Before my uncle died he always told me never be nice to women because that's what they want us to do ever since then teenage girls that's around my age like 17 always get mad because I don't treat the same like the other popular boys and If I said this once imma say it again imo popular boys are simps most of the time my cousin's were on the basketball team and football team and the girls wanted to get respect which is why I never gave these 304's respect and I'm still not 😒🥶💊💯
@@Liqo315 your uncle is right. I've been nice to girls for so long it has been frustrating. I remember when I was talking to this girl and she was annoying until I had to dog her out and no matter how many times I dog her out she still talks to me and asking me why I treat her like this. Man these girls are weird smh 🤦♂️. So we have to be rude just to make their draws wet? That's crazy.
That’s why you have to go to talk to those nerdy girls and book smart type of girls. You can’t be trying to date or talk to the girls that are popular because, they lack intelligence.
@@iammeltedvengence1234 bro even the nerd girls don't like good guys. I'm speaking from experience. The nerd girls love bad boys. Even the decent ones too
Go to countries like Asia or Latin America that reject feminism. Pu**y isn't on a pedestal their. Those women actually compete and make it easy for men. Because it's so many beautiful women and they still rely on men for survival.
@@thedeanogaming Well you may be right but for me personally they liked me and I’m not even the bad boy type also bro you can’t just be a nice guy you also have to have game.
A female looked me dead in my face and told me “ who wants a good relationship that’s boring like argue , fight , cheat on me or something “ that’s when i awakened my sharringan
No bro that's just a women you wouldn't want near you with a 10 ft pole. She is self damaged and that's her own effing problem. Men want feminine beautiful and inspirational women that have good value systems. Not damaged little girls. Those just become trashy single moms down the line.
Women are going to respect the man who dominate them in the bedroom.. If you judge a book by the cover, you’ll assume it’s the boastful individual..if your a good guy and can dominate, you’ll be okay, but always stay on your Ps and Qs
Fucking is the only thing that matters deep down to keep them. If you can't do that none of the other stuff matters. All you provide and how you feel about them does matter she will still jump ship for a dude with nothing but a fuck good.
not true domniated when i mean dominated i always had to change the bed sheets after because of her and she still left dont even know what matters anymore but at the same time idc either
If your Reality is often times disappointment, then you are failing at life. Learn to make wiser choices and decisions. You manifest and create your reality unless you are weak and allow others to do it for you or leave it all to circumstance.
@@mauricespeaks1155 This is the mentality of someone who is weak willed, has no self belief ,backbone in life and is too cowardly to pursue anything and is governed by their set backs. You must be speaking simply of your own personal life. If you choose to live a life governed by disappointment where it occurs often then make wiser choices or develop some integrity and courage. If you only have one life to live and let disappointment rule it , you are an idiot and moron. Go try and rub that nonsense off on someone else. Unlike you, failure and disappointment are not options for me in life.
i got trashed & tossed to the side by women for being the good guy, now i'm a fkn supervillain. now all the girls i went to school with are single moms & are asking me "where are all the good men?" btch they gone... smh
Women create villains by doing that friendzoning shit. They aren’t unaware of it, they know the pushed the good men to the side in favor of the pookie’s or the Ja’heims, but they will never admit it.
She stays, you pay She’s leaves, you pay You leave, you pay Go get that whip, shoes or whatever you want instead fellas They all have the potential to be 304’s it’s 50/50 and those odds aren’t good enough for me. Edit: Unless of course laws change, I don’t want anyone to think I hate women or anything it’s just a wild shot in the dark.
Yes. This!!! I can relate to your dilemma bro. Its like do I change my personality and way I treat people just to get what I want and being treated well?
Men are seen as disposable by society unless they are successful. Get used to it and when you do make it, dont forget how they treated you when you had nothing
Man I was in the streets young and I’m not gone lie I got a gangsta mentality at times but I’m also a gentleman. Thing about me is I know when to give a women more of that gentleman side of me and when to put her in check. My pops always said never take a day off from being a man and he wasn’t talking about a good man he was talking about being a real man (putting your foot down )
@@righteousmasculine facts brother, you have to maintain your frame, because most woman will appreciate your gentleness but if you don't keep your masculine side in check then she'll get careless or forget to respect your needs because all you did was put her on a pedestal and not respect yourself. Stay sturdy 💪🏽
@@tj7681 my brother my brother. Golden facts. And you know these women will stick together and try to gang up on men. I knew I was a man when I stood in a room full of women that tried to come for me and I laid the law down. Without laws there’s no order if a man ever lose his balls or his word he’s done
When women are young and beautiful, they live life on easy mode because every man they meet is trying to get inside her sweet watery guts. It’s only when she gets older that she maybe starts to act more humble.
This is why Steph said being born as a man you start at hall of fame mode with 60 overall and no animations while women born in Rookie mode with the sliders all the way up.
Nobody is gonna save you so you have to come to your own rescue. These women don’t want a “good man” she wants a bad boy she can take credit for changing to a “good man”. 🔥 video steph
Stay cold fellas its a cold world but we have to be colder be aware with these females they are not stable they are confused and messy at the same time focusing on the grind and be on your purpose 🥶🥶🥶💯
This is why I really respect and love my parents relationship, coming from an asian and muslim background, relationships are all about sacrifice and hard work and I am grateful to grow up with my parents being great role models and having great gender role dynamics.
This is good and bad. Because you have only seem the good things in a relationship. Same thing that happened to me. All this girl out here not like our mothers so we don't know true reality.
I've encountered many muslim women who will mess around or sleep around, have a preference for the bad boy and then expect to be saved by the religious guy with a good job who will financially take care of them. A lot of our muslim women are spoilt, very materialistic and act like they are royalty.
@@ambehak4758 This doesn't dismiss Islam in anyway. Our religion is very clear, if these type of women were trailed in a Muslim country both her and the man will be killed. This is how we repay the evil doers.
Women's abundant mindset is based on her body. The baddest chick has a shelf life of 40yo. A man's abundant mindset is harder to get but lasts longer. Its based on happiness, purpose, work, and investing. My health, job, stock portfolio, 401K, pension, crypto, silver, and personal home will last longer than her beauty. At 40, I getting hey "big head" from older women and can still pay-for-play at the junior college. I just have to remind myself sometimes.
@@samuelmorse784 Yep. Only problem is that the some of them have higher prices than younger women. Hypergamy. Always trying to get the most for aging goodies.
@@luckyskivvy6077 there may be truth but evil goes both ways. Never let negativity rob you from meeting a gracious and beautiful woman no matter the age. They may be rare as a diamond but they are life and spirit restoring.
@@samuelmorse784 bro. Economy is about to collapse and you want this guy to get a forty-year-old woman? He should get a younger more fertile woman that's easier to help get on his purpose they should have cashed their checks when they were younger you're only reinforcing bad behavior
Because the good man doesn't stand up for himself. He's too concerned with being 'good' that people walk all over him. And if a man can't stand up for himself, how can he stand up for his girl?
When the good man does that the good man gets put back down by society, his partner, the govt, and its peers (like you are doing now) We have ZERO leeway. Understand that.
@J Dolo People get the misconception that a good man is a nice Guy.....there's a difference the good man has morals the Nice Guy gets walked over.....“The steps of a good man are ORDERED by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way.” Psalms 37:23
Good thing my mother is different. She advice me to get away from women instead of being polite to them because of how they cause too much problems according to her.
Always remember this. Women are something to do. Like when you’re bored, you can play video games, or go to a concert, or go talk/sleep with a women. They are something to do. Your PURPOSE is the most important thing and can/will take you farther than “conditional love” from a woman who is something to do.
If your reality or life is disappointing you only have yourself to blame. This ain't no fairy tale it's the only life you have. What you do with it is up to you.
@@ChinesePeter445 when you are a good guy people take it as an open opportunity to say what they like to you, to disrespect you, even if it is a minor comment, the malicious intention is there. This is especially the case in a workplace environment. Being cold is the only way forward.
@@schweppesz9215 I agree not only that they tend to overlook you they don’t see the grind they only see you blow up then when you stop giving your attention, time, and help they get the frowney face
@@schweppesz9215 I actually used to be mean back then I changed but for the worst I need to go back to my old self now all I here from my friends is “wow I can’t believe you actually did that you were mean back then” doesn’t sound bad on paper but how they say it and the context implies that meaner me was the best me
Steph is speaking my life. I had an 8 year old ex hit me up talkin bout “let’s rekindle” after she left me for the 304 life around school AND had someone’s baby… fuck noooo baby
Good guys are the retirement plans for when after women have had they fun with the bad boys now she looking for the good guy to take care of her. If you are a good guy do not stop being good. You will eventually get the chick you want.
“The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way.” Psalms 37:23 For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adultress will hunt for the precious life. Proverbs 6:26
No that’s terrible advice cause now you’re telling them to go be good guys to the women who didn’t want them in their prime why should they save her in her decline No if you’re a good guy don’t go and save her in her decline it’s not fair to you Basically shows you have no self respect Everyone stop being good guys and nice guys and start being savages that’s the only way Let them drop in their decline, tough world who cares didn’t want the good guys in younger years cause they were acting boujee now they want to use them now to take care of them You gave terrible advice for the good guys just no
@@Infinite111_ I’m not saying for the guy to eventually wait for the chick to finally give you a chance. I’m saying just don’t stop being a good guy in general especially if that is your nature.
True but out of 20 girls I found 1 girl who loves me unconditionally. I was sick with lupus. Was in the hospital everyday for 2 months couldn’t rub to nickels together. She paid my mortgage twice. And my car note and we only being dating since April. This theory holds true except for the one girl I got now. Besides the money she’s loyal and brings me peace. I’ve healed up and anything i try to give she rejects. she just wants from love and affection and guidance from me. I’ve dealt with the worst and now I got the best. The thing I did which is hard to do is I made her earn my love. So now she’s values everything I give her
Now this is the minority not the majority. Remember that. Cherish her and don't let her go, because that's hard to come across. My gf Is great here in the Philippines but I still have my backups and continue to test her. We will see in a years time what she does for me.
Its simple really..don't listen to what they say, look at how they move. Reality is indeed disappointing but acceptance and understanding is alleviating. Find and grind your purpose and make/keep yourself entertained.
No rewards for being good, I was a fool. There's only a reward for being good to your mom, dad , grandma etc because they are the only people who really care about you ( mostly ). .
You gotta stand up for yourself never let these chick's run over you 💯 and they said money and all that doesn't matter these chick's be capping about everything don't fall for their lies 💯 and stay on your purpose so you can become colder and successful in life 💯
Steph, here me out.. Subconsciously I’ve always been cold due to being overlooked, but for the past 2yrs I’ve been listening to these Red Pill videos/lectures everyday at work & it’s made me into a different version of Cold that I’ve never reached. I advise every guy seeking greatness to practice these teachings daily to become you’re greatest version of themselves. UNDERSTAND these woman want what’s most expendable & who’s the coldest when it comes to being Alpha! Don’t be the guy that has 2 babies with a woman just to get cheated on with another man that is colder than you. Vulnerability is the biggest flaw💯💯
The Sad Reality Is That What Women Say And Do Are Two Different Things. “I want a good man” But Chose The Complete Opposite. And The Women Forget That They’re The One That’s Choosing🤷🏾♂️
1000% Correct. Hands down this is all y'all men really need to know. Find your calling in life and stay mission focused on that career. Focus on your purpose. You are the prize. Stop playing useless and worthless games. Get on your grind and stay there. Run up a check. Why are you chasing in the first place? It's pointless. Let her choose you and then put her on a mission/s. Ya Dig!
I was raised to treat others the way I want to be treated. All I want is a guy who’s kind and respectful. The problem nowadays is a lot of women don’t have respect for themselves (ie onlyfans, posting their naked bodies for the whole world to see without thinking about the consequences of that) -coming from a women, great video
It saddens me that women think that men need to be perfect in order to be with them and it breaks my heart to know that men are only conditional lovers. I hate the fact that women call me bums if they can't do a certain thing for her. I am in a great relationship and we both work, we both contribute to the household. Whatever I lack, he picks up and whatever he licks, I pick up. We have equal footing and we are both on the same playing field. I would never call my man a bum or expect him to be perfect cause I know that's impossible for him, and I know he wouldn't call me a bum or expect perfection from me. My man doesn't love me based on what I can do for him or what he can do for me. He loves me based on how I treat him and how I love him. He loves me unconditionally and I thank God everyday for him loving me the way he loves me. We are a team and we are solid and at the end of the day, we know what we have is true love, no bullshit, no games, no negativity, none of that.
The only reward I get from life is from the fruits of my labor, nothing more, and sometimes less! If you waiting for someone to give you anything as a man in this world you are CRAZY! Shiiiiiiiit, I haven’t even gotten a birthday or Christmas present in 15 years at 40 years old! FOH!!!!
You're only boring, you good men out there, to the women who are damaged, raised wrong or in trauma. Do not let your value be determined by someone with mental health issues and never forget that
I use to say to my girl im a good guy, and do everything a good man suppose to. She says that im not a good guy, I stopped being too nice, now she calls me an asshole.
I got to tell y’all a story... I was once at a friends lake house and everyone was around a campfire, one of the girls was asked what do you want in a man? She said exactly this and I remember this to this day, “I want a man that works out, looks good, is y’all, and makes enough money for her to stay at home. I was the only guy close to her age and the oldest there, but I was kinda ugly at the time(not going to explain why, but I definitely didn’t peak then), but she still was describing me(minus the money as I was in middle school). It’s funny how she could talk about what she wants, but can’t see the value of they are average looking.
They know that good men are willing to sacrifice for others more than himself, so of course they'll treat them for scraps... We gotta start living for us first
Nah you live for The Most High First then everything will fall into place....➡️The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way. Psalms 37:23 ➡️Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, Nor let her allure you with her eyelids. For by means of a harlot A man is reduced to a crust of bread; And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life. Proverbs 6:25-26
Yo EVERYONE hold the line ! Please keep doing what you are doing something in the universe has shifted I know y’all see every woman posting why won’t men take us out anymore? Why won’t they do anything for us anymore? They should want to , the simps not going for it either now ,men have woke up and karma is finally catching up with them
appreciate the game big bro you definitely opened my eyes to some things...working on owning my 2nd 18 wheeler. Business is booming purpose over pleasure
This bouta be one of my deepest rhymes ever...This is real spill...I'm not tryna be clever....I fuckin loved you...more than I loved myself...I battled for you...Like a serviceman in the combat zone who fought and fought until he had nothing left...You gave me life...then betrayed me and gave me death...But like the Phoenix I was resurrected from the ashes you caused...pause...I went from being jolly like Santa Claus...overlooking your apparent flaws...to being stabbed 🔪in the back for no apparent cause...You put it nice and deep too...twisted it tightly..right after you lulled me to sleep too...ruthless...heartless...that's the shit that made me learn to use..my heart less..Now imma mothafuckin monsta ...eventually took that "thing" out my chest and threw it in the dumpsta ...right where it needs to be..u needa stop calling crying trying to plead with me...u cut me deep now Imma FUCKIN watch you BLEED with me... I wrote this in September 2015 when A female I was crazy about broke my heart into pieces. It was at that point that I started looking up female nature. I was in a dark place, but came to the realization that I couldn’t control hypergamy. What I could do, is set goals for myself, stay in great health, and get on my purpose as a MAN! Never give up fellas! I know it hurts but shake it off and keep grinding! Shoutout to Steph! Great channel bro! You’re doing a great thing!
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Great episode!...being cold towards women is the key.
Fam you have the wisdom of a old man and that's facts
What u use for teeth whitening
What song is that bro
And women don't respect men that lead with there wallets all yall tricks get no respect.
I don't remember getting any good rewards for being the good guy. All I remember is getting taken advantage of by people just because I play the hero.
Before my uncle died he always told me never be nice to women because that's what they want us to do ever since then teenage girls that's around my age like 17 always get mad because I don't treat the same like the other popular boys and If I said this once imma say it again imo popular boys are simps most of the time my cousin's were on the basketball team and football team and the girls wanted to get respect which is why I never gave these 304's respect and I'm still not 😒🥶💊💯
Facts
@@Liqo315 never be nice to your women what kind of bs is that my lady know she my world
@@Liqo315 your uncle is right. I've been nice to girls for so long it has been frustrating. I remember when I was talking to this girl and she was annoying until I had to dog her out and no matter how many times I dog her out she still talks to me and asking me why I treat her like this. Man these girls are weird smh 🤦♂️. So we have to be rude just to make their draws wet? That's crazy.
@@Apex_Lex45 💯💯
"Women children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition of what he can provide"
Its a death trap being a provider for a family bro mot worth it nowadays
Chris Rock said this....
Chris rock words ^ 😂😂 it’s true
@@TradingGzwithG so be alone forever?
And the cycle continues
Women : I left him coz he was too nice to me.
Also women : Where did all the good men go?
That’s why you have to go to talk to those nerdy girls and book smart type of girls. You can’t be trying to date or talk to the girls that are popular because, they lack intelligence.
@@iammeltedvengence1234 bro even the nerd girls don't like good guys. I'm speaking from experience. The nerd girls love bad boys. Even the decent ones too
@@thedeanogaming only girlfriend you ever had was in a video game boy
Go to countries like Asia or Latin America that reject feminism. Pu**y isn't on a pedestal their. Those women actually compete and make it easy for men. Because it's so many beautiful women and they still rely on men for survival.
@@thedeanogaming Well you may be right but for me personally they liked me and I’m not even the bad boy type also bro you can’t just be a nice guy you also have to have game.
A female looked me dead in my face and told me “ who wants a good relationship that’s boring like argue , fight , cheat on me or something “ that’s when i awakened my sharringan
That’s just plain sad. She must feel bad inside for sure! That woman needs some serious THERAPY
@@alazewilliams6253damn ikr ong
No bro that's just a women you wouldn't want near you with a 10 ft pole. She is self damaged and that's her own effing problem. Men want feminine beautiful and inspirational women that have good value systems. Not damaged little girls. Those just become trashy single moms down the line.
@@okgotit4103 damn she is a single mom too thats crazy 😂
@@angrywaffles2030 Not really. It is unsurprising and unshockful.
I’m glad I attended this sermon from pastor Steph
Amen 🙏🏾
Hallelujah ✝️🙏🏾
Bless it
Facts 🙏🏾
Amen
Women are going to respect the man who dominate them in the bedroom.. If you judge a book by the cover, you’ll assume it’s the boastful individual..if your a good guy and can dominate, you’ll be okay, but always stay on your Ps and Qs
Fucking is the only thing that matters deep down to keep them. If you can't do that none of the other stuff matters. All you provide and how you feel about them does matter she will still jump ship for a dude with nothing but a fuck good.
It’s just your turn..always remember that when you’re talking to a bih…just have your fun and keep it moving
@Dante Diamond naw. bruh it’s the motion of the ocean
not true domniated when i mean dominated i always had to change the bed sheets after because of her and she still left dont even know what matters anymore but at the same time idc either
@@jwoods9659 literal facts bro. She can fuck another dude and come back home and say she loves and misses you.
“Reality is often disappointment” Thanos THAT’S FACTS!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯
Thanos be spittin facts
Shyt!! Facts!!
If your Reality is often times disappointment, then you are failing at life. Learn to make wiser choices and decisions. You manifest and create your reality unless you are weak and allow others to do it for you or leave it all to circumstance.
@@E_GIBSON Disappointment will occur often regardless of how diligent you are.
@@mauricespeaks1155 This is the mentality of someone who is weak willed, has no self belief ,backbone in life and is too cowardly to pursue anything and is governed by their set backs. You must be speaking simply of your own personal life. If you choose to live a life governed by disappointment where it occurs often then make wiser choices or develop some integrity and courage. If you only have one life to live and let disappointment rule it , you are an idiot and moron. Go try and rub that nonsense off on someone else. Unlike you, failure and disappointment are not options for me in life.
i got trashed & tossed to the side by women for being the good guy, now i'm a fkn supervillain. now all the girls i went to school with are single moms & are asking me "where are all the good men?" btch they gone... smh
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@@markeljohnson2594 but am i lying though? 😂💀
@The Botfather that is The definition of their irrational behavior and thinking
@@kennethjones5334 they dont even realize how they turn all the good commitment-minded men into permanent bachelors smh
Women create villains by doing that friendzoning shit.
They aren’t unaware of it, they know the pushed the good men to the side in favor of the pookie’s or the Ja’heims, but they will never admit it.
You have to be Rich to talk to a broke woman but a Rich woman won't even look at a broke man( that hit different).
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She stays, you pay
She’s leaves, you pay
You leave, you pay
Go get that whip, shoes or whatever you want instead fellas
They all have the potential to be 304’s it’s 50/50 and those odds aren’t good enough for me.
Edit: Unless of course laws change, I don’t want anyone to think I hate women or anything it’s just a wild shot in the dark.
There are those who arnt mgt0w yet. Nd those who eventually become mgt0w.
End of story.
The system is to broken an tyrannical.
NEVER AGAIN.
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I agree
Hard being naturally good person and having to learn that only demons prosper
Exactly. I find it very hard to believe in a God when we live in a world where evil gets rewarded.
@@cccbeats_ same
@@cccbeats_ the world ain’t no place for a hero or being the bigger man
Yes. This!!! I can relate to your dilemma bro. Its like do I change my personality and way I treat people just to get what I want and being treated well?
@@cccbeats_ Evil is rewarded because Satan controls the world, he didn't create it but he runs it for now.
When Steph said "Even if she broke you still gotta be rich, damn!"...I felt that in my soul.
Most these women are broke. Thats why they ask us for money
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Like Rollo Tomassi always says, the burden of performing is always on the man. A woman doesn’t have to do jackshit. We live in a Gynocracy.
They just expected to show up
Being a good man without standards and high expectations finish last.
Men are seen as disposable by society unless they are successful. Get used to it and when you do make it, dont forget how they treated you when you had nothing
Perfectly said 👌🏽
Good guy or not, this is why I demand my respect. Shawty gone treat me like a king before she think I'm going to do anything for her. 🤴🏽
Smart man
Alpha
Man I was in the streets young and I’m not gone lie I got a gangsta mentality at times but I’m also a gentleman. Thing about me is I know when to give a women more of that gentleman side of me and when to put her in check. My pops always said never take a day off from being a man and he wasn’t talking about a good man he was talking about being a real man (putting your foot down )
@@righteousmasculine facts brother, you have to maintain your frame, because most woman will appreciate your gentleness but if you don't keep your masculine side in check then she'll get careless or forget to respect your needs because all you did was put her on a pedestal and not respect yourself. Stay sturdy 💪🏽
@@tj7681 my brother my brother. Golden facts. And you know these women will stick together and try to gang up on men. I knew I was a man when I stood in a room full of women that tried to come for me and I laid the law down. Without laws there’s no order if a man ever lose his balls or his word he’s done
A woman who doesn’t love and honor God will never love and honor your relationship.
Realest comment here
HalleluYAH
wow
“She blame all men when she should be blaming the men that she pick because we dont pick them, they pick us”
Rs🔥
She should be blaming herself 🙏 it’s not the men fault that she pick from that category
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@@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 but you know we get blamed even though it’s the woman’s fault
Stay single and stay on your grind. Be selfish so that you don't get played.
Bigg facts 🎶✅💯✅
super facts
When women are young and beautiful, they live life on easy mode because every man they meet is trying to get inside her sweet watery guts. It’s only when she gets older that she maybe starts to act more humble.
PREACH!
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True
FACTS.
When they get old they are still delusional lol
This is why Steph said being born as a man you start at hall of fame mode with 60 overall and no animations while women born in Rookie mode with the sliders all the way up.
Exactly its jacked up
Nobody is gonna save you so you have to come to your own rescue. These women don’t want a “good man” she wants a bad boy she can take credit for changing to a “good man”. 🔥 video steph
And if she is successful at doing so, she will leave him for another bad boy and the cycle continues
@@SugedaBoss1 big facts
Yep.....
Cold hearted facts bro 💯🙏 stay cold my G.🥶
Stay cold fellas its a cold world but we have to be colder be aware with these females they are not stable they are confused and messy at the same time focusing on the grind and be on your purpose 🥶🥶🥶💯
You sound hurt like I'm alpaha and I move on
@@darnellwilliams8783 it’s alpha**** 😂
Yessir
“Reality is often disappointing” - I felt that 😭
Facs
Facts
Facts the pressure is almost unbearable
This is why I really respect and love my parents relationship, coming from an asian and muslim background, relationships are all about sacrifice and hard work and I am grateful to grow up with my parents being great role models and having great gender role dynamics.
Islam is a blessing and gives us all the answer to these modern day problems of relationships.
@@IsoAnees Alhamdulilah for the blessing of Islam
This is good and bad. Because you have only seem the good things in a relationship. Same thing that happened to me. All this girl out here not like our mothers so we don't know true reality.
I've encountered many muslim women who will mess around or sleep around, have a preference for the bad boy and then expect to be saved by the religious guy with a good job who will financially take care of them. A lot of our muslim women are spoilt, very materialistic and act like they are royalty.
@@ambehak4758 This doesn't dismiss Islam in anyway. Our religion is very clear, if these type of women were trailed in a Muslim country both her and the man will be killed. This is how we repay the evil doers.
I really don't care if they respect me or find me repulsive. They have nothing I need that I can't buy elsewhere for cheaper..
Exactly bro thsts me I'm all up on my grind stacking my money my heart is on fort Knox I been hurt too many times being the nice guy with people
@@malikwilson7387 Fort Knox good one
That Thanos Quote Was On Point
Reality is often disappointing. 😞
Facts💪💪
Women's abundant mindset is based on her body. The baddest chick has a shelf life of 40yo. A man's abundant mindset is harder to get but lasts longer. Its based on happiness, purpose, work, and investing. My health, job, stock portfolio, 401K, pension, crypto, silver, and personal home will last longer than her beauty. At 40, I getting hey "big head" from older women and can still pay-for-play at the junior college. I just have to remind myself sometimes.
Plenty of sexy women in the 40's, have to find them.
@@samuelmorse784 Yep. Only problem is that the some of them have higher prices than younger women. Hypergamy. Always trying to get the most for aging goodies.
@@luckyskivvy6077 there may be truth but evil goes both ways. Never let negativity rob you from meeting a gracious and beautiful woman no matter the age. They may be rare as a diamond but they are life and spirit restoring.
@@samuelmorse784 bro. Economy is about to collapse and you want this guy to get a forty-year-old woman? He should get a younger more fertile woman that's easier to help get on his purpose they should have cashed their checks when they were younger you're only reinforcing bad behavior
@@colbalt95 I always ask myself what can a older woman do that a younger woman can’t do
I know my girlfriend/wife will cheat on me when I’m on a 6-12 month deployment.
Facts
@@olajawanmagee768 lol beta yall sound defestsd this couldn't be me I'm so alpaha
Just came from Kuwait trust me bro leave her ass if you deploy I’m telling you they can’t do it like us
She's definitely going to get piped down bruh with or without you
stay single my guy . thank you for your service
Because the good man doesn't stand up for himself. He's too concerned with being 'good' that people walk all over him. And if a man can't stand up for himself, how can he stand up for his girl?
That's why I'm alpha Male I'm fair but do not disrespect me I don't tolerate it especially from betas up un here
This is Nonsense.
Everyone ain't u homie. Everyone has flaws including u
When the good man does that the good man gets put back down by society, his partner, the govt, and its peers (like you are doing now) We have ZERO leeway. Understand that.
@J Dolo People get the misconception that a good man is a nice Guy.....there's a difference the good man has morals the Nice Guy gets walked over.....“The steps of a good man are ORDERED by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way.” Psalms 37:23
Good thing my mother is different. She advice me to get away from women instead of being polite to them because of how they cause too much problems according to her.
Facts my guy my mother and sister be telling me this since day 1
"Mess with the girl that like you, not the one you like."
Johnny Dollar
fax
Always remember this. Women are something to do. Like when you’re bored, you can play video games, or go to a concert, or go talk/sleep with a women. They are something to do. Your PURPOSE is the most important thing and can/will take you farther than “conditional love” from a woman who is something to do.
"Reality is Often Dissapointing...." I died😆
It’s true tho 😂
If your reality or life is disappointing you only have yourself to blame. This ain't no fairy tale it's the only life you have. What you do with it is up to you.
you don't get any rewards for being a good guy. Speaking from experience, if you a good decent man, people disrespect you and treat you like shit.
Sooooo true..
And take advantage they mistake your kindness for weakness it’s hard to be a angel or live by the word of god when your surrounded by demons
@@ChinesePeter445 when you are a good guy people take it as an open opportunity to say what they like to you, to disrespect you, even if it is a minor comment, the malicious intention is there. This is especially the case in a workplace environment. Being cold is the only way forward.
@@schweppesz9215 I agree not only that they tend to overlook you they don’t see the grind they only see you blow up then when you stop giving your attention, time, and help they get the frowney face
@@schweppesz9215 I actually used to be mean back then I changed but for the worst I need to go back to my old self now all I here from my friends is “wow I can’t believe you actually did that you were mean back then” doesn’t sound bad on paper but how they say it and the context implies that meaner me was the best me
A Man should always be on his purpose & Guards up when dealing with a Narcissistic Woman
Steph is speaking my life. I had an 8 year old ex hit me up talkin bout “let’s rekindle” after she left me for the 304 life around school AND had someone’s baby… fuck noooo baby
If she didn't want me in her prime, I don't want her in her decline. Like they always say.
@@ishidacoolp 💯
Good guys are the retirement plans for when after women have had they fun with the bad boys now she looking for the good guy to take care of her. If you are a good guy do not stop being good. You will eventually get the chick you want.
“The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way.”
Psalms 37:23
For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adultress will hunt for the precious life. Proverbs 6:26
Shiiiiiiid her walls ain’t good nomore
Fuck that
No that’s terrible advice cause now you’re telling them to go be good guys to the women who didn’t want them in their prime
why should they save her in her decline
No if you’re a good guy don’t go and save her in her decline it’s not fair to you
Basically shows you have no self respect
Everyone stop being good guys and nice guys and start being savages that’s the only way
Let them drop in their decline, tough world who cares didn’t want the good guys in younger years cause they were acting boujee now they want to use them now to take care of them
You gave terrible advice for the good guys just no
@@Infinite111_ I’m not saying for the guy to eventually wait for the chick to finally give you a chance. I’m saying just don’t stop being a good guy in general especially if that is your nature.
To attract her you pay
To keep her you pay
When she leaves you pay
True but out of 20 girls I found 1 girl who loves me unconditionally. I was sick with lupus. Was in the hospital everyday for 2 months couldn’t rub to nickels together. She paid my mortgage twice. And my car note and we only being dating since April. This theory holds true except for the one girl I got now. Besides the money she’s loyal and brings me peace. I’ve healed up and anything i try to give she rejects. she just wants from love and affection and guidance from me. I’ve dealt with the worst and now I got the best. The thing I did which is hard to do is I made her earn my love. So now she’s values everything I give her
Now this is the minority not the majority. Remember that. Cherish her and don't let her go, because that's hard to come across. My gf Is great here in the Philippines but I still have my backups and continue to test her. We will see in a years time what she does for me.
Damn brother this shit hit me in the innermost part of my core You just told it all hope the fellas are listening
Because you the nice guy smh
This exactly why I'm cold today I've been played by too many females and people I'm fort Knox i dont let allow anyone to get close to me
Sonya curry gave Ayesha the green light to divorce steph it’s only a matter of time 🤦🏿♂️
Yep and this man don’t see it.
Its simple really..don't listen to what they say, look at how they move. Reality is indeed disappointing but acceptance and understanding is alleviating. Find and grind your purpose and make/keep yourself entertained.
No rewards for being good, I was a fool. There's only a reward for being good to your mom, dad , grandma etc because they are the only people who really care about you ( mostly ). .
“You have to be who you ALREADY are times TWO, just for her to be who she is suppose to be BY NATURE”
and that ain’t even enough for these 304’s.
@@irocwellOO3 Definitely not.
You gotta stand up for yourself never let these chick's run over you 💯 and they said money and all that doesn't matter these chick's be capping about everything don't fall for their lies 💯 and stay on your purpose so you can become colder and successful in life 💯
Bruh when Steph scream that shit is like music to my ears 🎶 😭💯
🤯💯🔥 this hit home forsure bro, perfect timing for me on brink of divorce refuse to be with someone who doesn’t show me affection am gone 🏃♂️
Steph, here me out.. Subconsciously I’ve always been cold due to being overlooked, but for the past 2yrs I’ve been listening to these Red Pill videos/lectures everyday at work & it’s made me into a different version of Cold that I’ve never reached. I advise every guy seeking greatness to practice these teachings daily to become you’re greatest version of themselves. UNDERSTAND these woman want what’s most expendable & who’s the coldest when it comes to being Alpha! Don’t be the guy that has 2 babies with a woman just to get cheated on with another man that is colder than you. Vulnerability is the biggest flaw💯💯
💯 bro steph videos made me even colder than what I actually was
The Sad Reality Is That What Women Say And Do Are Two Different Things. “I want a good man” But Chose The Complete Opposite. And The Women Forget That They’re The One That’s Choosing🤷🏾♂️
NICE 👏🏾 GUYS 👏🏾 FINISHED 👏🏾 LAST! 👏🏾 That is All Folks.
Lol true but look where all the bad boys are at in jail or dead
@@kisigma1011 Sigh..... Yeah. And After That, They’ll Come Back asking “Where Are All The Good Men Gone”?!
The amount of times this man steph said reward got me 💀
This game is on point PREACH!
Forget that ish "STAY COLD" 🥶😑😑💯
Even if she broke he still gotta be rich, Dammm! My fav part 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Steph u cold brother
I just realize steph is definitely from Maryland 😂 that accent is crazy
Milwaukee
..Milwaukee pronounce their “ you “ like that...???
1000% Correct. Hands down this is all y'all men really need to know. Find your calling in life and stay mission focused on that career. Focus on your purpose. You are the prize. Stop playing useless and worthless games. Get on your grind and stay there. Run up a check. Why are you chasing in the first place? It's pointless. Let her choose you and then put her on a mission/s. Ya Dig!
This is the realest video I’ve seen.
That thanos line was so COLD!!! 🥶😰🤣💯 S/O my fellow kings from Finland!!! Wishing you all nothing but blessings wherever you may be!! 🙏🏽💯
I was raised to treat others the way I want to be treated. All I want is a guy who’s kind and respectful. The problem nowadays is a lot of women don’t have respect for themselves (ie onlyfans, posting their naked bodies for the whole world to see without thinking about the consequences of that) -coming from a women, great video
Women have changed the game by misuse of their freedom and power mam.
It saddens me that women think that men need to be perfect in order to be with them and it breaks my heart to know that men are only conditional lovers. I hate the fact that women call me bums if they can't do a certain thing for her. I am in a great relationship and we both work, we both contribute to the household. Whatever I lack, he picks up and whatever he licks, I pick up. We have equal footing and we are both on the same playing field. I would never call my man a bum or expect him to be perfect cause I know that's impossible for him, and I know he wouldn't call me a bum or expect perfection from me. My man doesn't love me based on what I can do for him or what he can do for me. He loves me based on how I treat him and how I love him. He loves me unconditionally and I thank God everyday for him loving me the way he loves me. We are a team and we are solid and at the end of the day, we know what we have is true love, no bullshit, no games, no negativity, none of that.
Pass this message on to your other girlfriends...The problem is Women dont check women.
Period
@@dapras nah this one fr but usually those women try to bash women who speak the truth on there own nature part of the “no accountability” bs
Ha my family did me the Worse outta everybody for being “good”
Imagine that from people and females you don’t know.
if all men actually stopped simping and see themselves higher than women that’s where the chasing and proving ones worthy switches
Facts but sadly that would never happen there’s always gonna be dudes like that out there
The only reward I get from life is from the fruits of my labor, nothing more, and sometimes less! If you waiting for someone to give you anything as a man in this world you are CRAZY! Shiiiiiiiit, I haven’t even gotten a birthday or Christmas present in 15 years at 40 years old! FOH!!!!
The way my man's said shhhhhhhhhiiiiiiiiiittttttttt🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that's why i love your content oh boy. Facts all day
STAY COLD BOYS😈🥶
Yesss!! 🥶😑😑💯
A good man is a pushover or a second thought.. reason I never got married..
The good book says “The truth will make you free”…..One day a little while ago, I finally got the point.
You're only boring, you good men out there, to the women who are damaged, raised wrong or in trauma. Do not let your value be determined by someone with mental health issues and never forget that
Never surrender. Piss on my leg n tell me it's rain expect me to be okie dokie
These good guys unfortunately live in their own reality
You got to have the awareness and instinct to place yourself in other’s reality.
When I hear that background music it turns me up G. 😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨💯💯💯💯💯
This is so true. Being ideal isn’t really all that. Just live your truth.
I use to say to my girl im a good guy, and do everything a good man suppose to. She says that im not a good guy, I stopped being too nice, now she calls me an asshole.
I got to tell y’all a story...
I was once at a friends lake house and everyone was around a campfire, one of the girls was asked what do you want in a man? She said exactly this and I remember this to this day, “I want a man that works out, looks good, is y’all, and makes enough money for her to stay at home. I was the only guy close to her age and the oldest there, but I was kinda ugly at the time(not going to explain why, but I definitely didn’t peak then), but she still was describing me(minus the money as I was in middle school).
It’s funny how she could talk about what she wants, but can’t see the value of they are average looking.
Bro talk your shit💯💯. I needed this when I was younger. Bro stay on your journey and keep dropping the jewels 💎.
because they cant get pumped n dumped by the good man and then blame him for being a bad guy
They know that good men are willing to sacrifice for others more than himself, so of course they'll treat them for scraps... We gotta start living for us first
Nah you live for The Most High First then everything will fall into place....➡️The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way. Psalms 37:23
➡️Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, Nor let her allure you with her eyelids. For by means of a harlot A man is reduced to a crust of bread; And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life. Proverbs 6:25-26
Stephs sound effects are unmatched 🙌🏿😂😂
Yo EVERYONE hold the line ! Please keep doing what you are doing something in the universe has shifted I know y’all see every woman posting why won’t men take us out anymore? Why won’t they do anything for us anymore? They should want to , the simps not going for it either now ,men have woke up and karma is finally catching up with them
This brother is speaking straight up facts👍
appreciate the game big bro you definitely opened my eyes to some things...working on owning my 2nd 18 wheeler. Business is booming purpose over pleasure
Bro spittin so much fax that he had to quote thanos
For Me personally it's hard to walk out there on the daily and having to deal with the women terrified of me .
Steph Is Colder than a "Polar Vortex" in the Midwest in the middle of January💪💪💪
This bouta be one of my deepest rhymes ever...This is real spill...I'm not tryna be clever....I fuckin loved you...more than I loved myself...I battled for you...Like a serviceman in the combat zone who fought and fought until he had nothing left...You gave me life...then betrayed me and gave me death...But like the Phoenix I was resurrected from the ashes you caused...pause...I went from being jolly like Santa Claus...overlooking your apparent flaws...to being stabbed 🔪in the back for no apparent cause...You put it nice and deep too...twisted it tightly..right after you lulled me to sleep too...ruthless...heartless...that's the shit that made me learn to use..my heart less..Now imma mothafuckin monsta ...eventually took that "thing" out my chest and threw it in the dumpsta ...right where it needs to be..u needa stop calling crying trying to plead with me...u cut me deep now Imma FUCKIN watch you BLEED with me...
I wrote this in September 2015 when A female I was crazy about broke my heart into pieces. It was at that point that I started looking up female nature. I was in a dark place, but came to the realization that I couldn’t control hypergamy. What I could do, is set goals for myself, stay in great health, and get on my purpose as a MAN! Never give up fellas! I know it hurts but shake it off and keep grinding! Shoutout to Steph! Great channel bro! You’re doing a great thing!
“ You had the good man he was just too boring for you “ 🎯🎯🎯
In this gynocentral soyciety that we live in, the gentle and kind men are not but step stool for todays succubus. Be safe, stay safe.
ALLFACTS! 💯 American men have to be perfect. Men in other cultures don't put up with this BS.
Nahhh some women be tweaking 😂😂
Happy Friday bruh! Straight up 100% facts. Great video. Shows how hypocritical they are.
U the goat bro. Always keep it a buck
All his videos power me up
"Where have all the good men gone?"
"You ran THROUGH em...you HAD em.....you just LOST em".
Platinum Gem, Steph.
Young man, remember, you come first first in everything, put yourself first!!
Stay cold fellas 🥶
Nothing but truth in this video
Soon the "polo Red Extreme" perfume sales gonna rise up after Steph refered to it as perfect 😈😎
This one of the realest episodes steph has put out
🙌🏿 always spitting facts
Your in flow mode on this one Steph, powerful man..
You gotta literally be a Dark Triad dude to not get taken advantage of by women.