asking my mom questions you're too afraid to ask yours (cheating, teen pregnancy, boyfriends etc)

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  • @elizahill8433
    @elizahill8433 2 роки тому +702

    You guys are literally mother daughter goals! I aspire to have a relationship like yours with my future daughter!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tobtnosike9433
      @tobtnosike9433 Рік тому +1

      Hi Elize I'm Toby Nosike I'm gonna be UA-cam of my new channel in my year 2022 of academy stuffs with southeastern! I'm 17 I'm gonna be academy forever I'm gonna be Young man!

  • @ButeraMelina
    @ButeraMelina 2 роки тому +450

    I want Spencer as a friend, she's so wholesome, cute and sweet 😔💕

    • @Thekweens
      @Thekweens 2 роки тому +13

      I want her as my sister bro

    • @plantxedits
      @plantxedits 2 роки тому +12

      I want her as a mum lol she would be perfect

    • @ciaram7536
      @ciaram7536 2 роки тому +8

      @@plantxedits lol

    • @plantxedits
      @plantxedits 2 роки тому +4

      @@ciaram7536 lolz

    • @ameliaelizabeth09
      @ameliaelizabeth09 2 роки тому +4

      i’d want her as my sister/bestie

  • @isaacaccomando435
    @isaacaccomando435 4 місяці тому +14

    Best answer ever. Don't even let her finish the question: no, I would not leave your dad. Only if he cheats on me. That's what marriage is meant to look like. We need more women like both of you. You are both loyal, appreciative, kind, and caring.

  • @Hannah-ci9kr
    @Hannah-ci9kr 2 роки тому +208

    i love how you mum has time for each and everyone of your siblings and has a great relationship with you

  • @lourdesnajarro-zepeda6064
    @lourdesnajarro-zepeda6064 2 роки тому +154

    Please invite momma Barbosa back again!! (If she's cool with it lol). I live this dynamic duo! It reminds me and me and my mom :)

    • @maybe_carebear2710
      @maybe_carebear2710 2 роки тому +8

      Your so lucky to have such a great relationship with your mom

    • @MM-cx2kf
      @MM-cx2kf 2 роки тому +4

      so cool to see sich a fun and open bond!

  • @kelleymontgomery7323
    @kelleymontgomery7323 2 роки тому +103

    I love you and your mom's relationship and how open you are with each other. I hope to have this kind of relationship with my daughter one day! 💕

  • @user-rd4qm2ps2k
    @user-rd4qm2ps2k Рік тому +6

    The singing at the starting was actually so angelic

  • @alinast.george2274
    @alinast.george2274 2 роки тому +62

    SPENCER I LOVE U!!
    also, your singing voice is absolutely stunning! your momma should be proud, she raised you so well.

  • @LaeLaeLino
    @LaeLaeLino 2 роки тому +72

    Spencer and her mum are so wholesome! ✨💝

  • @Slightlyburnttoasty
    @Slightlyburnttoasty 2 роки тому +87

    When her mom said she supports the lgbtq+ community i starting crying because im pansexual but my parents are homophobic and if they knew... My parents are also very strict and my dad is verbally abusive and i grew up thinking all parents were as mean as mine. It warms my heart to see good parents and i hope to be a good parent when i have kids.

    • @kritiikaaaa0601
      @kritiikaaaa0601 2 роки тому +4

      I hope your parents supports you too ❤️

    • @esther_6
      @esther_6 2 роки тому +5

      Awww I'm sorry just know that there are people who DO support you ❤️❤️❤️❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @justsomegirllivinginpain2829
      @justsomegirllivinginpain2829 2 роки тому +5

      im so sorry, my parents are homophobic too, i'm straight so i'll never know what it feels like to be in this position, but i have some friends who are bisexual and their parents give them a really hard time for it. i hope one day you find people who will accept you and support you for who you are because you deserve that!

    • @Slightlyburnttoasty
      @Slightlyburnttoasty 2 роки тому +1

      @@esther_6 Thank you I really appreciate it!

    • @Slightlyburnttoasty
      @Slightlyburnttoasty 2 роки тому +1

      @@justsomegirllivinginpain2829 your so sweet! Thank you!

  • @lemon-s5l
    @lemon-s5l 7 днів тому +1

    1:00 her laugh is EVERYTHING ❤

  • @user-uz1gm3fb1r
    @user-uz1gm3fb1r 4 місяці тому +4

    I love Spencer she so inspiring

  • @Brie_722
    @Brie_722 5 місяців тому +3

    NOT TAYLOR SWIFT IN THE BEGINNING 🥰🥰 My FaVoRiTe song from Speak Now

  • @meeee6778
    @meeee6778 2 роки тому +70

    My day just got so much better. Wishing you all love all the way from Australia ❤️❤️

  • @per777x
    @per777x 2 роки тому +5

    MOTHER BARBOSA BESTIE😩😩

  • @rainbowdash2436
    @rainbowdash2436 2 роки тому +9

    Y’all are too gorgeous stawppp😖❤️

  • @ucjalucy471
    @ucjalucy471 2 роки тому +4

    When she apologised for a little stress giggle...That was so cute! We love You and don't worry that much

  • @kira_kelly
    @kira_kelly Рік тому +3

    I watched both girl talks back to back and she talks about having Merch and how it will be such a long time until it happens and now she is promoting it. I love it ❤️😋🥰

  • @charlottemuylle1380
    @charlottemuylle1380 2 роки тому +18

    I love your dynaemics. I just love how honest of a person Spencer is and you can see she got that trait from being well raised by this awesome mom. I hope your relationship may last and that you may achieve every goal you want to achieve, you really deserve it. Lots of love

  • @clarakilpatrick2346
    @clarakilpatrick2346 6 місяців тому +3

    1:57 omg I do that too and so many people think my rude one not considerate or whatever

  • @francisrodriguez2406
    @francisrodriguez2406 2 роки тому +18

    I only know Spencer from Instagram and then I saw this and now I'm a subscriber. I absolutely LOVED this; the energy, the vibe, the charming but spicy chat, I loved it all. I felt like I was part of the conversation

  • @aperson10134
    @aperson10134 7 місяців тому +2

    I forgot Spencer was Canadian and I was like “damn her mom has a heavy Canadian accent 😆” “oh wait-“
    (I want to clarify I’m also very Canadian northern prairies Canadian 💪)

  • @Jayy41
    @Jayy41 Рік тому +5

    She wants to hear that "Yes i will leave your dad for 1 million dollars"😂

  • @alexandraobrien9441
    @alexandraobrien9441 2 роки тому +7

    “I got called an otter” skips to next clip😂

  • @marianaportela9708
    @marianaportela9708 2 роки тому +31

    love your energy together, makes me wanna go and hug my mum hahaha, adore u spencer 🤍

  • @elimarkkk
    @elimarkkk 2 роки тому +79

    Omg i looooove your energy. You have been suporting be since 2020 and i send so much love❤️❤️❤️Your videos are making me so much more confident. Love youuu❤️💖

    • @raymondslafka1671
      @raymondslafka1671 2 роки тому +5

      Same luv her, she has made me feel gorgeous!!!!!💕😁

  • @Justagirlwhithbrownhair
    @Justagirlwhithbrownhair 5 місяців тому +2

    Y’all should keep doing these videos they really help me a lot ❤

  • @hagardishon-kolodny9183
    @hagardishon-kolodny9183 2 роки тому +7

    im in a bad time (teen years and boy stuff) but its now 10 pm and im jet laged at heck and watching ur videos is putting me in such a good mood! so excited to binge them all lol :') love ya!!

  • @sincere8941
    @sincere8941 2 роки тому +7

    early!! love the matching hoodies btw

  • @ellierice5401
    @ellierice5401 2 роки тому +3

    I would kill to have a friend like spencer she is so sweet & uplifting ❤️❤️❤️

  • @annie10747
    @annie10747 2 роки тому +4

    i love y’all’s energy together

  • @user-md4dj8hv8y
    @user-md4dj8hv8y 2 роки тому +4

    Spencer and her mom are both the ultimate girl bosses 🤪💞💕

  • @steveparker3148
    @steveparker3148 2 роки тому +1

    I love how confident she is in her body

  • @cool_beans2086
    @cool_beans2086 2 роки тому +2

    I absolutely love how they are besties 👯‍♀️

  • @alexholding46
    @alexholding46 6 місяців тому +2

    Your mum looks really young it reminds me of when I was young I'm 47 now

  • @ellaedwards1375
    @ellaedwards1375 2 роки тому +11

    AHHH I WANTED A PART TWO SO BAD I LOVE THIS

  • @nif.2941
    @nif.2941 Рік тому +2

    We want more videos. We love Mama Barbosa. Best duo. Love you Spencer

  • @MarenaB
    @MarenaB 2 роки тому +6

    Oooo I've been waiting for this

  • @SoAS26
    @SoAS26 2 роки тому +2

    YOUR PARENTS ARE WHOLESOME

  • @CecesCinema
    @CecesCinema 5 місяців тому +1

    When her mom said “ your dad helped” hahaha 0:21

  • @maeva4635
    @maeva4635 2 роки тому +12

    i want a relationship like this with my mother :(((

  • @thetcmmcway
    @thetcmmcway 2 роки тому +41

    hey spencer, you inspire me a lot. I would die to have a friend like you. And also your very pretty.

    • @belladawwn
      @belladawwn 2 роки тому +7

      Aw I hope she answers!

    • @belle5064
      @belle5064 2 роки тому +3

      not related but i love your profile pic

    • @thetcmmcway
      @thetcmmcway 2 роки тому +2

      @@belle5064 mine?

    • @belle5064
      @belle5064 2 роки тому +3

      @@thetcmmcway both of yours! 😁

    • @thetcmmcway
      @thetcmmcway 2 роки тому +2

      @@belle5064 thanks, we also like yours. Right bell? lmao

  • @Danielle-eu8mc
    @Danielle-eu8mc 5 місяців тому +1

    The fact that they were having a conversation and Spencer burps😂😂

  • @amandaguidry4242
    @amandaguidry4242 2 роки тому +8

    Y'all are so freaking cute! Y'all remind me of me and my daughter. It's the best to be able to talk and be honest and laugh and joke with each other! Love it! And now I totally get why Spencer is such a great person! Great job Mama! Your girl is amazing!

  • @serenzside9364
    @serenzside9364 2 роки тому +5

    Who gon talk about how awesome her singing was at the start???

  • @justme3475
    @justme3475 2 роки тому +5

    You and your mum have such a strong relationship. Love ya

  • @kennedy781
    @kennedy781 2 роки тому +11

    Your happiness is so contagious!! I love you so much Spencer!!❤️

  • @unluck-ehgamer1578
    @unluck-ehgamer1578 10 місяців тому +3

    Staircase Spencer 💀🤣

  • @tessuh5309
    @tessuh5309 2 роки тому +9

    I love types of videos like this! And I love how you and your mother are open and honest with each other. Even being only 13 years old, I know this because my mother and I have an unbreakable bond. Sometimes it hurts my heart to see girls like me who don't have that same relationship with their mother. Even if you're super close with your mother, but just don't want to ask questions like this, just remember that it's ok! One day, I will ask my mother these things and I won't be afraid. Because she was once my age too, and wondering about all this stuff! Stuff maybe she wanted to ask my grandma, but was too afraid. I know people are probably going to read this, and not like what I'm saying because I know that not everyone can have intimate convos like this with your parents. Everyone has thought about losing their virginity, or sneaking out, nudes, hickeys, etc. And don't worry, you're not alone. Especially because I know other girls my age, and a lot of us just hit puberty, and now are getting hormones, and menstrual cycles. So, some of us begin to think about these topics more and more as we get older, and start to learn more about adulthood. Please, don't be afraid to bring up these topics with your mother, or a sister, or an aunt, whatever! Because they have been there, and they can totally relate at some point! I know it's a little bit up-forward, and might seem weird, and awkward. But its not! Its completely normal because even though it might be awkward to talk to your own mom about SEX, you do realize that that 99.9% of adults have had sex in their lives? That's a lot, so it shouldn't be weird to talk about it because it's actually a completely normal thing. If I ask my mom about these things in the future, Ill just be honest with her and get it over with. The more awkward you make it, the more awkward it's going to get! Keep that in mind, sisters. Love you

  • @willowgoodall5755
    @willowgoodall5755 2 роки тому +4

    AHHH I LOVE YOU!!

  • @palpatine152
    @palpatine152 2 роки тому +1

    Her mum looks like Noomi Rapace. I love your relationship it’s really healthy and supportive 💜💜

  • @Sam54809
    @Sam54809 2 роки тому +5

    Yassssss please do a vlog I love watching you guys ✨mother daughter goals ✨

  • @user-zs5ll8db3f
    @user-zs5ll8db3f 2 роки тому +30

    I love you both so much💞 we need more videos like that🤩

  • @akhila5597
    @akhila5597 2 роки тому +10

    Spencer don't need to feel bad that you laughed in serious situations
    Whatever you said it happens with me too
    We will get better

  • @matejamilovanovska1502
    @matejamilovanovska1502 6 місяців тому +2

    ur voice is good!!

  • @evibrooks9683
    @evibrooks9683 2 роки тому +13

    you should do one of these vids with your dad!!!

  • @macey2822
    @macey2822 2 роки тому +1

    I live your mom so much. Both of y’all have such sweet personalities.

  • @unknownyoutubers2513
    @unknownyoutubers2513 2 роки тому +8

    Loving this mother daughter combo

  • @francisrodriguez2406
    @francisrodriguez2406 2 роки тому +5

    Barber chair and staircase had mama Barboza tucking her hair behing her ears 8:13 😂😂😂

  • @crazy4schleich852
    @crazy4schleich852 2 місяці тому +2

    "Where was I made woman!" XD

  • @delilah5976
    @delilah5976 2 роки тому +5

    the two of you should start a podcast I love your dynamic 😍

  • @MollieEverett-id8fb
    @MollieEverett-id8fb Рік тому +1

    Spencer is such a good singer and daughter! ❤❤🎉

  • @user-ls4ep1sc7p
    @user-ls4ep1sc7p 5 місяців тому +1

    omg why are you both so cute

  • @jennahalcomb7359
    @jennahalcomb7359 2 роки тому +1

    Okay but I’m so bad at the laughing when ur not supposed to thing😂😂🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ it’s so bad too because people think I’m lying when I try to tell them something bad happened.

  • @amandareynolds9985
    @amandareynolds9985 2 роки тому +15

    Your mom is hilarious 🥰

  • @FatimaAli-qx2tr
    @FatimaAli-qx2tr 2 роки тому +14

    I love your mum she's so sweet and open minded ❤❤❤❤

  • @ummmmmmar8795
    @ummmmmmar8795 2 роки тому +1

    I love how spencer is just on youtube not to get subscribers but to give us content and teach us. Ily Spencer💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @etherea111
    @etherea111 2 роки тому +1

    Awww i want your mom

  • @ShaylahMyers
    @ShaylahMyers 2 роки тому +6

    Yay she’s back! ☺️

  • @arlahulsey9207
    @arlahulsey9207 2 роки тому +3

    by any chance spencer sees this i will cry but i hope you know i had a eating disorder for a long time and because of you im recovering

  • @mollyfinch3471
    @mollyfinch3471 2 роки тому +4

    i’m so earlyyyyy omg i loveeee ur content

  • @tatum643
    @tatum643 2 роки тому +1

    UR SUCH A GOOD SINGER!❤️ Ilysm and tysm for everything

  • @anneliseraedy
    @anneliseraedy 2 роки тому +6

    Omg I’m so happy you made a part 2 I love you she your mom’s energy so much!!

  • @imabillieeilishfan7587
    @imabillieeilishfan7587 2 роки тому +5

    yes please more of these! you guys are great! ❤️✨😂

  • @itsbimiyy4917
    @itsbimiyy4917 2 роки тому +4

    LOVE U BOTH

  • @gabyt.7684
    @gabyt.7684 2 роки тому +6

    7:31
    “It doesn’t matter who you love, where you love, why you love, when you love or how you love, it only matters that you love!” - John Lennon
    Thought I’d add a little quote that goes with the question :)

  • @carolynking6628
    @carolynking6628 2 роки тому +6

    Momma is so cool and seems so accepting and understanding of everything! Spencer, were you ever in trouble growing up? And can you ask your mom where she came up with all the names for you and your siblings (ex. Why "boy" names for you girls...?)?

  • @UHOHMCRAE
    @UHOHMCRAE 2 роки тому +4

    earlyyyy wuv u spencer 🥺

  • @maciebowen1290
    @maciebowen1290 2 роки тому +5

    i love the videos with your mom!!🤍

  • @nardinbassem7130
    @nardinbassem7130 2 роки тому +2

    “Would you leave dad for Cristiano Ronaldo?” BAHAHAHAHAHA OK I DIED IN THIS ONE LIKE FOOTBALL FANS OUT HERE DYING OK 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @abbycrow1737
    @abbycrow1737 2 роки тому +4

    Great song in the beginning!!

  • @elephant1871
    @elephant1871 Рік тому +1

    Here is this for your mom: “LEAD ME DOWN THAT ROAD AND YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW! SOMEDAY I’LL BE LIVING IN A BIG OLD CITY AND ALL YOUR EVER GONNA BE IS MEAN! SOMEDAY I’LL BE BIG ENOUGH SO YOU CAN’T HIT ME AND ALL YOUR EVER GONNA BE IS MEAN! WHY YOU GOTTA BE SO MEAN!”
    That’s my friend and my song. It is Our Song. Lol. But we love this song and the fact that we have both been bullied and we just sing it to try to forget it all. Love your videos!!!!!

  • @jellymermaidforlife1471
    @jellymermaidforlife1471 2 роки тому +3

    I effin need spencer as a frienf

  • @charlotteannmarie6929
    @charlotteannmarie6929 2 роки тому +3

    I subscribed for this. Your mother is a gem!

  • @awesomeangus8364
    @awesomeangus8364 2 роки тому +3

    I love the oh shit, you heard it hear folks😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

  • @emmaleebelle
    @emmaleebelle 2 роки тому +4

    ♥️♥️ OMG SPENCERRR

  • @maggiekate1603
    @maggiekate1603 2 роки тому +6

    You guys are my fave duo these videos are the best!

  • @annes.7863
    @annes.7863 2 роки тому

    Spencer singing taylor Swift in the beginning was literally all I will ever need in life

  • @Zeynep-nv1og
    @Zeynep-nv1og 2 роки тому +3

    I would love a who knows who better challange between you two :)

  • @username15900
    @username15900 2 роки тому +5

    YES YOU WERE SINGING MEAN AT THE BEGINNING

  • @FatimaAli-qx2tr
    @FatimaAli-qx2tr 2 роки тому +4

    14:39
    Yes please we wanna see you again I really love your talk

  • @queenparadise9533
    @queenparadise9533 2 роки тому +6

    Wow..genetics!!!😱😱

  • @rubyscott6333
    @rubyscott6333 2 роки тому +2

    just some advice from a person who watchs youtube. maybe next time when u r editing add some background music just to spice it up a little bit! great vid. love u spence!!!

  • @yasmin-tay13
    @yasmin-tay13 2 роки тому +3

    AW thats so cute

  • @jgnnhhfjgyh7178
    @jgnnhhfjgyh7178 7 місяців тому +2

    It will help your mother and daughter relationship

  • @maryospino9934
    @maryospino9934 2 роки тому +21

    omg spencer i never knew someone had the same trait as me, whenever im told bad news or something really serious i dont know how to react and start laughing, it is so annoying. But also interesting im not the only one who does that.

  • @lilliannamccarron4154
    @lilliannamccarron4154 2 роки тому +8

    you should do momma barbosa asks your boyfriend questions 😱😱

  • @Stupid_pie6291
    @Stupid_pie6291 2 роки тому +3

    Yes He is already been revealed 😂❤️

  • @radhika4557
    @radhika4557 2 роки тому +1

    please please bring momma barbosa backkkkk

  • @sharsshorts2578
    @sharsshorts2578 2 роки тому +1

    8:28 “Where was I made woman!”😭