Michael ike, i hope you get to see my comment.. I also experienced the same you went through, my mum went through the same in my dads hand.. Hers was even worse because she didn't have any education and job, so she had to endure the hardship until I graduated from the university.. God blessed me, I took my mum out of that house and set her up, my dad still goes around talking and stalking her but from afar.. My mum is happy now, she is finer.. Although my siblings and I forgave our dad already but we kept him at armslenght but still extend to him we never we have.. God will help you Michael.. The wisdom you ll need,God will give to you.. Don't worry about all the cause you father said, they will never come to pass, just be prayerful.. I remember all the causes my dad laid on me too and none never came to pass because God saw our suffering and he blessed my siblings and I... I hope your mum get to see this comment too,I really understand what she went through because my mum went through similar event.. She is indeed a fighter
I am reading some ignorant comments. Unless you have been or witnessed domestic violence, shut your mouth. The Nigerian gospel singer beaten to death by her husband not to long ago. How quick we forget. The same ignorant comment were the same ignorant comments that were made when the death of that woman was made known. This woman kept her silence until he ran his mouth. Now, we know what kind of a man is really was in the house. She is so detailed in her account. I wish her and her children the best. She needs to get a restraining order against him but then again Nigerian justice system is questionable.
As in eh... That's how Mummy Osinachi was chopping correct beating until she died. Her husband even woooz her slap in front of Frank Edward sef. Thank God that she left
I see quite a number of men and few women bashing this woman, son and Chude. You see, the problem with many Africans is that our humanity has been fractured under the guise of culture. If people are dying whether via threats or reputation damage when they didn't call for it, shouldn't they speak up? Where is our conscience? And if this lady had died like some other people, we will come out again and say why didn't she speak up. Let's stop this evil people. Just stop it already! So much lesson to be learned not just from this clip of the interview, but also from reading through the comments here: the mindset and point of view of potential spouse is very important. Whoever exalts culture over Christ and humanity is a disaster waiting to happen, no matter how wealthy, famous, voluptuous, handsome or beautiful they look. #nuffsaid.
Couldn't agree with you more. Unfortunately, our culture is toxic, and most people aren't even aware of how evil we treat women and children in our society...
@@zanelesiko5997 Please don’t be scared. There are many many good men out there. Just shine your eye well and do not allow society to force you into marriage just to feel you have arrived. And as men, we need to condemn this kind of behaviour because to look away is to be complicit. It is too common and as men we have to join in the condemnation of any man we know that abuses his wife. Even if it is your own friend or relative.
Dear Nigerians, please provide this woman and her children the support. You have the money to support them through therapy. Thank God she is still alive. We shouldn’t forget the gospel singer who died. Help them now. Woman you are strong. God grant you and your children Peace. Coercive control is evident in most African marriages which has been normalised but it is not accepted.
It's the way many people have tried to downplay the suffering of this woman and her children. There are many narcissistic and unkind people like Emeka Ike out there. They will never admit or acknowledge their wrongs. They are always correct. Everyone offends them, they never offend or hurt anyone. I wish this woman and her children healing and progress.
Men can never do wrong in the eyes of Nigerians. It's always a woman's fault. Nigerians will prefer a woman leaves her husband's house in a coffin than for her to leave with her life intact. This is not to say there are no women with bad attitude but let's do the math. Women were raised from teens on how to be a good wife to their future husbands/ husband family while men are raised to make money. Men were not raised on how to be a good husband to their wives. Women wey taught to tolerate/endure and accept somethings that naturally they won't accept as normal. Imagine spending all your life living someone else's life instead of living your life is awful. That's why when our women go to a country where women are given equal rights, they throw away the chains holding them bound. Society and family pressures/judgment is what is keeping most women in their marriages. There are good men out there, I believe and there are good women out there too. A lot of women have sacrifice their essence, life, career, dignity, joy, sanity At the Alter of marriages. Most marriages are endured instead of enjoying. The best feeling is being being with a spouse who loves you and respect you(mutual love & respect),Then even if there's no money, there will be joy and love. It is well o.
don't be emotional about this, because really you may not know the truth. Emeka ike is hurt, the wife is hurt, the son coming out on air to say all this is not the solution to peace. He need to be in the path of peace and he is of age and have to make sacrifice to bring peace back to the family. He really need to be neutral about it
@@kennethanyanwu5816the same peace they couldn’t have for over 17 years? You’re absolutely out of your mind. You have never been in their situation so don’t tell them what to do about it. You don’t know the level of pain they have always felt. Also, it’s like you didn’t watch the full interview of both the woman and the son. Death threats? And you expect them to try to make peace? Comments like this are actually blowing my mind. So many mad people in this world😂🙄.
Guy just follow Jesus. Don't follow your father's ways..follow the way of The Lord. I love the fact that you are standing for the truth no matter what people are saying or calling you....don't allow his insults, curses and pessimism of you get into you...you are blessed beyond the curse...God has a future for you,just accept Him into your life,so you can be saved and saved from eternity in hell...I love you and I'm praying for you and your family....
E be like say you never hear of Pastor wey dey beat him wife, beat him girlfriend join. Abi you no wan believe because na Pastor? Forget. This thing is even common amongst the so-called ‘faithful’, but una no go wan hear that one.
Coming on this show is the best decision this woman and her son have made in relation to this issue, i am so happy that Emeka Ike has been exposed for the abusive demon that he is.
A typical African parent will never apologize. Thinking children don’t have feelings 😂😂But She made a difference. Emeka should keep ranting instead of putting his family together.
I’m a Gadite living in North America. I randomly came across this. What’s holding this woman up is the LORD Himself! The Great High Priest has a beautiful plan for her and her children. The LORD will never leave us nor forsake us. What the enemy from the unseen world meant for bad. The Holy One of Israel will turn that thing right into good! Hallelujah!! 🙌🏾 Selah 🕎🕊💟
No one can say no to childhood trauma if you are Nigerian. It’s pretty common as it’s passed thru’ generations till it’s normalized. If you hear the way Emeka is screaming and threatening and cursing his own son, you can see they just feel like their children are not worthy enough to even have valid feelings, and you still hear people support him.
@@gracegeorge7285 Hello Dear. I appreciate your reply. I had the most childhood trauma the world has to offer, and have children in my struggling phase. The most I could do was to make sure I did not transfer it to my children. It wasn't easy, but god saw my efforts and intentions and made me trauma-free. Therefore, it happened and ended with me.
Most African kids are damaged because their parents want them to keep quiet no matter what; that's why most of them are so defensive because of abuse from their own parents or the environment they came from... So sad.
@gracegeorge7285 it's easy for you to say all this because many of you women will turn blind to your fellow women's evil doings because you don't want to be wrong and some sisterhood rubbish like that but the bottom line is that many of you women use the love fathers have for their children to blackmail them emotionally because you have a way with showering this children with too much affection and less discipline to they tend to listen to you, many men suffer to raise their children with the money they should have used to invest in their own future yet only few would even look at their fathers when they make it in life but they never neglect their mothers, and Mohbad is an example of that. If Emeka wasn't looking after this stupid boy would he be looking that good? Yet he betrayed his own father after all the love that man has shown him now all you women siding with the ex wife are playing games because he speaks out YES! he has the right to curse the ungrateful son and you wonder why so many fathers are investing less in their children ofcourse it's to secure their own future because women like you are out there spitting on their hardwork.
Emeka Ike had one job - to resolve this family issue quietly especially as the wife beater and narcissistic abuser that he is. But he opened his mouth waa and forced his wife and son to come out of their silence and clear his ex-wife's name. People keep saying the children should not be involved but why did Emeka as the supposed head of the household start involving the children? This woman was silent throughout for the duration of their marriage and 10yrs after divorce. But no, Emeka had to get on Channels TV Rubbin Minds programme hosted by Hero Daniels and malign her messlessly. That was clearly the straw that broke the camel's back. For those saying the wife shouldn't be doing this, you don't determine how someone who has suffered extensive abuse chooses to heal. I am glad this woman spoke up as after Emeka's interview I wondered what wicked woman Emeka married. I actually thought his wife was a horrible person and had some questions on why he stayed if she was this toxic as a man? Women stay for the kids, so I wondred if he was given kayamata? In hindsight, after hearing her side of the story, I can see why I had felt some questions were unanswered following his claims. But having gone through abuse myself, I can hear it in this woman's voice and identify a kindred spirit. May God watch over her and the kids. Emeka Ike, better change oh, and stop with the lies already. You are already in a deep hole, stop digging.
Thank you!!!! And if she had stayed and died like other women who stay for their kids and end up dead, the same people accusing her for balancing the story with her version would be everywhere with moral lessons on how she should have spoken-out and sought help alive and not dead. Emeka IKE has had countless interviews with loopholes, inconsistent facts and painting himself like the spotless husband. Just one interview from his ex-wife some people are angry. Did you notice after the TV ITW aired, he was on YOUR VIEW and for the first time stated that he wouldn't want to comment on the issue again. Does that not ring a bell like maybe he had heard his wife was going to speak to the media?
The annoying thing is people are infantilizing the boy, sorry man. This is a 23 year old man. If he gets a girl pregnant, he'll do it as a man, but because a mother is involved it has become an issue of manipulation.
Thank God ... The word is going round . What I am really glad and overjoyed about is the Fact that . THE WORD IS OUT. !!! The awareness is created . Many women that have gone through this horrific abuse . Know that are not alone . And stand by you Emma. And most gratifying os the Abused women that are still in there . Will feel strength from your story Emma . And the ones who don't know what they are going through yet . Will see the familiarity. I identify with you . I have been there . Am waiting fir mine to Run his mouth in the media . Cos he is A public figure . Then I will defend my dignity . You handle them in Need to do basis . Kudos Chude !voice to the voiceless.
Anyone who has not gone through narcissistic abuse can't understand what's going on here, narcissists are the worst people to date or marry, they'll turn your life upside down and takes years to rebuild your self worth again Wishing the family the best
They are more than demon, if i should tell you my story, i stayed with him for 26years with boys. Still on so many medication now. My story is long hmmm @@laughoncomedy2923
I recognised mine so early in the relationship and left the idiot. He was born the same month as Emeka Ike and they act so alike. very narcissistic! They're known as the nice and popular guy but behind closed doors they're evil . Very wicked human beings!
What a handsome young man. Pls don’t let daddy’s anger destroy you. You are an adult you don’t need to copy his anger, free yourself so you don’t carry on that legacy in your future life.
I pray the son prospers and be everything his poor excuse of a “father” said he won’t. Sons don’t play about their mother he’ll learn the hard way. Young man, you’re not your “father” he has shown you what not to be as a man so now go into the world and do better.
He is treading the wrong path... Dropped out of the university in Abuja and moved to Lagos working in a restaurant at the instant of his mother. The mother is playing a dangerous game with the children and their future. Time will tell.
He has to work on himself not be toxic later in life. I pray God gives him the grace. Children, unconsciously replay what their parents do while growing up. They are sponges absorbing everything in their environment. He needs to heal from the trauma he has experienced. Do we have 'shrinks' in Nigeria? They all need to see one.
You don’t have to go to uni to become somebody. As long as you can read and write. You never know if he’s smart he might one day own his own restaurant. We should stop this traditional mentality of you have to go to uni then work for somebody doing a 9-5 job
@adeyemiadeniyi1793 because she didn't have money she said that she should now start looking for home and food. He was well known , he took the children just to leave them in abuja fly Germany and get married what did they have to go through no mum no dad. Then he later came back and married someone in South Africa is women the problem or raising children you love
I am a parent. My older son said some horrible & bad things to me during the break up with his mother. I never answered pim! Despite that, I NEVER reneged in my role as a father. I will NEVER EVER wish death or harm on my child whatever situation. I will rather die! . One day, my son dropped a note apologising for the things he said. Today, me and the mum are in 💯 peace anyone can imagine. We both prioritise the interest of the boys even though some things still hurt. Me and my son are in the best place a father and son can ever be. Every situation is different but what is the end game in a beef that has lasted for over 10yrs. What does Emeka want to achieve by going to the press and the voice messages to his son? Peace has to reign, we do not have long on this planet. The little time we have, let us live it in peace ✌🏿
I've never cried listening to an interview and this one just made me break down. The pain this family has had to endure at the hands of a man who abdicated his role as husband and father, provider and protector. Left his family vulnerable and bleeding with fears of the future. It is painful. It really is. I pray with all my heart that the future shines down favourably for you and your kids, ma'am.
His father and him are twins! It’s amazing. Same mannerisms when speaking. Wow it’s beautiful to see the resemblance but sad to see the disconnect they have 😢!
I am crying I am in tears Father God Remove the Scales So that The Head of the House Can See what HE has done to HIS OWN CHILDREN May God HEAL THIS FAMILY IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS AMEN
Give Micheal a few years; he will be the real loser. No man disrespected his father like him and became successful in life. The same woman left you for many years; all he sees is the father, but today, he taught the Dad is evil. Please be patient; you will be sorry for him with time.
@@afolabitoye4393You wish. Michael will be be a successful man and he will marry well. You're just a typical Nigerian man with an oversized ego who thinks men are always right. Emeka Ike should face his new wife and kids and stop telling lies..
He kept ranting ive paid your fees,money i didnt have😮 who's responsibility is that....its the same thing he said to his wife..i built for you,i made you,i bought for you. ..this proves all the woman is saying.....he does things for his family then uses it to dehumanise them.this is emotional abuse
Hearing the ex wife talk of her abuse triggered me. You cannot make up the things she said. I went through similar things. Emeka is a malignant narcissist. Mine is in the grave with his legs broken to fit into the casket. They don't end very well. Emeka is a broken man and he won't stop until his whole family is broken too. STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
@@laughterwebsEmeka ike is not Johnny depp now is he? Do you hear Johnny depp speak in a derogatory manner about any of his exes? Do you hear voice notes of him being abusive to his kids? Keep grasping for straws trying to defend this ape beast because you and him are exactly the same
My advice to Michael Ike is to set your bar in life and career higher than that of your dads. Surpass all his achievement and then he will respect you eventually and forgive him whether he says he is sorry in the future or not. Your case ia not a hopeless one. There are people who have faced more difficult ordeal in life and came out leading the rest of those against them. From a personal experience, I see my mom's character in your moms. Our father told us very terrible, horrible and disgusting stories about our mom when we were little and living with him after the divorce but our mother refused to reply and denigrate him. The only thing she kept saying whenever we would sneak out to visit her was "I will never bias my children's minds or make them hate their dad, they will judge and decide for themselves when they grow up " And she was right. Don't give up my son Michael, I'm your uncle somehow. Become something in life that's all that should matter to you most now.
Wrong. First of all he must align with his dad, listing please cos u can't stop learning, his mom dragged him into a higher conflict stage, he should play with mind and chest cos it's there fight but on u to think
This is truly heartbreaking. Emeka Ike has inflicted a great deal of emotional damage on his family which may take years of extensive therapy and counselling to undo. I think Emeka himself is in urgent need of an intervention because he's clearly not been in control for a long time.
Why did they not release all the conversation of the video? It should not be edited. However, let them go to court. Let no one find pity on the media. The media is not a court.
This woman needs her own youtube channel and let the audience embark on a healing journey with her and her family. I am 100%sure there are families that can relate to these lived experience and heal as well
Dear, you are perfectly right, the painful part is when we victims realized when to finally leave then Pasts and Close Families will advise for the sake of the children but I attempted suicide 3 times Physical Abuse, verbal, emotional and made me useless, worthless,the ugliest,. Until I met a Doctor who advised me.
I agree. She deserves to tell her story and make a life for herself through sharing and therapy. So many people are suffering in silence and people can relate. We will support her UA-cam channel.
I love this boy. He said “he’s here for the ride.” When a parent had lost all the respect needed. This is what he/she gets.👍🏾👏🏾✊🏾. Some parents think talking tough really helps. No. Especially when dealing with an adult child. You cannot be saying all that horrible things to him and think he’ll respect you. His mom better hide away or leave Nigeria.
@The_Cruise_Fam Well said; I wondered why there were no trigger warnings before the videos. Only those who have not gone through abuse or those who are desensitised to violence will state that everything she has said is a lie. That said, let's hope she is not Amber Heard 2.0
I'm shocked as to how deluded some of you guys are by thinking that the boy challenging his father is not a sign of disrespect. Chude should have played whatever the boy sent his father first for him to get that response from him. It's shocking.
In my opinion , an adult child should challenge his father and mother when he or she sees they are wrong. For example, my adult kids still challenge me sometimes when I go out of line. This makes me reflect on my actions or behaviour. We are still best of friends 😊 I just wonder how they grow up in such a toxic and bitter environment. Hopefully they don't struggle with any relationship....
@@Meandyouisnusis definitely an abuse and if it is the UK, he will surely be attending a parenting class and mentally/emotionally examined before he will be allowed to come close to his kids.
I am a grown woman married with 3 kids now, I can relate with this woman's story because this is the same exact thing that my mum went through in my dad's hand, she left the marriage after 17 years too, it was not easy for us growing up leaving with our dad he wanted us to hate our mother but he couldn't give us the love because he was a sociopath, we ended up loving our mother more, even though she was far away. Fast forward to this present day, our dad is now old and he regrets everything but still he cannot put his ego aside to apologize to our mother, so we all have moved on. We show each of them their due respects, my dad lives with his new wife, my mum lives in a house built for her by my brother even though there is still hurts in our hearts we all has just found a way to move on with our lives. Our only regret is we were 6 children but 1 died in all of these drama
Even though you lost a sibling in this tragedy, it could’ve been worse if your mother had stayed and lose her life in the cycle of abuse. Please be grateful you have her and each other today,you and your siblings can show her love that she was deprived of in her prime
Only someone who has encountered a narcissistic partner before will understand this situation and understand the grief this woman is going through. It is just normal that people will believe the abuser over the victim which is normal where narcissism is concerned.
Talk to any young man who grew up with an abusive and a narcissist father. They are scared that they will end up like their father. These young men grew up without a role model and their brains saved everything their fathers were doing that was actually unacceptable in their eyes. They can become very insecure. Like they say, a victim can also become an abuser. Emeka needs to check his childhood too. His son is doing a great job for speaking out his fears. A professional psychologist support section would be great for him and his mom.
This is so true. Sometimes even with girls, they may internalize what they’ve seen in their parents marriage and end up in that situation if care is not taken because that’s what they grew up seeing
In my own cas,it affected my children especially my first child character.she always behave violent every time she talks,and in whatever she does especially with her siblings. I just pray God to help me.
Absolutely, Emeka Ike needs to check his background. It is very common with people who grew up in abusive home, watching either their father abuse their mother or other way round, it always have impact in the lives of children of that marriage negatively as they repeat what their parents do. It hard for most people to reject that background when they become adult, rather they bring the same bad ingredients to season any marriage or relationship they enter into.
You people are so quick to judge. You only heard one side of the story. Did you people hear the full clip of the audio. A child that abandoned his university program in Abuja and expect the father to be happy. Why we the woman go to Abuja to pick them when you know that the boy is in the university. So you expect the father to be happy after all his labour
@@adeyemiadeniyi1793 I believe you are typical Yoruba man. From your comment it shows you don't put the well being of everyone in the family first. Since in Yorubaland the father must be satisfied while the mother and children suffer to fulfill father's wish. It is written husbands love your wife. Fathers do not provoke your children to wrath.
An abuser gets angry when the abused goes away, there’s no other explanation. You are the object of all his frustrations, so “the trash can” doesn’t have the right to get up and leave. My SIL went through this, even after she left he was still trying to spoil her name EVERYWHERE!
I can relate to Michael's plight...my father did no drugs but behaved just as this Emeka...beauty is,truth always wins...may take long but will always eventually surface
@@temmymol9163 Emeka has to first come to terms with himself and realize he has a drug problem and other issues and he needs help. Until he does that, I can’t seem going to counseling.
Brave young man! God bless you Michael: you will live long, you will prosper and a causeless curse shall NEVER stand in your life. I reject it for you in Jesus name 🔥 you will rise, you will stand strong and you will be a light to your generation. Amen!!
It is sad that a woman has to face so much abuse and then go through another round when she speaks out against her husband's behavior. A husband who knows he needs help but will not admit. People even insulted this lady because she said she wanted to be an actress; according to them, her husband was looking out for her good by not encouraging her. Meanwhile, hear what the same husband said about his son's intrest and how he will never amout to anything! Who in their right mind does that.
Her son coming to support her is not in anyway wrong. This is where we Africans get it wrong we make it look like the man is always right and can do no wrong, the majority of the men today who actually stand for the truth when it comes to issues affecting women are men who have experience/witnessed it through a mother, a sister, a wife or a loved one for those who have not witnessed it they tend to view women as evil manipulative and wicked, this is very wrong cos we are all humans and like it or not just like you hear of evil women there are also evil men.
Lol, hearing him talk reminds me so much about myself to be honest. He's actually telling the truth. I haven't spoken to my father in over 9 years or so and I'll very much like to keep it that way for my own peace of mind. Very similar scenarios actually. The last SMS my dad sent me was so nasty I couldn't even believe a grown person could think of writing such, to the point I just backed up the SMS despite changing phones severally and till this day I've never told my mom, sister, or brother. My mom hardly spoke ill about him knowing fully well I'll grow up to see the reality for myself. Very similar traits with what Emeka Ike is exhibiting: playing the victim mindset, blaming everybody but himself. Very very similar traits actually. Watching him talk just made me reflect on why I tend to push any woman interested in me away. I really don't believe in marriage nowadays, and I'm just better off on my own. I know what he's referring to having that fear of ending up like his father or sometimes not being good enough for someone 🤷♂ That fear is what made him probably grow up to be this calm, conserved and most likely avoid confrontations especially with women. No matter how much he thinks he's moved past it, it still haunts you once in a while like a doubt.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 This is sad ! This damage is serious! We can’t underestimate the affect to their soul. May they all find peace! Praying for them. And many families are going through this and this is why I am crying!
I believe everything Susan and her son said, u can hear the pain in their voices and it’s not anger it’s pain they are tired. EMEKA IKE leave them alone u have another family leave this woman alone!!!!!!
This boy is smarter than his father. He is not a narcissist and i pray he doesn't follow his father foot step. i applaud him for this single action during the interview... interview: you said when your mum left he stated doing same thing he was doing to your mum to you guys. can you tell about it? the boy: i don't want to into all that is private, i only came to let you know that whatever he said about my mum are all liars. BUT IT REACH EMEKA TURN... He started blabbing rubbish on air. Even his interviewer said i didn't know you will go this detail. God forbid a foolish father for our children 😢
Dear God please protect this woman and her children. And for people questioning their story, open your eyes. This is not about tradition or "Nollywood" fine boy, it's about abuse in its full scale. If this lady has kept quiet for 10 years, that speaks volume, and adds a lot of validity to her story. Listening to, and looking at the son says a lot about what they went through.
Watching this interview made me cry a million tears... I grow up in this kind of home or even worst... I have never tested what true love really means especially from my father... He even looked into my eyes to tell to tell me that a girl child can never be productive to him... Alot of things... God help me
This is so sad to hear. Suzanne, you made the best decision leaving to stay alive. Micheal Ike, you are brave, you're smart and intelligent. You can be all that you want to be because you know what not to be. Hope you all get therapy, get healing, and enjoy the most out of this life. Life is beautiful, enjoy it! I pray God’s love and comfort envelope you'll. Stay strong 💪.
Emeka Ike should please please please see a psychologist over in Germany when he gets back. This is just emotional trauma all round. Thank God the woman said she plans to go to therapy with the kids. I am just crying here for the kids...especially the younger ones. This hurt needs to stop so everyone can start healing. Please Almighty God give this family strength and healing.
The awareness is there but he has to be intentional and work the part of not being his father. Most times, kids call out their parents for bad behavior and then go back to walk that bad part.
I'm seeing the strength of the mother in the son. I just pray for true, deep total healing for them. But honeslty that Emeka guy is a tormented soul oh. He needs Jesus.
Only if adults know the damage they do to their kids when they fight the will stop the hatred towards each other and grow up. Emeka Ike needs to take accountability and grow up.
@kingsleyoyaire9960 this african mentality that it's just a child and that boy is now a man, and he is trying to pave his way through life and separate which way to follow, good or bad. I would never curse my child nomatter how angry and this is what the younger generation are striving for, raise our children to have more empathy.
Those are signs of a man who has lost it all but doesn't have the courage to accept reality. This is the biggest weakness we men have, our ego won't allow us to admit we have failed yet it's the only way problems get solved. Emeke should accept the reality, yes you married her as a nobody but she's currently a different person now, she was a naive 18yr old that could bow down, right now she's a grown woman and you should engage her at that level, not the 18 yr old you married
Exactly same thing happened to my friend. The man couldn't accept that my his 19 year old wife has grown. She was 30 then... They are divorced now and She is thriving well. Men who seek under 25 years when the frontal cortex of the brain have not yet matured are predators
As a parent, always refrain from speaking negative upon your children, because you will be the same parent who will have to clear it. Then you wonder why your children turn out the way they do. That audio was a NO NO.
This is traumatizing from a father. This is an extreme incident of mental psychological abuse. I am even traumatized after listening to this voice message.
She said he didn't have to apologise but they (herself and emeka ) aught to apologise to him and the children for how they couldn't handle things well. This woman throughout this conversation even though abused has been accountable I can't even say so for Emeka from a neutral side . He's been bragging and saying stuff that do not even add up. Threatening low key and all. Try and listen with neutral ears and be true to yourself. No one wants emeka to go down though , we hope he heals from whatever is worrying him .
Emeka himself needs help. He obviously has not healed from the frustration and disappointments of the past. It seems he is transferring that agression to the children. I hope he finds a way to fix all these before it is too late.
I feel sorry for them. Victims of abuse go through so much. I must however take off my hat for the lady. She did her best to protect the mental wellness of her children. Unfortunately, she couldn't because of the manic phase their dad was in. I pray for peace in their lives. They truly deserve therapy.
Mrs Suzanne,thank you for leaving that toxic marriage to build yourself,the Lord will comfort and heal you and make all good things sufficient for you and your children. Please Michael Ike you need to believe and work it out that you won't end up like your Father.You need to forgive your parents and be intentional about working on every negative trait of him in you because sometimes when we live the negative patterns of our parents we eventually become that person we hate them for. Hence, as products of a dysfunctional home we need to stop pointing fingers at our parents ,forgive them totally and build and work on ourselves intentionally so as not to repeat their patterns and eventually make our children have such horrible experience and tell the same story. Most of these parents need help and their bad behaviour might sometimes be as a result of their past wound,terrible childhood experience and trauma...You cannot give what you don't have ...
May the Lord be the Father to this young man . Bring inner healing from the damage Mum.you did well to leave other wise your sons would have thought that is normal.
When I heard emeka ike was back acting I was happy for him...everyone deserves a second chance. When I saw the channels interview....still talking about his ex wife, bashing her..i was sad because i realized this man has not healed. Same old emeka from way back when....still in his old ways. Instead of facing your new life, promoting your new movie etc your still back here dragging your old baggage around, still trying to convince us your ex wife is a bad person. Isnt he married to some woman in germany? What is the obsession about? She left you so you want to make her life miserable? Its so obvious he doesnt care about his children, he just wants to destroy this woman. Do y'all understand what it takes for your own pastor to find you a lawyer to get divorced in nigerian society???? I'm glad she's telling her story, sometimes telling your side of things especially when you have been quiet for so long can bring peace and closure.
Only ppl who have experienced a narcissistic partner and the horrific damage they can cause will understand what this woman and her children have suffered and will continue to suffer, because as long as Emeka Ike has a platform, he will continue to drag this poor lady and hate his children by her. It is a mental, psychological behavioral problem called narcissism. His ego is the most important thing to him and he will attack anyone or anything ( children included) who dares to touch it. public image is everything to a narcissist and he will lie and continue the smear campaign against this woman and her kids relentlessly to look like the victim and always appear good in the public eye. He will NEVER change. He lacks empathy and the capacity to love is totally foreign to him. He fears and hates rejection and must always be right. Unfortunately he will continue to use his celebrity/media status to ridicule, hurt and torment this lady. I really feel for her. He is incapable of making peace and as long as she exist, he will continue to fear her exposing his true colors, so he will keep attacking her. She is a living witness to the monster he truly is and he will continue to destroy her image non stop. Only very intelligent ppl will listen and figure out the truth because narcissist are master manipulators so that even the victims will begin to doubt themselves. It is well with you madam. God keep you and your kids.
Yea so real I tell you. Only God and the boy's firm decision not to turn out like the father, and also therapy can help in this situation. Because alot of times, it's usually unconscious
At least he knows it which is his first and beginning of healing. Emeka Ike has his own story to tell maybe but did he learn, heal and come to terms with them.? He never see his own mistakes, always blaming and pushing the other partner under the bus. The difference himself and his ex-wife...you can see the sadness from her side, the regrets(accepting maybe her faults- no one is perfect). Accepting both herself and Ike's faults thereby hoping to apologize to the kids (side eyes to some African parents) because , they are the parents and every of their actions brought them to that point. But Emeka Ike 👉 The wife is the problem, but he's right 👍
Not discounting the fact that men suffer from DV and that some women would lie to destroy their partner's reputation, something in me tends to believe this woman. From the way she spoke, you'd know she's tired. Trust me, it is physically and emotionally draining to deal with Narcissists. The constant barrage of stress never ends. I pray they all find peace.
She’s telling the truth. For many years, people have talked about witnessing Emeka’s abusive ways, but when people try to speak-out, Emeka threatens them.
Suzanne you are the best mom every child wished for,may God continue to strengthen you,help you and your children,no woman leaves a rossy home just to suffer alone
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Michael ike, i hope you get to see my comment.. I also experienced the same you went through, my mum went through the same in my dads hand.. Hers was even worse because she didn't have any education and job, so she had to endure the hardship until I graduated from the university.. God blessed me, I took my mum out of that house and set her up, my dad still goes around talking and stalking her but from afar.. My mum is happy now, she is finer.. Although my siblings and I forgave our dad already but we kept him at armslenght but still extend to him we never we have.. God will help you Michael.. The wisdom you ll need,God will give to you.. Don't worry about all the cause you father said, they will never come to pass, just be prayerful.. I remember all the causes my dad laid on me too and none never came to pass because God saw our suffering and he blessed my siblings and I... I hope your mum get to see this comment too,I really understand what she went through because my mum went through similar event.. She is indeed a fighter
I am reading some ignorant comments. Unless you have been or witnessed domestic violence, shut your mouth. The Nigerian gospel singer beaten to death by her husband not to long ago. How quick we forget. The same ignorant comment were the same ignorant comments that were made when the death of that woman was made known. This woman kept her silence until he ran his mouth. Now, we know what kind of a man is really was in the house. She is so detailed in her account. I wish her and her children the best. She needs to get a restraining order against him but then again Nigerian justice system is questionable.
As in eh... That's how Mummy Osinachi was chopping correct beating until she died. Her husband even woooz her slap in front of Frank Edward sef.
Thank God that she left
@@somaadina8102 Did you read your ignorant statement or you thrive on stupidity and ignorance?
I see quite a number of men and few women bashing this woman, son and Chude. You see, the problem with many Africans is that our humanity has been fractured under the guise of culture. If people are dying whether via threats or reputation damage when they didn't call for it, shouldn't they speak up? Where is our conscience? And if this lady had died like some other people, we will come out again and say why didn't she speak up. Let's stop this evil people. Just stop it already! So much lesson to be learned not just from this clip of the interview, but also from reading through the comments here: the mindset and point of view of potential spouse is very important. Whoever exalts culture over Christ and humanity is a disaster waiting to happen, no matter how wealthy, famous, voluptuous, handsome or beautiful they look. #nuffsaid.
Couldn't agree with you more.
Unfortunately, our culture is toxic, and most people aren't even aware of how evil we treat women and children in our society...
Oh many African men are narcissistic....
The comments dey scare me. Too many Emekas for here.
@@zanelesiko5997 Please don’t be scared. There are many many good men out there. Just shine your eye well and do not allow society to force you into marriage just to feel you have arrived. And as men, we need to condemn this kind of behaviour because to look away is to be complicit. It is too common and as men we have to join in the condemnation of any man we know that abuses his wife. Even if it is your own friend or relative.
Yes!! CHRIST over Culture
Dear Nigerians, please provide this woman and her children the support. You have the money to support them through therapy. Thank God she is still alive. We shouldn’t forget the gospel singer who died. Help them now.
Woman you are strong. God grant you and your children Peace.
Coercive control is evident in most African marriages which has been normalised but it is not accepted.
It's the way many people have tried to downplay the suffering of this woman and her children. There are many narcissistic and unkind people like Emeka Ike out there. They will never admit or acknowledge their wrongs. They are always correct. Everyone offends them, they never offend or hurt anyone. I wish this woman and her children healing and progress.
You are so correct
Men can never do wrong in the eyes of Nigerians. It's always a woman's fault. Nigerians will prefer a woman leaves her husband's house in a coffin than for her to leave with her life intact. This is not to say there are no women with bad attitude but let's do the math. Women were raised from teens on how to be a good wife to their future husbands/ husband family while men are raised to make money. Men were not raised on how to be a good husband to their wives. Women wey taught to tolerate/endure and accept somethings that naturally they won't accept as normal. Imagine spending all your life living someone else's life instead of living your life is awful. That's why when our women go to a country where women are given equal rights, they throw away the chains holding them bound. Society and family pressures/judgment is what is keeping most women in their marriages. There are good men out there, I believe and there are good women out there too. A lot of women have sacrifice their essence, life, career, dignity, joy, sanity
At the Alter of marriages. Most marriages are endured instead of enjoying. The best feeling is being being with a spouse who loves you and respect you(mutual love & respect),Then even if there's no money, there will be joy and love. It is well o.
Exactly, a narcissist always claim to be right
don't be emotional about this, because really you may not know the truth. Emeka ike is hurt, the wife is hurt, the son coming out on air to say all this is not the solution to peace. He need to be in the path of peace and he is of age and have to make sacrifice to bring peace back to the family. He really need to be neutral about it
@@kennethanyanwu5816the same peace they couldn’t have for over 17 years? You’re absolutely out of your mind. You have never been in their situation so don’t tell them what to do about it. You don’t know the level of pain they have always felt.
Also, it’s like you didn’t watch the full interview of both the woman and the son. Death threats? And you expect them to try to make peace? Comments like this are actually blowing my mind. So many mad people in this world😂🙄.
Guy just follow Jesus. Don't follow your father's ways..follow the way of The Lord. I love the fact that you are standing for the truth no matter what people are saying or calling you....don't allow his insults, curses and pessimism of you get into you...you are blessed beyond the curse...God has a future for you,just accept Him into your life,so you can be saved and saved from eternity in hell...I love you and I'm praying for you and your family....
Absolutely
Very Correct.
Madam the therapist you need is Jesus
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God bless you
E be like say you never hear of Pastor wey dey beat him wife, beat him girlfriend join. Abi you no wan believe because na Pastor? Forget. This thing is even common amongst the so-called ‘faithful’, but una no go wan hear that one.
Coming on this show is the best decision this woman and her son have made in relation to this issue, i am so happy that Emeka Ike has been exposed for the abusive demon that he is.
Strong words. This is family issues.
Only that some people think Emeka is a victim
@@naijainfotainmenthub6999he knew they were family issues before HE went public
Thank you 🙏 for Those who don’t want them to talk go and drink 🍺 your own cup of abuse and keep quiet 🤐 no one cares.
We the parents should be the ones apologizing... Damn! This hit home!
Wise woman
Me more... Damn!!!
A typical African parent will never apologize. Thinking children don’t have feelings 😂😂But She made a difference. Emeka should keep ranting instead of putting his family together.
Will they ever feel the need to, I'm not gonna lie but you see some African parents are awful
All are y’all are right. And I’m so sad about it.
I’m a Gadite living in North America. I randomly came across this. What’s holding this woman up is the LORD Himself! The Great High Priest has a beautiful plan for her and her children. The LORD will never leave us nor forsake us. What the enemy from the unseen world meant for bad. The Holy One of Israel will turn that thing right into good! Hallelujah!! 🙌🏾
Selah 🕎🕊💟
How the son sounds more mature than his father 😢
Age is truly a number.
you dont have sense
Children must be protected , please say no to childhood trauma .
No one can say no to childhood trauma if you are Nigerian. It’s pretty common as it’s passed thru’ generations till it’s normalized. If you hear the way Emeka is screaming and threatening and cursing his own son, you can see they just feel like their children are not worthy enough to even have valid feelings, and you still hear people support him.
In Africa the child should keep quiet and put up with it
@@gracegeorge7285 Hello Dear. I appreciate your reply. I had the most childhood trauma the world has to offer, and have children in my struggling phase. The most I could do was to make sure I did not transfer it to my children. It wasn't easy, but god saw my efforts and intentions and made me trauma-free. Therefore, it happened and ended with me.
Most African kids are damaged because their parents want them to keep quiet no matter what; that's why most of them are so defensive because of abuse from their own parents or the environment they came from... So sad.
@gracegeorge7285 it's easy for you to say all this because many of you women will turn blind to your fellow women's evil doings because you don't want to be wrong and some sisterhood rubbish like that but the bottom line is that many of you women use the love fathers have for their children to blackmail them emotionally because you have a way with showering this children with too much affection and less discipline to they tend to listen to you, many men suffer to raise their children with the money they should have used to invest in their own future yet only few would even look at their fathers when they make it in life but they never neglect their mothers, and Mohbad is an example of that. If Emeka wasn't looking after this stupid boy would he be looking that good? Yet he betrayed his own father after all the love that man has shown him now all you women siding with the ex wife are playing games because he speaks out YES! he has the right to curse the ungrateful son and you wonder why so many fathers are investing less in their children ofcourse it's to secure their own future because women like you are out there spitting on their hardwork.
Emeka Ike had one job - to resolve this family issue quietly especially as the wife beater and narcissistic abuser that he is. But he opened his mouth waa and forced his wife and son to come out of their silence and clear his ex-wife's name.
People keep saying the children should not be involved but why did Emeka as the supposed head of the household start involving the children? This woman was silent throughout for the duration of their marriage and 10yrs after divorce. But no, Emeka had to get on Channels TV Rubbin Minds programme hosted by Hero Daniels and malign her messlessly. That was clearly the straw that broke the camel's back.
For those saying the wife shouldn't be doing this, you don't determine how someone who has suffered extensive abuse chooses to heal. I am glad this woman spoke up as after Emeka's interview I wondered what wicked woman Emeka married. I actually thought his wife was a horrible person and had some questions on why he stayed if she was this toxic as a man? Women stay for the kids, so I wondred if he was given kayamata? In hindsight, after hearing her side of the story, I can see why I had felt some questions were unanswered following his claims. But having gone through abuse myself, I can hear it in this woman's voice and identify a kindred spirit.
May God watch over her and the kids. Emeka Ike, better change oh, and stop with the lies already. You are already in a deep hole, stop digging.
Thank you!!!! And if she had stayed and died like other women who stay for their kids and end up dead, the same people accusing her for balancing the story with her version would be everywhere with moral lessons on how she should have spoken-out and sought help alive and not dead.
Emeka IKE has had countless interviews with loopholes, inconsistent facts and painting himself like the spotless husband. Just one interview from his ex-wife some people are angry. Did you notice after the TV ITW aired, he was on YOUR VIEW and for the first time stated that he wouldn't want to comment on the issue again. Does that not ring a bell like maybe he had heard his wife was going to speak to the media?
The annoying thing is people are infantilizing the boy, sorry man. This is a 23 year old man. If he gets a girl pregnant, he'll do it as a man, but because a mother is involved it has become an issue of manipulation.
Narcissistics can't help themselves, they need attention. May God heal this family
Thank God ... The word is going round . What I am really glad and overjoyed about is the Fact that . THE WORD IS OUT. !!! The awareness is created . Many women that have gone through this horrific abuse . Know that are not alone . And stand by you Emma. And most gratifying os the Abused women that are still in there . Will feel strength from your story Emma . And the ones who don't know what they are going through yet . Will see the familiarity. I identify with you . I have been there . Am waiting fir mine to Run his mouth in the media . Cos he is A public figure . Then I will defend my dignity . You handle them in Need to do basis . Kudos Chude !voice to the voiceless.
This guy
Anyone who has not gone through narcissistic abuse can't understand what's going on here, narcissists are the worst people to date or marry, they'll turn your life upside down and takes years to rebuild your self worth again
Wishing the family the best
You just spoke my mind😊
Are you telling me that they are demons and maliciously evil.
They are more than demon, if i should tell you my story, i stayed with him for 26years with boys. Still on so many medication now. My story is long hmmm @@laughoncomedy2923
I recognised mine so early in the relationship and left the idiot. He was born the same month as Emeka Ike and they act so alike. very narcissistic! They're known as the nice and popular guy but behind closed doors they're evil . Very wicked human beings!
They are also the worst to have as bosses in workplaces. Gosh!!
Im here for two things.
1. Her dress is as beautiful as she is ❤
2. Michael is going to be an amazing young man! 🙌
I can’t stop crying while watching this video. Micheal and his mom were telling my story. Sending prayers to the family. 🙏
Sending you love ❤️
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Sending hugs
Sending you hugs ❤
What a handsome young man. Pls don’t let daddy’s anger destroy you. You are an adult you don’t need to copy his anger, free yourself so you don’t carry on that legacy in your future life.
I pray the son prospers and be everything his poor excuse of a “father” said he won’t. Sons don’t play about their mother he’ll learn the hard way. Young man, you’re not your “father” he has shown you what not to be as a man so now go into the world and do better.
He is treading the wrong path...
Dropped out of the university in Abuja and moved to Lagos working in a restaurant at the instant of his mother.
The mother is playing a dangerous game with the children and their future.
Time will tell.
@pool_of_ideas thank you 👍
He has to work on himself not be toxic later in life. I pray God gives him the grace. Children, unconsciously replay what their parents do while growing up. They are sponges absorbing everything in their environment. He needs to heal from the trauma he has experienced. Do we have 'shrinks' in Nigeria? They all need to see one.
You don’t have to go to uni to become somebody. As long as you can read and write. You never know if he’s smart he might one day own his own restaurant. We should stop this traditional mentality of you have to go to uni then work for somebody doing a 9-5 job
@@pool_of_ideasimage launderer 🙄
Shes really calm and relaxed saying all these. You are a strong woman. And i celebrate 🥳🥂 your strength
Bcos she has no choice. Where was you for 10 good years when the court has her to take custody of the children of which when refused.
Queen May II
Calm people are more dangerous
Don't be deceived by outward look
@adeyemiadeniyi1793 because she didn't have money she said that she should now start looking for home and food. He was well known , he took the children just to leave them in abuja fly Germany and get married what did they have to go through no mum no dad. Then he later came back and married someone in South Africa is women the problem or raising children you love
Can we say just how beautiful this woman is?? May God bless her and give her healing.
This young man is so handsome. Your future will be bright Inshallah. Thanks for protecting your mum.
This woman is peaceful..... she is so calm...chaiiii...I understand where she is coming from..... God will settle you
You can go and marry her naw....
I am a parent. My older son said some horrible & bad things to me during the break up with his mother. I never answered pim! Despite that, I NEVER reneged in my role as a father. I will NEVER EVER wish death or harm on my child whatever situation. I will rather die! . One day, my son dropped a note apologising for the things he said. Today, me and the mum are in 💯 peace anyone can imagine. We both prioritise the interest of the boys even though some things still hurt. Me and my son are in the best place a father and son can ever be.
Every situation is different but what is the end game in a beef that has lasted for over 10yrs. What does Emeka want to achieve by going to the press and the voice messages to his son?
Peace has to reign, we do not have long on this planet. The little time we have, let us live it in peace ✌🏿
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You forget. Emeka is the rule of Nigeria fathers you are the EXCEPTION SIR.
GOD BLESS YOU .
God bless you sir
I wish you well as you heal ❤
No.
Before blaming, who started the media frenzy? It was the dad who started it all.
Yeah he brought his family issue to the media, his wife has been silent
That means she is a good person, she keeps secrets
The whole family is in shambles. No one knows what is right or wrong.
Against the son? He is but a stupid boy.
Thank you very much 😊 😊
I've never cried listening to an interview and this one just made me break down. The pain this family has had to endure at the hands of a man who abdicated his role as husband and father, provider and protector. Left his family vulnerable and bleeding with fears of the future. It is painful. It really is. I pray with all my heart that the future shines down favourably for you and your kids, ma'am.
His father and him are twins! It’s amazing. Same mannerisms when speaking. Wow it’s beautiful to see the resemblance but sad to see the disconnect they have 😢!
That's why we're praying he doesn't eventually end up like his father. It's usually an unconscious thing. God, Michael decision and therapy will help
It breaks my heart to hear his son say he is worried about turning out like Emeka Ike. I pray that God blesses him and continues to guide his path.
I am crying
I am in tears
Father God
Remove the Scales
So that The Head of the House Can See what HE has done to HIS OWN CHILDREN
May God HEAL THIS FAMILY
IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS AMEN
This woman is a warrior! And should be protected ❤ Sending this family love and protection 🤗
U go Micheal 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽…if your dad couldn’t protect and respect your mom then u show him u are the real man and be there for her
Give Micheal a few years; he will be the real loser. No man disrespected his father like him and became successful in life. The same woman left you for many years; all he sees is the father, but today, he taught the Dad is evil. Please be patient; you will be sorry for him with time.
@@afolabitoye4393You wish. Michael will be be a successful man and he will marry well.
You're just a typical Nigerian man with an oversized ego who thinks men are always right. Emeka Ike should face his new wife and kids and stop telling lies..
He will be better than his father
@@afolabitoye4393go take a chill pill and sit down 🪑. You just said a whole bunch of nothing. Michael is the man his father never was.
@@efiaahimah3713 A man indeed. He ran away from school, and you think he's a man. We shall see!
He kept ranting ive paid your fees,money i didnt have😮 who's responsibility is that....its the same thing he said to his wife..i built for you,i made you,i bought for you. ..this proves all the woman is saying.....he does things for his family then uses it to dehumanise them.this is emotional abuse
Jesus please protect this child and his siblings. None of the curses rained on him will manifest. IJMN
unfortunately fathers curses always comes to pass
@@TochukwuOkaforthe blood of JESUS CHRIST speaks better things than the curses of fathers. It shall not come to pass in JESUS NAME !!!
AMEN!!!
Hearing the ex wife talk of her abuse triggered me. You cannot make up the things she said. I went through similar things. Emeka is a malignant narcissist. Mine is in the grave with his legs broken to fit into the casket. They don't end very well. Emeka is a broken man and he won't stop until his whole family is broken too. STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM AND NEVER LOOK BACK!
Wait have you watch the Johnnee Deep case? Omo fear women
They should go to court and prove it.4get media trial
@@laughterwebsEmeka ike is not Johnny depp now is he? Do you hear Johnny depp speak in a derogatory manner about any of his exes? Do you hear voice notes of him being abusive to his kids? Keep grasping for straws trying to defend this ape beast because you and him are exactly the same
@chilwell397 No need. God is the final Judge.
@@chilwell397but they have gone to court already, emeka decided to bring it back
My advice to Michael Ike is to set your bar in life and career higher than that of your dads. Surpass all his achievement and then he will respect you eventually and forgive him whether he says he is sorry in the future or not. Your case ia not a hopeless one. There are people who have faced more difficult ordeal in life and came out leading the rest of those against them.
From a personal experience, I see my mom's character in your moms. Our father told us very terrible, horrible and disgusting stories about our mom when we were little and living with him after the divorce but our mother refused to reply and denigrate him. The only thing she kept saying whenever we would sneak out to visit her was "I will never bias my children's minds or make them hate their dad, they will judge and decide for themselves when they grow up " And she was right.
Don't give up my son Michael, I'm your uncle somehow. Become something in life that's all that should matter to you most now.
The best advice for the son is to stay well away from the father. He is an evil, nasty, dangerous man.
I think you truly understand. I wish he has someone to tell him this. Celebrity needs friends too
Not really.. his success should not come with forgiveness from the father
Wrong.
First of all he must align with his dad, listing please cos u can't stop learning, his mom dragged him into a higher conflict stage, he should play with mind and chest cos it's there fight but on u to think
@@robertouko9871totally agree
Very sad story but can we take a moment to appreciate how the interviewer conducted himself so beautifully ...very professional and empathetic ❤
Thank you, Chude for giving this woman and her son a voice. Thank you.
When a son calls his dad: THIS GUY!!!!!.....MEHN THAT'S BEYOND REPAIR😢😢😢
If my dad ever spoke to me like that, I will call him worse ……
My dad would never even speak to me like that
Is sad
This is truly heartbreaking. Emeka Ike has inflicted a great deal of emotional damage on his family which may take years of extensive therapy and counselling to undo. I think Emeka himself is in urgent need of an intervention because he's clearly not been in control for a long time.
If he did not drop that voicemail nobody would believe these woman and her children.
Correct
Even now some of them are making excuses for that psycho.
Even after the voicemail some stupid people are still trying to justify Emeka Ike's actions
@@_d.395 they should go to court
Why did they not release all the conversation of the video? It should not be edited. However, let them go to court. Let no one find pity on the media. The media is not a court.
This woman needs her own youtube channel and let the audience embark on a healing journey with her and her family. I am 100%sure there are families that can relate to these lived experience and heal as well
Dear, you are perfectly right, the painful part is when we victims realized when to finally leave then Pasts and Close Families will advise for the sake of the children but I attempted suicide 3 times Physical Abuse, verbal, emotional and made me useless, worthless,the ugliest,. Until I met a Doctor who advised me.
I agree. She deserves to tell her story and make a life for herself through sharing and therapy. So many people are suffering in silence and people can relate. We will support her UA-cam channel.
This boy and the mum are pure
100%
This interview is so calm and intense
This young man has been through a lot. I pray God blesses and lifts him above his father’s curses
Such a curse will never work, it will backfire to the father because the son is innocent
I love this boy. He said “he’s here for the ride.” When a parent had lost all the respect needed. This is what he/she gets.👍🏾👏🏾✊🏾.
Some parents think talking tough really helps. No. Especially when dealing with an adult child. You cannot be saying all that horrible things to him and think he’ll respect you.
His mom better hide away or leave Nigeria.
@The_Cruise_Fam
Well said; I wondered why there were no trigger warnings before the videos.
Only those who have not gone through abuse or those who are desensitised to violence will state that everything she has said is a lie.
That said, let's hope she is not Amber Heard 2.0
@@Meandyouisnus😅😅n, n
I'm shocked as to how deluded some of you guys are by thinking that the boy challenging his father is not a sign of disrespect. Chude should have played whatever the boy sent his father first for him to get that response from him. It's shocking.
In my opinion , an adult child should challenge his father and mother when he or she sees they are wrong. For example, my adult kids still challenge me sometimes when I go out of line. This makes me reflect on my actions or behaviour. We are still best of friends 😊
I just wonder how they grow up in such a toxic and bitter environment. Hopefully
they don't struggle with any relationship....
@@Meandyouisnusis definitely an abuse and if it is the UK, he will surely be attending a parenting class and mentally/emotionally examined before he will be allowed to come close to his kids.
I am a grown woman married with 3 kids now, I can relate with this woman's story because this is the same exact thing that my mum went through in my dad's hand, she left the marriage after 17 years too, it was not easy for us growing up leaving with our dad he wanted us to hate our mother but he couldn't give us the love because he was a sociopath, we ended up loving our mother more, even though she was far away. Fast forward to this present day, our dad is now old and he regrets everything but still he cannot put his ego aside to apologize to our mother, so we all have moved on. We show each of them their due respects, my dad lives with his new wife, my mum lives in a house built for her by my brother even though there is still hurts in our hearts we all has just found a way to move on with our lives. Our only regret is we were 6 children but 1 died in all of these drama
Even though you lost a sibling in this tragedy, it could’ve been worse if your mother had stayed and lose her life in the cycle of abuse. Please be grateful you have her and each other today,you and your siblings can show her love that she was deprived of in her prime
Should I say this my stories or what this person knows me 😢
Well we all going through one things or the another in our parents hand
I can relate to your experience very well. VERY VERY WELL
Just like what we went through, we lost 1 out of 4 of us, my dad is doing everything to turn my brother heart again my mum now
My mother left after 15 years and 6 children... I relate to this sad reality 😢😢
Africa why?🤦🏾♀️
Only someone who has encountered a narcissistic partner before will understand this situation and understand the grief this woman is going through. It is just normal that people will believe the abuser over the victim which is normal where narcissism is concerned.
Talk to any young man who grew up with an abusive and a narcissist father. They are scared that they will end up like their father. These young men grew up without a role model and their brains saved everything their fathers were doing that was actually unacceptable in their eyes. They can become very insecure. Like they say, a victim can also become an abuser. Emeka needs to check his childhood too. His son is doing a great job for speaking out his fears. A professional psychologist support section would be great for him and his mom.
This is so true. Sometimes even with girls, they may internalize what they’ve seen in their parents marriage and end up in that situation if care is not taken because that’s what they grew up seeing
In my own cas,it affected my children especially my first child character.she always behave violent every time she talks,and in whatever she does especially with her siblings. I just pray God to help me.
Absolutely, Emeka Ike needs to check his background. It is very common with people who grew up in abusive home, watching either their father abuse their mother or other way round, it always have impact in the lives of children of that marriage negatively as they repeat what their parents do. It hard for most people to reject that background when they become adult, rather they bring the same bad ingredients to season any marriage or relationship they enter into.
You people are so quick to judge. You only heard one side of the story. Did you people hear the full clip of the audio. A child that abandoned his university program in Abuja and expect the father to be happy. Why we the woman go to Abuja to pick them when you know that the boy is in the university. So you expect the father to be happy after all his labour
@@adeyemiadeniyi1793 I believe you are typical Yoruba man. From your comment it shows you don't put the well being of everyone in the family first. Since in Yorubaland the father must be satisfied while the mother and children suffer to fulfill father's wish. It is written husbands love your wife. Fathers do not provoke your children to wrath.
An abuser gets angry when the abused goes away, there’s no other explanation. You are the object of all his frustrations, so “the trash can” doesn’t have the right to get up and leave. My SIL went through this, even after she left he was still trying to spoil her name EVERYWHERE!
Nobody should say she brought her son to speak. He wanted to do so himself
He wants to be popular naaaa. So maybe he will start an acting career.
Social media is the tool these days.
Nawaoh! Smtims it baffles me how some persons thinks
Emeka brought this upon himself, he has been talking up on down for 10 years now without the woman responding. Now they are speaking up 👏
Most emotional interview I have ever listened to , you can tell
The hurt in this young man’s heart and his mother.💔
I can relate to Michael's plight...my father did no drugs but behaved just as this Emeka...beauty is,truth always wins...may take long but will always eventually surface
Many people experience this.
But, the cultural norm is to stay silent.
I salut this woman she is sooo pure
Damn she’s very strong! People don’t know what it feels like to go through abuse 😢
@@seonieziugo Yes she is sooo honest and sooo logic..... Great mami and beauriful to🥰🥰
People who know and work with her say her heart is pure and she's an empath to the core!
You know you have failed when your son says "I dont want to be like my dad".
A boy who is already a rascal?
@@meekyngum2015fool
I dont agree, suppose he shares more DNA from his father than his mother.
I agree completely
@@steventumwesigye8756🤦🏾♀️
He is so cute,
He took his mum's skin Colour and father's lovely smile
I pray the boy gets signed and I pray he makes it in his musical career so that he will have the means to take care of his mom first, then his dad.
YES!!! Let us make it happen, let us tag Don Jazzy!!!
@Don jazzy
The ex wife and the children should go for counseling. It is necessary and has to be done.
And Emeka himself too
@@temmymol9163 Emeka has to first come to terms with himself and realize he has a drug problem and other issues and he needs help. Until he does that, I can’t seem going to counseling.
Brave young man! God bless you Michael: you will live long, you will prosper and a causeless curse shall NEVER stand in your life. I reject it for you in Jesus name 🔥 you will rise, you will stand strong and you will be a light to your generation. Amen!!
It is sad that a woman has to face so much abuse and then go through another round when she speaks out against her husband's behavior. A husband who knows he needs help but will not admit.
People even insulted this lady because she said she wanted to be an actress; according to them, her husband was looking out for her good by not encouraging her. Meanwhile, hear what the same husband said about his son's intrest and how he will never amout to anything! Who in their right mind does that.
You can imagine 😢
Beats me o
It wasn't good for her or does he actually means his ego? It was OK for his dreams as an actor to come true but not hers?
Her son coming to support her is not in anyway wrong. This is where we Africans get it wrong we make it look like the man is always right and can do no wrong, the majority of the men today who actually stand for the truth when it comes to issues affecting women are men who have experience/witnessed it through a mother, a sister, a wife or a loved one for those who have not witnessed it they tend to view women as evil manipulative and wicked, this is very wrong cos we are all humans and like it or not just like you hear of evil women there are also evil men.
So sad
Lol, hearing him talk reminds me so much about myself to be honest. He's actually telling the truth. I haven't spoken to my father in over 9 years or so and I'll very much like to keep it that way for my own peace of mind. Very similar scenarios actually. The last SMS my dad sent me was so nasty I couldn't even believe a grown person could think of writing such, to the point I just backed up the SMS despite changing phones severally and till this day I've never told my mom, sister, or brother. My mom hardly spoke ill about him knowing fully well I'll grow up to see the reality for myself. Very similar traits with what Emeka Ike is exhibiting: playing the victim mindset, blaming everybody but himself. Very very similar traits actually.
Watching him talk just made me reflect on why I tend to push any woman interested in me away. I really don't believe in marriage nowadays, and I'm just better off on my own. I know what he's referring to having that fear of ending up like his father or sometimes not being good enough for someone 🤷♂ That fear is what made him probably grow up to be this calm, conserved and most likely avoid confrontations especially with women. No matter how much he thinks he's moved past it, it still haunts you once in a while like a doubt.
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This is sad ! This damage is serious!
We can’t underestimate the affect to their soul. May they all find peace!
Praying for them.
And many families are going through this and this is why I am crying!
I believe everything Susan and her son said, u can hear the pain in their voices and it’s not anger it’s pain they are tired. EMEKA IKE leave them alone u have another family leave this woman alone!!!!!!
This boy is smarter than his father. He is not a narcissist and i pray he doesn't follow his father foot step.
i applaud him for this single action during the interview...
interview: you said when your mum left he stated doing same thing he was doing to your mum to you guys. can you tell about it?
the boy: i don't want to into all that is private, i only came to let you know that whatever he said about my mum are all liars.
BUT IT REACH EMEKA TURN...
He started blabbing rubbish on air.
Even his interviewer said i didn't know you will go this detail.
God forbid a foolish father for our children 😢
And some badly raised men has been saying all sort of thing on line. God will bless this handsome young man.
Indeed...He gave so much unsolicited data...A real shame indeed !!!
@@josephinenamakaupumulo138 you are the real shame and you must jam the likes of Emeka to format your fish brain
Mental health really needs to be prioritized in Nigeria. This Emeka most definitely suffers from narcissism. Even possible bipolar.
True!!!
Im crying hearing this lady. Ohhhh bless you all. Love you to bits
So much hurt in their voices that makes this so heartbreaking but God will heal you all. You are who God says you are.❤
Dear God please protect this woman and her children. And for people questioning their story, open your eyes. This is not about tradition or "Nollywood" fine boy, it's about abuse in its full scale. If this lady has kept quiet for 10 years, that speaks volume, and adds a lot of validity to her story. Listening to, and looking at the son says a lot about what they went through.
Such a great and strong woman. May God heal this young man and help him to be very stable and established in life.
God bless Micheal Ike. God please guide this young man. Keep him, provide for him.
God Bless everyone that breaks the chains of toxic culture!!!🔗💔🔗💔🔗💔
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Watching this interview made me cry a million tears...
I grow up in this kind of home or even worst...
I have never tested what true love really means especially from my father...
He even looked into my eyes to tell to tell me that a girl child can never be productive to him...
Alot of things...
God help me
It's well with you dear❤
This is so sad to hear. Suzanne, you made the best decision leaving to stay alive. Micheal Ike, you are brave, you're smart and intelligent. You can be all that you want to be because you know what not to be. Hope you all get therapy, get healing, and enjoy the most out of this life. Life is beautiful, enjoy it! I pray God’s love and comfort envelope you'll. Stay strong 💪.
I hope Chude can get counselling for this young man and siblings
Exactly.
I'm so thankful people are beginning to see the truth. Thanks for speaking up young man. I pray for healing. 😢
Emeka Ike should please please please see a psychologist over in Germany when he gets back. This is just emotional trauma all round. Thank God the woman said she plans to go to therapy with the kids. I am just crying here for the kids...especially the younger ones. This hurt needs to stop so everyone can start healing. Please Almighty God give this family strength and healing.
Thanks to everyone who shared their stories!!! Sending Light, Love and Healing ❤
My heart felt for him when he asked if he would be like his father
Trust me
The awareness is there but he has to be intentional and work the part of not being his father. Most times, kids call out their parents for bad behavior and then go back to walk that bad part.
@@blossomdeejohn7699 absolutely.
It's good he is asking now... So he can evaluate himself.
@@blossomdeejohn7699his mom has prepared him very well to be his father. Whatever his father is.
I'm seeing the strength of the mother in the son. I just pray for true, deep total healing for them. But honeslty that Emeka guy is a tormented soul oh. He needs Jesus.
Only if adults know the damage they do to their kids when they fight the will stop the hatred towards each other and grow up. Emeka Ike needs to take accountability and grow up.
Narcissists are never wrong. There's no room for accountability FORGET IT.
This video made me cry 😢
I love her strength
She is telling my story😭hugs to Us Mum❤ The Lord is our Strength🙏🏼
WOW!! Please reach out to a friend or some loved one. Hang in there, please 😢
Emeka should watch his words towards his children he should be blessing them not cursing them
this words are mostly use by Nigerian parents not like they mean it. your parents might say a lot to you
@@kingsleyoyaire9960 God forbid!!! Nothing is normal about wishing your child death... Nothing... That's not how Nigerian parents are
Thank you because they still remain his children, he should Never use curses over them.
@kingsleyoyaire9960 this african mentality that it's just a child and that boy is now a man, and he is trying to pave his way through life and separate which way to follow, good or bad. I would never curse my child nomatter how angry and this is what the younger generation are striving for, raise our children to have more empathy.
Words are spirit. They may not mean them but ...@kingsleyoyaire9960. Its not just naija thing.most subsahra African parents are like that
Those are signs of a man who has lost it all but doesn't have the courage to accept reality. This is the biggest weakness we men have, our ego won't allow us to admit we have failed yet it's the only way problems get solved. Emeke should accept the reality, yes you married her as a nobody but she's currently a different person now, she was a naive 18yr old that could bow down, right now she's a grown woman and you should engage her at that level, not the 18 yr old you married
Exactly same thing happened to my friend. The man couldn't accept that my his 19 year old wife has grown. She was 30 then... They are divorced now and She is thriving well. Men who seek under 25 years when the frontal cortex of the brain have not yet matured are predators
These were Emeka's thought processes when marrying her
@@Meandyouisnus when you marry a 19 yr old, there's definitely a power shift. She's literally at your mercy
As a parent, always refrain from speaking negative upon your children, because you will be the same parent who will have to clear it. Then you wonder why your children turn out the way they do. That audio was a NO NO.
This family needs our prayers. Ego, pride and lies are what destroy most families. Prayers can change things.
I believe the woman 100%
Woman, you are strong and your heart is pure! I pray more strength for you.
This is traumatizing from a father. This is an extreme incident of mental psychological abuse. I am even traumatized after listening to this voice message.
Children do NOT Apologize. Parents do ~ A solid woman. She ain’t going nowhere. Emeka will go down 🤡
Look Emeka dosent need to go down. We are angry as to how he treated his wife but ild say this should open the door for healing.
All the best.❤
Some humans always want to take the position of God. What God can not do does not exist. He is not going down if God did not say so.
She said he didn't have to apologise but they (herself and emeka ) aught to apologise to him and the children for how they couldn't handle things well. This woman throughout this conversation even though abused has been accountable I can't even say so for Emeka from a neutral side . He's been bragging and saying stuff that do not even add up. Threatening low key and all. Try and listen with neutral ears and be true to yourself. No one wants emeka to go down though , we hope he heals from whatever is worrying him .
Emeka himself needs help. He obviously has not healed from the frustration and disappointments of the past. It seems he is transferring that agression to the children. I hope he finds a way to fix all these before it is too late.
WHAT???;You're sick, just like Emeka.
I feel sorry for them. Victims of abuse go through so much. I must however take off my hat for the lady. She did her best to protect the mental wellness of her children. Unfortunately, she couldn't because of the manic phase their dad was in. I pray for peace in their lives. They truly deserve therapy.
Mrs Suzanne,thank you for leaving that toxic marriage to build yourself,the Lord will comfort and heal you and make all good things sufficient for you and your children. Please Michael Ike you need to believe and work it out that you won't end up like your Father.You need to forgive your parents and be intentional about working on every negative trait of him in you because sometimes when we live the negative patterns of our parents we eventually become that person we hate them for. Hence, as products of a dysfunctional home we need to stop pointing fingers at our parents ,forgive them totally and build and work on ourselves intentionally so as not to repeat their patterns and eventually make our children have such horrible experience and tell the same story. Most of these parents need help and their bad behaviour might sometimes be as a result of their past wound,terrible childhood experience and trauma...You cannot give what you don't have ...
This woman would have made it sooooo big if she didn't meet this man
Fr!!!! Like he ruined her now he wants to do same to the kids😢 😢
She’s so beautiful
She would’ve been a star
Chai 😢
May the Lord be the Father to this young man . Bring inner healing from the damage
Mum.you did well to leave other wise your sons would have thought that is normal.
When I heard emeka ike was back acting I was happy for him...everyone deserves a second chance. When I saw the channels interview....still talking about his ex wife, bashing her..i was sad because i realized this man has not healed. Same old emeka from way back when....still in his old ways. Instead of facing your new life, promoting your new movie etc your still back here dragging your old baggage around, still trying to convince us your ex wife is a bad person.
Isnt he married to some woman in germany? What is the obsession about? She left you so you want to make her life miserable? Its so obvious he doesnt care about his children, he just wants to destroy this woman.
Do y'all understand what it takes for your own pastor to find you a lawyer to get divorced in nigerian society???? I'm glad she's telling her story, sometimes telling your side of things especially when you have been quiet for so long can bring peace and closure.
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Narcissist through and through. I hope all these people giving that man a platform can read between the lines. 😞😞😞
Only ppl who have experienced a narcissistic partner and the horrific damage they can cause will understand what this woman and her children have suffered and will continue to suffer, because as long as Emeka Ike has a platform, he will continue to drag this poor lady and hate his children by her. It is a mental, psychological behavioral problem called narcissism. His ego is the most important thing to him and he will attack anyone or anything ( children included) who dares to touch it. public image is everything to a narcissist and he will lie and continue the smear campaign against this woman and her kids relentlessly to look like the victim and always appear good in the public eye. He will NEVER change. He lacks empathy and the capacity to love is totally foreign to him. He fears and hates rejection and must always be right. Unfortunately he will continue to use his celebrity/media status to ridicule, hurt and torment this lady. I really feel for her. He is incapable of making peace and as long as she exist, he will continue to fear her exposing his true colors, so he will keep attacking her. She is a living witness to the monster he truly is and he will continue to destroy her image non stop. Only very intelligent ppl will listen and figure out the truth because narcissist are master manipulators so that even the victims will begin to doubt themselves. It is well with you madam. God keep you and your kids.
Currently battling mine, the day I had a name for it I started my healing process.
Hello there. You summed it up perfectly. I encourage all to read your summation and learn what it take to deal with individual of his characters
@@ogoombaka2022 I am happy for your discovery and the beginning of your healing process
I can now stop writing. I have been everywhere replying to comments in anger and irritation mostly. So, @everyone, come here and learn. Hugs.
Very Well Said..... Narcissist r very dangerous people.
This woman is just like my mom very calm and collected kudos to you ma, you are the best a warrior and calm
Praying for everyone this is sad.
Many lessons to learn. videos from both parties going viral already.
You can see the sadness in their eyes😢. Fear of turning out to be the abuser is real
Because it happens often.
Yea so real I tell you. Only God and the boy's firm decision not to turn out like the father, and also therapy can help in this situation.
Because alot of times, it's usually unconscious
At least he knows it which is his first and beginning of healing.
Emeka Ike has his own story to tell maybe but did he learn, heal and come to terms with them.?
He never see his own mistakes, always blaming and pushing the other partner under the bus.
The difference himself and his ex-wife...you can see the sadness from her side, the regrets(accepting maybe her faults- no one is perfect). Accepting both herself and Ike's faults thereby hoping to apologize to the kids (side eyes to some African parents) because , they are the parents and every of their actions brought them to that point.
But Emeka Ike 👉 The wife is the problem, but he's right 👍
That is so true. It can be hard moving on from trauma especially when you know you've been damaged from it.
Not discounting the fact that men suffer from DV and that some women would lie to destroy their partner's reputation, something in me tends to believe this woman. From the way she spoke, you'd know she's tired. Trust me, it is physically and emotionally draining to deal with Narcissists. The constant barrage of stress never ends. I pray they all find peace.
She’s telling the truth. For many years, people have talked about witnessing Emeka’s abusive ways, but when people try to speak-out, Emeka threatens them.
My instincts totally believe her cos the kids were with Emeka in Abuja so why did they turn against him if he was good
Suzanne you are the best mom every child wished for,may God continue to strengthen you,help you and your children,no woman leaves a rossy home just to suffer alone
After how many years of abandoning her children. Best mother indeed.