Are You Alone and Do You Feel as if Nobody Loves You? Don't Believe it, and Here's Why.
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- Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
- In this video, Jason speaks about why it is normal to feel lonely, unloved, and under appreciated by the world. He speaks about why this happens and how to take small steps in order to turn your attention to the things that will help you find happiness in your life again.
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There is no love in this world for the ones who give and love. They say it comes back but you will be expecting all your life.
Pavithra Mowli so true
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@Write it Black I mean I won't love something I don't believe exists, also they never care until you're dead. Exact thing that happened to Jesus.
I'm totally ok with the fact nobody likes me. I know nobody likes me because I've been on earth for 30 years and never had a real friend. I've tried to open up to people, tried to be sociable, tried getting women on dates etc. It's just too much effort to chase people. Why should I do the chasing and no one even approaches me? I've accepted the fact no one likes me and I'm fine with it. I'm not apprachable and I've accepted it. I've learned to love my own company.
i feel you bro
it sounds so lonley. maybe I'm the same especially when you feel nothing while others are happy .....
i feel the same :) this is weird maybe but here's a friend :)
me to..
as a 27 year old with BPD, That has been through most stuff Borderline personality dissorder people go through...
Meaning my family circle is now 10% of what It once was, meaning my 9 years relationship with my girlfriend is over , meaning I've got my friends to hate me and pushed all the true ones away... I know what lonely feels and I know its selfish to feel "lonely" over life when there is always a person in worse condition than you... BUT, we are all different, our ways and capacities of tolerating this "lonelines" feeling is different in each of us...
I feel too empy, I havent even commented on the internet about my condition or my feelings before, I think I've reched the end line, either I fix my life Or I surrender to loneliness, I really do not know what to do in order to stop feeling lonely and be able to have "normal" social life. Its extra harder for a BPD diagnosed person like myself.
Nesecito una mano amiga.......
lately i've felt alone because i feel like i always put more effort into my close relationships. i don't feel like i'm receiving as much love as i'm giving, & it has been making me bitter. thank you so much for this video
Corrina hmm me either
Same
Corrina I feel like that too
agreed and it makes me sad because I feel she would return as much love as I do if she felt the way she says
Corrina If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here for you. If you want my number, I’ll give it to you. I’m going through the exact same thing right now. It hurts.. I’m bleeding on the inside, but I’m still fighting. You don’t have to do this alone. Let me help you. 704-418-2571
Reason for loneliness sometimes is because my family is always bitter. So I spent a lot of time alone.
sml a lot of turmoil in my household. really thinking about moving out
Me none Sa.e
Same
Annette Wojtowicz u r right
Me none, sad to say but family is the worst to deal with. They're your first enemy.
this is actually vicious cycle...i would rather be a tree or dog, just to stop thinking, to stop being aware of everything, to stop being afraid...
Jacek Połoniński Here's a playlist for conquering negativity and depression, darkness and all that. Please listen to it, you might get a lot out of it. The mantras there are specifically designed to help you with the energies aligned with fear and depression. Here's the link: ua-cam.com/play/PLPwSCHiUqKMmsdsX6_3N3QxbHbQdPKwnl.html
Jacek Połoniński Are you me.😁
Omg same
Jacek Połoniński
I’ve always been like that too. No end to it especially if you’re just a little
Different than the average person. They don’t understand.
Yeah and after a while it takes a toll on you
i always feel unloved ;(
I love you... idk i just want to loving someone. Maybe i too lonely
Come on we all love you😀
💚. You ARE love
Hey I care about you no matter where you are who you are I’ll have your back
I love you. *Happy* ?
I was feeling pretty sad and lonely and searched on UA-cam "I feel lonely" and your video came up and it helped me. Thank you.
+hasselerz that's what I'm here for. :)
hazelxo same
Thankful for this video
Anthony Rojas yes
Loneliness is an epidemic that's spreading like wild fire. Only the strong will survive.
I am very strong but I don’t see the point in continuing this.
@@yeshalloween a gun will solve my problem
For what is coming in this world no even the strong will not survive.
I always felt like nobody wants me around due to being mentally abused when I was younger and I feel trapped in the trauma of never being accepted or being rejected.
Same
I had a meltdown. This video really helped me. Thank you
majasandberg :)
majasandberg u hot lady
+Rachel: I'm not understanding your comment, or your motivation to post it towards someone who is just saying "thank you"
majasandberg marry me
The meltdown is part of the process. You can then purge all that does not serve the best for you in your life. It can be a re-organization time, a time to slow down and regroup - a time to go within and reach for what does work for you 💚
I swear to God..I thought I was the only one going through this...really be the person who is alone..
SB169885 no no you're not the only one in this. Universe who are going through this predicament .........
I wish you all the best in life ...... Much love from you .... I would like. You to know on thing in this universe self love is the cure. To self hate .... K wish y'all the best in life .....
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No you are not the only one! The difference is you experienced it earlier!
Ur not alone keep ur head up
ow hello ? im lonely, but never thought im the only one that feels like that, that maybe the MOST selfish thing ive heard ! you truly need to get over yourself and start thinking of others.
This makes sense. I have not had a date in 18 years. I am very lonely and depressed because of this. It is because I can not allow anyone in and I am socially anxious. I should be happy for the few people who like me and get me rather than trying so hard to get others to like me.
Heather Winer Same with me. I would date you my friend. 😀😁😊☺
im t same virgin till i was 26 n then 9 months later she left me n i did everything in relashionship worked payid bills supported her loved her n she left due to me naging her to help out more since she dosent work
You've HAD a date, Heather. That should tell you that you've been accepted and validated by at least another person
in your life. If I had experienced that even once, I could die a happy man.
Heather Winer m
Heather Winer
You are beautiful... I share your feelings.
I have the opposite problem. I love myself, but absolutely nobody else does. Im happy with the situation, but sometimes i want to share my experience with others. Everyone around me is so asleep i just choose to keep it to myself, if i try to explain my journey they distance themselves from me, its like their so addicted to the ego they cant listen to this "nonsense" that we are unified with life. Thats how i feel, anyways.
Conner Heinlein it is a trick. A subtle one, but a trick anyway. Share yourself, not your path. It happens to all of us, that we want everyone to be a certain way, or experience and understand what we have gone through. This is another condition that we have put on our happiness and a condition that we've put on our relationships--if they listen to us and are impressed with our path, then they are important in our lives somehow. This is just the reinforcement of the importance of the identity that has gone through something--it is a trick of the ego. Don't identify with spirituality or lack of spirituality. Just be yourself-that is enough. A hint is, if you really love yourself, you would not have to convince someone of your importance, whether it is the importance of your path, your life, your job, your accomplishments. I know this stuff is really subtle, so I would ask you just to pay attention and see where this game is all coming from. This is the real spiritual work. Spirituality really has little to do with ideals and big picture crap that so many idealists come to my meditations with. You would not believe how many come with ideas that say, "If the world was just more spiritual, then I'd be okay. I've got it all figured out, but the world needs to change." Perhaps part of what they are saying is right, but in the end, it is their experience that needs to change--they have not become a master of it yet, so they are searching on the outside to fix it. Take your mastery further, and then observe what happens. I hope this helps. Blessings to you, my friend.
why do I feel I have the same issue as you!
Conner Heinlein for me, it's like "wow, I am pretty today!" But then I look around me and most of the time, I'm just nothing special to ppl. I'm just normal and plain, or even worse I got told recently "I try to be a model". It was so embarrassing.
Conner Heinlein
Eden ❤❤🙏 thank you for your kind words.
I just wish I had a significant other so much I've never been on a date or had a significant other at all.
A lot of people are feeling this way- someone special is out there looking for you!
thatunicorncalledgrace same here :/
your joking,your beautiful.
EverythingInSight Me too, but serisously... Relationships arent that important
you are a beautiful soul. embrace that shit
You are just Amazing. Every word you've said is what I feel and going through every second, every day. My soul's crushed, I feel unwanted, already dead. Doing absolutely nothing in my life at the age of 30 because I have no desire to live and for whom? Because nobody's there for me, doesn't matter if I succeed or fail in anything. No friends, no boyfriend, no love or emotional support from parents, no job, just waiting for death.
Hi Shrey, their are people who are alive and not part of the dead; that walk among us. Our senses for those that we love are indeed as real as the emotions and wonder we get from painting and listening to music. You are loved, since no one cares about our ultimate journey; find yourself within the wild world and share that love with liberation and freedom. You aren't amor fati; unless you choose such a life. I'll tell you something I've never told anyone before; I woke up one morning to find that life is but an act to the dead; * a script. Somehow you must find the will to overcome the tragedy that marks and defines a lifetime of suffering, within our human spirits. You will find love, and you will not want to let go.. this is where you must be free to express love without attachment. We were always meant to be free; our chains are nothing more than a bandage for the wounded social conditions that make us a slave to their own merit. We are ultimately afraid to be free; we indeed are and masters of our own minds we must become. You will get through the haze, and you will come to find those that have been on a similar path. The path we all take will lead us to navigate a different lifetime of self discovery and indeed suffering. Be bold love, and sail into the world with your purpose. I found liberation through writing with purpose, each and everyday. Our brains are designed to give us a negative feedback loop, this reinforces certain thoughts that are unhealthy. I hope you are feeling much better, love.
Wow! Going through my old youtube history. I Beat depression and this guy is one of the people I watched to win! I learned to STOP and question EVERY SINGLE NEGATIVE THOUGHT. And I got better and better. And the darkness left me. Im bigger and better than negative thoughts that weren't even true.
Humblebrag much?
I raise two daughters by myself and when my wife left us it crushed me. I haven't seem to get over that it's been five years now. I am happy but at the end of the day I'm alone. My friends live in other states and it's taking its toll.
Hang in there man you're not the only guy on Earth raising girls alone it happens there is someone out there for you it's up to you to find someone to eliminate the empty feeling
I don't have one single friend or loved one.
You do now
Im the same natalie in the same boat its hard i know.
Natalie Ward same
Same
Sending you love from Canada Natalie!
And what if all environment you are in just bullying and hating you?
I live in terrible place, have no family, and in the school everyone bullies me.. it's too hard to suffer like this every day
"Be practical, be free, it will help you to have good results in the future.."
I don't think everyone can be strong enough, going through hell every day and ruining your health
Then you've already decided
hope you're doing better now
Wowwwwww
Hope u are feeling better now 🌷
when i needed love i was rejected i felt alone and i felt sad
i felt sad and i was alone i looked for some love coming in
from any where from the cosmos
it stopped coming at all one day
and my heart broke and it closed
+loopiewho Story of my life.
ditto ;(
I don't feel worried about being single and i am really not into looking for anyone now i see that being single is a gift in so many ways and i treat myself really well.if you spend half the time and effort you would on some one else on yourself life is sweet and your worth it lol
Cheer up
write poetry.
I lost everything, nobody cared, There where people that where happy to see me fall and laughed at mw within their circles,
Im alone and old now
It's true, I do always panic when someone appears to like me, as I worry they'll stop liking me once they find out how odd and boring I am. It causes me to tell lies and run away, then get upset over how lonely I am again.
Same I feel the same way
I feel the same way. It's really tough.
Bro today is my birthday....and I'm left alone....no one wished me or cared....I really felt very sad and alone...but the advices which u gave was really giving me some idea that I should start accepting it and loving the condition and that I should start finding for ppl who care for me...
Thanks for the wonderful advice Bro.♡♡
+Dhanush V Happy Birthday!
JasonJGallant thank you so much Bro...!! ♡♡...
Happy belated birthday bro!!
Dhanush V when’s ur birthday bro so I can come back and say happy birthday
hello, my name is Diana. Im 16. i was feeling very sad and lonely when i typed feeling depressed and lonely on UA-cam. i came across your video and it helped me with thinking about the negative. i never thought somebody like you would have words like that to cure someones mind. thank you.
Diana Garcia so glad I could help. Everyone goes through this sort of thing at some point in their lives. Inevitably, meditation and all other sorts of inner reflection will assist you in understanding how to create or uncreate your inner experiences. When you master this, you start to have some pretty amazing inner experiences, bliss and experiences of light and joy to name a few of them. :)
I went through a process of giving up everything that didn't really gave me anything. It might sound selfish but it's the contrary actually. To rid yourself of energy sucking people and situations. I ceased to assist to events I really wasn't into, or meeting "friends" that weren't really friends. And only kept real and sincere environments. (BIG change since I've always been very social)
However, I find myself quite alone now. Solitude is something I've always loved but lately, truly, I find myself without even one real friend.
The change was absolutely worth it! Such a breath of fresh air to not have to deal with anymore fake and shallow. Except that I now feel too isolated... and isolated by my own self...
...that didn't really give me anything...** sorry
SHIMMYshookmybone well...sometimes changing relationships is the right thing, but that doesn't mean you stop relating. After all, you are in relationship with the air, the sun, the food you eat, the body you live in, so relating is a part of life. Perhaps at times you have friends, at other times not, but rejecting all relating because of pain, means that you are controlled by pain, not love. My suggestion: work on becoming free of the pain by seeing it in a different context. Then see where your heart takes you.
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Hello! :) Thank you for your advice! Sounds good and quite fitting I might add. I'll work on this new reflection.
I have been stuck at the same point in my life since I was 13 (now I'm 22) because I am constantly battling to maintain or gain connection with people and because I DREAD losing it. But it's not only loneliness that stings, it's the SHAME that comes with it. I am lonely and I am ashamed of of being lonely. I do not want to hang out with people just because I want company, but so because I think it's shameful not to have company. Especially on a Friday or Saturday night. And then I either drown myself in food or I have a mental breakdown.
Tracey Larrs i feel you 😢😞 i have been struggling with this all my life i am 23 now and i am lonely as hell and i wanna die
Im 34.
I immigrated to a developed country from my developing country 2 years ago.
Im back to school.
In my entire life I have been suffering from low self esteem but I always had high self confidence.
I am very much surprised how my self confidence has been ruined at school.
Even though I am beautiful and fit, I still feel verrrry inferior to my classmates.
They are all very sexy and confident.
They do good on the assignments but I am like a 9 y old who is not capable of doing a simple math test.
I can't help thinking that they laugh at me in their minds.
I used to think I am intelligent but now I look like dummies and everyone else in my class looks very smart.
I am so disappointed.
I had big big dreams for this age of me and now Im nth but a super regular dumb newcomer...
@@manishgoswami8910 me too
Damn I really wasn't expecting this level of carefully voiced wisdom when clicking here.
I’ve been rejected by everyone i ever cared about. Mother, father, wife, and even kid. I don’t know what love feels like. And probably never will.
I’m in the same boat I have no friends and my whole family hates me I don’t know why
I am very lonely and live alone. My husband/soul mate died many years ago. I don't think I ever accepted that. I now have lyme disease that makes me very tired. I am older and don't have many friends. Everyone is so busy, mostly married and involved in their own worlds. I was dating someone just to be less lonely, but he is emotionally unavailable. I am a sensitive person and I don't feel like I fit into this world. I will listen to more videos, but I really don't know where I fit in. I'm losing hope.
I don't mean to be all over this page talking to people, but I just wanted you to know you're not alone in that. After my mother died, the only person in my family that even liked me, I started feeling weird, like I might really be all alone. My "friends" all scattered when I was seeking help with her death, except for my animals. Then one by one they all just died, and some of my human friends died, and my husband was no help because he's both a narcissist and having mental issues that are just getting worse all the time. I felt like I was going to die of grief. All we really need is one good friend. Mine lives a long way away but we talk on the phone every day. It's not all the comfort I'm looking for but I am grateful for her. Don't have hope, have action. Look for places online that discuss your condition and go from there. She and I met because we were going through hard transitions at the same time. It's one of the ways people can make friends these days. I'm more interested in face to face friends, so I miss her being here, but it helps on the days I feel so lonesome I think I might actually fade away. I wish you happiness. Blessed Be.
Susan, I felt that i needed to tell you that for God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whosoever believes in him shall have everlasting life. I have my parents died and my husband became disabled. Life doesn't seem fair. I am a sensitive person also. I think we as women are meant to be. I don't ever plan on giving that up for no one. I made a decision to dig my heels in and say i shall not be moved by how I feel. Feelings fluctuate but facts don't. So God has taught me to know he's there for me even when i don't feel as though no one cares. There is GREAT hope in this. So i want to encourage you to dig your heels in and stand strong no matter what my friend. God bless you!
Thank you......I'm not giving up.
You can always write to me.
hope you're fine
Thank you. Just thank you.
I've been a introvert Depressive for most of my life. I've recently , though, changed my hairstyle and upgraded My wardrobe which really boosted my confidence. Initially I received a lot of compliments from members of a church, that i play for (Mostly females) I've also encountered jealousy from my male counter parts. they go as far as trying to embarrass or demean in front of females that compliment me so they can be looked upon as the better man I'm not very good at playing the dozens or quick come backs. This is extremely frustrating and hard to handle! I've recently gone back to being depressive
+Kevin Drummond yeah, well, let's just say this. Being yourself needs no applause from anyone else. It's the experience of You Liking You that you are after. Don't worry about what other people think--they have their own pain driving them that really has very little to do with you.
If you feel you are lonely and you get a "fake" hypocrite compliment from someone that tries to use you, you should feel the sincere love?
World is so fake. Everyone just cares their own business, love for money or other advantages.
I feel like you are telling nice fairy-tail about this world is good and people around you is sincere and you should feel pure love.
It's not like that, and many people feel lonely because they have experienced bad contact with people or their environment is being rude and fake. I think it's just suffering, some people may live their life lonely till the end. It's not about how to find right people or receive love. You should just talk about how to deal with suffering from loneliness.
Loving yourself is where it all begins. This has nothing to do with a fairy tale. You choose how to feel about life and yourself. That's it. This takes practice though. It isn't instantaneous for many. The spiritual path is about becoming conscious of your own contributions to your own suffering so that you can change them. If you don't want to do this and continue to experience life the same way, then don't. You are allowed to keep suffering if you wish.
Im sorry but its just not like that. People are fake. I give and give of myself trying to make a friend anything...there is nothing. I get used for this and that and when I express to *so and so* hey I really care about you, there is no acknowledgment. I love myself and try to show others how they are important to me. *OTHER PEOPLE* are the problem
Rachel Rosen I have come to the conclusion than the busier you get the less you care about finding other people to be friends or love you.. it is during those time though that it just happens, good people come into your life when you don’t even want them to, but the moment something changes in your life like losing your job etc...or you are relaxing enjoying the fruit of your harvest, then you are weak then the fakes come into your life and you are so negative or positive you don’t even know until it’s too obvious. The trick is to become a better version of yourself and be busy, don’t rely on others and keep those good friends that came into your life at that right busy time. Always remember though that everyone goes through their own troubles and sometimes is not that they don’t love you they just too busy figuring their own lives and you might feel a little abandoned, just get busy with your again and it will pass. Having said that I feel you and I know it’s horrible to feel lonely but you are not and never will be if you don’t want to, its all about being brave to follow your dreams alone and be ok with it.
THIS.
@@miasvera3214 i totally agree with you
Thank you so much for this. You're an amazing person, keep doing what you're doing. I've been reconsidering myself because nobody likes me, and I have to deal with that sadness of myself and my sisters past. I have to deal with bullies and what not, luckily some people are nice to me, but usually they are only online friend and they don't know me in reality. You are possibly the nicest youtuber I have ever seen.
I'm totally alone and I'm ok with that sometimes I get very emotionally thinking about it but I'm ok with that it is making me stronger. Thank you soooooo much for this video
I dunno but everything in the comments are so relatable to me, it is a good thing to know that I am not the only one feeling the same way and it makes me feel understood and secured.
This video meant so much to me. I can’t express enough how much I needed this. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm a tenth grader and recently my best friends started ignoring me... we've been friends for 7 years but now I have no real friends... I'm alone at school.. I don't know whom, I could open up to... i feel little hurt and frustrated with all those people who were close to me because I was there for them when they were at their worst but I don't have anybody whom I could share how I feel... i feel lonely...
It's a appreciation from my heart to you... your video has helped me a lot... All the things you've said in the video actually connects with me!! I've been trying to make good impression of me on others which kept me unmotivated all the time... You're right I should try to be close to people who already love me and try to be away from the negative energy... thank you so much once again your videos are great❤❤
dam,i need a job but hate co-workers and bosses.
well, I guess you'll have to be an independent, self-employed person. :) Nothing wrong with that.
JasonJGallant thank you jason
Sometimes misery comes from trying to put yourself in a place that doesn't honor your nature. Find out what that is, honour it, and then see what it can do. That's where your genius lies. :)
Agreed. Doing a job is easy, having to deal with all the bullshit and bullies not so easy.
Wow. There are no words. A social media reaction is lame. Thank you. You may have saved my life. Is it true that someone may really love me someday. For who I am??
Yes.
I don't believe that I've tried for many years but nope still alone rejected neglected abused the only thing I love is just my business because no one can really love me honestly truly I'm sorry but I don't believe not after all I been through no way no how
Thank you❤, I go through this battle time and time again. Extreme loneliness and feeling worthless. Then I meet someone I think it’ll work out only to be abandoned again. And I then let it crush me. And the cycle continues. I try hard to be free but it perpetually haunts me.
In my case much of my own family is the lightening storm so I'm turning away from them; I have to - to save my own mental health.
A psychology theory states that family members cause mental illness. Create a new family from people at work, from clubs like hiking, cooking, photography, from courses at colleges or continuing education. From volunteer work or political party groups. Check out Google "meet up" groups. Do not feel guilty leaving bad family members. Your spiritual contract with them is over once you leave the house and live on your own. Dance is a good way to meet people and get exercise...which makes you happy!
Lisa Sc uh sameee
My family are dead they were caught in an accident and I’m a foster I had a little brother at 1 year old and I never even reacted to him i regret everything I remeber
i follow a lot of teachers, like abraham hicks, neal donald walsch, minimalists and others.. and most common thing everbody say is practice self love:)
+Maja Filipovic refer to my other videos. :)
big mistake. practice loving everyone and everything around you.
I love myself, and after practicing Buddhist techniques for many years, which expand my circle of love, I now love absolutely everyone as my fellow siblings of this world. Yet literally no one likes or cares about me. Every time I try to make a friend of find a woman to love me, I'm rejected. I'm not ugly, I'm kind to people and don't have bad breath or body odor. So explain this, genius!
Existence can be experienced without external circumstances being met
People keep talking about self hate, but I’ve never once hated myself. Everyone else hated me. I’ve always loved myself, and I’m lucky I do because I’m the only one who does.
Absolutely spot on - thank you. It is strange how we think it's just us that thinks this way! I've had an Advil weekk with depression and generally feeling useless. Your video has helped xx
omg i love this video, i felt like you was talking to me. i suffer with depression and anxiety but everything you said was true. :'( you just made me feel a bit better. I'm gonna watch this everyday to make me understand what I'm doing wrong. your so helpful keep going you made me laugh so much i just love your video's xx
+Eve Gnabroux great to see that I helped you see things in a different light. Make sure you go to my website and sign up for the newsletter. :) I'll have other tools to help you along way, including more videos. www.jasongallant.ca
I feel alone even when im in a crowded place.people only pretend to like me..i wish everyone would just leave me alone.
Oh Jason. You’re the most understanding person. My own mother wasn’t nice to me. She never praised me or hug me and say she loves me. This affected me so much. It affected me to the point I couldn’t accept praise or friendliness. When I was at school, during my art exam, the invigilator stopped by my desk and praised my painting. I couldn’t feel happy that the invigilator was praising my painting. It felt or even sounded like she was laughing at my painting. I crumpled it and binned it. I failed my art exam, because I casually drew a fish tank, using yellow and blue with one fish in the water. I think this affected me my entire life. Taking your advice, I will listen when someone praises me and not jump into the negative conclusion as I’ve been doing. I’m grateful that I came across your programme. It was when I wanted know what “ Om padme hum...”. I’ve been listening to. If my death comes while I listen to this mantra, I’m positive I will reach Heaven.
I feel like people only notice my mistakes. And that no one ever believes me for nothing
Welcome to the spiritual path :)
I feel like no girl loves me :( All my friends have all been asked out but I never have. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, this video has made me feel better as well as the comments, the comments make me feel like I’m not alone.
OHHH MY I LOVE WATCHING THIS, IT ACTUALLY GETS BETTER EVERY TIME I WATCH IT
You understand , a little bit more everytime.This is a lot of wisdom for a small UA-cam video. Thanks to Jason I understand my codependency and loneliness so much more.
Everyone who is a week, a few days into recognizing patterns and trying to heal, and feels themselves relapsing: Please dont give up. Things like this take time, keep going back to the original things that made you recognize what was wrong. You can do this, you can heal.
Thank you so much Jason for this video. It is really inspiring. And I needed this now.
Being good looking means getting too many compliments on looks or the way I dress. Men want sex and women want to hang with a woman who attracts men so they can get the rejects. I only accept compliments about my abilities, talents and accomplishments. If based on looks, I know they want something. And it's usually sex or contacts they can exploit. Many women I meet are angry because they are not 9 or 10 in looks. Yet they don't see that many of those women are divorced or used as mistresses. You need more than a pretty face and rocking body.
All i have is a pretty face and nice body. Nothing else. And looks will fade... no wonder i feel so empty and disgusted with myself.
This. All of this.
Problem is. It's hard to find any group where you feel that you belong. Especially if you are spiritually oriented, as people just don't get you. Awakening is not an easy path, it's very lonely
Been listening to Jason for several years. He is a true blessing of truth. If your ever down, just listen to Jason xo
Blessings. :)
I wish I knew you in person, your advices are helpful I can relate to it. But its tough to implement them in life when your self-esteem is so low.
Yes, but you just start wherever you're at. I will make a video for you. Will you watch it?
Of course I'll watch it.
Okay I have some other videos going up soon so look for it in about 3-5days 😊
ok thats awesome
when i feel lonely i take myself out into the forest and i sit with the plants and the animals and trees and there's my company (:
You are not alone, God loves you even if you think he does not but he does, soon suffering will end
I cried all the video
Same here
This really helped, thank you
Thank you sooo much for this honest video and for giving people who like this a safe space. If you have any more videos on this topic I’d love to see them.
Yep, trying to get the applause or approval from people who will never give it to us. That is part of my problem!
I erased my comment - I didn't meant anything; I only meant I'm fond of you as a person and I was complimenting you.
+Lisa Sc Oh no worries. I know that you had good intentions. lol. I just didn't know what the comment was referring to. Blessings to you. :)
Thank you, I needed to hear this today
Thank you, my family is always yelling at me and i feel like nobody likes Me
Hi Jason,I feel like that no one cares and I get bullyed and I feel like I'm lost and I'm sad but they do care u made me realize and I did what u said and i happy now I am happy now thank you! And have a good day thank you again! =)
:P
Glad to hear it. :)
I AM USELESS . end of story
Hope 0502204 why tf you lying stop f lying I know your important to someone
Read and study. Knowledge will make you useful.
Being lonely and feeling lost is a growing epidemic now. People are so wrapped up in themselves and what they can gain. People use people and love material things. That's not how it's supposed to be. Make yourself happy first, then you will attract happiness whether you're ready for it or not. Peace.
I'm trying to embrace everything you say. I am single and don't have many friends. Being single is very challenging for me but I don't want to be with someone just to be in a relationship. I like myself and think I thrive better in a relationship. I was in a great one years ago, but he died. I can't seem to kick the sadness and loss of the life I had. I'm trying to be happy alone, but have not found joy in that yet. I will keep listening. Thank you!
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If people dont like you because your down all the time and you feel by being around people then you will feel better and then when you try be around people they see your not feeling ok and their nice enough to find a way to go there own way without hurting your feeling and you see that so you leave feeling worse how do you change what do or feel maybe what i said in this msg is why people dont like me ?? Plz help:(
JasonJGallant thanks
+love is everything dude,same 😩
I just got tired of it all... I gave up. I stay at my home and never see a living soul. I have no one to even speak to. They never came to see me or help me way before I stopped trying.
I know the feeling. You'd think people who know you and are somewhat your friends or your family know you are painfully lonely and have no one you can ask to do anything with you yet when you invite them they come up with ever excuse you can think of to not do anything with you. So what if you are inviting them to something that may not be their thing. They can do it anyway so you don't have to be alone all the time in total isolation week after week if they care anything about you. Then they never contact you or invite you to anything they do. I go a month at a time without seeing or speaking to anyone at times.
@@marklanmeadows I am so 😔 sorry. I wish Zi could say something to make you not lonely and disappointed. I know exactly how you feel, like I said I live it everyday too. I call my son all the time and it goes to voicemail. I know he is busy but he could at least call me or text me a message that he is alright. God bless you and may it get better for you sir.
The Wi-Fi analogy is quite brilliant! Thank you for your videos 🤗
Great video. We pay so much attention to the rejection and not enough to those who truly love us. We seem to believe that love should be earned and a struggle, instead of a natural state. This is very practical and achievable advice. Thank you, Jason!
I'm in high school and it's my last year. I never really made any good friends. I stay off social media and just mind my own business. This way my inner peace is for sure never destroyed but still I feel lonely at school i greet people that sit around me but they don't talk to me they talk to others instead. I feel like something is wrong with me. I've been feeling the need for therapy.
I find you such a beautiful soul. I love what you are teaching us. I do have an inner voice that tells me I dont deserve love or I am not loved. I know it comes from childhood and what I Ihave experienced through my life. I will take on board what you are teaching and look forward to feeling happier within myself. Thank you so much for taking the time to teach and educate us . Peace to you.
I feel like this every day
I’m lonely 😞 and lost I have so much love to give and your right I give to those who don’t want my love
I love your way of talking. Your talks are always very expressive and touchable because you talk very authentically, slowly & attentively and it's like you feel and mean what you talk about.
Lol. Yes. I mean what I say.
This man I respect he knows exactly how I feel everyday of my life
Thanks man truly thank you so much! This helped me so much as i am feeling unloved and alone and really insecure about myself and have been for a year. School is really tough and i am struggling with my anxiety and depression. I have seen doctors, therapists, councilors and nothing has worked as good as this video and i believe it is because you hit the nail on the head with everything i have been feeling and you showed me a different way to think about it all. So thank you so much
Point of view is the most powerful healer :)
Thank you. Very compassionate of you to say the truth like this. I appreciate it.
It has nothing to do with other people? Let’s be very clear I am very confident in myself. When ever someone says anything negative about me I automatically assume they are projecting. I’m a great guy but how many friends did I lose when I came out? Even family relationships change. I could feel people pull away. And as I make new friendships that hurdle is always there. It’s not the only hurdle I just wanted to give an example. Yes we all have insecurities but those don’t make you lonely. Loneliness is deep and has many layers. It’s not as easy as just smiling or being a better person sometimes people don’t like you just for who you you are.
Very well said.
It's normal.
It's the nature of conscious existence as a Human Being.
Our own minds can be our worst enemy.
Ive been giving so much compassion and love, not expecting anything back but I still would enjoy having someone there for me...
Be there for yourself unconditionally and your environment will strive to match the love you have for yourself:)
Wow! I,m so glad I came across your videos. I've listened to two of them so far and what you describe is 'bang on' what I've been experiencing and the solution you talk about is a wonderful confirmation of the tiny little intuition that has surfaced today out of desperation and 5 days of a seemingly bottomless dark hole! Man, you are wise and thank you so much for caring enough to share these tremendously valuable messages!
+rosiethebear300 great to see you here. :)
I had some bad dreams about people who used to mean something to me, who dont want to be in my life anymore. It's been years sense I have seen or spoken to them, but these sad, empty feelings always seem to come back. I love myself and am doing well. I'm just having a low moment and trying to get through it. Some day I hope to never feel like this. Depression is cancer.
Everyone I’ve ever had in my life has left or hurt me. I give so much and all people do is take and not give back. I need to learn to let those people go there not worth my time and never were.
lets practice happiness not because of other people or from external things. Lets choose and decide.
Dealing with this now. People act like they love me until I can’t give them something (usually monetarily), and then the try them comes out. Thanks for the message.
Had my birthday yesterday. Nobody called, not even so called family members like my daughter, sister or mom. Live by myself and feel nobody cares about me. Tried to call someone I have been talking with lately but after 4 times I just gave up; she was aware of the special day. I spend my time on reading and taking care of me in some other ways. Try to improve myself also but my life has no meaning in terms of having company of any kind. Only people I talk with are a handful of coworkers and on my break, don't get approached by people neither. Since it has been most of my life, I just love myself.
Truthfully, you're right. I always feel everyone that comes into my life has a reason they came and once they stop getting it from me they leave and so I feel no one is worth the love cuz I always noticed something, people pay attention to you only when you have something they want/can benefit from. There is no true friendship anymore, that's why I always feel alone cuz now that I don't have anything going I'm seriously alone no one to talk to nor even call my friend, even the one that's around is only there for what she benefits from me. I don't have a friend that can help, tell me why I shouldn't feel that it's not worth it let alone take them serious when I know they r only there for their personal interest which if I don't offer they leave
The best advice ever about this topic. Really thankful..And better than any worst motivation.
I’m so glad I found your channel. Thank you 😊 light & love 💕
The WiFi metaphor is so good and very true. I am in the process of switching the signal.
Everyday is a struggle when you have no one , as an orphan , I have no family , I grew up on streets, and shelter homes , had to eat from trash cans , after going through all that , I managed to complete college education but even after all this I’m alone and no one to share anything. I don’t want to live
I need more of this man's talk lately
Wow, I just read Corrina's comment, and I have to say I feel just like her. That I always put more effort to into my close relationships. I just end up feeling rejected and uncared for. It has been making me bitter to. I know it's wrong to be bitter because it gives a place for the devil. My own thoughts about the people I feel don't love me, are most likely not accurate and that they probably just have a lot going on in their lives. I must admit, this is the most deep and lonely I've ever thought a human could feel. I pray this will pass, because I've been batteling suicidal thoughts to, because of feeling so rejected. I've been asking God, why am I here? What's wrong with me? Why am I so needy? It's embarasing, yet depressing. If there's a christian out there, reading this please pray for me! God bless you!
I m important and I'm responsible for who I am now and I creat my world💪🏼
How are you doing now?) Fell better?