Are You Stuck in Limbo, Because of Someone Else?

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  • Being stuck in limbo because of someone else can be super annoying, if not tormenting. In this episode, Teal Swan explains how to get out of this state of uncertainty that is unfortunately common in relationships, and not only in romantic relationships!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 395

  • @annikabirgittanordlander6887
    @annikabirgittanordlander6887 Рік тому +160

    ”In a relationship, no matter what kind of relationship it is, the ideal is to be on the same page with each other. It is important to reach agreement. It is important to make decisions that impact both of you together. And to reach a state of mutual certainty regarding anything requires clarity, honesty and communication”. Teal Swan. Thank you Teal 🌎

    • @dhilgersom
      @dhilgersom Рік тому +1

      Thou shalt not lie, and know thy self play huge roll as well. I tried so hard for 20 years with a husband who just chose himself first, always...still does. My next relationship, when things progressed to living together, he refused communication, sex and decided to try to murder me. Maybe it really is like the movie, 'He's just not that into you". LOL

    • @annikabirgittanordlander6887
      @annikabirgittanordlander6887 Рік тому

      @@dhilgersom 😘

    • @infinitezebra
      @infinitezebra Рік тому +1

      Yess!!!

    • @williamsykes7803
      @williamsykes7803 Рік тому

      @@dhilgersom You made me laugh with your comment-“ThankYou” I hope you find the right relationship(s) in future. ❤👍

  • @evazet8657
    @evazet8657 Рік тому +159

    Wow, what an incredible timing! I've recently been in an exact situation, where another person has been stuck in their repetitive cycle and I was holding myself back in order not to lose the connection...And I have finally realized that I need to go my way, do my things, listen to my intuition and take care of myself. The limbo state had become unbearable so I pulled myself back together and asked myself what do I really want. The answer was loud and clear, it was impossible to ignore it any longer!

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Рік тому +3

      Well I think a lot of what you described is true n all...but sometimes it's easier said than done.

    • @dr.jenniferma3914
      @dr.jenniferma3914 Рік тому +15

      Yes I've found, that it doesn't matter how much you love someone, if they aren't sure about you, it'll be a certain torture for you stick around and wait. I've hd a couple relationships like this before. One time they wanted to break up, but then came back around, but still didn't want to be fully back together. I ached and schemed and cried for them to just pick me. Eventually I realized it was over and that I had taken their indecision as hope as opposed to understanding the indecision was the choice away from me.

    • @lunarseas6144
      @lunarseas6144 Рік тому +9

      I'm with you. I've gone back & forth for a long time. Got good at detaching and questioning how much to give to the situation. Recently found a treasure trove of information about how to more easily let go for good, including forward-focused concrete practices to change my neural networks/brain chemistry. That, I believe is the ultimate key. What pulls you back is the bonding hormones. They are out of place in a situation where the other person has no interest in working as a team. Good luck on your journey!

    • @earth-air-water-fire-aether
      @earth-air-water-fire-aether Рік тому +1

      Just as incredible as my timing, timing is essential to eat necessary foods for the necessary energy needed to get from A to B and C the eye of the storm in hurricane Eva Zet, the Neva ending story where Cinderella met harry potter.
      With a wish of the wand in Mr. Potters hand, he, the wizard of all oz's, granted access to a secret to the outer skirts of hurricane Eva Zet.
      Harry potter says Cinderella was a mere prop to the plot of his fantasy world, a shed of light to the eye of the storm.
      Cinderella's significance isn't in the prop but her strength through light, which bares the secrets of Eva Zet, the secret isn't in the eye we say, but the beholder.

    • @sydneymitchell5989
      @sydneymitchell5989 Рік тому +1

      Incredible timing for me too! I've just gone through the scenario she described, and came out with a new perspective 💚

  • @theyaelizabeth876
    @theyaelizabeth876 Рік тому +72

    Had this EXACT scenario happen, when I told my partner I was moving out their response was “why does it feel like you’re breaking up with me even though you’re just moving out.” Then they proceeded to break up with me because they felt so hurt by my choice to move out. Some ppl want u to stay in limbo with them and feel betrayed if you don’t. CHOOSE CLARITY ❤

    • @siobhanmulvey
      @siobhanmulvey Рік тому +16

      Yes - they want us to be the “bad guy” leaving physically when they left emotionally long time ago etc.

    • @siobhanmulvey
      @siobhanmulvey Рік тому +3

      @Lucy in the Sky yeah its unhealthy all around for everyone involved..

    • @astralbuddha
      @astralbuddha Рік тому +3

      @@siobhanmulvey *Applause* 👏 You may drop the mic now, if you haven't already.~

  • @10kCrows
    @10kCrows Рік тому +58

    I swear Teal always somehow knows exactly what I'm going through

    • @seannahayes8846
      @seannahayes8846 Рік тому +3

      Haha! Me too!

    • @LeahBreHappy
      @LeahBreHappy Рік тому +1

      She's magically wise!!

    • @97warlock
      @97warlock Рік тому +1

      well, realistically, shes talking on a topic that is very common & the ones in these situations,many will search for someone or a title that addresses these issues. In other words, theres probably 5k other people who also think shes speaking to them lol they put it out & we come running, because its something we think we need.

    • @lovisadreyer9653
      @lovisadreyer9653 Рік тому +3

      Same! It's like there is a "theme" in the air that she taps into, things that people are going through right now. And it's been many times that she uploads precisely what I need as I'm in that particular situation in that precise moment.

  • @babetweirdgirl4103
    @babetweirdgirl4103 Рік тому +13

    When you are married, you are essentially in limbo together sometimes. To continue to move forward yourself with an attitude of forgiveness and patience toward the other person is hard work, but worth it.

  • @andylyon3867
    @andylyon3867 Рік тому +10

    Courageous acts on faith with no idea how it will work but clear where one is headed is the only thing that creates opportunity.

  • @silversurfer3023
    @silversurfer3023 Рік тому +34

    I believe this describes secure attachment styles and how it effects your attachment style if someone that you are with is not secure. Being able to be swayed by someone else close to you is proof of how secure you are. If someone starts singing a song around you and you start to sing the same song because they are shows how influential you are. The world today believes that you both should have the same song in mind before the music begins but in reality not everyone likes the same music and in that way we would have to be able to agree to disagree about our taste in that music style and yet still be secure with our boundaries before the music starts and try to make the music somehow work together and not against each other’s music. Mindfulness and forgiveness is the key or else we can spend our whole lives going through partner after partner trying to find someone who is a perfect fit for us. Sometimes we have to compromise which is the work that many are not willing to sacrifice.

    • @whitedragon539
      @whitedragon539 Рік тому +8

      Word! You can't have everything. All relationships need compromice in the spirit of cooperation. ✨️🙏✨️ You sing your song and I'll sing mine, perhaps they together can form an even greater song combined. 🎶🎙☯️

    • @LynneMadison0731
      @LynneMadison0731 Рік тому +1

      I'm in a relationship of 7 years currently with someone whose song is different than mine in a lot of ways. But in the end we both have similar goals in life and your entire comment here was 100% spot on to me. 😊 Compromise, communication, humility and humor are very important things in my relationship to make it last as long as it has thus far.

    • @silversurfer3023
      @silversurfer3023 Рік тому

      If we have a strong foundation and strong enough constitution we can become secure because it takes security to overcome this and have our own mind and not adopt or take on the wishes and will of others.

  • @stinana
    @stinana Рік тому +15

    Going through this exact scenario right now, slightly more complicated because we have children together and my solid support system is 1000 miles away.

    • @lolisanchez5767
      @lolisanchez5767 Рік тому

      Your solid support system is within you❤believe and find it

  • @kylesapphire2537
    @kylesapphire2537 Рік тому +144

    Sometimes I wonder what the world would be like if everyone embraced teals teachings. Alas I can only imagine…

    • @annikabirgittanordlander6887
      @annikabirgittanordlander6887 Рік тому +3

      Heaven on Earth

    • @Lifes_Frosting
      @Lifes_Frosting Рік тому +7

      Won’t happen in third density. Have to move up to 5th density and higher.

    • @petinathomas6096
      @petinathomas6096 Рік тому +4

      Totally agree.

    • @wittjablonski2699
      @wittjablonski2699 Рік тому +6

      As much as I love teal, and her material, I’d never want a world where all listen or embrace one truth type of thing. We need sides. We need polarity. At least in this life/world. We don’t need the shadows and toxicity that come along with fighting for our side so to speak, but a difference of mind and opinion is so beautiful and needed I think.

    • @sebastianwrites
      @sebastianwrites Рік тому +2

      Which teachings are those Kyle?
      And yes, she is right about a lot of things, but I've also known her say things which clearly are ridiculous... such as a video she did quite some time ago now, about 'demons' that suck your energy.
      Or one more recently about plants, and how we should not have these in our houses... then I saw how she had cut flowers at one of her talks?
      Or the fact she charges $20 000" plus... per 'week' for her retreats?
      Yet, she never says or concedes that any of things she says are a mistake?
      Or, that the retreats seem a 'hypocrisy' to me when she charges so much...?
      "Exclusivity..." surely spirituality should include 'all?'

  • @arbividz
    @arbividz Рік тому +118

    We love you Teal!

  • @Mandance
    @Mandance Рік тому +31

    I’m the one that can’t decide and it’s also pretty horrible to feel that way.

    • @fluffysox6072
      @fluffysox6072 Рік тому +4

      Me too :(. And it’s not fair to him

    • @deepdiver849
      @deepdiver849 Рік тому +11

      That means you guys are depressed. Its best to have the courage to tell the other person that you are in a wishy washy phase and it is unfair to drag the other party along. So set them free to find someone else.

    • @Mandance
      @Mandance Рік тому +3

      @@deepdiver849 oh they know, but for some reason they choose to keep showing up.

    • @dr.jenniferma3914
      @dr.jenniferma3914 Рік тому +3

      @@Mandance Best to let them go. Your indecision is a decision.

    • @redefinedliving5974
      @redefinedliving5974 Рік тому +1

      Indecision means no lol

  • @kal2487
    @kal2487 Рік тому +7

    Wow! This is brilliant. "Stuck in limbo" is my Achilles heel. This really helped me get perspective. I hope to get unstuck soon. Thank you so much!!

    • @dr.jenniferma3914
      @dr.jenniferma3914 Рік тому +1

      It's usually because you're avoiding the decision that will be the best decision, for fear of pain.

  • @anonymousbee
    @anonymousbee Рік тому +2

    This is exactly what happened to me since past few years. And I've withdrawn way back to zero. Now all my power lies totally in me

  • @GrowAndThrive
    @GrowAndThrive Рік тому +5

    I understand my lover's frustration now. The clarity that Teal brings me to so many different thoughts, feelings, and actions is remarkable.

  • @hesitantplanet9446
    @hesitantplanet9446 Рік тому +1

    This popped up on my feed right when I needed it and my first words were “whatsup universe”

  • @mariammimi3563
    @mariammimi3563 Рік тому +22

    This video is definitely for me. This video was made for me. I have been given the right pill for my relationship illness.

    • @user-qb1nw1zi3f
      @user-qb1nw1zi3f Рік тому +1

      I came here to say the same thing. I swear the universe sent this woman to help me in particular! 😂

  • @noonenooneneither3838
    @noonenooneneither3838 Рік тому +4

    I never lost track of my genuine self...both eks were into addictions. Don't like mediocrity neither comatose. I was in ICU once and when I came back from my hospitalisation I promised myself that I wanted to live as much as possible truthfully to myself from now on. Volk with addiction ( s ) get gaslighted themselves by the entities.

  • @saumyas4114
    @saumyas4114 Рік тому +27

    Teal is extremely intelligent and has great insight. There is a famous guru that said, "Don't put anyone or even me on a pedestal. See me and analyse me for who I AM." Which means, be objective, learn how to discern, take the things that are good & in alignment to THE Truth and recognise but don't attach to the particles of dust in any human being's personality that don't align with truth. Except the divine light(Say God), nothing is perfect. Naturally, not everyone is perfect all the time either. Revere yourself. Nothing or nobody to be revered blindly. I take a LOT of inputs from Teal. And I am sure she works hard. Remember, always remember that the divine spark is within each, and spirituality can be experienced first hand in a sustainable way only when Integrated with material life. Peace.

  • @LeahBreHappy
    @LeahBreHappy Рік тому +40

    This describes my 16 year marriage 😢 So happy to be free!!

    • @earth-air-water-fire-aether
      @earth-air-water-fire-aether Рік тому

      Haha definitely a hard lesson to learn. If I go into a marriage let alone relationship, I'll know it serves a purpose rather then the norm or tradition. I like connection, but there's a world to see, and possibly the universe.
      My relationship ended at 22, thank you universe and thank you God.
      With the possibility of break up in mind, it's all too much to take the risk. I'm loyal with things, it's unwise for me to settle for less let alone risk something close to me.

    • @LeahBreHappy
      @LeahBreHappy Рік тому +3

      @@earth-air-water-fire-aether 💕just make sure you live your life with love and not out of fear. There's no risk to love🌹🙏🏼✨

    • @kkaterina12
      @kkaterina12 Рік тому

      Sound so familiar. I am going through a break up, also after 16 years. It's a lot to process.

  • @alexafian9849
    @alexafian9849 Рік тому +2

    She is so beautiful, smart and wise

  • @sudeshna7032
    @sudeshna7032 Рік тому +10

    Omgg!! How do you do thisss....this video is exactly what I needed❤❤❤

  • @apothecaryjames7968
    @apothecaryjames7968 Рік тому +1

    it's very hard in relationships where one person has total control of the finances and the proverbial scales are imbalanced. I mean unbalanced to the point where there is nothing on the other side. When one partner is dishonest over and over, it changes the other persons reality. It alters their personality, their self worth, and even robs them of hope waiting on the day you are speaking of. When one person in the relationship has ALL of the control, nothing ever good comes of it. It's very hard to walk away from any type of relationship where children are involved and lots of time is invested in the relationship. Liminal spaces can be uncomfortable and sometimes staying positive becomes increasingly difficult. Not being totally honest with the other party screams narcissim to me. I am no psychologist, but I know the feeling of someone trying to drown you. Good thing I can swim. Thank you for this video Teal. It's speaking volumes right now.

  • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
    @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT Рік тому +23

    You are very good at helping people change their perspectives to give them back their power and make them accountable for their choices of action or inaction! ❤

  • @carrinmichaels9374
    @carrinmichaels9374 Рік тому +1

    My husband dismissed our divorce the same day I just watched this. I LOVE YOU

  • @maurine3553
    @maurine3553 Рік тому +2

    This is my story word for word. It lasted 7 years. Ended it last year and as you might have guessed he didn't try hard to get me back or try to work it out with a therapist. As painful as it was, I'm glad it ended. I took my power back!

  • @illillyillyo
    @illillyillyo Рік тому +3

    This happened to me last year. I’m glad that I came to the same conclusion that Teal did.

  • @averytireddad
    @averytireddad Рік тому +3

    time to stop and meditate on what my uncertainty is I guess... I'll try that. Thank you as always, Teal, much love!

  • @danielrocks5
    @danielrocks5 Рік тому +2

    omfg is this like the biggest synchronicity or noooooot!

  • @JoeKawano
    @JoeKawano Рік тому +3

    I think an easiest answer is for you to first check if you are not owning up to not giving the other person certain information or basic assurances they need to make a decision and make you be certain!

  • @just1giuleejae1234
    @just1giuleejae1234 Рік тому +66

    Ahh, yes! She doesn't trust his imbalanced masculinity. Which causes her to tense up and be in her masculinity instead. I'm literally in this place right now. Stepped into my own personal power a few days ago because I need to take care of myself right now. I can't wait around any longer. Thank you, Teal! 💚🙏🏻✨

    • @stephfeels555
      @stephfeels555 Рік тому +1

      Same wave! Right there with ya.

    • @LeahBreHappy
      @LeahBreHappy Рік тому

      🌺I jumped out of my 16 year marriage after having the same issues. He wouldn't wake up or go on the path of conscious relationship. Sad because we have two boys together but I trust the universe has another mate in mind for me. Sending you so much love during this hard season. ✨✌🏼💕

  • @red4872
    @red4872 Рік тому +1

    Yup. Confirmation.
    Had to break ties with my daughter who lives with a Narc and both have either consciously or unconsciously, always creating drama and stress in my life. I’ve come to the realization that I need to let my daughter go, because she too cannot make a decision, be clear, etc. She always calls me when a crisis occurs, never does the suggestions I give, and ignores me all the other days, I’m tired of being in limbo for the last year and I am moving on. We don’t get to see each other very often because of distance but I know one day when she’s older, she will understand the truth.

  • @nikid3690
    @nikid3690 Рік тому +3

    This. Is. Exactly. My. Situation right now. Teal, such synchronicity

  • @DivineGuidance4444
    @DivineGuidance4444 Рік тому +3

    YES!!! This is so important to know for people how to get out of these toxic dependancies in relationships. Thank you Teal for anoter super crystal clear support to humans life - you are such a gift for us all

  • @veganlife9205
    @veganlife9205 Рік тому +4

    I really needed this, been in kind of a limbo för 6 years so your help is so important. I appreciate you more than I can ever explain Teal. Thank you❤❤❤

  • @samsoul2175
    @samsoul2175 Рік тому +5

    You are always so in tune with what happens in our lives. Bless you

  • @ioana-emilialazar6139
    @ioana-emilialazar6139 Рік тому +3

    You are just magical. I al living this situation for the past 3 months and i have managed to move out and focus on myself while he does His thing and see where we go from here. Coulple’s therapy doesn’t work but me working on integrating everything he triggers in me helps. I am doing my work am focusing on me. You Even used my name on the video. It was like you were talking to me ❤ i love you and you are a gift to this world

  • @heyyfirefly
    @heyyfirefly Рік тому +5

    wow perfect timing, thank you ❤ seems like I always end up being used and played

  • @quinnemilepoe9604
    @quinnemilepoe9604 Рік тому +6

    This has come at the exact time I needed it. Cheers to being in sync! I’m having so much anxiety right now, but I’ll try to focus on myself

  • @juliascorey999
    @juliascorey999 Рік тому +5

    Perfect timing

  • @danielvalentin9794
    @danielvalentin9794 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this. Going through it myself and getting to a toxic level. Still working on it

  • @ThatTallBrendan
    @ThatTallBrendan Рік тому +2

    Who else remembers 'Barely Breathing' by Duncan Sheik?
    That's my song pairing for this episode.

  • @KellySnow
    @KellySnow Рік тому +1

    Oh man need this right now…I’m in the process of the move and an filled with such self doubt I wanna turn back but I’m staying strong!

  • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
    @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Рік тому +1

    This vid made me super upset but yet validated me at the same time because of horrific experiences I've had with people who I feel as though were not being reasonable and understanding of me.

  • @veronicawardwell3916
    @veronicawardwell3916 Рік тому

    I love the way you came full circle on that. It cracked me up

  • @ameliesun3500
    @ameliesun3500 Рік тому

    Currently in this scenario, and it’s comforting to know I’m not the only one. My lease is up in 3 months, and I am considering not living with my SO next year. I am getting to the point where thinking of that option is the only thing bringing me relief :c

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco Рік тому +17

    Always choose yourself when in limbo with another ❤ Noone will do it for you. You are worthy of self care, again Noone will do it for you. We can't give what we don't have. By choosing your Self you will teach others to do the same. ❤

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Рік тому +2

      Agreed 🤝

    • @dr.jenniferma3914
      @dr.jenniferma3914 Рік тому +3

      Very true. And usually because the Limbo means that you aren't in resonance with each other anymore. Someone is divided in spirit and not fully with you. Don't settle for relationships with people who are divided in their spirit.

    • @sherececocco
      @sherececocco Рік тому +1

      @@dr.jenniferma3914 one man's trash is another man's treasure. We all have our own path. And I know can't is a scarecrow thanks to Nietzsche. And I know my rascal. Just working on understanding her 🙃 I can have me and others too. Not settling because this has always been my Will.

  • @SMcGrath01
    @SMcGrath01 Рік тому +2

    Great video with great informative insights.
    I had to move everyone out due to toxic partners. Thanks Teal.

  • @michaelsurrarrer7885
    @michaelsurrarrer7885 Рік тому +1

    I have decided to wed myself to a spiritual companion or specific person, I have begun filling this person up with fabrics from interactions with various females, knowing that the one that I end up with will be a perfect match from the interassociations from all the other females that are exposing and identifying what I am to a girl and what she is to me in return and that we are well on the way and it seems to be working well, there is no more waiting for long periods of time to get healthy first, to save up money, to wait until it is warmer out, no, we are now at the doorstep to our plans being fulfilled and we have everything to have this door opened fully for whoever. The only real thing I can think of for myself at this point is putting more money into my personal well-being. There have come to be so many miracles, almost every Tarot reading is right in line with what I am doing and things are looking very good. I have a good amount of trust or faith in that the whole universal masculine and feminine are drawing closer than ever to each other and that brighter horizons and greater mental stability are at our door step. Thanks for being able to talk about some of the deeper and more exposing topics. It is really hard to address some of them because you are bi-polar opposite, which makes sense with your blue eyes and dark brown hair. I can feel how much you need that ultimate fulfillment and you motivate me to take things that much more seriously, thanks.

  • @iconicintuitive
    @iconicintuitive Рік тому +1

    I have watched Teal for years and the video here is one I have just really, really resonated with in a big way. It's the first video I have watched of hers in 2 years and it randomly popped up. I was going through years of this in my relationship prior to all the mess I am in now, lol. It's a sad thing

  • @nh5221
    @nh5221 Рік тому +4

    Super apparent in dynamics where the woman wants a deeper level of commitment, say marriage and kids, but the guy feels like he's not ready. In this scenario, it's reasonable for the woman to ask for a timeline by which he will make a decision.
    If he can't give a reasonable timeline, set one yourself, so you can have enough time to strengthen your current relationship and, if necessary, still be able to jump into a different relationship with more clarity and better skills if the current man realizes he actually doesn't want marriage with you.

  • @innerknowing40
    @innerknowing40 Рік тому +8

    Beautifully said thank you 🌺The way are feeling about ourselves, is the way we are treating ourselves, is the way we treat others, is the way we treat nature, and it is the way nature responds ☯️ The relationship dynamic we have with ourselves, is one that will be everywhere around us, and it is one that will be reflected back to us by the universe. By taking back our power and becoming certain within ourselves, we are no longer feeling stuck, we are freeing ourselves. Thus, living in abundance.

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Рік тому +2

      Well tbh, I think it depends on the situation.

    • @innerknowing40
      @innerknowing40 Рік тому +1

      @@EmbraceTheStruggle24 Absolutely, we all have different healing journeys. Going through storms show us our weaknesses, and we can now turn our weaknesses into becoming our greatest strength. It’s all about how we are going to get out of “feeling stuck”. It feels like total crap at times, but the breakthrough is always there, in the present moment, just by feeling connected to ourselves we receive xox Much love ❤️

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Рік тому +2

      @@innerknowing40 yep definitely. No one is alone when it comes to things like this. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective and you seem very lovely and awesome ^_^

    • @innerknowing40
      @innerknowing40 Рік тому +1

      @@EmbraceTheStruggle24 Thank you 🌺Sometimes if it may feel like crap it’s because you are doing the work, and it’s because you are doing an amazing job. It’s not easy because nothing is for free. As you are cleaning out your emotional closet, and freeing yourself from energies no longer serving you, you will feel refreshed, replenished cleaned and cleansed energetically. And you will thrive 🌺It’s already happening now xo

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Рік тому +2

      @@innerknowing40 yes so true ^_^

  • @Passiyona
    @Passiyona Рік тому

    Nothing makes me feel good as Teal's videos

  • @moniqueteal7153
    @moniqueteal7153 Рік тому +4

    This was so perfect ...well said !!

  • @shweta186158
    @shweta186158 Рік тому

    The timing of me stumbling upon this video feels divine, thank you!✨

  • @SoaDsanny
    @SoaDsanny Рік тому

    Thank you for noticing

  • @mysticempress5879
    @mysticempress5879 Рік тому

    Teal you have been walking me through trauma relationships mental and emotional stress for 11 years. I I’m most grateful for your insight and knowing. I am. Able to understand myself and love ones and move forward. Thank you for u being you

  • @heartwisdomlove
    @heartwisdomlove Рік тому

    yup you said it Teal, COMMUNICATION!!!!
    foque!!!!
    so many people are afraid of talking even ! it’s almost like they don’t know how !

  • @yasaiasazuke
    @yasaiasazuke Рік тому +1

    When I try being clear the 2 main obstacles for me is being in an environment where my truths are not valued, or the second is my capacity to communicate it is limited even if it is valued. So usually I find it easier to communicate where boundaries are valued even if I am not fully understood ...

  • @CliffCoultas
    @CliffCoultas Рік тому +1

    I'm in limbo because of you Miss Swan! 💟

  • @medveja8
    @medveja8 Рік тому

    Holy... Spot on! And the Timing is incredible, Thanks Teal!

  • @malindateal14
    @malindateal14 Рік тому

    This could not have come at a better time. Boy did I need that help

  • @pryzmdna
    @pryzmdna Рік тому +3

    Thank you, Teal! So much love and gratitude for you ❤

  • @405OKCShiningOn
    @405OKCShiningOn Рік тому

    The holding pattern, so good to hear. Love u Teal

  • @lookingforlolita
    @lookingforlolita Рік тому

    Wow, 8 April, the same day I moved out from living with my partner for this exact reason! Mind blowing.
    Thank you for this, it makes so much more sense now 🙏🏼🌺

  • @moniechrist7042
    @moniechrist7042 Рік тому

    I am 100% certainty You Teal

  • @dawnmaestascowell6930
    @dawnmaestascowell6930 Рік тому +2

    Absolutely beautiful soul ! Thank you lady

  • @charlottesometimes4
    @charlottesometimes4 Рік тому +1

    Great timing Teal. This is my situation with my husband so it's very difficult

  • @carathorsven3326
    @carathorsven3326 Рік тому

    Teal, in tune with the collective as always

  • @mydream881
    @mydream881 Рік тому

    Omfg this is describing my life right now... I wanna step into my own power badly without anyone judging and criticising me! The timing of this video is amazing. Tnx teal

  • @Kamila.Khakrizi
    @Kamila.Khakrizi Рік тому

    I watched half of this video (momma’s with a newborn timing is like that).
    While paused for a day, I was afraid of hearing “the answer is You gotta leave stuck partner and live your own life”…
    Also while paused, I did made a statement to my men that I will no longer do this and this. Went upfront with communication instead of being inertial (as I do sometimes).
    Then I finished listening to this video, and I am kinda relived with Teal’s advices. Maybe it will be hard, but it is not a cut off.
    *not a fan of striking people out of my life because I’m not able to deal with them at the moment.
    Will see what’s further, wish me luck 🙏🏾

  • @CassandraEtherFaery
    @CassandraEtherFaery Рік тому +1

    I really appreciate the divine timing of your videos landing on my feed. Thanks Teal 💖

  • @TheInfinite-Self
    @TheInfinite-Self 11 місяців тому

    Geez. Sums up my whole summer/autumn of 2023! 😅

  • @cowabunga7404
    @cowabunga7404 Рік тому

    Gawd you are brilliant, Teal!
    Thank u very much for this precious hope injection! This is the truth that I'm living on but couldn't express never until now. ❤
    Love you! For real! Stay blessed 🙌!

  • @mamadziadu
    @mamadziadu Рік тому

    Just as I realised I am in this dynamic Teal's video comes up with answers - Thank you!

  • @jenniferdennison8315
    @jenniferdennison8315 Рік тому

    I love your jacket .. your art is amazing .. thank u for these videos and information.. gives me alot of clarity and certainty.. 😊💗🙏

  • @CrownedWithGloryReborn
    @CrownedWithGloryReborn Рік тому +1

    Not making a decision - is making a decision. That’s something I learned the hard way. When they’re not clear, help them get clear - by walking away and watch them let you. It’s very telling…
    Teal, will you please speak to those of us who are stuck because we entered into agreements with others that they didn’t honor - leaving us holding the bag, a weight of which was never intended for one person alone to hold. For example, you agree to have kids with someone and then they divorce you, refuse to pay child support - you’re left holding the bag for something you can’t legally and consciously drop (and at the same time carry), and it thereby leaves you stuck with burdens you cannot get free of without serious repercussions to your children/family. What about a person who keeps finding themselves in this repeated pattern of coming into clear agreement with people who leave them holding the bag, thereby keeping them stuck in life. Thanks 🙏

  • @rhythmicelegance4670
    @rhythmicelegance4670 Рік тому

    I realised I’ve been keeping someone at a distance because I feel I need to sort out my ducks first before being able to handle the full-on version of the relationship, and for some time now I still haven’t figured out how to provide a sustainable level of basic stability for myself… To bring the other person into my life to a deeper level would add more pressure than I am already under. I already suggested that we should probably let go of each other entirely, and he said to stop talking crazy, so he doesn’t want to let go but I don’t think holding space for someone who can’t yet step into the role as a true partner is a healthy distraction… 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @elartistaenelsuenolucido
    @elartistaenelsuenolucido Рік тому

    I just love that you end the video with the idea that the process of become more clear can actually make a person get on the same page easier with another one.....the fact that you always put things in the direction of connection is heart warming and inspiring, cause a lot of people and "profetionals" would treat this as some sord of direction to split and breake connections betwin people, than you Teal.

  • @DinaSK
    @DinaSK Рік тому

    Thank you Teal for confirming my observation on this topic 🤍🙏🏻🌷

  • @heatherbeach9989
    @heatherbeach9989 Рік тому +5

    How do you become certain?

  • @Infiniteloveoracles
    @Infiniteloveoracles Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this message. I just had a heartbreak

  • @mayahmorgenstern6063
    @mayahmorgenstern6063 Рік тому

    I connect with you, I ask for your wisdom in my current emotional questioning, and I get the answers on Saturday. How wonderful, thank you Teal!

  • @martine3225
    @martine3225 Рік тому +2

    I’m in this exact situation - I want to move to another area. One day my partner says he wants to come with me then 2 days later he says he doesn’t want to as we are incompatible. We are living in my place so I can’t leave and he has nowhere to go. He clearly doesn’t like me very much any more - I also dread going home sometimes - I’m really stuck and miserable.

    • @dr.jenniferma3914
      @dr.jenniferma3914 Рік тому +2

      Time to leave him behind and choose a love that is bigger.. even if it only exists in the future.

  • @Sahibateri90
    @Sahibateri90 Рік тому

    Holy smokes, this came at the right time. Teal...you heard me. Namaste Mata❤
    Adding to this comment...that jacket tho! Love love love it!

  • @authorleboyd3481
    @authorleboyd3481 2 місяці тому

    Exactly. I asked my trainer to escort me to a gallery and somehow he thought that meant I wanted to sleep with him. I didn’t and I don’t want to. He’s married, with kids, and is majorly out of my league. Now I’ve quit my CrossFit gym (which was good thing) but now I’m in limbo when it comes to relationships.
    Looking back at what I’ve did wrong in other relationships and what I need to do to keep one. The ex who I still have feelings for isn’t good and I wasn’t good to him but alas…no just want to get over him and move onto better things with better people.

  • @redefinedliving5974
    @redefinedliving5974 Рік тому

    Wow. I have just finished writing a message to a person thats causing me this. I have been seeing repeating numbers lately and shorts about red flags in men. I guess this will be the last straw. I will now send it to free myself. Thank you Teal for being a part of my soul tribe. 😚

  • @TealSwanOfficial
    @TealSwanOfficial  Рік тому +8

    Incase You'd Rather Read About It Instead: tealswan.com/resources/articles/are-you-stuck-in-limbo-because-of-someone-else-r550/

  • @kaylacornett38
    @kaylacornett38 Рік тому

    Thank you SO much Teal. Never ceases to amaze me at how ON POINT your videos are. This one came at the perfect time. Eternal thanks. Grateful for you.

  • @Kayprofessor
    @Kayprofessor Рік тому

    This is spot on and confirming

  • @bhaan956
    @bhaan956 Рік тому +1

    aww needed this right now, Thank u for sharing Teal,lots of love and light to all❤️✨💫

  • @ASh-lt8gx
    @ASh-lt8gx Рік тому

    Your insights are incredible and know I am doing the right thing now. May you be blessed, Thank-you and keep going as you are helping us break free from our own bindings! 🙏🙏❤❤

  • @oscar5mj23
    @oscar5mj23 Рік тому

    Again …. For the fourth consecutive time you have posted something so relevant to my life …

  • @katieross5222
    @katieross5222 Рік тому

    You just described the last YEAR of my last romantic relationship.

  • @sumayaalay6284
    @sumayaalay6284 Рік тому

    You are gift Teal and I’m forever grateful for your teaching

  • @KamilaSage31
    @KamilaSage31 Рік тому +1

    You have a good week as well Teal. You’re probably too busy to read this, but I respect your insight on a level to where I know that you’re a true guide. You take the time to reflect and combine spirit with physical complexities we experience as humans. I just unstuck myself from my lover. I’m still committed to the relationship, but his way of life became a bit repetitive. I’m now back in school keeping a high gpa and still working with him to make efforts to improve our desired partnership. It’s been rocky, so I’m definitely excited to have watched this. It at least lets me know that I’m in the right track in my certainty 💯🙏🏽

  • @nickidaisydandelion4044
    @nickidaisydandelion4044 Рік тому

    Amazing jacket with your amazing art work on it.

  • @ProjectionTrolll
    @ProjectionTrolll 10 місяців тому

    I love the brilliant explanations and examples!❤

  • @lesaspravka1173
    @lesaspravka1173 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. I love wisdom.

  • @wittjablonski2699
    @wittjablonski2699 Рік тому

    I needed this. Long time coming. Thank you Teal

  • @RockerChick
    @RockerChick Рік тому

    Exactly what I’m going through right now. Thanks Teal💕