Hey Steve: I'm Not Hiring a HOT Nanny!🔥👱♀️
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Would you hire an attractive nanny to help take care of your kids? This wife is being honest about her insecurities!
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If you’re worried about your husband cheating with the babysitter before a child even exists you probably have issues you need to sort out first.
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💯 truth
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Was about to say that!
its not a walk in a park. There are really divorces from nanny. It depends on the man
One of the Major problems Globally is relationship issues, To experience long life and peaceful marriage, learn from those who have experienced peaceful marriage and have people who their marriage is worth to model around you.
But you must PRACTICE, PRACTICE what you want to experience in your marriage.
I'm willing to bet 50 dollars she is projecting because she finds other men attractive and fanaticizes about it. On top of that, after they agreed on a nanny, she took a long HARD look at herself and realized she isn't 100% wife material.
ahiya huh
2:23
Hey, ladies anyone to know me
Why is there some doubts abt the husband's fidelity even before the nanny is in the picture?
In every relationship there's going to be arguments, smile tears and up & downs, but at the end of the day, if you truly love each other, you'll stick around through Good and Bad..
As a guy we don't need drama. Eventually there's so much you can tolerate until you run out of I'll stick around patience.
@@mahbubmospecially when something from months ago is brought up in an argument
Not through anything. No one should stay and tolerate abuse, cheating, violence.
"The reason you hired a nanny is to keep calm and let the nanny handle it" 🤫
Hire an old woman, that’s it!!!
Well, you saw Arnold's nanny cheat partner...not hot, yet she had Arnold's kid...
Exactly
That divorced guy is really cynical. I've seen him before. I don't think he understands how he himself ended up divorced. Is marriage a lottery, or is it a product of your choices?
Steve was SO shocked by her question. LOL.
Hire a house cleaner…they come and go, a tutor they come and go….it’s challenging having someone live in your house 24/7
What is your job if you are hiring house cleaner? Are you a CEO ? 😂😂😂
@@sweetman5249you don’t have to be a ceo to hire a weekly housekeeper lol. They literally just come in and clean and leave.
I would submit that NO ONE "NEEDS" a nanny. children "NEED" their parents.
Exactly!!
Tell that to the inflation rate. It takes two incomes just to run a household any more, let alone raise kids at an estimated million dollars a kid from 0-18, then college on top of that.
Try having some empathy. Not everyone lives in a picture perfect world.
You're missing the point, a nanny can handle things you are not able to do.
Maybe sometimes a man is attracted to a nanny because she is doing the natural gender role for a traditional family haha.
@@colethornton8077 If there's no trust in the relationship, there's no reason to carry on, divorce and marry the nanny.
Lol people kill me attempting to cheat proof a relationship. People who have poor character will cheat if that’s what they want to do. There’s no way to cheat proof a relationship.
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Well said
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We always talk about the divorce rate, but what is the rate of success in couples who don't marry? There are unmarried mates who last for 20 years and those who only last for 2, just like married couples. The problem isn't marriage but the lack of healthy dynamics within a relationship.
Bro’s advice stank to no end.
1. You hire an old nanny, old enough to be your mother. If he doesn’t have a thing for cougars you’re good
2. If you’re that worried, don’t get a nanny.
An old nanny can't keep up
Am I wierd for wondering how long the lady with the mic can hold her arm out steadily like that? She looks like she stays in shape just to make it look effortless haha.
This is b.s advice. Whether she is ugly or big. If he is going to cheat he will regardless. Also women cheat all the time. Thats a surprise!!!
I hate how everyone acts like men are animals with zero self control, they are fully aware of their actions if they choose to sleep with another woman, they choose the other woman over their wife it’s very simple.
it's one of two things.... either they're just the type who would always have cheated given the opportunity or the wife is slacking and of course a reasonable attractive femine woman coming in will then look tempting
This was a great show, wish it was longer.
She obviously doesn't know ANYTHING about men!
just looking at steve we already know his answer even without changing his looks. straight forward we know what he already thinks....
Did not hear the right answer here.
Discriminating against someone for their looks is not okay. It's shallow and unfair. Hire the best person for your kids.
If you feel that unsafe about your relationship with your husband, maybe work on that.
Your view is PC but somewhat naive. My best friend hired an attractive nanny. After going out one day, she and I walked into her kitchen to find her husband looking out the window, mesmerized by something in their backyard. It was the nanny doing Downward Dog with her butt conveniently pointed to the kitchen window. She was given 2 weeks notice that afternoon. She unsuccessfully sued my friend and her husband. Not worth the hassle.
I would hire the nanny I think is best qualified to take care of my child. If they decide to pursue a relationship then that's on them. They can go. Bye. I wouldn't hire a relative even though there's pros the cons. They won't have that professional boundary, will probably speak about you and what happens in your home to the rest of your family and will feel some sort of entitlement. I'd hire a nanny with an NDA and one i can get rid of as and when I need to. Hiring family is so messy.
So she doesn't trust her husband?? She's the one with the issues, not him
Let me introduce you to Arnold Schwarzenegger! 😈🤣🤣🤣
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Sometimes relative can mess you up Steve 😅
Try relatives with good manners and experience at taking good care of herself and babies. I used a relative and it helped me as a new Mother.
And people say America is the Wonderland... I'm sick of this bs... We are withnesing constant ruining of term "family"... That needs to stop.
She's very very insecure woman *****
I like you Steve Harvey. You're my hero.
Marriage is NOT the LOTTERY!! Marriage is WORK!! INTENTIONAL WORK!! DECIDING to love, forgive etc your partner inspite of them. ONLY that and CHRIST as the center can make it successful.
0:38 A really stupid question and a really intelligent answer.
If your worried about your husband sleeping with a nanny, you probably need to rethink your husband before having a child.
"Relatives tou can trust them" ummm Steve where the hell you been at? I have so many female friends that has these horror stories of being molested by uncles and other family members when they was just little girls. I mean of course not all family members are like this, but I wouldn't go as far as saying you can just completely trust relatives.
Communication. Just thought I'd sum all that up for everyone. You NEED communication or it won't work. Period!😎
I don't like this guy's advice. He's supposed to speak life into people but he speaks nothing but doom. "Marriage is like the lottery and you're probably not going to win." "Divorced people get time away from their kids." Why would you speak so negatively to someone embarking on the already scary journey of marriage? If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. Divorced people don't want time away from their kids! What is wrong with this guy? The worst part of divorce is you don't get to see your kid every night. If you're not heartbroken about that then you probably shouldn't be a parent.
Nico, 9 Months is too soon and also Steve is the wrong person to ask marriage advice from 😂😂😂😂
If he waited for 2 months he would totally ignore everything Steve said
how bout you train/ manage your children to help out with household chores, teach them to respect the family routine, and take time to spend with them doing what they like to do at least once a day. and think twice about what you deem is so important to you.
Steve even relatives nowadays cross the line.... sisters cheats with brother in laws, mothers with son in laws, fathers with daughter in laws, uncle with nieces etc.....I believe it's luck if you find someone genuine who can take the nanny job SERIOUSLY and NOTHING else
Hire a man nanny
Is it me as a man, or are Steve advise crap? The lawyer made so much sense, and I am one of the lucky few who won the lottery after my second try.
Steve is an entertainer. There's a reason why he's more popular than that lawyer guy (I don't even know his name)
Good parenting is a talent ❤❤
Most divorces happen because the wife ages, men are not attracted to them anymore and start window shopping. So marriages are based solely on sexual attraction. Why you want that??? Just have a male friend if you need validation.
Every time i head someone say "being a mother is the hardest job" i cant help but think of Bill Burr lol
Super protective is never make a good person ❤❤
0:36 looking at Steve's reaction, he must be like another idiotic question 😪😪.
There is already a trust issue here, so y the hell get married and start a family..Smh
I'm not from America and love the core principles of the country, freedom, individuality hard work. But it's sad to see how it's widely accepted that marriage is a lottery you PROBABLY won't win.... Like damn. You guys are going into it looking 10 ft below target? I understand how society is there, with freedom comes instability. If there's a choice you'll take the easy way out, if not today then a few years down the line. You give yourself an option to get divorce one day then guess what you WILL.
Steve Harvey ❤❤😂😂
Steve, I hope that you will put in the UA-cam fall videos not short.
This is soooo informative! I just subscribed!
I caught my nanny with my boyfriend. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 60 or older dear
Between my parents and their grandkids are 15 marriages. No divorces. So far 3 grandkids aren't married. Nor am I. I'm 67 and besides working full time, was my parents' 24/7 caregiver for 24 years. My dream was marriage and kids. But the caregiving was necessary. So, at age 67, my dream fizzled. Still, no divorces.
Super protective
First viewer yay 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Are you single?
Can't prevent us men to talk to that nanny. As a man, if I like the nanny, I'm finna talk to the nanny lol.
Well, a cheater would practice infidelity anyway. Why does she have to stereotype a noble profession such as Nanny. Its a cognitive prejudice against all Nannies who have been working sincerely.
No different with secretary nurse house keeper receptionist waitress if hes going to cheat he'll find someone
Bill Burr "Being a mum is the hardest job??""
We have become depressed despite having everything, and this is because we have begun to live contrary to human nature My brother, my sister, I advise you to search for Islam. Only by searching will you find many answers and you will know why we exist in this life and what our goal is, because God did not create us in vain and it was not a coincidence, and why do we die then? God Almighty said: We have not sent down the Qur’an to you so that you should be miserable (Book of Muslims) The Qur’an and Islam are for human happiness, not for their misery
The 3d one- the woman - ,,she was really really sad and damaged,she doesn't have time for herself. Omg ,the mothers aren't robot, pay attention to your wives
Amirahaydar - Jesus is alive. God does not ask us to kill people to “win” life in eternity with Him.
The Only Way to make a marriage work is praying together, read & study the Bible together & live for the Lord Jesus together!! Never rush into a marriage without knowing each other & asking questions; for example, what are your views about God! A Godly marriage is a happy & trusting marriage!! 💞👏🙌🕊
Arnold Schwarzenegger hired an ugly nanny. That didn't work either.
Worst advice I’ve ever heard.
The nanny dont gotta be fine look at Arnold
😂😂😂😂😂
I guess we learned there are jobs where ugly people are better than pretty people😂
First viewer 🎉🎉
Ur husband is Johnny sins and maid violet myers 😂
Problem parrent and child now in West Nepal teenager suicide
Good motivation ❤❤
This is a HAND THAT ROCKS THE CRADLE situation. BE CAREFUL young lady!!!😂😂😂...BUT FOR REAL.
Your children don’t need a nanny. They need parents. The first few years of their lives are extremely important for their healthy development, learning bonding and having healthy attachment. The next few years after that it’s you who teach them about being a good person - honest, kind, empathetic, being responsible, having good work ethics and good moral characters, so on and so forth.
That’s your god-given privilege and rights that no nanny can replace. Why would you want your children to bond with and learn life values from someone else?
Having children is challenging. It’s the most important job in the world. If your career is more important to you, don’t plan to have children. If you want both, then plan better. (1) Be married. (2) Get your spouse to be on the same page with you about issues with taking care and raising kids, it’s a shared responsibility. (3) Discuss this BEFORE having children and have concrete plans.
When you’re making big purchases like a house, a car ect. You’ll discuss that ahead of time, don’t you? Why would you just pop these human beings out without serious consideration?
mostpeople hire relatives as nanny its the perfect solution
It doesn’t matter how ugly a nanny looks. Just look at Arnold’s nanny, he impregnated her regardless of her looks.
Never think, or belive there is a way out of a relationship. The only way out is straight thru. Every change in your lives makes you different people. Spend the time to talk everyday. That's how you stay connected
I love 💕 the financial Wisdom this gentleman gave this lady ! But this lady also needed to help her indebted ex because she enjoyed the extravagant expensive lifestyle and left him in a financial pit. We as women need to own up responsibility for men's financial downfall✌️
BS its not that much work. Just pick your fights or arguments. You don't have to win them all, just the ones that really matter to you and she will understand after losing the last 20 thousand arguments
Enjoy the time with your precious children instead of looking at is as a job. It's special time with them. I had 3 beautiful girls & loved the time with them
Men do not care what you look like hun. You could literally look like a knock kneed, cross eyed, hunchback. They will still blow your back out with the quickness.
Oh lord 😂😂
You need to watch out for the housekeeper too. My brother and his wife's housekeeper ended up murdering the wife and now the housekeeper is shamelessly wearing my sister inlaw's diamond wedding ring and spending her inheritance!
If looks mattered, Arnold Schwarzenegger would have one less Son
No one is safe when is comes to a Nanny. Look at Arnold Schwarzenegger's Nanny? Even still, she was not safe.
The nannies in my country are way different from the nanny in the US I must say 😂😂😂
They are young, uneducated, married with multiple kids, most can’t even care for the house or kids… in most cases we don’t have to worry about them from the aspect of them being hot but that don’t stop some men going after them or vice versa.
STEVE MADE BLACK PEOPLE ACCENT VERY ATTRACTIVE. I AM NOT BLACK BUT WANNA TALK LIKE HIM. HE IS SO FUNNY AND SO SHARP. MARGY IS A LUKY WOMAN
Nobody should be talking about ppl being unattractive.
If marriage is like the lottery, then I wouldn't even bother.
Nanny and Fanny are not attractive. Once there is Fanny whatch out. He is going to steal Fanny😂😂
that questions just shows with that mindset you shouldnt be having children
Haha 😂
Hire a male or a an old nanny. Should solve the problem. If not, well, then you got a whole other set of problems.
Marrying is indeed like the lottery, only downside is if you loose there goes your house, 50% of your assets and pay for a scam called alimony
That lady sounds like she regrets or doesn’t want to be married or have a kid
4:11 don't get married. Marriage give women leverage, don't give her that.
Hire a male nanny.
How about don't have kids until you can look after them. Leave the nannies out of it
This story about Nannie is not a good idea.I had a relative also and I learnt a lesson
Iver 59.or Over 60
When there are other younger women around, the husband is not safe lol