She knew what she got herself into when she married him. Depression is a very tough thing to live with and doesn’t just go away. Sometimes it’s hard. Some days it’s manageable. What she did to him was completely shitty.
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 it is when you literally promised to be there for each other no matter the circumstances. Literally says sickness right there in the vows. He already said he had a therapist but there’s only so much therapy can do help that’s why you need the support of family and friends. Wow shocker who would’ve fucking guessed.
@@buncotton9669no, you are not responsible for making another person happy. You are not responsible for fixing other people. Through sickness and in health implies being supportive. It’s unhealthy to be reliant on other people for your own happiness
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 yeah it is supportive to be there when someone is literally thinking about jumping off a cliff. This is not new he had being struggling with depression since highschool and she still choose to be with him. You are acting like she didn’t sign up to help him with is chronic illness. He kept asking her “are you sure you want to be with me and my burdens?” And she said “I would go the entire way with you.” You can’t say things like that if you never meant it. She should’ve broken up with him because it was too much for her but no she cheats on him and gives him another reason to hate himself. Do you even know what depression is? Like dude wasn’t saying his wife was his happiness, she kept him stable enough to not do anything stupid because his past haunts him.
My husband is depressed so I will help him overcome it and make him feel better❎ My husband depressed so I will cheat with multiple dudes because he deserves it✅
the husband is still depressed over his childhood, he needs to do therapy/ take meds or something, he sounds insufferable, 5 days of shitty behavior a fortnight. There are people in non first world countries that have it a lot worse and just get on with their lives. As a man you need to be the stable rock for your family.
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 not you acting like she was wasn’t married to him vowing “..in sickness and in health death do you part.” Does that mean nothing to people anymore? Like it’s not like he was even abusing her, he was literally suffering from depression. The least she could’ve done was to check up on him everyday to make sure he didn’t hang himself. But apparently to you that’s too much work.
for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish. If you cannot do that then dont get married. Divorce him, so both of you can move on. There is no excuse for cheating.
@@Olimar92 He shouldn't have even started dating her if he was that messed up. Dating is a huge opportunity cost for women when young and the sunk cost fallacy sets in.
Guys I just don't think these stories are good for my mental. I've been listening to stories of cheating for a month now and today I realised I just don't trust people the same way I used to
You're getting concentrated Scum. This is not a common thing. You'll find a lot of people that are worthy of trust, and a few that aren't. These channels are just here because of Gossip Mongers that love Drama.
I feel a similar way. One of the things is that now, if i ever have kids, i want to do a paternity test at birth just to be sure they are mine. In some ways id say its better safe than sorry, but i also agree that these stories make you lose your trust in people. I stoped listening for a while when i realized this, maybe you could so the same or listen to the "terrible family" stories that are also really popular.
The man asked her if she was fine with being with him countless times and she said yes. Then, she proceeded to cheat. Just grow up and be an adult for fuck sake.
As someone whose been an adult for several years it turns out disappointingly being an adult doesn't mean much these days. A lot of people didn't get passed their teen years maturity wise.
so, are people not allowed to not be fine with things anymore? setting cheating aside because that is wrong. in a situation like this, does one partner need to stick it out continually when the person isnt doing anything to help themselves ?
pro-tip, if you live in the US contact every divorce lawyer in the state and do a consult. makes it harder for them to retain counsel. from what I've been told anyway.
that can hurt you, the judge sees it as you trying to deny them legal counsel. what you actually do is consult with the top 3-5 in the state, pick one of those and the SO can pick from the rest.
Look, you can fall out of love with someone or just not want to be in a relationship anymore. That's fine. But to not communicate and cheat is the behavior of a rat bastard.
It's not your fault it's your wife's fault because she cheated on you with multiple men and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done.
the problem is a lot of these dudes get married to the idea of a woman and not see them from what they really are once you actually really investigate the person you want to spend your life with that's when you make the decision to marry too many people follow the Disney fairy tale of marriage
The problem is a lot of dudes look past the red flags of a lot of women to marry the idea of that woman Once they understand that marriage is not a Disney fairy tale that's when they won't get messed up in divorce court
@@cameron765loves I'm a girl but not all females are walking green flags and same to men loves its all shades of grey and colors not black and White love is love and people are blind by it no matter the red flags and green flags loves
suffering myself from the crap twister that is depression, I understand and hope the best for OP of story 1. its hard to confide in anyone, and then to trust someone and let that blow up in your face. he did the right thing by divorcing her. sometimes pets are indeed more loyal than family.
go outside, soak up some vitamin D. its literally the most essential vitamin for our bodies. "what am i a plant?" yes. we all gain energy from the dsun, scientific fact. secondly, work out as much as you can. either you'll release enough endorphins and serotonin to over come your depression outrigh. or at the very least you can focus on the physical pain rather than the mental.
soak up some vitamin D. its literally the most essential vitamin for our bodies. "what am i a plant?" yes. we all gain energy from the dsun, scientific fact. secondly, work out as much as you can. either you'll release enough endorphins and serotonin to over come your depression outrigh. or at the very least you can focus on the physical pain rather than the mental.
go outside, soak up some vitamin D. its literally the most essential vitamin for our bodies. "what am i a plant?" yes. we all gain energy from the sun, scientific fact. secondly, working out as much as possible. either you'll release enough endorphins and serotonin to over come your depresslon outrigh. or at the very least you can focus on the physical paln rather than the mental.
I will assist my husband in overcoming his depression and will do everything in my power to make him feel better. Due to the fact that my husband is depressed, I will cheat with multiple guys because he is deserving of it.
Why even beg him not to divorce her when she said she cheated multiple times becasue she bored of his mental health issues which she willingly accepted multiple times before this? Like, just see it as an out, apologise and live on. Don't beg 🤦♂️
Story 2: Talking up himself that he owns a business. He “even helped at home” of course he should it’s his house too? “Every time we had a reason to argue it was always her fault” - dude is sounding like a narcissist so far. Also he just decided to go into her closet to clean it randomly and “accidentally” knocked open a shoe box… guy was totally snooping for something. Don’t get me wrong I’m totally not excusing his cheating but op also doesn’t sounds like the good guy he’s trying to make himself out to be. He’s admitted he’s been hurt by a partner before so I assume he was looking for evidence. Also to publicly shame her in her reunion was quite harsh.
I could never understand those who blatantly defend cheaters. She had been lying to him for years even before they were married. If someone is willing to cheat, they should be willing to accept the consequences and shame of their life of lies. The narrator supported her financially and tried to be a good husband, and even if his character was a concern, why did his ex-wife marry him in the first place if she had the other man in mind? If his personality and character were a problem, she had time to change her mind.
@@thesentry8981 You misunderstand my comment. I’m not supporting her in any way, I’m just stating what he’s saying is also considered a red flag. He’s trying to make himself out to be the perfect husband and it’s coming off as narcissistic. Some of the things he said were unnecessary to make himself appear good. He went out to look for these things and there’s nothing wrong with saying that. I agree if there was an issue then she should have divorced him. I don’t condone cheating in any way and divorce was the correct course of action.
@@bekah4137 Hmm understandable now that he most likely wasn’t a very humble guy. I still think his payback was reasonable or at least justifiable though. I mean, come on, ex-wife had time to change her mind if she knew the other guy since high school. Their whole marriage was practically a lie. I guess my main stance when reading your initial comment was so geared into how the narrator was the “victim” in this scenario. In truth he was; what was it, 4 years gone like that? He did avoid conflict though when sometimes in a healthy relationship, some conflict is necessary. He may have not been a very good and humble guy, but still his character isn’t as degraded because he wasn’t the one to cheat.
@@thesentry8981 no you’re right he was the victim in this scenario I agree. I just wanted to note some of the things that he said that raised questions to me/sounded odd. I agree that the payback to family was reasonable but I’m not sure how I feel about the reunion. Yes the guy was there but it was also a celebration for others in attendance that he ruined. Still he wasn’t the one to cheat and we can’t blame him for lashing out - can’t say how I’d react in his situation.
@@bekah4137 for the reunion, the narrator hit hard and hit where it hurt. It was brutal I imagine. The ex-wife was the hostess of the event too which makes it even worse. You mention that his exposing of her at the reunion may have ruined the celebration for the others. Well, it probably did for some people. But I also wonder how close the ex-wife was to those she knew from highschool. I expect that the news of her infidelity wasn’t so much as something that ruined the celebration rather more of gossip and “surprising kind of news.” Of course, it brings shame and disappointment, but who knows, what’s done is done. It also sounded like the slideshow was later down in the event so at least the whole thing wasn’t botched if it was.
I wonder when did he begun to feel comfortable around his mood swings and neglecting his wife emotions towards it. This is not the usual behaviour of a cheater. This was spite cheating, she would head out and cheat during his mood swings to get back at him. Not saying what she did was right, but most definetly what he did wasn't right either. Saying "She knew what she was getting in to" is just immature.
yeah he sounds pathetic, he's 37 and still crying about his childhood- 18 year olds have been conscripted to war had limbs blown off and ended up better adjusted than this guy.
Said that she knew what she was getting in i am amused to see very caring and sensitive womens of 20th century who lecture man fo being less emotional are such heartless cheating whores and fellow independent women talking about therapy whores divorce if your not happy don't blame man for cheating
@@GuiltyByProxy1793just a random chick projecting her trashy life decisions. Story even said from the very beginning dude went to therapy from a young age, but she's better at complaining than listening .
I definitely don’t condone cheating and she’s for sure wrong, but I bet it gets old being treated like shit because of his “episodes”. She probably got tired of being his punching bag. She should have just left though instead of cheating.
S2 So they are both working and he "even hepled at home"? Lol, what a pos. It doesn't excuse her cheating but still. Okey, from language (and literally everything else), it's clearly incel creative writing "Teenage hot pictures"?????????????? Ufff
I picked up on it too! He also said how every argument was her fault and how he knew she was the only one to clean the closet but just randomly decided to clean it as a good deed - guy was going snooping 🤣 comes off as a total narcissistic in post
Partners are not endless wells that can soak it all. Some break, some can endure. She broke. Partners need debriefing as well. This main characters broken soul broke her in the end. Try not to go into your heads too much. You can leave a part of you in there, not realizing the effect that missing part has on the outside world.
Tbh. It sounds like he has untreated Bipolar, and that sh*t needs meds, not just talk therapy. He definitely needs some serious help, and not get into any relationships
Was thinking that is OK to be depressed and such but never heard if he was going to therapy or something and he does sound terrible I mean, no reason to cheat, she could have broken up but for the love you have for your partner, not even for yourself, you should think about ways to be better and improve, no? He sounds painfully in love with his depression.
@@Ati0425, some traumas you can't go through entirely and leave them behind. It's normal. Only people who have never experienced difficulties in life will say something so dense and insensitive.
@@kayNV._Heizou so you think I haven’t go thru struggles and that is bad to recommend someone to go to therapy to improve their life and the lives of others around them?
S2 So, the main character was an introvert, always in his head. Oblivious? Possibly his bed action was 2 positions then stales out to become a DB? Still, she had knowingly dated him while carrying on with her crush. How quaint she and the crush used photo prints and letters unless she knocked them out and deleted them off of everywhere. I guess he was just a tick off the life goal list.
Oh cry about it dude. Stop hooking up with heartless bit**es. Try that sometime. I’m not saying you can go around, crying every time something affects you. You are a man after all. So act like one. You find yourself a true, kind hearted lady, not some random skank from a bar that will share her herpes after closing time. Find her and you can cry when your loved ones die or something real that merits you actually getting that emotional. She will understand and comfort you. She will help you to recover from that mess. You have to participate in the recovery too though. No one wants to live with someone that grieves for years. No man or woman does. Your happiness is yours, you have to work for it. If you’re a depressing bastard to be around no one will want to be around you.
This guy sucks. Depressed people never want to acknowledge how goddamn horrible it can be to live with them. The never ending pit of despair they want to wallow in. Spreading the misery, there’s plenty to go around. It’s not all of them of course. Some at least try to fight it off. They at the bare minimum try to spare those they love and who love them. Doesn’t sound like this guy though.
What did this guy said that makes You think he is the worst ? We don't hear many info on things he had done to her he just had episodes and said they we're very distant from one another she cheated cuz She's a Bad person not cause he "broker her' like another comenter said, he Even admits himself that living with him musnt be easy SO at least he is self aware.
Then don't marry them and then use it as excuse to cheat. Plain and simple. This woman should've never married him. You need to be far stronger that most in order to survive living with some in such a deep pit let alone marry them.
She knew what she got herself into when she married him. Depression is a very tough thing to live with and doesn’t just go away. Sometimes it’s hard. Some days it’s manageable. What she did to him was completely shitty.
thats a poor argument. cheating is wrong, but nobody is responsible for somone elses mental health or family.
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 it is when you literally promised to be there for each other no matter the circumstances. Literally says sickness right there in the vows. He already said he had a therapist but there’s only so much therapy can do help that’s why you need the support of family and friends. Wow shocker who would’ve fucking guessed.
@@buncotton9669no, you are not responsible for making another person happy. You are not responsible for fixing other people. Through sickness and in health implies being supportive. It’s unhealthy to be reliant on other people for your own happiness
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 yeah it is supportive to be there when someone is literally thinking about jumping off a cliff. This is not new he had being struggling with depression since highschool and she still choose to be with him. You are acting like she didn’t sign up to help him with is chronic illness. He kept asking her “are you sure you want to be with me and my burdens?” And she said “I would go the entire way with you.” You can’t say things like that if you never meant it. She should’ve broken up with him because it was too much for her but no she cheats on him and gives him another reason to hate himself. Do you even know what depression is? Like dude wasn’t saying his wife was his happiness, she kept him stable enough to not do anything stupid because his past haunts him.
@@buncotton9669how long does someone have to suffer from someone else’s depression ? You’re weird
My husband is depressed so I will help him overcome it and make him feel better❎
My husband depressed so I will cheat with multiple dudes because he deserves it✅
I will cheat because what about me?
you are not responsible for someone elses happiness or mental health.
the husband is still depressed over his childhood, he needs to do therapy/ take meds or something, he sounds insufferable, 5 days of shitty behavior a fortnight. There are people in non first world countries that have it a lot worse and just get on with their lives. As a man you need to be the stable rock for your family.
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 not you acting like she was wasn’t married to him vowing “..in sickness and in health death do you part.” Does that mean nothing to people anymore? Like it’s not like he was even abusing her, he was literally suffering from depression. The least she could’ve done was to check up on him everyday to make sure he didn’t hang himself. But apparently to you that’s too much work.
@SadBoys.1996 i think little empathy towards husband is not bad could have divorced cheating isn't acceptable
“i’m tech savy” you looked at her goggle history 💀
Goggle history
Generally speaking, for people his age that’s a pretty big hurdle to jump.
Goggle history
"Goggle history."
You better believe that the amount of people that know how to look at their google history (including location history) is less than you think. 😂
Some people do REALLY not deserve any sort of love or relationships whatsoever....
Ong
for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish.
If you cannot do that then dont get married. Divorce him, so both of you can move on. There is no excuse for cheating.
He even gave her multiple opportunities to leave. She knew about his mental state, and he was fully okay with them separating.
@@Olimar92 He shouldn't have even started dating her if he was that messed up. Dating is a huge opportunity cost for women when young and the sunk cost fallacy sets in.
Divorce? Arent you forgetting until death do you part. Marriage is forever.
@@NMaxne cheater doesnt deserved that.
@NMaxne no it's not, it isn't greentreed to be forever, but it is hoped to be forever.
3 stories a day is exactly what we need as gossip hungry ppl
Of course she was defensive... that's what people do when guilt starts eating away at them.
Not guilt.
Fear.
Fear of losing her position and financial security.
Daphne? Bros with the mystery gang
Including scobby 🤔
😂😂😂
Guys I just don't think these stories are good for my mental. I've been listening to stories of cheating for a month now and today I realised I just don't trust people the same way I used to
Yeah, bro.
You gotta unplug and get off these for a while.
You're getting concentrated Scum. This is not a common thing. You'll find a lot of people that are worthy of trust, and a few that aren't. These channels are just here because of Gossip Mongers that love Drama.
maybe switch to wholesome story to restore your faith in humanity
I usually do a cleanse with non-cheating Reddit stories or just avoiding this channel for a bit then coming back when I want drama lol
I feel a similar way. One of the things is that now, if i ever have kids, i want to do a paternity test at birth just to be sure they are mine. In some ways id say its better safe than sorry, but i also agree that these stories make you lose your trust in people. I stoped listening for a while when i realized this, maybe you could so the same or listen to the "terrible family" stories that are also really popular.
The man asked her if she was fine with being with him countless times and she said yes. Then, she proceeded to cheat. Just grow up and be an adult for fuck sake.
As someone whose been an adult for several years it turns out disappointingly being an adult doesn't mean much these days. A lot of people didn't get passed their teen years maturity wise.
so, are people not allowed to not be fine with things anymore? setting cheating aside because that is wrong. in a situation like this, does one partner need to stick it out continually when the person isnt doing anything to help themselves ?
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96Did you not hear the part where he said he was attending therapy sessions? Or are you slow?
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 They literally said they were in therapy and it didn't help them what else do you want them to do lmao?
pro-tip, if you live in the US contact every divorce lawyer in the state and do a consult. makes it harder for them to retain counsel. from what I've been told anyway.
that can hurt you, the judge sees it as you trying to deny them legal counsel. what you actually do is consult with the top 3-5 in the state, pick one of those and the SO can pick from the rest.
a consultation doesnt do much unless you pay the retainer fee. anybody can get a consultation from anylawyer
@@SadBoysCollectiveCirca96 the trick is that if the lawyers know the situation, most would avoid a fast loss on their part. It sucks, but it works.
Look, you can fall out of love with someone or just not want to be in a relationship anymore. That's fine. But to not communicate and cheat is the behavior of a rat bastard.
I hope he would take a long long pause from relationships. With his baggage, it would take a miracle for any relationship he is in to survive long.
It's not your fault it's your wife's fault because she cheated on you with multiple men and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done.
Stories like this are why I never want to get married
the problem is a lot of these dudes get married to the idea of a woman and not see them from what they really are once you actually really investigate the person you want to spend your life with that's when you make the decision to marry too many people follow the Disney fairy tale of marriage
Your problem
The problem is a lot of dudes look past the red flags of a lot of women to marry the idea of that woman
Once they understand that marriage is not a Disney fairy tale that's when they won't get messed up in divorce court
Same loves but I have never dated before lol loves
@@cameron765loves I'm a girl but not all females are walking green flags and same to men loves its all shades of grey and colors not black and White love is love and people are blind by it no matter the red flags and green flags loves
suffering myself from the crap twister that is depression, I understand and hope the best for OP of story 1. its hard to confide in anyone, and then to trust someone and let that blow up in your face. he did the right thing by divorcing her. sometimes pets are indeed more loyal than family.
go outside, soak up some vitamin D. its literally the most essential vitamin for our bodies. "what am i a plant?" yes. we all gain energy from the dsun, scientific fact. secondly, work out as much as you can. either you'll release enough endorphins and serotonin to over come your depression outrigh. or at the very least you can focus on the physical pain rather than the mental.
soak up some vitamin D. its literally the most essential vitamin for our bodies. "what am i a plant?" yes. we all gain energy from the dsun, scientific fact. secondly, work out as much as you can. either you'll release enough endorphins and serotonin to over come your depression outrigh. or at the very least you can focus on the physical pain rather than the mental.
go outside, soak up some vitamin D. its literally the most essential vitamin for our bodies. "what am i a plant?" yes. we all gain energy from the sun, scientific fact. secondly, working out as much as possible. either you'll release enough endorphins and serotonin to over come your depresslon outrigh. or at the very least you can focus on the physical paln rather than the mental.
Man, this guy gets absolutely flummoxed by a basalt delta.
A good woman (1/10,000 these days) can cure depression 100x better than a therapist.
Story two, take the entire shoebox and give it to your lawyer
10:20 honest gamer, redid the jump
And women wonder why there arent many men who want a serious relationship.
The - and even our landlady sent me 😂😂😂
Story 1: poor OP, he did not deserve that
Story 2: OP is a damn savage, holy shit. I aspire to achieve that level of petty
I will assist my husband in overcoming his depression and will do everything in my power to make him feel better. Due to the fact that my husband is depressed, I will cheat with multiple guys because he is deserving of it.
I was really nervous for a “and that’s what he said to write on his reddit in his s*icide note” at the end of the first story
He’s just as guilty.
Why even beg him not to divorce her when she said she cheated multiple times becasue she bored of his mental health issues which she willingly accepted multiple times before this? Like, just see it as an out, apologise and live on. Don't beg 🤦♂️
Story 2, why leave such a large paper trail. It's literally just begging to get caught lol
Is no one gonna mention him messing the parkour?
Story 2: Talking up himself that he owns a business. He “even helped at home” of course he should it’s his house too? “Every time we had a reason to argue it was always her fault” - dude is sounding like a narcissist so far. Also he just decided to go into her closet to clean it randomly and “accidentally” knocked open a shoe box… guy was totally snooping for something. Don’t get me wrong I’m totally not excusing his cheating but op also doesn’t sounds like the good guy he’s trying to make himself out to be. He’s admitted he’s been hurt by a partner before so I assume he was looking for evidence. Also to publicly shame her in her reunion was quite harsh.
I could never understand those who blatantly defend cheaters. She had been lying to him for years even before they were married. If someone is willing to cheat, they should be willing to accept the consequences and shame of their life of lies.
The narrator supported her financially and tried to be a good husband, and even if his character was a concern, why did his ex-wife marry him in the first place if she had the other man in mind? If his personality and character were a problem, she had time to change her mind.
@@thesentry8981 You misunderstand my comment. I’m not supporting her in any way, I’m just stating what he’s saying is also considered a red flag. He’s trying to make himself out to be the perfect husband and it’s coming off as narcissistic. Some of the things he said were unnecessary to make himself appear good. He went out to look for these things and there’s nothing wrong with saying that. I agree if there was an issue then she should have divorced him. I don’t condone cheating in any way and divorce was the correct course of action.
@@bekah4137 Hmm understandable now that he most likely wasn’t a very humble guy. I still think his payback was reasonable or at least justifiable though. I mean, come on, ex-wife had time to change her mind if she knew the other guy since high school. Their whole marriage was practically a lie.
I guess my main stance when reading your initial comment was so geared into how the narrator was the “victim” in this scenario. In truth he was; what was it, 4 years gone like that? He did avoid conflict though when sometimes in a healthy relationship, some conflict is necessary. He may have not been a very good and humble guy, but still his character isn’t as degraded because he wasn’t the one to cheat.
@@thesentry8981 no you’re right he was the victim in this scenario I agree. I just wanted to note some of the things that he said that raised questions to me/sounded odd. I agree that the payback to family was reasonable but I’m not sure how I feel about the reunion. Yes the guy was there but it was also a celebration for others in attendance that he ruined. Still he wasn’t the one to cheat and we can’t blame him for lashing out - can’t say how I’d react in his situation.
@@bekah4137 for the reunion, the narrator hit hard and hit where it hurt. It was brutal I imagine. The ex-wife was the hostess of the event too which makes it even worse.
You mention that his exposing of her at the reunion may have ruined the celebration for the others. Well, it probably did for some people. But I also wonder how close the ex-wife was to those she knew from highschool. I expect that the news of her infidelity wasn’t so much as something that ruined the celebration rather more of gossip and “surprising kind of news.” Of course, it brings shame and disappointment, but who knows, what’s done is done. It also sounded like the slideshow was later down in the event so at least the whole thing wasn’t botched if it was.
I wonder when did he begun to feel comfortable around his mood swings and neglecting his wife emotions towards it. This is not the usual behaviour of a cheater. This was spite cheating, she would head out and cheat during his mood swings to get back at him. Not saying what she did was right, but most definetly what he did wasn't right either. Saying "She knew what she was getting in to" is just immature.
I've been through trauma and instead of going to therapy, I'm gonna expect my wife to be my therapist. This is why men deserve to be single.
Is that a good thing for men to be be single?not trying to argue just confused about your statement
yeah he sounds pathetic, he's 37 and still crying about his childhood- 18 year olds have been conscripted to war had limbs blown off and ended up better adjusted than this guy.
Said that she knew what she was getting in i am amused to see very caring and sensitive womens of 20th century who lecture man fo being less emotional are such heartless cheating whores and fellow independent women talking about therapy whores divorce if your not happy don't blame man for cheating
@@GuiltyByProxy1793just a random chick projecting her trashy life decisions.
Story even said from the very beginning dude went to therapy from a young age, but she's better at complaining than listening .
Found the misandrist
anyone else just infuriated at how bad the parkour is at the basalt pillar area?
jesus is it that hard to fucking divorce someone if ur sick of them
The way to make her hurt is to live your life,what happened to you happened to me but I'm not married
I definitely don’t condone cheating and she’s for sure wrong, but I bet it gets old being treated like shit because of his “episodes”. She probably got tired of being his punching bag. She should have just left though instead of cheating.
S2
So they are both working and he "even hepled at home"? Lol, what a pos. It doesn't excuse her cheating but still.
Okey, from language (and literally everything else), it's clearly incel creative writing
"Teenage hot pictures"?????????????? Ufff
Plus "every time we fought it was always her fault but I apologized so we wouldn't fight," lol.
I picked up on it too! He also said how every argument was her fault and how he knew she was the only one to clean the closet but just randomly decided to clean it as a good deed - guy was going snooping 🤣 comes off as a total narcissistic in post
Partners are not endless wells that can soak it all. Some break, some can endure. She broke. Partners need debriefing as well. This main characters broken soul broke her in the end. Try not to go into your heads too much. You can leave a part of you in there, not realizing the effect that missing part has on the outside world.
Well divorce him don't cheat i can't believe You are making excuses for her🙄🙄
She can be broken somewhere else, divorce is easier when neither are at fault smh
@@miguelbrandt3174 nvr4gt cheaters defend and make excuses for cheaters, js
second story "this channel" 👀
I kinda get the wife but she should have just divorced him first. The way the dude talks he sounds like a child or a women himself.
He is exhausting don't blame for wanting to leave shouldn't have cheated though.
True. Just break up. I swear some depressed people embrace their low times. It’s the absolute worst thing to be around.
Tbh. It sounds like he has untreated Bipolar, and that sh*t needs meds, not just talk therapy.
He definitely needs some serious help, and not get into any relationships
Was thinking that is OK to be depressed and such but never heard if he was going to therapy or something and he does sound terrible
I mean, no reason to cheat, she could have broken up but for the love you have for your partner, not even for yourself, you should think about ways to be better and improve, no?
He sounds painfully in love with his depression.
@@Ati0425, some traumas you can't go through entirely and leave them behind. It's normal. Only people who have never experienced difficulties in life will say something so dense and insensitive.
@@kayNV._Heizou so you think I haven’t go thru struggles and that is bad to recommend someone to go to therapy to improve their life and the lives of others around them?
Ehhhh women when they don’t feel full they take the worst decision tbh I would wanna marry my entire life due to divorce chances getting high
What is all the therapy pushing no you they always try to surgery kids
S2 So, the main character was an introvert, always in his head. Oblivious? Possibly his bed action was 2 positions then stales out to become a DB? Still, she had knowingly dated him while carrying on with her crush. How quaint she and the crush used photo prints and letters unless she knocked them out and deleted them off of everywhere. I guess he was just a tick off the life goal list.
and that men is why you should never be vulnerable with a woman.
Only your mother will never betray 💯 unless she’s a crack junkie then sorry buddy you’re SOL
Oh cry about it dude. Stop hooking up with heartless bit**es. Try that sometime. I’m not saying you can go around, crying every time something affects you. You are a man after all. So act like one. You find yourself a true, kind hearted lady, not some random skank from a bar that will share her herpes after closing time. Find her and you can cry when your loved ones die or something real that merits you actually getting that emotional. She will understand and comfort you. She will help you to recover from that mess. You have to participate in the recovery too though. No one wants to live with someone that grieves for years. No man or woman does. Your happiness is yours, you have to work for it. If you’re a depressing bastard to be around no one will want to be around you.
This guy sucks. Depressed people never want to acknowledge how goddamn horrible it can be to live with them. The never ending pit of despair they want to wallow in. Spreading the misery, there’s plenty to go around. It’s not all of them of course. Some at least try to fight it off. They at the bare minimum try to spare those they love and who love them. Doesn’t sound like this guy though.
What did this guy said that makes You think he is the worst ? We don't hear many info on things he had done to her he just had episodes and said they we're very distant from one another she cheated cuz She's a Bad person not cause he "broker her' like another comenter said, he Even admits himself that living with him musnt be easy SO at least he is self aware.
Then don't marry them and then use it as excuse to cheat. Plain and simple. This woman should've never married him. You need to be far stronger that most in order to survive living with some in such a deep pit let alone marry them.
Pre 200 gang!!!!
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Dude messed up whenever he constantly showed his vulnerability. She can’t carry you.
she's a grown adult she could've left if she didn't want to support him
That dude was literally depressed from the start so she knew what she was getting into
@@tlacuachito if you've sunk your best years into a guy it is easy to fall into the sunk cost fallacy.