@PeachysMom too bad he hasn't learned his manners. Constantly burping and farting right into the mic. His language is disgusting too. Didn't he buy a giant dildo to laugh at? His humor clearly hasn't matured.
Introspection can save a lot of young, awkward dudes. A lot of them would benefit from simply looking at a situation like that they did and say "Wow, that was bad. Maybe I shouldn't have done that."
I know it was mentioned before but it’s just hilarious how Charlie calls his videos “Obsessed Creep” or “Another Unhinged Weirdo” and a thumbnail is just his face.
@@ashlovestolaugh5149he confirmed that’s what it was in another video, that’s also why all/most of the thumbnails are just stretched out. it’s apparently not for comedic effect, he just doesn’t give a damn
I think he meant it just as a phrase but given the context easily could be way more creepy than it is Like with the context and the phrase separately it’s creepy but if you use the context to interpret the phrase it could be even more creepy and sinister Sorry if this doesn’t make sense 😂
@@Imbettadenuit makes perfect sense and I was about to say the same thing. I might be dating myself but in the 90s girls would kill to have compliments like that made about them, especially if it came from their crush.
@@-_Somebody_i noticed that too, a lot of modern dating is just about being the most nonchalant possible, i'm not talking about the guy in the video, but it just seems that the possibility to being called a creepy are on all time high to the slightests things, i've seem someone here on the channel calling creepy if someone tell a girl her boyfriend is lucky to have her, it can be creepy depending on how you say it but come on. I have also seem someone say any kind of approach is creepy and you shouldn't approach at all, how are you supposed to meet new people then????
He has caveman brain. "You pretty. Me provide good for you. You leave weakling for me, OK?" He isn't able to process "no" as an answer, and dresses it up like he isn't that as simplistic as he is.
Literally I’ve never known any women where a man took care of them to the exact extent that they wanted/needed. It’s a big friggen gamble and some people think of it so lightly
Fr!! My bf is the biggest nerd and it’s genuinely wonderful! People deserve to feel like they can be passionate about things. It’s part of what makes him so special and interesting :)
You are absolutely right. What is the problem with somebody being a nerd and chasing their own passions? Moreover, the creep exudes such potent bad boy vibes as he would definitely keep her until he impregnates or catches her talking, even to her father, and opt to distance her from the family. And once the creep acknowledged that she is pregnant, he is going to run away like a chicken.
People like this have always been around. I understand not being able to read social cues or having bitterness from previous relationships I think most of us can sympathize with that but the way this guy talks and behaves goes against everything that’s common sense
My dad once told me parable of the sour grapes. Long story short, the short king couldn't reach the fruit so he convinced himself that they were probably sour anyway. This is obviously just to make himself feel better about not being able to get the thing. "Your loss" is just that for 2023.
Ya know, I think that's something that has changed new generations. I was an 80s kid yet still even then, things like Aesops Fables were a huge thing. I even bought it for my son when I had one. We were taught morals and life lessons from a young age and they were a big part of life. No more 🤷🏻 The sour grapes story is a good one BTW.
@@Mr_C.Bacteria"morals and life lessons" are still taught to children everywhere, along with more critical examinations of them as social values. The fables are literally in lots of schools’ curriculums.
Yeah, I heard that one on school. Honestly, it's kinda a messed up thing to teach kids, if you really think about it. "If you can't get a thing, then that thing probably sucked anyways" is such horrible logic when it's applied to day to day life. Sometimes, we need to be able to accept that, "hey, we didn't get that thing, but that's OK" without immediately sh***ing on that thing and being a douche about it. We blame kids for being sore losers, but one of the earliest lessons we teach them is to be sore losers. Make it make sense.
@@transsnack The point of the fable is that the fox's logic is bad. The moral is "There are many who pretend to despise and belittle that which is beyond their reach"
This is the definition of 'objectification'. He's describing her like a toaster, the best toaster he's ever seen, and he thinks he's entitled to own her because he's got 'a good job'. And then he is shocked when the toaster talks back and says, "Nah, I don't want to toast your bread." Bu... but... you're a toaster!! Toast mah bread goddammit!!
To all the guys out there, when a woman says "no" she means "no", not "well maybe idk sure". If you wanna harass people get a job in telemarketing instead.
Here is the thing. I think the reason some of these guys feel like that is because they have a history with women in their life that like their creepiness. Which I know it's crazy to think how anyone would like that, type of guy's personality but unfortunately there are people that exist that are into it . The issue is these people don't realize extreme personalities like them don't mesh well with those who are more normal...
For me, yes, totally agree. I will say though that there are girls out there that believe in the whole "I want him to chase me" thing after saying no. I've talked to those girls. I've tried to explain that this is a big no no but somehow it doesn't connect. Thing is, you're probably better off without a girl who wants you to ignore what she says.
He needs to be put on a list. His persistence to keep bothering this poor woman after being bluntly rejected, and publicly shamed is scary. It gives me “I will get what I want at whatever cost” vibes.
At this point it feels like Charlie is reading these creepy DMs like he's a priest giving a sermon, and I'm showing up every Sunday to hear him preach.
I'm not sure how a priest nicknamed Moist Critical would even do in the catholic church. He could be pope within a year or get outed on some forum. Both options seem feasible.
@@Wilkins325 What do you mean of course it does, because it makes the priest happy enough to tell you that your sins are forgiven since he's about to buy himself a new whore.
This guy isn't in love with Sabrina. This guy is in love with the idea of what he imagines Sabrina is like. He is obsessed with the idea of her, the fantasy version that checks all the boxes. He's lucky she's not impulsive... Imagine if she completely upended her entire life to give him an opportunity and a chance to prove himself. Like the dog that chases the car, he wouldn't know what to do with it once he catches it, and in a month would be looking at his trophy and wondering what the heck it is, because he didn't take the time to learn about her first, and resenting her for not being the delusional illusion he thought she was.
"Why would he think this persistence would be appreciated?" Simple. Because everything from Disney to romcons have beat the idea into mens heads that if they simply keep trying, the pretty girl will eventually say yes. The 90s/2000s were flooded with the message in pop culture and its gonna take ages for young men to unlearn this dangerous lesson.
It’s not disney and romcoms (not many men watch them anyway, for all it’s worth, i think they’re worse for women). It isn’t the 90/00-s. It’s the patriarchy that teaches men to commodify women as property and feel entitled to their attention, bodies and emotions.
Yeah, we can't have media beating the persistence message into guys' heads, then automatically blame them for not understanding that meeting resistance means that they should stop. That being said, this is an adult man. If he were a teenager, I'd get it, but he should have developed critical thinking skills by now.
There's nothing wrong with being persistent if you conduct yourself in a normal manner. When I sent the first few messages to my gf she told me recently that she wanted to see if I'll give up or not. I'm not saying she told me "no" and I persisted, rather I was making an effort and now we are in a relationship. If you're being persistent in a weird way you make it even weirder, downright creepy. Writing this type of comment is not necessary and you'll be sending the wrong message to some insecure males out there reading it. Fellas, just be normal, know how to conduct yourselves and learn to read the mood. Be rational and never thirst over her. If you're attracted to her, make it out of right reasons, not because she has "a body to die for" as that clown mentioned. Be a man!
"my intentions are very platonic" followed by "I just want to show you you would be happier with me" is just perfection. For someone who wants to show how much better he is than her current boyfriend he doesn't even know the meaning of basic words apparently and is too lazy to check it. Among a ton of other problems with his personality of course
A guy who acts like that doesn’t actually view her as a person. More of an object. He wants to possess her. Clear signs of a sociopath and narcissist. The way he talks about her shows that he just views her as a sexual object that’s it. And that, “you can crash at my place” line has me laughing so hard, lol. The guy is a smoothy, lol.
Gotta "love" how every one of the traits the creep talked about liking in his obsession were all appearance traits and not a single one was about her personality, her mind, or even a mention of things she mentioned liking that he may have liked too. Makes you wonder if he even bothered reading the words to things she's posted or just stared at her pictures and decided he wanted that.
The only possible "trait" I think he said was how she was "kind". I love how literally this creep and many others gravitate to that word. Never anything like, "Oh she's intelligent" or, "She's actually really funny and creative!". It always seems to be the words "nice", "kind" or something like it.
Well, I have a confession. Just so happens that I am currently staring at your PFP rn and I just decided something… I want that. So… let me get a crack at that… let me find out 🧐
@@ghostofpolariskind people are easy to take advantage of, maybe he saw it is a good trait bc she’s like easy pickings or whatever (obv she wasn’t but yknow, i’m trying to rationalise his bs lol)
Bro everyone knows they dont wanna be these guys,the dudes who act like this aint gonna listen to reason,they are creeps through and through,its in their DNA 🤣 incels gonna Incel
EVEN if she wasn't dating a guy and was single ... she's ok to turn him down. These messages were so creepy, no matter the circumstances if a random stranger cold DM-ed me "I want you" I will run away screaming lol
@@CMP-st5whthere are ways to hit on girls without saying creepy phrases like “I want you”. As a woman, the guys I’ve dated haven’t typically been close friends, but they’ve been people who i started talking to organically. Like maybe we met at a party or had mutual friends or a group project together. I’m inclined to turn down any guy who hits on me by going out of his way to approach me in public because it feels less safe and we haven’t shared even a single smile or anything even a little bit meaningful, so why WOULD I be interested? That’s somewhat a personal preference and it definitely can work on some women but you gotta be careful to not weird them out. Social media especially would raise red flags bc we don’t know each other and if we did you could talk to me irl
Stop with BS. Attractive, celebrities, rich = Yes. Ugly, poor, not famous = Creep, no and stranger. 🤣🤣🤣Its not the situations, its the person. What if your celebrity crush cold DM you? Yeah, you wouldn't say no...
Yeah men are definitely more guilty of this, but I had a similar experience with a girl in my class. We only ever worked on group projects together, she knew I had a girlfriend. Then she randomly insisted I travel to visit her - when I reminded her I was in a relationship, she insisted it was platonic. I told her no, and she flipped out and told me to go F myself and a bunch of other stuff. I don't understand how people create these narratives in their head out no where, pure delusion.
13:38 "I don't know why that's so common amongst all of these" Probably because people who can't take "no" for an answer don't like losing, and then just "sour grape" the situation to convince themselves the loss was actually a win.
I do love how she handled herself in the DMs. She was so polite, but also drew hard boundaries and defended both herself and her SO. She called out his idiotic, creepy, and honestly condescending behavior.
Yes, those hard boundaries of responding and thus baiting further messages. She should have blocked at the start like most level-headed female would. What a world this is now, that girls like this farm creeps for content. LOL
There's a very fine line between properly conveying feelings and coming off like a creep/threat. Nowadays though, there's less tolerance for someone being forward with their intentions, but also far more people that don't know how to convey those intentions in a healthy or positive way. This was none of those, it was just someone ignoring all social cues and conventions and even the wishes of the individual they desired.
The woman and her boyfriend should be on guard, we've seen this type of unhinged behavior before and it can be legitimately dangerous. The incident with Gavin Free comes to mind.
@@Fuckingusername A crazed fan drove miles to their home in Texas with the intent of killing Gavin because he thought he didn't deserve to be with his girlfriend, Meg (that's what I remember hearing anyway).
@@erikmckoul2478 he is! He posted a picture of himself one time he’s a manager at a store short, scrawny, short greasy hair, struggling to grow facial hair, poor posture ect. 😂 dang for the life of me I’m trying to find the screenshot of him in his work uniform. I know I have it! I document EVERYTHING, because their weirdo KEEPS COMING BACK! 😭
Had a roommate who did this kind of shit with a girl he went on Mike 2 actual dates with. Finally convinced her to hang again and ended up screaming and kicking her out in the middle of the night insulting you. A year of obsessively stalking and hitting up her social media and even contacting her boyfriend followed. Fucking crazy
I love seeing this called out, even though I still have to fight back against my conditioning to always “be nice” and consider others’ feelings no matter what. I can’t tell you how many times something similar has happened to me-I think many women have had the same experience. The first time, I was 15.
People who don't understand "no", you can hardly hurt with anything. Imagine how dense someone must be in order to sustain that level of being utterly ignorant. Then you can compare, I think, how appropriate or not a seemingly harsh response is for them.
My son introduced me to Charlie several years ago when my son was about 12. We would watch the videos together and laugh and talk about them. As a mom, I am so glad that Charlie is out here to be a role model for young men. I am not being sarcastic, I am serious. It is so easy for people to get swept into following certain misogynistic people I will not name, and Charlie counters that with just good sense (not going to say "common sense" because good sense is not common). It's refreshing.
I mean, as a grownup who watches Charlie, I don't really know if I'd be comfortable with a twelve year old watching him. Yes, he has a mature mindset and can impart wisdom that youngins need, but he also has a lot of other content that's a lot more explicit
@@madeniquevanwykbro 12 year olds are definitely making dick and pussy jokes. Atleast, i and everyone I knew at that age did. It’s not like he’s posting pics of his actual butthole.
@@Ava-nf2qq yeah? I work with kids, and my brother was a 12 year old a few years ago. Believe it or not, a lot of tweens are not socialised to sex to such a degree that they can just watch a man play with dildos and ovipositors and not be affected by it
As a woman, thank you Charlie. Honestly I watch for your sense of humor but by going through conversations like these I really feel its going to be educating a whole load of younger viewers in such a positive way
I agree, it's a real breath of fresh air from the misogyny that's so prevalent on UA-cam. We need more people like Charlie: intelligent, respectful, confident, and not afraid to call out creepy behavior!
absolutely. young boys need to understand 2 things. 1. women most of the time will care about what you have and not what you can give IE personality. if a guy believes women only care about what he can give he'll only see his good traits as something he can give, IE a well paying job or a cool house, but people love eachother cause of the people they are. and 2. and Charlie mentioned this, having self awareness and self reflection. being able to seperate yourself from the situation and see how it looks, cause if you can't see how it looks you'll keep looking at it from your own view and not the view from the distance, you may think your in the right but in reality you can't see how wrong what your doing is.
And guys like this are so predictable it's exhausting! I don't even get dms from the amount of guys that frequent tiktok dance trend users get because I don't use tiktok so it's just guys I know in person which is more difficult, then if you're "rude" because you make it very clear you're not interested in them you might get attacked, or if you keep saying that you're busy and try to be nice you're leading them on even if you keep saying that you're busy with your significant other. The hardest part of it is, is that if you actually wanted to be friends with them you can't because they don't see the point.
This is why I wholeheartedly believe Charlie is an overall positive influence on the platform. There are so many weird ideologies/opinions floating around the internet that Charlie acts an antidote to. A lot of children will steer into a positive, healthy direction, away from the destructive lines of thinking.
Charlie, you're an absolute icon, I must say. Thanks for setting it straight with people like this. I've been preyed on before like this, usually by 30+ year old men, more times than I can count as comfortable; and as of writing this, I'm still 17. You really do help teach younger people not to stick for things like this, and for that, I'm incredibly grateful. Thank you.
These creepy guy interaction videos you’ve been making recently have been so enjoyable. Thank you Charlie for enduring the wonderful cringe when we don’t have to.
I've actually had my wife nudge me to show me her getting DMs like this. She once had it from a guy whose wife recently died of cancer and she took pity on him and helped him with a charity gig. He knew she was already married. I understand loneliness but this level of cringe and lack of thought is WIDELY concerning.
I've had nice conversations with men about their depression and hard family lives. Just for them to flash me with their genitals. It happens so often and I simply refuse to talk to people now unless they are from school, work or friendgroups lol!
@@maschaorsomething I start to wonder if it's a design flaw to encourage breeding in males. I've legit seen those I'd class as intelligent just completely ignore all sound reason if it means they can get some company. Baffling.
@@maschaorsomethingyes a good portion of men assume any interest beyond “hello” is sexual in some nature. I’m a man and growing up there’s just like a section of us that are unable to relationally control their sexual emotions. It’s honestly insane. No matter how much you talk to them or try to convince them their behavior comes across as weird they just keep doing it and for some reason some of them get a lot of chicks. This dude in the video for example has total confidence in himself and a lot of women like confidence and it creates a weird cycle where they think their actions are being validated when in actuality they have 1 good trait that after one week women get bored of and leave. Now put this behind a computer screen and the veil of anonymity and this is why there are so many weird guys online.
@@DuneCrescentit is 100% a wired brain thing that men typically grow out of past 25. I remember in high school I was similar to this insane (not near the same level but I recognize the thinking pattern) and yea it feels almost engulfing. Your mind cannot comprehend anything else outside of sexual desire. Any attention that a girl gave me I assumed it was sexual in nature. Now I look back and cringe so bad. I grew out of it as soon as I got to college and had my first relationship and began to mature but some men go their whole lives without maturing in this way due to a number of different reasons. A lot of prisoners or convicts exhibit this behavior because they tend not to be socialized the same way. Women who work in corrections or rehabilitation will tell you it’s just part of the job and they don’t wanna hurt you they just don’t know how else to communicate. Sad really.
It's the highest level of immaturity to think you have a bond with someone you don't know because you like the way they look and mold that in your head into characteristics that you love.
I will never get tired of Charlie taking deep dives on incels and "sigma males" shooting their shots and bricking spectacularly. Please keep this series going.
yeah, this is some straight 'sigma male' 'school of charm' tateverse type behavior. the whole 'real alpha males just take what they want' mentality. this is what happens when people like andrew tate get popular.
As a woman, Charlie, I think these sorts of videos you make are genuinely very valuable. Its unfortunate that these need to be made but I appreciate that you use your platform and put in the work to help people understand that this type of behavior is both abnormal and frightening.
@@acuilnosThey could also just be really immature. The worst evil is those who do not recognize they're evil. They see themselves as good and it takes seeing someone else be called out for them to get it.
As someone with a brain, these videos are not "genuinely very valuable" because the guy (and anyone like him) is being told this and doesn't change. The videos are purely for entertainment.
I’ve had to deal with this kind of behavior before. I’m honestly really glad to see you talk about this, because it’s a great example of what *not* to do
I love how this guy calls her bf a dork as if fun dorks who are passionate about what they love aren't objectively much more attractive than guys who try too hard to be masculine
this is what makes me so sad about the victims of alpha manosphere grifters, they convince men that they aren’t good enough to be loved and appreciated for who they are, all framed as ‘self-improvement’.
@@atomdecaySadly most these people don't carry actually big red flags. And sadly some people (women in this case) are sometimes not good at reading people. Also please stfu, you are literally pulling a nice guy move
@@atomdecay Some people choose bad partners, its just the way the world works. Its not just women, toxic relationships exist for every group. It sucks but blaming anyone but the toxic individual isn't going to help fix anything.
He's offering her everything in the world willing to fight for her but the one thing he can't offer is the ability to listen to her when she says no and take no for an answer therefore he can't even offer her respect
Well, I mean, it seems pretty clear respect for her was never on the table. Worship of her, maybe, but not respect. His gaze clearly didn't penetrate further than skin deep.
Big round of applause how she handled this situation. She is being so honest and kind every step of the way until he exhausts all her options for niceties. And even when she gets pushed there, she still shows restraint and level-headedness. Good job!
Idk, i dont think he deserved that level of patience, i think we all should feel comfortable with being aggressive towards people who can't take "no" as an answer in a situation like this. Yes, she was totally a lady, very respectful and even kind.
@@tazonrojo I agree to a certain extent. But I think overall the world (and specifically the internet) is suffering from how little patience and kindness we use communicating with others.
You know women gets killed for being rude right? They need to be very careful when rejecting men like this because they never know what they're capable of
The fact that she didn't just block him three messages into that conversation. Let ALONE restrained herself from posting the DMs up to the point where he decided to begin publicly harassing her bf. Unreal patience some of these ladies have, you don't have to put up with that crap, honestly.
I’m so happy. Me and a large group of Twitter users exposed Furlow, a Twitter user who sexually harassed a few girl users, over the summer and now that Charlie is commenting on his other account brings a tear to my face. I’m unbelievably happy
It seems it was not the first harassment from the guy, several women have come forward with more DM receipts. They already have his picture ,dude looks like a Dollar Tree McLovin', extremely dorky, he works in a Walgreens and they have contacted their job to denounce this situation.
I have a confession to make. Once I did a very similar thing but even cringier, cause it was directed at a girl I never even tried to ask out or anything like that. We met at a summer camp and I really liked her, but I asked out and started dating her less attractive friend instead, because I felt like I didn't deserve her but subconsciously just wanted to be around her. Unsurprisingly, relationship I started then didn't go well and eventually we broke up. Years later in my mid 20s I saw my crush from that time posted on social media about how much she loves her current boyfriend with some photos of them together, and I immediately posted that photos, a text that started off with "why most attractive women tend to date most ugly guys", and a poll for my subscribers to judge that dude's attractiveness. And from her perspective that just came absolutely out of nowhere, because we have rarely seen each other since that summer camp, mainly at concerts due to similar musical interests, and talked only about music basically. She blocked me on social media, as you should do, and never spoke to me again untill I accidentally bumped into her at a concert not that long ago and apologised for what I did then. She said "I'm just glad you figured your shit out, I forgive you". The relief I felt after that words was unimaginable. That wasn't the only horrible thing I did for no good reason. I'm 32 now, and I've learned from my mistakes in a really hard way. Turns out I came from disfunctional family with narcissistic parents that abused me, and I have a personality disorder myself, luckily below clinical threshold enough for me to manage without heavy medication. And I can tell you, if I've seen this video back then, prior to feeling an impulse to do that stupid thing - chances are I wouldn't do it. So I insist the value is really there. To anyone who reads this comment: if you feel like you're drowning in the ocean of constant unbearable emotional pain, if you don't feel safe around your family members or anywhere really, if your life feels like a neverending nightmare - GET HELP. It's not normal to feel this way.
Thank you, Charlie! I was actually having cereal and coffee when I decided to relax and click this video. Also it's refreshing to see people like that guy get confronted pragmatically and directly by someone he feels entitled to.
He _is_ treating this like a game LMAO. He’s absolutely floored that “I apologize for persisting. You’re just breathtaking and I want you. I’m willing to fight for you at this point,” didn’t cause her to say “omg, take me now.” That’s why he goes CRAZY after that. He wasn’t expecting her response. He was expecting her to give some amount of “I’m interested” after he said something “so passionate and articulate.” That’s also why the following messages are unhinged by comparison. He hadn’t practiced any sort of response to her given answer in the dialogue tree lmao. So he’s used the ever eloquent “crash at me place” when if you look at the massages prior to this one he sounds like a fucking book character. Every line is faked and obviously “rehearsed” in that he’s seen them used before. It’s acting, but then he shows who he truly is when she continues to refuse him. The messages become more and more “him.”
people like this seem to have this entire dialogue scene in their heads of them and the person they're trying to get like they're writing a fanfiction, they curate the perfect lines to say according to this little scenario in their heads, and then when they go try it in real life, and the other person doesn't respond the way they expected, they short circuit and everything they say after that it a disaster.
This is exactly what I thought. He clearly has it very carefully planned out up until right around that point. And maybe her refusal was following one of the versions of the script in his head. I don’t know what he expected her to say to that, but it was not what she said, and he just lost it from there. Either that, or it started to set in that she might actually just say no…
Lol I never realized that. So he’s rehearsing these lines in the mirror over and over again even though he’s not face to face with this woman. And he’s planned more preplanned responses for her. But if she finally put her foot down to say no once and for all, he’ll start malfunctioning like a computer and get upset and incoherent
Clearly “No” is code for keep trying and look as desperate as possible It’s like hard to get, but the only thing that’s hard to get for him is the obvious
When I was younger, I used to admire guys who weren't self-conscious about appearing creepy, because I _always_ was. Now, as a happily married man looking at the shitshow that is modern relationships, I am grateful for that instinct. And the funny thing is that despite this, there WERE a few occasions where I did act creepy. I just lacked the self-awareness.
I only had one guy friend out of like 5 who complained that a girl called him creepy. Like.. I dont know maybe you DID behave in a creepy way because I know the way you talk about “getting a woman” and how you make it everyone’s problem that no one wants to fuck you? Sometimes it’s just a misunderstanding, but SOMETIMES a dude is genuinely being a creep and predatory. This is the same friend that admitted to talking to a 16 yr old when he was 19… And continued talking to her.
Same here. I could never realise that I was being overly creepy and “quirky” with girls that I liked, thinking if I was quirky enough they would see my “true worth”.. I dont miss that version of me.
There's a very fine line between properly conveying feelings and coming off like a creep/threat. Nowadays though, there's less tolerance for someone being forward with their intentions, but also far more people that don't know how to convey those intentions in a healthy or positive way.
Heard multiple female friends say they got similar disturbing advances by people when they were just in their teens from people they actually knew. Really hit home how common this stuff is. Scary.
Oh yeah I'm pretty sure almost every girl has had this experience when we were teens from someone we knew..... Family member or someone really close to the family .... Smh
The number of dudes i had to cut contact with because of this has always been depressing. Like nah dude i just wanna be friends or keep our status quo...nope! Well alright then. Some I'd even give another shot at friendship because they promised they wouldn't get weird or possesive. LOL nah. Always ended in them getting creepy again and would have to cut contact for a final time.
@@CozmokitteeI can’t tell you how many times this has happened to me! It makes me wonder if it’s even possible to have purely platonic male friends? I click with men better than most women over nerdy stuff, but I don’t want the creep to rest its ugly head 😅 I only want like bro/sis energy.
I acted similarly towards a high school friend years after graduation and I have regretted ever since I became aware of what I was doing. There's no going back once you start spamming messages like that and you'll end up digging yourself a deeper and awful hole.
him casually inviting her over to crash at his place is the biggest sign of SA ive ever seen. He's already a creep, but we all know that if she for some reason did say yes to crashing at his place only BAD things would happen
Exactly, I don't think this guy should be around women. He seems like a danger. He doesn't seem to even respect the woman he's trying to "get". It's like he sees her like a prize as if she's supposed to date him just because he has a job or whatever.
Alright we know the guy is a creep, but it is entirely unfair to assume something drastic like that, and even worse to say it as if it is everyone's opinion. I understand where you are coming from, but you are not all knowing, and neither am i. I am not saying that what you say is wrong, I am simply saying that you do not have grounds to throw that assumption out, especially when you state it as a fact. You are free to disagree with me, but it is a great service to refrain from assumptions.
@@user-un7iu4vg7w Obviously he shouldn't be tried for sex crimes on the basis of being a creep on Twitter (like one commenter here seems to believe), but in the woman's shoes, assuming any stranger trying *this* hard to get you to "crash at their place" is somebody with sex crime intentions is pretty reasonable.
"Behold. Don't be this guy" is exactly how I fell out of my nice guy phase. So thanks Charlie. The more people that see you, which I bet more than a few young men probably see and a masculine figure the more chance this may be a wakeup call for them too.
As a woman, it brings me joy every time I hear that someone escapes that mindset. I guarantee things will go so much better for you, even outside of relationships in general. The "nice guy" (more or less incel) state of mind is so detrimental in every way, extending far past just the relationship scene. The sad thing is that most of them wont change, but for the ones that do, there's absolutely the opportunity for them to improve even past what they were before, as they learn from past mistakes. Big props to you, someone abandoning the redpill mindset isnt commonly seen unfortunately. Hopefully more people will see Charlie's vids and have the same wakeup call you did.
With every one of these videos I see I want to post screenshots of one of the creeps that was messaging me two years ago and continues to make extra accounts to reach me to this day.
I am so stoked that in a time rife with incel and podcast beta bros, someone like you with a massive following is using their platform to shut down the men who have been influenced by some of the methodologies. This series has been popping off, please keep it going.
That is not what makes ppl dangerous as the podcast have legit nothing to do with it. The problem is the person, their development and the way they interpret things. Also, saying people are incels or betas for having a different opinion on things doesn’t make you any better than them. Do better.
YOU do better, defending incels online cause you feel attacked by people calling them out wont make people stop calling yall out. Do better. @@mortalninja8626
@@mortalninja8626 You realize that what these guys believe isn’t even an opinion, it’s just psycho behavior because of these podcasts they watch. They fully believe what these podcasts say & then go & hate on women for nonsense that doesn’t even affect them & throw in the “well I got rejected before so I know this women will do it too” towards random women without proof. There’s plenty of those crazy men in the comments of Charlie’s recent videos.
Aren't stalkers usually entirely unable to comprehend why people get in their way and why the subject of their infatuation rejects them? He isn't being weird, like a normal guy can be weird, he is mentally unwell and should be taken seriously instead of just mocked, These types of people can go to extreme lengths and is likely to be a threat, especially if he refuses to learn from this and keeps pushing his obsession, believing that he isn't in the wrong, the world is. Be careful out there. Some people are worse than plain creeps, they can be fucking mental.
This is why I quit all social media except UA-cam and Pinterest. The constant barrage of weirdos hitting on me and not accepting a polite “no I’m not interested because I’m in a relationship.”
Charlie went from calling a girl at Gamestop pretty and running away to giving solid advice to a weirdo. That’s character development
He's being the change he wants to see in the world
That’s why he’s so well liked. He has matured and grown up
I'm going to watch the Gamestop story again now! I go back and watch Charlies embarrassing stories every few months! Lol
@PeachysMom too bad he hasn't learned his manners. Constantly burping and farting right into the mic. His language is disgusting too. Didn't he buy a giant dildo to laugh at? His humor clearly hasn't matured.
Introspection can save a lot of young, awkward dudes. A lot of them would benefit from simply looking at a situation like that they did and say "Wow, that was bad. Maybe I shouldn't have done that."
I know it was mentioned before but it’s just hilarious how Charlie calls his videos “Obsessed Creep” or “Another Unhinged Weirdo” and a thumbnail is just his face.
Gets me every time lol
i was looking for this comment lol. i'm 100% sure it's intentional, but it would kinda be funnier if it wasn't
I feel like he just doesn’t care about making thumbnails and it’s just unintentional lmao
@@ashlovestolaugh5149he confirmed that’s what it was in another video, that’s also why all/most of the thumbnails are just stretched out. it’s apparently not for comedic effect, he just doesn’t give a damn
@@orbeezeater the w i d e thumbnails are pretty great
A wise person once said- "Social media has made people way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it." 😂
I think that was Abraham Lincoln.
@@turtlehead2 no.
@@orwellianson it was
@@anuvette it fucking wasn’t. Invest in antipsychotic medication.
@@orwellianson it was
it's always "your loss" from one of the worst men on the planet
LITERALLY, more like dodged a bullet
When Charlie's voice is slightly deeper you know it's serious
Here before bots
Edit: The bots never showed up because they were too afraid of my sheer power
Facts
yeah whats the occasion? morning voice?
🗿
Jfc that was fast
"Her body is literally to die for." That kind of obsessiveness is scary.
I think he meant it just as a phrase but given the context easily could be way more creepy than it is
Like with the context and the phrase separately it’s creepy but if you use the context to interpret the phrase it could be even more creepy and sinister
Sorry if this doesn’t make sense 😂
@@Imbettadenuit makes perfect sense and I was about to say the same thing. I might be dating myself but in the 90s girls would kill to have compliments like that made about them, especially if it came from their crush.
Bro giving yoshikage kira vibes lol
@@-_Somebody_i noticed that too, a lot of modern dating is just about being the most nonchalant possible, i'm not talking about the guy in the video, but it just seems that the possibility to being called a creepy are on all time high to the slightests things, i've seem someone here on the channel calling creepy if someone tell a girl her boyfriend is lucky to have her, it can be creepy depending on how you say it but come on.
I have also seem someone say any kind of approach is creepy and you shouldn't approach at all, how are you supposed to meet new people then????
@@lusca6357if you're constantly getting called a creep it's your own fault lmao
He has caveman brain. "You pretty. Me provide good for you. You leave weakling for me, OK?" He isn't able to process "no" as an answer, and dresses it up like he isn't that as simplistic as he is.
"me you sex NOW" (whips out big ass wooden club)
That OK? lol
Literally I’ve never known any women where a man took care of them to the exact extent that they wanted/needed. It’s a big friggen gamble and some people think of it so lightly
This read like a middle eastern call center scammer that barely speaks English trying to seduce a Hollywood model
Any woman is his life is in danger bc that inability to understand no, definitely transfers over
Humans like that genuinely makes me wonder how brains work
Some are twisted
sometimes they dont
I like how the creep thought that being a dork is unattractive, like people aren’t into nerds and dorks
He can't seem to understand that taste is subjective.
Fr!! My bf is the biggest nerd and it’s genuinely wonderful! People deserve to feel like they can be passionate about things. It’s part of what makes him so special and interesting :)
@@Jenna2k Exactly!!
@@amandajay666 Hell yea queen, we love nerds and dorks in this house
You are absolutely right.
What is the problem with somebody being a nerd and chasing their own passions?
Moreover, the creep exudes such potent bad boy vibes as he would definitely keep her until he impregnates or catches her talking, even to her father, and opt to distance her from the family. And once the creep acknowledged that she is pregnant, he is going to run away like a chicken.
The sheer quantity of creepy weirdos we've gotten in the past few days is both entertaining and alarming
I bet the amount of creeps hasn't increased much, it probably seems like more due to people posting their encounters online.
I've been in r/niceguys for some time and I can assure you this is nothing new. I've seen things you people wouldn't believe
People like this have always been around. I understand not being able to read social cues or having bitterness from previous relationships I think most of us can sympathize with that but the way this guy talks and behaves goes against everything that’s common sense
its nothing new lmao
Happens every day of every second. These are just the ones that he talks about and this isn’t even scratching the surface of the iceberg
My dad once told me parable of the sour grapes. Long story short, the short king couldn't reach the fruit so he convinced himself that they were probably sour anyway. This is obviously just to make himself feel better about not being able to get the thing. "Your loss" is just that for 2023.
Ya know, I think that's something that has changed new generations. I was an 80s kid yet still even then, things like Aesops Fables were a huge thing. I even bought it for my son when I had one.
We were taught morals and life lessons from a young age and they were a big part of life. No more 🤷🏻
The sour grapes story is a good one BTW.
@@Mr_C.Bacteria"morals and life lessons" are still taught to children everywhere, along with more critical examinations of them as social values. The fables are literally in lots of schools’ curriculums.
Yeah, I heard that one on school. Honestly, it's kinda a messed up thing to teach kids, if you really think about it. "If you can't get a thing, then that thing probably sucked anyways" is such horrible logic when it's applied to day to day life. Sometimes, we need to be able to accept that, "hey, we didn't get that thing, but that's OK" without immediately sh***ing on that thing and being a douche about it. We blame kids for being sore losers, but one of the earliest lessons we teach them is to be sore losers. Make it make sense.
@@transsnack The point of the fable is that the fox's logic is bad. The moral is "There are many who pretend to despise and belittle that which is beyond their reach"
10:03 "shes strong and takes what she wants" yet he can't accept she doesnt want him. 💀💀💀
This is the definition of 'objectification'. He's describing her like a toaster, the best toaster he's ever seen, and he thinks he's entitled to own her because he's got 'a good job'.
And then he is shocked when the toaster talks back and says, "Nah, I don't want to toast your bread." Bu... but... you're a toaster!! Toast mah bread goddammit!!
Ok that's the funniest comparison I've ever read
This is literally perfect
"Toast mah bread goddammit!!" Holy moly, this got a huge, audible laugh out of me! 🤣 Great comparison! 😁👍✨
Funny and accurate lol.
B-but... all toasters, toast toast!
To all the guys out there, when a woman says "no" she means "no", not "well maybe idk sure". If you wanna harass people get a job in telemarketing instead.
Oh yeah sure, wait i will first weigh my options here 😂😂😂😂
How do regretful one night stands happen?
Here is the thing. I think the reason some of these guys feel like that is because they have a history with women in their life that like their creepiness. Which I know it's crazy to think how anyone would like that, type of guy's personality but unfortunately there are people that exist that are into it .
The issue is these people don't realize extreme personalities like them don't mesh well with those who are more normal...
@@CMP-st5wh Because they said yes ?
For me, yes, totally agree. I will say though that there are girls out there that believe in the whole "I want him to chase me" thing after saying no. I've talked to those girls. I've tried to explain that this is a big no no but somehow it doesn't connect. Thing is, you're probably better off without a girl who wants you to ignore what she says.
He needs to be put on a list. His persistence to keep bothering this poor woman after being bluntly rejected, and publicly shamed is scary. It gives me “I will get what I want at whatever cost” vibes.
This is an example of narcissism- he legitimately cannot understand that people do not judge themselves or each other by the standard he does
At this point it feels like Charlie is reading these creepy DMs like he's a priest giving a sermon, and I'm showing up every Sunday to hear him preach.
I'm not sure how a priest nicknamed Moist Critical would even do in the catholic church. He could be pope within a year or get outed on some forum. Both options seem feasible.
omfg this describes the feeling so well
If he passed around a tithe bucket for him to forgive my sins of cringe, then I'd happily donate.
@@AllThingsEntertaining nobody believes tithing forgives sins
@@Wilkins325 What do you mean of course it does, because it makes the priest happy enough to tell you that your sins are forgiven since he's about to buy himself a new whore.
This guy isn't in love with Sabrina.
This guy is in love with the idea of what he imagines Sabrina is like.
He is obsessed with the idea of her, the fantasy version that checks all the boxes.
He's lucky she's not impulsive... Imagine if she completely upended her entire life to give him an opportunity and a chance to prove himself. Like the dog that chases the car, he wouldn't know what to do with it once he catches it, and in a month would be looking at his trophy and wondering what the heck it is, because he didn't take the time to learn about her first, and resenting her for not being the delusional illusion he thought she was.
This is such a common story it’s insane lol.
That’s a really good analogy!
the joker refrence i see good taste😂 in
This. 100%.
damn
It’s funny that the “dork” he’s referring to is Houston Texans middle linebacker Blake Cashman
Fr bro 💀
is that actually him?
"Why would he think this persistence would be appreciated?"
Simple. Because everything from Disney to romcons have beat the idea into mens heads that if they simply keep trying, the pretty girl will eventually say yes.
The 90s/2000s were flooded with the message in pop culture and its gonna take ages for young men to unlearn this dangerous lesson.
Couldn't agree more with this statement. Persistence isn't the key
It’s not disney and romcoms (not many men watch them anyway, for all it’s worth, i think they’re worse for women). It isn’t the 90/00-s. It’s the patriarchy that teaches men to commodify women as property and feel entitled to their attention, bodies and emotions.
Yeah, we can't have media beating the persistence message into guys' heads, then automatically blame them for not understanding that meeting resistance means that they should stop. That being said, this is an adult man. If he were a teenager, I'd get it, but he should have developed critical thinking skills by now.
There's nothing wrong with being persistent if you conduct yourself in a normal manner. When I sent the first few messages to my gf she told me recently that she wanted to see if I'll give up or not. I'm not saying she told me "no" and I persisted, rather I was making an effort and now we are in a relationship. If you're being persistent in a weird way you make it even weirder, downright creepy. Writing this type of comment is not necessary and you'll be sending the wrong message to some insecure males out there reading it. Fellas, just be normal, know how to conduct yourselves and learn to read the mood. Be rational and never thirst over her. If you're attracted to her, make it out of right reasons, not because she has "a body to die for" as that clown mentioned. Be a man!
@@pprsstvz you hit the nail on the head here.
That “Good morning” gave me chills bro
fr i think he got a new mic or smth
What’s good gang
@@DaFuqBoeoumbot lol
Thank god I wasn’t the only one who noticed
Charlie inspires me, my parents said if I get 30k followers here They'd buy me a better mic for recording.. Begging u guys literally begging
"my intentions are very platonic" followed by "I just want to show you you would be happier with me" is just perfection.
For someone who wants to show how much better he is than her current boyfriend he doesn't even know the meaning of basic words apparently and is too lazy to check it.
Among a ton of other problems with his personality of course
It's obvious, dude. Platonic, root plato-, meaning to be very philosophical in nature. I am very smart and have good job, ergo I am being platonic. /s
i just want to show you you would be happier bound and gagged in the trunk of my car.
Yeah he just wants that platonic sex lmao.
@@H0uxdubxston Plato means "broad." He's a big alpha male, so he's platonic /s
Lmfao
A guy who acts like that doesn’t actually view her as a person. More of an object. He wants to possess her. Clear signs of a sociopath and narcissist. The way he talks about her shows that he just views her as a sexual object that’s it. And that, “you can crash at my place” line has me laughing so hard, lol. The guy is a smoothy, lol.
100% everything you said.
Shoutout to her for handling this in the best way possible. That guy needs professional help.
Gotta "love" how every one of the traits the creep talked about liking in his obsession were all appearance traits and not a single one was about her personality, her mind, or even a mention of things she mentioned liking that he may have liked too. Makes you wonder if he even bothered reading the words to things she's posted or just stared at her pictures and decided he wanted that.
The only possible "trait" I think he said was how she was "kind". I love how literally this creep and many others gravitate to that word. Never anything like, "Oh she's intelligent" or, "She's actually really funny and creative!". It always seems to be the words "nice", "kind" or something like it.
Yeah, he's a chad, chad's don't read!
He did say she was kind 😂
Well, I have a confession. Just so happens that I am currently staring at your PFP rn and I just decided something… I want that. So… let me get a crack at that… let me find out 🧐
@@ghostofpolariskind people are easy to take advantage of, maybe he saw it is a good trait bc she’s like easy pickings or whatever (obv she wasn’t but yknow, i’m trying to rationalise his bs lol)
keep making these. not just because they’re good, but hopefully your younger audience will learn and better understand u don’t wanna be these guys.
Bro everyone knows they dont wanna be these guys,the dudes who act like this aint gonna listen to reason,they are creeps through and through,its in their DNA 🤣 incels gonna Incel
Charlie is gay
If younger audience means 13-18 then yes
Not entirely sure how it's not obvious that this is not the way to go.
@@Toddpeekencethere might be even one in the audience that would’ve gone down that route anyway u know
“Sorry babe but a guy is dm’ing me and I’m flying away to be with him because he think’s I am hot.”
"you turned the app against me" "you have done that yourself"
EVEN if she wasn't dating a guy and was single ... she's ok to turn him down. These messages were so creepy, no matter the circumstances if a random stranger cold DM-ed me "I want you" I will run away screaming lol
Were you close friends with the men you've dated before you started dating?
@@CMP-st5whthat’s even assuming she’s straight in the first place and want to date men and not women or something
@@viktorijazemaityte4203that is so not the point to take away from any of this 💀
@@CMP-st5whthere are ways to hit on girls without saying creepy phrases like “I want you”. As a woman, the guys I’ve dated haven’t typically been close friends, but they’ve been people who i started talking to organically. Like maybe we met at a party or had mutual friends or a group project together. I’m inclined to turn down any guy who hits on me by going out of his way to approach me in public because it feels less safe and we haven’t shared even a single smile or anything even a little bit meaningful, so why WOULD I be interested? That’s somewhat a personal preference and it definitely can work on some women but you gotta be careful to not weird them out. Social media especially would raise red flags bc we don’t know each other and if we did you could talk to me irl
Stop with BS. Attractive, celebrities, rich = Yes. Ugly, poor, not famous = Creep, no and stranger. 🤣🤣🤣Its not the situations, its the person. What if your celebrity crush cold DM you? Yeah, you wouldn't say no...
It's honestly sad to see men act like this. Dude is treating this girl like she's a quest in a MMO instead of an actual human being.
Bro is trying to complete the "get laid" quest, but is having a hard time with it because he hasn't figured out how to remove the narcissism debuff.
did they pick you yet?
@@dylanblue9201I heard the narcissistic debuff gets removed when you visit a person called the therapist
Yeah men are definitely more guilty of this, but I had a similar experience with a girl in my class. We only ever worked on group projects together, she knew I had a girlfriend. Then she randomly insisted I travel to visit her - when I reminded her I was in a relationship, she insisted it was platonic. I told her no, and she flipped out and told me to go F myself and a bunch of other stuff. I don't understand how people create these narratives in their head out no where, pure delusion.
@@jenkathefridge3933 or bullied. That'll do the trick. Problem is that then you're stuck with the self esteem debuff
lmao this guy got his first pay raise ever and he thought he became a super star lady killer or something
When you start making $25 an hr 😂
13:38 "I don't know why that's so common amongst all of these" Probably because people who can't take "no" for an answer don't like losing, and then just "sour grape" the situation to convince themselves the loss was actually a win.
I do love how she handled herself in the DMs. She was so polite, but also drew hard boundaries and defended both herself and her SO. She called out his idiotic, creepy, and honestly condescending behavior.
Don't read my name!!!
SO?
@@A-strange-visitorSignificant Other I'm assuming?
@@Dont_Read_My_Picture good idea, i won't.
Yes, those hard boundaries of responding and thus baiting further messages. She should have blocked at the start like most level-headed female would. What a world this is now, that girls like this farm creeps for content. LOL
This dude is straight up delusional, the “allowing” her to stay at his house broke me 😂
fr😂, like she's going to stay at this type of unstable dude's house
@@OfficerBMT good for you. did anyone asked?
@@OfficerBMTgfy
I literally had to pause the video to let that sink in. Mind blown 🤯
There's a very fine line between properly conveying feelings and coming off like a creep/threat. Nowadays though, there's less tolerance for someone being forward with their intentions, but also far more people that don't know how to convey those intentions in a healthy or positive way.
This was none of those, it was just someone ignoring all social cues and conventions and even the wishes of the individual they desired.
I think nowadays there’s actually more push for honest and open communication instead of mind games.
6:46 "That's a lot of words, too bad I'm not reading them" H-H-HOLY MEGA BASED ZAMMNNNNN
The woman and her boyfriend should be on guard, we've seen this type of unhinged behavior before and it can be legitimately dangerous. The incident with Gavin Free comes to mind.
What's the incident with Gavin Free? From Slow-mo guys? What happened to him?
Some obsessed fan broke into their house while they were home
@@Fuckingusername A crazed fan drove miles to their home in Texas with the intent of killing Gavin because he thought he didn't deserve to be with his girlfriend, Meg (that's what I remember hearing anyway).
@@Fuckingusername you should watch the video Anthony Padilla did with him and other home invasion survivors, chilling stuff
@@Fuckingusernamemore info: he drove to their house with a gun, and broke in.
These obsessed people can become incredibly dangerous if left unchecked
PLEASE never stop bringing cringe flirting/pickup artistry/nice guys to us I've never been more hooked
Who asked? My content is superior
Fun fact about the guy he just covered, the creep just keeps making new accounts deleting them everytime he embarrasses himself.
@@itzTeTe He seems like someone who would lock her in a basement if they ever actually met up.
@@erikmckoul2478 he is! He posted a picture of himself one time he’s a manager at a store short, scrawny, short greasy hair, struggling to grow facial hair, poor posture ect. 😂 dang for the life of me I’m trying to find the screenshot of him in his work uniform. I know I have it! I document EVERYTHING, because their weirdo KEEPS COMING BACK! 😭
@@itzTeTewhat’s the name of his original account? I’m trying to to go down this rabbit hole lol
Had a roommate who did this kind of shit with a girl he went on Mike 2 actual dates with. Finally convinced her to hang again and ended up screaming and kicking her out in the middle of the night insulting you. A year of obsessively stalking and hitting up her social media and even contacting her boyfriend followed. Fucking crazy
I love seeing this called out, even though I still have to fight back against my conditioning to always “be nice” and consider others’ feelings no matter what. I can’t tell you how many times something similar has happened to me-I think many women have had the same experience. The first time, I was 15.
People who don't understand "no", you can hardly hurt with anything. Imagine how dense someone must be in order to sustain that level of being utterly ignorant. Then you can compare, I think, how appropriate or not a seemingly harsh response is for them.
My son introduced me to Charlie several years ago when my son was about 12. We would watch the videos together and laugh and talk about them. As a mom, I am so glad that Charlie is out here to be a role model for young men. I am not being sarcastic, I am serious. It is so easy for people to get swept into following certain misogynistic people I will not name, and Charlie counters that with just good sense (not going to say "common sense" because good sense is not common). It's refreshing.
I mean, as a grownup who watches Charlie, I don't really know if I'd be comfortable with a twelve year old watching him. Yes, he has a mature mindset and can impart wisdom that youngins need, but he also has a lot of other content that's a lot more explicit
@@madeniquevanwykbro 12 year olds are definitely making dick and pussy jokes. Atleast, i and everyone I knew at that age did. It’s not like he’s posting pics of his actual butthole.
@@madeniquevanwykhave you seen 12 year olds these days? 😂
@@Ava-nf2qq yeah? I work with kids, and my brother was a 12 year old a few years ago. Believe it or not, a lot of tweens are not socialised to sex to such a degree that they can just watch a man play with dildos and ovipositors and not be affected by it
@@madeniquevanwykI would rather 12 year olds be watching charlie than the brain rot that’s on tiktok tbh
As a woman, thank you Charlie. Honestly I watch for your sense of humor but by going through conversations like these I really feel its going to be educating a whole load of younger viewers in such a positive way
I agree, it's a real breath of fresh air from the misogyny that's so prevalent on UA-cam. We need more people like Charlie: intelligent, respectful, confident, and not afraid to call out creepy behavior!
absolutely. young boys need to understand 2 things. 1. women most of the time will care about what you have and not what you can give IE personality. if a guy believes women only care about what he can give he'll only see his good traits as something he can give, IE a well paying job or a cool house, but people love eachother cause of the people they are. and 2. and Charlie mentioned this, having self awareness and self reflection. being able to seperate yourself from the situation and see how it looks, cause if you can't see how it looks you'll keep looking at it from your own view and not the view from the distance, you may think your in the right but in reality you can't see how wrong what your doing is.
And guys like this are so predictable it's exhausting! I don't even get dms from the amount of guys that frequent tiktok dance trend users get because I don't use tiktok so it's just guys I know in person which is more difficult, then if you're "rude" because you make it very clear you're not interested in them you might get attacked, or if you keep saying that you're busy and try to be nice you're leading them on even if you keep saying that you're busy with your significant other. The hardest part of it is, is that if you actually wanted to be friends with them you can't because they don't see the point.
This is why I wholeheartedly believe Charlie is an overall positive influence on the platform. There are so many weird ideologies/opinions floating around the internet that Charlie acts an antidote to. A lot of children will steer into a positive, healthy direction, away from the destructive lines of thinking.
Also it hopfully will help men understand that our caution is needed and not just being mean.
Charlie, you're an absolute icon, I must say. Thanks for setting it straight with people like this. I've been preyed on before like this, usually by 30+ year old men, more times than I can count as comfortable; and as of writing this, I'm still 17.
You really do help teach younger people not to stick for things like this, and for that, I'm incredibly grateful. Thank you.
Bro got stuck somewhere in evolution of common social knowledge
These creepy guy interaction videos you’ve been making recently have been so enjoyable. Thank you Charlie for enduring the wonderful cringe when we don’t have to.
Verily, Ýe
Love his tone of voice. As soon as my hair grows back, id like to sound like that on a video.
The cringe is off the roof
For real, Yé. Watching people shit on creeps, cringe pickup artists and fake alpha gurus is my favorite thing
I've actually had my wife nudge me to show me her getting DMs like this. She once had it from a guy whose wife recently died of cancer and she took pity on him and helped him with a charity gig. He knew she was already married. I understand loneliness but this level of cringe and lack of thought is WIDELY concerning.
I've had nice conversations with men about their depression and hard family lives. Just for them to flash me with their genitals. It happens so often and I simply refuse to talk to people now unless they are from school, work or friendgroups lol!
@@maschaorsomething I start to wonder if it's a design flaw to encourage breeding in males. I've legit seen those I'd class as intelligent just completely ignore all sound reason if it means they can get some company. Baffling.
Chronic loneliness and no support systems leads men to do some heinous shit, I’ve noticed
@@maschaorsomethingyes a good portion of men assume any interest beyond “hello” is sexual in some nature. I’m a man and growing up there’s just like a section of us that are unable to relationally control their sexual emotions. It’s honestly insane. No matter how much you talk to them or try to convince them their behavior comes across as weird they just keep doing it and for some reason some of them get a lot of chicks. This dude in the video for example has total confidence in himself and a lot of women like confidence and it creates a weird cycle where they think their actions are being validated when in actuality they have 1 good trait that after one week women get bored of and leave. Now put this behind a computer screen and the veil of anonymity and this is why there are so many weird guys online.
@@DuneCrescentit is 100% a wired brain thing that men typically grow out of past 25. I remember in high school I was similar to this insane (not near the same level but I recognize the thinking pattern) and yea it feels almost engulfing. Your mind cannot comprehend anything else outside of sexual desire.
Any attention that a girl gave me I assumed it was sexual in nature. Now I look back and cringe so bad. I grew out of it as soon as I got to college and had my first relationship and began to mature but some men go their whole lives without maturing in this way due to a number of different reasons. A lot of prisoners or convicts exhibit this behavior because they tend not to be socialized the same way. Women who work in corrections or rehabilitation will tell you it’s just part of the job and they don’t wanna hurt you they just don’t know how else to communicate. Sad really.
It's the highest level of immaturity to think you have a bond with someone you don't know because you like the way they look and mold that in your head into characteristics that you love.
0:25 "Lessons From the Lunacy" sounds like a sick metal album
I will never get tired of Charlie taking deep dives on incels and "sigma males" shooting their shots and bricking spectacularly. Please keep this series going.
ong, people think theyre the big mf shooting their shot nd end up bricking it and fumbling it so hard more than shaq in a free throw
@OFFICERJIMMYUTTP | I'm a migma sale
@RigorMortis117 I'm a lady and I like migma sales more than sigma males.
@@FukaiKokoro | Understandable
yeah, this is some straight 'sigma male' 'school of charm' tateverse type behavior. the whole 'real alpha males just take what they want' mentality. this is what happens when people like andrew tate get popular.
I like that the woman is just pointing out everything wrong with him and being honest to him about how weird he is
😂😂😂😂😂
And then he hits her with the "Your loss" 😂
I mean... There's nothing more to tell him. Everything about his behavior is so wrong I'd just assume I'm being trolled.
No there was nothing to tell him in the first place. Blows my mind that she would even reply to him but that says a lot about her
The guy who is harassing the girl is the real life equivalent of the It should’ve been me not him it’s not fair meme
Just imagine if this is her dorky boyfriend testing her loyalty.
He thinks that women are like little dogs that can be lured away from their partners with a little treat. He’s obviously never been in a relationship
As a woman, Charlie, I think these sorts of videos you make are genuinely very valuable. Its unfortunate that these need to be made but I appreciate that you use your platform and put in the work to help people understand that this type of behavior is both abnormal and frightening.
As a man, I ain’t reading allat
If someone cannot instantly recognise that this behaviour isn't normal then I'm afraid they're already too far gone.
@@acuilnosThey could also just be really immature. The worst evil is those who do not recognize they're evil. They see themselves as good and it takes seeing someone else be called out for them to get it.
as a women who only personailty is my gender i very much like your comment
As someone with a brain, these videos are not "genuinely very valuable" because the guy (and anyone like him) is being told this and doesn't change. The videos are purely for entertainment.
I’ve had to deal with this kind of behavior before. I’m honestly really glad to see you talk about this, because it’s a great example of what *not* to do
Whenever someone uses the "Your loss" self-back-pat... It makes you think "Yeah, I'll live. Bye."
I love how this guy calls her bf a dork as if fun dorks who are passionate about what they love aren't objectively much more attractive than guys who try too hard to be masculine
this is what makes me so sad about the victims of alpha manosphere grifters, they convince men that they aren’t good enough to be loved and appreciated for who they are, all framed as ‘self-improvement’.
@@atomdecaySadly most these people don't carry actually big red flags.
And sadly some people (women in this case) are sometimes not good at reading people.
Also please stfu, you are literally pulling a nice guy move
@@atomdecayThat's not even true.
@@atomdecay Some people choose bad partners, its just the way the world works. Its not just women, toxic relationships exist for every group. It sucks but blaming anyone but the toxic individual isn't going to help fix anything.
@@atomdecayno they don't lmao that's some real incel thinking. don't blame your rejection on thinking girls just go for bad guys...
thank you for this kind of content charlie, as a woman i feel grateful to you for calling weirdos like this out
Don’t worry girl, nobody wants you
Same! Love seeing healthy masculinity like this
Yes 🙌🏻
As a man i cant help but ask, why do you like charlie, hes so dorky and mid at best compared to you. I would even let you crash at my place
You’re a woman? Looks to me like you’re Miguel
6:28 "I want you" is hilarious to me
*gets turned down*
TIME TO D-D-D-D-DUELLL
You know it’s serious when Charlie tells you to enjoy your cereal
Charlie inspires me, my parents said if I get 30k followers here They'd buy me a better mic for recording.. Begging u guys literally begging
The bots ☠️☠️☠️
Me watching this at 8 PM in the evening:
(Also holy shit, these bots always wildin' 💀)
@@Goomba1309FR
He's offering her everything in the world willing to fight for her but the one thing he can't offer is the ability to listen to her when she says no and take no for an answer therefore he can't even offer her respect
Well, I mean, it seems pretty clear respect for her was never on the table. Worship of her, maybe, but not respect. His gaze clearly didn't penetrate further than skin deep.
Yeah I mean, he wasn’t willing to do these things for her anyway, not really
he just wanted to bang a few times then he would of got bored lmfao same typical creeps
These creepy/cringe/weirdo dude videos are both sad and amazing! I'm hooked!
She was so nice about it for far too long honestly. That woman handled it so well, and he just kept on keeping on.
Big round of applause how she handled this situation. She is being so honest and kind every step of the way until he exhausts all her options for niceties. And even when she gets pushed there, she still shows restraint and level-headedness. Good job!
Idk, i dont think he deserved that level of patience, i think we all should feel comfortable with being aggressive towards people who can't take "no" as an answer in a situation like this. Yes, she was totally a lady, very respectful and even kind.
@@tazonrojo I agree to a certain extent. But I think overall the world (and specifically the internet) is suffering from how little patience and kindness we use communicating with others.
You know women gets killed for being rude right? They need to be very careful when rejecting men like this because they never know what they're capable of
The fact that she didn't just block him three messages into that conversation. Let ALONE restrained herself from posting the DMs up to the point where he decided to begin publicly harassing her bf. Unreal patience some of these ladies have, you don't have to put up with that crap, honestly.
she shouldn’t have even replied, just ghost or block lol
respect for charlie to experience all this cringe so we don't have to experience it ourselves
Thought the same thing. Went onto r/niceguys and couldn’t bear the pain
He protects us from true cringe.
Charlie is not protecting us he is exposing us even more to the cringe
I said the same thing 2 people 1 mind.
@@Namamiri he is saving us. (i'm not trying to be mean) Jk
It genuinely boggles my mind how people can be this delusional
I’m so happy. Me and a large group of Twitter users exposed Furlow, a Twitter user who sexually harassed a few girl users, over the summer and now that Charlie is commenting on his other account brings a tear to my face. I’m unbelievably happy
Good old Walgreens employee furlow
@@Batmonkey31308 lmao
I can't believe Furlow's getting mentioned here on UA-cam but here we are 😂.
Tho that's what happens when u r a creep.
Oh plz, where do I need to go or what do I need to search or go down this rabbit hole?
I wish this wasn’t the attention that cbtwt got but it is fascinating to see
I'm loving the creep stories tbh, it's pure entertainment watching these guys be creepy and cringe while trying to date women
Schadenfreude is one helluva drug
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Yeah these videos are great
"if dating was a competition, you'd still be losing" killed me lmao
And then you wonder why they snap and shoot people when you mock them lol. Truly its a mystery why you have mass shootings
It seems it was not the first harassment from the guy, several women have come forward with more DM receipts. They already have his picture ,dude looks like a Dollar Tree McLovin', extremely dorky, he works in a Walgreens and they have contacted their job to denounce this situation.
3:20
Love the way Charlie phrases this part 😂
As an ex-weirdo (I was very asocial in my teenage years) the level of both amusement and embarrassment I feel from these is hilarious
Respect to you my man, character development at its finest
Takes balls to openly admit flaws, keep improving man, baby steps
Same, dude.
@@OFFICERJIMMYUTTPscum
mad respect for you, glad you're turning your life around, keep grinding brother🙏🏼🖤
I love seeing Charlie’s face right next to the text “obsessed creep”
average tate follower
@@hejalll????
Yeah, when I saw “Unhinged Weirdo” with the thumbnail being a default pic of his face I laughed my ass off
Don't read my name!!!
@@hejalllweak bait
I have a confession to make. Once I did a very similar thing but even cringier, cause it was directed at a girl I never even tried to ask out or anything like that. We met at a summer camp and I really liked her, but I asked out and started dating her less attractive friend instead, because I felt like I didn't deserve her but subconsciously just wanted to be around her. Unsurprisingly, relationship I started then didn't go well and eventually we broke up. Years later in my mid 20s I saw my crush from that time posted on social media about how much she loves her current boyfriend with some photos of them together, and I immediately posted that photos, a text that started off with "why most attractive women tend to date most ugly guys", and a poll for my subscribers to judge that dude's attractiveness. And from her perspective that just came absolutely out of nowhere, because we have rarely seen each other since that summer camp, mainly at concerts due to similar musical interests, and talked only about music basically. She blocked me on social media, as you should do, and never spoke to me again untill I accidentally bumped into her at a concert not that long ago and apologised for what I did then. She said "I'm just glad you figured your shit out, I forgive you". The relief I felt after that words was unimaginable.
That wasn't the only horrible thing I did for no good reason. I'm 32 now, and I've learned from my mistakes in a really hard way. Turns out I came from disfunctional family with narcissistic parents that abused me, and I have a personality disorder myself, luckily below clinical threshold enough for me to manage without heavy medication. And I can tell you, if I've seen this video back then, prior to feeling an impulse to do that stupid thing - chances are I wouldn't do it. So I insist the value is really there.
To anyone who reads this comment: if you feel like you're drowning in the ocean of constant unbearable emotional pain, if you don't feel safe around your family members or anywhere really, if your life feels like a neverending nightmare - GET HELP. It's not normal to feel this way.
Thank you, Charlie! I was actually having cereal and coffee when I decided to relax and click this video. Also it's refreshing to see people like that guy get confronted pragmatically and directly by someone he feels entitled to.
Charlie is probably my favorite masochist. Ruining his day with the weird antics of weirdos is his bread and butter.
Don't read my name!!!
@@Dont_Read_My_PictureI did
He _is_ treating this like a game LMAO. He’s absolutely floored that “I apologize for persisting. You’re just breathtaking and I want you. I’m willing to fight for you at this point,” didn’t cause her to say “omg, take me now.”
That’s why he goes CRAZY after that. He wasn’t expecting her response. He was expecting her to give some amount of “I’m interested” after he said something “so passionate and articulate.” That’s also why the following messages are unhinged by comparison. He hadn’t practiced any sort of response to her given answer in the dialogue tree lmao. So he’s used the ever eloquent “crash at me place” when if you look at the massages prior to this one he sounds like a fucking book character. Every line is faked and obviously “rehearsed” in that he’s seen them used before. It’s acting, but then he shows who he truly is when she continues to refuse him. The messages become more and more “him.”
The "dialogue tree" part killed me in this comment 🤣 if you ever did reaction videos I would totally watch you
people like this seem to have this entire dialogue scene in their heads of them and the person they're trying to get like they're writing a fanfiction, they curate the perfect lines to say according to this little scenario in their heads, and then when they go try it in real life, and the other person doesn't respond the way they expected, they short circuit and everything they say after that it a disaster.
he's *HIM*
This is exactly what I thought. He clearly has it very carefully planned out up until right around that point. And maybe her refusal was following one of the versions of the script in his head. I don’t know what he expected her to say to that, but it was not what she said, and he just lost it from there.
Either that, or it started to set in that she might actually just say no…
Lol I never realized that. So he’s rehearsing these lines in the mirror over and over again even though he’s not face to face with this woman. And he’s planned more preplanned responses for her. But if she finally put her foot down to say no once and for all, he’ll start malfunctioning like a computer and get upset and incoherent
Now I understand why ancient Arabs didn’t get the girls,they made poems about girls they never really knew and expect them to fall in love.
Clearly “No” is code for keep trying and look as desperate as possible
It’s like hard to get, but the only thing that’s hard to get for him is the obvious
I am LOVING this little series of creeps from Charlie 😂
Fr
same
- Unhinged Weirdo
- Another Unhinged Weirdo
- Obsessed Creep
The ultimate trilogy.
It's up there with the police chase video series
@@metalinstinct7041Praying it becomes a quadrilogy 🙏
It's crazy that Charlie puts up so many creep stories recently.
Charlie inspires me, my parents said if I get 30k followers here They'd buy me a better mic for recording.. Begging u guys literally begging
I don't know how he can keep going.
@@MbitaChizi no one asked bozo
@@DontReadMyProfilePicture.233ok i won't😢
@@MbitaChiziyour parents didn’t say shit stop using them weirdo
I love these types of videos. We need a series
Cause that's what their moms tell them . "Their loss sweetie" , "they'd be lucky to have you", now wash my feet lol
😂😂😂
When I was younger, I used to admire guys who weren't self-conscious about appearing creepy, because I _always_ was. Now, as a happily married man looking at the shitshow that is modern relationships, I am grateful for that instinct. And the funny thing is that despite this, there WERE a few occasions where I did act creepy. I just lacked the self-awareness.
I only had one guy friend out of like 5 who complained that a girl called him creepy. Like.. I dont know maybe you DID behave in a creepy way because I know the way you talk about “getting a woman” and how you make it everyone’s problem that no one wants to fuck you?
Sometimes it’s just a misunderstanding, but SOMETIMES a dude is genuinely being a creep and predatory. This is the same friend that admitted to talking to a 16 yr old when he was 19… And continued talking to her.
Same here. I could never realise that I was being overly creepy and “quirky” with girls that I liked, thinking if I was quirky enough they would see my “true worth”.. I dont miss that version of me.
@@doid4354 Hello corruptedgreed
There's a very fine line between properly conveying feelings and coming off like a creep/threat. Nowadays though, there's less tolerance for someone being forward with their intentions, but also far more people that don't know how to convey those intentions in a healthy or positive way.
Self awareness in retrospect, love to see it
Heard multiple female friends say they got similar disturbing advances by people when they were just in their teens from people they actually knew. Really hit home how common this stuff is. Scary.
Oh yeah I'm pretty sure almost every girl has had this experience when we were teens from someone we knew..... Family member or someone really close to the family .... Smh
Nevermind all the strangers who were only seldom boys our age, but old men with wives and kids!
@@maschaorsomethingI knew an older person like that who got divorced when he was caught.. honestly they might be the scummiest type
The number of dudes i had to cut contact with because of this has always been depressing. Like nah dude i just wanna be friends or keep our status quo...nope! Well alright then. Some I'd even give another shot at friendship because they promised they wouldn't get weird or possesive. LOL nah. Always ended in them getting creepy again and would have to cut contact for a final time.
@@CozmokitteeI can’t tell you how many times this has happened to me! It makes me wonder if it’s even possible to have purely platonic male friends? I click with men better than most women over nerdy stuff, but I don’t want the creep to rest its ugly head 😅 I only want like bro/sis energy.
I acted similarly towards a high school friend years after graduation and I have regretted ever since I became aware of what I was doing. There's no going back once you start spamming messages like that and you'll end up digging yourself a deeper and awful hole.
It’s insane how people can like someone so much that they don’t realize that they’re scaring them💀
him casually inviting her over to crash at his place is the biggest sign of SA ive ever seen. He's already a creep, but we all know that if she for some reason did say yes to crashing at his place only BAD things would happen
OR he'd wake up the next morning with his liver gone.
Exactly, I don't think this guy should be around women. He seems like a danger. He doesn't seem to even respect the woman he's trying to "get". It's like he sees her like a prize as if she's supposed to date him just because he has a job or whatever.
@@waddle623 Right? They should lock him up and throw away the key.
Alright we know the guy is a creep, but it is entirely unfair to assume something drastic like that, and even worse to say it as if it is everyone's opinion. I understand where you are coming from, but you are not all knowing, and neither am i. I am not saying that what you say is wrong, I am simply saying that you do not have grounds to throw that assumption out, especially when you state it as a fact. You are free to disagree with me, but it is a great service to refrain from assumptions.
@@user-un7iu4vg7w Obviously he shouldn't be tried for sex crimes on the basis of being a creep on Twitter (like one commenter here seems to believe), but in the woman's shoes, assuming any stranger trying *this* hard to get you to "crash at their place" is somebody with sex crime intentions is pretty reasonable.
"Behold. Don't be this guy" is exactly how I fell out of my nice guy phase. So thanks Charlie. The more people that see you, which I bet more than a few young men probably see and a masculine figure the more chance this may be a wakeup call for them too.
As a woman, it brings me joy every time I hear that someone escapes that mindset. I guarantee things will go so much better for you, even outside of relationships in general. The "nice guy" (more or less incel) state of mind is so detrimental in every way, extending far past just the relationship scene. The sad thing is that most of them wont change, but for the ones that do, there's absolutely the opportunity for them to improve even past what they were before, as they learn from past mistakes. Big props to you, someone abandoning the redpill mindset isnt commonly seen unfortunately. Hopefully more people will see Charlie's vids and have the same wakeup call you did.
@@dualistic6916as a woman 🤓🤓
oh ur definitely a 40 yr old virgin 🤣🤣
@@monwe8050 calling all women nerds? bold of you
With every one of these videos I see I want to post screenshots of one of the creeps that was messaging me two years ago and continues to make extra accounts to reach me to this day.
It takes a brave person to title a video Obsessed Creep and then put himself in the thumbnail lol love your stuff dude
This guy seems like the possessive / jealous type that ends up hurting women who try leaving him.
Yeah and I didn't even catch on to that till the end, it really showed his character
He's a narcissist
I am so stoked that in a time rife with incel and podcast beta bros, someone like you with a massive following is using their platform to shut down the men who have been influenced by some of the methodologies. This series has been popping off, please keep it going.
I mean anyone who uses the word incel is a dipshit regardless.
That is not what makes ppl dangerous as the podcast have legit nothing to do with it. The problem is the person, their development and the way they interpret things. Also, saying people are incels or betas for having a different opinion on things doesn’t make you any better than them. Do better.
YOU do better, defending incels online cause you feel attacked by people calling them out wont make people stop calling yall out. Do better. @@mortalninja8626
@@mortalninja8626 You realize that what these guys believe isn’t even an opinion, it’s just psycho behavior because of these podcasts they watch. They fully believe what these podcasts say & then go & hate on women for nonsense that doesn’t even affect them & throw in the “well I got rejected before so I know this women will do it too” towards random women without proof. There’s plenty of those crazy men in the comments of Charlie’s recent videos.
@@mortalninja8626 Maybe you could read what was actually written and respond to that.
bro why did she talk to him for so long 🤣
Ya I was wondering why she kept bothering to respond to him
If it were me I'd keep responding just to see where it goes and to keep the cringe coming. Make the guy embarass himself as much as possible
I need a hundred episode series of these
YES😂
This is public service. this series needs to keep going to teach the youth of today not to be creepy and cringe in general
Aren't stalkers usually entirely unable to comprehend why people get in their way and why the subject of their infatuation rejects them? He isn't being weird, like a normal guy can be weird, he is mentally unwell and should be taken seriously instead of just mocked, These types of people can go to extreme lengths and is likely to be a threat, especially if he refuses to learn from this and keeps pushing his obsession, believing that he isn't in the wrong, the world is.
Be careful out there. Some people are worse than plain creeps, they can be fucking mental.
This is why I quit all social media except UA-cam and Pinterest. The constant barrage of weirdos hitting on me and not accepting a polite “no I’m not interested because I’m in a relationship.”
This reminds me of something that happened in my high school
That was some hs shit 😂
"Your loss I guess." He said with tears in his eyes.