • @brandonmunsen3453
      @brandonmunsen3453 3 роки тому +3

      Telling off a girl for swearing who is threatening to leave the school due to pressure from teachers is literally the worst thing to do.

  • @charlottehughes5106
    @charlottehughes5106 4 роки тому +1056

    Her grandad is so cute bless

  • @MrRobertacusYouTube
    @MrRobertacusYouTube 4 роки тому +2173

    No one:
    No souls:
    Kodie: TeLl ThEm tO ShOvE iT uP ThErE aRsEs

    • @ellielolx2035
      @ellielolx2035 4 роки тому +7

      its kodie

    • @MrRobertacusYouTube
      @MrRobertacusYouTube 4 роки тому +1

      @@ellielolx2035 Oh right

    • @AP-jl4pv
      @AP-jl4pv 4 роки тому

      @@ellielolx2035 ye

    • @Sahil.0161
      @Sahil.0161 4 роки тому +17

      i hate gurls like that its just cringe man...

    • @spudd5832
      @spudd5832 4 роки тому +16

      XXSAHIL_251XX 251
      Ah yes because having a temperament from depression and cutting is cringey-

  • @lazylolo611
    @lazylolo611 3 роки тому +56

    This school when a student self harms: helps them clean up, refers them to the school counsellor, tries to help them in every way possible
    My school when I self harm: calls my mum who already has severe anxiety and depression anyway to tell her I self harmed, nothing else just pushing it all onto my mum

  • @ahamid234
    @ahamid234 4 роки тому +44

    Teachers always say it’s a scary world out there after school. But college and university is way better than school

    • @thewood1239
      @thewood1239 2 роки тому

      Not really you probs got bullied or had no friends

    • @marco3391
      @marco3391 Рік тому

      @@thewood1239or they just didn’t peak in secondary? Sure y11 was great but life can get better after

  • @fireball7436
    @fireball7436 4 роки тому +423

    You know her granddad loved her so much and wants her to be the brightest child🥺

  • @gooo3376
    @gooo3376 4 роки тому +561

    Oh bless the grandad 😟 he.. has a lot on his shoulders oh god

  • @JUSTasUseeMII123
    @JUSTasUseeMII123 3 роки тому +58

    Her black hair looks so gorgeous.

    • @Football.0321
      @Football.0321 3 місяці тому

      I thought it was a different lass 😂😂
      From blond to dark brown 😮

  • @remi3036
    @remi3036 2 роки тому +16

    the fact these teachers are alright with students cursing as long as its one on one is so great bc it lets u feel like u can let urself go and fee comfortable with the bond

  • @freya8068
    @freya8068 4 роки тому +1037

    no such thing as poor school attendance when you're Desi or Arab. bruh my mums slippers turn corners...

    • @a.al0151
      @a.al0151 4 роки тому +9

      trussssss

    • @Kyeremeh2005
      @Kyeremeh2005 4 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @Hello-vf4fe
      @Hello-vf4fe 4 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @idrisahmed5094
      @idrisahmed5094 4 роки тому

      I can relate

    • @kali-_-9272
      @kali-_-9272 4 роки тому +10

      Yep exactly , from Afghanistan 🇦🇫 btw (western Asia) !

  • @aPawsitiveVibes
    @aPawsitiveVibes 4 роки тому +728

    Damn, that brown/black hair makes her look AMAZING! Do NOT ever go back to blonde! 😂

  • @Alyjx-ug6ev
    @Alyjx-ug6ev 4 роки тому +542

    Weird how everything you’ve done in your life has lead you to this comment.

    • @FL4MPY
      @FL4MPY 4 роки тому +9

      Oh wow lol

    • @xantheee5955
      @xantheee5955 3 роки тому +5

      I- omg that is what? It’s weird to get your head around

    • @huddyshoodie8246
      @huddyshoodie8246 3 роки тому +5

      Well now I’m not going to sleep, I’m gonna be questioning my existence 💀

    • @baileysubliminals7192
      @baileysubliminals7192 3 роки тому +7

      Your behaviour is so UGH
      And the fact that you'll never see my comment again.
      You'll go on with your life not even knowing that I'm a real human or the fact that you saw my comment.
      So see you on the other side. 💔

    • @caovuonglam
      @caovuonglam 3 роки тому

      @@baileysubliminals7192 Ouch ♡Lots of love ❤

  • @masonedmusic
    @masonedmusic 4 роки тому +26

    seeing this was rlly special as somebody who dropped out of school because of mental health in year 11 and lack of support. it’s comforting to know that there are people who get the support from the school pastoral teams and I hope she has a wonderful life

  • @ameliebethell6145
    @ameliebethell6145 4 роки тому +950

    Her black hair looks so good on her and really suits her ? X

    • @hdishxbhdidbxb386
      @hdishxbhdidbxb386 4 роки тому +10

      The question mark wasnt needed fuckin idiot

    • @freyas2338
      @freyas2338 4 роки тому +51

      Hdishxb Hdidbxb it was probably a mistake calm down

    • @roboguard96
      @roboguard96 4 роки тому +32

      Hdishxb Hdidbxb the state of your UA-cam name and you want to lecture someone on grammar?

    • @ameliebethell6145
      @ameliebethell6145 4 роки тому +17

      Hdishxb Hdidbxb sorry it was a mistake Jesus Christ you don’t need to call me a fucking idiot !

    • @hdishxbhdidbxb386
      @hdishxbhdidbxb386 4 роки тому +1

      @@roboguard96 its like this on purpose you fucking twat

  • @meganrose7896
    @meganrose7896 4 роки тому +188

    When her grandpa started crying it set me off 🥺😭

  • @laceeyoung2904
    @laceeyoung2904 3 роки тому +12

    Oh god. I actually relate to Kodie so much bless her. I've been through so much but I have people that are still trying to push me to keep going, and I'm thankful for it

  • @seagreenspiral
    @seagreenspiral 3 роки тому +4

    Lovely Grandfather

  • @izzyhebburn177
    @izzyhebburn177 4 роки тому +749

    I can tell she's trying to act cool around her friends and not behave well in classes but I deep down know she's doing that because she doesn't want to show she's hurting nad she's weaker than them. Bless her heart

    • @txsmia
      @txsmia 4 роки тому +8

      Yess I feel so bad 🥺 honestly wish I could give her the biggest hug rn.

    • @Sea-zu4bj
      @Sea-zu4bj 4 роки тому +9

      She’s just god awful stupid, I knew a guy who’s parents died and had to move countries to a new school

    • @XavierStari
      @XavierStari 4 роки тому

      Kinda sound a but dumb coz imagine if that's not true

    • @izzyhebburn177
      @izzyhebburn177 4 роки тому +9

      @@Sea-zu4bj true. People have different emotions though. They handle situations differently

    • @izzyhebburn177
      @izzyhebburn177 4 роки тому +3

      @@XavierStari yes but if you see her body language I can tell. I work with children and have to deal with these kind of children

  • @lilymcgibbon1759
    @lilymcgibbon1759 4 роки тому +290

    SHE LOOKS SO GOOD WITH BLACK HAIR

  • @kay-j2268
    @kay-j2268 3 роки тому +6

    That smile she gave the councillor when she said she was proud of her, I’m in tears

  • @music_over_people3507
    @music_over_people3507 2 роки тому +6

    Mr povey seems like the best headteacher anyone could have hes so understanding and caring towards his students.

  • @rhianamccolgan6285
    @rhianamccolgan6285 4 роки тому +362

    These teachers need a pat on the back because they are making a difference to these kids lives, they genuinely care about their futures,deserve a medal 🏅🏅🏅

    • @obi-wankenobi9743
      @obi-wankenobi9743 4 роки тому

      Am better then everyone and Everything am a GOD the teachers aren’t evil. Of course some don’t care but I’m sure a lot do.

    • @heatherhinde6544
      @heatherhinde6544 3 роки тому

      Don't forget the rest of the class who are not getting the teacher's attention because Cody is demanding so much attention for herself. This puts the teaching staff in a difficult situation and puts additional time pressures on the staff. Cody's attitude impacts the whole of the class. She clearly has issues but so will others in the class who will have less time devoted to them because of Cody. Teacher's are not social workers but are expected to respond as both teachers, social workers and surrogate parents without additional time or pay given to allow them to do this. She has been helped enormously to achieve but I wonder how many of her more well- behaved classmates have had their educational success impacted negatively because of the time spent in and out of class because of Cody's behaviour and requirement for extra attention. I wish Cody well for turning herself around but she needs to remember the impact her behaviour has had on others too.

  • @thoraneh7365
    @thoraneh7365 4 роки тому +385

    I used to self harm at school and i kept it hidden and told noone. I didnt want my parents to find out and the first thing a school does is tell them. My school had shit pastoral support anyway, as a grammar school it was all about the grades and nothing else.

    • @cynthia-fu6lj
      @cynthia-fu6lj 4 роки тому +12

      same. my parents shouted at me lol

    • @aminnayani1620
      @aminnayani1620 4 роки тому +10

      It's because school administration is responsible for you. They want your well being mate. These kinds of things needs to be discussed, but it's a two way process

    • @bobbuilder7189
      @bobbuilder7189 4 роки тому +15

      I’m a Girl I also go to a grammar school and all they have done is make the problems ten times worse and it’s at the point where you don’t really have no one to tell about your problems because no one gives a shit

    • @natachadealvezofficial
      @natachadealvezofficial 4 роки тому +1

      I feel you 100

    • @aminasow5431
      @aminasow5431 4 роки тому

      Do u go to the grammar school in wolverhampton

  • @hazelcolemanvg
    @hazelcolemanvg 4 роки тому +15

    You can see that she is a nice girl. She's hurting more than I will ever know. My heart goes out to her. Her grandad is trying his best, I am sure she Will make him proud once she can channel that pain. Come on Cody, you've got this 👍 ❤

  • @honor__
    @honor__ 2 роки тому +8

    This had me in tears. I relate to Kodie a lot, having lost my both my dad and grandad at a young age and have done self harm in the past. I’m really thankful that she has her Grandad and the teachers taking care of her. I really hope she is okay now and has a good life, she deserves it.

  • @isi__official955
    @isi__official955 4 роки тому +1169

    CAHMS is terrible. “ have a bath and some tea “

    • @nerdsey738
      @nerdsey738 4 роки тому +130

      Omd litterally. it take flipping years just a get an appointment even if your suicidal like-

    • @georginaeve3400
      @georginaeve3400 4 роки тому +13

      Abigail Dorrat everyone always took so long to get in, I got in within a couple of weeks.

    • @molliesiphone4964
      @molliesiphone4964 4 роки тому +12

      I got in within a couple of months and I didn’t even need any help

    • @riajemini
      @riajemini 4 роки тому +7

      ITS BASICALLY ME me too, but i think i was high risk at the time

    • @jennamcguire6281
      @jennamcguire6281 4 роки тому +5

      ITS BASICALLY ME i mean it really depends on if you’re pushed up on the list. I got pushed up twice I think but it still took almost a year to get an appointment and now I have to do them online.

  • @aadil1706
    @aadil1706 4 роки тому +628

    Imagine she’s watching this video scrolling through the comments 💀

  • @bethanymunn3068
    @bethanymunn3068 4 роки тому +9

    Bless the poor girl, she’s been through so much. I hope things have improved for her now. & her grandad is just the sweetest

  • @xxmandyDxx
    @xxmandyDxx 4 роки тому +3

    Aw so many people supporting - glad she finished and went onto college - that grandad is amazing too ❤️

  • @skyemills5783
    @skyemills5783 4 роки тому +490

    At least her teaches supported her I got bullied so I left and the school never cared

  • @hannahmcwilliam3674
    @hannahmcwilliam3674 4 роки тому +612

    Omg her with black hair is EVERYTHINGG😍👌

    • @emo2387
      @emo2387 3 роки тому +3

      @@nimai4 why does it matter? She's beautiful.

    • @daisyx0558
      @daisyx0558 3 роки тому +5

      IKR! It's so beautiful! She's beautiful with the blonde hair too but the black hair just enhances her true beautiful to the full. ☺

    • @richardling5912
      @richardling5912 3 роки тому

      Love

    • @richardling5912
      @richardling5912 3 роки тому

      Yes + no

    • @brandzsot227
      @brandzsot227 3 роки тому +1

      13:15 glow up

  • @Nell5962
    @Nell5962 4 роки тому +15

    The fact her teacher helped her fix her arm after self harming is cute♡ wish my teachers did this, they said they didn't care and leave even when you ask for help.

  • @nyles7470
    @nyles7470 4 роки тому +9

    poor kodie really just needed support and love. She seems to have such a kind soul on the inside🥺🥺

  • @alicechrispin7693
    @alicechrispin7693 4 роки тому +434

    She seems like such a sweet girl, also her black hair looks incredible on her

  • @Anonymous-sg4tr
    @Anonymous-sg4tr 4 роки тому +241

    My school would NOT do anything like this for a troubled student

    • @chloe3742
      @chloe3742 4 роки тому +11

      Mine wouldn't have neither, they never did nout till you tried to take ya life its a fkn joke.

    • @glaptoper
      @glaptoper 4 роки тому +1

      Then your school is fucked up.

    • @Anonymous-sg4tr
      @Anonymous-sg4tr 4 роки тому

      @@glaptoper actually our school would probably be one of the best in our town lol

    • @glaptoper
      @glaptoper 4 роки тому

      @@Anonymous-sg4tr
      Not in the sense of having emotional support for students.

    • @Anonymous-sg4tr
      @Anonymous-sg4tr 3 роки тому

      @@glaptoper yeah

  • @chloeanne-mariexo7024
    @chloeanne-mariexo7024 3 роки тому +6

    Her grandad melts my heart, This episode hits home alot

  • @jayjay71637
    @jayjay71637 3 роки тому +12

    i genuinely know how she feels, when you know you’re making the wrong choices but you make them anyway. i’ve been in her position so many times and i feel so bad for her because that feeling is horrible :(

  • @elliesmith7388
    @elliesmith7388 4 роки тому +609

    I don’t blame her

  • @emilyrog8929
    @emilyrog8929 4 роки тому +410

    i hope kodie, her grandad and all the teachers in this episode are doing ok. it’s rare to see such a large group of teachers doing so well for someone’s mental health

  • @sam-qo4rh
    @sam-qo4rh 4 роки тому +2

    I love her grandad, he is adorable and cares so much about Kodie. I wish my family were this supportive and understanding about school

  • @pigoomelon
    @pigoomelon 3 роки тому +3

    Massive respect for how calmly that lady handled the self harm. I really hope this girl and her sweet granddad are doing well now

  • @scarletfreeman1782
    @scarletfreeman1782 4 роки тому +326

    My school knew I was struggling with my mental health and my anorexia as my mum was informing them. It wasn’t until I was on deaths bed that they called a meeting and talked to about it. And then they sent me to hospital. Schools need to intervene more and understand the amount of stress and anxiety they put on their students.

    • @aliceh2821
      @aliceh2821 4 роки тому +4

      They did help her though..

    • @katenz100
      @katenz100 4 роки тому +14

      They can't intervene. I've got a friend who's a teacher. And her work never ends. She has troubled kids, kids with behavioural issues, the standard one and very intelligent kids in her class. That's 3 different lesson plans and doesn't include the 2 special needs kids she has.
      So where do the teachers find time? They don't have any. Where do the schools find funding? Well it has to come from the government, because there's a lot of people who can't even afford the donation. Mental health is getting funded stripped from them every budget. And when they do eventually start funding it, it goes to acute services, because the system crumbling, its all just bandaids over bullet wounds. They'll never fund the primary intervention services like they deserve.

    • @glaptoper
      @glaptoper 4 роки тому +3

      I hope you're doing better now ❤

    • @leylaqone4383
      @leylaqone4383 4 роки тому +10

      Exactly people like shukri abdi died.Im so depressed watching the death storys that she died becuase she was a somali black girl wearing a headscarf 😢😢😢 JUSTICE FOR PEOPLE LIKE SHUKRI WHO DIED BECUASE OF SCHOOL💙❤💜🙋😢😢🙋🙋

    • @richardling5912
      @richardling5912 3 роки тому

      Hi xxx

  • @TwizzTheIcon
    @TwizzTheIcon 4 роки тому +207

    Poor girl lost her mother :(

    • @ifyoufindmeleavepls1603
      @ifyoufindmeleavepls1603 4 роки тому +6

      I know I feel so bad for her

    • @AP-jl4pv
      @AP-jl4pv 4 роки тому

      @@ifyoufindmeleavepls1603 yeah

    • @meganwills6722
      @meganwills6722 4 роки тому +2

      I lost my mam 2015 🥺🥺 Ik how it feels I was depressed

    • @bethanh5347
      @bethanh5347 4 роки тому +6

      I feel bad for her, but I mean her mum died when she was 1, so she never got to know her or had a connection with her anyway. When you lose someone you shared lots of memories with and had a connection with, it hurts a lot worse. (That being said, I understand it’s still hard and a sad thing.)

    • @AP-jl4pv
      @AP-jl4pv 4 роки тому +2

      @@bethanh5347 but it's still the same feeling

  • @millliem8787
    @millliem8787 3 роки тому +5

    When he said her mum died i cried, bless her 🥺

  • @s-rtweeds5072
    @s-rtweeds5072 4 роки тому +2

    Her grandad is so adorable and he’s trying to do everything to help her! It’s so sad when he’s speaking to the teachers

  • @miles9294
    @miles9294 4 роки тому +535

    This school looks like a prison lmao
    *edit* thanks for the likes :)

    • @kylejenkinson512
      @kylejenkinson512 4 роки тому +39

      isn’t every school?

    • @shola.i8262
      @shola.i8262 4 роки тому +13

      Tbh I like that design I wish my school was less boring lmao

    • @Jake-pc1fl
      @Jake-pc1fl 4 роки тому +8

      You think that's a prison!! In my school we would be locked in the faculty and couldn't get out until the teacher swiped their card. We couldn't even go for a wee

    • @nuggiessworld8895
      @nuggiessworld8895 4 роки тому +1

      Lol

    • @Anonymous-ty8si
      @Anonymous-ty8si 4 роки тому +9

      In my school every single door is locked... (even the toilets)

  • @zippycohen5496
    @zippycohen5496 4 роки тому +227

    I hope shes not self harming anymore etc:( I wonder where all these people are now

    • @forza223bowe5
      @forza223bowe5 4 роки тому +20

      Probably got 7 kids and are on benefits

    • @aliceh2821
      @aliceh2821 4 роки тому

      Forza223 Bowe hahaa

    • @Surfing566
      @Surfing566 4 роки тому

      @@forza223bowe5 🙊🙊🙉🙉

    • @haileygaming3383
      @haileygaming3383 4 роки тому +1

      Hey I'm Cody so I'm better now

    • @miachilds7618
      @miachilds7618 4 роки тому +4

      I searched her up she works at Wetherspoons i thinkkkk lol

  • @magnificentmaggie209
    @magnificentmaggie209 3 роки тому +2

    I love how thoughtful her grandad is

  • @naomichgbrooks285
    @naomichgbrooks285 3 роки тому +8

    She reminds me so much of myself a few years ago. Just wish I could give her a big hug because things do get better, just cried my eyes out watching this because I know what it feels like, you come across as a naughty kid when really your just crying out for help or trying to find reasons to escape the classroom, God bless her and I wish her best for her future.

  • @mymyspie8066
    @mymyspie8066 4 роки тому +148

    She is such a beautiful girl I'm glad she got the help that she needed... She is rocking that black hair btw☺️☺️

  • @chloesector6443
    @chloesector6443 4 роки тому +133

    definitely looks better with the darker hair, really suits her

  • @ameliarose5333
    @ameliarose5333 3 роки тому +6

    Her grandad is adorable. It must be so hard for her to lose her mum. God bless them ❤️

  • @violetmayx8816
    @violetmayx8816 3 роки тому +5

    I feel her, it’s hard being at school especially when you are feeling shit and no one knows. I hope that she is doing well now! ❤️

  • @shahanabegum7364
    @shahanabegum7364 4 роки тому +201

    Just remember what we used to go to school for. Annoying the teachers😂

    • @sonja7404
      @sonja7404 4 роки тому +9

      That is literally my school year 😂😂 and it actually works

    • @aidendawson1060
      @aidendawson1060 4 роки тому +6

      Innit 😂

    • @yeetwchybaban
      @yeetwchybaban 4 роки тому +2

      @@sonja7404 hmm

    • @aliceh2821
      @aliceh2821 4 роки тому +7

      Yeah if you’re about 12..

    • @obi-wankenobi9743
      @obi-wankenobi9743 4 роки тому +1

      And then the same people say that all the teachers do is shout at them. Wonder why

  • @Ellasnaps
    @Ellasnaps 4 роки тому +26

    Her grandfather seemed to kind hearted and mindful🥺🥺🥺

  • @leenk-xo9zh
    @leenk-xo9zh Рік тому +2

    bless her grandad and the teachers. they need an award

  • @phoebethegreat6253
    @phoebethegreat6253 4 роки тому +2

    I struggled with mental health issues in school, and my school was great. They were so supportive.

  • @taemfreak
    @taemfreak 4 роки тому +58

    I''m very impressed by this school's mental health services. When I used to self-harm at her age, I never said a single word. I had a counselor that my school (thankfully) got me in touch with that I could talk to in my lunch breaks privately but they would pass on information to the head teachers but nothing was ever done. I never improved, my counselor from the NHS didn't take me seriously, the school nurse mocked me and I was never given the benefit of the doubt. This girl is a lot luckier than a lot of children but things still need to change in my opinion. It infuriates me that school boards do nothing really to support the mental health of particular students. I hope she is in a better place today and is happy.

  • @carys9823
    @carys9823 4 роки тому +20

    Watching this broke my heart, I’m so glad she has the support of the school and her grandfather. He seems so lovely she’s a very lucky girl. Well done to her for getting her GCSEs despite everything going on!

  • @bobbiemason7912
    @bobbiemason7912 3 роки тому +4

    He is a wonderful grandfather, he is from a different generation where things where a lot less accepted, yet he is so understanding and kind and caring

  • @setablaze1802
    @setablaze1802 2 роки тому +4

    This episode hits hard. I lost my mum to cancer at 15, but also dealt with her having cancer the first time when I was 3. Both times, my maternal grandparents came over to look after me and my sister whilst my dad supported mum and worked. It was so difficult for my grandparents having to help raise their grandchildren whilst their youngest daughter was sick and then later dying. I didn't react the same way kodie did to the situation, but I'd be lying if I didn't relate to her struggles.

  • @v3ryr4re55
    @v3ryr4re55 4 роки тому +130

    i wish they’d do this series in 2020. it’d be so much more interesting

    • @natachadealvezofficial
      @natachadealvezofficial 4 роки тому +4

      +please have a poo poo ➊
      Oh ! I’m class of 2020 .... HA HA HA, all i would say it would be 100% worse than this

    • @TheGeographyWatch
      @TheGeographyWatch 3 роки тому +8

      There’s a new series airing. It was filmed in 2018 but it’s going to start on 3rd November!!

    • @v3ryr4re55
      @v3ryr4re55 3 роки тому +2

      @@TheGeographyWatch oh really? that’s cool!! thanks for letting me know

    • @brookeritson8205
      @brookeritson8205 2 роки тому +1

      @@TheGeographyWatch is it out yet?

    • @LegendJ0e4
      @LegendJ0e4 11 місяців тому

      @@TheGeographyWatch name?

  • @libbywalsh3000
    @libbywalsh3000 4 роки тому +53

    aww bless her grandad!

  • @steveashworth4615
    @steveashworth4615 4 роки тому +5

    I self harmed when I was 12 and I wish my school had been this supportive. It was like “ah well, don’t do it again, off you pop.” And the issue never went away. I only got support when I had my TB jab and one of the nurses noticed and said “you can get help for this, ya know, do you want me to get in touch with one of my colleagues who can come to the school and you can have a chat with her every week?” No judgement, gave me the option whether I said yes or no. If that hadn’t happened I’d have been in a much worse position than I’m in now, where I’m still having the occasional trouble with self harm every few years or so but I know the coping mechanisms that will help. It was so valuable and it’s the most important thing that happened to me when I was a teenager, so I’m really glad to see that there are schools who are so empathetic and want to help their pupils rather than brush it under the carpet.

  • @oona1877
    @oona1877 3 роки тому +5

    I wish my school was this kind, caring and supportive.

  • @yes_lad
    @yes_lad 4 роки тому +40

    Shes so lucky, if someone in my school was to self harm they'd get chucked out for a week then youd be told off by everyone for self harming

    • @glaptoper
      @glaptoper 4 роки тому +4

      Your school is fucked up.
      My school was like this, too.
      We had a sanctuary for kids with mental health issues to complete their work peacefully and we had an entire team of trained individuals who were specifically introduced to help children with past or current trauma.
      Despite all of this, it was me who had to comfort my friends once I found out they were self harming.
      In the changing room showers.
      With a bunch of other people around.
      With her scars fully visible.
      And I had no idea what I was supposed to do or say.
      It made me so uncomfortable, but I managed to discourage her and two others from continuing to cut themselves.
      We seriously need better social/mental health management in schools, or at least one that actually does as it's supposed to. I'm sick of seeing people suffer due to the stress and anxiety that schools force on kids, which is then amplified by the fear of having nobody to talk to about it.

    • @peachewe2910
      @peachewe2910 3 роки тому +1

      Most schools are just shite

    • @hungarian_cuman
      @hungarian_cuman 3 роки тому

      Unless you go private nearly all schools will be rubbish.

  • @ThatBondGuy62
    @ThatBondGuy62 4 роки тому +118

    Someone should have told her to wait a couple more years and school would have dropped out on her

    • @daisyx0558
      @daisyx0558 3 роки тому

      That's really horrible, damn. I mean she's good at school it's just the trauma y'know? It's slowing her down but she's obviously good so I don't know why you would even say something like that. She might be watching this video and you just commented that? Bruh

  • @ellis1034
    @ellis1034 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so happy this girl got such a good support network around her and she was able to push through and did her gcse's. This should really be the norm in all schools in the whole world. She was also so brave to accept the help she was given and put in the work

  • @sophieclouise
    @sophieclouise 3 роки тому +4

    miss being at this school :) full of memories and so many people that I know growing up from the past and especially this girl right here I have so much love for her

  • @leahaustin872
    @leahaustin872 4 роки тому +3

    The teachers are so caring and supportive!! I didn’t get that kind of support at school and it was that hard I made myself ill I wish all schools where this supportive.

  • @khaledkarim6866
    @khaledkarim6866 4 роки тому +88

    Man, if I tried to drop outta school, my mom’s rolling pin finna attack
    She’s desi 😂😂

    • @husnalatif
      @husnalatif 4 роки тому +1

      Khaled Karim same

    • @ThoughToo2
      @ThoughToo2 3 роки тому

      Ur comment made my day 😂

    • @hungarian_cuman
      @hungarian_cuman 3 роки тому

      Ehh I wouldn’t know lol but some of my friends mums woulda been like that

    • @randomguy7953
      @randomguy7953 3 роки тому

      Same lol

  • @agriffiths
    @agriffiths 4 роки тому +5

    Bless her and her grandad. I can see Cody has good intentions but has gone through so much.

  • @lewisc3317
    @lewisc3317 3 роки тому +3

    I am sorry but we need more teachers like the guy at the beginning he said exactly what some students need to hear.

    • @mazloum3522
      @mazloum3522 3 роки тому

      You go to schools to learn not to go to therapy. You leave your personal life outside the gates of the school.

    • @lewisc3317
      @lewisc3317 3 роки тому

      @@mazloum3522 Some people's personal life suffer and feel safe around teachers. A student talking to a teacher some feel like they the student are talking to their respective always wanted guardian. Some students go to school to get away from hell at home and love there life when they are in school!

  • @orionsgirl9750
    @orionsgirl9750 3 роки тому +3

    I like the teacher who brought her into his office he seems like he understands but wants the best for her .

  • @poppyrobinson9156
    @poppyrobinson9156 2 роки тому +8

    I actually feel bad for her, and respect to her grandad for taking care of her. She was so brave, I know the feeling of loosing the closet person to you and honestly it makes a massive impact on her attitude

  • @adamhancox2188
    @adamhancox2188 3 роки тому +22

    I always feel like this show is scripted because I’ve never met a teacher half as caring as any of these🤣🤣

  • @lailadavis327
    @lailadavis327 3 роки тому +9

    this made me soo emotional. I hope she's okay now

  • @Nightwatcher20
    @Nightwatcher20 3 роки тому +6

    Incredibly lucky to have all that support... when I was in sixth form 2017-2019, all my teachers just thought that I was attention-seeking, but I couldn't talk to me parents about all my really dark thoughts-- so the teachers were my only hope for help... none of which I got. In the end, my attendance dropped to 32% and only went to half of my exams, because I was so close to just kms, that I was like "what's the point in trying?".
    Anyway, I'm definitely glad Kodie is doing well with her education now.

  • @SuttonGangBarz
    @SuttonGangBarz 3 роки тому +7

    I mean I understand her pain, my father passed a few years ago and that always has an effect on my actions, I have self harmed a bit ago I sometimes misbehave and just give up on everything easily, but some support helped me through so much

  • @raiderroblox-andmore3398
    @raiderroblox-andmore3398 4 роки тому +1

    I love her grandad when he talked about loosing ppl i cryed so much i really hope hes good i love him man 😭

  • @ellisallen5348
    @ellisallen5348 4 роки тому +1

    I don’t cry at a lot of things but hearing her story and when she heart her self my heart just broke