How to Create Conscious Intimacy In Your Relationship | Dr. Shefali
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2024
- ‘Like all good sex, this talk starts with a LOT of foreplay.’ Dr. Shefali reveals what it really takes to create conscious intimacy 🔥 If you’ve been left wanting more, discover Mindvalley’s unlimited personal growth courses (including Dr. Shefali’s)👉go.mindvalley.com/vCYmmHtN
Clinical Psychologist and critically acclaimed author Dr. Shefali believes that in order to be the most consciously intimate being possible in our sex life and to heal our intimacy issues once and for all, we have to embark on a journey into the past…
...introducing intimacy in marriage or even in the most casual relationship comes at a price. It requires a lot more personal growth than you could ever have imagined. You can’t find it hidden in a Kamasutra book.
In this talk you’ll learn:
❤️ What the greatest orgasmic pleasure possible is.- how to have the best sex life ever.
❤️ Which of your core needs were probably NOT met as a child, and how you project this pain into your relationship.
❤️ The problem with ‘falling in love’ without exploring spiritual growth and your true self.
❤️ The twin-beggar syndrome.
❤️ The real reason you may have a fear of intimacy.
Get prepared for a stark, spiritual awakening into raising consciousness in love, relationships, marriage and parenting.
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I love you so much for the work you are doing for the word I would love to be a member to be a part of this blessing see you soon
Lovely Video! Excuse me for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you researched - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is a smashing one off guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger without the headache. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate after many years got excellent success with it.
Nice video content! Apologies for the intrusion, I am interested in your opinion. Have you heard about - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (should be on google have a look)? It is a good one of a kind guide for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my GF finally got excellent success with it.
Excellent Video clip! Sorry for butting in, I would appreciate your opinion. Have you researched - Millawdon Varied Nights Trick (probably on Google)? It is a smashing exclusive product for learning intimate questions to make your relationship stronger minus the headache. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my buddy at last got excellent results with it.
We were outliers, my husband and I. After two combative first years, and leaving the fourth visit to our marriage counselor, I stopped in the hall leading away from her office, looked up at my husband and said, “I see. It’s me. I’ll do what I can to change this behavior.” We spent 33 more blissful, conflict-free years together until he passed away. Self-awareness can be quite valuable.
Wow me and my husband are having so much trouble, no intimacy, no talk nothing except kids or mil related stuff. He does not share anything. He just come to me for his physical needs( that’s what I feel). I am so pissed at him. I have enrolled myself in to therapy but did not think couple therapy would be this helpful.
I had this realization last night
Great talk. I’ve been a Relationship Coach for the past 20 years. One of the first questions I started asking my clients and couples was: “Would you date yourself?” They always laugh and then admit they wouldn’t. That is where we start.
This ✨
I sure would… I’m one of the coolest people out there 😉
Fuck…I wouldn’t either lol
I would. I’m not perfect but willing and wanting to work together and grow. I am ready to unravel what is happening in the dynamics and heal those wounds. I had this realization after a huge fight that I acted so badly, but I knew that it is already forgiven and I’m ready to work on it. And that’s how I show up for myself.
Shalom! Eye opener! Hahahaha
"Culture tells us to get married, but culture doesn't tell us to 'marry your truth, marry your authentic self, marry your inner liberation, and become your freedom before you seek it outside'. If I am going to be consciously intimate with another, it can only mean one thing: FREEDOM" 👏👏👏
You are magnificent, Dr. Shefali!
Just another anti-heteronormative masculine radical feminist
culture doesn't tell you to get married nor is there a secret conspiracy
Absolutely powerful. This is the reason I have been single for so long. So few people want to do the work or even understand that they are not whole. I refuse to be a rehabilitation centre for a broken soul who is not on the same path of enlightenment as I.
I thought I understood Dr. Shefali to say we just need to rehabilitate our selves with or without the other person joining in. We can control our responses. So it need not be "bad" if he/she is not ready to evolve.
@@dolphiner21 exactly what I'm trying to say...
Hi Can You Explain A Little More on this?Surely There are Multitudes Of people who R whole?????? aND Not screqwded up up LIKE THE REST of U>S>>>>????HMMMM???? Answer me this....why do we choose to live in a world with only two choices ...good/bad etc....u got me???...also by refusing .. is it possible that you are prolonging what u need or what ur soul is calling u 2 do.......when someone ask's for help it is the universe calling YOU THRU THAT Individual/.........yes/// NO????? ...Eternal Blessings To You!!!
Well said 👏 👏
@@dolphiner21 Amen
"Capitalism is predicted on unworthiness...
Don't you think we should be so terrified of something called.. artificial? We don't even have natural intelligence."
MIC DROP. 👏🏽
I am now ready for the next phase of my journey. Freedom, Liberation and unequivocal unconditional wholeness of my soul.
Learned more in 37 minutes from her speech, than I ever have from school
Damn, this girl can preach!!! One of the best speeches I’ve heard in awhile! We need more of this type of message sent out into that world for people to hear 👏
This is the most intelligent talk I have ever heard about relationship .....
Yes, it's brilliant!
You must not know Esther yet. ;)
Just another anti-heteronormative masculine radical feminist
@@MulattoMovement that is a statement of labels. Labels are all a construction of the mind to make a concept of good or bad. She’s being her authentic self, she’s not being what someone decides she is of labeling of good or bad. I think you are missing the point. There are barriers in language that prevent understanding as well as our ability to hear and see without our mind chiming in with a label with of what already is.
@@natashabahler174 No markers or tags we used to organize information in our minds and our represented of reality to some degree.
"We are not in a relationship with others until we wake up! Who are we in a relationship with? With pieces of your unresolved, unfulfilled broken part of you, seeking for completion...you are seeking for completion in the outside world, yearning to be unified with yourself integrated into the whole."
Amazing Dr. Shefali, have been learning a lot from you. Big admirer of your work. Thank you Mindvalley :)
Wow, this woman has clarified "the pattern" in a matter of fact way that knocked me off my self pitying thrown! We are all such works in progress or in stagnation.
Hello dear
I would have loved us to chat and become friends, Hope to hear from you soon
They’re a place of refuge and nourishment, deep connection and understanding. They make life easier, not harder.
And even through the tough times, the strongest relationships weather the inevitable ups and downs with a sense of purpose and meaning.
The problem is, very few of us are experiencing this. We’re simply not taught how.
Instead, we stumble our way through, trying to work it out as we go along. With plenty of heartbreak, disappointment, and conflict along the way.
Can something like this be taught or is this learned through trials and tribulation?
This video changed my whole day. In the last year I’ve started to understand how my mind and body feels when I feel like I’m lacking intimacy or connection, and I’ve learned that the feeling comes when I’m not taking care of myself (rather than pointing at someone and having a tantrum because “you’re not taking care of me”). So I sought out more content on intimacy so I can go inward and this was perfectttt. I am mastering connectedness to myself. Thank you for helping with the journey!!!
I’ve connected at so many levels, I had to go back several times to feel her words in the moment. So glad I came across this. 💕
Be kind to yourself when taking this in. Do not be so hard one yourself. Do not judge urself, love yourself. I am leaving divorcing my husband, I will never say it was right for him to abuse me , it was not my fault. But moving forward I am filling up my soul full of love and light, you are I am enough. Your happy ending rely's in you :). Mother urself, love u and give urself allowance to be loved, love that inner child. We are all a work in progress. God Bless you
well said
Good luck on your journey to healing and growth, sorry to hear about your divorce, you can thank this chapter in your life for how strong you'll become.
Thank very much everyone:)
Amen i am there
Jennifer Anand, my mother taught me " we teach people how to treat us". So therefore we have to take some responsibility in fault if we have been abused in any relationship.
we want to listen her so more often,we need her,at least for confrontation of us with ourselves .
She is so beyond wise, and amazing perspective I am fan-girling hard right now
I clicked on this at the exact moment that I need to hear this the most. Thanks for the wise words and enlightenment you've helped me achieve.
Wow! One of the best mindvalley talks. Thank you Dr.Shefali. 💖
This is TRULY the best speech/talk/information I have come across in the last couple of years. I keep shaking my head in astonishment, I REALLY needed every word she expressed!! Thank you mindvalley and the incredible Dr.Shefali!!✨
Wow! Loved it! She's an amazing presenter and speaker. She knows her stuff. Thank you so much
Wow. Greatest Mindvalley talk I’ve ever watched. Thank you so much Dr. Shefali! So many gems dropped in such a short period of time! 🙏🏾❤️
I would like to see an interview with Teal Swan and Dr. Shefali.
Yes!! I love Teal swan ❤️
Oh that would be sooo interesting!! Love both of them!
This woman is way more
That would be cool. I like Teal Swan.
TRUE!!
Mind blown. I do this work (I'm a therapist) and she NAILED it. 💕😊🙏♥️
That was truly amazing, insightful and a reevaluation of who we truly are. Thank you so much Dr. Shefali, more please!
Fantastic message! Now I can walk around and ask each person I meet “ have you done your inner healing”? Staying home alone during Covid for 4 months in Italy, forced me into that inner work and it’s ongoing, but it is a beautiful feeling. I had to be happy alone. That was so scary!! Thank you your message really hit me right on!
I am living this discovery after divorce. She put it together so eloquently
Same here 3rd relationship.
I realize though over a year ago that I have attrack that type of person because of who I am. she is so right about our childhood plays big role in our decisions as an adult.
But definitely I am on the path of growth self-acceptance and self-love for 5 years already my view of life has changed 90 degrees. I accept my husband for who he is. I can't change him.
I strive everyday to improve myself.
blessings to you my dear.
Yes amazing
Luv it, it really show me how disconectes people are in these day and I am not so crazy to aware of this culturescape and find way to liberate myself as a human being :). Thank you so much Mindvalley.
I try to understand and put perspective with word “unconditional love” and I think this talked represent the true meaning of unconditional love.
You are such a amazing soul and way you speak is beautiful! Thank you
Genuinely one of the best talks I’ve ever heard. The answer to any “problem” is to walk the path of truly knowing thyself ❤
What Dr. Shefali said was so deep. I may not fully understand it right now, but it makes me yearn to know who I truly am and be it. I feel that this is exactly what we need in the world today.
“If you truly loved another you would truly liberate the other, because when you love another what you really mean by that, in the transcendent sense, is that you so honor their being because you so honor your being.”
“It’s all about you “ so true, when I finally come to admit everything cone to place!
Thank you 🙏
I really enjoyed this wonderful and utterly truthful talk, thank you!
Dr Shefali was absolutely on point. And how stunningly beautiful she looks, by the way.
One thing I would say is that I clicked on this talk because of the 'how to' in the title. From watching this, however, I'd call it a 'what is' true intimacy. And it certainly is what she says it is.
Namaste xox
Simply amazing!!! No words to describe how brilliantly dr. Shefali explained every thing .
Wow. One of the best talks on relationships I’ve heard in a long long time. 💛 Makes total sense. Love it.
This was really eye opening for me....becoming your own parent and learning to love yourself the way you were never loved. I loved the presenter, she was eloquent.
Gypsy Girl Tarot,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news!
Now I see why I feel like I’m CONSTANTLY parenting ❤️.
THIS IS GREAT.
Authentic SELF❤️
Beautiful words from a beautiful soul. This helped me tremendously. Thank you for your gift 🙏🏼💛
Beautiful!!
Thank you for this!!
What an eye opener, I have some work to do. I have learnt so much, I really needed to hear this today.
I have been using others to fill the void.
Thank you for sharing 💛
As a practitioner of Nichiren Buddhism Dr Shefali's thoughts are very familiar, but presented in a very thought provoking style. It is the manner of her presentation that makes me shudder about how broken we all are especially my own self. We must undertake this journey of self awareness and understand our wholeness and beauty to be able to liberate ourselves and others in our life.
Hello dear
I would have loved us to chat and become friends, Hope to hear from you soon
She describes very well what my marriage was all about and what I've come to conclusion regarding societies. Excellent talk 👍 thank you💕
GenL, you deserve a better man!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I absolutely adore how my mum and dad blessed the earth each other walked upon. Tino rangatiratanga
Remember "Culture" is merely an operating system.
I said "Amen" so many times during this talk...🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💜
After many years of inner turmoil and working very hard in searching for the way out, I came to this wisdom.
I just saw this video and dr. Shefali explains it absolutely excellent and with great integrity. I am deeply impressed of someone so capable of explaining this so well in shape and content, I haven't seen someone do this before. I am so very impressed, strong deliverance and her passion to spread the word of Truth is so very commendable. Thank you 🌼🦗
You have really touched me with your talk...Yes it is very TRUE. Thank you deeply from my heart. I am Who I am.
YOU ARE AWESOME!! Love everything about you and the wonderful way you share your wisdom!! Thanks for all and best wishes in all you do...
this. speaks. volumes.
Much Love to you Dr Shifali, you're bringing so much wisdom and spice to this fieeld!
Some of us have evolved ..She is only really saying what you will learn on a gut level if you stay alone long enough to heal . Then this just becomes awareness . It is just growing up .. you can listen to this all day long but to gain that awareness will mean treading your own difficult path .
She is beautiful inside and out. It's refreshing to listen to her wisdom packed talk...Lucky are those children who benefit from her work.
She is the best. So many podcasts are very little substance. This one is just truth
Thanks Dr. Shefali. ♥️🙏🏻💐
What a woman! Her wisdom and her words..salute her!
Yesss!!!!! Greatest life experience is knowing yourself!!! 💜🕊🦄
I always hear people say that the greatest experiences involve others, but being a meditator, yogi & teacher for the last couple of decades, I can say 1st hand that there's nothing like living totally aligned with yourself & your soul's true expression. Let's keep talking about these things!!!
It's woww........a mind-blowing session. This is exactly what I believe 🙌, I follow.......it's wowwwwwwww......just left with no words 💞
So true
Ikr
I love her message so much. Everything she says resonates so deeply in my being that I crave her word.
Wow this talk is so brilliant. Im completely blown away by her intelligence and her unique message. Thank you Mindvalley & Dr. Shefali for spreading the wisdom.
This was so amazing ❤️ Loved it! Dr. Shefali touched upon so many vital aspects of life, love and relationships. The thoughts resonated with me on some deeper level. Every word and every thought was powerful. Thank you so much for such an enlightening and insightful session.❤️ So wanted to hear this. 😊👏👏
Wow! Its you who allows the other to blossom!
Wow Amazing. Her words penetrate very deeply!
She speaks so beautifully!
Love this! Celebrate that you hv divorced your false self! We are not taught to be whole when seeking a partner, love the concept of marrying your authentic self and marrying your truth. Certainly was not aware of that at 28 years old.
So profound and an eye and ear opening. Absolutely sensible
Love it. thank you kindly
Thankyou so much. She is amazing
❤
Dr. Shefali thank you for your enlightening speech.
❤️❤️So revolutionary. Thank you!
Love this! ❤️ Dr. Shafeli your so right!💯 Especially about being that mother as a mother of 7 blessings being that mom is so important!
Awesome lecture. That makes so much sense. No wonder that my life is not fulfilled, yet. Wow! I'm going to learn about the true me .
What makes you feel happy? Sexy? Fit? Stable?
Others will try and tell you you are not right. Keep going.
DIVINE HONESTY is ENFOLDED with DIVINE WISDOM.
RosELyn O'Laughlin Small
Marry your Authentic Self & Marry your truth & Your inner liberation & become your freedom: Good information!!
The most important conversation I could hear today 🙏🏼🤍
You are just so mind blowing on this subject. I love hearing you over and again. So powerful and clear.
So good! Thank you!
Such a great video!!!! Thank you dr Shefali. I feel like this was an important step in my self journey. I also shared it with my four daughters and all my closest friends! So great!
Hello dear
I would have loved us to chat and become friends, Hope to hear from you soon
"It's All YOU" 😂💕 Brilliant DrShefali
Wow!! This was wonderful and insightful talk🎈💕
This was amazing and exactly what I needed to hear right now.
Great talk. Hard to absorb.. I don't know how many can survive watching this to the end but..
I'm glad there is this video for many of us to watch today because I believe our older generations did not come across these issues in our modern world.
Great Wisdom and Sharing..
Thank You sincerely.
Thank y’all so much dearest 🌹
Y’all such an inspiration 🥰
Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈
Incredibly great talk!
No sugarcoating, just naked Truth.
It’s hard to hear that I was the problem during my marriage by enabling how my ex treated me. However, I have been working on myself so much that I already have taken ownership of my silence. I was taught early on to be silent and not defend myself. I carried this into adulthood and did not speak up for myself once I was put in my place multiple times and realized that my voice was neither heard nor desired. I then set out to try and honor my commitment and hoped that if I allowed him to do as he wished, he’d be happy, and then treat me well.
This didn’t work and in my stubbornness and desire not to fail, I wasted many years in silence. I have slowly become more vocal but still will fall back into this pattern. On my own path now, I am finding myself, taking time for myself, and carefully allowing others into my life.
This is my first one with dr. Shefali and I LOVE it! What a vise and profound woman
"To be authentically free .." Dr Shefali
Wow I feel that power. So much wisdom and practicality and such a beautiful soul. Thank you Dr. Shefali for this early morning inspiration!
Wonderful talk. With each Mindvalley talk I learn so much.
Dr Shefali sounds full of wisdom and impressive :) lots of love to her and Mindvalley :)
So much truth that its soo overwhelming!
Dr Shefali wonderfully expressing the great truth! that’s IT 🎯
Really very well delivered and explained. Thank you Dr Shefali.
I can hear her whole day !! Very good narration👌👍
Best Talk i have ever heard!!! I can't stop hearing it
This is an awesome video. As a Relationship Coach this is giving me more of what I need to help move couples in a better direction. I knew it was the self, but the extent of it...I understand better now. Thank you Dr.
Thank y'all so much dearest 🌹
Y'all such an inspiration 🥰
Be Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈
Mind-blowing..so much of wisdom, understanding and depth!!!
She is fabulous. Great lecture!
A Wonderful speak, thank you so much
Thank you for the truth, thank you for sharing this in the most powerful and real way possible for so many to hear and understand! I am aligned with everything you share. Thank you!