I have loved wearing high heel boots since I was a kid. I think guys can look amazing in high heel boots, but it does take confidence like you say. Your advice is important, best to start out in lower heels that won't be very obvious. The last thing you want to do is to venture out in stiletto heels, stumbling, and looking nervous, that will attract the type of attention we don't want for sure. It has taken me many years to get over my unwarranted fears, but now I can wear my 4.5" stiletto boots almost anywhere with little or no fear. We mistakenly think that "the whole world will be watching" if we venture out in heels. The truth is most people are too busy to notice, unless you appear uneasy/nervous or are wearing heels that are impossible to ignore. I do understand the fears though, I had the same fears, probably because I am a heel/boot guy so am always looking at guy's footwear. Having a heeling buddy (guy or girl) is a big help also, confidence in numbers works well.
Thank you for sharing this! I have learned something from you so much. That is so true in so many ways. Confidence is an elusive thing but it is workable. When I was younger I was braver and I kinda miss that. Erasing the thought that people are staring at you and judging you definitely is a great advice that I will be applying for myself❤️❤️❤️
Hi, my husband wears heels very frequently almost daily. Asos in the UK have 3 inch heels for men but my OH quite often wears knee or thigh high boots. Many designers had guys wearing tall boots with heels on the runway shows. He says wearing heels are more comfortable and they certainly attracted some positive attention. Heels look far more stylish!
Hello, Sophie. That is so great to hear! I am so happy to know that you both are open. I am so pleased when I saw the great variety in ASOS. I agree heels have more charm and positive effect on the outfit ❤️❤️
I just bought my first heeled boots last month! They're the Dr. Martens Leonas in black smooth leather. As a straight guy, I always thought heels looked cool and was jealous that women got to wear such cool boots and other footwear. I also just got into wearing platform boots as well. I feel confidant in my Leonas, and I am definitely ready to make the step up to a bigger heeled shoe/boot. Thank you for this video!! It really boosted my confidence :)
I am so so so happy! Dr Martens were my first shoe that opened my eyes and confidence so I can relate to you. We have the same journey I would say bec platforms were my stepping stone for me to explore the possibilities of heels! You will get there. Im proud of you ❤️
@@inkarlcerating Thank you so much!! That really means a lot. I just recently bought some Converse GR82 platform heeled boots. My biggest heel yet, and I'm so excited to wear them out when they arrive. I also feel really comfortable now browsing in the women's section and trying on heels in stores. I really appreciate all the positivity and confidence boost you bring! Much love and thank you!!! ❤
Just bought the Random Identities worker boot! Im excited to get them in the mail. Men In heels are definitely making a come back & it'll be refreshing to see more people be open about self expression & wearing what they want
2022. It's now the time to wear what we wish. Welcome to high heel for men. Thigh high Boots too! Here to stay not as a fashion catwalk but everyday use.
I am a straight cisgender traditional guy, but your video has convinced me consider to wear heeled shoes for men, without feeling less of a man or something 😮.
I’m a straight guy who’s been wearing heeled boots out for years. Highest heeled boots I’ve worn out would be 8”. I probably started wearing them out in public out of frustration cause I was sick of women being able to wear whatever they want but men are restricted to the same old bullshit we’ve been wearing for decades. There are times when Society does get the better of me, and I won’t wear them out. But for the most part, I don’t give a shit.
right!!! as of the shoes people wear will suddenly give them female parts etc. it’s just a shoe, an adornment.. sadly, ppl will still judge but change is happening and coming. So enjoy and just be happy with the heels. So proud of you!
I share your frustration with men having limited, practically uniformed options for fashion. My solution at this point was to simply embrace it and worth within those limitations as best I can. But for more options to be available and accepted would be amazing.
I wore first my platform heels last new year's eve with a full hot pink suit. Never received so much compliments for that outfit, my favorite look. I'm a straight male too. Also had my knee high heel boots for an another event which got me more views from other women mostly. 😃😃
I personally wear my high boots with 6cm high heels for walking. It's enough comfortable to walk hours with and I never being bullied by someone. But I've been mostly complimented by womans. I love walking with by the satisfying heels sounds.
OMG i agree, wearing heels is a form of art. I love this video so much, especially when you included your all black outfit. Also, your editing skills are amazing, I feel super inspired. And thank you for including me in this video. ♥
thank you ! I am always up for a lookbook styling-ish video hahaha my editing skills, you think so??? awww thats so sweet of you! you make me inspired too. and No worries ! like i said youre one of my faves here in YT’ ❤️❤️
YASSS!! i remember your brogues with a transparent heels on lookbook and that inspired me to wear some heels! I REALLY REALLY LOVE THOSE SHOES i wish ill have one someday omg!
I have enjoyed wearing high heel boots since I was a little kid. It has taken me many years, but am now able to wear most of my boots confidently in public. I prefer the more classic styled stiletto boots, cowgirl boots, tall riding boots, etc. Being able to wear high heel boots confidently can actually magnify a guy's "masculinity" because he appears not to be afraid of stupid social norms or what others might think. I know it isn't easy for sure, but try wearing boots with a buddy, or perhaps a girl friend/pal to dissipate some of the nervousness. Don't attempt to wear any heels publicly that you can not walk well/confidently in though, stumbling around will attract attention. Best to start with lower block heels, then slowly work your way up to the heels you desire. Heels are for everyone to enjoy
I got my first heeled boots when I was in 3rd grade but I gave it to my cousin. Now its been almost a year since I started wearing heels at the office and Im lucky my heels where comfortable (from h&m) though I think I wore the highest among the girls wearing heels at our office 😅 I love that it ads personality and formality to my outfits. I can even go to the grocery on heels
definitely and I am sure youll be more and more used to it. Like I said, if you just increase your stance and gradually try diff heights and styles then you will be fine ❤️ Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate it so much xxx
So informative Karl! This video flew by, I liked the interviews at the end. I've been eyeing off the Random Identities worker boots as they're closest within my price range, but a pair of Kiss Boots is the dream
Me too! I was surprised abt how ppl received this video well. I clearly didn’t expect it haha and I agree the interview part was my fave among all! OMG you know a few weeks after I released this video, there was a sale on SSENSE for the random identities boots. The cheapest was like $225, and I should’ve bought a pair for my partner and it never went on sale for that cheap. Damn! I am still waiting for that Kiss Boots that I really love. So far it’s not hitting me hard yet haha
I think boots with chunky heels can look cool on a guy. I just got my first pair of heels. They are black leather knee high boots with 3'' block heels. They look so cool when I see a side view of the heels in a mirror. I like the slight curve on the front of the heels. I got them cheap at Rainbowshops. I got a size 12 in women's size because they don't have men sizes. Women sizes go up 1.5. So I wear 10.5 in men's size, which is 12 in women's. When I first stood in them, they hurt a little in the balls of my feet. But I put cushion insoles in them, and they feel a little better. I wear padding known as athletic or cushion insoles in all of my shoes. They are very comfortable for the bottoms of your feet. I recommend them for high heels especially.
I am a gender non conforming woman who has just realized the power of the heel!! Bought my first heel in the form of a cowboy boot and I’m never looking back. You suggested some great brands I’m going to def check out❤️🔥
Trippen doesn't get enough exposure! They are expensive but you can also customize them. I have over 40 pairs in the Happy (Geta style). They are amazingly comfortable and do attract attention. But SOOOO worth it! The materials are also 100 top notch with hand made quality!
Thank you for watching and please wait for my upcoming videos bec we went to Trippen in Berlin and it was a special moment! I love that they never go on Sale too. They are extremely comfy and the leather is immaculate.
Even as a straight man, I've often been drawn to high heels. But to just grab a pair of women's pumps doesn't look astheticly pleasing on a man. I'd love to see high heels made more for the male figure. But not something you'd only see on a runway, rather something more attractive and dare I say conservative. There are times I'd like to dress like a prince in a fantasy movie with tall heeled riding boots.
I agree on that too. That’s why I dont wear stilettos because for me stiletto pumps ( classic pumps) are for a different aesthetic. I like my heels strong , structured and architectural. But hey, some guys like the typical womens pumps and I respect the preference. We all have our own styles and vision and preferences when it comes to how we dress or let alone decide on what works for us. Thank you for watching.
I think boots with mid-range block heels can look cool on a guy. Boots look more masculine than a stiletto slipper. I like how some block heels have a curve on the front of the heel.
It depends on what it is combined with. Yellow pumps under blue mechanic overalls. Classic black ones under a suit. As long as the clothing has some masculinity in it like a good blazer, pumps can really ad something.
I started wearing heels in public over 20 years ago simply because I wanted to . I was sick of looking at women have all the choice and men have the same old crap to choose from. Then one day I just thought , sod it, I am going to get some heeled boots and wear them. I’ve never looked back and moved up to stilettos. The feel of wearing a high stiletto heel in public is intoxicatingly good, it’s something I just adore. I’ve also made the move a few years ago to wear skirts, and once you try skirts and heels, you’ll be amazed how they go together. So much so , I almost exclusively wear skirts and heels together now , I rarely wear trousers with heels. I should add i wear 100% as a guy at all times. The key thing is to have and portray confidence, because you have to “own” the look. The worst thing that might happen is you will get a double take. So what, you only get one life, enjoy it. Attitudes are becoming more liberal now anyway and I suspect in a few years, gendered clothing and footwear will vanish.
I'm thinking about wearing black leather knee high boots with a 2 inch block heel,, but a little afraid to be seen in public. Do people mock you for wearing your high heels?
I agree. I love wearing my 4.5" stiletto boots/booties in public, usually with tight levis and leather jacket. Stiletto boots are actually pretty easy to walk in if they fit properly and are designed right. I just end up wrecking alot of heels on tough city pavement/sidewalks. But, it is worth it, I feel great in my boots
My first shoes with heels is the converse chuck 70 deluxe heel in suede and its perfect I mean its rugged and classic chuck in heels. The color is " eternal earth" looks like a chocolate to me 😂, anyway . I LOVE IT and enjoy wearing it with anything . Your right , what matter is our own happiness when wearing things we want just walk it with confi🎉🎉🎉 !!!! Lobe the video!
I Have the Chuck 70 heels in Black and White and love wearing them so much. I love boots and wear OTK Boots with heels all winter, the only thing I don't wear in public is spike heels; YET LOL This is the NYC area and no one cares anyway as well as I have gotten positive comments on my Chuck 70's and boots which I love
From Scotland, Great a positive video, with great history aspect. Started wearing a 2.5 inch heel this year, love the confidence and bad bitch energy I get from them. For the love of me, i had some sciatica and back issues I had, so silver linings. Now looking at a pair of 3.5 inch Syros. Have got a few thumbs up from women for wearing my snakeskin heels so far. Love this positive content!!!
Hello Andrew! That is so great to hear . what an inspiring story you have there. Actually last week i kinda scaled back from wearing my wedges and heels because I notice I am developing this pain on the balls of my feet. However after resting them, I am back with vengeance lol. dont stop wearing heels and you show them okay! Hope I can see your Syros. look after yourself and stay safe 🖤❤️
@@inkarlcerating right?!?!!! I feel like if they wear heels they are literally telling the world how confident they are and that’s hot lol omg I haven’t posted in so long!! Been soo busy!! But hopefully I’ll have sometime next week 😏
@@JennNeto Girl i know . making a content can be full on. If I have the time in the world I would make it every week. love u girl! it’s nice to always see you on IG tho haha
Would absolutely love to see a similar list but with goodyear welted ( or similar stitched) heeled boots. So hard to find quality examples under 1k/500.
Is there a brand or shoe that you can mention. I will try to find an alternative for u. Might do a lower priced alternative shoe list video as well xxx
@@inkarlcerating Well one of my favorites I've been looking for a close alternative to forever would be the SLP Blake(big fan of 40-60mm jodphur style boots) which sadly seems only came in women's sizes. And another one would be the more recent Celine camargue with the chain. A few solid brands in I've come across in this area would be Story et Fall and From the first, would be interesting if you're able to find any others. Thanks and keep up the amazing work!!
I've never worn women's heels publicly but I'm getting up the nerves to do it I feel very happy to hear what Mark Brian had to say and if a straight guy can do it why can't affirm gay guy do it and I don't give a s*** what anyone else thinks anymore he put it very succinctly he took the power away from others and they gave it to himself so thank you to mark
I agreed, i as man always shod shamed about heels and i hate it, i love heals since i was 16, im 37, sometime i take my heals rock em, i had like 20 heals now im 191cm long and always got comments, like aint you too long enought and its cringe, i hate it someone think i cant wear heels because of my hight
So, watching that video, I would assume, that men should wear block heels, as we could only see examples of that. Or, would you say men, could be also into stiletto heels? Thx for the video by the way. I found it helpful!
I prefer mid calf Women's boots I've gotta pair of peep toe Generation Y Ankle Boots 6.5in stiletto and another peep toe Ankle Boot wedge heel from Famous footwear and I've also gotta pair of Dunes Ankle boots a little small but not too bad
"I hate u!" ❤ It’s not only the heels…it’s another video that you did where you’re wearing the RO vest, with the matching Bauhaus trousers. I couldn’t stop thinking about the possibilities with that vest & how it completes the look. I dreamed about it! Then the heeled boots. I, in all my years would never think of putting on, let alone owning a set of heeled anything over a 1/2 inch. Well, now that’s changed thanks to you & RO. Now, I’m totally hooked & down the avant-garde rabbit hole. It’s bad, but good thanks to you. P.S. I have some outrageous shoes; however, I’ve never received so much intrigue as when I wear RO. I try not to mention a designer, because I want to save people, but they always insist/demand that I tell them who makes what. What would you recommend when/if people ask you this question? P.s.s. I love what you do & the way that you go about doing it.
I watched this video about a year ago and came back to it because I'm very interested in wearing nice clothes and shoes. I'm not sure what life is like in other countries, but here in the United States, most men don't care about dressing up and looking good. Some young men look like bums. I don't know what happened since the early 20's century when men dressed well. But I like to dress up and look good. I think it goes back to when I was a kid, I wanted to wear tight jeans because I felt there was something sexy about them. So since then I've always had an interest in clothes. One thing I believe is that you don't have spent much money to look good, and you don't have to wear a suit everyday. I may start with an affordable pair of jeans, and then add black patent leather shoes with block heels, and wear a suit jacket with tie.
@@KnijMagz Recently I've been looking at many suit and tux jackets because I want to do stand-up comedy on UA-cam. My idea is to wear jackets with bright colors and patent leather shoes.
@McLovin_2007 okay okay! Glad to read this and see how you are still going forward with your style development. I recently (over the course of the past year) started replacing all my "guy" clothing with more feminine and unisex pieces. I have always wanted to do that but society, my parents, and self-doubt really had me down growing up. I'm 24 rn and glad to break away from that.
@@KnijMagz I've done the same thing. I've considered wearing women's hats, shoes, and skinny jeans because they are more cute than guys clothes. To me clothes are not just about covering myself. It's more about looking good, and feeling good.
@McLovin_2007 that's exactly what I think 😄! Very well said. I love fashion and am so eager to explore new things. For instance, I got my 1st pair of heels after seeing the character Hope Michaelson wear some bomb heeled combat boots. Never thought that be the catalyst to start my style change.
Yeah I've loved heels ever since I started wearing my adopted mom's heels which was at 10 and now gonna start wearing em around everywhere I go when I feel like it lol I'm 22 now but my feet haven't grown much which is good I'm only one size above my younger sister which is a Women's 11 idk if that's big really I don't see it as big but idk how big the average Women's feet are lmfao
I don't understand why this is such a big deal... women get to basically wear men's clothing as much as they like, men should be able to just go to any clothing store and buy heels there.. I hate having to order somewhere on some obscure website that sells big sizes for top dollar.
Historically high heel shoes were originally created for men it's a symbol of wealth, high status and elegance it just became a fashion until women shared with it and used it as well
I'm thinking about wearing black leather knee high boots with a 2 inch block heel. I like when women wear skinny jeans tucked into knee high boots. I think it can look hot on a guy like myself. But I'm a little afraid to wear them in public. I also though about wearing Beatle boots. I think I can be less afraid to be seen in those. If anyone has an opinion, let me know.
I think that the styles you mentioned are conservative enough, will look great, and will draw positive attention. I know it is tough to get started in public, we think everyone is watching, but they aren't. Trying wearing your boots and jeans with a buddy/woman along for company. "Confidence in numbers" makes it much easier...
You can wear them. Just wear them when you are in your safe zone. Wear them to dinner with friends or if youre hanging out with them. Anytime that you feel safe. Then from there you can gradually build your confidence. I was like that too- anxious and worried. It gets easier. Have fun wearing your heeled boots!
I know it is tough, we think the whole world is watching, but they are not.... Hope you will wear them... Guys that tease are just jealous because they secretly want to wear heels also
good video but im sorry to say this video was not helpful, at least to me. in the past year and a half ive been open about my love of heels and already have one pair i love, but have been looking for something specific for some time with 0 luck. being a size 14m/16F makes it even harder as the higher the size, the less options i have. the brands displayed in this video are surely unique but 300-500 a pair is way too pricey to casually suggest.
I'm a hetero man and i like to wear high heels, unfortunetly people missunderstand it a think i'm gay, but i do not understand why. Of corse gay men often have a good taste for styling. Menswear is so boring. Heels for men are coming, look at "asos boots", they show male models in high heels.
When and where I grew up, It could have been terrifying to be a boy or guy and be seen wearing clothes perceived as "female" clothes. The mockery would be harsh. As an adult today, I've become comfortable about wearing small heels 1-2 inches. I also like women's flannel shirts. I like wearing unbuttoned flannels with a t-shirt tucked into my jeans. That was a "cute boy image" I remember when growing up in the 90's. But men's colors tend to be bland by comparison to women's colors. Women have cuter shirts than guys. I started thinking that they are made of the same material, so it doesn't matter that they are labeled as "women's". If I wore them, no one will know the difference. No one would care if a woman wore a mans flannel or boots.
That is so true in all levels. I thank that menswear is so boring which became an avenue for us to explore womenswear right? I had that phase too where I have worn oversized shirts with jeans. Yeah shoes clothing accessories etc it doesnt matter. We will soon learn how to dress on the basis of how we feel and not by labels.
well nowdays i find alot of quality high heels online in my size 43....not like before....there were only china made or fetish heels ( despise those ) in larger sizes. Got surely over 100 pairs ....lucky for me im 43 any lower and id be financially bankrupt lol
I suppose there’s more variety on mid brands now however I wouldnt say that buying sizes 43 and up are easy. Chances are they get sold out easily maybe bec of not producing enough. I must say I am happy that I am on the smaller size 😀
Most of my heels are from gabor, its a german company they make very good shoes up to female 44. Also huge selection and some of the shoes even come in wide fit. I have not expereenced any difficulties buying my size at all quite the opposite actually haha...then there is anna field brand that is very good as well. Online store name is zalado...not intended to be an ad at all...but anyways...
I support men wearing heels, small or big. Heels were originaly made for men. Nowadays its socially made for women but what is wrong with a man in high heels? But there's a difference between thin heels like stiletto's or platform. Big platform/heel boots look good, but thin high stiletto's just look ridiculous. I support the fashion style for men, but how they portray men wearing heel/platform boots is just insane..... Men wearing heels are shown as women but why can't high heels being encouraged for normal style? Or goth/metalhead style? Why always high heels on a very gay way? I like high heel platform boots. They are patent leather. But I wear them casually with black leggings, black jeans or leather(look) pants/legging with a nice band shirt and jacket. Nothing weird, no make up or whatsoever. Not a dress or skirt. I dont feel different for wearing them. Im not part of LGBT (thank god). Im just a proud guy wearing my high platform boots. Am I different then any other guy now?
2025. Or not The first. Problem. Is high heel shoes in men size. Are. Hard toe find Second problem. Is. If. You where. These shoes. You. Will be asked. Are you. Hetero. Or. ? ? ? You can say. Shoe brands Are discriminating. Men. Manu. Of. Them. Sale. Only. Man shoes. Whithout. Heel
There's something about heels that just gives you that confidence boost.
100% ✨✨✨
I have loved wearing high heel boots since I was a kid. I think guys can look amazing in high heel boots, but it does take confidence like you say. Your advice is important, best to start out in lower heels that won't be very obvious. The last thing you want to do is to venture out in stiletto heels, stumbling, and looking nervous, that will attract the type of attention we don't want for sure. It has taken me many years to get over my unwarranted fears, but now I can wear my 4.5" stiletto boots almost anywhere with little or no fear. We mistakenly think that "the whole world will be watching" if we venture out in heels. The truth is most people are too busy to notice, unless you appear uneasy/nervous or are wearing heels that are impossible to ignore. I do understand the fears though, I had the same fears, probably because I am a heel/boot guy so am always looking at guy's footwear. Having a heeling buddy (guy or girl) is a big help also, confidence in numbers works well.
Thank you for sharing this! I have learned something from you so much. That is so true in so many ways. Confidence is an elusive thing but it is workable. When I was younger I was braver and I kinda miss that. Erasing the thought that people are staring at you and judging you definitely is a great advice that I will be applying for myself❤️❤️❤️
Hi, my husband wears heels very frequently almost daily. Asos in the UK have 3 inch heels for men but my OH quite often wears knee or thigh high boots. Many designers had guys wearing tall boots with heels on the runway shows. He says wearing heels are more comfortable and they certainly attracted some positive attention. Heels look far more stylish!
Hello, Sophie. That is so great to hear! I am so happy to know that you both are open. I am so pleased when I saw the great variety in ASOS. I agree heels have more charm and positive effect on the outfit ❤️❤️
I knew the 70's would be back if I waited long enough.
I just bought my first heeled boots last month! They're the Dr. Martens Leonas in black smooth leather. As a straight guy, I always thought heels looked cool and was jealous that women got to wear such cool boots and other footwear. I also just got into wearing platform boots as well. I feel confidant in my Leonas, and I am definitely ready to make the step up to a bigger heeled shoe/boot. Thank you for this video!! It really boosted my confidence :)
I am so so so happy! Dr Martens were my first shoe that opened my eyes and confidence so I can relate to you. We have the same journey I would say bec platforms were my stepping stone for me to explore the possibilities of heels! You will get there. Im proud of you ❤️
@@inkarlcerating Thank you so much!! That really means a lot. I just recently bought some Converse GR82 platform heeled boots. My biggest heel yet, and I'm so excited to wear them out when they arrive. I also feel really comfortable now browsing in the women's section and trying on heels in stores. I really appreciate all the positivity and confidence boost you bring! Much love and thank you!!! ❤
As a straight dude, I 100% back this message and man heels.
Thank you! I hope all guys have this open mindedness 👌✨ have a great day.
Heels are for everyone
Just bought the Random Identities worker boot! Im excited to get them in the mail. Men In heels are definitely making a come back & it'll be refreshing to see more people be open about self expression & wearing what they want
I am so happy for you! That’s great. Is it your first man heel? Because if it is then I would be more impressed since it’s a slightly higher heel✨❤️
2022. It's now the time to wear what we wish. Welcome to high heel for men. Thigh high Boots too! Here to stay not as a fashion catwalk but everyday use.
I hear you! 200% agree on this!
I am a straight cisgender traditional guy, but your video has convinced me consider to wear heeled shoes for men, without feeling less of a man or something 😮.
Thank you for your openness 💓🙏🏼
I’m a straight guy who’s been wearing heeled boots out for years. Highest heeled boots I’ve worn out would be 8”. I probably started wearing them out in public out of frustration cause I was sick of women being able to wear whatever they want but men are restricted to the same old bullshit we’ve been wearing for decades. There are times when Society does get the better of me, and I won’t wear them out. But for the most part, I don’t give a shit.
right!!! as of the shoes people wear will suddenly give them female parts etc. it’s just a shoe, an adornment.. sadly, ppl will still judge but change is happening and coming. So enjoy and just be happy with the heels. So proud of you!
@@inkarlcerating Thanks 😊👍🏻
I share your frustration with men having limited, practically uniformed options for fashion. My solution at this point was to simply embrace it and worth within those limitations as best I can. But for more options to be available and accepted would be amazing.
Good for you buddy. I truly believe that wearing boots confidently as a guy can actually magnify your masculinity just for the reasons you mentioned.
I ❤ heels. It increase my confidence.
As a male stiletto and chelsea boot wearer I agree completely 😊
I wore first my platform heels last new year's eve with a full hot pink suit. Never received so much compliments for that outfit, my favorite look. I'm a straight male too. Also had my knee high heel boots for an another event which got me more views from other women mostly. 😃😃
Keep the attitude and power! So inspired to hear this 💓
I personally wear my high boots with 6cm high heels for walking. It's enough comfortable to walk hours with and I never being bullied by someone. But I've been mostly complimented by womans. I love walking with by the satisfying heels sounds.
It’s always the sound that triggers many. I love it too haha
OMG i agree, wearing heels is a form of art. I love this video so much, especially when you included your all black outfit. Also, your editing skills are amazing, I feel super inspired. And thank you for including me in this video. ♥
thank you ! I am always up for a lookbook styling-ish video hahaha my editing skills, you think so??? awww thats so sweet of you! you make me inspired too. and No worries ! like i said youre one of my faves here in YT’ ❤️❤️
YASSS!! i remember your brogues with a transparent heels on lookbook and that inspired me to wear some heels! I REALLY REALLY LOVE THOSE SHOES i wish ill have one someday omg!
aww yeah the Jeffrey Campbell! wow your memory is so good! I am actually selling them
now. time to let go but it was a fantastic piece ❤️✨
omg thank you so much! exactly the kinda of video I was searching for. love how you gave recommendations 💕 can't to buy my first heel
Amazing video, I'm completely obsessed with your channel!
thank you so much 🙏❤️ I am so happy
KArl!! I am happy to see your videos and channel are getting the attention they deserve!
thank you! I rly need to make more videos like this✨🙏🥺 ily!
I have enjoyed wearing high heel boots since I was a little kid. It has taken me many years, but am now able to wear most of my boots confidently in public. I prefer the more classic styled stiletto boots, cowgirl boots, tall riding boots, etc. Being able to wear high heel boots confidently can actually magnify a guy's "masculinity" because he appears not to be afraid of stupid social norms or what others might think. I know it isn't easy for sure, but try wearing boots with a buddy, or perhaps a girl friend/pal to dissipate some of the nervousness. Don't attempt to wear any heels publicly that you can not walk well/confidently in though, stumbling around will attract attention. Best to start with lower block heels, then slowly work your way up to the heels you desire. Heels are for everyone to enjoy
100% thanks for visiting and I agree with your tips
I got my first heeled boots when I was in 3rd grade but I gave it to my cousin. Now its been almost a year since I started wearing heels at the office and Im lucky my heels where comfortable (from h&m) though I think I wore the highest among the girls wearing heels at our office 😅 I love that it ads personality and formality to my outfits. I can even go to the grocery on heels
definitely and I am sure youll be more and more used to it. Like I said, if you just increase your stance and gradually try diff heights and styles then you will be fine ❤️ Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate it so much xxx
Lol, I’m back again to tell you I just purchased my first KISS boots. I am wearing them on date night with my wife. We’re both super excited about it.
whattt ! so so excited for you! I love it! Thank u for letting me know. I am sure you guys will have a great time! Take pictures ❤️✨
I just ordered Steve madden viper boots, cant wait to try them on
Im so happy for you! I had to google it! It’s insane! It’s like the Marc Jacobs x Viv Westwood boots
So informative Karl!
This video flew by, I liked the interviews at the end.
I've been eyeing off the Random Identities worker boots as they're closest within my price range, but a pair of Kiss Boots is the dream
Me too! I was surprised abt how ppl received this video well. I clearly didn’t expect it haha and I agree the interview part was my fave among all! OMG you know a few weeks after I released this video, there was a sale on SSENSE for the random identities boots. The cheapest was like $225, and I should’ve bought a pair for my partner and it never went on sale for that cheap. Damn!
I am still waiting for that Kiss Boots that I really love. So far it’s not hitting me hard yet haha
Yes, men should try and confidently wear high heels in public!
P.S.: obviously I am not aloud to insert a link to my forum either my insta account.
yes! I agree! I hope for that day to come when there’ll be less judgement and just more people being welcoming and KIND✨
Thank you Hannes!
Stunning styles! I wear heels from many years now...
Wonderful! keep it up!!
I think boots with chunky heels can look cool on a guy. I just got my first pair of heels. They are black leather knee high boots with 3'' block heels. They look so cool when I see a side view of the heels in a mirror. I like the slight curve on the front of the heels. I got them cheap at Rainbowshops. I got a size 12 in women's size because they don't have men sizes. Women sizes go up 1.5. So I wear 10.5 in men's size, which is 12 in women's. When I first stood in them, they hurt a little in the balls of my feet. But I put cushion insoles in them, and they feel a little better. I wear padding known as athletic or cushion insoles in all of my shoes. They are very comfortable for the bottoms of your feet. I recommend them for high heels especially.
I am a gender non conforming woman who has just realized the power of the heel!! Bought my first heel in the form of a cowboy boot and I’m never looking back. You suggested some great brands I’m going to def check out❤️🔥
Yes Pls!!!! The brand Syro is so good! actually theres so many out there! pls let me know how you go finding that second pair haha . hugsss ✨✨
Trippen doesn't get enough exposure! They are expensive but you can also customize them. I have over 40 pairs in the Happy (Geta style). They are amazingly comfortable and do attract attention. But SOOOO worth it! The materials are also 100 top notch with hand made quality!
Thank you for watching and please wait for my upcoming videos bec we went to Trippen in Berlin and it was a special moment! I love that they never go on Sale too. They are extremely comfy and the leather is immaculate.
I love this video so much
Thanks so much! i appreciate it❤️
Love wearing heels, but not very comfortable yet wearing them in public. I should do it more.
Well I wore heels like multiple times and it gives me happiness and uniqueness to me. 😊😁 just embrace it. 👍👠
I ageeeee. Cheers Bryce. Happy weekend
I just got the Rick Owens kiss platforms and love ❤️ it
Wow im so happy for you!
Even as a straight man, I've often been drawn to high heels. But to just grab a pair of women's pumps doesn't look astheticly pleasing on a man. I'd love to see high heels made more for the male figure. But not something you'd only see on a runway, rather something more attractive and dare I say conservative.
There are times I'd like to dress like a prince in a fantasy movie with tall heeled riding boots.
I agree on that too. That’s why I dont wear stilettos because for me stiletto pumps ( classic pumps) are for a different aesthetic. I like my heels strong , structured and architectural.
But hey, some guys like the typical womens pumps and I respect the preference. We all have our own styles and vision and preferences when it comes to how we dress or let alone decide on what works for us. Thank you for watching.
I think boots with mid-range block heels can look cool on a guy. Boots look more masculine than a stiletto slipper. I like how some block heels have a curve on the front of the heel.
The boots Prince wore were women's so your comment doesn't make sense.
@@CirilloRuca I said "a" prince, not Prince the person.
It depends on what it is combined with. Yellow pumps under blue mechanic overalls. Classic black ones under a suit. As long as the clothing has some masculinity in it like a good blazer, pumps can really ad something.
Kinda curious on how this is going on 2023.
I started wearing heels in public over 20 years ago simply because I wanted to . I was sick of looking at women have all the choice and men have the same old crap to choose from. Then one day I just thought , sod it, I am going to get some heeled boots and wear them. I’ve never looked back and moved up to stilettos. The feel of wearing a high stiletto heel in public is intoxicatingly good, it’s something I just adore. I’ve also made the move a few years ago to wear skirts, and once you try skirts and heels, you’ll be amazed how they go together. So much so , I almost exclusively wear skirts and heels together now , I rarely wear trousers with heels. I should add i wear 100% as a guy at all times. The key thing is to have and portray confidence, because you have to “own” the look. The worst thing that might happen is you will get a double take. So what, you only get one life, enjoy it. Attitudes are becoming more liberal now anyway and I suspect in a few years, gendered clothing and footwear will vanish.
I'm thinking about wearing black leather knee high boots with a 2 inch block heel,, but a little afraid to be seen in public. Do people mock you for wearing your high heels?
@@McLovin_2007 Always remember that the men/women that might mock us, are usually the most frustrated, they are actually envious.
I agree. I love wearing my 4.5" stiletto boots/booties in public, usually with tight levis and leather jacket. Stiletto boots are actually pretty easy to walk in if they fit properly and are designed right. I just end up wrecking alot of heels on tough city pavement/sidewalks. But, it is worth it, I feel great in my boots
My first shoes with heels is the converse chuck 70 deluxe heel in suede and its perfect I mean its rugged and classic chuck in heels.
The color is " eternal earth" looks like a chocolate to me 😂, anyway . I LOVE IT and enjoy wearing it with anything .
Your right , what matter is our own happiness when wearing things we want just walk it with confi🎉🎉🎉 !!!!
Lobe the video!
I Have the Chuck 70 heels in Black and White and love wearing them so much. I love boots and wear OTK Boots with heels all winter, the only thing I don't wear in public is spike heels; YET LOL This is the NYC area and no one cares anyway as well as I have gotten positive comments on my Chuck 70's and boots which I love
I have similar heels too, in obsidian, looks like dark blue. Not find an occasion to wear them yet.
From Scotland, Great a positive video, with great history aspect. Started wearing a 2.5 inch heel this year, love the confidence and bad bitch energy I get from them. For the love of me, i had some sciatica and back issues I had, so silver linings. Now looking at a pair of 3.5 inch Syros. Have got a few thumbs up from women for wearing my snakeskin heels so far.
Love this positive content!!!
Hello Andrew! That is so great to hear . what an inspiring story you have there. Actually last week i kinda scaled back from wearing my wedges and heels because I notice I am developing this pain on the balls of my feet. However after resting them, I am back with vengeance lol. dont stop wearing heels and you show them okay!
Hope I can see your Syros. look after yourself and stay safe 🖤❤️
What brand/s of your boots
Mostly Rick Owens ❤️✨🥺
YES!!!!! I’m absolutely in love with this video!! I missed you!! And tbh fuck toxic masculinity!!! Let them boys rock them heels 🥰
My girl Jenn! thank you! yeah right! like heels are just shoes with a heel sticking in it so 🤷🏼 anyway i cant wait for a new upload from
you!
@@inkarlcerating right?!?!!! I feel like if they wear heels they are literally telling the world how confident they are and that’s hot lol omg I haven’t posted in so long!! Been soo busy!! But hopefully I’ll have sometime next week 😏
@@JennNeto Girl i know . making a content can be full on. If I have the time
in the world I would make it every week. love u girl! it’s nice to always see you on IG tho haha
Thanks bro really good advice
Youre welcome. hope you enjoyed the video.
I have a few pairs of boots with a small heel, I do wish I could pull off boots like yours...
You will Corod! I believe in YOUUUUU!!!! ✨😉
great video with an amazing massage
Thank you. I think men or everyone needs this positivism to be conveyed in diff ways. thank you. I appreciate your comment✨
I have a pair of high healed work boots. The are definitely an ice breaker. I also like to wear skirts or sarongs.
And they look fantastic right ⭐️⭐️⭐️
@@inkarlcerating of course!
Would absolutely love to see a similar list but with goodyear welted ( or similar stitched) heeled boots. So hard to find quality examples under 1k/500.
Is there a brand or shoe that you can mention. I will try to find an alternative for u. Might do a lower priced alternative shoe list video as well xxx
@@inkarlcerating Well one of my favorites I've been looking for a close alternative to forever would be the SLP Blake(big fan of 40-60mm jodphur style boots) which sadly seems only came in women's sizes. And another one would be the more recent Celine camargue with the chain. A few solid brands in I've come across in this area would be Story et Fall and From the first, would be interesting if you're able to find any others. Thanks and keep up the amazing work!!
If they did the Nike heels in a mens size I would be straight on them they are more stiletto style but they are awesome.
Yes, I wish Nike/Adidas/Asics would make some heeled sneakers. They do make some hidden wedge models though, which are nice
As a straight guy I like wearing heels as well
your style is 🔥🔥🔥 Thanks for watching
@@inkarlcerating i checked your Instagram you have a cool style either 🖤
I've never worn women's heels publicly but I'm getting up the nerves to do it I feel very happy to hear what Mark Brian had to say and if a straight guy can do it why can't affirm gay guy do it and I don't give a s*** what anyone else thinks anymore he put it very succinctly he took the power away from others and they gave it to himself so thank you to mark
Heels are for all guys, I think the right heels/boots can actually magnify a guy's masculinity
i'm a guy and i've been wearing heels since I was 15 now i'm 23 and now all I wear is heels
i got some old officer's shoes from a military surplus store and i noticed they have somewhat high heels. it felt weird for me tbh
Is it ok to wear stills to heels
Hello Henny. Stills do you mean stilettos ?
@@inkarlcerating yes I do. I would like to talk to you about my boots love? And I hate platform boots
I don’t like men boots I only want to wear ladies high heels boots is that crazy
Yes things are changing. Don't forget about pantyhose being non gender as well.
I agreed, i as man always shod shamed about heels and i hate it, i love heals since i was 16, im 37, sometime i take my heals rock em, i had like 20 heals now im 191cm long and always got comments, like aint you too long enought and its cringe, i hate it someone think i cant wear heels because of my hight
that’s the attitude! wear it because you like it ! ❤️❤️
So, watching that video, I would assume, that men should wear block heels, as we could only see examples of that.
Or, would you say men, could be also into stiletto heels?
Thx for the video by the way. I found it helpful!
People like myself agree that tall heels or stiletto's are more for women, but men can look good with a mid-range block heel.
I wear classic stiletto style boots publicly, usually over my levis with a leather jacket
I think it's just easier to pull off for casual wear.
I prefer mid calf Women's boots I've gotta pair of peep toe Generation Y Ankle Boots 6.5in stiletto and another peep toe Ankle Boot wedge heel from Famous footwear and I've also gotta pair of Dunes Ankle boots a little small but not too bad
"I hate u!" ❤ It’s not only the heels…it’s another video that you did where you’re wearing the RO vest, with the matching Bauhaus trousers.
I couldn’t stop thinking about the possibilities with that vest & how it completes the look.
I dreamed about it!
Then the heeled boots. I, in all my years would never think of putting on, let alone owning a set of heeled anything over a 1/2 inch.
Well, now that’s changed thanks to you & RO. Now, I’m totally hooked & down the avant-garde rabbit hole.
It’s bad, but good thanks to you.
P.S. I have some outrageous shoes; however, I’ve never received so much intrigue as when I wear RO. I try not to mention a designer, because I want to save people, but they always insist/demand that I tell them who makes what. What would you recommend when/if people ask you this question?
P.s.s. I love what you do & the way that you go about doing it.
thank you! u hate and love that rick owens is so so popular nowadays. thank uuuuu
Your comment made my dayyyyy
I watched this video about a year ago and came back to it because I'm very interested in wearing nice clothes and shoes. I'm not sure what life is like in other countries, but here in the United States, most men don't care about dressing up and looking good. Some young men look like bums. I don't know what happened since the early 20's century when men dressed well. But I like to dress up and look good. I think it goes back to when I was a kid, I wanted to wear tight jeans because I felt there was something sexy about them. So since then I've always had an interest in clothes. One thing I believe is that you don't have spent much money to look good, and you don't have to wear a suit everyday. I may start with an affordable pair of jeans, and then add black patent leather shoes with block heels, and wear a suit jacket with tie.
How has your style improved since your post? I'm curious to see where your journey has led you.
@@KnijMagz Recently I've been looking at many suit and tux jackets because I want to do stand-up comedy on UA-cam. My idea is to wear jackets with bright colors and patent leather shoes.
@McLovin_2007 okay okay! Glad to read this and see how you are still going forward with your style development. I recently (over the course of the past year) started replacing all my "guy" clothing with more feminine and unisex pieces.
I have always wanted to do that but society, my parents, and self-doubt really had me down growing up. I'm 24 rn and glad to break away from that.
@@KnijMagz I've done the same thing. I've considered wearing women's hats, shoes, and skinny jeans because they are more cute than guys clothes. To me clothes are not just about covering myself. It's more about looking good, and feeling good.
@McLovin_2007 that's exactly what I think 😄! Very well said.
I love fashion and am so eager to explore new things. For instance, I got my 1st pair of heels after seeing the character Hope Michaelson wear some bomb heeled combat boots. Never thought that be the catalyst to start my style change.
Yeah I've loved heels ever since I started wearing my adopted mom's heels which was at 10 and now gonna start wearing em around everywhere I go when I feel like it lol I'm 22 now but my feet haven't grown much which is good I'm only one size above my younger sister which is a Women's 11 idk if that's big really I don't see it as big but idk how big the average Women's feet are lmfao
I wear 3 inch gogos for exercise
That’s it! Remember the wedge sneakers back in 2012. I use them for walking and light workouts as well haha xxx
I don't understand why this is such a big deal... women get to basically wear men's clothing as much as they like, men should be able to just go to any clothing store and buy heels there..
I hate having to order somewhere on some obscure website that sells big sizes for top dollar.
Well it is a big deal bec men’s shoe sizing is way way different to women’s shoe sizing. Clothes I feel like it is easier now.
TRY onlymaker boots and shoes
Historically high heel shoes were originally created for men it's a symbol of wealth, high status and elegance it just became a fashion until women shared with it and used it as well
I am now ready to wear a 7 inch heel. Are u gifting me one? 😜
Btw men with toxic masculity will be cured by the soothing background music 😌😉
hahaha what shoes do u like?
wow 😍
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I'm thinking about wearing black leather knee high boots with a 2 inch block heel. I like when women wear skinny jeans tucked into knee high boots. I think it can look hot on a guy like myself. But I'm a little afraid to wear them in public. I also though about wearing Beatle boots. I think I can be less afraid to be seen in those. If anyone has an opinion, let me know.
I think that the styles you mentioned are conservative enough, will look great, and will draw positive attention. I know it is tough to get started in public, we think everyone is watching, but they aren't. Trying wearing your boots and jeans with a buddy/woman along for company. "Confidence in numbers" makes it much easier...
8:45 Brands…
I just bought my own heel boots and i'm scared to wear them outside because i know a lot will tease me. I'm Gay btw..
You can wear them. Just wear them
when you are in your safe zone. Wear them to dinner with friends or if youre hanging out with them. Anytime that you feel safe. Then from there you can gradually build your confidence. I was like that too- anxious and worried. It gets easier. Have fun wearing your heeled boots!
I know it is tough, we think the whole world is watching, but they are not.... Hope you will wear them... Guys that tease are just jealous because they secretly want to wear heels also
A femme, androgynous, avant-garde goth gay man? That describes me. It's wonderful to see I'm not the only one, if I'm correct in my assumptions.
good video but im sorry to say this video was not helpful, at least to me. in the past year and a half ive been open about my love of heels and already have one pair i love, but have been looking for something specific for some time with 0 luck. being a size 14m/16F makes it even harder as the higher the size, the less options i have. the brands displayed in this video are surely unique but 300-500 a pair is way too pricey to casually suggest.
I apologize but i will definitely do another video that is more budget friendly. Thnak you for your opinion and have a lovely day. 🙏❤️
My thoughts exactly. 🤷🏾♂
Which ain obvious, i just like em
I'm a hetero man and i like to wear high heels, unfortunetly people missunderstand it a think i'm gay, but i do not understand why. Of corse gay men often have a good taste for styling. Menswear is so boring. Heels for men are coming, look at "asos boots", they show male models in high heels.
thank u for sharing your thoughts. We need more men who are open and appreciative of other styles. pls continue your style🙏🖤
When and where I grew up, It could have been terrifying to be a boy or guy and be seen wearing clothes perceived as "female" clothes. The mockery would be harsh. As an adult today, I've become comfortable about wearing small heels 1-2 inches. I also like women's flannel shirts. I like wearing unbuttoned flannels with a t-shirt tucked into my jeans. That was a "cute boy image" I remember when growing up in the 90's. But men's colors tend to be bland by comparison to women's colors. Women have cuter shirts than guys. I started thinking that they are made of the same material, so it doesn't matter that they are labeled as "women's". If I wore them, no one will know the difference. No one would care if a woman wore a mans flannel or boots.
That is so true in all levels. I thank that menswear is so boring which became an avenue for us to explore womenswear right? I had that phase too where I have worn oversized shirts with jeans.
Yeah shoes clothing accessories etc it doesnt matter. We will soon learn how to dress on the basis of how we feel and not by labels.
I've always wanted to wear heels but... Stereotypes
Start with something low and cuban heel. 🥺
@@inkarlcerating thank you btw loved your videos
@@retroduck5740 I appreciate that thank you very kindly
Screw stereotypes. Just go for it! ✨
well nowdays i find alot of quality high heels online in my size 43....not like before....there were only china made or fetish heels ( despise those ) in larger sizes. Got surely over 100 pairs ....lucky for me im 43 any lower and id be financially bankrupt lol
I suppose there’s more variety on mid brands now however I wouldnt say that buying sizes 43 and up are easy. Chances are they get sold out easily maybe bec of not producing enough. I must say I am happy that I am on the smaller size 😀
Most of my heels are from gabor, its a german company they make very good shoes up to female 44. Also huge selection and some of the shoes even come in wide fit. I have not expereenced any difficulties buying my size at all quite the opposite actually haha...then there is anna field brand that is very good as well. Online store name is zalado...not intended to be an ad at all...but anyways...
@@ahah1785 Thanks for all this input! see, there’s a lot more out there than I thought🤭😩 Thank you xxx
Gabor is good stuff, a bit boring, but solid classic pumps and boots. Me and my husband also like Piesanto boots. Spanish brand. They also go to 45.
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I support men wearing heels, small or big. Heels were originaly made for men. Nowadays its socially made for women but what is wrong with a man in high heels? But there's a difference between thin heels like stiletto's or platform. Big platform/heel boots look good, but thin high stiletto's just look ridiculous. I support the fashion style for men, but how they portray men wearing heel/platform boots is just insane..... Men wearing heels are shown as women but why can't high heels being encouraged for normal style? Or goth/metalhead style? Why always high heels on a very gay way? I like high heel platform boots. They are patent leather. But I wear them casually with black leggings, black jeans or leather(look) pants/legging with a nice band shirt and jacket. Nothing weird, no make up or whatsoever. Not a dress or skirt. I dont feel different for wearing them. Im not part of LGBT (thank god). Im just a proud guy wearing my high platform boots. Am I different then any other guy now?
2025. Or not
The first. Problem. Is high heel shoes in men size. Are. Hard toe find
Second problem. Is. If. You where. These shoes. You. Will be asked. Are you. Hetero. Or. ? ? ?
You can say. Shoe brands Are discriminating. Men.
Manu. Of. Them. Sale. Only. Man shoes. Whithout. Heel
You're not riding a horse, boot heels serve no functional purpose. Other than ego.