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  • @LXN_KONG
    @LXN_KONG 2 роки тому +1177

    1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
    2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
    3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
    4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
    5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
    6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
    7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
    8. Stay away from single mothers
    9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
    10. Never fully commit
    11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
    12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
    13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
    14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
    15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf

    • @WarmEyes25
      @WarmEyes25 2 роки тому +61

      Bro I approached this chick a few week back in my neighborhood. Invited her back to my place but I guess she wasnt goin. She said she had think about it. She never came after a few days.
      Yesterday I saw her, we walked right past each other, she didn't say anything to me and I didn't to her. I didnt bother to even look at her.

    • @1yuungkil168
      @1yuungkil168 2 роки тому +35

      @@WarmEyes25 she wasn’t fw u bro

    • @WarmEyes25
      @WarmEyes25 2 роки тому +22

      @@1yuungkil168 I figured that when she didn't come. I knew it.

    • @tipsy09
      @tipsy09 2 роки тому +7

      @@WarmEyes25 now she thinks youre a bitter beta simp

    • @solomonneville2626
      @solomonneville2626 2 роки тому +18

      Play the game and make it difficult...Facts

  • @curtisgilmore262
    @curtisgilmore262 2 роки тому +421

    Never tell a woman that she's the only one you're talking to.

    • @1yuungkil168
      @1yuungkil168 2 роки тому +72

      Crazy cuz this one shordy im talking to in HS want me to be her boyfriend but I let her know straight from the jump that she ain’t the only girl I talk to and that I have multiple girls. She was making weird facial expressions when I told her that and she looked disgusted asf lol you gotta let these 304s know u got options. Then after that she told me she expects me to cut off all my 304s when we start dating as if she’s gonna cut off all hers lol 😭😭

    • @lordenvincar
      @lordenvincar 2 роки тому +85

      @@1yuungkil168You dont tell them like that bruh or she will feel insulted, woman love to keep a certain image of themselves. you just have to do things in a way that shows how little you care and how much abundance you have. (i know is retarded but is how it works)

    • @jdvsjboy
      @jdvsjboy 2 роки тому +5

      @@1yuungkil168 you can tell her that but definitely in a different way lol

    • @JustMe-ro5vq
      @JustMe-ro5vq 2 роки тому +61

      @@1yuungkil168 Don't ever tell her. When you tell them they're not the only it comes off as being a try hard. You can show her by not answering every call and text. Put some time in between responding to texts....

    • @1yuungkil168
      @1yuungkil168 2 роки тому +18

      @@JustMe-ro5vq thanks Brody. I just learned something new appreciate it 💯

  • @ProfessorGoon
    @ProfessorGoon 2 роки тому +148

    Men want what they like = Leaders
    Women want what others like = followers

  • @Che9009
    @Che9009 2 роки тому +62

    they'll always chase what other women want.

  • @509_Vandal
    @509_Vandal 2 роки тому +676

    Crazy how dude uploads at 5am and people are already waiting for his message. Hell yea Steph keep up the good work

    • @mthandaskrrr3020
      @mthandaskrrr3020 2 роки тому +10

      In my country it's 18:00 PM R'n😄🔥

    • @noyou131
      @noyou131 2 роки тому +18

      @@mthandaskrrr3020 bro just use 6:00... military time is annoying 😄

    • @49495lwbrmoxybe
      @49495lwbrmoxybe 2 роки тому +2

      The massiah😂

    • @gfighter2400
      @gfighter2400 2 роки тому +1

      Damn right we’re waiting for him!

    • @jackstarc111
      @jackstarc111 2 роки тому +4

      Cause its not 5am all over the world!! There's sum called timezones. Omg lool

  • @theconsciousobserver6829
    @theconsciousobserver6829 2 роки тому +102

    My uncle told me that he once pretended to take a girl out on a date to get another girl he wanted. Most people fish with worms but some people fish with fish.

    • @jreavestheleader8255
      @jreavestheleader8255 2 роки тому +2

      Ion get it

    • @saavyz
      @saavyz 2 роки тому +55

      @@jreavestheleader8255He emulated preselection to increase desirability.

    • @jreavestheleader8255
      @jreavestheleader8255 2 роки тому +1

      @@saavyz got u

    • @bennir3297
      @bennir3297 2 роки тому +8

      That’s how you have to do it my brother and your uncle had a good idea

    • @yaboyreggie_
      @yaboyreggie_ 2 роки тому +4

      I do it all the time 😂😂😂 make them feel like they missing out and they call you, FaceTime you etc just to get you back

  • @orefilebasupi
    @orefilebasupi 2 роки тому +190

    Ever since I stopped pursuing women they started pursuing me and my focus is only on making myself better than yesterday....Stay safe kings and stack up the bread

    • @justifiedmasagony3635
      @justifiedmasagony3635 2 роки тому +6

      💯

    • @uncommon6969
      @uncommon6969 2 роки тому +5

      You ain’t lying homie! them women just feel that energy strong. You ain’t for the bullshit just self-improvement.

    • @giantking6744
      @giantking6744 2 роки тому +1

      👍👍👍

  • @malcolmwhite72
    @malcolmwhite72 2 роки тому +242

    1. Force a woman out of her comfort zone.
    2. Be completely unpredictable.
    3. Never let a woman tell you what to do.
    4. Don't beat around the bush. Just get straight to the point.
    5. Never overthink things.
    6. Never be afraid to take charge in the relationship and the bedroom.
    7. Don't take advice to women.
    8. Never let a woman take you for granted.
    9. Never let a woman figure you out.
    10. Listen carefully.
    11. Thinking before speaking.
    12. Stay calm, cool, and collected.
    13. Have respect for yourself.
    14. Ask questions.
    15. Use reason over emotion.

    • @KarmaFrassmusic
      @KarmaFrassmusic 2 роки тому +7

      Lolz that quite the job description you wrote my g

  • @jahmarlindo5065
    @jahmarlindo5065 2 роки тому +101

    You see this in college with the frat guys … my boy approached a girl and she denied him and she didn’t know he was gonna cross into the fraternity next week I kid you not bros, that day she denied tf out of him the next week he crossed , that same woman approached him talking about some “congratulations and here’s my number “ I was like no fucking way

    • @v.w.1000
      @v.w.1000 2 роки тому +42

      Yep, that’s when you smash her and kick her to the curb for being fake.

    • @jayburnham3994
      @jayburnham3994 2 роки тому +16

      50% of that line gonna hit and a good amount of revolving homies who didn't cross will also hit. The game can be cold especially if you the one who wifed.

    • @theflightcampaign
      @theflightcampaign 2 роки тому +18

      I wouldn’t even hit at that point my self respect & pride comes before a broad.

    • @xonlytyrek3601
      @xonlytyrek3601 2 роки тому +28

      If I was him i probably would’ve laughed straight in her face and kept walking😂, but some times it is better to hit and then toss them to the curb to destroy their ego even more.

    • @JusTheKing.
      @JusTheKing. 2 роки тому +4

      Wouldn't have given her the time of day. Flakey women like that are the type to cheat under the right circumstances.

  • @AZrakoon
    @AZrakoon 2 роки тому +180

    If she is into you because you date other women, she is not worth having. Someone like this has low self esteem, and lives in a fantasy world.

    • @jaamall
      @jaamall 2 роки тому +31

      Facts only low value women chase after dudes who are already taken.

    • @nickolas6664
      @nickolas6664 2 роки тому +3

      Preaching the gospel.

    • @darrenwoodard1253
      @darrenwoodard1253 2 роки тому +16

      These conversations are only ever about low level women. Women with sense don’t have to be “figured out” or lectured upon. This whole shit is about immature low hanging fruit. Valuable knowledge, but not for the men who know where to find and are seeking quality women beyond the sex.

    • @DavionSeenit
      @DavionSeenit 2 роки тому +1

      Seriously

    • @jaamall
      @jaamall 2 роки тому +14

      @@darrenwoodard1253 seriously if your dating with intention this video isn't for you. But not to discredit Steph, you do learn a lot about how you should carry yourself as man, something that is extremely important.

  • @knivesmillions2913
    @knivesmillions2913 2 роки тому +508

    This is one of the reasons why you must continue to run game on her in a relationship. You do so by continuing to get better. Whether it's through your finances or physique...you must be desirable to other women in order to keep your woman. Give her competition anxiety: Dress good, wear cologne, groom yourself professionally, little things like that will have her overthinking things: Where is he going looking like that? Who is he going to see? She'll step her game up too in order to keep you around.

    • @porgyjr.7737
      @porgyjr.7737 2 роки тому +38

      Knives, you're 1,000% correct! But I gotta ask with what you just said which is a fact... Is it worth being in relationships with them... I'm wondering what you think because you're exactly right.... You gotta be on it if you're in a relationship with them.... It's way too much to me, I'd rather see men stay safe and not live with them and deal with them as needed. LTR's with them is a really bad idea right now.

    • @knivesmillions2913
      @knivesmillions2913 2 роки тому +28

      @@porgyjr.7737 There are advantages to being in a relationship for starters consistent sex, no more loneliness, growth & maturity, etc...The thing is women get bored very easily (complacency is what throws a lot of men off) and with that boredom comes a whole host of problems: growing disrespect, arguments, and even her beginning to lose feelings for you...and once that happens it's over. If self improving was easy a lot of men wouldn't be down bad right now, if you want men to be truly safe in the dating market then you have to stress the importance of every man having their own individual vetting process. A set iron clad boundaries and standards that they would not deviate from no matter how attractive the woman is. For instance if she has a guy best friend or works in a promiscuous profession (like a strip club or OF) you cut it off early on, don't have sex with her just end it.

    • @HakeemAQ
      @HakeemAQ 2 роки тому +25

      I do see what you saying but you don't have to "run game" on a woman. When it's said like that, guys will think they have to do tactics to keep a woman when in all actuality a guy should have things in order anyway. That's basic.
      Game is just who you are. Sure there's things to know and ways to go about dealing with women, but nothing in life should really be acquired to get or keep a woman.
      Its a natural thing

    • @musiqman8771
      @musiqman8771 2 роки тому

      Facts

    • @sungaze342
      @sungaze342 2 роки тому +10

      @@HakeemAQ yeah i definitely have to agree why you think you have to keep running game on a women . That will get tiring you should wanna do things NATURALLY . Not trying to keep running game . They will get tiring after a while just be you.

  • @daverichmond4311
    @daverichmond4311 2 роки тому +49

    💯 women have more options when it comes to sex not relationships big difference. They been saying it for the longest when they say men only want sex.

    • @shinyguy1
      @shinyguy1 2 роки тому +1

      That’s a coping mechanism out of all the people who want to fuck you a portion want to get serious. Therefore, having people who want to have sex means having more options for a relationship.
      Most women men fuck don’t won’t fuck the dude again. Woken will ghost men after sex just as often if not more.

    • @jadensmith6371
      @jadensmith6371 2 роки тому

      Why do women do the same thing as men though. Thats what im wondering.

  • @johngalt1967
    @johngalt1967 2 роки тому +38

    I believe her, because she wants you to have other chics to validate her wanting you

  • @wongel3950
    @wongel3950 2 роки тому +23

    Women want men that other women want that’s a fact!!!

  • @TheKlone594
    @TheKlone594 2 роки тому +25

    Bruh durk just engaged to India and hella females was posting it all on they stories this shit is crazy

    • @LaTinoHustLa91
      @LaTinoHustLa91 2 роки тому +3

      I started crackin tf up when I saw 304’s I know on a personal basis repost that and caption “I wish” 😭

  • @soldierofgod5359
    @soldierofgod5359 2 роки тому +271

    Most women only value men at the finish line . We must look good, have social status/ be famous , have a large friend group, have charisma , be atleast 6 feet tall, be able to make her laugh/entertain her all day, be able to make her friends jealous, etc. I’ll rather just not play the game at all, I don’t have the time for all that like these women are not God lol 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @reginaldrichmond9485
      @reginaldrichmond9485 2 роки тому +9

      Too bad most people social skills sucks so they’re not going to have a good social status.

    • @ghostk-7926
      @ghostk-7926 2 роки тому +43

      Amen to that! Chasing women is a fools errand.

    • @ojmsn
      @ojmsn 2 роки тому +16

      That’s probably why I work so much I can’t make time for them these days lol.

    • @soldierofgod5359
      @soldierofgod5359 2 роки тому +30

      @@reginaldrichmond9485 true but u can have good social skills and still have a small circle. I don’t trust ppl in general due to my experiences so my circle is small although my social skills are decent. U right tho, the better your social skills the better chance ppl have 💯

    • @soldierofgod5359
      @soldierofgod5359 2 роки тому +13

      @@ghostk-7926 Fr bro I know ppl that actually take all the time out their day to fulfill all of the unrealistic expectations women have . It’s sickening . There’s women out their that don’t seek attention and those the ones I can talk to 💯

  • @thedrenkemp124
    @thedrenkemp124 2 роки тому +12

    a woman will never leave a man who doesn't hold her!

  • @porgyjr.7737
    @porgyjr.7737 2 роки тому +101

    She's telling the truth... The thing that's interesting though is that she's so comfortable sharing their need to see social proof. The women in the comments want this information hidden, that's why they're saying she's lying.

    • @godemperorletoatreidesii6971
      @godemperorletoatreidesii6971 2 роки тому +23

      They instinctually understand the concept of leverage and hope to god men stay ignorant of theirs

    • @Ben10boy01
      @Ben10boy01 2 роки тому

      whats her tiktok?

    • @liquorboots
      @liquorboots 2 роки тому

      @@Ben10boy01 heyitsmekmac

    • @porgyjr.7737
      @porgyjr.7737 2 роки тому +4

      @@godemperorletoatreidesii6971 Yes Sir! Once me understand leverage they'll avoid so much drama... They'll know when to engage and when to not deal based on risk.

  • @yougottachillbruh
    @yougottachillbruh 2 роки тому +39

    "What's up UA-cam. What it do. It's your boy Steph."
    Everytime I hear that I know it's gonna be a banger.

  • @mikeysmoooth5322
    @mikeysmoooth5322 2 роки тому +31

    They are just really assbackwards like 2 days ago I recently watched back an episode of everybody hates Chris. When Chris tried to give the tickets to that girl and she kept on rejecting him making excuses after excuses. And when he confronted her, she took no responsibility at all. Very relevant and always has been. That's where all that resentment comes from guys, it's girls keep leading on with nothing but horseshit not being honest.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +8

      I remember that episode. I think he went to the movie theater and he stood there waiting for her and she never showed up. That kind of stuff will make a man stop feeling sorry for girls if anything bad happens to them.

  • @darkethereal
    @darkethereal 2 роки тому +22

    This why guys need to spend less time revealing themselves. Trust me I know. I done talked myself outta a whole lot of guts before. My whole persona changed and they call me a jerk but low key they love that shit and they love my digging stick.

  • @JB825_
    @JB825_ 2 роки тому +19

    This all comes down to the fact that most women love to compete with other women, they love the feeling of being chosen by the guy that so many women want.

  • @JimastaJ
    @JimastaJ 2 роки тому +112

    And here’s the thing. Most guys just want one consistent woman. We don’t want to deal with multiple females. But modern dating forces us to, that’s how you win in today’s age.

    • @1x1HealthyEnergybyAndrew
      @1x1HealthyEnergybyAndrew 2 роки тому +15

      I'm telling you men are more loyal than women. I was popular in high school, college etc. And always tried to be faithful first. Until you realize the cheerleader isn't faithful. Now I'm a beast.

    • @yaboyreggie_
      @yaboyreggie_ 2 роки тому +9

      @@1x1HealthyEnergybyAndrew now I’m in college it’s as if I have to be a dawg, more cold, more toxic and be heartless so I won’t get hurt or used. When really it shouldn’t be that way but it is what it is…… all girls are the same at the end of that day even when I tell myself she might be different and then she show me why I should’ve just fucked and left….

    • @pagnag4388
      @pagnag4388 2 роки тому +2

      @@yaboyreggie_ Bro they really aren't all the same, maybe u going for the same type of female over and over again and need to reavaluate firstly where u find them at and secondly what type of personality you find attractive

    • @yaboyreggie_
      @yaboyreggie_ 2 роки тому +1

      no, I'll revaluate myself and its deeper than what you think

    • @akachukwuanumudu3005
      @akachukwuanumudu3005 2 роки тому

      @@pagnag4388 oh darn

  • @JohnCarlC
    @JohnCarlC 2 роки тому +25

    This is so on point. If you meet a woman and she asks if you’re talking to someone else ALWAYS say yes even if you’re not. I wish I would have known this when I was a young simp.

  • @certifiedchaos4643
    @certifiedchaos4643 2 роки тому +16

    Women tend to tighten up when you have options. She knows she has to compete. The sex is also better

  • @terencewright9972
    @terencewright9972 2 роки тому +69

    Actions always speak louder than words whenever you deal with women

    • @darnellwilliams8783
      @darnellwilliams8783 2 роки тому

      Especially if you work at Burger King

    • @jowill3508
      @jowill3508 2 роки тому +5

      @@darnellwilliams8783 And you need to start your afternoon shift mopping the floors little guy

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +3

      @@jowill3508 😂🤣😂🤣 ohhhh! You got him good bro. You should have told him to make sure he puts pickles on people's burgers just like what SpongeBob did with Bubble Bass's Krabby Patty.

    • @jowill3508
      @jowill3508 2 роки тому +2

      @@thedeanogaming I will next time he says that stupid 💩, it’s funny asf messing with that b*tch a*$ ninja

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +3

      @@jowill3508 😂 ikr. This broad doesn't know when to quit

  • @shawnchrystafur
    @shawnchrystafur 2 роки тому +9

    I’ve tried that. She’s capping lmao. She think she wanna hear that.. she dont. Then they turn insecure

  • @ThUnfilteredGamer_
    @ThUnfilteredGamer_ 2 роки тому +35

    Regardless of the chicks bros other men respect results and results only. Don’t tell her you are cold let others around you do so.

  • @AllJSeries
    @AllJSeries 2 роки тому +11

    Remember fellas your purpose for God, aspiration over ambition, and focus naturally makes the woman chase you. Your mentality will be different once you’re at that stage, and a woman would be considered a byproduct of your success. It’s unreal and amazing

  • @jujuinator
    @jujuinator 2 роки тому +43

    Definitely here before Brani says "We gotta get colder".

  • @jeremiahduchard4787
    @jeremiahduchard4787 2 роки тому +63

    I just want everyone to digest what he said. He said, “ At once they wasn’t looking in your direction, now they want your erection. 😂🥶 bars

  • @littlerocker22
    @littlerocker22 2 роки тому +8

    These the same women that will go crying talking down on all men after they get cheated on when they selected that type of guy.

  • @LynnLeeTalks
    @LynnLeeTalks 2 роки тому +6

    They don’t build. They only wait at the finish line 🏁

  • @OkayJayy_
    @OkayJayy_ 2 роки тому +10

    All facts. They don’t want you at your lowest but desire you when you’re in your prime. Stay cold kings 💯

  • @jdvsjboy
    @jdvsjboy 2 роки тому +82

    Sadly this is true, my gf definitely saw that a lot of women would hit on me right in front of her lol idk what it is but women want what they can’t have

    • @TheLastOutlaw289
      @TheLastOutlaw289 2 роки тому +7

      Humans are like this in general Socrates was one of the first people to really say this… basically said Love is the desire for something we do not yet have and that love is really bullshit lol

    • @kujokannibal7081
      @kujokannibal7081 2 роки тому +1

      Thought I was the only one

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 2 роки тому +2

      @@TheLastOutlaw289 nah men aren't like this in regards to women

  • @EazyGunnaGaming
    @EazyGunnaGaming 2 роки тому +12

    I swear to Zeus, All Might, and the First Hokage, as soon as you get into a relationship women be popping out of nowhere like shadow clones.

  • @TheVillageBeast
    @TheVillageBeast 2 роки тому +24

    That shit is funny as fuck. Nikkaz be like naaa baby you the only girl that want me 😂😂😂 you the only one I’m talking to 😂

    • @roundball6592
      @roundball6592 2 роки тому +3

      😂🤣😂🤣😂💀💀💀💀

    • @soldierofgod5359
      @soldierofgod5359 2 роки тому +21

      I be cappin when I say she the only one I’m talkin to. If she leave me for that then I will just drop her for my other women I’m dating lol idc tbh

    • @Movieclips_101
      @Movieclips_101 2 роки тому +2

      🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @Brani
    @Brani 2 роки тому +48

    We gotta get colder 2022

    • @ivey_96
      @ivey_96 2 роки тому +18

      Damn nigga how cold do you want a nigga to get? You say the same shit every video

    • @huncholous
      @huncholous 2 роки тому +1

      @@ivey_96 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ivey_96
      @ivey_96 2 роки тому +5

      @@huncholous This nigga want a nigga to be frozen lol.

    • @keep7learning
      @keep7learning 2 роки тому

      @@ivey_96 His channel ads lmao

    • @denisenn
      @denisenn 2 роки тому

      @@screwedupmystic2597 He got thousands of subscribers and monetizing his content, making $. What you doing? Hating on another man smh

  • @sjo2495
    @sjo2495 2 роки тому +12

    Patrice O'Neal said it in his standup with the Fishermen analogy saying his fish needs to smell other fish on him....so she knows he can still catch other fish...so she'll act right lol. This is 100% f'd up but true👍

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 2 роки тому +116

    Paused at 1:06 to say this. She is correct in terms of what she is attracted to. HOWEVER, do not just directly TELL HER you are dating/banging other chics. Your actions she will automatically think that, FEEL that, and will see it when she is out with you if other chics are putting their eyes on you. Chics know each other, they KNOW when another chic is feeling you.

    • @RationalMinded
      @RationalMinded 2 роки тому +20

      Correct and an extremely important point. Trying to communicate overtly to a woman will get you nowhere fast. They just say that's what they want but it is 100% a trap.

    • @RAshadRAsta47
      @RAshadRAsta47 2 роки тому +22

      It's quite possible. I'm dealing with 2 women right now who I've been transparent and honest with from the jump. They both still continue to see me. You just have to really live qnd stand by your principles. I don't make a lot of money either but there are things about me I know they won't find in the average man and I got good digging stick. Plus my main focus is me and my daughter. They know that too. Niggas just ain't stepping up to They power . These women will accept you but first accept yourself for who you truly are

    • @RationalMinded
      @RationalMinded 2 роки тому +22

      @@RAshadRAsta47 While I hear you loud and clear, full disclosure just isn't going to do it for most women. Not saying to lie, there's no need. Their egos can't take being told "you're one of many, if you don't like it then bounce". They'd much rather have it implied so they can draw their own conclusions.
      You're in an excellent position though. Salute.

    • @uhhjustin
      @uhhjustin 2 роки тому +6

      @@RationalMinded nailed it. you know the game well, sir.

    • @RationalMinded
      @RationalMinded 2 роки тому +2

      @@uhhjustin 'Preciate you, man. Thanks.

  • @hulk-smash-deez-hose.7951
    @hulk-smash-deez-hose.7951 2 роки тому +7

    The fact that any rapper slash actor, NBA player could steal somebody’s girl, shows you the truth, that money power and fame is the keys to they draws.

  • @Brooklyn1530
    @Brooklyn1530 2 роки тому +105

    Women that never looked in your direction
    Now they want your attention
    Now they want your affection
    Now they wanna give you an erection
    Because they see the females in your section
    That are viewing you as perfection
    But oh well baby girl, you gon deal with this rejection
    While im over here steady flexin

  • @legendexpress9385
    @legendexpress9385 2 роки тому +27

    StephIsCold but the real ones are here first like the story ForeTold

  • @CiiDisabledGang
    @CiiDisabledGang 2 роки тому +75

    Focus on your purpose, and bettering yourself as a man so you can provide your value to society to become successful in your purpose. After that, they will flock to you and everything else will fall through. Watch their actions, not their words and only hang with women who are worthy but that’s for you to decide what determines a women to be worthy. Stay focused fellas.

  • @amsm2022
    @amsm2022 2 роки тому +12

    They know what they like, but they don't know what they want. Beware of the fickle behavior febeast.

  • @Kkayy020
    @Kkayy020 2 роки тому +9

    I just deadass seen a TikTok where women be saying that that’s not true lol they don’t like the truth out there like that 😭

  • @RationalMinded
    @RationalMinded 2 роки тому +84

    For a very long time,"I got a girl/wife" was one of the strongest pick-up lines. And it still is, you just have to present it differently.

    • @uncommon6969
      @uncommon6969 2 роки тому +2

      Can you clarify what you mean by that exactly?

    • @chiefsosa8123
      @chiefsosa8123 2 роки тому

      Can u give an example?

    • @RationalMinded
      @RationalMinded 2 роки тому +12

      @@uncommon6969 "women want men other women want" - Rollo Tomassi
      He's correct, the concept is better known as pre-selection. A woman subconsciously recognizes that if another woman wants or has you, you're probably a good bet. Like a car with reviews vs a car without any.

    • @RationalMinded
      @RationalMinded 2 роки тому +13

      @@chiefsosa8123 "Look, I won't lie to you, I got something going on right now. I'm looking for you and I to be able to enjoy each other a little discreetly."
      It's the delivery. Pleasant and confident tone, like what you're implying to this woman is the most normal, socially acceptable thing ever--even though it's far from.

    • @uncommon6969
      @uncommon6969 2 роки тому +1

      @@RationalMinded ok thank you I understand appreciate ya brah

  • @THRE3KINGZStudios3kz
    @THRE3KINGZStudios3kz 2 роки тому +42

    Love how StephIsCold use the “scouting report” reference bc we can just look at Brittany Renner. 😂😂😂 Like Deion Sanders out here scouting the #1 picks 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tweeks9896
    @tweeks9896 2 роки тому +41

    The thing about that video is don't directly tell a bitch you have other females around gotta be smooth and either have her see it herself indirectly (gon give her that thought) or just mention another female without tryna gas her up too much. its kinda simple and boosts their attraction for you in the early stages.

    • @Curdledmayonnaise
      @Curdledmayonnaise 2 роки тому +2

      if she blatantly asks you "r u seeing anyone else?" you say yes. "ya i have a few girls i'm seeing"

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +1

      Oh I know like for example if me and a girl who is my friend but secretly have a crush on me were with our friends it might be like:
      Friend #1:"where you going later this evening?"
      Me:"I'm gonna go see Julie over that restaurant not far from here"
      Girl:"🤔🤨😟🙂"
      That means that the girl who has a crush on me gets jealous as soon as I mentioned another girl's name.

    • @tweeks9896
      @tweeks9896 2 роки тому +2

      @Jahlila Doll REALITY SHOW peeped it game young and done it myself only works if you’ve been talking for a minute.

    • @tweeks9896
      @tweeks9896 2 роки тому +2

      @@Curdledmayonnaise I wouldn’t be too direct with it I’d probably leave the idea open in her head but wont deny it. Probably smile as a response or tease her saying “whats it to you”

    • @Curdledmayonnaise
      @Curdledmayonnaise 2 роки тому +2

      @@tweeks9896 ya i feel u bro, but also like if u literally care what she thinks and care more about her than she does u, its all over basically. bein able to walk away and not give a shit if u smash or not cuz u actually have other chicks, makes them want u more every time . all u gotta do is show some sort of sexual proof and care less than she does. It's funny actually cuz when a girl gets get "pissed" or "upset" cuz u didn't comply with them or pedestalize them and actually demonstrate that abundance and ability to walk away with 0 fucks given, they internally are raising their attraction for u even if on the outside they seem pissed or upset. since women are the gate keepers of sex they want to give it to the guy that already has an abundance of it because she knows that shes easily replaceable . it's like a "fear of missing out" emotion to them, fear of missing out on the high value guy with sexual proof. lol

  • @kodjoblacka
    @kodjoblacka 2 роки тому +55

    Steph out working early. The grind never stops no matter what time it is. 💪🏿

  • @Geordieboy16
    @Geordieboy16 2 роки тому +35

    In stephiscold we trust 🙏🏿💯

  • @divine_photos
    @divine_photos 2 роки тому +6

    My homeboy and I had this exact conversation a few days ago and it’s true for some reason women are more attracted to you when you are in a relationship/married but when you are single they don’t even look in your direction

  • @Bri-Official-Selftalks
    @Bri-Official-Selftalks 2 роки тому +14

    True, all it really takes is one big moment to show what your made of that catches everyone attention.

  • @JusTheKing.
    @JusTheKing. 2 роки тому +4

    If a woman expects you to be a "player" and have a constant rotation while you are with her, she has some SERIOUS self-esteem issues and you shouldn't bother with her in the first place.

  • @FleXxTheFuture
    @FleXxTheFuture 2 роки тому +15

    Men are creators woman just absorb your energy and take credit for your ideas...memes are the perfect example

  • @privateequityguy
    @privateequityguy 2 роки тому +13

    *9 things to quit for all Strong Men🚀:*
    1. Caring about what others think
    2. Not believing in yourself
    3. Listening Joe Rogan (suggested only if you working out/jogging/walking while doing it.) Net = No Extra Time
    3. Not prioritizing your health
    4. Wasting your precious time
    5. Chasing meaningless relationships
    6. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
    7. Nailbiting or nailpickinghabit for good
    8. Dirty websites (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
    9. Smoking/drinking (not good as well! Makes it easy for your competitors to beat you.)
    Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list 😎

  • @Welcome28487
    @Welcome28487 2 роки тому +45

    The older I get the more I just don’t care what women have to say or think. You should never put women on a pedestal so why should I be “pullin bitches” in order to get one. It’s better to take care of your business and if she wondering why you ain’t talking to other women the answer is I live in the real world and have more important things to worry about. If she feels a certain way do fucking what!! Lol bye I’ll get another one like you tomorrow. A woman who see you on your grind and want to be apart of your life has her shit together is the one you want anyway. Let that female chase the stud you have to chase money and survival

  • @sylargabriele1851
    @sylargabriele1851 2 роки тому +3

    When you single they think something's wrong with you when you have a girlfriend then they want you. 😑😑😑

  • @dRILLINaTnIGHT
    @dRILLINaTnIGHT 2 роки тому +4

    These women want a man with options then wonder why the man don’t want her.

  • @thetruthwillsetyoufree7167
    @thetruthwillsetyoufree7167 2 роки тому +6

    My ex got rid of me then she saw me with my new woman hahahah now she wants me back this is real talk what she is saying

  • @Real_deal954
    @Real_deal954 2 роки тому +2

    If you not cold out here you lose!!!

  • @xonlytyrek3601
    @xonlytyrek3601 2 роки тому +78

    When WOMEN say they don’t “like” men who has other “women” that want them, I just LAUGH because their the SAME ones that crush over handsome celebrities/actors who also has women “Drooling all over them” 🧐, like me, I didn’t have ANY options until I got ripped and started TikTok and got some clout, now I’m pulling baddies i never thought I’d get. Do NOT listen to these women brah their full of lies, they love when a dude has other options it’s unreal, they be throwing themselves at me, another good example, let’s say you post a pic of yourself on social media like IG , and you consider yourself a handsome guy, but you get 0 comments, or if you do it’s from friends like homies, you honestly think that’s gonna make your girl 🐱 wet? Or make her insecure or give you more play? NO. There’s nothing exciting about that. Now let’s say you get 20-30 comments of straight females “baddies” putting heart eyes left and right, your GIRL THEN would start to get insecure/jealous and also more submissive because she knows other girls want you which will also lead to her giving you more play, that excites her that she gotta work and that she ain’t messing with a lame dude. I’m telling you guys I’ve seen this too many times💯

    • @chiemxerxobi
      @chiemxerxobi 2 роки тому +13

      Krazy how this lame ish applies majorly to our generation 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @xonlytyrek3601
      @xonlytyrek3601 2 роки тому +8

      @@chiemxerxobi yeah it’s sad but I don’t even get mad or complain, I just adapt and try and improve we live in a cold world 🥶🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @slycooper1979
      @slycooper1979 2 роки тому +2

      Define lame

    • @xonlytyrek3601
      @xonlytyrek3601 2 роки тому +3

      @@slycooper1979 “lame” can come in a lot of shapes and forms, but a good one is a guy who’s not trying to better himself in Areas in his life, you should be working out, grooming yourself, staying clean, dressing right getting your style on point, getting you’re money right. And trying to talk too and get with women, or even just being more social and interacting with people in general, still something I’m working on.

  • @bigcohiba298
    @bigcohiba298 2 роки тому +7

    She's keeping it a Thou-wow. Like Marcellus Wiley would say. I respect it a lot. I have no problems with what a woman says anymore so long as she's speaking the truth. It's the deliberately dishonest ones, the ones selling you dreams you should avoid at all costs as a man

  • @yuNGDeLaPhoNtE
    @yuNGDeLaPhoNtE 2 роки тому +2

    This straight facts that’s why women deal with married men….💯

  • @jadenjoseph4243
    @jadenjoseph4243 2 роки тому +8

    I appreciate Steph for dropping this knowledge on me
    Instead of moaning and complaining about my life I appreciate that he tells me the Major keys
    Appreciate ya g

  • @jamesbunn9479
    @jamesbunn9479 2 роки тому +8

    I always tell them I'm dating other women.

  • @damanyc3075
    @damanyc3075 2 роки тому +33

    Even women see each other as a form of "currency"...to be more specific "social currency"
    Your trimmed down beard looks 🔥 steph, honestly way better than when it was long and scraggly

    • @silkshirt17witdajhericurl80
      @silkshirt17witdajhericurl80 2 роки тому +1

      Naah..."long an scraggly" is the most "Manliest" look.

    • @arthurgist3330
      @arthurgist3330 2 роки тому

      😂

    • @damanyc3075
      @damanyc3075 2 роки тому

      @@silkshirt17witdajhericurl80 idk about "manliest" lol I've seen too many ppl with left over food particles in them scraggly beards...definitely traumatized me

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 2 роки тому +3

    Pay attention to her actions and not her words 💯 never chase these chicks let them chase you 💯 always put yourself first and stay focus on your purpose so you can become colder and successful we will always have the last laugh at the end 💯 these chicks don’t want you until they in a competition with other chicks 💯

  • @pineappleambassador9619
    @pineappleambassador9619 2 роки тому +12

    I was next to a chick on the beach we were talking and having fun. A chick came near by and was staring at me.

  • @drekewright1817
    @drekewright1817 2 роки тому +1

    Actions speak louder than words especially talking about females don't focus on her words focused on her actions 🗣️💯

  • @dosec688
    @dosec688 2 роки тому +6

    S/o Steph, some of us have taken the red pill, Steph “IS” the red pill. Proud of you soldier!

  • @christophersmith9683
    @christophersmith9683 2 роки тому +2

    Promise you this man ain't lying 💯

  • @redlionesv
    @redlionesv 2 роки тому +7

    Too many mind games but i can dig it.
    Salute homie

  • @jrake80
    @jrake80 2 роки тому +2

    Man appreciate this type of talk for the younger generation so much. Young men of today really have guidance especially if they didn’t have male figure in their life growing up. They can watch the manosphere content and get an understanding

  • @favoroceanloy6440
    @favoroceanloy6440 2 роки тому +1

    Social proof, is key. Chicks want to be around success. This comes from focusing on yourself. It’s a win win situation, because now you’re securing your future! In two ways, both relationship-wise, and your life!! Also, good relationships can also add to social proof. Let them think your good without them, but allow them to come when they do.

  • @StephanieNJohnson
    @StephanieNJohnson 2 роки тому +1

    This is so sad! I have no hope!

  • @jonsmith848
    @jonsmith848 2 роки тому +1

    It's a Fact. Whenever Ive been in some sort of Relationship.. women are coming out of the wood work. Time & Time again

  • @ReyAllDayDotCom
    @ReyAllDayDotCom 2 роки тому +1

    When the music kicks in. It hits different.

  • @ASE_Avenue
    @ASE_Avenue 2 роки тому +2

    Yooo this just happen to me a girl I dealing with. Shit tested me for 3 days in a row. I kept avoiding the answer but I told her “I ain’t found nobody special yet”. It drove her crazy than I posted a post about a chic at my job wanting me to be a side nigga knowing she have a bf. When the chic I’m dealing with saw me not break and play it cool she became very flirtatious with me.

  • @JiaerLavon
    @JiaerLavon 2 роки тому +1

    See the reason I fw steph more than most of the other guys, I can see and feel and relate to the pain he went thru. He helps me understand things even from a different point of view and different struggles with women. This man like a Naruto character. Bro like Rock Lee

  • @carolinasimba_6100
    @carolinasimba_6100 2 роки тому +2

    My boy steph hit the gas before the video lol “steph is blowed” 😂

  • @life15dreamy
    @life15dreamy 2 роки тому +1

    Steph’s analogies are upper echelon! You have no choice but to soak in that wisdom 🥶

  • @jordanamritt7748
    @jordanamritt7748 2 роки тому +3

    The quarterback analogy was spot on Steph. No jokes

  • @aydenbelcourt6035
    @aydenbelcourt6035 2 роки тому +2

    I appreciate her honesty.

  • @yulikhairston5976
    @yulikhairston5976 2 роки тому +2

    Steph be giving real game no simps allowed

  • @Donavelo
    @Donavelo 2 роки тому +17

    This goes for life in general. Take fashion for example, most people cop drip that everybody else wearing. It's human nature.

  • @ifneverquitwasaperson
    @ifneverquitwasaperson 2 роки тому +1

    Stephon took the red pill.

  • @DisdainXP
    @DisdainXP 2 роки тому +10

    Wow... This one was a banger. Had me hooked from beginning to end steph

  • @JemilleWilliamsJr
    @JemilleWilliamsJr 2 роки тому +6

    To the person reading this: Even though I don’t know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer💜

  • @whitdough8150
    @whitdough8150 2 роки тому +18

    I'd rather chase the MONEY!!! Show me the MONEY 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰.. She's hundred percent correct though women ain't chasing a man like that if he "ain't got it" money, chicks, good team, nice toys, Bigg 🥒 all that🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 2 роки тому

      Check out that “Time Wonderland.”

    • @jibril2473
      @jibril2473 2 роки тому +6

      Chase God. Money will come. It’s just a tool to navigate in our short lifespan.

    • @whitdough8150
      @whitdough8150 2 роки тому +3

      @@jibril2473 I don't chase Yashua, I already see him through my eyes, so why chase what's already in front of me🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @DJ1ZZY05
    @DJ1ZZY05 2 роки тому +1

    Yea I’m kinda gone rn 😂 man how could you not F with this guy Young Legend 💯

  • @AK47_.
    @AK47_. 2 роки тому +1

    That’s why a lot of these ladies would rather share a high value man (married / busy with his purpose) rather than a gentleman who focuses solely on her.

  • @gunman3153
    @gunman3153 2 роки тому +2

    Big up to you Stephis cold everytime you're among top 20% best men on planet and your knowledge is abundance I don't give a fuck who disagrees truths hurts but it's makes you feel better.

  • @angelato3278
    @angelato3278 2 роки тому +5

    Why would u wanna be with this kind of woman, bruh level up, and if u cant find the one then who cares, we came to this world alone, and the only help you’ll get is from God, God came down here with a purpose, He avoided the women to fulfill His purpose, get your bread up, focus on you, the gym, and God will make everythin fall into place ☔️

  • @Carlos-so9sk
    @Carlos-so9sk 7 місяців тому

    4:50 This metaphor by Steph is just spot on real life, big time!

  • @thareal9479
    @thareal9479 2 роки тому

    "Give or perceive...value". Very, very, very important point.

  • @PatmanAstro
    @PatmanAstro 2 роки тому +2

    He cut the beard 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Phevama
    @Phevama 2 роки тому +2

    Keep it Cold my brother. I stay Frosted!

  • @BrooklynMadeMarcel
    @BrooklynMadeMarcel 2 роки тому +10

    Monday morning 🔥 and we getting our daily dose of stephiscold

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 2 роки тому +1

    If he is single, she wanna know it's by HIS CHOICE, not that he doesn't have options throwing themselves at him.