Please treat your husband and make his day about him. Do random gestures for him not just limited to birthdays. He really loves his wife and makes her dreams happen. Time to tick his bucket list.
Probably would be great if he expressed what his bucket list so that she could get to it he should communicate better and stop saying whatever you wanna do dear.
ahhahaha... he wanted steak but Steve wanted to hook him up to some gumbo and seafood platter... SIR, QUIT MAKING OTHER PPL HAPPY AND GO AHEAD AND GET YOU SOME DAMNN STEAK THAT YOU DESERVE! :)
@@ladennayoung2939 most people are today. Greedy and selfish. They don't care who they hurt along the way as long as they get what they want. Look at Steve's wife. Just sad.
Apparently she doesn’t know how to appreciate her husband…let me tell u something lady…after a while it gets old and someone else is going to snag that good man you have.
To the lady with the person that only sees her, when she wants something. A lot of adults use people to get what they want, because as children, nobody ever taught them to genuinely care about people, and that life doesn't revolve around them! Never entertainment one sided relationships! If people don't respect you enough to care about you, as a person, if they're not family, cut the cord!
Cut ties with anyone using you. Be it friends or family. You mean nothing to them. You are just a hand out, when they need something. Some won't shed a tear, if you dropped dead.
That's actually sad, tbh. I mean I can understand wanting to do things you enjoy with your significant other but using their birthday to do things for you is sad.
For some people, long term friendships are just not a high priority. Other things are more important to them. Kobe Bryant struggled with maintaining friendships because he preferred to practice basketball rather than hang out with friends. He was a great short term friend, but could never put in the effort to maintain long term friendships.
Whenever you feel obligated to overextend yourself to the point where you’re putting your own self at a disadvantage, just remember that you may be someone’s best option, but you’re not their only option. Let them move on to their plan B.
The first Gentleman is exactly the kind of man most women hope for. Wake up wife, don’t get too full of yourself. There’s always temptation close by. ❤ He deserves better and even though you’re not admitting it, you know that. Selfishness isn’t a trait most men are willing to tolerate!
I ddint want to get out if bed this morning n watched a lot of tv, but still didnt want to get up.. then i saw this show and Steve Harvey and i really got up with a Smile too 😊
😂 I have learned!! We do it big for my birthday 🎉 and he’s come around to travel for his birthday but I make sure no big parties.. he just wants me. ♥️
Damn, you said it all. I'm tired of being the go to sister. I did stop answering the phone. Because my sisters doesn't have anything to do with me unless I'm doing something for them or their kids! I'm really done!
My lesbian two cents......Sis, what is your problem?!?! Your husband seems like a good, loving dude. Take the man out for what HE wants to do, on HIS birthday. Stop being selfish......
I get the feeling they've been together for quite some time so there's probably some kinda deep chemistry that's doing something right, but I get the feeling that the man is just scratching the surface with the whole birthday thing. Just look at her reaction when it's about some of the most basic things to do. She can't even look straight. She's playing games within games and then man just want simple things. That's just nasty.
@@colihon3552 Well I didn't say it was okay, I just saw it from how he explained it. He gives her the money to do these things so she does, right or wrong it depends on her?🤷
Hey Steve, I wish i am in US and attend ur show!! really wish!! If i ever come to US, ur show is at the top of my to do list! Big fan Keep up uncle steve.
Time and time again I see men marry self-centered women so there must be something they like about it. Maybe it's a boost to their ego when they can keep them happy or something. He basically admitted that much when he said he wants to see her smiling before she goes to sleep and when she wakes up. You didn't hear her say that about him, did you?
I have turned off my voicemail along time ago, so no one can leave me a voicemail, and if they try calling me it is up to me if I want to pick up or not 🤣
Terrible and immature advice - next time your friend calls, answer the phone and tell her you can't help her with her trip arrangements. Grown people don't need to hide!
These men enable this selfishness and ignore all the red flags, and then complain when these women Leave them. There is nothing amusing about this man's complacency.
Why are you even making that comment? Steve said up to recently that he and his wife has been together for eighteen years and she has been faithful to him and always has his back? Stay out of people’s relationships.
@@jaykaizen5648 Right!!! "Happy Wife! Happy Life! is a fast track to a divorce. You can't have two people in a marriage, but only one of them actually matters.
I disagree about voice mail. When you have kids or senior parents, you need it. When she was alive my mom couldn't deal with a cell phone at all so couldn't text. I was her caregiver. There ARE emergencies.
This makes me so sad. I try to hard with my partners and they don’t do anything nice for me - and here you have a woman who doesn’t even think of her husband and he adores her? What am I a cow?
lol. No one is listening. Steve told him to get seafood-- the man said he wanted STEAK ! This wife really is selfish. Repeat after me: What do you REALLY want to do for your birthday honey?
Everyone in the comments is so dramatic 😂 relax. They clearly have a better relationship than most of us. If he was that mad, he would've made it a bigger problem than it is. He clearly is in love with this women and is making jokes out of the situation😂 people in the comments saying he should divorce her or she's a narcissist😂😂😂 relax it's not that serious. Why does everyone have to make a mountain out of a mole hill every time 😂😂😂 chill
He seems like an amazing man, and he obviously loves her. I hope she stops taking him for granted. She seems self centered.
she is indeed and realy selfish. even her answers are signs of her personality, thick-headed and hard minded.
Yes, but bet and believe, she's putting it on him in the bedroom
Please treat your husband and make his day about him. Do random gestures for him not just limited to birthdays. He really loves his wife and makes her dreams happen. Time to tick his bucket list.
Probably would be great if he expressed what his bucket list so that she could get to it he should communicate better and stop saying whatever you wanna do dear.
The man doesn't want seafood. He wants STEAK.
ahhahaha... he wanted steak but Steve wanted to hook him up to some gumbo and seafood platter... SIR, QUIT MAKING OTHER PPL HAPPY AND GO AHEAD AND GET YOU SOME DAMNN STEAK THAT YOU DESERVE! :)
She is definitely one with the mindset of "what's mine is mine and what's yours is ours"
what's yours is mine*
Slight correction there.
Selfish.
@@ladennayoung2939 most people are today. Greedy and selfish. They don't care who they hurt along the way as long as they get what they want. Look at Steve's wife. Just sad.
Apparently she doesn’t know how to appreciate her husband…let me tell u something lady…after a while it gets old and someone else is going to snag that good man you have.
That last part. She’s laughing now, but it won’t be funny when he wakes up and treat her the same way.
She's Self Centered.
She for the streets
From a child 🙄🙄
@@pieterhofkens7259you mean your mother?
@@pieterhofkens7259that's what I said lol
she doesnt know how lucky she is... many women would KILL for a man like him
I like the way this man talks, he is so funny.😊
She has a very lovely husband 🎉❤
She doesn’t deserve him tbh
And you do?
He likes that
She is what he likes.
To the lady with the person that only sees her, when she wants something. A lot of adults use people to get what they want, because as children, nobody ever taught them to genuinely care about people, and that life doesn't revolve around them! Never entertainment one sided relationships! If people don't respect you enough to care about you, as a person, if they're not family, cut the cord!
You can cut the cord with the family members as well. Family members are the biggest low lives sometimes.
@@noirnrougenuit9188 OK! Lol!!!
Cut ties with anyone using you. Be it friends or family. You mean nothing to them. You are just a hand out, when they need something. Some won't shed a tear, if you dropped dead.
That's actually sad, tbh. I mean I can understand wanting to do things you enjoy with your significant other but using their birthday to do things for you is sad.
Selfish, selfish, selfish!
Sadly many of these men don’t care. 😂😂 I laughed all through but she needs to calm down.
It is selfish!!
Trying to sound like you are better
How is it sad? Y’all dramatize everything. He can simply say, baby this is what I want to do and it will be done
She is Very Selfish! I am sorry I can't join in her laughter. Her husband deserves some Special Time! No excuses!
I agree. my heart's even breaking at this
"You not getting no damn steak"😅😅😅😅
The wife is extremely spoiled and selfish, plain and simple
Wouldnt be me... the day for non reciprocal relationships are far behind...
Narcissists do this.
He seems like a great guy and she seems very selfish and taking advantage of his niceness smh
Most people that wear mask always seek out those with big hearts. She gonna always get fed and It will never be enough. This is what greed looks like.
I love the block option, God bless the genius behind the invention 😊
Wow what a great guy. I bet he is faithful too . Lady do something nice for him at least once lol
She's very selfish, she needs to think about her husband and do something for him .
Thank you Steve for posting this video today! I was just told that I have a non cancerous brain tumor. This video has really brightened my day!
In my prayers.
@@sr8655 Thank you!
With God all things are possible read Psalm 91
Praying for you
@@MIKA2POWER Thank you!
For some people, long term friendships are just not a high priority. Other things are more important to them. Kobe Bryant struggled with maintaining friendships because he preferred to practice basketball rather than hang out with friends. He was a great short term friend, but could never put in the effort to maintain long term friendships.
Whenever you feel obligated to overextend yourself to the point where you’re putting your own self at a disadvantage, just remember that you may be someone’s best option, but you’re not their only option. Let them move on to their plan B.
He loves her. She keeps him as a pet.
And fellas, that's why you don't marry for looks. She could care less
The first Gentleman is exactly the kind of man most women hope for. Wake up wife, don’t get too full of yourself. There’s always temptation close by. ❤ He deserves better and even though you’re not admitting it, you know that. Selfishness isn’t a trait most men are willing to tolerate!
where do I find me a man like that,bruh? I'm so fr rn!🙄
me too I would treat him and celebrate his birthday the way he wants to celebrate
@@yolandajohnson6894 I'm here for you beautiful
I would celebrate without the wife. Then see how she feel.😊
Blocking phone contacts is one of my specialties...
Thank you Mr.Steve 😊🎉❤
I miss seeing you on television Steve! 🎉
I ddint want to get out if bed this morning n watched a lot of tv, but still didnt want to get up.. then i saw this show and Steve Harvey and i really got up with a Smile too 😊
What is this?
Meanwhile many great women out here are struggling to find a great man.
😂 I have learned!! We do it big for my birthday 🎉 and he’s come around to travel for his birthday but I make sure no big parties.. he just wants me. ♥️
Narcissistic personality disorder. Marriage is supposed to be about both parties.
Damn, you said it all. I'm tired of being the go to sister. I did stop answering the phone. Because my sisters doesn't have anything to do with me unless I'm doing something for them or their kids! I'm really done!
He wanted steak 😅😂 he will never get that steak
My lesbian two cents......Sis, what is your problem?!?! Your husband seems like a good, loving dude. Take the man out for what HE wants to do, on HIS birthday. Stop being selfish......
Cute couple ❤❤. I hope he gets his steak 🥩🥩
I get the feeling they've been together for quite some time so there's probably some kinda deep chemistry that's doing something right, but I get the feeling that the man is just scratching the surface with the whole birthday thing. Just look at her reaction when it's about some of the most basic things to do. She can't even look straight. She's playing games within games and then man just want simple things. That's just nasty.
Using her looks for manipulation poor dude
They allow it.😂
@@elnoawilson101so that makes it ok?
@@colihon3552 Well I didn't say it was okay, I just saw it from how he explained it. He gives her the money to do these things so she does, right or wrong it depends on her?🤷
@@elnoawilson101 u laughed u do think it is no big deal
Seafood?? That man wants steak are yall listening!
She is just selfish!
Self centeredness at its best. This is what happens when you put a woman on a pedestal. Treat yo man right
Part two was it for me!
2:41 it will be 50 years later 😂
She got a birthday. Mine is for me.
This is what happens when you put someone on a pedestal. He signed up for this situation, so he might as well accept it for what it is.
Hey Steve, I wish i am in US and attend ur show!! really wish!! If i ever come to US, ur show is at the top of my to do list! Big fan Keep up uncle steve.
He allowed it that his queen love her so keeping her happy 😊
,your advice is so cool. I go through these problems and have no idea how to solve it. Thank you this works.
What about them text messages lol😂😂😂😂 when yu phone telles you when the other person has read it lol😂😂😂😂
Time and time again I see men marry self-centered women so there must be something they like about it. Maybe it's a boost to their ego when they can keep them happy or something. He basically admitted that much when he said he wants to see her smiling before she goes to sleep and when she wakes up. You didn't hear her say that about him, did you?
1:34 he’s great player 😂😂
Thank you 😂 So good video.
I have turned off my voicemail along time ago, so no one can leave me a voicemail, and if they try calling me it is up to me if I want to pick up or not 🤣
Terrible and immature advice - next time your friend calls, answer the phone and tell her you can't help her with her trip arrangements. Grown people don't need to hide!
She selfish he already knows the problem...One fool asking for advice from another fool.
Naw! She selfish and don't care about him.
Jada behaviour
He need to divorce her bruh. Every yr for his bday she does a bucket list that’s for him but checks it for her ! Man divorce her brotha
If it's been happening for so long and he goes along then it clears works for him...all the best to their relationship 😂
how does it clearly work for him and he is complaining. men don't complain 24/7 like women. now if he cheats on her have that same energy
The girls night for his birthday was utterly selfish. How about a ticket to a football match with his friends 😊
So glad im single
These men enable this selfishness and ignore all the red flags, and then complain when these women
Leave them. There is nothing amusing about this man's complacency.
You not getting no damn steak 😂😂😂😂😂
Send him to Jamaica!!
My first rule of gift giving… never give anything to anyone that you can’t use yourself. 😂
She luck to still have husband.
It's all about her.... his birthday and he pays and does what she wants. Wow!
Block her number.
The 1st she is well taken care of because she has not stop smiling
She is really selfish
He 😽 Whooped
Open your eyes 👀 man
You know Steve it would be nice if your woman Marjorie treated you properly by not cheating on you and I would let her go and never go back to that 🗑️
Why are you even making that comment? Steve said up to recently that he and his wife has been together for eighteen years and she has been faithful to him and always has his back? Stay out of people’s relationships.
Money he has and she takes full advantage real but true
"Happy wife! Happy life! lol 😊
The saying that has set marriage back so long
It should be, “happy home happy life”. The husband has an equal right to be happy as well, not just the wife.
@@lynn7392yep I usually say happy spouse, happy house.
@@jaykaizen5648 Right!!! "Happy Wife! Happy Life! is a fast track to a divorce. You can't have two people in a marriage, but only one of them actually matters.
@@lynn7392 no matter what she's right means she's also never acknowledged if u only give in to appease her.
Steve understand she using him just like she steve gettin used
I understand loving someone but damn man...... 😂
😂😂😂😂😂❤❤our Man❤💪💪💪💪
Oh my God did you all know that 😂😂😂
I disagree about voice mail. When you have kids or senior parents, you need it. When she was alive my mom couldn't deal with a cell phone at all so couldn't text. I was her caregiver. There ARE emergencies.
Thats not a wife. Thats a Golddigger.
A selfish incapable of love or care of another person type.
She is a bad pick.
This makes me so sad. I try to hard with my partners and they don’t do anything nice for me - and here you have a woman who doesn’t even think of her husband and he adores her? What am I a cow?
Shes selfish
He will get tired eventually
Yes...Sounds Kind of Selfish 2 Me. But some Men just love Self-Centered Women Like This Sadly.
I all for love but a sucka I can never be
She aint slick she’s selfish 🙄 nd self centered
he likes her wayyy more than she likes him....she is very self centred
This would be a deal breaker for me. This is selfish as hell.
She don’t care. Better be happy he haven’t added a mistress.
Ive met woman like this too before
lol. No one is listening. Steve told him to get seafood-- the man said he wanted STEAK ! This wife really is selfish. Repeat after me: What do you REALLY want to do for your birthday honey?
Everyone in the comments is so dramatic 😂 relax. They clearly have a better relationship than most of us. If he was that mad, he would've made it a bigger problem than it is. He clearly is in love with this women and is making jokes out of the situation😂 people in the comments saying he should divorce her or she's a narcissist😂😂😂 relax it's not that serious. Why does everyone have to make a mountain out of a mole hill every time 😂😂😂 chill
This is sad , you gotta realize when you being taken advantage of!!
The Way steve entertain His own people And the way he treat White are Difference
Steve and his wife need to keep their affairs to them selves. In the end no one is interested. We all have our own problems.😢
Exactly
It's all in fun
One day he's going to cheat on her