Sara said it exactly right. Sometimes thing just run their course - everything is not meant to last forever …and sometimes you flat out married the wrong person.
I dont think failure needs to be a loaded word.. I think it's ok to call it a failure without judgement. Failure is a part of life and everybody encounters multiple failures throughout life. You can say the marriage failed but there were good times, I learnt a lot and I don't regret it.. I think we should de-stigmatise the word failure.. It's just part of being human
Extremely well said! A divorce by it's very definition is the failure of a marriage. But that's totally OK! We don't need to turn divorce into something to be celebrated while simultaneously not vilifying it.
@@baublesanddolls yes I agree. Mine was life threatening at one point and I definitely chose ME. I did the work and it's up to him to do his own work, not up to me to save everybody. Society tells women that we are supposed to save and nurture any and everybody and that's not our job. It's not our only job.
I was one of the kids whose parents split (I’m a seasoned adult now), and when I heard other kids say, “I wish my parents would split,” I knew from experience they had no idea what they were talking about. Them saying that is only a passing thought that means nothing and shouldn’t be regarded as the kid knowing what’s best for them. Their brains aren’t even fully developed yet so it’s important to keep that in mind when a kid says something they think would be better.
@@warmcozy Ew. Your one personal situation & experience with divorce does not invalidate the VERY real, lifelong trauma that comes with growing up with two parents who can't stand each other, try and pit the kids against each other, and creates an absolutely chaotic, destructive, awful home life. Staying together literally causes countless children to grow up & enter seriously dysfunctional relationships, and we're conditioned to think behavior that is absolutely unacceptable is okay, and we should just suck it up. No. Anyone with a psychology degree would tell you that divorce is absolutely the way to go over staying together -- it's NEVER "for the kids". Weird attachment to religion and valuing that over the health & happiness of your children has screwed up countless families and children.
@@Free420Love Ew. Your one opinion lacking scientific basis combined with thinking anyone with a psychology degree would also shun scientific evidence should be embarrassing to you. Studies have already disproven your theory that stress and strife between married parents is categorically worse than divorce. There are significant advantages to the children when their parents stay married which doesn’t always in every case mean the parents *should* stay together but the children are compelling reasons.
I really enjoy this group of women. I definitely can get annoyed at times with Sunny but it’s a good mix of perspectives. And Whoopi (mostly) always dropping wisdom. And I relate so much to Alyssa and Sara’s approach to topics. Joy makes me laugh. Thanks! 💜
I think who ever is experiencing it has the right to choose how THEY are equipped to deal with it so they can get up in the morning and continue their lives. If she chooses to and doesnt feel like a failure, then that is for HER. I swear misery is always looking for company and inexperience wedges its opinions in.
Even if I NEVER get married.... Blessings are on the Life I lead, and the Life I share with those I love. FAILURE IS NO OPTION IN RELATIONSHIPS!!! #ViewNation #OhThemDifferences!!! #FailureIsNoOption!!! #CountThemBlessings!!!
What’s the point of marriage if it isn’t a forever commitment. I get the whole “partnership for tax purposes” but why are we celebrating divorce in this context?
@@cynthianolder3557 then why not just go the partner route and leave those who want a “traditional” marriage alone? Seems like we’re rewriting the rules for everyone on this one when most people (worldwide) are still leaning towards forever vows. 🤷♀️
@appy-sq4ijI don't understand how this affects your marriage though? You live your life and let other people live theirs and make decisions that are best for them. And she isn't celebrating divorce, she was just being very frank about why the marriage fell apart and was still finding the positive aspects of the situation.
@@Ray03595 don’t think I mentioned my marriage. Just asking “why go through the effort” if someone doesn’t even view marriage as a forever thing. Also… the fact that the most liked comment on this vid is about Whoopi’s hair… hints that ppl are equally as confused on this topic (loaded/convoluted discussion) 😂
So annoyed with people saying its bad for kids, my siblings and I CELEBRATED our parents divorce, we were sick of the constant fighting and yelling. It was so peaceful and BOTH parents calmed down being apart, BEST THING EVER, and my parents ended up a year after being friends again. In my family it SOLVED the problem, so STOP saying it hurts children, NO it hurts some and for some its the best thing.......
As Sunny stated, divorce by definition is a failed marriage. You failed to stay together, but it's always good to takeaway key lessons from these experiences that will help you become the best version of yourself.
He was a man who was clearly and tragically suffering from extreme mental illness and committed suicide. I don't think his death needs to be exploited anymore as it's a tragedy that he couldn't get the help he clearly needed.
@@haileygeltman8482 interesting take. I'd say it's everyone who is looking on at what is happening and then blithely going about their daily lives as though everything is fine and dandy who are the mentally ill ones. Watching that level of suffering and then casting aspersions on those who find it intolerable is cold - to put it mildly.
I think glorifying suicide in any way shape or form is sickening and if your cause or movement celebrates a man committing suicide in such a way then I think its morals should be questioned. He so clearly was mentally ill or he would be alive today. Suicide is an absolute tragedy and I only wish he could have gotten the help he so clearly needed. @@raindrops21_9
Separated but not divorced. Sometimes separation is good if both parties do the work on themselves before deciding to reunite. Seems the Smiths did this. I remember Will saying in the Red Table Talk interview, Jada cried herself to sleep 30 days straight. Seems she needed some serious healing and needed to go on that journey to heal. I think sometimes separation lets you know if it's gonna work or not.
@@shippendales8543 mostly on her end. cause without him she's nothing. her acting career didn't exactly take off. she got gigs but she's not that great of an actress.
I agree. Marriage is supposed to be a covenant and sacred vow to love another person and remain with them “in good times, bad times, sickness, and in health”.
Look folks forget all that nonsense jodie turner smith was saying. Bottom line is when you and your spouse end your marriage that means your marriage your relationship was a failure. You failed to make it work.
I love that Joy pointed out that her life would have been dedicated to that man. So many women just completely fold their lives into a man only to have them eventually just leave them or ultimately not appreciate them. Most men want you to center them in your world and not have your own interests. For talented women, this doesn't fit their lifestyles. They either either need to marry a man who realizes that they're not going to be sitting at home bouncing their babies all day, or they're just going to have to be single.
I agree, I’m a child of divorce and it was the single most healthiest decision our mother taught us was that personal happiness for both parents breeds happier children, furthermore she taught us that settling for less than isn’t worth it and that you truly do end up marrying someone who made sense in one moment but then you grow more in your life and realise it makes no sense at all to who you’ve now become, good for Jodie for teaching her daughter that failure is really just wisdom unfolding and not pain and regrets.
I grew up in a two parent household, and it’s not always great to stay together. There was no beef, but also they didn’t really like each other like that 😂
Not surprising Sunny. So negative always. My ex husband and his wife and I hang out and have a great time. We were together 18 years. He will always be my friend. It didn't last but it was a great chapter.
Amen! When you split, do it with kindness and never-ending love esp. when children are loved by you! LOVE YOUR CHILDREN MORE THAN YOU HATE/DISLIKE YOU SPOUSE😊😊❤🙏
but it is a failure. it's a failure to see if someone was a suitable match in a long-term partnership. it's a a failure to understand marriage is not just about love, it's about commitment. it's a failure to mishandle emotions should there be a period of hardship and disagreements in the relationship before healing begins. why do you think the line "in sickness and in health, till death do us part" is for? it's there for a reason to show marriage is beyond love. it's a commitment.
Everyone forgets that Icarus also flew. It's the same when love comes to an end, or the marriage fails and people say they knew it was a mistake, that everybody said it would never work. That she was old enough to know better. But anything worth doing is worth doing badly. Poem by Jack Gilbert
I FLAT OUT married the wrong man. I can admit that it was a class thing, it ruined my children and destroyed me. But, I also admit that I didn't like marriage and I don't like being controlled by men. I never got married again and was better off for it 😢😢😢
Some of us are better people apart. There is no forever. 2 years, 12 years, 20 years that’s a success. All good. We change/ grow / evolve… not the same person 20-30, 30-40, 40-50…
I won’t be taking advice from a woman who had to propose to Percy from Dawsons Creek and knowing that he strung along his ex girlfriend for 11 years and no 💍. Now he moved on really fast with Rumor Lupita Nyego
He didn't string Diane along. Diane didn't want to get married again, as she went out with Josh after breaking up with her ex husband. JTS got someone new at the same time as Josh. I think the relationship had been over for awhile before they announced their split.
I didn't look at my divorce as a failed marriage I took it as freeing me and my children You don't stay together when you aren't happy it not good for the Children It's selfish to hold on when nether are happy
When two adults decide that they can no longer live together that is fine. But they need to keep their issues between them, absolutely don't put each other down to the children. Remain civil especially in front of the children. In the long run if not handled correctly it's the children who suffer s
It is detrimental for children to be in a home where parents do not get along you hear yelling screaming and fighting and Fidelity it's horrible and people need to separate and that's why I hate when people say oh it's best that two people to party parents know it doesn't know it's not as a psychologist it is best the child grow up in a single family home with his love and happiness and growth and productivity and that they are allowed to visit and see the other parent meet people from the 80s and 90s with parents got divorced they're not used to hearing the screaming and yelling match because when adults yell it can lead to altercation most of these kids have never witnessed any type of physical any type of severe emotional contact between both parents because they separated divorce before I got there these kids are actually healthiest and happy as kids psychologically then people's parents have stayed
@@ld4974 I never said they think they'll get divorced. Lots of people take marriage as a joke and something that is just about the love of that individual. As soon as a lot of them get bored, they resort to cheating and doing other things. Same old, same old.
@@manny.3248 I agree with the sentiment, but you said don't get married. Just pointing out that most people enter marriage with the right intentions even though 50% end in divorce.
Marriage is overrated............... It's better to live alone and hook up for sexual companionship or recreational sex from time to time. 😁 I am joking about the fornication but a lot of married people are unhappy.
"Don't think of the relationship as over. Think of it as complete."
Sara said it exactly right. Sometimes thing just run their course - everything is not meant to last forever …and sometimes you flat out married the wrong person.
Sara is so very on point about life is short. Divorce can mean several things, good, Bad or otherwise
I’m a recently divorced woman & I appreciate calling a divorce a blessing ♥️♥️♥️
Yes!! ❤
My dad just got divorced and he is living his best life. He is cute and retired! You should date him
No doubt you are after you guttered your ex
@@BillBarr4Presidentare you the ex?
@@saly4762 gotta love today's woman, celebrating divorce and abortions....lol.
Whoopi’s hair looks excellent
Truly one of her best looks!
I love it!!!
Agreed. Its fantastic!
If you are a poodle!!!! 😅
Ugh leeeeeeeeee!!!
I dont think failure needs to be a loaded word.. I think it's ok to call it a failure without judgement. Failure is a part of life and everybody encounters multiple failures throughout life. You can say the marriage failed but there were good times, I learnt a lot and I don't regret it.. I think we should de-stigmatise the word failure.. It's just part of being human
Well said.
Extremely well said! A divorce by it's very definition is the failure of a marriage. But that's totally OK! We don't need to turn divorce into something to be celebrated while simultaneously not vilifying it.
Divorce can be life saving
Definitely was for me and has taken me seven years to recover.
@@baublesanddolls yes I agree. Mine was life threatening at one point and I definitely chose ME. I did the work and it's up to him to do his own work, not up to me to save everybody. Society tells women that we are supposed to save and nurture any and everybody and that's not our job. It's not our only job.
It can also be child destroying
Sara had been on fire with the commentary!
It’s 2024! If you want to get a divorce GET A DIVORCE
Which is why women initiate most divorces
Divorce is a divorce. Keeping up appearances is just as bad if not worse. I hear from kids all the time "I wish my parents had just split"
I was one of the kids whose parents split (I’m a seasoned adult now), and when I heard other kids say, “I wish my parents would split,” I knew from experience they had no idea what they were talking about. Them saying that is only a passing thought that means nothing and shouldn’t be regarded as the kid knowing what’s best for them. Their brains aren’t even fully developed yet so it’s important to keep that in mind when a kid says something they think would be better.
@@warmcozy
Ew. Your one personal situation & experience with divorce does not invalidate the VERY real, lifelong trauma that comes with growing up with two parents who can't stand each other, try and pit the kids against each other, and creates an absolutely chaotic, destructive, awful home life.
Staying together literally causes countless children to grow up & enter seriously dysfunctional relationships, and we're conditioned to think behavior that is absolutely unacceptable is okay, and we should just suck it up.
No. Anyone with a psychology degree would tell you that divorce is absolutely the way to go over staying together -- it's NEVER "for the kids".
Weird attachment to religion and valuing that over the health & happiness of your children has screwed up countless families and children.
@@Free420Love Ew. Your one opinion lacking scientific basis combined with thinking anyone with a psychology degree would also shun scientific evidence should be embarrassing to you. Studies have already disproven your theory that stress and strife between married parents is categorically worse than divorce. There are significant advantages to the children when their parents stay married which doesn’t always in every case mean the parents *should* stay together but the children are compelling reasons.
I really enjoy this group of women. I definitely can get annoyed at times with Sunny but it’s a good mix of perspectives. And Whoopi (mostly) always dropping wisdom. And I relate so much to Alyssa and Sara’s approach to topics. Joy makes me laugh. Thanks! 💜
failure is something other people put on you -whoopi (wise words)
I think who ever is experiencing it has the right to choose how THEY are equipped to deal with it so they can get up in the morning and continue their lives. If she chooses to and doesnt feel like a failure, then that is for HER. I swear misery is always looking for company and inexperience wedges its opinions in.
I’d rather be from a broken family than live in one.
Even if I NEVER get married.... Blessings are on the Life I lead, and the Life I share with those I love.
FAILURE IS NO OPTION IN RELATIONSHIPS!!!
#ViewNation #OhThemDifferences!!!
#FailureIsNoOption!!!
#CountThemBlessings!!!
Whoopi well said Failure is one which others put on you 👍🏼🤗
As a product of a broken/dysfunctional household, I wished my parents had gotten divorced. They stayed together and made everyone miserable.
I’m happy she feels like this. Nothing wrong with the cessation of a relationship. Nothing lasts forever.
Divorce is failure but failure is not a bad thing. Now if you repeatedly get divorced it is a bad thing.
Just like Whoopi lmao!!
Why is that a bad thing?
Why is it a failure? It for sure is an ending but endings aren’t failure it’s just an ending
@@ceterisparibus8966Why would you think it’s a good thing to get divorced repeatedly?…
@@brandonheyward4022 because divorce literally means the marriage was a failure. Lmao.
What’s the point of marriage if it isn’t a forever commitment. I get the whole “partnership for tax purposes” but why are we celebrating divorce in this context?
I agree! Sometimes it does have to happen
It is not practical to make a forever vow, cause unless you are psychic, you will not be a fork in the road of life coming later
@@cynthianolder3557 then why not just go the partner route and leave those who want a “traditional” marriage alone? Seems like we’re rewriting the rules for everyone on this one when most people (worldwide) are still leaning towards forever vows. 🤷♀️
@appy-sq4ijI don't understand how this affects your marriage though? You live your life and let other people live theirs and make decisions that are best for them. And she isn't celebrating divorce, she was just being very frank about why the marriage fell apart and was still finding the positive aspects of the situation.
@@Ray03595 don’t think I mentioned my marriage. Just asking “why go through the effort” if someone doesn’t even view marriage as a forever thing. Also… the fact that the most liked comment on this vid is about Whoopi’s hair… hints that ppl are equally as confused on this topic (loaded/convoluted discussion) 😂
Amen Joy!
Gods she’s stunning ❤
Who
So annoyed with people saying its bad for kids, my siblings and I CELEBRATED our parents divorce, we were sick of the constant fighting and yelling. It was so peaceful and BOTH parents calmed down being apart, BEST THING EVER, and my parents ended up a year after being friends again. In my family it SOLVED the problem, so STOP saying it hurts children, NO it hurts some and for some its the best thing.......
As Sunny stated, divorce by definition is a failed marriage. You failed to stay together, but it's always good to takeaway key lessons from these experiences that will help you become the best version of yourself.
AND you need to be an adult by acknowledging your failures as failures and not simply something that "didn't work out." That's how human beings grow.
So Aaron Bushnell is still not a hot topic?? Really ABC?
Are you watching the entire ABC catalog or expecting a variety talk show to discuss everything in the world in a hour?? Because I saw it on nightline.
He was a man who was clearly and tragically suffering from extreme mental illness and committed suicide. I don't think his death needs to be exploited anymore as it's a tragedy that he couldn't get the help he clearly needed.
@@haileygeltman8482 interesting take. I'd say it's everyone who is looking on at what is happening and then blithely going about their daily lives as though everything is fine and dandy who are the mentally ill ones. Watching that level of suffering and then casting aspersions on those who find it intolerable is cold - to put it mildly.
Move on!
I think glorifying suicide in any way shape or form is sickening and if your cause or movement celebrates a man committing suicide in such a way then I think its morals should be questioned. He so clearly was mentally ill or he would be alive today. Suicide is an absolute tragedy and I only wish he could have gotten the help he so clearly needed. @@raindrops21_9
Making lemonade out of lemons. Reminds me of when Will Smith said Divorce is not an option. Now we know they separated in 2016.
Separated but not divorced. Sometimes separation is good if both parties do the work on themselves before deciding to reunite. Seems the Smiths did this. I remember Will saying in the Red Table Talk interview, Jada cried herself to sleep 30 days straight. Seems she needed some serious healing and needed to go on that journey to heal. I think sometimes separation lets you know if it's gonna work or not.
They separated but arent divorced so he was right
With do everything but get divorced
Jada said they tried to get divorced but couldnt on both ends
@@shippendales8543 mostly on her end. cause without him she's nothing. her acting career didn't exactly take off. she got gigs but she's not that great of an actress.
@@endor8witch, that’s misogynistic BS.
@@naylas3908 misogynistic? get over yourself
I'm not a religious person, but I do hold marriage as a sacred vow.
I agree as a gay man!! Whenever I get married it’s a vow that I respect
I agree. Marriage is supposed to be a covenant and sacred vow to love another person and remain with them “in good times, bad times, sickness, and in health”.
What does it have to do with god? God asked you?
You only get married two, three, times in your whole life. She is a role model
Or ten times! Look at Whoopi! She married how many white men
Look folks forget all that nonsense jodie turner smith was saying. Bottom line is when you and your spouse end your marriage that means your marriage your relationship was a failure. You failed to make it work.
Divorce is traumatic for all involved. It’s so much worse when the couple is not amicable
No.
@@mazcid177Yes, @mazcid177, divorce is traumatic and studies have proven that.
I love that Joy pointed out that her life would have been dedicated to that man. So many women just completely fold their lives into a man only to have them eventually just leave them or ultimately not appreciate them. Most men want you to center them in your world and not have your own interests.
For talented women, this doesn't fit their lifestyles. They either either need to marry a man who realizes that they're not going to be sitting at home bouncing their babies all day, or they're just going to have to be single.
They each should know better
I agree, I’m a child of divorce and it was the single most healthiest decision our mother taught us was that personal happiness for both parents breeds happier children, furthermore she taught us that settling for less than isn’t worth it and that you truly do end up marrying someone who made sense in one moment but then you grow more in your life and realise it makes no sense at all to who you’ve now become, good for Jodie for teaching her daughter that failure is really just wisdom unfolding and not pain and regrets.
I’m lucky. My parents will be married 46 years next month.
And? My grandmother stayed married 60 years and was unhappy for 60 years. Not a flex.
Why no segment or mention of Laken Riley, the young female college student in Georgia murdered by an illegal immigrant this past Friday?
Falling down the stairs doesn't disqualify you from walking up other stairs. Don't cry cuz it's over. Smile cuz it happened.
I grew up in a two parent household, and it’s not always great to stay together. There was no beef, but also they didn’t really like each other like that 😂
Aaron Bushnell 💐
Not surprising Sunny. So negative always. My ex husband and his wife and I hang out and have a great time. We were together 18 years. He will always be my friend. It didn't last but it was a great chapter.
why get married?
Why get married as a man - you have more to lose.
Amen! When you split, do it with kindness and never-ending love esp. when children are loved by you! LOVE YOUR CHILDREN MORE THAN YOU HATE/DISLIKE YOU SPOUSE😊😊❤🙏
Jodie😍😍😍😍
but it is a failure. it's a failure to see if someone was a suitable match in a long-term partnership. it's a a failure to understand marriage is not just about love, it's about commitment. it's a failure to mishandle emotions should there be a period of hardship and disagreements in the relationship before healing begins. why do you think the line "in sickness and in health, till death do us part" is for? it's there for a reason to show marriage is beyond love. it's a commitment.
A solider sets himself on fire in protest and these are the types of stories you decide to talk about. Smh.
Cope.
Yawn…no one cares about Jew hating loonies.
Because you know who their bosses are.
I can't think of a bigger failure than divorce.
Why hasn't The View been cancelled?
Just because you don’t like the show doesn’t mean it needs to be canceled. You’re the problem, not the show..
A better question, who's making you watch it? You can turn the channel anytime you want to...
Divorce is absolutely a failure.
It's the only way to look at it .....its not about the kids it's about the adults
Marriages don’t fail. People do.
Wrong! Most times people grow apart or the real person comes out once married.
Jodie Turner-Smith, I loved her with Micheal B, jordon in "Without Remorse" beautiful performance.
Everyone forgets that Icarus also flew.
It's the same when love comes to an end,
or the marriage fails and people say
they knew it was a mistake, that everybody
said it would never work. That she was
old enough to know better. But anything
worth doing is worth doing badly.
Poem by Jack Gilbert
Um, no, it is a failure on both parties. There is no such thing as a happy 'shared custody.' Gripes and fights will always be there.
I FLAT OUT married the wrong man. I can admit that it was a class thing, it ruined my children and destroyed me. But, I also admit that I didn't like marriage and I don't like being controlled by men. I never got married again and was better off for it 😢😢😢
Some of us are better people apart. There is no forever. 2 years, 12 years, 20 years that’s a success. All good. We change/ grow / evolve… not the same person 20-30, 30-40, 40-50…
Divorce should not be normalized
No Unfortunately.
Bad marriages are bad for the children. I was a part of one.
Got divorced at 22. I agree
I won’t be taking advice from a woman who had to propose to Percy from Dawsons Creek and knowing that he strung along his ex girlfriend for 11 years and no 💍. Now he moved on really fast with Rumor Lupita Nyego
THAT PART!!!
He didn't string Diane along. Diane didn't want to get married again, as she went out with Josh after breaking up with her ex husband. JTS got someone new at the same time as Josh. I think the relationship had been over for awhile before they announced their split.
Noooooo! I loved them as a couple. 😢😢😢😢😢
Very good advice from Jodie, but in my divorce, I felt like I saved myself and my children.
Divorce is great and so much fun!
Divorce is traumatic for children but so is domestic abuse. Chose the lesser of two evils.
I was the only kid my age who prayed my parents got divorced lol
Wait this is a throwback because he is dating my Mexican African princess lupita Nyongo!!!
Listening to this makes me not to ever marry. Boy how the value of marriage has went down through the years.
She got divorced after only 5 years together. That’s called making a bad choice. I feel sorry for her child. Why get married and have a kid so fast?
The problem here is that the W/S And Others thought that they could change Time. No you cannot. You cannot destroy Time.
Most people are better people then Sonny!!
aka EX-MAGAGranny I’m hoping to get on your show!
Divorce can be saving your life if abusive husband!!! Divorce should not be look down on the person it happens too
Like women can’t be abusive. Difference men do not have an easy out as they get nailed in the divorce and family courts.
I didn't look at my divorce as a failed marriage
I took it as freeing me and my children
You don't stay together when you aren't happy it not good for the Children
It's selfish to hold on when nether are happy
Divorce is not a fail because marriage is not a win. Both are choices.
Isn't divorce by definition the action taken when a marriage fails?
Amen Sara
Divorce =Failure. 🤷🏽♀️
My parents are divorced and it seemed good to me
That’s why you’re always on the Internet seeking attention? 😂😂😂
@@Drualeaf gtfoh bro such a internet troll 💯
When two adults decide that they can no longer live together that is fine. But they need to keep their issues between them, absolutely don't put each other down to the children. Remain civil especially in front of the children. In the long run if not handled correctly it's the children who suffer
s
Sunny, she has to open her mouth first and makes her about “her” every time
Joy is the real life Midge Maisel🤍
Given that Turner-Smith is most famous for playing Anne Boleyn, she knows a bit about bad marriages, and knows she got out easier than Anne!! 😎
Many people are a better person than you Sunny. Its all about you
divorce is a failed marriage by definition. But it is not the end all be all.
Love Joy ❤
You broke a life time commitment you made, it is.
Dr Umar tried to tell her
When sunny isn’t making every topic about race, she’s usually making it about herself. 😂 typical narcissistic Sunny.
You come across as a racially biased troll.
Women DO give bad advice
It is detrimental for children to be in a home where parents do not get along you hear yelling screaming and fighting and Fidelity it's horrible and people need to separate and that's why I hate when people say oh it's best that two people to party parents know it doesn't know it's not as a psychologist it is best the child grow up in a single family home with his love and happiness and growth and productivity and that they are allowed to visit and see the other parent meet people from the 80s and 90s with parents got divorced they're not used to hearing the screaming and yelling match because when adults yell it can lead to altercation most of these kids have never witnessed any type of physical any type of severe emotional contact between both parents because they separated divorce before I got there these kids are actually healthiest and happy as kids psychologically then people's parents have stayed
If I didn’t divorce my husband and got out when I did, I would have been dead within a week!
Women leave marriages at an alarming rate.
All these is so fishy, 😂 if they are so sane and happy. Why they got divorced? Oh please ! Don’t fool us ! She is a fake, I’m happy Joshua is FREE !
….why has Whoopi been making sense lately
On to the next snow puppy
People get divorced like they're buying new clothes. Yeah, it's failure. If y don't think it's one don't get married.
Nobody gets married thinking that they are going to get divorced.
@@ld4974 I never said they think they'll get divorced. Lots of people take marriage as a joke and something that is just about the love of that individual. As soon as a lot of them get bored, they resort to cheating and doing other things. Same old, same old.
@@manny.3248 I agree with the sentiment, but you said don't get married. Just pointing out that most people enter marriage with the right intentions even though 50% end in divorce.
@@ld4974over 70% are initiated by women
Fetishism have a beginning as well as an end 😂
Depends on the fetish.
I wasn't going to touch this one, but I'm glad you did😊
Ce mariage était-il sincère?...il y en a qui se marie uniquement pour posséder l'autre ou qui se marie par intérêt...et voilà le résultat...
Marriage is overrated............... It's better to live alone and hook up for sexual companionship or recreational sex from time to time. 😁 I am joking about the fornication but a lot of married people are unhappy.
The delusion is epic on this show
Most people are better than you sunny