TOP RED FLAG WARNING OF A POTENTIAL ABUSER

I firmly believe that abusive relationships don't just magically appear - there are always red flags and warning signs that a man has an abuser mindset, it's just that the woman ignores the red flags of control, OR she is so inexperienced in relationships that she doesn't know what certain behaviors mean. In this video Deb shares the importance of paying attention to what men do and say to exert control, and why it's mandatory that women shut that stuff down out the gate or immediately leave the relationship.
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[@isolda980]

DV survivor here. Long story short: run. Run!😡🏃‍♀️🏃

[@clark.mellarke]

She's right, this IS how it starts. Then before you know it, they'll be calling you names and stuff and you'll be like "how tf did I get here?"

[@jojoone1099]

He sounds like a nightmare. She's giving him so much grace.

[@sassysid100]

There’s nothing a woman can do to reassure a insecure man. I went on vacation with my crazy ex. We decided to go to a wine bar/club while there. While waiting in line to go in this man started flirting in front of me with a lady behind him in the line. I took the hotel room key and left. Went back to the hotel, his man came back minutes behind me and assaulted me, accused me of wanting to cheat as to why I left. He turned the room upside down looking for my supposed cheating partner🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Debsterism]

unbelievable!! Dude is wack. Glad to hear he is your ex

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

Run for the hills lady! I don't like NOBODY telling me what to do. Dealbreaker! She will have to spend the rest of the relationship babysitting his ego to no avail. No way

[@candlecane]

Hi Deb, can you share the link to the interview mentioned here? I can’t find it on the community wall. TIA.

[@Debsterism]

Here it is: ua-cam.com/video/WnhEEvxdEgk/v-deo.htmlsi=T0rxyknoqe07UgQd

[@Debsterism]

The DV part starts around 26:50 or so.

[@candlecane]

@@Debsterism Thanks so much, Deb!