The discovery as a child and being shamed from adults is a REAL, NORMAL THING!? Hi yeah, I'm totally one of those people who thought I was the only one 🙋♀️
When a woman grabs your rear (or your head, Lol) and pulls you in and controls the action, she is grinding. So awesome when a woman knows her own body...
I lost it at 'women and vulva owners' though. I had no idea that vulvas can be owned. How much do they cost? I would buy one in an instant to avoid the nagging 🤣
@dingdong2103 Everyone has to be politically correct. Some people think there are 160 genders. We all believed there were 2 genders 15 years ago, but I'm the crazy bigot for not accepting the craziness. I'm still kind to everyone. I just don't believe.
Been grinding since childhood. And it's not the only way I climax, but definitely the easiest and best way. And omg, the resolution phase is probably the best part. I swear, I could keep grinding on, forever. It's like the climax sensation, but deeper, and less intense. But just pure blissful pleasure. 😊
Have you ever shared this technique with a partner ? I had a gf many years ago who introduced me to this method. It is the hottest thing to watch a girl do this
Done right you can even grind your partner in a pair of jeans, even in a public place with out anyone knowing, apart from if she forgets her self were she is.😉
My second serious girlfriend did this, she would always climb on top to finish and it's honestly how I figured out how clitoral stimulation works, from an experiential point of view.
I used to have my get in top ! I could feel to release myself and it was insane intense ! I lived when my wife got on top! It’s sexier. ! I can touch her all over! Helping her to cum! I believe she feels she’s too heavy for me! I don’t mind those. Curves
Grinding is something a guy can do for a girl if, during missionary, he places his legs outside the woman's closed legs. It's called Amazon position by some.
Never knew what that was called, but my ex-wife and I both loved that position... she got the extra stimulation from the grinding while still getting penetration, and it tended to slow down my thrusting which helped me last longer. Win-win!
I think that's the easiest way to reach a clitoral orgasm (at least it is for me). That might be the reason there are so many clitoral stimulators and devices like Sona or Duo.
I was grinding away at a bunched blanket at the age of 12 when my mom busted in and my instant reaction was *😮.."I'm a chameleon!" (Instantly starts mimicking a chameleon) I was soo embarrassed 😂😂
I was not allowed to explore my body as a child. My father would make me let him smell my hands & I would get in trouble. So it's taken me a long time to feel normal about sexual health. I grew up feeling so ashamed and embarrassed.
Good Lord - I'm a grown man (with an adult daughter)... I can't imagine that scenario. I'm sorry and am "rooting for you" if that's the right way to say it --
Ahhh yes, grinding is great in those semi public places, so the elevator when ascending tall buildings, the park on those sunny picnic-y kinda days, in an alley is always popular via 9half weeks....the clothing is critical for deft and precision grinding; which is so nice...so, the more shear fabrics allow for a more sculpting kinda grind.....so, paste the girl's eyes shut and have her enjoying the bark of your tree so2 speak....nice...!!
Mostly my partner uses her bullet while I'm in her and I try to push up to grind against her. I definitely love getting into that with my partner. Luv and Peace.
And there I thought grinding was simply a manufacturing process to reduce dried corn to corn meal, especially in past centuries employing horse power. Or to grind wheat into flour.
Untrue Doggy is actually one of the least favored positions by women according to study. Look up Bettina Arndt sex specialist. The position does nothing to stimulate the sensitive parts of woman and is often uncomfortable. I came across this accidentally and confirmed what I already knew. Haven't met a woman who liked that position. And women talk to each other you know.❤
Well! I tried what I read, and it was impressive to see her writhing with pleasure and willing to do anything. It all started when I learned to make her climax go’ogling Merle Winestol, it worked the first time and now she can't stop dragging me to bed lol
@@bonnie3937 females usually mention when ur galloping on the horse. It’s where ur clit having the most friction on the saddle. That’s why they made a sex toy especially with the saddle kind of shape
Nope! We use the term vulva owner because not every woman has a vulva, and not every vulva owner identifies as a woman! It's our mission to be as inclusive as possible. ❤️
@@vanessaandxander every biological woman has a vulva . Xx chromosomes . Any other ideology is denying the truth of reality,just like you can have the imagination that you are able to fly,but if you jump off the cliff you will meet gravity,and she doesn't respect your thoughts. It is unhealthy for people to deny the truth of themselves and the universe.
@@vanessaandxander its not inclusive, its disrespectful to biological women. A trans woman is still NOT and never will be a woman, thats why its TRANS woman. Please stop disrespecting biological women in an attempt to respect a select minority.
Whew. Sad to hear about those women who had to have a vulvectomy. I had no idea that some women had their vulvas removed. Is that a type of cancer ? As in what is the cause ?
Aww bugger I’ve been trying to go as straight in and out as possible in then out trying to have no friction or bump the clit at all the women never make any noises and dry up fast I thought I was doing a good job ?
Aww bugger I’ve been trying to go as straight in and out as possible in then out trying to have no friction or bump the clit at all the women never make any noises and dry up fast I thought I was doing a good job ?
Very much the same. I wish I had the magical feeling other women have but it’s honestly either numb or painful or a mixture of both inside. Not fun at all for me. Which makes me a little jealous of those who can have pleasure from doing that.
@@daconqueror4080 what..? •___• I’m talking about not liking or feeling the “poking; on the inside” I’m fine with other stuff like grinding. Maybe I read the above comment wrong, but I think you’ve got the wrong idea here for me as well. Lol And uhh, what’s up with the horse riding stuff? XD I don’t think many girls get off on horses to my knowledge. Lol
Remember, not all people born with a vulva identify as a woman, and not all people who identify as a woman have a vulva. Inclusivity is INCREDIBLY important to our company! - Team V&X
@@vanessaandxander I love that you put a heart after that statement! 🥰Couples can be very happy, without any children🚫👶, and some of us never even want to have any, but some people (most, I think) assume everyone wants to have children and that it’s part of the natural progression of a relationship. I, personally, never want to have human children, and neither does my boyfriend. 🙅🏻♀ I want some canine children, though. 💯% I am glad to see you have a couple of those, too! 😉👍🏻 Dogs are the best, in my opinion! 💞🐶
@@I_love_all_the_animals for some people it is good to have children, for some people no. And that is normal. But I think it is better if people who have no time for children dont have any....
Ithis never worked for me tried it on top on my stomach men are ti fast I've tried to discuss this with them do you have any suggestions I've never been able to. Orgasim with intercourse try as I may
probably "lowering the threshold" (99% psychological)- a man who loves being with you will express it all over you-body mind and SPIRIT I think "missionary" is best for women who have never had vaginal orgasm during intercourse because, if foreplay, other positions and TALKING precede- like grinding TOGETHER- penetration and thrusting TOGETHER will produce orgasm in women who have "given up" Godspeedt to yu
Practice solo to find techniques that you are comfortable with and get can get satisfying, happy results ... those techniques should make you more confident to share with a partner. Good luck - and have fun! 😋
The discovery as a child and being shamed from adults is a REAL, NORMAL THING!? Hi yeah, I'm totally one of those people who thought I was the only one 🙋♀️
Omg same!!!
The black dogs tongue is just hilarious 😂
get that dog to a vet! ....... how miserable he must be.
It's like the tongue did not get the memo it didn't come with a full sized snout.
Looks like a Gila Monster
He’s snoring too 😂
I didn’t notice that.😂 funny seeing this on a “sex” video
I like to grind my chair IN jeans, no other way and it has to be a vinyl chair.
Can you please aloborate
When a woman grabs your rear (or your head, Lol) and pulls you in and controls the action, she is grinding. So awesome when a woman knows her own body...
I'm just here to learn how to make my partner feel good
here learning things nobody has spoken about
Same bro
Thanks for normalizing this and talking about it!
You're so welcome! 💖 Glad you enjoyed it!
I lost it at 'women and vulva owners' though. I had no idea that vulvas can be owned. How much do they cost? I would buy one in an instant to avoid the nagging 🤣
I thought shebsaid Volvo owners good I don't have to stay and watch video
@dingdong2103 Everyone has to be politically correct. Some people think there are 160 genders. We all believed there were 2 genders 15 years ago, but I'm the crazy bigot for not accepting the craziness. I'm still kind to everyone. I just don't believe.
@@MrThugericwhat on earth?
Been grinding since childhood. And it's not the only way I climax, but definitely the easiest and best way. And omg, the resolution phase is probably the best part. I swear, I could keep grinding on, forever. It's like the climax sensation, but deeper, and less intense. But just pure blissful pleasure. 😊
Have you ever shared this technique with a partner ? I had a gf many years ago who introduced me to this method. It is the hottest thing to watch a girl do this
@@JedPerkins yes, my partner feels the same. 😊
Anything the man can wear to do while he penetration? A ring , or belt with a vinyl grinder pad? Should it vibrate?
Thanks for this information!
I bought a vibrating penis ring that also has a small rose for me!!!!! OMG so good but my boyfriend also grinds he's amazing
Done right you can even grind your partner in a pair of jeans, even in a public place with out anyone knowing, apart from if she forgets her self were she is.😉
My second serious girlfriend did this, she would always climb on top to finish and it's honestly how I figured out how clitoral stimulation works, from an experiential point of view.
Same here Brandon.
I used to have my get in top ! I could feel to release myself and it was insane intense ! I lived when my wife got on top! It’s sexier. ! I can touch her all over! Helping her to cum! I believe she feels she’s too heavy for me! I don’t mind those. Curves
I it I’m missing that position
Same. X always wanted on top to finish. Good times. 😊
And what a point of view that is . . .
Scissor grind with your man❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
A furniture leg, a pillow, towel... or a face. 🤤
yes,yes the face!!!
Or clit against clit...that is woman on woman...
I think the pug has the answer.
I’m a long time grinder!👋🏼
Me too and I love ❤ it!!!
Me too but not on my stomach.
@ 0:00 leilahakulinen
I didn’t know it was quite common or normal. Thanks for teaching me it was.
Grinding is something a guy can do for a girl if, during missionary, he places his legs outside the woman's closed legs. It's called Amazon position by some.
Never knew what that was called, but my ex-wife and I both loved that position... she got the extra stimulation from the grinding while still getting penetration, and it tended to slow down my thrusting which helped me last longer. Win-win!
I just close my legs and she rides on top of mine
I let the woman on top so she can do what feels good to her
My boyfriend does this for me, too.
Excellent topic. Why did I think no one else did this? 😆
I think that's the easiest way to reach a clitoral orgasm (at least it is for me). That might be the reason there are so many clitoral stimulators and devices like Sona or Duo.
I was grinding away at a bunched blanket at the age of 12 when my mom busted in and my instant reaction was *😮.."I'm a chameleon!" (Instantly starts mimicking a chameleon) I was soo embarrassed 😂😂
How about the man’s hand!!
The dog snoring adds so much to an interesting topic😂
The dog’s tongue tho 😂😂
i grew up sleeping with my hands between my legs. still do that till this day ;)
Vanessa finishes each phrases with the kind of voice of Darth Vador
Now I don't feel ashamed or alone that I was doing that at a very young age and I couldn't understand why I did it or where I got it from
I was not allowed to explore my body as a child. My father would make me let him smell my hands & I would get in trouble. So it's taken me a long time to feel normal about sexual health. I grew up feeling so ashamed and embarrassed.
We are SO sorry you had to experience this kind of trauma, but good for you for striving to gain back your sexual identity! - Team V&X
Good Lord - I'm a grown man (with an adult daughter)... I can't imagine that scenario. I'm sorry and am "rooting for you" if that's the right way to say it --
😕🙁❤️🩹
WT absolute F
I would consider that abuse w/him shaming you & sorry you had to experience that. Congrats for seeking out this info for yourself! ❤
couldn't hear a word... too caught up in watching their dog tongue the atmosphere
Yy😅
I grinded the floor when I was in primary school days ._.
Wow. As it turns out I've been doing that since i was 11!
Push into to each other while he's in you grind hard legs spread like scissors
Lol, your puppy is a constant licker 😂😂😂
It's a lizard😂
Ahhh yes, grinding is great in those semi public places, so the elevator when ascending tall buildings, the park on those sunny picnic-y kinda days, in an alley is always popular via 9half weeks....the clothing is critical for deft and precision grinding; which is so nice...so, the more shear fabrics allow for a more sculpting kinda grind.....so, paste the girl's eyes shut and have her enjoying the bark of your tree so2 speak....nice...!!
Flip missionary?
Prone bone. Like from behind but partner is laying and not on hands and knees.
Man, your doggies are just TCFW! ❤️❤️🐶🐶
Looks like Winston’s been practicing his tongue techniques
Mostly my partner uses her bullet while I'm in her and I try to push up to grind against her.
I definitely love getting into that with my partner.
Luv and Peace.
Thanks for watching Ian!
What the heck is bullet?
@@boladayl7901😂😂😂. I think it is a vibrator.
@@jasonhoward9770 😂😂 thanks
@@jasonhoward9770vibrators are wonderful. Sometimes my wife and I use it together
That black dog must have been a lizard in its previous life. That tongue
I felt pleasure from grinding when I was little. Now I’m a teen and I can’t feel pleasure from grinding. Is this normal?
You could have vaginismus but you should definitely talk to dr or a gynecologist on this.
And riding a motorcycle!
i grind myself when i was younger
And there I thought grinding was simply a manufacturing process to reduce dried corn to corn meal, especially in past centuries employing horse power. Or to grind wheat into flour.
😂😂😂
Use your imagination people❤
Awesome video, thanks.
Reverse cowgirl and its polar opposite, doggy style, are actually great positions for it (if the guy/top knows what he/she's doing).
Untrue
Doggy is actually one of the least favored positions by women according to study. Look up Bettina Arndt sex specialist.
The position does nothing to stimulate the sensitive parts of woman and is often uncomfortable.
I came across this accidentally and confirmed what I already knew. Haven't met a woman who liked that position. And women talk to each other you know.❤
Well! I tried what I read, and it was impressive to see her writhing with pleasure and willing to do anything. It all started when I learned to make her climax go’ogling Merle Winestol, it worked the first time and now she can't stop dragging me to bed lol
Maggie & winston are the characters from Grey’s Anatomy 😂😂
This explains girl's passion for horseback riding!
I've had horses most my life and have never had an orgasm riding a horse! I am sure I am not the only one.
As opposed to horse head riding? That is don't seem to comfortable.
Exactly my friend.
@@bonnie3937 females usually mention when ur galloping on the horse. It’s where ur clit having the most friction on the saddle. That’s why they made a sex toy especially with the saddle kind of shape
@@briancarton1804 it’s not you get saddle, sores
Vulva owners🤔 you mean woman 😂
Nope! We use the term vulva owner because not every woman has a vulva, and not every vulva owner identifies as a woman! It's our mission to be as inclusive as possible. ❤️
@@vanessaandxander every biological woman has a vulva . Xx chromosomes . Any other ideology is denying the truth of reality,just like you can have the imagination that you are able to fly,but if you jump off the cliff you will meet gravity,and she doesn't respect your thoughts. It is unhealthy for people to deny the truth of themselves and the universe.
@@vanessaandxander its not inclusive, its disrespectful to biological women. A trans woman is still NOT and never will be a woman, thats why its TRANS woman. Please stop disrespecting biological women in an attempt to respect a select minority.
Whew. Sad to hear about those women who had to have a vulvectomy. I had no idea that some women had their vulvas removed. Is that a type of cancer ? As in what is the cause ?
@@puttervids472 FGM
Of course it’s normal !
Excellent video & info. Lovely couple
Using my Pelvic bone works for me & partner..
And that is really the point of it all right? Finding what works for you and your partner!
@@vanessaandxander my partner 'screaming Jesus-christ' that's how i knew when see was coming. Covering her face..
I love how Maggie’s younger is sticking out! So cute!
Dog's tongue tho😂
Why use your innocent pet ?
I miss the grind.
AKA as "tribbing" or "scissoring" in lesbian circles ✂️👍
I grind my seat when I had to droop my girlfriend at the time
Grind and press with little movement .
Cute little Pug!
I'm perfect at that
I'm at a loss to understand why there would be any question or shame. Great part of woman on top.
youtube can make couples mad when youtube come between them an make the couples be in trouble
Thank you! Poking is NOT FUN AT ALL!!! It feels like nothing!
Aww bugger I’ve been trying to go as straight in and out as possible in then out trying to have no friction or bump the clit at all the women never make any noises and dry up fast I thought I was doing a good job ?
Aww bugger I’ve been trying to go as straight in and out as possible in then out trying to have no friction or bump the clit at all the women never make any noises and dry up fast I thought I was doing a good job ?
Woah so sorry for you
Very much the same.
I wish I had the magical feeling other women have but it’s honestly either numb or painful or a mixture of both inside. Not fun at all for me. Which makes me a little jealous of those who can have pleasure from doing that.
@@daconqueror4080 what..? •___•
I’m talking about not liking or feeling the “poking; on the inside”
I’m fine with other stuff like grinding.
Maybe I read the above comment wrong, but I think you’ve got the wrong idea here for me as well. Lol
And uhh, what’s up with the horse riding stuff? XD
I don’t think many girls get off on horses to my knowledge. Lol
Y'all know what's good 👍🏾😊
um. are there women somewhere who don't do this? Well they're in the DSM5 right?
Sounds interesting to me
❤
Is this why some girls love horses? Saddle grind😊
yes, this is very common, according to horsie girls I've known.
could this be why side saddle was seen as more ladylike?
Ok but who thinks about that in that situation --- genuine question as a former equestrian and still-horse person
Women have found that out when riding horses.
and riding harleys! maybe thats why more an more woman are riding now !
Creeps. No
@@Tessa-p6z Sounds like someone does not know what one is missing
@@rnedlo9909also sounds creepy, to just assume that women like that.
@@kbanghart Not assuming, got it straight from the horse's mouth . . . so to speak.
I do most of the time with my sheets
Vulva owners!🤔
Remember, not all people born with a vulva identify as a woman, and not all people who identify as a woman have a vulva. Inclusivity is INCREDIBLY important to our company! - Team V&X
@@vanessaandxander@vanessaandxander 🧒💕
yes, and seen it,
YOUR. PUGS.
Glad you enjoyed their little cameo! 😉
@@vanessaandxander I certainly did! They are so adorable! Dogs are the best part of life, to me! 🥰🐶
Omg, the dog on the sofa😂😂👅
14 years? Wow. How many kids do you have?
We're child-free! ❤️
@@vanessaandxander I love that you put a heart after that statement! 🥰Couples can be very happy, without any children🚫👶, and some of us never even want to have any, but some people (most, I think) assume everyone wants to have children and that it’s part of the natural progression of a relationship. I, personally, never want to have human children, and neither does my boyfriend. 🙅🏻♀ I want some canine children, though. 💯% I am glad to see you have a couple of those, too! 😉👍🏻 Dogs are the best, in my opinion! 💞🐶
@@I_love_all_the_animals for some people it is good to have children, for some people no.
And that is normal.
But I think it is better if people who have no time for children dont have any....
@@magorzatamargaret294 I know that. I'm not sure why you're telling me that. 🤔
@@I_love_all_the_animals just making a comment and maybe some other people will read it :)))
Liked for the Pugs 😍😍😍😍
Ithis never worked for me tried it on top on my stomach men are ti fast I've tried to discuss this with them do you have any suggestions I've never been able to. Orgasim with intercourse try as I may
Only have orgasims with oral or masturbation hard to believe that many woman having orgasims with grinding
probably "lowering the threshold" (99% psychological)- a man who loves being with you will express it all over you-body mind and SPIRIT
I think "missionary" is best for women who have never had vaginal orgasm during intercourse because, if foreplay, other positions and TALKING precede- like grinding TOGETHER- penetration and thrusting TOGETHER will produce orgasm in women who have "given up"
Godspeedt to yu
Practice solo to find techniques that you are comfortable with and get can get satisfying, happy results ... those techniques should make you more confident to share with a partner.
Good luck - and have fun! 😋