I informed my 15 year old daughter that she’s coming back to Ghana with me

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  • @webelonginafrica44
    @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +15

    If you support this video cashapp $44Amelio
    (UA-cam) won’t let me monetize this video maybe because I’m spending time with my daughter. There is no reason to halt monetization on this particular video 🥵

  • @HildaBoafo
    @HildaBoafo 8 місяців тому +39

    She will only understand when she grows. I was also against Africa until I fell in love with Ghana. I am a Ghanaian brought to Europe as a child. I was against Ghana till I was 35 years. Now thank God I am investing step by step to move back and live there.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +5

      Yes soon she will realize. I just hope it’s in time enough.

    • @Aeon1019
      @Aeon1019 8 місяців тому +7

      💯.... I was a severly Indoctrinated Kenyan 🇰🇪, went to Babylon at a young age, slaved away and never ever thought I would RETURN back. Had an Ephiphany in 2020 and came running back. BEST DECISION I EVER MADE. I 'm Free! Peace

  • @christianboahene5182
    @christianboahene5182 8 місяців тому +33

    Brother you are very smart guy, for having a house in africa.

  • @patriciasuttle92463
    @patriciasuttle92463 8 місяців тому +5

    Babygirl is very pretty, I pray she transitions well in ghana 🇬🇭....I think she will love it

  • @Colourbash
    @Colourbash 8 місяців тому +18

    You have a great relationship awww. I'm bringing my daughter (whole family) back with me to Africa. She's 12, and I decided she's going to high school in my home country. I have been talking to her about it, and she feels the same way "but I'm American, and my friends are here"... but I know once she's lived there, she'll be fine. 😊 Plus in the short run they can stay in touch via iPad 😅 as she weans off. This is for the best. I hope you get your daughter to go with you. All the best!

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +7

      Once I get her passport she don’t have a choice again lol

  • @patriciasuttle92463
    @patriciasuttle92463 8 місяців тому +5

    Babygirl seems like a lot of fun , she will make many friends in Ghana 🇬🇭 with such a pleasing fun personality

  • @marthavineyard6959
    @marthavineyard6959 8 місяців тому +17

    She is cute.😊 She definitely looks like you!

  • @oseiosei6649
    @oseiosei6649 8 місяців тому +13

    Let her visit first for about month or so. Do not force her.
    If her heart is for Ghana even if she leaves, she will come back.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +9

      I would love to give here a month but that would be sort of expensive. She is just putting on, she has already accepted the unacceptable lol

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому +1

      @@webelonginafrica44 hahahaha

    • @oseiosei6649
      @oseiosei6649 8 місяців тому

      @@webelonginafrica44😂😂

  • @jefestar
    @jefestar 8 місяців тому +14

    she'll change her mind later lol... i wasnt sure about afrika either as a kid because of the programming we were taught but i was always open to still check it out

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +3

      I’m hoping she does. It’s gonna be one hell of a cultural shock lol

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому

      ​@@webelonginafrica44she can go and visit for the summer...start making new friends to communicate with.

  • @afroqueen9458
    @afroqueen9458 8 місяців тому +16

    she's cool. Am so happy for both of you united again. Enjoy the rest of your day! We belong in Africaaa

  • @young57734
    @young57734 8 місяців тому +10

    Try to persuade her now before she get bit by the love bug. I love her smile and energy ❤

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому

      That's what I was thinking....at least she can go and visit for the summer, start making a couple of friends.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +4

      Oh she was just clowning she knows she has to go once I get her passport lol

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому +2

      @@webelonginafrica44 good. Remember I've been bothering u to go get her before the dreaded teenage...... Stuff sets in with a vengeance, and since u are not with her, even though her older sister is around, it's not the same as doing it yourself, and without her late mom around, u 😔😭 don't want her to lose twice, and all your hard work for nothing. It's time for her to get her ass to Ghana, sharp! Good job bro. She will thank u when she's older, talking to u in twi..she has no idea how u wish u had this same opportunity to grow up in the Motherland when u were her age!

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +2

      @@sos9020 yes you have been telling be about getting here to Ghana. Once I get her passport there is no turning back. Like you said I wish I had the opportunity that she has now. I’d break my neck getting on the plane ✈️ consider her in the motherland.

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому +1

      @@webelonginafrica44 aaww, now u just got me tearing up with your last line. I'm so happy u are doing this for her and for both of u. U are going to have your little companion with u now....wait, I'm going to hold on to my jumping up and down until I see her ass on the plane! Lol. Hopefully I'll see u guys next year in Ghana, I've already shipped everything,(got an unexpected delay after I went for mammogram and was hit with very sad diagnosis, surgeries, chemo and radiation later, and lost every dime I saved to move back to Ghana, sadly, days i have to work to replace this damn dollars, so next year, God willing, I'll be finally back to Ghana, and I'll have baby girl come visit me! Now, u go get your dollars too.

  • @bmswisdom9824
    @bmswisdom9824 8 місяців тому +5

    You seem like an excellent father and close to your children, daughter… That’s the smartest thing a father can do because it gives them confidence, makes them trust and be open.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      Yes I’m close to all 4 of them. I’m grateful to have a good relationship with them all like I do 🥰

  • @godschild2-yd3jy
    @godschild2-yd3jy 8 місяців тому +3

    Sometimes parents have to make unpopular decisions but ones best for kids. My 10 year old doesn't want to move either but he is going.

  • @caramelkisses8396
    @caramelkisses8396 8 місяців тому +2

    I laughed when I got the notification. She will understand that this was a life changing experience for the best later, and her friends will think it's so cool.

  • @africarizn7318
    @africarizn7318 8 місяців тому +3

    First of all just want to say more blessings my brother...the most important thing you've done is building that solid house in Ghana,the kids will thank you later,right now they don't understand the transition going on in our world...Have them visit,believe you me,they'll start seeing Africa differently. AFRICA is the future.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      If I can’t get them there I’ll make sure they fall in love with it like I did.

  • @artrinaneal2187
    @artrinaneal2187 8 місяців тому +5

    Awww your daughter has a very sweet soul. I had the pleasure of meeting her through my daughter. She is a great friend to my daughter and she will be missed.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      Thank you. Wow really? You have met her before? Small world 🌍

  • @AJ-Salaam
    @AJ-Salaam 8 місяців тому +2

    I know it's hard as a father to not have your children believe in your vision and share your values. But, she's gonna understand one day. On the bright side, she's a smart girl and has a bright future either way. Wishing the best for you both.

  • @seso3454
    @seso3454 8 місяців тому +6

    Very nice father-daughter reunion! Will be a great day when you both unite in Africa - father knows best!

  • @EnhancedSimplicity
    @EnhancedSimplicity 8 місяців тому +1

    I agree with your daughter... like that she's playful & fun

  • @meeletuube9106
    @meeletuube9106 8 місяців тому +3

    Your baby is super cute. I love how you guys are together

  • @blacklicorice5036
    @blacklicorice5036 8 місяців тому +7

    she is good looking just like her father in a professional manner stay safe and blessed always

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      Aweeeee thanks 🥰

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому

      What's professional? A compliment is a compliment, why do u have to qualify it??! How does anyone look good in a professional manner?!

  • @janicehouston9237
    @janicehouston9237 8 місяців тому +6

    She's absolutely gorgeous 😍....Yes, truly your baby girl 💞

  • @herregalness7461
    @herregalness7461 8 місяців тому +7

    Take a poll if baby girl should visit. I will be your first yes. She'll change her mind once I she's there.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      I’m hoping she does change her mind. I mean really really hoping.

    • @herregalness7461
      @herregalness7461 8 місяців тому

      @@webelonginafrica44 I know King, she can't see what you see or know about the west when comes to the melinated family.

  • @sourcestvghuk9897
    @sourcestvghuk9897 8 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful ❤❤❤😊 Daddy’s girl😊

  • @wilhelminakey9595
    @wilhelminakey9595 8 місяців тому +2

    Love the father and daughter love and friendship between you two. The smiles and laughter gives off positive vibes. I would love to see more videos like this one. Thank you for sharing and thumbs up!

  • @queenqahhaar
    @queenqahhaar 8 місяців тому +5

    She is so adorable brother and respectful ❤🙏🏿💪🏾

  • @afrikandawta
    @afrikandawta 8 місяців тому +2

    I smiled the entire time while watching your video. Daddy’s and their Dawta’s. 🖤 She will not regret moving to Ghana…future entrepreneur, your legacy. Thank you for sharing.
    We belong in Afrika. 🌍♥️🖤💚✊🏿

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      I hope so too. I was explaining to her about her being a young entrepreneur. She’ll come around.

  • @mimibroww11
    @mimibroww11 8 місяців тому +3

    She's so beautiful.

  • @mississippi4589
    @mississippi4589 8 місяців тому +1

    That's cool daddy's girl 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @wallyclark718
    @wallyclark718 8 місяців тому +2

    That's a blessing bro!

  • @HughJass-313
    @HughJass-313 8 місяців тому +3

    Knowing the real dynamics at play...
    this conversation was kinda hard to watch.
    ❤❤

  • @privacyprivacy4918
    @privacyprivacy4918 8 місяців тому +2

    Aww, she’s such a sweetheart and your twin! Well you have until November to get her mentally prepared. I’m buying land on Aburi and will start building by the end of year. I’m from 5th ward but live in Seattle. I have made a 3 year plan for my full transition. Bless you and your babygirl! 😊

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +3

      Aweeee thanks ☺️ to be honest Ghana has to be mentally prepared for her 😂
      I’ll be back by the end of the year hopefully I can come and do a before, during and after video of your project. I have yet to step foot in Aburi. Already!! From the nickel to Seattle then to Africa. We out here making major moves they ain’t ready for lol
      Peace and blessings to you and yours ☺️

    • @privacyprivacy4918
      @privacyprivacy4918 8 місяців тому +2

      @@webelonginafrica44 We don’t have the stuck mentality like our folks do in Htown. I’m going where the opportunities and progress is flowing. I will definitely love to reach out and we can connect by doing just that before, during and after. ❤

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      @@privacyprivacy4918 that is the way to go 😮‍💨

  • @elaineleslie3006
    @elaineleslie3006 8 місяців тому +2

    Awesome move Bro...wishing you both all the success ❤❤
    What a super intelligent beautiful young lady.

  • @kennethgray5447
    @kennethgray5447 8 місяців тому +1

    Wow bro! I just love your content and vibe! I was just telling my wife about you, and how you remind me so much of him with your mannerisms and the way you speak. This video right here made me tear up! I just decided Today for certain that I’m moving the family to Ghana! Things are just not good for us here… It’s been like this for years. We have a 10 year old daughter together.. I love you bro. Stay blessed!!! Congratulations 🎉

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      Thanks a lot bro much love right back at you and the family. Come on bro and get away from there because Africa is waiting for us:

  • @chikechris4411
    @chikechris4411 8 місяців тому +1

    I enjoyed the video. Keep it up brother.

  • @sharona6857
    @sharona6857 8 місяців тому +1

    Lol she's so cute and funny!! Too young to understand but if dad keeps schooling her, she'll be fine 😊

  • @wilhelminakey9595
    @wilhelminakey9595 8 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful queen.

  • @christinemcdonald1943
    @christinemcdonald1943 8 місяців тому +1

    She is live, she is beautiful, she reminds me so much of my own. I don't know what it will take to get them out of here.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks so much. Just keep mentioning what they can buy in the malls if they have dollars 😂

  • @thinkingabmel
    @thinkingabmel 8 місяців тому +3

    guys i reallyyy don't wanna go and i'm not happy about it like at all but i like spending time with my papa so a win is a win i guess😄

    • @Colourbash
      @Colourbash 8 місяців тому +1

      It's a win 😊

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому +1

      Aaww baby! U wait till u get here, make new friends, learn the language, meet people like me and all the other aunties loving on u nonstop, and best of all, hanging out with your nice dad regularly, while u also watch over him , u will be so happy. Welcome home! 😀😀

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      🥰🥰 Meelah bear 🐻 🥰🥰

  • @aaronnyiekuagyapong9754
    @aaronnyiekuagyapong9754 8 місяців тому +13

    Daddy's girl

  • @kats-global
    @kats-global 8 місяців тому +1

    She’s adorable 🥰

  • @GODgotme
    @GODgotme 8 місяців тому +1

    💯blessings fam

  • @kwasikyeremehdigital7033
    @kwasikyeremehdigital7033 8 місяців тому +1

    Babe girl, you are too funny

  • @Amina-mb8ip
    @Amina-mb8ip 8 місяців тому +2

    Baby Girl!!! 🥰

  • @abby-a
    @abby-a 8 місяців тому +2

    Bro if I was you I would start off slow by letting her visit every summer and then she might start missing ghana more and more

  • @stanleyglover5534
    @stanleyglover5534 8 місяців тому +1

    She is 15 years old and negotiating her life in America, it will take time and some really good incentives and persuasion to uproot her from the only culture that she’s known and accustomed to, change is very difficult for people of her age group .

  • @justinathompsonkinteh6485
    @justinathompsonkinteh6485 8 місяців тому +3

    You guy's are so cute

  • @LordOfSlaughter
    @LordOfSlaughter 8 місяців тому +3

    Yeah she’s a little female version of you bruh, y’all having fun after being apart made me smile, I know you hated leaving the motherland but the glass is always half full, and spent some time with your little princess

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      Yes I didn’t want to leave but like you said I really enjoy our time being together after being separated for so long.

  • @kamalafroseventy
    @kamalafroseventy 8 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @Kof_Believer
    @Kof_Believer 8 місяців тому +1

    Please tell her to visti and assess.

  • @copperessentialherbalprod9126
    @copperessentialherbalprod9126 8 місяців тому +2

    She so funny she cute❤

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      She will keep you laughing all day. When she was born she came out all happy and bubbly. We always called her our happy baby 🥰

  • @kennykenny7293
    @kennykenny7293 8 місяців тому +2

    I think you should make arrangements for her to visit, guide her to graduate high school, get into college and go from there. One day she will buying her own ticket to move back to Africa trust me

    • @kennykenny7293
      @kennykenny7293 8 місяців тому +2

      On the flip side you can create a whole show about convincing her to move to Ghana . Most people will be interested to see how that goes

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      @@kennykenny7293you sir have a great point lol

  • @FreedomQuests
    @FreedomQuests 8 місяців тому +2

    She needs you

  • @palmisland2734
    @palmisland2734 8 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤WE BELONG IN AFRICA

  • @mgeorge162
    @mgeorge162 8 місяців тому +5

    You got some work cut out for you to convince her to move to Ghana

  • @MrPdeps
    @MrPdeps 8 місяців тому +3

    Good luck convincing your daughter to move to africa. She needs to visit 1st, Maybe she will love it.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for the luck because I’m gonna need it. However I won’t have money for her to visit and not like it 😂 she won’t have a choice when she comes. Lol

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому

      ​@@webelonginafrica44we will all donate for her ticket. She needs to visit first, and I promise u wouldn't have to force her again, she will be in love with Ghana. When the boys get their hooks on her, it will not happen, so try to get her to visit as soon as possible.

  • @willieteb7993
    @willieteb7993 8 місяців тому +2

    You both look alike. What grade is she?

  • @nauticdixons
    @nauticdixons 8 місяців тому +1

    She's the cutest and so adorable. I understand her position but at the same time... it's really your decision until she's 18 (35 in Africa 😂).
    Seriously though, empathize with her, but be firm all the same. You should make certain decisions as long as you're the parent, including where the family will be staying throughout certain periods of time. Just be aware though, she will NOT have most of the conveniences that she's used to in America while in Ghana, and you should be well prepared so she doesn't become resentful.
    Let me know if you need some suggestions with different schools options and other resources to make the process a lot easier.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      Ok yes i will definitely need your help with finding a private school or something.

    • @nauticdixons
      @nauticdixons 8 місяців тому

      @webelonginafrica44 we're with a US-based private school that uses an African-centered curriculum. It's amazing and the boys love it! I'm sure she would too.

  • @rillyjo5810
    @rillyjo5810 8 місяців тому +1

    dope! wish i had kids but i was always too immature lol. i noticed in ghana a lot of the sistas be having long hair but still put wigs on. ion understand. girl i was with was mad i told her i dont like her wigs, i like her long natural hair

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +3

      I hate wigs with a passion. I can do braids but I’ll break up behind a wig 😂

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому +1

      @@webelonginafrica44 hahahaha hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣. Good for u bro. Hold your ground.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      😂

  • @kd3897
    @kd3897 8 місяців тому +1

    Not easy.

  • @roderickwilliamssr.1072
    @roderickwilliamssr.1072 8 місяців тому +1

    Are you headed back now

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +6

      No I’m going to work here in Virginia until November then I’m going back. I paid for a round trip lol

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому

      You guys have a great relationship, so please try not to ruin it by forcing her, u know American children.....just try to get her to visit, make a couple of friends to hang out with in Ghana, a couple of American teenagers there too to convince her, and she'll be hooked...and you'll have her begging to move.

  • @richarddavis1938
    @richarddavis1938 6 місяців тому +1

    LMAO 🤣

  • @ghostman6074
    @ghostman6074 8 місяців тому +1

    She’s beautiful bro….she said I belong in America 🇺🇸 😂

  • @sicklion2354
    @sicklion2354 8 місяців тому +4

    Small girls are young 😂, she will understand you later

  • @0f-the-land
    @0f-the-land 8 місяців тому +1

    Yes, you daughter is right. Get a job - if you don't have one. But leave her at home, in America. Most Africans are smart enough to know that America offers more opportunities to their children.

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +4

      She only said get a job because she knows I came to work for 6 months and bring her back with me. African schools and universities offers great opportunities too if you have dollars. Opportunities are not enjoyable if you graduate and get gunned down trying to buy groceries.

    • @0f-the-land
      @0f-the-land 8 місяців тому +1

      @@webelonginafrica44 Maybe you can find a low-crime area to live in, in the U.S. Best Wishes!

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +3

      @@0f-the-land if there is no African culture, I seriously don’t want to be there. Thanks though.

  • @wizardofkwoz6298
    @wizardofkwoz6298 8 місяців тому +4

    I already dont like that little boy😂 Get ya daughter bruh

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому +1

      Exactly what I said!! 🤣🤣😂😂. Not funny but I had to laugh at myself sweating when I saw that snotty nose little boy, talking about, "here's my best friend!" Man, shut up and get on the plane quick!

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      Wizardofkwoz bruh this comment got me dying laughing lol lil daddy just don’t know how much trouble he is facing 😂
      Then sos took me all the way out with “man shut up and get on the plane ✈️ 😂
      It takes a village to raise them I swear 😂

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому +1

      @@webelonginafrica44 yes bro, u know I'm always looking out for u, now I got my little niece coming to Ghana for me to look out for. Hm..aunty don't play! Lol. I knew my comment will get u rolling.. 😂😂😂. I finish all my treatments now, so I'll be in Ghana soon to help u with that little mama, over there thinking she grown!! Shoot! Hahahaha hahahaha

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому +1

      @sos9020 congratulations 🎉 hope to see you soon.

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 8 місяців тому

      Yeah, thanks! It's been a really tough couple of years,,.cancer is a damn B..ch!!! Uuuuuu!!!

  • @LoneSurvivor-tp6ml
    @LoneSurvivor-tp6ml 8 місяців тому +2

    Too young to understand

  • @WeAreTrueAfrican
    @WeAreTrueAfrican 8 місяців тому +6

    Don’t force her to go let it be her own decision. I told my daughter the same

    • @webelonginafrica44
      @webelonginafrica44  8 місяців тому

      Her and I are facing other big problems if she stays here in the states.

    • @WeAreTrueAfrican
      @WeAreTrueAfrican 8 місяців тому

      @@webelonginafrica44 I feel you , I have similar issues as well but I find out that they have their own ways especially the girl child . Good luck