How engine oil changes you: An INFP story for the ISTJ

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  • Опубліковано 26 січ 2025

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  • @vondelpete
    @vondelpete 26 днів тому +4

    I have to admit this story terrifies me but I admire both you and your ISTJ dad. I've had many recent adventures working out my car with my INFJ dad, but I guess as you can imagine there's a slightly different approach with the INFJ and using Ni-Ti to solve all mechanical problems. As usual you're a wonderful storyteller - happy new year!

    • @dulles1969
      @dulles1969  25 днів тому +2

      It's not unusual when my wife has had enough of my nonsense to remark: "How did your father ever put up with you?" She thinks I am playing stupid because I'm asking a dozen questions about where to find a thing, or how to do a thing right. Because if I don't gather enough information to get all the parameters right before execution, the outcome ... resembles your coffeemaker machine incident.

    • @vondelpete
      @vondelpete 25 днів тому +2

      @@dulles1969 oh dear. Well. That's very INFP, I'm the same. Gathering as much information as again, then going through it again because I'm worried I'm imagining what I learned or saw at first. People don't even think I'm being serious. Anyway, better get back to the coffee machine, it's been thirty minutes so far...

  • @radishraven9
    @radishraven9 26 днів тому +3

    Honored to spend my last half hour of 2024 watching your video 😊
    I have not experienced changing car oil yet, to be honest the whole enterprise of owning a car seems awful. It is funny because this exactly the kind of topic my istj dad would ramble about albeit presented less poetically. 😅

    • @dulles1969
      @dulles1969  25 днів тому +1

      Aww, thank you! I caught your 1-1-25 recap earlier today, and it looks like you are off to a good start to the New Year. It probably was awkward but also special to have been with your parents' Peruvian-Swedish friends for the New Year. And I got a big grin out of the mental picture of hotel karaoke: Singing karaoke at a hotel bar is not on your 2025 Resolutions list -- or any Resolutions list, ever!
      You are right, owning a car is a net liability. It consumes time and costs a lot of money. If you are not forced to have a car, better to pass (a driver's license alone is handy, but it also isn't a must.)
      Since we both share ISTJ dads, I think you understand what I was trying to tell in the story: My execution was a mess of mediocre Si and bad Te, but there is a different dimension of human experience in the effort. Fortunately behind that ISTJ exterior my dad has always been very loving. But he was puzzled how I could do so badly at work that he found easy.

  • @jeremiahfix5529
    @jeremiahfix5529 26 днів тому +2

    8:59 cross threaded bolts are the devils tools of choice.

    • @jeremiahfix5529
      @jeremiahfix5529 26 днів тому +2

      Pretty recently I took the carburetor off the lawnmower, this a new lawnmower, and whilst I was in the hot sun and grass I made a GRAVE mistake of letting the sockets out of my sight.

    • @dulles1969
      @dulles1969  25 днів тому +1

      Oh no! Here I was going to say that I only know one reverse threaded bolt off-hand (left-side bicycle pedals are reverse threaded to stay tight. Otherwise the constant pedaling motion would work them loose.) But cross threads and stripped threads: the mechanics of doom.