Warning! This is What Happens If You Don't Admit to What You Want!
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- This is what happens if you don't admit to what you want!
In this episode, Teal Swan explains why if you don't admit to what you want, there will be negative consequences for you and for everyone around you.
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This is me. I try to make myself as small and the least amount “needy” as possible. Well, now I’m dealing with a partner who I’ve trained to do the bare minimum.
my heart goes out to this , i hope you expand , you get the care you need n desire and aspire to ask 4 more
Same girl, same. It's time to wake up.
@@lillystar91 thank you. I finally opened up and told him the truth about how unhappy I am the way things are. He is completely avoidant so it will take time for the things I said to sink in. I chose this man, and I’m willing to work and make things better. And he says he’s willing to do the work too.
@@AS-on1fz you can do it. Are you in therapy at all?
There is not much twinking you need to do in order to get back to a convenient life :
- Stop being a control freak, based on some needs like « feeling secure ones », you have trained yourself to let no random event happen in your life. So much that it is absolutely impossible to find a place besides you as a man… You do your best to do everything and we cant approach you, you dont let us approach you, expect those mens that are useless….
- Understand that mens needs to be able to help you, otherwise we feel useless and depressed. (If not help, at least accept our love and tenderness)
In my workplace, a girl likes me, she is like you, doing everything by herself and freaking her mom because this mom wants her daughter to have a men and child (at all cost). The amount of time i need to explain to her that she’s trying to hard not to let me any space beside her is absolutely annoying and uncompromising.
And i consider myself high value man (i know i know), so i value my time, working out or working on personal projects outside of my job.
So the sad part is that i dont care about her anymore, she cost me too much time for not enough heart opening moment.
Open yourself to life or byebye bella.
Being honest- I don't want to provide for myself. I don't want to have to have a career. I want to be able to do my craft and have a masculine provider and I can take care of the home and family and work on my craft. I was so ashamed and terrified to admit this to myself because I was terrified of being perceived as weak and have been shamed for wanting that type of connection. I'm actually way happier admitting this to myself.
Same. It doesn’t help that we as woman are shamed for this and told we are lazy or useless if this is what we want. The world devalues feminine strengths and gifts and tells us we must be men when we are not men.
I have the exact same desire, so I’m curious to know how you’re going about it. I was pushed back by my last relationship. I dated a millionaire who wanted me to marry him and move in with him. It seemed like a possible dream come true, but he had a lot of red flags. I agreed to marry him under pressure. Everything was pressured with him. We broke up soon because I was pointing out things that were not okay with me and that made him angry. Then I started my healing journey because I was so devastated and confused. Now I want to be independent just so I don’t have to tolerate abuse and bad behaviour from a rich man. But that’s the "SO THAT" trap 🙃 idk what to do honestly, I have no problem attracting rich guys who want to have a relationship, but there’s always smt about them that makes me feel like I’d rather be single. Have you maybe experienced anything similar?
@@violanovakova4752 look into Mina Irfan she goes into finding high quality provider men
I feel this!! Still struggling to admit it 100%
@@violanovakova4752 Instead of attracting guys who can provide for you financially, why not go for men who can provide for you emotionally? More of a challenge to find, and to grow, but far more of a reward.🍀
"the truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off" Couldn't help but add this (it's my truth 😉)
Mantra by Bring Me the Horizon
I chose to get a day job when I met my partner 12 ago as he said my ‘singing’ and performing was just a ‘hobby’ - when I sing there is a resonance I can’t explain. I love performing and lifting people up, making them feel and connect to a feeling from whatever type of performance I am doing. I gig on a corporate level now but I know there is something else I need to do with my voice to heal others. I don’t want to work for a corporation that just takes advantage but I stress about money because that’s all I bring to my relationship. He does all the cleaning and household stuff so it’s like money is all I can bring while stuck in this inescapable loop.
Sing, please! The world needs it!
Yes! Keep at it. I went through similar things. After ten years with a guy who discouraged me while picking up two instruments. Started singing for a band and was hooked. Busted up my marriage but he's happy now and so am I. Just keep doing your art or you will become morbidly depressed. I was amazed who came out of the woodwork to encourage and inspire me. Now I make up songs and musicals like it's second nature. Need more music people in my life and our world! The love of music in Europe and the Far East is overwhelming!
You cand advertise to find collaborators.
Quincy Jones said you must have to have your act together. Jokes and a fun disposition help a lot.
Yes, I'm scared to admit what I want. Because I don't actually know what to do, if I get it..
And I tend to pursue unavailability, for that exact reason.
It's familiar, I know what to expect. But it doesn't bring me happiness.
Could this be a sign of procrastination- afraid to take responsibility for what you truly want and for your hearts desires
Authenticity and honesty are the base for basically everything. Love, action, manifestation, everything we do. Finding your truth is the first step. 🗝️❤️
Nothing is too good to be true. That's the truth as well. Just a general one. 😊
I think the examples and the advice in this video are very very good btw. 😊👍
I can’t tell the difference from ”what I want”, “what I think I want”, “what I should” and “what I need”. So I just go with the ol’ “if it feel right…is most likely wrong! So don’t do it!” ☺️
This is always a hard thing to do simply because what you want and what other people want are not the same thing. It is alot of hard work but you are correct that there's consequences even in not doing it.
This was brilliant!!! I've finally admitted to something I wanted recently and a huge weight has been lifted. The truth is I was telling myself a shame story that kept me stuck in confusion and despair. No my life might not be glamorous by admitting this truth but it sure feels liberating and expansive because now I have the strength to move forward step by step. Thank you so much for all that you do for us, Teal💜😇✨️🙏🏻
It's just very hard to admit it and hurt the person you've been hurting for so long 💔
Thank you 🙏 you showed me the next steps to take.
It is hard, but you can do hard things!! ❤
Oh yeah. Going through something similar 😞 and Teal's episode comes right on time
i'm hurting so much with not admiting what i wanted 9 months ago, follow your heart no matter what others say learning mistakes is better than not trying with what you want
Yeah... There are a lot of things I like about this world, but I feel like this reality is preventing me from being who I really am. So, there are more things against me than for me, even though I am trying to be honest with myself. I think me being born here was a huge mistake... Maybe I can be more of myself in my next life and be grateful for it because of this life.
It’s a choice you make - it’s not the worlds responsibility to Find the answers you’re looking for as we all know it’s within ❤I believe you can 💪
The irony of this video. I’ve been thinking about this topic for a couple weeks now. This very scenario has gotten me into a lot of trouble because I am a woman who likes women, and instead of just moving through the shame I have associated with being queer, and admitting that to myself and the people who I love, I conjured up a relationship in my head with a female friend who does not identify that way, and which did not really exist. That ended up resulting in a lot of pain and confusion for both of us and ultimately led to us going our separate ways. Just be honest with yourself folks, life is too short to live an inauthentic life.
@Coley
So, did you conjure up that relationship in your head as a way of practising your newfound sexuality/attraction in the 'safest' way possible? So as to find out how it would feel and also without bearing the consequences and full responsibilty if you were to truely engage yourself with a woman who could meet your needs?
You are so correct in this. Due to being born and raised in a very cultish belief system, and not having the foresight to stand up for myself and get out of it when I should have, I've spent the majority of my life not admitting to the what I want out of life. And it has wreaked havoc on me in many ways. Thank you for this information. People need to know this.
Have a good week, Teal!
Dearest Teal, are you reading my life, this is what I just wrote just now while I am doing the parts work on my relationship dilemma 🤗❤️🤗
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NAILED IT Teal all this resonated with my current situation. 💯 I have no energy anymore trying to get what I want coping with how miserable I am in this situation. Still I have to endure it in order to have what I need. But I feel this video with every fiber in my body.
What if : what I really want doesn't provide my financial needs? In that case, should we cope with whatever brings our essential needs?
Love u teal ❤
Watching it twice it was sooo good
Wanting is thinking, therefore thought is matter.
Teal is phenomenal
Before I met my man at 18 I wanted to travel, become a dolphin trainer,I wanted to live in miami. 10 years later I'm still trying to grasp that dream and it's depressing everyday when I don't get even an inch closer to that.its really hard to know that I can have all this but my current situation will never let me if I stay here.i want and deserve so much more out of life
Oh you're in your Saturn return years
@@traveliowa301 could you explain what saturn return years are
@@traveliowa301 just researched it and wowwwwww Holy crap.thats scary and awesome at the same time
@@shaniecegullison It's common on our birthday to take a moment to reflect our life. This is because Saturn is potent on our birthday. Saturn is also prominent from age 28-30. A moment to reflect our lives. You may notice many changes.
Just remember: be a leaf in the wind and let it happen.
If times are too much : just take a night off from life to relax.
I'm so excited for you!
I'm 31 and just finished mine. Magically I moved to a breathtaking mountain and met great friends.
@@traveliowa301 thank you so much for explaining that.apreciate you telling me about this amazing detrimental event in my life
Thanks for the discussion. Personally, it's 5 steps (years of doing something I don't necessarily want to be doing now) to get to the truth of what I really want (or need). Everyone wants what they can't have. It may be a never ending desire for something perceived as greater. Still, its way more fun going for your dreams than rolling over and avoiding the pain of achieving them, eventually.
@Num Bat
* Did you mean avoiding the pain of NOT achieving your dreams? As in chasing big, unrealistic dreams and then be very disappointed when they don't manifest?
I want to be taken care of, looked after and pampered!
Overcome fear change my thinking. Seeing my therapist not being selfish. Why do people hate others? Showing kindness to others. God bless you.
I almost forgot about this video. It's a warning from Teal on what is happening currently to us dishonest of our deep desires people
Very interesting, Teal. Thanks for expounding on this topic - From my observations I would posit that a lot of people are stuck in living up to the approvals and cow-towing to the opinions of others which stymies the innate desire we have to be free. Just one thing ` sometimes, what we think we want, is actually not what we think it to be when we find out..
I love this! ❤ I could listen to Teal all day.
Me too
Even if I don't know exactly, or even relatively remotely, know what I want, I like to share something with you.
At the time of my divorce, December 2002, my son was 1and a half years old.
It was a very emotional situation, my wife moved in with my neighbour, also a farmer. But a positive very significant thought occurred to me. Regardind my son, and our possible relationship, going forward.
I concluded it may be a good thing for him, to, not have me in his daily life.
To break a cycle.
Often you hear this in conjunction with violent behavior or other antisocial intergenerational patterns .
Although from the outside looking in, no such behavior pattern seemed to be there, I knew deep down there was.
My thought was that without me influencing him on a daily basis, with preconceived thoughts and preconceived notions. He would have a greater chance of succeeding to follow his own path.
Which he surely has, and I'm so happy for him.
We are very close, and to see him not doing what was supposedly expected from him, other than the fundamentals to be a good person. He has and is following what he is passionate about.
Where my sister and myself are still suffering the consequences of parents who were to scared to see us fail, and influenced and ruined every initiative we showed.
I left a long time ago, to the other side of the world.
I'm happy and good at what I'm doing, but it still follows me, every day, that my parents didn't see my true calling, or that of my sister.
My sister was always going to be a kindergarten or school teacher. In order to protect her from failure, my parents convinced her that teachers college was unattainable for her. So she enrolled in hairdressing....
She has a beautiful family, was successful as a hairdresser, and made most of her life. But that influence still irks me...
It's not easy to find what you really want once that natural want is disrupted.
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My mom and I had this dynamic i believe
What a great topic and awesome break down. Would love to see more takes of yours on topics such as this one: one’s own individuality, one’s true wants and needs. I feel there’s lots of focus on shadow work but so much so that one doesn’t see the other side of the coin. Often times it’s a matter of admitting to the real truth rather than going into a deep shadow work process about the thing that bothers us.
"There is not just consequences for something being our truth, there's also consequences for us not admitting to our truth."
The truth shall set you free 🍁
But first it will piss you off 😅
I want to and have created multiple albums and books that will be sought out and used for generations to come.
I want to always be in alignment with my truth
oh my, the back going out is lack of support, learned that here. yes yes yes Teal, superb message. I love the yellow art items I saw at your shop, at IG you asked about items and love yellow and everything looks wonderful. great work.
back to the lesson and teaching, yes the confusion of denying a truth. omg, this is so imporatnt. im on journal mode versus comment mode.
The truth shall set you free😂. Nice touch Teal!
I was going to unfollOw you asking myself what you are bringing me and then I saw this video. Omfg Tezl this is totally what I'm living!!!! In every aspect all the consequences are there , I'm loosing everything and one, I'm physically sick now and I'm still afraid of loosing everything else I have. I don't know if what I will gain is worth if, if I gain anything at all apart from maybe just being myself.
Thanks, Teal. How do we integrate this into desires that may be impulsive or say occasional, something we may want to be doing sometimes but not always, or what if I want too many things at once? Maybe it’s part of my game to resolve incompatibilities and make it possible? Thank you again 🙏🏻 took many notes on this lecture, fully meaning it when I say that this wisdom explained the root cause of my depression. Bless and all the best
Thank you for your light and humor on the matter and perspective you have shared in this video. I had no less than 7 light bulbs go off in my head as I did my best to take in this knowledge. Thank you, thank you, thank you Teal for all that you do, as well as all that you are.
Started well.
Started valid
And then shot it down as per current time
Tbh, I do want a full commitment in a relationship to where a man is able to provide for me and can protect me from being held back by my parents, who never let me explore the world. I want a man yo give me more freedom to spend my time differently. My parents expect me to stay home and clean and don’t acknowledge my creative instinct in crafts.
Thank you, huge lessons all around.
when someone is tired of being jerked around then you just stop all together. This is truth
Being honest: i never wanted to go work a 9-5 job.. i manifested a partner whos got a really good job and has never asked me to go work.. hes cheering me on while i go down my spiritual path.. i guess ive always (in my adult life ) admited to what i want or i cant function otherwise.
🧐 this video has impeccable timing!
omg this was so good
The truth, people interfered with what I wanted
Thank you so much for this video.
love LOVE your wonderful teaching!
Such perfect timing. Thank you
What a awesome video
I haven't watched the video yet, but this couldn't be more of a confirmation that I have done well to clarify that even though I wore the yellow panties for money, I really do want the best of both worlds and I want love, too. I just wore the yellow panties for money because I need it more than love right now... ✅️
Thank you
Totally worth it to deny stupid desires that will take me nowhere and lead me down roads I don’t want to see
dude i love that poly life.. hell yeah.. shout out to TOM
Perfect timing! ❤
I tell people close to me- you can’t trick the universe
True, I agree! "Can't fool mother nature" is a saying I have recently come to a deeper understanding of and use more.
Thank you so much, Teal. This is valuable to me. Thanks!
I want to be connected with people that will help me ascend being my authentic self here and now
Thank you Teal!
The truth is that nobody wants to provide for themselves.
This is blowing my mind
Oh what a tangled web we weave.
A King of pages
OOh Godddddd, I've done this!!!!
3:59 this should be its own topic
I love you Teal. Thank you.
Thanks Teal
Thx
How to even know what you want?
❤️Love it. Thank you ❤
OMG Teal! I have just asked in an online forum (this past week) if it was ok to expose a truth about yourself that you find embarrasing and are trying to hide. Even if it doesn't pertain to anyone else other than yourself.
Thank you for answeering my question unbeknownst to you. Or maybe I did send it to you somehow.
I have just finished watching it. I said "the truth shall set you free" literally this week.
But of course if you say it, it's more valuable because what the heck do I know about anything
I have a what if: I had a head injury at age 16 (dum me down to a normal human so I can take a self saved test ect.ect.) totally lost my memory of my past life (they made a movie about something like this, I didn't see if yet) then slowly you remember your basically a real Kevin Boren, the goverment has you on file a leathal weapon. I was a Muslem for one and a half years, had 30 herum wifes at age ten (to young you think ?) started about 30 kingdoms all around the world were a wife resides at. Then at middle age I remember my past life with all my wifes. But I came back to America after the year in a half ( banished to America lol ! (( got adopted, it was reversed )) I am back as a Christain now and wondering what ever happed to all my wifes ? wondering how all my Kingdoms I bought all over the world is doing, like yours. I only had three choice to choose from, a monarce, a aligorcy and a cantan kingdoms, America wasn't on the list. I guess it all is a lost dream now for me ? But I do have a time traval tool and you all are in my fantom world ? or my similation little girl lol ! what if ?
What ordinary humans consider to be "hallucinations" not really hallucinations (since everything is a hallucination), they are just God's imagination - Infinite Imagination - at work in non-ordinary states of consciousness.
I want revenge. Revenge will give me much satisfaction
I hear you. They say the best revenge is a life lived well. I hope you will get your satisfaction.
I want to be the caretaker. I want to be able to express my love for my future wife by taking care of her and keeping the house clean while she’s out at work running her business downtown.
During that, I also do my own creative works that make money for us as well, manage our respective digital storefronts and other logistics, and every other day or so I will go with her to help physically run her business, and she could stay home with me once or twice every week to simply be there for me to take care of.
I know that’s…specific, but it’s the honest truth.
@4:46 I don’t think it was fair of teal to explain word for word my situation whilst using my real name 😆
I would like to move and travel to Dubai. I want to create from the top and bottom of my heart with no restrictions. I want more than enough money. I don’t want to live with my family. I want to eventually create my own family, have a private powerful life. I want to live in a castle away from everyone. Simple.
Just on time.
Best... video... ever..!
Aha. So this is why nearly everyone I see, contradicts themselves. I honestly thought it was because their brains didn't develop properly, due to lack of nutrients in the womb, and in the developmental years between birth and puberty.
how would you help someone work out what they want, essentially, how do you un-gaslight someone?
Ads totally suck. Sorry Teal but I couldn't finish the video. Mostly because I was annoyed by the ads and also because I feel like this is for people that aren't too into their intuition. Sometimes our intuition takes us to places that we need to experience to actually figure out what we really want. We like to play the hard game.
This is what I did (or was made to do) my whole life. :/
Not anymore.
I keep saying I don't want a job and people tell me "yeah you do".
What if every time you say what you want someone close to you takes it away
What if you don’t know what you want? And yes the universe has thrown me in a very difficult situation… I fell in love with a man who’s an alcoholic and I’m all he has and he can’t let me go. I broke up but still wanted to help him but it’s hopeless and on top he is homeless. He clings to me and I can’t cope anymore
🍀❤️🤗❤️🍀💪
Please take good care of yourself first. And look into the difference between enabling and helping. ✌️
@@evadebruijn hey Eva, jouw naam klinkt alsof je ook Nederlands spreekt. Ja, ik weet dat het eigenlijk enabling is. If you don’t speak Dutch, yes I know it’s enabling and still it’s so hard to cut the ties completely.
I want more sex 😭 I hate to admit it because people think of it as shallow but my body really needs the release and the oxytocin that goes along with it. I've considered using antidepressants to diminish my sex drive but that's not healthy :(
Polyamory and secure relationships don’t really overlap.
My mom does this *ugh
Honestly I wanna keep building my career and traveling, with a maid or maids of any gender that will carry my stuff, clean for me, cook, do errands etc. How do I achieve that lol? But i don't want anything sexual between us, or any dom/sub relationship, i want them to either do it cuz they just fricking love errands or for a paycheck....out of love for errands would be better lol
What if what you want are opposite outcomes to each other?
1. I want to eat all the cookies
2. I want to feel healthy and lose body fat
I guess then you need to introduce number 3. I want to run 10 miles a day 😂
This.
The video needs more in depth on the difference between what people want NOW (eat many cookies) and what they want for the long term (be strong fit healthy gut healthy mind healthy emotions energetic lust for life vibrant stamina staying power)
✌️
Oh F off Teal😆jj (for being so honest!)🙏
Wow
2nd question when wearing camo what percentage of those times do you also go commando?
As a gay guy who developed narcolepsy/immune system issues can someone help me figure out whether I truly want my independence or I want to be taken care of? I'm also scared of routine and self discipline.....
How do you work out what you want?
What if what you want seems impossible? I've been sick with a malady diet 20 years and I've tried so hard ti heal it and I've failed . It's very painful . How do I learn to just accept it , since healing it seems impossible?
One example is how men ask out women when their motive is sex. That doesn’t make you a bad person but there is a lot to lose by just asking for sex point blank up front.