Jodie Turner Smith: Was It OVER Before It Started?
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“Go argue with your dirty microwave” 😂
😂😂😂😂 that is FUNNYYYYY!!!
Cleaning minessss “now”😩
😂😂😂
@@OneVeroniqueHappy cleaning sis!!! I'll do mine today too haha!! 😅
I was watching this in the kitchen and got up to check mine 🤣🤣 forgot I cleaned it over the last weekend 😂
This was over when she asked him to MARRY HER. Ladies stop chasing men. Once you start you will be continuing to chase throughout the relationship and marriage.
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That's tragic that she asked him to marry her.
The women are the prize not the men. We women assume ALL the risks!!
@CrystalDatingCoach You have to understand the “polarity” of the masculine and feminine energies. Broke or Rich it’s Chasing.
@royaltyinsidemydna Especially when children are involved
This statement resonates very, very deeply with me. I am so grateful that I discovered this channel
Yes, I am so against women proposing to men, regardless of race, class, etc. I don't even believe in hinting around or "talking up" the idea. If he ain't asking, I'm not doing any form of begging. Clearly he doesn't want it so why not move on to someone who does?!
This is why a lot of our ladies miss the mark. Other cultures the woman will ask and make it known that marriage is the standard for being with her. It is not "begging" it is setting expectations for being with her.
However as we typically don't have a traditional culture of marriage/ sex after marriage this messes up that balance so I understand where you're coming from. However, it is not begging.
@@kurokaizen1889 It is when men waste so much of your time that the woman starts to feel compelled to ask. My question is, why is it ALWAYS the woman's responsibility to bring it up?
@@tq325 I think its because of our biological clock. You just feel more pressure. But I rather be alone than ask a man for marriage.
Facts. I think it's a topic that should be touched on and if a woman wants marriage but the long term future is never brought up by the man or he's repelled by it if you bring it up, break up with him. And in my opinion, any woman who want to get married shouldn't be with a guy longer than 6-9 months if he never proposes because then he's wasting her time. Our time is precious and more fragile.
@@LeratoM98 I hope 99% of women start to do this very thing then.
What makes a woman propose? I don’t even plan dates….would rather swallow glass.😑
“Before you tear your ACL running to the comments” and “Go argue with your dirty microwave” literally has me in tears 😩🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love Chloe 😂
I love you too.
This was going to happen, regardless of the man's skin color. She tried to turn a season into a lifetime. She'll be alright though.
@@belllabeanhe'll be fine lol he's a distinguished wealthy white guy he'll be much better off than her. She's only going to get older less attractive and she isn't even childless anymore. His value will continue to go up while hers nose dives....
Lust is a fading emotion, and you can never have an everlasting relationship based on that.
Facts
The last line was powerful. "I have yet to see black women being put on a pedestal"😮
@@fisf.2148❤👏🏾👌🏾👍🏿👆🏾
@@fisf.2148LITERALLY
The foundation of a relationship is important! How you start will dictate the rest of the course.
I keep saying it,the foundation is very important
Something that I absolutely love about your channel is that even when you disagree with black women and even when you don't think that they made the right move you never put them down You are always praying for them to come back to be better to make better choices to win to kill it and I love that about you I love that about your channel!
Chloe is our fairy godmother I swear.
This commentary was 🔥🔥🔥. All points covered was succinct. I truly felt like Jody has some self hatred , possibly from the hostility often experienced by dark skinned black woman. She not only glorified Joshua, she glorified their child being mixed race. I hope she get the healing that she needs.
Yeah, he saw that it was getting a bit worse and checked out. She is kinda weird for that
😆😆lmao
She will never get it, you can tell she’s the type of person that will always have some sort of way due to the self hatred
Dark skin men and women get treated messed up both inside and outside the community. I don't think either should be mentioned without the other one close by.
Married to a Turkish Iranian and also a stay at home mom no prenup lol.
I felt like it was over before it started b/c the couple mentioned how they had s*x really fast, she proposed & they moved too fast (even w/ having kids). When you start a sexual relationship before an actual relationship, it makes it hard to connect to that person outside the physical attraction which can easily be overshadowed by more fundamental things that arise over time in a relationship. That's why you need a foundation built on more than s*x and to take the time to LEARN one another. I don't think she pedastalized him per say (idk enough about them tbh) but I just think they moved too fast.
That's right.
Okay…I am mad that she proposed to him. That is an absolute NO-NO!!! I bet she won’t do that again (I hope). And she is FINE AS HELL…I don’t understand 😱
It wasn't just the sex, it was the fact she moved with lust, she went after him because she had a crush on his Dawson's Creek character, then had sex with him and PROPOSED to him, a guy who spent 10 years in a relationship with Diane Kruger, another famous beautiful actress. If a guy spent 10 years in a previous relationship without proposing THAT'S A RED FLAG, he never thought of marriage, she should have learned from Diane.
I honestly thought this was a non-starter of a relationship when I heard of the very first time they ever met. Didn't Joshua shout her out in a crowd of people? Like he literally catcalled her from across the room? When I heard that I just KNEW he was not high-value, and quite frankly a bit dusty if you ask me 🤷🏾♀️ I think for Jodie she dated and married a man on her level, with her insecurities and low standards, regardless of her beauty. A damn shame because she is literally stunning
For her to be so beautiful and then devalue herself from the start. A good example of why should never propose to a man no matter the chemistry. Too many interviews where Joshua exposes and shares way too much publicly while laughing about it as if it is a joke. It was so tasteless how desperate he made her look to the public.
This!!!! Did you watch Fumi desalu's video on this couple? She said exactly the same and I completely agree. It's actually really sad to hear Jodie devalue herself when she is without a doubt one of the most beautiful looking women I have ever seen in my life time!
I'm not surprised their getting a divorce. I love her but she was too desperate. She proposed to him on New Year Eve 2018 he was caught kissing another women end of June she got pregnant around July they got married in December 2019 she had the baby April 2020. Their relationship was too rushed, I believe the only reason why he went through with the wedding was because she was pregnant 👀👀
Exactly
I knew it wouldn’t work when HE exposed that shameful moment. It also sounded like he painfully accepted. Also, this man hasn’t acted in anything in a while??? At the height of her career, I always wondered why she chose him over other higher earning men she had access to.
I believe he's starred in either a Netflix or Hulu show
@@CiaobellaAmour recently?
@@Bgrace15It wasn't that long ago that The Affairs ended. It was last thing i've seen him star in.
He's litterally in a show with Kery washington..
@@anchuzaazuera761 good for him
Chloe’s sense of humour was on fire this episode😂
Yes! 💕 I hollered when she said “ never, ever, ever in this lifetime or the next ask a man to marry you!” 🎯🤣🤣🤣 or something along those lines!! 🤭
That’s where she messed up, SHE proposed to him.
“Argue with your dirty microwave “😂😂😂 Chloe on point with the jokes
I did a full body heave when I first heard she proposed to him. So embarrassing! And the way he revealed it 😖
Time to wash my pillowcases.🤣🤣🤣
Don't use your marriage as a career strategy to level up your career.
She was *so desperate* . I even felt embarrassed for her. Maybe now that hes gone she can get some self esteem and respect.
Not only did she sleep with him the same night they met at Usher's b-day party, but SHE proposed to HIM. This was a mess from day 1.
She is beyond beautiful
For real. There is no way no BM approached her. Myself and other lovers of dark-skinned women find her stunning. Now I don't know how she is as a person, but she's gorgeous
Yes!! It was way over before it even started because it started on the complete wrong foot! I’m wishing her nothing but love and success in her next relationship though! ❤️
“Hypergamous smell test” sent me to the upper room 😫😫🤣
NEVER FORCE OR TRY TO CONVINCE A MAN TO MARRY YOU.
HOW YOU START WILL DICTATE THE FUTURE
IT WILL BE A DISASTER IN THE END
"Before you tear your ACL running to the comments." That's exactly what I did! 😂
Lol she was speaking to me too
Yes! NEVER CHASE A MAN Ladiez!
Exactly
I was hoping Josh/Jodie would work out, but there were too many red flags with his past and with her asking him to marry her. Alas, the lust has faded. I hope they keep a relationship for thier child and I wish Jodie the very best. Thank you for all you do Chole.
Answering the question in the tile, “yes”. She went after him, and he basically low-key embarrassed her by putting that info out there for public consumption. The power/gender role dynamic was shattered.
I’m not sure it embarrasses her. She chose to do it, didn’t she? I’m sure she didn’t say, “I’m proposing to you but don’t tell anyone I did”
“Go argue with your dirty pillowcase”, “go argue with your dirty microwave” I’m screaming laughing and I’m only two minutes in 😂😂😂😂
Same. I’m definitely borrowing both ASAP.
“Whiskey Tango Foxtrot”😂😂😂
I know right, that took me out 🤣😂
Chloe you’re truly a blessing, I love you. I was praying today & telling myself it is important to have a relationship with God/Divine & never put a man on a pedestal above God. The spirit of divorce is real! As long as people keep going against the natural Spiritual Order, things will never work out, trust me.
This! I wholeheartedly agreeee
I love you too.💄
I liked their relationship until it came out that she proposed to him. That sent up a bunch of red flags for me.
I find her tall dark-skinned self quite attractive. I really don't buy her story of never getting attention by BM. I love darker women and tall women and I know that a lot of BM liked her. She just didn't get the attention of the ones she wanted. I don't care about the divorce, I just wanted to share that she's beautiful to me.
I agree. She’s absolutely stunning & a head-turner as they say. Personally I think she might possibly even prefer men who are not Black. She’s mentioned in interviews having emotional baggage regarding race and it would certainly explain her rush to get married & become a mom. ijs
@@djlivvy46There are more examples than you'd think its just the ones who get more attention are the ones who don't. People act like Black men with black women are like unicorns but its not...
@@user-rv9hp6bo3yI guess it depends on what you consider black. Are bi / multi racial (I.e. racially ambiguous looking folks) part of that count?
@@djlivvy46I can’t think of one.
@@treid1369 We are talking about dark skinned black women like Jodie Turner....
Well said. I hope she heals and grows from this experience.
I pray she keeps prospering & hopefully she reconsidered spousal support 🙏
This relationship was never going to last. Jodie pursued this man, had relations on the 1st date, & proposed to him.
really that not true come on....she proposed to him at her first date 😂😂😂😂
Marriages fail when women are actively moving in masculine energy and the men are in their feminine from the onset..don't ever be the one who proposes 😠😠😠it's NOT normal...
Biological wiring will always out-do what we ""think"" we ""want"" or have the freedom to do..🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷...let's learn how to seriously vet .........let's learn to enjoy our femininity and simply be WOMEN.....🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰.
Choleeee when the news broke, my mind took me back to the video you made regarding them 3 years ago and I was just waiting on you to update this. I went back to watch said video and it’s like the nail was already in the coffin.
When I heard this news, I automatically thought of you Chloe! It is sad but it was bound to happen, in my humble opinion. Never do a man’s job for him.
She proposed to him and they were just screwing in the beginning not even dating.Some women just have to learn the hard way.
I saw this coming when Joshua humiliated her for no reason on late night TV admitting she proposed to him like was that necessary??????? He seems like he has a humiliation kink
Well the foundation for the relationship wasn't strong. It started out with them hooking up on the first night they met and it wasn't even a date. She seemed more into him than he was into her and he probably went along with the marriage because he did not want to be the bad guy.
This is the year of Celebrity break up
Yolo what it means things that look good on the surface
Hi Chloé. 🌼
Jodie and her husband Joshua were doomed when he opened his mouth and humiliated her on national television.
I am quite sure Jodie didn't approve of her husband's message.
I hope it works out for the both of them.
Chow.
Another example of why you should NEVER chase a man.
Yup you're right.
I think when you ask a man to marry and he agrees. he will smash a cake in your face maybe or otherwise make your life miserable until you file for divorce.
At the beginning, admittedly, but
Chloe _, you called it a long time ago! We don't rejoice in divorce, but you told us!!
She chased him and acted desperate! She slept with him the first day.
Yup nasty. Goes to show even the pretty women go for a not so good looking.
I feel bad that I saw this come before it even start. To operate stronger in your masculine energy than your husband will cost serious issues in your marriage. She incredible beautiful and talented but lead with uncertainty to trust her husband to probably guide.
"No limit femcels" has me rolling!!! 😂 I agree with Chloe! I saw this coming from the moment she pursued and proposed. JTS clearly loved and valued him more... Sad times.
Same 😂🤣
Venus retrograde ripped through these relationships like a thief in the night!!! Mine included 😂😂😂
😂😂True!
No hate here but I saw this coming. He just didn’t seem that interested.
I was hoping it would work out, but there were too many red flags with his past and with her asking him to marry here. I disagree with you in saying Joshua was not interested. he was VERY interested in sleeping with her because she is STUNNING, but lust fades. I hope they keep a relationship for thier child and I wish Jodie the very best.
Not the dirty microwave and dirty pillow 😂😂😂
When he disrespected her by telling people she asked him to marry her was when I knew it would only last a couple years. What husband do that in public?
She is gorgeous and could certainly find a man to love her enough to propose and marry her. Proposing to a man is never ever a good thing.
Felt attacked while cleaning my microwave 💀💀💀💀. Never here to argue but always enjoy the sermon
He was never worthy of her imo.
Tough couple of weeks for divestors. Travis Kelce, Tamar Braxton, and now Jodie.
She talks too much! I thought this from the beginning. She seems too fame obsessed. You don't ask a man to marry you! You can't marry a hook up! The fact she didn't ask for child support is dumb! He won't give you a penny once he has other kids.
I agree, she does talk too much.
She and Jeannie Mai talk too much and going through the same thing right now😂
Such a needed conversation. I was taken up through there by a white man in high school and have seen many other black women make the same mistake. Provision and protection are the priority. Period.
It seems reasonable that she initiated the divorce given that she was the one who convinced him to marry her.
I literally tune in to hear whatever comes after "You can go argue with your...".
You have said everything that I wanted to say from my mouth. Above all , please ladies stop following these celebrities people relationships and advice , they are far no good to us.
This is marriage is very embarrassing unfortunately.
Exactly this had nothing to do with race. They were not ready to be married . She proposed to him for some reason I have never seen that work. My mom did this with my stepdad who was an amazing dad but they didn’t last it’s crazy because he was amazing
Omg..!!! I love how you articulate the truth…
This is unfortunate. She's so beautiful, I wish he the best moving forward.
Oh my God it is so sad 😢
Never miss any of your video, much love Chloe feom Paris/France.
It’s Crazy that 2022 Was the yr of Marrying/Marriage & Now 2023 is the yr of Breaking Up/Divorce…😒
Chloë will set the “record” straight!!!!
The #BINGOCARD 😂😂
I was honestly SO sad about this but, it was dead in the water when he admitted she proposed 🫠
Exactly the moment he bragged about her proposing to him on Jimmy Fallon the relationship was basically over. I believe that relationship was on its last legs last year. Jodie even admitted that she had a one night stand when they met at Ushers birthday party.
They both were talking too publicly about their relationship. That's the problem right there.
Ahh! I immediately thought of your first video when I heard the news. Chloe does not miss. Thank you for your wisdom.
Sidenote: does anyone else hold their breath as we await to hear what Chloe will say “you can go argue with your ….” dirty microwave, crooked wig, edges 😂🤣😂
“Before you tear your ACL running to the comments” 😂😂😂😂
Wise words, Thank you ❤❤❤❤
Chloe, you done ruffled a lot of feathers to these Divestors who go out their way to pedestalize men of No Color when there ain’t Nan podcast, UA-cam channel or content creator doing the same thing in return. Some of these women be sounding so desperate and embarrassing. 🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂😂😂 I know right.
I don't know why I thought this was a "swirler" channel, lol, I was WRONG, she goes harder on the divestors than even some of the men do.
@@tupactargaryen No this is a level up channel.
Go where you are celebrated and not tolerated channel.
Don’t date dusties regardless what race channel.
Protect your peace channel.
Vet your partners regardless of race channel.
Don’t pedstalize no man who isn’t pedstaliIng YOU channel.
Dig for Gold and Never Coal channel.
@@CandieP I hear yeah you, but I find most “level up” channels is just WM worship, full of delusional BW thinking some non-BM is coming to save them and live happily ever after. Maybe Chloe is the exception.
@@CandiePamen
Great Commentary! I'm subscribing now
Unfortunately she is one of those darkskin women who didn't heal some of the internal trauma we go thru.
Sis just wanted a white man and a mixed child to feel better about herself. I'm sure this will humble her and probably lead her to work on it.
That’s where I can do it all Type of women go wrong she’s trying to tell him that she doesn’t need his help.
Which probably already happened in the marriage,we are not men we don’t propose to anyone.
And if you end up leaving you get that frking spousal support period!
Jodie Turner Smith is really beautiful..she will be fine. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Great content. Thank you.
Sipping my tea and washing my bed sheets as Chloe tells haters to argue with their dirty pillowcases.. tehehehe 0:25
Chloe, on point as always! 🙏
Another excellent video. This message is important 🔥.
lots of wisdom bless you
That's why a woman should be with a man who loves her morecthan she loves him 💕
Let me go argue with my dirty microwave,😢 because Chloe said enough
Love from south Africa
Bahahaha....you can argue with your dirty pillow case???? I'm dying 🤣🤣🤣. This winter I'm going to create a note book with "Chloe-isims'". And yes, I will rehearse and use them all lol
We need a video-montage of Chloe_-isms!
So excited to be one of the first few people here 😅❤. We always knew this is how it would turn out though 😮
Very well said 🎯🎯🎯
I was waiting for this video
Love is fleeting. If you choose it you chase it. But to some it's better than a dutiful relationship. To each their own ❤
Not argue with your dirty pillow case. Nice way to teach people to clean
I saw them as a family in London once, they seemed happy. But momentary snapshots don’t paint a full picture
Once again the wordsmith strikes like a ninja. Commentary on 💯!
Slept with him on the first date. Proposed to him red flags
Exactly on Point!!!
Thank you so much Chloe many of the points you said in this commentary is what I say all the time. I thought it was only me that say these things or believe them.