How To Raise An Emotionally Intelligent Child
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- Опубліковано 21 бер 2018
- Do you ever wonder how to raise an emotionally intelligent child? Here at Live On Purpose TV, we've got Dr. Paul who speaks of building a culture around our children to help us with that. There are three rules to it:
1. Respect self and others
2. Respect property
3. Cooperate and obey
Watch and Enjoy!
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be an emotionally intelligent parent:
- show them instead of telling them.
- be positive, choose love.
- RESPECT yourself and others. treat others with kindness. use kind language when you address your mother.
- respect property, which creates a culture of emotional intelligence in the home as well
- cooperate and obey.
Kathy Tr, thank you for watching.
Dr. Paul, we LOVE these 3 rules! We just posted these in our family "discussion board" and are implementing them as we speak! We explained each to my kids (4 & 6) and also expounded on the "cooperate and obey" rule by explaining they can DISOBEY anyone with authority IF they intimidate, threaten, or lie to try to get them to do anything naughty or to get them to go alone with them. It's basically implied but we felt it was important enough to take it further with such young kids so they don't feel forced to obey an authority figure if the authority figure is using their power to take advantage of someone. Thanks for this video, Dr. Paul!
Mirshad Morgan, you are welcome. As you know, this is not a one time event. You can come back to this topic as they mature and use different language. Love that you posted them for reinforcement.
Omg - they “can’t hear what we’re saying because what we’re *doing* is so loud.” Hit the nail on my head. Duh, Mom. Jee whiz. Thank you. I needed this reset button for my behavior.
Honored to be on your team, brightpage1020.
I was hit in that same moment in the video. 🙏🏽
I love how deep the world dived for kids and parents
Thank you for watching.
wow this was powerful. i totally agree we need to model good and appropriate behaviors for our children.
Thank you for watching, Womba Makuwa Nashiwaya. Parents are the first people their children observe.
well said Dr. Paul!! what a wonderful content. i just discovered your channel and loving it already. thank you very much for those much needed uploads especially to a lot of young mothers❤ you are an amazing person indeed 💛
Thank you for your kind words, வசந்தி செந்தில். Welcome to the Live On Purpose family.
Thank you so much for the work you and Vickie are doing. I draw so much strength from the two of you. As I parent my two boys not only without the help of their dad, but in spite of him making everything hard for all three of us.
I so love the respect you two show for everyone involved, perhaps especially the child’s experience. That has always felt appropriate to me, so I appreciate the validation.
Also, you are a funny guy! Love the facial expressions and general sense of humor. What delightful, smart and interesting people from which to learn the truth about the important things in life. #superfanlol
Heather Healy, we are honored to be on your team.
Just found your channel and i love it! Subscribed straight away! Thank you for the good info!!👍🏻👍🏻
So honored that you are here! Thanks for subscribing Healthtech Pati. DrPaul
I know, he's awesome, right?!
Excellent!! So helpful. Thank you! Just shared it in 4 places! 😊
Thank you for sharing, The Audacious Life Podcast. Glad you found the video helpful.
Amazing tips. U r amazing 🎖🎖
1. Love ur kids
2. What are we modeling to our kids.
3. Positivity , choosing love
4. 3 rules
1a. Respect urself n others
2b. Respect property
3c. Cooperate and obey
ANMAN HASNAIN, thanks for the recap, glad you are here.
I always come back for more. Thank you for being so awesome Dr Paul. It would be very cool to meet you one day.
I would love to be able to get out and meet people more, Loewen Behold. Thank you for watching.
I love your message, this is so great! It help me, I will listen to it over and over again!
So glad we have the format where you can come back again and again. Take advantage of the material anytime.
Just true. I have to start with me! Thank you
Yep, we are the only ones we can control. Glad to have you at Live On Purpose.
You want to know one of the greatest truths in our known universe? You can gather all the most intelligent people from various fields together and have them brainstorm a list of possible outcomes and consequences for a given situation ... and almost ALWAYS, the actual outcome / consequence will be something that no one even thought of. True! There is a lot packed into that little "statement ..." perhaps my favorite part (or most relevant part to me!) is not to spend / waste your time ruminating over a scary situation that has the possibility of many adverse outcomes ... because even if the outcome isn't anything you wanted, I, again, can guarantee that ALMOST ALWAYS the actual outcome will be something completely different than what your brain was focusing on so intently. So why waste the time and the energy? There are just so many things packaged neatly in that ... I love it.
Love this comment, takes so much anxiety out of our lives. Live in the present.
Such a beautiful heart!!! Thank you DR❤️
Candace Liebenberg, you are welcome.
I have shared your videos on FB and with many friends. We can all learn something. It's never too late even if you have already raised your children, you may now have grandchildren who you can be an emotionally intelligent grandparent to them. Never too late.
Yes, it is never too late. Start today.
I just love all of you videos they are so helpful in my everyday life & thank you so much!!!
P.s. the movie is 42! 😁
Yes Marie - I loved the movie, forgot the number - duh! Thanks for watching (and keeping me on track). DrPaul
I really appreciate your guidance and delivery!
You are so welcome
I don't Subscribe to many channels, but I have to yours. So much awesome information! Thank you so much for sharing! 😊
Tina Holbrook, honored to be on your team.
I am so glad I found your channel. Please continue to make videos.
I will continue, Map Dich. Thank you so much for joining the Live On Purpose community.
Thank you a lot. You are teaching us amazing techniques to deal with our children.
Sami, our pleasure.
Thank you for this video, dr Paul! 👍👍👍❤❤❤
You're welcome Mika - thanks for watching. Look through the Positive Parenting playlist for some more ideas. I think you would also love the Parenting Power-up Audio Course that my wife Vicki and I just recorded. Get a free pre-listen here: parentingpowerup.com
DrPaul
I so needed this!
I need to put these rules up in the house
I believe you should sell your own merchandise things like this I would certainly buy.
I realise many of these things make a difference..
I bought growth mindset posters that I put next to my daughters bed
I bought gratitude journal
I bought a timer
Many purposeful books that related to what she was going through or what I thought would shape her character better and stronger including a LOA book.
These things are more popular and much needed. Makes all the difference.
Great idea, Teardrops4smile. Thank you for your kind words.
Your channel is a blessing
Thank you Shahana. Honored to be on your team.
Love this. You can't teach what you don't have 🙌🏾
H B, that is true. Sometimes they can pick it up from other sourcea.
Thank you very much Doctor! Your videos help me a lot. I am watching every day
Glad to hear that, Malika Kamkar, glad to have you at the channel.
Very good, easy to grasp rules, thank you for helping us to be better. :)
Happy to help!
Wish this was standard teaching in school. Are kids are so lost these days. This would really help,
Yes, it would.
Thank you so much doc this is of great help to me God bless 🙏🙏
You are very welcome
Thank you for taking the time to make this video for us to watch and learn something productive for all.
Caezar D, honored to be on your team.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV
My pleasure.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV We have a 5 year old, 3.5 year old and a 8 month old baby. We always spoon feed the 5 year old because most of the time she doesn't want to eat the main dishes by herself. She will just sit there and not touch the food unless we feed her. She eats healthy snacks by herself fine and occasionally will eat a few bites by herself of the main dish. Her 3 year old brother ate most of his main dishes by himself until recently he is following her behavior and just sits there in front of the food. We have tried giving smaller portions, making her sit by the table until she is done for two weeks, excercising more, eating together as a whole family more often, tried not encouraging food just enjoying the food with conversation about anything but the food (which she loves and could be talking and talking but still the food is not eaten). We are out of ideas and would greatly appreciate if you could make a video of how to encourage her to eat by herself.
No my opinion is that every single video needs to have that saying.... You never know when that saying will be the thing that sinks in to a parent that comes across a video. It’s a great saying and it is something to remind us the bigger picture of parenting
Gshkent, good point.
Thank You Sir for reminding All Parents Most Important Responsibility and Job
Honored to be on your team.
Awesome!! My 2 rules for everybody on my life are don't lie to me and don't ignore me - anything else can be sorted 😁
I think your 3 rules are awesome!! Takes care of everything!!! 🤗
Janet Spiteri, I like that you have found rules that work for you, especially don't ignore me. We can't make change until we communicate. So true.
Thank you so much for this.
Please bring more vids about Emotional Intelligence in kids!
icenfire Castle, thank you for the suggestion.
Thank you 🙏
You’re welcome 😊
Very awesome!!
Thank you! Cheers!
The tools you provide are priceless. I know many supposedly grown up adults that didnt get this emotional intelligence from their parents and have grown up emotionally deprived and lacking in respect, for theirselves and others, respect for property and respect for authority. The whole modeling for cooperation and obeying the law has no meaning for them. After listening to your video, it is so clear it sticks out like a sore thumb.
Thank you, California girl. Honored to be on your team.
Thank you
You're welcome
Love your content Dr Paul but the movie is 42. But thank you for the knowledgeable tutelage it’s helping alot.
You're welcome, Darren.
thank you its being every helpfull
One Umbrella, honored to be on your team.
I use a variation of these 3 rules in my house, it has made a big difference in my boys self esteem. I am hoping to set my little boys (5 & 3) up for success. We also role play social interactions, to help them know what appropriate reactions look like.
It sounds like you are doing an awesome job, Abigail Collins! Thank you for sharing your success with us.
I love this guy.
Corey Neil, thanks! Glad you enjoy the videos.
I'm living for the matter of fact with a slight twist of sassy, personality, this guy has. 🙌😂
Haha, thanks, Leah Wright! Honored to have you at Live On Purpose TV.
I looove the intro ❤️
Honored to be on your team, Shuh Duvugup.
Good morning. I just find your channel so helpful to our family and we appreciate your intelligence using it to help others family . Just a quick question should I be sharing the video with my three children . One of them 10-year-old who is very emotional child. My two older boys they cooperate they are at stage 2 I believe . But my daughter she is at stage one talks back and have no respect for others at all . Not sure where to start . Do you recommend time out when they’re being disrespectful and not cooperating at all . Lashing out mean hurtful words when you take away privileges Thank you 🙏
Christina Odishou, you can watch the videos with your kids if you think it would be helpful. Many parents have done so and they have had deep conversations with their children and the have learned something. Sometimes kids and especially teenagers, are more open to hearing something from a person who is not their parent.
Your channel is so helpful! 👍How do you handle a child who screams when she doesn't get her way. It seems like putting her in her room helps but what if it's in the vehicle driving. Thank you
Vicki B, have you ever tried pulling over to the side of the road and getting out, letting her know that you won't get back in until she stops? Other parents can chime in with what they have tried.
This man is Charismatic.
Roya Feghali, I don't think anyone has used that term before.
Trust me I had a super Hitlar mother , I so don’t want to be like her but my two (9y old girl who loves math and 5y old boy who loves drawing) north and south in the middle I’m hot core 🙄 I m watching you , following your speech from last year so far improving definitely- myself and thank you for all your help 🙏
So glad to hear it, M M. Thanks for letting me know. I'm honored to be on your team!
I'd like to see a video on how parents or kids can think about and handle situations where the authority figure is requesting something we/kids view as wrong, or disagree with. How should kids disagree respectfully or when are they right to disobey? My spouse wants our kids to be critical thinkers and not blindly obey authority (even us!), but I feel my kids should obey me-regardless whether they agree with my request or want to do it- because I am the parent.
J. Nicci Coffie, seems like a simple explanation should suffice. As kids get older we spend more time in conversations so they understand why we ask them to do certain things. There should be a certain level of trust that the parent is working in the best interest of the child. Sounds like you and your husband need to do some more work in deciding how you are going to parent.
* Choose love
* Be a good example
* Teach Respect of self & others
John D, sounds so simple, but simple is not always easy.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV That could be the title of your next video
I have been really enjoying your videos. Everything you say normally rings true. I do want to point out that people are more upset about the lack of accountability of police who shoot unarmed adults and children. Most of the time they are people of color, sometimes they are not. Police officers have a very difficult job and most are amazing and understanding people. That doesn't however mean that there isn't room for improvement in training and accountability. Please consider the lives lost and families destroyed. No one is trying to pick on the cops, they are trying to point out a systemic issue.
Brandy Kelly, there is good and bad out there in every sector. We need to support the good and work on the bad and we all need to be accountable. Thanks for commenting.
Wowww...ur videos are do powerful
Thank you so much 😀
Hello Dr. Paul. Good day. My teacher and my boss at work says these terms "respect the customer". But what does RESPECT mean when you interact with one another? Hope to find an answer here soon!
RP, in this context it probably means to always be kind and try your best to make them happy. It doesn't always mean that, context means something.
These rules are amazing and I'm still working on it myself and my son, I was wondering if you can do a video about how to help a child express their emotions to someone such as a parent or to a teacher. And not being so reserved about their feelings when something is bothering them such as at home or about school bullying.. What can be the best way for them to tell the teacher about bullying and not be afraid to talk about it to her or a parent?? I'd really appreciate it if you make a video on this topic!!! I always learn something new about your videos😊
Thanks for the suggestion Aly C = yes, I'd be happy to put your request into our topic planning. DrPaul
Yes, please. My daughter has been harassed and bullied at school but never told a teacher or guidance counselor because she said “she couldn’t trust anyone at school.” It’s heartbreaking and I want her to be able to manage some of it herself. I finally had to intervene after weeks of this but it would’ve helped to have her speak up with confidence and conviction. She’s always afraid it’ll get worse. I’m learning that her intuition is correct, the school doesn’t always have her back. I’m working on that with the school. But I want her to at least TRY to communicate what bothers her to her peers and to escalate to teachers if direct communication to students doesn’t work. Thank you for addressing this problem. I know it’s s big one in my district.
This was such a great watch. All of your content is simply amazing. I have a 5 year old that is obsessed with perfection. She is constantly telling me that she simply cannot do anything right. She’s so intelligent and this is breaking our hearts. Is there anyway you could post content on how to overcome perfectionism in kids? Thanks!
I will add the topic to the list, V. Villao-Rodriguez. I have a child who was caught up in the perfectionism cycle. It can be draining for them and you.
Hi, thank you for this video. I have a question? We have for the most part always been a happy positive family. Since my daughter turned 13 now 14, and has started high school, she has become very negative, saying and thinking things she knows we don't, nor have never said or done. Example: I hate...so and so. or
I hope she.... insert negative action. How do I help bring her back when she also acts as if she agree with any advice I try to give? Thank you again for all you do!
Yes, absolutely, model positivity for her. Teens go through this stage and ignore as much as you can.
Thank you, especially for the, "as much as possible ". 😉❤
What if your spouse is the one who is constantly modeling these negative behaviors? I just feel so defeated with trying to be the positive parent when the other parent insists on not being positive. I feel like I'm always trying to clean up his "parenting messes." I'm always being judged as the mother, "why does she act this way?" I'm not trying to throw him under the bus here. I'm just so frustrated at going two steps forward and two steps back. I shouldn't have to raise him too!
bu2ful 1 1, It is always best if the parents are on the same page. You need to take care of yourself and I would highly recommend you getting some help through counseling. It will take a load off of you and give you someone to talk to and bounce ideas of and help you to clarify the situation.
I've been realizing recently that my parents didn't really raised me to be emotionally intelligent and a month ago my daughter was born and I don't want to make the mistake my parents did with me because my girlfriend's the one who's been pointing out that my parents didn't emotionally prepare me for the world
Yay! I love when we reach these milestones and realizations in life. You can parent differently than your parents. It really is up to you.
Just found your channel, I need help my 4 year old son throws huge fits including biting, pulling hair and kicking. He does this to me. I try to sit him in chair but doesn't work. What am I doing wrong?
Welcome to Live On Purpose TV, Maria Iribe! I sincerely hope you can find value here at the channel. There are some videos that I thought of right away:
"Four Things To Do When My Child Throws A Tantrum" - ua-cam.com/video/udRDR44CF44/v-deo.html
"Dealing With Aggressive Behavior In Children" - ua-cam.com/video/WwWyT0CnzAk/v-deo.html
"How Do You Handle Aggressive Child Behavior Toward A Parent?" - ua-cam.com/video/Dmmbfuqlin8/v-deo.html
"What To Do With A Child With Anger Management Issues" - ua-cam.com/video/Mzau33PphtM/v-deo.html
"What To Do When Your Child Hits You" - ua-cam.com/video/mgyWqd1U_kQ/v-deo.html
We have many more topics on our Positive Parenting playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLq2mRDkHEBPCclxt6agg3wrLBRkL7CCwU.html. The strategies I review in the videos might not seem to work right away, so please remember to stay positive, calm, and consistent. We have received feedback from many parents that the videos are helping them and their families.
Do you have videos about kids to set still in church or restaurants!?😊😊🤔
Great idea for a future video Pedrina - I'll put it on the list. You'll find lots of similar topics in the Positive Parenting playlist here on the channel in the mean time. DrPaul
Practise it at home. Not a stressful event. Start off with 5 minute increments of sitting and listening. And gradually increase. Get them used to sitting round the dinner table. I have 10 kids and they have all learned to sit quietly during church. I don't expect perfection. Everytime they show improved behaviour during church etc, offer a reward. When they have a not so good time, say, that's a shame, I know it's hard but you're such a trooper and I just know you'll get it next time.
Hi Dr. Paul. My 4 year old only daughter can't take losing. She will get so angry and so sad she's crying while fuming. She only plays with me and her dad since the pandemic but she can't take it when we play a simple game of snakes and ladders and she loses so my husband keeps on making her win.=(
oceanminded2009, I think I did a video on that topic, take a look.
Wow nice channel
Thanks and welcome
Respect yourself and others
Respect property
Cooperate and obey
You got it!
I was trying to find the most appropriate video to ask this, so I hope this one isn't too obscure.
My one year old step son wants to be held and coddled A LOT and becomes very irritable and will tantrum if his want is not met; to the point of banging his head on the floor or crying so hard that he vomits.
It's very terrifying!
He often wants to be held at the most inopportune times.
He has no structure at his mother's house and she gives in to him on all things because she doesn't want to hear him cry.
She has him most of the time, so is there anything we can do on our end, at all, to make better this situation with a tantruming one year old or do we need to ride it out until he is older?
Just in this brief explanation I can see that there are a lot of moving parts here. For such a young child to be exposed to the difficult dynamics of a multi-household family is challenging. I think the best thing you can do is to create the most sane, stable, loving environment that you can within your own household. You don't control what happens in the other home, so pay attention where you do have some control - in your own home. Keep watching with some of the other videos here, especially in the positive parenting playlist. Best wishes to you and your family! DrPaul
How do I work these into teaching a 3 yr old girl. I am trying/working on it but I am open to tips!.
Put the language on her level and with three year olds, you have a small window with their attention. You have lots of time so don't stress. You got this, queenSummerKeli.
Thank you so much for your reply! I am truly happy I found your channel. I have watched many! Keep up the good work!!
I have seen many of your videos. My son is almost 5 yrs old... Is it too late to change my ways. It hurts to yell at him and it further makes me sad to know that my way of raising him could affect him adversely. Can I undo those negative impacts on him?
Sushma Sharma, yes, I believe it is possible, because I have seen parents and children change! Please keep watching my videos, especially the ones on the Positive Parenting Playlist here: ua-cam.com/play/PLq2mRDkHEBPCclxt6agg3wrLBRkL7CCwU.html. Also, consider a free, 25 minute call with one of our Live On Purpose coaches at www.drpauljenkins.com/breakthroughcall
I understand that we should teach kids to obey persons of authority but how do we teach them to also say "No" to persons of authority who asks them to do something that violates Rule 1 or 2? Like a doctor or teacher or an adult in the family who asks them to do something inappropriate?
That is an important aspect of the rule, Allison Yim, so thank you for asking for clarification. That is where the "right and reasonable" part comes in. If a person in authority (or any adult) asks a child to cooperate with something that makes them feel uncomfortable, that is not right. And asking a child to do something inappropriate is unreasonable. I hope this makes sense.
Just bumped on your videos and I'm very happy I watched... Meaningful and worth my time... Let me hit subscribe button for many more updates.. Thanks
Yay, Ben Sebby, Honored to be on your team.
I found your video really interesting and helping but I see a risk on the last “obey” rule. Just because the request comes from an authority person, this must not be reasonable. Authority is being used by certain people on purpose to manipulate children or even adults. I would rather educate my kid to understand what is wrong and right (covered by the first two rules), entitle them to take own decision regardless of the authority level of the requestor. Your “obey” rule would be valid in an hypothetical world where people are all nice and caring for each other which is far from our world.
J.D, true, but I think about how situations get out of control when authority is snubbed. We can't control anyone else but ourselves.
Is there a test? We’d score 💯.
Intentional and Loving parenting ☑️
Yep, love them no matter what...
I would like to know :are French mothers the most superior at raising up kids ? and why ?what is the secret behind this ? Can you do a video about it?
There is much on the internet now about French mothers. There are cultural differences but love is the universal language and the one that all children understand. It will look into it. Thank you, Marwa Gad.
French would tell you that they are superior at everything, including raising kids. It’s just a fact.
So i have a question. My daughter loves to horse play. I mean she likes to hit. N i get it she just likes to play like that but i always tell her to stop and that hitting isn't good but i always feel confused. Is there ever a time when its ok to hit? Such as during horse play? Or should it never be allowed... ever...im speaking through a worried im gonna mess up my child mom perspective lol
Take a deep breath, Binky Music Channel. In general, hitting is not good. I have sword fought with my kids when little and played like that. It is a parents choice what they allow. Some people think that if what is happening is done in fun and no one is hurt then it is o.k. When hitting is not fun and it hurts then it is time to switch to another activity. If you think your daughter needs to get some aggression out, you could have a boxing bag or pillow or something she is allowed to punch. In general, hitting is o.k. when we are protecting ourselves, but those situations are far and few between.
These teachings will work really really well when coupled with Biblical truths n the power of God's spirit without which it is like having a car with all complete parts but no petrol.Can't really work or work well.Appreciate yr teachings, tho Dr Jenkins.No offense meant😁
No offense taken, Grace Bock. Many of these principles are not mine, they are eternal truths, and can be found in the bible. Thank you for watching.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Thank you, Sarah.
My son is 3 yrs old and still he is not interested in writing...... As a mother I am very much worried about my child..... Please help
Writing at 3 years old is not usually a sign that something is wrong. Check with the child's doctor and ask his or her opinion, jenny queen lairellakpam. Also, if you are in the US, there are birth to 3 programs through most elementary schools so I would check with them to see if he could be tested and they might offer some help. See if your area has a Ready for Kindergarten class going on.
Emotional Intelligence . That certain "Je n'sais quoi" that I never have mastered 'til late. When teaching a cild "Liar , Liar....Pants on Fire" other than the amusing rhyme we teach children....I see it as a curious practice , teaching young minds to first accuse and then recuse by lying as well ? How often are the pants actually on fire ? automatically we pass it on religiously.....curious indeed.
Howard Delovitch, thanks for watching.
But what if you try so hard doing that and the child still doesnt
Recognize that everyone has their choice and you can't control the behavior of another.
Children learn from your behavior.
Kacie C, that is so true. Everyone should remember that.
The movie is 42 for anyone that plans to watch it.☺️
Cheryl Moser, thank you.
Do you have advice on how to get your preschooler not to talk back?
Yes, Alicia Beers. Practice with them. Kids this young like to role play and then positive reinforcement for acceptable talk. Some parents have a signal that discussion is over and if the child is just trying to argue, set up consequences.
The movie is called 42 not 41 and its major league baseball not the major league baseball.
Sorry, sometimes when speaking extemporaneously, little errors are made. Thanks for watching, Robbie B
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I said it in jest. That had no bearing on your tutorial. I'm going through some behavioral issues with my 6 year old son which led me to your UA-cam clips. Good substance, very educational and reinforcing. The behavioral issues get worse with his use of technology. We take it away, and he plays it alot less. But when he's not playing it he obsesses about the next time he plays it instead of spending time playing sports or going outside. It's as if he is in a virtual waiting room waiting to play again. I'm doing some research on it and technology is impacting children's dopamine levels more and more. Scary stuff
Some children are affected by technology more than others. If he has that obsessive tendency, then maybe you just don't have electronics in the home. It is an option. Good luck with your research and decision.
What exactly is Rotogenflux Methods? How does this thing really work? I notice a lot of people keep on talking about this intelligence boost program.
I haven't seen any scientific data on the method but there are videos and exercises to do, Tina Morandi.
I agree to rule one and two, bit he lost me on the point of obeying and rightful police officers. I agree on obeying to police because they might kill you, especially if you are a person of color. But children want to cooperate, if they get positive constructive, nurturing attention. I don't want my child to obey but only the case in very crucial moments of danger. Respect and cooperation is enough for the most moments of life. Unfortunately a lot of persons in authority position confuse respect with fear and expect children to obey without building a relationship first.
Monika Seidenberg, I hear what you are saying. This is such a tough topic, we want our kids to be respectful and we want those in authority to do the right things and treat everyone fairly. I won't give up hope.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you for your feedback. I agreed with your hopes, but reality is still tough especially for the little kids.
My mother abandoned me when I was a child, left my dad with a married man and had 5 other kids. No I will not have respect with her.
Shelbymaldita, sorry you had to go through this.
My pastor taught me as a teen, there are certain behaviors that a parent can do to tear up their parent card. It helped me understand that my parent is just reaping what they sowed by not having my respect or relationship.
Poor Menendez Brothers , Their Parents didn't know their job 😢😢
Now, how do you get a 2 y/o and 1 y/o to safely entertain themselves (without just screaming from playpens) when you need to, say, clean up after their lunch, make their dinner, food their laundry, etc... or - heaven forbid - pay attention for 5 whole minutes to their 5 y/o big sis - who - seriously - must be a saint of patience, compassion, and understanding.
brightpage 1020, I hear the strain your are under. They need a lot of attention at this age. It will be easier as they get older.
What do you mean by emotional intelligence?
Do you mean being of the male gender and feeling that it is okay even though it is seemed to be weak?
And then feeling like crap because you show normal human emotions
Then feeling like more crap because you feel the human race shouldn’t even exist because of how shit we are for ourselves and for the planet
And we just don’t function like how everyone thinks we should act
Yeah idk maybe that or something
NateR 1309, emotional intelligence has nothing to do with gender. It is the ability to learn and apply knowledge in order to solve problems. You are never wrong about how you feel and need to work through those emotions in order to hopefully get to a better place.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV ok
Great advice until you went into the police politics. Where you mentioned police authorities, just provide license when asked, thats not right! There has to be a probable cause. But anyways, I’m for police but the one’s who abuses their “authority”over civilian are the ones ruining for everyone. Please stick to the subject of the title thanks.
Steele_will, thank you for watching.
How condescending is this guy? !
Warren Hale, sorry it is coming off that way. Thanks for watching.
Emotional Intelligence . That certain "Je n'sais quoi" that I never have mastered 'til late. When teaching a cild "Liar , Liar....Pants on Fire" other than the amusing rhyme we teach children....I see it as a curious practice , teaching young minds to first accuse and then recuse by lying as well ? How often are the pants actually on fire ? automatically we pass it on religiously.....curious indeed.
Howard Delovitch, thank you for watching.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV To tell the truth....I didn't watch the video. Your welcome.
and I did not post twice , it's an annoying employ of UA-cam to discourage the TRUTH. Mostly four times , not just two.