The Secrets of The Clitoris, and How to Make it Work For You! | Empowering Midlife Wellness

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  • Today I’m delving into the beautiful and complex anatomy of the clitoris and how we can learn more about it in order to teach our partners where our pleasure zones are! Even if we don’t have a partner this information will greatly help you to understand your own body and experiment with self-pleasure. I’ll also be sharing ways to improve clitoral sensation, especially around the time of menopause, with hormone optimization and platelet-rich plasma amongst other things!
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  • @williameldridge5991
    @williameldridge5991 Рік тому +474

    I am 87, been married three times, and never gained as much knowledge as you have provided. It's kind of late for me at this point, but you are providing such a wonderful service I want to thank you sincerely.

    • @quicktips9106
      @quicktips9106 Рік тому +25

      You came quite late - better late than never... 😉

    • @debragrieco8061
      @debragrieco8061 Рік тому +7

      Does insurance pay for this

    • @susanchalkley9480
      @susanchalkley9480 Рік тому +43

      I just discovered you and this video is very revealing..I will turn 76 in 2 weeks and have no partners but myself..I am lucky enough to live in Italy where people still are interested in sex into their 80's (+?) So if I could get over past emotional trauma the chances of finding a partner are there.I had a breast cancer Very small like a grain of rice...but I took Letrozol ( or Tamoxifen in USA) so it destoyed the production of estrogen ..now after 9 years my libido is comjng on so I suppose and I do feel stimulated...
      I am the daughter of scientists so I find this info very interesting and new..thank you..grazie tante🎉

    • @cheryldaniels3659
      @cheryldaniels3659 Рік тому +43

      It's never too late. Age is just a number. Get out and live

    • @billieshock8213
      @billieshock8213 Рік тому +4

  • @laurelabraham195
    @laurelabraham195 Рік тому +32

    I am totally blown away. I have never heard had ANY one talk about this. And even though I have heard of PRP, most Doctors I have interacted with do not know anything about PR, or if they do, they do not do the procedure, resulting in trying to find a doctor who is progressive enough to offer this type of procedure, PRP. But this is the first I have ever heard of an O-shot. Where Have I been? What you have talked about makes so much sense. As a middle-aged woman, I have gotten to the point that sex was so painful (actually like feeling I was being ripped open) I avoided it. I have never heard anyone in the medical field say anything about this whole issue, sex, sex while getting older, etc. Thank you for your informative talks.

  • @Julz99907
    @Julz99907 Місяць тому +3

    This has been amazing hearing you talk about real things that no medical professional has ever discussed with me. All the things you brought up I have been aware of but never thought I could talk about it. Women's healthcare has been so neglected and you are proof of why its so important to have female doctors caring for females. Women understand women.

  • @ipris3971
    @ipris3971 9 місяців тому +103

    My wife and I are in our late fifties. We are successfully working through some relationship issues; this video couldn’t have come at a better time. I just forwarded it to her, and look forward to talking about it with her! Thank you!

  • @dianathomas1025
    @dianathomas1025 Рік тому +164

    I definitely have a g spot. I can have several different orgasms. Clitoral, g spot, cervical & others. Internal & external orgasms. They all feel different but they all feel good. We just have to experiment with our partner to find out what works. Relax, have fun & make eye contact. ❤
    Learning about Tantra & meditation has helped me tremendously! I swear I feel my soul leave my body while in such ecstasy. I recommend it to anyone with trauma, abuse or religious shaming etc… You learn how to relax & how to fall in love with yourself. And to love more fully. When you love yourself, you allow someone else to love you even more. ♥️♥️

    • @HiHello-ku1fl
      @HiHello-ku1fl Рік тому

      What about anal orgasm?

    • @lh98
      @lh98 Рік тому +1

      You are fortunate because my partner has always been a g spot orgasm and only enjoyed a little brief clitoral stimulation due to it becoming “too sensitive”. However the g spot is her happy place and has always required a plastic sheet and towel under us because of the squirting involved. Even cunnilingus she’ll only tolerate so long before it’s “too sensitive” then she’ll demand penetration. When she squirts which can often be pretty quickly she then pressures me to ejaculate even when I wish we could keep going longer. I think the liquid squirt everywhere makes her embarrassed even though I tell her it makes me extremely happy and makes me feel like a stud. Everything just get too sensitive for her and in a way she’s like a dude in that once she’s busted her nut (her squirt) once or twice she’s ready to stop. In a way it’s awesome because it makes for an efficient sexual encounter and she says she’s quite happy once she’s released no matter if it was 2 minutes in or 20. I enjoy giving cunilingus but she can only handle so much of it. I often daydream about intercourse with a woman that has clitoral orgasms just to see if I feel more of a difference in my penis but I will always love her ability to squirt and wouldn’t change it. I love when it hits me all over my chest, in my face. Nothing makes you feel more like a stud that watching a ladies eyes roll back in her head, the noise she makes and the shots of squirt splashing you all over. Another plus is when she squirts she’s so happy and engorged that she performs the best ever oral on my shaft. There’s Bj’s then there’s post squirt Bj’s that are on a whole other level. TMI and I’m sorry about that but one woman I had an encounter with wanted to have sex with me and I told her I’d give her oral only. She came out with a towel which I of course recognized as the “squirt catchers mitt”. Well 10 minutes into me performing cunilingus on her clitoris had her so loud I worried abut the neighbors. Then she squirted all in my face and on my chest. She drenched me literally. I’ve seen my share of squirters but only one that squirted from my tongue all over her clitoris. That was intense and unexpected. Men: it doesn’t require having a large penis to make this happen, sadly I am not well endowed (nothing I can do about that) but given the right angles and the right effort you can take your woman to some pretty serious enjoyment and them squirting all over you will make you feel like a large dick having porn star. Sorry for such a long write up. All men should have the chance to enjoy intercourse with a squirter at least once and all women should relax enough to try to get there too. My partner is fairly quiet during intercourse but when she squirts it’s a whole new ball game and she has such a great relaxed feeling that I can only compare to us gents when we blow our load. It’s pure bliss for all. Good day

    • @jerrimenard3092
      @jerrimenard3092 Рік тому +11

      This is so uplifting! Thank you for sharing about tantra. That self love makes it possible to love others more fully.

    • @equipman811
      @equipman811 Рік тому +5

      Those eyes would be a pleasure to keep gazing into.

    • @EmpressLestat
      @EmpressLestat Рік тому

      Wow, you are one lucky woman! I have basically given up even trying to have one orgasm a month! They have always been difficult to achieve, but now at 54 im basically just having sex only for my husband. I'm tired of the work and energy involved.

  • @billieshock8213
    @billieshock8213 Рік тому +41

    As a former Adult Shop owner have helped many individuals and couples alike with issues in their sex life and sexuality. Its my opinion that 95% of sex is above the shoulders. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @adriennerobinson1180
      @adriennerobinson1180 11 місяців тому

      Really? Wow

    • @elsagrace3893
      @elsagrace3893 Місяць тому

      Why nothing in the sex shop addresses this? It’s all toys for the genitals which I think are irritating.

    • @webb4Brevard
      @webb4Brevard 4 дні тому +1

      Yes! While dating, my wife (we are in 60's) came 3x one day with all her clothes on, She submitted to me and to the mental pictures I spoke, and light caring touches AFTER she saw I was submitted to her wellbeing and pleasure first. Sex is something you give, not something you get!
      Love formula in Bible: "Submit yourselves one to the other".
      We are in our 60's and enjoying top-10 sessions regularly.
      The best is yet to come!

  • @bobbyhexlrod1651
    @bobbyhexlrod1651 Рік тому +66

    I have no idea how this video popped up in my feed, but what I do know is that Dr. Susan Hadwick-Smith is/was our OBGYN twice, and blessed Melissa and I with two AMAZING daughters. I'm exiting out of this video, but felt compelled to leave a comment. Such a pleasure to see you doing well Dr. Hardwick-Smith. Prayers and well wishes for everyone. God Bless!

    • @constancebailey1052
      @constancebailey1052 4 місяці тому +3

      Hey Bobby, come back to the conversation ahn bring your wife if you want. I respect male input into female chats. You provide us with a broader understanding. Wow, I am 59, married for 34 years to my best male friend. This came into my feed yesterday and I was blown away....
      It's been 9 months since your post...😄

  • @vickimontemayor3262
    @vickimontemayor3262 Рік тому +116

    I’m a 74 yr old widow and found your talk really interesting. My friend I’ve known since we were 6 yrs old had blood plasma injected in her hip 2 yrs ago. It worked for time til she had a hip replacement. That was my first experience of hearing about the injection. I was an ultrasound technician for 12 yrs in a hospital. Many of my female patients would confide in me regarding orgasms. I was surprised how many young women either had no orgasm or only every once in awhile. I wish I’d had your talk to share with them. I was lucky because most of my years I had orgasms frequently and still can. Thank you for sharing this information. We really should know our bodies better than we do.

    • @hankfaber3131
      @hankfaber3131 Рік тому +10

      I’m 75, and wished we would have had this education when we were teens.The Dr. Is so good and open.

    • @r.l.fuller348
      @r.l.fuller348 Рік тому

      @@hankfaber3131
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    • @johnstaleysr9271
      @johnstaleysr9271 10 місяців тому

      I'm 72 and very into learning ua-cam.com/video/LqkRdk3Wn7Q/v-deo.html

  • @winters2662
    @winters2662 Рік тому +237

    I am a man in midlife (63) who has a lot of vitality and wanted to know more about what women are dealing with in midlife, especially sexually. I am so grateful for this video. It helps me understand how I might be able to add to healing and discussion with a partner and be there for them.

    • @IHGChick
      @IHGChick Рік тому +43

      And women are grateful for men who are as thoughtful and caring as you. Congratulations to your partner.

    • @winters2662
      @winters2662 Рік тому +18

      @@IHGChick Thank you! When I mentioned partner I am referring to a future partner! lol

    • @FrannyWard
      @FrannyWard Рік тому +10

      Agreed. The video here is enlightening. My Wife and I haven't really been active now for a few years , we been together since September of 1987. This video gives me some insight to be able to "Stimulate" my wife like I used to several years ago.

    • @mimisarah58
      @mimisarah58 11 місяців тому +11

      Never heard of this O shot. Platelet Rich Plasma shots aren't usually covered by insurance. I wonder if a Dr. for incontinence could order it and it be paid ..then the benefits of better quicker big orgasam might be great🎉

    • @rosygoh4507
      @rosygoh4507 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@FrannyWard😢😮😮

  • @Michelle-mz3jb
    @Michelle-mz3jb 2 роки тому +19

    Keep the videos coming I need them !!!

  • @DebbieDooo
    @DebbieDooo 2 роки тому +23

    Great information, as usual. Hoping to find this in my area!

  • @AA-co9oo
    @AA-co9oo 2 роки тому +19

    Wow what incredible information to share! Thank you!!!

  • @jb5880
    @jb5880 11 місяців тому +4

    So glad I discovered you. How enlightening. Thank you🙏🏻

  • @anthonyfalcone5605
    @anthonyfalcone5605 Рік тому +8

    This was really a wonderful video,Dr. Susan! Thank you! Faith Falcone

  • @cherylplanert2673
    @cherylplanert2673 Рік тому +7

    I appreciate your knowledge. I just found you and am very pleased at the detail you give us. Looking forward to more presentations.

  • @SRtruth
    @SRtruth Місяць тому +2

    I really appreciate that you made this video. I appreciate your compassion throughout whilst explaining everything so honestly and thoroughly. Bless you 💗💕

  • @karinbarbee364
    @karinbarbee364 Рік тому +14

    Such an informative video!

  • @francispuleo2382
    @francispuleo2382 6 місяців тому +3

    Great show keep up the good work cause you’re good idea what’s going on and I appreciate it. Thank you.

  • @odejoy6088
    @odejoy6088 Місяць тому

    I have just started to watch your posts and I have to say I really appreciate the way you present your information. You are so natural, informative, REAL. You address issues that can feel so difficult to talk about w our partner or to learn about ourselves.
    Thank you for you knowledge and sensitive 'touch' giving this information.

  • @stregalilith
    @stregalilith Місяць тому

    Thank you Dr. Susan! I’m referring everyone who asks to your channel❤❤❤

  • @karensarro3578
    @karensarro3578 11 місяців тому +3

    Brilliant! I shared this with my daughters and best friend. Thank you.

  • @help797
    @help797 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank You so much for such a beautiful and vital presentation. Nobel Prize worthy!

  • @smileysgarage8899
    @smileysgarage8899 11 місяців тому +2

    thank you for figuring this out and thank you very much for sharing!

  • @duckbizniz663
    @duckbizniz663 5 місяців тому +2

    Extremely informative. Thank you Dr. Hardwick-Smith.

  • @terrydillon9323
    @terrydillon9323 Рік тому +8

    Wow, thank you. Wonderful video.

  • @cristinapalomec6632
    @cristinapalomec6632 Рік тому +8

    DEFINITELY SUBSCRIBED…AND FORWARDED TO EVERY FRIEND or Associate that I know who is OVER 40. Thank God I don’t have any issues at 67,; could be because I am an avid researcher when it comes to my heath. HOWEVER I LOVE learning about EVERYTHING ‼️😀Thank You Gazillions for your easy relaxed expertise sharing.

  • @violahamilton782
    @violahamilton782 Рік тому

    Thank you for all the varied information!

  • @TaiChiWithMe
    @TaiChiWithMe 7 місяців тому +2

    Excellent, informative and intellagent!
    Thank you,
    Love, David

  • @patriciasgarrett8387
    @patriciasgarrett8387 7 місяців тому +9

    Im amazed at Dr. Susan's the level of knowledge and educational she is. I'm learning much about the female anatomy. Her simplicity and intent isn't spoken in a manner of making one feel dumb or embarrassed. 100% PROFESSIONAL WITH HER PURPOSE!!!!. GREAT VIDEO

  • @TheAll5555
    @TheAll5555 Рік тому +18

    Me too, so glad I saw your video, never heard of the O- shot but it does make sense. Thank you 🙏🏼

    • @jorm2528
      @jorm2528 Рік тому

      Yeah. Am curious more of us have also not ever heard of this treatment.

  • @reneebanbury7066
    @reneebanbury7066 Рік тому +11

    Wow! Amazing information. This video popped up on my feed & I just had to see it & I am so happy I did! Thank you for this information that I had never heard about or thought about! ❤❤❤

  • @johnpaulbacon8320
    @johnpaulbacon8320 Рік тому +5

    Thank's for this extremely informative video.

  • @johnsomebody1753
    @johnsomebody1753 11 місяців тому +3

    It's so wonderful that there are such people, with such confidence and understanding, as to be able to say stuff which we all need to hear.
    And that there are men commenting too, confident to own up, to having benefitted from learning it.

  • @rosejackson801
    @rosejackson801 2 роки тому +58

    I’m so thankful that I came across this video… It was so interesting and helpful, especially with Me being in My 50’s…. I’m so looking forward to more videos!!! Wow Thanks 🙏🏽 😊

    • @hankfaber3131
      @hankfaber3131 Рік тому +4

      I am 75 and never heard of the O or P shot. I loved the video, and the Dr. Is accurate in saying we get No education on this subject. I am going to check on this shot, as I have had ED for years.

  • @deedywoodruff9224
    @deedywoodruff9224 3 місяці тому +1

    Fascinating Information! Thank You!!

  • @KATLABELLE1
    @KATLABELLE1 Рік тому +1

    MOST interesting ! Thank you Susan !

  • @stevenstreets695
    @stevenstreets695 Рік тому +4

    Greatest miracle in the universe... The doorbell of happiness....

  • @antonykj1838
    @antonykj1838 2 роки тому +10

    Good presentation informative thanks 👍

  • @alfredtoma
    @alfredtoma 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Dr. Smith, I have just crowned my MD education with your rich C-999 course.

  • @soniamora2170
    @soniamora2170 Рік тому +2

    I'm so happy to find this video!❤❤

  • @davehpratt
    @davehpratt Рік тому +90

    Susan you are a wonderful educator on such an invisible topic that needs illumination and you are doing a great job of it !

  • @valeriegould1769
    @valeriegould1769 Рік тому +13

    Never heard of this! Thank you so much for putting this video together!!

  • @jimoyler1780
    @jimoyler1780 9 місяців тому

    Great stuff. Thanks for sharing!

  • @Michibz57
    @Michibz57 11 місяців тому

    thank you Dr. Susan for make this video! Its help me a lot

  • @ivoted7199
    @ivoted7199 Рік тому +12

    Education. Love it.

  • @rnswann6324
    @rnswann6324 Рік тому +55

    I'm 72, and I had no idea! So glad to stumble onto your video.
    I'm not dead yet. I wish there were more conversations for women my age. Even when I was starting menopause I had no information of what to expect. I sure don't know what to expect now at 72.

    • @Blood_Eagle_wife
      @Blood_Eagle_wife Рік тому +15

      Hubs is 75 and I''m 70. Still going strong but we've had to make some minor adjustments. Some of us old farts are still frisky!

    • @rnswann6324
      @rnswann6324 Рік тому +17

      @@Blood_Eagle_wife Woo Hoo! Keep On Keeping On! ☮️ Our age group is underestimated.

    • @pera06
      @pera06 9 місяців тому +1

      Why dont you start a channel interviewing women and men on this topic? You can bridge the age gap by making it relevant to younger audiences too, people like myself, who are curious about the "next" phase of life 😊❤

  • @jeaninehinckel77
    @jeaninehinckel77 11 місяців тому +1

    Amazing timing.

  • @glendamartin8424
    @glendamartin8424 День тому

    New subscriber! Glad I found your channel today. Very informative to know your body. I’m a widow, still dating at 76 years young. I haven’t had any sexual problems. Love learning new information. I am a fan of this channel now.

  • @Michelle-mz3jb
    @Michelle-mz3jb 2 роки тому +12

    God bless you this is your calling

  • @donnasloane9031
    @donnasloane9031 Рік тому +3

    Your video is so necessary....for all of us....thank you Doctor....and absolutely fascinating 👏( the O shot)

  • @Slickster52
    @Slickster52 Місяць тому +1

    So refreshing. Thank you fòr this wonderfully informative video. I have forwarded the link to my neighbor's wife and very much look forward to discussing it with her.

  • @Winter_Blood
    @Winter_Blood 7 місяців тому +1

    Loved this! Thank you!

  • @OneManLikeNoOneElse
    @OneManLikeNoOneElse 10 місяців тому +5

    I’m a man, amazed by the anatomy of the women. Very intrigued by your work here. Thank you for the enlightenment!❤

  • @raygain9922
    @raygain9922 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you dr Susan . You are very knowledgeable

  • @VelmaAmstutz-ud3pc
    @VelmaAmstutz-ud3pc 3 місяці тому

    Awesome video thanks for sharing!

  • @elijahmonn3757
    @elijahmonn3757 Рік тому +93

    Hi Susan, I like how open you are. Relating your experience to people, including things that many would find embarrassing. Is great in normalising the ageing process. I’m a physiotherapist in NZ. And it takes a special clinician to relate and build trust and rapport. Thank you for posting this video. Kind regards, Brent

    • @jrobertsnz
      @jrobertsnz 11 місяців тому

      Where do you practice in New Zealand Elijah Monn?

    • @elijahmonn3757
      @elijahmonn3757 11 місяців тому

      @@jrobertsnz , hi I’m not practicing at the moment. Are you living in nz?

    • @MsStealYourDadAndMom
      @MsStealYourDadAndMom 8 місяців тому

      If you don't mind me asking, what's a physiotherapist? It sounds cool

  • @ann6030
    @ann6030 11 місяців тому +4

    I definitely subscribed to your channel! I loved that you are a doctor ! I loved that you explained everything so smoothly & so intelligently! I feel you are so easy to talk too & to listen too! I will definitely listen to & watch your videos!! Thank you for educating us on our female body!❤

    • @judeirwin2222
      @judeirwin2222 11 місяців тому +1

      Easy to talk to, not too.

  • @doctordeath.5716
    @doctordeath.5716 Місяць тому

    Great information and I will share this video, thank you for sharing and teaching all of this.

  • @ritadenike8363
    @ritadenike8363 Місяць тому

    I have the pellet injection and it’s costly and last only about 3 months . I’m so happy to have listened to this today .
    I am going to ask my dr about this ;
    Thank you for this much needed information to the people who are listening ❤

  • @MelissaOHarra
    @MelissaOHarra Рік тому +5

    WOW- GLAD TO HAVE FOUND YOU! I have a cruelty in my immediate future. My OB Rx'd Estrogen about a year ago. I sustained a TBI; unresolved. She does not want to administer my Estroven as she fears a stroke or heart attack. I cannot bear it; I was raped at age 43 and it stopped my menses. Now, ten years later, I just sad to see how I must deal with this, and then with my head held high, of course I will! My Stanford Neuro expressed his jealousy at my very healthy and happy libido while tolerating a Hemorrhaging Cervical c5/6; I met him pre ACDF w/fusion. A delightful MD you are, and thank you!

    • @saul.t.2.969
      @saul.t.2.969 Рік тому +2

      I’m happy for Melissa I think? But, honestly don’t understand much of what you wrote but, it sounds interesting

  • @Waywardification
    @Waywardification Рік тому +9

    I like how uncut this video is. Usually videos are so full of edit cuts...this is just refreshing to see.

    • @cattule3408
      @cattule3408 Рік тому +1

      I agree with you. It seems that women have been kept in the dark for so long about soo many issues.
      Thank you Dr. Smith for sharing the much needed info women have been searchng and praying for for so long. Thank God there are a lot more women Gyn's that take the time & share this info with their patients. Thanks again Dr. Smith.

  • @larryking2697
    @larryking2697 4 місяці тому

    Lots of good information!!!

  • @pasqualeparente9776
    @pasqualeparente9776 10 місяців тому +1

    I must say it is very interesting . I am looking forward to more of these lessons.

  • @robertdesales9999
    @robertdesales9999 Рік тому +89

    I found your talk very interesting and focused. Your ability to talk about this topic in a subjective interesting and informative way is outstanding. A lot of medical people have vast amounts of knowledge at their command, but don't talk about it so that the rest of us want to listen. Kudos!

    • @agoodred
      @agoodred Рік тому +10

      Uuuh no they don’t. Lol. Never got taught anything about it in my training. Why do people assume all health professionals know every single thing there is to know about the human body. The health system is a joke mate It’s not for health. It’s for the opposite nowadays

    • @jorm2528
      @jorm2528 Рік тому +7

      That's because it's a business 1st. Instead of being a valuable service.

    • @marthasanders8877
      @marthasanders8877 Рік тому +3

      My goodness. What a wonderful anatomy lesson. I am nearing 70 and l learned a lot. Yesss, I am subscribing and am excited to learn more. Thank you so very much.

  • @cheryldurant-evelyn5518
    @cheryldurant-evelyn5518 Рік тому +5

    Wow! thanks for this info, I am certainly amazed to know there is so much more to the Clitoris, very informative indeed, I will certainly be sharing it.👍

  • @marylynngriffin2876
    @marylynngriffin2876 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us!!!

  • @yourbestlifebrandi
    @yourbestlifebrandi Рік тому

    Wow I learned so much from this!

  • @mainulislam8756
    @mainulislam8756 Рік тому +14

    Thank you. Very good advice and information. Helpful tips for all men and women.

  • @carolhughes4858
    @carolhughes4858 Рік тому +9

    Thank you very much for this video!!! Very informative!! Great info!! 😍

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 11 місяців тому

      Hi Carol, how's your day going with you?

  • @stregalilith
    @stregalilith Місяць тому +1

    My high school gave us the knowledge and the words that were denied to my conservative parents much to my comfort and joy!

  • @joeindrajitconnolly3505
    @joeindrajitconnolly3505 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much! I've learned more from you in this presentation than in my reallife journey about the female anatomy, especially the clitoris. So many times I've felt a disappointment or that I disappointed my partner, it's never to late to improve. You're the best educator!!

  • @cynthiaporcaro9937
    @cynthiaporcaro9937 10 місяців тому +5

    This is a great podcast! Just seen my GYN yesterday and she put me on a daily injectable, and progesterone pill I'm hoping this helps! Should I ask her for the O shot as well. Love your videos!! ❤

  • @shenablount2644
    @shenablount2644 Рік тому +42

    Thank you! I’m in tears…. I’m 51 and have been in menopause for almost two years. I’ve experienced dryness and my clitoris seems to be disappearing and less sensitive. My sex life is in not where it used to be.

    • @vanceowen5448
      @vanceowen5448 Рік тому +6

      If your clitoris is disappearing you may have lichen sclerosus. Talk to your Gynaecologist about it.

    • @daniel596061
      @daniel596061 11 місяців тому +7

      I am 62 and it took a long time to found out I have lichen sclerosus. It started when I was 52, it took a while before the doctors help me. The UK sclerosis association help me out, to how to manage it. Some doctors have no clue what it is and do. I finally found a doctor and she knew what to do to help me. Hope you found help.

    • @richardpauly1635
      @richardpauly1635 11 місяців тому +2

      Use lubrication

    • @jillmartin5734
      @jillmartin5734 10 місяців тому +5

      Does insurance cover this??

    • @scruffypupper
      @scruffypupper 10 місяців тому +10

      @@jillmartin5734 Insurance companies don't seem to consider women's sexual pleasure as something necessary for good health--yet they do cover many therapies for men having issues with erectile dysfunction and such. Isn't that interesting?

  • @pauldph6444
    @pauldph6444 2 місяці тому

    I am going to have a frank conversation with my wife very soon. Excellent educational presentation and honest approach. Most women need to watch your video and the educational system needs to wake up and properly educate our young children at an appropriate age. Starting before high school. Thanks

  • @user-eg3cy2fy5j
    @user-eg3cy2fy5j Місяць тому

    It's indeed nice to hear about those topics thanks

  • @rogerbarker2015
    @rogerbarker2015 Рік тому +21

    I look forward to your video on ED. Sheri Winston's Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure is excellent! What things feel like changes a lot with arousal, blood flow, and erectile tissue hardening.

  • @ms.laterholmes2890
    @ms.laterholmes2890 Рік тому +15

    I really appreciate your honesty here truly hit the nail on the head when you said oh one more goddamn thing to do thank you for the time and energy you put your channel😊

  • @rickgoacher8410
    @rickgoacher8410 4 місяці тому +1

    Very interesting, informative and clear presentation of valuable information for both women and their adoring men. Thank you.

  • @ellaniwalker4796
    @ellaniwalker4796 Рік тому +2

    Thank you. I had not ever heard of this o-shot. Sounds like s great thing for all women. I am 72. Live in Texas. Nice to know about this. 💖🌟🌹

  • @karindetrick1303
    @karindetrick1303 Рік тому +4

    THANK YOUUUUUUUU!!! 😳🙏🤩🙌🥳

  • @wendywatkins628
    @wendywatkins628 11 місяців тому +3

    Wow, this information is so valuable. It explains so much to me. I'm a lucky girl, always had wonderful "O's" and still do. But I always wondered why I had what I called the inside kind, and the outside kind. Now I know why. I always thought I should gift my clitoris in my will, because I truly have a better one than any woman I know.

  • @secondchance3710
    @secondchance3710 9 місяців тому

    So informative!! Loved it! Subscribing

  • @lolitamike9609
    @lolitamike9609 Рік тому

    thank you for the interesting information!

  • @tampatammylynn2745
    @tampatammylynn2745 Рік тому +58

    I would add that a G Spot orgasm may NOT become the preferred sensation for everyone as in a previous comment. That’s certainly an individual preference. I enjoy it but also it can be messy if you’re one who squirts. Personally, clitoral orgasms have always been my favorite due to the intensity & level of relaxation & euphoria afterwards. 😊 I’ve experienced every kind & enjoy them all but have a favorite. In my experience the G Spot is a “spongy” texture about the size of a silver dollar inside & once your partner recognizes it, can target it more easily. My husband says he reaches for the inside of the bellybutton about 1/2 way up - so it isn’t really the back of the clitoris for me. 🤷🏼‍♀️ (For me,) The G Spot isn’t really “activated” until a level of sexual excitement has already been achieved.

    • @jorm2528
      @jorm2528 Рік тому +8

      Thank you so much for this helpful info.

    • @MatrixxPhoenixx
      @MatrixxPhoenixx 8 місяців тому +3

      It was in mid forties when my life got 'messy' lol. 20 yrs of marriage and It just began out of the blue..I had never heard of it. Sex had always been satisfying and nothing had changed in our repertoire so this was unexpected. Once the water works started it meant always having matress liners and heavy towels handy🤦‍♀️

  • @Sarafimm2
    @Sarafimm2 Рік тому +36

    This information is fascinating and I'm sharing it with my husband. I never knew about the O-shot or the true anatomy of the Clit. My husband got an "A" or the highest level in Sex Education in High School back in the 1980's. His sisters were ~10 years older than him and he had been around them as they had children so he aced the baby section of the class. His family was involved in floristry so they knew a lot of gay men during the height of the AIDS/HIV crisis and he wanted to know all he could about STDs so he aced that section of the class. But the information about how to satisfy a woman was minimal at best outside of anatomy, "toys", and the teacher telling everyone that "communication with your partner is key"--something the teacher stressed when flying past the mention of BDSM since that was a big thing during the "Coming Out of the Closet" era. Still, it took us a few years before we finally communicated enough to enjoy a great sex life. We're still together 35 years later.

    • @MsStealYourDadAndMom
      @MsStealYourDadAndMom 8 місяців тому +1

      Y'all were taught about bdsm in sex ed?? We barely covered the basics 😂😅 I'm not trying to be rude or anything when I say this and I'm not trying to come off as weird or ignorant, but what does floristry have to do with gay guys? Isn't floristry just flowers? Sorry if I came across as some dumb hick, just curious lol

    • @Sarafimm2
      @Sarafimm2 8 місяців тому +1

      @@MsStealYourDadAndMom At the time we lived in California near San Francisco which was a "Mecca" for what is today the LGBT+ people. My husband's family had been generational florists (no one in the family was gay) and they had come to know many of the gay men quite well who had become Florist Owners and/or part of the general floral workforce once being gay became less and less of a stigma. Many were really sweet men and almost down to a T exactly what you imagine feminine gay men to be. They were still teaching floristry in High School along with sewing and cooking in our High Schools as an option. My third year of High School I had the option to take a math class or, for the first time ever, a BASIC computer class to give you an idea of how far back this was. As for your BDSM question, this was the era where anything gay related seemed to have some sort of BDSM component. Black leather/vinyl pants, vests, or hats were common. (Tom of Finland was a major artists of the time and looking him up on Wikipedia will give you an idea.) So were whips, chains, leather straps, dildos, plugs, etc. you could see it all during San Francisco's Pride Week and still can. Although, back then it was a smaller, quieter affair and wasn't as huge and IN YOUR FACE as it is today. So our teacher probably was asked about or felt the need to help explain BDSM. All the porn magazines still existed where now it's all online. So did a whole bunch of sex books and talk shows! "Dr. Ruth" Westheimer and "Dr. Drew" Pinsky both had relationship/sex call in radio shows which later turned into late night cameos or full blown television shows. So our Sex Ed teacher not only had to go over anatomy, conception, contraception, and diseases, but this whole new era of "Sexual Enlightenment". Probably similar to what she had had to go through when she had been in school during the 1960-1970's. All in all, I think I still left High School pretty naive about sex. My mother was pretty strict and I dared not bring certain materials or items into the house "for research". So I really never bought any of the books or magazines until my husband and I had our own place.

    • @joemaruca1789
      @joemaruca1789 2 місяці тому

      You explained that really well.@@Sarafimm2 Congrats on your happiness.

  • @nenettegreeno6853
    @nenettegreeno6853 3 місяці тому

    This is an amazing video full of information. i didn't know the O-shot existed as an option. Although i don't think Ineed this yet, it's a great idea if i do.

  • @coastalgrasslander4511
    @coastalgrasslander4511 10 місяців тому +2

    I love the way you take on this potentially awkward subject with clarity, integrity, and poise. what a great 'how to' example, very impressive. Separately, if the clitoral body is affixed to the front part of the pubic symphysis, I don't see how it can also be the g-spot. a better theory might be that the g-spot is part of a broader clitoral-urethral complex of nerve endings and erectile tissue not fully described. See Nicole Prause.

  • @ronaldguerrieri3993
    @ronaldguerrieri3993 Рік тому +6

    I sure am learning it now. Thank you Doc...:o)

  • @susanboren3745
    @susanboren3745 Рік тому +92

    I adore you ❤❤❤ Iwas having orgasms since I was a baby. I had no idea what I was doing, and I embarrassed my parents and grandparents. My daughter did the same. I’m so happy to know that we’re not the only ones! I’m 62, soon to be 63 and my sex drive is still alive, but I’m very interested in getting a O shot! I did not know that existed…you are fantastic! Thank you 🙏

  • @user-qs1ux3rs2d
    @user-qs1ux3rs2d 4 місяці тому

    I love this message awesome learning I want to try this and have so much fun.

  • @michelespeno3502
    @michelespeno3502 3 місяці тому +1

    Great value! Very informative, and I really like knowing about the body and sexuality! So I've always read and researched but you explained extremely clearly! ❤

  • @tammygoins5685
    @tammygoins5685 Рік тому +227

    I can’t believe I didn’t know anything about the anatomy of the clitoris. I am 65 and I miss the moisture I used to have. I am on hormones which have helped tremendously. But I am interested in the O shot. I am still sexually active. I am so glad I found you to help educate me. Thank you!

    • @Poppaea-Sabina
      @Poppaea-Sabina Рік тому +13

      My doctor won't give me hormones. What do I say to get them?

    • @kendryahersham8580
      @kendryahersham8580 Рік тому

      ​@@Poppaea-SabinaI wonder if your Dr would do nothing (testosterone shot, viagra) for a male patient with sexual dysfunction...

    • @VanessaKittredge
      @VanessaKittredge Рік тому +28

      Go to another doctor.

    • @virginiaeller8164
      @virginiaeller8164 Рік тому +10

      I’m going to ask my Doctor about the O shot.

    • @elite3737
      @elite3737 Рік тому +15

      I use local estrogen cream and otc Good Clean Love moisturizer and no more vaginal dryness

  • @nw6091
    @nw6091 Рік тому +14

    Thank you for posting. I understand my wife a little better now.

  • @juanitabarner8856
    @juanitabarner8856 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing !

  • @jacquelinestephens5387
    @jacquelinestephens5387 Рік тому

    Great information thank you for sharing

  • @kroyal4296
    @kroyal4296 Рік тому +18

    Thank you for this information I wonder why this treatment only works for some women I've read reviews where it had no effect and is costly. I also wonder why some women have none of these effects from menopause and others have the full on 34 symptoms

  • @Michelle-mz3jb
    @Michelle-mz3jb 2 роки тому +12

    Omg 😲 😱
    where have YOU been all My MenoPausalHorroficLife!!!...1st Thank you Dr Susan!!! My comment has Nothing to do with this video but l was up 😔 late lastnight well 4am this morning!!!Bc I was consumed with much of what you said especially in a video with Dominique Sashs... your videos are helping me already perhaps saving my life and differently my marriage 💑

    • @Michelle-mz3jb
      @Michelle-mz3jb 2 роки тому +4

      I can't stop crying bc l am so happy .... thank you

  • @johnrusso2278
    @johnrusso2278 29 днів тому

    that was a great learning experience. PRP was something fairly new to me , only hearing of it this past year. It has many uses and hering how well it works with women along with testosterone and estrogen sounds ie you just turned back the hands of time for women. I enjoyed the science of all this, knowing how things work. Only wish I knew more about all this years ago. Looking forward to learning more from you. I may never get to use any of this but knowledge is key.

  • @akadirnilavane2861
    @akadirnilavane2861 7 місяців тому

    Super explanation!

  • @TheMack
    @TheMack Рік тому +40

    Very nicely presented. This knowledge can also help if someone is thinking that there is something wrong with them, not being able to have pleasurable sex and/or reaching orgasm. Usually that ends up in self-blame/hatred, which may lead to mental blocks and a downward negative spiral. Knowing how your body works can lift that spell and will increase awareness. Thank you!

    • @deathbysnusnu1970
      @deathbysnusnu1970 Рік тому +4

      ! OMG ! Uhm, I thought mine was defective, like a manufacturers defect. I just thought pleasure with a partner was an experience to tolerate because there was not much pleasure. Heck, I even thought I was doing something wrong, I have been told by more than one partner that my needs were excessive and too much work. Blink. And, I've never even heard of the O-shot!
      Looks like I have some work to do.

    • @TheMack
      @TheMack Рік тому +1

      @@deathbysnusnu1970 No worries, you're not alone, I feel that there are many, many people who experience the same thing. Great comment btw! 👍

    • @deathbysnusnu1970
      @deathbysnusnu1970 Рік тому +1

      @@TheMack thanks! ❤️

    • @marciasloan534
      @marciasloan534 5 місяців тому

      Non threatening personality