How To Use Rebound Relationships To Your Advantage

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  • Опубліковано 4 чер 2023
  • Find out how to use rebound relationships to your advantage.
    Rebound relationships can be savagely painful but they're actually an advantage to the dumpee.
    Take a walk with me in this video and find out how to take advantage of rebound relationships after your ex has dumped you.
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  • @mitnavn78
    @mitnavn78 10 місяців тому +14

    My ex wife left me after 17 years of marriage with a rebound. I found my own Identity and never felt better with my self. Thank you ❤

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  10 місяців тому

      Glad to hear you’re doing well, buddy. 💪💪💪

    • @camilodiaz1799
      @camilodiaz1799 10 днів тому +1

      ​@@TheLoveFix-Nickque 😊😊😊😊😅😊😊😊 Oe😅😊 7:26 😊😊😅😅😊😊😊

    • @camilodiaz1799
      @camilodiaz1799 10 днів тому +1

      ​@@TheLoveFix-Nick10:12

  • @jennifermeza8861
    @jennifermeza8861 Рік тому +8

    You forgot to mention his rebound is full of cellulite. 😂 thanks for your content. ❤

  • @Flufero23
    @Flufero23 2 місяці тому +2

    My ex's rebound was in a toxic long-term relationship, and probably has emotional problems because of it. Their relationship was set up be her family to help her overcome. My ex is avoidant and a people pleaser who wanted to " see where it goes ". He wanted me to remain as a friend. Hell no. I left, never to return. An avoidant and a victim. SMDH.

  • @user-ef1wd9in1z
    @user-ef1wd9in1z 11 місяців тому

    That was an incredible video. It was succinct and to the point. Probably the most comprehensive and logical video I have watched about rebound relationships. Thank you, this gave me hope and motivation at the same time.

  • @annnee6818
    @annnee6818 6 місяців тому +1

    You have a really pleasant voice and presenting style😊

  • @ajimadnan
    @ajimadnan 20 днів тому

    Solid vid

  • @NullStyx
    @NullStyx 7 місяців тому +2

    I love you nick. Been watching all your videos through this process and you make everyday so much easier. I can’t stop listening. Everything you say is 100% true and real. I don’t have enough words to tell you how much I appreciate you. Looking forward to a coaching session

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you. 😊
      I’m glad I can help and look forward to working with you.

  • @9parasqn656
    @9parasqn656 Рік тому +8

    Wow. Fabulous take on life and relationships. A must listen. Thank you.

  • @rcasas56
    @rcasas56 Рік тому +3

    Great video Nick! Much needed. Btw joined ur Facebook group!

  • @andziagreen4922
    @andziagreen4922 8 місяців тому +2

    Another brilliant video Nick💜 short, sweet and to the point, you are my guru😊 I wish I had a brother like you who will keep me in reality check. Knowledge and experience you have at the moment in terms of breakups, rebounds, 'getting' ex back etc is priceless. Thank you for your content and educational aspect. You are one of the best reality check relationship coached online🤗

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  8 місяців тому

      Aww thank you. I’ve had good mentors 😊

  • @yadugopakumar
    @yadugopakumar Рік тому +11

    Wow, this video is exactly what I needed right now. Thank you Nick, you're a godsend. You've been killing it recently🤝✨

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  Рік тому +2

      Appreciate your kind words and thank you for supporting the channel 😊

    • @Gon-sv3eq
      @Gon-sv3eq 11 місяців тому

      What if i messed up after knowing she has a rebound i act desperately we are togethere for 12 years in relationship with 1 child.
      I told her i commit suicide if she don't comeback with me.but i immediately regret it and ask for an appology.
      do i ruined my chances to get her back?

  • @lukamatic5498
    @lukamatic5498 3 місяці тому +1

    This video is real hidden treasure...I wish more people saw it

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  3 місяці тому

      Thank you. I appreciate your kind words 😊

  • @flahmadzaki2172
    @flahmadzaki2172 Рік тому +3

    This is why the movie Venom is the perfect example of how you can take full advantage of the rebound situation mate.. unleash the beast within you and be like Venom.

  • @nickhennick
    @nickhennick Рік тому +3

    Thanks for the video.

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  Рік тому +1

      My pleasure buddy. I hope you’re doing well today.

    • @nickhennick
      @nickhennick Рік тому +1

      @@TheLoveFix-Nick doing better today. The last 3 were rough. Better today and I will take that!!

  • @detailforward2530
    @detailforward2530 11 місяців тому +2

    My ex’s rebound is ugly but he’s a pilot and good with money and is well off….im the one who’s unemployed now since losing my job

  • @nickyj2657
    @nickyj2657 9 місяців тому +3

    I wish I could show my ex this video she believes she found her fairytale

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  9 місяців тому

      Even if you could, it wouldn’t change a thing. She has to want to realise it on her own.

  • @jaysalas1001
    @jaysalas1001 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi Nick, i wanna ask you...is serial monogamy synonymous to rebounding? As in will that be labeled as constant or habitual rebounding if ever? Thank you in advance bro 😊

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  10 місяців тому +2

      I would say it’s a distinct possibility, but I think more research would need to be done to give a definitive answer.
      I guess both are cases where someone does not know how to function on their own, or just addicted to the high of the novelty of a new relationship.

    • @jaysalas1001
      @jaysalas1001 10 місяців тому +1

      @@TheLoveFix-Nickgot that, would be nice to have an episode on that topic if ever? 😊 Thank you 👍👌

  • @blossom5237
    @blossom5237 10 місяців тому +1

    And what if they said they only always saw you as a friend? Does that also mean the dopamine wore off?

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  10 місяців тому

      If what they say is true, then I think it means they only saw you as an option. Or maybe they said that in the heat of the moment to make the breakup easier.

  • @RomeoBabb
    @RomeoBabb 10 місяців тому +1

    My ex blocked me everywhere and said to me that now she is happy. I don't know if she really is in a rebound relationship, because she re-engaged after 2 weeks

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  9 місяців тому +1

      Actions never lie and words don’t mean shit. Her actions tell you everything you need to know.

  • @mynameisjeff9560
    @mynameisjeff9560 Рік тому +5

    Hey your videos are very educational and eye opening for me. But I have a request. Can you make a video about how to deal with being the rebound guy. Or maybe you already made one but I didn't find it. You always talk from the perspective of a guy that is left and not from the guy she then rebounds with. Because I am that guy and I want to share my experience.
    We met 3 months after she broke up with her ex of 4 years. She is 21 and I am 25. I never had a girlfriend before and never had sex. She on the other hand had sex with 4 guys before me and had 3 boyfriends since the age of 15. We had great connection and chemistry but I was a bit shy and reserved so she made the first move and showed me that she finds me attractive and wants to spend more time with me. After 2 weeks of dating we already had sex which was a bit fast now that I look back. I could see that she has past traumas and she was talking about her ex all the time. Comparing us, how much better I am then him. It felt good to be better, but that was just what she told me. What she didn't tell me were all the comparisons she made in which he is better. Like sex, being romantic, making her feel wanted... Then after 3 months of us being together she told me one night right after sex that she doesn't feel the attraction anymore. That sex is not how it should be, not erotic enough, that my life is monotonous, that I work too much, that it was fun getting to know me but now there is nothing new... but that she still wants to be with me because she actually doesn't lack anything. I said fine, we can work this out. Next week she was avoiding my touches and intimacy, she was annoyed at anything that I did Then she told me that sometimes she wishes that she could still be with her ex if he changed. And asked me if I would still go to greece with her even if we were not together anymore by that time. And that we were not together anyway and were just casually dating. I was very confused and it hurt my feelings. I realised that she doesn't want me anymore. But at that time I didn't know about the rebound concept. So I broke up with her the next day. That was 2 months ago. Now I realised that I made a mistake. It was not my place to brake up with her. I should have waited a bit longer and eventually she would brake up with me. Then it wouldn't be me that feels the guilt but her. Now after two months I still haven't completely moved on. I tried talking to her about it but she always makes me feel like I am now trash to her. I wasn't able to do the no contact, my feelings always get to me

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  Рік тому +4

      It 100% your place to breakup with her because she was using you to get over her ex. Your instincts were spot on and you loved yourself enough to walk away.
      When someone always talks about their ex, compares you, says it not good enough, don’t waste your time competing. Give her the gift of your silence.
      I hope you feel better.

    • @mynameisjeff9560
      @mynameisjeff9560 Рік тому +3

      @@TheLoveFix-Nick Thanks mate, yeah I do feel better but she is still on my mind. Sometimes more and sometimes less. I'm trying to talk to and meet new girls to hopefully meet someone that actually wants me in their life but I'm also afraid that then I'll hurt them like my ex hurt me. I'm also working on myself like I always did, I'm fit, have my own bussines, hobbies and people I hang out with but something just isn't right now that I got a taste of having a woman in my life. Before that I was satisfied but now not so much anymore. Ignorance is bliss they say 😄 Thank you again for your videos and lesons. If I saw them sooner I could avoid this mess alltogether by recognising the red flags. They don't teach this stuff in school but maybe they should

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  Рік тому +1

      Two books I suggest for you.
      www.audible.co.uk/pd/B07896PR72?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=library_overflow
      www.audible.co.uk/pd/B00C6NDC5O?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=library_overflow

    • @gillounet4766
      @gillounet4766 11 місяців тому +2

      Hey buddy, you did the right move.
      You have boundaries, and it's important. By your decision, you have respected yourself.
      You should be proud, I've lost YEARS of my life staying with a girl who disrepected me on a daily basis. Don't be the nice guy with a girl who can't love you for who you are, with your strenghs and your weaknesses.
      She was on her ex, right, let her go. She doesn't worth your attention, you are above that kind of people.
      Congrats to you to have dumped your first toxic GF 👍

  • @user-jw4wb4wp7i
    @user-jw4wb4wp7i 8 місяців тому +1

    She is happy now she dumped me after 3 years and 6 months of relationship with she wants to believe that she is already living in fairytale no after 1 months she already has new relationship. She's mad at me but in reality she is the one who cheating.

    • @user-fw9rh6mq5r
      @user-fw9rh6mq5r 8 місяців тому

      Sorry to hear that. Sometimes people don’t appreciate what they have until it’s gone.
      In my case, he dumped me because I was not ready to live with him at the moment, so he moved away and is now getting what he wanted, instant gratification, it’s only been six weeks.

  • @gullvirthakur2427
    @gullvirthakur2427 Рік тому +1

    My ex just liked and disliked on insta instantly. What does that mean?

  • @flat4wankel
    @flat4wankel Рік тому +3

    Can you make a video when a ex reached out? My ex reach out this past sunday and she was gonna text me in a few days.. but i feel like she used me as an emotional pillow. I met in person and we talked and dhe was sayin nothing but good things of us... why the fck u fuckin monkey branched! Shes not happy with this person.
    I am back again from the break up and it sucks... i was doin no contact and was moving on already

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  Рік тому +2

      Dude, you need to jog this girl on. She’s poison for you.

    • @Shippendales
      @Shippendales Рік тому +2

      @@TheLoveFix-Nick Spot on, listen to him. Block that monkeybrancher. She is just abusing you for validation and potential back up option, to temporarily branch back to if it does not work out with the new guy.

  • @aldricpaningbatan6647
    @aldricpaningbatan6647 Рік тому +6

    Do you call it a rebound if they are talking/cheating 2months before our breakup?

    • @TheLoveFix-Nick
      @TheLoveFix-Nick  Рік тому +6

      No, that’s cheating.

    • @jaysteele4872
      @jaysteele4872 10 місяців тому +8

      Monkey branching, happened to me. Setting up a new relationship before leaving the old one. They can't be alone, still a form of rebound.

    • @askquestions1236
      @askquestions1236 11 днів тому

      just found out mine has dating someone else for the last 2 years. I thought he was working hard.