5 People God Wants You To Avoid (MUST WATCH)

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  • We're often taught to forgive and forbear, but did you know that there are people that God wants you to say away from? In this video, we talk about 5 people you shouldn't trust, according to God.
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  • @Kris_Reece
    @Kris_Reece  9 місяців тому +48

    FREE Toxic People Survival Guide
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    • @PaulJordan-xf5no
      @PaulJordan-xf5no 9 місяців тому

      I'm replacing all government officials with women it's time to start over parable when male becomes female and female becomes male they think transgender truth is when women rule earth again ... Paul

    • @AllyCurtis
      @AllyCurtis 9 місяців тому

      Idea:
      The old religious figures/Greek attempt to give mental and physical diseases through black magic and the medical community. They are schizophrenia. They are narcissism.
      The old religious/Greek figures have put people in genders of bodies that are not their own with an evil purpose. This is why trans people exist. And surgery is a basic human right. They are also responsible for detransitioners existing. They abuse on gender and sexuality and control in these areas to attempt to confuse and change souls from who they are.
      The old religious/Greek figures are all controlling our bodies and are the voices. They are getting in our bodies to rape, murder and speak thoughts that are not our own. They have long term evil intentions and a very long past to cover up.
      Religion has been used against the human population and the fear of hell for a long-term purpose of keeping us controllable. This is beyond full body/mind control they can do magic style.
      The old religious/Greek figures are arranging the marriages/relationships of the populace without consent. The psychic rapes are from old religious/Greek figures not a human person. It’s not kundalini as well.
      Twin flame is very dangerous. It’s a fate based system where everything is chosen for you on birth. That life is just planned and it actually is by the old religious/Greek figures to be honest. But truly if you think about extreme poverty and acid attacks you’d have to see life is not fated. It’s a mess. The universe couldn’t know you at 0.
      I would never try to take the idea of love or potential of love from someone. It's the idea it was created on birth your lover and it's very fate based. The world and you was done the day you were born.
      And it can be used against you the idea of a match up that is chosen in advance of you becoming you by the universe (but is the old religious figures). And that things are set in stone and you don’t choose your partner. It sets you up to not see abuse and to accept any treatment because they are the one. It’s so dangerous. You have a forever someone who will have to work to remain your forever just like you will but it’s not set in stone and no one knows who it is besides you. You just will have a lover.
      And it’s the religious and Greek figures trying to control people to get together. By forcing souls to be with one another without consent through manipulation and control.
      Trying to get in the idea that the universe knows your partner or yourself better than you.
      Trying to plant signs of something that is not. They do this with all sorts of topics. They are the one touching you and talking to you. Evil Cupids. Evil People.
      We all will win though. And people will know that control exists. Who is truly at fault. And love will be found. If you want it. And there is unlimited food/drink in heaven.
      I wish you all the best.
      😅😮😢…😂❤🎉

    • @valaristone5925
      @valaristone5925 9 місяців тому +1

      Thx I. Will let go😊

    • @normanjefferychester882
      @normanjefferychester882 9 місяців тому

      Kris are you sending me message to telegram you?

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  9 місяців тому +1

      @@normanjefferychester882 No, I"m not. If you are receiving such a message, it is likely an account impersonating me. Please report them by going to their about page and hitting the flag and report impersonation. Thank you!

  • @rg-mi5hh
    @rg-mi5hh 9 місяців тому +367

    Stay away from narcissists. Your love doesn't change them. You are just tormenting yourself and enabling them by showing them love. They think your love means keep abusing you is okay.

    • @ashleyb777
      @ashleyb777 9 місяців тому +33

      That is completely right on. Love never changes them, they just keep feeding their demons by abusing. Blessings!

    • @davidm4566
      @davidm4566 9 місяців тому +24

      I was married to a midrange covert narcissist for 5.5 year but praise God that he removed me from that toxic marriage.

    • @ashleyb777
      @ashleyb777 9 місяців тому +14

      @davidm4566 What a blessing, I don't know you of course, but I'm really happy for you. It's so heartbreaking to watch a loved one, in a marriage to someone like that. Blessings

    • @raddaen
      @raddaen 9 місяців тому +8

      You’re so right

    • @MB-sg8dx
      @MB-sg8dx 9 місяців тому +10

      @@ashleyb777it’s been 41 years for me…🙏🏼

  • @helenhilton2158
    @helenhilton2158 9 місяців тому +293

    Sadly, some of the people we have to avoid might be our own family members. That is probably the hardest thing to do!

    • @darrendavenport3094
      @darrendavenport3094 9 місяців тому +24

      Amen to that... I'm glad I'm not alone on that one

    • @denisedevoto5703
      @denisedevoto5703 9 місяців тому +25

      I have been no contact with mine for 5 years. I am so content in my life. It is difficult to do, but I don't want to take the abuse anymore. It was 55 years of abuse, almost an entire lifetime.

    • @vnedecim
      @vnedecim 9 місяців тому +11

      In this case, we need to have boundaries.

    • @andrewromano-fw5vp
      @andrewromano-fw5vp 9 місяців тому

      MY FAMILY IS A GROUP OF CO-DEPENDANT NARCASSIST TRAITORS WHO WENT AGAINST ME FOR MY EX WIFE. WHO USED MY YOUNG DAUGHTER AS A WEAPON AGAINST ME . EMPOWERING MY YOUNG DAUGHTER AND USING MY COWARDLY FAMILY AS HER SUPPORT SYSTEM

    • @stephanieo222
      @stephanieo222 9 місяців тому +10

      Thats very true. I have experienced that, its very disappointing. Very confusing. Stay strong! Keep the faith.

  • @JasmineBliss
    @JasmineBliss 9 місяців тому +249

    1. Bad influencers (1Cor15:33)
    2. False Teachers (1John4:1,
    2John1:10)
    3. Divisive ppl (Titus3:9-11)
    4. Christians who profess God but don't confess their sins (1Cor5:11)
    5. Proud ppl (2Tim3:1-7)

    • @leighb.8508
      @leighb.8508 9 місяців тому +10

      Thank you.

    • @S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier
      @S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier 9 місяців тому +16

      Thanks you so much, those bullet point lists are a lifesaver for us who can't stay 15min on every "5 signs" video out there on the tube.

    • @Cattt01
      @Cattt01 9 місяців тому +7

      Thank you ✝️

    • @JasmineBliss
      @JasmineBliss 9 місяців тому +8

      All are welcome. It helps me too 😊

    • @bluemoon9530
      @bluemoon9530 9 місяців тому +6

      Thank you ❤️

  • @amishgirl1000
    @amishgirl1000 9 місяців тому +67

    I’ve learned not to tell people anything personal. I speak only to God who loves me.

    • @td6259
      @td6259 5 місяців тому +4

      I have soo many regrets for giving out my personal and or vulnerable stuff. When I'm triggered and i can't take it anymore out comes things that totally go against me. I never learn

    • @A.M.0000
      @A.M.0000 5 місяців тому +3

      Yep

    • @lorettamcgee969
      @lorettamcgee969 4 місяці тому +2

      Smart girl!❤

    • @KristineEstes-zq8jo
      @KristineEstes-zq8jo 4 місяці тому +3

      You are wise ❤

    • @doorpakor5813
      @doorpakor5813 3 місяці тому +1

      Best lesson in life

  • @genevievespencer4743
    @genevievespencer4743 9 місяців тому +41

    Stay away from toxic alcoholism, stay away from gossiping people, stay away from Hypocrites, stay away from jealous people, stay away from family family members who wants to use you and friends. But remember don't stay away from bible reading and praying every day .❤much love from Kenya

    • @connie7125
      @connie7125 5 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for your good counsel 😊

    • @anneroarty6473
      @anneroarty6473 2 місяці тому

      Yes very true and well said. Narcissist are so evil.

  • @ladyangi100
    @ladyangi100 9 місяців тому +33

    2 Tim 3:5 "They will act religious, but they will reject the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like that"

  • @Schquirl
    @Schquirl 9 місяців тому +18

    There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that make haste to run to evil, a false witness who breathes out lies, and one who sows discord among brothers.
    Proverbs 6:16‭-‬19 ESV

  • @mom4christ191
    @mom4christ191 9 місяців тому +75

    And a bonus one. Prov 22:24-24. Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go: Lest you learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.

    • @bananaanna1373
      @bananaanna1373 9 місяців тому +1

      That has been a verse that has been in my mind for many years. When an often angry person comes into my life I think of this verse and try to avoid them as best I can.

    • @leannekendall767
      @leannekendall767 8 місяців тому +1

      Thankyou for reminding me of that verse. God bless you for sharing this. from Australia🙏

    • @lonefaolan6042
      @lonefaolan6042 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes, sometimes that man can be your father.

  • @sean9448
    @sean9448 9 місяців тому +11

    Pride cometh before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.

  • @ttime2024
    @ttime2024 9 місяців тому +10

    Avoid angry people. This should have made your top list.

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 9 місяців тому +22

    Wow. Those slanderers; gossips; tarnisher of names, I run the other way.

  • @livingstrategically
    @livingstrategically 9 місяців тому +121

    "The life of a Christian is marked by surrender to the Spirit." - Kris Reece
    Amen and amen! 📯 🕊

  • @juditharsenault2131
    @juditharsenault2131 9 місяців тому +114

    I got caught up in sin. I lived with my boyfriend. He wasn't a believer, an alcoholic and a drug user. I didn't know about the drugs. I thought I wouldn't be affected by it but it almost killed me. I had chest pain and was severely depressed. God got me out of the relationship but I stayed in it for 5 years. There were good times but he almost destroyed me with his psychological abuse. It took me years to heal. I asked God why it took so long to break up with him and he told me - you weren't ready. In his mercy, he delivered me and then he healed my heart and mind. Sin DOES lead to death.

    • @jldg256
      @jldg256 9 місяців тому +12

      That must have been hard for you. Wishing you all the best.

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe 9 місяців тому +3

      sounds like you werent ready to discard the relationship.

    • @Mandooze
      @Mandooze 9 місяців тому +11

      This happened to me and he died. And yes it will kill you. Hypertension happened to me, blood pressure. Its true sin kills. Thankyou Lord for delivering us from all
      Evil.

    • @user-zt9ne3zc3s
      @user-zt9ne3zc3s 9 місяців тому

      so you were living with your boyfriend?? were you two having sexual relations of any kind??

    • @elz5539
      @elz5539 9 місяців тому +7

      ​@@user-zt9ne3zc3s
      What a pointless question.. attention seeking

  • @Ann-tl9mc
    @Ann-tl9mc 9 місяців тому +10

    1. Proud look. 2. Lying tongue. 3. Hands that shed innocent blood. 4. Feet swift and run to mischief. 5. Heart devise evil imagination. 6. False witness that speaks lies. 7. He who cause discord among the brothers. Do not go with anger people unless you learn there ways. Fool wrath is presently known. 🚩 Red flag over talkative. Therefore let your words be few. Shalom

  • @Schquirl
    @Schquirl 9 місяців тому +10

    I am writing to tell you that you must not associate with those who call themselves believers in Christ but who sin sexually, or are greedy, or worship idols, or abuse others with words, or get drunk, or cheat people. Do not even eat with people like that.
    1 Corinthians 5:11 NCV

  • @ruthstolz7127
    @ruthstolz7127 9 місяців тому +40

    I've been guilty of gossip when I have try to defend myself against the smear. I still cringe when in contact with them and get away quickly.

  • @BelovedbyAdonai
    @BelovedbyAdonai 9 місяців тому +12

    THIS ❗️
    Should be taught in EVERY single legitimate Bible believing church. Period. 🎯

    • @sandraclick7812
      @sandraclick7812 9 місяців тому

      many are members in churches whom seek to divide and undermine unity with dubious means

  • @lifetools-help8017
    @lifetools-help8017 8 місяців тому +7

    Prayerfully accepting people who seem to be toxic and firmly avoiding them, you can still pray for them and love them from a distance, (a very far and safe distance).

  • @suzanneyorkville
    @suzanneyorkville 9 місяців тому +20

    I got a lot of heat for not attending the birthday party of a Christian who had left their spouse and now living with the new companion. If we took what you have taught seriously perhaps more people would feel the consequences of their sin ad repent. But sadly we find excuses and go on as though these things are Ok for the Christian.

    • @msdee2905
      @msdee2905 9 місяців тому

      They promote adultery and divorce under the guise of Christianity.

  • @momabearministry
    @momabearministry 9 місяців тому +79

    Listened to this 3 times. Toxic people are drawn to me. Thank you Sister for this awesome video, your really talented and very helpful❤️🔥🦁🌞

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  9 місяців тому +13

      I'm so glad you found it helpful :)

    • @accesstotheredcarpet
      @accesstotheredcarpet 9 місяців тому +11

      The reasons why toxic people are drawn to us is because they know we are empaths. They prey on empaths. That was the big lightbulb revelation moment for me when I keep getting toxic people at me. Love this video too. 🩵🩵

    • @truthspeaker1508
      @truthspeaker1508 9 місяців тому +9

      Boundaries help with this.

  • @JamesNGames
    @JamesNGames 9 місяців тому +85

    Remember, success favors the vigilant! Stay focused, stay strong, and keep pushing towards your goals. Amen to that, my friends!

    • @jidoorifalcon
      @jidoorifalcon 9 місяців тому +3

      Yes. Being conformed to the image of Christ and staying our course is the goal

    • @alariaesculenta8177
      @alariaesculenta8177 9 місяців тому +4

      So well said !

  • @B_fo6bg
    @B_fo6bg 9 місяців тому +4

    Sadly true. We live in a world that has so much garbage, it’s hard. Be Christ Iike, but protect your peace, guard your heart, use discernment. ❤️🙏

  • @lindabaer6603
    @lindabaer6603 9 місяців тому +7

    5:40 Wow, I received a word today "...For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women..." with the thought of how easily women invite men to live with them (unmarried, of course).

  • @michaelbankston7430
    @michaelbankston7430 9 місяців тому +7

    "Many are called, but few will be chosen." I think that means that there are people who claim to be Christian and live a Christian life and, like she said, people who claim to be Christian, but don't live people live a Christian live life.

  • @gypsybelle637
    @gypsybelle637 9 місяців тому +16

    I was studying you course on dealing with a narcissist with biblical principles. My daughter died May 31 this year. The damage done to her teenage boys, has crushed our family. She was a closet alcoholic. We are suffering the loss of who she used to be, and the damage left behind due to her dramatic change.

  • @Shdwkd666
    @Shdwkd666 3 місяці тому +3

    I remember a pastor said never cut anyone out of you life.

  • @rashundalondon7335
    @rashundalondon7335 6 місяців тому +2

    thank you father God for protecting me and guide yes Lord God amen 👏🏽🥲♥️🙌🏽☝🏽❤️😇🙏🏽yes ma'am God bless you sister

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 9 місяців тому +19

    I want to give up! But God won’t allow me. Please God give me strength because my strength is gone. I have always kept faith and trust in you. Even as I constantly struggle to provide groceries and basic necessities for my children both of my sons are autistic and non verbal. Walking with faith is all we can do as christian’s. Like most single parents things are hard on me. I’m constantly struggling to pay rent. I’m overwhelmed and now that I’m home schooling my sons I’m having trouble getting school supplies. My health is also failing. After suffering a heart attack two years ago and battling lupus I feel weak. Heavenly and merciful Father, I come before your glorious throne today, in humble adoration please help me overcome my struggles and my constant fears.

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe 9 місяців тому

      FAKE ALERT!! WARNING!! this msg appears on THOUSANDS of christian sites!!

    • @susanstanley7942
      @susanstanley7942 9 місяців тому +7

      May God bless you with abundance and good health.Amen.

    • @susanstanley7942
      @susanstanley7942 9 місяців тому +7

      Everything is gonna be alright.Gods help is coming soon.I believe 100 percent.Hang on dear one.God has you, I promise.

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe 9 місяців тому

      its fake; it appears on hundreds and hundreds of christian sites, almost word for word the same every time.@@susanstanley7942

    • @salenasheppherd2834
      @salenasheppherd2834 9 місяців тому +8

      God bless you sister
      Have you sought out help/intervention from your local church or mental health agencies? I ask because I, too am a single mother to my autistic son and I've been blessed tremendously to receive God's help through programs that assist families that have children with special needs. ABA therapy along with many others are designed to help our children evolve while lightening the burden. Contact your nearest dpss office if you haven't already ask questions. 🥰
      You never know WHO the Lord will use to deliver your help!

  • @masoodpervaiz6044
    @masoodpervaiz6044 9 місяців тому +49

    Bible verses are really helpful.
    God bless you my dear sister in Christ.

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  9 місяців тому +4

      Thank you Masood.

    • @connie7125
      @connie7125 4 місяці тому +2

      Hebrews 4:12 For the Word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.

  • @madtwc4425
    @madtwc4425 8 місяців тому +2

    I'm so stuck right now, renting a room with I can't even say it with no choice but to stay or sleep in my car. One alcoholic one drug user and one enabler of both. I had no idea when I moved in that this was going on and financially I'm stuck for the moment. I'm also having some health issues which I need to take care of while I do have a roof over my head. I have two locks on my door and don't socialize with them unless absolutely necessary but its not how I want to live the test of my life. Please pray for me that I can get out of here soon. Thank you

  • @jamesthompson222
    @jamesthompson222 9 місяців тому +12

    I have definitely learned lately to notice that toxic red flags and to run the other direction to the point that it's better going to the house and knowing that Jesus is peace in my house because I am by myself in the house and I've learned not to allow the toxic into my house. Also I've learned boundaries better.

  • @jerddorsettebykno3473
    @jerddorsettebykno3473 9 місяців тому +8

    Face it head on and stand in God.I will never stop standing with God. ❤Guard your heart. Amen

  • @reginathornton7433
    @reginathornton7433 9 місяців тому +11

    I took the advice of a wise minister & quietly left my church for a while until things changed & I am so happy & BLESSED to be back with the head pastor & his wife. 😊 God has Great Plans for our city. ❤

  • @veraknowles3678
    @veraknowles3678 9 місяців тому +22

    Amen ,some believes are Jealous, want what you have❤🙏🏾🙏

  • @katenoble5810
    @katenoble5810 9 місяців тому +13

    So many have perished for lack of wisdom. Its a choice of discernment responsibility , & boundaries. I'm happy to see the awareness on this subject has increased.🙏🏻

    • @earlofmar7987
      @earlofmar7987 9 місяців тому +2

      Yes, we all need to keep boundaries. Narc's are good at tearing those down. Even getting at your personal information. Very deceptive.

  • @jeffbrandenburg8672
    @jeffbrandenburg8672 9 місяців тому +4

    Kris everything you say is scripturally based and I appreciate this. I unloaded a so-called Christian brother, yet caused me to stumble consistently, constantly criticizing other true Christians!. Very toxic, when I did this I felt a release.

  • @abbasjoy4785
    @abbasjoy4785 9 місяців тому +20

    Thank you Kris, your ministry is important in the body. I finally learned my lessons. Years and years of being abused and manipulated in the name of God. Those people are indeed Trojan horse for the devil is destroy you any means possible. God bless 🙏🏾

  • @flowerchild89
    @flowerchild89 9 місяців тому +44

    Great advice 💯!! Thank you 🙏. I definitely despise gossipers and religious hypocrites!!!

    • @BigRebel0802
      @BigRebel0802 9 місяців тому

      Gossip is murder! It goes down into the deepest parts!

  • @Jessaba
    @Jessaba 5 місяців тому +4

    Make no friendship with an angry man and with a furious man tho shalt not go…
    Proverbs 22:24-25

  • @carolsmith8482
    @carolsmith8482 8 місяців тому +3

    Scripture also treaches to avoid angry people in Proverbvs

  • @wilsonongweedun5697
    @wilsonongweedun5697 8 місяців тому +6

    Having a tough time deciding, after listening to this video,I think it's time for me to move on,Thank you,God bless you abundantly 🙏

  • @Lovejoypeace69
    @Lovejoypeace69 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m the solution person and yes I’m moving thru a heartwrenching betrayal. I’m one year out and I can’t believe what you’re sharing. It sums my 35 year relationship up with this person. Thank you!

  • @allen0088
    @allen0088 7 місяців тому +2

    Kris you're a blessing. I love you

  • @ernestcotton9324
    @ernestcotton9324 9 місяців тому +3

    Acceptance and forgiveness, we all must do this.
    You have to accept the truth about what you have done, if it is wrong forgive yourself and make things right

  • @QueenT768
    @QueenT768 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing. Amen.

  • @leannekendall767
    @leannekendall767 8 місяців тому +4

    Hi Kris thankyou for your video and your ministry. I having been praying about this very problem of having toxic people in my life especially family and mostly my dad. I have been sharing God's words with my dad and video channels to encourage him in his walk with Jesus. Unfortunately my dad still blames me for his father sexually abusing me as a young child. My last phone call with him I got off the phone and felt terrible about myself and doubted God's love for me like after many conversations with him before. Although I have forgiven him he hasn't forgiven me and won't ever change his narrative . I have prayed alot about this since that phone call and I realised that having him in my life was against God's love for me and my faith in God. I hope this encourages other people who comment or watch your video's to forgive the toxic people in their lives with God's help and move on swiftly and boldly knowing that God love's you and never wants you to doubt his love for you or your faith in him. God bless you Kris 🙏 with love from Australia.

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 9 місяців тому +7

    A good video for the wounded. God will distract you away from toxic people one way or another.

  • @ashleyb777
    @ashleyb777 9 місяців тому +8

    Oh wow, Kris. I had just read in 2 Thess. 3 about withdrawing yourselves from every brother that walks disorderly. It's not easy when it's your own (family members of course) son-in-law in my case. Just a couple weeks ago (long story short) he caused me to injure my back because of his carelessness and callous disregard for me. My husband is going to confront him about it, and also his treatment of our daughter. He has every character trait of the Leviathan spirit (pride). Blessings!

    • @Lauren-vd4qe
      @Lauren-vd4qe 9 місяців тому +3

      how did the back injury happen?

  • @rhonii6259
    @rhonii6259 9 місяців тому +8

    That’s why I’m isolated, I don’t want to bring others down, when I can’t give up things\like drinking I want to do, so God is my Savior and I believe, Jesus died for me He will deliver I’m tired of trying not to drink.

    • @juliablom3461
      @juliablom3461 9 місяців тому +1

      Have you tried AA meetings?😁

    • @angelapetty9052
      @angelapetty9052 9 місяців тому +3

      I had an acquaintance that gave me some insight for a sheep vs wolf situation...
      When the wolf comes against the flock, the sheep all get in a circle facing out, with lambs or wounded in the middle of the circle. With all of the sheep facing the wolf, it supposedly confuses it, so that it doesn't attack.
      I myself am alone, but I know I need to find community so that I don't get attacked or devoured by the enemy.
      Please pray and think about staying alone.
      The Bible says My people perish for a lack of knowledge.

    • @ninamarie9827
      @ninamarie9827 9 місяців тому +1

      It’s my understanding that alcoholism is an evil spirit that needs to be driven out…. 🙏

    • @kaycoats8344
      @kaycoats8344 Місяць тому

      Rhondii6259 Pray, keep praying. Alcoholism is not just a disease. Don't give up. Find support, but know many times different people who you lean on will give up on you or let you down, but God never will ! ✝ ❤Get your Bible out and GET DETERMINED. Keep praying and asking forgiveness every time. and if you can find AA that's a good place. But Jesus is the way. Jesus Saves! Pray. My Daddy was an alcoholic. He finally overcame it. But it took Jesus, prayer, grit and determination when you get knocked down to get up again pray some more and go on. Daddy got saved and free from alcohol. The best guy you ever want to meet. He's in Heaven with Jesus now. May God bless you to find a good Bible, and guidance a good church and the help you need. In Jesus Holy name, amen. ✝ 🙏 ⛪ 🕊

  • @davidm4566
    @davidm4566 9 місяців тому +10

    My name means "Beloved". There were a few verses like Joshua 1:9, Isaiah 41:10, and Jeremiah 29:11 that keep coming to me.
    Lately the word "Beloved" keeps coming to me from various sources. Thank you for being part of it.

  • @Mandooze
    @Mandooze 9 місяців тому +5

    Thankyou so much. I take this very seriously as im lucky enough to be seperated from people and getting closer to God just me and God. Let him seperate me from them and hide me. Amen.

  • @raybroome
    @raybroome 9 місяців тому +16

    Fantastic guidelines for filtering friends. Great video. Clear consice message. Thanks!

  • @barrycamper3807
    @barrycamper3807 9 місяців тому +6

    I am so thankful my wife has found you! I am doing some work this morning on my computer, and she is listening to every video that she can find!. I have listened to a few of them myself! You are that rare individual with the answers we have been looking for, to set her mind free! Her strongholds even effect her dreams. I can't tell you the times she wakes up crying about a horrible dream that makes her feel as if she is even rejected by God! I can't thank you enough!! My wife is a very loving, giving, faithful, etc...person, (yes, I know that some of those characteristics may stem from being a people pleaser) but she is very loving and kind to others and me. She can be fragile at times when she does acts of kindness and it is not reciprocated by close family members. She loves a certain way and don't understand why others don't love that way back. I know that this is not the place to go into deep detail, but I just wanted to thank you for your help! I wish she had a sit down with you to council her on her personal details, (Do you do zoom calls?) but I am at least gratified that she has the videos!! I believe they are helping!

    • @suzi7925
      @suzi7925 6 місяців тому +2

      Your love and concern for your wife are heartwarming. With this love and hope for your caring wife, go before God, in Jesus name, and I am praying as I speak, that you open His word and invite Him in to every part of your and her lives. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God. The wisdom and grace and strength you and she will need come from God who gave Christ for us. May you seek His face and receive the love, word of knowledge, wisdom, discernment and protection, to lead your marriage and household in His godly favor. And may He put favor on your lives to connect with others who love and respect and live in the word, and can help and remind and speak His word over your beautiful lives. He is a rewarder of those who seek His face. Peace out.

    • @FaithfulandTrue949
      @FaithfulandTrue949 5 місяців тому +1

      This is a Godly man, a threefold cord's not easily broken. More grace to this rare, beautiful husband and wife ❤🔥✝️🕊

  • @joycepartee7797
    @joycepartee7797 9 місяців тому +28

    Thank you, for Speaking GOD'S Word of Truth! I needed to Hear this!

    • @Kris_Reece
      @Kris_Reece  9 місяців тому +3

      I'm so glad it was helpful

  • @sloppypoppie
    @sloppypoppie 9 місяців тому +6

    I needed to hear this because of 4 and 5. I always had sympathy for them. I don't know why.

  • @ronch550
    @ronch550 9 місяців тому +5

    6. Narcissists
    7. Fake friends
    8. People who don't like you

  • @gloriacoleman7012
    @gloriacoleman7012 5 місяців тому +1

    This is so on point we need to do this as the devil will steel destroy and bring trouble.

  • @ZaziJams2
    @ZaziJams2 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this important lesson. We are to separate ourselves from the ungodly influences in this Satanic world system.

  • @hamed2928
    @hamed2928 3 місяці тому +1

    Interesting.
    I finally went no contact with a "friend".
    When I called her out on a few things, she just said. "Oh, well, I'm learning."
    So weird because it just hit me full force when I just heard, "always learning but never arriving at the truth." I don't think she ever said "i'm sorry" or apologized for anything.

  • @user-bm6cv4of3k
    @user-bm6cv4of3k 6 місяців тому +1

    God bless you Sister I just want to say hello and I've got you in prayer as well I love everything you're doing and the Lord sees it you're helping so many is not just about me God bless you
    Amen
    🕊️🛡️💜🔥🙌🏻🛡️

  • @MikeEsparza949
    @MikeEsparza949 8 місяців тому +3

    This is such a beautiful video. I love how you back everything up with scripture. I have twin boys who don't live with me because of divorce. I relapsed on alcohol and their mother divorced me. Both of the boys are choosing bad friends and influences. I feel the burden of this because if I hadn't relapsed, I wouldn't have destroyed my family. May ask... will you please pray for Luke and Ryan? God bless you for what you do.

  • @CosmicPotato740
    @CosmicPotato740 9 місяців тому +1

    this is worrying that members of my family I live with fit these descriptions 😵‍💫 and there those I can’t just stop associating with

  • @pamkauffman6017
    @pamkauffman6017 9 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for this...had issues with inlaws, sister always putting me down and others who I thought were friends back stabbed me. I have omitted them from my life and sometimes I feel quilty. I forgive them, but never want to be around them anymore. I feel this really helps me get past this. Thank you and God bless!!!😊❤

  • @jessicajoel5885
    @jessicajoel5885 9 місяців тому +10

    Kris Reece,I love your wisdom.Thank you for sharing it with us.

  • @Horizon25
    @Horizon25 14 днів тому

    There are good people who can see right through the narc

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria3867 5 місяців тому +1

    Have to be extra careful.
    People that never stop talking

  • @DianneRussell-jb5le
    @DianneRussell-jb5le 9 місяців тому +3

    This video is great. 💜 this lady gets straight to the point and doesn’t sugar coat anything. I had to cut out three family atheists from my life completely. They are extremely abusive toward me and they almost ended my life with their abuse. I am free from them now and a tremendous weight has been removed from me. I have very toxic people in my apartment block where I live. One wears a Christian cross yet has sexually propositioned me three times. I have nothing to do with him. I have a drug user and nasty alcoholic who is a sex pervert who also lives in my apartment block and I am one step away from writing a letter to the body corporate to have him removed. These types of evil people are all around us and we have to be careful not to have any contact with them at all. I never get familiar with one place or cafe if I am out and about. I have very high intuition and I can tell straight away if someone or something isn’t good. 🦋

  • @tracycampbell3060
    @tracycampbell3060 9 місяців тому +5

    The first few minutes of this video is absolutely gold. We hear so many messsges to love forgive others.... this is all i have ever heard for decades in the church and a seeker. I thank God He finally raised up Narcassist/Jezebel ministries. So Very Needed! ❤

    • @MrLucastobing
      @MrLucastobing 9 місяців тому +4

      I went to church and felt not welcomed.

  • @gabrielehandler5249
    @gabrielehandler5249 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you!
    Excellent message! Needed to hear it again ... !

  • @JYO2023
    @JYO2023 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. I am nothing without God in my heart. Grateful for the Holy Spirit and people like you.

  • @accesstotheredcarpet
    @accesstotheredcarpet 9 місяців тому +2

    This video is so helpful! One of the biggest red flags 🚩 I have seen becoming more obvious is married men who profess their faith prey on non married christian women and pick fights with them. I’ve blocked several on social media. Truly scary stuff! Even the wives are just as bad. Stay away from that. Thank you Kris! 🙏🙏🩵🩵 This was needed today.

    • @jesuschristisking2877
      @jesuschristisking2877 7 місяців тому

      Oh my days THIS!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻...I didn't even know this was a thing...I was so naive.... I haven't dated for 20 years...now I am single again, my first real encounter with a Christian man was with one of these types of men... God's mercy was in the midst though and no lines of impropriety were crossed but I realised I was completely targeted and completely naive to these types of wolves in sheep's clothing....

  • @beem6792
    @beem6792 8 місяців тому +5

    That’s why I don’t have friends anymore.

    • @POS3278
      @POS3278 Місяць тому

      I can relate.
      Keep praying, keep reaching for fellowship......but carefully..... prayerfully.

    • @kwings00
      @kwings00 Місяць тому

      Yep

  • @alemayehuwoldemichael585
    @alemayehuwoldemichael585 5 місяців тому +1

    You are indeed a blessing, such a teaching is not of everyday.
    We have been hurting for so long in the name of love.

  • @qwiklok
    @qwiklok 9 місяців тому +1

    Well done. When carrying this out, you will be accused of being unloving, unchristlike, hypocrite and the anger and resentment will pike on thick.
    So what. Do not ket them poison your garden. And sure, you will lose friends and family. Too bad. People don't change. Hand them over to God and run, don't walk from them.

  • @edwardlburris6813
    @edwardlburris6813 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for not being afraid to say what is truth from the Word of God!! No it"s not always easy to do these things...but who are you surrendered to ? God or World (Satan)

  • @zippyz4170
    @zippyz4170 9 місяців тому +3

    It literally is everyone as I met numerous people that hit all the points or a couple of points. Free and clear from them now.

  • @deborahmaza8902
    @deborahmaza8902 9 місяців тому +9

    Omygoodness this is such a timely word, thank you Heavenly Father for this confirmation ❤🙏🏾👍🏾💜

  • @patriciaengle5930
    @patriciaengle5930 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank u lord , amen 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️⭐️stay aware.Guard your heart !

  • @leighb.8508
    @leighb.8508 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, ma'am. It's all true. The narrow path is mostly one man wide, but God is there.
    "And Enoch walked with God: and he was not; for God took him." Genesis 5:24

  • @ChristineCarrales-dv7sv
    @ChristineCarrales-dv7sv 8 місяців тому +1

    Very good Kris loved it!

  • @ryanehlis426
    @ryanehlis426 9 місяців тому +2

    God actually had me leave and STAY A WAY from a whole church ;) lol 😂

  • @JesusSaves77799
    @JesusSaves77799 9 місяців тому +8

    This was absolutely fantastic and so helpful. Thank you so much!! I am so grateful for this video! God bless you and your family and all of your viewers and their families in Jesus’s Holy Name, Amen! 🙏💖

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria3867 Місяць тому +1

    Yes I have to guard my heart my son in law cant seem to see his behavior is out of line

  • @levidaisyyoung220
    @levidaisyyoung220 9 місяців тому +2

    oh wow... I just found another lady guiding me with discipline and obedience, and now this one? thank you soo much, im sure im going to strengthen my faith with your guidance, so I look forward to watching more of you.. wow.. mind blowing.. faith building. see, im isolated, alone and have no friends, so this has helped me not just be with anyone but also who to deny.. my path narrows but im finding a village of others to learn form. I dont do church, I dont do religion, mine is a faith, a personal relationship in prayer, im his prayer warrior.. I was once a Wiccan witch 2013 was the start of my transition.

  • @onfirewithdesire
    @onfirewithdesire 7 місяців тому +1

    Thus leaves me no one, which is why I'm alone all the time e

  • @lindak8447
    @lindak8447 9 місяців тому +6

    Wonderful message, but it would have really been nice if I could have learned this information about 39 years ago before I meet the narcissist. Well at least 29 years ago after I had children.

    • @MJ-qb5ph
      @MJ-qb5ph 9 місяців тому +3

      Honestly there is no better teacher than the narcisst - the most hideous lesson though!!!! Bless

  • @user-ug6uf3gb3q
    @user-ug6uf3gb3q 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for affirmation before I got slipped up

  • @user-ys9dh9xc8k
    @user-ys9dh9xc8k 9 місяців тому

    YES , KRIS .. THANK. YOU ! 😊😊 ... ❤❤ .... SMILES ! GREAT ! JOY ! FAITH ! HOPE ! LOVE ! ❤❤ ....

  • @ancoisnaude4087
    @ancoisnaude4087 9 місяців тому +5

    Thank you, keep in mind and listen to God. 😊❤

  • @nompumelelonkosi9023
    @nompumelelonkosi9023 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for a wonderful and insightful teaching. God bless you 🙏

  • @americancountryboy6404
    @americancountryboy6404 9 місяців тому +6

    Well said 👍

  • @jeffreyelya9996
    @jeffreyelya9996 9 місяців тому +4

    What a great topic Kris!! I haven't run across many people the Holy spirit said to leave alone, but at the same time, God has put me close to people who really, really, really needed His grace. I had a co-worker once who had been raised in the Morman faith, and somehow turned out to be an agnostic. There was a vibe about him I just didn't like, but we were able to work together, but had he not have quit, I know we were about to have some serious friction happen.
    On a side note, I don't exactly have a girlfriend just yet, but I'm one of those guys that sometimes can get nosy as to what kinds of things the girls are being taught. Not in a demeaning way, but with the aspect that I care about what's being filtered into the mind of my significant other, but something like this I greatly encourage the ladies to get involved with. Have a great day, and keep looking up!

  • @leahv.2537
    @leahv.2537 9 місяців тому +8

    Great video Kris, everytime I see a video notification from you I know it's going to be good!
    Do you have a video or could you make a video on ways that we can apply the scripture about testing the spirit by the spirit when I comes to Christian narcs.
    Specifically those who present themselves as one way to fool us really good for a season but when their narc masks fall and shatter we're often left with a demon starring at us through the eyes of that narc.
    Would love communication tips on what to ask and behaviors that are covert and not obvious at first glance that a person is toxic but looking back would actually be a clue to us.

  • @GodsMouthpieceJoeRob
    @GodsMouthpieceJoeRob 9 місяців тому +6

    Thank you Minister Reece God Bless you ❤️🙏🏾😇

  • @normanjefferychester882
    @normanjefferychester882 9 місяців тому +2

    Yes my gossipy sisters, text each other behind my back, sometimes send messages to me by mistake, I read them and tell them to watch what they say behind people's backs ✝️🙏❤️🌞

  • @CareBear-og6pe
    @CareBear-og6pe 8 місяців тому +1

    God says love thy mother and father. I have tried to be around my mother and I just can’t any longer. She’s toxic. What to do? I’m late 50’s and feel bad but I can’t. She’s been evil and vindictive all my life.

  • @sleepsound9000
    @sleepsound9000 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you Kris. ❤ 💡

  • @MsGinahidesout
    @MsGinahidesout 5 місяців тому +1

    THANK YOU for this!!

  • @danielskyles6184
    @danielskyles6184 9 місяців тому +2

    Great video Kris! 😊