I'm 71 With No Retirement!

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  • @TheRamseyShow
    @TheRamseyShow  3 роки тому +289

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    • @gabriela4229
      @gabriela4229 3 роки тому +14

      Is the whole plan available in Spanish? I thinking on a gift.
      Thanks

    • @ytr8989
      @ytr8989 3 роки тому +8

      It’s great advice.

    • @jasona4853
      @jasona4853 3 роки тому +7

      Why is this a big deal?? She needs to chill!

    • @jasona4853
      @jasona4853 3 роки тому +3

      @@gabriela4229 Dude. Go get a vocabulary book

    • @williamerikburton
      @williamerikburton 3 роки тому +8

      Nothing is EVER Free In This Bab.. System Dave... You A Religious Man You Know This...😆

  • @rustymertz
    @rustymertz 2 роки тому +5255

    Money doesn’t buy happiness, but being broke sure causes stress.

    • @philc.9280
      @philc.9280 2 роки тому +108

      Money buys me peace of mind as a newly retired couple starting to finally break into a large nest egg of decades of savings and investments.

    • @JohnCritcher
      @JohnCritcher 2 роки тому +125

      It may not buy happiness, but I’m sure it takes the sting out of being miserable.

    • @beverlybalius9303
      @beverlybalius9303 2 роки тому +13

      Some people are used to it.

    • @merc340sr
      @merc340sr 2 роки тому +45

      Money can buy freedom I think...

    • @pauliexcluded1
      @pauliexcluded1 2 роки тому +58

      Money absolutely does buy happiness. That isn't to say you can't have money and be unhappy....but that is all up to your decisions. You have the money to buy happiness but have instead opted to spend it on something else.

  • @matth.9468
    @matth.9468 Рік тому +1754

    I admire the caller. It took courage for her to call, and I think she's going to get through this.

    • @tennesseetruckgirl8591
      @tennesseetruckgirl8591 11 місяців тому +42

      Yes, I pray she does. Bless her heart, still working hard at 70, when she should be enjoying her days and being with grand children.

    • @JimHerman-o3q
      @JimHerman-o3q 11 місяців тому +15

      Admire someone that 70 years old and no savings ??? Birds of a feather flock together ! Id a disgrace !

    • @tennesseetruckgirl8591
      @tennesseetruckgirl8591 11 місяців тому

      @@JimHerman-o3q
      May God give you peace and a heart of understanding hardship.

    • @kipincharge2833
      @kipincharge2833 11 місяців тому

      😅you people are insane ; life expectancy in the USA is now 76🙈🙉🙊🤣take a break good serfs😀

    • @toddsalkowski448
      @toddsalkowski448 11 місяців тому

      @@JimHerman-o3q There's a lot more people like her than you can imagine.

  • @googleuser4428
    @googleuser4428 3 роки тому +3452

    The "cleaning homes" at age 71 was heart breaking for me.

    • @jerrylansbury9558
      @jerrylansbury9558 2 роки тому +123

      She/ they chose to be in that position. No need to feel sorry for them !

    • @nicholegallo1090
      @nicholegallo1090 2 роки тому +497

      @@jerrylansbury9558 stop.

    • @jerrylansbury9558
      @jerrylansbury9558 2 роки тому +72

      @@nicholegallo1090 Its true......if a person chooses not to put away money...... " save " its their own fault !

    • @ImJidionDaddy
      @ImJidionDaddy 2 роки тому +264

      @@jerrylansbury9558 sometimes people have different circumstances than others

    • @jerrylansbury9558
      @jerrylansbury9558 2 роки тому +31

      @@ImJidionDaddy Exactly.....thats why you plan for the future.......save money !

  • @fjorge4014
    @fjorge4014 5 місяців тому +244

    About time Dave takes a call everyone can relate too, not people who make over $500k and talking about they are stress. Thank Dave: more calls like this please. Thanks

    • @louisenichols232
      @louisenichols232 Місяць тому +3

      True

    • @a.jennings4664
      @a.jennings4664 Місяць тому +1

      Sorry, but not a ..."a call everyone can relate too".

    • @TheTerrypcurtin
      @TheTerrypcurtin Місяць тому

      He's an idiot. A reverse mortgage fixes everything. Period

    • @annbow4064
      @annbow4064 Місяць тому +4

      I've often thought when he says things like it's hard to live on 60k and put $500 a month away or sometimes a week,what!!! that would be a dream for a lot of people.

    • @bubbajones4522
      @bubbajones4522 27 днів тому

      Never once have I seen Dave mention the root cause or explain the impact that the ever increasing inflation tax is having on each of us. Nor has he ever mentioned how much more money the average American would have in social security dividend payments if the government hadn't "borrowed" stolen over $2.7 trillion from our trust funds. It's all our fault and will be to the day we're all living in tents under a bridge.

  • @Eli-qr9hc
    @Eli-qr9hc Рік тому +1636

    It’s great to hear from a person that’s like us and not someone who clears 200k. Blessings to this caller

    • @adobedobedo409
      @adobedobedo409 Рік тому +19

      lmao, like us are you making 2k a month and 71 years old. So you're claiming to be irresponsible?

    • @Eli-qr9hc
      @Eli-qr9hc Рік тому +107

      @@adobedobedo409 you completely missed my point. I stated it was good to hear from someone who didn’t make $200,000 a year and was just an average person make an average pay. Maybe you’re one of those people making $200,000 a year.

    • @spankynater4242
      @spankynater4242 Рік тому +7

      She's not like me, I'm doing OK with my retirement accounts.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart Рік тому +52

      ​@@spankynater4242would you like a participation award?

    • @spankynater4242
      @spankynater4242 Рік тому +6

      @@kbanghart You're not qualified to give out participation awards. I would ask you to send me cash, but we all know you're poor.

  • @LtEdPell
    @LtEdPell 3 роки тому +6663

    Finally Dave took a call from someone worried about their retirement who didn't have a $95K pension, $750K in an IRA, $500K in savings and an spinster aunt who was about to will them 1.5 million and an estate. Made the old boy sit and think for a few. Welcome to the real world, Dave.

    • @TJones-gj2fi
      @TJones-gj2fi 2 роки тому +271

      🤣

    • @gerson-v-w5b
      @gerson-v-w5b 2 роки тому +234

      Well he helps people by teaching them how to use their resources. So for someone thats struggling financially and broke of course requires some thinking to be able to help them.

    • @Cyber_Guy2
      @Cyber_Guy2 2 роки тому +159

      This show has received calls before where the scenarios are really complicated. Not all calls Dave has received are easy to handle.

    • @rayb3000
      @rayb3000 2 роки тому +111

      The roadster is gone. I am god. I just made it disappear. I am Dave.

    • @JT3446
      @JT3446 2 роки тому +335

      If you don’t save a penny for 71 years it’s on you big facts

  • @rjii3264
    @rjii3264 3 роки тому +5278

    The biggest misconception that most young people have is that they won’t get old.

    • @liberator9248
      @liberator9248 3 роки тому +65

      Agree…I just talk to a 21 years old.soo yes I agree

    • @mel3165
      @mel3165 3 роки тому +187

      I'm turning 25 in a couple months and i'm beginning to see clear as day that youth is vanity!!!

    • @texan903
      @texan903 3 роки тому +159

      The problem is, most of us don't know if we will get old.

    • @xcen1
      @xcen1 3 роки тому +21

      @@mel3165 no youth is still good for doing things you can't do at age 71. You can go whitewater rafting when you're younger etc...

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 3 роки тому +10

      PREACH!
      That should be on a T-shirt.

  • @DorathyJoy
    @DorathyJoy 23 дні тому +2123

    My company paid a consultant to provide retirement classes when I was 24 and just started saving for retirement. The class was called "The Kids Table" and basically their advice was go with a target retirement fund that aligned with your 65th birthday. That was 20 years ago. It is the only thing I've ever invested in. How else can I grow my finance?

    • @ScottKindle-bk3hx
      @ScottKindle-bk3hx 23 дні тому +1

      target date funds made me a multimillionaire but i also watched them drop 40% in a very short time and take a long time to recover. my best suggestion is that you seek the guidance of a fiduciary to avoid mistakes

    • @RaymondKeen.
      @RaymondKeen. 23 дні тому +2

      Agreed, when it comes to retirement planning, following the steps of a well experienced advisor did the trick for me in barely 5 years, turned my $500k capital to 5 figure monthly dividends. If you want to keep it very safe, then Vanguard TDF may be for you.

    • @sharonwinson-m8g
      @sharonwinson-m8g 23 дні тому +2

      bravo! mind if I look up your advisor please? only invest in my 401k through my employer as of now, but enthused about investing for my eventual retirement

    • @RaymondKeen.
      @RaymondKeen. 23 дні тому +2

      There are definitely a few professionals who really know what they're doing. I've tried several over the years, but for the past five years, I've been working with Lisa Grace Myer, and her results have been nothing short of amazing.

    • @JacobsErick-u8r
      @JacobsErick-u8r 23 дні тому +1

      Thanks for sharing, I just looked her up on the web and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing. I will write her an e-mail shortly.

  • @paulchidester7795
    @paulchidester7795 11 місяців тому +1679

    He really didn’t have the advice that he usually has for others. This lady represents a segment that is huge part of our world. Bless her for calling.

    • @roadrunner9622
      @roadrunner9622 10 місяців тому +105

      Yep. There aren't many options for this couple. Yet they're still better off than many, many people in the U.S.

    • @LaughingblueSu
      @LaughingblueSu 9 місяців тому +53

      ​@roadrunner9622 I am in a similar situation.
      She has enough to pay off the house.
      They should be able to live off their combined social security checks.
      Then, any part time job can go to savings.

    • @carlosramirez1801
      @carlosramirez1801 9 місяців тому

      HEY, watch that , I cleaned toilets and honestly got paid for it. 😂 NOW seriously the reality for many of us oldsters is that those who while young were able to by into the American dreams of owning a house, cars, a family, eating out, partying expensive clothing; forgot to set aside some cash reserves and additional retirement plans for those same reasons their in now. - during those early years when we had the youth and vitality we never seriously took into consideration aging much less illness or life diminishing injuries or mental discapacity. In this skit I do agree that some of the suggestions were acceptable, but at their ages and limited knowledge of the real estate market, one suggestion would be to review their living status better - and possibly rent the house and live in the ground floor apartment rent free - if that were possible.. Review whatever else you own that s not being used and find Buyers for them. Or rent out the house and rent a small apartment. Because with the newfound large savings from the sale of the house, the couple might possibly continue to live according to how "it was then," and soon would end up broke and lose the co-op which is much more difficult to get rid of than the house. Also this couple is eligible for government assistance in the form of groceries assistance, electric companies give credits and lowered power bills. The first thing I would recommend is to gather ALL of their important personal papers, house title, Insurance, heating bills, electric bills, medical bills, BC, marriage certificate, ALL records: PHOTOGRAPH them, then go bright and early down to the nearest social services administration and ask for help - these fine knowledgeable employees will do what they can BUT most importantly, they are like a human "encyclopedia" - they will make many suggestions worth exploring. The most important steps are to go in search of help QUICKLY - not wait until you're caught between a rock and a hard place. Just sayin.' Be Blessed y'all 🙏 🙏 🙏

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 9 місяців тому +45

      ​@@LaughingblueSu They can live much, MUCH more comfortably on their social security in Mexico or Costa Rica, Peru or Argentina, Thailand or the Philippines.

    • @DeliverMeFromEvil-
      @DeliverMeFromEvil- 8 місяців тому +41

      She may not have control over the finances. He won't sell the roadster. Condo is not the answer as the hoa fees keep going up.

  • @lagarde2011
    @lagarde2011 Рік тому +934

    One of the best calls ever on this show. It's a wake-up call for people who aren't paying attention to their retirement planning. I wonder how this couple is doing now, almost two years later.

    • @joycemitchell2092
      @joycemitchell2092 Рік тому +18

      I am wondering the same thing 🤔

    • @gmjsomeone54
      @gmjsomeone54 Рік тому

      Hopefully dead. Unfortunately

    • @annettebrunner5993
      @annettebrunner5993 Рік тому +27

      These people are not broke.

    • @jamescalifornia2964
      @jamescalifornia2964 Рік тому +31

      Remember, they have over 200K equity in their home ... 🏡

    • @ethanprice5972
      @ethanprice5972 Рік тому +58

      @@jamescalifornia2964 But what exactly does that help? If they sell their home, in the current market, they'd be able to afford probably half the home they have now. Unless they want to go live in trailer, they have to keep that $200k asset.

  • @pattysanchez8234
    @pattysanchez8234 3 роки тому +3584

    My heart goes out to her and her husband. Nobody wants to be in this predicament. I just turned 25 and I’m paving the way for myself to be financially stable/responsible

    • @Heritagepostfarms
      @Heritagepostfarms 3 роки тому +167

      Why do you feel bad? They did it to themselves. Years and years of wasting money

    • @Helibeaver
      @Helibeaver 3 роки тому +112

      Don't feel bad for one minute. They live in a 250 grand house. Bad decisions got them here.....in Oklahoma

    • @thomashaas5965
      @thomashaas5965 3 роки тому +195

      Dude I work at a phone store for one of the most popular carriers. What convinced me that I needed to live a different way was seeing people in their 70s walk in to the store begging for an extension on paying their bill because they don't have it right now. My heart truly went out to them, it really did, but at that moment I realized that I want to make sure that I'm not having to do that same thing when I'M 70-something.

    • @peartfaldo
      @peartfaldo 3 роки тому +79

      @@thomashaas5965 Life goes fast people. You wake up one day and you're 70?????????? BTW. My phone bill is $14/month. Spectrum

    • @pattysanchez8234
      @pattysanchez8234 3 роки тому +21

      @@thomashaas5965 exactly! You get what I’m trying to say

  • @truckermil1717
    @truckermil1717 3 роки тому +1205

    Man this was a scary call just thinking that lady is cleaning homes in her 70s

    • @adelea414
      @adelea414 3 роки тому +45

      Yeah its really sad

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 3 роки тому +2

      @@adelea414
      Very.

    • @jamlane
      @jamlane 3 роки тому +49

      It makes you wonder how they got to this point. I'm sure it was a lot of bad decisions but they probably had some curve balls thrown at them too. That's life though.

    • @JorgeMartinez-ez1jl
      @JorgeMartinez-ez1jl 3 роки тому +37

      @@jamlane they mentioned health issues so yes, probably medical expenses. I wish them the best.

    • @MrFunkadeIic
      @MrFunkadeIic 3 роки тому +22

      @@jamlane I have heard older people at my job say that when they grew up, they didn't know much about 401Ks and Roth IRAs and all that stuff. They relied heavily on Social Security for retirement.
      That's why it is important to invest in all those options at a younger age, because Social Security is not a saving grace

  • @DoTheDomThing
    @DoTheDomThing 3 роки тому +2186

    This was hard to listen to. Everybody take notes.

    • @rethinkcps2116
      @rethinkcps2116 3 роки тому +12

      DR should suggest older callers reach out to their local elder experts. Often called agency for older adults or similar.
      They are free gov. or nonprofit entities with lists of reources. This couple could check out senior rental communities, with income-based pricing. Some have dedicated shuttle buses & recreation like card groups, cornhole etc.
      The downside: some have long wait lists. No time like now to check these out.

    • @NeyJ
      @NeyJ 3 роки тому +64

      Terrifying. Thats all I can say

    • @anniesshenanigans3815
      @anniesshenanigans3815 3 роки тому +9

      @@rethinkcps2116 most that are income based will not consider you if you have ANY cash from the sale of a home or savings in general. I imagine you could put it all in CD's or something, I do not know if they consider that.

    • @MercedesAshleyOnline
      @MercedesAshleyOnline 3 роки тому +16

      Taking notes..for sure

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 3 роки тому +14

      @@rethinkcps2116 Dave is against social programs (and higher taxes).

  • @DesignedByTaz
    @DesignedByTaz 3 роки тому +2599

    As someone that has parents in their 70’s and in the exact same situation minus the additional income, it takes a toll on your entire family. Do not let it get to this point! Sacrifice now while you can so you can relax when you’re older!!!

    • @jasonpetersen7986
      @jasonpetersen7986 3 роки тому +65

      Taylor: That is wonderful advice. I have family members in a similar situation.

    • @kellynorvell5714
      @kellynorvell5714 3 роки тому +28

      True words of wisdom 😇

    • @buildingwithtrees2258
      @buildingwithtrees2258 3 роки тому +84

      Same! Watching my parents, grandparents, and in laws be a prisoner to poor is an eye opener. Also watched my Uncle in law make good decisions and retire early and live a care free life. I choose to put 20% of my income into retirement.

    • @monicaculpepper3228
      @monicaculpepper3228 3 роки тому +20

      Completely agree! Variance in our situation is my parents house ISNT paid off. Constantly month by month.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 3 роки тому +6

      Exactly.

  • @greekmom
    @greekmom 12 днів тому +353

    The average social security check is $1827 a month. The worst part is 22% of Americans have less than $5k saved for retirement. Start investing now! Nobody is coming to save you

    • @Richmind-ir5zi
      @Richmind-ir5zi 12 днів тому +3

      I’ve been diligently working, saving and contributing towards early retirement and financial freedom, but since covid outbreak, the economy so far has caused my portfolio to underperform, do I keep contributing to my 401k or look at alternative sectors to meet my goals?

    • @Mitch10bands
      @Mitch10bands 12 днів тому +3

      keep contributing! I'd suggest you consider financial advisory at this point in time, remember you are in for the long haul

    • @TylerofSc004
      @TylerofSc004 12 днів тому +1

      I'm in line with having an advisor oversee my day-to-day investing cos, my job doesn't permit me the time to analyze stocks myself. Thankfully, my portfolio has just 5X in barely 5 years, summing up nearly $1m after subsequent investments to date.

    • @Marianela-r3v
      @Marianela-r3v 12 днів тому

      bravo! I appreciate the implementation of ideas and strategies that result to unmeasurable progress, thus the search for a reputable advisor, mind sharing info of this person guiding you please?

    • @TylerofSc004
      @TylerofSc004 12 днів тому +2

      I've stuck with ‘ "Lauren Christine Campbell’’ ’” and her performance has been consistently impressive. She’s quite known in her field, look her up.

  • @paulzy5192
    @paulzy5192 3 роки тому +1421

    Dave's long silence was deep.
    I have never seen him do that.

    • @ivanvillalobos7734
      @ivanvillalobos7734 3 роки тому +19

      Her eyes blew up at 0:30

    • @Simon-je7ko
      @Simon-je7ko 3 роки тому +5

      Two poke eggs. LOL. It was like a suspense movie. Then he asked another question just like Colombo. LOL

    • @scorpion777silvermoon3
      @scorpion777silvermoon3 3 роки тому +9

      and judgemental too. I was scared of what he would say.. He said it. But once again sooooo right.

    • @TheEllaTB
      @TheEllaTB 3 роки тому +30

      Yeah! I've never seen Dave speechless 😳

    • @goldenglowladore3842
      @goldenglowladore3842 3 роки тому +20

      Dave Ramsey, thank you for seeking the Lord and waiting for His wise counsel!

  • @smoothkk1
    @smoothkk1 3 роки тому +1152

    I appreciate how clear and concise she is.. I wish them both good health and a fix to their financial situation

    • @DisabilityExams
      @DisabilityExams 3 роки тому +10

      If wishes were horses then beggars would ride

    • @tioswift3676
      @tioswift3676 3 роки тому +4

      @@DisabilityExams ...

    • @frankvonfrauner
      @frankvonfrauner 3 роки тому +2

      So clear and concise because she's reading a script.

    • @remmymalone6700
      @remmymalone6700 3 роки тому +7

      They've not planned their lives well at all .. it's sad. At 71, you're meant to have retired already.

    • @fraserletkeman5040
      @fraserletkeman5040 3 роки тому +12

      @@remmymalone6700 agreed. I kinda wish she went into detail on how this happened. Everyone has a story. I have a friend that made a good living but because of a kid that was addicted to drugs, stole money borrowed money, was enabled and sent to numerous very expensive clinics the parents are in rough shape financially. Sad but sometimes time moves faster then we’d like.

  • @lauragreaser3461
    @lauragreaser3461 Рік тому +223

    God Bless this woman. My heart goes out to her. Housework is hard work. I pray things work out for her and her husband.

  • @AndersonFair-cy2bb
    @AndersonFair-cy2bb 9 днів тому +1371

    big returns come from investing big. investing big comes from building conviction, conviction comes from understanding, understanding comes from doing your homework and research beyond surface level.

    • @FaithAndrada-xo9ou
      @FaithAndrada-xo9ou 9 днів тому +3

      I want to start a Roth Ira before the end of the year. do you have any stock you would suggest to buy and hold long term?

    • @Raymondcraw1967RaymondCrawley
      @Raymondcraw1967RaymondCrawley 9 днів тому +1

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    • @fredrickmcgraw9491
      @fredrickmcgraw9491 9 днів тому +2

      Impressive can you share more info?

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      @Raymondcraw1967RaymondCrawley 9 днів тому +5

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    • @fredrickmcgraw9491
      @fredrickmcgraw9491 9 днів тому +2

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  • @xxdomixx1085
    @xxdomixx1085 10 місяців тому +129

    I cannot talk about the emotional level, but my aunt and uncle were in a similar situation about 10 years ago. They sold their house and bought a 400 sqft condo in a 6 story block in the same town they already lived.
    They had to give up much, I know, but they are debt free now. And on top I think that they are happy.

    • @mrs8792
      @mrs8792 3 місяці тому +7

      Yep. I am 59 and getting rid of stuff I’ve accumulated and never used. We are downsizing, happily and hope to retire.

    • @jcee2259
      @jcee2259 2 місяці тому +2

      I have a home and do all the chores to keep me happy.
      Diet plan took me from 5X to XL and walk everywhere.
      This week I'm renewing my cave climbing equipment.
      Done every 5 years to avoid accidents.

    • @BumSkidley
      @BumSkidley 2 місяці тому +5

      Sell the house and roadster, pay off the other car, buy a 100k condo, 10-15k to furnish condo, 10k in high yield savings for emergency, 25k in CD for property tax, and 100k in dividend growth ETF's. The 2k in social security will be more than enough to pay HOA, utilities, car insurance, home insurance, health insurance and living expenses. Don't incur new debt and pay cash for everything including eating out several times a month from the dividend income.

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 15 днів тому +1

      I got divorced after 50... The court decided I wasn't needing anything! I was divorced after 28+ years without even a bed or pot to cook in! No one wants to hire someone my age !
      I wasn't even able to get a dishwasher's job (too weak according to the manager) I do odd jobs and babysit for people! Sometimes people screw you over and you are left without a pot to piss in as an older person .

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 15 днів тому

      ​@@BumSkidley Well you are wrong! HOA being $230.00 a month, insurance being (paid yearly) is $2,200 , medical is $556.00 a month and life insurance is $134.00. No car so no insurance on it and food has been proved out of a ability to afford more than 1 meal (crappy meal) a day . Don't lie to people! Stop that! Storage is $2,400 a year and even the cheapest cellphone bill is $25.00 a month. WE (as society) are paying out the azz to just exist.

  • @yaboijuan4052
    @yaboijuan4052 3 роки тому +2817

    That house saved them. Imagine if they were paying rent 😔

    • @John3.36
      @John3.36 3 роки тому +65

      Not true. They still owe 350 a month. The Bank owns it.

    • @yoopally4136
      @yoopally4136 3 роки тому +247

      @@John3.36 cant find a house to rent less than 1k. Even in poorest area

    • @John3.36
      @John3.36 3 роки тому +30

      @@yoopally4136 Depends on where you live.

    • @Brararaf101
      @Brararaf101 3 роки тому +56

      in some states like nj taxes maintenence is just as pricey as rent

    • @bigidiot123
      @bigidiot123 3 роки тому +162

      @@John3.36 $350 is basically nothing. I couldn't rent even a small house around where I live for less than $1,500/mo.

  • @pablov9934
    @pablov9934 3 роки тому +1684

    This call broke my heart that lady seemed so sweet, it's easy to criticize other people when you don't know their life story, life is so chaotic that even after planning all out it all can fall apart due to an unexpected event, I pray that elderly couple finds some peace and rest in their sunset years.

    • @lululemonbar9110
      @lululemonbar9110 3 роки тому +50

      Beautiful comment! I agree!

    • @woodyglendell7400
      @woodyglendell7400 3 роки тому +54

      Time and unforeseen circumstance befall us all.

    • @pamwilliams6630
      @pamwilliams6630 3 роки тому +80

      Thank God they had saved the 25K. Many don't even have that....

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl 2 роки тому +30

      Exactly true everyone bashing them with their glorified savings regimen I bet wouldn’t know what to do if something happened

    • @thomasreedy4751
      @thomasreedy4751 2 роки тому +36

      They have a roadster and 250k house. I don’t think their life was that Chaotic.
      They bled money.

  • @BotheGhita
    @BotheGhita Місяць тому +315

    I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.

    • @AlilatTiamiyu
      @AlilatTiamiyu Місяць тому +1

      I feel your pain mate, as a fellow retiree, I’d suggest you look into passive index fund investing and learn some more. For me, I had my share of ups and downs when I first started looking for a consistent passive income so I hired an expert advisor for aid, and following her advice, I poured $30k in value stocks and digital assets, Up to 200k so far and pretty sure I'm ready for whatever comes.

    • @BotheGhita
      @BotheGhita Місяць тому

      @@AlilatTiamiyu That's actually quite impressive, I could use some Info on your FA, I am looking to make a change on my finances this year as well

    • @AlilatTiamiyu
      @AlilatTiamiyu Місяць тому

      @@BotheGhita *MARGARET MOLLI ALVEY* , lookup with her name online.

    • @YinusaSaheed
      @YinusaSaheed Місяць тому

      @@AlilatTiamiyu The crazy part is that those advisors are probably outperforming the market and raising good returns but some are charging fees over fees that drain your portfolio. Is this the case with yours too?

    • @AlilatTiamiyu
      @AlilatTiamiyu Місяць тому

      Nah I Can't say I can relate, *MARGARET MOLLI ALVEY* charge is one-off and pretty reasonable when compared to what I benefit in returns.

  • @philipgeraci9253
    @philipgeraci9253 3 роки тому +3366

    You never want to be the person that makes Dave pause and think. lol. That tells you that you are in actual deep doo doo.

    • @stewbugz5213
      @stewbugz5213 3 роки тому +137

      Oh my I know. I was sick to my stomach listening to that long pause!

    • @thomashaas5965
      @thomashaas5965 3 роки тому +4

      Oh my God...any connection to Peter Francis Geraci? A well-known bankruptcy attorney here in Milwaukee?

    • @9liveslisa
      @9liveslisa 3 роки тому +41

      That's what I was thinking as Dave was silent and pondering over this call.

    • @tortoisehead30
      @tortoisehead30 3 роки тому +39

      That was a long pause!

    • @cowgoesmoo9981
      @cowgoesmoo9981 3 роки тому +49

      But he found a way to get out of it. Multiple ways actually. Dave always knows how to get out of situations like this. It ain’t always pretty, but it works. Also they REALLY have a roadster in a situation like this? Why?

  • @peanutoreo8052
    @peanutoreo8052 3 роки тому +209

    When I hear calls like this, I stop and thank God for all the blessings he has given me. I didn’t earn it, it is a gracious gift.

    • @user-eh8yz6ko3t
      @user-eh8yz6ko3t 3 роки тому +8

      Spoken like a true narcissist

    • @Tessy29k
      @Tessy29k 3 роки тому +1

      @@user-eh8yz6ko3t I thought so too!

    • @raymondblack524
      @raymondblack524 3 роки тому

      I'm not gonna go so far as to call you a narcissist. However, your money is due to your decisions. The money you have didnt fall from the sky, it was by you.

    • @johnmwalker8309
      @johnmwalker8309 3 роки тому +7

      Sure he’s given you blessings, it’s just puzzling why he gives other malaria, cancer, famine, poverty… a loving God, right?

    • @user-eh8yz6ko3t
      @user-eh8yz6ko3t 3 роки тому +2

      @@johnmwalker8309 Oh those pawns are just there to teach the designated special creatures like him a lesson

  • @tomjeff1743
    @tomjeff1743 3 роки тому +148

    Despite her situation she is very articulate and concise indicating a good mind and conscientiousness

  • @vickylarue
    @vickylarue 5 місяців тому +545

    I came across your channel through this video-case studies are incredibly valuable, and I'm eager to see more in the future! Building wealth involves establishing routines, like consistently setting aside funds at regular intervals for smart investments.

    • @Godwinkeneth
      @Godwinkeneth 5 місяців тому

      That sounds like a good plan. In the past two years, working closely with a financial market specialist, I've built a six-figure diversified stock portfolio. Now, I aim to diversify even more this year.

    • @shirelylinero
      @shirelylinero 5 місяців тому

      Talking about a financial market specialist, do you consider anyone worthy of recommendations? I have about 100k to test the waters now that large cap stocks are at a discount... Thanks

    • @Godwinkeneth
      @Godwinkeneth 5 місяців тому

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    • @shirelylinero
      @shirelylinero 5 місяців тому

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  • @swannyriver75
    @swannyriver75 2 роки тому +971

    This is one of my biggest fears getting old being terribly sick or having no money saved

    • @MaryDavidson911
      @MaryDavidson911 2 роки тому +32

      No offense, but if it is your biggest fear then I assume you are actively working to thwart it?

    • @Wiseamphibian87
      @Wiseamphibian87 2 роки тому

      Not a bad thing to fear; Good health is our greatest asset; further greater than Money. Starting by leading a healthy lifestyle; watch everyday you eat; stay Away from too much processed Food; Sodas & all that junk that brings in excessive weight gain & cholesterol that leads to more cardiac distress especially as we get older; 40s, 50s, 60s & so on. Exercise is under-rated but it usually keeps our health in check!!! When you have got health ; then all You can focus on are your financial priorities; working/saving Up & investing. It’s not all easy said & done ✅ b’cause Life just comes @ us like an earthquake sometimes; but you can do it!!!

    • @mrs.g2147
      @mrs.g2147 2 роки тому +35

      I agree, medical bills will wipe you out!

    • @Vandicoup
      @Vandicoup 2 роки тому +14

      And dying. I fear death too. I know it's inevitable, but still... T__T

    • @mrs.g2147
      @mrs.g2147 2 роки тому +30

      @@Vandicoup Do you have a relationship with God? If not please read John 3:16
      If you do have a relationship with him read Psalm 23:4,5.

  • @captainz454
    @captainz454 Рік тому +137

    I’m 30 and this is everyone’s nightmare. It’s INCREDIBLE how little decisions in your youth become a big snow ball when you are old and at that point in your life. Life becomes so narrow that you have no other choice than to face all of your bad decisions. That is why discipline makes you make sacrifices in your life for the better of your future.

    • @markusParkus233
      @markusParkus233 Рік тому +5

      It's not that hard. Just buy a house in 1998.

    • @2010drive
      @2010drive 11 місяців тому +10

      @@markusParkus233 and in 2050 people will be saying should've bought a house in 2024...

    • @RubyShelton-nf4mb
      @RubyShelton-nf4mb 11 місяців тому +4

      I started saving late in my mid 40's mainly just in case I got old. Well I got old. If I had it to do again I would waste less when I was younger and invest more early on to take advantage of compounding. I think I'm ok but I don't take it for granted I still live on a budget.

    • @patriciasalem3606
      @patriciasalem3606 10 місяців тому +3

      It's not all bad decisions that lead to these situations. I worked hard, had a six-figure job, savings, retirement/investment accounts, and equity in my house. That got wiped out in the 2008 recession when I was in my late 40s. No discipline in the world would have changed that.

    • @2010drive
      @2010drive 9 місяців тому

      @@patriciasalem3606 discipline of not withdrawing from your investments during a recession would have changed that.

  • @FrankS111
    @FrankS111 3 роки тому +1322

    This is why you start saving and investing at a VERY young age. To not wake up in your 60s and 70s and realize you can never retire.

    • @thomashaas5965
      @thomashaas5965 3 роки тому +92

      I work at a phone store for one of the most popular carriers. What convinced me that I needed to live a different way was seeing people in their 70s walk in to the store begging for an extension on paying their bill because they don't have it right now. My heart truly went out to them, it really did, but at that moment I realized that I want to make sure that I'm not having to do that same thing when I'M 70-something.

    • @channell11
      @channell11 3 роки тому +68

      I hate hearing elderly people talking about being on a "fixed income". In my mind you work all your life so you can do what you want and never have to worry about anything when you're old.

    • @thomashaas5965
      @thomashaas5965 3 роки тому +14

      @@channell11 I always say "yeah...and your bills are fixed and hopefully you signed up for bills that amount to less than your income. So...what's your point?"

    • @Kharmatos13
      @Kharmatos13 3 роки тому +25

      @@slambig the younger the better. got a paper route at 13? start then. take half your little bit of money and buy the SPY, start compounding.

    • @gold9ja
      @gold9ja 3 роки тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯👍🏾

  • @mtnshelby7059
    @mtnshelby7059 3 місяці тому +5

    Bless her for calling. She reflects so many in this situation.

  • @Tcpix02
    @Tcpix02 3 роки тому +819

    My mother's had her condo paid off and her Hoa fees just went up making it really challenging for her financially. Condos can be a nightmare too.

    • @genacunningham1731
      @genacunningham1731 3 роки тому +105

      yes...and Dave just mowed right over what she was trying to say about HOA fees....! sheesh!

    • @MultiSUNFLOWER18
      @MultiSUNFLOWER18 3 роки тому +69

      And not only HOA fees but assessments. My mom lives in a condo and the amount assessment fees she has paid over the yers she could have bought a house.

    • @anlu3365
      @anlu3365 3 роки тому +49

      Yessssss. They should pay the house off and then the car and be done.

    • @webcomment8895
      @webcomment8895 3 роки тому +28

      @@genacunningham1731 Not every condo has high fees and assessments. You have to do your research on the HOA and buy into a lower end development with minimal amenities (keeps maintenance costs lower) and well run management.
      You can look into the HOA budgets before committing to purchase.
      Lower cost of living areas are more likely to have affordable condos with low maintenance costs. That’s why he was recommending places like Oklahoma City.

    • @famicomnintendo
      @famicomnintendo 3 роки тому +6

      So send her money, it's your mother

  • @ayo_k32
    @ayo_k32 3 роки тому +253

    Why are people saying they should move to another state? They live in Oklahoma! It doesn't really get much cheaper than that!

    • @sharonfleshman6961
      @sharonfleshman6961 3 роки тому +11

      If they live in the city, moving out aways while downsizing their house to another house (without HOAs) would help.

    • @340rps
      @340rps 2 роки тому +2

      Plus they can't afford to move.

    • @bestbargainfashion5575
      @bestbargainfashion5575 2 роки тому +3

      It's never a good thing to move people in their 70s anywhere.

    • @Hugh_Manitee
      @Hugh_Manitee 2 роки тому +6

      Sure dont want to live in an apartment or mobile home park. Those rents and lot fees always go up, and up, and up.

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah Рік тому

      Deep South might be cheaper but no state near a metro area

  • @amandadean3948
    @amandadean3948 3 роки тому +1218

    At one point Dave looked concerned, sad and perplexed...that’s rare. Watching this just made me change my mind about a big purchase I was debating. That money will now be going into my investment account.

    • @waterheaterservices
      @waterheaterservices 3 роки тому +23

      Excellent

    • @kabothabana2969
      @kabothabana2969 3 роки тому +12

      Good going,nice move.all the best

    • @reneehenderson4818
      @reneehenderson4818 3 роки тому +19

      Glad you did yourself that favor. As you heard here, there will come a day, that we just can't work anymore. You want to be prepared with enough cash and to get you by and make due if that day should come.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 3 роки тому +4

      @@waterheaterservices
      Agreed.

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 3 роки тому +2

      Smart move.

  • @fredfinger7092
    @fredfinger7092 6 місяців тому +16

    Not sure why Dave cut her off at about the 7 minute mark when she started to ask about the Condo Association fees. That's a very real and legitimate concern.

  • @jonathangoldfuss15
    @jonathangoldfuss15 3 роки тому +649

    Man, you know it’s a tough situation when Dave has to pause for a few moments and think about what to do.

    • @Kerrviii
      @Kerrviii Рік тому +22

      He took time to think about it and explain with grace.

    • @noreenn6976
      @noreenn6976 10 місяців тому +2

      That's the longest pause I have ever saw him take. Sure hope they didn't buy a condo.

  • @NoMoreTears64
    @NoMoreTears64 Рік тому +82

    I feel for this couple. Im 64 and retired at 62. I really dont have much saved at all and am a renter, but thankfully I have no other debts. Would I retire later? No. Not knowing what I know now. My ex passed away 6 months before I retired and my 29 year old son passed away 2 months ago. My mother died at 65 and my father died at 73. It is a myth that we have to save a billion dollars for "some day". Would I like to have more money? Yes, I DO worry a little bit about being able to keep up with rent especially when the high cost of Medicare premiums hit me next year. But being on the struggle bus the rest of my years will NEVER outway the wonderful times I was able to spend the last year with my son and grandkids. Life is so short. Too short for some of us. Dont spend it waiting for the elusive "pot of gold perfect time" to retire.

    • @Jakkaribik1
      @Jakkaribik1 7 місяців тому +1

      If you have more than you need a House you can sell it at a good Price sure it is sad to sell family things but it will keep the Family in Heaven if you belive in that happy that you have less worries. Then Get a Smaller Place or Car.

    • @lolal2502
      @lolal2502 2 місяці тому

      I prefer to work as long as it is possible for me to keep my job. I'd rather die working than running out of money.

  • @bigcahuna42366
    @bigcahuna42366 3 роки тому +610

    At least she had the courage to admit she was in a bad financial position. Sadly this situation is probably "normal" in America, but most who will be headed in that direction when they reach 70 don't want to seek help or do anything to fix it.

    • @breakingben9575
      @breakingben9575 3 роки тому +6

      I'm trying to avoid it but everyone keeps bashing me for it and criticizing me for it they call me stingy and money-hungry in my church for want to do this. been in the church for 26 years now I'm 26 years old btw and have been the same thing since I was a kid.

    • @Kojow7
      @Kojow7 3 роки тому +1

      @@breakingben9575 It is important to consider other people's perspectives as well and find out if maybe you are stingy or money-hungry. As long as your focus is on God and not on money or future security in money you are probably doing the proper thing. If you in debt you do need to be a bit stingy and change your habits of not going anymore into debt at all. If you have no debt, but not a lot of retirement you do need to relax a bit and not be so stingy. :) If you are doing all the right things financially but still not able to make ends meet, you need to either find a better paying job asap or take on a second job. Of course I am just generalizing here and do not know your situation. You may also be in an unhealthy church that is not focussed on what the Bible says, so you also want to check into that as well. And it might be useful to run a financial seminar there as well.

    • @breakingben9575
      @breakingben9575 3 роки тому +1

      @@Kojow7 I am in dept and don't make much money.

    • @Kojow7
      @Kojow7 3 роки тому +6

      @@breakingben9575 So you need to figure out what has been putting you in debt and change that immediately. If you do not make much money you need to start looking for a much higher paying job today.

    • @breakingben9575
      @breakingben9575 3 роки тому

      @@Kojow7 this includes my parents. I have 20000 my parents have over 100000 as far as I know. They don't pay the student loans back.

  • @bobspittle3201
    @bobspittle3201 2 роки тому +95

    I thank God I had a mother who drummed into me and my brothers heads when we were teenagers to save for retirement. And the importance of NEVER touching that money until you do retire. Thanks Mom. Now that I have been enjoying retirement for many years I appreciate her wisdom.

    • @geo865833
      @geo865833 Рік тому +5

      Truly an amazing mother who loved you. Hope all is going well.

    • @lidgerwoodj
      @lidgerwoodj Рік тому +2

      It’s compulsory in Australia for employers to pay into our retirement funds now. That only came in during my parents’ working lives, so lots of older people don’t have much saved. Our generation will reap the benefits of being able to live off our own savings because the government makes us.
      We also get rewarded with tax incentives for paying extra into our own retirement funds, which is what my family and I are doing.
      The real society-wide benefit will come when we can dramatically reduce the amount the government has to spend on pensions when we’re older.
      The only problem is that there are a few things that people are allowed to access their funds for early: I weep when I hear of people in their 20s or 30s taking out $10k and thinking about just how much money that will cost them when they’re 70.

    • @user-be5qg7mr1s
      @user-be5qg7mr1s Рік тому +2

      she was thinking ahead and didn't want to see you kids struggle.

    • @aarone9000
      @aarone9000 Рік тому

      Are we siblings?

    • @NeoSharkey
      @NeoSharkey Рік тому +3

      Another big part is to find a wife who thinks the same way...from experience, it’s very hard to save when your wife thinks you can save without spending less.

  • @jimhandler1129
    @jimhandler1129 3 роки тому +1732

    We don't spend money. We just eat out. Do people realize that eating out is AT LEAST twice as expensive than preparing your own meals.

    • @parker10551
      @parker10551 3 роки тому +75

      Depends on what you are cooking.. lol

    • @angelalaskodi3459
      @angelalaskodi3459 3 роки тому +82

      Not necessarily. I actually save money by eating out. Because I eat healthy, organic only, to prepare a home meal is expensive.

    • @patty109109
      @patty109109 3 роки тому +317

      @@angelalaskodi3459 Angela I’m sorry that’s just nonsense. You aren’t saving money by eating the same food yet having somebody else prep it.

    • @jimroscovius
      @jimroscovius 3 роки тому +167

      @@angelalaskodi3459 No way is it cheaper than buying food and cooking it.

    • @Reptitude
      @Reptitude 3 роки тому +193

      @@patty109109 well maybe her organic eating out is simply grazing next to the cattle.

  • @sarawilliam696
    @sarawilliam696 7 місяців тому +1026

    Am 58 retiring next year but the thought of retirement gives me weakness. My apologies to everyone who have retired and filing social security during this time after putting in all those years of work just to lose everything to a problem you never imagined to happen. It’s so difficult for people who are retired and have no savings or loved ones to fall back on.

    • @brucemichelle5689.
      @brucemichelle5689. 7 місяців тому +3

      True, It has never been easier to understand how to build your money after retirement than it is right now with the inflation, when you may study and experience a completely variegated market passively by employing a successful portfolio-advisor. The impacts of the U.S. dollar's gain or fall on investments, in my opinion, are complex.

    • @foden700
      @foden700 7 місяців тому +2

      Even if you’re not skilled, it is still possible to hire one. I was a project manager and my personal portfolio of approximately $850k of my retirement pension took a big hit in April due to the crash. I quickly got in touch with a financial-planner that devised a defensive strategy to protect my funds and make profit from my portfolio this red season. I’ve made over $250k since then.

    • @PatrickFitzgerald-cx6io
      @PatrickFitzgerald-cx6io 7 місяців тому +2

      This is exactly how i wish to get my finances coordinated ahead of retirement. Can I get access to your advisor?

    • @foden700
      @foden700 7 місяців тому +2

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    • @PatrickFitzgerald-cx6io
      @PatrickFitzgerald-cx6io 7 місяців тому +1

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  • @samlavez001
    @samlavez001 Місяць тому +1410

    I’m 52 and investing for the first time in my life. I have started contributing to my 401K and opened a Roth IRA with automatic contributions, but my question is, does asset allocation really matter at first, or perhaps I am just overthinking as a beginner?

    • @SamuelUlrich-o4u
      @SamuelUlrich-o4u Місяць тому +1

      There’s a lot to decide on… most times it is better as a beginner to delegate your day-to-day investing to a well experienced advisor

    • @AravindRia
      @AravindRia Місяць тому +1

      I'm in line with having an advisor oversee my day-to-day investing cos, my job doesn't permit the time to analyze stocks myself. I got fully invested since the covid-outbreak, and thankfully, my 6 figure portfolio has 5X in barely 5 years, amassing nearly $1m as of today.

    • @UnityStandard
      @UnityStandard Місяць тому

      good gains! who is the professional guiding you please? enthused about investing for my eventual retirement but dont know how to go about it, for now I only invest in my 401k through my employer and gains are quite slow

    • @AravindRia
      @AravindRia Місяць тому

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      @EmmaDavis-n6u Місяць тому

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  • @teresacastle4789
    @teresacastle4789 Рік тому +144

    Dave forgot to ask her how much the monthly payment is on their home. For 70-year-olds, if they've had the home a while, it may be LESS than what the HOA fees are for a $100K condo. She tried to tell him that, but he cut her off. Also, with a condo, the HOA fees will keep going up, while fixed mortgage payments don't (though taxes do). Not to mention that condos can suddenly increase assessment fees (separate from HOA fees) for things like a new roof, which could really bust these folks' budget. At 70, she's better off staying in her home. The rest of his advice was solid.

    • @1981lashlarue
      @1981lashlarue Рік тому +10

      I live in a condo and I haven't experienced that. My condo dues have gone up once in the seven or so years I've lived her (it increased about $15-20/mo) and we've never had a special assessment. The benefit you're overlooking is not having to worry about things like lawn care, trash pickup, snow removal, putting on a new roof, etc. That's a tremendous benefit, especially for someone their age and in their predicament.

    • @WoodlandDance
      @WoodlandDance Рік тому +10

      @@1981lashlarue My condo fees went from 198.00 a month in 2012 to 380.00 a month starting 2024. We've had a 5,000 emergency special assessment once in that time (for sewer work). You're lucky yours hasn't gone up (mine is a little condo built in 1975). I'm on the Board, so I know nothing in the fees are being wasted.

    • @1981lashlarue
      @1981lashlarue Рік тому +2

      @@WoodlandDance That is a hefty increase. I moved in in 2015 and they were $180. They just went up for I think the second time or so and are now $240. We haven't had a special assessment since I've been here.
      Why did yours go up so much at once?

    • @Morrighanangel84
      @Morrighanangel84 Рік тому +2

      Go somewhere similar with no hoa

    • @bootsiekeegan4401
      @bootsiekeegan4401 9 місяців тому +4

      Exactly my mortgage pmts are $700 month plus utilities no way could i afford apts or homes for rent in my area!!! I took on a tenant in my house to help me after job loss covid & 2 breast cancer surgeries! I have a dog a yard a house i hate apt living and condo 😢😮 so i do the best i can with a bad situation. Why do they need to go into a condo? He did NOT ask what mortgage pmts are conpared to condo pmts

  • @VirtuallyVera
    @VirtuallyVera 2 роки тому +553

    Watching this at 19 years old really puts this stuff into perspective for me. I hope this elderly couple is doing okay now :(

    • @amara1954
      @amara1954 Рік тому +64

      Start saving now even only a little out of each paycheck and don’t touch it til retirement. Wish I had done that at 19.

    • @dmpi483
      @dmpi483 Рік тому +31

      Watch it carefully.... hundreds of thousands of seniors are in these shoes. Thank God you can get a job if you want one.

    • @satyagirl1797
      @satyagirl1797 Рік тому +31

      And here is me, living in Europe figuring out how to "go retired" before I am 50....I can't belive how tough is living in US

    • @crimsonhawk4912
      @crimsonhawk4912 Рік тому +11

      Buckle up kid, it's going to be a bumpy ride 🤣🤣🤣

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 Рік тому +9

      @@amara1954
      Me too. But I got out of all debt in my early 40’s. No mortgage, no credit cards, no any debt !!! 👍🏻😂

  • @lyngrey4186
    @lyngrey4186 2 роки тому +35

    I'm so glad she called in and was honest

  • @jvillebil13
    @jvillebil13 2 місяці тому +12

    I'm 70 and my wife is 66, I started saving for retirement when I was 30. Always worried would I have enough. Every time I got a bonus most in the company would spend it on frivolous things or toys, new truck, zero turn, refrigerator, etc. I would put mine in retirement. When retirement came we found out we had our home and 2 new cars paid off and more money than when we were working. It starts early. I stress it to my children in their 30's.

    • @The1707regina
      @The1707regina 18 днів тому

      Good, thats what im worried about. Im 31...so thanks..gives me hope

    • @jvillebil13
      @jvillebil13 17 днів тому

      @@The1707regina It sneaks up on you fast. If you're diligent you'll be fine. The stock market will drop but it always comes back. Many times people would pull their money out and I'd let mine ride and it would come back stronger than before. When I was in my 50's my friend would always tell me how great retirement was. Well now I understand. Good luck.

  • @CindyMcGuirk
    @CindyMcGuirk 2 роки тому +446

    I really like the advice they gave this lady. It's solid, in my opinion. I would like to point out, however, that there is nothing wrong with being a maid. He said it in kind of a negative way, I feel. It's honest work. I respect a lady who does honest work.

    • @tahitiantreatskeetjuice5587
      @tahitiantreatskeetjuice5587 2 роки тому +189

      he didnt say it was bad. he said it was too phsycially demanding for her age- and he's correct

    • @sunchips5
      @sunchips5 2 роки тому +69

      @@tahitiantreatskeetjuice5587 Correct. He was quite respectful about it.

    • @NAGaming513
      @NAGaming513 2 роки тому +18

      It is also a pretty poor job to hold, so while it's honest work, it is pretty bad. In the end $24000 a year doesn't cut it in almost any place.

    • @smittyvidz25fire84
      @smittyvidz25fire84 2 роки тому +36

      He said it negatively because she 70 years old cleaning home. It isn’t something that easy on the body

    • @sallygomez8799
      @sallygomez8799 2 роки тому +27

      He did not say it negatively, he simply said it is hard work but you can make good money.

  • @ocubex
    @ocubex 3 роки тому +75

    This is incredibly sad, feel so much for her. I've never seen Dave speechless for so long.

    • @bubbajones4522
      @bubbajones4522 27 днів тому

      Never once have I seen Dave mention the root cause or explain the impact that the ever increasing inflation tax is having on each of us. Nor has he ever mentioned how much more money the average American would have in social security dividend payments if the government hadn't "borrowed" stolen over $2.7 trillion from our trust funds. It's all our fault and will be to the day we're all living in tents under a bridge.

  • @TVHouseHistorian
    @TVHouseHistorian 3 роки тому +180

    I’m 48, have been saving for retirement nearly my whole working life, and *I* am nervous about what my retirement scenario will look like. I own a home that is nowhere near paid off (other than that and a simple car, I have no other debt). As a single guy, I love eating out, going on cruises, and getting on an airplane and flying wherever. His advice is good, even for me. I need to quit living like the money fountain’s never going to stop, and start living like I’m bankrupt so I can get that car and house paid off.

    • @2legit2Kwit
      @2legit2Kwit 3 роки тому +4

      I’m in the same boat.

    • @joaquinmisajr.1215
      @joaquinmisajr.1215 3 роки тому

      Too bad abrupt climate changes everything

    • @annielin2894
      @annielin2894 3 роки тому +4

      If they move to NYC they have welfare system free cash assistance plus free medical

    • @davidguarin358
      @davidguarin358 3 роки тому +4

      I’m 50 and in the same boat.

    • @swong705
      @swong705 3 роки тому +4

      I live in NYC and if you own a house in NYC, you can't get much assistance. Not even if you need a home health aide person.

  • @BusyBodyVisa
    @BusyBodyVisa 23 дні тому +5

    People say money doesn't buy happiness but I gotta tell you having enough money sure does make life a lot easier.

  • @random-nz7dy
    @random-nz7dy 3 роки тому +72

    This is a painful and sad call to listen to.
    Hopefully everybody listening takes this seriously and realizes how important it is to get their finances in order early on in life. You don't want to be the person at 71 forced to clean houses to make ends meet, when you easily could have gotten serious 20 years ago and been retired nicely

    • @jimstiles6972
      @jimstiles6972 2 роки тому +1

      I guess I'll quit reading this and get back to my work! For real! Lol

  • @lauvasquez7198
    @lauvasquez7198 3 роки тому +137

    For the ones that have parents that are heading into this situation please share this clip with them.
    My mom was with the thought before that she wanted to leave us cash or give us (the kids) money now. After learning about Ramsey I had an honest talk with her and my dad and told them I don’t care about inherence. All I want is their debt paid so they can have money for retirement and even more important to have money in case one of them ever needed a nurse or some sort of medical help.
    After seeing how things went down with my grandma when she got demencia it is not a pretty spot to be in without a safety net. Too much pressure on family and it’s just devastating emotionally.

    • @340rps
      @340rps 2 роки тому

      And hand it all over for nursing or a home, I'll give my money to my kids now, and if it comes to being in that condition, just kill me.

    • @emmaleebuzzard1023
      @emmaleebuzzard1023 2 роки тому +8

      @@340rps even though that seems self-less, it’s really the opposite. By making sure you can be cared for when elderly, you are taking a huge burden off of your children.

    • @KnowledgeIsComfort
      @KnowledgeIsComfort 2 місяці тому

      ⁠@@emmaleebuzzard1023 Exactly!

  • @rudygracia5573
    @rudygracia5573 2 роки тому +34

    Problem is,a LOT of people hear Ramsey's advice,but as soon as they hear"No more restaurants,sell the Roadster"...Dave's voice quickly FADES into oblivion!!MOST of the time,there are VERY GOOD reasons people end up in financial straits,ie;supporting their grown kid/s.

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 2 роки тому +2

      Or making $4k per month and spending $4200.

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah Рік тому

      Stop footing adults’ lives
      If they’re disabled, get them on SSI or SSD and Medicare/caid

  • @CalebMartin2U
    @CalebMartin2U День тому +4

    The secret is to put money away every paycheck. He says 15% but I think you check out the budget for some extra. Put it into an SP index fund. Do not touch it. Just let it grow. If you are spending 10 hours a week worrying about it now,use that time for a hustle and tuck that away. Trying to work the market is a mugs game. It can be done by a few people but you don’t d sound like one. 10 years from now your index fund in your Roth IRA will be doing great. Or 401k.

    • @HildaBennet
      @HildaBennet День тому +4

      Indeed, It has always been tougher to understand how to build your money after retirement and even more so right now with the inflation. You can experience a completely varietied market passively by employing a successful portfolio-advisor.

    • @ArielEhrenberg
      @ArielEhrenberg День тому +1

      Even if you're not skilled, it is still possible to hire one. I was a project manager and my personal portfolio of approximately $850k of my retirement pension took a big hit in April last year due to the crash. I quickly got in touch with a financial-planner that devised a defensive strategy to protect my funds and make profit from my portfolio this red season. I've made over $250k since then

    • @ArielEhrenberg
      @ArielEhrenberg День тому +3

      It's recommended to save at least 20% of your income in a 401k. Sonya Lee Mitchell taught me to estimate how much you should save based on your age and income. I've been with her for years now and her decades of experience in the markets translate to chunks of value in so may ways! She has upscaled my portffolio and even got me reading self help books haha

    • @bartlyAD
      @bartlyAD День тому +3

      Mind if I ask you to recommend this particular manager?

    • @ArielEhrenberg
      @ArielEhrenberg День тому +3

      Google Diana Casteel Lynch and do your own research. She has portfolio management down to a science

  • @knasheed8092
    @knasheed8092 2 роки тому +120

    This gentleman is among the sharper tools in the toolset. I have NEVER seen him stumped before. But on top of that, he is truthful and extremely compassionate in his responses and delivery. Hats off!

    • @captinbeyond
      @captinbeyond 2 роки тому +9

      I like Dave and agree he's great at giving advice, but his suggesting they buy a condo for $100k was simply not realistic. You can't buy anything worth living in for that price that is not going to be needing money to fix it up and keep it livable.

    • @knasheed8092
      @knasheed8092 2 роки тому

      @@captinbeyond That’s definitely true. I’d even go so far as to say that $300k would be a stretch depending on the geography. 👍

    • @TheBunky2008
      @TheBunky2008 2 роки тому +1

      Dave is NEVER stumped 🤔

    • @Davidsworldtravels
      @Davidsworldtravels Рік тому +1

      It’s not exactly rocket science to tell people to cut down their bills. It’s barely even financial advise just basic common sense.

    • @knasheed8092
      @knasheed8092 Рік тому +1

      @@Davidsworldtravels True. Paying your bills on time is common sense, but I believe he provides deep and more relevant information that that.

  • @BrunoLuke
    @BrunoLuke Рік тому +241

    Been watching, listening, and paying attention to all of predictions and forecasts since early Covid. He hasn't disappointed yet 👌

    • @DavidAntony-gq7id
      @DavidAntony-gq7id Рік тому +1

      Well said! I am also here to learn how to invest after listening to a lady on tv talk about the importance of investing and how she made 7 figures in 3 months, somehow the video taught me nothing and left me even more confused, I'm a newbie and I'm open to ideas on how to invest for retirement

    • @BrunoLuke
      @BrunoLuke Рік тому

      @@DavidAntony-gq7id lookup KRISTIN GAIL CUNNINGHAM , this is her name online, she's the real investment prodigy since the crash and has helped me recover my loses

    • @DavidAntony-gq7id
      @DavidAntony-gq7id Рік тому

      @@BrunoLuke Despite the economic crisis and the rate of unemployment now is the best time to invest

    • @BrunoLuke
      @BrunoLuke Рік тому

      @@DavidAntony-gq7id Investment now will be wise but the truth is investing on your own will be high risk. I think it will be best to get a professional👌

    • @DavidAntony-gq7id
      @DavidAntony-gq7id Рік тому

      @@BrunoLuke Thank you, Going through her profile on her webpage out of curiosity, and surprisingly she seems proficient. I appreciate this.

  • @GolfDuff
    @GolfDuff 3 роки тому +563

    This is why saving for retirement is important.

    • @greenearthblueskies8556
      @greenearthblueskies8556 3 роки тому +8

      @Anthony Harris 👍🏽 ...shelter is the biggest expense

    • @deepfakesforreal9487
      @deepfakesforreal9487 3 роки тому +10

      they are still buying fancy cars (11k in debt), have some fancy thing at home worth 10k (i don't even know what that thing is) and they do eat out! Maybe they are enjoying the stress!

    • @closingdealz
      @closingdealz 3 роки тому +17

      Thats why getting rich asf is important

    • @cryptojonny6837
      @cryptojonny6837 3 роки тому +7

      Retirement is no guarantee some ppl just build different streams of income instead. However if you feel you can live long enough for retirement go for it.

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl 2 роки тому +1

      They did it’s NOT enough

  • @TeresaMicheals
    @TeresaMicheals Місяць тому +1604

    I just turned 50, and I'm honestly feeling overwhelmed about retirement. I have a little over £300k saved, but with inflation and the rising cost of living, I’m starting to wonder what kind of retirement I can actually afford. I don’t want to end up outliving my savings.

    • @camela8445Mar
      @camela8445Mar Місяць тому +2

      That’s a valid concern. Retirement planning has become tougher than it used to be. Many people underestimate how much they’ll need or overestimate what their current savings will cover. You have to think about unexpected medical costs, market downturns, and even how long you might live!

    • @Will54rol
      @Will54rol Місяць тому

      After covid, I vowed to never again put all my eggs in one basket. I've since diversified my investments and hired a financial advisor to manage my excess funds. Now, as a semi-retired sailor, I spend only 9 hours a week maintaining my yacht, and I'm thrilled to be just 5% shy of my $3.4 million retirement goal, thanks to savvy investments made since rebuilding my finances

    • @Kattyol1
      @Kattyol1 Місяць тому

      Thanks for sharing your experience! I've been managing my portfolio myself, but it's not working out. Do you have any recommendations for a good investment advisor? I could really use some help

    • @Will54rol
      @Will54rol Місяць тому

      My CFA, Joseph Nick Cahill, is a renowned figure in his field. I recommend researching his name online; you'll find all his credentials and everything you need to work with a reliable professional. With many years of experience, he is a valuable resource for anyone looking to navigate the financial market.

    • @Larry1-pl2wq
      @Larry1-pl2wq Місяць тому

      Thank you so much for the suggestion! I really needed it. I looked him up on Google and explored his website; he has an impressive background in investments. I've sent him an email, and I hope to hear back from him soon

  • @debbieanderson6740
    @debbieanderson6740 2 роки тому +64

    I so feel for this couple! I'm curious about what she wanted to hear. Not an easy thing. God bless them both.

    • @liztoth4324
      @liztoth4324 2 роки тому +1

      She wanted to pay off the mortgage, her husband the car! Seems they can do both by selling the roadster. Wish them all the best.

  • @kara2162
    @kara2162 3 роки тому +649

    So heart wrenching - counting pennies at 70.

    • @Columbus1152
      @Columbus1152 3 роки тому +49

      Because maybe they didn't count pennies at 50 or 60

    • @kara2162
      @kara2162 3 роки тому +36

      @@Columbus1152 or even 20 and 30..

    • @Mike-qc8xd
      @Mike-qc8xd 3 роки тому +22

      this is the future for all of us.

    • @Columbus1152
      @Columbus1152 3 роки тому +35

      @@Mike-qc8xd Doesn't have to be

    • @channell11
      @channell11 3 роки тому +17

      @@Columbus1152 Exactly. Some advance planning early in life means you're stacking money and living large in retirement. If you've done things like pay off all your debts (including mortgage) when young, you can live very well.

  • @crmcbrideww
    @crmcbrideww 2 роки тому +430

    This is helpful for a 71-year-old but even more helpful for a 31-year-old.

    • @sydney2141
      @sydney2141 2 роки тому +13

      31 and completely agree!

    • @smittyvidz25fire84
      @smittyvidz25fire84 2 роки тому +12

      Exactly and Dave would give different advice to a 31 one year old. Truth is she can not work 40-60 hours a week. And at her age the odds of her becoming very wealthy are very very slim. So the advice he’d giving her is help the rest of her days out with as little stress as possible

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 2 роки тому +1

      At 31 they will NOT pay any attention to this. They are invincible and will live forever at that age. No worries at all generally speaking.

    • @mknawabi
      @mknawabi Рік тому +6

      @@randymillhouse791 I’d say there are a lot of 31 year olds starting families and paying attention…

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +2

      @@mknawabi If they are starting families then they are not paying attention. I never had kids and, no, that wasn't a court order. 🤣

  • @MargaretOlivia2u
    @MargaretOlivia2u 2 місяці тому +287

    Investments are the roots of financial security; the deeper they grow, the stronger your future will be."

    • @EmilyVanessa5m
      @EmilyVanessa5m 2 місяці тому +2

      Well said! Retirement is the reward of disciplined investing over the long term, not just a destination.

    • @BarbaraMarks7s
      @BarbaraMarks7s 2 місяці тому +1

      Well said! My adviser guided me through retirement planning, ensuring my investments were strategically positioned for long-term rewards.

    • @BarbaraMarks7s
      @BarbaraMarks7s 2 місяці тому

      My CFA NICOLE ANASTASIA PLUMLEE a renowned figure in her line of work. I recommend researching her credentials further.

    • @aabb-qf4wk
      @aabb-qf4wk Місяць тому

      you didn't hear her
      they made some real bad investments
      I expect that's why they never use retirement
      or withdrew their money from retirement
      to invest it like most people and give them enough income after retirement
      because they are changing the retirement systems for the worse.

  • @angabluewellness8604
    @angabluewellness8604 3 роки тому +186

    You can see his compassion. He told the truth to help them.

    • @natashanolly9489
      @natashanolly9489 3 роки тому +3

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @gailtaylor1636
      @gailtaylor1636 2 роки тому +1

      Seems to me the condo idea was the best direction to take but she didn't want to hear that. Already had somebody get in her head with the HOA stuff.

  • @abbyc.4215
    @abbyc.4215 2 роки тому +81

    Hearing stories like this make me want to stick to teaching at times. I just entered my 6th year and recently learned that I have 15k in a retirement account that I never even knew existed until recently in addition to my personal savings. We have absolutely no say-so in regards to that money coming out and I just realized how blessed I am to have just a bit more than I thought I did.

    • @misterb1132
      @misterb1132 2 роки тому +9

      There you go! At 28 years into my own teaching career which has become tough to stick with, for various reasons, that nice $6-8k monthly is going to make all the struggle and grinding worth it.

    • @nodrogytsirk
      @nodrogytsirk Рік тому +1

      I just retired after 30 years teaching…I’m Canadian and earned a lot more than in the states…retirement pension is nice. Come teach in Canada!

    • @romeysiamese6662
      @romeysiamese6662 Рік тому +2

      I could not remain at teaching. The stress was killing me, but lack of a pension will kill me too.

  • @firstnamelastname3558
    @firstnamelastname3558 Рік тому +37

    May God bless this woman. Seems like a genuine person.

  • @philipfletch
    @philipfletch 3 місяці тому +1140

    People who are able to retire early are lucky . I have 15 months till 65 and need to look at calling it quits, my only fear is running out of funds much later, thus keen on investing. What could be the safest possible ways to invest for cashflow, in order to afford lifestyle after retirement?

    • @RoseGuerra7862
      @RoseGuerra7862 3 місяці тому +3

      Not offering any particular advice, but I can assure you that most stocks still have growth potential. Re-distributing is not as hard as many people think it is. Ordinary investors lack the requisite level of diligence, so having a financial advisor on board is usually highly beneficial. In the market, this is how people generate enormous profits.

    • @martinheaway
      @martinheaway 3 місяці тому

      True. My portfolio was diversified across several markets with the help of a financial planner, and were able to achieve over a million in net profit among high dividend yield equities, ETFs, and bonds. It is vital that you have a variety of exposure, including in firms that are currently generating cash flows.

    • @JaneClark7861
      @JaneClark7861 3 місяці тому +2

      You seem to know the market better than we do, so that makes great sense. Who is the guide?

    • @martinheaway
      @martinheaway 3 місяці тому

      Amy Desiree Irish is the licensed fiduciary I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment..

    • @martinheaway
      @martinheaway 3 місяці тому +4

      Certainly, there are a handful of experts in the field. I've experimented with a few over the past years, but I've stuck with ‘’Amy Desiree Irish’” for about five years now, and her performance has been consistently impressive.She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

  • @lepadus7926
    @lepadus7926 2 роки тому +196

    Financial stress can be so debilitating. Unbelievable how hard life can be

    • @CaptainQueue
      @CaptainQueue 2 роки тому +12

      I get the feeling the kindly elderly person was not saying how they overspent way beyond their means for decades. They are facing a painful financial pinch, which is not the same as financial devastation.

  • @kellynorvell5714
    @kellynorvell5714 3 роки тому +129

    Nobody knows which way the wind will blow. A few of my former co-workers had impressive 401k balances but some passed away before 65 years old and never got to enjoy everything they worked hard for. Do the best you can with the time God has given you. 🙏

    • @cryptojonny6837
      @cryptojonny6837 3 роки тому +13

      Yea that's the thing you grind hard for many years in hopes for that good retirement. However theres no guarantee if you will make it and some ppl won't take that chance.

    • @wizardofahhhhhhz
      @wizardofahhhhhhz 2 роки тому +5

      Most of us will make it to the age of 65 though, so we need to plan accordingly.

    • @canyonblue737-8
      @canyonblue737-8 2 роки тому +1

      most will make it, AND need it... there is no choice, you have to save for retirement. if fate has it something happens to me than the money will be there for my wife and more importantly for my kids. someone will benefit that I love.

    • @marcopiscina4848
      @marcopiscina4848 2 роки тому +1

      Precisely why I started collecting at age 62. It got me out of debt, and got me some breathing room. I too have unfortunately seen many of my coworkers pass away in their 50's.
      In addition to collecting SS, I picked up a part time job. ✌

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah Рік тому

      @@marcopiscina4848u can work n still get SS?

  • @xekret
    @xekret 3 роки тому +126

    I saw this first hand with my parents, it is really scary.

    • @ariv8585
      @ariv8585 3 роки тому +7

      Me too with in-laws

    • @xekret
      @xekret 3 роки тому +2

      @@ariv8585 It sucks......

    • @d.y.h.w.
      @d.y.h.w. 3 роки тому +3

      Yes this is my parents.

    • @Cenlalowell
      @Cenlalowell 3 роки тому +1

      This definitely sucks, but even if you tell people most won't listen especially when they're young

    • @cherylmitchell37
      @cherylmitchell37 2 роки тому +1

      What are your parents doing?

  • @kayperez3864
    @kayperez3864 5 місяців тому +1

    This is the reality for the majority of American seniors. I appreciate your hopeful advise. Giving "real people" hope in their adversity is a must. I thank you for giving her hope.❤🎉

  • @well-blazeredman6187
    @well-blazeredman6187 Рік тому +15

    One of the clearer explanations of the problem from a caller. Good luck to her.

  • @suzum.9713
    @suzum.9713 3 роки тому +33

    Good advice. We are in our early 50's and have no retirement, either. But, our home IS paid in full; that is the only great thing we have going right now, besides the most important thing- our family.

    • @tweetyslife253
      @tweetyslife253 3 роки тому

      Please excuse my ignorance, I'm just trying to know if theusa works like my country. Here in France, the moment you work, you will haveyoure retirement at 63 , you must work for 40 years to get full retirement but say in case an housewife that has never work because she takes care of her children, she will only gets like 400 per month.

    • @Cenlalowell
      @Cenlalowell 3 роки тому

      @@tweetyslife253 nah here in the STATES we have a supplement that's similar to yours it's called social security, but it's not near enough for most to retire with

    • @Cenlalowell
      @Cenlalowell 2 роки тому

      @@Mark-nx7mr I understand that but when companies remove pensions it made 401ks a necessity, but alot of people are not investing that way.

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 2 роки тому

      If I were you, I'd be looking to pick up a few cheap investment properties I could rent out. Stat.

  • @danielgreenberg6547
    @danielgreenberg6547 2 роки тому +17

    My mother is in a similar situation... her situation turned me to Dave Ramsey in my 30's. Learn from other people's mistakes people!

  • @AAWGASHTADS
    @AAWGASHTADS 27 днів тому +3

    I thought she had nothing . $25,000 cash , $250k home ( -$27,000 ) , $2,000 a month SS , $2,000 a month job ( in the short term ) ., $10,000 Roadster . I don't know why their SS is so low . They're in OK City with a big University - can they rent a room out ? If they're willing to move out like Dave said Sell the house .

  • @peggybachler5952
    @peggybachler5952 2 роки тому +29

    I’ve never seen Dave at a loss for words!!

  • @Teamshmo
    @Teamshmo 3 роки тому +41

    I don't ever plan on being in this situation but I always watch these vids just in case something horrible happens I'll know what to do.

  • @JL-cw9sm
    @JL-cw9sm 3 роки тому +87

    my heart aches for this woman. People take note.

    • @kiwiskiwi
      @kiwiskiwi 3 роки тому +4

      i'm in my 30s and WISH i started in my 20s. Thank goodness i got scared in my 30s.

  • @0hub1ot
    @0hub1ot 5 місяців тому +375

    I currently have a good amount in savings and checking accounts. I have zero debt. I have a 401K at work, but there's not much in it yet. I opened a Roth IRA last year, I have no idea what I'm doing and need help on what to do and how I can invest some of my savings or checking. Should I hire a financial advisor? I really lack basic education on how to invest and what in. I feel I need a lot of guidance. I have no idea what's good or bad advice.

    • @liammason3137
      @liammason3137 5 місяців тому

      I did for the majority of my portfolio. Aside from the fact that I don’t have the time or energy to actively manage my money, they also provide me with extras like creating a will, creating different types of accounts, handling my taxes, insurance advice and procurement, etc. For me it was worth it.

    • @0hub1ot
      @0hub1ot 5 місяців тому

      when you say majority of your portfolio I assume that you can compare your returns with or without an advisor, which is preferable ?

    • @liammason3137
      @liammason3137 5 місяців тому

      Yea I have some fun money in RH but the big majority is managed by Nancy Magaret Delony. I have scaled to 1.7 in investments and find that she is indeed worth the cost to have in my corner. I think in a bear market she is good at beating the market; in a bull market she lags a bit. But that's the point, I think.

    • @liammason3137
      @liammason3137 5 місяців тому

      Look her up, Nancy Magaret Delony. She has a large following and is easily found online.

    • @maxwelljohn1545
      @maxwelljohn1545 5 місяців тому

      As a retired advisor I’d say this, if you have the knowledge, the time, the risk tolerance and the ability to do good DD (due diligence) than heck no, you don't, but if even 1 of those needs is an issue for you, get an advisor, any cost associated with an advisor is far less than 1-2 bad decisions if you’re wrong on a stock or fund

  • @kikimugi2717
    @kikimugi2717 3 роки тому +57

    Sell the veh, pay off mortgage and car...now debt free. 2k a month SS depending on taxes and where you live...tightening the belt...at 70, you could make it okay without selling your home and without needing to work so hard. What a nice sounding lady. And i hope all the best for her and her hub.

  • @projectkj7643
    @projectkj7643 2 роки тому +31

    I have friends pushing 60 who have little/no retirement savings. They make good money, too! They spend it all on boats, cars, trips, eating out. When asked what they are going to do in retirement, they say they aren't going to stop working. Well...your body will have other plans, possibly. To each their own but I'm living frugally to take care of a future old person I love who will need my younger self's help - ME. I wish I had started earlier but better late than never!
    And, kudos to the younger people who are saving. We didn't have internet/social media, which I think helps teach and show people why they need to save. Lots of good things about social media, too! 🙂

    • @jshepard152
      @jshepard152 2 роки тому

      Wow. So foolish.

    • @xyz987123abc
      @xyz987123abc Рік тому

      True. But older folks had the benefit of time. The postal service is slow but not 40 year slow.

    • @projectkj7643
      @projectkj7643 10 місяців тому

      @@xyz987123abcdifferent benefits. But, both have/had benefits. Don’t focus on others…focus on your benefits and take advantage! 😁

  • @ronj2508
    @ronj2508 3 роки тому +93

    This is similar to my parents story. Hits close to home….my wife and I will be debt free by November🙏. This won’t be our story

    • @stewbugz5213
      @stewbugz5213 3 роки тому +8

      My parents too! I always say I will do exactly opposite of what my parents have done! Sad, but mine made horrible financial decisions with great jobs 25 plus years ago! I can barely handle being around them, that’s all they talk about but won’t do a thing to fix it! 😒

    • @Nexcue
      @Nexcue 3 роки тому +4

      I can relate. My have nothing and that was enough to motivate me. Blessings to you and your family. 🙏

    • @lovesophia19
      @lovesophia19 3 роки тому +10

      Yeah me too. My parents never made a lot of money. My dad was a pastor making very little plus no 401k or any benefit. They are 60s now and doing more physical job. I feel bad for them since they spend the small money they have to support me and my sister. Now we give them 1000 each every month. I guess they are lucky to have us as their kids. I’m sure not a lot of kids would support their parents like us. But yeah it always hurts to see them working 70 hrs a week. They are hoping to get their social soon. 😿

    • @joyaustin6581
      @joyaustin6581 3 роки тому +13

      Health problems can set anyone back

    • @bestbargainfashion5575
      @bestbargainfashion5575 2 роки тому

      Congrats to you BOTH!!!!!!!

  • @AdiusOmega
    @AdiusOmega 22 дні тому +2

    Lucky that they still have their social security to rely on, for a lot of people that's all they got and it's just simply not enough to live off and never will be. It's so crucial that people set themselves up a retirement portfolio and contribute as soon as they can. I work with a lot of young adults and I ALWAYS push and push and push them to setup their 401k's or setup a Roth IRA and get started while they are young because it compounds so fast.

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 3 роки тому +278

    As a tax preparer I've seen this more often than one might expect😔

    • @MyLifeThai371
      @MyLifeThai371 3 роки тому +13

      I remember one year when I was getting my taxes done at H&R Block and a 30 year old woman was sent up to the front desk after her taxes were prepared and she was supposed to write out a $2000 check to the IRS. She was screaming at the receptionist that she doesn't have the money to pay the IRS. The receptionist was cowering in the counter and didn't know what to do. Very tramatic in that business.

    • @ruthiegalles8265
      @ruthiegalles8265 2 роки тому +1

      Good luck to you both

    • @lisamarielund6292
      @lisamarielund6292 2 роки тому +3

      @@MyLifeThai371 File an extension. It has to be paid or the IRS will start to garnish your wages. NEVER EFF WITH THE IRS. You could go to jail for tax evasion.

    • @catherinep2034
      @catherinep2034 2 роки тому

      @@MyLifeThai371 wow, that's scary owing that much

    • @tritruong6279
      @tritruong6279 2 роки тому +3

      Our tax system is unfair and helpless...sadly.

  • @kopsie6379
    @kopsie6379 3 роки тому +13

    This is so many people I know. Needs to be talked about without judgement.

  • @michaelg3911
    @michaelg3911 2 роки тому +294

    This is a great example of why people need to start retirement planning, saving and investing as soon as they can. This, unfortunately, is a very common situation.

  • @IsabellaJulialove
    @IsabellaJulialove Місяць тому +51

    The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich " . These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.

    • @TheoXavier-5
      @TheoXavier-5 Місяць тому +1

      Money invested is far better than money saved , when you invest it gives you the opportunity to increase your financial worth.

    • @AmesArlo93
      @AmesArlo93 Місяць тому +1

      It is remarkable how much long term
      advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid,
      instead of trying to be very intelligent.

    • @AdamNicholas-3d
      @AdamNicholas-3d Місяць тому

      The wisest thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on government paycheck, especially with the current economic crisis around the world.

    • @JewelWrites-so1gm
      @JewelWrites-so1gm Місяць тому

      Many individuals report success in investing in stocks,fx, yet I continue to struggle.Can somebody help me out or advise me on what to do?

    • @ElijahWayne5
      @ElijahWayne5 Місяць тому

      Even with the right technique and assets some investors would still make more than others. As an investor, you should've known that by now that nothing beats experience and that's final. Personally I had to reach out to a stock expert for guidance which is how I was able to grow my account close to $35k, withdraw my profit right before the correction and now I'm buying again.

  • @elizabetha8565
    @elizabetha8565 3 роки тому +550

    I'd love to hire an elderly woman like this to watch my kids. I bet it would be easier than cleaning and they could learn so much from each other. I bet many other moms would like the idea...

    • @rosaliemarie4620
      @rosaliemarie4620 3 роки тому +30

      Depending on the children, age, sids risk, childs health and if it is highly active.

    • @leisurelysam5412
      @leisurelysam5412 3 роки тому +4

      You are nice pretty and respectful

    • @dianac6250
      @dianac6250 3 роки тому +101

      My mom says cleaning is easier than watching children

    • @peanutoreo8052
      @peanutoreo8052 3 роки тому +21

      @@dianac6250 I have to agree, but some kids are easier than others.

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 3 роки тому +29

      Omg watching kids is way harder than cleaning!! Of course it depends on the kids.

  • @charlesscottkelly
    @charlesscottkelly 11 місяців тому +129

    When your fighting all your life to pay bills every week its hard to save.

    • @antwanthorogood4921
      @antwanthorogood4921 7 місяців тому +9

      There’s gotta be a level of scale back

    • @gloriascott6491
      @gloriascott6491 7 місяців тому +8

      Retirement can be boring, unless you can afford to travel, It is hard to stop working.

    • @Lesrevesdhiver
      @Lesrevesdhiver 6 місяців тому +13

      No kidding. All this talk about stocks and bonds and 401K etc, meanwhile Joe Average is juggling utilities and grocery bills. Just where is this magic money going to come from for the luxury of investments?

    • @Sunflower-Lover
      @Sunflower-Lover 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Lesrevesdhiver stop all unnecessary spending. It's there, you have to decide what you're willing to give up.

    • @Lesrevesdhiver
      @Lesrevesdhiver 4 місяці тому

      @@gloriascott6491 I am not retired but been out of work for four months and yeah, one can do the same things only so many times.

  • @RB-gt8bf
    @RB-gt8bf 3 роки тому +269

    As a recently semi retired RN...the average person even those who seem to put down others who don't have much saved can be one or two illnesses away from being just like this lady, and maybe even younger. Unless you are uber rich a chronic illness or a major accident can reduce you to little even with health insurance. I have seen this many times over during 32 years in nursing. Went through cost of chronic illness with both of my dearest late parents. Thank goodness they had good health insurance and with my knowledge as a nurse we managed. Life has many twist and turns. I know many times people say sell your house and get a condo. Be careful those condos and HOA fees (which can get uncontrollably high and out of your hands with a condo board) Maybe find a cheaper smaller house with small HOA fee and avoid a property with a Condo fee. Been there with those condo fees and all I can say is OUCH!

    • @rays242
      @rays242 3 роки тому +21

      Absolutely...a retired person shouldn't have to deal with that condo association rubbish.

    • @tritruong6279
      @tritruong6279 2 роки тому +1

      life is an fortune, we can't predict it, but being good with it.

    • @Anonymous-qw
      @Anonymous-qw 2 роки тому +1

      @@tritruong6279 a fortune not an please

    • @SB-gz5vh
      @SB-gz5vh 2 роки тому +4

      Invest into an hsa account early you’re right one illness could derail anyone

    • @SB-gz5vh
      @SB-gz5vh 2 роки тому +8

      @charliccan depends on where you live

  • @SimonFrers-d9t
    @SimonFrers-d9t 21 день тому +4

    An increasing number of people may struggle during retirement. Low wages, rising inflation, and high rents make saving difficult. Even middle-class Americans now face challenges in homeownership, leaving many without a stable place to retire.

  • @Mitzi73
    @Mitzi73 3 роки тому +477

    Here’s the thing: “You’re not going to see the inside of a restaurant unless you work there.” -- Dave Ramsey

    • @stewbugz5213
      @stewbugz5213 3 роки тому +10

      Words to live by!

    • @dodieodie498
      @dodieodie498 3 роки тому +14

      Rice, beans, and homegrown vegie time. Streeeeeeetch that budget.

    • @waterheaterservices
      @waterheaterservices 3 роки тому +9

      The American Restaurant Owners Association wants to know Dave's location.

    • @gb8518
      @gb8518 3 роки тому +3

      @@waterheaterservices 🤣

    • @eddyvideostar
      @eddyvideostar 3 роки тому

      @@waterheaterservices Why?

  • @salg341
    @salg341 3 роки тому +50

    This can happen to anybody who isn’t intentional and doesn’t plan for the future

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 3 роки тому +10

      And even if you plan, things go wrong, like job losses, etc. Not all of us have a perfect life.

    • @Jakkaribik1
      @Jakkaribik1 8 місяців тому

      @@shannon2748 Some Plans are bad but still people should Plan for the Long Run and then no more need to do that for a Longer time..

  • @tonihernandez6862
    @tonihernandez6862 Рік тому +28

    wow. this lady's story is the reality most of us fear, and know at least one friend or family member that is trapped in this type of situation. bless this lady for having the courage to come forward.

  • @kalthumghani6801
    @kalthumghani6801 Місяць тому +2

    Yes Dave many in the late 60s need your advice😢

  • @susannicky
    @susannicky 11 місяців тому +237

    Interesting I think this is something I should do, but I've been stalling for a long time now. I don't really know which firm to work with; I feel they are all the same but it seems you’ve got it all worked out with the firm you work with so i surely wouldn’t mind a recommendation.

    • @graywilliams_77.
      @graywilliams_77. 11 місяців тому

      I am going to look her up, I have about $81k i want to start with, might be small but it's better than nothing though. Since the 08 crash is playing out again.

    • @susannicky
      @susannicky 11 місяців тому

      Thanks for the info . Found her website and it really impressive

  • @Uptown_Case
    @Uptown_Case 3 роки тому +443

    I would pay off the house first. It would be gut wrenching to pay off the other debt and then end up losing the house but if the house is paid off then it’s not that much of a big deal losing the other things. A house is a huge asset which they already have about 90% equity in. Just pay the small amount left and deal with the other debt after.

    • @imveryhungry112
      @imveryhungry112 3 роки тому +45

      I agree man that house is gonna be the cornerstone of their retirement

    • @acm1288
      @acm1288 3 роки тому +50

      Agreed. Sell the roadster. Pay off the house. Use the monthly mortgage money to start paying off the car. If you lose the car it’s not that big of a deal.

    • @baxakk7374
      @baxakk7374 3 роки тому +7

      Don't the cars have higher interest on them? Anyway, I would pay off the one with the higher rate and pay of the rest slowly. They were also stupid buying a car with $11k loan.

    • @kennethboehnen271
      @kennethboehnen271 3 роки тому +20

      @@baxakk7374 she wants focus on the house because it's their life support and their earning potential is in jeopardy.

    • @michaelmaxwell7871
      @michaelmaxwell7871 3 роки тому +14

      I would sell the vehicles they owe money on, stop eating out, take that car payment...put 1/2 in the savings and pay the other 1/2 towards the house payment...

  • @ytr8989
    @ytr8989 3 роки тому +38

    I’m in a similar situation. Had to move far outside the county line. Found a nice trailer in a fairly nice park. Since I’ve moved here, around two years ago, prices and rent have nearly doubled.

  • @RobertDavid212
    @RobertDavid212 6 місяців тому +40

    The problem we have is because Most people always taught that " you only need a good job to become rich. These billionaires are operating on a whole other playbook that many don't even know exists.

    • @AtlasBarrett45
      @AtlasBarrett45 6 місяців тому

      Money invested is far better than
      money saved, when you invest it gives
      you the opportunity to increase your
      financial worth.

    • @AmesArlo93
      @AmesArlo93 6 місяців тому

      It is remarkable how much long term
      advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid,
      instead of trying to be very intelligent.

    • @zacharydouglas426
      @zacharydouglas426 6 місяців тому

      The wisest thing that should be on
      everyone mind currently should be to
      invest in different streams of income
      that doesn't depend on government
      paycheck, especially with the current
      economic crisis around the world. This is still a time to invest in Stocks, Forex and Digital currencies.

    • @HaroldDylan-
      @HaroldDylan- 6 місяців тому

      Many individuals report success in investing in stocks, forex, and cryptocurrency (Bitcoin), yet I continue to struggle. Can somebody help me out or advise me on what to do?

    • @PatriciaMary11
      @PatriciaMary11 6 місяців тому

      Even with the appropriate method and assets, some investors will still outperform others. As an investor, you should already know that nothing surpasses experience, and that is final. Personally, I had to seek advice from a stock specialist, which allowed me to build my account by over $35k, extract my profit just before the correction, and now I'm purchasing again.

  • @NotYourAvgJoe24
    @NotYourAvgJoe24 2 роки тому +139

    She knew what she has to do, she just needed to be told. The car, eating out etc…. You gotta get your priorities in check

    • @darylbeyersdorf7932
      @darylbeyersdorf7932 2 роки тому +18

      Yes. Eating out costs so much!!! Don't over spend!!

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 2 роки тому +1

      Only Rosie O'Donnell can afford to eat out for chrissakes.

    • @sxtsxt6714
      @sxtsxt6714 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah she may know what to do but it’s not up to her it’s up to them(as a couple)

    • @pauliexcluded1
      @pauliexcluded1 2 роки тому +3

      It helps to hear it spelled out. I am taking a class right now in quality engineering. It is all mostly common sense however I will be a better engineer because of having these concepts spelled out.

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 Рік тому +1

      you shouldnt be eating at 71 you need to be fasting.