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I got to see my father 2-3 times a year. He played like this with me. The rest of my life, including my step father, was an absolute nightmare of neglect and abuse. My dad's playfulness expressed such love to me that I am convinced it saved my life despite its troubles. I now have two kids of my own and a ten year marriage and I replicate the way my dad played with me the few times I could see him, but I get to do it everyday of my kids lives. The results are so obvious. They are so far ahead of me at their age socially. They lead well, are well developed socially and have the strongest sense of themselves and their likes and dislikes. Plus they know I love them. I ask my 4 yr old daughter how she knows I love her and what her favorite thing is. She goes to Disney all the time, has an awesome toy room, lives life like it's a party... But she says "You play with me daddy". It matters.
Amen. My pops had issues young dad etc. But have amazing memories as a young girl we played rough, wrestled I loved it! Watched ufc, mma, sports. Now as a woman i know that helped me hold my own in life.
My dad would have my sister and I try to recover football fumbles against him on the living room floor, and he always tossed us around the pool or lake, and he invented a game in which he held us tight and we had to try to escape. It was so much fun, and we requested this play All. The. Time. I had no idea how lucky I was to have this kind of father.
I just got done being a lion and chasing my daughter around the house and would eat her. She then said i was scary so I turned into a puppy and she played fetch with puppy daddy for like a half hour. For the rest of the night I was puppy daddy. My knees are killing me but we both had fun. Having kids is awesome!
Being a father... or a parent for that matter, is life’s greatest blessing. There is not a worldly desire or amount of money or wealth that could replace the wealth of precious moments with your kids
@@CJFranciss couldn't agree more! It's funny how when you first bring them home and you dont sleep and you're a zombie at work for the first several of months of their lives you cant wait to be over that stage but when it's over and they are 3 you miss the baby stage. I think it's god's way of reminding us that children are a blessing that makes us feel fulfilled and are a precious gift.
Couldn't agree more, I absolutely love the rough play and the imagination little children have. All the hard stuff and difficult time put into being parent diminishes compared to the time we spend wrestling and playing "mummy snake and little cake".
Mom of three little boy's here. My husband is non stop wrestling with them, they LOVE it, our 18 month old jumps right in... I DON'T like it LOL. He is spot on. I like to read books, play games, snuggle up and watch a movie, do learning activities but NOT wrestle ... Tickling and maybe some tag . Thank God for my husband, they all have a blast , they won't be small for long. These are fun years!
What’s sad is that rough and tumble play is completely discouraged with kids and their friends nowadays because everyone is afraid of getting sued or having their kid labeled as “aggressive” or a “bully”.
My husband and I are good friends with a man who's Italian When we went to Italy for the first time we seen our friend randomly pick up other peoples children run around with them and play with them even small babies I was so shocked! Definitely not the done thing where we live. Our friend is a pediatrician and loves kids but the mothers dont know that. Its beautiful and different to witness
3:03 "That's how they learn what doesn't hurt, and what hurts." You don't suppose that an entire generation was deprived of learning that, and they have no idea what's appropriate and what's inappropriate, so in order to survive they decided that everything's inappropriate?
My dad was a avid wrestler in highschool. As a kid it was so much fun. I don’t remember much, but I do remember wrestling with my dad. He used to get me in this move called “the kid killer” lmao I used to scream no no no, but I loved it ❤️ Now I do the same with my daughter. She comes flying at me with no self regard haha, she’s a little wild woman. My daughter favorite is when she gets to be a bull fighter and I’m the bull. She jumps on my back, and I buck her around the living room 😂 tons of fun
Kids are great! Playing with them is a socially acceptable chance to be a kid again yourself. I think that's something that often gets overlooked - play is great for the parent's health as well.
I do typically leave the rough and tumble play to my husband (aside from tickle fights) and what’s kind of cool is that my kids also recognize the boundary. They know that they are allowed to play with some people one way and differently with others.
shit I always had the feeling I was missing something in my social behavior. as I got older I got pretty good at hiding it by having other competences but now it's clear to me. I never had this kind of a dad. My dad was always very distant and dominant. The dominance part I dealt with but the not being playful still makes me an awkward individual in certain situation. It's probably also the reason I feel still awkward with kids and animals.
I was just choke slamming my 2 year old son. He is in bed now and went straight to sleep. Look forward to giving him the peoples elbow when he wakes up tomorrow. But he seems to sleeping heavily.
@@rajnair5667 Are you speaking sarcastically? Because I know some dads do that kind of play-fighting with their kids. You just need to teach the kids how to do it safely
I dint wrestle with my parents when I was young so when I see my husband do it with our toddlers it really scares me. But what he does is he grabs me and does the same to me. It does something to the heart.
@@17N. I'm a mother and I wrestle all my 3kids..I have 4 but the rth is just 7m old 😁 ...they have a dad but their mom also likes this kind of play 😅..I used to do karate,kickboxing and even cage fighting at some point .....
This is interesting. I feel like there is a mistrust and fear in our society. When I was younger, we would run all over the neighborhood and every parent in the street watched out for the kids if something went wrong like kids picking on eachother then parents would walk you home. Now a days, it is scary to think about letting your kids walk by themselves. Society has changed to the mindset of turning a blind shoulder and “I’m responsible for myself and my own child” instead of seeing someone and thinking hmm they might need help.
My dad played rough with my sister and I and it toughened us up. But I remember being 12 and having my three school friends sit me down and say that I would often play hit them and it hurt. And I laughed thinking they were joking but they were dead serious.
My daughter is 4 years old. I wrestled with her last nights. And she could not stop. She just loved it and said - we have to do it again. Also, just after 2 mins of fighting I stopped her and said - look, I will show you how to fight, but she just said to me (paraphrasing ) - don't tell me how to fight, I already know, just fight me.
I would face my dad hold his hands and walk up his body until I flipped over. I wanted to do that all the time! My brother is also 13 years older than me and I would pretend to be his backpack lol!
My farther would wrestle me as soon as the door opens from work, right up till I was 6 years old then my parents divorced so my younger brother missed out, he can’t read social quees, but I thrive in large groups
I live in AK, someone gave me gloves so I started this thing where we fight but we have to have gloves on and then count to 5 before we fight. My boys (4,3) will go get my socks as gloves. They put some on their feet and hands. We wrestle and fight. I got the idea from JP.
My partner wrestles with our daughter. Boundaries and fun. I play more gentle games with soft toys. Roleplaying for social interaction and imagination.
Some of my best memories were being thrown three feet in the air by my dad and being tossed around. He'd take me hiking and hunting and I'd learned to make use of nature and make it entertaining.
a lack of male role models is the reason we are in the mess we are right now , masculinity is under constant threat from a feminine media and being rough is considered wrong . I never hit my kids ever in "discipline" mode but bashed the fuck out of them in "play mode" and they absolutely loved it , by the time they were 8 and 10 (two boys) it hurt me far more than it would`ve ever hurt them , my wife used to leave the room in horror and the chaos didn`t end until dad was utterly knackered , sweating profusely and had "submit"
Not cant, dont want to. People go to Britain to earn money. If a marriage cant afford a bigger flat, its because they are lazy. They probably rarely cook their food too. Why bother if you can order it.
@@Paciat more nuances needed here though. Some might be lazy, others are in too deep since childhood in social problems. People that move to the UK to make money are usually highly educated and can leverage that (if they do it in their adult life), typically already got job in the UK since they are moving there etc.
That's a straight up lie, even rented council houses and shared housing have space for dining rooms. I grew up poor and have been homeless and I'm from the UK so I know what I'm talking about. You can fit a dining table in a 2-birth caravan so to claim a third of British families can't afford a big enough house? Nonsense.
Okay, but what exactly do you say to a person who's screwed like that bedside that they are screwed? Sorry, I might be a little late to the party with this. But I grew up as the well-behaved yet shy kid adults adored, and kids kinda disliked. I rarely ever experienced rough play, and it is only now in my late 20s that i feel the consequences of that. Now I'm socially anxious, i don't like the company of other men, and I'm totally non-confrontational. For some reason im bisexual, so i have not remained depraved of sex, gay men love me, straight men have no interest in my company, and I'm mostly invisible to women. I have no idea how to approach them, I hate dancing, I have no interest in sports, and I'm socially awkward. I want to change, but I don't know how... I have just been to a wedding, and all of those inadequacies of mine resurfaced all at once. I didn't engage in dancing, I barely spoke to anyone but my family, and when the groom threw the garter, I did participate because SURPRUSE, SURPRISE I'm one of the single ones, all the guys danced around and pushed each other around playfully. I remember one pushing me and I just stood there.. I didn't dare push back ad I think he felt that and just ignored me... I feel so unprepared for all of this. I have no girlfriend, I have no friends and my life is pretty much a man-child like state. I hate it and all I'm hearing from you is that I'm done for because I didn't experience it in the right period of my childhood. Well, here I am... ready to end it all, my suicide note is on my computer... my therapist doesn't really help either, so What do I and so many like me do?
It's true how overprotective American parents are. In a Russian speaking world we have no problem for strangers talk to our kids and kids talk to strangers. Our kids play for hours on a playgrounds without supervision. I grew up playing alone on the playground being 5 and would go home when mom yelled my name from the 5th floor. Nothing ever happened to us kids. Possibly, the reason is that sex is advertised too much in the Western society. Porn and all the "freedoms" corrupt the society and our kids are victims of those "freedoms". Too much porn, too much sex in the West. We know sex is a driving force in capitalism (things sell better if presented sexy, etc.), but it hurts the texture of the society.
that is simply not true - "Nothing ever happened to us kids." I remember the same childhood as you describe it. However, there was always something with some of us. Somebody would break a leg, an arm or a nose. We would go to some construction sites where we would climb things, and God only knows why nobody got killed by falling down from high unprotected places. Some did fall from trees though. Freedom cannot make you are victim of anything. Freedom opens up possibilities and helps you develop yourself anything you ever wanted if ever. Yes there is a price for that, some misuse freedom. Many of my "friends" from the childhood style you described ended up in jail, got killed, became drug addicts or are having miserable lifes they are not proud of.
@@shaunr5450 of course Muslim father's play with their children, it's encouraged by our prophet Muhammad to do so. But not everyone is religious and with regards to their children have learned "shut up and be silent" mode because they grew up like that as well.
@@shaunr5450 have some damn courtesy what a disgraceful behaviour you represent yourself with. What happened to behaving like a decent civilised human being in a discourse?
How do I get to heaven? Will my good deeds be measured against my bad deeds? Do I need to be a good person to go to heaven? How do I know if I'm good enough? Well the bible says no man is good, for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. So how do we get to heaven? Answer: By believing on Jesus Christ who took the punishment for our sin on the cross. There are no amount of good works we can do to achieve salvation because salvation is a free gift of God. We need to humble ourselves, realize we are sinners and that we need a savior. John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave his only son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
When the autistic kid uses his brain to figure out relationships ... doesn’t seem like relating comes naturally to this guy. wonder what his personal life is like.
I don't get what Jordan's saying at one part where he talks about being in the pool in mexico, he thinks it's bad that we distrust strangers playing with out kids? That's not a bad thing at all... it's basic safety.
I got to see my father 2-3 times a year. He played like this with me. The rest of my life, including my step father, was an absolute nightmare of neglect and abuse. My dad's playfulness expressed such love to me that I am convinced it saved my life despite its troubles. I now have two kids of my own and a ten year marriage and I replicate the way my dad played with me the few times I could see him, but I get to do it everyday of my kids lives. The results are so obvious. They are so far ahead of me at their age socially. They lead well, are well developed socially and have the strongest sense of themselves and their likes and dislikes.
Plus they know I love them. I ask my 4 yr old daughter how she knows I love her and what her favorite thing is. She goes to Disney all the time, has an awesome toy room, lives life like it's a party... But she says "You play with me daddy".
It matters.
your comment really hit me. All the best to you and your family man x
Amen. My pops had issues young dad etc. But have amazing memories as a young girl we played rough, wrestled I loved it! Watched ufc, mma, sports. Now as a woman i know that helped me hold my own in life.
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BK your comment made my day
My dad would have my sister and I try to recover football fumbles against him on the living room floor, and he always tossed us around the pool or lake, and he invented a game in which he held us tight and we had to try to escape. It was so much fun, and we requested this play All. The. Time. I had no idea how lucky I was to have this kind of father.
I just got done being a lion and chasing my daughter around the house and would eat her. She then said i was scary so I turned into a puppy and she played fetch with puppy daddy for like a half hour. For the rest of the night I was puppy daddy. My knees are killing me but we both had fun. Having kids is awesome!
Being a father... or a parent for that matter, is life’s greatest blessing. There is not a worldly desire or amount of money or wealth that could replace the wealth of precious moments with your kids
@@CJFranciss couldn't agree more! It's funny how when you first bring them home and you dont sleep and you're a zombie at work for the first several of months of their lives you cant wait to be over that stage but when it's over and they are 3 you miss the baby stage. I think it's god's way of reminding us that children are a blessing that makes us feel fulfilled and are a precious gift.
Couldn't agree more, I absolutely love the rough play and the imagination little children have. All the hard stuff and difficult time put into being parent diminishes compared to the time we spend wrestling and playing "mummy snake and little cake".
Mom of three little boy's here. My husband is non stop wrestling with them, they LOVE it, our 18 month old jumps right in... I DON'T like it LOL. He is spot on. I like to read books, play games, snuggle up and watch a movie, do learning activities but NOT wrestle ... Tickling and maybe some tag . Thank God for my husband, they all have a blast , they won't be small for long. These are fun years!
What’s sad is that rough and tumble play is completely discouraged with kids and their friends nowadays because everyone is afraid of getting sued or having their kid labeled as “aggressive” or a “bully”.
And now an entire generation has no idea what appropriate play is. They need written consent forms for everything.
depends on the country.
My husband and I are good friends with a man who's Italian
When we went to Italy for the first time we seen our friend randomly pick up other peoples children run around with them and play with them even small babies I was so shocked! Definitely not the done thing where we live.
Our friend is a pediatrician and loves kids but the mothers dont know that. Its beautiful and different to witness
3:03 "That's how they learn what doesn't hurt, and what hurts."
You don't suppose that an entire generation was deprived of learning that, and they have no idea what's appropriate and what's inappropriate, so in order to survive they decided that everything's inappropriate?
My dad was a avid wrestler in highschool. As a kid it was so much fun. I don’t remember much, but I do remember wrestling with my dad. He used to get me in this move called “the kid killer” lmao I used to scream no no no, but I loved it ❤️ Now I do the same with my daughter. She comes flying at me with no self regard haha, she’s a little wild woman. My daughter favorite is when she gets to be a bull fighter and I’m the bull. She jumps on my back, and I buck her around the living room 😂 tons of fun
I'm stealing this!! Tomorrow with my baby girl! Kid killer😂🤣 adorable
Huh can’t believe we need someone to remind us to rough and tumble with our kids...
That’s all I do
very true statement!! just how fucking sad have we become as a society where play with kids is a thing of the past?
I think it need to be talked about more our kids are out future ☺️🙏🏻
Kids are great! Playing with them is a socially acceptable chance to be a kid again yourself. I think that's something that often gets overlooked - play is great for the parent's health as well.
I do typically leave the rough and tumble play to my husband (aside from tickle fights) and what’s kind of cool is that my kids also recognize the boundary. They know that they are allowed to play with some people one way and differently with others.
Yes! My 2 year old girl realizes we all love rough housing but hits pops hard me not so much, holds back😂
shit I always had the feeling I was missing something in my social behavior. as I got older I got pretty good at hiding it by having other competences but now it's clear to me. I never had this kind of a dad. My dad was always very distant and dominant. The dominance part I dealt with but the not being playful still makes me an awkward individual in certain situation. It's probably also the reason I feel still awkward with kids and animals.
Here,have some warm hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I have two boys 2 years and 6 years old and I now get it why my boys want to wrestle all the time we wrestle twice a day every single day
I was just choke slamming my 2 year old son. He is in bed now and went straight to sleep. Look forward to giving him the peoples elbow when he wakes up tomorrow. But he seems to sleeping heavily.
😂😂😂
Good on you!! Kids love to wrestle and push and test physical boundaries and limits!
Especially boys; this is so important ☺️
@@d.l831 I think you missed my joke lol
@@rajnair5667 Are you speaking sarcastically? Because I know some dads do that kind of play-fighting with their kids. You just need to teach the kids how to do it safely
@@rajnair5667 and I think you missed the whole point of this video.
@@chrissugg6781 I think you missed the point of my comment.
I dint wrestle with my parents when I was young so when I see my husband do it with our toddlers it really scares me. But what he does is he grabs me and does the same to me. It does something to the heart.
When I was a kid wrestling was all I wanted to do, 24/7!
Khabib is that you ?!
Lucky you bro.I didn’t have a father so I don’t know the feeling but I’m lucky enough now, to wrestle with my two sons all day long.
@@17N. I literally don't even know what my dad looks like. So you're not alone.
@@17N. I'm a mother and I wrestle all my 3kids..I have 4 but the rth is just 7m old 😁 ...they have a dad but their mom also likes this kind of play 😅..I used to do karate,kickboxing and even cage fighting at some point .....
@@andreeaboloca246 wow!!!
This is interesting. I feel like there is a mistrust and fear in our society. When I was younger, we would run all over the neighborhood and every parent in the street watched out for the kids if something went wrong like kids picking on eachother then parents would walk you home. Now a days, it is scary to think about letting your kids walk by themselves. Society has changed to the mindset of turning a blind shoulder and “I’m responsible for myself and my own child” instead of seeing someone and thinking hmm they might need help.
I do this every day with my 1 and 3 year old and they love it. I love it.
Some phrases alone that he says, are sources of thought-food for days.
I wonder what Jordan thought when he saw the Gillette ad...
Thank you for sharing this crucial information.
I’m a mom and I do this with my daughter.
Same
Me too, and I did with my mom too
Same but with my dad, my mom was the mean one🤣 he was the fun one.
My dad played rough with my sister and I and it toughened us up. But I remember being 12 and having my three school friends sit me down and say that I would often play hit them and it hurt. And I laughed thinking they were joking but they were dead serious.
Such important points!
My daughter is 4 years old. I wrestled with her last nights. And she could not stop. She just loved it and said - we have to do it again. Also, just after 2 mins of fighting I stopped her and said - look, I will show you how to fight, but she just said to me (paraphrasing ) - don't tell me how to fight, I already know, just fight me.
This video needs a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooot more views... thank you for sharing!
If food was as abundant for wolves as it is for humans, you would see wolves kickin back and having fiestas
I would face my dad hold his hands and walk up his body until I flipped over. I wanted to do that all the time! My brother is also 13 years older than me and I would pretend to be his backpack lol!
My farther would wrestle me as soon as the door opens from work, right up till I was 6 years old then my parents divorced so my younger brother missed out, he can’t read social quees, but I thrive in large groups
Very relevant discussion!
My daughter loves to rough house play fight or wrestle.
I live in AK, someone gave me gloves so I started this thing where we fight but we have to have gloves on and then count to 5 before we fight. My boys (4,3) will go get my socks as gloves. They put some on their feet and hands. We wrestle and fight. I got the idea from JP.
I sometimes wrestle with My dad! Its really fun
As a single mother i have learned how i need to be a little rough with my son he enjoys it even tho im like is this too much lol
not just children but NATION'S
My partner wrestles with our daughter. Boundaries and fun. I play more gentle games with soft toys. Roleplaying for social interaction and imagination.
"I wacked him in the side of the head, in a playful way of course"
Hahaha what?
Boys hit each other* playfully.
Good ol toxic masculinity *sarcasm
He was talking about the dog..... hahaha wow.
It's like an invitation. If I just nudge my son he immediately knows it's an offer to wrestle or play and he'll just jump on me. Peterson is on point.
Some of my best memories were being thrown three feet in the air by my dad and being tossed around. He'd take me hiking and hunting and I'd learned to make use of nature and make it entertaining.
That outro was pretty surprising haha
It comes to you naturally if you had a good father. You do it with your child without thinking. I do it with my daughter since she was three.
What song is that at the end? Sounds good
darude- sandstorm
My cat doesn't like eating alone😌
I am soo happy I dont eat out that costs a ton of money to get out everyday .
Yes shared meals
My daughter LOVES to wrestle. We encountered a girl at a birthday party and she was freaked out when I started rough housing my kid. It was weird…
what's the outro song?
a lack of male role models is the reason we are in the mess we are right now , masculinity is under constant threat from a feminine media and being rough is considered wrong . I never hit my kids ever in "discipline" mode but bashed the fuck out of them in "play mode" and they absolutely loved it , by the time they were 8 and 10 (two boys) it hurt me far more than it would`ve ever hurt them , my wife used to leave the room in horror and the chaos didn`t end until dad was utterly knackered , sweating profusely and had "submit"
Buddha was example to last point.
We never ate together as a family. Every one would eat separately and typically in front of the TV. Terrible way to grow up.
A 3rd of British families can’t afford a house big enough to fit a dinning table.
Not cant, dont want to. People go to Britain to earn money. If a marriage cant afford a bigger flat, its because they are lazy. They probably rarely cook their food too. Why bother if you can order it.
@@Paciat more nuances needed here though. Some might be lazy, others are in too deep since childhood in social problems.
People that move to the UK to make money are usually highly educated and can leverage that (if they do it in their adult life), typically already got job in the UK since they are moving there etc.
That's a straight up lie, even rented council houses and shared housing have space for dining rooms. I grew up poor and have been homeless and I'm from the UK so I know what I'm talking about. You can fit a dining table in a 2-birth caravan so to claim a third of British families can't afford a big enough house? Nonsense.
@@Paciat If they're too lazy to earn money, how can they afford to eat out? Sounds like you have some chip on your shoulder to me.
Dan Cole who owns the council house Dan?
Media need to take a big blame for the general mistrust
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Darn it, I was expecting it to be one of them misinterpretation videos.
Same
7:59
Too much societal protectiveness has stupefying us.
birds and cattle graze together. If you have a bird it will eat better if you eat with it.
Okay, but what exactly do you say to a person who's screwed like that bedside that they are screwed?
Sorry, I might be a little late to the party with this. But I grew up as the well-behaved yet shy kid adults adored, and kids kinda disliked. I rarely ever experienced rough play, and it is only now in my late 20s that i feel the consequences of that. Now I'm socially anxious, i don't like the company of other men, and I'm totally non-confrontational. For some reason im bisexual, so i have not remained depraved of sex, gay men love me, straight men have no interest in my company, and I'm mostly invisible to women. I have no idea how to approach them, I hate dancing, I have no interest in sports, and I'm socially awkward. I want to change, but I don't know how... I have just been to a wedding, and all of those inadequacies of mine resurfaced all at once. I didn't engage in dancing, I barely spoke to anyone but my family, and when the groom threw the garter, I did participate because SURPRUSE, SURPRISE I'm one of the single ones, all the guys danced around and pushed each other around playfully. I remember one pushing me and I just stood there.. I didn't dare push back ad I think he felt that and just ignored me... I feel so unprepared for all of this. I have no girlfriend, I have no friends and my life is pretty much a man-child like state. I hate it and all I'm hearing from you is that I'm done for because I didn't experience it in the right period of my childhood. Well, here I am... ready to end it all, my suicide note is on my computer... my therapist doesn't really help either, so What do I and so many like me do?
It's true how overprotective American parents are. In a Russian speaking world we have no problem for strangers talk to our kids and kids talk to strangers. Our kids play for hours on a playgrounds without supervision. I grew up playing alone on the playground being 5 and would go home when mom yelled my name from the 5th floor. Nothing ever happened to us kids. Possibly, the reason is that sex is advertised too much in the Western society. Porn and all the "freedoms" corrupt the society and our kids are victims of those "freedoms". Too much porn, too much sex in the West. We know sex is a driving force in capitalism (things sell better if presented sexy, etc.), but it hurts the texture of the society.
that is simply not true - "Nothing ever happened to us kids." I remember the same childhood as you describe it. However, there was always something with some of us. Somebody would break a leg, an arm or a nose. We would go to some construction sites where we would climb things, and God only knows why nobody got killed by falling down from high unprotected places. Some did fall from trees though. Freedom cannot make you are victim of anything. Freedom opens up possibilities and helps you develop yourself anything you ever wanted if ever. Yes there is a price for that, some misuse freedom. Many of my "friends" from the childhood style you described ended up in jail, got killed, became drug addicts or are having miserable lifes they are not proud of.
I would think twice about taking parental advice from this guy. Both of his kids had issues growing up.
Fathers play with their children??
Yea?
Not Muslim fathers or most black fathers.
@@shaunr5450 of course Muslim father's play with their children, it's encouraged by our prophet Muhammad to do so.
But not everyone is religious and with regards to their children have learned "shut up and be silent" mode because they grew up like that as well.
@@salahudeen8567 Muhammed played with children all right. He was a pedophile. Im sure he encouraged it.
@@shaunr5450 have some damn courtesy what a disgraceful behaviour you represent yourself with. What happened to behaving like a decent civilised human being in a discourse?
How do I get to heaven? Will my good deeds be measured against my bad deeds? Do I need to be a good person to go to heaven? How do I know if I'm good enough?
Well the bible says no man is good, for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. So how do we get to heaven? Answer: By believing on Jesus Christ who took the punishment for our sin on the cross. There are no amount of good works we can do to achieve salvation because salvation is a free gift of God. We need to humble ourselves, realize we are sinners and that we need a savior.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that He gave his only son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
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When the autistic kid uses his brain to figure out relationships ... doesn’t seem like relating comes naturally to this guy. wonder what his personal life is like.
Huh?
I don't get what Jordan's saying at one part where he talks about being in the pool in mexico, he thinks it's bad that we distrust strangers playing with out kids?
That's not a bad thing at all... it's basic safety.
You’re part of the problem