Why You Should Always Go For The Women That Likes You

[@StephIsColdG]

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[@inedenimadam]

Whenever you say "women" you really mean "black women" and black culture as well. Just come out and say it bro 👁

[@tweeks9896]

Steph you gotta cover the Sex/Life Netflix series it basically follows thru what you been saying.

[@snapcentrel]

I WILL LIKE TO SAY THAT I AM DEEPLY THANKFULL FOR YOUR CONTENT I AM 22 AND I MOVED OUT MY MOMS AT 21 I STAY IN A EFFICIENCY I AM TRYING TO CLEAN MY MAN CAVE AS HARD AS I CAN AND YES I HAVE MY OWN KEY I CAN TURN! I JUST WANT TO BE THE BEST ARTIST THE BEST BOXER,BALLER AND DESIGHNER I CAN BE GOD BLESS YOU STEPH!

[@Dom.Plutonian]

She’s in danger zone

[@emmanuelmutero5231]

@@inedenimadam to be

[@ghostk-7926]

When you go after women who like you, half the work is already done!

[@yahyaelmi8435]

It’s just a matter of remaining in your frame and you will get it

[@ghostk-7926]

@GODLY GAME if she’s a challenge/difficult she’s not the one for you.

[@alyxms5826]

💯

[@andromedagalaxynebula5751]

@GODLY GAME you like women that play games?

[@joswasi4144]

@GODLY GAME that don't make sense bro. Low interest usually means you aint gonna get shit no matter what

[@willypete8155]

Played the chasing game for years. Shit is too painful, find a girl that respects you.

[@ghostk-7926]

Facts! Also, When you’re the chaser you are easy prey to get played.

[@ghostk-7926]

@GODLY GAME High value men get cheated on too.

[@Foreign84]

Lol i never played that game 😂😂😂😂

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

@GODLY GAME high value man ??? Bro don't take this high value shit too far . u got regular ass blue collar men out here who DONT get cheated on and their college educated wife loves him....Your taking this high value shit too far dude ....My nephew is a young handsome dude and he don't have NOTHING ...and he pull baddies and he cheats on .....THEM.......so don't take this high value shit too far bro

[@x97s]

You did not respect your time.. idk how men do this

[@ScrewFace416]

Tryna raise a girls interest is like showing her that she’s the prize

[@too_official6194]

I honestly don’t care that Much lmao never did she don’t suck me up the next will

[@flying_goose9844]

FOH with that we all seen that happen😂😂

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

@@too_official6194 word up

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

In the end, it is never worth it.

[@kawaiiwaste]

you raise their interest by not giving them as much attention

[@bigmoneybarron00]

“When a woman likes your it means that she’s interested in you and she’s gonna make it easy for you” Facts
-STEPHISCOLD 💪🏾💯

[@Niko-bf7nw]

This is literally the most simple common sense why you act like he just spit some real complicated stuff 😂🤣🤣🤣

[@austinmurray6134]

@@Niko-bf7nw Unfortunately, that’s an archetype that makes up a lot of the red pill community. We have personalities coming on to the scene and talking about common sense ideas and then getting paid for it through subscribers. It’s a grift.

[@theblackmonk3153]

@@Niko-bf7nw well bro it took me a while to realize this I chased after black girls they always said I was not hood enough and lame now I don’t chase them anymore

[@tercial]

@@Niko-bf7nw because we men still chase women that don't like us because we think we always have to prove to a woman why they should get with us

[@tercial]

@@theblackmonk3153 yeah similar with me.

[@qmc1980]

50 cent once said how long can you like something that don't like you back 💯💯

[@dougandolini157]

💯🎯

[@iccuR]

He also said ‘’If The Bitch Don’t Like Me, Something Wrong With The Bitch’’

[@OMAR-vk9pi]

@@iccuR smart man

[@1timerod]

@@iccuR 😂😂😂😂

[@opaliatsostisseirastsolias30]

@@iccuR wise words like there

[@xavierallen81]

Validation is their currency😂.

[@davoaxwell7349]

No kizzy

[@tweeks9896]

Attention is their necessity 🤣.

[@1timerod]

💯💯💯💯

[@lakeishaadams3240]

Facts 🥴

[@chrismalveaux1323]

He's right guys. I'm 32 and have been with a lot of girls. The ones that wanted me were always less stress. Fun fact, the lil Badie you give free validation to.. Once she's sees other woman want you, all of a sudden she's on your 🐓 . Just food for thought.

[@joswasi4144]

@GODLY GAME "True game" doesn't mean jackshit unless you have other things to go with it like SMV.

[@AZrakoon]

You gotta love yourself and choose the one that is less stress and likes you. The other one is not ok in the head.

[@canadianbrotv1303]

@GODLY GAME Real talk, I had women choose me in 15 s , in my car and back to my place in the same day , also happens sometimes clubbing, and I am 5"7 , I got a decent face. And alot of confidence in myself , heck I have pulled 5"10 women , even after they say they don't like short guys, but I was the exception

[@Its_just_zell]

Food for the Soul G 💪🏿💪🏿

[@tramayneharris7044]

@@canadianbrotv1303 self confidence goes along way you got it bro keep grinding!

[@swhtx8500]

We shouldn’t be chasing nothing but our dreams and aspirations everything else will follow 💯

[@MightyMonk360]

Facts

[@fonzworthbentley7455]

Women won't follow, you still have to shoot your shot

[@MrClevelandMade]

@@fonzworthbentley7455 that’s a lie. The girl I’m with now approached me. She was the one who applied pressure

[@juniormusic9238]

@@fonzworthbentley7455 not always true. I understand where you’re coming from, most of the time you’ve got to ask a girl out to see if she likes you or if she doesn’t.

[@tkkirkland3971]

@@juniormusic9238 Thats cus you are chasing women instead of staying on your grind.

[@care4rami]

If you want to focus on how much your life sucks, you won’t get anywhere in life. You gotta be your own close friend and lift yourself up.💫

[@collins3904]

wassup rami

[@royalmeteor6782]

Needed this facts bro 💯💯

[@y.e.a.h5634]

You gotta learn to love yourself, cause in this world that's the realest love you will get - Kendrick Lamar

[@gabrielclemens05]

that's what i did. The crying AND the lifting part :)

[@Wilson-PT]

Amen brother

[@vatoalfred5721]

The only person you’ll ever need to prove yourself to is the most high. Praise him!

[@1yuungkil168]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@David-ej1ps]

Amen

[@liteskinanddarkskinproduct3789]

Amen

[@hoodiecodex6231]

thats right all praise most high

[@ephapax1]

Yes, and amen 🙏🏽

[@youngbullchris636]

All facts g if a females likes you in today’s time she will show you and make it easy for you anything other then that we ain’t having it simple 💯🥶

[@tweeks9896]

Fasho.

[@yaboyreggie_]

@Kano 👑

[@sipho-sovuyomanxoyi9061]

@GODLY GAME You seem like a guy who would entertain games these girls play lol.

[@TheLastOutlaw289]

@Kano "Gyal ah fly all de way from Paris"-Merciless 👑

[@1timerod]

Word💯

[@350GTxSiTH]

My older brother put me on game and said, “swing at the ones you can hit”. That was life changing advice.

[@D1Snr]

That's great advice.

[@itsDjjayyArt]

You got a smart brother

[@jayjordan833]

The woman who shows interest will always put in hella work... Speaking from experience

[@zannen24]

Facts 💯

[@BASEDinMaine]

they will also take a lot of neglect. Not that that's a good thing necessarily, but you can be _really_ low-effort.

[@joshSmacknMouths]

You wont have to question or doubt so facts for your statement.

[@lig1998]

Moral of the video, don't chase, attract. And by doing that is by staying on your purpose 💪

[@thedarkestknight8381]

Man stfu

[@Lerossignol94]

My mother keeps telling me that I “give up” too easily with girls. It’s so funny she doesn’t know that i understand when a girl likes me and when she doesn’t. I never waste my time anymore when a girl makes me the last thing she thinks about

[@cboscan1]

Guys, don’t get discouraged. I know it sucks when a chick is super into you and you’re not that into her, the right one will come around where u don’t gotta run game or play their shit AND you’ll be totally into her as well

[@cboscan1]

@Lolita La Negra it really is and I just realized that naturally as well

[@itsDjjayyArt]

@Lolita La Negra exactly it will get worst over the years

[@Professa_J]

On what planet? Lol denial is more than just a river in Egypt.

[@TheCRTman]

Just sucks sense ain't nobody like me lol.

[@marcuskoolrt]

@Lolita La Negra I ran into a chick I thought I clicked with unlike most chicks. She like hypnotized me man. Even if she had a bf, I still tried to take things further, but she never accepted to even see me in person. I use use them bitches now. They ain’t shit.

[@jeffdeleon3567]

Everyday when a man faces rejection with a strong head, he’s unstoppable. He can tackle anything that’s thrown at him whether it’s women, jobs, or life in general. What doesn’t kill you always make you stronger at the end.

[@JULO-I]

I rate this. Wisdom of words right there.

[@Kdgetsgains]

Facts

[@majorcoats7777]

That doesn't mean chase women that don't like you though just because it might make you stronger, don't forget that.

[@patternzay4490]

@@majorcoats7777 truth lol

[@willierhone6244]

StephIsCold: Your right, dating has not change. Women who do not like you today, will use you. You will always be one fight away from a breakup. She will always be looking. But when a women likes you, she will make time for you. But if she doesn't even if your high value, she will still dump you for someone of a higher value. So take the time to find someone who likes you.

[@ashtonlamkin7844]

Facts

[@johnathandavis9098]

Or even dump you for a lower value person too.

[@jayboy6430]

True man

[@DannyPluto.]

Ouch

[@brandonholloman6835]

This is why I will never get married !

[@GlobalK]

Facts. If a girl really likes you, she will make it easy for you. Now, you have to like the chick back though. Don’t go for no chick that isn’t your type.

[@andrethetruth5662]

💯

[@thabesttheris]

Exactly. Thats the most important thing about it.

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

@@thabesttheris facts . thank you. You CANNOT FORCE ATTRACTION .

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

thank you for that great comment. to me thats the hardest thing about finding a good woman is usually for me the ones i like don't like me . and the ones that like me im not really attracted to lol its depressing sometimes LOL.

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

i was feeling this girl at my job but she so young only 20 yrs old and i'm 35 lol, no kids, own my house , never married . Is she too young for me? i am attracted to her and she shows interest in me but in the back of my mind i think we have nothing in common lol.

[@hiphopmusicallday100]

My father always tell me if the shoes don't fit don't force it . Takes me 25 year to understand it best advice ever .

[@jeffdeleon3567]

You’re father is a wise man, true words spoken.

[@hiphopmusicallday100]

@@jeffdeleon3567 yes sir takes me 25 year to get it tho

[@hiphopmusicallday100]

@I am Orisa Eda lol 😆 😂

[@lemoan7840]

Don’t ever have to prove yourself to a chick that never had interest in you in the first place 😬

[@Ronin-kk4bt]

On god

[@Ajay25888]

Faxx

[@Jazzmaster1992]

It sucks because I look back on the women who have shown interest, including very attractive ones, and kick myself for not having gone for them instead of the ones who were lukewarm at best. It's probably the worst strategy ever, and perhaps how a lot of men end up "red pilled". Trust your gut and know when she's not feeling it, gentlemen.

[@ivanivez7456]

I know this sounds crazy but majority of girls that have liked me have kids😫

[@keanowhitmore8009]

@@ivanivez7456 ugh dude story of my life lol, alot, I mean alot of women who are interested in me are like 35+ single moms, its disheartening and they dont really like you for you there just desperate as hell, it's really crazy if you actually look at it from an outside looking in type thing, most women really could care less about you as an individual or your hobbies, even the ones that do seem genuinely "interested" theres usually some ulterior motive.

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

@@keanowhitmore8009 sad but true lol. i cannot will NOT Date women with kids . i have no kids i need a woman with No Kids lol. F**K That .

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

man your absolutely right. i turned down the ones who were interested in me . and i chase the beautiful ones that could give two f**ks about me LOL . Lessons Learned

[@alvpha]

Sadly I can relate bro

[@Greywolfgolaso]

If u don't like the women that like u, level up and increase the quality of your dating pool💯

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

lol i guess. i've been told im picky. i just can't date an overweight woman that im not attracted to where they do that at ? lol

[@Fucunt]

@@blackticalmayhem8461 facts that’s what I be saying like only fat hoes like me It’s a rarity I get a skinny one. Then I hear al these dudes say date the ones that like you. I’m like no I refuse to get the bottom of the barrel. I just what something a regular decent chick that not fat. The struggle

[@xamoshiss4415]

A females currency is always and forever be attention

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

Word up ! And they will never appreciate it

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

PREACH!! LOL

[@mellavelli]

Facts STeph!!! Facts!!! what this guy said, my father told me also. Not the one you love, but the woman that loves you, makes you happy!!!

[@RolyTheHolyPaladin]

They can’t love you the way you want them to though 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@vintage2891]

@@RolyTheHolyPaladin if she really loves you than she can and will

[@bigcoop3717]

At work I was talking to this chick I work with and she out of nowhere squatted down and started thrusting her hips at the register while we were talking, I wonder....🤔dang

[@quincyiscold55]

@@bigcoop3717 don’t mess with women you work with. You can but keep that shit on the low bro 💯

[@bigcoop3717]

@@quincyiscold55 i wasn't going to I got somebody already, but this chick stares at me alot I can feel it sometimes, when my back turned

[@alex_reloaded144]

"I don't know if it was the jewelry or the cash that made her respond to me so fast, she ain't never ask me about my past."
-Dave East

[@poloboycarey1]

Listen to jay z song cry 3 verse

[@neemyn407]

When she likes you 50/100 from the start it's easier than a 0/100 girl.

[@sl3aze680]

@GODLY GAME Who has time for the complications that come with that though? if you had Zero interest in a girl would her trying harder change your mind all of a sudden?

[@itsDjjayyArt]

@GODLY GAME no one got time for challenge niggas got jobs and goals to focus on

[@adventurousandcreative2856]

@@itsDjjayyArt fr bruh

[@andromedagalaxynebula5751]

@GODLY GAME I don't want to play games and chase. Let's cut the bullshit and get to the point.

[@itsDjjayyArt]

@@andromedagalaxynebula5751 facts

[@prospectboy]

One of the best lessons I have learned when it comes to a woman's interest in you is that when a woman truly likes you, she is extremely nice to you. They treat you well because they like you and don't want to lose you.

[@anthonygraham1898]

Not black women 😭😭

[@cheekwiz]

@@anthonygraham1898 get a passport and start traveling. That’s your only solution. You’re the most sought after male in the world. Foreign broads idolize black American men. Go to like Brazil. Plenty of drop dead gorgeous baddies for you to chose from. Waiting on you . Stop crying here . Go where you’re wanted .

[@canadianbrotv1303]

@@anthonygraham1898 bw act as if your suppose to continually chase them even after beating it up

[@Ronin-kk4bt]

It’s true! The ones that like you they actually do shit for you and they’re very nice they will make it easy for you no bs

[@prospectboy]

@@Ronin-kk4bt Exactly! I didn't understand that when I was younger. A woman that is truly into you will treat you extremely well. A lot of guys don't know that because they constantly deal with women that are kinda/sorta interested.

[@78supergood]

What you said about the girls liking you that aren't pretty enough is so true.
A few years ago I never got attention from women and when one chicked like me and I thought she was the hottest person in the world cause she HAPPILY did everything for me. After working on my self-image for 3 years now, whenever I look back at her she's not as good looking as I initially thought of her. The lesson I learned is if you come from not being anything your standards for women are low but by building yourself up you learn that you can do better than you anticipate.

[@AZrakoon]

What happened to the girl that did like you?

[@78supergood]

@@AZrakoon I broke up with her a few months ago. Since we had the same "friends" I lost most of them but it's my life and my grind. I already met many new and interesting people who are more in tune to who I am today than 3 years ago.

[@AZrakoon]

@@78supergood sad to hear it didn't work out. At least we know better than to chase the girls that dont want us.

[@Malitubee]

Also make sure you like her as well , make sure you’re attracted to her physical and mental . I just got out of a relationship with a girl who was really into me , but I wasn’t really into her and it made it hard to show affection for her

[@shawnwilliams2381]

I agree. I'm not going after a girl who likes me, if I don't find her attractive 💯

[@Malitubee]

@@shawnwilliams2381 Fasho bro , don’t . I made that mistake , and I felt bad cause she was the exact opposite of the females he describes in his videos , I just wasn’t into her , and I couldn’t rationalize myself into liking her

[@yaboyreggie_]

@@Malitubee Same liked this girl. She had a good personality, funny, athletic and all the good stuff. But she wasn’t as attractive than the other girls I had to the point where I really wanted her. We would be sexual some times but I just didn’t want to claim her and she understood as well in a positive way. We both going to college.

[@Malitubee]

@@yaboyreggie_ That’s what’s up bro , that leaves opportunity for you to meet the girl you really want ! Good shit for recognizing that early on

[@Thomas-yu7dh]

Bro this just happened to me last month fam. We been off and on(ex) and she would try and kiss me and sometimes I’d just pull away. And towards the end she just kept asking and asking “do you even want me anymore,” “do you still love me,” “do you even love me” And it just got so annoying. I was feeding her scraps but I guess it wasn’t enough. Got the “i need to focus on myself” text and she blocked me and unblocked me twice. I used to call when I noticed but I just left it alone.

[@humbleservant7797]

The female currency is attention. Lets go ahead and say NON sexual attention to be specific.

[@_hencethename]

Absolutely. Say we're talking one night or hookup. Guy currency or what we want is sex all night long lmao. Relationship guys require a few more things cooperation, submissiveness, cleanliness, some type of cooking skills. Etc.
Girls currency is not based like guys (hookup or relationship) because most girls are horny but they will never hookup unless a guy makes the moves, so with girls their currency is the same no matter what. Attention, validation, time, and resources.
If yall learn nothing else learn the following:
Never ever up under no circumstances be giving a girl attention, validation, time or resources unless she proves that she likes you, is loyal to you, wants to be with you on some family shit and wants to be your wife. The only way a female should get any of those things from you is if shes demonstrating that she's willing to be with you, be seen with you, cook for you, be pleasant and cooperate, and help you with things you need to get done like picking up food from the restaurant y'all ordered from or taking the cars up to get cleaned every once in a while. She got to with more than just sloppy head and the ability to throw it back, if she wants attention, validation, resources, and time.

[@tkkonirc]

@@_hencethename this was such a well written comment. as a mom of a young boy, i want to teach my son these truths about women without making him hate women altogether. i am saving this comment for his future. thanks.

[@tkkonirc]

@@_hencethename You have an excellent mind with the added ability to communicate your thoughts in such an organized fashion. thanks for sharing your opinion. i continue to learn so much on this channel from men like you. i appreciate your time.

[@_hencethename]

@@tkkonirc Thanks TK, for your thoughts on myself, but more importantly the mindfulness of your son and his impact on the world. Because his mother was willing to come as is, open-minded, and eagerness to learn he will have an easier time managing his relationships, and avoiding those pitfalls, and enjoy those lasting bonds with family, friends, and neighbors. Your comments show that you love your son and will help him by any means. So I say Thank you Mom. Keep doing what you're doing through learning and take it one step and day at a time. 💕

[@tkkonirc]

@@_hencethename thank you, hybrid. this is my goal.

[@thedeanogaming]

"Every force you create has an echo. Your own bad energy will be your undoing"-Gogeta

[@ambitiousking3380]

@kxng deano good reference lol

[@thedeanogaming]

@@ambitiousking3380 Thanks g 💯

[@marcuskoolrt]

Gogeta vs janemba yeeeeeaaa

[@thedeanogaming]

@@marcuskoolrt 💯 Alright!

[@LeekLone]

Classic Line.

[@jeffdeleon3567]

The only thing that a man has to chase in life is his purpose, everything else is secondary.

[@67spankadelik]

Just like a chick can determine if they like you or not within the first 5 or 6 seconds, you need to recognize within 5 or 6 seconds. Rejection is good. Saves your time and money.

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

true. but when we as men do it we all of a sudden become a holes lol. double standards .i have rejected women who were interested and they didnt handle it well

[@deleoncruz7521]

Let’s self improve in every aspect. We got this!

[@marcelchalobah7946]

I'm learning Italian. Getting my body right and finance

[@gregoryk6279]

We got this !

[@YodahDreamChaser]

At the end of the day guys think with a abundance mindset and be on your purpose.

[@terrywilliams2349]

I'm not NEVER chasing after a female I know my worth!! 😒😒💯💯💯

[@patftw9757]

I blame all those movies and tv shows that had a nice guy, crushing after the popular girl in school and always trying to pursue her. That kind of media had guys thinking all this simping was ok.

[@truthbearer7891]

Yeah media has destroyed manhood normalizing and glorifying that beta behavior and calling it romantic

[@jameshamilton5947]

The pimp aint lying, he has been tru different type of women and he been in the game. 💯

[@ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239]

My Mom and Granddad always used to tell me and my siblings, "YOU DON'T WANT NOBODY THAT DON'T WANT YOU!" That's really common sense right there, and I've always followed that principal. This is SUPREME DIVINE TRUTH!

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

i like that simple and to the point lol

[@gregoryk6279]

Tbh the girls that likes me is the ones who I'm never attracted to 😂 but we got to stop that fellas, deal with who likes you

[@theblackmonk3153]

Same bro 😂😂

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

FACTS LOL. why is it always like that bro ?

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

i always go after the 9's and 10's lol . im a sucker for a pretty face mixed/latina/ LMAO

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

@@theblackmonk3153 i'm guilty to Bro LOL

[@raidendwayne21]

Will not work ,attraction matter bro .or you will force yourself to her.

[@mikaeladisse8641]

The problem is when it’s women you’re not physically attracted to are crazy about you and you’re now stuck in limbo

[@thewarriorfromwithin8683]

Just wat I needed Steph. There's a girl that gave me her number. She was feminine at first. Quickly realized she didn't like me. Later then became masculine. She used me for attention. Stay woke fellas

[@marcuskoolrt]

Happened to me. The one and only girl I ultimately thought I clicked with. I give up. Just get your money.

[@OmnipotentSaiyan]

I mean simple logic, and those are the best relationships for your mental health.

[@Ronin-kk4bt]

On god

[@yarchism]

Facts a woman that is truly into you. understands your energy/ wants into it is highly attracted to you physically and emotionally is NOT going to play any games, bluff, flake etc.

[@75STARFISH]

25 years ago I learnt this the hard way. But after that, I always went for the ones that like me. You are so right it's not worth the effort. Now I got to teach my sons this when my wife's not looking

[@75STARFISH]

@Lolita La Negra only on Tuesday and bank holidays!

[@75STARFISH]

@Lolita La Negra you tell me. What do you do on Tuesdays?

[@75STARFISH]

@Lolita La Negra then you live a far more interesting life then me!

[@DoomerViking_51]

Choosing signals can also be just for attention gotta weed them out right away

[@David-ej1ps]

🤝

[@williamf.buckleyjr3227]

What Steph is saying ABSOLUTELY WORKS, Men!!
I was to a huge, semi-private party/classic car show last night on an old Army buddy's property.
All kinds of food, ALL kinds of drink, lots and lots of women.
I sat in the middle of one patio, on the highest bar stool, close to a speaker....chose MY songs, sang my ass off, and PAID. ZERO. ATTENTION. TO. THE. FEMALES.
Men?
Inside of TWENTY-ONE MINUTES, there were SEVEN women sitting around me, and EACH one asked at different times if I would "take them over and show them" my classic Lincoln Town Car that I had in the show.
PAY. ZERO. ATTENTION.
They will congregate like moths to a porchlight.

[@FromTheHipp]

nobody:
Steph: "yewtewb what it deww"

[@BlackGypsyMusic]

Bro it cracks me up eeeeeeeytime 😄😄😄 🤘🏽

[@porgyjr.7737]

You shouldn't raise a women's interest. It's about time, and you're qualifying for her instead of the other way around. Essentially when we pursue low interest women we're pedestalizing her. Steph is right! Go with the women who like you.

[@itlilicxy4682]

Bless those that stay on they grind mentally , physically, and spiritually .💯

[@ICEcoldJT]

High interest females > low interest females

[@ephapax1]

This is so accurate. I’ve found that when I mess with the women who are naturally into me and send choosing signals it always goes better than me chasing some women who isn’t into me and trying to prove that I’m worthy. The bottom line is that attraction is not a choice. If she’s not into you there’s nothing you can do to make her really desire you in that way and that’s all good because there are too many women out there that will be into you.

[@hiech]

This new outro funny asf💯😂🤣🤣

[@BlackJustArtTheMaster]

Female Currency: time, attention, validation, money, and gifts

[@Kdgetsgains]

This is tough because only dealing with high interest women you have the ones who show interest but really only want you for your attention and then you have the ones who are unattractive. So it's rare to find a girl you are actually attracted to who genuinely wants you and not just your attention.

[@airlebron7467]

Its very hard.

[@camronthaxter3491]

One of Our biggest problem is our inability to maintain and our lack of discipline we get the girl and then we get comfortable and stop doing what we did to get her and start catching feelings and becoming clingy to whomever gives us attention and some p***y.
We have to be able to keep tha game going even after we get her

[@yaboyreggie_]

It’s all about the mindset.

[@jordanamritt7748]

This is very true.

[@kayachan5198]

facts my best friend has been with a girl for a few years, he went from the best shape in his life to a fat fucker =) now who has the power?

[@camronthaxter3491]

@@kayachan5198 Ohh man they like when that happen..
No more competition for her
And then its her turn to play the game

[@kayachan5198]

@@camronthaxter3491 for real, i was using his home gym and he went to get a mcdonalds with his gf, when he came back he looked like a little puppy who had just been rewarded or some shit smh

[@popeyes7569]

I was just thinking to myself about this yesturday. I was thinking about you should always go for the chick that ACTUALLY likes you, because if you get with someone who kinda likes you, they arent going to treat you right

[@keanowhitmore8009]

Yeah but the chick that do "like" you arent even not always, but for the most part not your physical type, its crazy how hard it is to find someone you genuinely want to have six with every day all day long without thinking about other women while the same time being on a deeper spiritual level.

[@geraldhall2083]

Good points! You can't make a woman like you! I had to learn to stop chasing after women who didn't like me it's a waste of time! The problem is most of the time the Woman that likes you is the one you're not interested in but you can find one that likes you and is still nice looking.... don't settle!

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

story of my damn life LMAO . i guess i should have dated the girl that was really into me lessons learned . i will have to hold this L for a while lol

[@KenGerman]

Bro go on Fresh&Fit that’ll be a good episode but keep goin up bro frfr 💯 keep speaking facts !

[@dwood8721]

Let’s spam him up we need him on there

[@rebaonemokone1334]

This is some real value because my girlfriend liked me first. I followed what Steph has been saying, "No signal, no approach!" and man I'm in the greatest relationship I've ever been in. Trust🤞

[@dunglifemovement]

my personal experience from 2020/2021: it never worked out in the end, trying to chase females that werent interested in me. just crickets. finally, this year in March, I met one that's actually interested. we've been together since April and things are all good.

[@dabiz4272]

I married a woman that liked me first now I'm in heaven being treated like a king and she looks good and takes care of her physique.

[@Thatguytwothree]

•Maybe she will give it to me” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@rjayeharding]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@swaggerKALY]

💀💀💀😂😂😂

[@yeezynapkins2970]

The ones that like you will do the things you want. If want them to like you, go do the work.

[@kennytp8747]

“YewTewb What It Dew”..the Bishop is here fellas!

[@Katch3]

Bruhhhhhh😭

[@princessbleu1090]

He from Baltimore that’s exactly how they talk

[@BigGoat313]

@@princessbleu1090 Bro from Milwaukee, he talk like that on purpose on some joking shit

[@drekewright1817]

Self improvement and confidence is most important my g u can mastered and learn it .

[@tercial]

Hard part is most of the times the girl that likes you don't past the attraction level that's my problem.

[@TheLastOutlaw289]

"Catch the 😻 that chooses you, or chase the 😹 you cold approach"-Unknown Pimp

[@xvingar6318]

So cold approach is chasing women ?

[@TheLastOutlaw289]

@@xvingar6318 I never said that. What do you think the "cold" in cold approach means? It means the chick has shown you absolutely no interest (not even looking in your direction most times). When you approach someone like that you are putting yourself in a disadvantageous position. The woman has the upper hand to accept or reject you now. You are powerless. You always wanna operate with women from a position of power. You can cold approach as some girls are just shy but keep it moderate....don't be out here looking crazy. From now on I'm not cold approaching shit. No signal, no approach....unless I find you extremely attractive and were both doing something fun...thenn the approach won't come off as weird. The chick has got to show some kind of sign and she knows that.

[@xvingar6318]

@@TheLastOutlaw289 First off females don’t show interest because they don’t want to look desperate, one glance from a female should be enough confirmation. Second shooting your shot with a female is a disadvantage? Cold approach is shooting your shot irl so you use Instagram to shoot your shot? Lol that isn’t a good way to shoot your shot because females have huge egos. The whole point of having game is to be able to talk your way into the position you want to be in if you scared of not being in a good position then you really don’t have game. U can cold approach without looking weird, it’s only weird when you make it like that. Kill the ego and the overconfidence my guy jeez

[@TheLastOutlaw289]

@@xvingar6318 keep cold approaching big boss. A chick who likes you will make sure y’all lock eyes …”a glance” a chick could glance and you may not be staring in her direction…so what are you going on about? I ain’t cold approaching no chick unless we lock eyes.

[@xvingar6318]

@@TheLastOutlaw289 🤦🏽‍♂️ when someone glances at you that means they want to talk to you lol it’s on google

[@NOYBZ]

You right.
This girl made it easssy for me. Heavy choosing signals even stevie wonder could see it. I was like yeah Steph is right; if they like you they won't play games.
I'm learning guys and improving!

[@nickthamayne627]

@GODLY GAME huh

[@NOYBZ]

@GODLY GAME huh? x2

[@b4ckup2]

I personally disagree bc theres bad chicks everywhere! If she don’t treat you right then move on to the next baddie 💯

[@lugi25]

True. But some girls make it easier sometimes and instead of spitting game i can just swan dive init

[@Sharpswordherald]

What sucks is that if all the women that like you, are all overweight or single moms or old or unattractive in general, what guy wants to settle for that just for the sake of having a woman that will “ please “ him

[@JohnSmith-ds5tb]

Bro this is so true...i never liked the girls who first liked me and made it easy....lesson learnt 👍

[@yesitsme8702]

Yep, you're just feeding her ego while she's rolling her eyes at you.

[@kendallbrown7615]

“Im Gone Dumb ahh Bih” aayyyyooooooo😂😂😂

[@StephIsColdG]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@tetelotheledi7915]

@@StephIsColdG bro I my business ain't doing well I was thinking of selling drugs is it wise or I should just thug it out with my business

[@ledell25]

This is so true cuz it literally happened 2 me...until I started goin after the woman who actually liked me...and she literally does everything 4 me...ur a genius!..

[@rondrewayne5186]

The amount of game on this man page is crazy, from fitness to financial to mindset and how to diggggg till she BUST

[@thedeanogaming]

Sonny: "Alright, listen to me. You pull up right where she lives, right? Before you get outta the car, you lock both doors. Then, get outta the car, you walk over to her. You bring her over to the car. Dig out the key, put it in the lock and open the door for her. Then you let her get in. Then you close the door. Then you walk around the back of the car and look through the rear window. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so that you can get in: dump her."
Calogero:"Just like that?"
Sonny:"Listen to me, kid. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so that you can get in, that means she's a selfish broad and all you're seeing is the tip of the iceberg. You dump her and you dump her fast."-A Bronx Tale

[@247daKiDd]

I don’t get it? If you open the door for her should the car doors be open by then?

[@jay2official412]

Not everyone has whips where u still lift up the button 😅 good advice tho bro

[@thedeanogaming]

@@247daKiDd it's called the door test. It might not work in our time since car doors had been upgraded by a push of a button but in the 90s it could work because any of the car doors can open by turning the key in and that said door alone would be unlocked while the other doors would remain locked until the person inside could unlock the door for anybody to come inside. But the door test could work in another other modern versions if you use it on women regardless.

[@thedeanogaming]

@Ms Twinkles I don't know what you talking about

[@thedeanogaming]

@@jay2official412 yeah I know bro. But where I'm from in Jamaica, you have some taxi cars that are old fashioned from the 90s where you can unlock the door by pushing up the button from the inside and locked it by pushing down the button. Even the windows where you have to wind it up either clockwise or anticlockwise is old fashioned too. But this advice could work in other areas not related to cars

[@notzacmenton]

And if you like each other, and y'all values matching, and everything about y'all complementing...that's a win that could everlast. But you gotta bring as much value as she does.

[@kevinmoffatt7868]

Stephiscold is always on the money with his analysis. You are pretty much validating her by trying to raise her interest. I totally agree with Steph, attraction cannot be negotiated, point blank!

[@locagirl]

That's Cold-blooded 🥶

[@bahabandit]

This is prophetic.

[@ahmedsaar9346]

I swear , god is my witness that what’s keeping me sane is listening to StephIsCold on a daily. You’re the best bro

[@vintage2891]

No cappp He right every girl thats wanted me i have had the best experience with and all of them ALL OF THEM made it easy every girl i wanted wasn’t interested if she is worth it give yourself to her best thing you will ever do

[@wrongdoings2934]

i ain’t met a girl that could be alone how bout y’all ?

[@johnathandavis9098]

They can't be.

[@David-ej1ps]

No lie told, they always have somebody in the periphery it’s insane.

[@Blakkoutval]

THANK YOU STEPH! i'm a content creator who had an ex that put me through CAPITAL H-E DOUBLE HOCKY STICK TO THE MAAAAXXX!! but i've improved my looks 5 fold and am working through the frustration of building my brand. the down days make me colder because of the hours of editing, streaming, grinding and every bit of tears and suffering validates my work ethic! thank you for this video!

[@MohammedIslam-os8cs]

This guy is a legend he needs to be noticed more in the society for the sake of all men.

[@thabisozungu9264]

Sometimes these girls that "like" you also have these hidden agendas plus thirsty as can be to a point of desperation - it's so so so tricky out here.

[@yaboyreggie_]

I’ve notice this sense I started high school into college.. it’s like you have to find one that actually care to build with you and not be temporary

[@completelymindfucked]

And you'll learn that they like you for the most stupid reasons, that have nothing to do with you and any sensible person wouldn't be able to conceive.
You could even wonder how much work are they willing to put in: almost nothing.
And men, at the minimum sign of care, we cave in to the possibility, we succumb to their charm, simping starts to kick in because we want to show that we are good and caring. But we're not allowed, it seems...

[@1of1Fitness]

This is facts fellas pay attention no game is needed when she likes u for being u if not move on

[@Salute51_6]

This the type of videos that remind me why I subscribed. I was successfully on my improvement journey for about two years, watching all the manosphere channels. A few months ago, my brother passed away out of nowhere and that situation set me back, I forgot who I was. I think I'm ready to jump back on the self-improvement train.

[@shawavy2897]

I was just discussing this with my bro earlier , energy is real !

[@iceberg3544]

Wish I would've knew this HS, I use to deny the girls that liked me, and wasted time with girls that didn't like me. This is like a cheatcode.

[@Itallmakessense556]

Miss that Steph that talked about being on your purpose and grinding In the gym hopefully we get some different content that ain’t all about women

[@cellycell8970]

Me too bro I had to unsubscribe I miss gym Steph I used to grind listening to gym Steph

[@Quake2815]

You have a valid point.
At the same time, he does have that workout course.

[@viyusavery248]

Repetition is key and sadly people don't care about self improvement

[@Itallmakessense556]

@@cellycell8970 thought about unsubscribing too smh that shit was so motivational I still watch the old videos daily

[@too_official6194]

Shouldn’t need another person to motivate u if that’s the case I already failed at life gotta pick yourself up sometimes n keep going keep ya head up dawg

[@Tris268]

"IM HERE FOR WORKK" lmfaoooooo

[@blackups__6554]

True! I’ve had the best experiences with women who like me. If she likes me and she’s physically attractive, then great. Just one stare can tell me if I date a girl or not, but sometimes I’ve come to like some women I didn’t like after being around them.

[@Sblaze813]

Brother, I can tell some chick did you dirty at some point in your life. We have that in common but you spit that cold hard truth and I respect the hell outta you for that. Keep it up bro.

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[@itsdaejon]

One time i had a female that just had low interest but i still got her snap and stuff but one time slid up on her story one day saying something and she responded back with "can you buy me these croc jibbitz" 💀 i told her no and she said then "why are you texting me..." then later unfriended me cause i said i ain't yo man or a simp.
This just goes to show that these females will use you and have different guys for everything. A money guy. Attention guy. Food guy. Etc etc. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@coreyworthingtonii9230]

Most eye-opening concept shared on this channel is to aim for the 7/10 girls who are into you over the 10/10 entitled ones who have been riding the cc

[@untappedpotential28]

Her currency is attention and validation.