I learned this from my marriage. We were totally in love and totally incompatible! I left. It's 40 years later and I still love him. He's the love of my life, but I'm glad we're not together because it would have been certain death (of spirit) for each of us if we had. Romantic love and compatibility have nothing to do with each other.
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I've been avoiding watching this video and now I know why. This described the 6 year relationship I was in that just ended almost to a T. Replace the the want to travel with alcoholism.. We did all of the things that Teal describes here. We tried compromises, I wanted him to work on his drinking and face his traumas and he wanted me to change too. When I tried to accept his alcoholism it made me miserable. I'm so heartbroken, because I loved him so much, I never wanted something to work so badly. Getting through every day is really hard right now.
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This speaks to my current situation. I’m grateful to feel reassured in my confession that he and I just aren’t compatible.. it’s like we speak different languages.. we love each other we are both great people.. we don’t need to make each other into characterizations that aren’t true to justify our pre-conceived notions of ‘our self’.. we can just be humble and admit it’s just a compatibility issue.. nothing about good or bad.. right or wrong, better or worse.. more refined or less refined.. etc.. ty.. I pray for an easy time cradling this delicate sensitive situation God do I pray..
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Met my person online by accident not a dating site. Been together 6 years married 5. From the beginning made sure we were compatible: Lifestyle ✔ Food✔ Money✔ Religion ✔ Childfree by choice ✔ That was all discussed before we even met in person. Have those difficult conversations as soon as possible. I would like to add -- even tho we are from different races, opposite sides of the planet and different cultures --- we are the same and completely compatable. I thought that would be interesting to mention.
This is encouraging story. I am experiencing something similar. Have been in a long distance relationship with someone who is 8503 miles away since 3 months ago. I feel that he is the most compatible man I have ever met in life. We have not met yet, planning to meet up in September and hope the feeling is real. ❤️
@@qmutube be positive because our relationship is proof that this can work. Be very honest about who you guys are and communication is key. When times get tough dont just give up - find ways to work through issues but above all make sure you are on the same page about big life decisions and everything will be ok😌
No one is ever 100% compatible that’s a fantasy. You can be compatible but I am certain if you haven’t had issues yet you will. It’s not possible to be in tuned and in agreement with each other all the time. This video I am disappointed with because it over simplified and extreme. There are a myriad of nuances in relationships. Compromise is a necessity not a bad thing to be demonized. Yes you shouldn’t have to compromise yourself too much, but that’s how relationships work and how growth in relationships happens. I mean we aren’t even compatible with ourselves on a regular basis! We are confused, conflicted, sometimes lost. We also seek compromise to find acceptance and peace in our own personal inner conflicts. The same is true for healthy compatible relationships. It would have been helpful for Teal to speak to the gray areas and nuances present in compatible relationships. It’s not so black and white and polarized.
@@fineartlifestyling let me clarify a little bit --- i am 41 years old -- most people i meet who dont know me think i am around 27. My point is -- i fully know who i am... on a fundamental level i feel that when you are older you are less confused in life and you are pretty much set in your ways -- yes growth does still happen (me and my husband grow together and we teach each other every day to be more compassionate more understanding and more respectful) but for the most part we are on complete agreemend on the big issues in life. The big ones i mentioned. The ones who rock the boat the most. We are completely compatible in those specifically and we are older and know ourselves very well and THAT IS WHY ---- it works so well. We have been together for more than 6 years and married for 5 and we haven't yet experienced anything to "rock our boat". I have had a death in my family and he has had 3. We have weathered some pretty significant storms in the more than half a decade we have been together and we are still 100% happy and fulfilled. I cant tell you anything other than my experience and that is that true compatibility is possible and successful.
The needs I have that come from trauma are an authentic part of me... damn I really didn’t know how much I needed to hear that perspective. I feel like I’ve been swimming in confusion for months trying to figure out if my feelings are “real” or from trauma. Im going to try to stop doing that to myself. Thank you for the video Teal. Sincerely.
This is really helpful. Sometimes is difficult to accept incompatibility because we want to make the relationship works that’s why is really important to know our values ✨🙌🏽
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Been in an incompatible relationship for the last year and a half. I’ve known it the whole time and just didn’t have the strength to admit it… thank you Teal
Will be 7 years in April for me. I honestly think my partner just wants a maid and a prostitute, of which I'm neither. A friendship between us is non existent and we're both very different people....
It gets worse when there are both genuine incompatibilities and abuse in a relationship. Because if you're not yet aware of all this, the two WILL entangle and make you question yourself even more when you want to leave. At some point it becomes very difficult to tell which is which, and we make all sorts of excuses. Unfortunately we are used to think that abuse may come from incompatibilities and once they are solved/healed the abuse will go away. This is another reason why it's very good to evaluate compatibility ruthlessly, it indirectly shields you from abuse as well.
Yes, I'm learning that accepting where we are right now leads to taking blame out of the equation. Wanting to change someone is forcing it, and forcing means resistance. Thank you! -Much love from a growing UA-camr
I'm really enjoying these videos based on examples, story driven style of videos as opposed to the content dump from old times, they feel more manageable, like less things go over my head while watching them. Thank you for always finding new ways to deliver awareness to us.
This applies to friends, colleagues and jobs. My job/colleagues and I are incompatible, so I'm leaving. They're unprofessional and unqualified. I'm professional and qualified. I'm tired of being sidelined and bullied due to their jealousy and insecurity.
That example story was very similar to my own. My stale mate has ended though. I never tried to change him but I did ignore incompatibility. Great topic and super helpful.
Wonderful insight on relationships…I appreciate this practical advice. It’s so simple and is going to be very useful for me going forward. I have just started dating again after a very long marriage. Thank you Teal! The man I have been dating for just 3 months is wasting so much of my energy. He is had a work telling me I am broken. I have my life together. I just have my beliefs about love and relationships. He says I will only get disappointed believing the way I do. He will spend hours telling me I bring on problems with my thinking. After listening to this video, I am so aware that I was getting his punishment for not thinking like him. He will shame me for my beliefs. The real truth is we are just not compatible. Period. I don’t need this headache anymore.
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Teal, I've learned so much from you! I was raised to believe being a wife and mother meant suffering and sacrafice. Anytime I would vocalize that I wasn't happy, everyone around me would say "yeah, that's what it takes to be a good mom and wife". I desire harmony in my life and I no longer reject it.
I think maybe really taking the time to figure out your non negotiables, needs, and core values is the first step and then finding someone who aligns with those! Like you said, it's kind of impossible to find someone who is perfectly compatible with you in every single way - so creating a firm foundation with patience and healthy communication is probably the best we can do :)
I think a big part of this problem is that women are pressured to settle down, marry, and have babies as soon as possible due to the concept of the biological time clock effectively being a ticking time bomb. Whereas men are encouraged to be wild and free. The values between the two genders are almost pre programmed in opposite directions and rather than explore these ideas fully and why a woman might want children VS why a man want freedom, both parties ignore the first signs of red flags of incompatibility or just straight lie about it until the attachment is so strong and the relationship so serious, it's on the road for pain, disappointment, and resentment. Bear in mind sometimes these dynamics are flipped. Sometimes the man wants kids and the woman wants freedom. People need to explore their motivations and make sure they find a partner whose goals match their own. There's a difference in preferring cheerios over oatmeal for breakfast and someone who wants to stay in their hometown all their life VS someone who wants to move to Alaska.
That surely would be impossibly hard to find. Look for understanding and compassion. Comp can be found every where..comp ri mise comp lie cated can show you others but I think u can find some on your own
@@indigoneutral I agree with your perspective. I found out that only way we can prevent this situations is taking time to figure out what we really want, (need),desire, what we missing in life, our resentment etc. as more as we can. Before jumping into any relationship just spend some time with yourself, get spesific and clear with what you want not what someone thinks is the best for you or becouse society in large does. Also it is so sad to see how many ppl just copy others opinions, rutines, lifestyles...it is ok to not have baby if you feel like its not path that you want to take. Becouse guess what- life can have meaning even if you are not married or having kids. Take your damn life in your hands.
@@tanja5208 YAS exactly. If children are honestly the biggest driving force, I think early fertility testing as well as exploring other routes of motherhood should come before trying to force a relationship with a partner whose needs, wants, and desires aren't in line with it. And that shouldn't be stigmatized anymore. As for men who want freedom, that's not immaturity. It's an expression of a different life path. Not everything has to follow the (often religiously dictated) path.
you are literally describing my past relationship. We broke up this week... thank you for bringing more clarity into this, now I can work on understanding and changing this 🙏🏼
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Damn it, Teal! I have been fighting this in my relationship and ignoring the trauma responses! I am in self Help/self development field and it’s like you were talking to me! You might as well just said …”Lucia, ….and all the other words in this video”!!! I’ve been facing this hard reality after the three year mark of this relationship and it just feels so shitty! Shitty to feel incompatible, Shitty too want to change everything, Shitty to feel my covert narcissism to change everything for me to feel better, all of it! I have never been in a compatible relationship so my barometer feels unsteady … yet I keep attracting the same person… And here we go around the mountain again! But the more I become aware of this, the more I realize the need to stay in my own reality and not give up hope that it’s not out there… A story I tell myself at age 63 years old. So I’m reacting out of fear and I hate that I see that in me! I think when you talked about the same as when it really broke me! I’m off to the other videos that you mentioned…. Thank you for the SmackDown lol much love💖
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Just my take on this subject. I have been on a serious journey to understand why I find a repeat of patern relationships (romantic, friendship, some family). I am actively adjusting my relationship patterns. I agree that some people are just not compatible. But what seems to get lost is, not just incompatibility, but communication, we don't know how to ask for we need in a way that come across with compassion, understanding, empathy and genuine self, or being clear in our needs and wants while still not compromising boundaries either way. Most people, in my experience, are not taught or never have a chance to learn the skills to communicate needs and wants in a healthy way, within a relationship, especially romantic ones. Another part of this is how emotion is tied to the subconscious and to some degree generational subconscious memory (DNA memory) What happens is our subconscious takes in all kinds information (emotion is the subconscoius mind's language) from a very very early age. These experiences then are hard wired through emotions attached to certain repetitions of what we see, feel, hear and experience in our own lives. It is very hard to "reprogram" these believes, even if you want too. It is possible with the right tools and skills. Under all of this, when one person wants to truely and genuinely adjust through finding their needs and how to communicate them in a healthy way, not for the other person but for themselves, it is possible for compatability. Ultimately both partners have to want the change. Learn to communicate, have empathy and understanding.
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Thank you Teal. I just recently went through a break up and this makes so much sense. Life changing information and helps me to heal and forgive my ex partner. We appreciate you ❤
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I assume incompatible to all other human forms. My journey has come to a point where, I alone need to walk this path. I might be alone, but I am not lonely.
Dear Teal, please make a new video on starseeds and the galactic federation. 🙏🙏🙏 I know you love relationship stuff but since a while that aspect goes super well for me and as you are one of the best trusted sources out there to talk about seeing behind the veil, I kindly as you to make one, just one 15/20 minute video about such stuff. Im especially interested in their current projects with Earth. Thank you! ♥️ Ps: what are your best tips for accessing past life memories?
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Well, (my 2 cents) some behaviors are harmful for one or both people in the relationship (emotionally, physically and/or psychologically) and are worth working through (a.k.a healing). In this case the incompatibility would be if one is interested in addressing that and recognizes it as such and the other one is not. Then that is a SERIOUS incompatibility issue where there's also trauma involved. The lady from the example is not necessarily being 'harmed' by what he is doing or wants. They just want different things in life (and that's great!) In that case I think it's the receiver's choice if they want to 'keep trying' or remove themselves from the situation. How would you approach a case like this? Thank you! Amazing as always 🌹
Hey Nicole, If I am understanding the scenario you are asking about correctly the dynamic is one person has a destructive coping mechanism that is impeding quality of life to the other person or to both people. The point of compatibility, like you said, is the willingness of that first person to look at and potentially change that behaviour. The person who is being negatively affected by the behaviour would need to bring it to attention and open the discussion. If the other person is not willing to create change or even have the discussion, the the most self-loving thing, barring worse consequences, would be to leave that relationship or at least change the type of relationship. You might want to watch Teal’s video “dealing with unworkability in a relationship” for more information on that kind of resistance.
That's good infomration. But for myself, the damage has been too great and I strongly oppose any future chance of getting into another relationship no matter how compatible a woman could be to me.
Teal, thank you for this video. I received so much awareness about my relationship patterns. I’ve been wanting to shift them and this definitely helps. You’re amazing 💕
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I think to earn the ability to speak on relationships you’ve had to go through a period of growth in relationships, failed relationships and self growth . if you can’t make a marriage work I don’t know how much you can speak to a good relationship you can have the first part recognizing incompatible Partners and what are toxic relationships and all of their traits but until you’ve mastered a successful marriage you are still missing the last part and when I say marriage I don’t even mean legally married I mean a relationship where two people have come together on all fronts and Have united. Being able to understand the better good of both people and what each person needs to be successful in the relationship making sacrifices
I kept telling my ex we were not compatible, she wouldn't listen and kept telling me otherwise. I kept it as real as I am and never tried to changed her, though she tried to "accommodate" to what we were incompatible and she managed to do so for a short period of time, then she went back to what we were incompatible. 2 years after being together I grabbed my balls and broke up with her, it really took a lot to say goodbye no matter how much I felt for her, damn it took me months! I knew what I had to do and knew this incompatibility would take us nowhere. She was with me in my "spiritual journey" all along and I'm extremely grateful, as grateful as listening to my Inner Voice.
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Well I'm trying to get to the core of this so to speak, got a little mixed up here, but I've been getting right in my heart, I'm not gay, but im not going into a relationship that is void of a sex life so to speak.
My neighbors, a mosochistic and sadistic couple, finally came to grips and accepted their differences in preferences and now they get along fine.......no guilt, no incompatiibility.
The old folks used to call this “Sacrifice and compromise”! Sadly, with all of our focus on ourselves, what our needs are, and what we want, we’ve forgotten that it’s not all about us.
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It’s extremely selfish and cruel to date someone when you don’t want to settle down or have a family. Just be honest right away be honest and don’t go in when you have different wants and needs. I see so many women do this, the guy doesn’t want to settle down and she waits for years thinking he will change, he won’t make yourselves clear right away, don’t waste your time or the time of others. When someone is pressured to commit and marry etc they don’t look happy and often it ends in disaster.
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Yes if you want true love then love that person for who they authentically are and not who you want them to be by putting constraints, conditions and expectations on the other person. You love that person? Then LOVE everything that you are AFRAID of about them, like they might look, talk, flirt or be attracted to other people of the opposite sex (or what ever thier preference).... Giving someone the freedom to be themselves is the KEY, no matter what you are afraid of..... your fears are your fears..... embracing your beloveds true authentic life and who they are and their growth and mistakes and shorcomings and physical imperfections is what we need in relationships..... COMMIT TO THAT!
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Curious about "areas" of compatibility. There seems to be an "area" for my partner and I where he wants one thing and I want another. If there is an area but many other areas are working, even as I type this I'm remembering him saying that this area held a lot of weight for him.
@Jeanette Goulart - It is extra painful when the incompatibility is only in one area, especially if it's been hard for you to find someone compatible in several areas. I wish I had understood that people don't grow out of basic personality traits. Knowing your MBTI types may help you figure it out, if that is the case. I waited for a decade for him to "grow up" and show his emotions openly, when it is just who he is; he doesn't need an emotional relationship, prefers logic, and considers emotions to be a weakness that should be ignored. I couldn't live in an emotional desert. I think many of us don't know what we really value either, but that is another post entirely.
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My question is , is it possible to have that exciting romantic drive for a person you actually are compatible with? Does it have to be one or the other comma or can it be both? I mean, what's the point of infatuation? If you can't actually have it for a person you're compatible with?
What’s the lesson for me compatibility if they’re not compatible and matter how much you love them get out of there and that’s both way will be a man and you’re leaving woman Levi if it’s a woman and not compatible leave him there just just get out of there move on life is too short
I've never seen a relationship around me that doesn't have an undertone of shame and resentment... I see this in people really close to me. To be honest, it has made me absolutely afraid... And also coz I myself have struggled with incompatibilities in the past. My question for anyone who sees this... Literally anyone... Can anyone share to me honestly... If you've seen a relationship of people really close to you or if you are experiencing a relationship that doesn't have undertones of shame and resentment...? I'd really like to think it's possible. I hope it is
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I'd love some help understanding incompatibility. If my partner and I differ on how we feel loved, her wanting to spend 1:1 time with me and wanting me to want to go for walks and hikes with just her in order to feel loved and me wanting to integrate her as much as possible into family and friends, is this incompatibility or just something we could work through ?
It is all up to you. Those are her needs that she wants addressed. I do think that there is also an interpretation of relationships which would warrant there being a pathway to become compatible if you were not initially compatible. It is about deciding to become one and seeing what each of you can adapt to fit the other one in such a way that does not mean you having to completely lose yourself in the process. When it comes to spending time together to go for walks or hikes and wanting and you wanting her to be part of your family and friends, i do think if you two are healthy individuals, there is a solution to incorporate both of your needs into the way you live your lives.
Can't heal ourselves out of a desire... Hmmm. What if my desire is to cheat on my guy with a woman and his desire is to take narcotics? Like cheating and drugs are bad - shouldn't that tried to be healed?
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but the most important is she have a lot of money and still work in finances believing in green finance..good for her..she killed me..at least she gave me the way to start awakenng and activated my kundalini
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Both Ria and Danny were not ready to have children. She couldn't accept that he genuinely wasn't ready which would make her a bulldozing type of mother to her child. Her desire to have children was out of alignment to begin with. Both parties were unhealed and out of alignment, and not capable of self love and therefore loving eachother.
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Hello I really appreciate you and I love your kind of person... If you don't mind I would like us to be good friends and get to know more about ourselves
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Could you do one single all encompassing video? Every video seems to have at least 2 "check out my other videos on xxx" there's not enough time in the world to do that because I imagine the other videos do the same thing. Try to have more all "under one roof" type videos.
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Incompatibility is such a hard pill to swallow. We all want everyone to love us and letting that need go can feel like giving up on our own worthiness. If we can accept Incompatibility we also recognise who and what we are and thus prioritise our authenticity, the ultimate validation of inherent worth. Hard work but we can do it 🥰
Im walking through such experience for the last months where i slowly come to the understanding that if i truely want the best for both of us then the daily stress of trying keep us togheter in a partnership is a huge burden in life on both of us.. And in my case to really love on another means to make decissions in our own and the others best interest..even if that means to give them space and sharing that love in another way then a partnership, rather in friendship without the consequence of constantly needing oneself and the otherone to change their way of beeing. To perceiving the world, feeling themselfs and taking action according to ones needs is important for ones freedom and happyness in life. Just look at people who are older and unhappily togheter, having kids and feeling misserable and then to ask the question if that is what we want in life. Luckily my partner had the courage to see reality with sharper eyes and admit that we need to let go of this commitment towards to other to find peace in ourselfs. I see that as a higher love commitment towards myself and the other then holding on to them and by that, preventing us from living.
Then working out what are called bumps in the road will show you how it will go on.. If it does not change the major differences then you end up driving on a broken road.. You can drive their but your car will take more damage and you wont get far..
She is not talking about that. She is talking about people who have completely different goals, ideas, mentalities, life goals and so on. This is not about liking or hating pineapple on pizza or him liking a certain sports team and her hating it or so on. It is about people wanting completely different tings in life, like in the example Teal gave: she wants to have a family, he wants to travel and prioritise his career over a relationship. That’s no way this will work without one of them giving up their dreams and that is not a good way to go. They will both end up really unhappy.
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This is why if anyone asks me, i say date people you are already friends with. You already care about them and they already care about you and you know enough about each other to make an informed choice together to date.
I've gotta be sexually attracted to someone to date them, usually I am not sexually attracted to friends, or it would have become sexual right away and that ruins the friendship. (Once they have a partner or another love interest, they stop talking to me).
@@janedoe7971 those aren’t friends 😉 And yes you can be an adult and control yourself even with sexual attraction and not get to know someone only after you are already dating.
And also, if you accept incompatibility, you can find compatibility and have your needs met which makes you feel so good about yourself. Easier said than done but it’s worth the effort.
I guess what I’m trying to reconcile is that a seemingly “incompatible” relationship is just incompatible with who I am right now. But there are so many positive aspects, that although extremely uncomfortable, have actually made me a better version of myself. 🤔
It is with all relationships not only romantic ones..if it does not work it is reason for that ..but people do not want to hear or to see that...they would rather live in a lie..
It’s a treasure to have you in this time and age Teal. I got the seal of alchemy tattooed on my arm. You continue to guide me in my darkest and loneliest times. Your teachings and your being resonate and help me in so many ways. Thank you for being you❤️
“In the long run, accepting incompatibilities is absolutely necessary if what you’re wanting is to create relationships that feel good mutually. Instead of relationships that are based on a mutual sensation of shame.” I love that line. Thank you Teal ❤️
@@ambraacadabra yes, you can! It’s important to acknowledge the incompatibilities to know what the next step to take is. The couple in her example remained friends, but were incapable of having a relationship. But they still loved each other. It takes people who are very aware and are capable of really defining their needs though, to make a relationship work in a truly functional way. Of course, many times incompatibilities will mean we have to move on :c Especially if one, or both, people in the relationship do not have the skills to communicate effectively and honestly :c So to answer your question, if there are significant incompatibilities it is very unlikely to continue a romantic relationship but not impossible depending on the maturity of both partners
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I have access to unconditional love, I embody it often, and even though I am solo, I still dance with my shadow to release the need to change anyone. There is a distinction though, my love is offered unconditionally, but our terms of engagement absolutely have conditions. I am used to being alone, and love being alone, and I love love. And I love the heart that resonates in the same frequency as mine. I can feel all the love in my aloneness, And so never lonely. Soul connection, with respect and kindness is everything. Throw passion, common interests, and like values into the mix, we've created heaven on earth. At 50, I don't seek for anything other than The Beauty Way ~
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I learned this from my marriage. We were totally in love and totally incompatible! I left. It's 40 years later and I still love him. He's the love of my life, but I'm glad we're not together because it would have been certain death (of spirit) for each of us if we had. Romantic love and compatibility have nothing to do with each other.
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This was helpful: to take needs coming from trauma seriously. And not tell oneself that it shouldn't be there.
This is why it’s best to find out right away in a relationship if you are compatible or not and save yourself years and more heartache down the line.
Absolutely...might as well realize right away you're incompatible with someone rather than waste time
Incompatibility can occur later though. We all grow and change, sometimes that can make people change in ways that cause disharmony.
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@@stacyd4503 Totally.
I've been avoiding watching this video and now I know why. This described the 6 year relationship I was in that just ended almost to a T. Replace the the want to travel with alcoholism.. We did all of the things that Teal describes here. We tried compromises, I wanted him to work on his drinking and face his traumas and he wanted me to change too. When I tried to accept his alcoholism it made me miserable. I'm so heartbroken, because I loved him so much, I never wanted something to work so badly. Getting through every day is really hard right now.
Wow, a girl that wants to go on a bunch of frivolous vacations, basic.
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This speaks to my current situation. I’m grateful to feel reassured in my confession that he and I just aren’t compatible.. it’s like we speak different languages.. we love each other we are both great people.. we don’t need to make each other into characterizations that aren’t true to justify our pre-conceived notions of ‘our self’.. we can just be humble and admit it’s just a compatibility issue.. nothing about good or bad.. right or wrong, better or worse.. more refined or less refined.. etc.. ty.. I pray for an easy time cradling this delicate sensitive situation God do I pray..
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Met my person online by accident not a dating site. Been together 6 years married 5. From the beginning made sure we were compatible:
Lifestyle ✔
Food✔
Money✔
Religion ✔
Childfree by choice ✔
That was all discussed before we even met in person. Have those difficult conversations as soon as possible.
I would like to add -- even tho we are from different races, opposite sides of the planet and different cultures --- we are the same and completely compatable. I thought that would be interesting to mention.
Wonderful to read your comment! Thank you for that! 💕 Love and kisses from Brazil 😽🌹❤️🧡❣️😽💜🙏
This is encouraging story. I am experiencing something similar. Have been in a long distance relationship with someone who is 8503 miles away since 3 months ago. I feel that he is the most compatible man I have ever met in life. We have not met yet, planning to meet up in September and hope the feeling is real. ❤️
@@qmutube be positive because our relationship is proof that this can work. Be very honest about who you guys are and communication is key. When times get tough dont just give up - find ways to work through issues but above all make sure you are on the same page about big life decisions and everything will be ok😌
No one is ever 100% compatible that’s a fantasy. You can be compatible but I am certain if you haven’t had issues yet you will. It’s not possible to be in tuned and in agreement with each other all the time. This video I am disappointed with because it over simplified and extreme. There are a myriad of nuances in relationships. Compromise is a necessity not a bad thing to be demonized. Yes you shouldn’t have to compromise yourself too much, but that’s how relationships work and how growth in relationships happens. I mean we aren’t even compatible with ourselves on a regular basis! We are confused, conflicted, sometimes lost. We also seek compromise to find acceptance and peace in our own personal inner conflicts. The same is true for healthy compatible relationships. It would have been helpful for Teal to speak to the gray areas and nuances present in compatible relationships. It’s not so black and white and polarized.
@@fineartlifestyling let me clarify a little bit --- i am 41 years old -- most people i meet who dont know me think i am around 27. My point is -- i fully know who i am... on a fundamental level i feel that when you are older you are less confused in life and you are pretty much set in your ways -- yes growth does still happen (me and my husband grow together and we teach each other every day to be more compassionate more understanding and more respectful) but for the most part we are on complete agreemend on the big issues in life. The big ones i mentioned. The ones who rock the boat the most. We are completely compatible in those specifically and we are older and know ourselves very well and THAT IS WHY ---- it works so well. We have been together for more than 6 years and married for 5 and we haven't yet experienced anything to "rock our boat". I have had a death in my family and he has had 3. We have weathered some pretty significant storms in the more than half a decade we have been together and we are still 100% happy and fulfilled. I cant tell you anything other than my experience and that is that true compatibility is possible and successful.
The needs I have that come from trauma are an authentic part of me... damn I really didn’t know how much I needed to hear that perspective. I feel like I’ve been swimming in confusion for months trying to figure out if my feelings are “real” or from trauma. Im going to try to stop doing that to myself.
Thank you for the video Teal. Sincerely.
This is really helpful. Sometimes is difficult to accept incompatibility because we want to make the relationship works that’s why is really important to know our values ✨🙌🏽
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Been in an incompatible relationship for the last year and a half. I’ve known it the whole time and just didn’t have the strength to admit it… thank you Teal
Don't love a lie man. That's all, don't lie to yourself
Will be 7 years in April for me. I honestly think my partner just wants a maid and a prostitute, of which I'm neither. A friendship between us is non existent and we're both very different people....
No worries, you learned the lesson for next time
Same here
Same… but for 5 years now with a child….. listen to yourself. The time is now.
It gets worse when there are both genuine incompatibilities and abuse in a relationship. Because if you're not yet aware of all this, the two WILL entangle and make you question yourself even more when you want to leave. At some point it becomes very difficult to tell which is which, and we make all sorts of excuses. Unfortunately we are used to think that abuse may come from incompatibilities and once they are solved/healed the abuse will go away. This is another reason why it's very good to evaluate compatibility ruthlessly, it indirectly shields you from abuse as well.
Yes, I'm learning that accepting where we are right now leads to taking blame out of the equation. Wanting to change someone is forcing it, and forcing means resistance.
Thank you!
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I'm really enjoying these videos based on examples, story driven style of videos as opposed to the content dump from old times, they feel more manageable, like less things go over my head while watching them. Thank you for always finding new ways to deliver awareness to us.
Never heard someone break it down so simple but yet so true.. thanks for this.
This applies to friends, colleagues and jobs. My job/colleagues and I are incompatible, so I'm leaving. They're unprofessional and unqualified. I'm professional and qualified. I'm tired of being sidelined and bullied due to their jealousy and insecurity.
That example story was very similar to my own. My stale mate has ended though. I never tried to change him but I did ignore incompatibility. Great topic and super helpful.
Wonderful insight on relationships…I appreciate this practical advice. It’s so simple and is going to be very useful for me going forward. I have just started dating again after a very long marriage. Thank you Teal! The man I have been dating for just 3 months is wasting so much of my energy. He is had a work telling me I am broken. I have my life together. I just have my beliefs about love and relationships. He says I will only get disappointed believing the way I do. He will spend hours telling me I bring on problems with my thinking. After listening to this video, I am so aware that I was getting his punishment for not thinking like him. He will shame me for my beliefs. The real truth is we are just not compatible. Period. I don’t need this headache anymore.
Gosh, he sounds insufferable...bye boy!!!
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Sincerely, you are something else. Many unidentified emotions are settled, surely no clinical approach can manage this. Thanks.
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Teal, I've learned so much from you! I was raised to believe being a wife and mother meant suffering and sacrafice. Anytime I would vocalize that I wasn't happy, everyone around me would say "yeah, that's what it takes to be a good mom and wife". I desire harmony in my life and I no longer reject it.
It just seems kind of impossible to find a relationship where are you are compatible with everything. How would you suggest going about that?
I think maybe really taking the time to figure out your non negotiables, needs, and core values is the first step and then finding someone who aligns with those! Like you said, it's kind of impossible to find someone who is perfectly compatible with you in every single way - so creating a firm foundation with patience and healthy communication is probably the best we can do :)
I think a big part of this problem is that women are pressured to settle down, marry, and have babies as soon as possible due to the concept of the biological time clock effectively being a ticking time bomb. Whereas men are encouraged to be wild and free. The values between the two genders are almost pre programmed in opposite directions and rather than explore these ideas fully and why a woman might want children VS why a man want freedom, both parties ignore the first signs of red flags of incompatibility or just straight lie about it until the attachment is so strong and the relationship so serious, it's on the road for pain, disappointment, and resentment. Bear in mind sometimes these dynamics are flipped. Sometimes the man wants kids and the woman wants freedom. People need to explore their motivations and make sure they find a partner whose goals match their own. There's a difference in preferring cheerios over oatmeal for breakfast and someone who wants to stay in their hometown all their life VS someone who wants to move to Alaska.
That surely would be impossibly hard to find. Look for understanding and compassion. Comp can be found every where..comp ri mise comp lie cated can show you others but I think u can find some on your own
@@indigoneutral I agree with your perspective.
I found out that only way we can prevent this situations is taking time to figure out what we really want, (need),desire, what we missing in life, our resentment etc. as more as we can. Before jumping into any relationship just spend some time with yourself, get spesific and clear with what you want not what someone thinks is the best for you or becouse society in large does. Also it is so sad to see how many ppl just copy others opinions, rutines, lifestyles...it is ok to not have baby if you feel like its not path that you want to take. Becouse guess what- life can have meaning even if you are not married or having kids. Take your damn life in your hands.
@@tanja5208 YAS exactly. If children are honestly the biggest driving force, I think early fertility testing as well as exploring other routes of motherhood should come before trying to force a relationship with a partner whose needs, wants, and desires aren't in line with it. And that shouldn't be stigmatized anymore. As for men who want freedom, that's not immaturity. It's an expression of a different life path. Not everything has to follow the (often religiously dictated) path.
you are literally describing my past relationship. We broke up this week... thank you for bringing more clarity into this, now I can work on understanding and changing this 🙏🏼
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Damn it, Teal! I have been fighting this in my relationship and ignoring the trauma responses! I am in self Help/self development field and it’s like you were talking to me! You might as well just said …”Lucia, ….and all the other words in this video”!!! I’ve been facing this hard reality after the three year mark of this relationship and it just feels so shitty! Shitty to feel incompatible, Shitty too want to change everything, Shitty to feel my covert narcissism to change everything for me to feel better, all of it! I have never been in a compatible relationship so my barometer feels unsteady … yet I keep attracting the same person… And here we go around the mountain again! But the more I become aware of this, the more I realize the need to stay in my own reality and not give up hope that it’s not out there… A story I tell myself at age 63 years old. So I’m reacting out of fear and I hate that I see that in me! I think when you talked about the same as when it really broke me! I’m off to the other videos that you mentioned…. Thank you for the SmackDown lol much love💖
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I love how Teal got way more serious in her presentation hehe
Teal, thank you for your ability, gift, and commitment to make the unconscious conscious!
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Just my take on this subject. I have been on a serious journey to understand why I find a repeat of patern relationships (romantic, friendship, some family). I am actively adjusting my relationship patterns.
I agree that some people are just not compatible. But what seems to get lost is, not just incompatibility, but communication, we don't know how to ask for we need in a way that come across with compassion, understanding, empathy and genuine self, or being clear in our needs and wants while still not compromising boundaries either way. Most people, in my experience, are not taught or never have a chance to learn the skills to communicate needs and wants in a healthy way, within a relationship, especially romantic ones.
Another part of this is how emotion is tied to the subconscious and to some degree generational subconscious memory (DNA memory)
What happens is our subconscious takes in all kinds information (emotion is the subconscoius mind's language) from a very very early age. These experiences then are hard wired through emotions attached to certain repetitions of what we see, feel, hear and experience in our own lives. It is very hard to "reprogram" these believes, even if you want too. It is possible with the right tools and skills.
Under all of this, when one person wants to truely and genuinely adjust through finding their needs and how to communicate them in a healthy way, not for the other person but for themselves, it is possible for compatability. Ultimately both partners have to want the change. Learn to communicate, have empathy and understanding.
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"You know who you are"... ah, the wry giggles of Teal. 🥰
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this was the most difficult "like button" to smash. love from italy
I love you Teal Swan! you are such a beautiful person inside and out. Your words ring of truth
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Thank you Teal. I just recently went through a break up and this makes so much sense. Life changing information and helps me to heal and forgive my ex partner. We appreciate you ❤
Teal, thank you for your unconditional love to your public and help! 😘
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Thank you again for your wisdom! I love you Teal swan!
That last part though!! 👏💯
I assume incompatible to all other human forms. My journey has come to a point where, I alone need to walk this path. I might be alone, but I am not lonely.
Dear Teal, please make a new video on starseeds and the galactic federation. 🙏🙏🙏 I know you love relationship stuff but since a while that aspect goes super well for me and as you are one of the best trusted sources out there to talk about seeing behind the veil, I kindly as you to make one, just one 15/20 minute video about such stuff. Im especially interested in their current projects with Earth. Thank you! ♥️ Ps: what are your best tips for accessing past life memories?
Love ❤️ You Teal
Hi Teal. Could you do an episode on borderline personality disorder? Thank you 💜
I would love to hear Teal's take on BPD, great suggestion
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This, for real.
Thank you Teal for your support!
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Well, (my 2 cents) some behaviors are harmful for one or both people in the relationship (emotionally, physically and/or psychologically) and are worth working through (a.k.a healing). In this case the incompatibility would be if one is interested in addressing that and recognizes it as such and the other one is not. Then that is a SERIOUS incompatibility issue where there's also trauma involved. The lady from the example is not necessarily being 'harmed' by what he is doing or wants. They just want different things in life (and that's great!) In that case I think it's the receiver's choice if they want to 'keep trying' or remove themselves from the situation. How would you approach a case like this? Thank you! Amazing as always 🌹
Hey Nicole, If I am understanding the scenario you are asking about correctly the dynamic is one person has a destructive coping mechanism that is impeding quality of life to the other person or to both people. The point of compatibility, like you said, is the willingness of that first person to look at and potentially change that behaviour. The person who is being negatively affected by the behaviour would need to bring it to attention and open the discussion. If the other person is not willing to create change or even have the discussion, the the most self-loving thing, barring worse consequences, would be to leave that relationship or at least change the type of relationship. You might want to watch Teal’s video “dealing with unworkability in a relationship” for more information on that kind of resistance.
@@MariaLeFay Thank you Maria! Sending you much love.
That's good infomration. But for myself, the damage has been too great and I strongly oppose any future chance of getting into another relationship no matter how compatible a woman could be to me.
Teal, thank you for this video. I received so much awareness about my relationship patterns. I’ve been wanting to shift them and this definitely helps. You’re amazing 💕
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Eye-opener
Wow. Really eye opening. Thank you🦋💘
Did this is my 20s allready. I had an inner drive to do it.
I think to earn the ability to speak on relationships you’ve had to go through a period of growth in relationships, failed relationships and self growth . if you can’t make a marriage work I don’t know how much you can speak to a good relationship you can have the first part recognizing incompatible Partners and what are toxic relationships and all of their traits but until you’ve mastered a successful marriage you are still missing the last part and when I say marriage I don’t even mean legally married I mean a relationship where two people have come together on all fronts and Have united. Being able to understand the better good of both people and what each person needs to be successful in the relationship making sacrifices
I kept telling my ex we were not compatible, she wouldn't listen and kept telling me otherwise.
I kept it as real as I am and never tried to changed her, though she tried to "accommodate" to what we were incompatible and she managed to do so for a short period of time, then she went back to what we were incompatible.
2 years after being together I grabbed my balls and broke up with her, it really took a lot to say goodbye no matter how much I felt for her, damn it took me months!
I knew what I had to do and knew this incompatibility would take us nowhere.
She was with me in my "spiritual journey" all along and I'm extremely grateful, as grateful as listening to my Inner Voice.
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thanks for making this, teal!
Please keep calling out the self help “spiritual” community 💕
That's just genius
Well I'm trying to get to the core of this so to speak, got a little mixed up here, but I've been getting right in my heart, I'm not gay, but im not going into a relationship that is void of a sex life so to speak.
Is there such a thing as a 100% compatible relationship?
no
I think yes i've seen happy couples i think it exists
My neighbors, a mosochistic and sadistic couple, finally came to grips and accepted their differences in preferences and now they get along fine.......no guilt, no incompatiibility.
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@@user-dg1fj4jf1n I don't know what this means. Have a nice day. I was just being humorous. You make a lot of good points.
The old folks used to call this “Sacrifice and compromise”!
Sadly, with all of our focus on ourselves, what our needs are, and what we want, we’ve forgotten that it’s not all about us.
Yep very rare in 2022
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Lol, I love your content! I always need to hear them.
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It’s extremely selfish and cruel to date someone when you don’t want to settle down or have a family. Just be honest right away be honest and don’t go in when you have different wants and needs.
I see so many women do this, the guy doesn’t want to settle down and she waits for years thinking he will change, he won’t make yourselves clear right away, don’t waste your time or the time of others.
When someone is pressured to commit and marry etc they don’t look happy and often it ends in disaster.
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It’s no wonder that most people these days want nothing to do with relationships
I know not match about you what ever you are,but something choose me lead to you even by only say thank you.....
Yes if you want true love then love that person for who they authentically are and not who you want them to be by putting constraints, conditions and expectations on the other person. You love that person? Then LOVE everything that you are AFRAID of about them, like they might look, talk, flirt or be attracted to other people of the opposite sex (or what ever thier preference).... Giving someone the freedom to be themselves is the KEY, no matter what you are afraid of..... your fears are your fears..... embracing your beloveds true authentic life and who they are and their growth and mistakes and shorcomings and physical imperfections is what we need in relationships..... COMMIT TO THAT!
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Thankx so much 🙏
4.32 time....dang it Teal.
This is the best one.
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Curious about "areas" of compatibility. There seems to be an "area" for my partner and I where he wants one thing and I want another. If there is an area but many other areas are working, even as I type this I'm remembering him saying that this area held a lot of weight for him.
@Jeanette Goulart - It is extra painful when the incompatibility is only in one area, especially if it's been hard for you to find someone compatible in several areas. I wish I had understood that people don't grow out of basic personality traits. Knowing your MBTI types may help you figure it out, if that is the case. I waited for a decade for him to "grow up" and show his emotions openly, when it is just who he is; he doesn't need an emotional relationship, prefers logic, and considers emotions to be a weakness that should be ignored. I couldn't live in an emotional desert. I think many of us don't know what we really value either, but that is another post entirely.
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@@meagiesmuse2334 we broke up recently. Your words helped me. I'm so much happier. Thank you
@@JeanetteGoulart - I'm glad it worked out well for you!
But... how do you distinguish whether it's incompatibility or whether you're simply giving up too fast?
if your values and what you want in a partner don't match who they are you're incompatible
My question is , is it possible to have that exciting romantic drive for a person you actually are compatible with? Does it have to be one or the other comma or can it be both? I mean, what's the point of infatuation? If you can't actually have it for a person you're compatible with?
What’s the lesson for me compatibility if they’re not compatible and matter how much you love them get out of there and that’s both way will be a man and you’re leaving woman Levi if it’s a woman and not compatible leave him there just just get out of there move on life is too short
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Or 3 some people just settle
2021 - me trying three separate times with the same person and not learning the lesson
So is it better to not be friends? Should we just accept incompatibility and cease contact? What does accepting incompatibility look like?
How exactly is LA better than NY for kids?
I think that was irony
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You are way more beautiful trust me in this lifetime
I've never seen a relationship around me that doesn't have an undertone of shame and resentment... I see this in people really close to me. To be honest, it has made me absolutely afraid... And also coz I myself have struggled with incompatibilities in the past. My question for anyone who sees this... Literally anyone... Can anyone share to me honestly... If you've seen a relationship of people really close to you or if you are experiencing a relationship that doesn't have undertones of shame and resentment...? I'd really like to think it's possible. I hope it is
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Hi Teal what's the story with yourself
Hey there! please make a video about adhd
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I'd love some help understanding incompatibility. If my partner and I differ on how we feel loved, her wanting to spend 1:1 time with me and wanting me to want to go for walks and hikes with just her in order to feel loved and me wanting to integrate her as much as possible into family and friends, is this incompatibility or just something we could work through ?
It is all up to you. Those are her needs that she wants addressed. I do think that there is also an interpretation of relationships which would warrant there being a pathway to become compatible if you were not initially compatible. It is about deciding to become one and seeing what each of you can adapt to fit the other one in such a way that does not mean you having to completely lose yourself in the process. When it comes to spending time together to go for walks or hikes and wanting and you wanting her to be part of your family and friends, i do think if you two are healthy individuals, there is a solution to incorporate both of your needs into the way you live your lives.
she made a video where she explained such a case. The video is called "compromise or compatibility?".
Can't heal ourselves out of a desire... Hmmm. What if my desire is to cheat on my guy with a woman and his desire is to take narcotics? Like cheating and drugs are bad - shouldn't that tried to be healed?
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what about when there is compatibility but the other person keeps falling for addiction problems with drugs and is hard to accept that.
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but the most important is she have a lot of money and still work in finances believing in green finance..good for her..she killed me..at least she gave me the way to start awakenng and activated my kundalini
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Both Ria and Danny were not ready to have children. She couldn't accept that he genuinely wasn't ready which would make her a bulldozing type of mother to her child. Her desire to have children was out of alignment to begin with. Both parties were unhealed and out of alignment, and not capable of self love and therefore loving eachother.
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Why didn't this vid exist before I got married years ago?!
Would not have made any difference back then.
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Vascilateing … how do you spell?…there it is - vacillating invalidating them and myself 🤦♀️
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Hello I really appreciate you and I love your kind of person... If you don't mind I would like us to be good friends and get to know more about ourselves
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Could you do one single all encompassing video? Every video seems to have at least 2 "check out my other videos on xxx" there's not enough time in the world to do that because I imagine the other videos do the same thing. Try to have more all "under one roof" type videos.
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Calling me outttttttt
then what should I do break up with her?
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Yes unless u can work it out and compromise on things together
I feel like I'm not compatible to anyone I ever meet...
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What if it really is in your best interest to change though?
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Do you mean irrelevant? Irreverent is disrespectful.
Incompatibility is such a hard pill to swallow. We all want everyone to love us and letting that need go can feel like giving up on our own worthiness. If we can accept Incompatibility we also recognise who and what we are and thus prioritise our authenticity, the ultimate validation of inherent worth.
Hard work but we can do it 🥰
Im walking through such experience for the last months where i slowly come to the understanding that if i truely want the best for both of us then the daily stress of trying keep us togheter in a partnership is a huge burden in life on both of us..
And in my case to really love on another means to make decissions in our own and the others best interest..even if that means to give them space and sharing that love in another way then a partnership, rather in friendship without the consequence of constantly needing oneself and the otherone to change their way of beeing. To perceiving the world, feeling themselfs and taking action according to ones needs is important for ones freedom and happyness in life.
Just look at people who are older and unhappily togheter, having kids and feeling misserable and then to ask the question if that is what we want in life.
Luckily my partner had the courage to see reality with sharper eyes and admit that we need to let go of this commitment towards to other to find peace in ourselfs.
I see that as a higher love commitment towards myself and the other then holding on to them and by that, preventing us from living.
So well said!
@@sebastianalexander5564 you said exactly what's been on my heart for months regarding myself and my current lover. ❤
True
Which is exactly why I stay away from some people ( low class people like ghetto, etc )
Every relationship hits bumps in the road. Don't confuse bumps and hard times with incompatibility.
Then working out what are called bumps in the road will show you how it will go on.. If it does not change the major differences then you end up driving on a broken road.. You can drive their but your car will take more damage and you wont get far..
She is not talking about that. She is talking about people who have completely different goals, ideas, mentalities, life goals and so on. This is not about liking or hating pineapple on pizza or him liking a certain sports team and her hating it or so on. It is about people wanting completely different tings in life, like in the example Teal gave: she wants to have a family, he wants to travel and prioritise his career over a relationship. That’s no way this will work without one of them giving up their dreams and that is not a good way to go. They will both end up really unhappy.
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Incase You'd Rather Read About It Instead: tealswan.com/resources/articles/accept-incompatibility/
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ty. but then I couldn't see your lovely eyes
i find the Shorts posts really annoying and confusing. i want long videos only 😩
This is why if anyone asks me, i say date people you are already friends with. You already care about them and they already care about you and you know enough about each other to make an informed choice together to date.
I've gotta be sexually attracted to someone to date them, usually I am not sexually attracted to friends, or it would have become sexual right away and that ruins the friendship. (Once they have a partner or another love interest, they stop talking to me).
@@janedoe7971 you are not talking about friends then, but the men you friendzoned. Thats a difference 😁
Weird
@@janedoe7971 those aren’t friends 😉 And yes you can be an adult and control yourself even with sexual attraction and not get to know someone only after you are already dating.
@@Lizicles1 That's what you think. I'm way too hypersexual. And I attract them too....
Flow, don’t force.
And also, if you accept incompatibility, you can find compatibility and have your needs met which makes you feel so good about yourself. Easier said than done but it’s worth the effort.
I guess what I’m trying to reconcile is that a seemingly “incompatible” relationship is just incompatible with who I am right now. But there are so many positive aspects, that although extremely uncomfortable, have actually made me a better version of myself. 🤔
It is with all relationships not only romantic ones..if it does not work it is reason for that ..but people do not want to hear or to see that...they would rather live in a lie..
It’s a treasure to have you in this time and age Teal. I got the seal of alchemy tattooed on my arm. You continue to guide me in my darkest and loneliest times. Your teachings and your being resonate and help me in so many ways. Thank you for being you❤️
“In the long run, accepting incompatibilities is absolutely necessary if what you’re wanting is to create relationships that feel good mutually. Instead of relationships that are based on a mutual sensation of shame.” I love that line. Thank you Teal ❤️
What does it mean exactly? Can we continue a relationship thats romantic even if there are incompatibilities?
@@ambraacadabra yes, you can! It’s important to acknowledge the incompatibilities to know what the next step to take is. The couple in her example remained friends, but were incapable of having a relationship. But they still loved each other. It takes people who are very aware and are capable of really defining their needs though, to make a relationship work in a truly functional way. Of course, many times incompatibilities will mean we have to move on :c Especially if one, or both, people in the relationship do not have the skills to communicate effectively and honestly :c
So to answer your question, if there are significant incompatibilities it is very unlikely to continue a romantic relationship but not impossible depending on the maturity of both partners
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I have access to unconditional love, I embody it often, and even though I am solo, I still dance with my shadow to release the need to change anyone. There is a distinction though, my love is offered unconditionally, but our terms of engagement absolutely have conditions. I am used to being alone, and love being alone, and I love love. And I love the heart that resonates in the same frequency as mine. I can feel all the love in my aloneness, And so never lonely. Soul connection, with respect and kindness is everything. Throw passion, common interests, and like values into the mix, we've created heaven on earth. At 50, I don't seek for anything other than The Beauty Way ~
You stated that so eloquently....I feel precisely as you do, it's tremendously liberating
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Been there, danced and learned these hard lessons.
Thank you, love your channel and gifts. 🌏
Denial is definitely not in Egypt.
“You think that you’re in love but you’re really just in pain”
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Hi... I am your first viewer... It's very good have you as a mentor... Thanks
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