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- Опубліковано 17 сер 2024
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0:00 Intro
0:38 What are love languages?
1:07 Why is it important?
1:46 How do you do it?
3:02 Gift giving
5:14 Physical Touch
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When you said boyfriend, I squealed for you. You have literally been such a positive influence on my life during the hardest time... I'm glad someone is showering you with love. 💜
SAME I JUST MADE A ~NOISE~
When she said it I was like "Girl, I'm happy for you!"
I had to rewind 10sec. 😂 I was like hold up. ... wut
I stopped the video just to comment as well lol. How cute.
Hold up, you casually just drop a surprise at 4:00 and continue nonchalantly. WOW I’M SO HAPPY FOR YOU CONGRATS!!
I KNOW RIGHT?! When Did this happen? Where does he live (thousands of miles away)? What, what, what, WHAT?
aw, your boyfriend calls you 'sweetest potato', too! + the kdrama references. you were so smiley when you were reading his words of affirmation & that was the cutest thing 💛
That's my thesis in college!!!
How Love Languages of Parents Influence the Personality of their Children❤️
Wow that's a nice topic😍
Okay, now I want to read this
totally need to read this thesis
may I read it too? :D
Thank you fooor appreciating🤗😍 Overview💕 Im a psychology major. Got inspired by a friend who ddnt quite feel like her mom loves her, but i noticed that her mom gives her so much gifts! Like really. So i thought to myself "if that isn't love, then what is it??" So I researched about it, then decided it to be my thesis so I could fully dive in😊 Majority of the respondent parents were in quality time, last is gifts. Self-sufficiency of children was found to be significantly associated with the words of affirmation of parents. Emotional stability and dominance were significantly related with having quality time with children. 😊
BoYfRiEnD🥰🥰🥰🥰
Aaaah! ❣ I screamed when you mentioned "my boyfriend" ✨ happy me!!!
Sames and I'm in the school library lols,
When she said "boyfriend". I was like, really girl?
Been bingeing your videos since the start of lockdown. As a result, I felt connected with you throught your heartbreaks, low lights and slowly pulling back yourself together thru self love. I really love your content and appreciate it to move forward and be inspired. Im happy to see joy sparks in your eyes 💕 sending all my love and prayers from the Philippines.
The 'in-love Rowena' is SO CUTE AAAAA I'm happy for youu and may you always surrounded by people who make you genuinely happy ✨
the way i screAMED 'SHES GOT A BOYFRIEND' AHHHH im so happy for u :')))
It makes me feel so happy when people who have done self care, self love and growth get into a relationship. It’s just so pure because you know they are strong on their own but they’ve found someone who complements their life and just wow it’s so beautiful. All the best, Rowena. You deserve it all.
Oh yeah that's how every relationship should be
"my boyfriend" aucchh.. So happy for u!
Very much needed amidst lockdown here in India...
Can we just take a second to appreciate the editing its soo aesthetically pleasing ❤️❤️
I recently went sober, and I'm like 77 days in, but I have to tell you how much more "Feely" I am. I almost cried when you read the words from your bf, and your reaction. I totally relate on being shy or embarrassed when being told how good I am or kind or nice...It's, like, I've trained myself to be cold-hearted to protect myself. It's really hard to unlearn that in order to be comfortable in vulnerability. I really appreciate you too.
Yoooo I feel this 100%. I thought I was a low empathy person naturally, until I stopped shoveling chemicals into my face for a couple years. It's all back now :) 💕
SHES BACK!!! I clicked so fast haha. My love language is words of affirmation and quality time ♥️
I was struggling a lot spiritually and mentally yesterday, I’m at a place in my life where I feel I have a lot of important identities to figure out and make room for and I never seem to have the wisdom to know what I need to do (if that makes any sense!). This video has inspired me to do a few things for myself just to give myself a break. I think I’ll write myself some words of affirmation and do a few acts of service (clean my room) for future me :)
I truly love to watch Korean Drama's as well. I find they help me focus on one thing and if I am overwhelmed they shift my focus to one thing. I recommend watching Hospital Playlist, Reply 1988, Hello My Twenties they are all on Netflix and all have the realistic and relatable feels. If you want watch to more serious drama's I recommend Save Me, Extracurricular, and Mother (Korean). They are all masterpieces which will hook you and talk about very sensitive topics. Also sorry if this kind of long, I am not very good texting I prefer to talk to someone in person.
Mr Sunshine is rlly nice too!! I recommend u to check that out:)
I agree with all your recommendations. LOVED all of those. Hospital Playlist gave me such empty feeling after it finished. Try Oh My Baby, not sure if it's on Netflix though. It's a really good story line.
OMG! I did a little dance when you said “boyfriend.” I’m so happy for you, Rowena! 😭❤️
Your video style is so zen and relaxing.
The Jung Tae Eul to my Lee Gon got me all (blush
I love this video! Thank you Rowena, I was at a pretty difficult time in my life when I found you a few years ago. I had lost my dad, I'd been struggling with my health in a terrible work situation and suddenly the head of the household while living thousands of miles away from any family. I started doing qi gong, taking care of myself, which was huge because I had been self-harming for many years and was extremely self-depricating. Now I appreciate myself more, you taught me that it's important to take care of yourself in order to help others. I found myself looking for more purpose and enjoying life more, I was inspired to ditch my workplace for something better and I even got a raise and more freedom and praise, I feel much better about myself and much more purposeful. Every time you post, I feel like it's a message to remind me it's okay to be a little selfish and take care of myself. I just finished working the "summer break" in which I overworked and completely forgot about myself. Yesterday I was wrapping everything up, and today when I go online, your video on my feed reminded me to take care of myself now. :)
P.S. I'm very glad you have someone, he seems like a kind genuine person from that letter and someone as wonderful as you definitely deserves someone like that. :)
When you mention about boyfriend, I'm happy for you Rowena...
Thank you for always being mindful & creative in your video...
Thanks Rowena💕
Been talking this book with my boyfriend. We've realized what are our highest emotional needs of each other out from the 5 languages of love. We hope we can pour those emotional needs to each other.
Wishing you all the best Rowena. I love you since 2018😘
"this was gifted to me, by, my ~boyfreeend~"
I swear rowena its like you can read my mind... I recently had a therapy appointment where my therapist told me to use my love languages to treat myself and BAM you give me a bunch of options only a week later!! thank you rowena! stay safe and stay happy!! 💖
This was so enjoyable to watch and so VERY profound and helpful. I am so excited to start applying these to myself and also revisiting them with my friends and family ♥️♥️👍🏾.
I just discovered your channel and I can’t get enough!!! 🙏🏾. I have learned so MUCH from you. I started watching Jon Jandai because of you sharing about him and he is also changing my life.
You are doing a good work. Thanks sooo much 🙏🏾♥️👍🏾. May you be blessed to continue to do all you do.
Amazing video as always Ro. Btw, I have a video idea suggestion, I would love to see a tour of your place, I'm loving the snippets that we get to see and the place looks colourful and beautiful.
I love how you’re at 500k. I remember this when this was a baby Channel and your quality was still as amazing as today.
I love seeing the growth of you and your channel
Mines Act of Service😍 my hubby's is verbal praise....so we clash like crazy🤣🤣😁
Someone can say fluffy stuff but if they don't actively help me, it doesn't impress me much.
Words are important, we hear and feel each word - Mines is “Words of affirmations”
Nancy Vega lol I didn’t know anyone thought of it as “fluffy stuff!” This comment section is really proving to me that we all perceive types of love differently. to me, I need someone to verbally express their love or I don’t feel any love coming from them at all
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heheehhe so happy for you hehehe uwu i remember watching your videos on how you spend your time alone and that really helped me get through my season of singleness but now to see how we've both grown and learned to love i am so happy and grateful!! you are a wonderful human being
I loveeee dramas too♡ Currently watching W - Two Worlds Apart. But I always feel this weird guilt of 'waisting' time while spending time on Netflix. How do you deal with that?
PS. This is another greaaat video. You always manage to combine aestethics, entertainment and deep content. Sending you so much love!
Thanks for the informative video 💕 Also an underrated book on love but one that I highly recommend is “all about love” by bell hooks!!
I've been watching Hotel Del Luna (per your recommendation in another video!) with my partner. He is also thousands of miles away in England so other than our short and lovely visits our quality time has always been spent watching shows together and playing video games and sometimes I like to read to him as well :)
also obsessed with it's okay to not be okay!!! 💛
I absolutely love Its Okay to Not Be Okay ❤️
Also, I like your pokemon your BOYFRIEND gave you!!
YOU GO GIRL!!
Rowena I LOVE YOUU OMG you’re such an amazing and loving human being 🌟💕
你好，Ro! 🌺 Hope you're doing alright during this turbulent time 🌿 Stay well!
okie your boy literally said the words i would have said and i am sure so so many of us would have said THANK YOU RO your presence is so appreciated and uplifting and grounding at the same time
I'm almost completely even on physical touch/quality time/acts of service -- which is interesting because previously when I've done these quiz touch wasn't on there like that! We change as we grow and experience things, it was nice to take a look and see where I'm at now. Thank you for being a positive influence for so many people. I'm happy for your new relationship, I hope it's a blessing for you both!
This video couldn't have come at a better time, i just came out of a very intense semester of uni, and in the progress i sacrificed my social life and would often put my health and happiness second. Now that i am on break i realise how much pressure i put on myself to make others happy, whilst forgetting my own. Your videos are soo inspiring and amazing, thankyou for me reminding to take care and love myself as well. As congrats on your new relationship, you deserve so much love.
I was honestly tearing up when she read her bf's words of affirmation, that was so cute🥺 I hope I find someone who feels that way about me someday
We love you too rowena! You make everyone’s life so bright 💛 thanks for caring, you inspire me so much
one of my favorite videos of yours is the one where you explain why you were single on that time (that video is pure wisdom) then, after watching this and telling us you have a boyfriend AND reading us the text he sent to you I can only say i'm so glad you're with a person like him, that appreciates everything you are and you do. lots of love always Ro!!!
I love your personality and this video idea ☺️💕 wow what a great letter 😭😭 sooo cute
I screamed. I’m so happy for u!!!!! Everyone deserves to love themselves and others 💜
Omg I love love love this video. I’m so happy that you have a boyfriend who spoils you, and his letter to you had me in tears it was so sweet ❤️ my partner and I have been together for almost 15 years now and I still love it when he does little things to spoil me, like buying something that he knows would help me or make me feel better. It makes me feel so special. After watching your videos I also decided to check out some K dramas and I binge watched My Secret Romance on Netflix and loved it so much. Can’t wait for your next video ❤️❤️❤️
Oh em geeeee boyfieeeeeee!! Happy for both of you hehe 😉 thanks for this video Rowena. 💕
Yay!! Congrats! I've been watching your channel for so long and you inspire me so much! we have so much in common! It helps me find ways to keep myself sane lol
mine is primarily gift giving, and i’ve found it to be a tough one sometimes because i find myself putting so much effort into the gifts and then receiving no reciprocation whatsoever. however, i know that it’s not personal, it’s just not their love language. *shrugs* it can be a toughie, especially around christmas.
So happy to see you genuinely happy, Rowena! You deserve nothing but the best :)
♥️♥️♥️ Loved this book and theory. Wonderful video 😊😊😊
Omg same, idk how to react to compliments / words affirmation too 😅😂 But yes, the closest people to me actually are helping me out to make progress hehehe. ANYWAYYYY AHHHH THAT LIFE UPDATE !!! i'm so happy for youuuuu, Ro! 😍
My Unfamiliar Family, Oh My Baby and Hospital Playlist have been my recent favorites- first two are quite underrated dramas I think.
Thank you for always tackling the larger and small topics that help us with our relationships (with others and ourselves). Your videos are always much loved and deeply appreciated. Take care and stay safe Rowena.
rowena I am so happy for you
I absolutely agree that plants are better than flowers! Also CONGRATS on your relationship ;)
Another quiz I think more people need to do besides the love languages is the apology language (created by the same people and it's also on the website). It's good to know how you like to be apologized to and how others want to be apologized to as well.
I just love you soooooo much you have no idea how much you've helped me... I'm so so so so thankful for you...
I’ve been missing your videos!! Glad you’re back!
During all this time I've been looking at your videos I've come to think of you as a friend. Your reflexions, wisdom and life experiences have helped me grown and think about things in a different way; your laughter and jokes makes me really happy and I truly admire how far you've come *-*... with that said, all I can add is that I'm truly happy for you! I know relationships aren't all, but they can bring light and joy to a simple day, I wish you the best! (yes, words of affirmation.....deal with that xD)
I think what made me tear up was when Ro got all emotional reading the words of affirmation from her boyfriend! I have never seen her glow so much ❤️ this means alot-seeing my Ro happy
This one brought a hugeeee smile to my face!
OMG clicked so fast i LIVE for your content
Thank you Rowena ☺️ watched this first thing this morning and it’s really put me in a good, loving mindset for the day 🥰💛
Thank you, thank youuuu so much for this video. Stay healthy and be happy :)
HAHAHHA when you responded to his words of affirmation 😍🥰
im also watching "it's okay to not be okay". my favorite dramas are "search: www" and "while you were sleeping"
Amazing ♡ love the concept!
wow that segmentation is doope thank you
Thank you for the video!!! Great ideas!!! ... It's ok not to be ok is such a great drama!!!
It’s okay not to be okay! I’m LOVING this drama too^_^ (your vidéos are always such a breathe of fresh air Rowena!)
Omg the creative ending was so adorable.
Thank you for this video! Very relevant and helpful right now. I’m so happy for you with your relationship, and your significant other is lucky to have such an incredible person!
I'm so happy for you sweetie! You look so happy and in love! Wishing you the best Rowena!☺️
Whoever was lucky enough to snag you is one lucky bastard.
"Face it, tiger. You hit the jackpot."
@@BeethovenIsGrumpyCat I bet he's Asian 🤣
your letter from your bf had me like 🥺🥺🥺 so happy for youuuu :)
Rowena, this video meant so much to me! Thank for spending time and gifting this to all of us 💞 I am here with my undivided attention and love!
Hey Rowena! I’m a fan from Singapore. I would like to say thank you for always making my day better. You changed my mindset (+ve way) and lifted my mood and fill me with positive energy. I appreciate the video you make! I just can’t thank you enough 😭
You make such great, informative content! Thanks for all your hard work
this certain video became a lil special because you’ve mentioned your boyfriend 😍😍 It’s a joy for us knowing that our Happy pill is now inlove😍😍 Hey you! mr.sweetest potato! if you happen to read these comments pls take a good care of ‘our Rowena’ even if she’s independently strong enough to carry herself.. she still need a man who will complete her. Always make her feel loved mr.sweetpotato because she really deserves all the love in the world.🖤
This was so cute! Thank youuu!!! Love your videos 😊
omg, i literally took my love language test last night and then this?! Insane synchronicity!!! Missed you 💛🐬
Beautiful video
HELLO MISS ROWENA I UST WANT TO THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO BECAUSE OF IT, I WAS INSPIRED TO DO THIS AND MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY SAID THAT I SHOULD CONTINUE IT AND THAT THEY LIKE IT! SORRY IF COMMENTED IT ALL IN CAPSLOCK I'M NOT SHOUTING IT'S JUST MAYBE IT CAN HELP ME TO CALL YOUR ATTENTION BECAUSE IREALLY WANT TO THANK YOU! PLEASE CONTINUE MAKING VIDEOS LIKE THIS! =)
YES YOURE WATCHING ITS OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY
OMG😯 she's also watching it's okay not to be okay💖💖💖 i really love that kdrama💛💛💛
so. good. 😭💕
@@rowena yess 💖💖💖 its is not just the cast that i love, but also the story and the lessons that you will learn from watching it💛💛💛😍
I'm so excited for you and the joy you've experienced in your life! You so so deserve it! Your videos honestly inspired me to start making videos as well so I appreciate that forever
I really love how you found someone that appreciate you the same way you appreciate yourself! That's what struck me the most 🤧 Thank you for this Rowena, I hope you're doing great! 💖 You don't know how much you have changed my life, ever since I decided to get it all together and to enjoy my life, one step at a time! 💖
Ps. You should watch Reply 1988!! 100/10 would recommend (and yes, that's a hundred!)
I've been watching my first k drama (because of u ^_^) on Netflix it's called hello my twenties!
Immediately gave myself a spa day when you mentioned it, thank you rowena!! So happy for you and your new boyyyfren 🥰🥰
Made my day!! So happy for you 🌞💛⭐️
Omg thank you for the pdf!! I'm so excited to start reading it
I love your videos so much, you have really helped me, thank youuu
She’s wonderful ♥️
Hey Rowena!
I absolutely love your content and am looking forward to every new upload!
But.. i know i might sound unthankful, that's absolutely not my intention: would it be possible to place the ads differently? I get up 8-10 spots every video and it's basically impossible to watch your video while e.g. doing chores like the dishes because those ads are sometimes quite long and disruptive. I absolutely want to support you but just wanted to let you know in case you haven't noticed and haven't looked into other solutions yet.
Anyways, otherwise:, thanks for your inspiring, calming and aesthetical content!
wonderful video!! truly feel all types of love from you watching your content^^
SO HAPPY FOR YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!
your videos are just so precious!
Great video, Rowena! I have an idea what works with my top love language but not my secondary and third one. This gives me such great ideas that I want to impliment them immediately! 😄 I'll add some things that I've found works for me in terms of Physical Touch (many are already addressed in the video--they work!):
1. Buy a shiatsu electric massager. I didn't realize it but I carried my stress in my back. Having a small electronic shiatsu massager (they're $30 on Amazon) has been amazing. After addressing all my trigger points and sore spots, I feel so relaxed and happy.
2. Buy a Tingler! They make one that's for your head and one that looks like a rake (it's for your body). It gives you nice tingles and makes you feel relaxed. Sometimes it tickles so it can make you laugh as well.
3. Hot showers or baths are amazing. It melts all your stress and worry away.
4. Take care of your body. Exercise, skin routines, stretching...all these things can make you feel loved and pampered.
4. Hug a pillow. Give it a good squeeze--for some reason it makes me just as happy to give hugs as it does to get them.
5. Clean clothes, sheets, and pillows are a must! The last thing I want on a bad day is to feel grimey. So I make sure my sheets and pillows are cleaned frequently, and that I always have soft, comfy clothes available to wear.
6. Clean your environment. Not quite a physical touch thing, but I've found tidying on bad days to be really theraputic. It gets me up and moving, and my physical environment feels put together so it makes me feel put together, too. You don't have to do anything major; just make your bed, tidy up for 5-10 minutes, do dishes, or pick things up off the floor and surfaces.