Worse are the straight guys that come in to oggle or "turn" gay girls. Our local gay bar has that sort of problem and it's really ruined the place for me.
Hopefully the fact I get dragged into the bars by my gay friends to be the designated sober driver hasn't put a hamper on the atmosphere to the ones we frequented... though the bar keep seems to know me well and tosses me any open soda cans he has from mixing different drinks just to keep them from being wasted.
Talked to a girl for ages and got her an expensive ass drink She could've just said she was straight from the get go Like bestie you're in a gay bar The girls and the gays are gonna think you gay
@@bluebird8677 yo gimme these cheat codes lol I can nottt for the life of me find out who’s gay my gaydar is broken I don’t have a bf yet lol could just be bcus no one likes me I hope not tho
there should be a way to indicate unwillingness to flirt, regardless of reason if a lesbian flirts with a lesbian and then finds out she's taken, it's just as disappointing or if a gay guy just came to get wasted but instead had to explain he's not looking for love when approached
@@yarraidalg exactly. I commeted this somewhere else. Assuming someone you hit it off with is interested in that way feels a little "friendzone-y" to me. I think people can be uninterested regardless of sexuality. Id rather make an ace friend at a gay bar than a lesbian friend who only wants a sexual relationship. But thats just me (not a very sexual person). I feel like it's the same with straight guys who become friends with women. Im a very big fan in the friendship to lovers pipeline
Fr like if it’s just a place to vibe that’s a safe space for gay people and ally’s to be friends and vibe cool, but the people who go to places specifically for dating other fruity need to find their place😭
Complaining about straight men but I bet you don't complain about 'transwomen'? You know the ones I mean, the straight male transvestites who think they're part of the Pride community.
“I’m straight” “Okay? Your in a gay bar you are no longer straight” “But no I’m straight your bars are better” “I don’t give a fuck either get out. Or be gay” Edit: what? You expect me to say thanks for the likes? Dream on. HA
That's fine; we all have our own opinions and preferences, and since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, my definition of beauty may differ from someone else's. 🤝💞🌷✨
Omg, YES! I once asked a girl I liked and was pretty sure was gay, to homecoming. SHE THOUGHT I INVITED HER AS A FRIEND. I ended up 3rd wheeling the entire night as she was also going with a guy she liked.
I felt so bad for the very very tall butch who thought I was also butch. I’m a trans man. She was very respectful and we just chatted over drinks, but I still feel bad. I know passing is bs but it dies cause issues where I am bcz of how binary trans folk are expected to be by the community.
But your situation is different. You are lgbt, you have every right to be at a gay bar. And in queer circles gender is always very flowing so these situations happen, but your presence does not take away from the safe space that a gay bar is. The presence of straight cis people does take that safe space away, but you are not a straight cis person, you are part of our community and you are allowed to take space in our rooms and circles because they are also yours
@@pearline4684 cis women are also In need of safe spaces, sounds like we also need safe spaces from ya'll cuz you're just as violently entitled to us as men are based on this comment section 🤣
@@supremebohnenstange4102 no that has happened to my friends so often. One time they legit did go on like 6 dates before realizing bcz both were ace XD
@@pearline4684 oh yeah for sure. I’m just relaying on one level. But in a “haha so silly we’re still safe here” kinda story vs “this is my matching horror story”
I remember very well the time I went to a gay bar with my brother (I'm a man xd) and his boyfriend, so I went in and I don't know but since that day I'm addicted to male moans.
I know I kept getting roped in to go into the gay bars by my friends so I could drive them home or be the escape if things go south. This puts my straight ass in a bind by constantly apologizing after every complement with "Thank you but I'm not gay, I'm the designated driver to those two drunk ass gays." while pointing out the pair. So I started wearing a button that said either "Not gay, the driver" or "I'm sobersexual, I get off on designated drivers" both gets the point across before anything's said and gets a laugh sometimes.
Maybe there should just be women only bars in general. I always prefer gay bars because there are no creepy guys, but then it’s intruding on gay spaces.
A quote from a previous video I saw "If you don't want guys hitting on you at the bar/club just go to a gay bar/club" seid by an incel who can't leave people tf alone.
A bar also isn’t only for hooking up or finding a partner. Otherwise it shouldn’t just be called a gay BAR because people will obviously treat it as a bar too
@@IdkS12828 If you hate gay people just scroll off dude 😭 Like, you could be doing something. I don't know, maybe have a small job and get paid 20 bucks? Help your mom doing the chores? Study? I have all the time I need since I already achieved alot of these.
@@afunkylittleguy if it's drinks or they ask I agree but it seems kinda rude to just throw "I'm straight" in your face to everyone who walks up to you cuz you don't know if they're trying to date or just trying to talk
@@bluedragon8762 « hi how are you ? My name is _____ , nice to meet you , by the way to avoid any misunderstandings , I’d like to let you know that I’m straight », then you carry on the conversation, Cmon it’s not thaaaat hard, it’s awkward yes, but it’s better to give them a heads up than lead them on right ?
@@bones8249 *person walks up* "I'm straight" other person: damn thats conceited I just wanted to talk. What an asshole. It's kind of like that whole "I have a boyfriend" meme. Dude walks up and it's just "I have a boyfriend
@@bluedragon8762 as queer person I can assure you that it’s completely ok , also , I never said to throw a « im straight » at their face , I said to Maintain a conversation with them and at some point (early on) , let them know that you’re straight to avoid any kind of misunderstandings. AND , at the end of the day , you don’t owe anything to anyone .
@@Solanin0803 she should go somewhere else it’s for gay people for a reason and unless she is going with gay friends generally I think you shouldn’t go
thank god the local gay bar is just a awesome place to vibe and get drinks at. Like no one gets mad that straight people are there or anything like that
As a straight girl, I can say it is nice just to go dancing in gay bars, so I can actually dance and being left alone by the guys.. but I always tell the girls about me being straight and my bf in the first minute.. we still could talk and even dance, but they know they would waste their time when their goal is different than mine.. none of them got ever mad at me or me being straight, going in to "their" bar with my best (gay) friend..
The reason nobody got mad at you is because - like you said - you're upfront. You dont flirt back, get drinks and maybe socials, etc. just to then end with "nah just kidding"
No i‘ll be honest, i get the wanting to dance etc and being left alone but i am mad. I don’t care how respectful you are. Your presence makes the space less safe for lgbt people for multiple reasons. Women can and should make their own safe spaces, stop taking those safe spaces away from us. This isn’t just about flirting or being led on or whatever it’s about our community and wanting to connect with our community, being an ally does not make you part of our community, sorry to say. No one got mad because they’re polite, like what else are they supposed to do.
@@pearline4684 I'm afraid I do not understand how me going there makes it less safe for LGBT people.. and, another question that comes up to me as well: should my gay best friend go there partying alone? And I go dancing three clubs further because they others are gay bars too? We usually went there so he can get to know someone.. I do not go there alone (and I always wore a ring on my ring finger so one might assume I was already taken.. and in my opinion, taken is taken.. no matter if gay or straight..)
@@jasminkogler6243 straight women being there invites straight men to come. And it invites other straight women who very often are homophobic, transphobic etc. It does make it less safe, not directly, but indirectly. This is something that has now been observed over the last decade, like i‘m not taking this out of the blue. There are studies going as far back as 2017. You might know how to behave but most straight women don’t, they love to fetishize and objectify gay men, the „gay bestie“, or to invalidate lesbians alltogether, not to even get started on terfs. Many people who see themselves as „good“ straights turn out to actually hold very harmful stereotypes and that’s why you need to stay out of our spaces, because even if you are part of the minority of straight people who aren’t like that your presence invites them to come. Make your own safe spaces, hell we can make safe spaces were both groups intersect (like flinta/ female, lesbian, non-binary, trans, agender spaces) but gay bars are specifically for lgbt people and they should stay that way because we still live in a society where heterosexuality is the norm, and people who deviate from the norm need spaces where they can take a breather.
@@pearline4684 okay, I get that. Never thought of it that way.. especially not because I usually do not go there (I have been there 4, maybe 5 times in the last 10 years), and never have I ever met other straight people there (and additionally, I should maybe add that I am not "totally not interested" in girls, I just have 0 experience with them, never met one I would like to kiss etc that was not in a relationship.. but I also never went there with the intention of "finding a girl" to change that..
Straight people: Don't come to our bars unless explicitly invited by one of us 🏳️🌈 And while you're there act respectfully, observe others around you if you're unsure and be aware of your surroundings 🕺🏼 This is called common courtesy and respect 👌🏼
@@canny_linguist "The action or state of setting someone or something apart from other people or things or being set apart." Words have meanings, and you don't get to choose who inhabits a public space. ❤️ ;3
No, they cant. It's not a regular bar, its specifically a gay bar. Do you not understand what gay means? It's not for straight people, that's the entire point
@@Red-zh3ef oh ok, so trans, bi, asexual, and any other type of people aren’t allowed there too. Ruins the whole progressive thing huh? It’s made to be prominent for a group, doesn’t mean it’s just for them. Otherwise it’s just segregation and discrimination, which isn’t very good
@@Scruffy-qi3ik gay is an umbrella term I am using for the whole LGBTQ+ community. It is made for people in that community. Not straight people. Gay, bi, trans, all allowed in that safe space. Straight/cis people are not, because it's not for them, and it's not their space to invade
@@Red-zh3ef Yes, they can. Also let's not forget that there are straight lgbtq+ people lmfao. Not everyone who is lgbtq+ is gay. Also YES, straight people are allowed there. My aunt is straight and goes to gay bars with her son. Straight people are allowed in gay bars.
Probably good to open with that. I'd give it five minutes of conversation before telling them that I'm AroAce or at the first mention of buying drinks. But I don't drink so...
Because she didn't "waste" it on the girl. She paid that to get into the bar in the first place and frankly, a gay bar is supposed to be the place where you don't get the "Oh sorry, I'm not gay" rejection. Because it's literally for gay people, who are trying to escape that entire thing in regular bars.
@@teamawesomeness7137 Why not? Because that's where straight and queer people mingle most of the time and when a queer person flirts with a straight person, the response is usually "(Sorry), I'm straight".
@@teamawesomeness7137 .... You can drink non-alcoholic drinks at a bar, if that's what you mean. That's what I do, cause alcohol makes me tired. If it's Stds, you can use protection. But nonetheless, I'm not here to judge, just giving insight on the situation. After all, the situation was about a straight girl in a gay bar. So I'm not sure how your health suddenly plays a part in the "The girl I'm flirting with at the bar said she's not gay" situation.
My mom plans to bring me to a gay bar when I'm 21 (I'm bi, she's not, but I can't drive and I don't like going to places on my own) If you are straight in a gay bar, cool! But say that
She could be with her friend! She probably could have said she was straight, but she might also have just thought you were being nice or have been trying subtly to indicate that she wasn't interested
Yeah, but in these situations, it's best to say no from the get-go. Because you're in a gay bar. One of the only public places where gay people will safely assume you're also gay and looking for someone. Like, after an hour, you kind of get the gist and know to say no. Again, especially in a gay bar.
Sometimes our gay friends wanna go out and us with them. . . . Or they want us to come see their favorite spot. This as a female friend to a gay man. He wants me to go with him and hang out at a gay bar in PA but I'll be sure to tell him no since it seems taboo now
@@bluedragon8762 but wouldn’t it make more sense to just tell them when you start talking? Also then you’ll probably have to expect a woman coming up to you if you’re in a GAY bar
The difference is: we aren't complaining about being rejected like you are, we are rightfully upset that straight people invade gay peoples safe spaces
No, the video isn’t saying the straight woman owes her anything. She’s saying the straight woman should’ve opened with the fact that she’s straight at a gay bar.
Lol, it’s weird how this stuff pans out. Friend of mine bought drinks for a girl in a regular bar, and when he went to take her for a date, she went “sorry, I’m gay.” He got very annoyed but decided to go home. When he tells the story people get mad at him for being annoyed at the woman. Is it the same for Gays at a gay bar?
To escape straight men, it’s an endless cycle. Gay bar opens gay people go, straight women want to to get away from straight men and straight men find out women are going there and go so now it isn’t a gay bar anymore
Hot take personally i dont think straight non queer people (straight people can also apart of the lgbtq community) should be allowed at gay clubs, like sometimes we need a space for us 🤷 obviously im not opposed to straight people in gay clubs i just think it defeats a lot of purpose for queer people of having a free space.
Don't you think it would be kinda hard to check peoples sexualities before coming in? I dont think that would make me feel more safe. It also seems like a huge invasion of privacy
LMAO as a woman the only thing that I could think was how do you think men feel…. Or maybe don’t do things expecting things in return I don’t know it’s strange but I understand the feeling
@@rocklnymine7085 lol. What if I didn’t like you but you just ruined it with your nasty attitude expecting things in return don’t do things and expect things in return how about that
Legit. Whenever i go to Ku in London its exclusively streight girls, gay guys or older lesbians i have no shot with. So i always go to She which is just Lesbains.
I got what this person is saying. But some ppl in the comments really think straight ppl can't go to a gay bar just bc they're straight. It's like saying a gay person can't go to a random bar 🤦
@@tanukifox8041 so there are two ways this conversation can lead to: 1- so u think u can stereotype a gay liking creating a gay bar but a bar is not designed for what straight ppl stereotypically like?
@@ferelcopter5126 to say that average bars are made for what a straight person would stereotypically like is to assume the people making those bars are straight (this is just what im thinking youre trying to say)
I’ve gotten a lot of hugs and kisses from hot guys at a gay bar. Flirting with a guy just to find out he is taken and is monogamous is disappointing too not just straight. But at least you will most likely still get a hug and maybe a kiss.
@@domojose I mean sure, but gay bars are in part there to give gay people, who honestly are still not completely safe in mainstream clubs, a place to be free to do their thing. I can imagine them feeling annoyed if their safe space gets overrun by straight people after straight people made their own clubs too toxic xD
@JUP1TER Serious question: why would straight people hit on gay people? Seems particularly counter intuitive. You either get rejected, or you get into the awkward position of being hit on back by someone youre not interested in. Is that really a thing??
Y'all calm down. I thinks it's absolutely fine to go to a gay bar as a straight person, (in the end,gay bars are awesome) but tell the others up front. Don't make them buy you drinks and flirt for hours just to disappoint them. That's not fair.
Someone I know basically they went into a gay bar, hitting on this girl for straight like 3 hours, hanging out, laughing, drinking, and then the guy I know finally is like "Wanna go to mine?" and she GIGGLES AND SAYS "Hehe, i'm straight!" 2 expensive a** beers down the drain, my guy was a girl btw.
It always suprises me that videos like that get so much traction considering that this is just normal shit. In a gay bar you flirt with someone and then they tell you "oops tehee i am teh straight so no dice" but in ANY bar this is the same with men just hitting on women. The difference is: "Oops tehee i just like free drinks so no dice!" with the added bonus of "Ooops I'm actually teh gay so no dice" . Now that i think about it there is actually no difference. And some people saying "Well this is a gay bar so OF COURSE I'm gonna assume you are gay" is the same thing as somebody saying "Well this is just any old bar so OF COURSE I'm assuming that you are straight! " Both sides don't make sense. Some women just enjoy a gay bar so they don't get treated like prey and to simply have a drink without having to tell a guy to fuck off all the time. And sometimes if you are gay you are not out to meet someone, just to hang out with friends. No need to frequent a gaybar for that.
It's not fucking for you, though. It's a gay bar for gay people, you can go drink at any random ass bar and it wont make a difference. Stay out of our safe spaces
a straight girl. in a GAY bar. the point is that the straight girl was assumed to be gay by everybody there, therefore the gay girl though she had a chance.
I swear I've only met one straight girl who was actually straight. Everyone else is like "haha I'm straight, but girls are really pretty and also I sit on my bffs lap because omg she's so comfy but yea I'm straight"
Some people go to gay bars because they are curious. I had a friend who used to go there cause she felt safe and the girls were so respectful and amazing.
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 i offer up tjis scenario you go to a gay bar and flirt with a girl, its been an hour and youve boight her some drinks amd offer to go back to your place, to which she says she is straight. youve now wasted money on drinks without it having the effect you wanted. you suffer monetary loss. that is why. situations like these
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 that is not the point. it doesnt have to be that scenario. perhaps you asked them in date for next saturday or to get coffee. you have suffered financial loss becuase they effectively decieved you.
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 ignore the situation. if straight people go to gay bars it just becomes a bar. gay bars are supposed to be safe spaces where the people inside are expected to be gay for that exact reason. straight going to gay bars defeats the whole point of a gay bar
No it's not. The gay equivalent would be the girl saying "I have a girlfriend". Straight people in gay bars is such a bad thing because they are invading a safe space made for us.
Tbh straight girls shouldn’t go to gay bars. There’s regular bars they can go to. If they were w friends I get it but going alone makes it seem like you’re looking for someone to possibly date which can be confusing for other women.
But it's a gay bar. A bar specifically for gay people. That's like going to a Christian dating site and finding out a person on there isn't actually Christian. It's kind of the whole point.
@@afunkylittleguy you can’t refuse access to a PUBLIC bar just because someone is straight. Do you realize that’s discriminatory?? Just like a gay person can’t be refused access to a sports bar just because they’re gay.
@@kyleemeg2171 no the issue is she is looking for man to date or trying to hook up with a man at a gay bar, it is perfectly acceptable to go to gay bar as a straight person as long as you do not intend to flirt with people or are ready to be flirted with by the same gender
@@kyleemeg2171 you can't be refused, but why tf do you feel the need to invade gay people's spaces? Sports bars aren't designated to be a safe space for sports fans or something because they don't need one, no one oppresses sports fans whatsoever. That's the whole point.
I’ve heard a lot of people say that they’ve tried to hit on or flirt with someone in a gay bar but then that person gets all angry bc they’re straight. Like WHAT DO YOU EXPECT???
Not the point, she meant "why didn't you tell me you were straight?". She's not mad because the other girl is straight. She's simply annoyed that a STRAIGHT girl in a GAY bar didn't clarify she was STRAIGHT until someone has already hit on her! If it wasn't obvious enough(I doubt it was because you didn't get the point), she meant; people will think that you are gay if you are in a gay bar. Clarify that you are straight to avoid misunderstandings.
I understand the idea of a gay bar but if straight people would make only bars for them, that would be a war. I think the best idea are bracelets. Some paint say that you are looking for some relation as a gay or as a straight person for night or more and some that you only want to drink and dance, or sth. And this should be everywhere :)
Straight people aren't oppressed nor have a history of oppression, gay people do, part of the separation of having gay bars is to ensure safety of those there.
bro no it's not about the girl not liking her it's about the girl lotrally being striaght and being unable to like other girls. so mensing she was just pretending to flirt and just wanted attention there.
@@Derekjgavit422 nope, straight women just *go* all the time. Sometimes they’ll bring their straight boyfriends even. They think gay bars and gay people are “quirky”.
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Worse are the straight guys that come in to oggle or "turn" gay girls. Our local gay bar has that sort of problem and it's really ruined the place for me.
its usually straight girls vice versa who do this fym
That's disgusting wtf
Hopefully the fact I get dragged into the bars by my gay friends to be the designated sober driver hasn't put a hamper on the atmosphere to the ones we frequented... though the bar keep seems to know me well and tosses me any open soda cans he has from mixing different drinks just to keep them from being wasted.
@@TsubakiOnYT if it's the case they wouldn't have said it, fym
@@AsmodeusDHare you sound wonderful, I bet you’re fine!
Talked to a girl for ages and got her an expensive ass drink
She could've just said she was straight from the get go
Like bestie you're in a gay bar
The girls and the gays are gonna think you gay
Welcome to the straight men's world haha
@@real_smilegamez well it's easier for you guys too lol
Most people are straight, we gotta talk in codes to figure out who's ✨ fruity ✨
@@bluebird8677 Right... I just mentioned the buying drinks and not getting anything in return part is the same for straight guys..
@@bluebird8677 just because they straight don't mean they won't just use horny men to get free drinks. Idiot men and terrible women.
@@bluebird8677 yo gimme these cheat codes lol I can nottt for the life of me find out who’s gay my gaydar is broken I don’t have a bf yet lol could just be bcus no one likes me I hope not tho
Man, straight girls be wilding
Ikr
Sorry sometimes our friends invite us there. . . . I'll tell him no next time lol
@@bluedragon8762 I mean, obvi you can go with your friends but like, I’m talking about when they go on their own.
@@xxx_a_shxxx how do you know when they're there alone?
@@bluedragon8762 Normally they are with their friend, or wearing pride stuff. And sometimes you just know
Like it's chill if you're there and you're straight, just state it from the get go so you ain't breaking anyone's hopes or wallet 😭
Exactly, I agree
there should be a way to indicate unwillingness to flirt, regardless of reason
if a lesbian flirts with a lesbian and then finds out she's taken, it's just as disappointing
or if a gay guy just came to get wasted but instead had to explain he's not looking for love when approached
@@yarraidalg exactly. I commeted this somewhere else. Assuming someone you hit it off with is interested in that way feels a little "friendzone-y" to me. I think people can be uninterested regardless of sexuality. Id rather make an ace friend at a gay bar than a lesbian friend who only wants a sexual relationship. But thats just me (not a very sexual person). I feel like it's the same with straight guys who become friends with women. Im a very big fan in the friendship to lovers pipeline
Nahhhhhhhhh, that's pretty rude. Just don't get so caught up in your *feelings*
Imagine being able to be prejudice just because you're gay😏
First time I went to a gay bar (I’m a lesbian) a straight man twice my age tried to hit on me 🥲
You could have gotten advantage and let him buy you 2 drinks or smth
@@augustgirl2905 nah this ain’t gacha life bro
@@IdkS12828 never said it was
@@IdkS12828 imagine looking through stuff people did 2 years ago- i cant take you serious
That's because of straight guys already figured out what the girls are doing so they don't go to straight bars anymore either so they go to gay bars
The amount of straight cis man I find on lgbt+ communities online like why are they there
(I'm talking about dating communities)
Because lesbians are "hot" to them 🤮
Fr like if it’s just a place to vibe that’s a safe space for gay people and ally’s to be friends and vibe cool, but the people who go to places specifically for dating other fruity need to find their place😭
Complaining about straight men but I bet you don't complain about 'transwomen'? You know the ones I mean, the straight male transvestites who think they're part of the Pride community.
Actaully I would say it’s more straight cis women trying to be interesting by being gay lol
They come after the straight girls who fled from them into our spaces
SOME OF THEM EVEN GET MAD AT YOU FOR HITTING ON THEM???
“I’m straight”
“Okay? Your in a gay bar you are no longer straight”
“But no I’m straight your bars are better”
“I don’t give a fuck either get out. Or be gay”
Edit: what? You expect me to say thanks for the likes? Dream on. HA
@Rayu Ki buzz of
Not you gatekeeping a fucking bar… get a life
Maybe she doesn't want to go out but without the creepy men? Not everyone has to be gay
@@ecis6702 if she wanted a bar without creepy men she’s free to make her own bar.
The gay bar is explicitly for gays to find dates
@@ineedmoresleep3728 Some girls go w their gay guy friends
You're so pretty omfg 🌷✨😭
Nah
That's fine; we all have our own opinions and preferences, and since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, my definition of beauty may differ from someone else's. 🤝💞🌷✨
Nah
Bless you.
Omg, YES! I once asked a girl I liked and was pretty sure was gay, to homecoming. SHE THOUGHT I INVITED HER AS A FRIEND. I ended up 3rd wheeling the entire night as she was also going with a guy she liked.
I felt so bad for the very very tall butch who thought I was also butch. I’m a trans man. She was very respectful and we just chatted over drinks, but I still feel bad.
I know passing is bs but it dies cause issues where I am bcz of how binary trans folk are expected to be by the community.
But your situation is different. You are lgbt, you have every right to be at a gay bar. And in queer circles gender is always very flowing so these situations happen, but your presence does not take away from the safe space that a gay bar is. The presence of straight cis people does take that safe space away, but you are not a straight cis person, you are part of our community and you are allowed to take space in our rooms and circles because they are also yours
@@pearline4684 cis women are also In need of safe spaces, sounds like we also need safe spaces from ya'll cuz you're just as violently entitled to us as men are based on this comment section 🤣
Wait until you see the gay twink hitting on the butch girl thinking she's a twink and she's flirting back cuz she thinks he's a butch 😭😭😭
@@supremebohnenstange4102 no that has happened to my friends so often. One time they legit did go on like 6 dates before realizing bcz both were ace XD
@@pearline4684 oh yeah for sure. I’m just relaying on one level. But in a “haha so silly we’re still safe here” kinda story vs “this is my matching horror story”
I remember very well the time I went to a gay bar with my brother (I'm a man xd) and his boyfriend, so I went in and I don't know but since that day I'm addicted to male moans.
lmao
@@elyse.k Sorry, my main language is not English, can you tell me what Imao means? I've been wondering for a long time
@@roborirobcomunista4733 it means: laughing my as$ off
@@roborirobcomunista4733 laughing my ass off
@@elyse.k Tysm!
This happens 👏 every 👏 single 👏 fucking 👏 time 👏
Welcome 👏 to 👏 the 👏 bar 👏 scene 👏
Nah bro your not going to no damn bars
I know I kept getting roped in to go into the gay bars by my friends so I could drive them home or be the escape if things go south. This puts my straight ass in a bind by constantly apologizing after every complement with "Thank you but I'm not gay, I'm the designated driver to those two drunk ass gays." while pointing out the pair.
So I started wearing a button that said either "Not gay, the driver" or "I'm sobersexual, I get off on designated drivers" both gets the point across before anything's said and gets a laugh sometimes.
"chewing gum on every seat"
literally all high school chairs
Damn I’ve never been to one but it seems like a waste of money
So is every bar you need to pay to get in
Maybe there should just be women only bars in general. I always prefer gay bars because there are no creepy guys, but then it’s intruding on gay spaces.
Don’t worry. Most don’t care as long as you’re not causing a direct problem
Lmao its the _"but we're having a girls night!"_ brand of gay tourism
A quote from a previous video I saw "If you don't want guys hitting on you at the bar/club just go to a gay bar/club" seid by an incel who can't leave people tf alone.
“Don’t tell me to mind the gap” bro summoned the entire TfL community.
Tip to the straights MAKE BETTER BARS FOR YOURSELVES SO THE GAYS DON'T HAVE TO SUFFER TRYING TO FIND A PARTNER/HOOKUP ECT...
A bar also isn’t only for hooking up or finding a partner. Otherwise it shouldn’t just be called a gay BAR because people will obviously treat it as a bar too
they don't need bars for themselves.
Omg your hair looks so good
I have told my straight friends don’t go to gay bar if you’re gonna complain about being hit on don’t go you are gonna ruin it for them
🏳️🌈 🔥 ❌
@@IdkS12828 If you hate gay people just scroll off dude 😭
Like, you could be doing something. I don't know, maybe have a small job and get paid 20 bucks? Help your mom doing the chores? Study? I have all the time I need since I already achieved alot of these.
@@garcias2039 a gay person murdered my family
me: "Skedaddle! Get the fuck outta here! Ske-fucking-daddle!"
My teacher is gay🏳️🌈
Everyone thinks our music teacher is gay😭
rip u
Is that really your information to be sharing?
Ok?
Leave the class
"I'm straight" uh I don't see no visitors badge
Sometimes our gay friends want us to come see the gay bar I'm sorry. I'll tell him no from now on
I mean if you really want to go I'd just tell people who approach you that you're straight so they know whether it's okay to flirt or not.
@@afunkylittleguy if it's drinks or they ask I agree but it seems kinda rude to just throw "I'm straight" in your face to everyone who walks up to you cuz you don't know if they're trying to date or just trying to talk
@@bluedragon8762 « hi how are you ? My name is _____ , nice to meet you , by the way to avoid any misunderstandings , I’d like to let you know that I’m straight », then you carry on the conversation, Cmon it’s not thaaaat hard, it’s awkward yes, but it’s better to give them a heads up than lead them on right ?
@@bones8249 *person walks up* "I'm straight" other person: damn thats conceited I just wanted to talk. What an asshole. It's kind of like that whole "I have a boyfriend" meme. Dude walks up and it's just "I have a boyfriend
@@bluedragon8762 as queer person I can assure you that it’s completely ok , also , I never said to throw a « im straight » at their face , I said to Maintain a conversation with them and at some point (early on) , let them know that you’re straight to avoid any kind of misunderstandings. AND , at the end of the day , you don’t owe anything to anyone .
People buying a doll : 😁
Them when all the ties are around the doll💀
"I want my fuckin' money back😁"
I thought I was straight... till I saw you!! Damn you are beautiful and handsome at the same time
Simp
My sister went to a gay bar.. shes straight. 😶
Thats weird asf😭
.... Alone?
@@samm2234 Maybe she does 't wanna get hit om by guys. Could have a reason to do that
@@Solanin0803 why go to a bar 😭
@@Solanin0803 she should go somewhere else it’s for gay people for a reason and unless she is going with gay friends generally I think you shouldn’t go
thank god the local gay bar is just a awesome place to vibe and get drinks at.
Like no one gets mad that straight people are there or anything like that
Never pay to get into a pub. For an event sure, but not for entry
That's a rule I'm never breaking, gay or straight bar
Yes!!
Just shut up
there is no such thing as a straight bar. bars are inherently gay
I love your content
As a straight girl, I can say it is nice just to go dancing in gay bars, so I can actually dance and being left alone by the guys.. but I always tell the girls about me being straight and my bf in the first minute.. we still could talk and even dance, but they know they would waste their time when their goal is different than mine.. none of them got ever mad at me or me being straight, going in to "their" bar with my best (gay) friend..
The reason nobody got mad at you is because - like you said - you're upfront. You dont flirt back, get drinks and maybe socials, etc. just to then end with "nah just kidding"
No i‘ll be honest, i get the wanting to dance etc and being left alone but i am mad. I don’t care how respectful you are. Your presence makes the space less safe for lgbt people for multiple reasons. Women can and should make their own safe spaces, stop taking those safe spaces away from us. This isn’t just about flirting or being led on or whatever it’s about our community and wanting to connect with our community, being an ally does not make you part of our community, sorry to say. No one got mad because they’re polite, like what else are they supposed to do.
@@pearline4684 I'm afraid I do not understand how me going there makes it less safe for LGBT people.. and, another question that comes up to me as well: should my gay best friend go there partying alone? And I go dancing three clubs further because they others are gay bars too? We usually went there so he can get to know someone.. I do not go there alone (and I always wore a ring on my ring finger so one might assume I was already taken.. and in my opinion, taken is taken.. no matter if gay or straight..)
@@jasminkogler6243 straight women being there invites straight men to come. And it invites other straight women who very often are homophobic, transphobic etc. It does make it less safe, not directly, but indirectly. This is something that has now been observed over the last decade, like i‘m not taking this out of the blue. There are studies going as far back as 2017. You might know how to behave but most straight women don’t, they love to fetishize and objectify gay men, the „gay bestie“, or to invalidate lesbians alltogether, not to even get started on terfs. Many people who see themselves as „good“ straights turn out to actually hold very harmful stereotypes and that’s why you need to stay out of our spaces, because even if you are part of the minority of straight people who aren’t like that your presence invites them to come. Make your own safe spaces, hell we can make safe spaces were both groups intersect (like flinta/ female, lesbian, non-binary, trans, agender spaces) but gay bars are specifically for lgbt people and they should stay that way because we still live in a society where heterosexuality is the norm, and people who deviate from the norm need spaces where they can take a breather.
@@pearline4684 okay, I get that. Never thought of it that way.. especially not because I usually do not go there (I have been there 4, maybe 5 times in the last 10 years), and never have I ever met other straight people there (and additionally, I should maybe add that I am not "totally not interested" in girls, I just have 0 experience with them, never met one I would like to kiss etc that was not in a relationship.. but I also never went there with the intention of "finding a girl" to change that..
Straight people: Don't come to our bars unless explicitly invited by one of us 🏳️🌈
And while you're there act respectfully, observe others around you if you're unsure and be aware of your surroundings 🕺🏼
This is called common courtesy and respect 👌🏼
Woe to those who seek equality in segregation.
@@RenSam22 It's not segregation. These spaces exist for good reason.
@@canny_linguist "The action or state of setting someone or something apart from other people or things or being set apart."
Words have meanings, and you don't get to choose who inhabits a public space. ❤️ ;3
@@RenSam22 equity. not equality.
@@eireball ?
As in social equity? How do you mean?
I mean, straight people can be there too lol
But she prolly should've said she was straight when you started flirting
No, they cant. It's not a regular bar, its specifically a gay bar. Do you not understand what gay means? It's not for straight people, that's the entire point
@@Red-zh3ef oh ok, so trans, bi, asexual, and any other type of people aren’t allowed there too. Ruins the whole progressive thing huh?
It’s made to be prominent for a group, doesn’t mean it’s just for them. Otherwise it’s just segregation and discrimination, which isn’t very good
@@Scruffy-qi3ik gay is an umbrella term I am using for the whole LGBTQ+ community. It is made for people in that community. Not straight people. Gay, bi, trans, all allowed in that safe space. Straight/cis people are not, because it's not for them, and it's not their space to invade
Can means to be physically able to do something
@@Red-zh3ef Yes, they can. Also let's not forget that there are straight lgbtq+ people lmfao. Not everyone who is lgbtq+ is gay. Also YES, straight people are allowed there. My aunt is straight and goes to gay bars with her son. Straight people are allowed in gay bars.
Gay clubs are just better than the rest, though as a straight, you should give the heads up if you're getting hit on
Probably good to open with that. I'd give it five minutes of conversation before telling them that I'm AroAce or at the first mention of buying drinks. But I don't drink so...
Funny how it's gross to hear Men whine about "wasting" money on girls at bars but its cute and relatable for gays? Weird.
Because she didn't "waste" it on the girl. She paid that to get into the bar in the first place and frankly, a gay bar is supposed to be the place where you don't get the "Oh sorry, I'm not gay" rejection. Because it's literally for gay people, who are trying to escape that entire thing in regular bars.
@@strawberryfox8819 at a normal bar, you're not supposed to get the “I’m not gay” rejection
@@teamawesomeness7137 Why not? Because that's where straight and queer people mingle most of the time and when a queer person flirts with a straight person, the response is usually "(Sorry), I'm straight".
@@strawberryfox8819 if you care about your health, you wouldn't even be going to a bar in the first place
@@teamawesomeness7137 .... You can drink non-alcoholic drinks at a bar, if that's what you mean. That's what I do, cause alcohol makes me tired. If it's Stds, you can use protection.
But nonetheless, I'm not here to judge, just giving insight on the situation. After all, the situation was about a straight girl in a gay bar. So I'm not sure how your health suddenly plays a part in the "The girl I'm flirting with at the bar said she's not gay" situation.
My mom plans to bring me to a gay bar when I'm 21 (I'm bi, she's not, but I can't drive and I don't like going to places on my own)
If you are straight in a gay bar, cool! But say that
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 So that they don’t lead people on obviously
She could be with her friend! She probably could have said she was straight, but she might also have just thought you were being nice or have been trying subtly to indicate that she wasn't interested
Yeah, but in these situations, it's best to say no from the get-go. Because you're in a gay bar. One of the only public places where gay people will safely assume you're also gay and looking for someone. Like, after an hour, you kind of get the gist and know to say no. Again, especially in a gay bar.
@@strawberryfox8819 “hey wan-“ “no” “I didn’t even say anything” “sorry I’m straight, can’t socialize here”
I UGLY CACKLED AT THIS PLS
I’m a gay dude and I get so uncomfy when they like
“I have a gay friend here 🤪”
They need wristbands OR SOMETHING. 💀
Ok?
Fr fr
Every straight person in a gay bar should have a label lmfao
Soo..y are they there if they’re straight?
because straight people need to have everything for themselves
To get free shit ig
Sometimes our gay friends wanna go out and us with them. . . . Or they want us to come see their favorite spot. This as a female friend to a gay man. He wants me to go with him and hang out at a gay bar in PA but I'll be sure to tell him no since it seems taboo now
@@Marshyness or we have gay friends that invite us. . . .
@@bluedragon8762 but wouldn’t it make more sense to just tell them when you start talking? Also then you’ll probably have to expect a woman coming up to you if you’re in a GAY bar
Welcome to most blokes experience
The difference is: we aren't complaining about being rejected like you are, we are rightfully upset that straight people invade gay peoples safe spaces
this isn’t about you bestie
@@Red-zh3ef Pretty sure he was talking about straight men
@@aliciax5854 You right, you right, my bad
This is the equivalent of a guy buying you a drink and thinking you owe him something
No, the video isn’t saying the straight woman owes her anything. She’s saying the straight woman should’ve opened with the fact that she’s straight at a gay bar.
Honestly
y’all are missing the fucking point on purpose at this point
@@f_r_o_g_ ong
It's really not tho, like where at which point is there any sort of owing or her buying her anything and expecting something back, lol
Same bro, every girl I hit on always straight 😔
I just want a gf/bf to cosplay and play games with 😢
Same
Same
a bar is not the place to find someone to date.
Lol, it’s weird how this stuff pans out.
Friend of mine bought drinks for a girl in a regular bar, and when he went to take her for a date, she went “sorry, I’m gay.”
He got very annoyed but decided to go home. When he tells the story people get mad at him for being annoyed at the woman. Is it the same for Gays at a gay bar?
That sucks! Why would a straight girl go to a gay bar anyway?
Probs cos their a vibe
To escape straight men, it’s an endless cycle. Gay bar opens gay people go, straight women want to to get away from straight men and straight men find out women are going there and go so now it isn’t a gay bar anymore
bisexual maybe idk
@@Ellaaa246 she said she’s straight
oh oops😂
me all the time in bars lol
Hot take personally i dont think straight non queer people (straight people can also apart of the lgbtq community) should be allowed at gay clubs, like sometimes we need a space for us 🤷 obviously im not opposed to straight people in gay clubs i just think it defeats a lot of purpose for queer people of having a free space.
Don't you think it would be kinda hard to check peoples sexualities before coming in? I dont think that would make me feel more safe. It also seems like a huge invasion of privacy
😂 welcome to equality
I mean there could be a trans person who is interested in a particular sex and other people wouldn’t know either
@@haydndouglas1732 well they want equality so,
We decided segregation was wrong a long time ago. You sound like a racist
LMAO as a woman the only thing that I could think was how do you think men feel….
Or maybe don’t do things expecting things in return I don’t know it’s strange but I understand the feeling
Lmao "as a woman" stfu
Don't accept free drinks from people when you know they're doing not because they like you cuz they're in a gay bar
@@rocklnymine7085 lol. What if I didn’t like you but you just ruined it with your nasty attitude expecting things in return don’t do things and expect things in return how about that
@@rocklnymine7085 no one owes you anything
@@TacoTaco901 and so just like no one owes you anything you don't deserve free drinks if you are not actually interested in the other person
Well come say hi! I'm bi and im right here in LA :D
"Why are you hitting on me? Do I look gay to you?" YOU DO WHEN YOU'RE IN A GAY BAR WHAT DID YOU EXPECT
She might be with a friend who didn't wanna go alone and has no other gay friends
There’s no way this is the case for the HERDS of straight women who go to gay bars (and bring their boyfriends)
then she should've just said she was straight sooner.
Legit. Whenever i go to Ku in London its exclusively streight girls, gay guys or older lesbians i have no shot with. So i always go to She which is just Lesbains.
I got what this person is saying. But some ppl in the comments really think straight ppl can't go to a gay bar just bc they're straight. It's like saying a gay person can't go to a random bar 🤦
but random bars arent designated for heterosexual people
@@tanukifox8041 so there are two ways this conversation can lead to: 1- so u think u can stereotype a gay liking creating a gay bar but a bar is not designed for what straight ppl stereotypically like?
@@tanukifox8041 2- you want a cookie?
@@ferelcopter5126 to say that average bars are made for what a straight person would stereotypically like is to assume the people making those bars are straight (this is just what im thinking youre trying to say)
@@tanukifox8041 not really. I don't think gay bar are made just by gay eather
I’ve gotten a lot of hugs and kisses from hot guys at a gay bar. Flirting with a guy just to find out he is taken and is monogamous is disappointing too not just straight. But at least you will most likely still get a hug and maybe a kiss.
I went to a gay bar with my friends thinking it would be a safe place and there were a whole bunch of drunk straight guys trying to pick up women 😮💨
WHERE IS THIS LOCATED? BRING ME THERE AND TAKE ALL MY MONEY
I feel kinda guilty. Im mostly a straight man but gay bars just tend to be more open, casual, friendly and less crowded...
don’t feel bad you can go wherever u want gay people are allowed at straight bars so straight guys can be allowed in gay ones
@@domojose I mean sure, but gay bars are in part there to give gay people, who honestly are still not completely safe in mainstream clubs, a place to be free to do their thing. I can imagine them feeling annoyed if their safe space gets overrun by straight people after straight people made their own clubs too toxic xD
@@mistrants2745 that is very considerate of u but yeah don’t feel bad we welcome u
@@domojose glad to hear it!
@JUP1TER Serious question: why would straight people hit on gay people? Seems particularly counter intuitive. You either get rejected, or you get into the awkward position of being hit on back by someone youre not interested in.
Is that really a thing??
You look amazing
Y'all calm down. I thinks it's absolutely fine to go to a gay bar as a straight person, (in the end,gay bars are awesome) but tell the others up front. Don't make them buy you drinks and flirt for hours just to disappoint them. That's not fair.
It's a bar, not a dating site
Well so is spaghetti until it gets wet 😏
-someone
@@A1CHI_ it’s kind of creepy honestly
@@Scruffy-qi3ik it is creepy.
it's giving "you just haven't found the right guy yet"
@JUP1TER the gay version of “I can make you straight” more like
THAT LIP BITE THO
Someone I know basically they went into a gay bar, hitting on this girl for straight like 3 hours, hanging out, laughing, drinking, and then the guy I know finally is like "Wanna go to mine?" and she GIGGLES AND SAYS "Hehe, i'm straight!"
2 expensive a** beers down the drain,
my guy was a girl btw.
It always suprises me that videos like that get so much traction considering that this is just normal shit. In a gay bar you flirt with someone and then they tell you "oops tehee i am teh straight so no dice" but in ANY bar this is the same with men just hitting on women.
The difference is: "Oops tehee i just like free drinks so no dice!" with the added bonus of "Ooops I'm actually teh gay so no dice" .
Now that i think about it there is actually no difference. And some people saying "Well this is a gay bar so OF COURSE I'm gonna assume you are gay" is the same thing as somebody saying "Well this is just any old bar so OF COURSE I'm assuming that you are straight! "
Both sides don't make sense. Some women just enjoy a gay bar so they don't get treated like prey and to simply have a drink without having to tell a guy to fuck off all the time. And sometimes if you are gay you are not out to meet someone, just to hang out with friends. No need to frequent a gaybar for that.
I don't think it matters really. It's a bar, if it has alcohol imma be there.
It’s specifically for lgbt people tho
It's not fucking for you, though. It's a gay bar for gay people, you can go drink at any random ass bar and it wont make a difference. Stay out of our safe spaces
@@teamawesomeness7137 what? Gay bar,what don’t you get?
@@SonotmickeY3626 a bar specifically for lgbt people is just called a normal bar
i thought the song said i want my fing mummy back
Just because you bought someone a drink dosn't mean you're entitled to sleep with them
Straight people shouldn't be in gay bars - that's the point of the video that you missed
not the point🤡
That's Not The Point, Buckarooski. It's A Gay Bar, Not A Straight Bar. It's For LGBT People.
@@SpoiledMilk.D.E.C lgbt people can go to whatever this "straight bar" you're referring to is
a straight girl. in a GAY bar. the point is that the straight girl was assumed to be gay by everybody there, therefore the gay girl though she had a chance.
if you're wondering the original song is called "going underground" by the Jam
I swear I've only met one straight girl who was actually straight. Everyone else is like "haha I'm straight, but girls are really pretty and also I sit on my bffs lap because omg she's so comfy but yea I'm straight"
You’ve only met one straight girl. You’ve met a lot of girls exploring their sexuality.
They are so pretty God
Simp
Lmao I love that lesbians and straight men have common experiences because they both have to deal with women 😂
Some people go to gay bars because they are curious. I had a friend who used to go there cause she felt safe and the girls were so respectful and amazing.
Have you ever thought that she was lying because she felt uncomfortable bc she didn’t like you?
Have you ever thought that she would have said something, because women are very outspoken. Clearly you don't know any.
@@myrddin1 I am literally a woman wdym I don’t know any? 🥲
So you're saying she could be lying about being straight... Because she thought they weren't gay..?
IT'S A GAY BAR
@@CassieIsGae what?? No okay oml okay so I meant she might be lying because she was uncomfortable with the other girl hitting on her.
@@erzsieke They person in the video isn't a girl tho
Why can I never find the gay bars with available wlw? It's either a sausage fest or they're all unavailable!
it’s sad that straight girls have to stop going to normal bars to avoid being harassed constantly
The person in this video was literally harassing a woman. Lmao. People are so fn stupid these days it's unreal
@@bigisrick Unreal how you interpreted this video.
@@JessicaFreda62 just because she has a vagina doesn't mean she should be harrasing women
It was like that 10 years ago, now it's not safe for this exact reason.
@@jaswin5994 yeah. Lesbians can be extremely pushy.
This hairstyle fits you
So stop hitting on random people L
It’s a gay bar
@@H1l_3ditz u don’t go to a strip club not expecting naked women, it’s a gay bar meant for gays to socialise and flirt
@@H1l_3ditz hats the purpose of a bar if not to flirt and socialise
So you supposed to hit on your family? Cause no
Say it with me: if you are straight at least go to a gay bar with a gay friend, and specify first that you are straight
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 and disclose that you are straight
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 i offer up tjis scenario you go to a gay bar and flirt with a girl, its been an hour and youve boight her some drinks amd offer to go back to your place, to which she says she is straight. youve now wasted money on drinks without it having the effect you wanted. you suffer monetary loss. that is why. situations like these
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 that is not the point. it doesnt have to be that scenario. perhaps you asked them in date for next saturday or to get coffee. you have suffered financial loss becuase they effectively decieved you.
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 ignore the situation. if straight people go to gay bars it just becomes a bar. gay bars are supposed to be safe spaces where the people inside are expected to be gay for that exact reason. straight going to gay bars defeats the whole point of a gay bar
This is the gau equivalent of "I have a boyfriend " welcome new friend
Gay*
Also funny comment.
No it's not. The gay equivalent would be the girl saying "I have a girlfriend". Straight people in gay bars is such a bad thing because they are invading a safe space made for us.
@@Red-zh3ef k
Tbh straight girls shouldn’t go to gay bars. There’s regular bars they can go to. If they were w friends I get it but going alone makes it seem like you’re looking for someone to possibly date which can be confusing for other women.
You’ll be alright. Just get used to rejection and get over it
I mean next time ask her if she's straight or not
But it's a gay bar. A bar specifically for gay people. That's like going to a Christian dating site and finding out a person on there isn't actually Christian. It's kind of the whole point.
@@afunkylittleguy you can’t refuse access to a PUBLIC bar just because someone is straight. Do you realize that’s discriminatory?? Just like a gay person can’t be refused access to a sports bar just because they’re gay.
@@kyleemeg2171 no the issue is she is looking for man to date or trying to hook up with a man at a gay bar, it is perfectly acceptable to go to gay bar as a straight person as long as you do not intend to flirt with people or are ready to be flirted with by the same gender
@@kyleemeg2171 you can't be refused, but why tf do you feel the need to invade gay people's spaces? Sports bars aren't designated to be a safe space for sports fans or something because they don't need one, no one oppresses sports fans whatsoever. That's the whole point.
This is such a dumb take. If I go to a freaking gay bar I expect to meet other queer people and not straight cis people
I’ve heard a lot of people say that they’ve tried to hit on or flirt with someone in a gay bar but then that person gets all angry bc they’re straight. Like WHAT DO YOU EXPECT???
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 True, there’s bad people in every community and the queer community isn’t an exception to that
@@samuelbenedictpriest2767 Yea, it’s weird to see videos by queer people that are kinda toxic
Same… I want my money back can’t because she stole it all before she said she is straight 🫤🤔😂
Hello baby I hope you're having
Bruh there do be more straight ppl than gays in gay bars these days
Why do people make who they bang their personality
Every man ever
@@meowgi No?
@@meowgi nah bro you watch Chinese boys sing all day opinion invalid
Why do people assume someone's personality based off of the jokes they make on social media?
@@meowgi No
"i want my fckin money back"
well i want you to tell me where that mf bar is
She doesn't owe you shit
Not the point, she meant "why didn't you tell me you were straight?". She's not mad because the other girl is straight. She's simply annoyed that a STRAIGHT girl in a GAY bar didn't clarify she was STRAIGHT until someone has already hit on her! If it wasn't obvious enough(I doubt it was because you didn't get the point), she meant; people will think that you are gay if you are in a gay bar. Clarify that you are straight to avoid misunderstandings.
Can't believe she lead you on like that. I would never. On that note, how you doin
I understand the idea of a gay bar but if straight people would make only bars for them, that would be a war.
I think the best idea are bracelets. Some paint say that you are looking for some relation as a gay or as a straight person for night or more and some that you only want to drink and dance, or sth. And this should be everywhere :)
Straight people aren't oppressed nor have a history of oppression, gay people do, part of the separation of having gay bars is to ensure safety of those there.
Oh no, she doesn’t like you because you were nice to her. Pick me much?
bro no it's not about the girl not liking her it's about the girl lotrally being striaght and being unable to like other girls. so mensing she was just pretending to flirt and just wanted attention there.
@@niharika3280 Maybe she’s attending a bar with her gay friends. She doesn’t have to be gay.
@@Derekjgavit422 nope, straight women just *go* all the time. Sometimes they’ll bring their straight boyfriends even. They think gay bars and gay people are “quirky”.
@@Case.Case.23 exactly, so imagining you’re entitled to someone’s attention is arrogant
You sound bitter, Derek
You could call it leading on
I call it smart. Free drinks all night? Yes please