Videos like this just feed people the idea that men are the problem. Both genders have it tough. Both genders have a large amount of weird people. Sad that no one cares when a woman does something weird.
And it shows that he trusts his friend (who said they were given a prescription medication) more than he trusts her (who says there is no medicine for it). How he stayed in a relationship with a woman he trusts less than some random friend for 3 whole years is mind boggling.
Right 😂😂 bro was so angry he used 0% grammar energy and 1% spelling power, the spelling power was used for one word, he really needs to level up and pick a magica upgrade for real‼️.😂😂😂
@@TheKnoxviciousi mean i wouldn’t doubt it. if she wasn’t she’d just give the name of the clinic or the doctor’s name and get him to admit he was wrong later there’s no point hiding in it. if you’re scared your boyfriend is going to yell then why are you with him in the first place?
If you’ve ever lived with this type of guy, you know exactly what she meant; at least he didn’t start screaming the C-word at her for all the neighbors to hear.
the funniest part is that even if she did give her the hospital's name, they wouldn't even be able to disclose if she went there or not because of patient confidentiality.
It’s always someone else’s fault, never their own. This dude definitely has a personality disorder from a person who has a personality disorder (recovery).
@@stopcallingmesid As somebody who has been cheated on by every person I've ever dated, every single one of them acted like this with me and actually helped me to realize they were cheating by acting like this. My sister, who is also a cheater, also acts like this and never believes anybody about anything. Even very simple things like this guy. These kinds of actions are less of, "I have a hard time trusting people" and more so paranoia of a person who is feeling some kind of guilt. That's just what I've picked up by interacting with a lot of people who act like this.
I'm not sure that's the case. It certainly wasn't established in the message exchange seen in this video. All we know is that she has kids, seemingly. He may not be their father.
@@theduck2970 People who are also not capable of seeing or considering the other persons side also love to put themselves in a victim position. They don't even think about how their are two sides to a conflict and only see their own view and how they "got hurt". Never be in a relationship with people like that. They can be easily manipulative while making you feel guilty over nothing. Like you owe them something or that you are the "bad guy"... Good that the woman in the post left him. Hopefully she teaches their kids not to be like that and their father.
@@livingcheese2910 So, a narcissist basically. Which only makes it more ironic considering this moron even called the woman one in his victimhood whinging.
I lost my best friend to something similar to this. He chose his girlfriend who acted a lot like this dude, over his friend and threw away a 7 year friendship. All because "i can fix her"
if they were your best friend for 7 years, you probably threw away the friendship by judging them and not giving them space or understanding the complexities of a relationship. My best friend got a toxic girlfriend and was being manipulated a lot by them, they started taking the girlfriends side on every matter even when she was clearly being toxic, because she would gaslight him so heavily. I gave him space, I never blew up at him I just let him run his course, eventually they broke up and he reached out to me not long after seeing if I wanted to hang out. I said yes, because I still saw him as one of my best friends, just drifted over time because of his relationship, we've reconnected now closer than we were before and he has a new girlfriend and a kid and the relationship is very healthy. More though, our friendship of 17 years is also very healthy. A 7 year best friend doesn't just get thrown away, you might see it like that but it's always a 2 way street.
@@MadladMgeee he'd been with that girl for two years. She was constantly threatening suicide to him for the most minor things and it was a certain point where she didnt want him to talk to his friends i included. I dont think there was any other way. When i decided to call it, was when i brought him over to my house to hang out and she texted me and told me that i was taking the one thing keeping her from killing herself. And he called an uber and left so i lost it at both of them. Theres more but im not going to elaborate further to a stranger.
@@MadladMgeeeIts not always that simple. Still have no idea where my older sister is 13 years later and our family did everything we could to keep things open.
That sucks, man. I have a friend who got out of a similarly toxic relationship when we were in college. Same behavior, too. Threatening to off herself. Hating on his friends. Just the most unhinged, overly possessive crap. It got to a point where she was throwing stuff at him in private and hitting him in public over the smallest things. Nicest guy I know, but had a really hard time leaving a relationship where he truly loved the girl despite her doing all these awful things to him. Took a while to get himself out of it but when he got away, things have only gotten better. Doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman or whatever. Abuse is abuse, and folks gotta get as far away from it as fast as they can. Sadly it ain't always easy for them to run away.
I had a toxic ex. He isolated me from my friends and family, I didn't even have a phone. After it ended it was hard scavenging the friendships i had left. Some just asked why i dropped off the face planet, others i lost. One friend told me he just didnt have the heart to watch me self destruct, and i didnt listen to him, but in the end we still went our separate ways, because too much time passed, and some words i said trying to defend that toxic engagement cant be unsaid.
For the people who are siding with the guy or saying "there's two sides to every story".. None of you seem to ever have been on the recieving end of this. I assure you, nobody deserves to be talked to like this over cheating assumptions. If you think your gf cheated, then directly talk to her, or leave! I lived with several women that acted exactly like this guy. This exchange hit close to home for me.
Alot of men would act like this only if their girl has some random dude in her best friend list then it would be valid but his one is not imaginary. Their got to be a reason for how he acted cuz they had a 3 year relationship so she would of left in the 1st month if he was crazy
I believe she may have known, or at least there were serious red flags. She referred to this as "mild", so he probably displayed tantrums and various other controlling behaviors in the past. Questioning someone who was out later than usual or out somewhere unbeknownst to you may be understandable if trust is lost, but if your partner is obviously sick and she says she went to the doctor, doc doesn't give a prescription, and you explode? Kind of qualifies as unhinged. Why go through it for three years? Some people are afraid to be single, maybe it's an on again-off again, but they broke up over text. She didn't plead with him to talk about it (not that we saw), so their relationship wasn't solid to begin with. Personally, I'd rather be single than deal with that.
@@babag5891 It's not even valid if all her best friends were dudes. What kind of thinking is that? If don't trust your partner, don't be with them, that's it. If you can't handle their friends. Don't be with them. This guy is hyper insecure, likely controlling because of that insecurity, and quite possibly might be cheating as well. I'd be hard-pressed to believe this girl ever did anything wrong to him.
My ex pulled something similar when I was sick and I dumped her for it. If your partner won't support you when you're sick and/or when you need them most, they've failed the relationship test. Now I'm engaged to a woman who is the total opposite of that. Don't tolerate that type of thing in your life.
My first boyfriend was exactly like this, and it got to the point where he would stand outside my house and watch me through the windows to try to catch me doing something wrong. I'm glad this woman got away and got her kids out of that situation.
Jesus Christ WTF, my ex was incredible and the best person I've ever met, but sadly there was some misunderstanding and series of events out of both of us control lead to a breakup Where do guys find those weirdos
My first girlfriend was like this, demanded all my passwords, stalked my “active” status on social media which glitched all the time back in 2015, constantly interrogated me and would sit at the park next to my house to make sure I wasn’t sneaking out with boys.
Ive dated a guy like this. It was only for an year but it felt like decades. Its emotionally draining to be with someone like this. Glad she is out of it
I was with a guy like this for ten years and was engaged to him until it all hit me and I moved tf out… extreme narcissist. These guys are everywhere 🤢 glad you got out!
Same! Felt like ten years. He didn't trust me, ever. He would show up at my interviews before me to ask my interviewers if I was actually interviewing there. Showed up at my jobs to see if I was actually working, didn't trust me when I got home 10 minutes late and would threaten to break up with me, would give me the cold shoulder if I spent time with friends. Went through my phone constantly, etc etc He constantly gave me the cold shoulder and refused to communicate. I'd try to talk things out with him and he'd tell me I was "playing victim", and nothing was wrong with him and his trust issues. Then he told me he cheated on me because he *knew* I'd cheat on him at some point and his friends told him a girl like me would never date a guy like him, so I must be using him. So he got his "revenge" in advance. Mental mind games.
@@ThePopeOfCats You are gross. It's not that black and white. Most of these guys get you all hooked up to them before revealing this kind of behaviour. And being IN that situation is a whole lot different than being a bystander. Do better.
A good partner, friend, anything of the sort, has a narcissist on their hands if they get hit with such a line of thought. He wasted 3 years of this poor woman's life just to give her some cartoonishly batshit guff over catching the super sniffles.
My ex told me he wasted everything on me when I broke up with him, at least im not the one who tried blackmailing him with pictures saying I would send them to his mom 🙂 that happened the same day after he told me the first part
There was this guy who was my friend who started to flirt with me, I told him I didn’t want to be his friend anymore bc he knew I had a bf and he still tried to say flirty things to me when I had told him to stop. He got so angry at me, told me “you lost your chance with the best” and then called me a slut. I was so shocked all I could do was laugh.
My dad was exactly like this with my mom. For the entirely of their relationship (they were together for like 22 years I think) he would constantly accuse my mom of cheating on him, it didn't help that my mom was the breadwinner, so my dad would just call her all the time and anytime she wouldn't pick up, he would think that she was opening her legs to every guy in the office and he basically thought that everything she said to him was a big fat fucking lie. He would even wake her up in the middle of the night just to interrogate her about whatever and even would ask questions about the guys she works with. Honestly, the fact that my mom was even willing to have a child with him, let alone three kids still fucking amazes me. What am trying to say is, Ladies if your man is ever acting this way towards you. Fucking leave his ass. You do not need to settle for him, it's okay to leave, even if you have kids with him, all the more reason to leave, may as well leave him sooner rather then later so he doesn't fuck up your kids childhood.
See, I'm that individual. I've been cheated on in the past relationships, and now have major trust issues. But that is why I haven't pursued a relationship with anyone for the past couple of years - been just living with myself, doing therapy and working on myself until I can prove to myself that I'm "good enough". The thing is, such cringe behavior comes from low self esteem, and it tells quite a lot about how one feels about themselves. You said it yourself, your mom was the one bringing the bread, so that might've been just one more thing that was bothering your dad and he felt like he's not good enough - the fact that he's not the one bringing in bread.
Classic male insecurity over not being the breadwinner. Your dad was just projecting his insecurities and perceived emasculation elsewhere by convincing himself your mother was cheating on him. In fact I think I even recall studies that men who aren't the household's breadwinner almost universally either openly accuse or secretly suspect their partner of cheating. Pretty pathetic all around. My own parents were similarly dysfunctional and hated each other.
This brought back memories of my ex, she should do this kind of thing. She would tell me "I know you're gay, cause what type of man goes to hang out with his friend at night and come back home till 3am?" And I would tell her "I used to go 4 times a month on an off day afternoon and you didn't like it so I went on an off day at night, you didn't liked that so I went twice a month, you didn't like that, so I went after work (11pm) twice a month and you still didn't like that. Now that I draw the line, you call me gay? LOL!"
My ex was just like this. He would do the most to make me feel crazy and then laugh when I started showing any kind of emotion and then gaslight me into thinking I was the one who started it. People like this suck. Literally leave them. It's hard, and it's scary but it is so worth it.
Im amazed that their relationship lasted for 3 years. Imagine 3 years of this douchebaggery. There's no way you can leave a relationship like this unscathed. I hope this poor woman gets help.
I’m more amazed it ended so quickly. My mother stayed with my degenerate father for over two decades before leaving him and he was the same as this piece of work here. I’m happy this woman didn’t let him do that to her any longer than 3 years, because it usually just gets worse and many people with shitty partners feel stuck and can’t leave.
@@art_theclown_yea it's really hard to leave. Leaving is the most dangerous time. And back in the day decades ago for women like your Mom it was even harder, so much cultural pressure and so little support. Im sorry you went through that.
@@art_theclown_Being very ill and your partner treating you like shit rather than looking after you probably hit harder than anything. But tbh there's probably a good chance they'd get back together
It's really sad that there are so many interactions like this that go completely unnoticed. Some people are so completely insufferable and up their own asses that there's just no saving them from themselves.
Imagine being so insecure that anytime your gf does anything by herself, you immediately think that she's screwing another guy. What a depressing, miserable existence
yeah its one thing being insecure and thinking it could be the case, but accusing someone with no evidence, that's just not going to win any conversations. Definite L
I went on a blind date with a guy. Turned out he lived 4 blocks from me. I didn't answer the phone all day because I was outside at a block party and the guy came to my house! He was screaming at me for "ignoring his call" and "who do you think you're dealing with" and "you have no idea what happens when people cross me." It was the last comment that got him slammed. Some of the men on our block took care of him. And he ran away, apologizing and basically crying. Seems to me that crazy text guy hasn't had his ass beat. He needs it.
@@TheisExplainsHowTo I think OP meant that they had met him on a blind date and had texted on subsequent days and when she didn't respond one day this happened
This reminds me of my ex so much, I also had a similar situation where he doubted my illness and told me he thought I was lying about going to the ER, also told me he didn’t believe me when I told him that my dog died and I really needed support then. Doing much better without him.
This dude reeks of insecurity. He’s clearly trying to push his own issues onto her so he has an excuse to call her these awful things when it’s actually him who is these awful things. Clearly he’s the “homeless narcissist liar whose own kids don’t even like him” and he doesn’t want to face that.
u obviously dont have much relationship experience. obviously the reason this guy is acting this way, is because this woman has lied to him in the past, or accused him of lying when he wasnt, so this is just retaliation for her own behavior, karma as you might say.
Dated a guy like this for 5 years!! It was absolutely awful, and omg, this interaction brought up so many awful memories, and i swear, it's so spot on. The anger overshadowing the grammar, getting called a liar for the smallest of things that you would have to be insane to lie about, the mood changes from one message to the next. The scariest part is that guys like this are so 'normal' and loving in the beginning of the relationship, long enough for you to get comfortable and love them. I'm so glad this girl got out of it.
Meta level ironic that you would sarcastically say you’re “praying” for someone watching this kind of content considering the death of religion in this country was a big factor leading up to this kind of behavior. As a society, we have lost God. And cringe is the price we all must pay.
It’s clear she has already left the relationship so it’s already over. Good luck to her as the guy clearly has a serious personality disorder if this is a mild example of his communication.
Yeah the guy in the convo is over the top and clearly looks like the jackass. We don't know if the chick is any way toxic or not. Sometimes these things are like this. The other in the relationship will screenshot all the ugly crap exposing their partner while tactically responding with sane messages. We don't know anything about their relationship or past trauma together. Sometimes it's not as simple as "he's schizo!". Just saying to keep an open mind.
Dude for real. How do you fumble this badly? I tend to be really anxious and paranoid usually feel pretty bad about it, but holy fuck this guy makes conversation as frustrating as nails on a chalkboard
2:58 As a rule, I am always wary of folks that misspell losing as 'loosing'... I know exactly how to jandle fools like this... ZWEE BAH DA BAH DA BUM!!
Dude I kinda overheard someone's experience that is similar to this in my class a few days ago. A dude in my class was talking about how he "had" to get a picture of his sick gf throwing up to make sure she wasn't just at home cheating on him. I swear to god, if you have to have a person take a picture of THEM BEING SICK just to know they're not cheating, your relationship isn't going anywhere
i know you should mind your own business but i feel like you should have spoken up, or spread that info around at school! make sure that everyone knows hes a controlling asshole!
What i'll never understand is how guys like this can think they can go from demanding, to threats, to a flurry of insults and it looks like anything OTHER than pathetic flailing.
I have a lot of trust issues because of shitty stuff that's happened to me over the years. I can be like this to a certain degree as well. But it's something I'm aware of and am doing my best to change and be better. It's hard to watch an interaction like this and be reminded of my own problems. But I wanted to watch it through to see how it looks to others and how I can do better.
I have BPD and this reminds me of the type of unhinged delirium that distress can cause. You can create narratives for yourself, be super demanding and controlling, and be in need of immediate answers and relief. Sometimes you have to completely fall on your face and embarrass yourself like this to realize what a cancer you are on others and to make change. Hope he figures this shit out and works on himself in therapy like I did because otherwise it's a chronic downward spiral.
I feel so bad for her. This is like.. 3 years of this? She deserves so much better. I feel horrible she felt like this is who she deserved.. no one deserves someone who treats them like this.
Why? She chose to endure every moment. Speaking from experience, when my partner got abusive… I left, literally immediately, and called the police. When she tried to call me months later to make up, I ignored her. I’m not sure why women make it seem so damn hard when it truly isn’t.
For sure. Dude's a textbook narcissist. My guess is she either somehow didn't see enough red flags before she was in too deep with him (kids came along), ignored them for some reason, and/or he somehow managed to hide the red flags until much later in the relationship. Regardless, I'm guessing the main reason the relationship lasted for 3 years was because they have kids. Hard to leave even an abusive relationship if kids are involved. Always complicates things.
I’m binging these because after nearly going through something similar, I feel less alone in having been (or potentially still am) in the crosshairs of a completely unhinged weirdo.
omg if i was this woman I would have just stopped responding after the first accusation. There is no decent relationship with someone that behaves this way. Me and my wife lived on opposite sides of the planet for over 6 years and not once have I ever accused her of lying about anything and that's how it should be with the person your committed to. If you can't trust them completely then you shouldn't be with them in the first place because that is a horrible way to live for both sides.
"i know you're ducking lying, haha" what a line. how can you be so aggressive and yet end it on a "ha ha" you can tell he has a holier than thou attitude
I dated someone with extreme paranoia about where I was, what I was doing, and who I was with and it was probably the most demoralizing experience of my life. Having someone interrogate you constantly over the simplest things makes you not want to do anything out of fear. You start to feel crazy because the truth isn’t their truth.
@@jenniferb.awesome I can safely say this person did not cheat on me but had trauma with a cheating ex and controlling qualities. Either way I am very happy I got out of that situation!!!
I was the ex with paranoia issues, It wasn't really with anyone with who my ex hanged out with but more just if he really liked me or not and my own body image issues, it seems that the person you dated was very awful My ex and I are still on good terms and I'm still getting therapy hope You heal dude
Something similar happened to me. He would not stop interrogating and would constantly ask what i was doing? For the one month that we barely dated. One day i got so angry i just ghosted him. I didn't even wanna break up with him by talking about it. I just blocked him and went on a vacation to clear my head. Then just moved on. He tried to get in contact with me through a friend but i didn't even wanted to see his face.
It's one thing when it's some random, weird guy on tinder. It's another thing when it's someone you trusted and held close to your heart. I'll never understand how people who are clearly not ready for a relationship get into them with zero faith in their partner
Not defending the creeps out there, but most of the women today are no saints... Hundreds of reels and stories proving girls are not faithfull to their man, no matter what. Relationships of years broken down by cheating and lying type stuff
@atomdecay I'm sorry to say this, but you should NEVER enter into a relationship if you're in a broken state, because look where that got you. When you look for love when you cannot find it within yourself, you will either ignore anything that seems sketchy for the sake of finding any semblance of joy or be like this dickhead in the video. So while her cheating is scummy and unforgivable, and she deserves to be run over, the fact you mentioned that she would beat you to the point of having broken bones and teeth while your son was there? I get that leaving an abusive relationship is hard, but not only did you have the funds, your kid could have also been caught in the crossfire. Unless Arkansas has no shelters for battered people aside from just women, I don't get why you wouldn't leave at least for your son's sake, because that would have been some good evidence to use against her. Does Arkansas also see that as kidnapping if you want to live in a shelter with your son? I also would think you have all the records for every time you had to go to the ER and dentist to use for evidence, right? Even with the unfortunate reality of child custody favoring mothers, that would have been some damning evidence for the judge to ignore. I am sorry that it did happen to you, despite my harshness, and I honestly hope she experiences karma tenfold. Seeing that sh!t is extremely traumatic for a child too and it destroys how they view the nature of relationships. I must be missing something big if none of those things were a possibility to help you get out earlier, so feel free to inform me. Regardless, I wish you the best of luck in the future, hoping you can find some sort of legal loophole or get some advice from a lawyer to get your son back. However, I'm not sure how your story could counter Charlie's claim. She wasn't giving him sketchy answers and she was in the right; her partner was just a narcissistic fucking idiot who was already overly paranoid. Your fiance, however, you already knew she was bad and dangerous, but you were blinded by love and probably had an extremely low view of your worth, so I can see why you would think that. I cannot imagine her blowing up your phone while you were out was constantly filled with loving messages either. But please, find a way to get some therapy before even trying to look for another partner. You seem like a nice guy, but if you don't have the confidence to not feel like you need to check in on them regularly, that's obsessive behavior and extremely unhealthy. You need to get your priorities straight and give people space. Maybe her repeatedly texting you made you feel that way as I can believe she would be controlling and very manipulative. Good luck, man. For you, and your son.
@@celestialnull I wasn't fucked up until AFTER my relationship with her. & as for all of the dental records & taking her to court & taking my son with me, A. She demanded that I plead guilty to "admit what i did wrong (even though i never actually touched her, just manipulation) & not take her to court if I wanted to come home & see my son, & my extreme fear of leaving my son alone with her was enough for me to do anything & everything foolish & self-sabotoging to be with him, no matter what it took. & no, there arent shelters for men here. Also, women have 100% of the power in Arkansas. Besides, anytime I did say anything along the lines of "I'm taking you to court" she would always retaliate with the same thing: "Go ahead. I'll tell the judge I saw you raping our son." She specifically, verbatim said "I will say whatever I need to say to make sure your life is as miserable as it can possibly be." She hated me with a burning passion just for existing. She wanted my money & my belongings, but not me. Trust me, I've heard every single thing you've said a million times. She did all she could to make sure I was pushed into a corner, & because I was 24 at the time all I cared about was trying to keep my burgeoning family together. The entire point I was trying to make is that none of us know these people. All we know is the text conversation in front of us. This could be someone who has cheated on thus guy multiple times before. This could be someone with some serious trauma, & if you're going to be with someone then you are agreeing to help them grow past those fears & become better people, not prod & poke the fire. My ex could easily Google my mugshot, post it with a caption like "I spent 4 years being abused by this lunatic until I was finally able to escape with my son" & every single person would take 1 look & jump all over me instead of thinking she MIGHT be full of shit. I understand not wanting someone to call your doctor & yell at them, but he clearly only said that to have a "reason" to ask her doctors name. I honestly find it extremely fishy that she never actually gave ANY explanation for the giant holes in her story, & instead of answering a few very simple questions, she chose to let this person think he was betrayed AND leave the relationship. All I'm saying is, the women I date are my partners in life. They have what I have, they are my other halves. So if my hypothetical girlfriend begged me to tell her a few tiny bits of info so she could feel more secure, I would have no reason to withhold that information. It's like poking a dog in the eye, then calling him crazy when he finally bites back. She pushed & pushed this guy until he couldn't deal with the fear of what she might have (probably) done, & instead of having the saintly patience every man is required to have, he lashed out in pain with ugly words, & it turned into a lose-lose for him because he isn't allowed to feel emotions. I agree that he handled it poorly, but it's our jobs as partners to help mend those types of personality issues & trust issues. It is not worth losing my relationship to prove some moot point to someone i claim to love. Not everyone has complete control of every emotion every single time, & it's unfortunate that not only did this dude get pushed & pushed, but because he's only human & said some nasty shit out of hurt, he ISNT ALLOWED to have answers OR get his feelings hurt. He is REQUIRED to be the perfect man, no flaws at all, or he's a crazy person & deserves to be a public laughingstock. So that's how we show our love now? Because if you asked me, I would choose the person who is genuinely afraid of losing me over the person totally apathetic to my feelings & willing to publicly shame me for clicks. I've been in that exact situation & it was so awful for me I chewed on a gun barrel more than a handful of times. Everyone in my life was either turning against me or bombarding me with what I SHOULDVE done or what I SHOULD do. & I didn't leave sooner because I actually meant it when I told her I loved her, for better or for worse. My heart truly does belong to her, it has since we met in 4th grade. We didn't date til 2016, but we knew each other our entire lives, & I have never loved anyone nearly as much as I love her still, even after all she's done. I would NEVER intentionally push her into panicking & freaking out, then point fingers at her & jeer with a crowd of strangers. The only context we have is what's presented by the "victim". It's very one-sided, & without more context to their past & possibly what she's already done to lose his trust, it's not right to publicly shame this dude for having hurt feelings & not being perfect all the time. He obviously really loved this girl if he was that afraid. All he did was act out of hurt. It was a shitty thing to do, but so is intentionally pushing your partner to think you cheated just so you can go "I didn't cheat, see? Now you're crazy & weird." I would've liked for this to end with her giving him the number & letting him find out for sure instead of leaving him hurt, punished, & alone. We are all human. We all deserve a chance or two to lose our emotions sometimes. My ex NEEDED medication. She just wouldn't take it. 🤷♂️
@@atomdecay first off, your son's mother is absolutely in the right for calling you insane if you had gone to her house after y'all had not been in a relationship for over a year. You had quality time with your son, and she had time to herself she spent the way she wanted to. You should have enjoyed the time with your son instead of worrying so much about her. Also, no I don't know everyone's story. But I know when to accept the truth. And if someone ended up lying to me, I'm not going to beat myself up for being a decent human being and trusting her. Yes people cheat and it's hard having trust issues, but if you go into a relationship with trust issues it's not going to be the best. I myself, being young, struggle with them a lot. But I'm working on trusting people more, I'm working on being okay with accepting their story as truth. Because it's what a healthy relationship is. If she does end up lying to me, I tell myself I did my part. I did what I did to trust her, and she lied to me. That's it.
@@seravat4204 hundreds, out of how many women in the world? Or even in the United States? Or even in your city? You're taking the negative you're seeing on the internet and going too far with it. Most normal people you see are faithful. You're just hard focused on the moments of "women lying" to prove yourself and your trust issues right. Trust me, if you get into a good relationship (which btw it takes time) you will find yourself with someone worthy of being trusted. Worthy of being loved, and someone you can build a deep long connection with. But in the mean time, work on being the person worthy of loving. No body is perfect, but the first step towards it is acknowledging your flaws. You can't change all of them, but aiming towards being a decent human being is enough. Figuring out what's stopping you from that should be the first step
I can almost guarantee this guy was cheating or on the verge of doing so with how out of the blue these accusations were. Even if she did give him the address, he wouldn’t have believed her, especially since the clinic wouldn’t even verify if she’d been there.
I wouldn't even think of calling her doctor unless she was suffering unbearably and kept passing out or becoming delirious over many days and couldn't think to question their opinion and call them herself. People need to trust their partner and their partner's judgement.
But what if SHE was actually cheating. That shit drives a person to do and say weird things, especially if you love them. Guy or girl doesn't matter being cheated on constantly will fuck your head up if you aren't cold blooded.
@@brandi598 Yeah exactly, men and women who constantly think their significantly other is cheating are doing it themselves or are incredibly insecure/possessive and don't know how to love properly. Even when me and my girlfriend were going through a toxic breakup because we were both immature and had untreated mental illnesses, I never thought she was cheating on me, not even once.
@@Remedy462 exactly i think it’s always some sort of projection like they’re aware of how easy it was for them to cheat so they fear it’s happening to them every second now. sorry to hear u had a toxic breakup btw!
As someone who’s had a narcissistic ex, this is what they do. The manipulating, gaslighting, empty threats, and the paranoia of wondering where you are where they themselves can cheat or whatever. But the funniest thing of all is that they will call you exactly what they are themselves. So to call her a narcissist that not even their children love means he suspects it about himself 😂. They are unhinged people.
He was probably cheating and deflected on her to avoid guilt. That's the usual psychology behind spontaneous actions like this. Im going to overwhelmed you with accusations so you do sniff out my infidelity. Now you're too distracted to even consider I'd cheat
I was also with a narc for a long time. They absolutely do tell on themselves all the time. Everything they accuse you of they are doing or insecure about. It was a nightmare I am still working on today. She was a demon. Anything that produces love, joy, or anything good she would ruin.
People actually believing this fan fiction garbage Charlie is posting is hilarious. He must really be running out of ideas in that dull skull of his to make videos about a few lines of easily faked texts with no context outside of these.
Absolutely Insufferable. It’s people like this that are becoming so common online. It’s absolutely sad and sickening. Thank You Charlie for covering stories like this and shitting on these horrible cringe people.
Unfortunately, these sorts of paranoid, insecure, manipulative people have always existed within the gene pool, but with the power of technology and the internet, we get to see the dirty laundry of a personal relationship being aired more frequently.
I think that these kinds of people have always been around, but they are appearing to be more common thanks in large part to social media. I agree that this behavior is sickening, and I feel bad for any person on the receiving end of it
I don't know why it's suddenly such a pandemic of mentally unstable morons. What makes me happy though is that their lives are ruined not because of other people, but because of themselves. They introduce chaos and drama into their lives and then it all blows up. That's how they end up friendless, loveless and miserable. Don't know why they don't put more effort into communicating and not just assuming in advance. I am SOOOO glad I met my girlfriend and she's both of sound mind and intelligent. Agree, it's insufferable behaviour. Complete moronic goobers. I hope this girl finds someone better.
I had a partner like this a few years ago. Im so glad you are making videos like this, if I knew about manipulative behaviour I could have saved myself alot of trouble.
I 'm just now noticing that these insane methods some guys use to accuse women of lying are very similar to the insane methods that were used to accuse women of being witches, you know, the methods that were basically "Kill her and if she dies that means she wasn't a witch." Whether she is or isn't you're just going to get the same horrible outcome.
I know this isnt really the place to put it, but thank you charlie, I just had the first and most intense breakup I've had in my life, and seeing you laugh and talk about these wierdos made me feel physically and emotionally better. Just felt like putting it out, but thank you man
Your time is precious. Take it as a lesson and may you get better at detecting idiots and keep them from wasting it. I know it's hard out there, godspeed.
"I just had the first and most intense breakup I've had in my life" First huh? Let me be the first to let you know there will be many more before you're through. Dealing with other people's drama while they deal with yours is always endlessly fascinating, you'll see.
Dated someone like that for a year, I remember starting therapy after the final discard. And blaming myself for everything, wondering if I was the narcissist. Going back and re reading those texts when I was in my healing process helped see things in a different perspective. I hope she gets the help she needs, and I hope she doesn't blame herself of his words/actions. Truly a horrible place to be in and get out of
I hope you heal from that scumbag. It’s so sad these insecure manlets actually get into people’s heads, when in the end they want to drag anyone and everyone down to their level.
looool manlets (I'm a guy my nex is a girl) but i thought that was funny. But I agree they're so insecure in their own behavior they project it onto us. I literally thought I was the worst human in the world because of how she would describe me. And if anyone relates to this video, open up to friends or family, a therapist or your family doctor. and listen to them
These kinds of guys need to be shamed, to be honest; it is unacceptable to treat dates like this - _whether it is done to a man or a woman, by the way!_ - and the shaming of that kind of behaviour might give some guys a reality check.
@@maxcantrell3667 Yeah, they usually just freak out, try to checkmate you by calling you a "simp" or "woke" for siding with women, etc. Like, nah dude, you're just being a dick, cut it out.
@@thestraydog Oh yeah, "simp" is a classic; they somehow cannot comprehend the idea that "hey, actually there exist men who are concerned about the general well-being of women without trying to get those girls interested in them".
I know, these people have been stuck on the internet way too long, never seem to realise that the internet doesn't reflect reality and is heavily exaggerated or atleast doesn't apply to everyone.
I’ve never felt so insecure in myself as to believe my partner is constantly lying to me. If they are, then it’ll just end when I find out. Not that big a deal. To believe they’re always lying to me and freaking out like this is just total insanity, I don’t care if they lie to me about going to the doctor. Like, if they didn’t go that’s their problem, not mine. It only causes them issues, there’s no need to make such a big fuss. To think some men can be so batshit crazy is wild, I would never stoop this low
As someone who's been cheated on many times, I find this ridiculous. Even if she was cheating on him, he shouldn't talk like that to her. Him saying he's going to talk to the doctor because he "knows" there's medicine is not because he is concerned, its because he doesn't believe her and wants to prove she's lying. Actually pathetic
I was as much of an overthinker as that guy that's why i stopped dating after my 4th relationship ended when i saw how much i was hurting her. if your man is like that you better run fast we're not worth it.
Some people absolutely cannot handle being wrong. To the point of going to extremes, or even creating a situation where they want to argue and argue and argue how they’re right like our guy here.
Reader, I married one. Divorce after five years. Stupid thing is, we only had the wedding to please my extremely Catholic mother. Take my advice, dear young ones, and live together for a couple of years before you even think about getting married.
@@zaidnava7200because cohabitation=sex, and premarital sex as we all know is the worst possible thing a good little Christian boy or girl could ever do
Social media is a huge reason for this. It’s just an infestation of fake relationship skits and scenarios, but people believe them, write think pieces in reply to them, and shape their worldviews based on them. We’re becoming dumber as a species.
@user-jh1yj3pd6t Maybe it was not the post, more so him just asking, "should I be worried". I mean. Better 5 years late than never, some people sadly stay in unfair/abusive relationships for much longer. You don't know his life. You can't judge him based apon that
We really are. And that shit is so common these days because people have literally engineered content from the ground up to induce replies and trick algorithms. I see it every day on youtube shorts or whatever they're called. For a mild example of it, someone will make an innocuous video and mention a fact that is blatantly incorrect, knowing people will correct them in the comments. Thus gaining tons of engagement from the ensuing arguments/comments and the video ends up recommended to everyone. In regard to relationships, people will make up/fake content to induce outrage, because it gets replies, which maybe a guy who was cheated on reads and goes "oh, they're all like this" and now his worldview is disconnected from reality after encountering it enough times. This kind of manipulation through content is literally rotting brains.
@@Alixznderit was completely because of the post. Why would he say things have been great for 5 years if he didn't think things had been great? Then he wonders if he should worry just seeing someone say because she has social media she's cheating (which is completely absurd). That's how these insecure, misogynists/incels plant these ideas into young inexperienced men.
@@marvinlang3777 I mean.... as a guy, I've dealt with and heard of some zingers the other way around.... Literally watched my friend get beat up by his crazy ex in the middle of the day for breaking up with her, and the next girl he dated flipped out, ran off to a different state, got an abortion (and made sure to keep him in the dark for months) when he told her he wanted to co-parent instead of date (due to her constant abuse after getting pregnant). She's a practicing clinical psychologist. She councils people. Even her mother, a chancellor at a major university, played along the "keep him in the dark" game... People crazy regardless the gender you date... Best idea is to make sure you really know them before popping out their offspring.
@@marvinlang3777the issue is that they're usually chameleons and hide as long as they can, but by the time their disguise as a normal person falls apart you're already in too deep
Had 8 years of a relationship with a "man" like this. Two kids, so much pain and emotional damage. Ty Charlie for showing how these people act/treat those they "love". I saw the light and got out but there are so many trapped. People need to know
God, my ex’s excuse for his behavior was “Sometimes you hurt the ones you love.” Gave me more energy to pack everything and leave. So glad it’s behind me.
It's wild how detached and insecure these guys are from reality smh. They never thought thier behavior would be placed on display for everyone to witness and see... So they act like insane assholes. But my god this dude took such a fast downturn. Being cheated on definitely sucks but if your gonna alway think your S/O is cheating then LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP instead of accusing and behaving like imbeciles
On one hand, you should never be with someone whose behavior makes you feel constantly on edge. On the other hand, when it’s you constantly on edge not only with no evidence but also with nothing that could ever reasonably be suspicious, that someone should never be with you. …Unless they were fully aware from the beginning and you’re actually working on it.
It's most likely narcissm, my ex would do the same thing. Always accusing me, going through my phone, making me breakdown my history with every girl on my social media. Making me delete every girls number on my phone, people I've known for 14 years. Just to find out she was the one cheating the entire time. Gaslighting, projecting, emotional manipulation. absolute trash humans. i fell for her and hope she finds a way out and get the help she needs
Holy shit… I am so sorry she has to deal with this person. Reminds me of my father. My mom finally got out after 20 years but my mom has severe trauma from it. In her current relationship she lies about the smallest things because she is terrified he will react bad. I am happy I found someone who never doubts me and supports me no matter what.
Emotional Dysregulation at it's finest. Every time she hears this stuff and stays with him his brain is wired to see it as an effective way to feel secure in his relationship. Glad she finally saw it and had enough. Tbh it also sucks that people who get to this level of unhinged simply because they need to feel important and loved only get the right mental health support when they get to absolute rock bottom, if that even happens. Most people just carry on hating their life and hating everyone around them until they die of cancer or heart disease. Therapy needs to become affordable, normal and actually good.
That's actually an interesting point; when an abusive relationship lasts a long time, the abuser is also being conditioned in a way because the abuse can be effective in the short term 😕
It’s really sad to see dudes like this and not trusting their partners. A lot of dudes struggle with similar stuff (obviously not this severe in most cases) but it comes from such a place of insecurity. It’s so sad for the dude but worst for the partner involved. As someone who struggled with this a lot and only recently really got comfortable with trusting again I have one message for my fellow love birds. Don’t suck. If you can’t trust fuck it dude do it again. If you love someone and they love you back then there’s nothing to worry about. If they break that trust then move along, there’s gonna be someone who treats you right but you better treat them right too. Much love 💕
@@sus4nah so you know how sitting in a constant state of dark can cause depreŝŝion and sui'c'idal thoughts? Well r/texts might as well be the same thing
u obviously dont have much relationship experience. obviously the reason this guy is acting this way, is because this woman has lied to him in the past, or accused him of lying when he wasnt, so this is just retaliation for her own behavior, karma as you might say.
This insecurity comes from people who are hiding secrets and lying. They believe their partner is also doing things as well so they're insecurities come out.
Kind of like Tony soprano, when he cheats on his wife he doesn’t care, quite the contrary he enjoys cheating on her, but when she loves someone else or cheats he immediately loses it. Some dudes only think women are property and nothing else.
Yes, sometimes they are the ones who cheat on their partner or are tremendous hypocrites and make projections of their own mistakes, insecurities, problems and other things, especially those that they cannot solve or that were their fault and they cannot stand the shame and humiliation.
I have never questioned my SO, I honestly just trust her. There’s no reason she would lie to me and there’s no reason I’d lie to her. This is so bizarre
Wild first sentence to open the video with
Yo its blarg
Videos like this just feed people the idea that men are the problem. Both genders have it tough. Both genders have a large amount of weird people. Sad that no one cares when a woman does something weird.
Best yet honestly
I blasted Rockstar outta my nose as soon I heard it.
I was drinking hot tea after a vocal performance and spit it on my gentleman's sausage. It was quite painful.
Not sure whats more impressive, the fact that he can make an argument out of thin air, or the fact that she had to deal with him for 3 years.
Shoulda left him sooner. I know I wouldn’t have put up with bs for three whole years.
She didnt have to. She *chose to*, that's what's most impressive in this whole ordeal.
Here come to replies that blame the victim
And it shows that he trusts his friend (who said they were given a prescription medication) more than he trusts her (who says there is no medicine for it). How he stayed in a relationship with a woman he trusts less than some random friend for 3 whole years is mind boggling.
From the river to the sea Palestine will be free
How the hell did he manage to spell “narcissist” properly out of all the minor words he button mashed into unrecognizable states?
He probably calls everyone a narcissist and his phone just now has it ready to go in the auto-fill. lmao
@@ellissvannish5788most likely. It's sad really
"all the minor words he button mashed into unrecognizable states" lmao
He probably looked it up so he'd feel smart
Right 😂😂 bro was so angry he used 0% grammar energy and 1% spelling power, the spelling power was used for one word, he really needs to level up and pick a magica upgrade for real‼️.😂😂😂
This goes beyond “creepy” and steps into the realm of straight up manipulation and abuse.
it is manipulation and abuse
No not really… it’s still very creepy cuz I think any form of abuse and manipulation is creepy and weird
Plot twist: She was cheating
@@TheKnoxviciousi mean i wouldn’t doubt it. if she wasn’t she’d just give the name of the clinic or the doctor’s name and get him to admit he was wrong later
there’s no point hiding in it. if you’re scared your boyfriend is going to yell then why are you with him in the first place?
@@ibrahim_-_-_
Some people can act, then reveal who they really are later on.. Crafty people.
the fact that she called this interaction "mild" is genuinely the most upsetting thing i've heard today
If you’ve ever lived with this type of guy, you know exactly what she meant; at least he didn’t start screaming the C-word at her for all the neighbors to hear.
insecure males everywhere its sad. And scary because you cant trust anyone
@@ipeednah men Just better
@@ipeed
That’s why I’m straight-dudes just suck
@@warlordofbritanniayeah you can usually find these type of people very easy every famliy has at least one
I love that this man can start off a video by saying, "I've never had a threesome," and just continue on with his story without mentioning it further.
If it were anyone else I would turn off the video but Charlie somehow made it wholesome.
Fr caught me off guard so bad
Nothing needs to be said after that
its on his mind
He did bring it up again 10 seconds later. Then he didn't bring it up again
the funniest part is that even if she did give her the hospital's name, they wouldn't even be able to disclose if she went there or not because of patient confidentiality.
Depending on more context both are in the right tho, she could be another unfaithful whore or he could be another insecure idiot thats simply lost af.
The hippo law
@@Calories124But I like your version better.
He would probably say that she’s cheating on him with the doctor so they won’t tell him anything 😂
@@Scott_BuchananClearly she went and saw Dr. Dick Down, its the only explanation.
As someone who’s known a couple of narcissists in my life I can confirm that they do call every person a narcissist but themselves
yep its giving my mom and brother :)
This comment becomes pretty funny when you read it a couple times.
Said the narcissist
Yes, you can almost count on a narcissist calling anyone who doesn't do their bidding a narcissist. Textbook.
It’s always someone else’s fault, never their own. This dude definitely has a personality disorder from a person who has a personality disorder (recovery).
I hope Charlie never stops making videos about weird guys trying to date people, they're so entertaining it's unreal
Unreal Engine
@@ChrisShafferOfficialyou can’t just throw that in there man
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
@@chlownee first warning
@@mr1234abcd warning 1
People who cheat are often paranoid about their partner cheating/being deceitful, so I wouldn't be surprised if this guy was actually cheating on her
That or people that had it happen in the past. But if you arent over it yet you shouldnt be dating
Wow, got a source?
@@stopcallingmesid As somebody who has been cheated on by every person I've ever dated, every single one of them acted like this with me and actually helped me to realize they were cheating by acting like this. My sister, who is also a cheater, also acts like this and never believes anybody about anything. Even very simple things like this guy. These kinds of actions are less of, "I have a hard time trusting people" and more so paranoia of a person who is feeling some kind of guilt. That's just what I've picked up by interacting with a lot of people who act like this.
@@BonShulastop being so defensive lmao
@@SylviSixx ok
I didn’t expect to learn what “jelking” was today but Charlie really is a boundless pit of wisdom isn’t he
its jelquing and he made a video just about it
@@andrewjones9547jelqing
Jelquing*
Him: She's probably cheating on me
Her: *going to the doctor*
Their kids are probably not his.
Plot twist: her doctor is johnny Sins
As a woman, I'm deeply disturbed that they have children together. I am so sorry that she's forever tied to that weirdo.
He will never, for even one second, allow her have peace of mind.
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Whoa I skipped through that part, this dude is a FATHER?!? Holy moly….
I'm not sure that's the case. It certainly wasn't established in the message exchange seen in this video. All we know is that she has kids, seemingly. He may not be their father.
@@Kijinnwe can all only hope they aint his as well.
Don't you just love when someone tells you to leave them alone when they're the one antagonizing you
It's textbook childish projection. "I'm not the one doing it, YOU ARE!!!"
@@theduck2970 People who are also not capable of seeing or considering the other persons side also love to put themselves in a victim position. They don't even think about how their are two sides to a conflict and only see their own view and how they "got hurt".
Never be in a relationship with people like that. They can be easily manipulative while making you feel guilty over nothing. Like you owe them something or that you are the "bad guy"... Good that the woman in the post left him. Hopefully she teaches their kids not to be like that and their father.
@@livingcheese2910 So, a narcissist basically. Which only makes it more ironic considering this moron even called the woman one in his victimhood whinging.
Nobody asked. Kids can c0ns3nt because my content is superior
Kids can c0ns3nt because my content is better
I lost my best friend to something similar to this. He chose his girlfriend who acted a lot like this dude, over his friend and threw away a 7 year friendship. All because "i can fix her"
if they were your best friend for 7 years, you probably threw away the friendship by judging them and not giving them space or understanding the complexities of a relationship. My best friend got a toxic girlfriend and was being manipulated a lot by them, they started taking the girlfriends side on every matter even when she was clearly being toxic, because she would gaslight him so heavily. I gave him space, I never blew up at him I just let him run his course, eventually they broke up and he reached out to me not long after seeing if I wanted to hang out. I said yes, because I still saw him as one of my best friends, just drifted over time because of his relationship, we've reconnected now closer than we were before and he has a new girlfriend and a kid and the relationship is very healthy. More though, our friendship of 17 years is also very healthy. A 7 year best friend doesn't just get thrown away, you might see it like that but it's always a 2 way street.
@@MadladMgeee he'd been with that girl for two years. She was constantly threatening suicide to him for the most minor things and it was a certain point where she didnt want him to talk to his friends i included. I dont think there was any other way. When i decided to call it, was when i brought him over to my house to hang out and she texted me and told me that i was taking the one thing keeping her from killing herself. And he called an uber and left so i lost it at both of them. Theres more but im not going to elaborate further to a stranger.
@@MadladMgeeeIts not always that simple. Still have no idea where my older sister is 13 years later and our family did everything we could to keep things open.
That sucks, man. I have a friend who got out of a similarly toxic relationship when we were in college. Same behavior, too. Threatening to off herself. Hating on his friends. Just the most unhinged, overly possessive crap. It got to a point where she was throwing stuff at him in private and hitting him in public over the smallest things. Nicest guy I know, but had a really hard time leaving a relationship where he truly loved the girl despite her doing all these awful things to him. Took a while to get himself out of it but when he got away, things have only gotten better. Doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman or whatever. Abuse is abuse, and folks gotta get as far away from it as fast as they can. Sadly it ain't always easy for them to run away.
I had a toxic ex. He isolated me from my friends and family, I didn't even have a phone. After it ended it was hard scavenging the friendships i had left. Some just asked why i dropped off the face planet, others i lost. One friend told me he just didnt have the heart to watch me self destruct, and i didnt listen to him, but in the end we still went our separate ways, because too much time passed, and some words i said trying to defend that toxic engagement cant be unsaid.
For the people who are siding with the guy or saying "there's two sides to every story".. None of you seem to ever have been on the recieving end of this. I assure you, nobody deserves to be talked to like this over cheating assumptions. If you think your gf cheated, then directly talk to her, or leave! I lived with several women that acted exactly like this guy. This exchange hit close to home for me.
I feel bad for this girl. Get's covid and realizes her boyfriend is unhinged at the same time.
Alot of men would act like this only if their girl has some random dude in her best friend list then it would be valid but his one is not imaginary. Their got to be a reason for how he acted cuz they had a 3 year relationship so she would of left in the 1st month if he was crazy
I believe she may have known, or at least there were serious red flags. She referred to this as "mild", so he probably displayed tantrums and various other controlling behaviors in the past. Questioning someone who was out later than usual or out somewhere unbeknownst to you may be understandable if trust is lost, but if your partner is obviously sick and she says she went to the doctor, doc doesn't give a prescription, and you explode? Kind of qualifies as unhinged. Why go through it for three years? Some people are afraid to be single, maybe it's an on again-off again, but they broke up over text. She didn't plead with him to talk about it (not that we saw), so their relationship wasn't solid to begin with. Personally, I'd rather be single than deal with that.
@@babag5891 It's not even valid if all her best friends were dudes. What kind of thinking is that? If don't trust your partner, don't be with them, that's it. If you can't handle their friends. Don't be with them. This guy is hyper insecure, likely controlling because of that insecurity, and quite possibly might be cheating as well. I'd be hard-pressed to believe this girl ever did anything wrong to him.
My ex pulled something similar when I was sick and I dumped her for it. If your partner won't support you when you're sick and/or when you need them most, they've failed the relationship test. Now I'm engaged to a woman who is the total opposite of that. Don't tolerate that type of thing in your life.
apparently this wasn't new behavior, she even said this confrontation was on the milder end for him
My first boyfriend was exactly like this, and it got to the point where he would stand outside my house and watch me through the windows to try to catch me doing something wrong. I'm glad this woman got away and got her kids out of that situation.
TF?? why are my fellow men like this
So happy my friend group is pretty normal
Jesus Christ WTF, my ex was incredible and the best person I've ever met, but sadly there was some misunderstanding and series of events out of both of us control lead to a breakup
Where do guys find those weirdos
Honestly, I wouldn't be suprised if you were the kind if guy to do the same damn thing to your parnter... :/
@@coreykelly5383 insanely unnecessary bro
My first girlfriend was like this, demanded all my passwords, stalked my “active” status on social media which glitched all the time back in 2015, constantly interrogated me and would sit at the park next to my house to make sure I wasn’t sneaking out with boys.
Ive dated a guy like this. It was only for an year but it felt like decades. Its emotionally draining to be with someone like this. Glad she is out of it
I was with a guy like this for ten years and was engaged to him until it all hit me and I moved tf out… extreme narcissist.
These guys are everywhere 🤢 glad you got out!
Same! Felt like ten years. He didn't trust me, ever. He would show up at my interviews before me to ask my interviewers if I was actually interviewing there. Showed up at my jobs to see if I was actually working, didn't trust me when I got home 10 minutes late and would threaten to break up with me, would give me the cold shoulder if I spent time with friends. Went through my phone constantly, etc etc
He constantly gave me the cold shoulder and refused to communicate. I'd try to talk things out with him and he'd tell me I was "playing victim", and nothing was wrong with him and his trust issues.
Then he told me he cheated on me because he *knew* I'd cheat on him at some point and his friends told him a girl like me would never date a guy like him, so I must be using him. So he got his "revenge" in advance.
Mental mind games.
@@selenlibesthene2304 i hope you are out if it too :)
Hate to break it to you, but if you managed to be with someone like this for over a year, you are alike.
@@ThePopeOfCats You are gross. It's not that black and white. Most of these guys get you all hooked up to them before revealing this kind of behaviour. And being IN that situation is a whole lot different than being a bystander. Do better.
I like how the title is “ Another unhinged weirdo” and then the thumbnail is just him 😂
Know Thyself
Remember
They always throw in the line “you’re losing the best man you’ll ever know” it’s so pathetic. Please keep these coming, they are hilarious
if anyone says that it's an automatic tell that leaving them is about to be the best decision you've ever made
My ex said "you know I was going to propose to you."
A good partner, friend, anything of the sort, has a narcissist on their hands if they get hit with such a line of thought. He wasted 3 years of this poor woman's life just to give her some cartoonishly batshit guff over catching the super sniffles.
My ex told me he wasted everything on me when I broke up with him, at least im not the one who tried blackmailing him with pictures saying I would send them to his mom 🙂 that happened the same day after he told me the first part
There was this guy who was my friend who started to flirt with me, I told him I didn’t want to be his friend anymore bc he knew I had a bf and he still tried to say flirty things to me when I had told him to stop. He got so angry at me, told me “you lost your chance with the best” and then called me a slut. I was so shocked all I could do was laugh.
My dad was exactly like this with my mom. For the entirely of their relationship (they were together for like 22 years I think) he would constantly accuse my mom of cheating on him, it didn't help that my mom was the breadwinner, so my dad would just call her all the time and anytime she wouldn't pick up, he would think that she was opening her legs to every guy in the office and he basically thought that everything she said to him was a big fat fucking lie. He would even wake her up in the middle of the night just to interrogate her about whatever and even would ask questions about the guys she works with.
Honestly, the fact that my mom was even willing to have a child with him, let alone three kids still fucking amazes me.
What am trying to say is, Ladies if your man is ever acting this way towards you. Fucking leave his ass. You do not need to settle for him, it's okay to leave, even if you have kids with him, all the more reason to leave, may as well leave him sooner rather then later so he doesn't fuck up your kids childhood.
thats some kind of Psychological Warfare :'D
Waking someone up in the middle of the night to interrogate them ... UF .. thats soo fucked up
Same, my mom is like that with my dad.
See, I'm that individual. I've been cheated on in the past relationships, and now have major trust issues.
But that is why I haven't pursued a relationship with anyone for the past couple of years - been just living with myself, doing therapy and working on myself until I can prove to myself that I'm "good enough". The thing is, such cringe behavior comes from low self esteem, and it tells quite a lot about how one feels about themselves. You said it yourself, your mom was the one bringing the bread, so that might've been just one more thing that was bothering your dad and he felt like he's not good enough - the fact that he's not the one bringing in bread.
Classic male insecurity over not being the breadwinner. Your dad was just projecting his insecurities and perceived emasculation elsewhere by convincing himself your mother was cheating on him. In fact I think I even recall studies that men who aren't the household's breadwinner almost universally either openly accuse or secretly suspect their partner of cheating. Pretty pathetic all around. My own parents were similarly dysfunctional and hated each other.
@@yuzuchi5381what's UF
This brought back memories of my ex, she should do this kind of thing. She would tell me "I know you're gay, cause what type of man goes to hang out with his friend at night and come back home till 3am?" And I would tell her "I used to go 4 times a month on an off day afternoon and you didn't like it so I went on an off day at night, you didn't liked that so I went twice a month, you didn't like that, so I went after work (11pm) twice a month and you still didn't like that. Now that I draw the line, you call me gay? LOL!"
My ex was just like this. He would do the most to make me feel crazy and then laugh when I started showing any kind of emotion and then gaslight me into thinking I was the one who started it.
People like this suck. Literally leave them. It's hard, and it's scary but it is so worth it.
Charlie never fails to jandle everything.
Nothing is too jot to jandle for jarlie
finally a good comment
Yeah, je's so good at jandling things.
underrated comment
😂😂
Im amazed that their relationship lasted for 3 years. Imagine 3 years of this douchebaggery. There's no way you can leave a relationship like this unscathed. I hope this poor woman gets help.
I’m more amazed it ended so quickly. My mother stayed with my degenerate father for over two decades before leaving him and he was the same as this piece of work here.
I’m happy this woman didn’t let him do that to her any longer than 3 years, because it usually just gets worse and many people with shitty partners feel stuck and can’t leave.
@@art_theclown_yea it's really hard to leave. Leaving is the most dangerous time. And back in the day decades ago for women like your Mom it was even harder, so much cultural pressure and so little support. Im sorry you went through that.
@@art_theclown_Being very ill and your partner treating you like shit rather than looking after you probably hit harder than anything. But tbh there's probably a good chance they'd get back together
@@mishaslilbae828Nah having your exs best friend tell you she was already texting w different dudes for months while you trust her completely is worse
i really don't know how she jandled it for so long
the way none of this would of happened if he just said "im sorry your sick baby, i hope you feel better"
It's really sad that there are so many interactions like this that go completely unnoticed. Some people are so completely insufferable and up their own asses that there's just no saving them from themselves.
Imagine being so insecure that anytime your gf does anything by herself, you immediately think that she's screwing another guy. What a depressing, miserable existence
Average Hoodville follower.
yeah its one thing being insecure and thinking it could be the case, but accusing someone with no evidence, that's just not going to win any conversations. Definite L
@@evanmaldonado9799i had a friend who would always report goodville and similar posts and that shit made me gag every time i saw it
as somone who just found my ex of 3 years cheated on me 4 times 1 of those with someone she always told me to not worry about i can feel for this guy.
Little do we know she got COVID from screwing her doctor...*BUM BUM BUH!* 😂
I went on a blind date with a guy. Turned out he lived 4 blocks from me. I didn't answer the phone all day because I was outside at a block party and the guy came to my house! He was screaming at me for "ignoring his call" and "who do you think you're dealing with" and "you have no idea what happens when people cross me." It was the last comment that got him slammed. Some of the men on our block took care of him. And he ran away, apologizing and basically crying. Seems to me that crazy text guy hasn't had his ass beat. He needs it.
Shout out to those dudes for standing up for you! Glad you were in a public place when he found you 😬
Yet you were still willing to meet him
@@TheisExplainsHowTo I think OP meant that they had met him on a blind date and had texted on subsequent days and when she didn't respond one day this happened
Phew, just glad it didn't get ugly and you had support. What a fucker.
I wish by block u were referring to prison block
Charlie’s scatman impression had me rolling
LOL it’s hurting my brain just reading those texts with all of the typos “tk ak, sk k”
This reminds me of my ex so much, I also had a similar situation where he doubted my illness and told me he thought I was lying about going to the ER, also told me he didn’t believe me when I told him that my dog died and I really needed support then. Doing much better without him.
This dude reeks of insecurity. He’s clearly trying to push his own issues onto her so he has an excuse to call her these awful things when it’s actually him who is these awful things. Clearly he’s the “homeless narcissist liar whose own kids don’t even like him” and he doesn’t want to face that.
u obviously dont have much relationship experience. obviously the reason this guy is acting this way, is because this woman has lied to him in the past, or accused him of lying when he wasnt, so this is just retaliation for her own behavior, karma as you might say.
@@MrPaxio😂 writing fan fiction I see
@@MrPaxiobased on what? your acid trip? wtf kinda fanfic is this
@imajea2372 careful, you're about to hear ALL about his girlfriends (real, btw) and how you wish you had his rizz or something
@@MrPaxiookay incel
He tried so hard to seem unbothered at the end, but i bet he was pulling his hair out in a fit of rage
Cause it’s fake as fuck
4:30 just drops that info and moves on
Dated a guy like this for 5 years!! It was absolutely awful, and omg, this interaction brought up so many awful memories, and i swear, it's so spot on. The anger overshadowing the grammar, getting called a liar for the smallest of things that you would have to be insane to lie about, the mood changes from one message to the next. The scariest part is that guys like this are so 'normal' and loving in the beginning of the relationship, long enough for you to get comfortable and love them. I'm so glad this girl got out of it.
Praying for you Charlie, the cringe is nothing to look past, it really hurts you
Didnt ask. Kids can consent. I make better content so get over it 😂
My farts are better than Charlie's farts
@@ChrisShafferOfficialmake a better bot if you’re gonna troll at least don’t be so obvious about it
Meta level ironic that you would sarcastically say you’re “praying” for someone watching this kind of content considering the death of religion in this country was a big factor leading up to this kind of behavior. As a society, we have lost God. And cringe is the price we all must pay.
@@oompaloompadoompa-de-doo3614
Nah, a flooding of cringe sounds like one of the plagues God left ready to use on Egypt
Charlie having his thumbnail his own goofy face while titling the video "Another unhinged weirdo" always makes me laugh.
ESPECIALLY with how he opened up the video.
always
Lazy is as Charlie does 🤷
I thought it was disgust
6:24 Bro factory resetted after becoming a caveman with that writing on that other message
I can ride my bike with no Jandelbars. No Jandelbars. No Jandelbars.
The fact both of them are just like whatever about ending a supposed 3 year relationship over a text tells you a lot.
It’s clear she has already left the relationship so it’s already over.
Good luck to her as the guy clearly has a serious personality disorder if this is a mild example of his communication.
Yeah the guy in the convo is over the top and clearly looks like the jackass. We don't know if the chick is any way toxic or not. Sometimes these things are like this. The other in the relationship will screenshot all the ugly crap exposing their partner while tactically responding with sane messages. We don't know anything about their relationship or past trauma together. Sometimes it's not as simple as "he's schizo!".
Just saying to keep an open mind.
@@cactusjuice8277aye. Sometimes both of them can be crazy as hell. We’ve seen it.
@@Sebastianator01 good thing if they really separated. That's no way to live man.
@@user-io7yk7qb1k or maybe she could a let him know the details instead of pushing under the rug. They both got problems
These are nice to hear, because as bad as you think you might be, at least you can say "At least I'm not that guy."
Dude for real. How do you fumble this badly? I tend to be really anxious and paranoid usually feel pretty bad about it, but holy fuck this guy makes conversation as frustrating as nails on a chalkboard
The worst I’ve ever done is have an autism a write a poorly-worded message like “hey, I actually need your help for once”
This…this is unfathomable
Amen
See, some people are this bad and still will think "At least I'm not that guy."
last time i said that someone called me a "Pick me girl" lol.
sadly I dont' win x'D
One thing you also need in a relationship is trust. Without it, you're relationship it's bound to fall
2:58 As a rule, I am always wary of folks that misspell losing as 'loosing'...
I know exactly how to jandle fools like this...
ZWEE BAH DA BAH DA BUM!!
Dude I kinda overheard someone's experience that is similar to this in my class a few days ago. A dude in my class was talking about how he "had" to get a picture of his sick gf throwing up to make sure she wasn't just at home cheating on him. I swear to god, if you have to have a person take a picture of THEM BEING SICK just to know they're not cheating, your relationship isn't going anywhere
Just like when a girl tells you i cheated yet they literally cheated not even an hour ago 🤦
@@juggalojack5667 What are you babbling about?
@@andrewkoster6506 ?re read f if i know🤡
@@juggalojack5667are you okay
i know you should mind your own business but i feel like you should have spoken up, or spread that info around at school! make sure that everyone knows hes a controlling asshole!
What i'll never understand is how guys like this can think they can go from demanding, to threats, to a flurry of insults and it looks like anything OTHER than pathetic flailing.
One of this world's greatest mysteries for sure.
I'm sure they must be entirely disconnected from reality
Because that's what the world around them has taught them, honestly.
I have a lot of trust issues because of shitty stuff that's happened to me over the years. I can be like this to a certain degree as well. But it's something I'm aware of and am doing my best to change and be better. It's hard to watch an interaction like this and be reminded of my own problems. But I wanted to watch it through to see how it looks to others and how I can do better.
She just lost the best man of her life
He was patient zero for sexy
rip to her chances at being with her dream guy
I have BPD and this reminds me of the type of unhinged delirium that distress can cause. You can create narratives for yourself, be super demanding and controlling, and be in need of immediate answers and relief. Sometimes you have to completely fall on your face and embarrass yourself like this to realize what a cancer you are on others and to make change. Hope he figures this shit out and works on himself in therapy like I did because otherwise it's a chronic downward spiral.
no u dont
@@dog_owner????
or he's just a controlling turd
Yeah this one comes off more like genuine mental illness than the last one
@@dog_owneru don’t know them
I feel so bad for her. This is like.. 3 years of this? She deserves so much better. I feel horrible she felt like this is who she deserved.. no one deserves someone who treats them like this.
She wanted this. She chose that man. He’s prob handsome af and as usual she’s with him
Nobody told her to have children with this reactionary manchild or stay with him for 3 years.
@@greatestnitemare6626even conventionally unattractive people can be manipulative either way we can’t determine their looks from a series of texts
Why? She chose to endure every moment.
Speaking from experience, when my partner got abusive… I left, literally immediately, and called the police.
When she tried to call me months later to make up, I ignored her.
I’m not sure why women make it seem so damn hard when it truly isn’t.
For sure. Dude's a textbook narcissist. My guess is she either somehow didn't see enough red flags before she was in too deep with him (kids came along), ignored them for some reason, and/or he somehow managed to hide the red flags until much later in the relationship. Regardless, I'm guessing the main reason the relationship lasted for 3 years was because they have kids. Hard to leave even an abusive relationship if kids are involved. Always complicates things.
I’m binging these because after nearly going through something similar, I feel less alone in having been (or potentially still am) in the crosshairs of a completely unhinged weirdo.
omg if i was this woman I would have just stopped responding after the first accusation. There is no decent relationship with someone that behaves this way. Me and my wife lived on opposite sides of the planet for over 6 years and not once have I ever accused her of lying about anything and that's how it should be with the person your committed to. If you can't trust them completely then you shouldn't be with them in the first place because that is a horrible way to live for both sides.
"i know you're ducking lying, haha" what a line. how can you be so aggressive and yet end it on a "ha ha" you can tell he has a holier than thou attitude
I dated someone with extreme paranoia about where I was, what I was doing, and who I was with and it was probably the most demoralizing experience of my life. Having someone interrogate you constantly over the simplest things makes you not want to do anything out of fear. You start to feel crazy because the truth isn’t their truth.
Partners who act like that are often the ones that are actually cheating. Glad you got away from that person.
@@jenniferb.awesome I can safely say this person did not cheat on me but had trauma with a cheating ex and controlling qualities. Either way I am very happy I got out of that situation!!!
I was the ex with paranoia issues, It wasn't really with anyone with who my ex hanged out with
but more just if he really liked me or not and my own body image issues, it seems that the person you dated was very awful
My ex and I are still on good terms and I'm still getting therapy
hope You heal dude
Something similar happened to me. He would not stop interrogating and would constantly ask what i was doing? For the one month that we barely dated. One day i got so angry i just ghosted him. I didn't even wanna break up with him by talking about it. I just blocked him and went on a vacation to clear my head. Then just moved on. He tried to get in contact with me through a friend but i didn't even wanted to see his face.
@@jenniferb.awesomehow do you know they didn't have traumatic experiences in the past? Already know u wont answer because only men cheat right?
Bit of nostalgia, remembering my days at FedEx as a package jandler
I love these videos, it will give an example for people of what not to be and for what people SHOULD NOT deal with
It's one thing when it's some random, weird guy on tinder. It's another thing when it's someone you trusted and held close to your heart. I'll never understand how people who are clearly not ready for a relationship get into them with zero faith in their partner
Not defending the creeps out there, but most of the women today are no saints... Hundreds of reels and stories proving girls are not faithfull to their man, no matter what. Relationships of years broken down by cheating and lying type stuff
@atomdecay I'm sorry to say this, but you should NEVER enter into a relationship if you're in a broken state, because look where that got you. When you look for love when you cannot find it within yourself, you will either ignore anything that seems sketchy for the sake of finding any semblance of joy or be like this dickhead in the video. So while her cheating is scummy and unforgivable, and she deserves to be run over, the fact you mentioned that she would beat you to the point of having broken bones and teeth while your son was there? I get that leaving an abusive relationship is hard, but not only did you have the funds, your kid could have also been caught in the crossfire.
Unless Arkansas has no shelters for battered people aside from just women, I don't get why you wouldn't leave at least for your son's sake, because that would have been some good evidence to use against her. Does Arkansas also see that as kidnapping if you want to live in a shelter with your son? I also would think you have all the records for every time you had to go to the ER and dentist to use for evidence, right? Even with the unfortunate reality of child custody favoring mothers, that would have been some damning evidence for the judge to ignore.
I am sorry that it did happen to you, despite my harshness, and I honestly hope she experiences karma tenfold. Seeing that sh!t is extremely traumatic for a child too and it destroys how they view the nature of relationships. I must be missing something big if none of those things were a possibility to help you get out earlier, so feel free to inform me. Regardless, I wish you the best of luck in the future, hoping you can find some sort of legal loophole or get some advice from a lawyer to get your son back.
However, I'm not sure how your story could counter Charlie's claim. She wasn't giving him sketchy answers and she was in the right; her partner was just a narcissistic fucking idiot who was already overly paranoid. Your fiance, however, you already knew she was bad and dangerous, but you were blinded by love and probably had an extremely low view of your worth, so I can see why you would think that. I cannot imagine her blowing up your phone while you were out was constantly filled with loving messages either.
But please, find a way to get some therapy before even trying to look for another partner. You seem like a nice guy, but if you don't have the confidence to not feel like you need to check in on them regularly, that's obsessive behavior and extremely unhealthy. You need to get your priorities straight and give people space. Maybe her repeatedly texting you made you feel that way as I can believe she would be controlling and very manipulative.
Good luck, man. For you, and your son.
@@celestialnull I wasn't fucked up until AFTER my relationship with her. & as for all of the dental records & taking her to court & taking my son with me, A. She demanded that I plead guilty to "admit what i did wrong (even though i never actually touched her, just manipulation) & not take her to court if I wanted to come home & see my son, & my extreme fear of leaving my son alone with her was enough for me to do anything & everything foolish & self-sabotoging to be with him, no matter what it took. & no, there arent shelters for men here. Also, women have 100% of the power in Arkansas. Besides, anytime I did say anything along the lines of "I'm taking you to court" she would always retaliate with the same thing: "Go ahead. I'll tell the judge I saw you raping our son." She specifically, verbatim said "I will say whatever I need to say to make sure your life is as miserable as it can possibly be." She hated me with a burning passion just for existing. She wanted my money & my belongings, but not me. Trust me, I've heard every single thing you've said a million times. She did all she could to make sure I was pushed into a corner, & because I was 24 at the time all I cared about was trying to keep my burgeoning family together. The entire point I was trying to make is that none of us know these people. All we know is the text conversation in front of us. This could be someone who has cheated on thus guy multiple times before. This could be someone with some serious trauma, & if you're going to be with someone then you are agreeing to help them grow past those fears & become better people, not prod & poke the fire. My ex could easily Google my mugshot, post it with a caption like "I spent 4 years being abused by this lunatic until I was finally able to escape with my son" & every single person would take 1 look & jump all over me instead of thinking she MIGHT be full of shit. I understand not wanting someone to call your doctor & yell at them, but he clearly only said that to have a "reason" to ask her doctors name. I honestly find it extremely fishy that she never actually gave ANY explanation for the giant holes in her story, & instead of answering a few very simple questions, she chose to let this person think he was betrayed AND leave the relationship. All I'm saying is, the women I date are my partners in life. They have what I have, they are my other halves. So if my hypothetical girlfriend begged me to tell her a few tiny bits of info so she could feel more secure, I would have no reason to withhold that information. It's like poking a dog in the eye, then calling him crazy when he finally bites back. She pushed & pushed this guy until he couldn't deal with the fear of what she might have (probably) done, & instead of having the saintly patience every man is required to have, he lashed out in pain with ugly words, & it turned into a lose-lose for him because he isn't allowed to feel emotions. I agree that he handled it poorly, but it's our jobs as partners to help mend those types of personality issues & trust issues. It is not worth losing my relationship to prove some moot point to someone i claim to love. Not everyone has complete control of every emotion every single time, & it's unfortunate that not only did this dude get pushed & pushed, but because he's only human & said some nasty shit out of hurt, he ISNT ALLOWED to have answers OR get his feelings hurt. He is REQUIRED to be the perfect man, no flaws at all, or he's a crazy person & deserves to be a public laughingstock. So that's how we show our love now? Because if you asked me, I would choose the person who is genuinely afraid of losing me over the person totally apathetic to my feelings & willing to publicly shame me for clicks. I've been in that exact situation & it was so awful for me I chewed on a gun barrel more than a handful of times. Everyone in my life was either turning against me or bombarding me with what I SHOULDVE done or what I SHOULD do. & I didn't leave sooner because I actually meant it when I told her I loved her, for better or for worse. My heart truly does belong to her, it has since we met in 4th grade. We didn't date til 2016, but we knew each other our entire lives, & I have never loved anyone nearly as much as I love her still, even after all she's done. I would NEVER intentionally push her into panicking & freaking out, then point fingers at her & jeer with a crowd of strangers. The only context we have is what's presented by the "victim". It's very one-sided, & without more context to their past & possibly what she's already done to lose his trust, it's not right to publicly shame this dude for having hurt feelings & not being perfect all the time. He obviously really loved this girl if he was that afraid. All he did was act out of hurt. It was a shitty thing to do, but so is intentionally pushing your partner to think you cheated just so you can go "I didn't cheat, see? Now you're crazy & weird." I would've liked for this to end with her giving him the number & letting him find out for sure instead of leaving him hurt, punished, & alone. We are all human. We all deserve a chance or two to lose our emotions sometimes. My ex NEEDED medication. She just wouldn't take it. 🤷♂️
@@atomdecay first off, your son's mother is absolutely in the right for calling you insane if you had gone to her house after y'all had not been in a relationship for over a year. You had quality time with your son, and she had time to herself she spent the way she wanted to. You should have enjoyed the time with your son instead of worrying so much about her. Also, no I don't know everyone's story. But I know when to accept the truth. And if someone ended up lying to me, I'm not going to beat myself up for being a decent human being and trusting her. Yes people cheat and it's hard having trust issues, but if you go into a relationship with trust issues it's not going to be the best. I myself, being young, struggle with them a lot. But I'm working on trusting people more, I'm working on being okay with accepting their story as truth. Because it's what a healthy relationship is. If she does end up lying to me, I tell myself I did my part. I did what I did to trust her, and she lied to me. That's it.
@@seravat4204 hundreds, out of how many women in the world? Or even in the United States? Or even in your city? You're taking the negative you're seeing on the internet and going too far with it. Most normal people you see are faithful. You're just hard focused on the moments of "women lying" to prove yourself and your trust issues right. Trust me, if you get into a good relationship (which btw it takes time) you will find yourself with someone worthy of being trusted. Worthy of being loved, and someone you can build a deep long connection with. But in the mean time, work on being the person worthy of loving. No body is perfect, but the first step towards it is acknowledging your flaws. You can't change all of them, but aiming towards being a decent human being is enough. Figuring out what's stopping you from that should be the first step
I love that everytime a video is titled "Unhinged Weirdo" or "Creepy Guy" the thumbnail is just a picture of Charlie's face
Bro I was just thinking that 😂
7:42 "Hope it was worth it KID" so he's a child predator confirmed.
Even if she gave him the info, the clinic wouldn't have confirmed a single thing for him.
I can almost guarantee this guy was cheating or on the verge of doing so with how out of the blue these accusations were. Even if she did give him the address, he wouldn’t have believed her, especially since the clinic wouldn’t even verify if she’d been there.
I wouldn't even think of calling her doctor unless she was suffering unbearably and kept passing out or becoming delirious over many days and couldn't think to question their opinion and call them herself. People need to trust their partner and their partner's judgement.
fr thought the exact same thing. Men get so paranoid when they themselves are cheating
But what if SHE was actually cheating. That shit drives a person to do and say weird things, especially if you love them. Guy or girl doesn't matter being cheated on constantly will fuck your head up if you aren't cold blooded.
@@brandi598 Yeah exactly, men and women who constantly think their significantly other is cheating are doing it themselves or are incredibly insecure/possessive and don't know how to love properly. Even when me and my girlfriend were going through a toxic breakup because we were both immature and had untreated mental illnesses, I never thought she was cheating on me, not even once.
@@Remedy462 exactly i think it’s always some sort of projection like they’re aware of how easy it was for them to cheat so they fear it’s happening to them every second now. sorry to hear u had a toxic breakup btw!
As someone who’s had a narcissistic ex, this is what they do. The manipulating, gaslighting, empty threats, and the paranoia of wondering where you are where they themselves can cheat or whatever. But the funniest thing of all is that they will call you exactly what they are themselves. So to call her a narcissist that not even their children love means he suspects it about himself 😂. They are unhinged people.
He was probably cheating and deflected on her to avoid guilt. That's the usual psychology behind spontaneous actions like this. Im going to overwhelmed you with accusations so you do sniff out my infidelity. Now you're too distracted to even consider I'd cheat
I was also with a narc for a long time. They absolutely do tell on themselves all the time. Everything they accuse you of they are doing or insecure about. It was a nightmare I am still working on today. She was a demon. Anything that produces love, joy, or anything good she would ruin.
People actually believing this fan fiction garbage Charlie is posting is hilarious. He must really be running out of ideas in that dull skull of his to make videos about a few lines of easily faked texts with no context outside of these.
Totally agree, reminds me of a lot of people I’ve known. so sad tho she had kids with someone like that and he used that as a threat ofc..
@@TheScapegoat420damn bro, that's tough. Hope you find yourself in a better place
When you’re ill, the last thing you need is drama. She must have been so pissed.
I absolutely love these thumbnail/title combos. ‘Another unhinged weirdo’, and it’s just Charlie’s face
Absolutely Insufferable. It’s people like this that are becoming so common online. It’s absolutely sad and sickening. Thank You Charlie for covering stories like this and shitting on these horrible cringe people.
Unfortunately, these sorts of paranoid, insecure, manipulative people have always existed within the gene pool, but with the power of technology and the internet, we get to see the dirty laundry of a personal relationship being aired more frequently.
I think that these kinds of people have always been around, but they are appearing to be more common thanks in large part to social media. I agree that this behavior is sickening, and I feel bad for any person on the receiving end of it
I don't know why it's suddenly such a pandemic of mentally unstable morons.
What makes me happy though is that their lives are ruined not because of other people, but because of themselves.
They introduce chaos and drama into their lives and then it all blows up.
That's how they end up friendless, loveless and miserable.
Don't know why they don't put more effort into communicating and not just assuming in advance.
I am SOOOO glad I met my girlfriend and she's both of sound mind and intelligent.
Agree, it's insufferable behaviour. Complete moronic goobers. I hope this girl finds someone better.
This is what happens when manosphere content gets popular. Stay strapped, ladies.
@@xysarenottheprizeThis is literally the same problem with the feminist stuff. It's bad on all sides now.
I had a partner like this a few years ago. Im so glad you are making videos like this, if I knew about manipulative behaviour I could have saved myself alot of trouble.
I’m sorry to hear but at least you now know what manipulation is now . Your growth is important as You can’t get very far in life being that naive
Ah that's just my Jandelier.
6:19 “where did you go baby” I imagine him saying this in a Kermit the frog voice
I 'm just now noticing that these insane methods some guys use to accuse women of lying are very similar to the insane methods that were used to accuse women of being witches, you know, the methods that were basically "Kill her and if she dies that means she wasn't a witch."
Whether she is or isn't you're just going to get the same horrible outcome.
I've known a lot of women like this tbf
@@TheSm1thers Sorry to hear that, but are you implying this guy's reaction is valid and logical?
@@Remedy462he never said that?
Stop gaslighting
@@Remedy462ur the problem..
@@Remedy462 I think more they were implying that it goes both ways, as in, there are also women who do this to men as well, which is true.
I know this isnt really the place to put it, but thank you charlie, I just had the first and most intense breakup I've had in my life, and seeing you laugh and talk about these wierdos made me feel physically and emotionally better. Just felt like putting it out, but thank you man
Your time is precious. Take it as a lesson and may you get better at detecting idiots and keep them from wasting it.
I know it's hard out there, godspeed.
🫂
just had the same thing happen to me bro, itll be aight in the end
"I just had the first and most intense breakup I've had in my life"
First huh? Let me be the first to let you know there will be many more before you're through.
Dealing with other people's drama while they deal with yours is always endlessly fascinating, you'll see.
I broke up with my first ever boyfriend last week. It's been tough. Hang in there 🫶🏼
The sad thing is that I know a few people who are like this. They ruin families and always try to break people down.
he's projecting lmaooo
Dated someone like that for a year, I remember starting therapy after the final discard. And blaming myself for everything, wondering if I was the narcissist.
Going back and re reading those texts when I was in my healing process helped see things in a different perspective.
I hope she gets the help she needs, and I hope she doesn't blame herself of his words/actions.
Truly a horrible place to be in and get out of
I hope you heal from that scumbag.
It’s so sad these insecure manlets actually get into people’s heads, when in the end they want to drag anyone and everyone down to their level.
looool manlets (I'm a guy my nex is a girl) but i thought that was funny. But I agree they're so insecure in their own behavior they project it onto us. I literally thought I was the worst human in the world because of how she would describe me.
And if anyone relates to this video, open up to friends or family, a therapist or your family doctor.
and listen to them
So glad you escaped.
These kinds of guys need to be shamed, to be honest;
it is unacceptable to treat dates like this - _whether it is done to a man or a woman, by the way!_ - and the shaming of that kind of behaviour might give some guys a reality check.
they are but those kind of people rarely change for some reason
@@maxcantrell3667 Yeah, they usually just freak out, try to checkmate you by calling you a "simp" or "woke" for siding with women, etc. Like, nah dude, you're just being a dick, cut it out.
@@thestraydog Oh yeah, "simp" is a classic;
they somehow cannot comprehend the idea that "hey, actually there exist men who are concerned about the general well-being of women without trying to get those girls interested in them".
I know, these people have been stuck on the internet way too long, never seem to realise that the internet doesn't reflect reality and is heavily exaggerated or atleast doesn't apply to everyone.
Way more than a date they had kids together
Grateful to have found this channel 😂
I need to get a Jandel on things here.
I’ve never felt so insecure in myself as to believe my partner is constantly lying to me. If they are, then it’ll just end when I find out. Not that big a deal. To believe they’re always lying to me and freaking out like this is just total insanity, I don’t care if they lie to me about going to the doctor. Like, if they didn’t go that’s their problem, not mine. It only causes them issues, there’s no need to make such a big fuss. To think some men can be so batshit crazy is wild, I would never stoop this low
Jealousy is a needy monster.
As someone who's been cheated on many times, I find this ridiculous. Even if she was cheating on him, he shouldn't talk like that to her. Him saying he's going to talk to the doctor because he "knows" there's medicine is not because he is concerned, its because he doesn't believe her and wants to prove she's lying. Actually pathetic
imagine she actually gave him the doctor's name
what is he gonna do?
go to his office gangster style and demand a cure within 24 hours?!?
Problem with this one is there is no history about why the guy feel insecure about the girl
I was as much of an overthinker as that guy that's why i stopped dating after my 4th relationship ended when i saw how much i was hurting her. if your man is like that you better run fast we're not worth it.
Props to u dude for realizing your actions and doing what u could to limit them
Some people absolutely cannot handle being wrong. To the point of going to extremes, or even creating a situation where they want to argue and argue and argue how they’re right like our guy here.
Reader, I married one. Divorce after five years. Stupid thing is, we only had the wedding to please my extremely Catholic mother. Take my advice, dear young ones, and live together for a couple of years before you even think about getting married.
@@angelamaryquitecontrary4609 why do conservative parents say to never co-habitate before marriage?
@@zaidnava7200because cohabitation=sex, and premarital sex as we all know is the worst possible thing a good little Christian boy or girl could ever do
@@frankcaggiano8282 how did i not see that coming
Having "so much smoke coming out of your ears that it's clouding your vision" is such a powerful metaphor
This really validates some of the experiences I’ve had when I was on a dating app lol
The ironic part is how he called her a narcissist, while he himself sounds much more like one.
Yeah that's usually indicative of narcissists, they accuse other people of it when they're not the center of their universe
Social media is a huge reason for this. It’s just an infestation of fake relationship skits and scenarios, but people believe them, write think pieces in reply to them, and shape their worldviews based on them. We’re becoming dumber as a species.
@user-jh1yj3pd6t Maybe it was not the post, more so him just asking, "should I be worried". I mean. Better 5 years late than never, some people sadly stay in unfair/abusive relationships for much longer. You don't know his life. You can't judge him based apon that
@Alixznder Exactly, he should be know that she's never loyal to him because of the moon men.
We really are. And that shit is so common these days because people have literally engineered content from the ground up to induce replies and trick algorithms. I see it every day on youtube shorts or whatever they're called. For a mild example of it, someone will make an innocuous video and mention a fact that is blatantly incorrect, knowing people will correct them in the comments. Thus gaining tons of engagement from the ensuing arguments/comments and the video ends up recommended to everyone. In regard to relationships, people will make up/fake content to induce outrage, because it gets replies, which maybe a guy who was cheated on reads and goes "oh, they're all like this" and now his worldview is disconnected from reality after encountering it enough times. This kind of manipulation through content is literally rotting brains.
@@Alixznderthere's other men under her skin peel it off!
@@Alixznderit was completely because of the post. Why would he say things have been great for 5 years if he didn't think things had been great? Then he wonders if he should worry just seeing someone say because she has social media she's cheating (which is completely absurd). That's how these insecure, misogynists/incels plant these ideas into young inexperienced men.
Dudes like this are why I am afraid of dating and commited relationships...
Sad
Then dont date those dudes
@@marvinlang3777 I mean.... as a guy, I've dealt with and heard of some zingers the other way around.... Literally watched my friend get beat up by his crazy ex in the middle of the day for breaking up with her, and the next girl he dated flipped out, ran off to a different state, got an abortion (and made sure to keep him in the dark for months) when he told her he wanted to co-parent instead of date (due to her constant abuse after getting pregnant). She's a practicing clinical psychologist. She councils people. Even her mother, a chancellor at a major university, played along the "keep him in the dark" game...
People crazy regardless the gender you date... Best idea is to make sure you really know them before popping out their offspring.
@@marvinlang3777the issue is that they're usually chameleons and hide as long as they can, but by the time their disguise as a normal person falls apart you're already in too deep
Not everyone is built to jandel the things life throws at us
I love your colorful choice of words every time you tell a story 😂
Had 8 years of a relationship with a "man" like this. Two kids, so much pain and emotional damage. Ty Charlie for showing how these people act/treat those they "love". I saw the light and got out but there are so many trapped. People need to know
I'm so sorry to hear that... How are your kids?
@@-Teague- doing great :) we've been completely free for 4 years now. It's been a tough road but we are doing just fine, thank you 🙏 x
@@ahirukai4236 that's so good to hear, I was worried they were stuck with him...
Congrats on getting out :)
God, my ex’s excuse for his behavior was “Sometimes you hurt the ones you love.”
Gave me more energy to pack everything and leave. So glad it’s behind me.
Get rekkd lmao
It's wild how detached and insecure these guys are from reality smh.
They never thought thier behavior would be placed on display for everyone to witness and see... So they act like insane assholes. But my god this dude took such a fast downturn. Being cheated on definitely sucks but if your gonna alway think your S/O is cheating then LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP instead of accusing and behaving like imbeciles
On one hand, you should never be with someone whose behavior makes you feel constantly on edge.
On the other hand, when it’s you constantly on edge not only with no evidence but also with nothing that could ever reasonably be suspicious, that someone should never be with you. …Unless they were fully aware from the beginning and you’re actually working on it.
It's most likely narcissm, my ex would do the same thing. Always accusing me, going through my phone, making me breakdown my history with every girl on my social media. Making me delete every girls number on my phone, people I've known for 14 years.
Just to find out she was the one cheating the entire time.
Gaslighting, projecting, emotional manipulation. absolute trash humans.
i fell for her and hope she finds a way out and get the help she needs
They always say you just lost the best man
the beggining is gold for an Out of Context compliation
Holy shit… I am so sorry she has to deal with this person. Reminds me of my father. My mom finally got out after 20 years but my mom has severe trauma from it. In her current relationship she lies about the smallest things because she is terrified he will react bad.
I am happy I found someone who never doubts me and supports me no matter what.
Emotional Dysregulation at it's finest. Every time she hears this stuff and stays with him his brain is wired to see it as an effective way to feel secure in his relationship. Glad she finally saw it and had enough. Tbh it also sucks that people who get to this level of unhinged simply because they need to feel important and loved only get the right mental health support when they get to absolute rock bottom, if that even happens. Most people just carry on hating their life and hating everyone around them until they die of cancer or heart disease. Therapy needs to become affordable, normal and actually good.
Lmao, therapy is a joke too, most therapists arent good with their jobs
emotional dysregulation
more like erectile dysfunction
That's actually an interesting point; when an abusive relationship lasts a long time, the abuser is also being conditioned in a way because the abuse can be effective in the short term 😕
@@MattSuguisAsFondAsEverrrerectile dysfunction more like penis not work
lot of assumptions there.
It’s really sad to see dudes like this and not trusting their partners. A lot of dudes struggle with similar stuff (obviously not this severe in most cases) but it comes from such a place of insecurity. It’s so sad for the dude but worst for the partner involved. As someone who struggled with this a lot and only recently really got comfortable with trusting again I have one message for my fellow love birds. Don’t suck. If you can’t trust fuck it dude do it again. If you love someone and they love you back then there’s nothing to worry about. If they break that trust then move along, there’s gonna be someone who treats you right but you better treat them right too. Much love 💕
Projecting. Narcissist. Gaslight. They go hand in hand
Charlie plumbs the depths of online cringe for our entertainment. his sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Truly a man worthy of the history books.
It’s just r/texts
@@sus4nah so you know how sitting in a constant state of dark can cause depreŝŝion and sui'c'idal thoughts? Well r/texts might as well be the same thing
Plumbs
u obviously dont have much relationship experience. obviously the reason this guy is acting this way, is because this woman has lied to him in the past, or accused him of lying when he wasnt, so this is just retaliation for her own behavior, karma as you might say.
This insecurity comes from people who are hiding secrets and lying. They believe their partner is also doing things as well so they're insecurities come out.
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it also comes from people who have been hurt by something similar. paranoia is a real thing
Kind of like Tony soprano, when he cheats on his wife he doesn’t care, quite the contrary he enjoys cheating on her, but when she loves someone else or cheats he immediately loses it.
Some dudes only think women are property and nothing else.
Yes, sometimes they are the ones who cheat on their partner or are tremendous hypocrites and make projections of their own mistakes, insecurities, problems and other things, especially those that they cannot solve or that were their fault and they cannot stand the shame and humiliation.
I think it’s more likely that they have had trauma happen to them which causes paranoia. What you say about liars isn’t really true at all
In my experience it’s usually the narcissists who call others narcissists as a way of projecting
I have never questioned my SO, I honestly just trust her. There’s no reason she would lie to me and there’s no reason I’d lie to her.
This is so bizarre