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We called this “the butterfly theory”. In college. If you chase a butterfly it flies away. If you stop, sit down, and wait…the butterfly will land on your shoulder. It was our dating philosophy
why would anyone want their date to sit on their shoulder?
@@alanh7247 youre so stupid
😅😅
@@alanh7247 its just an analogy bruh
"Stop chasing butterflies because they will fly away, instead build a beautiful garden then the butterflies will come to your garden".
A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because its trust is not on the branch but on its own wings.
"I never saw a wild thing feel sorry for itself..a small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself."-D.H
Lawrence
That's one hell of a motivation
Hell yeah man
The older i get the more i like birds
FUCKING AWESOME ADVICE
@@GORILLA_PIMPI concure ❤
Tomorrow is my exam. I thought of studying but I guess I trust myself now 😝
Wow😂
Real men don't study for their exams, they believe in themselves. 🤣💪
How did the exam go
Honestly speaking as a professor, if you have studied entire year, exhausting yourself now will not really change results very much. I have seen students make silly mistakes and not manage their time in exams, getting a bad grade as they didn't finish the paper/ said drastically wrong answers in viva due to anxiety. What I think he means by not trying is you need to still take action, but lose the mindset of desparation. It is probably a taoist advice.
😭🤣🤣🤣
Secret to confidence, focus on yourself and fall in love with yourself. Never need anyone’s validation because your validation is all you need. I totally agree with what he said. Stop trying? Who are you trying to impress because nobody cares literally😂 so impress yourself, do it for you, be the best version of you for you and watch how everyone starts to feel that energy emitting from you because attractive people energy is based on focusing on themselves and filling their own cup. They don’t need the outside world to validate them because they already validated themselves and they come off care free and so fun to be around ❤
Confidence follows competence
Your saying the same thing: focus on what you can control not what you cannot. Competence is something that you can control, faking or acting confident is trying to control something you can’t. Let the work you put in speak for itself.
Exactly, confidence is earned.
Wow, very true.
@@ThisMeantime "imagine if a celebrity u wanted to meet walked in right now, what would u say?" :/. .. competence is like knowing how to get something done no matter how big or small? Confidence is believing in yourself no matter physical or mental? Easier said than done. You can have confidence, that doesn't mean someone else is still in charge. That's why I throw a trillion darts in the air. Bc im bound to hit on something :/. & even if you get something done, doesn't mean ppl won't stop testing you.
So basic, you need to doubt to really understand and of course knowlegde.
I needed this because I’ve been losing confidence in myself. I used to be the opposite and idk what changed as I got older I lost myself 😔
Hey , I can totally understand , dealing with the same shit but I believe we all we'll be real us , confident , strong , powerful, fierce ..... It will take a while .... But we will definitely
That's only because you were ignorant
I hope you can turn it around (or have).
Be confident; not egotistical. Trust yourself; Let go and Let God handle it.
that's a brilliant mindset
@rs7458 blue lock says otherwise
@@cobie-raehart2742 who blue lock? Anime character?
Surrender yourself to God doesn't mean God will come physically and help you do your work. It means listening to and trusting God. Even if God is not coming physically, but he will definitely help you
Ego is tates problem
This kinds of videos never actually helped me until now. That was a really good advice
He just said trust yourself to be confident aka be confident to be confident 😂 I like this guy, but this isn’t any advice
Listen to Alan Watts
@@kroepoek3764if it works for people to hear, then it is great advice. To each their own
@@kroepoek3764 did you even watch the video? his advice for dating and money is on point
Jimin floating on in the waterr🥹🥹🥹
Bruh I was looking for this comment cuz like is it only me who noticed jimin floating lol!😭🤣🤣Damn 🤌
Me too@@nandinichangela
This ish something a pick up artist would preach.
You build confidence through repetition & experience/progress you gain from it.
So no, keep trying even if you fail.
That’s how you grow true confidence.
No, that’s how you convince women to want to date you. That’s more of a sales tactic. I say that because the same set of skills you’re talking about developing apply equally well in the business world.
He’s talking more about finding healthy organic relationships with people that don’t involve any form of posturing or social cues
Hello
That makes sense: Op.
FACTS OVA FEELINGS. ...
Confidence Doesn't Change Who a Man is it Simply Reveals Who He is
Anyone notice his glasses are lopsided in the beginning and gradually go down until the end when he uses the word “control” and addresses our obsession with trying to control outward circumstances . Very subtle and clever technique! I extend peace love and light to all of you on your internal journey! ✨🙏 be patient, you got this🙌🍁🙃
Gaahhh I needed to control those glasses so much I couldn’t even focus on the video content 😂 was looking for the comment about them but you pointing out how it may have been an intentional lesson took it to the next level for me haha
Fantastic! I am having surgery today and I am now confident AF. I have complete trust in my doctor and my body's ability to heal. 😁
🙏🏼Put your trust in God = all will be well 😊
@@LiveLoveLaugh22 Thank you my friend, and I sure do! I am healing well with no complications. 🙏🥰
@@darla4042 Thank God! Glad for u that everything is going well :D
Get well 🥺💗🙏
Trust God
Bro summoned the whole fandom....!💜
What fandom, which fandom
@@AlmightyXaio77 BTS ARMY fandom
The literal Latin root of confidence is “with faith”.
This is the most valuable thing I learnt ❤
Got it. The less I study, the higher the chances of getting an A+. Otherwise, my exam paper will sense my neediness. I have intense trust in my current knowledge. I'm a badass.
"Intense trust in myself." Phrase to place on bathroom mirror.
I’ve stopped trying and worrying and now I have nothing. ☺️ If you want something you have to work for it.
" Stop Trying, Start TRUSTING YOURSELF "
Your right! I need to start trusting in God!
Trust God
good example of confidence: "Frick it we ball"
Confidence doesn’t come from nowhere. Instead of superficially asking someone to “Just be confident”.. One should explore as much as you could, learn diligently, build experiences, sharpen your skills and knowledges, achieve your goals you set out to, make new friends and get out from your comfort zone. These will help build your confidence on a deeper level, REAL confidence.
Confidence is imagined. 💓
Being Ready for the result of your action whether its in your interest or not. That 'it's gonna be ok' thing is called Confidence.
Ps - just heard in previous short
Confidence only comes from small wins that accumulate over time
I never trust to much confident people.
Not at all. Many delusional people are confident for no reason. We ussually call them morons or psychopaths. It's just a state of mind. Ignorance is bliss
@E.T. Phone Home confidence is knowing you don't fear death even if it will strike u anytime. Arrogance is developing superiority complex.
The more I worry about my debts the more in debt I am. But I stopped worrying and just started trusting myself to work it out, I found new ways to provide and overcome those obstacles.
Gratitude in the morning and gratitude before bed is all you need. No need to thank me, I'm happy to help.
The more stressed you get the more resistance you create.
Interesting timing on this one, Clark 👏🏼 much love
Yes thats true, i felt that in college when i studied so hard and stressed myself so much, i always ended up getting an average mark while people i know who didnt even put much efforts, passed exams with good marks.
I would agree with you. I work with people on this exact thing but from what I've seen, that only works in some cases. Depending on what they are trying to gain confidence in, they conditions for your advice to automatically "connect" may or may not be present. From what I've seen, it's hard for them to actually trust themselves because they have no successful "files" of them trusting themselves and it working out for them. They also just may not be conscious of them, may downplay them, or the things they are confident about are of no real significance to them. Excellent video Brother, making the world better one person at a time. 🏆
I agree. Some don't have a reason or memory of why they should trust themselves.
@@AngelNote1 a great way of looking at it. Definitely
I agree. Although I think some trying is okay it's just when it's too much it can be repeling. People and the universe work the same way. lol
Now I see why the homeless people are the most sucsesfull , they don't stress over anything , they don't even try , they only trust themselves.
The smart homeless know where the free food at, which area people are willing to give them money
Where people are willing to support them
@@piqueny8872 Okk... Now is it smart being homeless?? Wtf?!
@@toddbr5959 some utube vid a homeless guys confessed how much money he gets from the government, has no bills no rent , they given his an phone
Free food free showers free beds at the shelter if they line up early , free clothes more food from the church’s every holiday
They spend the money on drugs alcohol
Right. That's y I look so young. Bc I dont even wanna do sh. :/. Man, I kinda love the elderly folks. They really just want to speak their mind but I guess most of the times have learnt to try & put a filter on it. i didn't say they're wise.
@Todd Br I went to a small town that told me about their favorite homeless man. He was a physicist, and one day decided to be homeless.
The town loved him so much that they pitched in to get him a small apartment. He said "no thanks" and continued to be homeless by choice.
Makes one wonder... why?
Want the real secrets to getting confidence? And, total emotional self control, mental strength, becoming calm and centred and mentally balanced, not being affected by stress, being the man who can be relied upon to keep his head in a crisis or under extreme pressure? To be able to overcome anything that life throws at you and still come out on top?
When you have this all nailed you will have opened up a whole new world of possibilities without limits.
All explained in detail exactly how to go about getting it.
The art to masculinity by james Francis
confidence = intense trust. stop trying, start trusting.
Thank you so much!
I would say that the way to build confidence is yes to “trust yourself” however do so only after you start doing things. If you say oh yea im doing this new thing but you have never done anything similar before you won’t have confidence because it’s factually impossible for you to have it in that situation. You need to prove to yourself that you can do things. Then that certainty that you gain from accomplishing smaller tasks will be your confidence. My point is that if you have no experience and you convince yourself to be confident you are experiencing delusion. You have to do enough that your giving yourself a real statistical chance building your “confidence” in ability because you are just scaling the same skill. This is different then controlling impulses and getting up everyday and doing it regardless of how you feel or “believing in yourself” to do it.
Thanks Clark, your compassion is very much appreciated. this 60 message is well received and welcomed. 😁💛👍
I've experienced this lately, it is ABSOLUTELY TRUE. Well said, sir. 👏
Special thanks for using Jimin’s picture 😊 one his smile can brighten my day
I was driving. My friend was with me in the car watching this video. I was listening to it. I instantly followed what you said. We were on a highway on a hill. A turn came. I said let's not try and just trust.
BTW I'm buried now. I typed this from the soul realm.
I wish this was worded better because trusting oneself could be confused with arrogance and just trusting that I'll do better without effort is useless
With the dating, it's not just the neediness we're sensing... guys who are chasing are often pushy, arrogant, demanding, etc. That's not attractive, no matter what you look like.
Make us smile, or laugh. Put us at ease, and feel GOOD. This is accomplished by being casual and friendly, not predatory.
Just gotta start trusting myself to finally get a job and possibly some money 😢
Jimin shi😆
something about energy and manifesting but this totally makes sense, there has been multiplmultiple times I WANTED something that I couldn't get but once I gave up that's when it would find me
This is so very true I use this tactic on a daily basis at Work as a surgeon , they're not too happy about it but I trust myself 😌
Great advice ✌🏽❤️
If you got bills to pay you definitely shouldn't be not focusing on paying them 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Focus on you and the focus becomes you.❤
Reminds me of the philosophy I have when you lose something..The more you look for it the least you'll find it and vice versa...It's about energy and what you choose to focus on...
It's in the Qur'an...follow the Sunnah and prophet Muhammad, do your five prayers a day , do Wudu .....that has saved me MASHALLAH Peace Be To Allah
Trusting yourself, so hard for me the last four years after making a series of blunders. Working on swimming with the river✌️
Stop trying, starts trusting. Best advise ever!
Dude instilled "Believe in yourself" in a max level and way 🙌🏽🔥😩
Yep!!! Fake it til you make it!!! I just dont worry about money and bills anymore. Money will come. As long as i am healthy i will be fine
Clarity is needed. Confidence without clarity is ignorance
Exactly.... What completely changed my life after 30...
(cause I spent my 20s doubting myself, trying to control things and constantly planning)
Intense trust in my Lord.. I do my part and he always goes the rest.. simple! Never stressed or worry. Because w him there is no need to be 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you, my stepmom and (real) dad were confronting me about my confidence earlier TvT
Confidence doesn't come automatically,u get it after doing that , when you try you learn what are the ways to be better everyday to be confident,that accomplishmemt of small wins gives the confidence to do big things
Word! Brother I now understand something that needed to be put like how you say it.
I always like the analogy of a bird sitting on a fragile branch... it is relaxed, eventhough the branch can break any time, because it trusts itself to fly away if this might happen...
I really appreciate your videos. You put out good content that people need to hear but in a positive way. You’re doing good things for the world. Thank you.
That's all good when you can express yourself the way you want to with words. I notice myself in conversations wanting to say things or comment on people, but I don't seem to be able to come up with the words. I don't think about it a lot as i learned that its a huge flaw i have to live with. Never seen anybody mention this anywhere sadly. I don't seek approval or anything, but i had people tell me it makes me come off as slow/not confident and not interested. It's not an issue, but confidence doesnt fix this.
Best words ever spoken. Thank you for this. It reached my heart in ways you can’t imagine.
That's great! Confidence seems more simple than I thought. I used to hear always, "Fake it 'til you make it", but that wasn't the whole answer. Your explanation sounds better. Good to know. Thanks.
I remember a movie or a documentary with actors, about pirates. At one moment, the captain told the cabin boy to grasp and handfull of sand. The more you will try to keep the sand in your fist, the more it will escape, and the more it will be visible. So, in the end, with money, tries or even secrets, don't hold that too much, on the contrary, open up and let it go when needed.
relaxation is the key
Stop trying start trusting! Got it thanks
Trust the process in letting go of trying to control the unfolding of life.
It’s in the unlearning of our conditioning that we remember we know what we’re capable of being, doing, and having.
Breathe.
Be present.
It’s going to be okay.
You are enough.
We are all doing our best.
Take care everyone. ❤🙏🏼🌎🧿✨🎉
It works both ways... like if ur confident you go get it... u go after it...and in a relationship you open up if ur super into them u don't feel the need to hide it or play games... but the other side (what this video is touching on) is also important... so you must find balance... and timming
Confidence is gained by competence. That's the way happy neurochem Serotonin works, the more you win the happier you are, the more you get competent/capable the more confident you become... "you cannot be a master if you're not willing to be a fool"
Self trust is built through repeated results, and results only come through trying things.
I really needed this, i just had an interview assessment go disastrous, ive been beating myself up for the past 30 mins, now i realise what i did wrong, i remember being so stressed and frustrated that i just couldnt get the right answers. I have a lot to learn.
Confidence = from the Latin roots. Con as prefix meaning “with or to carry” Fidere is the Latin origin of suffix “fidence” meaning faith or Trust. So having confidence means “With faith”
"He who stands on tiptoe
doesn't stand form.
He who rushes ahead
doesn't go far.
He who tries to shine
dims his own light.
He who defines himself
can't know who he really is.
He who has power over others
can't empower himself.
He who clings to his work
will create nothing that endures."
I trust my past successes which signal competence in a particular domain of life
I heard this recently and i think it's the best way i have actually heard it. Confidence is something you look at from the outside in, it's like the best lasagna you've ever had that is incredibly good good but you have no idea what's in it because you don't have a recipe. What we need is the recipe! you can make a lasagna that looks just like it but it won't taste the same and that's what we all do by "trying to be confident", we make mediocre lasagna that looks nice. The recipe to the best lasagna ever is to exert effort, not in confidence, but in self acceptance! a cool person will accept himself in all situations, no matter how embarrassing or shameful. This will make you act right and change or accept anything that is out of place, it will give you inner peace and a feeling of being good enough. The beginning of growth and that thing others call self confidence. Try it! it changes the game
I hope this helps after a fall in horse riding and losing my confidence twice 😢❤
My understanding: Focus on the solution. Now as far as confidence. That comes from preparation and or experience. Focusing on the journey that gets you to the outcome is what he means. Enjoy the process.
agree,when im stuck in things, just leave it and the result is coming then without im tey
Jiminshi what are you doing there😂
Needed this because I’ve been convincing myself to talk to my ex in person and get her back. We were together for 5 years and broke up because of long distance issues, now I just don’t feel like I can love again :/
This just made me smile. I have got this. I need to learn to let go
This is a REAL GOLDEN NUGGETS. You have to trust and let go
This is relatively better advice than other click-baiting shorts..
The thing is i want to feel confident rather than looking confident, which effortlessly comes following the previous..
I can’t stop watching your videos 🙏🏽☮️☮️☮️☮️☮️
There isn’t a single mindset or attitude that you cannot poke holes in. Take any approach to life, and you will be able to make it sound stupid. This will be reflected in the way you view your own life.
But when you start doing the reverse and see the merit in the various approaches people have, that is when you will stumble upon the answers you have been missing
Annuls having to watch 90%of UA-cam vids. This does it. ♡
Don't want, chase or attach. It will all work out, it always does.
...so, confidence makes you attractive. Do things that make you feel more confident, such as, get fit, clean your house/car, pay you bills on time, learn a new skill, be kind to yourself and others, get a new outfit and hairstyle and set and accomplish goals.
This is the greatest video of all time on you tube ❤
You’re in my top 5 favorite UA-camrs. Thx bro
For me was trusting myself of what I can do and the rest I can't control leaving to God He will arrange things in the most beautiful way. My anxiety disappeared and things run smoothly now.
Confidence comes from support and being able to build a belief system about your own idenity (validation from others or of the self, it doesnt matter. Confidence is not facts or proof it's a blind belief or love. Support builds momentum and possibilities/potential, this is why majority of people chose sponsorship and not mentorship. It's clearly not about competence for majority of people, it's about security and comfort and acceptance.
Confidence isn't a choice. It's a byproduct of actions you take over time.
"From now own trust yourself." In practice that doesn't mean anything at all. Sounds cool though, and people like simple and easy.
Confidence is great but the fine line of over confidence is very easy to cross. Set an obtainable goal first then move forward. But always accept the possibility of failure as part of life but never let failure define you.
Thought I’d was going to be some bs advice but I’m pleasantly surprised. I agree with this message.
Intense trust
This video is good
Can’t have confidence if you don’t have a clear definition of it