50 Difficult decisions... Is my Thai husband the right person for me?

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2022
  • Have you ever felt doubts about the one you love? And what did you do at that moment? Did you tell them about it?
    This is another part of our love story. In this part, we share with you how me, Maayan, started feeling very strong doubts about Mon. Being from different parts of the world with different educational backgrounds, did make me question for a while if Mon is the right person for me. The doubts were eating me from inside for a while and i couldn't pretened so i shared my feelings with Mon. It made him insecure and question the relationship as well. Is our love strong enough to concur this?
    As usual there is good music, good laughs and even a dance! If you want to know which music I use for this week's video, scroll all the way down and check out the link below.
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    How we met:
    • 18 How I met my Thai h...
    Why I said NO when Mon asked me to marry him:
    • 47 Why I said NO to my...
    Our initial struggles with religion:
    • 31 My Thai husband tak...
    Visiting my husband's parents Muslim village:
    • 32 Visiting my Thai pa...
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    The songs in this video:
    Secrets of the Sea:
    • Torii Wolf - Secrets o...
    For the little things (instrumental)
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    Taking off:
    • Ramin feat. Adilynn - ...

КОМЕНТАРІ • 569

  • @SweetLifeLanta
    @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +70

    Hi everyone! No worries! We are doing very well and very happy together ❤️❤️❤️ (apart from some high season preparation stress which you can probably find out more about in the next vlog).
    This is part 3 of our love story. This is the story of the time in our life that there were many doubts and we were not sure about the future.
    Please leave us a comment if you understand that feeling of doubts about the one you love and if you have ever felt it before! Or any other comment you feel like writing... 😁😁😁
    Part 1 of our love story is about the first time we met:
    ua-cam.com/video/nvUvQ4ZM59U/v-deo.html
    And part 2 is about when Mon asked me to marry him after a very short time and I said no:
    ua-cam.com/video/3CvRP_HLHSU/v-deo.html
    Part 4 might be coming soon!

    • @chloesmith2065
      @chloesmith2065 Рік тому +1

      So brave and courageous of you both to be so honest and open up your stories to us… thank you for sharing it… it’s beautiful and helps us all to remember love isn’t always easy and plain sailing ❤ can’t wait for part 4 x

    • @chloesmith2065
      @chloesmith2065 Рік тому +3

      I loved the dancing too❤

    • @frauke2108
      @frauke2108 Рік тому +2

      Mayan, I admire your courage and openness in sharing all of this with us. You are a great couple! Your doubts were understandable. In Holland and Israel, Mon didn't conform to the usual "norms" and suddenly we tend to think in categories, to be influenced by prejudices and to see others through the eyes of others instead of our own. Thank God you listened to your heart and realized what you really need to be happy. Warm greetings from Germany ❤️ Love your dancing!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      @@frauke2108 absolutely! So well-said! And thanks for your kind words!

    • @myriammaryam5257
      @myriammaryam5257 Рік тому +1

      It is a great proof of love and respect, to have the courage to express your doubt, your question.... your fear

  • @redpilledcoper5054
    @redpilledcoper5054 Рік тому +38

    From my experience with dealing with many people in my 40 years on the this planet, people who love to do nothing are more alive and soulful than busy body worker bees.
    They arent judgemental, they love life, they treat people well, they are at peace, and grateful to be alive. Cant say the same about social climbers and careerists. Theyre like dead, always complaining, whining, crying, at the smallest things and alot of them are on precription drugs just to make it through the day.
    Thats just my experience though lol

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +4

      Hahaha I love your name btw! Yeah and it's a cultural thing too right. I'm definitely changing slowly now that I live in Asia.

    • @TheHailstorm77
      @TheHailstorm77 Рік тому

      Yeah it’s very sad that we allow the wealthy rich elites take control of our lives. That’s what ruins our society. Control. Always work work work.

  • @kayhillman8628
    @kayhillman8628 Рік тому +97

    I love your raw, open hearted honest communication. You both demonstrate such courage to be who you really are and tell each other your true feelings with no pretences. I only wish that I could find such divine love and respect in a soul mate.

    • @dianaduval9497
      @dianaduval9497 Рік тому +4

      .M+M___Thank you for sharing your deep love story. Also, I hope for a deep love

    • @dianaduval9497
      @dianaduval9497 Рік тому +2

      From San Diego, California USA

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +5

      Thanks for a beautiful comment

  • @anna_m59
    @anna_m59 Рік тому +24

    This video is honest but also shows the respect to each other. With a big humor that crack me up!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      I'm glad you saw the humor in it too. It was intended 🤣🤣🤣

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking Рік тому +16

    Oh, wow. This really struck a nerve. I used to live in Asia and met a man that I fell madly in love with. As soon as we moved to the USA I saw him so differently. I was unkind. After many years, the relationship couldn't sustain itself because of my constant doubts and comparisons. I often wonder what life would have been like had we gone back to Asia and continued our relationship as it had once been. He was such a beautiful, bright soul. Thank you so much for articulating your feelings and experience. It was both shocking and comforting to hear someone put into words what I've been carrying within. It's been such a feeling of shame, even after so many years.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +3

      Wow what an amazing message to read. That someone has gone through exactly the same feelings like I have. "I was unkind", I totally identify with this. I wonder, are you still in touch with him?

    • @JRspeaking
      @JRspeaking Рік тому +7

      @@SweetLifeLanta Interestingly enough, I saw him again recently, after almost 15 years. I wish I could report it as a great romantic rekindling. Alas, I felt nothing. He was like a stranger to me. Time is funny like that. It can erase a bond that was once so strong.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +4

      @@JRspeaking 😓😓😓 yeah that's life indeed.

  • @kimzeck9827
    @kimzeck9827 Рік тому +9

    Both of you are perfect for each other! Life is about the good, the bad & the ugly....💝

  • @jenniferm.northcarolinausa4132
    @jenniferm.northcarolinausa4132 Рік тому +15

    Being from such different backgrounds I can see how hard it could be. Your heart says yes but your mind is afraid all at the same time. So happy in the end that you both made it work ❤

  • @silviemarksilverstein3031
    @silviemarksilverstein3031 Рік тому +36

    Dear Maayan and Mon: This video was so amazing. Showing your deep emotions through the beauty of dance was so emotional for me. Your anguish, fear, doubts and frustration was expressed so beautifully by both of you during that dark time. Thank you both for your honesty and openness. You are both amazing people and you make a beautiful couple. It was "bashert" that you both met, eventually married, have beautiful children and made an incredible life together. More videos please. I'm addicted. 💖💖🤗🤗

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Wow so beautiful! I'm so happy you loved it so much!

  • @lozzyholm1321
    @lozzyholm1321 Рік тому +23

    I can totally relate to this when I met my Indonesian husband! Particularly the intellect doubt… he was from a small village and totally uncultured. Now that’s something I love about him! Love that you’re sharing your story ❤️

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +31

      Totally! I feel I finally "settled" for the "less intellectual" bit, but what I finally got was much more than a diamond even! We are just so used to thinking in these boxes like what education you did, and what papers you have, or even what fancy words you can say in English, that we are missing out on that wisdom that is not measured in a grade on a paper. And Mon has tons and tons of that.

    • @Vonsat
      @Vonsat Рік тому +2

      @@SweetLifeLanta That is so wise😃

    • @juudenannie
      @juudenannie Рік тому +8

      I felt the same with my indonesian husband too hehe.. But you know, they have different interlect.. He knows so good how to live in nature, he's so handy, so social, artistic, great at cooking, teaching himself things like play the guitar, good fisherman.. And so on ;)

    • @bustillomana
      @bustillomana Рік тому +12

      "Uncultured"? Please, try to inform yourself about what culture is. No one is "uncultured". Cultures are different but NO culture is better than another culture. A culture makes it possible for people to function and survive in that specific place.

    • @lozzyholm1321
      @lozzyholm1321 Рік тому +6

      @@bustillomana yes, perhaps I didn’t explain that well, what I suppose I would describe him as previously was perhaps small-minded… he had an attitude of not wanting to learn about other people or integrate with other cultures. His own culture was very strong yes, but in terms of knowing more about the world he had no interest and for someone like me who loves to travel I found this mind-bogglinf

  • @misschris662
    @misschris662 Рік тому +3

    Okay, now that I have watched it, I want to add another layer to the topic.
    Mon was the one with a bigger interest and fascination in you. It wasn’t YOUR idea in the beginning, but you gave it a chance. Meaning, he was already certain from the start, and you were smitten but undecided. This happens to many women, cause more often men are choosing women than the other way around. Now, as soon as YOU had the opportunity to make a ripe decision, you DID. And this was when your heart actually opened for Mon. Because you yourself were an active component. I love how you share your story ❤ When the heart opens, it’s einfach einfach! 😂

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Thats absolutely right too! Maybe I needed a moment to make my own active decision indeed.

    • @misschris662
      @misschris662 Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta I am certain it’s a simple biological necessity for a female to be able to choose the father of your children, actively. Nature does that! As marriage or partnership are not for her and him, but an agreement to take care of the brood. And since survival of the fittest is a natural law, it is of utter importance to the female that intelligence
      Health, strength etc. has to be found in the partner, to fight for survival together successfully. Simple nature 😂

  • @AnjasAsmarra
    @AnjasAsmarra Рік тому +3

    Love your stories ❤

  • @stevens8785
    @stevens8785 Рік тому +30

    I was caught up with the family during the premiere unfortunately but managed to watch it just now. These were normal feelings considering the cultural differences, the commitment to change the direction of your life radically and pretty much permanently and I think that would be not so easy to do for you the Western woman than Mon, pretty much the same as Janette had to do to make it work with Sulai. Ultimately the unbreakable bond of love won over and having got to 'meet' these two men via these videos it is easy to understand why both of you women ended up making the decisions in life that you both did. Another wonderful video. Thanks guys 😍

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +4

      You got it steven! As usual, your heart is so big and full of empathy. I feel we know each other by now!

  • @luckydubefan808
    @luckydubefan808 Рік тому +9

    Awwww, Mon is so precious and super smart, I am so glad you two are together in Thailand.

  • @betsylindsay8480
    @betsylindsay8480 Рік тому +1

    Ahhhhh…..relationship goals. Not just your relationship with each other, but within yourselves, and with this big, beautiful, world in which we live. Love growing out of truth, solid foundation. ❤

  • @Modelscoutingwd
    @Modelscoutingwd Рік тому +2

    Your narrative and your dance with Mon was absolutely touching and magic.
    It was so beautiful. Thank you

  • @malikahonthemove
    @malikahonthemove Рік тому +11

    My singular thought is simply, DAMN! What a great video! Your video's and methods of storytelling draws you in and captures your attention . Your expression of the confusing feelings you both had via dance was brilliant and captivating! You two are like butter and bread, you complement each other and go so well together! I would love to meet you guys whenever I make it down to Lanta from BKK. Take care !

  • @joanneromano1234
    @joanneromano1234 Рік тому +1

    Love the raw passion and love in the dancing. Inter cultural relations can be hit or miss,, and obviously yours was a hit! Diamonds are forever!

  • @hasiphasip2635
    @hasiphasip2635 Рік тому +20

    Love unites religion separates ❤

  • @soultraveler1111
    @soultraveler1111 Рік тому +8

    Hi, Mayan and Moo is such a beautifully open and true love story with real ups and downs that people have. It is so wonderful to hear about the experience of visiting Israel through the eyes of a Thai person. Your love is inspiring.🥰🙏

  • @cfyfe7168
    @cfyfe7168 Рік тому

    Thank you for your honesty… expressing the doubts that we all encounter at times in a relationship. You seem to have a beautiful energy between you…and both talented expressive dancers!

  • @neeta5898
    @neeta5898 Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful love story! You had to get all the “stuff “ out of the way first and now you guys are perfect for each other. Love conquers all!
    Thanks for sharing!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Yes I feel that way exactly! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @spectatrix5003
    @spectatrix5003 Рік тому +15

    Your dance performance was simply gorgeous!
    It complimented the story of your doubts so very well and lifted it up to yet another level.
    Great work!!! Thanks a lot for sharing

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +3

      Thanks so much! We enjoyed making this video so much. I believe you could see that on the camera.

  • @hazelleung2649
    @hazelleung2649 Рік тому +1

    Maayan, you made many video of you and your husband’s lovely and trustful relationship, but it’s really good that you shared difficulties. It made more people realize nothin is easy even you love each other, which is very important

  • @MissLizaYangonMyanmar
    @MissLizaYangonMyanmar 8 місяців тому

    I love how honest you are and reveal the awful things we all feel but never tell anyone. I hope I can grow and develop in my UA-cam journey to tell stories so well like you do.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  8 місяців тому

      Ahh so sweet! Did you know I worked in Yangon from 2011-2014 as a teacher at an international school? I miss it so much! I will check your channel soon.

  • @naymyo5503
    @naymyo5503 Рік тому +3

    Can’t wait for the next episode, love your love story and it seems you two have made for each other. Keep it coming.

  • @joliejeolla1394
    @joliejeolla1394 Рік тому +7

    This reminds me of my story with my husband! I also met my husband while living abroad on a bit of an adventure. I went through the same period of doubt and uncertainty, we broke up briefly, and then I realized we were meant to be together. We got married last summer and actually honeymooned in Thailand, not far from Koh Lanta! 🥰

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Yoohoo! When are you coming back?

    • @joliejeolla1394
      @joliejeolla1394 Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta this winter or summer, I hope! My husband actually went back in August with his best friend! I hope we can go to Koh Lanta and take a cooking class with Mon, lol! We live in Korea now, so Thailand isn't too much of a long haul ^^

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      @@joliejeolla1394 wow that would be amazing! Hope to see you here soon! Gamsamnida!

    • @joliejeolla1394
      @joliejeolla1394 Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta ♡♡🤗🤗

  • @gellanvicart503
    @gellanvicart503 Рік тому

    What a lovely story to tell. I'm impressed and happy to know. Love it and like it.
    Thanks for sharing mayan and Mon.

  • @aimkelly
    @aimkelly Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing and being so honest and open. I enjoy all your videos.

  • @sallyjaynes2433
    @sallyjaynes2433 Рік тому +5

    Deep embrace of the loveable nature of you two 💞 through the life pasture of making it work...... ☮️✌️

  • @Consecrated2Him7
    @Consecrated2Him7 Рік тому

    Loved this video of you Mayaan and Mon - your real emotions and your moving dance -thank you 🕊😀🙏

  • @FloridaFlipFlops
    @FloridaFlipFlops Рік тому +1

    Hello from Naples, Florida. We are so glad to find this channel. We love you both. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. 👍❤

  • @asheb3893
    @asheb3893 Рік тому +4

    You are both great filmakers! You educate, entertain and inspire. Thank you so much.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Thanks a lot! I will take that compliment! I'm a new amateur filmmaker and I'm loving it!!!

  • @saywhatyouwant888
    @saywhatyouwant888 Рік тому +2

    Your a good story narrator keeps me coming back to watch your vlogs. It's your speciality I guess. Much love ❤️

  • @tracyrapplean3354
    @tracyrapplean3354 Рік тому +15

    I Love your love story. I’m ready for part 4.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +5

      Soon soon! First another vlog with the two and only, Mili and Manu! They finally let me film them again.

    • @austinhowland300gmail.
      @austinhowland300gmail. Рік тому

      Hello Tracy how are you doing today

  • @radicalrealtor2118
    @radicalrealtor2118 Рік тому

    I absolutely loved this video. Thank you for your art and truth!

  • @susanehills
    @susanehills Рік тому +4

    I cried a lot watching this video... mayann you are wonderful.. this man loves you so much you can see it in his smile, you are his safe haven, mayann you pass responsibility and strength, that holds this man with a child's smile, God bless this love...

  • @hellonono4290
    @hellonono4290 Рік тому +2

    this is such a useful video not just for mixed relationships but immigration in general and how seeing yourself or other people out of context can throw you off course and make doubts. like you I have called three countries home and seeing myself and my old and new lives through eyes influenced by each successive move means I have to put everything back into context again. but after doubts comes clarity and calm...I hope one day to be able to do that with a relationship as strong as you two, too ❤️

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Yeah! Sounds like you experienced something similar to mine! Which countries were yours?

  • @suziwankenobi8807
    @suziwankenobi8807 Рік тому

    You are such a wonderful couple with beautiful souls.
    I love the way you love each other, with so much intelligence of life, tenderness, natural...
    Thank you from New Caledonia 💝🌿

  • @larryreich5395
    @larryreich5395 Рік тому

    All I can say is fabulous! Besides your own story, I think you two would be great at telling other people’s stories as well. You are inventive, inquiring, inquisitive and lucid. Never a dull moment! WOW! Very nice! Loved the interpretive dance! Great story tellers! Thank you!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Thanks so much Larry. Are you a new subscriber to this channel? Feel free to tell us something about yourself. We would love to get to know.

  • @jackieanderson4108
    @jackieanderson4108 Рік тому

    Fantastic watch and wonderful how you both can express yourselves threw your dance ....totally awesome

  • @user-ri4hw9vf9l
    @user-ri4hw9vf9l 2 місяці тому

    Very creative but at the same time so real. It's a rollercoaster of emotions 😮😊 well done

  • @lincolndomingo1682
    @lincolndomingo1682 Рік тому

    Such beautiful story, Mayaan you are a great story teller..another great video.

  • @angelikalechl-rahim3579
    @angelikalechl-rahim3579 Рік тому +1

    thanks of being so bold to shate your doubts. being together after all this thoughts is great 👍💞

  • @lisalarose812
    @lisalarose812 Рік тому

    This man truly loves you heart and soul. Not easy to find💙

  • @atekevichusa6739
    @atekevichusa6739 Рік тому +9

    I chanced upon your channel while randomly browsing, and you've got me hooked on your story... Hopefully I can be your guest too one day when I come for cooking classes with Mon...
    I enjoy watching your stories and send you all best wishes from India.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +3

      That's wonderful! Thanks so much for letting us know that you are watching. Hope that one day we can host you indeed. Hope to read another comment from you soon!

  • @kabochaandspice
    @kabochaandspice Рік тому +1

    I can't wait to visit Thailand one day and hopefully meet you guys! I was so hungry after watching this episode. So much passion in all that you do. :)

  • @NoemiMangaoang-de5sl
    @NoemiMangaoang-de5sl Рік тому

    ❤️this video because you’re communicating openly to each other. Thank you for sharing your stories. Hope to see you one day in Thailand.

  • @forestsprite5914
    @forestsprite5914 Рік тому

    Oh my gosh that food you are eating looks delicious!! You are both so lucky to be in such a beautiful place with such beautiful people🥰

  • @niyilivesinLondon-bm6ds
    @niyilivesinLondon-bm6ds Рік тому

    This is the most wonderful story I have heard of. keep doing what you are doing.. both of you are an inspiration

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      ❤️❤️❤️ thanks so much!
      Are you a new subscriber? I don't think I have see a message from you before?

  • @carylpark7192
    @carylpark7192 Рік тому +1

    Every relationship has question marks its part of the human need to have all the answers and to desire strongly a fulfilled life without regrets. Just being happy is the diamond we all search for.

  • @inagordan4589
    @inagordan4589 Рік тому +1

    dont even think to break up with him. he is a real treasure

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Рік тому

    I love you honesty and I totally understand you taking time to make a big decision you are so wise commitment should not be taken lightly loving your vlogs you 2 are amazing thank you for sharing

  • @vsp2801
    @vsp2801 Рік тому

    Wonderful u2 love stories thanks for sharing.. love the most powerful thing.. love is color blind.. love is no border !

  • @magdalenalisiewicz5222
    @magdalenalisiewicz5222 Рік тому

    I admire how openly you share your thoughts and feelings.

  • @adolfosofiao
    @adolfosofiao Рік тому +1

    Hi beautiful family. Lovely content, raw and respectfully narrated. Sometimes we have moments of doubts but we embrace the love that binds us and try to see the differences as a way to build on what we don’t know about each other. Patience is a powerful attribute. Can’t wait to your next vlog xxx

  • @wendy-0101
    @wendy-0101 Рік тому

    ❤🙏🏼You really clarified alot! My ❤️story is, I fell in ❤ with an Island. It was a Spiritual awakening. Namaste! 💞💋💞💋

  • @loveoracle8797
    @loveoracle8797 Рік тому

    I love watching you 2 dance. The beauty of your marital intimacy gets me. I see Gods design of this intimacy.
    I love your creative expression also together and how emotionally expressive and raw you are. It carries such exquisite beauty
    Ok on another note regarding your doubts and fears
    I think it was totally understandable what you went through because it was you that was risking and giving up so much of what your mind had always told you you wanted and that would have felt very scary. What you did was HUGE ! you gave up what you knew and risked incredibly. The head verses the heart is hard in this day and age especially. And for a woman who knows we need security and need to be safe. Woh!!! You were incredibly brave. It must have been so hard. I admire you.
    I went through this with the father of my son. It was back and forth , back and forth for 3 years and then I jumped and married him. I always prayed God would take the fear and the doubt but he never did. We can never know the future.
    When I jumped I did so with the motto " better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all " ( to prepare my self if I did lose)
    Well I did. Five years into our marriage after having our son he told me he was transgender and wanted a divorce.
    So in the long run I did love and lose. But would I change it in the bigger scheme of things ? No.
    I wouldn't change the past. Even though it was very sad losing the man I loved and my son and I went through so much it was a part of my life. Much of that time I cherished

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Wow what a story! Yeah life is not that straightforward and sometimes you're up for a surprise! I'm glad you found a way to accept what happened and move on. Big hugs to you!

  • @HowlingWo1f
    @HowlingWo1f Рік тому

    This video is actually a masterpiece at a whole other level.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Really? I'm glad you feel that way, but please tell me more! What makes you feel that way? And... please tell me more about yourself! Who are you, where you're from? Since when have you started watching our channel?

  • @moniquederksen1902
    @moniquederksen1902 Рік тому +1

    How beautiful is it to connect the West and the East.. the rational mind connecting with the heart. ❤️

  • @NickyDunn
    @NickyDunn Рік тому

    Great video. Thank you for sharing. Have a wonderful week.

  • @dulciecrystal2042
    @dulciecrystal2042 Рік тому +1

    Love love you videos. Always so excited to see a new one.💕

  • @melissayuliethsimmonscarca8401

    Guys excellent work to show the reality of love and mature relationships. I am delighted by how you are presenting this parts of your life with openness and sincerity. Both are special people big hugs. It can’t take the rose without thorns great reality and how to make decisions and value the other person who hold our heart ❤️.

  • @user-gi9ls6xw8p
    @user-gi9ls6xw8p Рік тому +1

    You got my 👍🏻 at the minute 8. Love your channel ❤. Came to peak from Nat Journey but now I’m hooked ☺️.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Yoohoo! You love our dancing 😂😂😍😍😍 thanks so much. We have a few more videos describing our love story. Feel free to check out the play list.

  • @moniques8336
    @moniques8336 8 місяців тому

    hes a good man taking care of his family.maayan love this

  • @mariaap8502
    @mariaap8502 Рік тому

    You know all those doubts are fears of commitment and are very normal when you are in love 🥰. You guys have such a nice relationship!

  • @marlypadilla5111
    @marlypadilla5111 Рік тому +3

    (Spanish) No puedo explicar fascinada estoy con este video. La manera en que proyectan ,incluyendo parte de las dos artes que practico y son parte de mi ...la Danza y la actuación es fascinante de ver. Me encanta y les felicito por que son una joya de videos en un mundo de " imitadores". Saludos de Puerto Rico 🇵🇷

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Amazing message to translate into English from Spanish... ❤️❤️❤️
      Thank you so much muchas grazias

  • @riannekrielaart6878
    @riannekrielaart6878 Рік тому

    Beautifully told. The dancing in the jungle is out of this world. Location and music add to the story

  • @harrymadray6362
    @harrymadray6362 Рік тому

    The Both of you are SO BLESSED AND LUCKY TO HAVE MET EACH OTHER! I ADMIRE HIS WARMTH AND GENUINESS AS WELL AS YOUR OPEN- MINDEDNESS AS A EUROPEAN! YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME AND MEANT FOR EACH OTHER!!

  • @towardsthepurplelight4077
    @towardsthepurplelight4077 Рік тому

    I think you both were born to have a you tube channel😃love it!

  • @monarosaart
    @monarosaart Рік тому +1

    It is just natural to have doubts ; different cultures, religions, change of a life style from The Netherlands & having strict thoughts about having & keeping a job to being on an island in Thailand doing nothing bit then you doing something 🎉
    I see the blessings of UA-cam these days: it enabled so many to earn income no matter where you live ❤
    Villages in a remote russia for example. I love it : life changing 🤞🍀
    I'm a Moslim lady married to a Dutch gentleman & we lived in 3 continents so far .
    Wish you all the best. Your channel is amazing ❤

  • @jannekevantuijn
    @jannekevantuijn Рік тому +1

    I like your unique style of the video: with the dancing and the music ❤

  • @dorisdalanon6663
    @dorisdalanon6663 2 місяці тому

    You are both passionate persons, very expressive in words and action/gracefully dancing😊

  • @saraphanar6507
    @saraphanar6507 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much for sharing 💖 I also feel same doubts from time to time about my Asian boyfriend, but now I know that's it normal to doubt and feel scared - it doesn't necessarily mean that I won't be happy with that person. Thank you ☺️

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Absolutely! We should definitely listen to the doubt but it doesn't always tell us it is not the right person. It could tell us many things about ourselves too. In my case I'm definitely guilty of fear of commitment

    • @saraphanar6507
      @saraphanar6507 Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta right 👍

  • @panda63725
    @panda63725 Рік тому

    You guys bring the best out of each other. Wow !!!

  • @Wouter_apac
    @Wouter_apac Рік тому

    Great and OUTSTANDING video again. Great dance together!

  • @Liat-Blatt
    @Liat-Blatt Рік тому +2

    מעיין, הבאת את הטוב מישראל: הפתיחות, הישירות, את זה שמדברים על הכל. מון זכה ללמוד איך מניחים את הלב והנפש על מגש ובודקים מקרוב ובקול מה יש בהם. תהליך מזכך. אתם שניכם מדהימים. זכיתם!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +3

      Yes he absolutely adores all of that. These are all things that were missing in his childhood. And i got so many amazing new ways of doing and thinking from him. I guess that's what these multicultural relationships are all about, this mix and match...

  • @caroledrury1411
    @caroledrury1411 Місяць тому

    This is fascinating! You really played out the divine comedy of the soul! You had all these doubts and yet are together whereas when I went to Ireland and was 110% convinced I’m sure he was the one, we are no longer together! Go figure

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Місяць тому

      Thank you for reminding me about this video again. It was a crucial part of our relationship. And I never had doubts again after. I'm sorry yours didn't work out. Feel free to share more about it (if you feel like).

  • @josephajimuda938
    @josephajimuda938 Рік тому

    Beautiful!!! What an amazing story 👍

  • @paullansville
    @paullansville Рік тому +2

    How's one of my favorite couple Jeanette & Sulai are they good and keep bringing up these amazing stories.#Peace and love from Toronto 🇨🇦🙏🏼

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      They are doing very well! We are making another video together soon!

    • @paullansville
      @paullansville Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta Can’t wait tbh.👍🏽🙏🏽

  • @aaliyah1415
    @aaliyah1415 Рік тому +1

    This was funny and sweet! Lol
    I can relate to the doubting even though you are with a good person.

  • @kasiajansart
    @kasiajansart Рік тому +2

    Thank you Maayan and Mon for creating this channel and sharing your amazing life story. With all the ups and downs that you have been through together, your relationship develops so beautifully and with such balance with each other. In every movie you bring so much JOY and INSPIRATION into my life. Thank you for being honest in expressing the emotions and feelings that make your story SO BEAUTIFUL...
    Thank you for that.
    You also inspired me to tell my amazing love story meeting my soulmate that turned my life upside down, but I knew I had to follow my heart … and so I did.
    Much love for you and your beautiful children.

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Thanks you so much Kasia! I don't believe I have seen a comment from you before, feel free to tell me something about yourself. Big hugs

    • @kasiajansart
      @kasiajansart Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta Dear Maayan
      Yes, you are absolutely right, this is my first comment. This morning I felt very strongly that I also want to comment on what I feel about you and your amazing channel that I came across ,,by coincidence". I believe there are no coincidences.
      Briefly about me: I am Polish and I met the love of my life in Egypt, he is Danish. I went there for a 2-week vacation to rest and find myself. I was married at this time and I have 2 children.
      During the trip one night exactly at 2 am something woke me up and because we were traveling on the Nile by boat I decided to go to the top deck . And there I saw him. There was no one but the two of us. I was afraid to go to him and say hello because at that time I did not speak English well. And suddenly I heard a voice "from above" - `` Open your heart for this love`". Without thinking, I went to him, looked him deeply in the eyes and just said one sentence " I've been waiting for you my whole life”.
      He felt the same. What's amazing is that he was awakened at the same time and decided to go to the top deck just like me …
      At that moment, we knew we wanted to be together …
      At that moment, I knew I had to follow my heart and change my life completely.
      And so began our story full of amazing miracles and also full of ups and downs. Now after 13 years we are together ,living a fantastic life in Denmark …
      All the best Maayan and Mon deeply from my heart 🍀🌺

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      @@kasiajansart wow this is the most incredible story I have ever heard about meeting the love of your life! Simply wow! I'm sure it was really tough too when you had to go back to your marriage and make very strong decisions! Anyways, we are so happy you found our channel (or that it found you) and that you decided to comment. Thanks so much for doing so and sharing your story! Big hugs!

    • @kasiajansart
      @kasiajansart Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta 💚💜

  • @xtoroon
    @xtoroon Рік тому +1

    Looking forward to part 4! I'm currently in doubt with my relationship and I need to learn from your story 🥹

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Ohhh ❤️❤️❤️ wish you all the wisdom

  • @jayatissa6028
    @jayatissa6028 Рік тому

    I believe both of you are very open to each other. Feeling insecure is something very common, it's part and parcel of life. We tend to questions ourselves did we make the right decisions. Deep inside we still love the person. Life needs to go on. I know, difficult decisions can be hurtful at times.

  • @evagellman1612
    @evagellman1612 Рік тому +4

    You are just great together ❤
    Many greetings from Switzerland 🇨🇭
    Shalom, Eva😊

  • @zwiebster63
    @zwiebster63 Рік тому

    Very honest story of your love!! Wow! It can be a good lesson for many young people at this moment. Breaking up is so easy and the younger generation is not really used to fight for the good things. They want everything to smoothly without any efforts. Thank you for sharing “a part of your real life”. 😘😘😘

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      I'm so happy I didn't listen to my "rational" (non-sense) doubts.

  • @marid1580
    @marid1580 Рік тому

    You two are such a beautiful couple & dance so eloquently.

  • @mariannesnead6919
    @mariannesnead6919 Рік тому +1

    Love your love story so authentic and genuine

  • @frankfang2146
    @frankfang2146 Рік тому +1

    That dance with that music.... Just epic❤

  • @lisebjerring9197
    @lisebjerring9197 Рік тому

    You are very honest towards us. You are incredible.

  • @user-zn4ez4ux1i
    @user-zn4ez4ux1i Рік тому

    Remember that love it’s blind! Love is both ways ❤who cares what other people see or think, it’s what you feel inside your heart! ❤❤❤

  • @kris8dave
    @kris8dave Рік тому

    ❤ I Love your love story… you guys are perfectly imperfect… it’s just the way love is 🌸💕💗🦋

  • @michellelee4843
    @michellelee4843 Рік тому +1

    Best real life down to earth love story ❤️

  • @gabrieleuwira9731
    @gabrieleuwira9731 Рік тому

    💕LOVE is the base, which guide us through good and bad times TOGETHER 💕

  • @lisalarose812
    @lisalarose812 Рік тому

    Yes indeed understand well. Sometimes we overthink and then get lost on our path to happiness. Small things rub you the wrong way. Communication is 🔑. If everything is perfect all the time you would wonder🤔

  • @revitalbergershloman8188
    @revitalbergershloman8188 Рік тому +2

    Amazing, long distance relations can end up dramaticly or with the best decision ones ever made, changing life, language , hopes , Mon you need to learn the language , the beautiful language of hebrew to understand even better the beautiful roots of your wife that as an hebrew woman makes those passages like the language. Thank you for this video that makes me cry ( of joy) and smile when you smile

  • @twq3182
    @twq3182 Рік тому

    Thanks Maayan for answering my question earlier...i can see that when you start losing it only then you realised you actually want it ...it's a beautiful journey to a get love like yours..
    Wish i will find mine one day...

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      I think there are some famous songs about this:
      You only need the light when it's burning low
      Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
      Only know you love her when you let her go

  • @twinflowerfioretta
    @twinflowerfioretta Рік тому +2

    Sawadee kha Mayaan & Mon🙏🙏i Love your awesome story🌸💕wonderful presented ona lovely place with delicious😋food and a great dance performance !! You both are so vibrant and full of positive energy, you can enjoy Life, Love and " the petit rien " together at its best !The different stages of your love-journey is very interesting, - i think a relationship with a partner from a different culture and country far away will be well planned, but the Loving Hearts 💘💘💝💝are at least the winners !🎈😍Thank you for sharing, i`m excited to see part 4....

  • @alicjaalicja5890
    @alicjaalicja5890 Рік тому +3

    Thank you! Your dance was incredibly sincere, more than many words. Piękne! polish happiness for you! I’m in doubt situation right now, I’ll dance it, hoping one day I can dance together with my diamond:) ❤ is bigger than knowledge and everything on this world. All the best for you!

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому

      Beautiful!

    • @alicjaalicja5890
      @alicjaalicja5890 Рік тому

      @@SweetLifeLanta because you are so beautiful 😊 you can feel the power of love and kindness. Hope to visit you and your place one day:)

  • @stillboholana3228
    @stillboholana3228 Рік тому

    What a lovely story again guys❤️

  • @Noonoize
    @Noonoize Рік тому

    This video made me cry.🥹I’ve been through feelings in a relationship like the two of you with my Polish boyfriend .I am a Thai woman😊

    • @SweetLifeLanta
      @SweetLifeLanta  Рік тому +1

      Thanks so much for sharing! It feels so good to share emotions with others so we realise we are not the only ones who feel that way ❤️❤️❤️