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Its amazing how women finesse even the strongest of men. I always did tell everyone that im not getting married as well. Stay smart gentlemen. Our time will come. Merry Christmas
I was always the same too, told everyone i wasn't going to marry. Back then i was 16 and people were joking about it thinking it's because of my young age, now with 29 they seem to realize that i was for real. You end up being looked at weirdly because you're out of the ordinary, but i don't care.
“I am not putting nobody else above myself. My dreams and goals are first before any woman. You have to add to my life rather than take away.” -FitXFearless
Well in my country you can set up the terms urself to great detail, same goes for the house you may own with your partner. So if you want you can declare all worth of the items you have, your personal bank and the amount you put in the house so that if u divorce your partner you still keep everything that was yours before the mariage
He's a nice guy and he's doing the right thing "On Paper" but in Reality he's ruining his hopes and dreams by being a step dad. Fit is right he needs to be cruel to be kind and leave that girl.
Same 😂 I love the freedom that comes with being single and I have no other responsibilities except myself, would love to settle down and start my lil fam one day tho
What If they do ? You been replying to house comments since you got right? You waiting for them to say well do you? So you can say yesss like dude your comment had to do with what he said@@theredd7365
@@MagnumTalawah he's just a good guy It takes a while to realize everything we have been thought is a lie and if you oblige to societal norms you only gonna ruin your life
These women change in a blink of an eye, based on flimsy things. He doesn't open the car door for me or my best friend divorced her husband so I also have to divorce mine. Social media has made it worse, men protect yourselves.
Fit's spot on-play to win, but within your principles. In a common law state, long-term cohabitation can mean marriage by default, or you're working too hard to avoid it - madness if trust isn't there. As for the caller, he seems to be using Fit as a soundboard. He’s likely heard advice against his situation but seems to lack self-esteem, possibly seeing the woman as out of his league. If he’s bonded with her kids, leaving abruptly could get complicated. that’s why dating a single mom generally isn't a good call. Especially if we're talking 2 kids and up. Still, he needs to plan a peaceful exit for his own peace of mind because he still has some grind left in him and I think he has hope.
I also got married after a year of being together, we've been married 11 years now. I agree though it's probably a better idea to know them for longer first, wait until "the honeymoon period" is over and see how much you both change.
I understand him not paying child support for the other two kids that aren’t his, I even understand and agree with the point about marriage, the point about finding a woman that doesn't already have two kids but I don't agree with your point about him stopping child support, he definitely needs to pay for his own child. The problem with society today is that people don’t use protection, have kids, and then try to avoid their responsibilities. Kids grow-they need new clothes, food, essentials, books, etc and other essentials. If he couldn’t handle the responsibility, he shouldn’t have had a child in the first place. In the US, the cost of raising a child to age 18 is estimated to be around $233,610 (based on USDA data, adjusted for inflation). Sure, she might be spending the money elsewhere, or maybe she isn’t, but she still has to pay rent, pay the electrical bills, buy food, etc and take care of the kid’s needs while he sees his son every other week, maybe buys food, takes him to a couple game, etc and then takes him back to his mother and forgets about him for a week. If he is not sure where the money is going then ask her to show him exactly where the money is going ,and if she is spending the child support money then he could take her to court, and he would likely win because that money is not for her to spend or go on lavish holidays but for her to use to help raise their child. I would say the exact same thing if the father had custody meaning the mother has to pay.
And yet people who doing reactions on fit, react to some cringe stuff he obviously doing for engagement. But here right now he is saving lives. Like he did a lot of times. But lot of people don't want to see that. THEY are seeing "cringe alpha male". F this society
I have to disagree with Fit on this one. You get guys on your stream who clearly don’t have a father figure in their lives, which sometimes results in them being babied by their mothers and not doing anything with their lives. So, telling a guy who wants to step up and be a father figure to someone else’s kids to walk away is crazy to me.
He taking care of 3 kids and probably his girlfriend too. But I guess you gotta think about the kids perspective. He wants them to grow up and think “wow I’m glad I had a great father present in my life” and not grow up fatherless and just grow up down the wrong path
Yeah, but he isn’t happy though, if he was then he wouldn’t have called in and shared his story, he needed help and fit provided him with that, honestly it’s all on him now.
11:54 Bro if you are reading this. Listen to me. It might be dumb right now but I’ve been raised by my auntie and man who didn’t give birth to me. Right now am the bread winner and taking care of them so I’d say, they won with me. Slightly different situation though
He seems like a nice guy but he is very gullible. The reality is child support or having to help your kid financially after eighteen years of age is doesn't stop because they are of legal age.
Don’t blame it all on the guy. The brainwashing has been strong these past decades. I bet the current girlfriend somehow shamed him and totally manipulated him into supporting her kids that she had with another guy.
Go ahead and marry, don’t complain if you lose everything. You’re right fornicating isn’t good, it will effect you spiritually and physically, the same with sleeping around, cheating you can find a good god fearing woman and have kids with her
"Fornication is bad because a God says so". Let's be honest, some people think that it is immoral just because they are conditioned since childhood that it is bad. But it doesn't really harm people it in of itself. People have sex and its not evil, if anything else they are having pleasure.
This dude paying child support but is he paying alimony as well? Feel like another lesson we have here is be careful who you have kids with because marriage or not you gotta pay child support be safe
If it was me if they are young they would just get a box to play with for Christmas to make some forts. And then maybe get some toys from goodwill or Salvation Army
I usually agree with fit. but this advice ain't it. he don't know enough about the situation or the woman to know if this guy should leave. just the fact that you're being a stepdad alone isn't enough reason to leave in my opinion. she could be a good woman. dont fuck up a good thing just because some bros on the internet told you to. Especially if there's genuine love there. you don't find that everywhere pimpin. not to mention the damage you will probably do to all the children involved by separating them just because. im just saying really weigh this out. the grass aint always greener my guy
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That’s me in the vid .. appreciate the REAL advice , just tryna correct the mistakes of my ignorance.
We wanna see you do better bro , best of luck fam .
Just take a decision based on your context you are the only one who knows what on your bag good luck man.
I respect your transparency and honesty....you gone be good family
So many men get cheated on in the military and when they are deployed it’s wild af
Can't afford to let go of that relationship unless he's going to pick up another job or work more hours or find a better paying job anyway
Its amazing how women finesse even the strongest of men.
I always did tell everyone that im not getting married as well. Stay smart gentlemen. Our time will come. Merry Christmas
I was always the same too, told everyone i wasn't going to marry. Back then i was 16 and people were joking about it thinking it's because of my young age, now with 29 they seem to realize that i was for real. You end up being looked at weirdly because you're out of the ordinary, but i don't care.
Brothers.. Let's all say a prayer for this man.. He's has a solid heart and honestly we laughing but he don't deserve this bruh
Bro, you gotta let her go. Don't sacrifice your dreams and goals for another man's children.
He won’t listen bro 😂
This gentleman is the definition of living to work, not working to live.
Take it from a guy in his 50’s, never get married!
Understand sir
Loud & clear
Could you explain why?
Why not?
no need to explain. Go make research. class adjanned @@Aistislol
He seems like a good man. But bro has to lock in and take back control of his life
“Men love to complicate their lives then try to justify why”- Richard Cooper
“I am not putting nobody else above myself. My dreams and goals are first before any woman. You have to add to my life rather than take away.” -FitXFearless
Marriages are the biggest scams you lose no matter what
Well in my country you can set up the terms urself to great detail, same goes for the house you may own with your partner. So if you want you can declare all worth of the items you have, your personal bank and the amount you put in the house so that if u divorce your partner you still keep everything that was yours before the mariage
@@MrBeverage where do you live? I'd like to know the country where that's possible
@@FITfor2NOW in the netherlands, its pretty neat
Idc what anybody says, paying child support for a kid that you take care of a majority of the time is I-N-S-A-N-E
Fr
Bro needs a reset to factory settings
😂😂😂😂
They drained him so bad he looks 50
@@Shyne282 May Allah make it easier for you brother and may he guide you
@@Shyne282hang in there bro, you have time.
dude definitely a good dude I hope shit works out for him regardless of what decision he ends up making.
Agreed
As a Man life doesn’t not wanna see you win so you HAVE to Win
The world is not the spot you happen to be currently standing in, it's a big world out there.
He's a nice guy and he's doing the right thing "On Paper" but in Reality he's ruining his hopes and dreams by being a step dad. Fit is right he needs to be cruel to be kind and leave that girl.
“The usual story” is crazy
I’m glad I’ve never had a partner in my life I’m very thankful of that
Same 😂 I love the freedom that comes with being single and I have no other responsibilities except myself, would love to settle down and start my lil fam one day tho
@@asphettofr bro
In a lot of states, women stay over at your house a few times she can claim common law marriage, divorce you, and take half your stuff.
Do you even have a house 😂
What If they do ? You been replying to house comments since you got right? You waiting for them to say well do you? So you can say yesss like dude your comment had to do with what he said@@theredd7365
Smart thing to do is put everything in your mothers name, or if you have trustworthy siblings. That way if she divorces you she gets nothing 😂😂
@@theredd7365it can be a townhome or apt as well
@@theredd7365 no 😉my mother has a house
Merry Christmas
Get colder bro
I love the low cut bro
Lol us guys do but I wonder which the females prefer? Dunno anymore
just a good guy getting taken advantage of
I almost threw my phone over this dude story 😅🤦🏿♂️
He has the child, yet he pays child support. This really pisssed me off. She just got with a dif man and still gets money from him.
My guy fit with the fresh cut
short hair makes his higher hairline less obvious ironically
A whole lot better. I'm glad he took our advice.
People clowned him in the comments for his thinning hair in his Tinder experiment with his lady. He took his own advice 😂
Its nor fresh and fit 😂😂✅️
Him and Austin grew the curls and got the fresh cut at the same exact time lol.
I respect his man a lot tho bro he is fathering all these kids. I think he's a moral man getting finessed by life 😢
Nothing to do with morals. This is naive.
He's dumb. He did this to himself
He is a victim 💯 that's a good honest guy and none of the people in his life deserve him
@@MagnumTalawah he's just a good guy It takes a while to realize everything we have been thought is a lie and if you oblige to societal norms you only gonna ruin your life
My boy got his hair done fresh, now he's fresh and fit
His hairline is sprayed on. When his hair was full it was thinning
Nah looks dumb
😂
These women change in a blink of an eye, based on flimsy things. He doesn't open the car door for me or my best friend divorced her husband so I also have to divorce mine. Social media has made it worse, men protect yourselves.
Fit's spot on-play to win, but within your principles. In a common law state, long-term cohabitation can mean marriage by default, or you're working too hard to avoid it - madness if trust isn't there. As for the caller, he seems to be using Fit as a soundboard. He’s likely heard advice against his situation but seems to lack self-esteem, possibly seeing the woman as out of his league. If he’s bonded with her kids, leaving abruptly could get complicated. that’s why dating a single mom generally isn't a good call. Especially if we're talking 2 kids and up. Still, he needs to plan a peaceful exit for his own peace of mind because he still has some grind left in him and I think he has hope.
I also got married after a year of being together, we've been married 11 years now. I agree though it's probably a better idea to know them for longer first, wait until "the honeymoon period" is over and see how much you both change.
This is why I have always wrapped it up and always been against marriage the past 10 years
This is what happens when you are too nice, especially to women. God bless this man it breaks my heart to see this.
Fit is saving us Foreal
Saw this live shi sad🤦🏾
That brother gone💀
Im glad this guy met U
Comes on asks for time management advice, fit ignores that and starts roasting him for his brutal mistakes lol
I knew that if austin cuts his hair fix will also do the same 😂😂😂😂
Hahaha i thought bt this too
Hes gonna end up paying child support for those other kids after he breaks up from his gf because the judge will say he formed a bond with them
Most dudes dont have a clue on putting themselves first
Ain't getting married either. Wise words!
Drop the girl with the 2 kids. And stop paying the child support, bro will see the big difference and thrive
Man... All these type of vids make me wanna be single forever. Not to be with more women but only with myself to not get screwed up.
I understand him not paying child support for the other two kids that aren’t his, I even understand and agree with the point about marriage, the point about finding a woman that doesn't already have two kids but I don't agree with your point about him stopping child support, he definitely needs to pay for his own child. The problem with society today is that people don’t use protection, have kids, and then try to avoid their responsibilities. Kids grow-they need new clothes, food, essentials, books, etc and other essentials. If he couldn’t handle the responsibility, he shouldn’t have had a child in the first place.
In the US, the cost of raising a child to age 18 is estimated to be around $233,610 (based on USDA data, adjusted for inflation). Sure, she might be spending the money elsewhere, or maybe she isn’t, but she still has to pay rent, pay the electrical bills, buy food, etc and take care of the kid’s needs while he sees his son every other week, maybe buys food, takes him to a couple game, etc and then takes him back to his mother and forgets about him for a week. If he is not sure where the money is going then ask her to show him exactly where the money is going ,and if she is spending the child support money then he could take her to court, and he would likely win because that money is not for her to spend or go on lavish holidays but for her to use to help raise their child. I would say the exact same thing if the father had custody meaning the mother has to pay.
If you are married and someone cheats or leaves you can sue them for lying on their vows
Genius! Why didn't the 500 million men that screwed over in divorce courts REGARLDESS if they cheated on think of that?
This video was not helpful; Fit was going around in circles on this one. What should he do now?
"Everyone Being Selfish But You"
And yet people who doing reactions on fit, react to some cringe stuff he obviously doing for engagement.
But here right now he is saving lives. Like he did a lot of times.
But lot of people don't want to see that.
THEY are seeing "cringe alpha male".
F this society
He’s a good man. Those kids he’s taking care of will thank him when they get older. We need more men like him.
You're so naive😂
thank him? what he gonna do with the thank you?
@@everything-om3zxsheesh, right.
Nah all he will get is your not my real dad😂.
If you believe that then you believe in Santa and the tooth fairy 😂
Yo let me get on here bro. Im 33, been in the gym for a while. Lets criticize eachother and bounce some ideas off each other!
society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
I have to disagree with Fit on this one. You get guys on your stream who clearly don’t have a father figure in their lives, which sometimes results in them being babied by their mothers and not doing anything with their lives. So, telling a guy who wants to step up and be a father figure to someone else’s kids to walk away is crazy to me.
He taking care of 3 kids and probably his girlfriend too. But I guess you gotta think about the kids perspective. He wants them to grow up and think “wow I’m glad I had a great father present in my life” and not grow up fatherless and just grow up down the wrong path
Yeah, but he isn’t happy though, if he was then he wouldn’t have called in and shared his story, he needed help and fit provided him with that, honestly it’s all on him now.
9:35 fit said let her go with the quickness 😂
“NEXT?!” 🤣🤣🤣
Fit this hit hard i fell for this shit I was in his shoes. Finessed the F out of me but i left. you gotta leave g that’s WILD
fit, we got to talk to these
men. this can’t go on any longer
Fitx and Austin cut their hair around the same time. Coincidence? 🤔
Who cares
@kurtsmith5654 you cared enough to comment
Being in the military seems to be a curse to automatically attract Jezebels 😂
Bro. Got to let her go or else he will never see his way 💯 she is using him he think he's in love , but he needs to love himself an his 1 kid alone
The problem is, a lot of people are choosing the wrong people.
merry christmas fit
Lmao bro fitx lowkey funny 😂
Make a video about the guy you talked to yesterday abt Content Creation
Finally "Alpha Male Strategies" is having a tough time.
11:54 Bro if you are reading this. Listen to me. It might be dumb right now but I’ve been raised by my auntie and man who didn’t give birth to me. Right now am the bread winner and taking care of them so I’d say, they won with me. Slightly different situation though
Fit obviously never heard of a prenup which is signed not under duress!
He seems like a nice guy but he is very gullible. The reality is child support or having to help your kid financially after eighteen years of age is doesn't stop because they are of legal age.
Shit is wild out here
Bro is in such a good position to leave and have his bbm pay child support
greetings from greece fit
You need to go back to court. The courts will adjust your child support based off the time you have your kid.
Still not married and no kids I'm free !!
did he cut his hair?
Its hard for single fathers to get a single women
Don’t blame it all on the guy. The brainwashing has been strong these past decades.
I bet the current girlfriend somehow shamed him and totally manipulated him into supporting her kids that she had with another guy.
they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free
This shit be making me laugh so much, I see this shit time and time again
5:47 this guy a good man making the wrong choices
Aayyoooo 😂😂😂😂this is exactly wat I’m going through
The bible says don't fornicate, so you should get married. I love how men try to come up with their own rules to life...
Show me Adam and Eve's marriage certificate
@@josuemunoz5498 with that comment, you have a lot to learn. God bless
Go ahead and marry, don’t complain if you lose everything.
You’re right fornicating isn’t good, it will effect you spiritually and physically, the same with sleeping around, cheating you can find a good god fearing woman and have kids with her
What’s your other perspective on that?
"Fornication is bad because a God says so". Let's be honest, some people think that it is immoral just because they are conditioned since childhood that it is bad. But it doesn't really harm people it in of itself. People have sex and its not evil, if anything else they are having pleasure.
Simping to another level 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
A lot of men and women need to realize that monogamy isn’t something most humans are capable of.
Right
Can't you just sign a prenup if things goes south 🤔
great video but I hate how fit is always copying austin dunham's hairstyles and give us advice like it was his ideas
Definitely a sucker for love biggest Lof all times
Let him do him.
How is he making 2k a week on $21 an hour🤣🤣🤣🤣
He said a month tho bro
@@ribrahimov he is working less than 40 hrs a week??
2k a month at 30 is diabolical
@@realmadridfan9949yea, it sounds like he’s part time
Better than nothing🤣
the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real
I FW Fit All These Content Creators Hate On Him Because He Keeps It 💯. Fit Keep Goin Bro 💪🏾
This dude paying child support but is he paying alimony as well? Feel like another lesson we have here is be careful who you have kids with because marriage or not you gotta pay child support be safe
If it was me if they are young they would just get a box to play with for Christmas to make some forts. And then maybe get some toys from goodwill or Salvation Army
I usually agree with fit. but this advice ain't it. he don't know enough about the situation or the woman to know if this guy should leave. just the fact that you're being a stepdad alone isn't enough reason to leave in my opinion. she could be a good woman. dont fuck up a good thing just because some bros on the internet told you to. Especially if there's genuine love there. you don't find that everywhere pimpin. not to mention the damage you will probably do to all the children involved by separating them just because. im just saying really weigh this out. the grass aint always greener my guy
I think he likes the deal.
Why ur copying Austin with long hair and buzz cut
Aren't they friends, probably agreement
fitxfearless is 5’7 😢 sad
Why is an older guy talking to a younger childless guy on advice on how to be a dad😂
Did Fitx cut his hair?
All the good ones get used