How to react when ignored in France
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- Опубліковано 12 гру 2022
- We meet all kinds of restaurants in all countries. France is no exception. There are millions of good restaurants but there are thousands of rude people. We're paying for them. Here is an example of mine. This happened at the center of Burgundy, which produces most expensive wines and fabulous food.
#FranceTrip #FranceTravel #Burgundy
I've been convinced on how powerful it is to have a language to speak privately in while in public.
At the same time, you should also never assume someone doesn't understand you. Someone has done that around me before, and trust me, you will feel very embarrassed to be called out. As they did.
@@Cabbage7Patch in what language was that?
@@Cabbage7Patch when you speak 4 languages in Central Europe it happens alot actually, especially in a city. I don't tend to eavesdrop but if someone is badmouthing or just being a dick then I'm more than happy to just say have a good day in their language when i/they leave, not a fan of embarrassing people but people like that gotta get checked.
@Kaas I'm half English half German and speak both fluently. When I was visiting family in the UK we crossed paths with German tourists who started bad mouthing everyone and everything around them including us. So I called them out in German.
French people use that too - to talk infront of people who are trying to be part of a conversation, so they can't follow what's being said and know they can't follow what's being said
I love how your friend acknowledged your ability to uplift yourself and others around you despite the situation. That was beautiful.
it's pretty tragic tho how she mentioned if you're introverted, you'll have a very hard time. kudos to him for having that great extrovert charisma and her for coming out of her shell, but she brought up an excellent point that introverts don't deserve to be treated like trash simply because they're introverts and have trouble with social interactions. it's just as much a problem in the US as it is in Europe.
That’s his wife man
@@NativeAsElizabethWarren in that case, his BEST friend.
He brings joy to everyone around him. His good energy is so much that a ride waitress doesn’t bring him down but instead got energized by him. 👍🏼👏🏼
A lot of old people in the restaurants are rude toward the waiters in France. It's difficult for them and they tend to show the poker face/cold face when you arrive in a restaurant. And if they feel that you're not an ass, they lower their guard !
@@foufou81 Are you French? I notice this too. I’ve been to France 3x. I won’t say it’s a lot. But I do realize that French have a deadpan and sarcastic humor. It’s just them and nothing discriminatory I feel. When I join in their antics they are actually very friendly and warm, well still that French airs but it’s the culture and I’m ok. Anyways most recent trip last year I met so many friendly French people especially the younger ones. Even in Paris no one was unfriendly. Maybe we were lucky idk… I think it’s changing…
Our hero got treated like a gentleman because he treated everyone else the same way, and brought them up to his level.
와... 이 부부... 교양과 품격이 철철 넘쳐 흐른다... 와... 서버 한명뿐만 아니라 저 주변 테이블의 손님들까지 다 기분이 풀리도록 만드는 매직...
한국에 저런 종업원이 있었으면 진상할줌마, 아재, 맘충들 융단폭격으로 참교육되었을텐데😅
그니까요!! 저도 기분이 너무너무 좋아지네요😊
사소한 행동이나 매너 하나에서도 그 사람에게서 드러나는 기품이라는게 있죠 단시간에 만들어지지 않는, 그 사람이 살아온 인생과 안목을 모두 보여주는.. 영상에 부부 분들이 확실히 좀 내공이 깊으신듯
닮고싶네요 ㅎㅎ 여유와 유머, 소통능력이 정말 대단하세요 !
한국어 놔두고 서버니 매직이니 테이블이니 이러니까 ㅈㄴ 없어보인다 ㅋㅋ
남이 부정적이게 굴어도 그 감정에 매몰되지않고 자기 감정 유지하는게 정말 멋있습니다. 저도 저런 사람이 되고싶네요
한국식당에서 같은 대우를 받아도 그 감정에 매몰되지 않고 자기감정을 유지하면서 식사를 하게될까요?
@@jinulee7299 한국이면 더 가능하지 않나요? 이모님들이나 할머니 할아버지 뻘 사장님이 무례하게 굴어도 “뭐.. 어르신이니까” 하고 대수롭지 않게 넘기는 경우 많잖아요. 오히려 외국에서 저렇게 하는게 더 힘들 것 같아요
한국식 표현으로는 능글맞다 ㅎ
@@jinulee7299 한국에선 저렇게 늦게 주문하기도 전에 이미 손님이 여, 주문 좀 합시다! 하고 사태정리되겠죠. ㅎㅎ
@@jinulee7299
ㅋㅋㅋ 일단 5분이상 안기다림...
“Before we got married, I couldn’t speak a word”
“You are good now honey”
Good one 😂
So glad the YT algorithm brought me here. Although it's obvious how well you interact with others despite rude service, I'm really thankful for how thoughtful your wife is. @3:10 your wife mentioned that even though someone might speak perfect French or English, or even be from France, if they are introvert, it would be very difficult to be in this situation with rude server. It's so thoughtful that both of you acknowledge that there are all kinds of people and is important to be nice to everyone and give them benefit of doubt. Because you did so, you brought joy to everyone around you.
I love how they're absolutely decimating them in Korean, while still maintaining positive vibes in French lmao. This was hilarious to watch.
My Filipino friend says that if you hear Asian people speaking their native language, they're probably throwing shade.
@@allanturmaine5496 as a korean absolutely my parents know english but when the start speaking korean they dont hold back bro
That's the beauty of speaking languages that not many people understand, lol😂
cowardly behavior
@@pacepicante6952 non, vous êtes un petit cochon qui pu. That's French for "I'm pretty sure it's not cowardly."
Insufferable rudeness is the national pastime in France. Everybody that visits seems to have a similar story.
The waitress was kinda annoying but the neighbours were lovely
@@Gontrz Thats because the neighbours are Dutch, not French
@@Billdijk000 the one from the off camera table were French
I experienced the same rudeness in France
@@lennylennington Imagine saying that after getting demolished by everyone in the last century.
what a nice man and wife. they exude happiness and kindness and it's infectious.
this is how you behave
무례한 상대방에게 평소의 본인처럼 친절하게 대하시는거 너무 대단하셔요..
제가 최근에 진짜 못된 직원을 만났는데 갑자기 이 영상이 생각나는거에요
그래서 그 무례한 사람과 똑같이 굴지않고 일관적으로 밝고 힘차게 대답하면서 행동했더니 마지막엔 상대방이 달라지더라고요
그 때 기분이 정말 이상했어요! 뭔가 멋있는 어른이 된 기분..
아직은 기분나쁜걸 꾹 참고 속으로 난 괜찮아!! 똑같은 사람 되지말자!! 이러면서 친절한 척 하는 수준이지만..
나중엔 진짜로 무례한 사람이 주는 상처에 끄떡없을만큼 단단한 사람이 됐으면 좋겠어요
아무쪼록 이 영상 올려주셔서 감사하고 멋지십니다!!
긍정의 힘에 감화됐네요
안그런 사람이 99.99%에요 ㅋ
멋있으세요 !!
In my opinion, you ARE a cool adult! And even though you still feel negative emotions inside, you have learned to manage them, and that is emotional maturity. However, I do hope you find a way of releasing those emotions. I am confident you will. Thank you for inspiring me as well!
원래 그러는 척 하다보면 그런 사람이 된다고 하더군요. 그렇게 되실 것 같습니다.
Wow. How amazing is it to speak Korean at your own table, French to your left, English to your right, and have everyone happy and smiling, especially in less than optimal circumstances? What a beautiful moment ♥
yep!
i found it cringe
They were actually dutch but we speak french and (better) english.
En tant que francais, je trouve ca génial, il a tout compris a l'esprit convivial francais, et c'est un veritable gentleman ! Il sera le bienvenue partout ici avec une telle mentalité :)
everyone but frigging staff
Not only did she put used glassware on an active table, but she also left it WHILE they were eating! That couple was too nice. As someone who works in the industry and understands the struggles of a waitress, I would not be nice and absolutely lose my shit 😂
Yeah, that waiter isn't the best at her craft to say the least 😁
I noticed that too, absolutely disgusting! If I had been the original consumer of those drinks I would’ve been highly embarrassed. If I was the recipient of those glasses on my table, I would’ve been out of there!
Or you could just talk shit about them in Korean or in any other languages you speak
cool story Karen
Yeah, that blew me away. So rude.
Their positive energy was so inviting and refreshing I felt like I was sitting at the table dining with them. Lovely video despite the lackluster service the guests received.
Really enjoyed it. He made me open a wine and drank it along with them😊.
This shows that people are just rude because of their environment and what they usually encounter daily.. I bet the waitress felt refreshed to meet someone as nice and cheerful as you and your wife ☺️ Thanks for reminding us to always try and be nice to everyone.. it goes a long way ✨
Overcame the rude waitress, made her smile and provide the service she was meant to, had fun with guests and enjoyed the food and wine. Truly exemplary manners and EQ and your lovely wife made a great analysis of the situation and you both overcame ! Great episode
Fuck the fact that he had to overcome discrimination or had to work for fair treatment. White ppl don't ever have to work for it. That's why I stick to Asian restaurants at least half the time.
Even with the same level of manners and EQ, I wonder if someone who spends less and yet to have such high level of food and wine knowledge would be able to regain the service and respect they're supposed to have from the waitress though
In my experience, when you are just give it a joy. The rude staff would change suddenly reflecting your energy.
Well, it is what it is
the rude waitress didn't deserve it. she deserved a bit of cultural enrichment instead
Something to learn from this man. Dont let the servers or anything else ruin your enjoyment of food and the process of eating it. He make his own joy. Cheers for him
The only reason the other guests aren’t getting more upset is because this dude is making them smile by just being friendly.
A good sophisticated smile can get you anywhere. Love this couple ❤
침아조씨 방송보고 넘어왔습니다 방송에서 진짜 대화하시는데 격식있는 모습이 인상깊었는데 이 영상도 진짜 멋있으시네요 저도 꼭 와인킹님같은 어른이 되겠습니다
언어 능력이나 센스같은것도 너무 멋진데 그냥 성격이나 태도같은게 너무 기품넘치고 긍정적이신거같아요 그게 가장 부럽네요 ㅎ
침아조씨 방송에 나왓음?
Wow, what a magnetic personality he has, the way him and his wife were put in a situation that felt like out of their control and instead of just putting up with it or leaving, he was able to lift the mood of everyone within his vicinity with that hearty laughter, great sense of humour and amazing people skills! So much to learn from him in approaching life. I hope to carry with me the kind of lens you see life through with that bursting optimism and energy. Thank you. I don't know the first thing about wine but going to stay for your character😄
Captured the essence of what I also wanted to say. Learned a lot from this short clip.😊
Exactly my thoughts!! I have a lot to learn from someone like him, such a delightful personality and character 😊
Magentic?? How?? This guy and his wife and basically bitching the waitress and the restaurant in Korean while smiling and laughing! Hypocrisy you mean!
@@haikaikokoni369_ ahhh u mad! 🤣🤣 u mad!! french d!ck rider 🙌🏼🤭
@@haikaikokoni369_ They were discussing factually about the service lapse. The point is they made something good out of it instead of taking it negatively and throwing a customer tantrum.
This man is insanely charismatic and has some of the most solid social awareness and communication skills I’ve seen in a long time. He demonstrates a master class in communication and frame control.
Very true, and so beautifully put!
That's an excellent analysis!
あなた方を本当に尊敬します。一時的にドイツに住んでいますが、人種差別的なことが本当に頻繁に起こります。罵声を浴びせられたりレストランやスーパーで無視されたり、バスや電車で私を見た人が口を覆ったりします。
その度に嫌な気持ちになっていましたが、あなたの動画を見てもっと広い心を持とうと思いました。
ありがとうございます。
私はルフトハンザ航空機に乗った時に乗務員から差別を受けました。それまでドイツには何の偏見も持っていなかったのですが、そのことがあってからドイツが少し嫌いになりました。ドイツはトランジットで数時間しか滞在したしかありませんが今後ガッツリ旅行するということはないと思います。この動画では店員さんの接客が悪いのは差別ではなく誰に対しても、ですが差別となくとまた話は別だと思います。
共有していただいてありがとうございます。もしよろしければどちらの地下にお住まいですか？私は北の方に一年ほど滞在し、帰国したのですがまたドイツに戻ろうと思っており、地域によって全く差別や思想が異なると聞いておりまして。実際に私はほとんど経験しませんでしたので、次回の移住時に参考にさせていただきたくお聞きさせていただきたいと思いました。
이 부부가 대단하신 거예요.
다들 이렇게 하실 수 있다고 생각하시면 오산입니다.
저는 유럽에서 10년째 살고 있지만 이런 경우 많이 봤고 해결도 해보고 기분 즐겁게 살려고 해도 쉽지가 않아요.
이럴 때 그냥 메니저 불러서 뭐라하면 됩니다. 안되는 경우도 있지만요.
식사 값과 음료 값에는 기본적은 서비스를 받는 비용이 들어 있는거구요.
이건 저의 말이 아니고 유럽 현장의 써비스 교육이 그래요.
왜 우리가 기분 좋게 식사하러 가서 기분 나쁜 써비스를 받아야 하는지 이해를 못할 때가 많아요 유럽에서는..
이 분들은 성격 좋고 촬영 중이고 그러한 성격이시니 성공하시는 거지만 일반인들은 그렇지.않죠...
살면서 느낀건 커뮤니케이션은 상대방이 정말 중요하다는 겁니다.
내가 어떠한 말을 해도 찰떡같이 알아듣는 사람이 있지만 제가 잘 아는 분야의 대화도 이상하다 하면서 대화가 안되는 경우도 많아요.
아무튼 이 부부 대단하시네요!!!
와… 교양이란 이런 것이다의 교과서 수준.
저도 음식점에서 서빙하고 있지만 손님들의 ‘감사합니다.’ 이 한마디에도 힘이 나는데, 이렇게 웃으면서 주문을 하면 저절로 공손해지고 힘이나죠.
돈의 가짐에 따라 인격이 대부분은 달라져여! 서민들이 성격이 괴팍한것도 못살아서 그렇습니다! 그런걸좀 이해해주세여
어디서 서빙하시나요? 아웃백?
일본에서 한국인이라고 차별하는 식당에서 웃으면서 굽신거리며 주문 엄청했더니 싱글벙글하며 잘해줬다는 일화만 봐도 한국인 승질머리만 죽이고 오히려 더 친절하고 정중하게 대해주고 돈도 더 많이 써주면 되죠
@@GFD0116 ㅋㅋㅋ그저 웃지요
@@user-ns4lz5vd3v 괴팍한 사장님들은 돈이 없어서 그럴까요? 개뿔 아무것도 없는데 생각도 없는건지 밝고 친절한 친구들은 진짜 왜그럴까요?
당신의 글은 생각도 깊지 않고 배려심도 없으며 공감도 못할 내용이네요. 교양을 좀 쌓으세요.
부부의 대화가 굉장히 부드럽게 순환이 잘되고 매끄럽게 흘러가네요. 중간에 한번 대화가 막힐법도 한데 칭찬까지 서로 주고받으면서 대화의 고수를 본거 같아요 굉장합니다
맞네요 … 부러울정도에요 ㅎㅎ
프랑스하면 바께뜨👏👏
I aspired to be this man. Rich and still humble. Have a good humor too!! And patience to booth. Blessed this couple ❤❤❤
Kudos on your kind and generous responses. She was clearly rude but you showed impressive kindness. That’s a gift ❤
대인배의 표본이신 듯. 젠틀함이 무너지지 않네요. 두분 대화에 많은 감명 받았습니다.
@@loveisforu 의도적으로 던진건 알 수 없지만 보통 그렇게 할 경우 사과를 하죠? 그리고 영상 보면 점원이 그닥 친절하지 않다는 건 알 수 있으니 메뉴판도 일부러 떨어뜨린건지 실수로 떨어뜨렸는지도 확신할 수 없구요,,
나 같으면 메뉴판 집어서 날렸다라고 하려고 들어왔는데 딱히 점원이 던진건 아니지만 불친절하긴 하네요.
멋지십니다.^^
@@loveisforu 님 말씀대로 분명 낚시성이 없다고 하긴 힘들죠. 그런데 내용도 자극적이던가요? 근데 내용자체는 느낀바가 많네요. 종업원도 인종차별을 한게 아니라 자국민이든 외국인이든 모두에게 공평하게 불친절 할 뿐이더라구요. 옆테이블 남성분은 불쾌감이 표정에서 숨김없이 드러나는 반면 영상속 두분은 끝까지 위트있고 매너있는 분위기가 한순간도 무너지지 않더라구요. 오히려 종업원이 다른테이블에선 여전히 불친절한데도 이쪽테이블에서 만큼은 약간이나마 친절을 탑제하고 표정도 밝아지기 시작했죠. 그런면에서 영향력이 있는 분이라고 느껴져요. 그래서 감명받았습니다.
@@loveisforu 정확한지적인데 유튜버는
이렇게해야함
이 영상을 계속 돌려보게 되는 이유:
1. 불편한 심기로 시청을 시작했는데 희한하게 저 주변에 있는 손님같이 점점 마음이 평안해짐.
2. 아내의 말을 처음부터 끝까지 다 경청하며 반응해주는 자상함을 넘어선 남편의 모습이 너무 보기좋음.
3. 나도 저렇게 현지인처럼 대화하며 여행하는 상상을 해보게 됨.
4. 현생을 열심히 살고 싶어지는 의욕을 일으킴.
2번에서 너가 저런 사람이 되라 바라지 말고 ㅉㅉ
@@user-wd5qs3zr7k 안그래도 저런 아내가 되려구용~~ ^^감기조심하세요??
@@user-wd5qs3zr7k 참 꼬였네. 많이 힘들어요?
@@user-wd5qs3zr7k 어제 바지가랑이에 실어온 노가다 흙량이 보인다 ㅋㅋㅋ 교양없는것
천성적으로 베베꼬인 사람중 한 사람인듯
그렇게 살면
안 피곤한가요?
밖에 나와서 햇빛좀 쐬고 공원좀 걷고 그러세요
Dude, you are amazing ! You literally changed the mood and the whole vibe of everyone and everything around you. That's pure magic ! And I know the Frenchs way too much to know how hard it can be.
와.. 어제부터 연달아 보고있는데 두분의 인품과 나누시는 대화에서 많이 배우고 갑니다❤ 너무 멋진분들이에요!! 지금 세계여행을 하는 중인데 꼭 프랑스가 아니더라도 세계어느곳에서 혹여나 이런저런 일을 당한다면 난 저렇게 유연하게 대처할수 있을까? 를 많이 공부하게 되는 영상들이였어요!
정말 정말 많이 배우고 덕분에 웃고 갑니다! 저도 본받아서
조금 더 멋진 여행자가 되도록할게요! 앞으로도 잘 보겠습니다 :)
인종차별이 아니라 평등하게 불친절이었네요😂 서버분들부터 옆테이블까지 다같이 웃게되는 분위기로 바꾸시는건 정말 대단하신 것 같아요!! 두분의 웃음에서 여유와 넓은마음이 느껴지고 많이 배우고가요!!
이렇게 또 한국의 품격을 올려주시는!
@잼민이 • 228만년 전 평등한 불친절은 괜찮음~이 아니라 인종차별은 아닌거 같다 인데 우리게이는 닉을 잼민이에서 국어9등급으로 바꿔야겠노ㅋㅋ
@잼민이 • 228만년 전 닉값
댓글들만 봐도 프랑스는 정말 가고 싶지 않네요
불친절이 아니라 막장 수준인데, 음식 퀄리티는 좋다고 하는 거 보면 제대로된 식당인 건데.
왜 저런 사람을 쓰는 거지? ㅋㅋ 양고기 미소가 뭐냐는 질문에 양고기지 뭐냐라고 대답하는 건 최소 사장 딸임 ㅋ
As a french person this really makes me sad and ashamed, wow. Insane that you had to work so hard for basic service. It sadly happens sometimes, and that is regardless of where you come from. Some restaurants are just really really bad.
At least the food was good
@@matt_warren it's still France we're talking about :)
I mean Its French, so no surprise
I watched at least 10 times of these kinds video on YT. France really needs to change
@@WooSup111 I mean to be fair there are bad restaurants everywhere, Ive been to places outside France that were just as bad. And there's also the clickbait factor of falling into the stereotypes France being impolite or unwelcoming etc, which is mostly untrue. But the reality is a majority of restaurants have normal service like everywhere, and if you read some reviews before going to a place you won't get bad surprises.
嫌なことされても、笑顔で振舞えば、自然と人は変わっていく。
この夫婦は周囲の席も明るくしてあげてるし、いつの間にかみんなに仲間意識ができて、店員さんですら段々と笑顔になっていく。
他の動画を見ても思うけど、彼は本当にコミュニケーションのエキスパートだと思う。
本当に素敵な方ですよね❗
You two are so adorable together it makes a small soul smile all the way from the heart!! You would be exactly the kind of people I would want to sit next to in a restaurant such as this! Your wife is so lovely, and so empathetic Toward complete strangers said it kind of renew my faith in humanity! And you are very funny and jovial, The kind of soul a soul would want to be around.... and the wine aspect is just the chefs kiss!!!❤️
I’ve heard France especially can be like this. Every time I’ve been in Italy even with my broken Italian, almost every waiter I’ve had seems almost excited to explain the dishes to you. Very different experience. This video just shows what a great attitude (and language skills) can do for you! Much love!
It's a french thing. Worst country I've ever been to.
Ya France is definitely the worst, they are known worldwide for this
Yeah in Italy we tend to love when foreigners try to speak our language as it’s a really nice gesture
france is known to be snooty there's something wrong with their culture
I really don't want to make it sound like I'm bashing French people but I've yet to meet someone who was from France that I actually enjoyed their company. From working at hotels to retail to just meeting new people, French people always made everything very difficult.
인종차별이라 느껴질만 한데 불친절하고 불편한 분위기도 확 바꿔주는게 진정 분위기메이커,,, 영상에서도 사람 자체가 여유롭고 세련됨이 한껏 느껴집니다..
프랑스새기들이 인종차별 졓됨
ㄹㅇ 나같으면 뒤통수에 메뉴 던졋을텐데
인종은 모르겠고 차별의 종류는 맞죠 실수하고나서 표정이나 사과하는 태도를 보면 고의성이 있었다는 게 보이죠
한국새끼들은 뻑하면 인종차별이래 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@user-qm2dh9up9j 차별이 아니라 모든사람에게 동등하게 저런다네요. 프랑스사람에게도 그외 모든 사람에게요. 프랑스 사람 파비앙 유튜브에 설명이 나와요. 그 이유와 함께..
성격 너무 좋으시다.. 인품이 아내분도 인킹이형님도 고품격이란 게 딱 느껴지네요...!!
I’ll never understand France. Some of the best food and drink in the world, I’ve always been fascinated by that regions history too. The people though, I just don’t understand why so many are intent on essentially making foreigners feel shame for not having a full grasp on their language. I went in high school while taking French and for months leading up to it I was more excited than almost anything I’ve ever experienced in life. The treatment I received once there as an obvious student of the language genuinely broke my heart and shattered all my positive preconceptions. It was so wide scale, and sometimes just such extreme degrees. I’ve never been anywhere else in the world where people are even remotely like this. It’s just that region too because other French speaking populations around the globe are typically the first people to invite in a foreigner/stranger to experience what they love about their culture. They’ll share in every ounce of joy and love they have without a single word being understood between you. I know that there’s always going to be some not so savory people anywhere you go in the world but this is a genuine problem that’s proudly baked into their culture.
If French people were treated badly in another country because of their lack of foreign language skills, would they understand how you feel?
@@Digizzzzs I mean I’m not gonna say that it’s an impossible situation for them to uncomfortably find themselves in, I’m sure it happens at when they travel abroad. Probably more in countries that have remnant sour attitudes toward French colonialism of the past perhaps. You can run into shitty people anywhere overall and I try to remember that. I’ve never traveled anywhere else or studied a place where these issues are so heavily ingrained in a people’s culture though you know?
It seems like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. It's set up for you to never win them over. If they came to the states they'd be met with open arms. For the most, Americans know not to judge others for having an accent and try their best to understand. But they don't even care if you sincerely try in France. You're met with derision and judgement either way.
Huge contrast to say, Chinese (and other languages, especially the difficult ones), where people are genuinely surprised and happy that you speak it, and appreciate that you do given the difficulty. What’s with French’s snootiness. 😂
The placing of their old bottles and glasses on the other couples table was absolutely insane LMAOOOOO
It's not their table, it a 'helper table' that's smaller usually 1/3 of the length of the table it's being set up next to. This table is made precisely for this purpose, to put empty wine bottles or extra cutlery or china. Although in this case, this seems to be a normal table next to their, which can also serve this purpose. It's a bit distasteful and antique when it comes to current times but this restaurant has horrendous service as it is, so it doesn't come as a surprise.
@@SeriousSam2 THE REAL FACT.. IT WAS THERE FOR SOOOO LONG! 😂
Wherever they just plonked the bottle it was extremely rude No manners !
@@SeriousSam2 No it's an actual table with seats and all...
@@WENDIGONEMAD They literally typed "Although in this case, this seems to be a normal table next to their, which can also serve this purpose."
“There are all sorts of people” is one of the most stoic responses to this situation i could imagine. What a wonderful human being this man is!
This is a video. It is like photographs that people always smile in. Nice short movie.
Yes and no. There are people out there just trying to catch clout by spreading drama and negativity. The fact that he remains polite and personable without batting an eye despite being treated like shit makes him 10x a man most people are admittedly including myself. And if it's all for the camera at least it's positive.
@@chrisbarbz9238 Fake positivity for his own glory?
@@vi683a It's not fake positivity, he genuinely is happy and an optimist and clearly a successful person in life to be spending that much on eating out.
@@michaeljackson8002" Believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see"
나 너무 반성하게됨. 이 상황이 얼마나 커뮤니케이션이 중요한지를 보여주는 영상임.
감정이 태도가 되지 않기를 서로의 대화속에서 잘 드러나고 있음. 서로 말을 자르고 자기 주장을 내비치는게
아니라 적절한 칭찬과 위트, 안정된 어조로 대화가 이어지는게 보는 이 로 하여금 펀안함이 느껴짐. 상대를 존중하는 모습이 너무나도 보기 좋습니다!!!
I tried being extremely calm and understanding to people when they were being rude to me as a kid (those people were friends, cousins and some adults around me), little did i knew that they started abusing me even more since they thought I wasn't getting affected by their rudeness. So as an adult, I can't do this now. It also takes me back to my childhood, so i can't handle it fearing that i had to hear even more rude words and possible violence if i kept my calm. So i run away from these situations.
Props to you for maintaining calm and peaceful aura around you and not getting affected by another person's mindset.
Keep being this way.
I am working on myself tho.
간혹 한국에서도 무례한 식당엔 다신 가지않는다 라는 생각을 하며 살아왔는데 부부의 태도를 보며 한 수 배운 기분이 드네요
상대방의 무례한 태도를 같은 방식으로 표현하지 않고 부드럽게 분위기를 만들어서 내 감정을 지키는 것에 감탄했습니다😊
정말 멋있네요
하지만 저렇게 좋게 잘 풀어나가더라도 굳이 서비스 안 좋은 곳에 다시 갈 이유가 없는 것은 여전한 것 같습니다.
한국은 달라요 ㅋ
@@user-fo2dm3ez6y 의견에 동의합니다 내가 지불하는 금액엔 내가 받아야하는 권리 즉 서비스 비용을 포함하고 있다고 생각합니다 허나 안타깝게도 현실에선 타협하게 되는 부분이 있더군요..
모든 가게가 내가 원하는 만큼의 서비스를 제공하진 않으니까요 ㅎ
@@impact-ij5ps 한국은 서버에게 팁을 지불하는게 의무는 아니니까 맞는 말씀입니다
조금 불친절하더라도 그 가게에 다른 부분이 마음에 들었다면 내가 조금 불편하더라도 찾게 되더라구요 예를들면 이미 맛으로 정평이 나있는 가게는 조금 불친절 하더라도 찾게되는 안타까운 현실이지요 만약 비슷한 맛을 지닌 가게라면 당연히 조금 더 서비스 마인드를 갖춘 곳을 찾게되는건 당연한 것 같네요 ㅎㅎ
그래도 프랑스 저건 정상이 아니죠
made her smile and laugh and now she's more hospitable 🥰😇 lessons can be learned here 🙂 empathy works every time 🥰
I am learning French and somehow ended up here a few months ago. I really enjoyed this video and am very impressed with your French. What’s even more amazing is that your wife can speak it too! You have since done a few more videos of you and your wife dining out in France and I really enjoyed watching them too. I love your sense of humour, and how you and your wife are so passionate about good food and wine. Please could you do more videos of you speaking French and have an option for French subtitles. Merci!
Had to give a thumbs up for the sophistication with which the man interacts with others, his wife's fair analysis of the situation, and for the fact that they have put effort into mastering foreign languages.
If they hadnt understand a word french they would probably been still sitting there waiting for food🙂
@@donaldliden4545 lmao
His emotional intelligence is at genius level .
The man genuinely has good social skills, but his wife is just like a typical korean personality constantly judging and too sensitive abt what others think.
@@Aeybiseediy I completely disagree. She was very mature and cool about the situation. What did she say that makes you think that?
머리아픈 인종차별 대처 영상이려나 하고 들어왔다가 넋놓고 스킵없이 쭉 시청하게되는 힐링영상이네요..! 두 분의 언어와 태도의 품격을 보고 많이 느끼고, 배우고 갑니다.
우와..제가 딱 그런맘에 댓글달러 왔는데..역시...ㅎㅎ
미투입이다. 참교육보러왔다가 그냥 편안하게 봤네요..ㅎㅎㅎ남편분 부드러운 목소리에 낮이라 커피내립니다...ㅋㅋㅋ
저도 이 긴 영상을 스킵없이 봤구나 라는 사실을 지금 깨달았네요.ㅎㅎ
인종차별 없이 모두에게 불친절한 영상 ㅋ
웃고 갑니다 ㅋ
저도 정말 많이 배우고 갑니다. 나이가 들었을 때 저 분의 반이라도 따라가고 싶네요.
明らかな人種差別と思える行動されても
笑顔を保ちつ平和かつスマートに対応する彼は正にジェントルマン👏
Je ne sais pas pourquoi ce video m'a été recommandé, mais j'ai adoré chaque minute. Vous êtes des personnes magnétiques, tout le monde est de bonne humeur autour de vous deux !
댓글을 안 달 수가 없다. 남편 분의 긍정적이고 선한 영향력이 국적을 넘어 주변까지 특히 불친절 햇던 이까지 환하게 해주는 걸 보고 너무 배울 점이라고 생각이 들어요. 무시당하고 기분 상할게 아니라 웃음으로 승화 하실 수 있는 넓은 마음이 대단하세요😮
진정한 와인"킹"이네요
Ew he is rude and insensitive. Please do not make fun of others and talk behind their back in a language that they dont understand. Then even upload the video on the most famous video sharing platform😅. They got 5.9 millions view. That is disgusting. Did they say apologize and send all the money back to France government and the restaurant and the waitress. Poor the waitress. 안내분이 “조금 심해”.
Ah look at the Korean living like that. Huh Korean mindset is weird and scary. How you guys are cruel to others and at the same time good at faking.
@@onunim5133 넌뭐냐?
두 분을 보고 마음이 여유로운 것이 무엇인지 알게 되었습니다. 무례한 일에 흥분하지 않고 분위기를 주도해나가는 모습이 정말 인상적이었습니다. 현명하고 자랑스럽네요. 한국의 품격을 널리 알려주셔서 감사합니다.
그러게요 진짜 멋있네요
진심 공감합니다.
그게 가스라이팅 ㅋㅋ
뭔 비싼돈 주고 밥먹으면서 눈치보면서 밥처먹냐 ㅋㅋㅋ 식당은 개꿀이다 호구들아
이게 신사?
@@deux07150716en méxico chinguamiga dijo que korea es un país de xierda xD y estoy totalmente acuerdo de eso 😂
If I could bottle up your elegance and drink it I would. You are so calm. Thank you for your contribution to the universe ❤
You are so effortlessly funny 😂😂😂 Would love to have a friend like you. Well-spoken, elegant and educated.
이런 여유와 품격을 갖춘 대처를 웃으면서 해내려면 도대체 얼마나 강하고 단단해야 하는 건가요?
저는 한참 미달이네요. 영상 보면서 진짜 수준높은 의식 가진 분만이 할 수 있는 여유에 감탄하고 갑니다. 👏👏👏
서로 기분나쁘지 않게, 윈윈 될 멋진 분이시네요.
👆 👆 진짜 검색해서 영 상 보고 화 보 보셈~ ! 👆 👆
올 노 ㅊ 개 지림 👆 👆 검색 ㄱㄱ
👆 👆 못보던거 많음요! 👆 👆
물질의 강함의 최고봉은 단단함보다 유연함인 것 같네요
이분들이 대단한거지 미달이라고 자책하실 필요는 없어요. 손님이 왕까지는 아니더라도 기본적인 대접도 안해주는데 정상적인 식당은 아니죠 구글 리뷰는 괜히 있는게 아니니까요
@@jinyoon7163 저였으면 저기서 깽판치고 나왔을듯 ㅋㅋㅋ주목받는거 싫어하는데 한국 서비스직에서 저랬으면 뉴스감임 ㅋㅋㅋ
본 댓글이랑 진윤님 댓글이 요즘 유튜브 댓글답지 않게 너무 예의가 바르네요.. 저까지 마음이 따뜻해져요
What a couple, not taking things too serious even when the service is quite shit to be honest. Just smiling and happy with funny conversations and making the day of all the other guests better as well.. wow if this is not the dream to live life with someone like this I don’t know what is.
Quite shit 😂?? Dude the waiter is literally devil
얼마전여행가서 서버의 불친절에 얼굴만구기고 왔는데 영상보면서 많은 생각이 드네요 이런영상올려주셔서 감사해요 두분 항상 행복하세요😊
What an amazing couple. To change the vibes like that, makes me happy to watch,
I think you were the highlight of everyone’s day. Sitting and eating good food with such a cheerful person can only make the food taste better!
"because I eat a lot of French cheese" 😂 I swear some people can crack a joke and make the doctor laugh the moment they were born
@@c4un544n5 I love that. Not only is he funny and makes everyone laugh but he also laughs at other peoples jokes and tells them they’re funny, which makes people feel so good about themselves.
Precisely. But his laughter already filled my stomach. What a lovely couple.
작은 불친절 하나에 내 하루를 망치지 말라는게 이런거군요. 정말 그릇이 크신분같네요
꿈보다 해몽이라더니 해석시 너무 좋은데요?
배우고 갑니다
진짜 공감함. 근데 이게 말로만 쉽지 실상은 그렇지 못한다는게.. 분노>잊자>분노>잊자>부글부글 아니 내가 왜? 참아야지?
오늘 여기 오지 않았으면 평생 내 인생에 등장 하지도 않을수 있는 사람의 작은 언행 하나에 내 하루가 휘둘린 다는게 너무 억울 하더라구요 이제는 그냥 넘깁니다 바보같이 붙잡지 않고 그냥 바람처럼 스쳐가게 냅둡니다
난 아무리 노력하고 연습해도 저 상황에서 못 웃을 듯.. 부럽다
와 ~ 하나배워갑니다
You guys are sooo sweet and patient.. the people around you are so nice and friendly as well!!
Shocking attitude of the servers but amazing interactions with everyone else. You involved those around you effortlessly and brought a smile to both them and me. Really enjoyed the video, tres bien monsieur
Was a joy seeing them brighten the mood of the next table. They seemed confused too, by the haphazard service. 😭
외국에서 잠시 살았을 때 불친절한 서버 때문에 속상하고 위축된 기억이 있었는데 불친절에 친절함으로 응수하면서 이렇게 우아하게 대응하는 방법도 있다는게 뭔가 되게 감동적이에요
이게 단순하게 너(서버)때문에 나의 지금 이 즐거운 마음을 망치고 싶지 않아. 넌 너, 난 나. 이런 마인드가 있으면 되는데. 나같으면 팁주기도 싫음
이런게 우아한거구나
전 진짜 짜증나서 화냈을텐데 웃음으로 대응하시다니ᆢ 배우고 갑니다
나같으면 “야 사장 좀 나오라그래!” ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
정말 멋진 분들이고 즐거운 사람들이네요.
정말 마인드가 대단하긴 하다.. 영상에 종업원 태도가 가관인 건 맞는데 그런 가관인 종업원을 상대할 때 우리같은 일반적인 사람들은 당연히 분노를 표출하고 잔뜩 화가 나겠지만 저 분은 평정심을 유지하면서 스스로 스트레스를 거의 안받고 상황을 정말 유쾌하게 타개하네 ㅋㅋ.. 저런 인간 상대로 분노 표출하고 화내는 게 당연히 절대 잘못된 건 아니지만 우리 스스로에게도 스트레스가 많이 쌓일 텐데 저분은 스트레스를 굳이 억누르면서 평정심을 억지로 찾는 게 아니라 걍 마인드 자체가 저런 사람에게 일희일비하지 않는 완전 대인배 마인드임.. 화내는 게 절대 잘못됐다가 아니라 저런 일 정돈 스트레스 안받고 넘길 수 있는 마인드가 부럽긴 하네요
The whole first interaction with the waitress was just kind of shocking. I feel like customers should be able to ask questions about the food 😭 and his French is clearly amazing! I’m American but I’ve been studying French for 8 years. This is definitely a good video to help me for when I study abroad~
As a french person, sometimes i don't even realize waitress should act more polite. It's just when one of them is surprisingly nice that i notice the efforts put into the job so i give tips haha
yeah really why do so many french people so hate their jobs? i found germans in the north and north east are like this too.. as are polish people.. but mostly only older ones but with french its all ages...... the thing is polite articulate friendly french are so decent and interesting its such a bazaar contrast.
@@manchagojohnsonmanchago6367 servers arent really treated well and often pushed to be fast and have a fast service if this makes sense. Specially in touristy area :/
@@pookpook3891 naar many french business staff and owners are very rude, germans are also very rude at times.. Depending the ages of the people.. Younger people are nicer.. But young french in such jobs are insane sometimes.
@@davieee1168 no i found many german and french budiness owners are even runde.. Its a cultural thing.. "german restaurant owner" its a meme at this point.. French too. Youd never find a norwegian act this way
이렇게 노골적으로 불친절하면 충분히 불만을 표시한다거나 항의할 수 있는 상황임에도 허허 웃으며 분위기를 화기애애하게 주도해가시는 능력이 정말 부럽고 닮고 싶네요…
@철민 이 일상생활 가능하세요?
@user-jj1ne4ht8i 솔까 해외 자주 못가보셨죠? ㅋㅋㅋ
Vous rendez honneur à mon pays et sa culture. Vos choix de vins sont parfaits, même des Français ne les connaissent pas! J’ai tellement apprécié cette vidéo ( merci UA-cam pour la suggestion lol ), vos sourires, votre sympathie, votre goût pour note patrimoine culturel que je viens de m’abonner, cloche activée. Merci pour ce moment incroyable, énorme respect pour vous 🙏👍🏻
사람을 탓하지 않고 상황을 보고 풀어나가는 모습이 정말 멋있어요 아름다운 부부네요
This is my 4th time watching this in the past week. There's a lot of lessons on human interaction here. I would've been tempted to be rude back to the waitress, and just leave, but I guess this man knows his way around people haha. Really cool reaction from this couple.
Right I’ve learnt so much too
Remember though, this is his channel and he's on camera. This was knowingly filmed. Sorry to say I felt a bit uneasy that someone having a bad day became almost the premise of this entire video, especially the commentary from the wife. Laughing and seeming cool about it, yet in Korean providing commentary and analysis in real time throughout the meal. I find it an over-grandiose ego. But I'm new to this channel and maybe the wife is an anthropologist who observes cultures deeply for a living. Just some of my immediate thoughts.
@@octopu5ie travel more
@@octopu5ie you don’t need to be an anthropologist to recognize rude behavior, and wonder why someone is being rude. On camera or off.
I'm guessing this is an Asian thing? Where I'm from, people usually walk away from rudeness if they can't tolerate it instead of being rude back at them. I had an experience witnessing an angry yelling American tourist in one small local restaurant here. He wasn't only yelling to the waitress that he wasn't a beggar to be eating cold food. He threw a plate of fried chicken on the ground because it was not hot. It was the most shocking thing I had ever witnessed in a local restaurant. Perhaps because it's very rare here among locals so we don't see much of anything like that. Perhaps he also didn't know that most small restaurants here have self service menus and they're usually already cold if you go to the restaurants in the afternoon because it was cooked before midday.
뭘 먹고 살면 이렇게 품격이 생길 수가 있나요? 자만하거나 교만하거나 혹은 반대로 너무나 비굴하거나 굴욕적인 것도 아닌 상대방이 보기에 딱 적당하고 자연스럽고 보기에 너무편한 자존감 높아보이는 인격이 느껴지는. 와 두분의 매너와 품격에 감탄하고 가요
공감하고갑니다.와이프도격있으시네요
덩치가 크면 어느 나라를 가든 무시는 안 당합니다
@@2biorap308 그얘기가아닌데;; 말하는 분위기와 태도, 제스처, 웃는표정 이런 게 멋지다고하는건데 무시와 덩치얘기가 왜나오는지
글쎄요.. 와인? ㅋㅋㅋ
그리고 치즈..? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
보통 이런 제목 딜고 나오는 영상들은 참교육? 이런 내용으로 어그로끄는게 많아 안봤었는데.. 침착맨님 보고 왔는데 이런 좋은 영상이었다니 한 수 배우고 갑니다.
I am not going to lie watching you guys talk and socialize is kind of nice to listen to as an introvert who can't start conversations on my own it's cathartic sort of watching you guys.
As an introvert I admire this guy for being able to speak of anything and not being like, ‘hmm”, “uhh”, “give me a minute while i come up with an answer”, *nods head*, “mmmm” 😢 my brain is fried and damaged but trying to repair the damages.
I feel you. I’m an introvert too. And I’m like oh I wish I knew more than one language. And then I’m like wait for what… who do I even talk to =\
Conversation / communication skills can be learnt. Practice helps improvement.
Introvets can be excellent conversationalists too.
They just enjoy much more to unwind in solitude in their personal time.
@@teatea1115 well learning another language is not necessarily that bad even if you never use it with someone, I have been trying to learn some German and Japanese too just for the fun of learning it
@@sukiyu.g oh god those all hit me straight in the heart with how accurate they are tho I have stopped say "give me one minute" I still can't start a convo it takes me like 30 minutes to get to ask a question which I hope starts into a convo 😅
무조건 화내고 이런게 아니라 재치있게 유머로 승화시키시는게 진짜 교양 같습니다 대단하시네요
이제는 화를 당연히 내야할때 화를내면 교양없는 사람이 되는구나....
@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 위 문장의 어느 부분에도 화를 내면 교양이 없다는 말은 쓰여있지 않습니다. 하물며 은유적으로도요. 단지 대처하는 방식이 부드러웠기 때문에 신사적이라는 걸 강조했을 뿐이에요.
@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 화를 내는게 잘못된게 아니라 화를 내도 누구도 이상하다 생각하지 않을 상황에서 분노에너지를 유머와 여유로 승화해내는 어마어마한 교양에 놀라는거임.
화내는게 교양없다가 '이녀석 화를 내도 되는 상황에서 여유롭다니 교양력이 대단하군' 정도가 될 듯
@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 그런 상황에서 화를 안내고도 해결을 했으니 '더욱 교양있는' 사람이 된거죠
@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 꼬여있는걸보니 현실이 힘든가 봅니다 힘내십쇼
This guy is too cool, great language and people skills, I also love wine! My kind of people, subscribed!
This whole video is a masterclass in social skills. Entertaining as well as very educational. Thank you!
많이 배우고 많이 반성했습니다... 저는 남한테 피해주는걸 극도로 꺼리지만 반대로 누가 저한테 피해를 주거나 제가 지불하고 받아야할걸 못 받으면 직설적으로 표현하는 타입인데 저렇게까지 불쾌하게 하는데도 여유있고 위트있고 교양있게 처신하시는걸 보니 저도 조금씩 고쳐나가야겠다는 생각이 드네요 영상 잘봤습니다
저도 그렇습니다 ..
저도 반성하고 갑니다ㅠ
지금의 반성이 절대로 정답은 아닙니다. 저런 서버한테는 강력하게 항의하고 소란피우는것이 오히려 정답이고 선에 가까울수있다고 생각합니다. 저런 비정상적인 서버가 정상적인 환경에서 편하게 서빙하면 안됩니다 손님도 사장도 피해죠. 잘못한 사람만 편한상황이 정상적인것은 아닙니다.
@@user-kakajb 그건 우리나라면 모르겠지만 프랑스의 문화가 사람들의 인식이 대부분 저렇다면 그것또한 그들의 문화로 인정해야한다고 생각합니다 그리고 여기서 제가 중점을 둔건 직원의 태도가 아니라 영상 제작자분의 인격과 태도입니다 요즘 저 자신이 예전보다 예민하고 날카로워진거 같다고 느낄때 이런 영상을보니 저 스스로 좀 더 참을성을 갖고 좋은 사람이 되도록 노력하고 싶어서요
@@user-kakajb 그런건 동남아국가에서 사기당할때나 하면 적합하고
This is objectively one of the most educational videos I’ve watched on dining abroad with its commentary on culture and communication. I’ve always wanted to explore France but as a Brit I’m terrified of dining experiences like this. The ease with which you brushed off the service was beyond gracious. I ooze irritability when I’m hungry 😭
Relax, go to a restaurant, enjoy something else than the average terrible Britons food. Enjoy life. People are nice in france. But they are not faked. If they don’t know you, they will be polite and nothing more. Don’t expect to feel as a friends. You are a customer. You deserve respect but not more. The fake feelings, and hypocrisy we see in some Anglo-Saxons countries are not welcomed here.
@@walideg5304 A very arrogant response.
@@JustinHH22 not arrogant but pretty honest. Workers are not slaves, they are not paid to fake feelings. They won’t lick your boots. They will serve you, advice you if you ask politely. If you are really nice, and the worker is in the mood then the server could become more open. To become friend in France you need honestly and time. Real friendship.
Those jobs are though enough. Worker should be respected and no the customer is not a king.
@Zouzou G - Amazigh I'm confused by this response because I don't think anyone is trying to be the waiter's friend 😐 Why would the customer want to be friends with the waiter? That's an entirely silly statement lol. They're just being friendly to another human. You have to be friends to treat someone like they matter? How do you even make friends like that? And how can you equate being nice to a guest with slavery? Do you know what slavery is?? That's blasphemous.
It seems like "faking feelings" means you can bring a sour, bitter, and rude attitude to work. People are allowed to have bad days, not want to talk much, etc. But don't make others feel uncomfortable with your behavior and lack of care to show yourself professionally at work. That is not fair to your guest. It's classless behavior. It's like you don't want the guest to ever return, bizarre choice.
Who said the customer needs to be treated like a King who needs their boots licked? Lmao wtf? People just want a pleasant human interaction but instead you all sound rude and elitist. Nobody is doing a customer a favor by serving them. They're paying you to have a good meal and that includes the entire experience, not just the food.
Like they said in the video, it's like the guests are serving the staff. And i would prefer other guests to serve me at that point! I'm not paying you to make me feel like I ruined your day by existing. Get a new job that has less interaction with the public if you can't manage - it's simple enough that the rest of the world understands it. This attitude just makes everyone create negative stereotypes about your country and that sucks. Because I had fantastic service in Paris and everyone was kind and friendly with me from the start. I can't wait to go back. But I have to assume I just got lucky instead of assuming you all are lovely people.
You say the French are nice, but all I hear from people of all different backgrounds is the exact opposite. So you might not know what "nice" means 😅 Otherwise, you'd have that reputation. But you dont.
@@walideg5304 aight, got it so next time I'm in a french restaurant I'll just throw the food off the plate onto the ground as soon as they serve it and ask for them to clean it right away, then I'll order a drink, toss it against the waiter and ask for them to respect me since they owe that to customers, yeah go fu.ck off. Don't need to smile or fake feelings to just be a nice human being
I was waiting for the fromage, the next bottle wine, and the Jet 27 avec Perrier! This was so much fun, and I love the conversational, laisse affaire kind of video. Magnifique!
정말 천생연분 이네요. 기본적으로 대화하면서 서로 존중 하는게 보이네요. 그리고 무엇보다 열려있네요. 알고리즘 왜떳는지 모르겠지만 바로 구독 누르고 정주행 갑니다.
여러가지 생각하게 하네요... 일단 대단하다고 느낀건 와인킹님의 여유로운 마음가짐입니다. 조급하지 않고 날카롭지 않음... 부럽네요... 물론 여러언어 구사가 잘되면 소통할 때 오해를 줄일수 있는것이지만, 본인의 마음가짐이 어떤지에 따라 상황이 달라질수 있으니... 사랑하는 사람과 함께 상황을 즐기는 여유... 부럽네요....
ㅍ귝규
하도 이런걸 많이겪어봐서 그럴지도
I had the same experience in France. After being ignored for half an hour me and my wife literally walked out of the restaurant in front of the staffs and they just keep their eyes at their mobile phone, pretending we did not exist at all.
Are you asian ?
Believe me my friend that their are many other countries then european nation that worth your money without any extra headache of the bad behavoir , racism and attutide
@@aidenwillim6595 Nothing to do with racism (at least not more than in any other euro country), it's just that this kind of services can happen in France. Once my table was kind of ignored and served very slowly compared to the people around us. If I had been a minority with a victim complex (quite common these days), maybe I would have assumed it was some kind of racism. But comparing that with other experiences, it's pretty clear it's the same treatment for everyone.
Same!
We had ordered 2 beers when we sat. No one came over to us after our drinks were empty. Sat for 45 minutes then left 10eu in the table and left.
Half a block later we were chased down by the owner, saying we never paid.
We told him the money was left on our table because no one came over to help us.
He put more effort into chasing us down the road than to just be a decent waiter...
Lmao.
@@xenotypos so people are just generally bad at their jobs/don't give a shit?
침착맨방송보고 왔는데 너무 젠틀하시고 선하시고 멋지세요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ리스펙❤❤ 저렇게 늙고싶다
You are so charming, witty, polite, and all around fun❤. I subscribed!!!
I thought this would be a clip that would make me angry. But it's not! It's very wholesome and taught me to react differently. People are affected by their surroundings and you can chose to be that peaceful, kind voice where possible. Thoroughly enjoyed your experience, thank you for the life lesson and now I want some Jet 27 XD
indeed!
You're right .i've learned something from this man . Loved it .
As a French I’m wondering what everyone is talking about tho. Where is the bad service besides being slow? Maybe I missed something
@@DavidWongTianyu are you serious? You can't see racism? Id like to be as innocent as you
@@DavidWongTianyu Il explique son point de vue au fur et à mesure, ça donne déjà plusieurs indices en réponse à cette question. Je trouve aussi que la qualité du service n'est pas là (en tant que française). La serveuse n'est pas sensée expédier les questions à propos de la carte ni demander aux clients de lui faire signe quand ils ont terminé, ça fait partie de son travail. C'est son rôle de venir vers eux et faire en sorte que leur dîner soit agréable. Là au contraire, c'est le genre de situation où en tant que client on a presque l'impression de déranger parfois, elle ne les met pas à l'aise et leur laisse même faire son travail, c'est à lui de faire les efforts pour passer un bon moment, et même si il le prend bien et que tout se termine bien, ça ne correspond pas aux attentes qu'ils avaient au départ. (En espérant que ça répond à la question :)
불친절한 서버, 기분 나빠 있는 옆테이블 손님까지 기분 좋게 한게 아니라 한국의 작은 카페에 앉아있는 저까지 행복하게 만드는 영상이에요.😊
This couple inspires me to learn more languages. I can tell they are intelligent and very well mannered. More people need to be more level-headed like them. What an inspiration :)
You're treated way better if you know the language. Especially in France
Average French male height: 178cm, Korean male average height: 176cm Korea is the tallest country in Asia.
@@applerider4205 Korea is nowhere near the tallest country in Asia
@@applerider4205 Korean average male height is 175cm, Israeli average male height is 177cm, so no.
@@sparklesparklesparkle6318 lol ... Don't forget France is now part of the African subcontinent.
I love everything about this, feels utterly human.
여유도 많으시고 사람을 대하는 커뮤니케이션 능력이 좋으시네요.
그렇기 때문에 유머감각이 좋으신거 같아요.
My sister was in France, she’s Norwegian and when she asked a question to some restaurant owners they simply laughed in her face and was insanely rude. Such a shame
what did they say ?
Yeah, France is not on my travel list, just for the locals' behaviour.
If she asked in a foreign language, just know that if they laughed they weren't mocking her, but just at themselves for not understanding anything she said. It's cultural in France, if you don't understand a thing said in a foreign language you just laugh at how ridiculous the situation look. It's not meant to laugh at the person.
@@500dollarjapanesetoaster8 good decision. 🫢The country, monuments, sightseeings are pretty, but that's it. The people are not it.
@@xenotypos excuses
두분의 현명하고 우아한 대처가 부정적인 느낌을 많이 희석해 주는군요
하지만 또한 세계 어느나라에서도 저런식의 불친절이 당연시 되고 문화로 받아들여져서는 안될것 같습니다
더불어 한국에서 추가로 생기는것도 없는데 친절하신 많은 종사자 분들에게 감사하는 마음을 가지게 됩니다
신기하네요 자유시장에선 원래 서비스 저따구인 식당들은 수요가 없어지니
결국 망하게 되는데 저렇게 장사하는데도 좌석 꽉 차있는게 ㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 문화가 달라서 그런가 아님 맛이 천상인걸까요 하여튼 저도 동의합니다.
@@62213 그냥 친절한 서버들이 거의 없어서 그래요 프랑스는ㅋㅋㅋ 일부만 불친절해야 그 가게가 망하는데 다 불친절함ㅠㅠ
한수 배우고 갑니다 저라면 짜증내고 그냥 나왔을텐데 이렇게 웃으면서 전부 다 행복해질 수 있는 방법의 커뮤니케이션이라니 본받고 싶습니다
부부 두 분이 유쾌하시고 긍정적이신듯요
보통 사람이면 짜증내고 화냈을텐데
유머와 품격이 느껴지는 부부네요
As a French person, I’m so sorry that you guys had to go through that, I’m always astonished when foreigners can communicate in French but are treated so badly😪
Sadly common place, especially in Paris
Then do something about it maybe?
@@PratikSharan no
@@matthewgray2789 Average French person 🤷♂️
@@PratikSharan lmao indian
인생 교과서 수준... 피해의식이나 꼬임없는 관대한 마인드, 어떠한 환경에서도 휘둘리지 않는 감정선, 최선을 다해 이 순간을 즐기려는 태도, 주변 사람들과의 유쾌한 어울림, 적극적인 소통과 함께 아내의 행복을 챙겨주는 남편, 그 행복을 표현하며 남편에게 대단하다고 계속해서 존경을 말로 표하는 아내...
두 분다 삶과 사람을 대하는 에티튜드가 굉장하네요. 교육 영상 잘 봤습니다 😊
크! zzu님 댓글도 넘 좋아요 !
글에서 사람이 보인다더니 작성자님께서도 상당히 배우신 분 같네요
저는 이런 글을 쓰시는 분들도 너무 존경스럽습니다 글로도 배워가요
침튜브 보다가 알고리즘으로 흘러들어왔는데, 정말 유쾌하고 에너지 넘치셔서 좋아요!!
This unlikely video has inspired me to bring back my confidence and trust that I can change bad moods with subtle positivity and not to let the negativity of others change my approach to life, good video monsieur
유럽에 살아본 사람으로서 이렇게 훌륭하게 안 좋은 분위기를... 자기 뿐만 아니라 주변까지 좋게 만드는 분을 본 것은 처음인 것 같네요. 상대방이 무례하고 불친절하다고 해서 나까지 기분 나빠질 필요는 없지만.. 그게 어디 쉽나요. 저 날 와인킹님에 계셔서 주변 분들 뿐만 아니라 점원 분도 기분이 좋아지셨을 것 같아요.