If you haven't walked a mile in another person's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. She isnt doing this interview to be believed by anyone. She is only telling her story.
Birds of the same feather. You don't use children against their father. Regardless of what happened between He needs to know where their children are. He reached out to cover up. I am a woman the father should be in the children's life. If you don't know advise her. They will go through mental health issues. If not now later. If it is in the USA she will go to jail for taking the children away from their father.
@onyinyechinwazue9955, which jail are you talking about? If he is the abuser and it is proved in court, he will not be anywhere near the kids. If they grant him visitation, it will be contact visit.
Exactly. Your dream is you, your purpose,your life.Spouse will fade away , everything fades away but your achievable dreams. Joseph chose his dreams over his brothers and family andeventually got to the topmost. God bless you for this post🙏
Oga Chude, let me tell you something...Emeka carefully picked his victim, groomed her because she was naive and used her to fill his ego and status. She left and he is confused because a narcissist thinks you're their property. Emma saved her own life and we need to stand with her❤. Praying for you sister🎉🎉❤❤
This woman was still a child when she met this man. This is why I don't like grown men talking to little girls. It's very predatory and manipulative. I pray she finds healing and peace🙏🏿🙏🏿
@@sonjas6297They are i am 29 at 18 i dont think the same way that i do now. You can think an 18 years old who are on social medias or are graduates are not kids they are. Maturity indeed comes with age. Although people refuse to use them.
She spent years crying secretly; now she has no tears to waste. She took her time to heal and is still recovering. I pray the Lord perfects her healing.
Thank God for my dad - God rest his beautiful soul - I almost quit my job because it was obviously a bone of contention in my so-called marriage. My dad told me then that it would be the worst decision of my life if I quit my job. Mind you, I was breadwinner and I still am. The so-called husband left when he felt I was ‘growing wings.’ Now I do my breadwinning in peace with my 5 beautiful children.
Simple, consistent, no intent to cast blame, just saying it as it happened while referring to witnesses that saw it, yet appreciating the few good things he did, says it all. 100% truthful.
The only reason her story might not be “100% true” is because she may not have told every evil he did to her. Do you guys understand these psychopaths are mentally ill? Wait until you encounter one then you can have an opinion. I’m also not mad at people trying to fault her cos I believe many of them are just “honestly ignorant “. The truth is there is no way you can understand if you have not either been in super close proximity or experienced it. Narcissists don’t go for “ tear eye” women. They know how to pick their naive targets, then they groom and brainwash you into thinking that abused state is your normal. They start out extra nice , too too nice and then the discard phase is like someone thrust you facedown out of a skyscraper. The emotional and psychological abuse can make a victim suicidal, intentionally ripping them of their self worth. Some never recover . At the very least go and google relationship with a narcissist. Abuse gives them supply and it’s like blood in their system. Take it from me, your superstar is a lying, manipulative, gaslighting narcissist. If you like don’t learn from the experience of others . Wait until you encounter one, God forbid. It’s indescribable, like no one who hasn’t been there will believe it. It’s called Leviathan spirit for a reason.
@@JustinClark-r4zwhat would give anyone the right to maltreat someone? She might have been a "bad" wife but her husband would still be wrong for maltrsating and torturing her
@@Markks100how are you sure of the first story? Every story is valid based on perspective and clearly some people are good at lying and arrogant which you can clearly see in Emeka while this lady spoke about what she did wrong not only what Emeka did but your first story only talked about what she did wrong without acknowledging doing anything wrong! That should be enough clue to you who’s lying. My one cent! I’m not backing any of them by the way!
The moment I listened to Emeka Ike, I knew he was lying. His stories were cut and Join and didn't add up. I just came to listen to the woman to confirm.
My mom married a narcissist, a man I refuse to call father. He drained the essence out of her. My once beautiful mother aged beyond her years. Watching this lady, I see the pain and trauma manifest in her physicality, just like it did in my mum. When you tolerate and endure abuse, in the name of longsuffering and being a good woman, you become haggard. I wish this wonderful lady the very best, going forward!
You're right. You could see she lost a lot of herself because even physically she appears older although she's younger than Emeka. I am glad she has broken the chains of the fear he put her in. That she kept silent for ten years until now is quite serious.
I am going through the same. How did you deal, because it eating me up. I am not allowed to say anything, my mum keeps saying she has to submi. That when I realize that subjugation starts from women. She cant free herself and she is not beign a good role model for her daughters . What do we learn from a mother that believes in women subjugation?
My mom went through the same thing. She's only now starting to take care of herself and pour into herself. She deserves so much more and i pray God restores her fully.
@@annaolokede4582 if its physical abuse report to police or Human rights activistsm if is verbal abuse u guys can deal with that one in as much as u are up to 18
Look at this pretty woman... You could still tell from her tone and countenance.... Anyone who has been through abuse can instantly tell that this woman went through a lot 😢
I have listened to this carefully, and based on my knowledge and experience of narcissism, I can say that this woman has escaped a narcissist and may be more. And usually, narcissists are the first to step out with all manner of lies and play the victim. The woman has suffered. I am glad she finally dared to leave and didn't die in it. She was naive from the age of 18 and she was simply taken advantage of, manipulated and abused. This is a good woman, I bet you that if Emeka hadn't even come out this way, she may never have spoken just to cover up for him and protect her image too. That she had been quiet for ten years is some real self-control but I also see fear. He put fear in her and that silenced her. Narcissists can tell the craziest lies you can ever think of. I am not surprised by the explanation the woman is giving for all the things he said. Both male and female narcissists are very dangerous but I think male narcissists are worse from the experiences I have witnessed.
@@Jooniebug Sadly, there are many men like that. Recently I got to know of some women married to men who beat them and yet it is not so easy for them to separate or divorce. These are educated women oh. Leaving an abusive relationship is not that simple especially when kids are involved and the woman is not financially sound. It is worse in Africa bcos no proper safety social net for victims.
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 I mean for him to be a woman beater he obviously hates women. Even his films in those days were always maltreatment of women. It came so easy for him to act on those roles. I agree with you. He is a liar, manipulator and obviously took control of a younger girl. Do you know what really pisses me off? Is that he came to promote his film in over a decade and instead was still doing his abusive behaviour by lying and angrily talking about Suzanne. How he thinks its OK is beyond me. All he had to do was promote the film. He's an ass.
@@blessedfamily9141 I pray you get the strength to take that decision you need to take for your own safety, happiness and self-worth. That is if you are very sure about what you are dealing with. If you want to have a conversation with me about this, I can give you my email address.
OPEN LETTER TO SUZANNE EMMA From one survivor to another in this our lonely land of survival, my sister, you are a VERY GOOD MOTHER ❤️❤️🙏🏾. You faced domestic violence, and you left to save your life because you were put in a position to preserve it in the very place you are meant to be protected from the whole world. Yet you still compromised with your abuser and left him his kids in recognition of his fatherly role. You even kept quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. Furthermore, you had no time to influence this boy because he was in his father's custody . We did not see anyone put out ring light to speak for your matter. But the moment you saw that the violence had moved from you to the kids ( typical of abusers do to continue the abuse cycle psychologically ,by hurting those you love the most) ,you rightly activitated mother hen protection. Now we see ring light and motivational speakers everywhere, people calling you a bad mother. These were the same people who asked the late Osinachi why she didn't speak out or leave, but we all know in survivor land, that what we have to say society will never be ready to hear . That is because it is either too unimaginable for them to associate with their reality or too uncomfortable to the extent of awakening their own ghosts in their lives. Where there is domestic violence, there comes a time when all conventional family standards and titles such a father, husband, and even human being no longer apply . You are dealing with a PERPETRATOR PERIOD!! If a cooking fire begins to burn the home , it no longer has a relationship with food and nourishment. It is just DANGEROUS FIRE THAT CAN KILL ,SIMPLE!!Did Emeka himself not say in 2016 that if a woman is being abused, ask the children? And now the children are old enough to speak out and she is a bad mother . When a man begins to use his God given leadership as the head of the home, to talk about human life, as if it were that of Christmas chickens, that is a call to preserve life ,not family titles. Remember that it is not marked on anyone's forehead, the one who will wipe their family , when and how they will do it. Those are expensive chances to take .We all know in survivor land that the worst sociopathic/narcissistic rage you can ever trigger in your perpetrator is LEAVING. And the children leaving has enraged this narcissist to unimaginable heights. You have challenged their sense of power . If he can't get you, he will traumatise whoever you love to destroy your soul even by proxy. You would be a bad mother if you had brought all your kids to the interview, but you didn't. You brought a son who has come of age, who has his own victimhood story to tell. Even CHILDREN are victims of domestic violence, but that is also another conversation society is not ready for. You didn't bring your son because of one incident , or one over a day , weeks, or months, but 8 years in your absence. Clearly, we see that he is old enough and has taken it upon himself to assume the fatherly role to protect himself, himself, and the family, something he shouldn't be doing because it goes against the natural order. You should be most proud that as a man, he is questioning his own path . Your lived experience and that of your son is REAL. You deserve to preserve your life as you fit . DON'T ever let anyone make you doubt yourself , and your survival kit . In survivor land we already know that the only respected voice of domestic violence is that of the victims whose stories are told beyond the grave. Don't mind all these people calling you a bad mother. They are waiting to write R.I.P. and shoot videos as one- off motivational speakers, if he finally ends your life.Look at them coming for you now, but they were quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. From all of us at our lonely but authentic, thick skinned survival land , we understand you , we love you, and we are proud of you and your son 👏🏾❤️🫂🙏🏾
If you have never encountered a narcissist, you can't understand her. Being a counsellor, I have come to know them. They always shout the loudest. They always move from one place to another, telling everyone how bad their partners are. The first time I watched Emeka discuss his marriage online, I was able to see through him. This woman is strong, very powerful... many who survive such don't even look this good. Kudos to her supportive family.
Emeka Ike's Ex Wife Suzanne and son Finally speak up: He is a Beast (EMEKA IKE AND SON IN BLOODY CLASH) ua-cam.com/video/tNShpDdDmu0/v-deo.htmlsi=0GS1a2K8c61by-oO ..
As a man, I can boldly say that this woman is indeed every man's dream wife. So beautiful, humble, understanding, intelligent and mature. Some men just don't know how to take care of a "priceless jewel" like this lady. It is so hard to get a very good woman like this these days. God bless her.
@@meekyngum2015it has nothing to do with believing her but it’s the truth, I’ve seen good women marry men who abuse them, sometimes you wonder if being a good woman is even worth it, I don’t think men like good women, they prefer bitches
I'm amazed at how calm she speaks with her story. Listening to her makes me wonder how she coped in her previous marriage for 14 years and is still alive, I thank God she's in good health. That marriage was a movie by itself.
@user-nq4ie2db2n Except that she did not provide police report of when she was beaten and paralyzed! Where is the evidence of she reporting to police and the report of the investigation? Coming online to lie against your ex with zero evidence is stupid!
@@ck-sl3ktyou have to be a child or mentally delayed not to know that many women in abusive relationships struggle to report the abuse because of shame, financial reasons, emotional damage, especially in Africa where we have a patriarchal system. I’m sure people around her were also in her ear. She was also a child who was too young to know better. I hope you grow up and I pray life doesn’t teach you this.
@@ck-sl3kt It appears you are the same with her ex. Did you not hear her say that she presented evidence to the court and that she still kept some? Why does she even need to bring evidence? Was her ex presenting evidence during his own interviews? Just wow..People
@@janetawah How old is the evidence? Evidence that she didn't show us the next day after it happened? Her ex only went to defend himself against a frivolous allegation! For your information, I can never abuse a woman. The day you messed up is the day you move out peacefully or I move out peacefully and both parties are happy! What I hate is a liar who will appear in 2024 and claim she was abused in the year 2010! If you were abused in 2010, what were you still doing in that house the next day?????? Greedy liar does not deserve my respect!
She is so calm, beautiful and polite. Honestly, she went through a lot. The consistency in her story is glaring. She is so intelligent. I pray she heals completely.
She is so calm doesn’t make her a saint. And am not saying she’s right or wrong. Stop seeing peoples calmness as a way that they’re truthful. Amber head on the Jonny Depp divorce case in court, that lady is so calm that you can’t even tell she can hurt a fly but look at the things that were exposed about her and how she abused her ex husband but first lied to the court years earlier he was the abuser. He stayed silent until Years later he sued her with video evidences and the whole world was shocked. To be calm is good but that’s no basis to think someone is honest. Let it sink. Like I said, do not argue me. I didn’t say if she is right or wrong. Am just pointing out your lust in thoughts.
That's exactly the right approach, no one should pronounce her innocent based on her looks, it's a very shallow way of looking at this issue, she could be right or wrong we don't really know@@daprophetmusic9470
@@daprophetmusic9470 people can think and say or express whatever they wish. It is called Freedom of Speech. Who are you to tell anyone what to say and how to say it? That is how such control of others begins. We are all entitled to our opinions, so say nothing instead of saying something unkind to people who make comments here!
@@daprophetmusic9470lol😅 Did you watch the court proceedings of Amber vs Depp. Amber is no where near calm, and anyone who followed could figure out her inconsistencies
I literally tear up watching and listening to this podcast .I see a good and a virtuous woman here💯%, I can easily relate with her story because I have experience how my dad treated my mom badly and still paint a picture of a nice and great man to family and friends. Only those who have walked in this shoes can understand better.Thank God she left on time. You are a strong woman. Lots of 💕💕💕
Or a blend of fabrications and embellishments? I don't believe her, and I also don't believe Emeka. Both of them should be ashamed for not being mature enough to consider the well-being of their children and the repercussions of this shameful public embarrassment.
Crocodile tears! Thank God she held it back. Crying means nothing these days. A lot fake it for sympathy. They should both be ashamed of themselves. Keep ur business private but she chose to slander him by the initial rumours. If he abused you so much, where are the injuries, scars and police report? Why didn’t you involve the police? Lies!!
😢😢I can only imagine her pain. Hearing her narrate all this with so much poise... God please truly heal her from every pain, every tear, every heartache and worry. Kudos to this strong, extremely beautiful and intelligent woman❤
I knew Emeka's story was not adding up from day one. God bless you for speaking up Madam. I believe you and I believe your story, everything about you speaks truth.
Danger of a single story!!! Well done for speaking out. This is you walking out of his jail and finally taking BACK your charge. Congratulations! I believe her 💯💯
As a person that left abusive r/ship with kids, hearing her say she left her marriage because of abuse but still feel abused sounds familiar. From experience, Abuse when they're kids involved doesn't end with divorce, it reduces to an extent but doesn't stop. And she's definitely genuine.
This is why it’s good to hear the 2 sides of the story. We all know she’s telling the truth. This is exactly the way narcissists behave. Now they are divorced, he won’t leave her alone. Mad men everywhere. Say no to drugs
This woman is an epitome of beauty what a goddess, guys when you see a good woman, learn to praise and cherish them cos they are difficult to get these days.❤
@@Officers-Office Actually she does come across as authentic and calm. No one’s talking about the fact this guy was all of 19 years older than her and she was quite young and naive when they got together. He was older, richer, more experienced and super popular- all the odds were in his favor and it appears he didn’t hold back throwing his weight around.. Severally she acknowledged the good the guy did for her but also spoke on the bullying and abuse. I listened to one voice recording of her ex cussing out his son. His harshness and tone of voice and the barrage of curses and threats made me nervous. You can tell he’s a really angry and aggressive and controlling individual. Nobody’s perfect but abuse is another level of twisted. Let’s allow the victim be.
Her story sounds like a Nollywood movie..the ones I scream at the TV while watching. The ones that show how cruel and inhumane a beast can be to a beautiful naive woman. God Bless the 2nd half of her life with Peace & Love.🙏🏽
Amennn. God is fighting her battle and it will end in praise for her. My prayer is that her children will not take the footsteps of Emeka ike the monster
Can y’all really stop. Don’t be dumbbbbb She is so calm doesn’t make her a saint. And am not saying she’s right or wrong. Stop seeing peoples calmness as a way that they’re truthful. Amber head on the Jonny Depp divorce case in court, that lady is so calm that you can’t even tell she can hurt a fly but look at the things that were exposed about her and how she abused her ex husband but first lied to the court years earlier he was the abuser. He stayed silent until Years later he sued her with video evidences and the whole world was shocked. To be calm is good but that’s no basis to think someone is honest. Let it sink. Like I said, do not argue me. I didn’t say if she is right or wrong. Am just pointing out your lust in thoughts
You can tell that he really tried to ruin her life. The thing that annoys me most is that she has never said a word due to how oppressed she felt but he has been talking about her for 10 yrs. So glad that Chude gave her the opportunity to speak up.
And they often need a lot of convincing that emotional and physical abuse in any way, is not acceptable. Once a man puts his hand on you, that is the beginning of the end.
@@ms.b8724And when a woman starts verbally insulting you, that is the end. It goes both ways. Choose wisely before getting into marriage. This is not a man or woman issue, it's the person
It looks to me like Emeka felt insecure around her because she's too beautiful and someone else could take her away if she had become an actress. Parents please let us protect our young daughters from naively falling for the wrong guy. Men please be the first man your daughter has ever loved and be a good example by being the kind of man you want your daughter to fall in love with. This woman didn't see her worth without emeka ❤ She was depending on him and Emeka seemed like a narcissist and he was gaslighting her , killing her self esteem.
@@floBar51651 Yes insecure fathers can transfer their jealousy towards their wives unto their sons if the son is becoming a better man than him. Especially if the son has much better behaviour . Emeka wants to be in control and the boss. So anyone who tries to overshadow him, it hurts his ego. My father in-law was like that towards his children. Such men should seek psychological therapy.
I remember leaving my 12 years hell marriage,i left quietly and no one even knew i left but the abuser and narcissist in him didn't stay quiet so what he said and did was exactly what Mr Emeka is doing and i believe this woman,only those who have gone through this kind of things know.Very sad.Whether they believe you or not,that's your story and God is the only one who saw everything ❤️
Ladies - when your husband tell you not to work, irrespective of how rich he’s, run o. Of course, before you run, make him to realize you want to work. If he still does not agree, run. Those type of men will control you 100% because they know you depend on them financially
@NuratyGiwaSalvador She wasn't silent, she just didn't bring it to the media, unlike Emeka. Listen to grasp, don't listen to contribute. After listening to everything she said, you're still asking such a question? Means you didn't understand anything you watched. Na wa oo
@NuratyGiwaSalvadorare you mad? You're the only insane person in the whole of this comment section. You call a survivor a liar? Is your understanding of English language flawed? Stop being a nuisance and get out of here!
This story is the story of most Nigerian women and some of them die in the process. I honour you for leaving while you're alive....He's insecure, poor and narcissistic
Emeka Ike's Ex Wife Suzanne and son Finally speak up: He is a Beast (EMEKA IKE AND SON IN BLOODY CLASH) ua-cam.com/video/tNShpDdDmu0/v-deo.htmlsi=0GS1a2K8c61by-oO
This whole episode is a teachable moment that you don't have to envy anyone. I will not in a million years think of Emeka in this light, I'm shivering right now, intermittently utering wow wow wow. All that glitters indeed is not gold.
I believe her, if you watched "Gulder ultimate celebrity show down", you'll understand this woman. I saw who most of these so called celebrities are on the show including Chioma Akpota, Princess, Funke Akindele and Daddy showkey.
Without knowing them, I got a glimpse of what the husband said, I haven't listened to the woman's voice but I know he is liar liar pants on fire. I glad this woman is still alive to tell her side for once. Class act.
She kept going back and staying because she was trauma bonded to him. I believe her. It’s very difficult to leave such a relationship. You live with the scar even after you’ve left. I’m proud of this lady’s strength.
I believe this woman breakthrough has come because she found the courage for the world to hear her voice. Thank God she was not broken. Dealing with a narcissist is horrible, if you're not careful and brave you will start believing you are the problem because they like to take all your self-worth. Congratulations to you Suzanne 🎉
That is why is good to hear from both side, when l had the man been interview l don't known that she had to went through all this Is well with you God will help you
Did you live under the same roof with the both of them? If no?, then you must be a dummy and baby adult cause Hmm 👿 can appear calm,smooth talking and innocent
I pray the world would support this woman like May Edochie was supported to use her talent again. This man covered her glory, just like most African or Nigerian men do. God forbid!
When she was describing the hot oil situation and her howling I burst out crying I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. No one deserves this 😢
God forbid! She is lucky she is alive to tell her story. People like Osinachi Nwachukwu have been silenced forever and did not get to tell their ordeal. Nobody should allow another person to mentally and physically torture them this way for years. It is not worth it. If you die…the little children you tried to stay for…they will become motherless or fatherless…as the case may be. Escape and then fight back from outside the danger zone.
I’m glad you came out to speak out,you’re a strong woman,you still maintained a calm posture while narrating your story,to tell you’re indeed a strong woman
Thanks to Chude for giving her the platform to speak up for the first time ever. The annoying thing is that Emeka thought he can still ruin, bully and abuse her AFTER 10 yrs! What an arrogant ass!
@@ebukambakwe5409those who know Emeka know how he is. A friend who lived close to them talked about how he beats his wife black and blue. Even when he was on gulder ultimate search, his behavior was too arrogant
@@olaidejabar4380thank you . I broke up with one recently i noticed he is dating a very young girl now his next victim. I only pray God help her realize on time 😢
Thank you so much Chude for this interview. 👏👏👏👏👏 As I content creator I was really struggling with the story when Emeka said the things in his interview. I really wanted to hear from Emma first before I make a video about it. I’m glad she has finally said her side. When I make videos saying couples should go their separate ways in peace instead of staying together and deleting or harming each other, some people don’t get it. It’s even worst for the children who witness their parenting fíghting. The trauma can last a life time. At the end of the day, like I always say in my videos, ‘having your parents apart but alive is better than one getting kiIIed and the other getting jaíled.
Summer, Emma was a year my junior in FGGC Benin. She was a very well-behaved, quiet, and law-abiding girl, a sweet calm soul. Emeka took advantage of her naivety and abused her. Didn't allow her bloom. Not allowing a woman to work is taking away her financial freedom and the early signs of abuse
Summer please keep it real when you try to analyse this video because you are in the business of jumping ship. We know you also have told a story of your ex abusive husband which made you hate church and men. But please this is different because your Yoruba ex married another person which made you feel bad and it's understandable.
@sissummer# There are so many reasons why some women stay in abusive marriage,Emeka took advantage of Emma because of her humble background, while Emma choose to endure because of not financially capable to move out of the marriage.There are some stories I will hear and I began to wonder if someone people still have a heart??, let's be more of human than man.Marriage is meant to enjoy not to endure!. Am glad she finally speaks out! Adi ebi ikpe na onu ofu onye.!
@@nmd298 I was never married to any abusive person. I’ve never experienced abuse in marriage. NEVER. What is this you’re writing about my “husband marrying someone else”? Wow! you must be mixing me up with someone else.
He married a naive girl he could control the way he wants. When she grew up and fought back for the ill treatments melted on her, he became physically abusive.
He never ' liked' let alone loved her from day one. Being a very mean person cemented it. The poor woman really suffered. It is because of useless people like Emeka, the Western world had to give much power to women. Africa needs to protect women too from a TOXIC relationship...
@@kaizenblue1860 Lesbian women can't even keep their relationship. What are you talking about. Many women who talk about mental and emotional abuse don't think men have feelings. Women can abuse you unknowingly.
I have a first hand experience with an abusive husband. I took it all in without calling the police on him ever. I packed my things one day and left with my two kids without taking anything. When I started talking, he asked me why I didn’t call the police if he ever abused me. With where we stayed, he could’ve lost his job and properties if I had called the police on him. I also didn’t want the people back home to accuse me of destroying his life. Now, he’s out there telling people lies about why I left. Even his 3rd marriage has ended. I have learned to not judge others when they leave their marriage.
I dated a narcissist once. I was barely recognizable at some point in my life. When I tried to leave, he’ll profess love and cry like a child. I relocated and saved myself. I stand with this woman. I’m happily married for 10years to a well raised man and I still pinch myself out of anger for dating that demon. Sis, let him have his pity party.
Chale! Like mine! He'll cry like a fucking baby asking me back. After fucking up a couple more times, 😢 he realised his tricks weren't moving me no more. Almost six years! I still have remnants of the trauma I endured.
Me too. I don't know how God pulled me out of that 1 year of hell. The only saving grace was that I was financially independent and even supporting him.
@@cutandgo good for you. I was a student. He got me at the prime when I was young and naive. He lied about his age. He was approaching his 30s and I wasn’t even 20.
This is soooo my story 😢😢. Met him at 17 (my 1st ever), but it's been torture. I even had suicidal thoughts, so I completely understand all she's saying.
The moment she said drugs it explained his behaviour on his interview. He seriously was twitching like someone with a drug problem. As a survivor myself there is something about survivor vibes and you can tell she is one of us. 10 years of silence is no joke . Emma l would say stay clear as in faaaar away from Emeka because he is now more dangerous than he ever was because you have exposed him
@vickywatt7082 what I told you he threatened and one of the days pursued with a gun for a useless reason I can't even think of,and I have seen smoking hard drug at ojota where some thugs normally gather to settle scores..if you know me,you wouldn't be making funny statements..because He is your celebrity, you want to swallow everything he is pushing out to you abi
I had goosebumps all over me, this woman is an epitome of beauty and a virtuous woman. The tone of her notes is so calming to the soul. God bless you and keep you alive to take care of those kids. Leave that man to his conscience that’s if he has one. Nemesis will catch up with him.
I think Emeka felt he had to speak out on his last interview BECAUSE he knows that there are people who know the truth which will affect the movie he is in. It was a calculated strategy, BUT....he was also spiritually set up by the devil to bring himself down. The producer took a chance on giving him that role which after hearing this interview I am sure she will regret....and to think, from what i understand, Emeka himself was worried about what people will think before accepting the role. That in itself says a lot. This situation is so sad. It makes us realize also how the devil "if allowed," can rubbish the life of someone who is gifted and talented. The behavior that this man brought out did not start with him...I do not think so. Some things are inherited and sadly ignored. This man needs serious help. Great interview. We thank God for keeping this lady alive to tell her story. He will see her and her children through.
Thank you for being the voice of so many woman being abused by their so called husbands. An abusive man is a coward. May God strengthen and help you build your life with your children.
This is sad to hear but am glad she spoke out. I pray my daughter never meet a manipulating man. Glad she left for her own safety and mental health. I believe her. He is still angry at her AFTER 10 years and has the arrogance to think he can still abuse her! You can see that Emeka is arrogant and makes things up as if he were a rich man when he wasn't. Am so happy she's better and her own person. More power to her.
@@doriso6571Yes. Am glad she is alive to speak up. He has been the one talking and very angry with the woman even after she's completely moved on. Even when he was talking in the interview he was still angry and arrogant.
This woman is not lying. She is telling the truth. You must live with a narcissist to understand what she is talking about. I left 4 years ago and still healing after 8 years of living hell. When she said i lost people i felt that because they were scared of him😢😢😢
Im watching this from the UK.Actually im from kenya,and i was married to a kenyan man for 26 years ,he was a narcissist i mean we had everything but he made my life miserable i had to leave.Im a mother of 4 kids.I ren away from kenya to the UK to seek asylum because of the father of my children.Im now safe and been able to reunite with my two youngest kids through the help of British red cross.Every story has an end and if its not working ( marriage)just love yourself and walk away .Happy xmas to you all and God bless!
Ohh poor woman, I’m so sorry you had to go through this. 😢Everyone here believes you and your story. Thank you for coming out to share your story. This will help other women. You’re so strong and loving. I really wish my mother would watch this and make this bold move. He tried to destroy you but you came on top. I hope and pray that you heal . Much love.
Jesus Christ!!! Never been this glued to an interview! She had me sit down and listen, keenly. You are a string woman, ma'am and the lot, here, believe you. Thank God for my father who isn't perfect, but never touched nor verbally abused my Mom.
As a Caribbean woman you & I have lived the life of an abused man for almost 15yrs. I have attempted suicidal twice in the marriage, the most dangerous one was when I was 7months pregnant with my son. But to God be the glory, my children & I are still here.
Remain strong and cling on to God. He will see you through it all. One day, you will look back and be able to help other women get out of the same situation.
@@doriseze1130 Thank you 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. I ran away nine months after my second child was born, went back because my mom was ill, I needed some one to take care of my kids while I go help my siblings take care of my mom. When I got back for my kids he refused me to take my children so I had no choice but to stay, I wasn’t about to leave my kids behind. The second time I had no choice but to be strong, let him know I was leaving and never returned. My kids & I had was to leave because it was getting dangerous for me, & unsafe for my kids. My son will be thirty five on January 16th. Grace kept me Amen
Kaii this woman is honest. Truth. Sometimes don't listen to one sided story. Thank you Chude for putting this up. Such a beautiful woman who has spent all her youthful age wasted.
The boiling oil moment for sent shivers down my spine. What a beautiful & intelligent lady ,narrating her ordeal flawlessly , eloquently & with such consistency that alone proves a point she is 💯 telling the truth.
If you haven’t been in a marriage with a narcissist man please pray you never cross paths with one . She was describing my ex- husband to the tea !! PTSD is real. I feel this woman’s pain. I pray she finds peace in her heart and move on with her life. Enjoy your peace lady . We got your back !!! 💪🏼💪🏽
I now understand where Emeka got his narcissism from. It's in his blood. 😢. I just pitied this woman because she wasted 14years of her life with a narcissist. She got older than her age 😢 because of the abuse. Please ladies aside from other medical tests please make sure you go for mental check-up as well. Please 🙏
3 years since I left my abusive marriage, you doing 10, mama you are strong. I could not do that. The emotional, psychological financial sexual abuse would not allow me do that. You will rebuild your life and all this will end. I pray for God to give you peace and strength in Jesus name. Truely all that glitters I not gold!
He thought she would never speak up. Bravo brave woman! I can only wish her peace and joy moving forward. I only pray this serves as a warning for people who may be about to walk into this same situation and are ignoring the signs. Not everyone lives to tell the story. This interview is enough for the wise.
My eyes is filled with tears😢 even as I listen to you. My dad keep making my mom feel she is small and this has affected us as children. I pray she heals quickly. God will replenish all the lost strength. Bless up
This woman is beautifully pretty,wow,speaks so calmly with intelligence.
If you haven't walked a mile in another person's shoes, keep your opinions to yourself. She isnt doing this interview to be believed by anyone. She is only telling her story.
Period!
Birds of the same feather. You don't use children against their father. Regardless of what happened between He needs to know where their children are. He reached out to cover up. I am a woman the father should be in the children's life. If you don't know advise her. They will go through mental health issues. If not now later. If it is in the USA she will go to jail for taking the children away from their father.
@@onyinyechinwazue9955 ok ma.
@onyinyechinwazue9955, which jail are you talking about? If he is the abuser and it is proved in court, he will not be anywhere near the kids. If they grant him visitation, it will be contact visit.
@@onyinyechinwazue9955 people like you advise people to stay back in abusive relationships.
Never pick a man over your dream. Never😢
Exactly. Your dream is you, your purpose,your life.Spouse will fade away , everything fades away but your achievable dreams.
Joseph chose his dreams over his brothers and family andeventually got to the topmost. God bless you for this post🙏
NEVER OHHHH my dear!!!!!! Cosssss these ninjas ain’t nuuufffffiinnnggg
Most girls dream na man
@@onyekaumeagudosi5674I tell you 😢
And if they don't change that narrative, they will keep suffering and dieing
She can't even shed tears anymore telling her story because tears has finished.
Oga Chude, let me tell you something...Emeka carefully picked his victim, groomed her because she was naive and used her to fill his ego and status. She left and he is confused because a narcissist thinks you're their property. Emma saved her own life and we need to stand with her❤. Praying for you sister🎉🎉❤❤
AMEN & AMEN!! ☝️☝️🙏🙏
Yes yes yes....
I totally agree with you
Perfect description,they usually know how to pick their victims
Listen again. She picked him with the intention of using him to enter the movie industry
I almost got married to a narcissist this December, but I was quick to notice and ran for my dear life.
😂😂 thanks be to God for your life..I too ran for mine this year January
😂😂😂😂
Congratulations my sister
😂😂😂😂 Thank God for you o
Thank God oooo😂😂😂
This woman was still a child when she met this man. This is why I don't like grown men talking to little girls. It's very predatory and manipulative. I pray she finds healing and peace🙏🏿🙏🏿
Grown African men groom young girls
Yes its grooming
@@Windrain321 Exactly...
18 years is not a child. Check it.
@@sonjas6297They are i am 29 at 18 i dont think the same way that i do now.
You can think an 18 years old who are on social medias or are graduates are not kids they are. Maturity indeed comes with age. Although people refuse to use them.
It's only a strong woman that can speak up this way. I admire her strength 😢
Emeka didn't see this coming. He thought she would never speak up 😂. I love her
As a psychologist i can attest shes telling the truth.Her mannerism says it all..I pray she fully heals😢
Yes she is a glorious woman
I hear you
Dropped out psychologist 😂
Nonsense
Such a calm and composed lady.
She spent years crying secretly; now she has no tears to waste. She took her time to heal and is still recovering. I pray the Lord perfects her healing.
True
According to Chude, she cried a lot, broke down many times, but she begged for it to be removed from the video.
@@RachealEde-oh8hk Oh, thanks for clarifying.
@@curlynaijachic4116 🙏
make sure u confirm before u believe
Poor woman. Emeka never loved this woman. He didn’t even deserve her. Thank God she’s free from him.
We did not inherit the silence of our mothers!
Thank God for my dad - God rest his beautiful soul - I almost quit my job because it was obviously a bone of contention in my so-called marriage. My dad told me then that it would be the worst decision of my life if I quit my job. Mind you, I was breadwinner and I still am. The so-called husband left when he felt I was ‘growing wings.’ Now I do my breadwinning in peace with my 5 beautiful children.
Dad really saved you
Wow! Receive the grace to raise your kids in Jesus name 🙏
Best thing I have ever heard. God bless you and your kids
That the best dad ever did for you can we speak privately
I'm so happy for you! 🙏
Simple, consistent, no intent to cast blame, just saying it as it happened while referring to witnesses that saw it, yet appreciating the few good things he did, says it all. 100% truthful.
Exactly
Exactly 💯 %
She even said 'My husband' in part of her references, I feel she's saying some truth
Her composure suggests she could be speaking the truth, but to say "100% truthful" could be a little bit of an exaggeration.
Bam. Lie can easily be predicted but you can feel the truth 😢😢
Anybody, I don't care who, that tells a woman, or their wife not to go after their dream or goals is a witch or wizard. Periodt.
I attended same church with this lady and i will tell you for a fact that she values herself, her children and she is highly sophisticated.
Do u think what she's saying is true pls....just asking
Everything might not be truth, she is acting like a saint
@@kursbella978Thank God you said 'think' and not know for sure... nobody is 100% guilt free but she is telling more of the truth in this scenario
The only reason her story might not be “100% true” is because she may not have told every evil he did to her. Do you guys understand these psychopaths are mentally ill? Wait until you encounter one then you can have an opinion. I’m also not mad at people trying to fault her cos I believe many of them are just “honestly ignorant “. The truth is there is no way you can understand if you have not either been in super close proximity or experienced it. Narcissists don’t go for “ tear eye” women. They know how to pick their naive targets, then they groom and brainwash you into thinking that abused state is your normal. They start out extra nice , too too nice and then the discard phase is like someone thrust you facedown out of a skyscraper. The emotional and psychological abuse can make a victim suicidal, intentionally ripping them of their self worth. Some never recover . At the very least go and google relationship with a narcissist. Abuse gives them supply and it’s like blood in their system. Take it from me, your superstar is a lying, manipulative, gaslighting narcissist. If you like don’t learn from the experience of others . Wait until you encounter one, God forbid. It’s indescribable, like no one who hasn’t been there will believe it. It’s called Leviathan spirit for a reason.
@@JustinClark-r4zwhat would give anyone the right to maltreat someone? She might have been a "bad" wife but her husband would still be wrong for maltrsating and torturing her
This is why it is dangerous to listen to a one sided story. Am glad she is saying her bit.
One sided story is bad.
but how are you sure of this new story?
@@Markks100just google their name . You will see their court case. It trended years ago.
@@Markks100how are you sure of the first story? Every story is valid based on perspective and clearly some people are good at lying and arrogant which you can clearly see in Emeka while this lady spoke about what she did wrong not only what Emeka did but your first story only talked about what she did wrong without acknowledging doing anything wrong! That should be enough clue to you who’s lying. My one cent! I’m not backing any of them by the way!
The moment I listened to Emeka Ike, I knew he was lying. His stories were cut and Join and didn't add up. I just came to listen to the woman to confirm.
My mom married a narcissist, a man I refuse to call father. He drained the essence out of her. My once beautiful mother aged beyond her years. Watching this lady, I see the pain and trauma manifest in her physicality, just like it did in my mum. When you tolerate and endure abuse, in the name of longsuffering and being a good woman, you become haggard. I wish this wonderful lady the very best, going forward!
You're right. You could see she lost a lot of herself because even physically she appears older although she's younger than Emeka. I am glad she has broken the chains of the fear he put her in. That she kept silent for ten years until now is quite serious.
I am going through the same. How did you deal, because it eating me up. I am not allowed to say anything, my mum keeps saying she has to submi. That when I realize that subjugation starts from women. She cant free herself and she is not beign a good role model for her daughters . What do we learn from a mother that believes in women subjugation?
My mom went through the same thing. She's only now starting to take care of herself and pour into herself. She deserves so much more and i pray God restores her fully.
@@annaolokede4582 if its physical abuse report to police or Human rights activistsm if is verbal abuse u guys can deal with that one in as much as u are up to 18
Same with me and my mom. My mom suffered for years because she loved the wrong man.
Look at this pretty woman... You could still tell from her tone and countenance.... Anyone who has been through abuse can instantly tell that this woman went through a lot 😢
How ??? What makes you think she's telling the truth?
Oga your type can easily get deceived by women like this. This woman is a pure definition of devil 😈
@@ChristianIsaac-xx1vtit’s not hard to tell who is a liar
I believe this woman!!! The abuser is quick to come cry victim. We can see through abusers. It shows.
And let me include this “I’m so glad you spoke out!!!” Thank you! Thank you!
Absolutely
Certainly. He is a jerk
Great Insight,it's always that way 💜
Absolutely I believe every word
I BELIEVE HER 100%!!!!
Me too
Exactly
Me too 😢
I have listened to this carefully, and based on my knowledge and experience of narcissism, I can say that this woman has escaped a narcissist and may be more. And usually, narcissists are the first to step out with all manner of lies and play the victim. The woman has suffered. I am glad she finally dared to leave and didn't die in it. She was naive from the age of 18 and she was simply taken advantage of, manipulated and abused. This is a good woman, I bet you that if Emeka hadn't even come out this way, she may never have spoken just to cover up for him and protect her image too. That she had been quiet for ten years is some real self-control but I also see fear. He put fear in her and that silenced her. Narcissists can tell the craziest lies you can ever think of. I am not surprised by the explanation the woman is giving for all the things he said. Both male and female narcissists are very dangerous but I think male narcissists are worse from the experiences I have witnessed.
Chude gave her the platform to speak up for the first time. Emeka was horrible to her. He seems to be a woman hater.
@@Jooniebug Sadly, there are many men like that. Recently I got to know of some women married to men who beat them and yet it is not so easy for them to separate or divorce. These are educated women oh. Leaving an abusive relationship is not that simple especially when kids are involved and the woman is not financially sound. It is worse in Africa bcos no proper safety social net for victims.
@ebenezernewmannafanyidadzi8473 I mean for him to be a woman beater he obviously hates women. Even his films in those days were always maltreatment of women. It came so easy for him to act on those roles. I agree with you. He is a liar, manipulator and obviously took control of a younger girl. Do you know what really pisses me off? Is that he came to promote his film in over a decade and instead was still doing his abusive behaviour by lying and angrily talking about Suzanne. How he thinks its OK is beyond me. All he had to do was promote the film. He's an ass.
I am married to a Narcissistic the pain is too much to handle 😢
@@blessedfamily9141 I pray you get the strength to take that decision you need to take for your own safety, happiness and self-worth. That is if you are very sure about what you are dealing with. If you want to have a conversation with me about this, I can give you my email address.
OPEN LETTER TO SUZANNE EMMA
From one survivor to another in this our lonely land of survival, my sister, you are a VERY GOOD MOTHER ❤️❤️🙏🏾. You faced domestic violence, and you left to save your life because you were put in a position to preserve it in the very place you are meant to be protected from the whole world. Yet you still compromised with your abuser and left him his kids in recognition of his fatherly role. You even kept quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. Furthermore, you had no time to influence this boy because he was in his father's custody . We did not see anyone put out ring light to speak for your matter. But the moment you saw that the violence had moved from you to the kids ( typical of abusers do to continue the abuse cycle psychologically ,by hurting those you love the most) ,you rightly activitated mother hen protection. Now we see ring light and motivational speakers everywhere, people calling you a bad mother. These were the same people who asked the late Osinachi why she didn't speak out or leave, but we all know in survivor land, that what we have to say society will never be ready to hear . That is because it is either too unimaginable for them to associate with their reality or too uncomfortable to the extent of awakening their own ghosts in their lives. Where there is domestic violence, there comes a time when all conventional family standards and titles such a father, husband, and even human being no longer apply . You are dealing with a PERPETRATOR PERIOD!! If a cooking fire begins to burn the home , it no longer has a relationship with food and nourishment. It is just DANGEROUS FIRE THAT CAN KILL ,SIMPLE!!Did Emeka himself not say in 2016 that if a woman is being abused, ask the children? And now the children are old enough to speak out and she is a bad mother . When a man begins to use his God given leadership as the head of the home, to talk about human life, as if it were that of Christmas chickens, that is a call to preserve life ,not family titles. Remember that it is not marked on anyone's forehead, the one who will wipe their family , when and how they will do it. Those are expensive chances to take .We all know in survivor land that the worst sociopathic/narcissistic rage you can ever trigger in your perpetrator is LEAVING. And the children leaving has enraged this narcissist to unimaginable heights. You have challenged their sense of power . If he can't get you, he will traumatise whoever you love to destroy your soul even by proxy. You would be a bad mother if you had brought all your kids to the interview, but you didn't. You brought a son who has come of age, who has his own victimhood story to tell. Even CHILDREN are victims of domestic violence, but that is also another conversation society is not ready for. You didn't bring your son because of one incident , or one over a day , weeks, or months, but 8 years in your absence. Clearly, we see that he is old enough and has taken it upon himself to assume the fatherly role to protect himself, himself, and the family, something he shouldn't be doing because it goes against the natural order. You should be most proud that as a man, he is questioning his own path . Your lived experience and that of your son is REAL. You deserve to preserve your life as you fit . DON'T ever let anyone make you doubt yourself , and your survival kit . In survivor land we already know that the only respected voice of domestic violence is that of the victims whose stories are told beyond the grave. Don't mind all these people calling you a bad mother. They are waiting to write R.I.P. and shoot videos as one- off motivational speakers, if he finally ends your life.Look at them coming for you now, but they were quiet as he slandered you for 10 years. From all of us at our lonely but authentic, thick skinned survival land , we understand you , we love you, and we are proud of you and your son 👏🏾❤️🫂🙏🏾
Thank you for this
Very powerful @@EmiliaObiedelu
Very powerful letter
Haha ha 😂😂😂😂this is long
@zainabuthman4660 that's why it's called a letter 🤷🏾♀️🤔
If you have never encountered a narcissist, you can't understand her. Being a counsellor, I have come to know them. They always shout the loudest. They always move from one place to another, telling everyone how bad their partners are. The first time I watched Emeka discuss his marriage online, I was able to see through him. This woman is strong, very powerful... many who survive such don't even look this good. Kudos to her supportive family.
Only them know the truth.
He says she says are never true. Everyone would tell the story to favour themselves…
Stop running into conclusion.
Emeka Ike's Ex Wife Suzanne and son Finally speak up: He is a Beast
(EMEKA IKE AND SON IN BLOODY CLASH)
ua-cam.com/video/tNShpDdDmu0/v-deo.htmlsi=0GS1a2K8c61by-oO ..
Lol this woman is strong very powerful 😅😅😅😅. Who be this one self. Probably single mother and alone
Fact
@@afromedia710absolutely true. 3 sides to a story: his, hers and the truth- which we may never know.
As a man, I can boldly say that this woman is indeed every man's dream wife. So beautiful, humble, understanding, intelligent and mature. Some men just don't know how to take care of a "priceless jewel" like this lady. It is so hard to get a very good woman like this these days. God bless her.
And so beautiful 😢
Stop being naive. You know absolutely nothing about her.
@@meekyngum2015
Do you
@@meekyngum2015
You tell us since you know.😏
@@meekyngum2015it has nothing to do with believing her but it’s the truth, I’ve seen good women marry men who abuse them, sometimes you wonder if being a good woman is even worth it, I don’t think men like good women, they prefer bitches
Did anyone else notice the pain and honesty in her eyes?
Am telling u.
I'm amazed at how calm she speaks with her story. Listening to her makes me wonder how she coped in her previous marriage for 14 years and is still alive, I thank God she's in good health. That marriage was a movie by itself.
Emma,was my class mate in secondary school,she was so young when she married him and she is telling the truth
@user-nq4ie2db2n Except that she did not provide police report of when she was beaten and paralyzed! Where is the evidence of she reporting to police and the report of the investigation? Coming online to lie against your ex with zero evidence is stupid!
Imagine
@@ck-sl3ktyou have to be a child or mentally delayed not to know that many women in abusive relationships struggle to report the abuse because of shame,
financial reasons, emotional damage, especially in Africa where we have a patriarchal system. I’m sure people around her were also in her ear. She was also a child who was too young to know better. I hope you grow up and I pray life doesn’t teach you this.
@@ck-sl3kt It appears you are the same with her ex. Did you not hear her say that she presented evidence to the court and that she still kept some? Why does she even need to bring evidence? Was her ex presenting evidence during his own interviews? Just wow..People
@@janetawah How old is the evidence? Evidence that she didn't show us the next day after it happened? Her ex only went to defend himself against a frivolous allegation! For your information, I can never abuse a woman. The day you messed up is the day you move out peacefully or I move out peacefully and both parties are happy! What I hate is a liar who will appear in 2024 and claim she was abused in the year 2010! If you were abused in 2010, what were you still doing in that house the next day?????? Greedy liar does not deserve my respect!
She is so calm, beautiful and polite. Honestly, she went through a lot. The consistency in her story is glaring. She is so intelligent. I pray she heals completely.
She is so calm doesn’t make her a saint. And am not saying she’s right or wrong. Stop seeing peoples calmness as a way that they’re truthful. Amber head on the Jonny Depp divorce case in court, that lady is so calm that you can’t even tell she can hurt a fly but look at the things that were exposed about her and how she abused her ex husband but first lied to the court years earlier he was the abuser. He stayed silent until Years later he sued her with video evidences and the whole world was shocked. To be calm is good but that’s no basis to think someone is honest. Let it sink. Like I said, do not argue me. I didn’t say if she is right or wrong. Am just pointing out your lust in thoughts.
Thats narcissistic…I had an experience and am still healing so I believe her ..they are the most dangerous to live with
That's exactly the right approach, no one should pronounce her innocent based on her looks, it's a very shallow way of looking at this issue, she could be right or wrong we don't really know@@daprophetmusic9470
@@daprophetmusic9470 people can think and say or express whatever they wish. It is called Freedom of Speech. Who are you to tell anyone what to say and how to say it? That is how such control of others begins. We are all entitled to our opinions, so say nothing instead of saying something unkind to people who make comments here!
@@daprophetmusic9470lol😅 Did you watch the court proceedings of Amber vs Depp. Amber is no where near calm, and anyone who followed could figure out her inconsistencies
He stole her youth, traumatized her and left her to deal with what’s left of what he’s done using of her. Such a painful and regretful experience.
So sad 😢
Such a beautiful woman
No one deserves to live an abusive life
Fear Emeka the slow poison
Exactly,18ys old she is naive kid
I literally tear up watching and listening to this podcast .I see a good and a virtuous woman here💯%, I can easily relate with her story because I have experience how my dad treated my mom badly and still paint a picture of a nice and great man to family and friends. Only those who have walked in this shoes can understand better.Thank God she left on time. You are a strong woman. Lots of 💕💕💕
She is lucky
The poise, demeanor of this lady is world class....makes her believable
Emma was so gentle and loving.
I believe her to the core.He just took advantage of her
Ladies speak out
✅✅✅
Yes let speak out even though Counselors will say that we shouldn't talk
Exactly,she was 18 when she move in with him,naive yound kid
This woman is strong enough to have held back her tears.
I tell you !!!
Exactly my thoughts
Or a blend of fabrications and embellishments? I don't believe her, and I also don't believe Emeka. Both of them should be ashamed for not being mature enough to consider the well-being of their children and the repercussions of this shameful public embarrassment.
Crocodile tears! Thank God she held it back. Crying means nothing these days. A lot fake it for sympathy.
They should both be ashamed of themselves. Keep ur business private but she chose to slander him by the initial rumours.
If he abused you so much, where are the injuries, scars and police report? Why didn’t you involve the police? Lies!!
Her story is a story
😢😢I can only imagine her pain. Hearing her narrate all this with so much poise... God please truly heal her from every pain, every tear, every heartache and worry. Kudos to this strong, extremely beautiful and intelligent woman❤
I knew Emeka's story was not adding up from day one. God bless you for speaking up Madam. I believe you and I believe your story, everything about you speaks truth.
Danger of a single story!!! Well done for speaking out. This is you walking out of his jail and finally taking BACK your charge. Congratulations! I believe her 💯💯
Exactlyyyyy, Chimamanda said it all!
He got you the moment you left your dreams to be with him.
FACTS😢
Facts!!!!
As a person that left abusive r/ship with kids, hearing her say she left her marriage because of abuse but still feel abused sounds familiar. From experience, Abuse when they're kids involved doesn't end with divorce, it reduces to an extent but doesn't stop. And she's definitely genuine.
Nobody buried my mother with me...😢😢😢😢😢...this is so heartbreaking...she has been through it all..Her strength alone is a big miracle.
This is why it’s good to hear the 2 sides of the story. We all know she’s telling the truth. This is exactly the way narcissists behave. Now they are divorced, he won’t leave her alone. Mad men everywhere. Say no to drugs
Exactly 😢
Yes, the drugs mix sways the pendulum madly against Emeka.
Did you ever live with them to know who’s speaking the truth?
@@missjenn6861 Excellent question!👍🏾
Have you live under the same roof with them? Group of dummies 😅
She speaks so calmly……and intelligently show how much of a kind soul she’s 😭
This woman is an epitome of beauty what a goddess, guys when you see a good woman, learn to praise and cherish them cos they are difficult to get these days.❤
How you people can conclude on issues base on a persons outlook and one time demeanor
@@Officers-Office Actually she does come across as authentic and calm. No one’s talking about the fact this guy was all of 19 years older than her and she was quite young and naive when they got together. He was older, richer, more experienced and super popular- all the odds were in his favor and it appears he didn’t hold back throwing his weight around.. Severally she acknowledged the good the guy did for her but also spoke on the bullying and abuse. I listened to one voice recording of her ex cussing out his son. His harshness and tone of voice and the barrage of curses and threats made me nervous. You can tell he’s a really angry and aggressive and controlling individual. Nobody’s perfect but abuse is another level of twisted. Let’s allow the victim be.
they have never seen a calm person that can do the unimaginable. I am not siding tho, but they should calm down with their sidings.@@Officers-Office
Her voice still has emotions. She is very hurts even traumatized
Her story sounds like a Nollywood movie..the ones I scream at the TV while watching. The ones that show how cruel and inhumane a beast can be to a beautiful naive woman. God Bless the 2nd half of her life with Peace & Love.🙏🏽
Amennn. God is fighting her battle and it will end in praise for her. My prayer is that her children will not take the footsteps of Emeka ike the monster
This woman's calmess is out of this world. So soft spoken. May God heal you completely and restore all you have lost.
Not blaming her… but being soft spoken does not depict being kind… naturally soft spoken people sometimes do trigger people who aren’t
Can y’all really stop. Don’t be dumbbbbb
She is so calm doesn’t make her a saint. And am not saying she’s right or wrong. Stop seeing peoples calmness as a way that they’re truthful. Amber head on the Jonny Depp divorce case in court, that lady is so calm that you can’t even tell she can hurt a fly but look at the things that were exposed about her and how she abused her ex husband but first lied to the court years earlier he was the abuser. He stayed silent until Years later he sued her with video evidences and the whole world was shocked. To be calm is good but that’s no basis to think someone is honest. Let it sink. Like I said, do not argue me. I didn’t say if she is right or wrong. Am just pointing out your lust in thoughts
@@daprophetmusic9470 Certain people are naturally calm, has nothing to do with their character.
very true, being soft-spoken atimes can be a manipulative tool, no one should jump into believing any of them, looks and perception can be deceiving
Amen
She is a strong woman for speaking up. You are empowering other women to have the power to leave abusive marriages/ relationships.
You can tell that he really tried to ruin her life. The thing that annoys me most is that she has never said a word due to how oppressed she felt but he has been talking about her for 10 yrs. So glad that Chude gave her the opportunity to speak up.
And they often need a lot of convincing that emotional and physical abuse in any way, is not acceptable. Once a man puts his hand on you, that is the beginning of the end.
@@ms.b8724And when a woman starts verbally insulting you, that is the end. It goes both ways. Choose wisely before getting into marriage. This is not a man or woman issue, it's the person
Honestly
You girls should stop chasing a man because of his fame, financial status and materialism
It looks to me like Emeka felt insecure around her because she's too beautiful and someone else could take her away if she had become an actress. Parents please let us protect our young daughters from naively falling for the wrong guy. Men please be the first man your daughter has ever loved and be a good example by being the kind of man you want your daughter to fall in love with. This woman didn't see her worth without emeka ❤ She was depending on him and Emeka seemed like a narcissist and he was gaslighting her , killing her self esteem.
Exactly ❤
No, Emeka has skoi skoi, anger, aggression, ego, etc. Is he also jealous of his son? No, that's just who he is.
@@floBar51651 Yes insecure fathers can transfer their jealousy towards their wives unto their sons if the son is becoming a better man than him. Especially if the son has much better behaviour . Emeka wants to be in control and the boss. So anyone who tries to overshadow him, it hurts his ego.
My father in-law was like that towards his children. Such men should seek psychological therapy.
Spot on!!!!…he has low self esteem…your supposed to celebrate and protect your beautiful and gifted wife …msn I don’t get it ..
I remember leaving my 12 years hell marriage,i left quietly and no one even knew i left but the abuser and narcissist in him didn't stay quiet so what he said and did was exactly what Mr Emeka is doing and i believe this woman,only those who have gone through this kind of things know.Very sad.Whether they believe you or not,that's your story and God is the only one who saw everything ❤️
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You can very right
U are absolutely right
I am glad you are safe darling , it's only those who wore the shoes will understand
May the Lord Bless you and comfort you❤
What a humble woman I pray God will come through for you
Ladies - when your husband tell you not to work, irrespective of how rich he’s, run o. Of course, before you run, make him to realize you want to work. If he still does not agree, run. Those type of men will control you 100% because they know you depend on them financially
You are mental, you keep posting the same rubbish in people's comments. who send you, comot for here.@NuratyGiwaSalvador
Walahi
@NuratyGiwaSalvador She wasn't silent, she just didn't bring it to the media, unlike Emeka. Listen to grasp, don't listen to contribute. After listening to everything she said, you're still asking such a question? Means you didn't understand anything you watched. Na wa oo
@NuratyGiwaSalvadorare you mad? You're the only insane person in the whole of this comment section. You call a survivor a liar? Is your understanding of English language flawed? Stop being a nuisance and get out of here!
Its true. All the women where the husband doesn't want her to wotk
are in terrible marrisges
This story is the story of most Nigerian women and some of them die in the process. I honour you for leaving while you're alive....He's insecure, poor and narcissistic
@NuratyGiwaSalvadorshut up
@NuratyGiwaSalvadoru are mad
@NuratyGiwaSalvadorwomen remain silent for years not everyone is a loud mouth
@NuratyGiwaSalvadorit will be a blessing to get a woman like that than a vile man like Emeka
This woman dey lie
Jesus for all the while u where married it happened with you doing anything?
U dey lie
Can we all take a moment to acknowledge her beauty?
It is evergreen!❤
She is gorgeous and a sweet soul mainly looking at her. Emeka messed up as a man.
So calm well mannered, may God bless her
This woman is so soft spoken. No doubt there would be some epitome of truth in her story.
The womans story is soo straight forward, no crocodile tears, Emeka is disappointed the lady has grown and has moved on!
Emeka Ike's Ex Wife Suzanne and son Finally speak up: He is a Beast
(EMEKA IKE AND SON IN BLOODY CLASH)
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She would have been more if she didn't meet him.
This whole episode is a teachable moment that you don't have to envy anyone. I will not in a million years think of Emeka in this light, I'm shivering right now, intermittently utering wow wow wow. All that glitters indeed is not gold.
I have always perceived his personality even from his movies. His demeanor says it all. He only confirmed my suspicion
😳all that glitters are not gold,hmmm
Same here 🤦♀️🤦♀️
swrs
I believe her, if you watched "Gulder ultimate celebrity show down", you'll understand this woman. I saw who most of these so called celebrities are on the show including Chioma Akpota, Princess, Funke Akindele and Daddy showkey.
Without knowing them, I got a glimpse of what the husband said, I haven't listened to the woman's voice but I know he is liar liar pants on fire. I glad this woman is still alive to tell her side for once. Class act.
Exactly
The best decision Emma ever made was leaving her abusive marriage i believe her 💯%
She kept going back and staying because she was trauma bonded to him. I believe her. It’s very difficult to leave such a relationship. You live with the scar even after you’ve left. I’m proud of this lady’s strength.
Some dont even have where to go if they decide to leave
Absolutely true , I was trauma bonded to mine
You know!
Yes
The fear of restarting by yourself. May God heal us all
It’s how she’s still so soft and graceful for me ❤
I believe this woman breakthrough has come because she found the courage for the world to hear her voice. Thank God she was not broken. Dealing with a narcissist is horrible, if you're not careful and brave you will start believing you are the problem because they like to take all your self-worth. Congratulations to you Suzanne 🎉
That is why is good to hear from both side, when l had the man been interview l don't known that she had to went through all this Is well with you God will help you
My sister in fact this woman pass true a lot
Did you live under the same roof with the both of them? If no?, then you must be a dummy and baby adult cause Hmm 👿 can appear calm,smooth talking and innocent
I pray the world would support this woman like May Edochie was supported to use her talent again. This man covered her glory, just like most African or Nigerian men do. God forbid!
Awww,true talk laaa
She kept coming back because it's familiar...and that's what we humans do; we go back to what's familiar because of the fear of the unknown.
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hmmm😐
Trauma bonding
That's so true....but am happy I am not like that...I don't compromise...I rather be alone than in a relationship.
Yeah.
When she was describing the hot oil situation and her howling I burst out crying
I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. No one deserves this 😢
I went through this threat of hot oil bathing 😢
Did u listen to Emeka Ike's PA?
Cry well
Was there an oil scar?
@@rolandnatmia5754Leave them to keep believing some of her lies.
God forbid! She is lucky she is alive to tell her story.
People like Osinachi Nwachukwu have been silenced forever and did not get to tell their ordeal.
Nobody should allow another person to mentally and physically torture them this way for years.
It is not worth it. If you die…the little children you tried to stay for…they will become motherless or fatherless…as the case may be.
Escape and then fight back from outside the danger zone.
When I heard emeka’s story, I was like I will only hear the woman’s side to believe it. Thanks God she finally came out
I’m glad you came out to speak out,you’re a strong woman,you still maintained a calm posture while narrating your story,to tell you’re indeed a strong woman
Thanks to Chude for giving her the platform to speak up for the first time ever. The annoying thing is that Emeka thought he can still ruin, bully and abuse her AFTER 10 yrs! What an arrogant ass!
I knew from his interviews that he’s a narcissist
Lmaoo
I believe all the things this lady said 100%, because this lifestyle she describes fit him perfectly
So you just heard and concluded
So who do we believe now but how can 2 people come out with 2 different storyline
I believe her 💯 men like this go for younger girls so they can control them is only sadistic men that does that then cry out, as the victim.
@@ebukambakwe5409those who know Emeka know how he is. A friend who lived close to them talked about how he beats his wife black and blue. Even when he was on gulder ultimate search, his behavior was too arrogant
@@olaidejabar4380thank you . I broke up with one recently i noticed he is dating a very young girl now his next victim. I only pray God help her realize on time 😢
Thank you so much Chude for this interview. 👏👏👏👏👏
As I content creator I was really struggling with the story when Emeka said the things in his interview. I really wanted to hear from Emma first before I make a video about it. I’m glad she has finally said her side.
When I make videos saying couples should go their separate ways in peace instead of staying together and deleting or harming each other, some people don’t get it.
It’s even worst for the children who witness their parenting fíghting. The trauma can last a life time.
At the end of the day, like I always say in my videos, ‘having your parents apart but alive is better than one getting kiIIed and the other getting jaíled.
Summer, Emma was a year my junior in FGGC Benin. She was a very well-behaved, quiet, and law-abiding girl, a sweet calm soul. Emeka took advantage of her naivety and abused her. Didn't allow her bloom. Not allowing a woman to work is taking away her financial freedom and the early signs of abuse
Summer please keep it real when you try to analyse this video because you are in the business of jumping ship. We know you also have told a story of your ex abusive husband which made you hate church and men. But please this is different because your Yoruba ex married another person which made you feel bad and it's understandable.
@sissummer# There are so many reasons why some women stay in abusive marriage,Emeka took advantage of Emma because of her humble background, while Emma choose to endure because of not financially capable to move out of the marriage.There are some stories I will hear and I began to wonder if someone people still have a heart??, let's be more of human than man.Marriage is meant to enjoy not to endure!.
Am glad she finally speaks out! Adi ebi ikpe na onu ofu onye.!
@@nmd298
I was never married to any abusive person. I’ve never experienced abuse in marriage. NEVER.
What is this you’re writing about my “husband marrying someone else”?
Wow! you must be mixing me up with someone else.
@@Necky.NNne, true. It’s a good thing she spoke her side of the story.
She could have actually won Miss Nigeria🥺. Decades after she still looks this beautiful,despite everything she's been through
Thank you Emma for speaking up. This woman is beautiFUL!!!
He married a naive girl he could control the way he wants. When she grew up and fought back for the ill treatments melted on her, he became physically abusive.
Her story is my story...nuff respect to her for telling her truth.
He never ' liked' let alone loved her from day one. Being a very mean person cemented it. The poor woman really suffered. It is because of useless people like Emeka, the Western world had to give much power to women. Africa needs to protect women too from a TOXIC relationship...
@@kaizenblue1860 Lesbian women can't even keep their relationship. What are you talking about.
Many women who talk about mental and emotional abuse don't think men have feelings. Women can abuse you unknowingly.
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I’m glad she’s taken time to put herself together.. such a beautiful woman
The consistency in the story and timelines, her composure too. I pray God restores all she has lost.
I have a first hand experience with an abusive husband. I took it all in without calling the police on him ever. I packed my things one day and left with my two kids without taking anything. When I started talking, he asked me why I didn’t call the police if he ever abused me. With where we stayed, he could’ve lost his job and properties if I had called the police on him. I also didn’t want the people back home to accuse me of destroying his life. Now, he’s out there telling people lies about why I left. Even his 3rd marriage has ended. I have learned to not judge others when they leave their marriage.
Absolutely.Sorry about your experience .It’s great you left .I have been there too.
Don’t help abusers
Next time report them!! What kind of frog 🐸 lifting are u giving such a person?
@@sandraudekwe3719And the children? He may need that job to (at least) be sued for their support...
This is so sad,I'm sorry you had to go through all this.Some monsters
Next time do the needful and report
Love and hugs to this woman! She truly suffered a lot. I pray for peace and happiness in your life forever
I dated a narcissist once. I was barely recognizable at some point in my life. When I tried to leave, he’ll profess love and cry like a child. I relocated and saved myself. I stand with this woman. I’m happily married for 10years to a well raised man and I still pinch myself out of anger for dating that demon. Sis, let him have his pity party.
My story....😢😢😢
Chale! Like mine! He'll cry like a fucking baby asking me back. After fucking up a couple more times, 😢 he realised his tricks weren't moving me no more. Almost six years! I still have remnants of the trauma I endured.
Me too. I don't know how God pulled me out of that 1 year of hell. The only saving grace was that I was financially independent and even supporting him.
@@cutandgo good for you. I was a student. He got me at the prime when I was young and naive. He lied about his age. He was approaching his 30s and I wasn’t even 20.
And the narcissist love media.... She did good and he is dry trying to recharge maybe it's not soft at the other side. Maybe he got a balance of him
This is soooo my story 😢😢. Met him at 17 (my 1st ever), but it's been torture. I even had suicidal thoughts, so I completely understand all she's saying.
If you are still there and no change move mama
Are you still there?
Please leave such marriage it's not worth your life
The moment she said drugs it explained his behaviour on his interview. He seriously was twitching like someone with a drug problem. As a survivor myself there is something about survivor vibes and you can tell she is one of us. 10 years of silence is no joke . Emma l would say stay clear as in faaaar away from Emeka because he is now more dangerous than he ever was because you have exposed him
Yes. As she has exposed him, he might harm her. That’s how they behave
Yes
Truth
I couldn’t hold back tears. Kai this woman is strong. He is pained because she got away and has moved on.
She is telling the truth,I worked for her and emeka as the dance and drama instructor in their school,I saw,heard and experienced things oo
Because you where staying with them at home
@vickywatt7082 what I told you he threatened and one of the days pursued with a gun for a useless reason I can't even think of,and I have seen smoking hard drug at ojota where some thugs normally gather to settle scores..if you know me,you wouldn't be making funny statements..because He is your celebrity, you want to swallow everything he is pushing out to you abi
@@DMstudiostv1123 Hmmmm... Nigeria's with useless mentality
@@DMstudiostv1123 You saw him smoking hard drugs in ojota... Bro fear God
@@DMstudiostv1123lies
I'm proud of you,Emma.
You survived and you are telling your story❤❤
I had goosebumps all over me, this woman is an epitome of beauty and a virtuous woman. The tone of her notes is so calming to the soul. God bless you and keep you alive to take care of those kids. Leave that man to his conscience that’s if he has one. Nemesis will catch up with him.
😆😆😆Gerrout jare!..You are an adulterous fellow. Leave the poor woman alone
Exactly what I was thinking. Such a beautiful woman.
I agree
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I think Emeka felt he had to speak out on his last interview BECAUSE he knows that there are people who know the truth which will affect the movie he is in. It was a calculated strategy, BUT....he was also spiritually set up by the devil to bring himself down.
The producer took a chance on giving him that role which after hearing this interview I am sure she will regret....and to think, from what i understand, Emeka himself was worried about what people will think before accepting the role. That in itself says a lot.
This situation is so sad. It makes us realize also how the devil "if allowed," can rubbish the life of someone who is gifted and talented.
The behavior that this man brought out did not start with him...I do not think so. Some things are inherited and sadly ignored.
This man needs serious help.
Great interview. We thank God for keeping this lady alive to tell her story. He will see her and her children through.
The best comment on here. I 100% agree
He's is a subanstance abuser. His behavior is pretty standard for one who is always high on substance.
Thank you for being the voice of so many woman being abused by their so called husbands. An abusive man is a coward. May God strengthen and help you build your life with your children.
I love that you emphasized that "so called husband." A real husband wouldn't abuse his wife..
Big coward
😊8😊77h@@naphisa340
Not wanting her to work was a red flag
Exactly
This is sad to hear but am glad she spoke out. I pray my daughter never meet a manipulating man. Glad she left for her own safety and mental health. I believe her. He is still angry at her AFTER 10 years and has the arrogance to think he can still abuse her! You can see that Emeka is arrogant and makes things up as if he were a rich man when he wasn't. Am so happy she's better and her own person. More power to her.
Thank God she is alive to tell her story. Useless man with his horrible acting.
I noticed that arrogance in both TVC and Channels interview. He needs to get it checked.
@@doriso6571Yes. Am glad she is alive to speak up. He has been the one talking and very angry with the woman even after she's completely moved on. Even when he was talking in the interview he was still angry and arrogant.
@@mumsrfun yes I saw that. He was so angry and rude to the women of your view.
Empower your daughter with sense now.
This woman is not lying. She is telling the truth. You must live with a narcissist to understand what she is talking about. I left 4 years ago and still healing after 8 years of living hell. When she said i lost people i felt that because they were scared of him😢😢😢
Im watching this from the UK.Actually im from kenya,and i was married to a kenyan man for 26 years ,he was a narcissist i mean we had everything but he made my life miserable i had to leave.Im a mother of 4 kids.I ren away from kenya to the UK to seek asylum because of the father of my children.Im now safe and been able to reunite with my two youngest kids through the help of British red cross.Every story has an end and if its not working ( marriage)just love yourself and walk away .Happy xmas to you all and God bless!
Came to wish you all the love and strength Mary.❤
Pple who have no idea what a narcissist is can't relate it's terrible
Ohh poor woman, I’m so sorry you had to go through this. 😢Everyone here believes you and your story. Thank you for coming out to share your story. This will help other women. You’re so strong and loving. I really wish my mother would watch this and make this bold move. He tried to destroy you but you came on top. I hope and pray that you heal . Much love.
Jesus Christ!!!
Never been this glued to an interview! She had me sit down and listen, keenly.
You are a string woman, ma'am and the lot, here, believe you.
Thank God for my father who isn't perfect, but never touched nor verbally abused my Mom.
Swears 😢😢😢😢
Same here😢 I pray that God blesses her and give her all her heart desires 🙏
Interviewer and interviewee are both impressive. Compelling story. Respect to a wonderful woman.
As a Caribbean woman you & I have lived the life of an abused man for almost 15yrs. I have attempted suicidal twice in the marriage, the most dangerous one was when I was 7months pregnant with my son. But to God be the glory, my children & I are still here.
My heart goes out to you.
Please leave if you feel unsafe.
You need to stay alive for you and the kids.
Remain strong and cling on to God. He will see you through it all. One day, you will look back and be able to help other women get out of the same situation.
I'm so proud of you not letting that demonic man to take you out.
@@bernedettekuteyi3843 Amen. Thank you
@@doriseze1130 Thank you 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. I ran away nine months after my second child was born, went back because my mom was ill, I needed some one to take care of my kids while I go help my siblings take care of my mom. When I got back for my kids he refused me to take my children so I had no choice but to stay, I wasn’t about to leave my kids behind. The second time I had no choice but to be strong, let him know I was leaving and never returned. My kids & I had was to leave because it was getting dangerous for me, & unsafe for my kids. My son will be thirty five on January 16th.
Grace kept me Amen
It's so obvious this woman saw hell... This womam is indeed a priceless jewel
Kaii this woman is honest. Truth. Sometimes don't listen to one sided story. Thank you Chude for putting this up. Such a beautiful woman who has spent all her youthful age wasted.
The boiling oil moment for sent shivers down my spine. What a beautiful & intelligent lady ,narrating her ordeal flawlessly , eloquently & with such consistency that alone proves a point she is 💯 telling the truth.
I couldn't have summarized this any better.. you're so spot on!!!
Don't conclude someone can be cool and still be dangerous pls..
If you haven’t been in a marriage with a narcissist man please pray you never cross paths with one . She was describing my ex- husband to the tea !! PTSD is real. I feel this woman’s pain. I pray she finds peace in her heart and move on with her life. Enjoy your peace lady . We got your back !!! 💪🏼💪🏽
I now understand where Emeka got his narcissism from. It's in his blood. 😢. I just pitied this woman because she wasted 14years of her life with a narcissist. She got older than her age 😢 because of the abuse. Please ladies aside from other medical tests please make sure you go for mental check-up as well.
Please 🙏
There are women who are narcissist also, the way the narcissist men behaves so the women too
Exactly
She's 100% telling the truth. Some of them don't even realize they are like that 😢😢😢 I saw shege!
That's what I'm dealing with presently, I just need financial support so I can find my way with my kids before it's too late 😞
Love blind us and we can’t see clear until we are almost dead. She’s an amazing human being. Thank God she is safe and sound.
Very intelligent and beautiful woman Emeka lost, what a pity
3 years since I left my abusive marriage, you doing 10, mama you are strong. I could not do that. The emotional, psychological financial sexual abuse would not allow me do that. You will rebuild your life and all this will end. I pray for God to give you peace and strength in Jesus name. Truely all that glitters I not gold!
He thought she would never speak up. Bravo brave woman! I can only wish her peace and joy moving forward. I only pray this serves as a warning for people who may be about to walk into this same situation and are ignoring the signs. Not everyone lives to tell the story. This interview is enough for the wise.
My eyes is filled with tears😢 even as I listen to you.
My dad keep making my mom feel she is small and this has affected us as children.
I pray she heals quickly.
God will replenish all the lost strength.
Bless up