The fact she forgive them and let them “stay” afterwards show how mature she is compare to the rest of her court , I would of been so mad at them and would had kicked them since the beginning !
I would have kicked them out too. I don't care if people call me dramatic if I cause a scene. There would definitely be a fight. Most likely I wouldn't even talk to those guys at least for two years. A quince is an important moment in your life and it shouldn't be ruined by immature boys. Period!
Literally this girl is being painted as a control freak when she is been the most levelheaded responsible person in that whole damn building. She was very mature and very calm when explaining to them that they don’t behave like animals in public. She was too nice. Ensure she is going to be a little bit of a perfectionist because it is her Quinceañera. You only get one and they ruined it.
Agreed...despite being repiramended they were least bothered and made it worse..some friends" they are.. wish the adults could give them left and right but no...would like to see their faces when table turns one day..🤦♀ Once understandable but twice? It was Quinceañera that she dreamt of put together time effort, money along with many people..I don't know much but isn't it celebrated once for coming of age or something?
@@cadeestilllost3187 what do you want her to do? Slap them 😆 obviously she forgive the boys bc those are her friends and she chose them. So wdym let it slide? How is she supposed to react she was very mature and clam that's how it should be. You shouldn't yell why? Bc it's her friends they didn't have to come to her party but they did.
Honestly, everybody failed her. The way she was treated was not okay and the way they downplayed her feelings, it’s so heartbroken. She’s such a better than me, I would lose it. Everything about this was so wrong and she deserved better.
Nah.. She just met the wrong environment with a lot of stupid people. Teenagers are not an excuses. 10 years old human already can processed what is right and wrong. And they basically already know the basic about manners and attitude.
When the Birthday Girl is the ONLY one who's not immature or bratty. She was the most level headed and had so much emotional intelligence! Props to her 👏 If it were my daughter's party, i would've been nice enough to call a taxi for those Children who ruined it.
Tolerating the way she was treated by her so-called "friends" is not emotional intelligence. It's being conditioned to accept abuse. Your way of handling it, if it were your daughter, is FAR more emotionally intelligent. You'd give your daughter a place to feel like someone cared about her safety.
She's so mature and a total boss at 15 years old. At 50 years old I wouldn't have been so calm as she was. Everyone of them would have been escorted out
MATURE??? She cried because a boy got in a small fight in the bathroom (probably playful) and then freaked out because someone put cake on her cheek. And that was probably staged. That's not mature. That's being a spoiled little immature princess. If she was mature she'd know how to have fun with her friends, not cry and ruin her own party for attention.
@@immaduck9232 they legit rubbed cake all over her face, and in her hair, the makeup and hairdo people PAY FOR before a birthday/wedding, that takes HOURS was completely ruined infront of all of the people at her wedding and i would be hella embarassed too. i say this as a man, that shit was not okay, i mean sure if it was a little on her cheek or both cheeks thats fine but she was practically wearing her own birthday cake
@@teefyzz I rewatched that part starting at 3:20. At first, the boy just threw some on her cheek. The GIRL came and rubbed it all over which was bizarr. Idk man, it all looks staged and bizarre. Reality TV is stupid. Idk how I got here. But I see your point.
@Jayla H she didn't. She just cried because she spent tons of money for her quince and her "friends" did her wrong. How's that losing her cool? How would you react?
“She’s a perfectionist” that fact that these ppl are downplaying what these immature ass boys are doing and the two pick me’s, would’ve kicked them out on sight if that was my daughter fr.
I’m almost 100% sure the mom didn’t mean that in a bad way I think y’all just took that and then created a false narrative to make a point, And it came down to it being her decision if she wanted them to go or not, and she wanted them to stay because that’s how mature she is UNLIKE the others, but you have a point with the “pick me” bitches were being shady asf then they wanna ask “why are you crying” bitch you know why she crying. 🤣 and the lady in the pink suit justifying what they did is just corny.
the fact after the boys threw cake in her face and then the two girls rubbing it on her face and laughing with the boys and THEN HAVING THE AUDACITY to then ask " why are you crying?? " just shows how they were upset they were that the attention is on a person that isn't them for once 😭
Yep, I saw that too. Yeah, the boy threw it first in her face, but it was those other girls who were smearing it and laughing. They knew what they were doing and they were enjoying the fact they were ruining HER moment. In my eyes they're nothing but bullies/fake friends. If it's not about them, they use those passive aggressive insults to downplay a friends happiness. They should've been kicked out and unfriended.
It’s one thing for the boys to put cake in her face but for the two girls in white to do it as well it was very shady. those girls knew exactly what they were doing and then had the nerve to ask her why is she crying
That comment really got on my nerves you can’t just do what you want and then used that line and think your going to get away with it ya your teens not toddlers They tried to ruin her day it’s a gross way of thinking
I cannot believe the adults in this situation! Her own mom calling her a “perfectionist” for not wanting to be embarrassed and have her hair and makeup ruined? She handled all of that so well, I would’ve been so angry at not just the kids but the adults as well!
Oh that was her mother? I thought the woman talking to the group at the end was her mom...hmmm. If that be the case, looks like her mom is part of the society "people pleasing crew."
The woman who called her a perfectionist and drama queen should not be there. That was her day ! She felt beautiful and enjoyed herself until her friends RUINED it. I would be mad as hell and never speak to any of them again if they ruined one of the most important days of my life. She’ll remember this day
Those people do not deserve her presence. She's a shining star, far out of everyone's league there. They shouldn't even be lucky enough to know her now.
And why would they wait on such a special occasion to do stupid crap like this?? Pathetic… I wonder what they’ll do at their Weddings if they ever get a girlfriend/wife
That’s a little much. She is not perfect. They are all kids and kids act stupid. She is not a shining star and just oh so much better than all of the others. Good gracious
@@owlsry4093 Kids who will be adults soon, with no excuse for that kind of behaviour. She definitely is out of their league if you look at what they did, and how she handled it. My kids are actual kids and know that type of treatment to anyone is just not right at all. The ones in this video are nasty kids and hopefully don't turn into adults who act like that - Since even that is too common.
I admire the way she articulated herself while she was upset, and stayed true to who she is. I am older than she is but really see so much potential in her to be so successful in life with her communication skills. Not everyone has that naturally. I wish her the best in her future and I hope this incident brings more blessings to her❤
The fact that her daughter was assaulted and dealing with this nonsense on her own and all she has to say is 'kids will be kids' just shows how awful she is as a mother.
Kids will be kids, but they're not kids they're teenagers and I'm willing to bet that they are fully aware to not do that on such a big day like a Quinceañera. They didn't do it to be funny, they knew exactly what they were doing. They were doing it to be disrespectful to her.
@weiluo8268 definitely, her mom should have handled it or, better, their parents. I would be so embarrassed if my child did something like that at someone's party, let alone a milestone like that.
The lady at 4:04 justifying what that immature boy did is so cringe. No girl should be put through that, specially on her Quinces. She needs to cut off a lot of people from her circle of friends. Bayle's super nice, would've done that to me, I would've kicked them out.
You can tell Bayle is going to be a BOSS BABE when she’s older, the way she handled the situation with so much maturity and patience at her age, I could never 🥹🤍✨
I dreamed with having my quinceanera since I was a little girl, but in the end, I chose to not have one and my dad gave me the money that he would have spent throwing a party that lasts only one night, and told me to do whatever I wanted to do with that money. It lasted me a long time, and I ended up having a much better and happier year than if I would have had a large party. Jealousy, revenge, and stupidity are very ugly and rampant among that poor girl's "friends." She'd be better off without them.
As an adult, I watched this video and was appalled that the adults in charge didnt automatically turf the boys AND the 2 girls out after the cake incident. The fact that they were making excuses for THE BOYS rather than supporting Bayle is what will stick with me. I'd also make sure each of the perps parents were made aware of what they did. That's one of the big problems nowadays (not just with teens); there is so little accountability that folks are feeling entitled to do whatever they feel like.
If I was there, hands would have been FLYING. Those brats would learned some goddamn respect and been out on their ears. Seriously, with how many were smashing that on her, they could have broken her nose!!
Exactly my thinking .. the adults should have stepped up and dealt with those immature idiots ... who does that at a party you're invited to?!!... she was amazingly patient and mature, and she protected another youngster too, which was so commendable .. someone said they didn't have to come to her party .. like she should be grateful... I mean WHAT?!... it was probably the ringleader himself said that .. spoiled brat .. 🙄
Your right, they basically told the ones that did it , it was ok, forget about it and go have fun. Twice they were told that. No consequences, no lesson learned.
She is not a perfectionist. People forget that this isn’t just another party, it’s a coming of age ceremony and a beautiful moment most of us dream of since we’re kids, and honestly? She is way more mature than she’s given credit for. As someone who’s court failed me, nothing hurts more than choosing some of the most important people in your life to celebrate and entrust responsibility on to and watching them fail you. I really hope she’s surrounded by all the love in the world now.
@sunny9439 coming of age ceremony 😮 I'm a photographer I literally cover several events like this .. and never seen something like this before .. unacceptable...however nowadays trendings are went far more worse levels ..
Wow. If this happened to me, I would walk out of there and never speak to those responsible for ruining my day. EVER. The level of self-control she shows for a 15-year-old is amazing.
It's supposed to be a fun thing but you have to be cautious of the person, time, and place. Not every person would be cool with it and it's not so cool to be doing something like this during such a momentous occasion.
She may have been bossy or perfectionist, whatever y’all want to say or think about her but on that day it is valid to be like that. It’s her special day and she just wants it to be a day she can enjoy and remember later in life. Lots of money and time was put in to be able to giver what many don’t get to have and sadly her court was awful. Her court was selfish,rude and disrespectful. Just because you are a teenage doesn’t mean you have to act like a 6 year old. Her court should feel embarrassed for what they did.
she was so mature. i really felt for her and watching the full version of the episodes, i understand where her pain is coming from. she did not deserve this
Right. Not good to have this mindset as someone is approaching adulthood, people will do the worst things to her, and she will be accepting all kinds of horrible behaviors, and making excuses for them.
the mother seems more immature than her own 15-years old daughter. She's calling her "perfectionist" when her friends literally ruined her makeup and her hair just for fun? I'm annoyed by their friends mostly but her mother too.
The fact that he had the audacity to throw cake at her face and think that it was funny makes me pissed. I personally would have not only kicked them out of my party but I would have beat the crap out of him and kicked him out of my life. Again, that’s what I would personally do if I had a party.
Yup!! Seasons beatings at the quince because that was totally uncalled for and rude AF. It broke my heart to see her so hurt and she didn’t deserve that. She’s extremely mature and at that age, I find it very impressive. I would’ve been proud to act as her petty proxy that night and kicked their asses.
that girl is a much better person than I am. those boys and girls that smeared cake all over her would've been not only kicked out immediately but also probably somewhat physically injured and excommunicated as friends forever if I was Bayle
“why are you cryingg?” she just spent hours and tons of money on her hair and her makeup for the most important day of her life and you’ve all pretty much ruined her night. that’s why she’s crying.
As a mother I would’ve been kicked them out from the start if I saw how immature they were. Would 1000% hire professional dancers than have my daughter be treated like that. As for those girls they would’ve been kicked out as well
It takes alot of courage and guts to forgive someone who nearly ruin your most important day of her Teenage life but the way she handled the situation shows how mature and broad-minded and down to earth person she is, setting up a good example to her friends and people around.
why didn’t they say anything to the 2 girls? like the boys just threw it on her and put it on her but they rubbed it in all over her face like it’s 1 thing to just throw it in one spot but rubbing it all over and then asking “why are you crying?” is on a whole different level i would’ve thrown hands and kicked them out
Let's just say whoever leads that idea. Gets the told, and whoever that agrees this immature braincells do whatever they feel like it because it's the boys that plan this act of "simple" pranking but it hurts the one that holds and host the quins. Get kicks out eventually but she's too kink let's say that.
they know full well how important a quinceañera is for a young woman, and to ruin it like that when she was being so mature and understanding, what horrible horrible little boys
Quinceañeras should be a big moment for a such young teenage girls! It’s their big day! Lots and lots of planning for not to be ruined! It doesn’t matter how dramatic she’s being! She’s already was frustrated but she made her point into teaching her friends right and wrong! They are grown! They knew exactly what they were doing and it crossed the line! Hopefully she will look back and focus only on the great memories
Personally I would not let that slide! All who participated would have been kicked out I would t care if they were a part of my court since they didn’t take that into consideration when planning that!!
Bruh the mom tho, calling her daughter “Perfectionist” and excusing L.J behavior as “not putting up for being yelled at in front of his friends” is just crazy. That’s what happens when you allow your culture to worship one gender over the other, making them feel so special there’s nothing that could stop them, not even themselves. And when shit goes down, “boys will be boys” or “girls just wanna have fun” is the words used as defense.
yeah this is so disgusting, he's even self aware enough to even say "we're teenage boys" as an excuse cause that's what his parents probably say all the time
Exactly, cultures excusing bad behaviour from a certain gender is a huge problem. My brother cusses 24/7 in front my younger brothers and in front of my parents, but when I accidentally slip up one bad word from idk stabbing my foot against a corner, I get heavily punished. My parents excuse is “girls cussing isn’t pretty”. Oh that makes my blood boil.
Yeah, imagine being called a 'perfectionist' and a drama queen for putting boundaries. Also, the boys were causing way more drama but somehow, it's Bayle’s fault for calling them out?
Perfectionist or not, that IS NOT the time! It’s not a birthday party at home. Those kids are not just “kids” they are immature and shouldn’t be allowed to stay. Those are the friends that will hide your body if you have an accident!
What a gorgeous girl, inside and out. So we’ll spoken and so is her sister! They have so much patience and love in their hearts. Truly beautiful to see
The fact that her mom ain’t kick them out is awful. She gaslights herself as a result claiming “they’re teenagers” smh they should’ve been booted out immediately
I dont think the ending is what actually happened. They make it seem like everything was fine after but her makeup & hair in the last scenes look the exact same as they did before the cake smear. I wanna bet they just used scenes from after the fight for after the cake smear. Pobresita🤍 She communicated properly & still got the bad stick of the bunch
The fact that she gave them chances is honestly just so surprising. She is one of the most forgiving and patient people I have ever met, because if that was me, I would kick them out the first time, bc I don’t deal with that type of people.
Yass to the one girl in her court that said the right things after they had a meeting about what they did. And awesome of her to bounce back amd handle it with such grace
The way the 2 girls literally looked so confused as if they did nothing wrong when she was walking away you literally rubbed cake on her face in the middle of her party and not just any party her quince..
"Bailey and her attitude" "why are you crying" this girl shouldn't have let them stay honestly she has such a kind soul for letting them stay because ain't not way I would have let them stay after embarrassing me at my party and I feel like sometimes courts forget that this isn't about them but about the birthday girl like you are the not the main character tonight behave.
That’s super disrespectful, on someone’s special day, especially with the amount of work and time it takes. Her saying she felt beautiful then ruining her makeup. I’d understand if you placed cake on a place where it really wouldn’t matter or affect anything, but deliberately rubbing the cake all over her face. That’s just a no. If that happens to me, and they were all up in my face asking why I was crying, I would literally shove them and tell them to get out of my face. I’m an extremely patient person but that would push my buttons.
Being a teenager doesn't excuse what they did at all. They didn't deserve to be forgiven, call it hormones or whatever but I hope she just forgave them but never talked or trusted them again afterwards. She's so mature and I hope she still had a happy time despite what they did.
I was actually stunned when the girl asked why she was crying. Why do you think she’d do a full face of makeup and be ok with you throwing cake in her face? 😕
Yes, she is a “PERFECTIONIST” because it is important for her, and just knowing that, no one should ever even try to do something like this. They’re teenagers but this is her party, no one should have done that, and she’s behaving really well.
Those 2 girls knew exactly what they were doing! Such jealous girls she looked absolutely beautiful and they couldn’t stand not being the centre of attention!!
OMG! Bayle was so nice to them when she asked them to stop fighting and then they act like that. Those boys are going to end up in jail. If they can treat a friend like that imagine how they treat others. They would get a massive ass whopping from me if I was their parent. They should be ashamed of themselves. Poor Bayle, this sort of thing could totally destroy a young woman’s self esteem. And btw, she literally has no attitude for a teenage girl.
Wow, she was so respectful. That is a huge moment in their culture and it means a lot and to do that to her is awful. Perfectionist? That’s stupid. She just wanted to have a good day, it was HER DAY!
tbh i can understand why her mom said perfectionist because my mom said i was trying to be a perfectionist on my quince but saying this girl being a perfectionist AFTER getting cake in her face with like $300-$400 makeup?? b so fr rn 😭
NOBODY GETS A DAY!!!! SHE'S SELFISH FOR WANTING A DAY ALL TO HERSELF. SOME PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD GET NOTHINGGGGGGGGG!!!! SHE GETS A WHOLE PRINCESS TREATMENT FOR WHAT!!!??? NOTHINNGGGGGGG!!!!!! JUST BEING BORN. My female friend once told me that girls aren't born with value and have to earn it. Bull shit.
That LJ kid is annoying. Also I love when she said “I don’t have high expectations I have pretty standard expectations.” This girl is a mature cookie. All the people around her failed her
In my experience I think that fighting someone who is in the court is one thing but... DOING SOMETHING THAT TRAGIC AND TOXIC IS WAY TOO FAR. And that is not what friends do to each other.
The fact that she had to tell them this instead of their parents is just crazy and insane You could tell she would be a good mom if she ever has kids..
This girl is so mature and gracious. Ya'll that's no princess. She carried herself like queen!. Also the boys aren't the only ones at fault. There were plenty of girls who also smashed cake in her face too. Smh
How as a parent do you not defend your child and throw those kids out immediately and contact their parents about what they did? I’d probably even press charges against them bc no one is gonne get away with messing with my child.
I saw the clip and was mad for her but now that I see it in its entirety and how classy she kept it, she doesn't deserve people like this around her, sis is super mature and I'm proud of her for controlling herself and being the bigger person. She didn't curse them out she was super understanding and kind to them even tho they ruined her mood. She has a great head on her shoulders mom n dad are raising her right . This young woman is going places its very rare you see a young lady In this situation totally not flip out n end the party cuz her moment was taken away. She looks beautiful and I'm glad she didn't let them ruin her night . Happy birthday 🎂
I don't understand how the mother could be as calm as she was.. Her daughter's friends gang beat up another guy in a room, her daughter had cake smashed in her face then had the nerve to call her own daughter a "perfectionist" while she's bawling. If that happened to my daughter you know I'm gonna call the cops in case it escalates and kick them out right then and there. I would be protecting my daughter.
This is not just her typical birthday party.. THIS WAS HER QUINCEAÑERA FOR GODSAKE! I feel really terrible and those so called friends of hers should’ve never done that! This party is this one important part of a girl’s life that will happen once and never again and they spoiled Bayle’s special moment.
I love how Mature Bayle kept it during this whole thing 🥹❤️ Such a strong and beautiful person, Her friends really need to realize she is the friend they need to keep for a lifetime, and actually treat her as she is such a beautiful person at heart 🥺❤️
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If that was my child I would tell leave the f*** my daughter's party
The fact she forgive them and let them “stay” afterwards show how mature she is compare to the rest of her court , I would of been so mad at them and would had kicked them since the beginning !
honestly i agree, she truly is very mature and i would've kicked them out too
Yes because I definitely woulda dragged some bitches
I would have kicked them out too.
I don't care if people call me dramatic if I cause a scene. There would definitely be a fight. Most likely I wouldn't even talk to those guys at least for two years. A quince is an important moment in your life and it shouldn't be ruined by immature boys. Period!
Definitely. Even the adults in this video annoy me so much, they're acting like she's being over dramatic
Same
Literally this girl is being painted as a control freak when she is been the most levelheaded responsible person in that whole damn building. She was very mature and very calm when explaining to them that they don’t behave like animals in public. She was too nice. Ensure she is going to be a little bit of a perfectionist because it is her Quinceañera. You only get one and they ruined it.
Fr like, if I’m gonna spend hella money on my quince I’m gonna want it to be the way I want it.
I agree. What they did wasn’t nice at all. I’m surprised she let it slide.
Agreed...despite being repiramended they were least bothered and made it worse..some friends" they are.. wish the adults could give them left and right but no...would like to see their faces when table turns one day..🤦♀
Once understandable but twice?
It was Quinceañera that she dreamt of put together time effort, money along with many people..I don't know much but isn't it celebrated once for coming of age or something?
@@cadeestilllost3187 what do you want her to do? Slap them 😆 obviously she forgive the boys bc those are her friends and she chose them. So wdym let it slide? How is she supposed to react she was very mature and clam that's how it should be. You shouldn't yell why? Bc it's her friends they didn't have to come to her party but they did.
Yeah they are jerks for doing that. I didn't get one or a sweet sixteen. So missed 2 important parties.
Honestly, everybody failed her. The way she was treated was not okay and the way they downplayed her feelings, it’s so heartbroken. She’s such a better than me, I would lose it. Everything about this was so wrong and she deserved better.
they fr gaslit her.
Nah.. She just met the wrong environment with a lot of stupid people. Teenagers are not an excuses. 10 years old human already can processed what is right and wrong. And they basically already know the basic about manners and attitude.
@@shezieblack9086 so this is you agreeing?
@@sandraestrada3295 agreeing of what?
@@sandraestrada3295 LOL
When the Birthday Girl is the ONLY one who's not immature or bratty. She was the most level headed and had so much emotional intelligence! Props to her 👏 If it were my daughter's party, i would've been nice enough to call a taxi for those Children who ruined it.
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Tolerating the way she was treated by her so-called "friends" is not emotional intelligence. It's being conditioned to accept abuse. Your way of handling it, if it were your daughter, is FAR more emotionally intelligent. You'd give your daughter a place to feel like someone cared about her safety.
She's so mature and a total boss at 15 years old. At 50 years old I wouldn't have been so calm as she was. Everyone of them would have been escorted out
I agree!! Beautiful young lady. Did not deserve that!!!!!
Definitely! Those involved would not have enjoyed NOTHING at the end of the day.
MATURE??? She cried because a boy got in a small fight in the bathroom (probably playful) and then freaked out because someone put cake on her cheek. And that was probably staged. That's not mature. That's being a spoiled little immature princess. If she was mature she'd know how to have fun with her friends, not cry and ruin her own party for attention.
@@immaduck9232 they legit rubbed cake all over her face, and in her hair, the makeup and hairdo people PAY FOR before a birthday/wedding, that takes HOURS was completely ruined infront of all of the people at her wedding and i would be hella embarassed too. i say this as a man, that shit was not okay, i mean sure if it was a little on her cheek or both cheeks thats fine but she was practically wearing her own birthday cake
@@teefyzz I rewatched that part starting at 3:20. At first, the boy just threw some on her cheek. The GIRL came and rubbed it all over which was bizarr. Idk man, it all looks staged and bizarre. Reality TV is stupid. Idk how I got here. But I see your point.
They're teenagers, not five-year olds. The fact that she didn't lose her cool and forgave them, shows how mature she is.
No shows how stupid she is. Should have told em to leave as soon as they disrespected her, like nah they didn't deserve to be there
I would still lose my cool even if they said sorry bc I would know if they were fake or real.
she defff did lose her cool 😂
@Jayla H she didn't. She just cried because she spent tons of money for her quince and her "friends" did her wrong. How's that losing her cool? How would you react?
@@C4LLB4CK_P1ÑG I’d lose my cool even if I was 5 💀
“She’s a perfectionist” that fact that these ppl are downplaying what these immature ass boys are doing and the two pick me’s, would’ve kicked them out on sight if that was my daughter fr.
I’m almost 100% sure the mom didn’t mean that in a bad way I think y’all just took that and then created a false narrative to make a point, And it came down to it being her decision if she wanted them to go or not, and she wanted them to stay because that’s how mature she is UNLIKE the others, but you have a point with the “pick me” bitches were being shady asf then they wanna ask “why are you crying” bitch you know why she crying. 🤣 and the lady in the pink suit justifying what they did is just corny.
My thoughts exactly ...
She’s the mother
@@ntorres6710 thats even worse
Imagine turning a normal regular degular ass b-day prank into something its not😂😂 couldn’t be me
the fact after the boys threw cake in her face and then the two girls rubbing it on her face and laughing with the boys and THEN HAVING THE AUDACITY to then ask " why are you crying?? "
just shows how they were upset they were that the attention is on a person that isn't them for once 😭
Uneducated immature behavior has no excuses, for ignorance.
They should have been taught respect and etiquette long ago
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Facts smh the jealousy was next level
Yep, I saw that too. Yeah, the boy threw it first in her face, but it was those other girls who were smearing it and laughing. They knew what they were doing and they were enjoying the fact they were ruining HER moment. In my eyes they're nothing but bullies/fake friends. If it's not about them, they use those passive aggressive insults to downplay a friends happiness.
They should've been kicked out and unfriended.
It’s one thing for the boys to put cake in her face but for the two girls in white to do it as well it was very shady. those girls knew exactly what they were doing and then had the nerve to ask her why is she crying
They rubb it more too
Fr if I was the Quinceañera I would’ve told security to kick them out if there was no security then I would’ve kicked them out myself 😅
@Rosario Reyes wait do people actually have securitys?
@@galaxy3971 yup most places come with security Im having my quince and I’m having security outside the hall or hall room whatever it’s called
@Rosario Reyes oh had no idea cause i dont remember ever been to one with security the only securitys are the adults lool
Using “we’re teenage boys” as an excuse repeatedly is immature on another level…
Exactly 💀 Like, you're right! You're teenage boys.. So act like it, not a 6 year old 😂
@@novadragon6559 fr
@NovaDragon655 fr and it's honestly embarrassing 💀
That comment really got on my nerves you can’t just do what you want and then used that line and think your going to get away with it ya your teens not toddlers
They tried to ruin her day it’s a gross way of thinking
It's giving very much boys will be boys. I hate that saying
i feel so horrible for her. this was her big moment and people she thought she could trust ruined it. poor baby :( but props to her for being mature!
Her own fault for trusting a guy who wear eyewear like that. Bro’s walking red flag.
@@AlexS-oj8qf what?
@@AlexS-oj8qf he’s 15 what you expect 😂😂
@@criminallyautistic8372 eye WEAR not eye LINER
@@czarinajohnson6074 Isn't that eyeliner?
The way she’s able to articulate herself so calmly, she’s gonna be one force of a woman ✊🏻
not really... because she drove then to rebel against her in the first place...
Hopefully people like you aren’t seeing this as a way of empowering
I cannot believe the adults in this situation! Her own mom calling her a “perfectionist” for not wanting to be embarrassed and have her hair and makeup ruined? She handled all of that so well, I would’ve been so angry at not just the kids but the adults as well!
Oh that was her mother? I thought the woman talking to the group at the end was her mom...hmmm. If that be the case, looks like her mom is part of the society "people pleasing crew."
I find think they called her a perfectionist because of the cake and I believe it was meant as an insult.
Her mom calling her a perfectionist was not to be degrading she was stating a fact.
her mother is also probably the one to pay for all of this? including the makeup?
Especially her mom saying “she kinda deserved it” not okay it’s like her mom supports her being treated like that
The woman who called her a perfectionist and drama queen should not be there. That was her day ! She felt beautiful and enjoyed herself until her friends RUINED it. I would be mad as hell and never speak to any of them again if they ruined one of the most important days of my life. She’ll remember this day
that’s her mother 💀💀
@@mangoesare no
@@maliaafamby the person who called her a perfectionist is her mother.
@@mangoesare IS IT IS IT REALLY💀
@@maliaafamby yes? 💀
Those people do not deserve her presence. She's a shining star, far out of everyone's league there. They shouldn't even be lucky enough to know her now.
And why would they wait on such a special occasion to do stupid crap like this?? Pathetic… I wonder what they’ll do at their Weddings if they ever get a girlfriend/wife
That’s a little much. She is not perfect. They are all kids and kids act stupid. She is not a shining star and just oh so much better than all of the others. Good gracious
@@owlsry4093 I’m sorry but the “good gracious” was just so funny to me for some reason
@@owlsry4093 And what was this, her sweet sixteen? All I did for my sweet sixteen was go to an arcade with a few friends 💀
@@owlsry4093 Kids who will be adults soon, with no excuse for that kind of behaviour. She definitely is out of their league if you look at what they did, and how she handled it. My kids are actual kids and know that type of treatment to anyone is just not right at all. The ones in this video are nasty kids and hopefully don't turn into adults who act like that - Since even that is too common.
I admire the way she articulated herself while she was upset, and stayed true to who she is. I am older than she is but really see so much potential in her to be so successful in life with her communication skills. Not everyone has that naturally. I wish her the best in her future and I hope this incident brings more blessings to her❤
The fact that her daughter was assaulted and dealing with this nonsense on her own and all she has to say is 'kids will be kids' just shows how awful she is as a mother.
well they are kids and that’s not an awful mother just a little careless
I wouldn’t say she awful, far from it. Just careless in that moment
@@jester_wrrks ikr like
That’s why the girl is so mature, someone had to be responsible in that house and obviously it’s not the mother.
Kids will be kids, but they're not kids they're teenagers and I'm willing to bet that they are fully aware to not do that on such a big day like a Quinceañera. They didn't do it to be funny, they knew exactly what they were doing. They were doing it to be disrespectful to her.
“I wanna go home” almost made me cry, no one should feel like they wanna go home on their special day
@@weiluo8268if u need that much money put into makeup u not pretty
True
She handled that fight like an adult and shows a lot
He’s like “ we’re teenage boys were supposed to have fun like that! 🙄” YOU RUINED YOUR BEST FRIENDS WEDDING! 😅
It's a quinceanera and not a wedding
its not a wedding
@@yuvraajbhaskar1675 that's what I wrote...genius🙄
@@diegomaradona1236 he was replying to the same comment you did, calm down lmao
@@ReginaGordillo than why did it show me, that he answered on my comment?
OMG her speech in the beginning to the boys was mature and level headed. I couldn't believe I was listening to a 15 year old girl
@weiluo8268 definitely, her mom should have handled it or, better, their parents. I would be so embarrassed if my child did something like that at someone's party, let alone a milestone like that.
The lady at 4:04 justifying what that immature boy did is so cringe. No girl should be put through that, specially on her Quinces. She needs to cut off a lot of people from her circle of friends. Bayle's super nice, would've done that to me, I would've kicked them out.
@J26 toxic as mother. Probably jealous of her own daughter too. I have a feeling she gonna ruin her wedding too
@J26 yea
You can tell Bayle is going to be a BOSS BABE when she’s older, the way she handled the situation with so much maturity and patience at her age, I could never 🥹🤍✨
Hopefully not a 'boss babe'. That's associated with MLM's aka pyramid schemes.
@@KarasuJiru 😂😂😂😂
Yes,leaders are born to lead and she got that quality
I dreamed with having my quinceanera since I was a little girl, but in the end, I chose to not have one and my dad gave me the money that he would have spent throwing a party that lasts only one night, and told me to do whatever I wanted to do with that money. It lasted me a long time, and I ended up having a much better and happier year than if I would have had a large party. Jealousy, revenge, and stupidity are very ugly and rampant among that poor girl's "friends." She'd be better off without them.
SW??
This girl was disrespected and misunderstood so deeply.
She deserves another chance to have a the Quince she dreamed of
Her level of maturity says a lot of about her. Bless her.
As an adult, I watched this video and was appalled that the adults in charge didnt automatically turf the boys AND the 2 girls out after the cake incident. The fact that they were making excuses for THE BOYS rather than supporting Bayle is what will stick with me. I'd also make sure each of the perps parents were made aware of what they did. That's one of the big problems nowadays (not just with teens); there is so little accountability that folks are feeling entitled to do whatever they feel like.
If I was there, hands would have been FLYING. Those brats would learned some goddamn respect and been out on their ears. Seriously, with how many were smashing that on her, they could have broken her nose!!
Exactly my thinking .. the adults should have stepped up and dealt with those immature idiots ... who does that at a party you're invited to?!!... she was amazingly patient and mature, and she protected another youngster too, which was so commendable .. someone said they didn't have to come to her party .. like she should be grateful... I mean WHAT?!... it was probably the ringleader himself said that .. spoiled brat .. 🙄
The right thing would have been to kick them out. Not have the birthday girl to just act like nothing happened.
I felt exactly the same way!! They're excusing their bad behaviour instead of supporting her in HER DAY... I can't imagine how her day to day is...
Your right, they basically told the ones that did it , it was ok, forget about it and go have fun. Twice they were told that. No consequences, no lesson learned.
She is not a perfectionist. People forget that this isn’t just another party, it’s a coming of age ceremony and a beautiful moment most of us dream of since we’re kids, and honestly? She is way more mature than she’s given credit for. As someone who’s court failed me, nothing hurts more than choosing some of the most important people in your life to celebrate and entrust responsibility on to and watching them fail you. I really hope she’s surrounded by all the love in the world now.
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@sunny9439 coming of age ceremony 😮 I'm a photographer I literally cover several events like this .. and never seen something like this before .. unacceptable...however nowadays trendings are went far more worse levels ..
@@vithoshanvwait huh?
Wow. If this happened to me, I would walk out of there and never speak to those responsible for ruining my day. EVER. The level of self-control she shows for a 15-year-old is amazing.
The disrespect from those boys and those girls is next level 💀
Right…
If I was Bayles mom I would air that bitch out! Nobody gonna disrespect my baby on her day!
Ngl I would’ve kicked they ass out.
@@vex5000 right
Agreed
Let’s normalize NOT shoving cake in someone’s face during their birthday party
Fr
Yes. Seriously. Nobody that gets cake shoved in their face during an event wanted that to happen. I would've kicked those kids out.
Fr
not even just a birthday party, a whole cultural coming of age event too
It's supposed to be a fun thing but you have to be cautious of the person, time, and place. Not every person would be cool with it and it's not so cool to be doing something like this during such a momentous occasion.
She may have been bossy or perfectionist, whatever y’all want to say or think about her but on that day it is valid to be like that. It’s her special day and she just wants it to be a day she can enjoy and remember later in life. Lots of money and time was put in to be able to giver what many don’t get to have and sadly her court was awful. Her court was selfish,rude and disrespectful. Just because you are a teenage doesn’t mean you have to act like a 6 year old. Her court should feel embarrassed for what they did.
Same, my first reflex after that would just be to punch them.
Women being labeled as “bossy” and “perfectionist” is because people can’t handle when a woman has expectations and they know what they want🤷🏻♀️
@@509wildflower lol exactly
1:14 I don’t give a darn who you r using your age to get less of a punishment for foolish behavior is stupid
she was so mature. i really felt for her and watching the full version of the episodes, i understand where her pain is coming from. she did not deserve this
At all! It was a lot...
hiiiiii ❤
“ she’s going to forgive her friends “ of that was me I wouldn’t count them as anything in my life anymore
Exactly i will cuts them out
Same tbh
Let's hope that guy isn't invited to the wedding 😬
Me too
Right. Not good to have this mindset as someone is approaching adulthood, people will do the worst things to her, and she will be accepting all kinds of horrible behaviors, and making excuses for them.
Everyone was downplaying how awful the court was. Blaming Bailey for her reaction is an asshole maneuver
the mother seems more immature than her own 15-years old daughter. She's calling her "perfectionist" when her friends literally ruined her makeup and her hair just for fun? I'm annoyed by their friends mostly but her mother too.
The fact that he had the audacity to throw cake at her face and think that it was funny makes me pissed. I personally would have not only kicked them out of my party but I would have beat the crap out of him and kicked him out of my life. Again, that’s what I would personally do if I had a party.
nah same 😕
yesss like her mom didn't even scream at those little shits
@@amandatoon1868 Bro THATS what I’m saying! Online high five ✋
Yup!! Seasons beatings at the quince because that was totally uncalled for and rude AF. It broke my heart to see her so hurt and she didn’t deserve that. She’s extremely mature and at that age, I find it very impressive. I would’ve been proud to act as her petty proxy that night and kicked their asses.
that girl is a much better person than I am. those boys and girls that smeared cake all over her would've been not only kicked out immediately but also probably somewhat physically injured and excommunicated as friends forever if I was Bayle
Good
Would have done the same thing too like you 😂
Same. I am nowhere near as tolerant as this girl. If it was my quince someone would be on the floor getting dragged. Props to her
they mad because she’s so grown. i love herrr
“why are you cryingg?” she just spent hours and tons of money on her hair and her makeup for the most important day of her life and you’ve all pretty much ruined her night. that’s why she’s crying.
As a mother I would’ve been kicked them out from the start if I saw how immature they were. Would 1000% hire professional dancers than have my daughter be treated like that. As for those girls they would’ve been kicked out as well
You could tell the dad wanted to throw down lol
the 2 girls in the white dress are giving me “pick me” energy
but they aren’t ?
@@dorothyleon4207 they are 😂😂 just say ur one of them
no? quinceañeras are a big thing and they were being disrespectful
LITERALLY
No fr cuz after spending that money on getting ur makeup done and let alone it being ur big day, that’s messed up, they rubbed it all over her face
she really does sound like a mother, she is definetly the mom friend, and the way she handled that so well.
IKRRR
I would love to be friends with her she's got that standing ground energy
I'm about to cry over a video because I know how special this moment would be. I never got that and it just hurts
It takes alot of courage and guts to forgive someone who nearly ruin your most important day of her Teenage life but the way she handled the situation shows how mature and broad-minded and down to earth person she is, setting up a good example to her friends and people around.
She needs to drop the pick me girls
Plus they rubb it more
why didn’t they say anything to the 2 girls? like the boys just threw it on her and put it on her but they rubbed it in all over her face like it’s 1 thing to just throw it in one spot but rubbing it all over and then asking “why are you crying?” is on a whole different level i would’ve thrown hands and kicked them out
they did off camera, the rest of the series is gone for some reason??
Let's just say whoever leads that idea. Gets the told, and whoever that agrees this immature braincells do whatever they feel like it because it's the boys that plan this act of "simple" pranking but it hurts the one that holds and host the quins. Get kicks out eventually but she's too kink let's say that.
they know full well how important a quinceañera is for a young woman, and to ruin it like that when she was being so mature and understanding, what horrible horrible little boys
She’s was so mature about everything I’m surprised she handled that so well. She definitely deserves that party to the fullest
Quinceañeras should be a big moment for a such young teenage girls! It’s their big day! Lots and lots of planning for not to be ruined! It doesn’t matter how dramatic she’s being! She’s already was frustrated but she made her point into teaching her friends right and wrong! They are grown! They knew exactly what they were doing and it crossed the line! Hopefully she will look back and focus only on the great memories
if someone would’ve put cake all over me on my quince day I would’ve kicked them out and never talk to them again
Thank you I said the same comment !💯
Frr and I’ll wait for there quince and put some cake on there faces and dress and hair like that’s messed up to do that on her quince 😕
“Why are you crying” SHE CANNOT BE FR OML 💀
Idk what they were thinking but she 100% had every right to be mad
Personally I would not let that slide! All who participated would have been kicked out I would t care if they were a part of my court since they didn’t take that into consideration when planning that!!
Bruh the mom tho, calling her daughter “Perfectionist” and excusing L.J behavior as “not putting up for being yelled at in front of his friends” is just crazy. That’s what happens when you allow your culture to worship one gender over the other, making them feel so special there’s nothing that could stop them, not even themselves. And when shit goes down, “boys will be boys” or “girls just wanna have fun” is the words used as defense.
yeah this is so disgusting, he's even self aware enough to even say "we're teenage boys" as an excuse cause that's what his parents probably say all the time
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Exactly, cultures excusing bad behaviour from a certain gender is a huge problem. My brother cusses 24/7 in front my younger brothers and in front of my parents, but when I accidentally slip up one bad word from idk stabbing my foot against a corner, I get heavily punished. My parents excuse is “girls cussing isn’t pretty”. Oh that makes my blood boil.
Yeah, imagine being called a 'perfectionist' and a drama queen for putting boundaries. Also, the boys were causing way more drama but somehow, it's Bayle’s fault for calling them out?
That wasn’t the mom
the way her family blames her by saying she is a perfectionist and that she had "attitude" for calling out bullying....these people are the worst
Perfectionist or not, that IS NOT the time! It’s not a birthday party at home. Those kids are not just “kids” they are immature and shouldn’t be allowed to stay. Those are the friends that will hide your body if you have an accident!
FR!!!
What a gorgeous girl, inside and out. So we’ll spoken and so is her sister! They have so much patience and love in their hearts. Truly beautiful to see
The fact that her mom ain’t kick them out is awful. She gaslights herself as a result claiming “they’re teenagers” smh they should’ve been booted out immediately
Bayle is so mature. She is amazing. I hope she does well.
She has a big heart for letting them stay. Me personally I would’ve kicked them out but, yeah.
I dont think the ending is what actually happened. They make it seem like everything was fine after but her makeup & hair in the last scenes look the exact same as they did before the cake smear. I wanna bet they just used scenes from after the fight for after the cake smear. Pobresita🤍 She communicated properly & still got the bad stick of the bunch
Same
The fact that she gave them chances is honestly just so surprising. She is one of the most forgiving and patient people I have ever met, because if that was me, I would kick them out the first time, bc I don’t deal with that type of people.
😂😂😂😂😂
She’s so articulate and mature and then they have the audacity to say she’s being controlling lmao
Her mom is wild. Actions need to have consequences, let's not let it all blow over.
Yass to the one girl in her court that said the right things after they had a meeting about what they did. And awesome of her to bounce back amd handle it with such grace
She is so mature and handled that chaos like a champ. ❤
The way the 2 girls literally looked so confused as if they did nothing wrong when she was walking away you literally rubbed cake on her face in the middle of her party and not just any party her quince..
It’s the way the girls participated in doing that
If they do this in front of cameras it makes me wonder how they act when no one else is around. This is beyond messed up.
“I wanna go home” that’s how you know you made someone’s day horrible those guys are monsters
right!! I hope they got a punishment bc this is not ok
The way that she acted during all of this is so awesome she controlled herself while they were being immature.
"Why are you crying?" I DONT KNOW YOU TELL ME WHY SHE'S UPSET HER FRIENDS SMOTHERED HER FACE WITH WHIPPED CREAM!
"Bailey and her attitude" "why are you crying" this girl shouldn't have let them stay honestly she has such a kind soul for letting them stay because ain't not way I would have let them stay after embarrassing me at my party and I feel like sometimes courts forget that this isn't about them but about the birthday girl like you are the not the main character tonight behave.
That’s super disrespectful, on someone’s special day, especially with the amount of work and time it takes. Her saying she felt beautiful then ruining her makeup. I’d understand if you placed cake on a place where it really wouldn’t matter or affect anything, but deliberately rubbing the cake all over her face. That’s just a no. If that happens to me, and they were all up in my face asking why I was crying, I would literally shove them and tell them to get out of my face. I’m an extremely patient person but that would push my buttons.
Being a teenager doesn't excuse what they did at all. They didn't deserve to be forgiven, call it hormones or whatever but I hope she just forgave them but never talked or trusted them again afterwards. She's so mature and I hope she still had a happy time despite what they did.
I was actually stunned when the girl asked why she was crying. Why do you think she’d do a full face of makeup and be ok with you throwing cake in her face? 😕
“She gives us a private room” ITS A BATHROOM
Yes, she is a “PERFECTIONIST” because it is important for her, and just knowing that, no one should ever even try to do something like this. They’re teenagers but this is her party, no one should have done that, and she’s behaving really well.
When she said “I wanna go home” that was just messed up what they did to her on her day and right before that she said she felt really pretty
Those 2 girls knew exactly what they were doing! Such jealous girls she looked absolutely beautiful and they couldn’t stand not being the centre of attention!!
So people are calling her a perfectionist, and from my point of view, she really just wanted them to be responsible for their actions.
OMG! Bayle was so nice to them when she asked them to stop fighting and then they act like that. Those boys are going to end up in jail. If they can treat a friend like that imagine how they treat others. They would get a massive ass whopping from me if I was their parent. They should be ashamed of themselves. Poor Bayle, this sort of thing could totally destroy a young woman’s self esteem. And btw, she literally has no attitude for a teenage girl.
Wow, she was so respectful. That is a huge moment in their culture and it means a lot and to do that to her is awful.
Perfectionist? That’s stupid. She just wanted to have a good day, it was HER DAY!
tbh i can understand why her mom said perfectionist because my mom said i was trying to be a perfectionist on my quince but saying this girl being a perfectionist AFTER getting cake in her face with like $300-$400 makeup?? b so fr rn 😭
NOBODY GETS A DAY!!!! SHE'S SELFISH FOR WANTING A DAY ALL TO HERSELF. SOME PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD GET NOTHINGGGGGGGGG!!!! SHE GETS A WHOLE PRINCESS TREATMENT FOR WHAT!!!??? NOTHINNGGGGGGG!!!!!! JUST BEING BORN. My female friend once told me that girls aren't born with value and have to earn it. Bull shit.
@@immaduck9232 you are definitely a duck.
@@immaduck9232 you're just jealous because you live in a pond with no money it was her day it's her special day
@@NM-oh7zx how dare you..
That LJ kid is annoying. Also I love when she said “I don’t have high expectations I have pretty standard expectations.” This girl is a mature cookie. All the people around her failed her
In my experience I think that fighting someone who is in the court is one thing but...
DOING SOMETHING THAT TRAGIC AND TOXIC IS WAY TOO FAR. And that is not what friends do to each other.
The fact that she had to tell them this instead of their parents is just crazy and insane
You could tell she would be a good mom if she ever has kids..
This girl is so mature and gracious. Ya'll that's no princess. She carried herself like queen!.
Also the boys aren't the only ones at fault. There were plenty of girls who also smashed cake in her face too. Smh
5:51 that one person”HAPPY BIRTHDAY BAYLE”
She told them so calmly shows how mature she is. If I was 15 I would've been so mad💀
bruh those girls didn’t need to spread the cake all over her face wasn’t necessary at all, that just made everything worse.
Those are snakes. They rubbed on her. Hugged her and kissed like Judas did to Jesus.
@@H81234
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How as a parent do you not defend your child and throw those kids out immediately and contact their parents about what they did? I’d probably even press charges against them bc no one is gonne get away with messing with my child.
For all it's worth Bayle sounds so mature. She called out the boys in a sensible way, even giving credit to where it is due. And even let them stay.
I saw the clip and was mad for her but now that I see it in its entirety and how classy she kept it, she doesn't deserve people like this around her, sis is super mature and I'm proud of her for controlling herself and being the bigger person. She didn't curse them out she was super understanding and kind to them even tho they ruined her mood. She has a great head on her shoulders mom n dad are raising her right . This young woman is going places its very rare you see a young lady In this situation totally not flip out n end the party cuz her moment was taken away. She looks beautiful and I'm glad she didn't let them ruin her night . Happy birthday 🎂
The fact that the 2 girls were making it worse is crazy I would not forgive my friends if they did that good job for her being mature handling that❤
That was borderline malicious
Those 2 are definitely pick me girls and i hope they get karma
Nah those boys aren’t friends
I would have ended that friendship
Right then and there
I don't understand how the mother could be as calm as she was..
Her daughter's friends gang beat up another guy in a room, her daughter had cake smashed in her face then had the nerve to call her own daughter a "perfectionist" while she's bawling.
If that happened to my daughter you know I'm gonna call the cops in case it escalates and kick them out right then and there. I would be protecting my daughter.
She’s so Mature and Kind! I bet she will be a great mom one day!!!
This is not just her typical birthday party.. THIS WAS HER QUINCEAÑERA FOR GODSAKE! I feel really terrible and those so called friends of hers should’ve never done that! This party is this one important part of a girl’s life that will happen once and never again and they spoiled Bayle’s special moment.
I love how Mature Bayle kept it during this whole thing 🥹❤️ Such a strong and beautiful person, Her friends really need to realize she is the friend they need to keep for a lifetime, and actually treat her as she is such a beautiful person at heart 🥺❤️