I really enjoy that every week I don't know what type of video you will give us. It's a bit like a wrapped present, always a bit of surprise. I really enjoyed this one, but I enjoy them all.
@@Caroline_Winkler I'm a new subscriber - it's so easy to binge watch your videos you've uploaded, without getting bored with one particular topic. I totally agree with this comment! I think you're great at covering things that both your subscribers would enjoy, and you catch UA-cam trends pretty early it seems, to bring new subs over. Glad I was recommended your channel.
Grandmother here. Just have to say that knowing ourselves, figuring out who we are is a long journey. And that’s ok. Life is full of twists and turns. Just be true to you. Be kind to everyone. You eventually get to a place of peace. Comfort in your own skin. Enjoy the process. And if we are lucky we have friends like Caroline to enjoy the ride. 💜😊
Grandmother Lauren - i love this. thank you for sharing it. Enjoying the process seems so key, and so tough some times! thanks for sharing this sweet wisdom and reflection
“Peace is prosperity”-Tony gaskins. I went from dental assistant to bus driver, I can relate to the lesser value identity. Funny enough, as a bus driver I make about $8 more per hour and have a pension, I can go to doctor appointments now and I’m not overworked and have a 3 hour lunch break. I never thought I’d have a job that offered me peace! While I love dental assisting and miss it so very much, it was really overburdened, emotionally and physically and financially draining even after almost 20 years experience. I don’t feel proud when I say I’m a school bus driver but peace is prosperity and I’m stickin to it.
I love that you are genuinely annoyed by things on your videos. Most youtubers are so over happy and over positive when they film themselves it makes the viewer think that something is wrong with him. I love that you are real, you do not smile all the time, you are pissed off by things of the day to day life, you are just a real person with positive and negative emotions and this is reassuring to watch. Have a good day!
Your first point about our jobs and identity and how you feel about it really resonated with me. My fancy job was nothing more than a signal to others that I had made it in some way. They didn't know that I cried every day, I wasn't very good at it, and that my boss treated me horribly. It just mattered that I got to say I was off to the World Bank or setting up a meeting with so and so ambassador. When I left to go back to teaching I didn't want to tell anyone. I felt like I wasted my fancy NYU degree and that I was giving up. BUT, as these stories go, it was the best decision ever. You're such a shining light Caroline. You could do any job and it still wouldn't be the most impressive thing about you. Let your heart and mind believe that! Thanks for another great video.
Ahh man that resonates 😑❤️ and wow so glad that it ended up being the best decision you ever made🥲 (I mean of course it was! But still, just love to hear that. Ps. Jinx on getting a fancy pointless NYU degree. Girl I majored in “drama”. LOL
@@Caroline_Winkler I grew up in the "those who can't, teach" era so it was really hard to wrap my brain around identifying as a teacher even though I loved it and it made me happy. I think what I've learned is that the joyful people don't care what their life looks like from the outside, they just carry on with what brings them joy. That's what I want! And I legit don't know where my degree is! I'm thankful for it but I also think I lost it :)
I worked years to finally get an executive position in the nonprofit world. Loved the mission, hated the job. Enjoyed the accolades my friends and family gave me for achieving my goal but not enough to stay. I left for another job but got laid off during pandemic. Returned to prior org where I was formerly COO and now I’m a consultant writing their grants, working remotely, and living life for me! Success is never a straight road and often ends up being something you never imagined. 🤗
Wow “success often ends up being something you never imagined” - I love that and completely agree. I don’t think we’re good at guessing what will really make us happy and fulfilled!
@@LW0214 I think leaving a mission based job is extra hard. Like, I still care about the work my non profit did, I just couldn't work there anymore. I feel like there's a stigma though once you leave. I'm so glad you're living your best best life and truly finding success on your terms. And bless you for writing those grants, I hated that :)
Funny, I have to mention this…you mentioned Paige Wassel, and it was through watching her videos how I learned about you. She recommended following you and how you are talented and that’s how I discovered you and never stopped watching you. You both are extremely talented and I enjoy watching you guys. I had no idea you followed her too. That’s so sweet you both admire each other
ahh i love that! i really think she's one of the most inventive people on the internet. great to watch even for those who aren't into interior design, IMO
I never get excited about an influencer or UA-camr putting out a video but I can honestly say if you had 100s of videos I’d happily watch them all. I really felt for you when you mentioned the bit about getting respect for being a coder and not an artist. As a society we put too much pressure on job titles, for what? That’s not what makes us dignified and valuable, it’s our actions, and morality that do, in my opinion at least 🤷🏽♀️
One of my absolute favorite youtubers to watch is Damon Dominique, he mostly makes travel related content but he dives into culture and stereotypes in such a real way, and also is just so entertaining as well. He speaks a lot about philosophy too, and all around makes beautifully filmed videos! A big big recommendation for everyone to check out
This girl is on the right track in her life and that always makes me happy to see in another young person. This topic especially lights her up. Such a beautiful thing to share with us, passion + positive content. Thank you.
Giirl...please continue to make videos like this. I'm always on the hunt for ways to feel better about myself 😂. I've taken notes and plan to check all of these out.
Yes! I left a prestigious sounding job in streaming media to work for a nonprofit that helps kids with autism and mental health. I took a pay cut, but got a huge boost to my self worth! 🖤
I’m here to back her re-framing point for you! As someone who reads a lot but it’s usually just fluff, I need to spend more time learning. The act of reading itself isn’t the important thing at all
I absolutely love to read, fiction, non fiction, mysteries, romance, history, all of it. But there are plenty of times when I’m reading and thinking, “this would be more pleasant, easier to understand, or simply better if it were a skit, comic strip, 3 minute video, anything other than words formatted in a book format 😂.
I'm at a point in my life where I'm hesitating between choosing a career for the passion and meaning that will change something in this world, or choosing a career I excel at, for good money, that will give me the lifestyle I'm aiming for. These suggestions will for sure help me to start my decision process. Thank you Caroline ❤️
You and Paige Wassel are my absolute faves on UA-cam. Both of you have amazing aesthetics, but more than anything I love how genuine you both are. Definitely a breathe of fresh air, thanks for all you do and for letting us into your journey (: I learn so much from all your videos, super inspiring
I'll second this comment. 👌 the Disney Channel vs. Indie film comment was such a light bulb moment. I think to be in indie film in the land of Disney and succeed is too inspiring for words. To be able to hold someone's attention without flashy editing and bright colors and goofy voices...it makes me think it's possible. ❤️
Your videos are very wise and refreshing. Keep them coming! I’m 60 years old and struggled my entire life with motivation and procrastination. Your videos are honestly helping. This really great content. Thank you
Your transparency, and realistic understanding of…all the things is incredibly refreshing and it’s everything I want to listen to. Thank you for being real ❤️
All excellent info! The reading books comment though, I needed to hear. My brother reads several books a month, good for him, whatever. You know when someone has a mirror and they’re bouncing the light’s reflection into your eyes? That’s what being ADD and trying to read is for me, read a couple sentences…distraction, read the same couple sentences again…distraction, repeat…
We each have a distinct learning style so no shame that you don't prefer reading - hey, you like to learn and that's a key to growth and experience. So yay for you!
I just absolutely love your content, delivery, and how genuinely funny you are. I have recently retired and planning on a new journey. A passion since I was in my 20’s. I love antiques and having fun thrifting. As everyone says, “the thrill of the hunt”. I love design and everything that has to do with the home, organizing, unique items, quality furnishings and beautiful things. You speak to my heart and soul. I feel we have way too much in common as well. I was an actress in high school and college. I never took it to another level professionally like you did. I went the cautious real estate route and had a nice career, but so ready for my new adventure. You are giving me the aspiration and additional motivation I need. Thanks Caroline, I’ll be watching and enjoying everyday!
I am a huge fan, Caroline. You are so intelligent, thoughtful, witty and real. Love your flowers in the background. I would rather see realism than phony perfectionism. Ultimately, that is why I watch you.
Haven’t even watched the entire video yet but just wanted to say thank you for being real. I’m having a rough week and this channel / video came right on time. 😌
Thank you for the slow-reader validation and the steak/fork analogy. 🙏🏼Love learning from you every day. Even at 68. Never too late. Which is the lesson. Always learn. Find your inspiration and keep learning and doing.
"My intelligence didn't change from being an actor to a computer coder"...absolute genius...love your mind Caroline. Also, I am curious, like to read, and explore the world around me; but, my dream was to be a Robin Williams-esque "Good Morning Vietnam" type radio personality. There's still hope. :)
Mr. Grant is right. Basic food, clothing and shelter are all we really NEED. That is success. The rest is just wants. We can measure our own level of success by the quality of the needs and wants we acquire. If you're unhappy with the quality, or the means to acquire, change is in order. Status - The judgemental opinion of others, based on whether you have more or less than they. No win scenario. Pay no dues to that club.
I just discovered you through your viral video and watched the vlog where you mentioned how this other video has performed really poorly... I had to come look at it. Girl, you did a great job. I could feel the passion you have for the content pieces you recommended and convinced me to go check them out. Funny enough one of my least watched videos is exactly the same topic as this one and I also didn't understand what I did wrong. No matter how much work and passion we put into our videos, sometimes they just don't perform well. Loved your reasoning around it in that vlog. I also recently made a video that got me to my first million views on a video and it's definitely not one of the best I have on the channel 🤷♀ Your home organization video instead is a masterwork! You'll improve so many daily lives with it, mine included. Sending some love from Udine, Italy.
Ditto and I too think you did an awesome job and would love to see more of these please. I love your style and the editing that goes into your videos. There is a lot of work here as I’m learning as I go at doing this myself, thanks for setting the bar higher for me. I too love the dried roses and I keep them in beautiful handmade ceramic platters and bowls after they are fully dried, not pulled apart like potpourri but full without the stem. I look forward to checking out some of your suggestions here and wonder do you get much time to watch Netflix etc as would love to here some shows your enjoying. Keep up the great work. P.S @What a shame Mary Jane I will also go and check your channel out too. 🌻
Girl! This was deep for me. I rarely "read." I listen to books on tape in my car and I gain information, lots of information. But you are so right about reading being a vehicle to get information. Then, when you differentiated learning as a virtue vs. the act of reading...Amazing! Made my morning.
I clean houses. People ask why? Because I speak 5 languages and used to work with tourists and I like it, but I love cleaning, it's like meditation for me. It's fulfilling and it feels great when I'm done also.
Love this kind of video! I feel very similar when I read Buddhist stuff. It's like giving myself permission to be okay with not being okay all the time.
My favorite book relating to Buddhism is titled Living Beautifully with Uncertainty and Change by Pema Chödrön. I've struggled during times of change (even the most seemingly minor changes) all of my life. This book has really helped me to KEEP my shit together or at least GET my shit back together during those times of change. I'm still not a fan of change but I'm better able to handle it.
The meaningful work that expresses your values is something I feel so strongly about. I can’t and don’t focus on work that seems “important” and “valuable” to others. I have found that most often those jobs are about the title and impressing others than the work itself.
Paused your newest video to come comment on this one and say I loved it! I just found your videos yesterday and have been bingeing them while I pack up my place to move. Can't wait to continue while I decorate the new place! You're like a pal keeping me company while I do chores. Also, I've never commented on a UA-cam video ever, so here we are. THANK YOU, YOU RULE. \m/
Where have you been all our lives! you are amazing and just right for the world. Just you being transparent about perception of smarts, coding, learning, ideas etc did it for me. Thank you xoxo .
girl i love this & i love you. so nice to hear from someone doing life with thoughtfulness and creativity, and with two feet planted on the ground! your comments recently about perspective-we're just in a middle moment in life, moving in a direction, destination unclear-resonate hard. ALSO speaking as a current english phd student and former high school english teacher: SAY IT LOUD about the many ways to "read"/learn! i tell my students all the time that they should pay attention to what kinds of knowledge-ingestion work best for them, and that they shouldn't be afraid to experiment. for me personally, the best way to read is to look at the page as i'm listening to an audiobook or screenreader. i pay attention better, i can focus for longer, and i understand much more quickly and easily. so say it again! and keep bringing your bits of wisdom to us; i appreciate them so much :)
Wow this is so lovely to hear. I’m so glad things resonated! It helps me so much to talk it through in videos, because it’s all still what I’m processing (no duh🥴). And I just hope it resonates with others
I have never subscribed to videos before and wasn't even sure as to what THAT involved, but.....I am subscribing to your video channel now. (Your "kitchen renovation episode" caught my attention in this last week---great job---and I've started watching other installments from there). I am 73, live by myself in a small apartment, and use my living space to also continue creative efforts as a lifelong painter. As it happens, I don't know anyone in your generation, so following your videos is especially and truly interesting to me. "Keep on keepin' on" with all your life activities and explorations. I like good design, and am intentional about the way I set up my apartment, although in my case interior design is tempered with workspace needs in my small space. However, you might like to know that you have recently motivated me to tweak my main room, and style my bookcase: books plus objects, vertical books plus stacks of horizontal books, etc. Anyway, more power to you, Caroline, in all your endeavors! I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos.
Hello ! When I heard you said that you put a lot of efforts into THIS video and people didn't even bother to check it out that got my curiosity!!!😉😄 And it was, excellent.. !!!! So I am going right now to suscribebto the ones ressources that speak to me personally: Page Wassel, Adam Grant and How I build this. Thank you for those awesome ressources!!!!
Hi girl! I love your channel. I struggled for so long with the "who am I? " thing. I turned to Buddhism and Hinduism and yoga for years. I always felt great for a little while. Clarity would come in waves. Then I heard someone say "if you're the problem, then you can't also be the solution." that really stuck with me and it kind of flew in the face of all that I had learned. I then started reading different types of books. One of them was by Allie Beth Stuckey 'you're not enough' it really spoke to me in a lot of ways. I highly recommend it. God bless!
This is one of my favorites of your videos! It made me feel so comforted after feeling low/depressed bc it reminded me there's always an eventual upswing where things get easier and more joyful as I gain more skills and appreciation for living my life. I've been frustrated by the cyclical nature of this growth process lately, but this was something I needed to hear.
I grew up Zen Buddhist (Rinzai Zen to be exact) and watch your videos every weekend when I paint my nails :) it brings me a lot of joy to see these philosophies reaching you and supporting you. I hope you find what you're searching for, though to take a truly Zen stance on it would be to insist on the illusory nature of the idea of "self" at all :P If you are ever interested in doing some reading on the social/cultural history of Buddhism in the US, I would highly recommend Chenxing Han's "Be the Refuge."
I am so happy that I just discovered your channel! Loved everything you discussed! We are all just walking each other home on this human adventure! To share love and inspiration is such a wonderful gift! Namaste'!
Another podcast suggestion I feel like you would love would be “How to Fail with Elizabeth Day” ! She interviews famous, successful people…specifically about their failures. It’s such an inspiring podcast because it really highlights the painful and difficult parts of people’s journeys who you would otherwise think of primarily for their highlight reel.
Working in tech garnering you more addictive compliments than a creative job like interior designer is BLOWING. MY. MIND. If I met someone at a party who was a coder I would probably politely pretend to be interested. But if you said you're an interior designer?!! Immediately impressed, a little jealous, insanely interested in your and your life. Would want to spend the rest of the evening talking to you. I guess it tracks back to a reflection of our own values... I am creative and value creativity more highly than anything else job-wise, not least because success in the arts is more difficult than many other fields. By success, I mean even holding down a steady income. So I suppose I go out into the world expecting others to be impressed by the same things I am. That said, I also want people to know I'm smart. My main frustration is that many people don't consider the arts to require intelligence, when in fact artists can be some of the cleverest people out there, and the most emotionally intelligent too.
I just made a salad and I'm very proud of it and I want to share how to make it. Also wanted to comment on this vid cus u said u were sad about the engagement on it in a vlog ✨ Makes 2 servings: Cut up 2 apples, one small carrot, half a cup of jarred lupini beans (they should be in a salty brine like pickles), quarter cup of sliced almonds. Let them rest in a bit of balsamic, herbs de provence, black pepper, pinch of salt (I used msg bc I love myself) for up to an hour. Split mixture into 2 servings bowls, add a couple handfuls of whatever salad mix you like (mine had spinach, arugula, lettuce, baby chard and baby kale), one handful of whatever microgreens you like. Top with shaved parmesan, croutons, crunchy fried onion and a drizzle of garlic infused olive oil. Serve with hot French press coffee or delicate tea. I've really been enjoying your channel, it makes me feel like a person. If anyone feels inspired by this to make a good salad respond I'd love to hear.
I enjoy how authentic you are. I have been really enjoying sermons and learning about the crap people have gone through before me. Definitely has helped me to keep going. Never thought I would say that about the Bible.
Yet again LOVED this episode. YOU ARE MULTI DIMENSIONAL! And while that is an admirable trait, it may feel to you, as if you are faltering and always searching for who you really are. You are, first and foremost, an intellect FOR SURE. This is evident in how both articulate and witty you are, as well as in how interested and well versed you are on many topics (your raw honesty about how liking that your job portrays you as in intellect will resonate with many, but recognizing that this isn't necessary is the brave part). You are an actor, which comes through in how comfortable you are in front of the camera, part of what makes you so engaging to watch. You are a comedian, you're ability to improv and your delivery are PERFECT! You're a talented designer, again, well versed and read in addition to having intuitive style and the ability to share it with us. Finally you are a TALENTED you tuber. I never know what each episode will bring and just when I think "oh this is it, this is the content she should focus on", the next episode speaks to me just as loudly. Continue to be multi dimensional as we are all benefiting from all your talents and gifts. Don't worry about understanding your meaning here on earth or grasping your purpose, take your own advice and continue to appreciate your relationships in life, work hard at the things that speak to you and enjoy the journey because you're KILLIN IT. To answer your question, YES more episodes like this......favorite things to read, watch etc. But also more episode on how you helped people with design questions Then again I loved just hearing about how you hurt your knee and hanging with family. Just keep doing you.
Your adorable!! That “spaced out” scene made me laugh so hard. God…u made my day today. Had a super lonely day and your vid on loneliness was excellent too! Where do I send money?? 😂
Caroline! So grateful to have found your channel. Your videos are so thoughtfully curated and edited. I'm in real appreciation and admiration for your work. Tonight I had a nightmare which I awoke abruptly and immediately came here to watch one of your videos for comfort. I chose this one because you mentioned the making of it and how no one watched it. Happy to see there are many more views now! All that to say, thank you so so much for the incredible suggestions. Especially the organizational psychologist (I believe that's what you said). That's my niche and I'd never heard of him. Long-winded, but I feel like you understand. Thanks again! 🎉 I appreciate your existence.
I found your channel when Paige mentioned you in one of her vids ! Y’all are the only people I watch on UA-cam now🙂 thank you for the wonderful videos !
The different ways your brain activates when you learn from reading vs hearing or seeing does have value. Working those muscles is important. But yes if you need to absorb most info a certain way, that's the best way for you. But still working on your weaknesses is important vs dismissing reading as a "never" for you.
It helps if you make notes, too (if your learning is academic, rather than something just for you). The different actions, together, help fix the new information into your working memory. Something similar can be done whilst listening to information, otherwise students would never learn anything in a lecture!
You are a Zen master. That is why you enjoy that book you were quoting. That is why you are so interesting because you are not afraid to be your self more often than not. Thank you for sharing your self.
You are such a wonderful personality! Love Your Channel. I have learned so much about being humble, and such great life lessons also by studying my Bible. I love researching as I study. But there are so many reminders for me, being kind, being patient… I love studying history and learning about God. “... but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither - whatever they do prospers” (Psalm 1:2-3). And Thanks for all your suggestions in this video.
Hi Caroline, I enjoy listening to you and your take on life. You're a thoughtful kind person, somewhat like myself. I wish when I was a young girl, teen, 20 something we'd had as much info available about whats "normal". I always felt like somekind of weirdo or outlier. Most females were too afraid to speak their truth, and yep I am talking about being a teen in the 60s. Anyway keep doing what you're doing, you do it well. I ESPECIALLY LOVE your honesty around your fear and self doubt, please dont ever stop telling your truth. BTW, Im going to stick my neck out and go against the crowd. Not a fan of Paige Wassel, her surly, unamused unfriendly attitude is a turn off, Her design ideas aren't anything new.
I find you to be a rather stand-up comedic presenter in a very realistic authentic way and I love your uncensored way of communicating I'm a big fan of yours and a new fan love your style I love that you shoot in a bathroom in your car in the rain jogging you have a lot of variety in your videos which is a sign of really good editing as well so I wanted to tell you that too
I really like you. You're sense of humor is off the chart. You make me chuckle everytime I watch you and you are so relatable. Love your content. Thank you.
I definitely didn't click into this at first because the title felt like an eye-roll, like another person on youtube trying to motivate others, here we go again. But CAROLINE, I feel it's mistitled. I felt relieved and panicky cause I can relate the every bit of what you said. I don't know who I am, I don't know how to find it, I'm not feeling like I'm living a life that aligns with my values. ALL OF IT. Thank you for pointing out how no one watched this one, it made me watch it and I feel inspired 🤭
Caroline, it is crazy how much you open my eyes and my mind in each vlog! I learn so much from you -but not in a weird patronizing / guru-like way. It rather feels like you are a friend and we're having a stay over party the two of us, it s in the middle of the night and the tireness and the alcohol makes us speak more freely. God, where am I going with that ??😂😂 To be short, I feel like you are so genuine, so curious about life and so clever that you just speak the truth without filter nor fear. It is so reassuring to see that I am not alone struggling but also that I can take you as a model of kindness and truth. And now I'll just hope I did not scare you with my weird message 🙈😂 Take care and keep up the good work Girl 💪💪👋
❤️🥺I’m so glad that the conversation resonates. It’s a huge gift to ME to find other people who relate, and it means so much to me to find that connection. Thanks to YOU friend ❤️❤️
I watched the vlog where you talked about how hard you worked for this video and that you are proud of it but no one was watching it, so I made sure that I watch it - and I loved it! Lots of food for thought delivered in a real and entertaining way! So glad that when YT shoved your "viral" organization video in my face I didn't say no. lol. Girl you're so smart, talented, funny and - cherry on the top - beautiful! I'll be binge watching all your older videos for sure!
You are a very sweet human too, Paige...in your own unique way. I love you both and I totally agree with Caroline in her appreciation of you and your work.
So crazy! I didn’t even know I was following Adam Grant on LinkedIn but I was like, I know this man, how do I know this man. Very motivational, glad you’re crediting everyone, I didn’t even know his name and talk about him often. I want to get better at that!
I really appreciate you bringing up your struggles with reading. I've always had reading comprehension issues growing up and several teachers and peers told me I was smart but wasn't "trying hard enough." I'm 28 and have always loved learning but found it daunting to try to read books. I've felt like it was cheating and that I was a bit dumb for using audiobooks and podcasts as my methods for retrieving information. It's nice to see some representation of this elsewhere. You're lovely
I completely resonate with your point about a glorified career that you're unhappy with. I graduated with an Industrial Engineering degree, and somehow it sort of became my identity to my family and relatives where I get lots of compliments. When I decided I didn't want to pursue anything related to my degree, my family hated the idea. Some part of me loves the attention when they regard me as an engineer, but honestly what is an Industrial engineer even? hahahaha. Plus, the pay suck. Now I'm stuck with a very early identity crisis in my life trying to figure out what I actually want. God it feels good to write that all down hahaha. Your channel is my favorite by the way! Keep doing you!
I had to give up my nursing career when my father died and I took over part of his business. My self esteem took a double hit. Nursing fulfilled my values (that’s good). Nursing was also external validation about how smart and caring and compassionate I was. I was a specialist so was all the more cool. With all that gone I have been lost. I’m financially better off beyond my dreams, but I still don’t really know who I am.
I just started binge watching your videos yesterday and have seen the gamut of your content and omg I love it all! Your channel/personality is exactly the kind of uplifting, humanizing, joy-inducing content I need! Thanks for existing on this here UA-cam!!!
I loved this so much - I am a fellow interior designer and love to hear what’s inspiring and motivating others not just in design, but in life. I’m not a huge reader myself, but someone recommended this book to me and I think you would love it too… 101 essays to change the way you think by Briana Wiest. So many mic drop perspectives it’s honestly mind blowing… I always reach for it when I need to get out of my own way/head!
The other day I heard someone say "we are here to experience, not achieve" and I'm LIVING by that now
Girl you're a youtuber? Wow, You must be really smart.
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@@Caroline_WinklerThere is smart, smart, and smart. You are all three.
I really enjoy that every week I don't know what type of video you will give us. It's a bit like a wrapped present, always a bit of surprise. I really enjoyed this one, but I enjoy them all.
That makes me so happy to hear❤️❤️I’m so glad you’re here for it all
Well said!
same here! it makes for a multidimensional channel and includes us in the process of the lense of our girl!
I loved this video, it’s so underrated
@@Caroline_Winkler I'm a new subscriber - it's so easy to binge watch your videos you've uploaded, without getting bored with one particular topic. I totally agree with this comment! I think you're great at covering things that both your subscribers would enjoy, and you catch UA-cam trends pretty early it seems, to bring new subs over. Glad I was recommended your channel.
Grandmother here. Just have to say that knowing ourselves, figuring out who we are is a long journey. And that’s ok. Life is full of twists and turns. Just be true to you. Be kind to everyone. You eventually get to a place of peace. Comfort in your own skin. Enjoy the process. And if we are lucky we have friends like Caroline to enjoy the ride. 💜😊
Grandmother Lauren - i love this. thank you for sharing it. Enjoying the process seems so key, and so tough some times! thanks for sharing this sweet wisdom and reflection
Wisdom right here.
Thank you Grandma💓
Thank you, Grandma! Hugs! 💖
“Peace is prosperity”-Tony gaskins.
I went from dental assistant to bus driver, I can relate to the lesser value identity. Funny enough, as a bus driver I make about $8 more per hour and have a pension, I can go to doctor appointments now and I’m not overworked and have a 3 hour lunch break. I never thought I’d have a job that offered me peace! While I love dental assisting and miss it so very much, it was really overburdened, emotionally and physically and financially draining even after almost 20 years experience. I don’t feel proud when I say I’m a school bus driver but peace is prosperity and I’m stickin to it.
I love that you are genuinely annoyed by things on your videos. Most youtubers are so over happy and over positive when they film themselves it makes the viewer think that something is wrong with him. I love that you are real, you do not smile all the time, you are pissed off by things of the day to day life, you are just a real person with positive and negative emotions and this is reassuring to watch. Have a good day!
Your first point about our jobs and identity and how you feel about it really resonated with me. My fancy job was nothing more than a signal to others that I had made it in some way. They didn't know that I cried every day, I wasn't very good at it, and that my boss treated me horribly. It just mattered that I got to say I was off to the World Bank or setting up a meeting with so and so ambassador. When I left to go back to teaching I didn't want to tell anyone. I felt like I wasted my fancy NYU degree and that I was giving up. BUT, as these stories go, it was the best decision ever. You're such a shining light Caroline. You could do any job and it still wouldn't be the most impressive thing about you. Let your heart and mind believe that! Thanks for another great video.
Ahh man that resonates 😑❤️ and wow so glad that it ended up being the best decision you ever made🥲 (I mean of course it was! But still, just love to hear that.
Ps. Jinx on getting a fancy pointless NYU degree. Girl I majored in “drama”. LOL
@@Caroline_Winkler I grew up in the "those who can't, teach" era so it was really hard to wrap my brain around identifying as a teacher even though I loved it and it made me happy. I think what I've learned is that the joyful people don't care what their life looks like from the outside, they just carry on with what brings them joy. That's what I want!
And I legit don't know where my degree is! I'm thankful for it but I also think I lost it :)
I worked years to finally get an executive position in the nonprofit world. Loved the mission, hated the job. Enjoyed the accolades my friends and family gave me for achieving my goal but not enough to stay. I left for another job but got laid off during pandemic. Returned to prior org where I was formerly COO and now I’m a consultant writing their grants, working remotely, and living life for me! Success is never a straight road and often ends up being something you never imagined. 🤗
Wow “success often ends up being something you never imagined” - I love that and completely agree. I don’t think we’re good at guessing what will really make us happy and fulfilled!
@@LW0214 I think leaving a mission based job is extra hard. Like, I still care about the work my non profit did, I just couldn't work there anymore. I feel like there's a stigma though once you leave. I'm so glad you're living your best best life and truly finding success on your terms. And bless you for writing those grants, I hated that :)
Funny, I have to mention this…you mentioned Paige Wassel, and it was through watching her videos how I learned about you. She recommended following you and how you are talented and that’s how I discovered you and never stopped watching you. You both are extremely talented and I enjoy watching you guys. I had no idea you followed her too. That’s so sweet you both admire each other
ahh i love that! i really think she's one of the most inventive people on the internet. great to watch even for those who aren't into interior design, IMO
You really do add such an enormous amount of value to the world through this channel. Big props to you girl.
Love to see it.
You’re doing it. 🎉
I never get excited about an influencer or UA-camr putting out a video but I can honestly say if you had 100s of videos I’d happily watch them all. I really felt for you when you mentioned the bit about getting respect for being a coder and not an artist. As a society we put too much pressure on job titles, for what? That’s not what makes us dignified and valuable, it’s our actions, and morality that do, in my opinion at least 🤷🏽♀️
One of my absolute favorite youtubers to watch is Damon Dominique, he mostly makes travel related content but he dives into culture and stereotypes in such a real way, and also is just so entertaining as well. He speaks a lot about philosophy too, and all around makes beautifully filmed videos! A big big recommendation for everyone to check out
Oo that sounds right up my alley, I’m looking him up! Thanks for the recommendation ❤️❤️
love damon. he is making tv shows for youtube essentially and is pioneering that change. The amount he puts into an episode. um. how.
Thanks for the Rec!
This girl is on the right track in her life and that always makes me happy to see in another young person. This topic especially lights her up. Such a beautiful thing to share with us, passion + positive content. Thank you.
Giirl...please continue to make videos like this. I'm always on the hunt for ways to feel better about myself 😂. I've taken notes and plan to check all of these out.
❤️❤️❤️bah I’m so glad! You’re the best
Yes! I left a prestigious sounding job in streaming media to work for a nonprofit that helps kids with autism and mental health. I took a pay cut, but got a huge boost to my self worth! 🖤
I’m not a reader at all and have always felt bad about it. I love the way you reframed it! Thank you!
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I’m here to back her re-framing point for you! As someone who reads a lot but it’s usually just fluff, I need to spend more time learning. The act of reading itself isn’t the important thing at all
I absolutely love to read, fiction, non fiction, mysteries, romance, history, all of it. But there are plenty of times when I’m reading and thinking, “this would be more pleasant, easier to understand, or simply better if it were a skit, comic strip, 3 minute video, anything other than words formatted in a book format 😂.
Girl!!! 200% agreed on Reading is not a virtue it’s a medium! Best way to pit it out. I struggle with reading but I’m excited to learn.
I'm at a point in my life where I'm hesitating between choosing a career for the passion and meaning that will change something in this world, or choosing a career I excel at, for good money, that will give me the lifestyle I'm aiming for. These suggestions will for sure help me to start my decision process. Thank you Caroline ❤️
You and Paige Wassel are my absolute faves on UA-cam. Both of you have amazing aesthetics, but more than anything I love how genuine you both are. Definitely a breathe of fresh air, thanks for all you do and for letting us into your journey (: I learn so much from all your videos, super inspiring
❤️❤️ thank u! I love being associated with her at all. She is too fun and too great
I'll second this comment. 👌 the Disney Channel vs. Indie film comment was such a light bulb moment. I think to be in indie film in the land of Disney and succeed is too inspiring for words. To be able to hold someone's attention without flashy editing and bright colors and goofy voices...it makes me think it's possible. ❤️
I agree!
Your videos are very wise and refreshing. Keep them coming!
I’m 60 years old and struggled my entire life with motivation and procrastination. Your videos are honestly helping. This really great content. Thank you
Your transparency, and realistic understanding of…all the things is incredibly refreshing and it’s everything I want to listen to. Thank you for being real ❤️
All excellent info! The reading books comment though, I needed to hear. My brother reads several books a month, good for him, whatever. You know when someone has a mirror and they’re bouncing the light’s reflection into your eyes? That’s what being ADD and trying to read is for me, read a couple sentences…distraction, read the same couple sentences again…distraction, repeat…
We each have a distinct learning style so no shame that you don't prefer reading - hey, you like to learn and that's a key to growth and experience. So yay for you!
I just absolutely love your content, delivery, and how genuinely funny you are. I have recently retired and planning on a new journey. A passion since I was in my 20’s. I love antiques and having fun thrifting. As everyone says, “the thrill of the hunt”. I love design and everything that has to do with the home, organizing, unique items, quality furnishings and beautiful things. You speak to my heart and soul. I feel we have way too much in common as well. I was an actress in high school and college. I never took it to another level professionally like you did. I went the cautious real estate route and had a nice career, but so ready for my new adventure. You are giving me the aspiration and additional motivation I need.
Thanks Caroline, I’ll be watching and enjoying everyday!
I am a huge fan, Caroline. You are so intelligent, thoughtful, witty and real. Love your flowers in the background. I would rather see realism than phony perfectionism. Ultimately, that is why I watch you.
Haven’t even watched the entire video yet but just wanted to say thank you for being real. I’m having a rough week and this channel / video came right on time. 😌
I hate to hear that it’s been a tough week Eva ❤️😔hope you get to do something nice for yourself today. And hang in there friend ❤️
@@Caroline_Winkler thank you. I hope your knee is feeling better as well
Amor, I am hooked on you!!! Your material is refreshing, informative, fun… etc.
I am so grateful for you!!💐💐💐🙌🏼
Thank you for the slow-reader validation and the steak/fork analogy. 🙏🏼Love learning from you every day. Even at 68. Never too late. Which is the lesson. Always learn. Find your inspiration and keep learning and doing.
"My intelligence didn't change from being an actor to a computer coder"...absolute genius...love your mind Caroline. Also, I am curious, like to read, and explore the world around me; but, my dream was to be a Robin Williams-esque "Good Morning Vietnam" type radio personality. There's still hope. :)
Mr. Grant is right. Basic food, clothing and shelter are all we really NEED. That is success. The rest is just wants. We can measure our own level of success by the quality of the needs and wants we acquire. If you're unhappy with the quality, or the means to acquire, change is in order.
Status - The judgemental opinion of others, based on whether you have more or less than they. No win scenario. Pay no dues to that club.
I just discovered you through your viral video and watched the vlog where you mentioned how this other video has performed really poorly... I had to come look at it.
Girl, you did a great job. I could feel the passion you have for the content pieces you recommended and convinced me to go check them out. Funny enough one of my least watched videos is exactly the same topic as this one and I also didn't understand what I did wrong.
No matter how much work and passion we put into our videos, sometimes they just don't perform well. Loved your reasoning around it in that vlog. I also recently made a video that got me to my first million views on a video and it's definitely not one of the best I have on the channel 🤷♀ Your home organization video instead is a masterwork! You'll improve so many daily lives with it, mine included. Sending some love from Udine, Italy.
Ditto and I too think you did an awesome job and would love to see more of these please.
I love your style and the editing that goes into your videos.
There is a lot of work here as I’m learning as I go at doing this myself, thanks for setting the bar higher for me.
I too love the dried roses and I keep them in beautiful handmade ceramic platters and bowls after they are fully dried, not pulled apart like potpourri but full without the stem.
I look forward to checking out some of your suggestions here and wonder do you get much time to watch Netflix etc as would love to here some shows your enjoying.
Keep up the great work.
P.S @What a shame Mary Jane I will also go and check your channel out too. 🌻
I really enjoyed this video ❤️ I could listen to you read me proverbs all day
Girl! This was deep for me. I rarely "read." I listen to books on tape in my car and I gain information, lots of information. But you are so right about reading being a vehicle to get information. Then, when you differentiated learning as a virtue vs. the act of reading...Amazing! Made my morning.
I clean houses. People ask why? Because I speak 5 languages and used to work with tourists and I like it, but I love cleaning, it's like meditation for me. It's fulfilling and it feels great when I'm done also.
Love this kind of video! I feel very similar when I read Buddhist stuff. It's like giving myself permission to be okay with not being okay all the time.
❤️❤️ absolutely. Same with mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - all of it gets down to just BEING. so simple, but so mind melting
I loved this video...thank you! I love that, at 52 years young, my mind and heart continue to expand through books and now, podcasts! And UA-cam!
Saturday morning, coffee in hand and tuning into Caroline... Good stuff today! 🙌🏼
Random remarks you make really crack me up and I need to pause so I don’t miss something else.
My favorite book relating to Buddhism is titled Living Beautifully with Uncertainty and Change by Pema Chödrön. I've struggled during times of change (even the most seemingly minor changes) all of my life. This book has really helped me to KEEP my shit together or at least GET my shit back together during those times of change. I'm still not a fan of change but I'm better able to handle it.
How many times can I use the word "change"...🥴
The meaningful work that expresses your values is something I feel so strongly about. I can’t and don’t focus on work that seems “important” and “valuable” to others. I have found that most often those jobs are about the title and impressing others than the work itself.
Yay! Paige! I am so happy you brought her up in this video, you and her are my ultimate 'comfort youtubers' and you are both so truly original :)
The wilted flowers resonated with me more than anything else.
Paused your newest video to come comment on this one and say I loved it! I just found your videos yesterday and have been bingeing them while I pack up my place to move. Can't wait to continue while I decorate the new place! You're like a pal keeping me company while I do chores. Also, I've never commented on a UA-cam video ever, so here we are. THANK YOU, YOU RULE. \m/
Feeling the same about feeling like Caroline is my go to friend. Thank you my friend!😊
I like how you keep it real with the dead flowers in the background.😀 Love love your channel!
Where have you been all our lives! you are amazing and just right for the world. Just you being transparent about perception of smarts, coding, learning, ideas etc did it for me. Thank you xoxo .
girl i love this & i love you. so nice to hear from someone doing life with thoughtfulness and creativity, and with two feet planted on the ground! your comments recently about perspective-we're just in a middle moment in life, moving in a direction, destination unclear-resonate hard. ALSO speaking as a current english phd student and former high school english teacher: SAY IT LOUD about the many ways to "read"/learn! i tell my students all the time that they should pay attention to what kinds of knowledge-ingestion work best for them, and that they shouldn't be afraid to experiment. for me personally, the best way to read is to look at the page as i'm listening to an audiobook or screenreader. i pay attention better, i can focus for longer, and i understand much more quickly and easily. so say it again! and keep bringing your bits of wisdom to us; i appreciate them so much :)
Wow this is so lovely to hear. I’m so glad things resonated! It helps me so much to talk it through in videos, because it’s all still what I’m processing (no duh🥴). And I just hope it resonates with others
I have never subscribed to videos before and wasn't even sure as to what THAT involved, but.....I am subscribing to your video channel now. (Your "kitchen renovation episode" caught my attention in this last week---great job---and I've started watching other installments from there).
I am 73, live by myself in a small apartment, and use my living space to also continue creative efforts as a lifelong painter.
As it happens, I don't know anyone in your generation, so following your videos is especially and truly interesting to me. "Keep on keepin' on" with all your life activities and explorations.
I like good design, and am intentional about the way I set up my apartment, although in my case interior design is tempered with workspace needs in my small space. However, you might like to know that you have recently motivated me to tweak my main room, and style my bookcase: books plus objects, vertical books plus stacks of horizontal books, etc.
Anyway, more power to you, Caroline, in all your endeavors! I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos.
Hello ! When I heard you said that you put a lot of efforts into THIS video and people didn't even bother to check it out that got my curiosity!!!😉😄 And it was, excellent.. !!!! So I am going right now to suscribebto the ones ressources that speak to me personally: Page Wassel, Adam Grant and How I build this. Thank you for those awesome ressources!!!!
Hi girl! I love your channel. I struggled for so long with the "who am I? " thing. I turned to Buddhism and Hinduism and yoga for years. I always felt great for a little while. Clarity would come in waves. Then I heard someone say "if you're the problem, then you can't also be the solution." that really stuck with me and it kind of flew in the face of all that I had learned. I then started reading different types of books. One of them was by Allie Beth Stuckey 'you're not enough' it really spoke to me in a lot of ways. I highly recommend it. God bless!
You have the BEST personality - so engaging and funny. Your recommendations are always on point.
Ah thanks Ro!❤️
This is one of my favorites of your videos! It made me feel so comforted after feeling low/depressed bc it reminded me there's always an eventual upswing where things get easier and more joyful as I gain more skills and appreciation for living my life. I've been frustrated by the cyclical nature of this growth process lately, but this was something I needed to hear.
I grew up Zen Buddhist (Rinzai Zen to be exact) and watch your videos every weekend when I paint my nails :) it brings me a lot of joy to see these philosophies reaching you and supporting you. I hope you find what you're searching for, though to take a truly Zen stance on it would be to insist on the illusory nature of the idea of "self" at all :P If you are ever interested in doing some reading on the social/cultural history of Buddhism in the US, I would highly recommend Chenxing Han's "Be the Refuge."
❤️❤️oh I would love to read that!! Thank u for this rec. right up my alley ❤️
I am so happy that I just discovered your channel! Loved everything you discussed! We are all just walking each other home on this human adventure! To share love and inspiration is such a wonderful gift! Namaste'!
Three videos into what I anticipate will be a long binge watch and I gotta say what a beautifully chaotic channel - 1000% here for it, much love
You have an amazing personality!!!
Loved this video ... Girl - doesn't really matter what you are doing or talking about, we ARE here for it 😍 !
Another podcast suggestion I feel like you would love would be “How to Fail with Elizabeth Day” ! She interviews famous, successful people…specifically about their failures. It’s such an inspiring podcast because it really highlights the painful and difficult parts of people’s journeys who you would otherwise think of primarily for their highlight reel.
Kate is right!
Working in tech garnering you more addictive compliments than a creative job like interior designer is BLOWING. MY. MIND. If I met someone at a party who was a coder I would probably politely pretend to be interested. But if you said you're an interior designer?!! Immediately impressed, a little jealous, insanely interested in your and your life. Would want to spend the rest of the evening talking to you.
I guess it tracks back to a reflection of our own values... I am creative and value creativity more highly than anything else job-wise, not least because success in the arts is more difficult than many other fields. By success, I mean even holding down a steady income. So I suppose I go out into the world expecting others to be impressed by the same things I am. That said, I also want people to know I'm smart. My main frustration is that many people don't consider the arts to require intelligence, when in fact artists can be some of the cleverest people out there, and the most emotionally intelligent too.
Retired person here. Here's the secret...most of it means nothing. Just live your life and enjoy every minute. Even the hard times have value.
SO much better than the inspirational posters that hang in corporate and educational offices! Thanks for sharing Caroline!
I just made a salad and I'm very proud of it and I want to share how to make it. Also wanted to comment on this vid cus u said u were sad about the engagement on it in a vlog ✨
Makes 2 servings:
Cut up 2 apples, one small carrot, half a cup of jarred lupini beans (they should be in a salty brine like pickles), quarter cup of sliced almonds. Let them rest in a bit of balsamic, herbs de provence, black pepper, pinch of salt (I used msg bc I love myself) for up to an hour.
Split mixture into 2 servings bowls, add a couple handfuls of whatever salad mix you like (mine had spinach, arugula, lettuce, baby chard and baby kale), one handful of whatever microgreens you like.
Top with shaved parmesan, croutons, crunchy fried onion and a drizzle of garlic infused olive oil. Serve with hot French press coffee or delicate tea.
I've really been enjoying your channel, it makes me feel like a person. If anyone feels inspired by this to make a good salad respond I'd love to hear.
I just found you, and I think YOU are truly original. So there. Rare and beautiful. Keep doing this. You're really good.
I enjoy how authentic you are. I have been really enjoying sermons and learning about the crap people have gone through before me. Definitely has helped me to keep going. Never thought I would say that about the Bible.
Yet again LOVED this episode. YOU ARE MULTI DIMENSIONAL! And while that is an admirable trait, it may feel to you, as if you are faltering and always searching for who you really are. You are, first and foremost, an intellect FOR SURE. This is evident in how both articulate and witty you are, as well as in how interested and well versed you are on many topics (your raw honesty about how liking that your job portrays you as in intellect will resonate with many, but recognizing that this isn't necessary is the brave part). You are an actor, which comes through in how comfortable you are in front of the camera, part of what makes you so engaging to watch. You are a comedian, you're ability to improv and your delivery are PERFECT! You're a talented designer, again, well versed and read in addition to having intuitive style and the ability to share it with us. Finally you are a TALENTED you tuber. I never know what each episode will bring and just when I think "oh this is it, this is the content she should focus on", the next episode speaks to me just as loudly. Continue to be multi dimensional as we are all benefiting from all your talents and gifts. Don't worry about understanding your meaning here on earth or grasping your purpose, take your own advice and continue to appreciate your relationships in life, work hard at the things that speak to you and enjoy the journey because you're KILLIN IT. To answer your question, YES more episodes like this......favorite things to read, watch etc. But also more episode on how you helped people with design questions Then again I loved just hearing about how you hurt your knee and hanging with family. Just keep doing you.
Your adorable!! That “spaced out” scene made me laugh so hard. God…u made my day today. Had a super lonely day and your vid on loneliness was excellent too! Where do I send money?? 😂
Caroline! So grateful to have found your channel. Your videos are so thoughtfully curated and edited. I'm in real appreciation and admiration for your work.
Tonight I had a nightmare which I awoke abruptly and immediately came here to watch one of your videos for comfort. I chose this one because you mentioned the making of it and how no one watched it. Happy to see there are many more views now!
All that to say, thank you so so much for the incredible suggestions. Especially the organizational psychologist (I believe that's what you said). That's my niche and I'd never heard of him.
Long-winded, but I feel like you understand. Thanks again! 🎉 I appreciate your existence.
You and Paige Wassel have been my favourite youtubers for months!
Ahhh I’m so glad! She’s wonderful
i hope you have a great day too! finding your channel has been such a treat! Everything is just A+
I found your channel when Paige mentioned you in one of her vids ! Y’all are the only people I watch on UA-cam now🙂 thank you for the wonderful videos !
The different ways your brain activates when you learn from reading vs hearing or seeing does have value. Working those muscles is important. But yes if you need to absorb most info a certain way, that's the best way for you. But still working on your weaknesses is important vs dismissing reading as a "never" for you.
It helps if you make notes, too (if your learning is academic, rather than something just for you). The different actions, together, help fix the new information into your working memory.
Something similar can be done whilst listening to information, otherwise students would never learn anything in a lecture!
I can watch all your videos, even when they totally don't apply to my life, just because I love your personality!
I don’t think any other “podcast” ever made me feel so happy 😀
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Just to say beforehand, this look is stunning. And this sleeve type is so flattering, I just love raglan sleeves and variations.
You are a Zen master. That is why you enjoy that book you were quoting. That is why you are so interesting because you are not afraid to be your self more often than not. Thank you for sharing your self.
You are such a wonderful personality! Love Your Channel. I have learned so much about being humble, and such great life lessons also by studying my Bible. I love researching as I study. But there are so many reminders for me, being kind, being patient… I love studying history and learning about God. “... but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither - whatever they do prospers” (Psalm 1:2-3). And Thanks for all your suggestions in this video.
So well done! A real pleasure to watch, as always. Loved your spaced out interlude with voice-over. I too am a Paige Wassel fan....
❤️❤️❤️thanks Katie!
Love your videos 💗. Will be ordering the Zen master book ❤️. Hello from Australia 🙋🏼♀️.
Hi Caroline,
I enjoy listening to you and your take on life.
You're a thoughtful kind person, somewhat like myself. I wish when I was a young girl, teen, 20 something we'd had as much info available
about whats "normal". I always felt like somekind of weirdo or outlier. Most females were too afraid to speak their truth, and yep I am talking about being a teen in the 60s. Anyway keep doing what you're doing, you do it well. I ESPECIALLY LOVE your honesty around your fear and self doubt, please dont ever stop telling your truth.
BTW, Im going to stick my neck out and go against the crowd. Not a fan of Paige Wassel, her surly, unamused unfriendly attitude is a turn off, Her design ideas aren't anything new.
I find you to be a rather stand-up comedic presenter in a very realistic authentic way and I love your uncensored way of communicating I'm a big fan of yours and a new fan love your style I love that you shoot in a bathroom in your car in the rain jogging you have a lot of variety in your videos which is a sign of really good editing as well so I wanted to tell you that too
Oh, forgot to say I love this kind of video where you share what you are watching and i get to see new things
I really like you. You're sense of humor is off the chart. You make me chuckle everytime I watch you and you are so relatable. Love your content. Thank you.
I definitely didn't click into this at first because the title felt like an eye-roll, like another person on youtube trying to motivate others, here we go again. But CAROLINE, I feel it's mistitled. I felt relieved and panicky cause I can relate the every bit of what you said. I don't know who I am, I don't know how to find it, I'm not feeling like I'm living a life that aligns with my values. ALL OF IT. Thank you for pointing out how no one watched this one, it made me watch it and I feel inspired 🤭
Caroline, it is crazy how much you open my eyes and my mind in each vlog! I learn so much from you -but not in a weird patronizing / guru-like way. It rather feels like you are a friend and we're having a stay over party the two of us, it s in the middle of the night and the tireness and the alcohol makes us speak more freely. God, where am I going with that ??😂😂 To be short, I feel like you are so genuine, so curious about life and so clever that you just speak the truth without filter nor fear. It is so reassuring to see that I am not alone struggling but also that I can take you as a model of kindness and truth.
And now I'll just hope I did not scare you with my weird message 🙈😂
Take care and keep up the good work Girl 💪💪👋
❤️🥺I’m so glad that the conversation resonates. It’s a huge gift to ME to find other people who relate, and it means so much to me to find that connection. Thanks to YOU friend ❤️❤️
I watched the vlog where you talked about how hard you worked for this video and that you are proud of it but no one was watching it, so I made sure that I watch it - and I loved it! Lots of food for thought delivered in a real and entertaining way! So glad that when YT shoved your "viral" organization video in my face I didn't say no. lol. Girl you're so smart, talented, funny and - cherry on the top - beautiful! I'll be binge watching all your older videos for sure!
Aaaand we´re back! Love your humor and authenticity.
Yes to all the suggestions, found them very helpful. Always laugh when I listen to your videos, so glad I found your channel 😄
You make people feel that we’re right with you. Keep it up girl.
Life is a journey so don’t get discouraged because you’ll eventually get there.🤗👏🤩
My parents and I binge How I Built This on every road trip! So fun and inspiring to listen to.
im so glad you were recommended to me and now i can binge watch absolutely all of your videos
CAROLINE !! YOU SWEET HUMAN !!
You are a very sweet human too, Paige...in your own unique way. I love you both and I totally agree with Caroline in her appreciation of you and your work.
So crazy! I didn’t even know I was following Adam Grant on LinkedIn but I was like, I know this man, how do I know this man. Very motivational, glad you’re crediting everyone, I didn’t even know his name and talk about him often. I want to get better at that!
I really appreciate you bringing up your struggles with reading. I've always had reading comprehension issues growing up and several teachers and peers told me I was smart but wasn't "trying hard enough." I'm 28 and have always loved learning but found it daunting to try to read books. I've felt like it was cheating and that I was a bit dumb for using audiobooks and podcasts as my methods for retrieving information. It's nice to see some representation of this elsewhere. You're lovely
Absolutely in love with your content. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. That’s my favorite part.
I completely resonate with your point about a glorified career that you're unhappy with. I graduated with an Industrial Engineering degree, and somehow it sort of became my identity to my family and relatives where I get lots of compliments. When I decided I didn't want to pursue anything related to my degree, my family hated the idea. Some part of me loves the attention when they regard me as an engineer, but honestly what is an Industrial engineer even? hahahaha. Plus, the pay suck. Now I'm stuck with a very early identity crisis in my life trying to figure out what I actually want.
God it feels good to write that all down hahaha.
Your channel is my favorite by the way! Keep doing you!
you are AMAZING. I havent seen such a great personality in a while.
I had to give up my nursing career when my father died and I took over part of his business. My self esteem took a double hit. Nursing fulfilled my values (that’s good). Nursing was also external validation about how smart and caring and compassionate I was. I was a specialist so was all the more cool. With all that gone I have been lost. I’m financially better off beyond my dreams, but I still don’t really know who I am.
I love this video soooo much. Watching someone talk about things that inspire them >>>>
🥲❤️thanks taneesha. Glad to have you here
I just started binge watching your videos yesterday and have seen the gamut of your content and omg I love it all! Your channel/personality is exactly the kind of uplifting, humanizing, joy-inducing content I need! Thanks for existing on this here UA-cam!!!
I love that you are trusting your Inner Compass
I loved this so much - I am a fellow interior designer and love to hear what’s inspiring and motivating others not just in design, but in life. I’m not a huge reader myself, but someone recommended this book to me and I think you would love it too… 101 essays to change the way you think by Briana Wiest. So many mic drop perspectives it’s honestly mind blowing… I always reach for it when I need to get out of my own way/head!
Thank you Caroline. Your content is fresh and unique! Love it!