Lets talk boys! (my complicated dating life + boyfriend)

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  • @charlottelev542
    @charlottelev542 2 роки тому +497

    just me or she would make the best mom. She’s so amazing and she has helped me love myself and to not be afraid💗💗

    • @KittyCat-ny1lt
      @KittyCat-ny1lt 2 роки тому +14

      100% she could hype up anyone no matter what

    • @janetohara3904
      @janetohara3904 Рік тому +2

      Definitely give off very supportive mom energy I can’t get enough of her positive personality and attitude

  • @elizabethphillips4211
    @elizabethphillips4211 2 роки тому +286

    “if i wanted inconsistency i would drank a glass of spoiled rotten milk” i love that. i also loved this video so much especially when you would talk to yourself you’re so relatable and seem like such a fun person to be around!!

  • @silvercross4691
    @silvercross4691 2 роки тому +167

    Okay, I see a LOT of things that I do in Spencer... And the fact that she doesn't care what others think about how "cringe" or "weird" or "crazy" she is makes me feel so much better about myself! Thank you Spencer for being so uplifting in every single video!

  • @mangopapaya.6484
    @mangopapaya.6484 2 роки тому +165

    How is she so chill in front of a camera i could never 😭

    • @Farhan-Dabhoi
      @Farhan-Dabhoi 2 роки тому +10

      Same, I sometimes think I have confidence, but it goes when I start to talk 😂🤟

    • @Jason.cbr1000rr
      @Jason.cbr1000rr 2 роки тому +3

      Cos she that young dunb and full of... confidence energy at 19-22 year's old

    • @audreydons5793
      @audreydons5793 2 роки тому

      Oh nvm I was stupid

    • @audreydons5793
      @audreydons5793 2 роки тому

      Sorry

    • @AL-kj8zo
      @AL-kj8zo 2 роки тому +1

      @@Farhan-Dabhoi You can be confident without being a great talker.. You're probably gonna be an amazing sex partner and emotionel partner. Talking is a skill you can learn by doing. It's ALOT harder to learn to be emotionel aware.. Many of the best people I know aren't great talkers, but they're much more likely to get what I'm saying and they grab my attention right away when they do speak.. So you just gotta learn the subjects and polite phrases you feel are good and then you're free to feel confident without blabbering all the time.

  • @carinasimmons9617
    @carinasimmons9617 2 роки тому +127

    Just a daily reminder to Spencer + anyone reading this that:
    you’re worthy
    you’re unique
    you’re one of a kind
    you’re amazing
    you’re gorgeous
    you’re perfect as you are
    girl pick up your crown and slay! love y’all xoxo

  • @Muneeb08
    @Muneeb08 2 роки тому +79

    Hey Spencer just wanted to say I really appreciate your video a couple weeks ago on mens mental health issues and how the majority of society seems to ignore it. I’ve been suffering with depression and ADHD for around a year now and my parents don’t seem care/understand. I live in a super toxic household and my parents haven’t loved each other prob since before I was born. I really want to move but I just don’t see a way out atm. I think you did a great job bringing it to light and hope you continue to spread positivity. Love your channel 🤙

    • @CrackaPackify
      @CrackaPackify 2 роки тому +3

      Recently discovered I have ADHD after 33 years with it. Keep strong man!

  • @cates8324
    @cates8324 2 роки тому +21

    Spencer is SO inspiring and she knows everyone is beautiful and she never says anything rude or offensive.

  • @haleigh1008
    @haleigh1008 2 роки тому +137

    Omg hi girl, I am such a big fan and get so exited when you post. You help me so much with self confidence and all that.

  • @katalinyoungburg9583
    @katalinyoungburg9583 Рік тому +3

    Literally your vibe is the best. Also you're so pretty and your eyes are too!

  • @mariiakt_81
    @mariiakt_81 Рік тому +6

    Just wanted to point out a part that I really really related to. When Spencer said that she feels a lot of pressure since her parents started dating at 19. My parents (who are still happily married) met when they were both 7, became friends at 11, started dating at 14 and got married at 21. My whole life I've wanted to marry someone like that, who's been a part of my life though all kinds of experiences and grew up with me. I constantly remind myself that it's too late and that I will never experience that kind of relationship. And it's true, I have not grown up with my "soulmate", but sometimes it's almost as if I can't accept it. I know it's insane but sometimes I think "maybe my first crush in grade seven or eight was really my soul mate and we were supposed to be together but no one made the first move". Idk, it's stupid but it's on my mind all the time

  • @gabby1181
    @gabby1181 2 роки тому +25

    *i never realize when spencer isn’t wearing makeup because she’s just so naturally stunning*

  • @emilyreese8263
    @emilyreese8263 2 роки тому +21

    Literally Spencer is my comfort influencer! She’s so herself and so inspiring. She’s literally so pretty. LOVE YOU SPENCER🤍🧡

  • @scotipina
    @scotipina 2 роки тому +23

    i love how she doesn’t edit her videos much 😂 she’s so true to us

  • @lauraintheskywithdiamonds9185
    @lauraintheskywithdiamonds9185 2 роки тому +5

    I love how reserved you are when it comes to your love life and finding someone who is 100% for you. I gave myself to any guy who showed me attention when I was your age and now I'm 30 I regret alot of my party life since I was 16. I had no youtube videos like this back when I was growing up , so to to everyone who has access to all this im jealous 😅 I honestly was no where near this smart at 19 you are doing great girl!

  • @hadleyrobertson8773
    @hadleyrobertson8773 2 роки тому +16

    I think Spencer is absolutely out of this world stunningly beautiful and when she smiles it a bonus and it's really something special too see her smile. She has an amazing personality.

  • @rasa5646
    @rasa5646 2 роки тому +3

    OMG you really are the definition of positive vibes and self love

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 2 роки тому +8

    Single girl tip - Keep standards I think boys can change or leave life but your values should still matter. Thanks spencer a beautiful genuine girl.

  • @stardewcat4339
    @stardewcat4339 2 роки тому +49

    Haven't watched the video yet, but I know it will be so fun and entertaining 😍 you are actually an icon

  • @user-us9wj6si1p
    @user-us9wj6si1p 2 роки тому +20

    Spencer is the older sister i never had ❤️ miss girl gives the best advice i could EVER get love u ❤️

  • @jessicasheridan7
    @jessicasheridan7 2 роки тому +14

    hey queen, the way my serotonin levels SKY ROCKET whenever I get a notif from you

    • @bunnyphoenix2992
      @bunnyphoenix2992 2 роки тому

      What's serotonin levels

    • @jessicasheridan7
      @jessicasheridan7 2 роки тому +1

      @@bunnyphoenix2992 serotonin basically means happiness

    • @bunnyphoenix2992
      @bunnyphoenix2992 2 роки тому +1

      @@jessicasheridan7 OMG tyy
      Sorry didn't know I'm dumb 😭😭😭

    • @jessicasheridan7
      @jessicasheridan7 2 роки тому +1

      @@bunnyphoenix2992 no no no don’t worry about it it’s okay haha!!🤍

    • @bunnyphoenix2992
      @bunnyphoenix2992 2 роки тому

      @@jessicasheridan7 haha okee

  • @lpsgracietv203
    @lpsgracietv203 2 роки тому +3

    She’s so stunning

  • @viktoriakaradi9120
    @viktoriakaradi9120 2 роки тому +53

    You are literally a queen and help so many people so please keep doing what you are doing you've helped me reach a better life that's closer to anything and everything that I wanna be🥰

    • @JustinArthur19
      @JustinArthur19 2 роки тому +2

      I called her that before and people were mean to me

    • @punchn9001
      @punchn9001 2 роки тому +4

      She’s a walking red flag what are you talking about

    • @viktoriakaradi9120
      @viktoriakaradi9120 2 роки тому +1

      @@punchn9001 And why do you think that? What's such a red flag about her?

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 2 роки тому +4

    True spencer, you don't want a superficial guy or friend. Thanks for deeply sharing the bts of your life

  • @zsuzsi8336
    @zsuzsi8336 2 роки тому +2

    You're one of the most honest people out of those who I follow amd thank you for being like that❤️

  • @Soleil-mj6cs
    @Soleil-mj6cs 2 роки тому +31

    Spencer casually on the floor doing her makeup love you girl 😹💕

  • @ellie6174
    @ellie6174 2 роки тому +5

    Your mannerisms just crack me up😂 you’ll say the funniest things I’ve ever heard and then just be like okay anyway and keep talking about what you were saying. Ily 🤟

  • @youarelovedandadored5931
    @youarelovedandadored5931 2 роки тому +13

    You're so pretty 🥺💜

  • @jernoiueva
    @jernoiueva 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much Spencer. You have made me so much more confident and you have taught me how to love myself. You inspire me so much and you are amazing and beautiful!

  • @emily_howell5497
    @emily_howell5497 2 роки тому +5

    This is my first long video of yours I’ve watched and all I can say is I will be watching them all night!!!!💖🍄💖🍄💖💖💖💖💖

  • @henas5015
    @henas5015 2 роки тому +1

    I love your energy & vibe girlllll
    that you don't pretend
    PERIOD
    KEEP IT UPPPPP

  • @clfam4life546
    @clfam4life546 2 роки тому +3

    Omg first ahhhh I love your channel

  • @TheTeddyBrosevelt
    @TheTeddyBrosevelt 2 роки тому +14

    I’m gonna be honest I was just talking to this girl for a month, we talked every single night we would FaceTime, and do homework together(remember that), we hung out and did stuff together a couple times but never had a first date, we scheduled one for yesterday, about a week before that I told her I liked her and she said she knew, she then agreed to a first date with me. About a hour before the date yesterday she canceled, asked if we could do it next week, I told her again I liked her but I was honest and said I was just so confused then she told me she “wasn’t looking for a relationship” and idk what I’m feeling rn cuz idk heartbreak but I’m gonna guess that’s what it is. But I realized she was just using me for school and I’m guessing she felt bad that’s why she agreed idk, but just don’t play games can really mess with someone.

    • @rhythmdhingra1859
      @rhythmdhingra1859 2 роки тому +2

      aww , i feel so bad for u , u can do way betterrr

    • @TheTeddyBrosevelt
      @TheTeddyBrosevelt 2 роки тому +1

      @@rhythmdhingra1859 I couldn’t be a dick and tell her off, and she wanted to do that date again, and we went on it Tuesday, I made a move and she said not on the first date but asked me if I wanted to do something again so hopefully in the next couple of weeks ill go on a second one and yeah she still shouldn’t have done that but she completely apologized and went on the date and I had fun and she really enjoyed herself so idk if it worked out yet but it’s going good

    • @brownsugar.pearls
      @brownsugar.pearls 2 роки тому

      That’s what happened to me with boys:(

    • @rhythmdhingra1859
      @rhythmdhingra1859 2 роки тому

      @@TheTeddyBrosevelt ayee I'm so happy for uuuu

    • @TheTeddyBrosevelt
      @TheTeddyBrosevelt 2 роки тому +2

      @@rhythmdhingra1859 Had a bad ending, she ghosted me, I found out today when I called her and she hung up. Is what is now I’m heartbroken for the rest of the Christmas season lol but it is what it is gotta take the good with the bad

  • @aditi3155
    @aditi3155 2 роки тому +1

    She's such a mood✨😩

  • @ellypotato7613
    @ellypotato7613 2 роки тому +8

    I love that you give girls the confidence that girls sometimes. You have helped me too and I wish you the best💅💅💅

  • @girlwithuke9853
    @girlwithuke9853 2 роки тому +6

    Bro i think you should start a podcast, I'd definitely listen.

  • @mei078
    @mei078 2 роки тому +3

    No comments but we all do need a friend like her💖

  • @morduo3169
    @morduo3169 2 роки тому +5

    Spencer is so gorgeous and like my favorite

  • @aaliyahchebbi1040
    @aaliyahchebbi1040 2 роки тому +22

    THIS WAS MY FAVORITE VIDEO OF YOURS OMG. i was bursting out laughing every couple seconds, i absolutely love your sense of humor. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @ifykyk961
    @ifykyk961 2 роки тому +2

    I honestly admire Spencer’s and she sounds so much like my older sister!!

  • @yusranaeem8138
    @yusranaeem8138 2 роки тому +3

    "I am the tiktoker who needed love" wow-😂😂❤️

  • @brennoncarter1182
    @brennoncarter1182 2 роки тому +3

    She reminds me a lot of my old Co worker she was super nice and bubbly and tons of fun to be around

  • @anavichauhan7523
    @anavichauhan7523 2 роки тому +5

    She is so funny
    I just want a friend like her 💞

  • @avagrace7792
    @avagrace7792 2 роки тому +4

    I don't think just because your parents were dating at 19 doesn't mean you have to you know? Your story will be different then their story, and it will be great!!

  • @kukyfern
    @kukyfern 2 роки тому +7

    I just got your necklace and I’m in love!! I just ordered one for my moms birthday 🥳

  • @emmie881
    @emmie881 2 роки тому +4

    omg dude i literally love ur videos!!!!

  • @bonitasblues
    @bonitasblues 2 роки тому +3

    i love ur personality girlll 🤩

  • @zayaancloete7749
    @zayaancloete7749 2 роки тому +5

    fast forward to her being on a date a few hours ago🥰 I hope he's different🥺

  • @maddie796
    @maddie796 2 роки тому +5

    Spencer, I only have one thing to say. I love you! You have helped me get over I guess you could say my weight problems and my adorable belly rolls 🤣 ILYSM

  • @Fien.vg1
    @Fien.vg1 2 роки тому

    Ok so like... YOUR AMAZING i just love the energy you give me like can we just be friends cuz i need you in my life you make me feel like something YOUR JUST AMAZING❤❤

  • @sophieghaffari9006
    @sophieghaffari9006 2 роки тому +2

    Spencer you are like the big sister l never had ❤️

  • @eiaancso
    @eiaancso 2 роки тому +12

    Your great Spencer!!

  • @emilyreese8263
    @emilyreese8263 2 роки тому +4

    Omg we love when Spencer uploads on UA-cam 🙌👏

  • @cat_sully
    @cat_sully 2 роки тому +1

    I agree, if I had people wanting to date me only because of how many followers I have or of how much money I make I wouldn't want that as person as my partner

  • @riddhiraheja3357
    @riddhiraheja3357 2 роки тому

    Bro she is a vibee!!

  • @alexiecierra
    @alexiecierra 2 роки тому +1

    Having a relationship is a waste of time unless you are marrying and having a family.
    Save money and choose wisely how you invest your time.

  • @thataussiegirlyouknow
    @thataussiegirlyouknow 2 роки тому +1

    Who else feels like they could talk to her for days and days and never stop?

  • @vinleppt
    @vinleppt 2 роки тому +5

    yesssss a neeeed

  • @toddmccreary4579
    @toddmccreary4579 2 роки тому

    YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE SPENCER!!

  • @avishisingh7861
    @avishisingh7861 2 роки тому +5

    You are so encouraging and inspiring to me

  • @snehalvikash
    @snehalvikash 2 роки тому +1

    7:52 no bestie, i actually know people who have said “i like toxic dudes who aint nice to me” what has wattpad done *cries*

  • @4yuhy792
    @4yuhy792 2 роки тому +6

    Glad you're posting on UA-cam hope you post more regularly

  • @ellie6174
    @ellie6174 2 роки тому +2

    Also I feel like we’re really similar you just have more confidence but I’m working on it 😁

  • @sidhikasingh6771
    @sidhikasingh6771 2 роки тому

    Here u r listening to t swift !! 🤣 Swifitiess where r u?😂
    Spencer i love ur videos..they always light up my day

  • @estrella10000
    @estrella10000 2 роки тому +2

    Spencer is so funny I LOVE HER AHHHH💗💓✨ Spencer you are AWESOME

  • @THETRENT1972
    @THETRENT1972 Рік тому +1

    Without a doubt the cutest girl in UA-cam history! I watch your videos just to see that gorgeous face.

  • @Eva-xk1xr
    @Eva-xk1xr 2 роки тому +1

    Are you my new favorite singer? Yes, your an amazing singer.
    Who is your fav outer banks character.
    Mines JJ, in love with him

  • @dancingqueen4279
    @dancingqueen4279 2 роки тому +1

    luv yaaaaaaaaa spencer batbosa. u r so inspirational 💖

  • @mafemattos2812
    @mafemattos2812 2 роки тому +1

    i love her energy

  • @stardewcat4339
    @stardewcat4339 2 роки тому +4

    The editing is amazing 🤣

  • @evie5427
    @evie5427 2 роки тому +2

    Your beautiful and amazing and kind and I love you so much! You just make my day and I just want you to know that you are worth it and just turn the whole world around! Xxxxxx

  • @blueraventv
    @blueraventv 2 роки тому +1

    Oh my gosh shes so pretty hard to believe she was ever bullied

    • @Joel-pg4yi
      @Joel-pg4yi Рік тому +1

      As if it's okay to bully someone who feels down? Why you think they down in their first place

  • @sophiafox3738
    @sophiafox3738 2 роки тому +1

    HEY BESTIE my only editing tip is to put some music over your video like lofi or somthn ok bye ily *mwah*

  • @NNNedlog
    @NNNedlog 2 роки тому

    "The camera can't handle it?" 😂😂

  • @fionaweilharter9925
    @fionaweilharter9925 2 роки тому

    best video in a while i´ve seen tbh

  • @youarelovedandadored5931
    @youarelovedandadored5931 2 роки тому +4

    Omg I'm so early today!

  • @swara5480
    @swara5480 2 роки тому +1

    I live for you spen 😩✋🏻

  • @shystyloc367
    @shystyloc367 2 роки тому +1

    SpenCer I 💕 u!!! Your so beautiful

  • @antoneesterhuizen361
    @antoneesterhuizen361 2 роки тому +6

    Who randomly found Spencer on shorts and now is addicted

  • @manitarintomata7673
    @manitarintomata7673 2 роки тому +3

    Letsgooooo

  • @evecauthen3947
    @evecauthen3947 2 роки тому +5

    💛💛💛

  • @talynprasad
    @talynprasad 2 роки тому +4

    She is the most positive person on tiktok 😍

  • @SkibidiAlphaRizzler00
    @SkibidiAlphaRizzler00 2 роки тому +5

    lol im never here this early

  • @jackchristianspaltholz6510
    @jackchristianspaltholz6510 2 роки тому +2

    You’re honestly perfect. Great vid, your definitely one of a kind. Keep it 💯 always.

  • @georgelynnainsworth4496
    @georgelynnainsworth4496 2 роки тому +2

    Spencer, you are a treasure!

  • @rockyblox4016
    @rockyblox4016 2 роки тому +3

    First minute!!

  • @smartytarty1120
    @smartytarty1120 2 роки тому

    The eyelash part was the best part

  • @hanakoisnowjellybean7412
    @hanakoisnowjellybean7412 2 роки тому +4

    Your soooOooOoO Pretty

  • @justinhenry7499
    @justinhenry7499 2 роки тому +4

    Love your vids

  • @lucyyy2311
    @lucyyy2311 2 роки тому +4

    hi Spencer i'm like your biggest fan

  • @alexsghostcookie7911
    @alexsghostcookie7911 2 роки тому +1

    You inspired me to block my ex

  • @Kopiii123
    @Kopiii123 2 роки тому +6

    I'm afraid of dating because I'm 16 and NEVER dated before so now I feel like it's too late, like I know nothing.

  • @rhiannonfoss
    @rhiannonfoss 2 роки тому +6

    Omg i literally want to be your best friend

  • @HarperJo.
    @HarperJo. 2 роки тому +3

    R.I.P the camera. But now we get a part 2😃

  • @SkibidiAlphaRizzler00
    @SkibidiAlphaRizzler00 2 роки тому +1

    Ya'll you've prob' hear'd " *honey and Glass* " she is literaly the girl in the rain

  • @cat_sully
    @cat_sully 2 роки тому +1

    If my mum was listening when Spencer said she would want to have a loud family she would have said "no you don't, no you do not"

  • @laurenhills239
    @laurenhills239 2 роки тому +1

    I am chronically single. It’s hard out there 😭💀

    • @laurenhills239
      @laurenhills239 2 роки тому +1

      And GIRL 23/24 year old guys are not mature

    • @dugzycodm458
      @dugzycodm458 2 роки тому

      @@laurenhills239 hey 🥺

  • @bulega-chan-chan-chan2372
    @bulega-chan-chan-chan2372 2 роки тому +1

    Respect for woman who wears make up
    I had to put one in the past its excruciating as a guy I wanted to wash it off immediately it just felt bad

  • @ellieb3165
    @ellieb3165 2 роки тому +1

    WAIT A SECONDD is the guy from the party clips with the orange hat the guy u went on n a date with coz he looks like damonnnn

    • @noelleee
      @noelleee 2 роки тому

      omggg I was thinking the same thing

  • @lauraf9600
    @lauraf9600 2 роки тому +2

    She has a boyfriend now😬

  • @Sama-og3mk
    @Sama-og3mk 2 роки тому +1

    I love u spencer🤍 You seem as such a comfortable person! I would love it if you start a podcast 🤩🤩🤩